I am so very proud of you.

I've been reading and never posting for years. I'm posting the first time today to say- Good for you.

I am so sorry that someone felt the need to be so hurtful. I live in the US and believe you to be sensible, wonderful, funny, and a fabulous parent. Please take care.

Sarah

I'm embarrassed for her.

You're doing the right thing.

I'm an American Christian, and pretty conservative, actually, and she does not represent me in any way. I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. It's not right. She's not right, about anything, and especially about your parenting (how low!).

We won't feed the energy creature. So glad that you're not giving her a lot of space in your mind or your heart.

Standing right behind you, Steph, shining the light.

I'm so sorry to hear about this situation. I hope it somehow she'll stop... I love your blogs and your books and your knitting-- you're great!!!! I'll be sending positive thoughts from San Francisco.

I'll show my support by learning all the words to your national anthem--at the moment I've got only "Oh, Canada; my home and native land!"

I'm an American, btw, and I'm glad you love your country b/c I love mine too. I guess we all have our strange citizens.

I'm sorry you've been subjected to this. Your blog is lots of fun for me. I hope it continues to be for you too.

Sorry to hear of the problems you've been experiencing. I always look to see if you've posted and enjoy your posts. I've never felt you have been anything but honest and never felt you insulted Americans. Keep up the good fight.

Adore you Stephanie. Behind you 1000%.

Lots of beer and more than a few hugs to you Stephanie. As someone once said "Don't let the bastards get you down!" Much love from North Carolina.

Never posted here until now. I've got to say that as an American, a Christian and someone just doing their darn best to be a decent human being, I'm beyond insulted at this person's behavior. I can only imagine how horrendous you and your family must feel. Here's hoping for a peaceful resolution all around.

I'm just gobsmacked! I love your blog, and your books, because you are a funny and gifted writer. I was so afraid, as I was reading this entry, that you were going to announce the end of the blog. Thanks for sharing the background to this situation. Lots of light and love to you. Now I'm going to go and knit something pretty in your honour.

Full steam ahead. She does not speak for Americans. Most of us can think for ourselves and I, for one, thoroughly enjoy the blog and books.

Do not let the turkeys get you down.

Good for you, Stephanie. I'm behind you 10000% percent, and I, too, am sorry you've been subjected to this.

Hey, You are my hero in oh so many ways. This is my first post though I've been reading your blog for a couple of years. I'm sending you and your family positive thoughts from VA.

There's just no reasoning with crazy. I'm so very sorry.

So sorry you are experiencing this. As an American and a Christian, I have never felt at all insulted by anything in your blog. I also want you to know that I appreciate your Canada Day posts. Even though I have lived my whole life in the Northeast, I remain woefully ignorant about our neighbor to the North. Your blog has served to educate me on several occasions. Lastly, as the mother of an 18 year old, there have been many times that I have needed your posts on the joys and travails of these turbulent years. Thank you for persevering and for allowing us these small glimpses into your life.

I'd like to apologize for the rude behavior of an American. I don't always agree with your opinions, but I respect your right to have them. I love your blog and your books, and I hope you continue to write. Carry on!

WOW...obviously she is not mentally well. I think you are doing the right thing in taking the high road and ignoring (as best you can) her. Perhaps if you cease all contact with her (and delete her comments without comment), she will 'go away'. I'm married to an American, and I think I can safely say that she doesn't represent ANY American I have ever met. I'm sure that "The Blog" will keep our eyes out for her malicious comments, and let you know if we see them--and avoid the temptation of engaging her. Keep your chin up, and know that us knitters are here for you!

I know it's hard, but for every person like this, remember that there are thousands who admire and respect you.
I too have never posted before, but I had to do it this time.

So sorry you had to go through that. Your thoughtfulness, compassion, and humor are always appreciated. Best wishes-- from the US!

I have always admired (from a distance) your immense good sense, and I see it is helping you now. You are handling this awful scenario very well.

Hey Steph - totally speechless here; I'm continually amazed and distressed about the way some people behave. I love your work and hope you keep doing it!

this is ugly just ugly

I really can't think of a thing to say but, Wow! There are some very strange people in this world. Keep yourself on the high road and you will be fine, but I'm sure you already know that to be true.

Thanks for shining your light & keeping this blog, Stephanie. Hopefully this all passes soon. All the best to you!

(((((((Stephanie)))))) Sending you prayers.

Just what you need with all the sock summit stuff! I read your blog because you so often make my day, crazy job, crazy life and you make me laugh. Somehow I don't think that is wrong.

long time reader, first time commenter. I've always been so inspired by your attitude and approach to dealing with issues and it makes me want to cry that someone has no respect or decency for another human being. Sending good thoughts, knitterly and otherwise from PA

Well, I'm an American and I do NOT feel the way this person does - at all.

Wow, I am amazed, for all the fun and good there is on the internet, there is a lot of, well stuff one would prefer to avoid. I for one do enjoy your humour and attitude. Take care.

I admire you for taking the high road in this awful situation.

And don't worry about her opinion of your -- wait! Is this the 'grave spiritual danger' commenter? Gotcha covered there, don't worry about that part.

If anything else should pop through the filter into the comments, I solemnly swear NOT to react.

Now go: kiss Joe/hug the girls/do some knitting/dance/have a beer/spin/make that yummy pasta with fresh mozzarella and tomatoes.

I am with you too.

It is scary sometimes how people act.

You are a very brave woman and I am honored that you are my friend. So proud.

Steph, I've been reading you for years now. I've seen you read from your books, I don't know, 5 or 6 times. I remember when you were nervous giving one of your first readings at the Sheep Shack in Massachusetts. I've met you here and there, beyond the book readings.

And yeah, I admire your knitting and spinning, and especially your extraordinary productiveness. I admire your writings a lot; they speak to and from the heart. But I admire most your character. It has to be difficult being a very public person to a horde of what are admittedly rather, ummm, obsessive people, shall we say (and I mean obsessive in the best, yarn-loving sort of way). You've been handling all of this Harlot hoopla rather well, as far as I'm concerned, and I'm sorry you're having to deal with this sort of unwanted attention. I'm on your side in this, and I suspect 99.9% of your readers are, too.

Go have a beer. Knit something. Ignore her. I'm planning to.

I'm so sorry to hear that someone (from my country) would be so awful to you. I'm ashamed for her. Thank you for sharing so we can all remember to respect others, even when they have a different opinion than our own.
Life should be more about how we treat others & about making an effort to lift one another up. Thank you for being such a good example.

I've been reading for years and rarely post but I just have to say, don't let the bastards get you down. I'm in awe of people who have nothing better to do then harrass and hate on others. Good for you for only being a positive light and best wishes that she goes away into her little hole and leaves you alone.

I for one don't think you will ever run out of witty things to write about knitting until you can no longer knit. I have had the pleasure of seeing you in person twice so far and your way of conducting yourself really makes us feel you are one of us...no diva but a regular person who happens to write books and blogs and is FUNNY. I love the parenting comments...been there done that but with three boys...the last two identical twins. I happen to think the post about getting the truck stuck was one of the FUNNIEST posts I have read. It is unfortunate that there are people in this world who have to put down others to make themselves feel better. Hang in there and keep us laughing...and learning

Personally - I didn't think knitters HAD boundaries...Thought we were just one big happy group. Canadian/American /English/Irish/etc...doesn't matter...as long as we're knitting. You're going to be fine.

Steph, like someone above, I've been reading and not commenting for years. Please know that you are doing the right thing. I've been saying at school what you said the other day "you get more of what you pay attention to". If everyone manages to not focus on this person, and to shine light instead, eventually she will go away.

Please, please know that not everyone feels this way. I look forward to your blog every day, wonder what you are all up to, and thank you in my head for sharing your incredible family and knitting experiences with all of us. It's a brave thing, and I've learned a lot from you (and not just about knitting, either).

Thanks.

Stay safe.

this woman obviously has mental health issues. hang in there. feel your feet on the earth and don't forget to breath. keep that beautiful bright light of yours shining. i love you yarn harlot!!

I have never posted, either, although I have been reading for quite a while. Your humor and down-to-earth stories have kept me amused during a difficult physical time. I've thought about thanking you and this seems to be an appropriate time. Remember all the good you have done and don't let the negative invade your mind or heart. By the way, I'm American and always thought of Canadians as good friends.

Steph, don't listen to the hurtful comments. You're a very good and funny writer, and certainly seem to be a good and generous mother.

I'm sending warm, Texas-sized e-hugs from an American Christian, and I hope that your unkind correspondent learns one day how un-American and un-Christian her actions are.

You can't reason with anyone who is as mentally ill as this person. You have done all you could do. I hope you can remember that many thousands of others, knitters and non-knitters alike, appreciate you, your humor, your thought-provoking essays, and what you have done and continue to do for knitting.

Knit on!

Our dearest Harlot,
I am shocked and mortified that anyone could be like that. I love your Canadian pride and see you as pro-human, not anti- anything. I am concerned however with this person's venom and think you should look into contacting the police. These are threats and should be taken as such. How can someone with that attitude call themselves Christian? I love reading every word you write. You continue to shine your light and we'll be standing by with extra love and batteries. I am writing from Oregon.

I'm sorry that you have to see that there are Americans who never mature past middle school. I guess it doesn't occur to some people to just stop looking if you don't like what you see. I hope you continue to have the strength to put yourself out there, you are an intelligent, sensitive, funny woman who often serves as a high point of my day.

You are my hero for many reasons. I'll just add "class," "tolerance" and "grace under pressure" to the list now. Well done.

Wow, Please keep safe. We know the world is not in a good place right now. People, People love one and other. We are all here for such a short time. Love your blog. I look daily for you to lighten my life with fiber. Thank you for being there for all of us.

I'm sorry that you are having to deal with an irrational and mentally ill person. As a very conservative American Christian, I'll pray for her. I find that this usually makes this sort of person very angry because it highlights the discrepancies between their state beliefs and their actual behavior.

Stephanie, what a kind and wise way to deal with a situation that has become so painfully bizarre. This person isn't well.
May you be perfectly surrounded with light and love, and may everything that comes toward you be used for good.
Amen.

I'm so deeply sorry that you have had to struggle with this person for so long. It's shameful to know that she is perpetuating the stereotype that I think most Americans seriously wish to avoid, ignorance and an uncaring attitude towards other countries.

I rarely post a comment to your blog, but I truly felt this warranted it.

So this is me, standing behind you, for you, adding another light to shine over all the evil.

Please don't let her discourage you, you're an amazing person, you've made me laugh and cry, and enjoy every minute of it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. And for whatever it's worth, I'm proud of you.

Hey,
I'm sorry that you have to put up with this person, but I'm also very impressed that you're able to handle it in such a mature way...not alot of ppl can do that...as we can see with this woman... Can't you get the authorities involved? She's obviously harassing you.

I barely every post, but as an American (although I am quite left) I am sorely ashamed of people like this. I am a huge fan of yours and I think you are amazing and it makes me real real sad to think there are people out there so sad they must lash out at others on the internet.

Please please keep doing what you're doing.

Just a big hi from another crazy American who for some reason loves you.

That sucks hard. A great book to learn how to deal with people like that is "The Gift of Fear
by Gavin De Beker

obviously she doesn't speak for all americans!

I have to say, as both an American and a Christian, I want to find this woman and haul her off to the psych ward where she belongs. Don't let her get to you, ma'am, and bonus points to you for keeping your chin up about this. No one needs that kind of vitriol in their life, and here's to eradicating this particular form of it from the Internet for good.

By the way, I hope you don't mind, but I'll be praying she cuts it out. I can only imagine what kind of response she might give you after this post, so I'll bet you'll need all the backup you can get. :)

Steph, Another long time reader here that has never posted. I look forward to your blog. It makes my day better when I see something from you. You rarely fail to bring a smile to my face. I am an American and a Christian and think you are wonderful. Don't let one rotten apple spoil who you are and what you do. Good for you for standing up to this person. Stay strong.

I love your posts about Canada, I will continue to buy your books and follow your blog. I admire your parenting, your social conscious, your ethics and your values.

Don't you worry, one rotten apple will not spoil the barrel that is the fun group of commenters and readers here. Huzzah to Stephanie!

I'm an American, for the record.

I look forward to this blog, and love reading it. I am sorry that this mentally ill person is harassing you, Stephanie, because this is such a light and friendly place for us knitters. I learn a lot from you. This troubled person is not a representative of anyone but herself. I am American, and I love you and your blog. Do look into police action, this person needs intervention.

That is truly frightening. As an American, I am saddened, but unfortunately not surprised, that one of my compatriots could feel that way, let alone think that continuing in writing such comments, blog entries, and emails is remotely acceptable behaviour, even if she should, inexplicably, disagree with you.

Sooo Sorry! You are awesome!!!

Sooo Sorry! You are awesome!!!

This person (and I use that term very loosely) obviously has mental health issues and certainly does not speak for any American. It's nutcases like this that hide behind religion and feel free to degrade anyone who doesn't think like they do. It is very hard to pray for someone we don't like, but perhaps this person needs it most of all.

I lurk on blogs and boards all over the web and rarely post anything anywhere (because I'd rather be knitting!) but I am so stunned that technology has brought us to this ugly moment that I am compelled to comment. I check your blog everyday and love the humor, the projects I only dream of tackling, and the mingling of my favorite art/craft with life's joys and challenges. I admire your knitting skills tremendously, but after reading your post today I most admire your integrity and bravery. Best Wishes from Sacramento, CA.

It is inherently brave of you to share this with us.
I respect you even more than I did before, and that was considerable.
For every person out there who may disagree or be indifferent to something you say, there are thousands of us who value you; your humor, your caring, and yes, your bravery to share small parts of your life, good or abysmal, with your readers.
Rock on Harlot.
I'll keep reading.

As a Christian (Catholic, though, and her type of "Christian" doesnt ususally include Catholics as Christians), American, southern woman (making me a proud owner of a Pussy, by the way!), I am so incredibly sorry you are dealing with this and tremendously ashamed that there are Americans out there like this.

I will keep you in my prayers as you deal with the stress of this harrassment, and will keep reading and enjoying your work.

Be safe and keep doing what you love, and those of worth will continue to enjoy watching and learning from you.

As an American Indian atheist I stand proudly behind you a million percent. This chick needs some prozac and wheel of cheese to go with her whine. Love and hugs to you, your family and Canadians everywhere! :-)

Hi Steph,

I'm sorry this is happening to you. It happened to me a couple of years ago, and I believe it really is evidence of mental illness. My blog abuser eventually quit when I continually ignored her. It wasn't fun for her when no one responded to her.

Hang in there.

Way to go, Lady! Thank you for sharing this with us, and I sincerely hope for your sake it stops! I can't adequately express how utterly charming I think you are; a class act for sure. I'm dismayed by people who think the internet grants a free license to harangue and slander. Sending you a nice, big, warm gold bubble for a hug. Take care and stay safe.

I am a long time reader of your blog but have never posted a comment. I assure you true Americans do not feel this way. I am so sorry you and your family are dealing with this. Hang in there, you are doing the right thing.

As an American, as usual, I am deeply embarrassed by some of the actions of my fellow citizens. I won't say "I'm sorry" because that's what women do instead of expecting people to own their own behavior. As an anarchist, let her posts show and let people respond to them as they will, given your clear guidance. As a (bad) Buddhist, I'll send out what little compassion I can muster for such an unhappy and sad person. Peace to you all.

Good for you for taking the high road and not getting in a mudfest. People seem to forget that when you throw mud, a lot of it gets on themself.

Easier to give support when the story comes from both sides and it sounds like many have had access to her side of it.

Stand strong, tall, and with head held high with the support of your many friends that post and those that don't.

Dear One,
May the Blessings of all that is good and right in this universe be with you and your family and your friends. Your way of looking at the world has been a blessing to me in more ways than I can express. Prayers for your safety are on my heart - Be strong, be safe and be well.

I am glad that you blocked her. I am sorry that she has been so awful to you. Please keep writing the blog it makes my day better every time that i read it.

You're so right--when someone is so beyond the realm of normalcy, anything they say is really a reflection of them, not anything about you.
Why does someone assume that pro-Canada mean anti-America? You mention all the time you love the States, I can't recall a single negative anti-American sentiment. Just because you love your country doesn't mean you hate all others.
Thanks for sharing, and remember, what you focus on, expands. Let her anger bubble expand while your serenity prevails :)

Holy Cow!! Sounds like a 'what's the frequency, Kenneth' type life. It's all very scary but you have handled it well. We would expect nothing less. We support you all the way!!

I read religiously, and rarely comment. But this motivated me. Good for you and hang in there!!

Stephanie, I'm so sorry you are being troubled by this woman's disturbing comments and emails. More power to you for keeping it clean and not stooping to her level. This American (hell, this New Yorker) applauds you. Stay strong.

One more light shining from the US...I'm sorry you're being harassed like this! This woman does NOT speak for all Americans. Being pro-Canadian does not make you anti-American, or anything else, just like being pro-American doesn't make you anti-Canadian.
Keep your chin up, Steph...you're handling this better than I (and I daresay, many of us!) ever could.

Wow. That's all I can even think to say. Lots of crazies in this world and I'm so sorry this one is picking on you.

She certainly doesn't speak for all Americans, or even a few for that matter.

We still love you down here! Good for you for standing up to her! I'm proud of you!

Since when have you ever been anti-American?!?!?!

I think she just has too much time on her hands. As a previous poster said, make sure you keep you and yours safe.

Can you/we somehow involve the police in whatever jurisdiction she lives in?

janet

As a proud American, I have to say that people like that give American's and America a terrible name. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this at all. I do hope they realize that karma's a bitch. Hugs Stephanie.

Dear Dear Dear Stephanie,
I am an American and I read your blog everyday. I have never found anything objectionable. If I had, I would have stopped reading. You are clearly dealing with an insane person. Is there such a thing as a blog police or something like that? Threats? No way. If I were you I would just quit reading anything she sends. As far as the nasty things she is saying about you....the people who know you and care about you won't believe all that nasty stuff and they are the people who matter. I have never met you but my daughter has. When you were in Denver about a year ago, my daughter came to the Highlands Ranch Tattered Cover to have one of your books signed for me to give to my cousin as a gift. My daughter doesn't knit but I do and she wore almost every knitted item that she owned that was knit by my cousin or myself. You were very nice to her and she was so impressed by your personality and graciousness. My daughter had a blast visiting with the wonderful knitters. Everyone she sat next to commented on the items that she was wearing. I sent your signed book to my cousin. She called and thanked me. The next day I got a call from her and she said......OH MY GOSH.....THIS IS SIGNED BY SP MCPHEE!!!!....OH MY GOSH....I AM SO EXCITED....STEPHANIE TOUCHED THIS BOOK..... There you go Stephanie, we think you are great and awesome and fabulous and thank you so much for putting yourself out there and thank you for everything that you do for us all. Good luck with the Summit. I will be anxious to hear how things go. Take care. Love, Birdgirl

Another lurker coming out to show support. Sending you (hugs) and hopes for peace from North Carolina. Some people it seems have no life.

I have to say, this is one of the very few times when I can honestly say I'm ashamed to be an American, if being American means that I would in any way be associated with this sort of person or behavior.

You are a lovely person, and a better person then I would be if I were in your situation. And if your posts about Canada, on Canada Day, are "anti-american" and insulting, then count me in as "anti-american" as well.

As an American Catholic (Christian), I have to say, God Bless Canada, and God Bless You and Your loved ones!

As a Christian with U.S. citizenship, I just want to tell you that this is entirely too embarrassing to read.

But thank you for being intelligent enough to know that we aren't all like this.

And, FWIW, I will ALWAYS love you and your work.

This person is either on drugs or insane. You should get a harassment or no contact order from a court where this person lives. People like this are embarrassing to most Americans.

Sue

In america, it is illegal to harass someone via the internet -especially- anonymously and if you have proof she attempted that I would speak to a law official because this woman is obviously insane.

I have read you for years, I live in texas and I adore you. You are the darling of the knitting world and in fact you were my gateway into it. I was knitting scarves and attempting to enjoy it on acrylics and horrible circs.

You encouraged me to try socks, to make blankets, to do lace, to -STEP OUT-..and to give myself -good- yarn and good needles and -enjoy- my knitting. Without you I wouldn't know of Nancy Bush or Barbara Walker or Cat B. I wouldn't know about Latvian mittens or knitters without borders or blue moon fiber arts. I wouldn't have just dropped another 300 dollars on an indie dyer just yesterday that -you- helped promote with Dye for Glory. I wouldn't be referring to you as the Julia Child of knitting. Or so excited that when you come to my area every friend whether they knit or not knows it.

One of the best things that happened to me this year was being on your blog for bringing you dinner. You are a kind woman and you are an example for how a grown up should act. Believe me I take that example as well because the base of my nature is to be not as kind and generous and honorable as your example.

This woman is..crazy. And she's wrong. You are not anti-american, You are not anti- christian and you are not loosing any fan base. Look at freaking Sock summit! 30,000 People!! in the knitting world!? Darlin I assure that there are -comic- and scifi conventions that don't even get that amount of interest.

You just ignore her. I know easier said than done. But You -are- the Julia Childs of the knitting world. Look at what you have accomplished with Knitters without borders, your books, the knitting olympics, all the ways that you've changed people's lives.

Just with two sticks some string and a computer.

I am so sorry that she has done this. I am so sorry that the insane parts of my country are spilling into here.

Alright enough rambling. Stay safe and strong.

*sends big self-esteem beams*
You shouldn't feel lower, you should feel better because you've dealt with this with maturity and grace whereas she's acted like an angst-ridden child.

Dearest Yarn Harolt, you really can't take any of this personally. Her rantings say plenty about her miserable life, but nothing about you. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that someone like this only has as much control over you as you give her. Block her from every email account you have and keep on trucking. I can't begin to tell you how much I enjoy your blog--and I'm a very mediocre knitter. It's your writing and your irreverant sense of humor I love!

As an American woman of the Christian faith, I am proud of the good parts in my culture and work to improve the others. Were you, Stephanie, not proud of who you are and where you live, you would not be the vital, loved, wonderful person you are and we Americans and other nationalities would not be able to call you friend. I am proud to have been one of the first to have had my sock and I in a picture with you and your sock at a reading outside of Greensburg, PA.

I seriously doubt this woman has a passport to get to Canada to hurt you, she would never bother to leave the U.S. to actually widen her perspective on the world. She might learn that other people outside the U.S. have every right and reason to take pride in their nationality, culture and heritage. The world does not revolve around her, whether she is an American or not, and neither do you.

You go, girl! That woman is obviously off her crock. More power to you for not stooping to her level.

Wishing you all the strength you'll need to get through this.

I know it is easier to believe the bad stuff about ourselves, but take a look at all of us who love your work, who eagerly wait for your posts, who own all your books, who act like giddy schoolgirls when you come do a book signing in our towns. We are the ones you should believe.

Thank you for going to so much effort to keep your blog positive.

America hearts you.

...some of us are sicker then others.
I need to pray for this poor woman. She obviously doesn't knit enough.
Light On!

I am another reader that rarely comments (usually because there are so many!). I enjoy your blog immensely and would be sad if stopped blogging or even closed comments. As an American, I am ashamed of this person's behavior.

Love you, love your blog! Keep your chin up!

YH, I'm so sorry you have been dealing with this. I have been intending to comment since I love my daily calendar by you. I get a laugh every morning and usually learn something, too.
I'm glad you are going to stop using your energy to battle her. It looks like you have a lot of positive energy coming your way and I'm sending my to you, too.
Hang in there.
Sarah in Houston

Stephanie, I admire you and am so very impressed with how you're dealing with this. 100% behind you...

Sharing information as a tool for understanding was one of the first things I learned from my husband. He explained that it was unfair to allow someone to be 'blind-sided'. I sincerely appreciate the courtesy of being informed.
My admiration for your courage and for the support from your family. I send my love and affection and a passionate empathy for your love of country.
From an ol'Texas gal of the Christian persuasion.

I'm another long time reader, first time poster, who just wants to say that for every one like her, there are 1,000's of us who love your humour, your blog, and your books. You are showing an amazing amount of strength to deal with this as an adult, and that just makes me respect you even more.

Oh yes, and I'm another American. :)

I would say there are some serious psychological issues driving this woman. She's obviously obsessed (and NOT a Christian. Christians do not behave this way.) We are all behind you, Stephanie, and agree that this should not be the price for sharing your gift of humor.

As a human being, a blogger and an American, I am deeply offended by this "anonymous" woman and her rudeness. Who the h**l does she think she is? I am constantly dumbfounded that people actually waste their time being negative and rude on the internet...frankly, she needs to get off the computer and knit more.

Hang in there Steph, there's millions of us out here who love you and have been inspired by you!

I'm sorry you have to put up with such loonies, Steph... you know and we all know that her ire is completely undeserved, and next month she'll be stalking and harassing some other public figure. Be strong, let it roll off you. Your fans are legion for a very good reason... because you rock and you make the world a better place to be in.

The internet just brings out the worst in people -- I've seen posters like this woman in many of the online communities I've been in over the years, ones who take everything very seriously and personally, whether it's knitting or TV shows. Definitely the biggest deal to her is the idea that everything you do is somehow aimed at her, or that she's in some kind of battle with you, or whatever it is that gives her the attention that she so desperately craves (and probably online finds online), so you're totally right that depriving her of attention is the best way to go.

And I can guarantee that it has nothing to do with you or anything you say. You're just the sadly convenient target, and I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this.

Dear Steph,
Wow! Good for you for posting this. I too was afraid that you were going to stop your blog. I've been a long-time reader, less-frequent commenter but I love seeing the RSS feed with a new post from the YH! I'm an American, and she certainly doesn't even come close to speaking for me!

I love the posts you write about Canada. I've learned a lot from you... I knit, I have teenagers, I'm a vegetarian.

So, in the spirit of mutual love and kindness.... I'm going to help spread the light. Sending you lots of it!

With you 100%. You are an inspiration and are none of the things that were so sickeningly said. Thanks for being you!

Stephanie. I have read your blog for a long time and most of your books. All of the work you do is helpful and inspiring. It is really unfortunate you have had to waste so much time on this incident. Price of doing business on the Internet, but very sad. Thank you for sharing through the blog. There are many many of us who respect and admire you and are truly grateful that you are you. I wish you all the best. Thank you.

I, too am an American and find that person despicable. Everyone has their own opinion but there are ways to express your differences without being rude or hurtful. I have not felt your blog to be anti american. Hold your head up and continue to take the high road. Leave the gutter to her.

I am so sorry that someone is attacking you. Your July 1st post did show how Canada is different from the USA, in a very truthful way. What you have done for knitting in the last 10 years is truly amazing. I hope that this will end it and you can get back to thinking about SS09. I won't be there but can't wait to hear more about it all.
Stephanie in Ontario, Canada

I'm so sorry.

I'm sorry that you've found out why so many Americans feel the need to own a gun. Meet a few people like your stalker and you start to think maybe you need some protection, you know?

I'm sorry you found out how so many Americans have lost their faith as a result of watching other American Christians. If that's Christian, why would anyone want to be one? What kind of deity would let people use His name to justify such behavior?

We have a very vocal self-important mean-spirited do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do commnity here in the mostly wonderful USA. I am very pleased that you're only being bothered by one of them, and I'm even more pleased that you managed to go so long before one of the really nasty ones took to you like a kid with candy.

I'm really proud of you. You're behaving like an adult. You know better than to be a silent victim of a pitiful and probably mentally-ill bully. Good job.

You make a great role-model for your children.

I wish the world had a lot more people like you in it.

Good for you Stephanie.

sorry you have to deal with this Stephanie... we love you!

How awful that you have had to deal with a person like that. This American and Christian woman(living in Maryland) enjoys your blog and your books. Hugs, kazbels

You are amazing. I adore your blog, and your knitting, and your humor. You've handled this as gracefully and honorably as possible, and I sincerely hope that this woman stops her nonsense.
I'm sending lots of positive energy and knitting vibes your way! <3

xoxo

That seems the best thing to say.

I'm another longtime reader and first time commenter. I just wanted to break my internet silence to wave my flag of support for you. I'm so sorry to hear that you've had to deal with this situation, and I think you're handling it totally admirably. Good for you, lady.

Hey, I'm an American and very very proud of my country, though I see its weakness in every day I live here. I'm also a Christian, but unlike that person, I understand that hatred is no way to spread love. No one has the right to treat you like that. You are fully supported. Take care of yourself, ok? Just be safe.

I too am a first time poster who was stunned by this blog entry. I've had a similar experience and left me totally shaken and fearful. Be strong and know that there are people on both sides of the border who read your posts and enjoy them (and by the way the one about your husband getting stuck still makes me laugh). Do what you need to do to make sure that you, your family and your friends remain safe and secure.

Here's another American that thinks you are a great person, of towering strength, wit, inspiration and full of love, creativity, compassion and that oh-so-elusive common sense.

Enjoy your view from the high road, it's loverly :)

Hi Steph, It must have been so hard for you to write this post. I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this personal attack. For what it is worth, I've think you have done the right thing to involve the police at this stage.

I'm a long time reader of your blog and will continue to buy your books. I think you are a blessing to the knitting world.

Sending your love from Australia.

Yet another lurker coming out to show support for you.

This woman is clearly mentally disturbed. What you've done is, I think, the right thing. You've tried to deal with her rationally, but there is no logic to her actions.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

~ an American

OMG! This has been awful for you. Please believe that we love you, we love reading whatever you write. I am so very ashamed that someone from my country, the country I love, can behave to you in this manner. SHAME ON HER!

Steph - I have NEVER been offended by anything you write and I love it when you write about Canada. I have learned so much about your country from you! Please, please stay who you are and remember for every one of her there are THOUSANDS of us who love you! See you in two weeks!

Like you said, she's gone off the deep end. And if she tries anything at Sock Summit, I imagine there will be thousands of red-blooded Americans, as well as your fellow Canadians, that would be happy to pounce on her and hold her for authorities. (Not that we'd just hand her over before inflicting lots of deep stab wounds with those straight needles we're bringing for the World Record...). I can't imagine that anyone thinks she's talking sense unless they, too, are in need of a private padded room with a friendly straightjacket.

I am so sorry that you have been so hurt by this unfortunate situation. You have taken the high road, and for that you should be proud. Bullies are mean, but they don't have to win.

Count me as another American Christian conservative woman knitter who is a fan of the Yarn Harlot!

Nobody deserves what you have faced. I wouldn't have been shocked if this entry had ended with your declaration that you were going to stop blogging and withdraw from the internet or public life entirely. It is never good to give in to people like this, but to take continual ad hominem attacks against your character that you cannot directly counter because you have to eat, to sleep, to spend time with your family is not right. Good for you for facing it like this. I hope that it bears out peacefully.

Know that we're here for you. Stay strong. This too will pass.

Oh my, this leaves me almost speechless. Some things I'm sure you know but I feel like I have to say:
1. There's something very wrong with someone who feels the need to do this, and even though she's making it all about you, it's really not you at all. I hope this won't take up much more of your emotional energy, it's got to be draining.
2. I am both a Christian and an American and she sure doesn't speak for me.
Wow.
I come to this blog for knitting inspiration and a smile, and I always get both.

OK. Thank you for explaining this. I hope it stops soon.

I am glad you came forward about this and are being the bigger person. I am an American and have been reading you blog for a little over a year. I have never see you post anything I felt negatively reflected on anyone.

I am certainly concerned for the woman that has targeted you because it sounds like she hurting. I am sorry that she has selected you to take her anger and hurt out on.

Stay strong through this. You have a lot of very loyal people behind you.

Sticks and Stones may Break my Bones, but Words will Never Hurt Me.

I'm sorry this is happening and how did she ever think you were Anti-American? I've read your blog for years and have never thought of you as controversial or hateful.

And as for losing your fan base, never.

Hateful Christian, now that's an oxymoron! Stay on the high road. All of us, even here in Chicago, enjoy your blog and we support you 100%. I know this must be very difficult for you but know that those of us who appreciate you will never engage this person or give her the attention she seems to crave in a distorted way. You have many fans who will buy your books and read your blog.

American-Christian-Pussy-Owner chiming in here: You are awesome. That is all. <3

As a Catholic American, I am offended to have such a person attempt to represent me. Carry on, YarnHarlot. We support you. We shall ignore her and take away the wind in her sails. Please be safe, though, since violent people severely dislike being ignored. And she will now be ignored.

Thanks for organizing the Sock Summit and thinking up the Dye for Glory. My stash is now nicely enhanced by your efforts, which enhances my happiness.

What was it again we weren't supposed to discuss anymore? Never mind. It must not have been important.

~Saneknitter

I have been reading the blog for a little while, and own a few of your books. Because of you, I discovered just how good a sweet potato burrito is with a beer! Your knitting is such a wonderful inspiration, and I laughed so hard the night I read your post with your kitty and the bathtub had me laughing so loud my kids came in and asked what was up. I am proud of your integrity and fortitude. Love and Light from here in Va up to there in Canada.

I check your blog everyday and enjoy the humor you bring to all the wonderful joys and challenges life brings. Please don't stop sharing with us.
Nothing about this individual's behavior is Christian or American!

Dear Steph,

As an avid knitter, and therapist, may I beg you to be very, very careful of this person's behaviour. I urge you to make a statement to police to protect yourself and the ones you love. Trying to disengage from this type of behaviour may lead her to even great efforts to reach you, at any cost. Please consult a lawyer as well, to see if you can get a restraining order. This woman, as you describe her sounds as thought she is suffering from some kind of mental illness. Please, please be very careful!!
Thank you, Jan

I have been reading your blog for quite a while now, and I consider it on of the best ones I have ever read. It is interesting and witty, and I have never been offended by anything you have said (I live in the US). Keep up the good work!

I am so sorry for her, and embarrassed for her; she must be in a terrible place to feel the need to take it out on you. And I'm sorry that she picked you as her target. Unfortunately, when she tires of you, she'll probably pick someone else to make as miserable as she is. In the meantime, please know that we love you and that you (and the family) are in our thoughts and prayers.

I can't imagine how difficult this post must have been to write, especially after all you have endured from a person who would appear to be mentally unbalanced. I think that you are absolutely right to shine light on this situation and person, and to not respond to her. Keep on doing what you have been, because you are doing a fabulous job!

I love your blog I've never leave a comment but I'm so ashamed of my fellow american, I'm so sorry... Liz

Another American behind you all the way. Keep shining the light!

Wow. Well I'm an American and I think you're great! I saw you speak when you came to Anchorage, Alaska and you were wonderful! Please try not to let this get to you. I love your books and you are a very talented knitter. You motivate me to knit and I love all your stories!!!

Yay, I LOVE when people make the Ugly American Stereotype look true! Wait, I meant the other thing, dislike. Sorry you've got a personal troll hon, good luck dealing with the cray-cray. I'll never understand why people who don't like someone's writing keep reading it, instead of just, IDK, ignoring it? So you'll stop getting the hits and looking so popular? Whatevs.

Stephanie

You are so strong to be able to deal with all of this aside from the normal day to day challenges of life. I don't think there is anything wrong with you promoting Canada Day or any other Canadian holiday, and I have NEVER felt disrespected by you or anything you have said on your blog. I hope all of the people out there pulling for you give you the strength you need to get through this. Have a large glass of wine (or 3)! We're all pulling for you!
Kristina

Man oh man. Here, have a beer. You deserve it.

I have to say that us Canadians know that she is an individual and not speaking for all Americans. You're off the hook for this one America!

The sad thing is I don't think she is mentally ill. She's petty, mean and I really have to think lacking in self confidence. Otherwise why would she put so much time into knocking someone else down? I really pity her.

I've been reading your blog for a long time now, never posted, but I wanted to throw my support behind you! Best wishes, and stay strong.

Stephanie, I'm really sorry. If you ever thought our American medical health system was inadequate, I regret that you get such a good example of how our mental health system is nonexistent. Doesn't sound like this woman should be loose on the street.

As a pagan, I call on the goddess to bless this woman. I leave it to the goddess to decide what blessings she needs, although I certainly have MY opinion about what she _really_ needs.
:-/

We love you!
(Long time reader, first time -I think- poster.)

First time poster, but long time reader. I am incredibly impressed by your calm response to a person who clearly needs a lot of help. Definitely a model to live by. Please keep inspiring us.

What a scary situation to deal with, do not be discouraged and thank you for sharing with us your good times and your not so good times. I do so enjoy your blog and as I have bought your books as a result of it and if you can write this charming and humorous blog with your busy schedule, then why wouldn't you be able to continue to produce your funny and education books as well? By the way Sock Summit will become a legend. All I have to do is mention the fact that I would love to have gone and I get the same response, it doesn't matter if they are knitter, weavers or spinners, it seems to unite us all. I live in California and just traveled most of it along with Arizona - crafters everywhere were singing your praises - yes we all seem to read your blog - with delight. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing some fun into my day.

This is my first comment after lurking here for years.

I can't believe this is happening to you.

I am American and I make sure to read your blog every day. Not to see what anti-American things you have to say that day, but to see what wonderfully witty, and knitty things you have to say. You make me smile day after day. . .

Here's to sharing a beer some day.

K

So sorry you've had to go through this sh!t. Mostly I think it's wonderful that the world is full of such different people, but sometimes .... Well. Speak of what?

How's the blanket coming? Or the socks? Done yet, super-speedy?

Shameful representation indeed! >hug<

Wow. Lots of love Steph, eh?

Dear Stephanie,

Yet another lurker. I just want to thank you for doing what you do. I really admire the eloquent way you are dealing with this horrible situation. I really find inspiration and joy in your writing. As another human being (who happens to be American) I am horrified that this type of this is happening to you. Love and Peace! ((HUG))

Thank you for making my day--and obviously the days of many many others--better every time you post.

You have spent too much of your life on this woman already.

I'm an American, and I love my country, and I deeply respect others who love their countries. You are entitled to enjoy being who you are. Loving one's own land and people is not an insult to everyone else.

And, well, please don't judge us by this wing-nut.

I'm not even much of a lefty, but again, I respect people who have strong convictions and enjoy reading what is written well. And MSF gets some cash from us because of you, so keep on writing well.

That's how you reach others, you know. Writing well. So back to the needles, and the words. That is what deserves your energy. Well, that and the sock summit.

Please, please move on.

Stephanie,
I have been reading your blog for several years now- it was thanks to your lovely blog that I really delved seriously into knitting. This is my first time commenting, but I just really wanted to tell you how much I admire and respect you. The situation you describe is absolutely frightening! I think it is wise to share this with your readers and I hope people will indeed follow your lead and avoid confrontation with this individual. I sincerely hope that this resolves itself soon and you can go back to enjoying this wonderful space that you so graciously share with all of us!

You are a much beloved friend, Stephanie. No matter where we live, we're circling the wagons around you.

oh dear! I just have no idea how some people can get so crazy nuts! I hope you get rest and feel comfort from letting this out. I also hope you tell the management at Sock Summit to be looking out for this crazy. The building, the local authorities and everyone there. Stay with a buddy at all times. ((()))

posting for the first time ever to say that i love your blog, stephanie. youre a great writer and a classy lady. rock on!

Wow. A big, huge, stunned...wow. What a nutter! I am so glad you're are taking this so well and dealing with the whole situation with respect and dignity. I would have sunk WAY PAST her level a while back. You are the truest sense of the word 'Lady'. Even with any patriarchal Victorian connotations that may be associated with it, I stand by it. As a pagan-queer-Canadian mother (take that you whack job! Oh yeah, oops, sorry, sorry, don't antagonize her. Right), I love you! You encourage and enlighten and fill me with happiness and greater perspective when I read your blog. I love hearing about what I get to look forward to as my kids grow, I love hearing about your projects and tribulations with them, your open-minded views on family and spirituality, your garden, and I love your love for everyone, and your devotion to make the world a better place. You remind me not to be cynical, petty and bitter, no matter what life slings at you.

Keep your head high - but not so high you can't see your monitor, because my world would be a darker place if you stopped blogging and writing!

Oh Stephanie, I'm so sorry :(

I don't agree with some things you do, but I can tell that everything you do is done with intelligence, forethought and strong values. I admire you very much and am sincerely grieved that someone would do this to you.

It's clear to me from the things she's writing that she really has no personal problem with you at all - she's just a little nuts and needs to attack someone and play the "game" she keeps telling you it isn't. Very sad, but NOT about you. She's grabbing at straws and trying to find faults where there are NONE.

Please don't feel badly about yourself. You are lovely and interesting and a breath of fresh air in my Google Reader. I wish people treated you like you treat the world - with interest, appreciation and respect.

You made the right decision. We're behind you all the way. For every one terribly dangerous wacko, there are a thousand lurking admirers.

P.S. I'm an American who has been reading your blog for a few years, and I always enjoy your Canada posts. They are very patriotic, which is something I admire because I am patriotic too. But I have never once noticed a serious slight to Americans - and I'm pretty sure I would have if there was one.

and yet another lurker -- from the US -- Steph, I love your blog and your writing. Keep it up, and don't let her get you down. Remember that you are successful and a good parent and an all around wonderful person who deserves all the good things in life.

I am so sorry for this loon who is stalking you and make no mistake she is a stalker. As someone else said please make sure the authorities in Toronto and her town are made aware of this behavior. I would even contact the FBI and Homeland Security in the USA and the Canadian equivilants since this is an international thing. Sometimes ignoring a mentally ill person makes them try even harder to get your attention. You are a better person than I and as a Michigander I LOVE Canada and Canadians are good peeps.

Wowie wowie wow. My stomach has cramps for you. What a blight. I can hear in your tone how burdened you are. :( Thank you for telling us though.

Wow, I was holding my breath reading that post. I really thought you were going to pull the blog for awhile there. Stephenie, We love you and this blog so much! You are a light in my knitting day. I love your humour and I am American! Thanks for letting this off of your shoulders some tiny bit and for taking a true high road with this. I think you are correct to shine some light on the subject for everyone. Please watch out for yourself and rest assured that 99 percent of us readers are so happy to "know" you. I really wish you a world of good especially now while you and Tina and all the other wonderful organizers make history at Sock Summit! Have a great time- I wish I was going, but maybe next time!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the fun of this blog, and all your books!!!

I am so sorry this has happened. I appreciate how you have responded. I look forward to giving you a smile at Sock Summit.

I am so sorry that you're dealing with something like this on top of everything else you're doing.

This American likes you just the way you are.

Hugs!

There are some really sick people out there, and I'm so sorry to hear that one of them is putting you and your family through all of this. Stay strong!

I hope that lady gets some treatment soon for whatever is wrong with her.

Stephanie - I'm so sorry you have to put up with this. I look forward to checking your blog every day because of the knitting, the humor, and the positive vibes. I think the other comments prove that there is an extremely diverse, extremely large group of readers who follow your blog for the same reasons. As crappy as it all feels, don't let it discourage you from sharing your thoughts and talents with us! What would we do without our Yarn Harlot?! You have my support all the way!

Oh Stephanie. Ugh. I am so sorry you have had to deal with this person.
I can't say how much I admire you for this post - I doubt I would have had as much grace under fire. It seems mad to me that the internet appears to give people permission to act so outrageously. I feel like my blog is my home, and I would never walk into someone's home and start verbally tearing it to shreds. I will never understand the impulse to dress someone down just because you can: if you don't like what someone has to say, you have the very simple escape of SIMPLY NOT READING THEIR BLOG!
But this, as many people have said, is surely a mental health issue.
Rest assured, for the handful of people who misunderstand you and can't see how honest, genuine, loving, tolerant of everyone and ethical you are, there are millions of people who do see you.
Keep being strong, and try not to give this woman any more of your energy or worry. Her ranting is only going to tarnish herself.
Enjoy your yarn, your beautiful family and the friends who love you.
Peace xo

Stephanie--Thank you for sharing your life with us, your Canadian life. How would I ever have known about pousin (sp?) without you!!! And I follow your tweets in the side bar and that is how this American first heard about Jimmy Carter's essay this week and googled to learn more. Thank you again. N

It is things like this that make me truly embarrassed to be American. I'm sorry that someone feels like they need to be so hurtful to such a wonderful individual. Hopefully her 'Jesus' will make her realize her wrongs, but I doubt she will even be willing to see it. Stay strong, stay safe and stay sane. We are all behind you. Love and Light from New Mexico.

As yet another american who thinks you are spiffy and wonderful, this woman is obviously a nutter. Perhaps she's one of the angry ranters who didn't get into the sock summit? Take care, and don't let it get you down :)

Oh, the slogging through the soup of life - sometimes it gets pretty messy - sorry you've had your heaping bowl full of that...

Here's some love...

and some light...

and a friendly hug

Keep being you - you're beautiful:)

I've read your blog for years, but I almost never comment. I did, however, want to say this: I am completely mortified at what this woman has done (is doing!). It offends me as a woman, a Christian, and an American. I will admit to being one who was a little stung by the Canada Day post. I had seen a couple of other famous Canadians who were, in my opinion, taking some digs at Americans on Canada Day, and I did prickle a bit. I even tweeted about feeling a little bashed on July 1 (in general, not by you specifically). Your post was by far the "softest" of the things that got to me that day, and I know enough about you from your blog to know that you were simply showing pride in your own country (as you should). I certainly don't think you were trying to insult anyone, and I knew I was already feeling a bit raw. It certainly was not enough to make me stop reading your blog, and it was *definitely* not enough to make me send you hate mail! For goodness sake, people! I follow your blog because I find you thoroughly entertaining. I love reading about your adventures, I love reading about how you live your life (because it is quite different from mine, which makes it interesting to me). And I don't even knit! But I'm always up for a good laugh, something you so often provide. Thank you for all that you do for your readers. I'm sorry this is what the generous sharing of your life had brought. "Light, love, respect." What an excellent mantra. The world would be a much better place if we all lived those three little words every day. Peace.

Oh Stephanie, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. Let me just say I am an American woman and she does not speak for me. You have my strength Stephanie! Hang on Girl!

I'm sorry you are having to deal with all this.

I haven't read all the other comments, but as someone who's been reading and loving your blog for many years now, I just wanted to add my voice of support. I love your blog, I love your writing, and I hope you keep up despite the antagonism. Be strong, and know that we are all (even us usually silent folks) behind you.

Oh, honey, this is bad. Make sure the police know and a lawyer too so you stay safe. A male friend of mine is trying to reconstruct his life and relationships after being victim of a stalker.

We love you, you inspire us with your knitting, and the way you live your life. It's obvious that you have a lot of love for your family and your art. Don't let the ravings of one sick person change the way you feel about yourself. Poor thing probably can't knit. She does not represent The Blog.

YH--I learned to knit because of you. I read your book, who knows which one at this point, & learned that it was OK to make mistakes and that one could be creative and color outside the lines. I picked up some needles and some very expensive yarn and have been knitting away for 15 months now. Obsessively reading your blog, your books, your twitters, and learning sooo much about much more than knitting. And going back and reading all the past Canada posts was a DELIGHT. and being originally from Georgia, I loved your two recent twitters about native son Jimmy Carter, and hate to claim him, Paul Broun.

Here is the deal. This person is consumed by the green eyed monster. Everyone loves you, buys your books, reads your blog, and I bet she is in some type of competition with you. Take jealousy and twist it with a little mentally off and that is a dangerous mix. TAKE CARE of you and yours, just keep blogging and we will keep shining our lights.
Someday I might learn how to knit a sock and get to come to some future sock summit, meanwhile loving voting on Dye for Glory.

I remember last year that someone took offense to your Canada Day post and at the time, I went back and re-read it and tried to be objective (I'm also Canadian) and I couldn't find anything wrong with it. Same with this years. I just don't get it. How can being proud to be Canadian be anti everyone else?

I know how the bad comments stay with you longer than the good ones but there are lots of us out there that love your work and will keep reading as long as you keep writing.

At least one pagan American is lighting a candle for you tonight, and sending good vibes and sincere hope for some peace in your direction.

Another American weighing in--she does not represent me in any aspect of the word "american." Delete her into eternity.........

Gee Stephanie, how sad you had to experience this. I read your blog off and on because I always find it a good read and like to see what you are knitting. When I am knitting I read it and when I am into embroidery I read those blogs. When you came to Denver I went to see you and bought your book. I love it and have read it several times. But you know something... politically, socially and religiously we are probably miles apart. So what, who cares, all that means is that we sure could have some fun, over a beer, arguing our views with each other. I am an American and I thought freedom of speech was one of those things we prided ourselves in. SHAME ON HER!!!

I'm sorry you've been dealing with this. That one is a full on nutcase.

Hopefully this is the end of it.

I also have not read all (167 when I started typing this) the previous comments. I just wanted to post about how much I enjoy reading your blog and sharing in the bits of your life that you post. I wanted to add my voice in appreciation and support for you:)

Don't lose sleep over this crazy person. I love your blog and look forward to every new post. The highlight of my knitting life was meeting you in Madison earlier this year. Keep doing what you do best... keeping us laughing, inspired and yearning for more of your wit. I am of many American's who adore you.

I am an American. I am a United States Marine. I am a woman with grit. Name Removed does not represent me; however, as one of her fellow countrymen I apologize for the harassment of a delusional woman who has inexplicably wrapped herself in the American flag.

I had the pleasure of meeting you at the 2006 Book Expo in DC. You were delightful and very sweet and took the time to speak with everyone despite the hordes of us vying for your attention.

Please know that there are tons of American Yarn Harlot fans. Keep your chin up and keep being true to yourself.

I am so sorry. As a US citizen and a Christian, I'm ashamed of her behavior.

If you're ever in Arkansas (or, heck, western TN or SE Missouri), I'll buy you a beer (or three).

Maybe some alpaca, too.

I'm just speechless.

You're absolutely correct - she thrives on the attention. But I am still concerned about the possibility of her being unbalanced mentally. What she is doing at this point is stalking, and it should be possible to get some sort of cyber (and physical) restraining order in place. You may need it. This is absolutely no joke. Please get the law involved.

I'm south of the border, also, and I've never perceived your delight in your country to be a way of putting down mine. I love your writing, I love your (for want of a better term) Internet morals - I always refer back to your living room analogy before commenting on someone's blog.

I think it is always shattering to find a knitter (of all people!) who is not playing nice. I hope you find some way of relegating this problem from "major life disrupter" to simply "minor annoyance."

Oh, and if you need a place to hide, my son's going to college next month. You can have his room. Plenty of space for yarn...

We love you! Hang in there!

DO NOT FEED THE TROLL.

As an American, first time commenter and admirer of you and your beautiful country, I echo so many of these positive comments. I read your blog every time you post. I love your sense of humor, your respect for ALL people, your energy, your creative spirit, you HUMANESS, your love for your family and your art.
I could go on about that person, I could say that this has almost moved me to tears that some stranger..or anyone would be so hurtful. I want to be charitable towards her, but I am finding it very difficult.
Keep on keeping on...you are loved and respected as all people should be.
Best to you...

I've disagree with you many times. Don't agree with your position on gauge and a few other of your knitting beliefs.

As a conservative Christian American, I say "So what if you lived in sin, married without religion and are a vegan?" We're not BFFs, you're a funny blogger who writes funny books about knitting. We will always have knitting in common. I'm a knitter who enjoys good humor. I also have the ability to separate my real life from the Interwebnetz. Imagine that.

And FOR THE RECORD, you are an American. Canada, last I checked, is still North America. So pttttptht to your troll.

I hope you've reported her violations of TOS to her ISP but I have a feeling your advisors are smart enough to have done that already.

I suppose I am another person who has been reading your blog for quite sometime and has chosen today to be my first comment. I am also an American, and I must say I love reading your blog, I adore your books, and I really hope this lets up for you. Stay strong!

I'm so sorry, this all sounds awful. Be strong!

YH...I read your blog every day..have for years. Your writing is meant to be light, but I tell you, lady, you've touched me many times. Hang in there. Leavin the light on for you!!!

How dreadful! Thank you for staying with us despite the nastiness. I admire your tenacity and strength.

may all who suffer the agony of mean thoughts be healed with love and compassion.

I'm another proud Christian American who respects you and your country. I have not seen anything anti-American in your Canada Day posts.
Live and let live.
Hugs.
M in M

Stephanie you are my hero. I am an American and I love you. You inspire me . Keep up the good work and know that your are loved.

This is the first time I've commented, but I had to join the stream of positive wishes. Bravo for your attitude - I've found it often takes more courage and strength to turn the other cheek, which you are doing so well.

What I know to be true in situations like these, and what I hope you can believe, is that the venom and poison this person is spewing comes from whatever is wrong inside of her and has nothing to do with you. You did nothing to provoke it, cause it, or prolong it. You cannot control what she is doing. And you absolutely do not deserve it, nor does it contain any kernel of application to you or your life.

I too am de-lurking to give my support; I love your blog, and your books (and yes, I am a Christian living in the US!). Light, love and respect. Hang in there. :)

OMGoodness Stephanie, I'm sorry that you have to deal with a headcase who obviously has no life except to torment others. I'm so glad that you are taking steps to eliminate this person from your life.

I have enjoyed reading your blog and books for sometime now, and I really appreciate your outlook on both knitting and life in general. As an American, I really like your comments on life in Canada and observations of life in America.

Rock on girl!! Keep on blogging - we're all behind you!!

I post every once and a while, and I have to say I'm horrified by this "woman"'s behavior. I agree with Carol and Jan in their comments particularly, because stalking is illegal, even over the internet, and this person needs to be brought to justice for her actions.

As an American (well, a Michiganian which may not count since we border Canada ;o)) I have to say that she is a stereo-typical American who does not understand the Constitution. Freedom of speech means that everyone gets to state their opinions, even if one does not agree.

I'd also like to add that the behavior of this person is the reason why I went away from Christianity because I just saw un-Christian-like behavior being performed by so-called Christians. I don't know you personally, just from your blog, and I must say that you seem to act more Christian-like than she currently is.

Go have a beer and consult your lawyer after Sock Summit.

Stephanie, so sorry you're being picked on by this tiresome person. I enjoy your blog and your books very much. I think that garter stitch blanket is calling you...or maybe a little work on the pretty green beaded sock? Many friendly, warm, and woolly vibes from a crocheter who is learning KSL (Knitting as a Second Language)

Steph, as usual you are the picture of grace and dignity even in the face of, well, the opposite. I was so afraid as I read your post that you had decided that it was time to call it a day. My world would shrink greatly if you did, but knowing you no longer had to deal with personal attacks by loons would make the loss bearable.
hugs to you and your family

Hugs and sympathies. Stalkers can be pretty scary. Stay safe, and let the joy of all the support everyone is sending you wash this sucker right out of your mind.

We like to think of knitters as a small community and that we are all kind wonderful people brought together by the joy and love of knitting but unfortunately we get all kinds.

I am dealing with a totally unreasonable person like this in my life too. She thinks that another person and I have ganged up on her and are passing vicious lies about her. I think she needs something to be pissed off about so that she doesn't have to deal with her own lackluster life.

It's sad and unfortunate that both these women are wasting their time (time that could be spent so much more efficiently and perhaps with people they care about) when this is all a big misunderstanding.

Have to agree with Lou, we are all knitters, who just happen to live in different places on our planet. And what's wrong with a little local pride, be it, neighbourhood, community, province/state/region or country? There are great things about everywhere!! Be strong, hold your head high, you have much to be proud of..and don't stoop to respond to that level of behaviour. And I would also concur...call the authorities!!!

Stephanie, I am so behind you. It is extremely sad that you and your family have had to put up with the 'crap' as long as you have. I look forward to your blog and books...love you like a sister...take care.

Stephanie,
As an American woman and knitter who has never before left a comment on your blog, I felt compelled to let you know that I find you both endearing and inspiring. If more people were like you I think the world would be a better place. Keep up the awesomeness!

Hi Steph,

All countries have their loonies, some good loonie some bad loonie.

I'm sorry that people in the public eye sometimes become targets and I'm sorry that's happened to you.

Regards,
Kathy

Whoa! I can't imagine how much you've had to deal with during these weeks. No one deserves to be stalked and abused like that. And you are right, an eye for an eye just creates a vicious cycle of problems. I wish you a speedy resolution to this. Good luck!

I'm an American living in Oz now and cringe when I see "ugly American" behavior as shown by this obviously demented and disgusting woman. I am so sorry you have been subjected to this idiot.
I've been a long time reader of your blog and have laughed and cried with you and learned a lot along the way.
"Good on ya" as they say down under. No wonder you have so many of us who love and respect you. I hope you continue to share your amazing life with us for many more years.

Bless your heart, Stephanie. (That's "Southern" for "poor dear," by the way) You don't deserve this at all, and I hope you remember that throughout all of this.
I'd like to reiterate what others have already said: this isn't about you, it's about *her* It's a common practice for unhappy people to "project" their feeling about themselves onto others, and this is clearly what is happening here. You're a wonderful mother and all-around great gal, and your family is lucky to have you.
I have to wonder if this woman's family (if she has one - hard to make assumptions about someone you know nothing about) is happy about her habit of spending hours on the internet trolling for "anti-American" knitting blogs...
So keep your head up, try to disengage from the negative back-and-forth (I know it's especially hard when you feel the need to deny the obviously false claims, but it is essential for ending the conflict) and don't be afraid to vent your feelings in a safe way - I recommend writing a nasty letter out on paper, then shredding/burning it. Works wonders for me when I'm annoyed with my holier-than-thou roommate.
And as for you losing fans over this... I highly doubt it, but I think I'll move one of your books from my wish list to my shopping cart in honor of your "dear friend."

Peace and Love

and pardon my arrogance at saying I'm an "American." I should have said U.S. citizen. Why are so many of us so self focused? I know better.

Enjoy your Sock Summit!

I shall not speak of that which you wish us to not speak of...

Yours truly,
A knitting American -- because of the Knitting Olympics! :)

wow! sorry for all your trouble, who'd have ever thunk a knitting blog could cause wwIII?! I like your blog, and I'm an American- proud to be an American but sure not proud of that lunatic. I will pray for you, I think you have a crazy stalker and personally I would be very frightened. I sure hope that person will stay far far away from you. Good luck and stay strong.

First: I love your blog.
Second: Good for you for standing up for yourself.
Third: It is always wise to know what the enemy is doing.

I've dealt with folks like this before. (A family member in fact.) The most important thing is to be consistent and keep maintaining the boundaries you've created. Give an inch and a mile and then some, will be taken. But if everyone consistently keeps ignoring her, she will get tired and find somthing else to get hot and bothered about. Though it may take a long time.

Hey sweet knitting sister, I think you are fabulous. I have actually given a copy of free range knitter to my daughter with postit note on the chapter about your daughter's birthday. I thought it was precious, and you are too. Stay above the fray. The high road is best, and maybe this crazed human will change her ways. Or maybe not. But you dear Stephanie are loved and prayed for. You are a gift to the knitting planet. :-)

Sending you lots of love and strength.
Stay strong and continue being a star that shines brightly!

I hope it's all over soon. Sending you a big hope-to-make-you-feel-better hug your way.

Oh, Steph, I'm so sorry. Thank you for maintaining your sanity in the face of unbalanced harassment. Your writing convinced me to try knitting socks, and I have even gone so far as to knit lace. I thank you for knitting and writing bravely, to (very loosely) paraphrase EZ.

(Seriously? Canada Day? I love your Canada Day posts. How odd.)

Every country has their share of disturbed people. Let everyone know and don't be quiet about it! Expose this person. Call and involve all agencies that can help you in this.

She mentioned Jesus in her email to you but she obviously must not follow the WWJD?(What Would Jesus Do?)way of thinking about dealing with the life matters that we all have to deal with.Did she not get a space at SS09?Did she hear someone else complain about our country?I just don't understand.I am so sorry you have dealt with this for so long almost by yourself.Just know that there are far more of us that love you for you and are sending you good vibes from America.

Dearest Steph:

I have to say, I am stunned. Stunned by what has been going on, and stunned by your strength in the face of it. It seems you are handling this with as much grace as anyone could. Doubly impressive with the hugeness that is the Sock Summit barreling down upon you. I must say, you have many many qualities I aspire to develop in myself.

More power to you, Stephanie. I've met you twice at book signings, and now I'm more honored by the experience than ever.

Keep being strong and fair and brilliant. I'll be sending good karma and prayers in your direction, and a little fortitude to finish The Blanket as well.

I am stunned. I am a long time reader but rarely post. I am so sorry that you have had to put up with such madness. I hope that you know she does not represent Americans or Christians (of which I am both) with her hatefulness. You are strong and have many, many, behind you. (hug)

I've read your blog for a while, but this is my first time posting. I'm behind you completely. I have never seen an anti-American sentiment on your blog, don't believe you have it in you. I look forward to your posts to get a chuckle, be entertained or learn. Thanks so much for what you do. There are way more of "us" that her, we won't listen to a thing she says. Take care!

While this feels personal, it is truly not about you. Whatever the issue is, it is not really about disrespect for nationality or religion; that is the camouflage that hides the button-pushing. As the steward of your blog, it is not hypocritical to delete hateful comments, or to do what you need to protect yourself.

Like most readers, I read this blog because I am a part of the wonderful, world-wide community of knitters. Your blog illustrates just how influential you are in this community- for instance, the AMAZING fundraising for MSF. Unfortunately, success can make one a target. I appreciate all the good you do, and wish you the best in navigating this ugliness as you sail forward!

Oh Steph,
I have always felt an unreasonable sense of pride that you are Canadian, and it's awful that someone who, I believe, represents Canadian values so beautifully, has to be subject to this level of poison. People who shine the light are the objects of hatred by those who prefer the dark. I'm old enough to be your mother, and I wish I could protect you from this horror. You are a treasure, and a force of enormous good. Thanks for providing your wisdom and love to the rest of us. You are The Force.

Dear Stephanie,

I know I'm echoing the sentiment of several other commenters, but here it is anyway:

I love reading your blog entries. You are funny, creative, and endearing in so many ways.

I am an American, a Christian, and pretty conservative. Even though we are different, I have never felt disrespected by anything you have said on your blog. EVER.

You are proud of your country -- nothing wrong with that! You express your opinions and your positions, but you are always respectful of others who do not share them.

You are different from me... but you are my neighbor, and I will treat you with kindness and grace.

Oh, geez. Not to feed the troll or anything, but keep rockin' on with your bad self no matter what anyone says. You (obviously) don't need me to restate how wonderful you are, how much we all enjoy your blog, but. Well. You know.

And are you sure this is a woman? Only men consider 'pussy' to be the ultimate insult. Most (real) women just consider it a body part. :-)

Hi Stephanie, well this is horrible. I hate that she's saying all this stuff and spending so much time harassing you via comments and email, but mostly I hate the picture I'm getting of what it's doing to you - you're worrying that any minute she's going to be posting a comment and you have to watch out for that so you can delete asap; you worry about what you say on your blog since you can't help but see it through her eyes and worry what she might say. She is getting through your defenses and you are doubting yourself. Well, girl, stay strong. Here's a true reflection from me, a 41 yr old knitting, part-time-working, thinking, special-needs-parenting, singing woman: You are really funny. You are a cool knitter. You are a really good writer. And you give of your life on your blog, which helps people like me get through their own lives. (Thank you for all of that.) So take a deep breath, and carry on. love, Liz

I am so sorry that you have had to put up with abuse from this unstable whack-job. I am a huge Harlot fan and second all the love and support from the commenters today and also want to say; watch your back.

Wow. It's people like her who give Americans a bad name.

She is definitely mentally ill. She reminds me a lot of the person who was stalking me a few years ago. The only way I got him to stop was to have the police tell him that if he ever contacted me again in any way (email, blog, phone, mail...ANY WAY), that I would press charges. He still says horrible things about me on his blog (I don't read it anymore, but occasionally someone comes to my blog from one of his links, and I see the title of his blog post. Nasty stuff), but at least I don't get the emails and blog comments anymore.

Good luck to you, from an American knitter who's respectable enough, I figure.

(hug)

Steph,

We are all so very proud of you. As an American I have never felt insulted by you. I'm glad that you have come to us your blog about this. Please just be careful and don't listen to the inner critic too much. You are my absolute favorite blog. The one I read even on the days when it's painful physically to get online. Besides you are the "evil" soul who introduced me to sock knitting. (You should see the sock yarn non-stash) Now, I know I'm being a bit paranoid, but I do worry about your and your families safety, please be careful. We don't want to see you hurt emotionally or otherwise.

Please be careful and happy,

Stephanie, You have always taken the high road and you continue to take the high road. I join the others that are horrified by this person's actions and we know that YOU know she doesn't reflect the feelings of 1/1000000th of us. My only fear now is for your physical safety at SS. Though you'll be SURROUNDED by adoring fans.

Keep up your good work. You are setting a shining example for your daughters.

Stephanie, wow. I'm so sorry you have to put up with this type of crazy. Take care of yourself. You mention "the authorites" so I presume you have taken steps to ensure the relevant agencies are aware of the wingnut. Hopefully she will be crazy enough irl to make someone take notice and ensure she gets the help she needs.

First time posting. Crappy crappy crappy that you have to deal with this. I've been reading you for three or four years now and LOVE your blog. Keep up the excellent work, there's a light shining from Chicago for you.

Another lurker from the shadows here, keep your chin up, Stephanie! Have some wine and some good yarn, some people aren't worth thinking about.

Like many other comments today have said, I have been reading your blog for quite a while without commenting.

You have my deep sympathy and also my respect for how you have dealt with this difficult person. I'm sending you all the positive energy I can and I will be praying for the woman who has been causing all of this trouble.

Your generosity of spirit and higher-ground ethic is exactly why I don't blog -- I could never live up to your example. Besides, I'd rather spend my time reading your blog instead.

As a male muggle lucky enough to be married to an addict of all things knitterly I have to say that I've been reading your blog for several years now and even had the pleasure of meeting you at a book signing while back (though sadly I was on cranky-baby duty for the end of your talk). Even though I don't knit, I always enjoy reading your blog and books because they're about so much more than making complicated knots. What I get out of your writing is more about the people involved and you have so much class and decency (not to make you sound too serious) that it's hard to understand why anyone would do something that vicious to someone so genuinely nice.

So short story long, keep on being an amazing human being and thank you for sharing your life with us!

P.S. I loved your Canada Day post.

Hi Stephanie! As an American (although not a super-great Christian) I can tell you that this person does NOT speak for the rest of us. I can tell how hurt and upset you are by this, but maybe you can look at it as a sign of how popular and fabulous you are? it's the real icons who get the crazy stalkers, you know?
Take care!
Katherine

Stephanie,

I've never posted to your blog before but just wanted to let you know that I've always enjoyed reading it and I'm so sorry to hear about all the horse puckey this woman has put you and your family through. I love your blog and have for a while. Why would anyone who didn't bother to waste the energy?

Erika

Dude.

That is all.

Stephanie, I am so sorry you have had to go through all of this. I find it hard to imagine such meanness. Just the other day I was telling a friend how much I learn from you that has nothing to do with knitting--like info on the Canadian government hiatus this past January, the relative value of clean diesel and hybrid autos, and your recent post re: BC and the monster living in the lake there. When all these topics have come up in other sources I have felt that I had some background based on the blog. Keep up the good work. Carol

To honor the request of somebody I respect greatly, I promise that if I see negative comments such as you describe, I will not respond. I will limit my outrage to private discussions with my wife.

Stephanie, I am as fond as one can be of somebody I don't actually know. I am not even a knitter, but you engage me always.

With unashamed great public affection to you, and all you are, and all you do.

As a friend once told me, it's not that it *takes* all kinds, it's just that we *have* all kinds...

Another first timer commenting in support. This American will never be offended by your obvious love of country. I am, however offended by ugly Americans.

I think my "favorite" part is about how all the respectable knitters are distancing themselves from you. Because, you know, you don't have just about every famous knitter in the free world about to get together for a big massive Sock Summit that 30,000 people tried to register for simultaneously. Right.
I'm a counselor in an American elementary school, and I make sure to talk about internet bullying with my older kids. It's very true what you said...people are willing to say so much more on the internet, because it can be anonymous. You don't have to see the other person's reaction. You can type, hit send, and then go on about your day, without having to think about how the person on the other end might feel.
I personally enjoy your posts about Canada. I enjoy learning about different cultures, and I don't feel that being a proud Canadian means that you're anti-American. I greatly admire the way you are handling this whole situation, and I hope that it dies down soon.

It's so depressing that she announces she's doing these terrible things to defend Americans. I vote to exile her to Antarctica, without any yarn.

Ditto to RachelH's comment. You are amazing! I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this.

Sorry this happening to you. Respect and admiration from New Jersey!

Hugs, love, and Light.

That kind of behavior is just inexcusable, especially towards a nice person like yourself. I have no tolerance for bullies myself, and refuse to feed trolls on the internet, because that's what this person is. Much love and light to you! And good for you for sticking up to her! (writing from TX, btw) :)

Sorry you are having to deal with such a person. I am an American, a Christian and a BIG fan of yours. It makes me so sad when someone such as her can give other Americans and Christians a bad reputation, please know that we are not all the same as this unreasonable unstable stalker (who I hope can be stopped and dealt with through legal means).
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Stephanie, I am an American woman (Christian) living in Canada who knits and reads your blog everyday. I totally enjoy what you write, and have never found anything you wrote offensive. You're taking the right track--we'll all promise to ignore this wild woman, and just keep on enjoying you and your talents and wit!!!
Louise in Alberta

I appreciate your bravery and am sorry you've had to go through so much. Please continue writing. I enjoy reading your blog so much. Thank you for calling for respect and love in the blogosphere. I think it's possible. I'm sorry you're having to shoulder the burden for decent discourse at this time.

I read your post and my immediate response was "What the....?? How could someone spend so much time being a tool?"

I echo pretty much every other post that says keep doing what you are doing. We enjoy having someone as knitting obsessed as we are (even if we just lurk:)

good luck and remain awesome!

I'd like to second the suggestion to read "The Gift of Fear" which IIRC talks extensively about stalkers. Hang in there and stay safe!

I used to work for a congressman. This sort of thing used to come up everyday. She strikes me as a fairly lonely, and probably mentally ill individual. Best of luck to you (and her member of congress/senators - I'm willing to bet they get their fair share of her mail too).

oh my.
(((hug)))

One more previous lurker chiming in with love and respect from California--thank you for all the inspiration, laughter, tears, and insight you've given me over the years!

Wow. I wasn't aware that being proud of one's country and vocalizing that pride aloud automatically meant one was anti- all other countries. I imagine that would also come as a surprise to the rest of the country whose flag she's hiding behind so she can harass and abuse other people. See, I've read the Bible, and I don't recall the Hebrew god protecting the nation of America.

Speaking of scripture, I don't remember the part where Jesus tells his disciples it's okay to persecute anyone talking smack about their country, or even different gods. Was it somewhere in the Sermon on the Mount, after "blessed are the meek" and "the peacemakers" and "the merciful"? Or was it when Jesus stated that the second most important commandment was to "love they neighbor as thyself"? I'm not sure - it's such a long book! I'm probably just missing it somewhere in there among all the "forgive those who transgress against us" bits. But I'm sure that the lady in question is well aware of all this, being a good Christian and American as she says she is. I'm sure she'll set me straight.

Sorry you're having to deal with this; in my limited experience via other people's word-of-mouth and your efforts for a lot (a LOT) of different charities, organizations and causes, tells me that you are living a more "Christian" life than she is, as far as I can tell.

I am another U.S. citizen that is beyond shocked at this person's behavior. I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Please believe that to the majority of us US obsessive-knitting people you are an icon! And if we were to know each other personally,I bet you would be a damn fine friend too!

Stephanie, the way you are handling this (in a kind, calm, RATIONAL manner), shows the kind of person you are. Her clearly irrational behavior indicates her character as well. You are right; reacting to this kind of thing only feeds it, unfortunately. We all want to rush to your defense, but it would only make it worse in the long run. Please, PLEASE be careful. Please make this known to the legal authorities. We all love you dearly. Your wit has made my day lighter many times.

Dear Stephanie, I am an American woman (Christian) living in Canada who knits and reads your blog everyday. I totally enjoy what you write, and have never found anything you wrote offensive. You're taking the right track--we'll all promise to ignore this wild woman, and just keep on enjoying you and your talents and wit!!!
Louise in Alberta

Stephanie, I am so very sorry that you have to go through all of this. While I'm an American, I have an uncle who is Canadian. I personally love your Canadian day posts--it just makes me want to visit. Stay strong and hug the girls and Joe. Not all of us are quacks. I've learned so much from you blog. Susie from Columbus Ohio

Sending much love and light to you and your wonderful family (who could look at those amazing young women and doubt your parenting?). Also sending love and light to this poor, poor woman. May she find the strength to focus on her own life and problems for a while and be freed of the need to spew such darkness.

I tear up a little when I read this, as I know I could never handle a hurtful person as nobly as you are handling her. I hope with time she simply fades away. Don't take anything to heart!

Steph - I am so sorry you & yours have had this weighing on you for the better part of the past month. Don't ever forget how much Steve & I love you personally and professionally, how much our customers do (remember the 1200 that showed up and nearly caused a riot in the store?) and I can't speak on behalf of all Americans but I think a vast majority of American knitters pretty much think you rock the free freakin' world.

xoxo

kathy
webs america's (yeah AMERICA's) yarn store

Lots of hugs, smiles, and laughter being sent to you, your family, and your friends right now when you need them most. You've made me laugh right out loud and have lifted my day when it's been dark & dreary(we've all had those days). I am proud to be a Yarn Harlot fan from Massachusetts! (hey...can we get buttons / t shirts for that???) :D

You have this American's support. I may not always agree with what you say but as long as you hold to the boundaries of good taste (which you certainly have, Stephanie) you have every right to say it. Hold your head up high. You've done nothing to deserve this (or any)level of vitriolic attitude.

You mean Canada's not part of America?! I'm flabbergasted! ;)

For the record, I just started knitting seriously in the past year, picked up one of your books, and found it invaluable - and a bit reassuring to realize I wasn't crazy just because I liked to play with string. You've provided an invaluable service to so many people - please don't let one nutjob discourage you.

Oh, Stephanie. I am so sorry you are going thru this. Light overcomes darkness and Love is stronger than hate. This poor soul is obviously deeply disturbed, but to make you suffer because of it is awful. I pray she gets some professional help and you get some peace.

Unbelieveable. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. As am American and a Christian I am embarrassed for this person. I am also concerned for you. We have laws to protect victims from stalkers...that's what she is. Protect yourself and your family and get the authorities involved.

Sending you hugs and prayers.

I am so sorry. I hate that she's an American. As an American myself, it embarrassing. But, don't listen to her, and don't listen to your inner voice (or at least not when it sounds like her), listen to us, your faithful readers and internet friends. We love you! No, really. WE LOVE YOU! And we are not going anywhere.

Just let me send this cosmic stinky fart in her direction.... all done.

You've got a 10-4 all clear from me!!

(ps, lots of love coming your way from your nutty Jacksonville girls)

This made me sick to my stomach. I'm so sorry you've been dealing with such a layer of humanity.

I'm sending some good vibes your way.

Also, thanks for being awesome in the face of adversity. You are a lesson in the art of grace.

Stephanie, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. You reach a really wide audience and when you reach so many people there is bound to be a sick one in there.

I'm glad you are talking to authorities. Keep blocking her IP address. I also would recommend not responding to her... ever again.

Oh honey, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. Folks who brag about being "Christian" and "American" contexts like these make both Christians AND Americans look bad.

But you can't fix crazy.

I'm GLAD you're proud of Canada. I'd think less of you if you WEREN'T. However, I have sense enough to know that when a Canadian is proud of their country, that doesn't mean that America is lessened thereby. Jeezopete -- who thinks that???

She should be glad you're not willing to unleash your minions on her. Something like this could happen:
http://consumerist.com/5322539/internet-trolls-trash-tardy-chest+thumping-monitor-shipper

Internet vigilante-ism can be scary. Better not to go there.

(And BTW, I'm lots handier than my husband too. But bless his heart, he's learning. I trust him with tools now, and only feel the need to supervise a little.)

Ugh--I have heard of this sort of behavior before but to read the words is still ugly and shocking. Please don't hesitate to get a restraining order.

I'm an American (and a pagan, the horror!) and live not far from the border. I LOVE Canada. It is an awesome place. I love your Canada Day posts. And I think you are totally awesome. Please don't let that little voice inside you run with these ugly words. Hold your head high and think of how many people are sending you love and light. As am I!

steph! you are a dear! funny, feminist, an excellent writer and a fantastic parent. Pay attention to the 276 good comments and not to the one crazy!

Wow. I am so sorry that someone from my country would accuse you of such things. I am the type of person who believes that it doesn't matter where someone comes from, it is only the caliber of their character that matters. This person is clearly a toxic person. The kind of person that sets out to destroy your ego in any way they can. I know she keeps rubbing Americans in your face as if we are all this way, but I know you've been here (and are coming here for Sock Summit) and you've met the kind of wonderful, supportive, and smart people who live, work, and knit here. I hope that you do not let this person get the best of you. We have never met face to face, but I know that you are a good person and no self righteous maniac should be able to take your self esteem away from you. I am not the praying type, so I will say this, I am sending good vibes your way. This too shall pass.

So sorry you're having to deal with this insanity. It's obvious you've done everything you can to handle this with class and dignity. Hope everyone else takes your lead. Love to you and your family.

Steph,

I'm embarrassed that this person is an American. One thing I can tell you is that she is NOT a Christian no matter what she thinks!

I enjoy reading your blog; in fact I check it daily. I’ve never been offended by anything that you’ve posted. I may not agree with everything but… you have the right to your opinion as much as I have to mine. And as far as being proud of your country, that’s great. I’ve learned a lot about Canada and would love to visit some of the places that you’ve posted about. Please don’t let this deranged person get you down. You are a gifted and talented writer and she’s probably jealous that she is not in your caliber.

Dear Stephanie,
As a Canadian living in the US, reading about all this just made me sad and tired. But, scrolling through all these supportive and loving comments, I`ve been heartened, and I expect you will be, too.
Thanks for your Canada Day posts, for reminding me of all the reasons why I love my `home and native land.` And thanks for bringing a little bit of Canada to Austin recently. You were, and are, awesome.

Just wanted to chime in (as a maybe one-time-ever poster, long time reader), that I think you're great! Funny, clever, smart as heck, and you write fabulous books and a fabulous blog. Americans for Yarn Harlot! Sorry that you are having to deal with the scary crazy lady. (((Hugs))) We all have the critical inner voice that is afraid of what others think of us. That woman does not speak for us.

Love and peace to you, from an agnostic (very nearly anti-American) American (not to mention all of the other horrifying things I am - black, queer, liberal, etc).

http://allwittyknitty.blogspot.com

What a horrible experience! I'm another reader from the US who is baffled at her accusations and horrified at her behaviour and threats.

The woman sounds very unbalanced and potentially dangerous.

I don't know what the laws are like in Canada, but when I dealt with an internet stalker some years ago in the US it was taken very seriously by law enforcement. I urge you to make sure her behaviour is fully documented with law enforcement both in Canada and the US -- both for your own protection and to get her the help she needs.

I'm sorry and embarrassed that she's an American. I love your writing - I was afraid you were going to say you were going to stop blogging. I think you should get some legal advice to see what can be done to stop her. Know that you have many, many fans and some of us are somewhat sane!

I'm another one that keeps up with your blog. I also have every single book of yours that's been published...and even the calender. I'm also an American and am just stunned, like everyone else, at the shocking behavior of this person. I sincerely hope you read each and every comment you've received here. They choked ME up with the support and caring and they weren't intended for me. It's obvious you are loved, Stephanie, by your family, your friends and certainly your fans. Stay strong, honey. You've done the right thing by letting those who love you know what you're up against.

I am so proud of you! I don't know how you find the restraint. A reminder to us all to try to be better people. Hang in there...sending you good thoughts and prayers (my God rolls like that!).

I second the book recommendation to read The Gift of Fear-- it has entire chapters dedicated to celebrity stalking and violence, and while I'm sure you think of yourself as a humble knitting blogger, you are also a very public figure. Frankly, her comments make her sound unhinged and dangerous, and it sounds like she's making not-so-veiled threats against you. Please be careful. And remember: it is not about you, nothing you did provoked this person. But you may be able to take steps to stop the situation from continuing to escalate. Please: read the book.

Just wanted to say - I'm an American and a Christian, and I am sorry and ashamed to see someone claiming to speak from both positions saying things that would make a true American, and a true Christian deeply ashamed. (I feel like *my* country has been misrepresnted by this person - ugh)

Stephanie, I have been a regular reader and rare poster to your blog for several years now and have all your books - you have given me many, many hours of pleasure and I thank you for every one of them. The Internet brings so many blessings in the ability to communicate widely. It is deeply depressing when someone uses that ability to express only hate.

Another "long time reader, first time poster" stepping forward to show my support and admiration!

Stephanie....

My heart goes out to you as I try to begin to grasp how painful this process must be. Another American Christian here who really enjoys every minute of the blog, including all of your Canadian posts. It's been such a pleasure to learn more about our northern neighbors--they just don't teach enough of it here in school. Many hugs and hopes for a swift resolution for this.

I'm so sorry, Stephanie. Sending hugs, love and everything else nice/supportive your way. I think you are one class act.

Okay, I'm all for shining the light and explaining what's happening. And I get that people are showing their support for you. But for all the commenters who think this woman is mentally ill, think again. She's a fanatic, but not necessarily mentally ill. As someone who is mentally ill, I resent the fact that you think this is what mentally ill people do. Guess what, we live and work right beside you and you wouldn't even guess we were mentally ill unless we told you, which we don't, because then you put us in the same category as this woman.

Stop calling her names, and call it for what it is. A highly fanatical person.

A proud American who is 100% behind you, Steph. I'll honor your request, and I'm so sorry you've had to go thru this...
(((((hugs)))))

Oh good lord...really? Who has the time and energy for this sort of nonsense? Thanks for letting us know what's up despite how difficult I know it was to throw it all open.

Dear Stephanie-

Like many other readers, I'm a lurker who is commenting for the first time to let you know how much I respect you. I only learned to knit this past October, and from nearly the beginning you have been part of my knitting experience. Your books make me laugh out loud, help me get through the heartbreaking projects, and your blog never ceases to entertain.

Thank you for sharing your life with me, and all your other readers. And thank you for being strong through all of this.

Much Love,

Hali

Stephanie,
I am SO sorry for what you've been going through! I am an American, and I have never felt patronized or insulted by ANYTHING you have said! I appreciate your talent, your humor, your love of knitting and your support of your fellow humans on this planet. Whoever this person is has some sort of mental issue (perhaps she's bipolar or schizophrenic), or lacks the intelligence to value the fact that we live on a planet with many various views, opinions, talents, etc. PLEASE keep doing what your're doing, because there's alot more love for you than this b@#&* will ever know! Sorry for the long post, but stalkers bring this out in me ;0)

Hey Stephanie

I don't know if anybody else I know could've stayed so tolerant under such treatment. You are a wonderful parent, knitter, writer, and human being, and it makes me sad when other people don't realize that.
Sending you good wishes and thoughts from California,

-Emily

Holding you in the light dear woman and a bit reluctantly will hold name removed in the light as well. Many many thanks for sharing so much life/love/humor with us. XOX!

To have so much anger is very sad and I'm sorry that she has made you her whipping girl. Nobody deserves that. Do NOT let it get you down - look at all these posts. I hope this person can eventually see that she is really only hurting herself and get some help, as this must show up in other aspects of her life as well.
Keep on blogging and writing and knitting. Big hugs!
Julie

Crazy comes in all nationalities, I'm so sorry to hear some of ours has chosen to inflict itself on you. Strength to you and your family from all who love you.

Wow. I will always hold firm my belief, that you are a far better person than I am. This just cements it. I would've sent nasty hate mail back, knowing full well it would just fuel the fire.. and when it got to this, I'd have pulled the plug on the blog and had a good cry. You however, have the Grace and Dignity and Strength that I can only hope to strive towards. How brave of you to put this all out here for us to read. I hope you had a beer and a lie down after. ((hugs))

Sending peaceful thoughts and love from down south in Alabama. Keep your head up and stay safe.

Stephanie, YOU are the best. Rising above this and acting like an adult, thank you for enlightening us so we will and do not feed this chicks demented mind. Please remember she is only one and there are tons of us out here with
GREAT respect and admiration.

We love you Stephanie. Like others have said, it's awesome that you are proud to be Canadian. Don't stop writing about it, especially not on Canada Day. Doing so does not make you Anti-American. If anyone were to write about how great the US was on the Fourth of July, they would have every right too, and it does not make that person a hater of every other country out there.
More than that, even if you were Anti-American, so what? Not everyone has to love the US. People who think so are delusional. I live in the US. I like living here, but I'm not so crazy as to think that everyone else in the world should love the US and it really does not bother me in the least if they don't. That's stupid. They SHOULD be patriotic about their own country and not give a rat's ass about the US.
If you wanted to write so-called, "Anti-American" comments on your own blog, go for it. Who are we to say different? It's your blog, do what you want. If people get offended, they are waaaay too sensitive.

I applaud your maturity and strength in this situation. You rock. Don't change a thing.

"Keep calm and carry on," as the Brits say... Sending lots of good vibes your way!

I hope this mentally ill person gets help and stops lashing out at you. Making this situation public was a good idea; I'm glad to send my support for you to stay strong in the face of this demon.

There is no limit to the crazy that can be found on the internet. It was bound to happen sooner or later, though that doesn't make it any easier. I am so sorry you are dealing with this, Stephanie. Know that your thousands of fans support you and love you and your writing. I personally don't plan on letting the lunatic ravings of an apparently mentally deranged individual keep us from supporting you!

WOW, unbelievable, someone needs to check themselves...

I would consider this harassment, and not only would I block her, I'd find a way to press charges.

Hugs.

Another person who is commenting for the first time. You inspire me by being sensitive and gentle with someone who is clearly unbalanced. Thank you for reminding me what it looks like to shine light.

Sending love from America.

That's horrible! I am so sorry you have had to go through this. We all love you so much and I can't imagine why anyone would do such a thing not only to you but to any other person. I am always amazed by the crazies of the world and the hurt they cause. Know you are loved and supported by your many, many fans!

Dear YH, just one more American knitter who wants to say YOU GO GIRL. You are handling this beautifully. Shame on her. I hope you can feel all the loving energy pouring your way!

To you, Stephanie, I send all my "Light, Love and Respect". To the woman that is bullying you, I can only send pity. What venom must be inside her that it spills out toward you in such a manner?

I look forward to your posts daily. You are such a giving person to share your life, your humour and your knowledge with us all. Today you share your immeasurable grace. You are handling this situation so much better than many would. A phrase I used the other day when dealing with a minor upsetting situation comes to mind "The air is sweet, clear and unpolluted when one walks the high road". I wish you much sweet fresh air and selfishly hope you continue to share your gifts with us all.

I think it is safe to say that I, and those that have commented will defend you in our hearts but refrain (per your wishes) to do so with our keyboards.

Brava, Stephanie! Another Christian American woman (just not an insane, obsessed one) who has long admired your work, and your honesty on the hard work of parenting. In fact, I may have to go buy another of your books, just because this woman has painted me with her crazy brush, giving "Christian American" a bad name. I hope the authorities are able to help, because no one should be able to cause so much hurt and problems and get away with it.
We stand with you, and we love you.

I can't for the life of me figure out how anyone could decide that quoting other people (including Americans!) have said about Canada, is somehow proof of your taking a rude and anti-American stance.

In my opinion, the woman is obviously demented as well as traumatized and ought to spend more time with her therapist and less time thinking about and writing to you.

I crocheted until I picked up one of your books at a yarn shop, and learned to knit because of your enthusiasm for it. I will always be in your debt for introducing me to knitting, which has become my dearest comfort in life. Thank you, Harlot. You're a classy and funny lady.

I agree with others, this individual is not well. There is never a time when vitriol such as this is warranted. I hope that someone who knows her and is aware of this situation may step in with some guidance.

And, to be truthful, if she is a "Christian" I think she must have skipped all the parts in the New Testament about Jesus. You know, that guy who was all about Love? Maybe she needs a refresher course or two...

What a brave strong woman you are.

For the record, the humor in your books works for me ;) I hope to see more of it, and soon!

Just know that this so called Christian American is a disgrace and is unfortunately loud enough to be heard and its this type of behavior that gives us a country a bad rep. :)

I am so sad and so sorry you are being treated this way. You and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers. It is a sad symptom of our decaying society that people who achieve prominence are often the target of obsession and irrational anger.

I would also recommend you preserve a copy of each e-mail and each comment prior to deletion. Law enforcement might be interested. If at any time you feel frightened, I would speak to law enforcement and find out what your options are.

Love. Peace. And pudding. Everything is better with pudding.

I don't comment here normally but WOW! Just had to step up and let you know that I am, like many others who have posted, embarrassed that an american, a woman, or actually a being from this planet would be so hateful.

Sending you warm thoughts.

I want to thank you for the information and inspiration your blog and books have provided me. My favorite posts were about the wool stealing squirrel. The picture of a squirrel in a Fair Isle sweater just about made me fall out of my chair. And then the look in his beady little eyes when you solved the problem. Perhaps you should print the picture and keep it with your computer to make you smile. Hang in there.

Wow. Just wow. As an American and Christian, i can say that she's not a fair representative of the population. i love Your books and Your blog - and i admire Your patience and restraint. Hang in there!

First of all, as an American and a Christian, I've never been offended by anything you've written. In fact, I had missed the Canada Day post, and in reading it now, I found myself laughing out loud (ah, that Al Capone... quite the character).

I'm really rather ashamed that I share some commonality with this person. I'm also rather horrified that she calls herself a Christian woman with a sense of pride when she goes about writing such venom. I almost wish she could take a step back and see herself and what she's doing... but the self-righteous always seem to have fun house mirrors that never reflect themselves the way others see them.

The problem is hers and hers alone. Do what you can to block her way, but don't let it consume you. Most of us have been on the internet long enough to know a troll when we see one. I just wish you didn't have to deal with it in the first place.

One of the reasons I read your blog is the way you live your principles. Thank you for yet another example of walking your talk.

Also, please keep giving us a window into Canadian life.

What Rachel and Tina said. Good on yer, and you have, as always, my full-throated (or, in this case, silent) support.

WOWZA! What a nutjob that woman is. I always find it fascinating when people purport to be Christians and then attack others. As a lifelong Southerner, we have a great phrase that you might find some comfort in when you think of trying to reason with this woman, trying to communicate with her on a rational level is "like trying to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig."

Hey Steph,

You're everything I'd raise my kids to be, and all that I aspire to as a human being.

From all us homos in the U.S., hugs and feather boas. Mwah.

Oh wow. I am so sorry that this has been happening! As an American, I am utterly ashamed that this person could act in such a way. I know you know that not all of us are like that, but still! Honestly, her language and delivery sound very much like a family member of mine who has a mental illness. I'm behind you all the way!

What a horrible situation to find yourself in. There is some great advice here - especially about checking on ways to protect yourself and your family and to read "The Gift of Fear." Stay safe!

I am so sorry that you and yours have had to endure this. I don;t often comment but wanted to take this chance to thank you for sharing all your humor, stories and overall good nature with us. As an American (albeit of Alaskan origins), I've always loved your Canada Day posts.

Sending you thoughts of strength and light. :)

As a Christian and an American, I am broken-hearted about this harassment. I will pray for you, your family, and this woman.

This American is very sorry you're having to deal with this. Apologies.

Oh, dear, Stephanie. How awful that you have had to deal with this. I can only echo what others have said -- you are dealing with this with your usual grace and dignity. Thank you for continuing to write, and please, as others have also said, stay safe.

Oh, and that inner voice? It doesn't take much to trigger it. However, your many, many supporters, to say nothing of your publisher (and royalty checks!), and your many offers to speak all around the US should hopefully help put it back in its little locked box!

Big hugs from Cape Cod, MA!

I cannot let this pass without comment. Kudos to you, Stephanie, for your class, your grace under pressure, your well-thought-out responses and handling of the situation. I'm glad you've contacted the authorities...and that's all I'll say about that. Thank heavens you know that this woman does not speak for all of us south of the border. The loudmouths do not speak for us.

Thank you for the education we so desperately need about our closest neighbors! I adore your posts about Canada and feel like weeping for those among us who will never know the beauty of loving more than one country or culture.

Dear Lady-

Yet another US citizen who is horrified by the "person" harassing you. I have been reading your blog for nearly 2 years and it is one of the highlights of my day. Many a night I have stayed up reading your books and laughing to myself, much to the irritation of my non-knitting spouse. Please do not let this nut case stop you from doing what you love. Keep your family safe and yourself strong.

I'm Pagan and I hope you won't mind, but I'm lighting a candle tonight and asking my Matron Goddess, Brighid (who is the Celtic Goddess of the Arts and has a special affinity for wool workers, btw) to protect you and yours.

Blessings upon you,

Joan Keith of Southern California

Another lurker. Remember, for every mean, hateful person, there are about 25,000 who adore you and think you are awesome. You're popular for a reason, lady!

(big, non-creepy hug here)

Word.

P.S. You rock hard core, Stephanie. I don't know you in person, but I love you all the same.

Thank you for your openness and honesty. Thank you for loving your country publicly, and I apologize that one of my countrywomen has upset you this badly. I admire and appreciate your wit, your humour, and your writing.

I hope very much that you can enjoy the remainder of your weekend and as much time with your family as possible before heading to Portland for Sock Summit. I am unable to attend but can't wait to hear all the fantastic stories. I still hope to meet you in person one of these days.

We're all with you. The only explanation I can see for this kind of behavior is some form of mental illness, and I hope this person gets some help soon. Stand firm, and we'll stand with you. Love you!

Your blog is always a joy to read. I'm infuriated that you are being mistreated but I will follow your wishes. As an American I can say that you always make me laugh, teach me things (like what to do when my fiance burned his hand) and in instances like this inspire me to be peaceful. The way that you are handling this situation is noble and mature. I'm so sorry that you've been taunted and hurt by this person who clearly needs to fill a void in their life. I hope you know that many, many, many people that don't even know you love you a lot and wish you well. Keep your chin up.

How's the weather eh?

Mean people suck.

Emerging from deep lurk to send you my support! I am dumbfounded--truly dumbfounded-- by your experience, and admire your grace in a difficult situation. She certainly does not represent this Christian American. Hang in there sister!

Stephanie,
I am American from the southern Bible Belt, and am horrified by the troubles you are having. As my late mother would say, "That person obviously wasn't raised right."
As for the comments, I rarely read them, I'm truly more intersted in your words.

How sad - and scary. Please be careful. I hope all the positive energy in the comments helps you move away from this nastiness.

Just a lurker here. I am appalled that someone would do this to you - to anyone. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. Thoughts, prayers and good vibes coming your way to help you deal with this.

Peace,
Jo Anne of Massachusetts

Oh. My.

Speaking as a (hopefully) sane American, I can't say that I've ever felt that you've spoken badly of us at all, or of any other country out there. Individual people? Well, once or twice you've pointed out some quirky foibles, but that's fine with me. (You even treated that airline that wouldn't let you board because of a hyphen with more respect than they deserved.)

Don't let ridiculous people get you down. I agree, keep copies for documentation purposes, but otherwise? Enjoy the pudding.

And--the fact that she sent you an apologetic email about her grammar because she was in such a rush? I find that endearingly creepy.

I am ashamed that this person is American. I love the pics and hearing about Canada. I have read your blog daily for a number of years and I think you are one of the nicest people I have never met :o) Keep your chin up, we love you!!!

I am also emerging from deep lurk to send my support.

Dear Yarn Harlot,

I am also one of the many long-time-readers-first-time-commenters; I wanted to speak up and say that like other Americans who have commented so eloquently before me, I am terribly embarrassed by this woman's behavior. I am embarrassed as a woman, as an American, and above all else, as a (presumably) fellow knitter. As you encounter so much crap from this person, please keep all of us fans in your heart, and remember how much the rest of us appreciate you and your yarny-goodness.

Like many other posters this is my first comment on your blog, I have been following it for awhile and have always enjoyed it as humorous and insightful. I often read your posts out to my partner as he enjoys your sense of humour as well.

All I can say is I am so sorry that this person has become fixated on you like this and what a terrible experience to go through. You have dealt with it more calmly and rationally than I would have in the same situation and I do hope that there is something that can be done permanently so you do have to deal with this sort of thing again.

Wow. I am totally shocked. Even if you guys did exchange fiery emails, she really stepped over the line.

As a Texan and an American I can assure you I've never read one of your blog posts that have offended. We are CERTAINLY not like all like that. That's just absurd.

I can tell you that many of our fellow have citizens, as many people in the world have become, are very angry, very entitled feeling and very desensitized. Yesterday I was driving when a big truck tried to run my small family off of one of the tallest bridges in our city. It is literally huge. My husband was in the back seat and my baby was in the car seat. We almost died. Everywhere I go people are hateful and rude. I've almost been beat up in the grocery store and I live in a very nice little town. Completely unprovoked.

I am scared of this attitude, as it is incredibly intolerant and it is the mindset of an incredibly fanatical person. She sounds very dangerous. I don't think she's mentally unstable, I think she's harassing you purposefully to gain publicity for herself. I Googled her blog, it is SO easy to find. She is probably getting mega hits. What a shame.

You're right to be concerned, she's threatening you. You should send her comments and threatening emails to the police. I wouldn't take it lightly at all.

That woman is trying to ride the coat tails of your success. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with it.

I'd like to know what she expects your fan base to be, if 30,000 knitters tried to attend the sock knitting conference you are coordinating (with other partners of course -- can't leave out the teams!). Every city you go to, people flock to see you. You're coordinating one of the most-talked about knitting conferences, with big-time knitters coming to teach (apparently, though, they aren't respectable! I wonder how Barbara Walker is going to feel to learn she's not longer respected?). I love reading your blog. I check it multiple times daily to see if your post is up. I love your books -- all of them -- and I can't wait for the next one. I love your 2009 calendar and am looking forward to my local bookstore receiving 2010 so I can stare at the box in anticipation of January 1. I love your Canada Day posts, because you're so passionate about your country. There are plenty of Americans out there whose ideas I don't agree with and am baffled by. I hope you know you have friends south of the border and we don't all share this woman's views. Thank you for sharing this with us, so we understand if and when an inflammatory comment appears. You have the respect and admiration of so many people. Please don't forget that.

I don't even know where to begin. When my kids were younger and would come home from school with a tale of how some other kid wronged them in some way, I used to say "I have enough trouble explaining my own behavior, let alone anyone else's." Clearly, it is impossible to explain (let alone justify) the vindictive tirades that you have been enduring.

When the happy hoards descend upon Portland (me included), I hope you and Tina and your army of helpers look around for a minute or two and really take a moment to appreciate what you have all created. It's about so much more than knitting or shopping. All you have to do is read some of the topics on the Ravelry group to see that you and Tina have helped foster an amazing generosity and camaraderie among knitters of every stripe (no pun intended). So many thousands of people were just looking for an opportunity to come together because of YOU. You touch thousands of readers every day with wit, insight and real life. Let's see who wants to be part of something that is created by that hateful, spiteful, irrational woman.

That was good for me. Hope it was good for you :-).

My stomach started hurting as I read your blog. I am so sorry to hear that you have become the target of this person's rage.

I wish you the strength to carry on despite her. Take care.

So sorry you have to deal with this (especially when you have enough stress already). Be safe and if there are "blog" police get a restraining order. Hugs.

Don't know what to do other than send a donation to knitters without borders. Mailing the check tomorrow. Combating ugliness with a little bit of good.

Wow. I'm just stunned. I'm so sorry you've been having to deal with this while managing the Sock Summit organizing/planning too. Ugh.

Keep on doing whatever you have to do to keep yourself safe and sane. We'll all still be here cheering for you, wishing you all the best and toasting you with our beers.

*huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuug*!

Wow, psycho. I am so, so sorry. This lady obviously has some mental health issues that are not being addressed. And out of all the countries to hate on, Canada, seriously? :-) She is probably just jealous.

The process is different depending on what state she's in, but you would quality to get a restraining order against her.

Maybe you should lock your blog down and make comments moderated for awhile? Eventually she'll go away. Had fun meeting you at McMins a couple weeks ago (I was the one crocheting a skirt, ha ha) and like I told Tina, I'm happy to help with any IT stuff.

Stephanie,

You have brought so much joy to my life with your blogs, books and calendar. I have learned much from your blogs and books not only about knitting but about Canada and so many other things. I had the pleasure of hearing you speak in CT a couple of years ago with my mom and we had a blast.

Unfortunately there are those who spend their time spewing viciousness rather than trying to make positive change. You have shown that if we work together much is possible and great good can be accomplished.

Peace and hugs to you and yours. Can't wait for SS09.

Thanks for all you do and have done

Marie

As a Michiganian who used to go south to Windsor to drink, I barely considered that it was a seperate country. Hell, we even have a Canadian born Governor now.

But I digress. Hang in there. This woman doesn't know what true grit is or she'd put her energies towards something more possitive, like solving the health care crisis....

Sending prayers for peace for you and your family.

I am sorry you are going through this. I don't think it is very christian to use words like that let alone behave like that. This American really likes you and enjoys your books. Although I do not know you (as in real life met you) from what I read you seem very funny and nice. The way you still protect this woman's identity speaks volumes to your character. I hope she leaves you alone.

Oh, my, I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this horrible bully. Honestly, this seems worse than bullying because this person simply isn't well. She simply doesn't seem to a mentally or emotionally healthy person. It's so sad to see.

Hang in there. Know that there are many, many people cheering you on. I am so thankful that you continue to write for us.

I'm someone else who never posts but reads frequently. I'm so sorry for you, and in a way for her too, because she is clearly crazy. Mentally not healthy, and needs help. Someone once obsessed this way about someone in my family, and it was difficult. Not engaging is the route my family members took that was most helpful. Best wishes to you.

I haven't read all the 300+ comments, so maybe someone else has might have already suggested this, but have you considered holding all the comments for review before publishing any of them? I know it would be more work for you, but maybe someone (your husband or Ken maybe) could shoulder some of the load. Then her comments never would see the light of day no matter how many times she changed her IP address as you would never "approve" them for publication.

Also, it might not hurt to make a public statement that you have someone else reading the comments before you do (if you can), and that you'll never actually see what she's writing. Then either she'll give up when she realizes that you never even see what she writes or she'll keep writing but you'll never see them anyway so they won't upset you. You can block her on twitter, too, and I'm not sure what there is to be gained by reading her blog - leave that to someone else, as well, if you think it necessary for your safety.

I can only imagine how upsetting it is to have someone attacking you, but I cannot believe that her blog and/or tweets will have any substantial impact on your popularity.

Best of luck.

Stephanie, sweetheart! I'm so sorry this is happening to you! I know you know this, but this person does not speak for Americans, nor for Christians, nor for any sane segment of the population. I love my country, I also love Canada (heaven knows I've vacationed there enough) and have yet to figure out hatred like this can be rationalized. I truly hope that the authorities find this person and deal with her appropriately.

You are a delight, your writing is terrific and we love you!

See you in Portland.......

Dear Stephanie, just remember you have many, many friends and a wonderful family to support you. Thank you for sharing with us as this is something that you should not carry or deal with alone. Make sure you are hugged every day.

Keep smiling :-)
Marian

Holy crow, I'm at a loss for words...

Sending love and hugs from the Maritimes.

I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this horrible person, especially with as much as you must have going on right now. Please know that it's her problem, not yours, and the rest of us out here reading your blog support you 100%. You rock!

Be careful, but don't be afraid. She's a fearmonger.

Stephanie: You are not alone. I belong to an email list for a well-known Canadian folk singer. Years ago, and I can't even remember the reason why now, two of the posters took exception to something I said and started a holy row. They even took it upon themselves to start a rival "I hate Sheila" list. Some of the email they sent me was a lesson in the creative use of the the word f***. I was told to f*** myself and so many four legged animals that they must have broken out a zoological text book to find them. And I'm sure some of the things they told me to do are physically impossible. I think I may have kept some of the emails just because they were astonishing in their quest to hurt and humiliate me. It's all very funny now, but back then...no, it was even kind of funny then.

I can't imagine what you are going through but taking the high road is always the best course of action in these matters. I know that it's very difficult but finding humour in it will help you through. No matter what, you are a wonderfully funny and compassionate human being and nothing or no one can change who you are except you.

Much love and chocolate.

Stephanie: As a long time reader and rare commenter, I want you to know that your post today saddened me. You do so much to bring laughter to the world (or at least the knitting community) and have done so much to bring us together, and then someone like this comes along and causes such hurt. I hope that she moves onto another cause soon and leaves you alone. For the record, my father was born in Canada and my kids take great pride in having Canadian blood in their veins. Again, I hope you can get this all behind you in time to enjoy the much anticipated Sock Summit. We love you!

Keep your chin up, Harlot! For what it's worth, this American thinks you're great!

You are an amazing woman Stephanie and I feel honored to share this world with you. I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Know that I am standing with you and shining the light.

Wow.

Just wanted to add my support to these many many voices.

You are loved, and no one deserves this.

((hugs))

And be safe. Please be safe.

As am American, and a woman, and a quote unquote Godless Heathen, this disgusts me. That someone can be so vitriolic, so irrational, as to take anything that you say and twist it, turn it, manipulate it into some sick fantasy where it is "all about her"? And to hide it under Patriotism, and the best part, a religion that preaches forgiveness? Yeah, right. She's doing you a mitzvah, all right. Showing you (and everyone else) that she's BATSHIT INSANE.

I'm a huge fan, your stories and words have moved me to tears - both as heartbreak and laughter. Please know there are people out there who can not only act like adults on an "anonymous" forum such as the internet, but stand by you, even when you're both strangers. Take heart, Stephanie.

WOW! As an American I humbly apologize. I find it rather embarrassing to share the same nationality with such a person. I certainly do not feel this person is a fair representative of our Christian faith!
I've enjoyed your posts for some time now, and look forward to the new ones. I find you to be inspirational, in that you took something you loved and was able to make a career of it. I often visit your posts when I feel lonely...it's like visiting an old friend.
I hope this person won't ruin things for the rest of us who enjoy you. I tire of having things that I enjoy ruined by others that can't seem to have a life of their own...ranting and raving until the priviledge is taken away. I really enjoy you and pray that she won't run you off.
Hugs and know you have a huge following that adore you!
Mary

Much love and support from a Michigan neighbor.

My apologies from all the sane Americans who love your blog. It's embarassing that someone so obviously unbalanced claims to be a Christian and an American, and uses that platform to be so rude and hateful.

This American loves you, your books and your blog. Keep on keeping on and I will keep on reading you in any form I can get. See you at the Summit.

Job well done Stephanie. I hope the support and love of The Blog can help compensate for the "difficult" people out there in the internet ether.

Like many of the above, I, too, am a long-time reader, first-time commenter. I just wanted to show my Texas-sized support. Don't let the crazies get you down.

I want to thank you for inspiring me to knit more. I've attempted to pick up knitting and I have been lucky enough to come across a few knitting blogs that have helped me a lot. I have actually finished a number of projects (more looked pretty good too) and now I'm going to be a life long knitter. I hope to read and be inspired by your writting for many years to come. :)
Thank you again. :)

As a Christian,conservative, gun-owning,American, woman who owns copies of all of your books, I just want to say, I love you and am hoping and praying for the best possible outcome from this awful situation.

Standing by, flashlight aloft, adding to the light.

Stephanie,

So sorry you have had to endure this. You have so many people who think the world of you. Don't listen to this person's comments for a second. I so look forward to reading your blog each day as do thousands of others. Hang in there. Sending you resilient thoughts.

I'm very sorry to hear that someone is treating you so terribly. Please try to focus on how many of us out here in the knitting world appreciate you both as a warm and kind individual and for your contributions to the community, and I hope that your harasser finds a more productive use of her time very soon.

This is one sick person. You're best to add her e-mail address to your spam filter and not even look at her e-mails. I really enjoy your posts. Keep on blogging, don't let the comments of one person get you down. Too many people are on your side.

Your officially famous. You now have a stalker. I don't think I've ever heard you say anything anti-(noun). Your vegetarian yet never say anything to those of us who eat meat. Your a lot of things and yet never say anything to make the other person feel wrong or yourself better at the expense of others ego. It's a hard act to follow.

Stephanie-You have a gift. Keep sharing it. This person has no power and no manners.
Keep the faith!

Another long-time reader, but infrequent commenter here. I'm also another American who is appalled at this person's behavior - and ashamed that she is dishonoring her country with that behavior. I love reading your blog, and learning about your corner of the world. Thank you for being you, and for sharing with the rest of us.

Love you. Keep going.

I am also an American - one who is waiting in anticipation for your next book. I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone like this. There is no excuse for such behavior.

Anytime your political views have shown through on this blog, they have always been presented in a thoughtful and non-slanted manner. Your comments about the world at large have been very intelligent and positive.
You are so kind and gracious. And you ARE VERY BRAVE to ask the blog for opinions on things like parenting and hampers!
Your books are hilarious. I've read them all several times. Except the latest - which I'm SAVORING. I feel so fortunate to be able to read this blog for free - what wonderful art and entertainment for all of us at your expense.

Stephanie, I salute you. You have a circle of knitters standing around you, ready to ignore the bejeezus out of that person.

Dear Stephanie,

First—as others have said, be sure to report everything to HER ISP, as I am sure they don’t want to be held liable for her. Also, in the States we’ve got some stiff laws on hate crimes now. I think since she appears to hate you for being a different nationality, her stalking behavior falls under that and she could be heavily prosecuted. It’s worth looking into.

Second—I’m an American military veteran who absolutely does not support this woman or her use of her nationality in any way. You’re delightful, funny, kind, and a fantastic blogger and writer. Because of you, I was brave enough to branch out from crochet and try this knitting thing, since it was something you were so obviously passionate about.
Even when I was ranting about the “lie of only two stitches”, and staring in horror at a laddered section of work, I would go back and read your blog, and remember, “she LOVES this thing. You’ll get it.” And now, I DO get it.

Because of you, I am about to cast on for my first pair of socks, which I’ll knit two at a time on circs. I’ve learned about mathematical knitting, and given impassioned speeches to family members about sock architecture and moebius knitting. I’ve learned so much and talked about it so passionately to my family and friends that my mother did something unexpectedly wonderful this Easter. She sent me an interchangeable needle kit—this is a big deal for us, as she’s never believed me to be “artsy” and this was a huge piece of affirmation.

Oh, and something that is DEFINTELY, entirely your fault-- this year, on my birthday, I bought a drop spindle and some lovely wool, and I have several yards (meters?) of rapidly improving yarn.

Your blog has brought a lot of good into my life when I needed it. I think this is the second time I have posted in your comments, but it’s definitely worth a delurk. My thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family.

I am so sorry for the icky-unpleasantness you have had recently. Happily, the comments show that there are so many pleasant people out there, and it doesn't seem to matter which side of the imaginary lines that separate countries they live on.....

Thanks

Geez...........Stephanie! This is awful!
She sounds like she is more then a little WACKO!!
I think the whole thing is kinda scary.

If she dislikes you so much, and finds you to be so damn offensive, why doesn't she just quit reading your blog???? DUH!!!!!

Sounds kinda like a crazy friend I had years ago and told to get the hell outta my life.

I am so sorry you are going thru this.
I'm American and think you are funny, talented and a wonderful Mom and a wonderful human being!!
Just remember for every crazy out there, there are at least 5,000 fans and supporters!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Us-TVg40ExM

Wow. The crazy-pants are strong in that one.

I'm sorry you have to put up with this shit. I hope she gets the help she clearly needs.

LET THE SUN SHINE IN!

Way to be the bigger person, Steph.

Just one more supportive comment for you. I am in the US and have never found any of your Canada Day posts discriminating and while I don't see how anyone else could, we're obviously not dealing with a rational woman here. I read your blog because you're funny, I read your books because you're funny and even though I am more of a crocheter than a knitter, I have never felt the need to slam your blog. I am sorry that you are being attacked and that it is affecting you in too many ways and in too many aspects of your life. This woman is filled with so much hate and must not have anything to do other than spew hate at someone who does not deserve any bit of it. Keep your head held high, and be proud that you have been a lady about the whole thing (although I'm sure some thoughts in your head were less than ladylike, we'll keep that our secret). Your fans are here for you!

*HUGS*

Have a beer, knit your blanket, and know that the one bad apple won't spoil the barrel.

I agree with the 59-bajillion commentators above me. This woman is clearly insane, and does not, in any way, represent what Americans or Christians think of you!

Just wanted to add one more thing..."Don't try to rationalize the irrational" is a mantra I repeat to myself when I experience things I can't explain.

Another long time reader, fan of your books, American, and someone who live as a Christian. That woman does not or she could not write what she has. She obviously needs some mental help. Let's hope she gets some. Sorry she decided to pick on you, you don't deserve it. Look forward to seeing at SS09.

Just wanted to add my support to all that you're getting. People like this seem to be coming out of the woodwork all over the US and it's kind of frightening. So much venom being spewed all over the place. Clearly this woman is deranged. Ive been reading your blog for years now and you are clearly a good person, a great parent and a proud Canadian. I've been to two of your events and have run into in coffee lines several times at varous fiber fests. And gee, whiz! You don't have horns or a tail!

Your handling of this just adds to my admiration for you. Knit on!

Bo: YOU have a (bizarre, mentally unstable) problem with HER. It is not HER responsibility to "relent" and make you stop. IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO GROW UP.

I thought Canadians were Americans. Holding you in my heart. An ordained Christian minister who thinks that light, love, and respect "will preach" as we say in my line of work.

Unbelievable. Hugs to you, Stephanie.

Yet another first time poster. Hugs to you and your family, this is just mind boggling!!! What to say........thank you Stephanie.

I'm just echoing to the comments above. You have done so much good for so many people. On Monday(after I get paid) I will send a donation to MSF via KWB, in honour of your goodness, fairness, humour and wisdom, and of your willingness to share yourself and your family with the world, which is truly brave.

I wish I could buy your books a second time. I am a liberal atheist American. This woman doesn't speak for me as an American. I am horrified that she is embarrassing the country I love by attacking Canada and you. I love visiting Canada, BTW. You have a beautiful and hospitable homeland. I am thrilled you love your country as much as I love mine.

Great gods and little fishies! what a nutcase. So sorry you have to deal with the nutcase. Go hug the girls and the crew and have a beer. There is no reasoning with crazy, especially one who never learned to respect people she disagrees with. (people like that are no fun. even less fun in person, if that's possible.)

FWIW, I grew up on the Canada/US border, and I saw absolutely nothing to be offended about in the Canada Day posts (well, unless one is offended by someone else's pride in their country).

Then again, she may have been jealous, and as a 'christian' was trying to transmute her envy into something not a deadly sin. :) {yes, I know, crazy has no logic; but I *know* people like that -- I'm jealous of this, but I can't be because that's a deadly sin, so I'll recast this so that it's *your* fault and I am now sin-free and bound for the Promised Land.}

(She sounds like she's really off her nut. And honestly, it's "christians" like that give all the decent ones a bad name.)

Sounds to me like you have a psycho stalker on your hands. I hope you are staying in contact with the authorities, and are taking all necessary means to protective yourself and your family. Think of all the celebrities that have been stalked. Now you can add your name to the list. Just what you had in mind. lol

Dear Stephanie,

I am also a first time commenter. I got your first book last year and enjoyed it so much that I now check your blog on a daily basis. I also mention you to all my craft friends and was recently very excited when I friend of mine returned from the US with a signed copy of your latest book.

I do have a confession to make...I'm actually a crocheter, but am starting to learn how to knit and when I finish this post I'm going to knit on my scarf a bit and send you some positive vibes from down here in the Southern Hemisphere (Australia)!

Keep your chin up, you give so many people so much happiness, joy and inspiration.

Karin

Stay safe, Stephanie.

I hope you blocked her email IP address as well.

Peace.

I've been reading a while now, but never commented. I had similar problems with someone I encountered on a music forum. She stalked and harassed me via email and social networking sites. I dealt with her by totally and utterly ignoring her, by refusing to acknowledge her existence. This may work for you, too. If not, and your stalker persists, talk to your local police. She has no right to harass and menace you like this. Good luck - I hope you shake off that crazy person soon - and permanently.

WOW!

She sure has a misguided sense of self importance! She's a TROLL and should be ignored accordingly.

I LOVE your blog and have been reading it for years, but I'm Canadian, does that count? :-)

Stephanie, I am physically sick after reading that this has happened to you. I for one, will do as you ask, but don't take silence for a lack of support. And she certainly does not speak for THIS American. Love to you and yours.

I am an American. She does not represent me. We are not all like her. She's a sad person and she has my pity. But not my sympathy.

Keep on doing what you are doing and don't let her silence you.

What this woman is doing to you is harassment and, quite frankly, is illegal here in the US. Unfortunately being in Canada your legal options might be limited. If you were in the US you could quite easily get a restraining order to keep her away from you physically and prevent her from contacting you under threat of arrest. But what you CAN do is contact her ISP as she is most likely in violation of the terms of service she agreed to when signing up for her Internet service.

You have her IP address and by this point I assume you know her name. Most ISPs will have an abuse email address at abuse@domain.com so you can try reporting her there.

Best of luck dealing with the dregs of American suckitude.

Stephanie,
I saw you speak this last fall in Jacksonville. I was proud to stand up with a poster welcoming you along with my friend Kim who remains "hot for the harlot." Drag Kim's poster out from behind the desk. Look at it, remember we love you.
I host an online horse forum. I have received emailed threats, ugly posts and even contact from a lawyer. I just keep trucking along because what else are you going to do?
Keep on keeping on and remember, don't feed the trolls :)
Tricia

I normally don't post, just read, smile and keep knitting - but this is beyond the pale! By taking the higher road and not condescending to this person's level, you are winning on many levels. Your Good Karma is intact and even tho I'm sure all this upsets you, you really ought to be able to sleep well at night.
I actually think I know this person - a clear cut psycho if ever there was one.
Remember what Elizabeth taught us - knit on, thru all crises, with confidence & hope. Maybe cast on for a pair of tight winter slippers?!

I'm an American, a Christian, a Knitter, and I'm very sorry for the hateful, mean-spirited behavior of this person. I enjoy your Canada Day posts. I enjoy visiting Canada. (Such clean washrooms. And I like the word "washroom". Very civilized.)

If you feed a troll, she'll only get fatter.

I'm so sorry you've had to live so long with such toxic messages. I feel even sorrier for the poor soul who is spewing them at you. She needs healing.

For you, I want to give you affirmation. I think you are an amazing woman, mother, wife. You are something special. I know lots of people have said it before, but maybe, just now, you need to hear it a lot more. Love to you Harlot. You've taught me lots and I look forward to learning more.

I am so truly sorry that your wonderful blog and the gift of your time and humor to all of us has been a source of upset and worry for you.

People are known by their acts and not by what they label themselves. I can't think of more unchristian or unamerican acts than the behavior you have described.

Be strong and know that you an icon in the knitting world and our hearts.

I can hardly find the words to say in this situation. I too am a person who reads often and comments rarely, but this post left me with such emotion that I could not move along without attempting to convey my support for you. One of the things I've always loved most about knitting and about knitters is that we don't have to all agree on any one thing to exist peacefully as a community. We are all nationalities, all ages, all beliefs, etc. Good for you for taking the higher ground in this circumstance. Please don't consider it any resemblance of a surrender on your part for having to share this struggle with your blog readers. I think you'd be hard pressed to find a single one of us who haven't had an experience with a bully before. I'll be contributing to the cause by hitting to proverbial "Ignore" button on any of her comments that make it through.

Holy freaking cow.

I am so sorry, Stephanie. I wish I could give you the biggest hug.

I'm at such a loss for words over this troll, I just....wow.

Darlin Harlot, I've not known about you for long, though once I found your blog I read everything in a week.
With this kind of bull happening I could see how you could let it bother you. Though I think that would be a waste of energy. Threats are always unpleasant, and vicious veiled threats have a way of seeming bigger than they are.
But look at how many people support you vs. how many try to tear you down. Look to your friends and family for support. Let the good outweigh the bad. All the platitudes are a bit trite... but true none the less.
By the way I'm a Texan, non-religious, and saddened that you have been pushed to a breaking point

I guess this means the knitting world has hit the big time: the first knitting celebrity stalker.

What do other celebrities do about their stalkers?

I'm a Canadian who has lived in the US for 10 years. One thing I've learned about Canadians is that we don't have a clear enough perspective to define ourselves and our national identity (you know, living in the shadow of a giant and all). It sometimes seem the only way to tell people what it means to "be Canadian" is to tell them what it doesn't mean (i.e., "not American").

Your post today is quintessentially Canadian: it shows a firm viewpoint but calls for calm and peace.

I'm so sorry that some nutcase has decided to target you. And in reading through all this again, plus a few posts on Ravelry, this person sounds more and more like someone who is totally eaten up with jealousy. She's probably quite a failure in her own life, and is making herself feel better by attacking you, who is anything but. What she is doing is illegal, and I'm adding my vote that you should spread it all out before your local police, an attorney and her ISP. I'm betting she just might find herself without internet service. Now wouldn't that be poetic justice! Please stay safe and keep up the wonderful writing.

As an American, I have never felt insulted or slighted in the least by your enthusiasm for Canada, and I have often enjoyed your blog enough to share it with other Americans who also felt only amusement at your sense of humor.

How your blog could be so thoroughly misconstrued is inexplicable. Oh well, knit on, and hope she soon gets the mental help she needs. (and by the way, I felt sure that one is not a Christian unless one behaves like a Christian... maybe she's misconstruing that, too.)

Non-knitter who thinks you are the bee's knees. Most service providers have a clause that their networks cannot be used to send threatening or libelous material. So it should be possible to get malicious comments stopped at the source rather then worry about it at your end of things. Haven't read through all 300+ supportive comments to see if someone else suggested this.
Blessings

I'm sitting here enjoying a beer and reading your blog from Atlantic Canada...and I am gobsmacked!

I agree with the others that have mention it, but I think you need to contact the authorities.

Lots of love and good vibes!

Wow. I'm so very sorry that this person has taken up residence in your little corner of joy. Take care and be safe.

I'm just going to add my voice to the hundred above me saying that this woman does not represent how Americans feel about you. I personally find you inspiring and delightful. Your love of knitting is infectious and I will continue to buy your books, read your blog, and be a fan.
Please keep writing and knitting. Stay strong because you're one fierce Mama!

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I rarely post but want you to know I admire your spirit and the way you've responded with respect and courage to this horrible attack. As a citizen of the U.S., I'm frustrated that this woman is using her twisted idea of patriotism to cloak the crazies. (And let's not even get started on her "Christian" behavior.) Of course, it's not working so well since the nut vibes are broadcasting loud and clear. ;-)

Your good nature and humor has made me a loyal reader and I'm saddened that someone would want to make your work so much more difficult. I'm grateful that you didn't just close the comments as so many would just to stem the tide.

I think I'll go make a Doctors Without Borders donation now.

PS: I thought your story about Joe being stuck in the truck was terrific and hilarious. Being able to laugh at ourselves in sticky situations is a gift -- and one that you do a wonderful job fostering.

Wow...this has nothing to do with her being American or being Christian; it has to do with her being a bully and a harasser. I hope you are exploring legal options for dealing with her.

And if I ever move from my current US residence, it will probably be to Toronto...great public transportation, actual health care, and lots of great knitters like you? What's not to love?

Love. Hugs. And a hope the taste of all her bile gets washed out quickly.

As others have said, I'm pretty proud to be American (hades, Daddy - yes. I'm almost 30 and he'll be daddy until I die, its a southern thing - is a retired Marine. How could I be anything BUT proud) and I'm just as deeply ashamed to read one of ours is making us look bad. Like more than a few other voices on here, can I just say I hope you'll believe we're not all so rude?

You've made some really hard times in my life a lot easier to walk with your humor and your joy in the craft. Thank you for that.

Ah, Steph. The price of being a celebrity is to have really weird and scary people think that they know you and that they have the right to judge you. Your stalker is obviously someone who has no real knowledge of the world.
I look forward to finally meeting you in Portland, after all of these years. Good on ya for telling.

Yarn Harlot - I am so sorry to read about this person - it is really hard in the world of the internet for some people to be resonable, actually in the world full stop. Basically it is your blog and you can say what you want!

I recommend lots of knitting, lots of tea and/or beer and the company of the ones you love.

and please keep on doing what you do as a long long time lurker it brings a samll ray of sun into my day when I read your blog

Peace, love, and respect to you - sending only good thoughts your way as you deal with such an undeserved and unreasonable ordeal.

Well, here's another American (from Maryland) who thinks you're pretty terrific. I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this truly Ugly Person. If she's not mental (and personally, I think she has more than a few screws loose), she at least needs a course in Manners and Etiquette 101. Hang in there -- you're by far the better person.

I think this was an excellent post, and I hope the rest of your readers take your words to heart. No one should have to put up with something like that. :(

I am so sorry this is happening to you...I love your wit and humor and, of course, the knitting...knitting is suppose to be peaceful and bring everyone together.

Have you looked at the legal aspects of this?? Aren't there laws now on cyper-stalking and bullying??? Perhaps this is the only way to get this person to stop...

Just know you have many, many fans...and AMERICANS who love you and enjoy you...I hope you can concentrate on this...we are on your side.

A bit of this happens to all of us...it's happened to me and it's hurtful and it wears you down...

Believe in yourself and know you are a gleaming light in many of our days when we read your blog and your books...I know I laugh at your lines and it brings me up and makes my days...

Take care and I hope it stops soon...rising above it is the only way...

hugs,

Jacqueline

What a stinker. I have no words for how much she does not represent women, Americans, knitters, or any other group to which she and I may both belong.

Stephanie, you are a joy and a wonder to read. Even when you are down on a subject, whatever that subject may be, you do it with laughter and love.

And 99.999% of your readers love you back.

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, and I wish I could wave a magic wand (needle?) and make it go away.

I am an American, a Christian, and behind you all the way. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this deranged woman. I'll be praying for your safety and that she'll get the help she so obviously needs. And by the way, I have never once felt like you disparaged the US or any of its citizens.

And I just love that Magnolia dubbed you "the Julia Child of knitting." That's wonderful!

Just the fact that over 400 people care and have taken the time to encourage you, should encourage you.
I too am so sorry that someone who has bought so much enjoyment to so many, has to go through something this ugly.
Keep on being you, please.

Much love to you today, Stephanie! She sounds like a nutter, and I'm not sure what on earth she was reading to get the impression that you're so "anti-American". I've been reading you for several years, seen you in person (just once so far), and not once have I ever thought like that. A person can certainly be proud of their country without disdain for all others. You put so much heart into your blogs, speeches, etc, so much of yourself shines through in everything of yours that it makes me look at things (knitting, life, all of it!) differently, and try to take that sort of approach in my own life.
*Hugs*

Sending positive thoughts and hugs your way!

I am so sorry! What a perfectly dreadful experience. I'm especially sorry she is attacking your family.

You bring so much fun and laughter to the world, and have done so much good. Thank you!

Sending love your way and hope that you are able to remember that this has nothing to do with you; it's all her crap. I was reminded today that we cannot change others, we can only change how we react to them. I realize that you have been trying very hard not to let this person get to you. Now that it's all out in the open, I hope that you can find some peace.

You're brave and tough. Hopefully she'll find something more positive to focus her energy on soon... Good luck, you're the best at what you do! I find so much inspiration in your posts, and not only knitting inspiration. Thanks for sharing.

I've been reading your blog for years and I don't think I've ever commented before...This "person" makes me so ashamed to be American. Stephanie, you rock.

I usually don't comment anymore because I know you have enough to do, but I thought I'd let you know that I am taking my American self out on knit night to my local bookstore to buy an extra copy of one of your books. I have them all already, some of them signed even (woo!) but I just need to buy another. Hugs to you, Joe, and your beautiful and talented daughters.

I'm behind you 110%, Steph.

No human being, especially you, should ever go through something like this. I love and admire you and look up to you as my knitting hero.

Know that all of us who read and love this blog everyday is there for you!

*Hugs*

I will not feed any trolls. Food is expensive enough as it is.

Stephanie, and I hope I can call you Stephanie after reading your blog all these years, as a proud pussy-posessing godless American, well, I'd say something a little more deep but I'm enjoying the effects of a dirty martini...So I'll just "ditto" everyone else (except a certain someone).

I usually don't comment anymore because I know you have enough to do, but I thought I'd let you know that I am taking my American self out on knit night to my local bookstore to buy an extra copy of one of your books. I have them all already, some of them signed even (woo!) but I just need to buy another. Hugs to you, Joe, and your beautiful and talented daughters.
(Sorry if this posts twice, but I thought of this after: And I'm making a donation to KWB for you. I know it's not enough to balance the karma, but hey, it can't hurt, right?)

Big hugs to you. It happened to me before and it bites. It hurts when people keep hating on you for no reason other than them feeling insecure about themselves.

We can't please everyone in the world. Just know that all the ones you've pleased, we're right here support you.

Wow, we don't evey know each other, and I'm still proud of you. Thanks for showing the way!

Wow. Stephanie, thanks for letting us know that you are being harrassed, and thanks for not quitting your blog. It impels we lurkers to speak up and let you know that your blog, your books, and your wit are an important part of our lives. I have thoroughly enjoyed your Canada Day posts, and found them to be educational and in *no* way anti-American.

I hope this hateful person will find something better to do with her time and leave you and your family in peace.

Rebecca Duncan, Whitehorse, Yukon

I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. I hope she gets help and ceases the vitriol and cyberstalking. Please don't let this get you down.

Dear Stephanie,
Sending light and love your way. I love your blog. You have entertained me for countless hours! I hope you continue to do what you do so well.

This is the first time I've ever commented on your blog. I feel compelled to step up with the other Americans who have already commented and say I have derived so much enjoyment from your words over the years.

I'm so very sorry that this woman has behaved so shamefully toward you and your family. I'm also sorry that she is perpetuating the far too widespread notion that Americans are pompous and full of hate. She does not speak for me or any other American I know (I can very safely say that). She is not what my country is about.

Peace to you.

You know, this person could be OCD or just plain sick. Gotta feel sorry for her, she's like a swarm of mosquitos, blood-thirsty and darned annoying. Big hug for you.

It's beautiful here on the high road. Thanks for being such a great tour guide.

Steph, you have obviously been targeted by someone who is a bit unbalanced. I've been in a similar position once while moderating a reality TV forum and I know it's no fun. Unfortunately, you can't just "disappear" online the way I did back then (heck I couldn't do that now myself) until the person finds another target for her ire.

Hang in there and know that there are LOTS more people who love and support you than those who make it their personal crusade to throw mud in your direction.

Thanks for not letting us know about the situation so that we can offer you support. See you at Sock Summit!

I love your Canada posts! I love to learn more about different places, countries, etc. and how better than from people that live there?
Sending you positive thoughts from Kansas.

Stephanie, I have all your books and have gotten them as gifts for many others. I love your sense of humor, your sincerity, your stamina, your talent, and your constant ability to give so much to all of us. Yours was the first knitting blog I ever found and reading it is the last thing I do before I call it a day, each day. Blessings to you in every conceivable way!

Whoa . . . hope this person gets some professional help before they self-destruct. I love your blog - it's one of the highlights of my day!

The world is such a small place, and our lives are often already very hard; I believe wholeheartedly that there's no excuse for going out of your way to make someone else's life more difficult.

This US citizen sends you peaceful thoughts and gratitude for the countless hours of laughter and insight you have brought into my life. I'll buy two copies of your next book. That'll show the naysayers!

Namaste.

Just know that you have support beyond anything you can possibly imagine out here in the world wide web. Thank you for letting us know what has been happening. Shedding light on things certainly makes them less frightening. I hope it improves soon.

Thanks for not giving up on the blog just because of this one person. I for one enjoy reading your blog and having a look over the border from America. Keep your chin up.

When I finished reading this my heart HURT!!! I'm so sorry that you are being stalked. I am one of the millions of Ammericans who love you and will continue to support you. Don't let the bad one get you down, there are alot more of us that love you.

Steph, Keep your energy/vibrational level high and positive and she will fade away. Like attracts like. Hugs and stitches sent to you.

I've never posted before. Just wanted you to know how much joy your blog and your books bring me. I have been a target of a bully in my own community who seems very much like this person. The Internet is their tool to be vicious and hateful. Please know that you are loved and we're anxiously awaiting all the fun news of your Sock Summit! Thank you for sharing the humor in your life and making our lives brighter.

I'm so very sorry that this person has done this to you. I have to say, that as an American, a parent and a knitter, you have never said anything that has offended me or anyone else I know on any level. She definitely does not speak for all Americans. She should realize that, as Americans, we speak for ourselves!! Love, light and blessings to you and your family.

Well, I just found her blog and it is clear that she is seeking attention through a variety of means. You are right...if we want to support you, we should not respond to her comments or comment on her blog. I will not be visiting her blog again either. Life is too short.

Speaking as both an American AND a Wiccan (the horror!), that person is mental. She has too much time on her hands and would do well to take her own advice and read her bible, for she could learn a thing or two.

Hmmph!

I too have been reading and not commenting for years, but as someone who was on the receiving end of death threats from an ex-employee who was in a psychotic break, I know what it feels like. It makes you feel very vulnerable and has you looking over your shoulder and opening every letter or email with trepidation. It's so unsettling. My psycho finally stopped, but the remembrance of the harrassment remained with me a long time.

Please don't let it sour you to your blog. As you can see from this outpouring, we all think you're a wonderful person and talented resource.

I've never read your blog, but I read this one when I saw a tweet about it. I'm sorry you had to go through this but thanks for writing what had to be a very hard post to write.

Be safe, be well and have fun.

Steve from Illinois, USA

Stay safe. You keep me laughing here in New England. Hugs to you and yours!

I guess having crazy cyber-stalkers comes with the territory, but please don't let it daunt you. As so many others (from the US), I check your blog as soon as I go on line. Your thoughts, stories and project info are so enjoyable - a guilty pleasure when I should be actually knitting on my own (gazillion) WIP.

Please don't let it get you down, or inhibit your writing in any way.
You are a star!

Stephanie, This isn't about Americans or Canadians.... it's about crazy and mean people. Every country has them. This was just the topic she chose to attack with. I agree with you about not fighting fire with fire. The trick is to take away her fire. And you did that by bringing this out into the open. Here's hoping she finds a more acceptable outlet for her energies. And then there is always Karma.

And this is why we are called the "Ugly Americans". Some people can be so....for lack of a better word, stupid.

I'm an American who's behind you 100%.

I'm another lurker who is finally going to post. I love your blog and books, and you always make me giggle. You seem like a very nice woman who is very supportive of her family, and certainly makes a wonderful and positive impact on the world through humor, fundraising, education, and spreading the knitting love.

Hopefully this woman will get the help she needs, and you seem to be managing this about as well as anyone could, better really.

*sigh* I'm so sorry. I'm glad, so glad that you understand that hate isn't representative of either Canada or the US. I enjoy the heck out of your work, Stephanie, and only financial and health means have prevented my getting to attend your appearances in my radius of reasonable. I look forward to offering to buy you a cup of coffee and/or a beer when I do.

It appears to be people that cement my sticking to a hobby or set of hobbies. I had the great good fortune to read EZ (_Knitting Without Tears_) and then your _Knitting Rules!_ when first getting into knitting and there was no looking back -- I knew that if such people were in knitting that I wanted to be in knitting, too. One year later, I'm planning my first Fair Isle (Autumn Rose), I'm addicted to socks, the baby's got her first sweater from me, and my eldest is in the midst of learning to knit. And I've begun my Christmas knitting - and I'm GOING to knit that Ysolde Teague sweater for me, soon. So soon.

So many hugs, Steph. This is coming in a stressful time for you, I know, but there's nothing to ever take away that you have reached many lives (and fingers and, um, adjusted the budgets of the finger-owners). That you have and are raising fabulous girls. That you're a capable woman who can get her husband's venerable truck out of a tight spot. That you've ushered into the world with your two capable hands so very many children to make this world that much brighter and shining. That it was totally your fault that I knit Leyburn. That you've been an advocate for sane and reasonable birthing practices. That your work your ass off for the world at large, for the nation of Knitting which knows no borders, and for your slice of the world people call "family and friends." That you are a sane and reasonable woman with people who love you and look forward to your face coming in the doorway very time it's there.

Be well, Stephanie.

Cheer up, I'm sorry to say that this level of comment is the type of thing I see on CNN.Com and other very popular websites all the time. Which is only to say, you are freaking popular and most of have a more positive way of enjoying ourselves. Here's positive vibes for sock summit. Now to resume attending to knitting.

Stephanie! you go girl. I'm an American who thinks you are amazing... and love your Canada Day posts and I think you are very funny and sensitive.

I am so proud of you for doing the hard, and right, thing - and so ashamed that this "person" (quote marks intentional)claims to be "American" - I can assure you, most of us are nothing like her! And most of us who read your blog adore you- and your accomplishments and your knit-sational creations :-)
My G*d-beyond-all-Names bless and keep you safe and strong.

You know, as an American living in Canada, when I'm here, it is people like her that are why I constantly have to defend myself against the "ugly American" stereotype.

And Steph, it is people like you (who once e-mailed me an apology for the weather in Ontario, like that's your fault) that make it easy for me to say, "no, actually, on the whole Canadians are quite kind and clever," when I'm in the States and my relatives get snarky about Canadians.

Good on ya, Steph. You are heard, loved and doing your best. That's all anyone can ask of you or themselves. I am 100% certain you have made the world a better place, and I have a hunch you'll keep doing so...no matter what anyone tells you. Light, love and respect right back atcha as they say.

Cheers,
Lorraine

Stephanie, I have always admired your grace, good humour, common sense and live and let live attitude (not to mention your awesome knitting and spinning). I am sure all of these things will help see you through this trying period, along with the support of your family, friends and (I hope, I don't want to presume!) The Blog.

I'm sure you were dragged up the same way most of us were. If you can't say something nice about someone then don't say anything at all. You have every right to defend yourself. One wonders why people feel this need. In recent weeks here in
the state of Victoria, there has been much press given to cyber bullying. This is exactly what this woman is doing. She is being a big bully. Unfortunately for her felloow Americans, she is unwittingly dragging them all down as well. There are these types the world over, don't let it get you down. The cyber bullying press came to the fore due to the fact that a 14 year old girl from a large regional city committed suicide as a result of internet bullying. She was the fourth from the same school since February. This is such a sad indictment on our society and says much about the bully. Keep your chin up. You've done the right thing. As they say in the Godfather (and that endearing Greg Kinnear film - You've Got Mail) "go to the mattresses".

Peace and good wishes from Ohio. You're in my thoughts and prayers. She is, too.

We don't want the crazy people to stay in this country. Sorry for the hassle from some crazy person who was unfortunately born here.

Looking forward to the Sock Summit marketplace.

Hey Steph, I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. It has been noticed around the US that some people who seem to describe themselves as conservative Christians have not been handling things well since the elections here & many (But nowhere near all) have been behaving badly & just not handling things well. This is certainly not an excuse for her behavior, just an attempt at figuring out WTF her problem is. I hope she leaves you alone & again I'm very sorry you've had to put up with this. FWIW I've always enjoyed your work & I respect you even more for your handling of this.

I'm a regular reader, mainly a lurker, but wanted to send you good wishes. It's your blog, you can post what you like. I, for one, am happy to keep reading.

I think this particular post might have brought additional attention to a situation that I really knew nothing about. Now I do. Sometimes I think the more elegant and effective response is no response at all.

Steph - I have been reading your blog for some time now but have never commented. I am in total and utter disbelief in people and their audacity. I cannot believe that someone feels that they have the right or that it is even ok to say things like that to another human being...I am almost sorry to even say that I am an American because it would mean that I am somehow connected to people like this.

Please take care of yourself.

With lots of love, Renee

Stephanie,
I don't know what to say. I had one of those days today with a face-off with mean people, I personally hate it. It is hard to fight hate and deliberate malice, but it is a fight we must all fight to win. And no one is immune to this kind of tyrany and vitriol. I will say a prayer tonight for you and your family's safety. I will ask that really BIG protection is sent for you all.
Be at Peace.
Be well.

Just wanted to let you know that you have my support. I am so sorry that you have been treated badly.

Just wanted to let you know that you have my support. I am so sorry that you have been treated badly.

Steph -

Here's a video from one of my favorite comedians Rob P, that may at least make you smile...

I tried to embed it, if that doesn't work...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FpWpdcR63ms

Stephanie, this woman is batshit crazy. As an American-- as many of your readers-- I'm shocked and embarrassed that anyone would a) consider that they represented the whole fucking country (beg pardon), and b) consider to represent it in that way. We're a big giant melting pot (aren't we all?), and it's horrifying to think that any one person could believe that they know everything and know what's best for one country, ESPECIALLY over a knitting blog. Not to put down the craft or anything, I love my knitting and my knitters, but that's nuts. There was nothing anti-American about your Canada Day post (like, her crazy pro-American emails, for instance, were anti-Canada or whatever). I enjoy your Canada Day posts. And all of your posts. It's just... this world is too little (big?) to get all riled up over something ridiculous like that. Blah blah blah, in short, you're wonderful. You're respectful, and you're kind, and you try to do what's best. You're doing the right thing, and yes, this woman may break through, but you've got the rest of us on your side. I'm sending love, from down here in the US of A.

I don't know how you, or even Canada, could be offensive to anyone. This chick makes me embarrassed to call myself American. Good on you and keep knitting. :)

I learned a while ago that the only behaviours you can control are your own - good on you for taking the high road. So sorry you are going thru this - and big hugs to you and your family.

I've been reading your blog for over a year. I'm an American. I won't lie, I love my country. I've never once found anything that I was offended by. I love your blog and I hope that you feel all of our love and hope for you coming through. Remember, one bad person does not HAVE to spoil the bunch of those that love your work and hope for the best for you and your family.

Dude!!! I had to stop knitting tonight when I saw this. I'm a red-blooded, daughters-of-the-American-Revolution, Mayflower-family Christian veteran (among other things) and I want you especially please to know that your Canada Day posts are some of my favorites ever. You, through your blog and books, have brought me more merriment, inspiration, comfort, and just plain excellent vibes than I can describe---so Thank You so much.

Please accept a huge apology from south of the border that one of "our" lunatics has inflicted herself on you. I've read rants like this more than once, (usually directed within the evolution debate, thanks to my line of work) but I never would have imagined that you'd be targeted. You work so hard to bring the whole knitting community sooooooo much (see you in Portland!!!!!!!!), and to have your brain cells spent on this is just awful.

I'll agree: pursue the legal end. Bet you never even want to think about it again, but as said before, it *is* illegal, and she ought to be shut down.

megahugs

As an American and someone who simply considers Cananda my neighbor to the north, I'd be happy to stand up with you for a rousing rendition of Oh Canada....and I'll say a little prayer for you and her tonight.

hugs and cashmere to you, who lightens our days with laughter and joie de vivre. just keep being the light. we love you. way more of us out here.

YH- I would just like to say that I've enjoyed everything that you've written for the public to see. I'm an American proudly and would have said something if I thought it was cruel. I love that you post about "Canadian" type things, because learning about others is always great. And I've noticed you say when you happen to post on the 4th of July, Happy Independence Day to all those that celebrate it, or something of the like. You rock!
S

It's a total shame you're having to deal with a mentally unstable individual who is seriously on-the-borderline of threatening you. Please take care of yourself and your family. Don't let this person ruin Sock Summit -- you've worked hard and deserve a wonderful event. Best wishes to you.

Isn't it funny how she claims to be christian but her treatment of you is anything but christian? Makes you want to know exactly what she's getting out of her religious experience.

I'm sorry that you and your family have to put up with this type of crap. I'm American and I love you.

I am always amazed that people do not see how ridiculous they are. Your blog, books, knitting and character speak for themselves. The woman is a nut and unfortunatly she is from America, how sad for us. We are not all crazy. Please continue what you do and be safe.

I'm one more American who thinks you're terrific. Please accept this long-distance hug from a stranger who cares.

I'm one more American who thinks you're terrific. Please accept this long-distance hug from a stranger who cares.

Oh, Stephanie. How sad.

Dang, but you must be a saint.
I'll be holding you in the light and sending strength.
I hope you know how many more people adore you than are loonily stalking you.
~Carrie, a (not crazy) American

I've been too busy reading your blog, your books AND calendar to notice your so called anti American comments. You make me smile and there have been days that you made me laugh when I desperately needed a laugh. You and your books have gotten me through my Mom's knee surgery, my Father In law's heart attack, two Late night runs to the ER when my teenaged son suffered severe chest pains and the follow up appointments we're going through.
And I thank you for your "company" on those occassions.
Big hugs for you and yours.

Kyra (in San Antonio, Texas)

From what I can tell from your writing you are an awesome mom, and a kind, loving person in general. This person is wrong on so many levels. I'm really sorry, Stephanie that you have to deal with this. Ridiculous. I'm from the US and I've never thought you've been anti-American. That's crazy talk. I met you in Seattle last year and you were completely awesome in person too. You have all my love, respect, and admiration for how you've dealt with this.

Oh Stephanie, you are such a wonderful woman. I know that to be true--it's so clear in everything you write.

I'm so sorry this is happening. I wouldn't worry for one little second about the etiquette of posting these evil emails--that applies to normal circumstances. You don't get to use manners as an excuse to hide your evil behaviour.

If I don't like someone, I don't hang around them. That's what decent, normal people do.

As for you feeling insecure, I know you are human with great qualities and flaws like the rest of us, (though are sure funnier than a lot of people and you can knit faster than anyone I know). I also know that, as other posters have said, even though your writing is mostly light hearted, it's touched me in very serious ways more than once.

Like so many others I feel a kinship with you. I'm vegetarian, have worn birks for years, I love a good beer (McMennamins got me through grad school), we have similar philosophies of childbirth and child rearing, I love that you were a doula--best invention ever!--and so much more.

I know we are not "friends." That doesn't mean you haven't been of value in my life. When I was pregnant and read your story about the sleeping, laboring woman, that changed my whole approach to my pregnancy, in a way that was so important for me.

Your recent book about the very energetic child was so, so comforting--I have that very child--and there's so little comfort and sense about that kind of child. Wonderful though they are, they are so hard and so exhausting, too, and that acknowledgment that someone else knew how I felt and that it was real and valid was so, so important to me.

And your general decency, goodness, and caring reminds almost every day that yes, there are people like you in the world, and I must never allow myself to be too cynical.

I appreciate all that and so much more, more than you will ever know.

Thank you for everything.

If I see you at Sock Summit I promise not to be too fangirl, though I confess it will be hard. ;)

Stephanie, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. I am American and I only have admiration and liking for you. I enjoy reading your views on everything, agree with most, and frequently quote you to my friends. I think you have done a fabulous job raising your beautiful daughters and that the reason that so very many people love you (point to 30,000 trying to sign up for Sock Summit!) is that you are not only a great knitter, but you genuinely try to do what you can to make the world better. If only we could have more of you. I hope she gets tired of this and goes away. You don't deserve to have to deal with her.

With idiots like her running loose in America, this might be a fine time to consider moving to Canada...

Oh my hell. People need to get a life. Seriously........can we all just go back to our knitting? All of this over yarn and knitting?? Uh, I hope she isn't coming to Sock Summit.

You hang in there sister. Like my dad says, don't let the bastards get you down.

Scary.

Keep being the LIGHT you are! *HUGS*

I'm sorry. Just reading this made my stomach hurt, and I'm not the one getting these emails. I know that you know this -- but we're not all like that down here. You're doing the right thing, and thanks for reminding us to focus on what we want there to be more of and not to feed the negative energy machine. It's hard, but it's the right thing to do.

See you in Portland (and I mean that in a good, non-stalkery kind of way).

(P.S. I can't wait for the rant about the use of terms to refer to female genitalia as an insult. I have the same kind of rant that I share in a gender and language class I teach and I'm sure I could pick up a few pointers!)

There's no end to the number of ways people can get in deep on this stuff. But I completely support the shine the light on principle, even where there's a little dust kicked up in the process. I think if you are prepared to say it, you should be prepared to stand up for it and the anonymity of the internet indeed lets people bypass all social controls. It is up to every user of the internet to build conventions to make it clear what is not OK. The number of comments here is a testament to how many people support your view.

Hi Stephanie! As a dual American and Canadian citizen, I can say with perfect confidence that I love Canadians. And I love Americans. And most of all, I love knitters...wherever they live. What I do not love are people who have so little self-esteem that they need to tear down others in order to feel important. How pathetic!

I applaude you for your courage, artistry, enthusiasm, and your caring heart. And I am sorry that you have to go through this, just so some person with a sickness of the soul can feel like she finally has her 5 minutes of fame.

{{{STEPHANIE}}}

The first time I picked up your book in the store I felt like I had sat down to chat with an old friend. You helped me out of an acrylic trap and into a cashmere one; it was great fun and my husband hated you for it. But... this is truly horrifying. Don't read another email this person sends you. Pass them on to your lawyer unread and do not burden yourself with someone else's hatred.

That actually turned my stomach. It's attitudes like that that make people hate Americans and I'm embarrassed on behalf of my country. I think you're wonderful and I have NEVER seen you be anti-American. Well, you DID question our sizing system on needles.. but really, we all should question that ;)

Well, I'm glad you post. I think you're awesome. You're freaking cool :D

One more American voice: I am so sorry for your troubles. I apologize for our very American fringe. A country that tolerates huge diversity will always include the far far edges of human behaviour, sometimes for better and, sometimes, for worse. I think you are a strong person & will find more strength from this, but oh, I am so sorry. I would like to make it all go away.

Stephanie, I am so sorry this has happened. Man, I wish you had a comment counter, and she had to read all of these comments, a large portion from Americans, supporting you. Some people haven't a clue what it means to really be Christian.

As a somewhat laid back American who has been described as either conservatively liberal or liberally conservative, I have to say that I have never read anything on your blog that I perceived as insulting to the US or Americans. (poking fun and pretty dang funny- yes, insulting- no) And if I had, well no one forces me to read your blog. If I don't like what I'm reading I'll just move on. As I've been reading your blog since '04, obviously I like what I'm reading. I'm sorry you've had to put up with so much crap, but I hope you know that the vast majority of us enjoy reading what you write whether we agree with everything or not.

I can't believe this. Please don't take her to heart because your blog is a constant source of entertainment and delight for me, as have all your books been.

Wow, she is so jealous of you!!! It's apparent to me that she's trying to steal some of your well deserved and hard earned lime light, but enough talking about her. You kick ass! You are an amazing, funny, caring, loving, giving, helpful, creative, thoughtful woman. You and your blog rock my knitting world. Keep at it!

I once heard that a person can be spiritual without being religious but a person who is religious without being spiritual is dangerous. I didn't quite get it until I read about this person. Take care of yourself and you were so right to let everyone know what was happening to you. She's not firing on all cylinders......

Hey Steph,

So who's getting tired of the humor writing? And BTW, 'jolly well' is a fine expression, but soooo not an American English expression, just sayin... Keep up the good work and the humorous (and often thoughtful) writing!

Oh I get it! She's crazy. I hope you can now dismiss her as she is not worth dwelling on anymore.

wow. much love to you harlot. from an american, who has seen you in 3 states (one twice), bought your books, laughed and cried with you for the past 5 years.

I read faithfully, have left comments, received responses and have had the pleasure of meeting you. Stephanie, I think you are incredibly level-headed, and I applaud you for your handling of this situation. If I am reading everything correctly, and I think I am, then this all stemmed from a post for Canada Day. So, because you are proud to be Canadian, you're automatically anti-American? Does that make me, an American, anti-Canadian? No. How about the fact that I was born blonde, does that mean I hate brunettes? No.

In fact, I remember last year you spoke of someone being upset over your Canada Day posting (hopefully I'm not completely delusional here), that I did a post of my own on my blog, about Texas --http://cusegirlknits.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/the-texas-sky-is-the-biggest-one-ive-seen-but-it-still-aint-big-enough-for-you-and-me/

This does not mean I'm Anti any-other state, it means I'm proud to be a Texan. Sheesh.

Thank you for letting us know. Thank you for keeping your blog. Thank you just for being you.

Being a woman of sterling good sense, I'm sure you've already taken whatever legal steps are available to you to protect yourself, your loved ones and your livelihood.

That said, I think the Arab proverb was written for just this kind of situation. "The dogs bark, but the caravan moves on." You just keep moving on, Steph.

I'm appalled at this persons comments and treatment of you. I love to read your blog and books- If she doesn't like you why does she still read these?? I hope you can get the authorities to stop her harassment. Your other fans and I stand with you- don't let the turkeys get you down!!

Respectable knitters distancing themselves from you? Huh? I'm pretty respectable (a PhD student) and I'm not distancing myself!

You're an inspiration.

I have to say I'm disappointed in the way she has misrepresente and insulted my country--and I'm an American. Be well, be safe, be strong.

Add me to your looooong list of admirers and a first time poster. Please don't let her ugly behavior penetrate your inner awesomeness. Her voice is really just random noise from the universe. Let it pass by and float off into the vacuum.

Many hugs, Stephanie. I'll say what many of the others are. As an American and a Christian (albeit a liberal one *gasp*)...this woman is...wrong (trying to be polite, here lol).

Love you, love your parenting, love your...trueness? of self, love your patriotism to your country, love your knitting, & love your books.

1) I am American, and often proud of it.
2) I am Christian
3) I just re-read your last Canada day post, and could not figure out where the anti-American sentiment was.
4) I just re-read your 2008 Canada day post and could not figure out where the anti-American sentiment was.
5) I have read, and commented on, your blog for years. I have heard you talk, and talked to you in the signing line. I adore you and your writing.
6) While I live in Minnesota, very close to Canada, I learn more about Canada from you than I do anywhere else.

SOMEONE has to learn that just because you are proud of your country, and say that things are so in Canada and not necessarily in the rest of the world - that is NOT a bash against the US.

I wish you strength and love through this time. I wish I was coming to the Sock Summit so I could tell you this in person.

I'm shocked to read this story! I've been reading your blog (& your books) for years. I even met you briefly at MD Sheep & Wool a while back... and I cannot imagine why anyone would have such venom towards you! I have always found you to be a lovely person: funny, witty & sincere. And so what if you're proud of your country? Good for you! Pride in one's own country does not equal scorn for other countries.

I am a Christian, pretty conservative American, and although I know this goes without saying, she does NOT represent me or anyone I know, at all! I am always especially disturbed when people who claim to be Christian behave in such terrible ways. And anyway, if you ask me, I think that chic has a little bit of the crazy going on (like, John Hinckley, Jr. crazy) so I'll be praying that she just goes away.

I support you, Stephanie! Thank you for sharing your knits, your family & your life with us!

She really is nuts and responding, as you say, just fuels the fire. Hang in there; we're with you...

Stephanie, this is cyber stalking. Please get help from the authorities. As you can see from all your comments there are so many people who have never met you who love you and would protect you if they could. Please take care of yourself.

This woman is very scary & what she has been doing is (I think) illegal. I agree with the suggestions that you seek legal advice. She is a crazy stalker & who knows what she might do. Her blatant distortions of what you have said (anti-American? what? does she think that being proud of your country makes you anti-American?) are symptomatic of serious mental illness & you need to take action to protect yourself. If you have her address, you might contact local law enforcement to see if there is anything they can do to help you.

Oh.My.Goodness!

For a minute, (ok longer than a minute), I thought that you were going to say that you were shutting the blog down.

Please take care of yourself, and Joe and the girls. This is a very scary situation.

We're all here for you. And we love you. I love your Canada Day entries. I've learned so much about Canada from them. You have national pride. She has national pride. Why are you wrong, and she's right? Because, of course, she's not.

You've been trying to let this die down, and now it's in the light. But so is all the support you've got. From all corners of the world. We love you!

Oh dear. You have unwittingly attracted a nut. I understand the urge to defend oneself, but you aren't dealing with a person who operates by the normal rules of rational discourse. There is no reasoning with someone who isn't equipped with that ability.

I'm an American, and I've never been offended by your blog. Keep doing what you do, writing what you write, and carry one. I second Laura's hug.

I Googled a few phrases and found her within moments. Then I read about 5 of her blogs and felt physically sick. I'm OK with disagreement as long as you stick to the facts, but moving into personal attacks is a bit much for me. She's vicious and hateful and disturbed. Stephanie, just know, she does not represent all 260 million Americans. The rest of us "Sensible" people understand your humor and love it (which is why you have all the blogging awards, the best-selling books, a socks summit so popular that the entire server crashed.... :) and she....well....whatever..)

Message received. I won't ever venture there again.

Just know that you are receiving a lot of love tonight.

Yeesh, Steph. I'm so sorry. And a little worried, this woman is clearly not completely sane. Is there anything legally you can do to make her leave you alone? I mean, even if you were anti-American, atheist, blah blah blah, (which I in no way think you are), there are much greater villians and evil folks in the world. (In fact, we don't have to look beyond our own US borders to find them...) As an American, and more importantly, a fellow human, I support you and all that you give to the world. As a follower of Christ, I will try to remember that we are to love our enemies. That's the goal, anyway. Hang in there sister.

We all know what is going on now. Thank you for the clear honesty -- nothing posted by her will even be read, much less thought about...

No contest.

Hi Stephanie!

I'm another lurker, sorry I don't comment very often.
I am so very proud and impressed by your compassion to others. You've definitely got my support! And I agree with Cate (somewhere far above in the comments) - this lady definitely doesn't knit enough.

(((((HUGS))))

Long-time reader, first-time poster, *and* an American who's visiting Canada right now for the very first time! (Lovely, lovely country by the way! I'm in Montreal, and the people (and the food!) are forty billion kinds of amazing.) I just Twittered some adoration to you, but I wanted to post here, too.

I love your sense of humor and honesty about EVERYTHING -- the joys and frustrations about knitting, family, traveling, the whole kit 'n' kaboodle. Your posts make my day, make me cry, make me laugh... THANK YOU.

I'm so sorry to hear about this situation. Please know that for every single person like that out there, there are thousands and thousands more who love and respect what you do. I'm proud of how you are handling this.

Oh. I had no idea all this was going on while you are hard at work on the sock summit. Be careful please- that person sounds unstable. You're a fantastic individual and this isn't about you.
Another American fan who loves you and your work.

I'm an American who loves the fact that you love your Country enough to say so, every year, even though there is backlash. I understand the difference between loving your country and dissing another, and I strongly suspect that people who say otherwise have hidden agendas that don't even pertain to your love of Canada. Like they hate environmentalists, or celebrities, or they're off their meds. For every jerk, you have two hundred people who love you.

Hi Steph, I have sent a post to you earlier in this wonderful response. I just spoke to my son who is in IT security for a major corporation. He says there is no provider that wants their customer to be harassed. He says the reason it continues is that people give up to soon when trying to complain. He says to get in touch with supervisors in security with all of your providers, including twitter and facebook. Provide them with copies of several of the messages from several of the addresses and particularly any with threats. It may take you more than one try, but keep trying until you find someone to listen and we both hope that you do. He does also say that you might have to go beyond the local authorities. I hope we are not leading you on a goose chase and that you get some action and some relief. Good luck, Steph.

I am so sorry! We Americans unfortunately have a few bad apples, that tend to ruin reputations for the rest of us. We love you so much, and I personally feel horrible for what you must be going through. As someone who recently endured a crazy reject-almost boyfriend, one who followed me around and tried to alienate me from my friends when I was in a scary new environment, I sympathize with anyone who feels harassed. I can only hope that this woman will see the error of her ways--it really only shows your kind heart that you don't publish her name, and continue to take the high road. We're all rooting for you Stephanie! Keep being your amazing blogger self!

Oh Stephanie, I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been dealing with. And on top of all the Sock Summit planning!! Hopefully she'll knock it off soon so you and your family can have some peace. Thank you so much for your blog, I always enjoy reading it (and your books) and have never read anything anti-American or whatever. Lots of good thoughts coming your way from Iowa. :)

I know this is far from an original comment, but I have to post it: I am a Christian American traditional woman and whoever this person is - rest assured she DOES NOT represent me in any way, shape or form.

She is giving Christian American Women a bad name.

Thank you for the bravery it took to share the whole ugly mess. You shouldn't have to deal with that alone. You have support out here!

I personally enjoy your Canada Day posts as they are wonderful tributes to your beautiful country and they also remind me to wish Happy Canada Day to my best friend - who is, of course Canadian, living here in the US. We saw you when you were in CA a few years back and you "tested" her with some sort of candy jingle. We had a blast that day.

You are loved and respected here in the US no matter what that person says.

Stephanie, Bless you for your courage and determination to put an end to the "mean" and obvious unnecessary harassment you've been suffering for the past month. As an American Knitter/Crafter, one bad apple does not speak for all of us. And the person harassing you is a bad apple. You that you are loved for who you are and for standing up for your principles.

Stephanie---You're a class act! You've taught a lot of people a great deal about knitting. Now you've educated a whole lot more on how to take the high road in an untenable situation. Take care.

Jane

I am American and think you like us a lot other wise you wouldn't come to see us. So please keep coming to see us and I send a comment hug for you keep strong.

I just wanted to say, like over 500 people before me, that you are always respectful, funny, and smart. Don't let anyone make you question that for a second. Robin, Ohio, USA

By the way, the high road takes a lot more grit than mudslinging, but I'm sure you know that. You've handled this well.

Dearest Stephanie,
As a first-time poster (but LONG time reader) I feel like perhaps I may not have earned the right to call you "Dearest," but that is what you feel to me; a wonderful friend, who delights me with her witticisms, laughs, and plain ol' common sense every time I am lucky enough to read your posts. I will not give this woman the attention she wishes and rail on her tactics (as much as the fear and anger in my heart wishes to do), but yet, as a small effort to counterbalance the negativity placed in the world by her and others like her, I write this list for you, a list of what you have taught me (and all the thanks and love that it can entail):

-You have, unbeknownst to you, happily encouraged me to finish my first sweater (seamed up January, 2009);
-You have given me exemplars (and some sage advice) of how to raise my future children;
-You have made me, as an American, even MORE proud to share a border with your fine country, which I did not think possible (an aside: my home state of Maine is often lovingly called "Southern Canada," for reasons I wish were more for the supreme humanity of your people and less for the frigid cold! :) ;
-You have made me wish for a love as strong, cooperative, and fun as the one that you share with your Joe;
-You have made me tardy to work due to checking your Twitter feed :) ;
-You have made me want to try to knit socks (as scary as they seem);
-You have made me smile, on a daily basis;
-You have made me purchase your book "Knitting Rules," which I must say was one of the more entertaining and informational reads I have had in quite a long time;
-You have inspired me to knit at bars (and my non-knitting friends think it quaint!);
-You have taught me to seek out yarn stores, stitch'n'bitches, and knitting clubs;

But after all of this, perhaps, most importantly:
-You have made me smile and laugh heartily;
-You have made me love the art of knitting above all crafts;
-You have made my day.

I am sorry for the long post, but I wanted to try and counteract the bad with some positive energy (as well as maybe pump a bit of happy into your life).

With the most respect and admiration,
Lissa

Hate to hear that someone is taking what should be a fun blog for everyone to enjoy into an opportunity to spout vile nonsense. Stephanie, if you have to turn off comments for a while, we will understand. We will miss it, but we will understand. I think some blogs have a "comment delay" feature for this very reason, where comments aren't posted until the blogger has a had a chance to screen them.

I'm another reader who has never posted. Maybe once or twice. I never posted because I didn't think you read all your comments. Well, I guess you have to now. I'm so sorry you have to put up with that and I'm so embarrassed that she is from America. It gets me extremely angry when people use their religion to justify being a snot. She might say she's a christian but she sure isn't acting like one. And everyone I know thinks you are wonderful.

Further proof there ain't no lifeguard at the gene pool.

I think perhaps your harasser is ill and has developed a very illogical fixation with you.

For the record, I'm Australian and never once took your Canada Day posts as anti-US ... or anti-Australian for that matter ;-)

XOX

FYI I meant to add that if you need extra support in the IT department, I also work IT security and support. If you need extra firepower, you ONLY have to say so.

Another long-time lurker coming out to say good for you and keep on going! I love reading what you write and would be very sad if you stopped! And as my mom always says, 'never get into a fight with someone who is clearly crazier than you.'

I'm so ashamed of one of my own people treating you in this manner. You have nothing to feel a lack of self esteem over. You are the most brilliant individual I have come across in a very long time and I truly love everything you do. I have learned so much from you and have been inspired to try sock knitting even. I can't imagine putting on a sock summit like you are ding without a whole staff of help. I trust that this doesn't become a threat of harm to you and your family. I would think there could be something done if that happens. Freedom to use the wireless isn't a license to harm.

I'm so sorry. Thanks for putting it out there.

I never comment on blogs, though I follow yours religiously. This blog has kept me entertained, grounded and sane through some pretty rough times (some really icky MS stuff, BTW, thanks for that!) and I am realy sorry to see this happen to such a wonderful person and her family.

I also found the culprit's blog, unfortunately through her comment tonight. And all I can say is wow. Not very Christian.

I've been reading for a while now and think I've only commented once or twice. This post really is bringing a lot of lurkers out into the light!

It's because we all love having you in our virtual lives. It's because we all so appreciate your wit and character, and I think I speak for a lot of us when I say I'd go to the mattresses for you. Thanks for being classy enough not to raise your army of loyal knitters to do battle.

As an ex-pat American who loves her new country, I've been accused to anti-Americanism. It hurts, and it's frightening, because it shows how blinded people can be by nationalism.

I just wanted you to know that when I work on my prayer shawl today, I'll be praying for your safety and health.

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}} Sorry you have to deal with this. Keep to the high road and keep writing! Don't let the trolls get you down.

I love your blog, and I love your Canada Day posts. I agree with everyone above- please ignore her and keep up the great work!

I have been reading your blog for a while, but this is my first time commenting. Like so many other people, I just wanted to say that I am so sorry that this woman is causing you so much trouble. You have handled this situation well, and I hope it gets better soon.

Stephanie, you are a class act, seriously. Thank you for all your witty words and helpful hints. I love all of your books. And I am a American. (but secretly want to be a Canadian)

wow. i've seen my fair share of crazy on the internet, but not somewhere as peaceful and fun as your site. i'm sorry you are going through this.

When the US gets good health care, perhaps this woman will be able to get help for her mental illness. Meanwhile, I hope you can feel our support for you.

Love. Light. Respect.
I hope she gets whatever help she needs asap. In the meantime, you have a lot of voices, including mine, to drown it out. You rock.

Another American here sending support and good vibes your way! Take the steps you necessary to limit your exposure and to protect yourself, and try to live your life as you always have. Your blog is wonderful - I've read it for years and have never read anything that could be considered offensive. To the contrary, I've learned a lot and laughed myself silly. Stay strong!

I've posted here just a few times - Stephanie, sending you light and peace. I'm American, and as others have been saying, this person does NOT speak for all of us - she's definitely not well, so please be safe.

Thanks for all the joy and laughter your writing and insight has brought me over the last few years. You are a (Canadian) treasure!

Your blog is funny, funny, funny, and I enjoy seeing the beautiful things you knit. However, I LOVE when you delve into your day-to-day life. The appliance adventures, the cooking with family, the friends you meet when you visit new places...all of these things inspire me. As a 29-year-old woman, my peers and surroundings sometimes make me cynical about love and family. The way you live your life reminds me that there are folks out there who live honestly and love earnestly. So, thanks for sharing.

I am the husband of a knitter. got this through the various lines. I am an American, married to a Canadian, imagine how horrible I must be!. I have never seen, nor heard anything Anti-American in any of the blogs nor the books I have seen. I can only imagine how stressful this can be. But be strong, there are only so many IPs that the ISP will give her. (I know this for I am a certified computer geek, took the tests and everything). If you know her Provider, contacting them with evidence of her malice, they might be able to step in and help. Imagine her fury when an American company helps a Canadian.

Best wishes and chin up!

Tray

Stephanie,

I'm very sorry you are having to deal with this. The woman is certainly mentally ill. I want you to know that I think you're terrific, I like your blog and your books, and I'll be thinking of you at this difficult time.

Long time reader - first time poster. Stay strong, nutters can be the hardest, most draining people in the world. You bring much enjoyment to many, know we appreciate you and the effort.

Oh Stephanie. Light and Love, indeed, and I'm sending them to you. I think you and every member of your family to be exceptional human beings.
I'm sorry this has been going on. XOXOX

Stephanie,
This is so hurtful and I'm so sorry that you have had to (privately even) deal with all of this. I hope that this and all the other wonderful comments help you to feel like we have your back on this because we TOTALLY do.

Good for you. And thank you for setting a good example for reacting to a tough situation. I wish you the best of luck, and love all your books and posts (they make my day. Really, they do).

Happy knitting and all the best!

p.s.
Love the Canada Day posts (even though I live in the States). It's always good to know about and understand other countries. Woohoo multiculturalism!

Dear Yarn Harlot:

Over the years I have been very impressed with the graceful and respectful way you have dealt with uncomfortable situations. Sadly your success has thrown you into the lime light and made you a target.

You have taught me to be kinder by your example. I was a shocked to think about what having a cyber stalker would be like. I hope good can come out of this event. It makes me want to be kinder, more tolerant, and always wait 24 hours before responding to something that has made me angry. I plan to go out and practice some random act of kindness in your name.

Stunned and so very sorry you've had to deal with this. You should be proud of yourself for the way you've handled it. Behind you 100%!

Stephanie,
My family and I are the target of unreasoned hatred and vitriol from a neighbor who is, I am convinced, paranoid schizophrenic. She has demeaned, debased, and slandered us to friends and acquaintances. She has regularly screamed and cursed at us. She has shot at my husband and son (for which she was arrested and hospitalized). Fortunately, our friends, neighbors, acquaintances and anyone else in the county know that she is sick, and that we are not the drug dealers, cattle rustlers, and murderers that she believes we are.

This is true for you, too. One misguided, mistaken person cannot override what the rest of us know about you. That you are a fine, loving, witty, responsible, hard-working, talented (I could go on) person.

We ignore her. We reported her to the sheriff when she broke the law. We live with it and get on with our lives.

Call the police. I'm not even joking. What is happening is not legal here (in the U.S.).

I didn't interpret your own pride in your country as anti-anything. I am proud of the good things mine has done too, but not so much some of the other things.

How embarrassing for an American Christian that's not a goofball.

As an American Christian, this person is an embarrassment. So sorry to know that you are dealing with something like this and just know that we support you and love what you are doing.

Long time reader & fan from America. I've never heard/read anything from you that sounded anti-America. I adore you & your writing. Just wanted to send you an Internet hug.

Long time reader & fan from America. I've never heard/read anything from you that sounded anti-America. I adore you & your writing. Just wanted to send you an Internet hug.

I am completely shocked, appalled, and (almost) without words. This woman obviously has some major mental issues that she needs to work out. I know it's easier said than done, but please don't let this one person get to you. There are thousands of us out here who think you are doing a great and wonderful thing and we enjoy reading all about your life. Please keep your head up and I hope this all blows over soon.

I'm a conservative/right-wing Christian American knitter. And I think you're amazing. And I'll keep buying your books.

Don't let the Muggles get you down!

Another lurker coming out in support. I hope the sheer number of new commenters who want to show you love and appreciation can offset the one rotten apple.

I don't always agree with you, but I love the way you write. Acceptance of different ideas is one of the big things that makes this world work.

Unbelievable -- and more than a little scarey. Surely there is something someone (i.e., the "authorities") can do. It must have been terrible for you to carry this around this last month. Remember how many friends and supporters you have -- people who would never be influenced by such garbage. There are thousands of us out here...let us know if there is any way we can help.

Time and again, I'm impressed by your strength, but above all, kindness. It's an honor to "know" you, and I hope that this trouble ends for you soon. Hang in there.

And I LOVE your Canada Day posts, so, somewhat ingraciously, I say this woman can suck it.

I'm so sorry you've had to struggle with this, Stephanie. You're a good person.

Good for you for keeping the blog going - I'm not sure how I'd summon the will to go on without it. :) It'll be my privilege to ignore her completely.

SO MUCH LOVE from San Francisco.
(And every American *I* know absolutely adores you.)

I am so, so, sorry you have to deal with this. I'm a Christian American Woman. TOTALLY WITH YOU, and I wish you all the best in further dealings with this problem.

I doubt I can say something that hasn't been said in the 500+ supportive and sincere comments before mine.
I suspect you probably won't have the opportunity to read this far down, normal life compounded by Sock Summit and all...

But I wanted to add my comments to the Number.

This isn't a time to be polite and note "it's been said, no need to comment". In this case it Needs to be said Thousands of More times. I want you to see the number of people that stepped up to say:
We're behind you. We admire you. We do not doubt your parenting skills or your choice of spouses or your many talents. Those of us that are True Americans revel and delight in your love of Canada - just as we love our own Country.
Fair's fair.

We're VERY sorry/embarrassed/annoyed/creeped out that some power-hungry bully is harrassing you.
Obviously she has no Clue about what the United States of America stands for and she truly needs to get a life (and some professional assistance).

I believe you've taken all the right paths. I also believe you are not dealing with a reasonable person so your efforts can not have a reasonable effect.

We shall do our level best NOT to react to/feed this persons delusions. She's not worth our time and she's taken up way to much of yours.
Oy - SERIOUS waste of some good knitting time.
E-hugs and Kudos to you for showing us the best of humanity.

Love, respect, and admiration for everything you do here. It takes a lot of courage to make this public, and I won't mention it on my blog either, no matter how much it makes me angry. You rock, and I hope that this post proves a release for all of the self-doubt this situation has caused. There is no need for any of it, from where I stand (tush firmly planted on American soil). You rock, and we all know it.

My dear YH. I am from the US. I love my country. But people like this make me weep for it. Any "anti-american" feelings out there are well earned IMO, largely by Ugly Americans like this woman. Stay strong, stay proud and know we love you. Your conduct regarding this lunatic are spot-on. Oh and I agree about the "Pussy" thing...sheesh. Besides she's very tame if she thinks that's the worst insult in the American playbook. I've got about ten things in my head right now when thinking about her that are far FAR worse. *grins*

As an American, I am sincerely sorry for all the rude comments you have received. I love your Canada Day posts and have never found them in poor taste or "anti-American". Love!

Steph, I have only rarely commented on your blog, but I have to say I'm very distressed that anyone could treat another person this way, and doubly distressed that it is one of my own countrywomen. She most definitely does not represent all of us! As for your Canada Day posts, I find them fascinating, as American schools do not spend a lot of time teaching Canadian history and politics so I'm woefully ignorant about my northern neighbors.

so sorry this has been going on -- I'm hoping (and praying) that you and your family get a good night's sleep tonight...

Stephanie, I am an American woman 68 years old and I love your books, your blog and You. You make me smile and laugh out loud. I admire you so much. This is the first time I have ever commented on your blog (or any blog for that matter). I read your blog every day that I am using my computer. Keep up the good work and I am sorry that you have this stalker harassing you. What she is doing is not "Christian" in any way shape or form.

After I was introduced to your blog I took the time to re-read it from the beginning, and I noticed the change in tone & topics from those early days. I figured it was because of your growing celebrity and, while I missed the homey stuff etc I thought I understood it. Now I realize what you've been faced with and the fact that you post at all is amazing to me. I am so sorry a fellow american is ranting on you. Hugs to you in sympathy.

wow. Just Wow.

As a fellow American, I just have to say that I am very sorry you are having to deal with this. As the rest of the comments before mine have said, you are awesome. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. ♥

Some people sincerely need to get a life.

On behalf of the vast majority of your Christian American fans, we love you.

Wow...
Yarn Harlot, you are my hero. It is so sad that somebody feels the need to be a bully. You are incredible and this woman needs help.
Rock on!

Oh dear - what an ugly American, making us other neighbors to Canada look so awful. I am so sorry for this nitwit offense to you, Stephanie. I wanted you to know how much I love your writing. Please know what huge amount of good you do for the rest of us. xxoo

love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love

hope that helps!

You light up my life with your wonderful wit, wisdom, and sharing. I stand in admiration of your generosity of spirit, caring about the world around you, and constant giving in all that you do. Please stoke and hug your self-confidence and inner critic with these words. Rock on, Stephanie.

Like so many others, I have not posted previously. I must do so tonight to add my support and appreciation. I enjoy your blog, your books, and your approach to life and knitting. I am a U.S. citizen who has learned interesting things from your Canada Day blogs and has never felt threatened by anything you have said.

Trying to make good out of bad, I have just made my first donation to MSF in your honor.

Thanks for what you do to make the world a better place.

I have no idea what to say. I can only apologize as one American for my fellow citizen.

I hope that the light will stop this.

Love and many hugs and MUCH support from America's Heartland.

Ok, I won't fuel her fire with what I really think. But you need to know that I am a New Yorker and love your blog - and also was afraid you were going to stop - please don't! I often read your writings to my husband (not a knitter) because I think you are incredibly witty and enjoyable to lots more people than just knitters! Please know that there are LOTS and LOTS more of us and only ONE of her.

600 some comments later, I just have to reiterate much of what has been said here. I actually shared this post with my husband and we looked at each other with disgust and surprise at this person. Also, a big thank you...you are funny, witty, and a talented knitter.

For those of you who are leaving comments on "she who is not to be named's" blog, although I TOTALLY understand the urge, I think the comments here speak MUCH louder. Also, when possible, bad behavior should be ignored.

Ok, I won't fuel her fire with what I really think. But you need to know that I am a New Yorker and love your blog - and also was afraid you were going to stop - please don't! I often read your writings to my husband (not a knitter) because I think you are incredibly witty and enjoyable to lots more people than just knitters! Please know that there are LOTS and LOTS more of us and only ONE of her.

So sorry, Stephanie, that this lunatic has attached herself to you. As always, you are behaving as a lady and a rock. I am so proud of you for choosing the high road. In so many ways you have shown yourself as a role model deserving of admiration. Your family, your friends, and your public are a testament to your character.
I have pity for that poor, tortured soul. I hope she can find some peace inside herself and find the healing that she needs.

First time poster, long time reader. You shouldn't ever take anything this woman has to say to heart. I am ashamed that she calls herself an American! I think you are wonderful!

This American wishes you the best in dealing with this situation. You are a better person in every way.

Dearest Steph,
1. She's obviously wacko and it's sad...but it's not your problem.
2. Please take your own advice about not engaging: Don't even read her emails, PLEASE! It's just a lot of negative energy that you don't need swirling around you. Delete them and block her. Don't read her hateful words.
3. As they say on the lists, "Don't feed the Troll."

We love you and respect you, laugh with you, can't wait for the next book, and love reading about your famlly and parenting adventures (and I would never judge someone else's parenting!).

Blog on and best wishes for an ultra-successful SS09!!
SusanSW

Yowch.

Not a balanced person.

Bravo to you for going public. Do what you must. Try not to let the bully get you down.

I don't know that you are in physical danger, but you might want to get professional advice about that.

I plan to use your post as an advice to my teenagers about cyber-bullying.

I know support has been pouring in to you -- love your blog, love your books, I admire your clear thinking....

What comes AFTER SS09?

Just want to be sure my names on the "I support you" list. Love learning more about Canada from your blog. It's good for us. Expands the horizons. Hugs, Alice

Hey, could you use a beer-taster and DPN-armed bodyguard at SS? I could be on a plane tonight! (Sorry, it seemed you could use a laugh)

Just as if I were walking down the public street, I will try to have compassion for the obviously unbalanced person who is unable to "act normal" and flings her instability in onlooker's faces. In exchange for this uncharacteristic lack of response to an internet bully on my part, I beg that you take steps to be both safe AND happy.

You have striven to support your family and community, and to bring humor and joy to your readers. Only you, our Humble Harlot (and some whackjob we shall not speak of), are in any doubt that you have achieved this.

These are the people I so wish we could censor at a much baser level. Her sheer idiocy prevented me from reading everything you quoted from her. I really don't know how things would work with the country difference. I have a friend who does voice-work and a web-comic and got some very harassing emails, similar to what you've been suffering through. My friend talked with the authorities, and they talked with the harasser internet service provided and got their internet connection shut down. This was also 5 or 6 years ago, and may not be possible now.

You mentioned a call to the authorities at the beginning of your post, and I hope that they are aware of the situation. Right now she is an annoyance, but if she ever actually threatens you PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE promise us that you will report it to the authorities. With her claims of knowing where you live, any threats should be taken seriously, and action will be able to be taken.

I love your writings and truly don't feel you're anti-American (if you were, do you really think Homeland Security would let you travel here so often?). Your writing actually inspired me to take up knitting again. Knitting Rules has helped me become a more confident knitter (because of that book I have since learned to make socks and am not afraid to show off my knitting in public!)

I hope you and others who read this post do not think poorly of Americans, Christians, and Christian Americans because of the attitude of this one person.

May she grow tired of this before it gets dangerous, and may you persevere through it all.

Thank you for all that you've given to the knitting community!

Stephanie:

I love your blog. I think you're a wonderful person and I'm sorry you're having such a bad time. As an American I've always thought it was shameful that most of us don't know more about Canada and I did always wonder why there were only 13 original colonies in the U.S. when I knew there were some more northerly neighbors. I'm pleased you were able to explain some of it to me! I've learned quite alot about Canada from reading your posts and sometimes you even tell me things about the U.S. that I didn't know. I absolutely loved the Thomas Jefferson quote---I laughed over it for days. This poor woman who is bothering you is obviously demented. I hope she gets some psychiatric care soon.

Personally, I never understood how one could call oneself "Christian" & then spew forth such hurtful, awful sentiments. Not being terribly religious myself, it just seems perfectly hypocritical; pretty much the opposite of all Christian teaching. This person makes me embarrassed to be American (as if the Bush administration didn't give us enough reasons--just my opinion, disagree at will) and I offer apologies as an American for such rude behavior. If she were one of my kids, she'd be eating soap for a month. Minimum.

Hang in there, Stephanie.
I am an American Christian, and this person, whoever she is, does not speak for me.
She is apparently a different sort of Christian than I, for I believe that we should be good to each other. Furthermore, I believe that if the Jesus I follow was hanging out here on earth now, he'd probably be hanging out with knitter people and motorcycle people and homeless people, not people who knowingly set out to harm other people.
I will continue to buy your books because I like them. They make me laugh. You make me feel like it's OK to make goofy mistakes and bumble occasionally. I need that. Thank you, many times over, for that.
Peace, Karen

Stephanie,

I haven't read the entire avalanche of comments, so I don't know if someone else has suggested this, but could you hire someone, perhaps a security firm with a staff of employees, to screen the blog and your email 24/7 so you never have to read anything again from the harassing poster?

That would give you back your normal life and the time to work on what you want to work on. Also, removing yourself from the line of fire might take away the satisfaction of the game for the harasser, if she understands that her comments and emails are all consigned to an anonymous wastebasket in cyberspace by people who don't care what she writes. And I do hope that the authorities you consulted included law enforcement.

Wishing you peace of mind and spirit. Hang in there.

Stephanie, this is awful. Bravo to you. But I know what it is like to have your self-esteem trampled on. Cuts to your core.
You mentioned having talked to the 'authorities' - I assume you meant law enforcement types. I hope so. Her communications to you seem to constitute 'harassment' and needs to be dealt with as such. I suspect the cross-border aspect to this would make things difficult. But, nevertheless....
As an American, I am embarrassed by this person. It is a very troublesome thing to see what she is doing in the name of 'patriotism'. And as a Christ-follower, my heart breaks for both her shameful behavior, and for the hurt it causes you.
You are in my prayers as you deal with this issue. I pray for your protection, also.
Love & hugs & prayers fm this side of the border.

I've come to realize (after 11 years of retail) that some people are just crazy, and angry, & ready to take it out on anyone that crosses their paths. So sorry that you're bearing the brunt of it! Also, these are the sort of folks that made my best friend (who lives in the UK) afraid for years to admit that she was an American - for a while she just let people think she was Canadian :).

Another American who lurks and loves you. I am old enough to be your grandmother (great grandmother?). You honor the knitting community with your writings.

I am embarrassed that this woman is a fellow American. You are a thoroughly charming, enchanting and inspiring woman, knitter and fiber artist. You do not deserve at any level to have to deal or worry about people like this woman, especially not on your blog, for which you pay. She is entitled to like, or not like, your blog, you and your books (or your knitting for that matter). She is NOT entitled to invade your space (I consider your blog your space) with her foul nastiness.

You did well, Stephanie. She does not speak for the rest of us. Hang in there.

Cripes! I am sorry this is happening to you. Thank you for sharing with us. It seems unbelievable that someone can be so angry, taking everything personally. So sad that you have to deal with this... You bring so much joy and fun to my life. Thanks Stephanie.

Love to the nth from another Christian American woman. You are doing the right thing.
hugs hugs hugs.

Dear Stephanie,

Please do not hold this person against us. Coming from a Catholic American, she does NOT represent us in any way or form! I love your blog and have introduced it to many, many other people. It quite often gives me the laugh out loud that I need. (It's also strangely comforting to know that there are people out there as obsessed with knitting as I am...)

We all just need to remember that we are not clones and that the world would be a lot more boring if there weren't so many different people, traditions, and beliefs. Diversity is the essence of creativity! There's so much to learn from others and no one deserves to be treated like this.

Thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your family. May the happiness the you've brought to so many other people come your way soon!

I think disengagement is very wise. We should all ignore her. I am hoping that you are able to get an anti-harassment or restraining order against you. She sounds quite unstable.

This breaks my heart to see. I'm so sorry that this has been going on and I'm glad you decided to make your end public as she seemed hell bent to make hers. Your Zen nature is inspiring because I don't believe I could be as non confrontational as you have been.

Also, speaking as an American and an incredibly patriotic one, I have seen nothing wrong with your comments on America. Not to mention, you spend more time touring in our country (to sold out venues and packed yarn shops, I might add, no small feat for a knitting humor writer.) than you do your own it seems.

Knitting is, or rather, should be beyond national identity. I had always assumed knitters were countrymen regardless of geographical locations.

This woman, however, is definitely not in my tribe.

I have never posted on a blog before, but I am so sorry that an American is acting in such a nasty way and had to say something. I admire you for taking the higher ground, much more Christian than the person criticizing you. Jesus would never have acted like that! I am a Christian, a liberal Christian, and don't agree with any of what I see that person has said. Americans certainly don't have one opinion, and that she thinks she can speak for all of us, is ludicrous!
I love your books. They make me laugh and then something poignant touches me and makes me thoughtful. I read chapters of your books to my knitting group and we all laugh and see ourselves or someone we know. Don't let the turkeys get you down, keep doing your thing. I admire and respect you.
BTW, I am so anxious for Sock Summit and taking your class, see you in Portland soon!

Hug to you, Stephanie, for having to deal with people like that (and in the middle of SS stuff now, too!). She really sounds mentally unstable. Hang in there!

Stay strong and know that your readers in the southern hemisphere have your back while you sleep.

Oh Stephanie,
I almost cried by the end of your post - what a mean-spirited, small-minded (gah!!!) to treat you that way. Having scrolled through all the comments it's easy to see that I'm not the only one who appreciates your humor, knowledge, and candor (and not just for knitting posts, either!). "At Knit's End" was the first non-pattern book I bought when I re-learned to knit and I've purchased all your other books since.
Be safe. Hug Joe and the girls. Knit/spin something nice. Be well.

1. This is typical ranting from a bully and a right-wing fanatic who thinks that if you're not wearing flag underwear, you're a pinko commy faggot.
2. I'm an American and she does NOT represent me.
3. Seconds on the stalking, illegal stuff. File as many forms with as many authorities as possible.
4. Thanks for letting us know about it.
5. As we say down here in the South: "That is just plain TACKY!"
6. My sock that you rubbed with your sock mojo down in Fairhope? Will never be washed or worn again and am seriously thinking about framing it in a shadow box.
7. Keep your head up. We love you.

I'm sorry this is happening to you. Please PLEASE be safe.

As an American who has lived over half my life in states that border Canada - I love your post for getting to know different aspects of Canada. Your Canada Day posts always are wonderful and interesting, please continue to do that post. I have hiked and canoed in Canada more than visiting any of the cities. After your trip to Nova Scotia I put that area on my list of places to visit - it is the only provence that I haven't been in yet.

Very personally, I adore the posts that you put up on your daughters birthdays. I just finished unsuccessful fertility treatments and wish that I would have had the honor to post such lovely and honest sentiments on a child's birthday. Thank you for allowing me to have a small look into your life.

Thank you for continuing to blog. Love and light your direction.

Long-time reader, first-time blog-commenter! I check your blog everyday. You're funny, kind, interesting, and all about yarn. YARN, for the love of Pete. I'm ignoring what's-her-name but continue to think you're fabulous and a breath of fresh air in my otherwise crazy kid, work, yarn-filled life.

Oh, Internets. I guess you've hit the big time now, Steph: apparently no blog is really famous until it's had it's first stalker.

But, as the internet says so often, f*** the haters. You have made me laugh and sometimes cry and learn some new things, here and in person. I feel privileged to have this little window into your life and to have met you twice, and I hope the next time you come 'round with a book I get to do it all over again.

There's an awful lot of light here right now, and I hope it's helping. Much love to you and your family.

Oh Stephanie,
I almost cried by the end of your post - what a mean-spirited, small-minded (gah!!!) to treat you that way. Having scrolled through all the comments it's easy to see that I'm not the only one who appreciates your humor, knowledge, and candor (and not just for knitting posts, either!). "At Knit's End" was the first non-pattern book I bought when I re-learned to knit and I've purchased all your other books since.
Be safe. Hug Joe and the girls. Knit/spin something nice. Be well.

PS I'm an American, too, and we upstanding citizens don't take to kindly to bullying, cyber or otherwise.

I hope very much that your anonymouse jerkface
a) gets help
b) recognizes that her millions of fellow Americans do not want her speaking on their behalf
c) realizes that actual genuine 'good Christian folk' probably don't go around wreaking petty enraged vendettas via the internet, and
d) ceases and desists.

I second/third/millionth the comments above saying good for you; good for you for posting and showing yourself to be so much better a human being than it would be very easy to be in such a situation as this.

This woman is mentally ill. Her illness and obsession has nothing to do with you. Look up Borderline Personalities - it'll be very familiar.

We love you!!
Yet another American

Thanks so much for the dedication and patience you show in every post. Your blog renewed my interest in knitting and got me through the two longest months in my life. (Two months is about how long it took to catch up.) I'm sorry you are going through something like this, and I greatly admire how you are handling it. You're amazing.

Hugs!! Hope your tension hasn't changed during this. It would be real sucky to have to rip out and reknit. :)

I'm a native Minnesotan/naturalized Texan, and I have never taken offense at any of your Canada Day blogs (or any other of your blogs, for that matter). In fact, I have learned so much about Canada from them.

I'm sorry you are being harassed; please know that this woman does not speak for the rest of us.

Wow, a knitting inspiration AND an inspiration to be the bigger person. Thanks.

I'm a transplanted Canadian living in the US and so I'm switching between offense and embarassment in regards to that woman.

Sadly, she reminds me of someone I know, whom I strongly suspect of being mentally ill. Good for you for not fueling the deranged fire.

Long time American reader here, though I may have only posted one time before (maybe). I am so sorry that this person has focused thusly on you. Your blog is great. Funny, witty, informative, great fun to read. Keep up the FANTASTIC blog! :)

WOW! I'm sorry this is happening. As a side note, I don't think you are anti-American at all. I live in Alaska, and if posting about Canada makes you anti-American, than my blog is probably that as well. I post ALL the time about how much I love Alaska and how I could never live anywhere else. I celebrate Alaska Day and sometimes I even make up Alaskan holidays just to celebrates its awesome-ness. I hope you are able to take care of this. I will see you at Sock Summit!! I got into your class and I'm incredibly excited... alright, enough babble. Feel better. You are incredible.

Ok. When I started this comment you only had 665 comments, meaning that I get to be the DEVIL COMMENT!!! aka Comment of Satan. Yippee!

Now, back to WHY I was commenting. Don't get me started on what I think about 'Christians'. People like that woman are what make me embarrassed to be an American sometimes. They make me cringe. Well, they make me do more than that actually. I think you know how much support you really do have and how many people enjoy and admire you. You're a strong, intelligent woman and people recognize it. Crap like what that woman is spewing can get to you after a while. I'm glad you voiced it. Its so much easier to deal with out in the open and I'm sure that now that people are on the lookout for her kind of crazy she'll actually be too scared to continue. Keep your chin up!

I'm sorry this is happening to you. I don't want to make you paranoid, but please be careful! Let's hope her harrassment, while awful, is limited to cyberspace.

Stephanie, all I can say is that you have my support and admiration. I hope this stops soon.

I am a conservative christian,people like this give us all a bad name and I am proud of you for the way you are handling this don't let the crazies get you down.

I'm shocked beyond belief. I have heard people speak of "cyber stalking" but WOW. This is out of hand and I just saw some of the twitter posts from her. I have often worried about how people are more frequently using the internet to speak ill of others or to degrade themselves in some manner without concern for the consequences. It amazes me that she does this so freely and willingly.
My prayers are with you and your family. If nothing else you have shown all of us that have blogs or other internet presence that we have to be ready in case of attack. Thank you for making this issue public. I know it was difficult but I have no doubt that it was necessary.

As I an American myself, I'm embarrassed for this woman. And how dare she go so far as to assume that all Americans agree with her, because I am one who doesn't! That's pretty insulting to me. I saw you when you were in Los Angeles, you were fantastic. I don't know what this woman's gripe is, but isn't she risking getting in trouble with the law?

My love and thoughts are with you and your family. I wish you peace and strength.

Thank you for the work you do -- the positive, community-building yarn-related work, and the Canada Day work. As someone from the US, I've learned more about Canada from your posts than I ever did in school.

I admire you, lady. Keep up the good work. You've got a whole host at your back.

She gives Americans, Christians, and women in general a bad name. You are a trooper for putting up with her for this long. I think all of your loyal readers would be more than willing to just ignore her ignorance. It just amazes me the personal vendettas some people will go on. I mean, what is she really hoping to accomplish? Bring down your "empire"? Slander your well established name? Honestly, some people...

I am so sorry that you're having to deal with this nitwit who has chosen to serve as a shining example of the Ugly American. Please remember that the majority of us love you dearly and would love to have you over for dinner sometime. If your bully must get Biblical about it, I'd reminder that you reap what you sow.

Thank you for maintaining Grace under Fire.

The U.S. just like any other country has its share of crazies. I won't apologize for them. What really embarrasses me is that this person is a knitter. I have been reading your blog for quite awhile and you are well traveled on the high road. Keep it up. I hope the incredible show of support reflected in the comments helps.

Wow, it takes all kinds eh?

I'm sorry you have to deal with this, but I'm really glad it's not stopping you from what you do best. (Well fourth best after knitting, parenting and of course "rescuing" your husband!)

And your parenting? I often find myself wondering WWTYH do in both knitting and parenting situations!

Keep on keeping on - and come East again soon!

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I just want to also say that I am an American knitter, and she is giving (some of us) a bad name. Your blog is the only knitting blog I read, keep up the great work even in the hard times!

Wow, her emails/comments are horrifying - they made me gasp out loud, I can only imagine what you're NOT sharing with us. I'm truly sad that your generosity has inspired such malice. I've always thought of your blog as this amazing gift that you share with all of us, and me and my family of muggles has enjoyed reading it for years.

I hope sharing this does indeed give you some relief, as I can only imagine how stressful the last month of this must have been.

Peace, Love & Light always

Sorry you are having to deal with this. I read your blog every day and comment very rarely. I have never been offended, however I am English and living the the US. I do realize that some people in the US have a different sense of humour.

If someone reads something on your blog, which for some reason they do not like, why do they keep reading???

sorry that this happened to you Stephanie..I know that if there were more people like you and less people like her, the world would be a better place, no matter which countries you were living in at the time. I would trust you to babysit my kids if I had any, because I can tell that you are a good person through and through. And pllleeeaasssee don't let her even touch your self esteem for one second. And seriously..what has SHE accomplished that is so great that she can be critisizing you..I would bet alot of money on the answer to that being ..nothing.

I too was SO afraid you were going to shut down the blog - thank you for hanging with it because it always starts my day out right when I click on the bookmark (right on my home page!) and find you have posted an entry. I love your humor.

I also love your pride in your country - too many Americans think Canadians are just poor relatives to them. So I thank you for posting your Canada Day musings! (My SIL is from Calgary.)

I was also so very impressed by your daughter and her boyfriend's dedication to their project! Wow, I thought at the time, how many parents are able to raise their children to care about others! These days teenagers are so focused on themselves, it is so refreshing to see these two young adults focused on others. You and your husband have done a great job!

Hang in there. I love the point about the Sock Summit - sure, you're being shunned. Right. That's why people were fighting and angry about not getting a ticket!

US citizen - expat in Thailand - supporting you all the way (oh, and conservative Christian who cannot believe the poster has any idea of what Christ actually taught!)

Riki in Bangkok

I'm so very sorry that you're being trolled. My household loves your blog and your books. We think you are smart, funny, and humane. I was very sorry to miss your last visit to Seattle (although I made up for it (in my heart) by giving your appearance a really enthusiastic blurb on the metblog.) I hope Seattle was good to you!

Stephanie, you are a good, strong, wise woman. I support you wholly. Thank you for being who you are.

Love, Jill

Stephanie, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I love your blog and you can't help the crazies. You are loved and appreciated by many, including me. I'll think some happy thoughts and well wishes up north to you and your family.

Stephanie, You've done a brave thing, and I'm sorry for the abuse you've taken. Keep your chin up and keep doing what you do best. Your humanity shines through. Love, Dani in Texas

Oh Steph, I'm sorry to hear this is going on. Try not to worry about her. Just keep doing the right thing and eventually she will disappear. Poor thing, she really does sound miserable.
Take care, Steph. We love you. :-)

Like many others I am a lurker coming out of the shadows :) Just wanted to say that you are awesome! I love your books and reading your blog is something I always look forward to. I hope all this is resolved to a point you are happy with and soon! I recently dealt with a horrible person that treated me like crap through e-mail too. It really sucks. You are truly the bigger person for not responding as she says you are.

Many hugs Steph! There seems to be an outbreak of this sort of thing right now. G-d only knows why. Keep on keeping on --

an American Jewish lurker fan

Sounds like a great plan!

I think you are funny, a sensible and good parent, have a lovely family and I enjoy reading both your blog and your books.

I have never heard you put anyone down because of nationality, religion or any other characteristic. So I do not understand this person and I'm with you in not feeding her obvious need for attention.

Just adding my support! There's no accounting for people sometimes. I cannot even begin to imagine how anyone could think you were anti-american, or that... No, there's just too much that's too impossible to understand. Thank you for being a force for good in this world! I hope this woman gets the help she needs to also become a force for good, for building relationships and for peace, rather than this tearing down she's so focused on. --Sydney, in Oregon

Sending you lots of love and virtual beer (wish it could be real).

I hope all our positive thoughts help release her from this hate-on she's got going.

Stay strong.

As another American Christian, I'm mortified that this woman claims to be representative of us all.

I have to say, if either party is acting like Jesus here, it's you. ;) Keep up the good work.

I can't believe some people - the ignorance and downright nastiness people can get away with these days boggles the mind. From one proud Canadian to another, you keep doing your thing - obviously enough of us love you that our praise will drown out the one or two naysayers. :)

Just wanted to send you my support.
I'm sorry that this happened to you.
I was on the receiving end of something like this a year or so ago - and it was pretty confidence shattering. Don't give up. Keep writing. Don't let her get to you. You are great. Hugs to you.
xx

Another supporter for you in California. Keep up your good work! Love your blog, read it every day you post and love your books too. Keep doing what you do and don't let the b**** get you down!

Dearest Harlot, I've been an avid reader (of blogs and books) for a number of years, and I'm *so* sorry for this wretchedness! Your bravery is commendable, your respect -- something to be emulated by all. Your fabulous sense of humor enlivens and lightens my day, and I (like many others) am terribly grateful for your voice. I'm sending you light, love, and peace. Hang in there, Steph. --Emily, in Massachusetts

Stephanie, I just found this woman's blog and just so you know, she has a history of doing this. Actually, I have a folder of harassing emails from her to me on my computer. For doing nothing. So just know that she's just a sad person and go on with your life. She'll find another victim. Or, contact the authorities and have her investigated for harassment. If you need more proof I'm happy to share my emails.

Great Googly Moogly! Stay strong and keep up the great work. I'm sorry you're going through this, just know that so many of us have your back.

Your posts have made me smile almost daily, laugh out loud on occasion, and even snarf once or twice.

For the fact that you have done that - while putting up with I-have-no-idea-what weirdness - I sincerely thank you.

(And, I can't think of a single time I've ever been offended.)

I'm speechless! How awful. As with other previously posted Christian Americans, I'm behind you 100%. Keep up the great work. Luv your Canadianess. {{{{HUGS}}}}

I'm another female, American, liberal, godless heathen and I think you are handling this so much better than I would. I'm from smack dab in the middle of the bible belt and we seem to breed teh crazy here, I've dealt with it in person as well as online and I know how bad it sucks. I have to echo what some other people have commented: report her to her ISP, they won't like it that one of their customers is using their service to harass someone.

I love your Canada Day posts, I learn more about Canada in them than I did the entire time I was in school.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. You are doing a fine job being a grown-up about the whole thing. Stay strong, keep the faith.

I am so sorry that this is happening to you. You have enough stress on your plate without someone else adding to it. I am an American and a Christian who happens to be a liberal, and I am embarrassed and saddened not only by what this person has said but in how she has hounded you. I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this.

Stephanie, your post today moved me to tears. As someone who has also experienced a similar situation, I understand how easy it is to let it get to you and obsess over it. I truly admire you for you grace and compassion. Your blog is a bright spot in my day. Stay safe!

And as someone has already pointed out, if I remember my geography lessons correctly, Canada, the US, Mexico, Brazil, Peru, Chile, Argentina, Panama, etc. are all part of America.

I don't comment often, because it's not in my nature, but I'm really very very sorry that someone is doing this to you :( I'm not the most patriotic American, but I saw absolutely nothing "anti-American" in anything you've ever written (and given the political climate I've lived in for the last 8 years, I can smell anti-American from a mile away!)

You are a wonderful person. Since I don't comment, I never told you that reading your blog, then Knitting Rules, are two of the things that made knitting a deep part of my life, instead of just a fringe act.

Hate sucks. I can't imagine the pressure you're under right now but know that there may be one whacko out there, but there are thousands -- maybe even tens of thousands -- of us out there that love you and are grateful to you.

In a world of hurting people and situations, I'm sorry you're another person that is being hurt. As many have said here, that person is not representative of all US citizens.

And there's a group of us in I-O-W-A that adore you, will feed you lots of fresh veg, cold home brews, and ply you with delicious yarn (pun intended).

Thanks to all of the American coming out of lurk-dom to support our favourite Canadian knitter. Stephanie, I read your blog all the time (and sometimes read posts twice LOL).

I feel sorry for this woman and think it's pretty clear that she's in the middle of some kind of a breakdown. I'm sorry you're the target of her delusions, that must be so scary, especially since you're a public figure. OMG is the the one who said you shouldn't drink beer in public?

Hugs, be assured we love you and respect the hell out of you. May squirrels attack her stash ;)

xox from Winnipeg

Another American here to say that you are wonderful. You make me laugh, inspire me to creativity, and generally make me happy to be alive and able to knit. I'd say the majority of American knitters have fallen in love with you and, well, there's bound to be some haters out there. There always are. Hopefully this outpouring of support from your fanbase has fortified your confidence, (especially in true American values such as RESPECT, EQUALITY, and FREEDOM.) Proud to be an American who loves The Yarn Harlot!

well clearly some one is completely coo coo.

hope to see you at the summit.

I am so sorry that this happening to you! Being harassed in any way disrupts your life and will haunt you long after it ends. Please don't take this crazy as a representative for your southern neighbors. She is not only being a terrible example of an American and Christian, but a human being in general. I hope the hurt and hate goes away soon and you are able to resume your life.

I applaud your strength! There are many standing behind you who believe in you and know you aren't anti-US.

As an Atheist Australian living in the US, I have to say, I've come across far more people like those posting in your blog today/this evening - they might not share my political/religious/social views or country affiliation, but they'd defend to the death my right to have those views. They understand that that ideology is the bedrock of the US nation and constitution.

The mentally unstable few, very few, do not speak for the majority.

So very glad you're not, as an Australian politician said, letting the bastards get you down! (Where bastards does not equal someone from the US, but rather the mean and the deranged).

Knit On!

This person is giving crazy a bad name, and I'm terribly sorry she's chosen you as her target.

I've honestly never seen any of your posts as anti-anything, except perhaps anti-stupidity & short sightedness, and well, I tend to agree with those ones.

You, Steph, rock. I don't think that knitting (and certainly not sock knitting) would have had half its renaissance without people getting their daily dose of Harlot.

Hang in there, and remember that for the one f*cked up person out in cyberspace who's got a wild hair for you, there seem to be a large number of people who disagree.

I've read your blog for years and have found you to be only the following:

Intelligent
Well spoken
Kind to others
A fabulous knitter
Witty
Generous

I think you have handled things so well. Best of luck in the future....

I'm with Roggey! Iowa loves you!

I wanted to put my two cents in and give you my support. While I don't always agree with your views on the world (knitting on the other hand I take your advice whole heartedly), as a true American I support your right to not only have those views but express them as well.

Don't let a rotten apple get to you.

As a long time reader and first time poster I wanted to do something positive to support you. Therefore, in tribute to your kind heart and gentle spirit, I have written a check to Doctors Without Borders.

Oh, Stephanie. Huge hugs to you. Hang in there. Hold your head up. Be brave. Know that most of us down here in the U.S. love you. Hugs.

I agree with all the love in the above comments and would like to add a little humor. To be call a pussy is actually quite a compliment. A soft, warm, life giving, love making, center of the universe is exactly what you are to all of us!

Oh, and when we someday become the American Union of Countries; I will elect you Chancelor of Fiber, Empress of Needles and Hostess with the Mostest (Beer Queen).

Kisses from Texas, AKA BioBetty on the Rav

wow. i don't even know what to say, i am shocked by this person's behavior. especially coming from a knitter, but overall just from a supposed human being. thank you for writing this post and letting us send you virtual hugs to help you through this icky time. i do hope a)this is resolved very soon; b) she gets a life and leaves you alone.

Stephanie,

I hope you can take the time to read all the encouraging responses to this post.

I learned a long time ago from my grandmother to take the high road and totally ignore a person who acts the way this one is acting. There is nothing more devastating to them than to be treated as if they don't exist.

Please take the shields of positive thoughts we offer you to absorb her negativity. Also, please remember she is only one of millions of Americans as well as one of millions of Christians.

Now get on with that work you do so well, bringing smiles and inspiration to the world.

Stephanie,
I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Please know that we love you and appreciate you and your blog! I wish I could help! I doubt this person is really a knitter, and if she is, she probably knits really ugly stuff that no one likes or thanks her for.
xoxo
Maggie

From looking at her blog (which wasn't that hard to find through Google,) I believe she is a person who suffers from manic depression and/or some other mental illness. Unfortunately, you have become a focus for her latest episode. Keep her posts and emails for your records and document everything, just in case.

I also support your request that we should not respond to her. It will only feed into her paranoia, as evidenced by her reaction to you when people comment on her blog. I hope that everyone here takes a moment to pray/hope that she gets the help she needs soon. Mental illness is an insidious thing. I wouldn't wish it on my greatest enemy.

Ma'am, I'm sorry completely that she's doing this to you. I've read your Canadian day posts and have no idea where she's getting the anti American stuff. Please know that not all conservative Christian Americans are not like this at all. Praying for you from GA

I haven't even finished the post and her use of 'we' and 'us' disgusts me. Everyone is allowed their own opinion but that is not opinion, that is just hate. It is nasty and completely childish and a good christian, like she claims to be, would never, ever say something like that. As a Minnesota native I love having neighbors to the north! I love your Canada Day posts because I get to learn a little bit more about another country's culture. Please keep up your fabulous work and for the record, you are not irrelevant. You basically have the knitting industry's version of the 'Oprah Touch'.

Stephanie, I am so sorry this has happened to you. I am an American Christian, and I can tell you that this person is no Christian. "You will know them by their fruits." In addition, I want to tell you that your little book, At Knit's End, helped me through the most horrenduos time of my life. I read a little every day, got a laugh, and also appreciated the quotes! I still read parts of it frequently. I have called up friends in trouble and cheered them up when they needed it most. Keep up the blogging, the writing and everything else you do so well!

Love the blog, love the books. You've been incredibly patient.

You seem to have subscribed to what my grandma used to tell us, "If you can't say anything good about somebody, better to say nothing at all." Too bad that simple courtesy has been forgotten by some.

Unfortunately someone seems to be perpetuating the image of the "ugly American."

I met you briefly at a book signing outside of Nashville once, but I've only lurked on your blog all these years. I'm posting today to let you know that I fully support you and your position.

And what the hell is a 'respectable knitter'. Aren't we all respectable?

... and since everyone here is talking about religion and nationality, I'm a French Buddhist.

*hugs* I'm sorry. Let us never speak of this again.

Now, how about some socks, huh?

Well, I am an American who just loves you to pieces.

Stephanie,
I am so sorry that someone is doing this to you - you don't deserve it. I am a Christian American and I do not in any way, shape, or form, share her views. Keep on writing what you write and making me laugh. I don't care how you were married or by who and I most certainly do not care that you are Canadian. You are a knitter, a wife, a mother, and quite simply a person and that is all that matters.

Oh, and for the record, my big strong husband who judging from the photos you have posted of Joe is every bit as big as he is - managed to get our tractor - yes you read that correctly - our tractor - stuck in the snow this past winter and had to ask me to come out and help him get it unstuck. The story about Joe getting his truck stuck in the snow definitely riveled the story about you getting locked out of your hotel room in your panties and a t-shirt. I laughed until I had tears running down my face and then I read it to my husband who laughed just as hard.

Ignore her - you are among friends, American, Canadian, Christian, Atheist, agnostic, whatever - you are among friends.
Kim

I just wanted to add that this lady really sounds like she's very fragile. I think you should be careful and also go to the police. There is no telling what some people will do - especially when hundreds of people are calling them crazy in a public forum. I think she needs someone to help her - and she must be feeling some big stuff right now as well. I think it's important to tell the police so that they can help everyone.

I'll just join all the rest of the lurkers in de-lurking to voice my support. Thanks for your great writing; it always makes me smile.

This person is a poor example of:

1. A Christian
2. An American
3. A knitter
4. A blogger
5. A human

so sorry Steph. How embarrassing an awful to have to deal with this. We love you. You have done the right thing. :)

I really enjoy reading your blog, tweets and books. Please keep them coming and don't get discouraged. What you do matters to so many. I have always found you to be kind, inspiring, positive and humorous.

Much love from California.

Just have to chime in that you are a lovely, funny, gracious, creative, generous person, both in writing and in real life, and I'm sorry this person has been tormenting you and hope they get some help with their own personal issues, whatever those may be. Because certainly, none of this is due to you at all. I also agree that you should go to the police - the mention that they know where you live, know who your publisher is, etc, is very alarming and needs to be taken seriously.

As a woman, a wiccan, and an american, I am appalled at this behaviour (<---see what I did there?). I thought the troll on my blog was bad, but this takes the cake. I caved and stopped posting, but I am *very* glad that you will continue to post and to allow comments. Thank you. When I read posts on other people's blogs, I click away and let it go if I find it upsetting or silly or disagreeable. I never see the good in wasting energy trying to rile someone. I hope your troll will find a more wholesome application of her energy, and soon!

All my canadian friends were very impressed when I wished them happy Canada Day this year. Your post reminded me.

I hope you will be safe at Sock Summit in your handknit Kevlar vest... that is your stealth project, right???

Wow, that is a whole lotta mental illness right there.

I'm sorry you've had to deal with this. Is it possible to mark her as a spammer somehow? I know that Shapely Prose bans commenters when necessary, though I don't know if they have any trolls as obsessive as yours.

Hang in there and enjoy the sock summit.

(((hugs)))

from someone who understands that when my husband says he thinks buxom brunettes are pretty he doesn't mean petite blonds are ugly. :-)
rita n/

It's behavior and attitudes like that which give Americans such a poor reputation around the world. She should be ashamed.

I think you're fantastic-- please keep on keepin' on. We love ya!

My dearest Stephanie

Thank you for bringing this horrible problem to the attention of all of us who read your blog, regularly or irregularly. It is much better to defy the intent of a person like this by shedding light on the situation. It must have been difficult to do that, but the huge volume of supportive commentary is evidence of how much you are esteemed by so many in the fiber world.

Like you, I have a chorus of "bad voices" telling me how bad I am, how worthless, that someone wouldn't say like that unless there really were something wrong with me, etc, ad infinitum, ad nauseam.

I have a new tactic with those voices; I teach them songs that I love. So, whenever I hear those negative things in my head, I tell them to sing (whatever song I feel like at the moment). I'm sure you have had a tune stuck in your head. My friend, Peg in Kensington (of the comments), says we need a product called "Tune Be Gone" if someone would only invent it! My technique takes advantage of that tendency, it sticks a beloved tune in your head instead of the negative voices. Amazingly, I find it wonderfully effective. Give that a try.

This person isn't playing with a full deck. For that, I pity her. There (sort of), but for the grace of God, go a number of us, or we would go if it were not for modern medications. Thank God for the people who developed those meds! However, don't let it go without doing what you can for your own defense and that of your loved ones.

M. Scott Peck wrote a book called "People of the Lie." Its premise is that there should be a new diagnosis in the book the therapists use, the diagnosis of evil. It is a compelling book and makes some very good points, although the last chapter, if I remember correctly, goes a bit off the rails, to my mind. But I have seen people who fit that description, and it is scary. Peck was not only a writer and therapist, he was a Christian and tried to bring faith into therapy where appropriate. He also wrote "The Road Less Traveled."

MOST IMPORTANT
A fair number of people in the comments have suggested, rather firmly, that you bring in the authorities. I CONCUR. Do not wait. Do not pass GO. Go directly to the authorities on BOTH sides of our common border. Even better, you should go to the authorities with a LEGAL PROFESSIONAL at your side and in your corner. You MUST protect yourself and your family. Do not assume that she will always remain "safe". There's an old New York saying, "In New York, paranoia is a survival skill." Sometimes, that's true in Toronto, too.

Dear Lady of the Knitting Needles,
Stay safe, be kind to yourself and those around you. So many of us do love and admire you. We would have your back, were it physically possible. On a spiritual level, we're there, Harlot, we're there.

May God bless you and keep you, both now and forever more.

dee near Berkeley

Stephanie-
As a proud Christian-American, I am so very sorry that this evil person has been harassing you to the extent that she has been. That's what it's been, harassment!!! That behaviour is reprehensible. I hope that you know just how much we love and respect you and enjoy your writings!!!

Dang, I must not read your blog carefully enough -- I missed all your anti-American comments ;-)

That woman has some severe problems. As awful as it is to have to deal with her, think how awful it must be to BE her. Makes me cringe.

I love you for taking the high road (as you always do). {{{hugs}}}

Her emails and comments say far more about her than they do about you. You have behaved honorably and I totally support you. She is obviously a very unhappy person, and if she'd spend half as much time on working through her issues as she does flaming you and giving you a hard time then maybe there would be some hope for her. Maybe.

Oh my dear, I am sorry you have to experience this. Thoughts are with you.

Please, as another computer security geek, please take this seriously. Keep hard and soft copies of everything. Communicate with her ISP as many times as it takes. Keep your ISP provider in the loop. Set up as many filters as necessary. And please, please make sure not only your local police are aware, but since you are so publicly traveling, let the local leos know in cities you will be (hint, hint, SS09) in for extended periods. Just because she has a history of this, that doesn't mean she may not become dangerous. Especially if your fans do as you ask (and seem to be doing) by ignoring her, her comments and her blog. Please stay safe.

And I can't imagine anyone with more grit than we women of Texas (you don't MESS with Texas Women!), and frankly she doesn't speak for me or anyone I know, or would care to know.

(delurking for the very first time, but just felt compelled to insist this really is a serious issue)

You are so much a better person than I am. I have always believed that anonymous pot shots are lower than whale poop, and getting even is not good enough - one up is much better. You could let us know who she is. Then the wrath of the good knitting goddesses would be able to come down on her with all their pointy little sticks, make voodoo dolls for dropped stitches and super wash skeins with a million knots that could not be spit spliced together, lost pattens for ufo's, and general knitting mayhem for all her projects could be sent her way.

P.S - A "true" christian woman would be like any woman, man or human with any sense of humanity - they would have compassion and love in their heart, not batsh*t crazy.

How appalling. I'm impressed at the grace & maturity with which you've handled this; I can tell you, I don't think I'd be able to deal with it as well as you have. Thanks for being even more inspiring than normal!

I'm very sad that this women used the pronoun "we" in this message. Her views represent none of my American, Christian, knitter!!'s views.
BUT, and this is an important but, the comment count before I post this was 767, and seems to be going up so quickly. I think that it's safe to say that we, your supporters, those who love your work, are the far greater "we". Reading your post, I was so worried that you might say that you were ready to stop posting to the blog. I'm so happy that you're sticking with it. I (and I think that I can also say "We"!) are with you all the way.

Good for you! I've read your blog religiously since I discovered it a few months ago. I'm American and have never felt any anti-Americanism from you. Good luck with the whole situation. Try not to let it get to you.

A month? No one deserves to be treated that way! I am speechless at such bad behavior. It does not fall under the creed of "do unto others as you would have done to you..." I hope you take whatever actions are necessary to protect yourself and your family. I will be praying for you and yours.

I'm so very sorry for you and your family (waaaay inappropriate for her to go there).
Keep up all the good work. I wonder how much good she could accomplish if she redirected her energy. and yes, get some legal advice -- if she does tire of going after you, she may direct her attention to someone else, and I'm betting you wouldn't wish that on them. best wishes from Seattle.

I am an infrequent poster, but I read your blog daily and buy your books. I am very sorry that this is happening --- it has very little to do with you. I admire the way you are handling it. BTW, I am a proud American who is not always proud of Americans' behavior. I know that you won't hold that against us! Lots of love for you here in Cali!

Steph,

I have to say I'm not really surprised by all of this. I saw a comment a few days ago that was insanely insulting but was removed. So I figured something had to be up. I can't imagine being on the receiving end of this kind of bile, hatred and rants. It's easy to say, just ignore it, but it's hard to actually do so. That inner voice knows exactly what to say to erode our confidence.

What is most distressing to me is that this lone individual has decided that they are the voice of America and that they speak for all Americans. As an American citizen I am embarrassed by this individual. As I'm sure many other Americans are as well.

This could not have been easy for you, or your family. But I think what you have done is the right thing to do. The truth will set you free and you have brought this out in the open so there is no doubt to what this person is doing. She is seeking attention, she is looking for reactions, from you as well as from us. To all of Stephanie's supporters, we best serve Stephanie by not engaging this person.

Time will heal these wounds. You are an incredible person who is surrounded by love and support. Keep knitting, keep writing all those stories that we love to hear about. One of these day we are gonna get you to come down for a book signing with the Buffalo Knitting Guild. Then I'll take you out for a beer after that.

Vince

Yet another lurker coming to say that I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this. It's not right or remotely excusable. And it's pitiful that being proud of your own country is being taken/portrayed as anti-American.

Oh Steph... I am so so sorry that this crazy person (seriously, she's gotta be nuts) has learned how to use the Internet and has fixated on you. I'm glad that you've blocked her IP, and I hope that you no longer have to hear anything from or about her ever again.

Please take care.

Stephanie, I'm sorry. I wish there was something I could do. But know that I support your position a hundred thousand percent. I hope there is some way to eliminate the pain and anxiety this person has caused you. good feelings sent your way.
Love and compassion, peace and hope.

Man that really sucks that you are being tormented like that. Is there a possibility that the offender might have a mental condition? Not that that is any excuse.

Keep being awesome!

Oh, bless your heart. I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through such an ordeal. You have millions of fans in the USA of which I am one. May you find many things to give you some comfort at such a time. I recommend a good bottle of port, dark chocolate, knitting, etc. Okay, not all at the same time as the chocolate can get messy on the yarn and a bottle of port can make for interesting stitch patterns. You know what I mean though--be extra kind to yourself.

Good lord. Some people take their right to express their opinions to a whole other level (it's also people like this that have been the reason that i've held on to my Canadian citizenship so long even though i've lived in the states all of my life. Which is sad because i actually LOVE this country too)

After skimming through the comments, I have two words: beer pudding.

Seriously, though, sending light your way from Kansas. It is lightning bug season, so I'm picturing a jar of pretty bugs like I used to have on my dresser as a kid. :-)

Good for you. Here's good vibes from Iowa City,

I think the person in question should read the beginning of your piece on Canada Day written last year (2008). You said it nicely: celebrating Canada Day does not make you anti-American..."nuff said!

Steph, take heart, move on, keep knitting!

Wow...so much to say but really should not. What a lot of stress, on top of an already stressful time. I hope this person finds a better way to channel her energy. I hope you get some sleep.

I feel sorry for her, that she would sink to such levels! I hope that you will have quiet soon and that she will grow tired of such nonsense.

You are one of the reasons I'm so proud to be Canadian.

#%()^#%! I am so sorry. I have a blog on which I do not reveal my identity or location other than what state I live in, and sometimes I think I should loosen up and just out myself. Then I read stuff like this. Scary. Have you considered requiring commenters on your site to register? That might keep some of the nasties from getting through. Again, I am so sorry you're having to deal with this.

Go with grace.

Now get some sleep.

First off, I would like to say that the word "cunt" is the worst insult in the American language. Not that that uneducated cretin of a human being would know that.

Second, she is either mentally ill, or you have a case of Trollitis. Trollitis is very hard to cure, but can be combated with several doses of LOLcats.

Third, you, Stephanie, are made of seven (SEVEN!) different kinds of Awesome. And this is coming from an American.

Last, this is some advice comming from a computer nut. There is a limited number of IP addresses available for use in the world, so every computer that is connected to the internet is sharing an IP with several others. As of right now, the cirrent IP Address system dosen't allow for more.

However, there is a record kept of every IP, and every computer that has used that IP. You can even find out her IP address from an email sent from her directly (as opposed from being sent with her comment). This is perfectly legal, by the way, seeing as how typing an IP address was used before the now common URL. With a few easy steps, you can have her new IP and block that too. You can even get all of her info (name, address, etc) as well.

This way, when you turn all of this stuff over to the proper authorities (which you should do, dearie), you can even deliver the latest IP she used. In the US, what she is doing can be considered E-Terriorism which, as we all know, is a felony :)

Love, Peace, and Chicken Grease!
Abby, an American who loves Canadians (and their sexy "eh!"s)

(PS. The fact that she has to get her "computer guy" to change her IP shows she's not very smart. On top of that, everyone knows who your publisher is. They have to print that in every book they produce.)

Bless you for your patience and forbearance. You have my support, for what it's worth.

Just adding my 2c worth - nutter and troublemaker. You don't deserve this sort of treatment. It is she and those who agree with her who look very very bad in all this. Giving America a bad name.

Just wanted to throw in a word of support from Oklahoma. It's always best to take the high road - you will never regret behaving well - but please don't turn away any offers of help to keep you and your loved ones safe.
Come back and see us again sometime!

Simply stop responding to anything she says. Trolls/stalkers/etc feed off responses. Ignore her, no matter how difficult it may be, don't even say "I don't wish to speak to you again", etc. These people do not respond to courtesy or logic.

Huge, protective hugs to you, Steph, if you get this far in the comments. It sounds like you're doing all the right things to protect yourself.

My email service doesn't let any mail through with an address I haven't pre-approved. You might want to look into something like that.

We, the Blog, love and adore you. See you in a couple of weeks.

Dear Stephanie:

Cheers for you and the wonderful, mature, gracious way you are handling this awful situation. My heart goes out to you. I enjoy every thing you write. I am American and proud to be American, and so happy to read of your love for and pride in Canada.

Stay safe, and know that this sort of nutcake does NOT represent knitters, Americans, or anyone else but herself. We love you Stephanie.

See you at Sock Summit. I can hardly wait.

Suzie

Illinois loves you!

In a strong effort to reverse the karma of this situation, I just went to the Doctors Without Borders website and made a donation.
Maybe the positive will erase the negative.
Take care!
(P.S.- totally an American!)

I am so sorry. No one should get treated like this.
I hope you find a way to remedy the situation.

I'm an American, a "liberal" from Oregon. I'm sorry you have had to deal with someone who obviously takes their "freedom of speech" to such extremes; no one deserves or should have to be harassed so intensely. I look forward every year to your Canada Day posts, since I learn more and more about the great Country to the North (there are a few things I might even be jealous of!).

Maybe something else will inflame her sensitivities and she'll focus her hate somewhere else. (Or she'll end up on a watch list). Stay strong!

Stay Safe, both you and your family.

And this is from what some of my southern US relatives refer to as the Canadian suburbs.

Steph, I think you are amazing and an awesome person. I hope she goes away soon so you can put this all behind you.

Well this lady is obviously off the deep end!! I can't believe she would find your posts offensive and even if she did there is NO reason to be abusive. You are a talented, generous, and funny lady. There have been many days that your blog has given me a much needed laugh....so thank you for that! I hope you can let it go and find some peace in this situation!

Another long time reader, first time poster emerging to chime in an encouraging word. Your website is the first I check in the morning and usually a second or third time just in case you post throughout the day. Hope this too shall pass and wishing you good beer and delicious sock yarn.

Stephanie,
I'm so sorry to hear about the experiences you are going through. I love your blog and I thank you for everything you have posted!

I am so so very sorry that you have to deal with this. First of all, this is one of the biggest most blatant examples of what a Christian is NOT and why I personally don't believe in organized religion. People who sit in a church for one hour a week but don't live by the principals of the Bible cannot be called Christians. And I have never once seen you make anything close to an Anti-American remark.

American girls don't fight dirty, by the way. Dirty fighters are those who know they can't win the fight any other way. American girls are kind, loving, and caring and don't attack people unnecessarily.

Lots of love, hugs, and support. Please don't worry yourself about this too much. Please believe me when I tell you that this person does not speak for Americans nor does she speak for knitters. She most certainly does NOT speak for me and I'm beyond offended that she's taken it on herself to do so.

Best of luck resolving this situation. Please stay safe. Crazy people do crazy things. (P.s. I agree with you completely on the idea of using a slang term for a woman's anatomy as a negative thing and I also am offended at the idea that a man should never need a woman's help. You are an awesome wife, mother, knitter, woman, person, blogger, and whatever else you are that I've missed. Take care.)

You rock yarn harlot!

A lurker coming out to make her first post. A short story to share. Last year a knitting friend told me about the Yarn Harlot’s Blog. I didn’t realize there was more to the knitting world than needles, yarn and patterns. There was writing about knitting. I found your blog and started reading it from the beginning. I read and read, after reading for a while I realized I could knit while I read. What joy to find I could knit and read about knitting at the same time. Then I got caught up, I finally read the most recent post. You have no idea how disappointed I was to realize I now had to WAIT to read your next post. Heavy sigh. I continue to read your books, read your blog and knit. I hope to continue to read your writing and knit for a very long time to come. Stephanie, please continue to do what you do best, be the amazing person you are. Peace and love from MN, USA

Stephanie,

I am an American who thinks you are wonderful, insightful, funny, charming, kind, generous, and I could go on but I will keep this short. I support you. Keep on doing your thing. I will keep buying your books.

-Laura

Wow. That's truly awful. I really enjoy reading your blog. I don't agree with absolutely everything you say, but I don't have to to enjoy your blog. and I do enjoy your blog. I'll say prayers for you and the unfriendly person.

I've been reading you for a few (many) years from Chicago, IL. You are ultra-fabulous. Nothing more need be said. 'Pif to the wanker.

Dear Stephanie

Right this very moment, you are teaching me to be a better person.

Hi Stephanie,

Long time reader, first time commenter. As a rule I don't ever read blog comments because they make me depressed about the human race. People hiding behind a moniker, spewing forth negativity because, well, I don't know why, because they can? It's all too much for me. It's the reason I don't have a blog and one reason I admire you for having one.

I would not be able to deal with the attacks on character, opinion, and favorite flavor of ice cream. I have admired you since I first found you, lo those years ago, because you have such a wonderful level-headed sense of yourself and the world. This incident and the way you are handling it, unfortunate though it may be, concretes in my mind that you are an example of a fine human being and one that I will continue to look up to.

I'm saddened that someone out there has taken it upon themselves to make you the center of their bizarre universe. Although I am immensely curious who it is I will not search for the culprit, will not feed the beast. I urge the other readers to also let their curiosity lie. We can do our part to not encourage negative behavior by not acknowledging it. Stephanie is the one who needs our support.

Hi Stephanie. I'm sorry you've had to put up with this for weeks and that it has escalated to such a level. Please know that I genuinely appreciate you as a person, a knitter, a writer, a wife, and a mom. As you read the many comments that your friends and admirers leave for you, take them to heart. Be well and take care. We're with you.

Stephanie, you have the highest integrity and just an incredible amount of class to keep this from your readers. The stress you must be going through, between this person and working on Sock Summit would certainly drive me to a beer or two.

We're here for you. It's a good thing I don't know who this person is, because I'm rather protective of my Harlot.

Dear lord! I work in mental health with some very sick, obsessive people, and I still find that horrific.

I say screw them. If they're so uninteresting that they have to get their yaya's from being rude to other people, they're not worth worrying about in the first place.

You're the Best, Sweetie, you always have been. I think your kids are great, wish mine was more like them. Lead on McDuff.. : )

Honey, please, for your own safety and mental well-being (as well as ours - we worry about you!) contact your provider and seek legal help NOW.

Carol posted on July 26th at 1:44a. Please please follow her advice. When people act like this, ignoring often works but this person does not seem to be mentally stable. Please take those extra steps to ensure your safety and that of your family.

I'm yet another long-time reader/first-time poster, who wants to let you know that you are an amazing, talented, compassionate woman who doesn't deserve this treatment. This woman obviously has a problem and she's trying to make it yours. Please keep on doing what you are doing - giving SO much joy to SO many people. Hugs.

Just another long-time reader offering you love and support. You are a terrific writer, you have had me laughing until I cried and crying until I laughed. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world. And for being a proud ambassador for Canada.

I'm probably comment 56,824 but I felt that I should chime in too.

I am from the US and I love my country, but people like this really make me ill. (However, this woman would probably think I'm some sort of traitor because I've lived in three other countries during my lifetime and I (GASP!) found positive things about each one.) In fact, one of the things I love about your blog is when you talk about Canada...I don't feel any less American for knowing what Canada Day is, or a two-four, or poutine.

You know this, but I can't help but repeat it...she doesn't speak for all Americans, nor American women, nor American Christian women.

Peace...

Rarely comment, but had to delurk to show support for you Steph! I was shocked at what you shared with us, and can't imagine what she has said that you didn't share. I must agree with those that have said it before, please PLEASE notify authorities there and wherever this insane woman is from.

Much love from California!!

Yet another long time lurker making a first time post--just for you! You're my favorite. I've even read parts of one of your books out loud to my non-knitting mom who blushes when I say "harlot". I'm not only a Christian American, but a proud military wife who is easily offended by anti-US sentiments. You've never offended me. Like I said, you're my favorite.

I love your books and your blog. You write with what I perceive as a very clear vision of human conduct and standards, knitterly or not, with humor and an understanding of the human predicament infused throughout. Thank you from the bottom of this next door neighbor nation woman's heart. Go Canada!

Hugs. Stay safe. Report her to all appropriate authorities.

Thank you for bringing this to light. It sounds like you have been put through the wringer. In the same vein as the 800+ comments before mine, please know that for a great number of christian American women, you are wonderful just as you are. I love you dearly (although we've only ever met on the blog) and will follow your wishes for light, love, respect. How can that be wrong?

Support, love, appreciation, and admiration coming from yet another conservative, Christian, knitting American (who also enjoys visiting your beautiful country on occasion!)

You do not deserve this. You seem to me to be a wonderful, funny and down-to-earth person. Honestly? When I read your blog I want to be Canadian. Hang in there and please be safe.

Steph, I haven't commented in a while, but I read you always and love you. I'm a Christian American and I'm appalled at her behavior. {{hugs}} to you and I applaud you for taking the high road and leaving her in the gutter where she belongs.

I am so sorry. People should not act that way. A good friend of mine says that when you get the wackos riled up you must be doing something right, but then he's talking politics and you are talking knitting. You are a fabulous person and an inspiration on many levels beyond knitting. I love you for your lovely lefty-enviro-Canadian-ness

Hang in there. Deep cleansing breaths.

Sharon in Fairbanks AK

Good grief, Stephanie. No one should have to put up with all that nonsense. Sending you positive thoughts.

We don't get much television. We receive our signals over the air, and since the digital conversion we get less than we used to.

One program we are grateful to still be able to watch is Bill Moyers' Journal on Friday nights. Last night's show had a segment on health care, followed by a segment on the radio people who carry their negative, even hateful, verbiage onto the airwaves and into the bookstores. It talked about their desire to shock audiences, and the need to continually create more outrageous statements in order to continue to shock (because continuous shock only works if the amperage increases).

I think this person has been taken lessons in rhetoric from those folks. (I call their talk "verbiage," rather than opinions, because I'm not sure they *are* opinions, but are instead formulations of words set up to evoke a reaction).

So sorry you have been having to deal with this.

Yet another lurker coming out to show support.
Nobody should have to suffer this kind of behaviour.
Much love to you.

Another American delurking to say that I'm so sorry you're going through this. As obsessed as I am with knitting, a big reason that I love to read your blog is that you are clearly such a good and kind person. Is there any chance that you can have someone else monitor your email and comments, or at least take turns with you? Someone needs to keep an eye on this person, but you must need a break. Take good care.

Dear Stephanie, I am very sorry to hear that this is happening to you. That kind of behaviour should not be tolerated and should be reported to the authorities. Hope they can do something about this cyberstalker.

For what it is worth. Perhaps the comments could be turned off to give yourself a break from monitoring them.

(((Hugs)))

I am an American. She does not speak for me. I read your blog every day, I love your books and buy them all. I admire you enormously and, as an American, apologize to you for her behavior.

Never commented before and I have read for years. I am so sorry you have to go through this and I support you and your decision. Thanks for providing us all with so much of yourself.

I am an American who is proud to have you as a neighbor, to own your books, to hear your talks, and to read your blog. I completely respect your pride for your country and I have learned more about it from you than I ever learned in school. Likewise, I am horrified by some of the things that have been said about your country by some of our elected officials. I am *not* a minority on this.

I admire your restraint on this issue, and I hope that in private you are able to blow off some well-justified steam. You said yourself this feels unbalanced; it is. If you believe *any* of it, you're letting her win. Stay strong, and take care.

I can't imagine how difficult this is for you and I'm so sorry that this is happening. Yesterday you said that your blog was boring and I didn't write because it was such an outlandish thing for you to say, your blog is *divine*! It seems that something like this happens to a lot of stuff on the Internet. Maybe you could ask some people who have gone through the same thing and well, you're famous, you know, and this is the danger.
Anyway, thanks so, as always, for the books, I've read them all 3 times, they're so comforting! Please take care of yourself. You have been working so hard on the Sock Summit, darn, I wish I could go.
Take care,
may

I absolutely adore your blog and books. I've been a fan for years. I'm an American, but I've never been "insulted" by anything you've written. In fact, most of it makes me laugh so loudly that I scare the cats.

Not so your post, obviously.

What the woman doing is illegal and potentially dangerous, so please please please take the necessary steps to stop this stalking/bullying situation ASAP. Don't go it alone; get the authorities involved and hit her with a swiftness.

Be proactive, and remember that you've every reason to be angry, but you've no reason to be hurt. She's damaged goods, so the "you" she perceives is not the "you" that the rest of us know and adore.

Love ya to bits, Stephanie!

Woah. Just..Woah. I am so sorry you had to go through this and I hope that this helps.

I'm just adding a big "ditto" to what's been said here. I know that a gazillion of us want to sound a red-alert and man the battle-stations for you. I sure do. But you're right, Stephanie; that won't help in this case.
I will tell you, though, that I love your Canada Day posts. I love the way you love your country, and your city, and your family. I love that you are being so level-headed and and wise and generous about this.
I'm proud to know you.

Dear Stephanie,
I am very sorry you have had to go though all this. I myself received an anonymous letter time ago accusing me of the most unbelievable things. I just ignored it. That is the best way to handle these people. Ignore her, delete her, screen your comments and NEVER let any of those hateful ones get through. One of your books was the first one I read in English about knitting and it was an inspiration. Hold on. You are Canadian, and though you are renowed for your courtesy, you are also known for being brave. Hugs.

As hard as it may be you can't let the crazy people in the world change you. Believe that the people who know you personally or only through your blog, know the real you and that the crazy person is so easyily identifiable as such and is not worth a moment more of any of our time.Know that your inspiration, wit and humor are all appreciated more than you can possibly know and that onje crazy individual will never change that...

This has nothing to do with nation bashing, it's all about crazy.

Please be careful - Don't stop writing - you are a role model of graciousness

Do you think I can make a second sock in time for SS09?

Greetings from Greece!

Another long time reader of your blog and first poster. Keep up your good work - everyone is with you!

OMG Steph! She is a very sorry sick individual & needs help.....She does not represent or speak for American Women, Conservatives or Christians!

Thanks for the heads up!

The vile, vicious comments from a deranged person does NOT represent my views and I am embarrassed for her and hope she seeks the mental health assistance she so clearly needs. I enjoy Stephanie's postings so much - they are honest, genuine and sincere. Her humor that makes my day. Stephanie - Please know that you have a huge following of people who adore you for exactly who you are. Living in the Northwest, I have many, many dear friends who are Canadian - they are the best!

Stephanie

Please don't let one stupid person spoil it for everyone else.

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. Although I have never seen your books (they are rare in Australia), I have been reading your blog for a year or two, and have always enjoyed it. Have mucho hugs! And I agree with a few of these posts: go kiss Joe and hug your kids. We know you're a fabulous parent.

I'm so sorry. I think your blog readers as a whole will follow the best advice when dealing with this kind of issue:

DNFTT.

Do Not Feed The Troll.

And yes, please contact the authorities in her community and let them know what is going on. Many US states have anti-stalking laws to prevent just this type of activity. You obviously have a well-documented trail to provide to them. Please do it. For your family's sake, even if you don't think you need to do it for yours.

Sending lots of love and light from the US -- and I'm a US citizen who loves your pride in your country, and has learned a huge amount from you about our close neighbor to the north!

And another long time lurker (we should have our own abbreviation), from Britain. I love your blog. I am so sorry you have to put up with this sort of rubbish, in order for the rest of us to have something to enjoy so much. I hope all the commenters have given you enough mental armour (the right spelling if you're British) to carry on.

I've been trying to think of something to say that could possibly not be said...but dear lord. Just look at all these comments! I think someone already said what I was thinking pretty well so I will quote her: "Dear Stephanie

Right this very moment, you are teaching me to be a better person."

*hugs*
-Stacey, formerly the crazy money lady from San Francisco who has relocated to Los Angeles.

Agreed - also delurking to say yes we'd certainly miss reading you but do you want a vacation? And then a period of comments turned off? And maybe another vacation after that? Good grief.

And believe me I really mean the part about missing reading your blog. I would be a lonely knitter, an anomaly in my family and museum exhibit to my friends (all muggles), if one of the friends hadn't said "Hey have you heard of the Yarn Harlot (*snicker ha ha*)?" Curiosity led me thereby to your site and all the knitting blog world, and most importantly to some very expensive yarn stores.

So I hope you take care of yourself, and Enjoy Socks, and really thank you for your honesty, grace, and for exemplifying what this American, admires about Canadians: you take the high road. And be dommed to 'em.

I want to keep this short and sweet - and although I am not sure you are still reading after over 850 comments:

Be proud. Be safe. Be healthy. Be blessed.

You are a great example of humility and patience.

You children and family should be proud.

(also, WHOOHOO! for music men. Mine is one too!)

I'm so sorry you are on the receiving end of such venom. This person is seriously unhinged. Please take care. We are with you 100%.

PLEASE know that this person in NO WAY represents Americans, Christians or any other decent human being!
Thank you for being so gracious about this situation. Bless you <3

Wow. Just wow. I'm so sorry you have to put up with this. This woman is why Americans pretend to be Canadian when they travel internationally!

Hugs and much love, Steph. We've got your back!!

Just one more Christian American Knitting blogger who absolutely ADORES you....Steph, you are such a wonderful human! Never let the haters get you down.

You are now, as you always are, the voice of reason. Another American, here, who loves your national pride and enjoys reading your Canada Day posts. We are neighbors, and our differences make us special. I will be hoping that this ugliness quietly resolves and you have peace again.

I wish that I could make some kind of shield or magic talisman to keep crazy Internet people away, everyone knows that hackers are weak against magic.

Since I haven't got magic I'll just send you all the positive vibes I've got.

Dear Stephanie,
Your blog entry was very disturbing to read, but want to thank you for sharing it, which must have been very hard. Please do whatever you need to in order to stay safe and preserve peace in your life. I thank you for all the humor, good sense, and knitting inspiration that you have given us through your bog and books and tweets. Sending love and appreciation from Ohio.

Stephanie,

As a very conservative American I am mortified by this person's behavior. I may not agree with you on everything, but I love reading your blog and your books. This person has obviously gone round the bend, and does not deserve your concern. If there were one iota of truth in those nasty accusations you would get 800+ positive comments to this post.

Personally I love your Canada Day posts. It is good for someone to be patriotic towards their own country, and to share their love as well.

Although I read this blog daily and own every book you've written this will be my first comment.
The tone that you use when you write about your trips to America have always been filled with respect, excitement, and joy for the country and the people. That is a true fact and not an opinion.

We love you, Stephanie!

Here's another American woman wishing you all the support and peace in the world.

Two things:

1. I am in full agreement that "pussy" should not be used as an insult, and it's not even that bad. I can think of lots that are worse without even resorting to obscenities!

2. So something good will come of this, I will be making an additional donation to Doctors Without Borders this month in addition to my automatic monthly contribution.

Tranquility to you.

I had to delurk for this... I'm proud to have you as a neighbor to the north.

Expressing pride in one's country in the manner you did is no insult, to my country or any other. Never let the 'hmm-hmms' get you down!

Hugs from England. Can't do anything about the nutters except ignore them.

We know you and you're brilliant and clever and kind and witty and we wouldn't be without you.

My mouth was hanging open in shock while I read this post. I've never seen anything remotely anti-American in your blog! I am an American, and I love you. Your posts have improved my day on many occasions, your knitting inspires me to improve my own skills, and I've filed away some of your parenting stuff for future reference. I think you are a wonderful, kind, and fun person, and you don't deserve anything that she said. You are an inspiration to me. Oh, and Joe's a great guy too. Musicians are NOT worthless by any measure.

Nothing more to say than this woman is crazy, and that you are a stronger better woman than I am. Please stop even reading her emails, and get legal help.
Now go have a beer or 3!

Go knit yourself something, and forget about this nut job. Life it too short to waste precious knitting time on her.

The woman is clearly a dickhead. I'm sorry she has made you the target of her utter boredom.

I enjoy every single post but rarely comment. So sorry to read you have to go through all this! Hope you can achieve that peace, and all your energy can be directed to the things and people you love!

I wonder how she feels about Australians???
Unbelievable. You've had to deal with all this while knitting the blanket that's been boring you silly. What did you do in a previous life that has made all this happen?

HI! You know what EZ would say:

Knit on with confidence and hope, through all crises!

You are a shining example of grace under pressure. Take care of yourself and your lovely family, I would love to have you all over for supper some day.

She's clearly insane.

How awful that you've had to endure this. Can't you file a restraining order of harrassment against her? (I apologize if this has already been suggested... I didn't read through the comments already posted.)

I've been reading your blog daily, have all your books, but have never commented. You've been my knitting hero for a long time, but today you're just plain my HERO. Thank you for all the time you put in and everything you do. Hope all the love all these wonderful people are sending your way helps. You don't just shine a light - you ARE one

When you said you had blocked her from the blog but was still receiving her email, my initial thought was to advise you to block her from you email too. Then, at 9:22, Jan said, "I beg you to be very, very careful of this person's behaviour. I urge you to make a statement to police to protect yourself and the ones you love. Trying to disengage from this type of behaviour may lead her to even great efforts to reach you, at any cost. Please consult a lawyer as well, to see if you can get a restraining order.... Please, please be very careful." and changed my mind. She might be able to tell that you blocked her on your email so set up a file specifically to direct her emails to and then don't read them! Save them for evidence but you don't need the negative energy but might need them for a suit for cyber-bullying.
You are a bright, lively and well-loved woman. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with the rest of us.

Love, Light and Respect? Sounds like my weirdo godless religion! (I'm a proud Unitarian). Hoping your annoyance goes away soon.

Agree totally with the comment from Katie (ab ove). I have known many Americans over the years, and they are - mostly - normal lovely people. Why should she think that because you love your country (a wonderful place) that you hate America? She sounds sick and in need of help. You need to see a lawyer - I'm sure there are anti-stalking laws in Canada and the States. Meanwhile - the best of British! Go have that beer or three.

Stephanie, i am so sorry this has happened to you - can you call the police - if you know her identity - this is blatant harrasment and the fact that you blocked her and she got a new IP address to dodge the block is creepy :)

Many hugs - i love your blog please don't stop writing :)

You are obviously dealing with an individual who is jealous of the life you portray so well on your blog who may or may not be mentally unwell.Either way being in the public eye makes you "fair game", to some people. I have been reading your blog for years and really enjoy learning about aspects of your culture that are so different to ours here in Britian.Your knitting skills may leave me feeling inadequate at times but I dont feel the need to harangue you about it. I dont have any advice for you on how to deal with this situation but I would like to thank you for having the courage to continue with your blog providing the majority of us your readers with our "fix".

I hope that when you wake up in the morning, you'll be able to smile. I think you deserve that.

Grace & ethics under fire ... well done!

A previous comment mentioned making a KWB donation next pay day. I'm on board with that! Let's channel this into something positive.

Sorry ... what were we talking about? There was something I wasn't supposed to mention ... oh well, couldn't have been all that important.

Seriously looking forward to SS'09!
cheers.

At first I could not believe what I was reading.
Stephanie you are so brave. Sending support and lots of light from Vancouver. You'll get through this.

I find this appalling and just wanted to add my support for you and your family to that of everyone else. I am sure that wonderful family of yours and all your friends are being so supportive .... as are the people who read your books and blog.

You talk about not adding fire to fire, would also suggest that a fire dies without oxygen, i.e. attention ...... so if we all ignore this person, she will no longer have an audience.

Would also add, hurtful and worrying as all of this is, none of it is really about you ........ it is all about her and speaks volumes about her inner world, which she is projecting out on to her chosen subject .. you. Remember that her view of you is just that - her perception and not how and who you really are.

Thinking of you all and sending positive vibes across the pond.

Sue

Sending support from the sunny shores of California! Thank you for being an honest and humorous voice in the knitting community - keep on keepin' on!

I'm so sorry, that's just horrible. You're showing a lot of grace in a lousy situation and I'm sorry that you have to. Even in going into it here, you took the high road and that can be hard to do when dealing with the obnoxious and the ignorant. She sounds unbalanced, ill, delusional. Please do what you have to do to be safe and take care of your family. I know you have a lot of support so what's one more voice, but know that there IS one more voice added to all the others, pulling for this to blow over.

As a Christian and an American, I'm embarassed and saddened by this person who continues to harass you. She's a sad little woman who must think so little of herself that she has to bring you down with her. Please don't believe her ridiculous lies.

As a customer service rep for websites where we got our share of crazy fanatical emails from people who had nothing better to do, I can only say that it was bound to happen sooner or later.

Please keep thorough record of everything written or said to you, you may need it in the future.

Stephanie, you are loved by so many, don't ever forget that!

If I saw her face-to-face I'd probably want to punch her by now. So the Internet teaches you not to hit people, because you simply can't?

She's insulting *my* country, the United States, by acting so high-and-mighty. I like that she uses the word "friendly". Ha. Anyway. I'm sure there is a lot of good advice in this comments and you should probably follow through on a lot of it. After all, we don't want you to feel like you have to be checking the blog 24/7 for comments from this person. I'd think that would be terrifying. I promise not to respond to her, cross my heart.

It's not hard to see why she's decided you're anti-American...it's not hard for an insecure and irrational person to make the jump from you stating things about Canada to you saying that that must mean America sucks. What I don't get is why the hell she's still reading the blog and slagging you off so much? You've been nothing but firm with her, not rude at all and she's definitely flying off the handle. To insult your parenting and religion is ridiculous. I hope that she does get bored and leaves you and your family alone; you don't deserve any of this.

Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for continuing your blog. I agree with another knitter that said this "needs to be said thousands of more times"...you are an absolutely stunning example of humanity, you inspire and brighten the days of countless people worldwide, and I consider you a personal hero, and a symbol of tolerence and human decency. Please don't ever change.

good on ya, mate.

Dear Stephanie, You are a GEM and very very very much appreciated by so many people. I cannot thank you and your family enough for all you share. You are managing to lighten dark parts of my life and I will never cease to be greatful for what you have given me through your blog and your books. You really have changed my life and my knitting.
I hope the good comments help to protect you from the lousy ones and that you can relax knowing that you're a much appreciated & wonderful person.
Suzie

I have been reading for years but never commented, just sending you good wishes and hope that this all ends soon for you.

By the way, love the blog!

Hello Darling Harlot,

You are a good person. I am so happy that you are in this world.

Thanks for being funny, creative, honest and strong.
Knit on sister, knit on!

Welsh Lurker here.....it never ceases to amaze me how much hatred and vitriol can be aroused by someone's success and popularity....I read your blog religiously...hail saint stephanie lol long may you carry on lightening our knitting darkness, and believe me living in Wales in the winter it gets very dark indeed. You have a loving family and a loving knitting family too ...keep on doing what you do best and we will all ignore the bad stuff

So sorry you're going through this and hope it stops for you soon; am continually surprised by what people think is acceptable online behaviour.

This woman is obviously insane. I'm sorry that you're being bothered by this sad excuse for a human being. No one deserves what you're going through. You're a wonderful person and, in my opinion, extremely tolerant. I have no respect and no patience for (ahem) People like this. If I had the chance to meet her I'd snap her in half like a damn twig. But that's just me.
I'm giving you a big internet hug. *squeeze* You deserve it. And a glass of beer. Make that two.
At times like this I often say "WHAT DA HEELLL!!!" Give it a try. Very cathartic. Also, knitting.

As many others I'm a first-time commenter but a constant reader. I can't imagine what sort of a trauma one needs to experience to engage in such a dreadful and strange "crusade" and I agree with you that it's sad and... well... creepy? Is that the word? Unfortunately, there's no adequate solution to these issues on the Internet - except adding more filters for incoming e-mail.
I hope that she'll boil out soon enough once ignored and I wish you all the strength you might need to deal with this situation.
Love, light and respect. And peace.

Wow...I don't really know what to say. What an idiot! It's unfortunate that someone this incredibly ignorant has the brass balls to think she represents my country, my religion and my opinion ....and then we wonder why the world has so much anti-American feeling in it! How arrogant...Please stay safe and feel all the love surrounding you right now
Have a beer and Oh, wait, let me raise my Canadian lager to you!

Hugs, Jeanne R.

Another longtime lurker here.

I'm American and proud of it. I'm equally proud of how you handled this situation.

This woman gives everyone a bad name.

This vile, hurtful, barbed stuff - I've had it before, in public and in private, from a spurned lover. I applaud your decision to go public with it; I did and I found it freeing and then uplifting with the support I got and the reassurances that no, it was not me in the wrong.

I wholly enjoyed your vivacity, with, and self-deprication when you came to speak in London last year. I have been reading your blog for five years or more and you never cease to make me smile. Thanks again.

I wanted to post to give you my encouragement. I don't know quite what to say. I have browsed the 850 comments and realized that there wasn't much more that I could say that hasn't been already. I do know that I am looking forward to the Sock Summit, to all the friendly knitters, to 'our people.' please don't let one person's ugly comments get you down.
Hope you will have a good day, that the sun shines, and you know how much of a positive impact you have on thousands of people every day. If not for you, who would give us permission to laugh at our knitting, to rip it back and stomp on it, to teach us that beer and knitting aren't always a good combo. Lastly, you created kinnearing and posing socks.
You go girl!
Tinki.

It's sad that I need to go out of my way to tell you this, but we all love you. LOVE you. You know that, right? Keep on keepin' on!

Wow. That's the most astonishing pile of vitriolic crap I've ever read, and I'm so sorry it was directed at you! You are an amazing and fantastic person, a teacher, an artist, and a wonderful mother. You've brought hours of happiness to my life through your blogging and your writing. You've inspired me to try so many new things and cheered me up on terrible days. Thank you for your work and your endless grace. You are one of the very few people I point to and think "I want to be like her when I 'grow up' ".

Dear Harlot, I hope you NEVER have to spend one more minute worrying about this plain nutso. This is just a case of severe mental damage and deserves nothing but dismissing. I don't think she is even funny, the poor wreck.

Sending you lots of virtual Belgian beer. Keep up all the good things that are the Harlot !

En français, c'est plus facile ;)

Courage Steph! Des imbéciles, des jalouses, des folles, il y en a des tonnes que l'on ne peut malheureusement pas changer. On peut tenter de les ignorer, mais c'est parfois difficile.

J'ai eu des moments terribles ces deux dernières années, et ton blog a été l'un de ceux qui m'ont fait oublier mes soucis et mes angoisses. Dans les pires moments, tu m'as même faite rire! Alors j'essaye de te renvoyer un peu de ce que tu m'as donné, même si je sais que je n'y arriverais probablement pas.

Courage, tiens bon. Sa méchanceté est à la hauteur de ta valeur...

Bises

Lots of hugs for you. And I'm really touched that you keep up the light of love in this situation.

*big hugs*

I'm sorry that you have to deal with people like her. Congratulations on taking the high road and you are right, if she doesn't have attention then she will (eventually) give up.

I'm neither American nor Canadian and I have read your entire blog and never once have you been offensive to anyone. Some people tend to forget that the countries of the world are different and that we can choose to honour our own country rather than worship the one.

Unfortunately, getting around an IP ban is as easy as turning your modem or router off for a few hours. All I can suggest is to make sure you have hard copies of all the correspondence she sends you, including comments with date and IP stamps on them and whatever else information you can glean.

Good luck!

wow, be safe, love from melbourne, australia.

Oh dear, *take deep breaths* that sounds like a very exhausting situation, not being heard at all and confronted with so much hostility.
The thing is, delusions can't be talked against. Even if you came up with evidence that you are everything she could ever wish for, she'll find ways to fit that into her system of believes and still not see reality. There is no way to win. I just hope you find a way to get her out of your life that doesn't cost you any more energy than this already did. It's probably not even personal, she just seems to need someone to build her illusions around and have someone to hate. It could have been anyone. So sorry it hit you.

i wanted to show some support, but i'll keep it short and sweet:

1)hug some cashmere/merino/alpaca

2)have a beer

3)and know that you have inspired thousands of knitters all over the globe with your wit and humor.

best wishes,
claire

These e-mails aren't "mean" or "jealous" or anything else that a normal-but-upset or even seriously overzealous person would write. These are the statements of someone who is seriously ill.

I would not try to act on these statements as if they came from a rational person. Rationalizing them is impossible. This person is living in an alternate reality.

I do think that you should at least make her local law enforcement authority aware of her presence. They may not be able to do anything to help right now, but you'll have put her on their radar.

I've been where you are, although more physical than digital it sucks but I promise it gets better eventually. Love to you and will see you with excitement in Portland.

Delurking from the deep just to add support...which is rather like a wee drop in the ocean here.

*reads comments*

You are really well loved and supported by so many! I am sorry that you are undergoing such awfulness.

It's almost scary how much this reminds me of what someone I knew in high school did to me, and I can't express enough how sorry it makes me to hear that you've been on the receiving end of this kind of horrifying garbage. I commend you for airing the dirty laundry and hope that some good will come of it and this will end for you.

I know many American Christians have already commented, but I'd just like to add that no, this person doesn't represent the majority of us, and I find it both sad and ironic that someone who claims to be a Christian woman would treat another person this way.

You are a talented, hard-working woman, Stephanie, and you've got The Blog behind you on this, 100%!

So many people have said it all so much better than I can...

You're a lovely human being and I'm glad to have had the joy of reading your words for many years. You've been an inspiration and a joy.

my thanks,

Nan

I was very saddened to see that someone is targeting you in this manner. Clearly she is being hateful just for the sake of being hateful.

As you can see, we are all behind you - I admire you for taking the high road all this time and even now are still dealing with this with class.

Sending you hugs and peaceful thoughts - if you're ever down in western Colorado, beers are on me :)

Yikes. After reading that, I need a beer in THE worst possible way. I can only imagine how you must feel. Hang in there. Remember you're an inspiration to the rest of us.

Don't let her get to you! Keep up your excellent work! You've done nothing wrong.

Reading while nursing my son in bed. Support and love from the QC. xo

Sorry for the double comment, but can you set your comments to be moderated? If you can, you can approve all the comments before they appear on the live site. That way, there is no more worrying about what she has posted while you are away, no one else will see it until you approve it.

There are some weird people about, and some of those need help.

It occurred to me as I read your post that down the right margin were quite a number of icons showing your 'best blog' awards over the years - I hope this reminds you that not all your readers think of you in the same way that the subject of your post does.

Chin up Stephanie. We love you.

Not all Americans, nor Christians for that matter, are cut from the same cloth as she. I love and enjoy your writing style, your blog, your books. Keeep up the great work and don't let this woman and her attitudes get you down.

I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said, but I wanted to add my voices to all the others to let you know just how much your blog is enjoyed by all sorts of knitters.

Thank you and good luck!

Even more hugs!

And one more time - you're great, she's got a great big problem of her own and I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.

OMG, she makes a good (not) example of a good christian American, doesn't she? I am amazed that she dares to say that she represents all Americans.
((hugs))

More support coming your way!
I am thrilled to be a reader and supporter of all things Stephanie! I was happy the day i found your site, your works, your links, I've enjoyed reading every single entry you've made in your blog through the years (and rereading!) and truly aspire to be like you at times. I admire your bravery, your honesty, your courage to dare to do things that you freely admit are outside your comfort zone, your compassion, your sheer intelligence! Long live Stephanie. And as others have said before me, we love you!

Oh. Oh my goodness.

1) I am so glad that you're keeping the blog up.
2) "The truth shall set you free" - thank you for letting us go behind the scenes of this problem, so that we can, like you, take appropriate measures by keeping far, far away from this person and eventually free The Blog of her influence!
3) Wishing you huge success at the Sock Summit; love and blessing and peace to you and yours.

Abraham Lincoln once said that you can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time…

So sorry for this to be happening to you.

sending you lots of love xx

Someone should teach that woman to knit! Supporting you from the other side of the world.

I'm sorry this is happening to you.

You inspire me to be a better person. Thank you for being here. Please take care of yourself (and your family!)

It's absolutely true that if we ignore this spiritually sick person and don't go to her blog to tell her off, she'll eventually stop her tirades, at least those against you. However, it's cold comfort that she'll just look for someone else to try to make miserable when she does move on.

If I could speak to her though, I would have only one thing to say, and that is, "has any of this made your life better?"

I'm here to chime in with the rest of those expressing support for you. I'm glad you let us know what's been going on. The diplomatic way you are dealing with it shows the strength of your heart and goodness of your character. You're a very dear and special person, and this too shall pass.

*Hugs*

Wow, sounds like a textbook psycho-hosebeast!
How terrible! I don't know what else to suggest except to disengage from her, and protect yourself. Good luck! She is in the minority here, most of your readers LOVE YOU!

Oh my god. I applaud you for not going down to her level. Having read your Canada day entry, I fail to see what is so supposedly "anti-american" about it. I have even less understanding of why anything said in your post that day or in your later e-mails that you've posted here would need to involve the US as a whole AND Christians as a whole to unite against you. (although telling you to read the "Christian bible" amused me. As opposed to what bible exactly?).

You are a bigger person than her and you have handled yourself with dignity. I am sorry this has happened to you.

If she's a supposed serious knitter, I am very happy not to be considered part of the serious knitting community.

Like so many other people here I just want to show you my support. I've never commented before as so many people seem to say the right thing but at this point I feel you need to know how much you are loved across the world. Thanks

Asstounding. How can pro-Canada be anti-American? I call your writing inspirational. Inspiration for my hobby, for my way of life prioritizing what I choose to love, be it Canada or in my case my beloved Sweden.
Please keep inspiring the knitting World dear Harlot!

your right, this woman is obviously deeply troubled.
you have taken the right course of action. i hope she tires soon , best wishes

There are hundreds of comments above, all in support.
Together we are stronger! Problem shared is a problem solved!

And great credit for not naming and shaming!

You're a great inspiration all over the world, I've never thought of anything on your blog as anti-anyone.
And I read the posts about Joe to my boyfriend, so he know's he's not the only long-suffering yarn widow!

Oh, honey, a few years back (when I lived in America), I went through a creepy internet ordeal that involved everything from deportation threats to death threats. It was disturbing and bizarre. I am so sorry that some weirdo has picked you as their internet victim.

Sending support from Australia! Behind you all the way :)

Lots of love.

I am a Christian. I am an American. I will not be represented by a jealous psychopath. Just sayin....

Hi Stephsnie

another long term reader and first time commenter. I'm so sorry that you have been subject to such horrible treatment.

Hopefully all these comments will help to redress the balance.

You add humour, interest and creativity to a world that is often sorely lacking in all three.

Keep on doing it, knowing that this many (and thousands more I have no doubt) are tipping the scales of karma for you

Debs
xxxxx

I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I personally love that you are so proud of your country (it is a great one), and don't see how anyone could construe that as an insult to America or Americans. Hope things get better soon, I love blog, for both knitting and non-knitting inspriation.

P.S. Good luck with SSO9, it's going to be fantastic!

I have learned many things from your blog and your wonderful books -- and not all of them are knitting related. You are one class act, and I respect and admire your behavior regarding this unfortunate and deeply disturbed woman.

I'm sending in a KWB donation to release some goodwill into the world.

Best wishes from Michigan.

This is really shocking, and I hope you realise that the vast majority of people are on your side! We are all right behind you on this one!

Fully supportive. Woman clearly has too much time on her hands and odd sense of perspective. I disagree with her perspective. You are a fab writer. And probably a good parent, too.

big hugs.... no worries, I rarely get time to read your comments, there are so many of them....

love your posts, love your books, all hail the Yarn Harlot

Delurking to show my support. I think you are handling this in a very mature way, and I hope she will give up soon and let you have some peace and quiet. I love your blog and your writing.

Well. First and foremost, I apologize for her. The majority of us in America still love you and think you're wonderful. Second, I wish I could be as patient and wonderful as you are because I would have handled things very different. Third, perhaps there is some sort of authority you can contact about harassment? I'm not sure since it is across national borders (aka: invisible, arbitrary lines drawn in the sand)...

Stephanie -

You are so wonderful. I know that I am like comment 956, but one of the best days of my life is the day that you called me a smartass at Cornelius Pass Roadhouse. You are an amazing teacher, mother, wife and knitter. You have inspired all of us to keep knitting, to keep loving, and most of all to KEEP GOING!!!

Hugs, prayers, and love to you, your hubby and the girls.

See you soon

Love Mary

I am (almost) speechless. I am so sorry you have to deal with the unending rantings of an obviously crazy person. And truly, the poster is certifiable.
I wish for both your sakes, someone would stop her and say, "Get a grip!"

In the meantime, know that I and all these people who have commented ahead of me, only want the best for you, and that this ugliness will stop.

Janet

(((Stephanie)))

These 1000 or so comments are going to cause some grief, what with rampant reverse mud-slinging and name calling.
Knitter friends, re-read what Steph wrote, kindness, respect. Only address Steph. Don't egg on anyone or add to the steaming vat of crap Stephanie has to deal with already.

Hugs and love from just another gal in the lower 48 who loves your writing.

Stephanie - Thank you for having the courage to post this. If I had seen her comments somewhere I would have responded and unknowingly made things worse. This is a great example to us all and, as yet another American reading and loving your blog and books, keep up the good work.

I'm so sorry that you are being stalked by this crazy embittered person. Chin up. Onwards and upwards,
Love Linda

Stephanie, I'm so, so, so sorry. I'm an American Christian and this woman most definitely doesn't represent me. I'm not sure how she can be so nasty to another person and say that she's a Christian. That's definitely not what I've been taught. I'm so glad that you blocked her because the whole time I was reading your post, I knew that eventually you were going to have to do that. It's really the only way that you can handle something like this. I used to run a message board that basically was a support group for people who became ill after certain medications. Every so often someone would pop up who had a great result from the medication and would then start calling all of us who didn't have such great results nasty names and saying really awful things about us. It hurt. At first I would try to defend and explain about the group. I would write them back and tell them that I was happy that the medications worked so well for them, but that they didn't for us. The fact that we had a bad reaction didn't make us awful or lazy. Sometimes they would stop and apologize. Sometimes this would make the nasty poster even worse and they would get in a tizzy and start writing even worse things. Eventually I realized I was giving them what they wanted. My attempt at understanding was only adding more fuel to the fire so eventually I realized that I would have to just delete their comments and block them from the message board. It was all I could do. It wasn't fair to everyone else to ask them to put up with all the crap.

Canada is a wonderful country. I grew up less than 30 miles away from the border and have spent tons of time in your lovely country. Going to Canada was so common it was more like going to a nearby town than it was going to another country. Our area of the United States and yours were so linked that we always had Canadian coins mixed in with our US ones and they were all treated the same, but the bills were another story though LOL! I love the land, the people and I really love the Canada Day posts. It reminds me of my childhood and all the great time I've spent in Canada. We only had three TV channels when I was very little, and one of them was Canadian. Later on we had 2 Canadian channels. I grew up watching the Friendly Giant, Mr. Dressup and loved the CBC. I recently attended the funeral of a childhood friend who was a hockey nut. We all are hockey nuts and in true North Country tradition, it was the hockey players that all the girls wanted to date in high school. One of the pieces of music that was played during the memorial service was the Hockey Night in Canada theme and of course we all burst into tears. Only people who have very long cold winters with lots of snow and very short summers might understand that one!

This is why I love your Canada Day trivia and all the other Canadian holidays that you talk about, it reminds me of were I grew up. Of course you love your country! Of course you're proud to be a Canadian. That's the way it's supposed to be. I love my country too. Sometimes my government might drive me crazy, but I love my country. I have never understood why when someone compliments something, another person takes the compliment as a criticism or slam towards something they love. It makes no sense to me as one has absolutely nothing to do with another. My love of your country has no impact on how much I love my own country. It's like getting mad because someone likes chocolate ice cream and you only like vanilla, so when they say they love chocolate ice cream you take their innocuous comment and twist it into a slam against you because you like vanilla ice cream! I'm sorry this woman doesn't understand that.

You can't please all the people all the time. It's painfully obvious in this case. This poor lady has some serious issues that really have nothing to do with you, and have everything to do with her. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do for her even if you wanted to. I think you're doing the smart thing by trying to stop adding fuel to the fire by no longer pay attention. It's sad, but she's made her choice. Please try to not spend anymore of your energy on this because it's not worth it. All of her ranting and nastiness isn't really about you it's really about her, so hard as it is, you have to try and not take it personally. I'm glad you trusted us enough to let us know about this. Sorry about the length of this comment, but this really bothered me. I wanted to make absolutely sure that you knew that this woman in no way represents me or my friends. My morning coffee wouldn't taste right if I couldn't read your blog while I drank it. (My monitor would be very happy if I stopped spraying coffee on it when I laughed at your blog though!) Sending good thoughts and energy your way. Hang in there. Go get some squeaky cheese curd, a great Canadian beer, and then please oh please, someone send me a recipe for butter tarts!

Standing right beside you with a wartime searchlight to shine the light too. I have worked with some very famous folks over the years - some of them employ nut hunters. Nut hunters look into the nut in depth quietly and carefully. They befriend the nut to help assess their state of mind and how far they are likely to go. Then, as a freind to the nut, they counteract them and work having them sectioned if necessary.

There are security agencies that do this. I hope you use one and that the nut makes a nice new friend soon.

You, lady, are just awesome - class, style, humour, and a fab mum to boot. Sending support from the UK (as another bunch of liberal weaklings teehee!)

Having to deal with people who are supposedly adults but act like children with a load in their pants seems to be a trending theme in July for some odd reason. Did someone pour crazy in the water?

Rarely does this happen but I feel compelled to apologize on behalf of all sane American women (if that's actually what she is, the internet is a weird place sometimes) for her completely and utterly ridiculous behavior.

Be strong Steph. I'm proud of you. Keep up your outstanding work. Take care of yourself and family.
Shawn

Shine on, Steph, shine on. Know that you have a huge, devoted fan-base who love you. Sending you more support from the UK.

You are the best, wittiest, most entertaining writer I have read in the blog world - I have printed out some of your posts and taken them on picnics to read to my family and friends and we have rolled around laughing at your descriptions - the time your husband was stuck in the snow, the time you had to trek to the cabin, the time the washer didn't fit down the stairs. You are a gift. And I own some of your books and love them dearly. And I'm not even Canadian! So from Australia - we love you and think you are marvellous. Take care and as hard as it can be, remember that this, as you alluded to in your post, is about her misery and hardships, not you.

Dear Stephanie,
Keep strong. The woman is obviously mad, and jealous of you. Take care of you and yours this weekend. Sending you lots of virtual hugs from acorss the pond. xxx

I am so proud of you and your actions. I think she may be mentally ill and I hope for your sake it blows over soon. If there is anything we can do, say the word.

Stephanie, you are loved. Universally, as we evident at the sold out show in London last fall. I'm a proud American. I adore that you are a proud Canadian. That you're involved in your heritage and country. That you embrace what makes you...you. When we celebrate Fourth of July, it isn't an anti-Canada day any more than Canada Day is anti-American.
I consider myself a strong Christian. You're blog doesn't offend me...never has. And I'm a little offended that she was throwing the Bible at you.
You are good at what you do, a great parent, friend, and you will have people (strong people...we are knitters after all) standing behind you all the way through this. Big hugs!!!

Stephanie -- if you were a teenager with a myspace/facebook page, and someone was posting this stuff on it, it would be called cyber-bullying. Have you attempted to contact local authorities?

It's a tricky issue -- I know authorities in America are just beginning to talk about how to deal with it. For example, if a kid is harassing a classmate through e-mail or a social networking medium, should the schools step in? Many schools are now saying yes -- bullying is bullying, cyber or not.

As a socially progressive American who voted for Obama, wears sandals with socks, and attends the rather left-leaning United Church of Christ, know that the majority of us to your South support you. And -- kudos for taking the high road.

Now I really, REALLY wish I could've gone to Sock Summit, so I could give you moral support in person. So I guess I will have to be satisfied with sending you virtual hugs and beer. I'm not Christian, and I'm, like, a Pinko, but I am American, as American as any Christian Conservative. I feel obliged to say that not all Americans are loonies (not talking about Canadian money, either, although, ha!). Please continue to talk with the authorities. Jan The Lawyer and others are right!

Oh, Stephanie, I'm sorry that you are being harassed. Know that those of us who enjoy your blogs and books would not believe this person's rantings. Thank you for shining the light on his/her ugliness and rudeness. You remind me that we should all stand up for decency, kindness, and respect. I wish you and your family all the best.

Your post made me want to cry. I love reading about your life--knitting and family and I have learnt such a lot about Canada and Canadian life from your blog. Please don't stop. chin up as we brits say--you're better than her! love from the UK

Good for you for taking a stand. Well done.

Long, long time reader, first time commenter. Please know that we love you, admire you and are behind you 100%.

Steph,
Thank you for sharing all this background with us. This woman is obviously very troubled and you are responding in an even, compassionate manner ( although I do not know how) and maintaining your dignity all the while. Please know that we all support you, respect you and read your blog faithfully because of your wit, your knowledge and heart. I am sad that this person purports to represent Americans. I have read the posts and am pleased to see that we are all supporting you. My faith community would call you a "mensch"--a really good, principled human being. We all wish you the best and plan to give to attention to this individual.

PLEASE.STAY.SAFE

And what nonsense...her behavior doesn't have anything to do with nationalities, religions, sex or...knitting...it's just plain mean and hateful...

Proud member of Steph's Army...here if you need us!

wow - unbelievable. i felt physically sick while reading that, so i can't even imagine how you must feel. but consdering how long it took me to scroll through all the comments so that i could leave mine, you're certainly not short of supporters! please know that we love reading what you write - don't let this ruin it for you.
i'm off to make a donation to MSF - maybe your other readers will do the same, and we can create something good out of this ugliness.

I just got done perusing all of the posts. I truly believe awful situations bring out so much good! The fire from you has lit many candles making your light shine all the more! I was so afraid that you were going to say you were shutting down your blog, and that would be very sad- I look forward to your posts! Keep shining on girl!

Guess you've only got to look at the sheer ammount of supportive comments to know you're loved. Unfortunately the internet is open to all - including the weirdos, its just a shame that minority seems to be the loudest!

Good on you, Stephanie. I knew that this kind of things happens on the net, but never really thought that it would take on like this (and I thought my dramas over at my Ravelry board were bad enough).

I'm more than 100% sure that you're doing the right thing here.

Hugs.

As a reader from across the pond here in the UK, you have my total support. This person is obviously unwell and needs help. You have every right to feel proud of your country (tis fabulous, I have visited!), and in no way have I every read any anti-American comments from you.
You are the lady who convinced me to knit socks and for that ALONE (but in fact so much more), I am standing right behind you, shining the light xx

I am amazed how much compassion you can still have for this person after all this. We are all here for you, and will stick by you like we know you would stick by us. You are a wonderful person, and have been a constant source of laughter and inspiration to me as both a knitter and a writer.
Every road will have it's bumps. I hope you'll be back on the straight road soon.

So sorry his is happening to you! Sending love and hugs from the south!

I just want you to have one more voice in the chorus of suppport and love you deserve! I have never posted, but I love your blog and the extraordinary person it reveals you to be.
Be safe.

*hugs*

Oh Stephanie, you poor thing having to put up with someone who only thinks the world revolves around them. That is what she must think and obviously hasnt got a life either if she has to email you every minute of the day with nasty rude comments. People are always going to voice their opinions on facebook, twitter and other places. If there is nasty comments on facebook she can be removed, just leave a complaint and they look into it for you. I dont know about twitter though as I dont really tweet! I hope everything works out well and if I were you I would be looking into getting a spyware program and adding her URL as a baddie and see if that blocks her out of your world. I have to say that B I T C H isnt as strong enough word to use for her!!!

Being twelve kinds of crazy is a poor excuse for such behavior. You did well to write about it, and I hope you get some peace.

So sorry you are having to put up with shite like this. There is no doubt that the knitting commuinity loves you and are behind you 100%.
Keep your chin up girl, she'll get bored soon.
*hugs*

I've read your blog for years but am posting for the first time to say: You are a graceful and classy lady! I'm so sorry that you've been put in such an unhappy position. Best of luck.

Stephanie,
Sending love and hope and peace from a little town in South Dakota. Be safe.

What an ordeal, you have my sympathy. Please believe that these are her issues and not yours and that this is plain to see. Good luck and a big hug.

Another American here and behind you 100%. I've NEVER been offended by any content on your blog. She's crazy and it sounds like you are doing the right thing. Definitely talk to the police and protect yourself. It's a small world these days.

So sorry you are having to deal with this Steph. I have never seen any anti-American content in your blog. I love your Canada day posts. I find them very educational and highly entertaining. Don't let her get you down. You're doing a great job. I've been reading your blog for a few years now and love it. --A big fan from Ohio

You do not deserve one tidbit of what she's thrown you and if it weren't clear to people before, your last paragraph represents just how true that is. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

Also? I do not appreciate that this girl is generalizing American sentiment, 'cause I can assure you and everyone else out there that I do not agree with one single word she has spewed. I am mad and upset that she has done all of this to you (and all of us, I suppose), but I can't do anything but pity her because she's obviously lacking something in life.

o.m.g. so many things wrong with that person. I, for one, have always loved Canada day posts, loved your blog, loved your books, loved your life.

Stephanie... yet another long time reader and first time commenter here. I simply find it incredible that your blog has drawn this kind of animosity, and my admiration for your grace under pressure is huge. I honestly think I would have cracked and been a lot less reasonable if I were you. I'm a practising Christian and this seems the kind of person in whom I see no sign of what I consider my faith.

My love and my best wishes to not only you, but Joe and the girls. Keep at it, dude. You rock. I saw you speak in London last year You make a living (just about!) doing something you love. This person is just insanely jealous of that xx

Sorry to hear this. I have spent many happy hours reading your wonderful writtings. Long may they continue.

Never speak of what again?

Seriously, though, you should be proud that you're taking the higher moral ground. I'm sure all your dedicated readers will follow suit. We love you, Harlot.

Oh my, oh my... so sorry you are having to deal with her. We appreciate you; from both sides of the border. Your wit and wisdom; your ability to always put a smile on our faces. Many thanks for your blog....

I am a proud Canadian - French Canadian - knitter living in the US and I am shocked that you are getting these kinds of comments and insults!

I am so sorry you have to go through this - I love reading your blog and your passion for what you do and what you believe in is an inspiration to me.

Some people are so envious of another's success it just turns them so bitter, and completely unable to let it alone. They do not think of the effort that you put into your success as a knitter, lecturer and writer. They just want to be the one admired. I personally enjoy the humor you bring to a lonely job of knitting and would encourage you to contine on your way. Do take Jan's advice to protect yourself as the focus is so intense. The person may be using a false identity on line.

Stephanie-
Sorry- I have to mention it again... Clearly this woman is not in her right mind. Perhaps just deleting without reading would be helpful? Obviously if someone reads your blogs and hates you, it becomes a disturbing situation. Normal people would read, disagree, not read again. I guess if you are a public figure, you must engage a crazy or two eventually. I am sorry you have to endure this because I enjoy your work so much! So don't read them! Delete them or have someone go thru your emails first to make sure you never see them!

Steph, I've been reading your blog for 2 or 3 years now and this is only the 2nd time I've commented. As a wannabe knitter who is Canadian and Christian, I just want to say that I love your blog and looking at your projects and I think you're very funny. While I may not always agree with everything you say, that is no reason to pass judgement, which is exactly what this woman is doing. She is the kind of person who makes Christians look bad...and we're not all like that, which I know you know.

And so, I send BIG HUGS to you and your family and pray that you get relief from all this nonsense soon!

If you have not already done so, might you consider going to the police with this information?

I've read your blog and enjoyed your books but have never felt I had to post until now. Please keep doing what you're doing! You're an inspiration to so many of us knitters here in America!

From her rantings and references, it is very easy to see that this person is clinically off-balance-overly psychotic-i.e. has a psychiatric disorder. As a physician, I have learned that this type of person can not be reasoned with as there are no good replies to insanity. I pray that she gets the help she needs--counseling and medications are not a cure, but beneficial at stablizing her thought disorder and emotional swings.

As for you Stephanie, you did nothing to provoke this. You just happened to be the unfortunate soul she has latched onto. Always a strange call for help. I hope that someone, somewhere near her, can help her get the much needed help she needs.

Keep on writing and know that we are all behind you.

Glad you shared but I am saddened that this type of attitude is out there. I was floored when I read someone thought you were anti-american based on your Canada day post simply because you post your love for Canada. Now you better be careful in all your future posting - if you say you love blueberries, someone will say you are anti-strawberry. If you say you love M&Ms, someone will say you are anti-3 Musketeers. Sigh I guess you cant win. So maybe you should keep doing what you do best - knitting and writing. I know I will keep reading regardless.

Blimey! What a thing to have to go through. I hope it all stops very soon.

I am adding my comment so that this woman will see just how many folks respect you and enjoy your blog, as well as noting one more time that she is not speaking for ANY of us State-side (yes, Canada is part of the America continent). I am sending more respect, admiration, and joy for you and assure you that many of us read you ALL the time even if we don't leave comments. I am going to buy another of your books today, just to show that we will continue to buy your work!

I'm commenting just to add one more supportive (American) "vote" to your comment numbers! As someone who is overly sensitive to the critics, while discounting her friends' opinions, this column and the comments helped remind me who is really important. "Knit on with confidence through all crises."

reading this post makes me feel ill, i cannot believe that someone would bully you in this manner

i must also say she isn't doing her country, or her religion any favors...

good on you for handling yourself so well, i don't know if i could in the same situation

I read somewhere that joy multiplies when you share it with friends, but grief diminishes with every division. You have brought so much joy and inspiration to so many people (not just us, the people who read your blog and books, but the MSF people who rely on your energy and the people who rely in turn on them). I know it wasn't the intention behind your decision to tell us about this craziness, but I hope that doing so has lessened your grief.

As has been said already, you have lots of people in your corner. Most of us knitters...and as someone told me once, that means we're smart, think well of ourselves, and have lots of friends. ;)

Stephanie - you are a wonderful person and I love reading your blog and I have every book you have ever written. There is always someone who will ruin it for the rest. I loved your blog about Canada and read it to my husband who loved it too. I loved hearing you speak a couple years ago at Webs (at the big auditorium across the street). It was the funnest day!! I laughed so hard I nearly peed my pants! We love you!

As you know, she certainly doesn't speak for a majority in the US. It appears to me that she is quite a coward. I appreciate your ability to take the high road. Thanks for your example. Take care.

Dear Stephanie,
I have been reading your blog for years, but never commented before. Your blog is among my absolute favorites, mostly because I find you both creative and truly broadminded, not to mention your invaluable sense of humour:)

This is a sad situation, you becoming the center of such a malicious attention. You seem to have handled the situation as well as you possible could and one can only hope that she will give up eventually and leave you in peace.

Until then, I can only remind myself (and us all) who read Stephanie's wonderful blog to do as she wishes and ignore her cyberstalker's input.

Please knitters, do not let this woman, nor anyone likeminded, bait us to answering in any way.

Adding my support (as another North American knitter and lurker fan) - I really don't understand people who live to hate others and make their lives miserable - aren't there better things to do with your life? Rest assured that the problem is HER not you - and so many of us know that, and respect you and love your blog and your wit, and support you. *manyhugs*

Coming out of lurkdom to add my feelings to all the others here. You are the unfortunate victim of a sad, broken person who in no way represents how the rest of us feel. I love your blog, your writing and your humor. Hang in there and stay strong. This too shall pass.

You rock Stephanie.

unfreakin believable....how horribly scary for you & your family to have to deal with ths bigot.... To quote John Wayne its regoddamnrediculus.....the calling up of the whole Christian thing put me over the edge.....hate only begets hate ...first time I have commented on your blog as well, which I enjoy so much.....all the best thoughts from chicago

Your blog is one of the places I look forward to visiting everyday. I enjoy the humor, I enjoy learning more about the craft, and your posts about ALL the aspects of your life. Hang in there. Going to find my needles now :)

A fine and upstanding young knitter
Was vexed by a wittering critter
via mail, via Twitter
the critter was bitter
but the knitter, no quitter, was fitter

This might be difficult to believe or understand, but I believe this women greatly admires you.....and during her final phase of what obviously is the total disintegration of her personality has chosen you as the focus of her psychotic behavior.
I feel sorry for her, because she is hovering by the abyss and it's not a good place to be and often one beyond the place of return.
In simple words; the woman is clinically ill.....

I am proud of you Stepahnie, of the way you handle this horrible situation, your grace, your intelligence, your integrity and your good humor and your even better intentions.
If I had young daughters, I would definitely point to you as a role model.
I wish you would not have to go through this , but I also believe this will not last much longer .
Crazy people tend to either burn out , or move on to a new and more interesting target.
Sending much Love

Angelika
Mexico City

Please please take heart from all the support that is shown in what already is well over 1000 messages of love.
You are sunshine in my day. You make me feel better about the rest of the world.
Sending hugs
x

Clearly, this woman is very unhappy and a little unhinged. sorry you have to deal with this. Keep up the good work. She is wrong and misguided by defective reasoning.

Wow.
We're here behind you.
You're doing the right thing.
You're a good person.

Fiona, Ireland.

Oh dear... I think the poor woman may need to step away from the computer, take a deep breath and try to get a little perspective on life. It's people like her that have turned me into the habitual lurker I am today!

I'm not an American, but I do read your blog and I do not recall ever reading anything even vaguely "Anti-American", so really can't see what she's on about. All I've ever read are witty, well written posts that entertain me no end and frequently brighten up an otherwise dull day. Please keep up the good work and hang in there. *hugs*

Here's to hoping these comments reach up into the 1000s... Consider each one a candle lit in support of you. Count this as mine.

As a citizen of both the U.S. and Canada, I am a proud AMERICAN. Proud to be able to speak my mind, proud that others can too, proud to practice whichever religion I choose, proud to be a woman who has the same legal rights as men - and just as importantly, proud to be a knitter!

And you should be too! Because, girl, what you do makes so many people happy. And that is a gift that even the nastiest and most mentally unbalanced person cannot take from you. Please continue to share your gift with us - we're behind you, socks, string, and sticks in hand.

I really don't know what to say... I wanted to leave a comment to offer my support, to outdo the bad with lots of love and good coming your way!

I'm a Christian, and frankly, her behaviour has shown her to be otherwise. It makes me sick that behaviour like that reflects badly on all of the rest of us.

The knitters have your back, Stephanie. Hugs.

As an American (OK, a United States of American, I know that technically we have a whole hemisphere of Americans of many languages and countries) I am terribly embarrassed by a person like that. I am quite sure that you know there are MANY people out here who DON'T agree with her and, quite frankly, would be happy to put all our geeky and fibery wiles to the task of explaining all this quite rationally to her and her IT guys.

I disagree with Angelika. I think that on some level this person is very low of self esteem and by writing hate mail to you, making fun of you, and having her IT guys overcome the blocks, she gains some measure of self-esteem. "I can beat her blocks - ah-HAH!" I've had to deal with someone like that in the past. Even her husband admitted that the woman in my case was unhinged, especially when she hit the bottle too much, which was often. Unhappily, there's not much you can do about these people because they are like the soapbox shouters in Bughouse Square, they just need to hear their own voices and don't much pay attention to whether someone is listening.

Stand strong, and realize that we vastly outnumber her and always will. SO THERE!

cheers Steph and family. Chin up! with love, gemma

Steph, we're right behind you.
Hang in there, friend, hang in there.
We'll be there through hard and thin, shinning the light.

You have my support 100% - always have, always will.

Wow. Someone needs their medications adjusted. That's not Dick Cheney in disguise is it? Because I think he might want to take over Canada too.
Seriously, how awful that is for you. From all the comments on this post I hope you know that the huge majority of us do not feel this way at all. This is just a sick obsessed mind getting attention. Don't you find it interesting that she says she is Christian but acts in a most un-Christian manner?
I enjoyed the Canada Day post and think it is great you are proud to be Canadian. Stay that way. And ignore the wingnut as best you can.

Oh, and my sister and I will still buy your books so you will sell at least two here. And I will not take down my SP-M picture in my office with you holding the "Hi Sarah" sign. So there.

Boston loves you (at least this Bostonian does, and yes, I am an American).

May your inner voice always speak to you of how loved you are, how you bring more joy, more laughter, and more light in the world and how deeply you hold compassion in your heart. Thank you for writing your blog and your books and for all the many ways you contribute to a thriving community.

I hope all the comments hear help assuage the hurt that this disturbed person has caused. Take good care and I'll be thinking of you.

Wow, I'm so sorry. No one deserves that kind of hatred. You are a wonderfully funny person. As an American who grew up in Buffalo and visited the Niagara region of Ontario regularly, I LOVE your Canada Day posts and your love for your country. I hope that somehow this situation will deescalate soon.

Just one more person to just chime in and say that you are loved and appreciated my MANY people. So don't let one bad apple get you down...

As I read her ranting towards you Steph, I was nauseous, and truly regretted the fact that I am an American. I am so sorry you've had to endure such hateful sentiments.

Stephanie,
First time commenter, long time lurker. I love reading your blog. You go girl!!! stay strong and safe.

Yikes! For every person who has posted here there are dozens of lurkers (like me) who love you and delight in your work. If I see her comments I will ignore her as you ask. Sadly, she is a sick, abusive person who has found at least one victim. Be safe.

My God! Without Canada, where would hockey be?

I'd like to join the apparently very large Yarn Harlot cheerleading squad.
What colour pom-poms would you like your team to use?
Green for the environment?
Red and white for the Canadian flag?
Orange just for fun?
Lisa in Toronto

Ordinarily,I find the behavior of people who hide behind their religious identity - and therefore moral superiority - in order to take others down repugnant and didsmiss them as such. However, this woman is exhibiting extreme and unrelenting behaviors that clearly are symptomatic of a disturbed personality. I do hope that you have taken the advice of a number of people who have posted before me and have sought legal protection from this woman. As an educator, I have seen cases of cyber bullying before, but never at this level. I admire the way you are speaking up for yourself and am pleased to see the the support you are receiving from your fans, but it may not be enough. Whatever her reasons, this woman is obsessed with you and that is frightening in these dangerous times.

Stay safe.

I feel ill just reading the saga. Who knows what is going on with this person but I hope the hurtful emails end. Sometimes non-response is the only way to end things. I just want to lend another voice of support, hang in there and focus on the positive.

You are my hero!

Hi Stephanie,
I'm sorry that you are in the gut-wrenching middle of this. My advice may not be new, given the number of comments, but... my husband tells me that if the woman's server is known, your readers who spot her comments can complain to her server and she will be removed from her own server. Information to allow your readers to do this can be posted on your blog. Unfortunately, of course, she can then find another server and will escalate postings. However, as one comment said, she is already over an edge. This situation is definitely at a stage where you need to get advice from your police computer crime specialist division [or whatever such is called]. This is a safety issue for you and your family, and no matter how much you want to turn the other cheek or act in the right way towards another person, you need protection. My guess is that you have already made the correct inquiries.

Sincerely and with much love,

Maureen

I agree with the 1011 peopel who commented before me - you don't deserve the attitude, insults and threats that this obviously deranged woman is harassing you with. It worries me that she says she knows where you live -- I hope you have reported her to the authorities in the US and to the RCMP here in Canada.

I don't know why she is so incensed with you (I look forward to your blogging daily, and you almost always make me smile with your humour, or charitable efforts) - but there is a solution for her which I have used when I don't agree with what someone is posting on their blog -- she could just not read it anymore! I am sure you wouldn't miss her!

I was afraid when I started reading your blog today that you had decided that the time had come for you to stop blogging - please don't stop. Don't let the outspoken few dim the light that you bring to so many of us. I hope this woman gets help and leaves you alone. What a horrible thing for you and your family to have to go through.

Wow, I don't even know where to begin. Thank you for sharing and explaining your position to us. I'm with you, let's just ignore this woman, whoever she is.

Tara

ps: Joe rules!!! :)

That woman is crazy. Please don't let her affect you and your family. Maybe we could design a nice white coat with extra long sleeves.

Your blog is entertaining, educational and never offensive. I'm shining the light from the USA.

As a first time commenter and an American who lives abroad, thanks for your blog, and I love the Canada Day posts!

Hugs and kisses from an American Christian who thinks you rock!!

You will never win an arguement with an ignorant person. As my mother used to say 'rise above it' - good luck and I guarentee no attention oxygen from this quarter

Steph, You always write so many complimentary things about America I sometimes forget you don't live here...I just don't get it. ..as I tell my kids...you cannot control others, but you can control your reactions to them. Please don't let one bad person bring you down....I look to you for comic relief! Stay strong.

Whoa. So sorry for you and your family. Thank you for the bravery it took to share the story with all of us. I admire your strength. I am going to knit every stitch today in your honor and with supportive thoughts in mind.

(Harriet at 8:03 was spot on.)

Dear, dear Stephanie

so sorry you have had to go through this horrible experience. when will people realize that we are all citizens of the same world, and that hatred only breeds misery??

I have knitted for almost 60 years now, and I must say you have been a great joy added to my knitterly life. you have inspired me to try new things, made me laugh (and sometimes shed an occasional tear), and allowed me (and many others) to share so much of your life. You held my sock at a signing in Annapolis, were wonderfully patient with signing multiple books for friends who couldn't be there and introduced me to the truly remarkable work done by Drs without Borders,

I am a US citizen, and I love my country - but I love yours, too - and even more so now as my daughter is now living in Vancouver and working at UBC. What a beautiful place.

I ramble, i think - but one last thing - I, and millions of others, love and admire you and hold you in our hearts as part of our own family.

keep up the wonderful work you do.

Lea (from Maryland, where you are always welcome)

Steph,

When I started seriously knitting about a year ago yours is the first knitting blog I ever read. I continue to read it because of your humor, and the joy you take from day to day life. The way you have handled this situation makes me love you and your blog even more.

You are a wonderful example for the rest of us. Thank you.

Tough business, Stephanie.

I think you're doing the right thing, but do recommend that you chat with the police just in case this ill woman decides to escalate things. The internet allows us to connect with thousands of people - most of them wonderful - but also exposes us to the occasional threat.

((hugs))
Susan

It makes me ill, Yarn Harlot. I feel personally assaulted as a Christian and as an American, like so many who have already commented. Way to nip this crap in the bud.

I've read your blog for years and never commented before, but all these messages of support must begin to outweigh this womans nuisance. I hope so anyway!

Wow, she's not Christian or American in my book. She's just one of those pathetic "look at me" kind of people and she's found a big fish to wrangle - or thought she did. Your true fans and friends will stay that - true. Enjoy the freedom of letting it go. We all have people like this in our lives - they're called bullies. I picture the ones in my life (or past life) going past me in a boat (I'm high above on a bridge watching them.) The great thing is that they are headed away and they are in flames. So every time they provoke frustration, defensiveness, and anger in me just from my own thoughts about them, I visualize them in that boat heading away and in flames. Skin melting and everything. It's pretty cool.

I'm joining everybody above to support you and wish you strength during this difficult time. I found this woman's blog. She left a comment to this blogpost a little higher up in the comments. From the content of her posts and the categories under which she files them it is obvious that she needs help. One of your other commentors also stated that she had been harrassed by the same woman. Keep all her emails, comments and twitter as evidence. Report it to the authorities. What she is doing is illegal. From your proudly South African fan - Alida

Hey Steph,
Just thought I'd note that we're mostly all Americans. Last time I checked, Canada was part of North America!! I appreciate your illumination of Canada for those of us south of your border. Keep it up, please.

What's the Bob Dylan song about "God on Our Side?"

Walk in the light; Keep on knitting; Write again soon!

Stephanie, I got your calendar for Christmas this year and each day I read it and get a wonderful happy knitting thought! Thank you so much for that smile each day. You are a proud example of how wonderful knitters the world over really are. I am sending you a big e-mail hug as a thank you.

i'm with abby posted at 2.01 a.m.! & i'm not embarassed by this creatue, but infuriated!! how dare she use 'we'& 'us'? when i read your blog (& do--every day) what *always* flows through your posts is the goodness in your heart. what occurs to me is that this Troll is so jealous of this quality that she has dove into a pit of hysterical rage. stay safe!! & as for canada day posts, how about a canadian tour!?

I always read but rarely comment. I felt like I'm one little person in a big, big world, and what could my voice ad?
Well, now I'm going to become a regular commenter. Because one voice can be a big thing, and it should be one full of love and kindness. I simply don't understand the point of being mean.
I'm American. I happily buy your books. I LOVE your Canada Day posts.

Add to your list another American who loves you. haven't seen anything anti-American in what you write. I own several of your books and a 2009 calendar. I'll go out and find the books that I don't own yet. I knit my first successful pair of socks following instructions in Knitting Rules, and met you briefly when you appeared in Jacksonville. Be careful; this woman is full of the crazy, but continue being your delightful self!

People like Name Removed are the kind of people that make me embarrassed about being American. It has been said before, but apparently her form of Christianity is much different from what the rest of us have learned.

You are quite amazing... being able to do what you love for a living... and being awesome at it!

Sending love from New Mexico.
Denise

I think I've only left 1 or 2 comments before - although I read your blog, buy & read all your books, and have been to an appearance just once - but I have to comment now.

I think you are extraordinary. Not just as a knitter, but as a writer and a person. Keep up the excellent life example - and don't let this push you off track too much.

I feel awful that a fellow American has done this. But they are sounding quite mentally ill - so I hope you will not hold her behavior as the standard.

I think of you and yours with great affection.
There are no other words to say.

hugs, hugs, hugs.

This totally sucks. You don't deserve that and I too am trying to pity her. Living with so much vitriol inside cannot be good for one.

Stephanie,

Bless you and your family. Thank-you for all you do to advance the art of knitting. I am so sorry that someone has put you threw this trouble. You certainly don't deserve it. Thanks for letting us share your life and adventures.

If you're up for hearing optimism, well, here goes:

You're now famous enough to have a scary stalker. You have to be pretty cool to be that famous. Good job.

But I don't envy you. I've had people email terrible things to me that they wouldn't have said in person, and it just puts their... I don't have a word for the evil and pettiness... in writing, proof of their lack of sense and class.

I hope she isn't crazy enough to attempt physical harm to you. Please protect yourself.

Holy Horse! I was completely shocked to read this and had tears in my eyes by the end of the post. I could not get over the hatred this person has for you.

I am American and can honestly say I have never found anything that you've wrote inflammatory to the United States.

I will be praying for you and your family to get you all through this rough time.

I'll also be praying for this person since it is quite clear that she is mental unbalanced.

Hey Steph,

Firstly, just because you and Joe weren't "married under the eyes of God", doesn't mean you're not religious. Knitting is your god =).

Good for you for taking the high road, but from one Canadian to another, I think you already exploded the bandwith just by posting this, Steph.

Many hugs, and wishes that you'll do a book signing in Ottawa!

Love,
Isabel

Absolutely shocked this has happened! I would be upset and take it personally too. Hang in there girl.

Honey, she's a crazy stalker - do what you need to protect yourself and your family. You are right to try and avoid tangling with her, IME, it only encourages them.

It's sad that your love and pride in your own country should be perceived in this way. I've never read anything that suggests you hate America. From what I've observed, you visit it often and hugely enjoy the experience. But it's not home - Canada is home for you and hey, there's nothing wrong with that. Feeling pride in your home does not mean that you hate other places.

Britain is home for me and although I've visited and liked America, I still wouldn't want to live there - because it's Not Home.

Pride in our countries can be a beautiful thing but it can also turn sour, hateful and violent as many a war - and this unfortunate woman - shows.

This is my first comment, but I read your blog regularly and have several of your books. It is such a pleasure to find someone who understands the yarn obsession so well. No, I don't always agree with what you say, but life would be pretty boring if everyone agreed with me all the time!

I am an American married to a Canadian immigrant who still is proud of his place of birth even if he is now a US citzen. I hear comparisons of the US and Canada all the time, not just from him but also from online friends who happen to be in Canada. Both countries have their good and bad points, things to be proud of and things to be unhappy about. Stating that doesn't make one anti-American or anti-Canadian.

I want to add to other's comments that you need to be careful. You cannot deal with an irrational person by being rational and that makes it difficult. Just keep on ignoring and hopefully that will take the wind out of her sails eventually, hopefully before she decides she needs to confront you in person!

DLB in Pennsylvania

Rest assured you have legions of fans. Hang in there.

I know that I will be ignoring the crazy.

I wonder do people realize how Un Christian it is to behave like that?

Dear Stephanie,

I have never commented before either but I love your books, your blog and I am an American. I enjoy your Canada Day postings. Stay safe and keep up the good work.

I want to add my support to all that you have already received. I admire the way that you are dealing with this. I also totally believe in karma, and its far reaching effects. You are continuing to follow your personal code of right and wrong, and I applaud you.

Another longtime reader here - never commented before - you are a very generous and very funny woman, and I'm sorry you're going through this. Keep your chin up!

I've always admired your integrity and the principled way of life. I love your writing and it always picks me up when I have a bad day. I have all your books and look forward to the next one.

Thank you for taking the time from your life to make ours so much better. I add my voice to the others and urge you to be careful.

Dear Yarn Harlot,
Sending you love from Scotland (lovely country - lots of sheep!) I'd agree with some of the other comments - you should take a zero tolerance approach here and bring the full weight of the law against this individual. She needs to learn that what she is doing is legally and morally WRONG.
Lots of wooly hugs,
Blythie

As an American and a Christian, I am outraged that somebody could ever think that such hatred is either American or Christian. I love the way you take the struggles and triumphs of daily life and find the humor in them -- and also that you have the talent to share your humor with the rest of us. Thank you for making my life richer.

So if the lunatic rate is one person in a million, then that means you have an impressive audience! Every public figure deals with crazies eventually, but this is particularly personally vicious. Remember that she is calculating what to say by how to hurt you, not by any relation to truth.
The internet blogosphere is like a huge beautiful collaborative fiber project, with millions of gorgeous colors and textures and interactions never before possible, but there are also a few really funky joins in there. You may be a pioneer in establishing and testing the techniques/law that controls such behavior. You go grrl! Shielding energies to you and your family

I don't even know what to say. I hope something can be done about the fact that this pathetic excuse of a woman is cyber-bullying you.

I had to laugh at how she is throwing insults by hiding under the cloak of God. She is clearly missing one of the Ten Commandments. What a hypocrite.

Much love! Please, please know that this crazy who claims to be a patriotic American is not - not at all - and that she is most certainly does NOT represent our feelings about you.

Another long time reader delurking to comment. As an American married to a Canadian, I have never found anything you have written to be anti-American. I often share your non-knitting posts with my husband - he has sent them on to colleagues to explain things like the recent government troubles and the beauty of Newfoundland. You have a whole set of non-knitting readers because of your wonderfully written blog about your life in Canada. Because of you, we are going to Newfoundland on vacation this year - he grew up there and his descriptions were not nearly as compelling as your photos.

This sad individual does NOT speak for Americans or Christians in any way. Please heed the other commenters advice and make sure the authorities know about her treatment of you.

I am sorry this has caused you and your family distress. Sending hugs your way.

Even with all the comments already made, and the fact that I've never commented before, I feel I need to add my voice to the chorus of good feelings being sent your way. You are much admired, and I know that you have inspired many of us in our knitting but also in our lives. Thank you for being who you are.

You poor dear. Big hugs and beer to you. I hope you are able to find some freedom from this oppressive person. I know it is possible to serve a "cease and desist" order from your lawyer to her - if she keeps it up, she can be sued or even suffer criminal penalties. Miss Violet of the Lime and Violet podcast had to do it with her Intentions yarn club. It worked for her - maybe it can work for you?

Please know that people in the US, just like people all over the WORLD, love you. Please dont' stop doing what you're doing!!

Take care of yourself.

For a short lady, you sure stand tall.

And many of us stand with you.

Stephanie-get a friend to remove her postings. she obviously has some type of mental incapacity.

Wow, you are a strong woman for dealing with this crap.

Hugs and kisses from the middle of the USA! Maybe next year sock summit can be in KC, right?

There is not much left to be said after all the other comments, but I still felt it is necessary to chime in with more support. I am Christian, American, and fairly conservative. If I was offended by anything you said, I would just stop reading your blog. If fact, you have educated me. I remember one day thinking that if the two of us ever got to spend some time we probably would not be able to exchange many recipes or would want to waste time discussing politics, but we would still manage to laugh a lot.

So sorry you're having to deal with this - This American happens to love you!

As a women who is still dealing with a stalker (yes that is exactly what she is!) I can only say that I feel your pain. Keep strong, keep writing, keep living your life.
As an American, she does not speak for the majority. And she is speaking for such a small minority I don't believe she could even fill a small sedan. The best way to deal with these types, when you've done all you can do, is to ignore them. It actually does work as it shines a light on their ignorance and bigotry.
As for her claim to be a Christian, she is most definitely NOT! The #1 commandment is 'Love thy neighbor as thy self'. That commands us to love every one (which you do btw). However, it does not require us to tolerate bad behavior. Regardless of how we believe, we all must have a code of ethics that we follow. She obviously has had a mental break of some sort and I am praying that someone close to her will get her the help she so desperately needs.
In the mean time, continue with your life knowing that YOU are not at fault. YOU have done nothing wrong. YOU are not the problem.
I will take your advise and ignore any and all negative comments that should appear. Hopefully, if your wishes are followed, her 'need' will not be satisfied and she will move on.
You are welcome to hid out at my place anytime you need a break. I have fiber and yarn and coffee and would stock up on beer as well.

I don't think I have ever commented on your blog, but I have been a reader for a long time. Never have I read any anti American sentiments from you. I am mortified that this wingnut even thinks that she speaks for me as an American, as a woman, as a citizen of this planet. I just wanted to show my support for you and yours, and add that I hope the authorities you have reported this to are taking it as seriously as it deserves. My Very Best to you. Jeni

Well, that just plain sucks. I'm sorry that you are going through this... hope the flame dies out soon.

Stephanie: It's clear this woman has too much time on her hands. I think what she needs is more yarn -- what if we all joined together in a collective act of random kindness and sent her a ball each --gives you a giggle just to think of it, doesn't it?

Your lovely blog has sustained my humour and sanity through very tough times. You absolutely do not deserve to be treated that way. You are going to need some really, really good knitting to get you through this - and the support of all the people out here who care for you. Good Luck.

Although I too have followed for a long time I haven't commented before and rest assured that all the support from these comments is well deserved and EARNED!

Please get the law involved as bullies must never be allowed to prosper.

Take care
Seona x

Love, beer, and cashmere to you. That lady is truly frightening and I - like all your other faithful readers - won't indulge her my attention.

Thank you for all that you do.

Ps - I'm an American atheist, and I've gotta say - Canada rocks! :-)

Stephanie, fame can dredge up the underside of life, unearthing those few who need to attack and maim in order to make themselves feel alive. You shine the light for all to see whereas this woman is mired in the dark. You represent something for her -- a target, unfortunately.

Just remember she is in the minority and does not represent anything but the smallest speck of grating sand. She represents nothing but herself at the worst possible time in her life and certainly doesn't speak for Americans, either, as your friends here contest.

We recognize the light. Shine on, my friend. Continue to rise above.

When I saw the beginning of this post in my Google Reader I almost cried because I thought you were shutting down the blog. But now I'm bawling because of this nasty hurtful woman. Its "Americans" like this that make me physically sick to call myself American.
We're a country built on the ideals of freedom of speech and freedom of religion. Obviously this woman enjoys those freedoms for herself but cannot extend them to others.
Thank you for your bravery!
Micki

I have never commented before, but I feel compelled to tell you that I am an American, a Christian, and to some extent a Conservative. None of those descriptors explain this individual's behavior, although she does seem determined to bathe the rest of us in that same sickly light. She sounds like a serious stalker with real mental health issues. I think you should find some way to report her to the authorities, if only to have your complaint on record in case things escalate.

Peace.

Stephanie,

I do realize that with the (probably literally) THOUSANDS of comments you're getting to this post, you may not require this one too, but this lurker felt the need to join the chorus.

Fortunately for all of us, you're too sensible to think that this crazy-lady's talk is representative of all US citizens or all Christians (or all women, or all English-speakers, or all humans...) so I won't bother with addressing that.

Just wanted to extend some commiseration and sympathy. Internet harassment is SCARY and it SUCKS. I myself have never experienced anything but a comment here and there on various forums-- nothing the magnitude of what you're experiencing-- but it was scary ENOUGH, so I can't imagine the stress you're under. It's truly astonishing how such an amazing and useful thing as the Internet seems to bring out the very worst in some people.

Anyway, done rambling. Hold on to hope; this can't last forever!

oh my. I'd like to add my voice as more more American who does not think you are anti-American. so sorry & hope that you & your family are safe from this nut job.

Dear, dear Stephanie,

I am wondering if my sister-in-law and "W" spawned a child and this is the result?!? So sorry for the violent and hateful nature of this person. It sounds like you need some sleep, so put some lavender on your temples and sleep away. If any of her posts make it through those of us who love you will take care of it. We protect our own!!!

Oh, bother. There's just nothing at all quite so much fun as some random internet stranger wrapping their personal decompensation in the flag, is there. It's actually pretty common in US political blogs. I'm sorry it spilled over into this more civilized space.

FWIW, I'm american, I don't knit, and I buy your books and read your blog because I really enjoy your voice and your stories and the happy space you knitters have made for yourselves. I even forgive you for dissing crochet, because I'm sure you're just kidding...

HUGS!!!

Love,
Cindy

I love your blog and have all your books!! I even drove all the way to Lettuce knit because I liked a yarn you purchased there. I'm five hours away!

Please try not to take this personally. She's obviously a very disturbed person and not a very happy one at that. Trouble is, she's obviously got too much time on her hands and is using it against you.
Can nothing be done legally against her hate campaign?

Well, poop. I could say something about being shocked that people can make it well into adulthood without learning the basics of playground etiquette, but sadly, I see far too much of it. The thought I keep coming back to, though, is how sad and pathetic it must be to go through life with so much unmitigated and unjustified (not to mention very un-Christian) anger in one's heart. That and a double helping of crazy.

Like the others, I held my breath as I read, afraid you were going to stop blogging. I have so enjoyed your blog and have laughed and cried along with you. You've been an inspiration! I am so looking forward to meeting you. Hang in there! Disgusting how one bad apple can spoil the bunch...

Hi Stephanie,

I'm another first time poster, a US Christian. I have been reading your blog for almost a year now. I loved your Canada Day post and I have enjoyed learning more about Canada through our blog. I fail to see the Anti-American sentiment in the Canada Day post - it made me giggle, honestly. I think there is plenty of room for good-natured teasing between the US and Canada but I didn't even see that.

This woman doesn't sound like she is acting with Christ's love. I'm sorry that you have to go through this and I agree she probably has a lot of darkness in her life that is feeding this behavior. I don't generally post, so I won't be responding to inflammatory behavior, but I wanted to add another voice from US people, US Christians, who respect and support you. Many prayers for your continued strength in this matter and for comfort as well.

I agree with Joan (above) - only lets make it cheap, cheap, ugly yarn that we send her! Send us her address and we can all clean out our stash of the stuff we thought we liked years ago! I'm less forgiving of people who paint the world with their own narrow-minded brush than you are. I am from NY, find you witty and anything BUT anti-American and I hope you continue to write and blog for as long as it makes you happy. Thanks for the gifts of your inspiration through your books and knitting.

I've been reading for years and I've never before posted a comment - but, WOW. This woman is clearly not well. You might want to talk with a lawyer to see if there are any steps you can take to get her to stop. Hang in there.

(Sigh...) I really dislike the way some people feel they can act because of the 'annonymity' of the internet. Several years ago I left a very well-known knitting forum because someone called me a waste to society because I was (and still am) a stay at home Mom. Ugliness like that is just completely unexceptable, and after my own experience I can sympathize with how horrible your situation has been - even as yours has been much, much worse than mine.

Rest assured, your reputation is safe among those of us who respect you and enjoy your work. Thank you for letting us into your life...and keep on!

Sending you love to go along with your light!!

I am an American, and it's ignorance like what was shown to you by that "Christian" person that makes me want to move to Europe. How sad is it that that person has so little of a life, and is so full of hate that they feel the need to stalk you and harrass you like that?
I don't knit, so I would have no reason to follow a knitting blog- but after six years of blogging I have come to see trolls as pathetic little creatures.
Good luck with the house cleaning!

It's been a long time since I've left you a comment, but it seems like I just couldn't resist at the moment for some reason.

No one has the right to speak for everyone.

No one has the right to threaten another person's feeling of safety in this world.

You have great courage. There are obviously a lot of us that have admired you before and we admire you even more now. The comments above speak for themselves.

I wish you peace and safety and the strength and ability to live, think, feel and love as you wish without fear.

Love and light to you in this difficult time.

From one American to another.

Dear Steph -

I am saddened, shocked and appalled by this. One would think that at least in the knitting community we could be kind to each other.

She does not represent Americans, Christians or even considerate human beings. Your blog is a little light in an otherwise sometimes dark world - as this proves.

As the some of the others did, I encourage you to take steps to protect your family. Hopefully the aggression is solely online but one never knows. Certainly the tone is threatening enough to merit concern.

I feel so bad for you. God bless and please know that you have our support.

I'm also very sorry this has caused you and your family such distress, I can also imagine that it would be confidence knocking, but it isn't the behaviour of a sane person. I think that most of the people who read your blog see you as human and fallible, and therefore endearing and encouraging as they read about your joys and sorrows and go through their own. I have no idea how much legal presure or technological nous you can bring to bear here. Taking the comments offline for a while might take the wind out of her sails, but her focus would seems to be so intense that even that might be incendiary. As you say removing as much attention as possible from her would seem to be the only way forward.

Stephanie --

I am another American, Christian lurker who has enjoyed your blog for years, and I'm mystified by this woman's mean-spirited comments. You clearly demonstrate all the "fruits of the Spirit" -- love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Stay strong! And God bless Canada -- and indeed, the world!

Please do not view this person as being typical of Americans or Christians or even conservative Christians.

I'm a little worried, because everytime I see an apology for grammar, it's usually from a fellow English teacher, and I hope I don't share that with this person either.

Just keep on being yourself.

Stephanie,

WE....the mighty legion of KNITTERS have united and have YOUR back!

Know you are supported and LOVED by many.

This too shall pass.

Love Nicki

This is an awful thing to have to deal with, but she is just being hateful, plain and simple. Being patriotic towards your own country is something you should be proud of! And while I am a Birk-wearing, vegetarian, bike-riding, left-wing American who generally agrees with you when you talk politics, I like to think that when I disagree with people's politics I can be civil about it. I also can't believe she took a stab at Joe and your parenting skills. That is completely uncalled for.

We're all on your side Steph, and we think you're awesome!

Sending you love and light from TX.

I want to join with the hundreds of other commenters and lurkers (because I certainly am one of those) to say how much I truly look forward to each of your blog posts. They never fail to make me giggle or get re-energized about knitting, and certainly gives me great ideas for future projects.

Thank you so much for all that you do for the knitting world. I only wish that I could get myself to the Sock Summit this year.

I'm pretty sure there are laws against Internet harassment now . Save all what she sends you.
I found some sights that might be helpful for you , I'll email them to you. No one should have to be going through what you are and have been going through. Chin up sweetie !

Stephanie,
I am so terribly sorry that this person has taken the nation that I love and call home and has profaned its spirit by using it in attempt to justify such psychosis. May you and your entire family be lifted up on the good wishes, hopes, prayers, and thoughts of your fellow knitters (American, Canadian and otherwise)

I just want to add to the number of people in support of you.

I just wanted to add my support to you. I am also a Christian American. I have been following your blog for quite some time now. I never saw you post anything anti American ever.
I love reading your blog every day. I love how you let us into your life.
I feel bad that someone like this stalker can make people like me look so bad. God would not and does not and would not tolerate us to treat others as this woman is treating you. We server a loving God and this woman is not being loving. She is being very hateful.

I was thinking of your upcoming sock summit and how hard you are working on it. And all the people that will be there. Please Please talk to the police, a lawyer, get a restraining order. Get secruity!!! I am scrared that this woman is planning on showing up and causing you more trouble. She shows it in her writting. She might not be. She could not be that brave in person. But better safe than sorry. I would not want to wake up and see that you were harmed in any way.
It just really burns me that people feel the need to treat one another like this. And hide behind good names like Christian and American to make their point.
Steph take care of yourself. Be safe. That is most important. From the last I saw there is over 1000 post. Most of them in your favor. Hang in there. HUGS and Prayers. If that is ok with you.

Dear YH

I've been impressed with you since my wife (Madmoon) showed me your work. We've seen you speak, we have every book, we read your blog.

This particular issue has shown a light on you as well. Yarn Harlot takes the High Road.

I am embarrassed to know this individual is an American, she does not speak for me. I'm sure there's a few other Americans who've voiced their support for you.

I will take the High Road as you suggest and 'shun' this person. You're right about shining the light and about ignoring her tirades.

Please continue to be the sweet, warm, slightly quirky writer you've always been.

Thank you for the hours of pleasure. Please keep it up.

Happy belated Canada Day.

canaan

How horrifying. The woman is, at best, suffering from some severe mental disability. I am so embarassed that a fellow American is acting this way toward you. Please know that she is alone (very alone) in her opinions, and you are dearly loved by millions. Even Christian American women.

Have you looked into legal matters to see what can be done to make her stop the harrassment? Do you need a restraining order? I would be happy to contribute to a Yarn Harlot Legal Defence Fund. Seriously.

Yet one more de-lurker from California - I've read your work for years and always appreciated it. Please keep you and your family safe.

I would like to add my support to all the great comments prior to mine. I'm so sorry that this has brought grief to you and your family. You are a witty bright person and have brought me many smiles. Please keep on - I can only say that this small minded, bitter person, doesn't exist. We are all global citizens, and nationality doesn't matter to be human and decent.

Like many others, I've been reading for some time now but not commenting. Your blog is wonderful -- thank you for it. Take care.

When people are ugly, it is very difficult to know what to do. I'm glad that you shared this information with us, and I'm hoping the situation gets better really soon. However, I believe you should turn off the comments on this entry. People are calling the woman unkind names (crazy, lunatic, stalker). I'm not arguing with the veracity of the words, and I won't judge whether the woman deserves them or not, but those are hurtful words just the same. They are ugly words. And, I think the point of your post was to make the ugliness stop.

I've been reading for years and never commented before, but I just have to say that there are disturbed people everywhere and it's just part of life to deal with them. Hang in there!

Oh, Stephanie, I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this. My heart started to pound as I read through your post. How dare anyone presume to speak for their country with such vitriol? And I'm sorry for her that she doesn't have anything better to do with her life than attempt to make you miserable. Luckily, 99.9999% of your readers know you to be a generous and wonderful mother, partner, knitter, and writer.

And how did I miss your insults to 'merica in your Canada Day posts? I've always enjoyed those and found them educational :)

Do your best to stop worrying about such a person and go enjoy your life - you've worked hard to create your life, and you deserve the chance to enjoy it without such a mental burden.

I'm a longtime reader, but I've never posted a comment before. I just want to let you know that this American could not disagree more strongly with this woman's opinions. Your pride in your country does not disparage any other country; it is obvious to me that this woman has a deep insecurity or she would not feel so threatened by your patriotism.

Keep up the good work, Stephanie - your restrained and measured response to this disturbed woman should be taken as a shining example of how to deal with people on the internet.

This is all so sad.

I am sorry you have to go through this.

Oh Sephanie I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Unfortunately, we deal with these right-wingnuts all the time on political blogs. They can twist anything into a perceived attack on America. They can't understand that stating you are proud to be Canadian and proud of Canada is not the same at attacking America. They can't follow reason, so they can't be reasonable.

You may want to contact the authorities on this one. Making threats against someone online is not legal. Saving all the emails was a good idea. You should contact the police and see what they say.

I read your blog and look forward to it. keep up the good work.

it might be my pregnancy hormones but this entry just totally made me cry. You've got my respect and my love and always have and I've read just about every damn near blog post you have made. Be strong, chin up as they say. Your going to be okay! I don't know you personally but my "impression" of you from your blog is that you are a very good and loving mother, wife and women.

Also you like Stargate/BSG so you're even more awesome in my book. Did you see they re-branded Sci-Fi as SyFy? Lamesauce (as my DH would say)!

I'm a long time reader and infrequent commenter (usually by the time I get to the computer there are so many comments that I'm pretty sure you can't have the time to read them all and figure someone has said what I wanted to say anyway). This comment falls somewhere way over the 1000 mark but I felt I wanted to add my voice of support. Thanks for keeping on. I've often thought that I am glad I am not famous because I don't want to deal with the crazies. I'm sorry you have to and I'm really sorry it's an American. We value everyone's opinions here but that doesn't give anyone the right to be threatening. Shame on her for not remembering that.

I'm also commenting for the first time (I think) to show my support. I made a donation to DWB today because of her. I wish you well!

Thank you for your wit and your grace.

I, too, have been reading for years and never commented.

Stephanie -- thank you for sharing your hurt. As you can well see, there are thousands of people willing to take on a little of it to relieve you of the burden. I believe that sharing another's burdens is what makes us human.

You are loved.

--- a human from Ohio

Well. I got only halfway through the comments when I had to stop to add my own. It has seemed to me that you started out as a regular person with many talents who rose up through diligence and humor. Some people just have to "chop off the head" of someone whom they deem has risen up too far. Celebrities also seem to acquire stalkers at times. I second Jan the therapist's comment -- this should be a matter for the law, and you must protect yourself and your family. You should extinguish any contact with this person. That said, I read your blog (my husband reads over my shoulder and, I suspect, reads on his own at work), own all your books and the calendar, and have seen you in person. Every single day, you add something positive to my life. It's painful to think of you struggling with this poison.

I have never commented before but I simply cannot fathom what you and your family have had to put up with for over a month.

I absolutely believe in 'shining the light' and think you have unequivocally done the right thing.

As someone who has a family member in public life I understand some of the awfully cruel lies people can tell and I hope you and yours are able to completely ignore this individual.

Thank you for your strength
Cass :)

I have just found you and your humor. I love your books and hope to see a new one every year.
And you have done the right thing to get rid of that person who is harrassing you. Some people are just mad and take it out on the nearest target. I like may others, hate that you were a target.
Please go look at some pretty yarn, think you are the one who gave me the courage to knit socks. And that your followers are in the millions, she is one.

Dear Stephanie, I don't ususally comment but I wanted to add my voice in support of yours. This blog is not just an invite into your livingroom, it's a community. I enjoy not only your perspective on knitting, parenting and the world in general, I enjoy reading all my fellow knitters comments too. It's sad when one bad apple... you know the rest.

Keep the faith, keep strong and know that we "the blog" are behind you.

Thanks for all that you do for us.. big hugs!!
Denise

I'm so sorry, but good for you. I just have to say one more time that she does not speak for all of us. (Christians, Americans) I enjoy reading your blog and and I enjoy your humor. Keep up the good work.

Wow! So many comments! Just wanted to add my love and support to you and your family in this trying situation.

Whoa Nelly I thought your Canada Day post was funny! Yes I am an American,family has been here FOREVER. Oh and I am a Wiccan as well and horror of horrors a CROCHETER and I think you are hilarious and a credit to fiber artists worldwide! Now I need to get to Borders I need more Yarn Harlot books for Christmas presents! One thing I think your blog does for the fiber world is show just how un-different we all really are. Thank you.

Can't read all thousand plus comments, but she doesn't speak for this American, or many others I know.

A couple of ladies in the knitting group are going to Sock Summit, and are so excited they could soil their panties! I know that you know the Summit is a big thing, everyone else knows it. Exactly how big won't hit you until after. I'm not talking about the classes, the yarn, the knitters...I'm talking about the psychic impact of all that joy in one place, directed at those who put it together. You'll see.

Thank you for demonstrating how to handle pressure with grace: from Mr. Washie to the computer debacle of the Sock Summit to this latest.

Dear Stephanie:
I believe no one would wish this sort of problem on anyone. I believe "Shame on her" does not quite begin to describe my disdain about using America or Christianity to try to besmirch you.

I am sure this is the type of post no blog writer ever wants to post, but you have done the honest thing.

Keep your chin up,
Tracy in Wisconsin

In addition to her not representing Americans she also doesn't respresent Christians as she claims to. This behavior is absolutely not loving one's neighboor as oneself.

Steph, I think you're wonderful.

{hugs}

As a person who can knit, is afraid of socks and prefers crocheting, I STILL read your blog every day it is posted. Yours is the only blog I have set up on my browser home page. I, too, am a lurker and this is the first time I have felt compelled to post. As a Canadian who lives not too far from you, I thank you for what you give me and send lots of positive energy your way.

Hugs from all of us normal knitters. I hope she backs off and gets some help.

Love your blog and have never posted before.

I, like many above, have been harassed. Not a fun experience. You do good things! The blog is wonderful!

Wish I could buy you a beer! And some really nice yarn. I've never posted before, but I am a faithful fan and reader, and through your writing (I think particularly on your blog) there emerges a human who is sensitive and humble and more than competent, and I have been inspired and have grown greatly as a human from reading what you have to say. I should also say that I am both an American and a Christian and at no time have I ever been insulted by anything you've had to say. (I am now, however, incredibly insulted by the gross misrepresentation by this woman of my culture and belief system. Disgusting.)

Thank you, thank you for the goodness and humor you bring to this world. Sending positive vibes and support, support, support your direction.

Jessica

Stephanie, I can not believe someone would do this. My thoughts are behind you.

As an American who has lived in Canada I find your blog and your books entertaining and enjoyable, not at all offensive to the United States. I hope you can get past this trying time.

I love you! And I don't even know you...but your blog helps me a little every day - especially my rough days and there have been plenty lately! This women does NOT represent Christian or American. I have never read any "anti-American" comments on your site. And I love, love, love your humor. Please don't lose it. Hang tough, Stephanie. Way more people love you than don't. Stay strong!

She is obviously not stable. I found her blog, and she is barely coherent to me. Why don't you set your comments so they have to be moderated to show up? Then you know nothing will get through when you're busy.

Steph -

I haven't read all of the comments, but I was going to say what JuneBug said which is the last visible comment as I write this. You need to document this with whatever authorities are appropriate in Canada and the US. This individual has deeper problems than just her dealings with you, and I have no idea who it is, nor do I really want to.

We just returned from a short trip to Toronto. I had thought about trying to contact you before we went, but I figured you're way to busy for that. Now I'm kind of sorry I didn't, since perhaps it would help take the bad taste out of your mouth from dealing with this lunatic - I refuse to call her an American.

To try to inject a lighter note - aren't we all glad not to be related to this person? If she can be this venomous to someone she's never even met, and never did anything to her (and I mean that) - how would you like to deal with her at a family reunion?

(I especially like that she thought you took the blog down in response to her. I suppose she thinks the internet goes to sleep when she's not on it too. Isn't that like small children that think that when they close their eyes you actually go away?)

I love your blog, never left a comment before but sending hugs from the UK. Take care x

Hey Steph. Not much that I can add that others have not already said. While her diatribe is filled with hate and jealousy (I believe that she really just wanted to share some of your light)you should try not to dwell on it. One vicious person cannot undo all that you have done and the outpouring of support you have here should help you to see that.

As Americans, we may have the gift of freedom of speech, but with that right comes responsibility and hate is still hate and cannot be tolerated. If she dislikes you so much...why is she such an avid reader?

Let her go and fall into the embrace of those who truly like and respect you for all that you do.

All the best. Elise

Holy shit. consider her invisible. hope she seeks help.

hugs, hugs, and more hugs to you and your family, Stephanie. from an American who LOVES your educational Canada Day posts and more!

I am so sorry that one disturbed individual has done this. I enjoy your blog and your positive attitude. I read your blog, but have never sent any comments.Please keep it up and know that you are appreciated.

Dear sweet Ghu, you have a crazy woman stalking you.

You ought to report her, really, to her local law enforcement agency. She may well be dangerous to herself as well as to others.

Keep knitting, and don't let the crazies get you down.

*big hug*

As someone who's been reading for years and only commenting here and there, I can't believe this is happening. How this person can say you're anti-American is beyond me. I've never seen an unkind word written about the US, and religious preference has hardly ever been uttered here.

I guess growing up in Detroit and having Windsor a hop, skip and a jump away has really left me feeling that Canada isn't any different than the US. (OK, so Don Cherry is a bit fashion challenged, but the US has it's fair share...)

Please keep doing what you do!

As EZ would say "Knit on, with confidence and hope, through all crises"

Hi Stephanie: I have read your blog for several years and I have enjoyed it immensely. I enjoy your Canada Day entries so much since I have spent much time in Canada and have enjoyed every minute of a lovely country with so much to offer and such a great spirit. I think that what we are seeing in this person is the effect of the erasing of the boundaries between the public and the private life that a blog like yours entails. There have always been published diaries and memoirs. I am reading a particularly good one right now called "Little Heathens - Hard Times and High Spirits on an Iowa Farm during the Great Depression". What is different now is the immediacy of the blog - readers seem to be seeing your life in real time and feel like they are a participant in some way. That immediacy gives an unbalanced person the right, she thinks, to worm her sorry way into your life and attack you. People do think they are anonymous on the web.
I am so sorry that you have to deal with this and I hope you are able to resolve it.
I love the cheerful tone of your blog and books and hope that you don't lose that spirit. I am thinking good and positive thoughts for you. Janine

Ditto to all the supportive comments above. I personally love the fact that we have "freedom of speech" in the U.S., but using that right responsibly is just beyond some people. Hang in there.

I love your work, your writing, the fact that you and your family are so generous as to share your lives with us readers. I met you at a book signing in Chicago, and you were a fabulous, witty, charming speaker.

I'm so sorry that this happened, but I send along my best wishes.

Also, as distasteful as it might seen, I recommend that you keep at least a private record of the postings, e-mails and ip addresses. Perhaps speak with one of your technical friends about the best way to document them?

If it ever seems like the person might be attempting contact with you or your family and friends or professional contacts, please call the police. It'll be much easier to get some kind of resolution if you have the track-record of her insanity. It might even be possible now to get some kind of restraining order against further contact.

Standing up for yourself is hard, but I'm proud of you for doing it. (((HUGS)))

MUCH love from Ohio! I'm de-lurking in full support of you! Stay strong and positive! :)

Warning! This woman is dangerous on many levels. And probably violating many local and national laws.

The kindest thing you can do is make her face herself; and taking this not only public, but having the public judge her (via the legal system), as harsh as that sounds, might be advisable. So every one, herself included, no longer is spinning crazy.

I am a proud American, a Conservative, and while I don't always agree with you, I am here to say you have never been anything but appropriate and polite. And regarding humor, knit or otherwise; it never gets old.

I hope you never lose yours.

I know you've heard from a ton of people but I feel the need to post that this person does not represent America or Americans as she is quite frankly a terrorist in the most sick sense of the word. I enjoy your blog, your writing style, and your posts about family. I, as I'm sure most others will do, will ignore her completely.
I'm really sorry this "ignorant" American thinks she can speak for the rest of us.
Hang in there, you've got a lot of us in your corner.

Your Canada Day posts are ones I look forward to every year. I am an American & I love learning about Canada from your blog.

I only started knitting in December, found your blog a few weeks after that & sat & read the whole thing from beginning to current over a week & a half. Your blog & books (I went right out & bought them all) have taught me if I can see it or think it I will be able to knit it. Thank you for having this blog & writing your books.

<3

Wow. That kinda does take the cake and you do have my sympathies. When I owned an ISP we had our share of "interesting" problems both from our customers and with our customers. I'm pretty sure its harder to deal with, with an American (or at least very big) ISP, but it was possible from our business to approach another ISP with the identity of their user who was abusive, displayed criminal intent etc, to have them punish their own user.

But yes I would be happy to formally ignore such things because really they don't need to exist. There's enough crap in the world without people creating bad vibes in a non-real life format.

I think you are a considerably strong person for even being able to turn another cheek, and it speaks much for your family/friends' support as well that you feel able to stand up to her.

You, Stephanie, are a well-loved woman; remember that! As far as this poor, misguided woman, we need to remember that there must be a reason for her viciousness. Mental health issues, for sure, but caused by what? Heredity, stress? Maybe she knits exclusively with acrylic? The fumes coming off of a stash like that would make anyone lose their marbles! Go crack a cold one, and knit with something absolutely lucious. Cashmere would be my choice; any day is better with beer and skooshy fibres in hand!
With love from a fellow Canadian knitter, be well. xo

"She responded with another mocking, insulting email, accusing me of reading her blog, and that informed me that I had no "American Grit" and that she had tracked me down and knew where I lived."

Actually, I take it back. If she's talking about how she knows where you live, I really do suggest calling the police. She's effectively making threats against you. She might be crazy and a long way from your home city, but sometimes crazy people do crazy things.

Anyhow, for all I know you've already contacted the police. Therefore, I shall stop dispensing advice that you've doubtlessly already considered. :)

Best wishes,
Charlotte

Dear Stephanie,

Just wanted to let you know that there are a whole bunch of Christian knitters here in Ottawa who love you and are praying for you. I appreciate your wisdom in knowing that all Christians are not, and should not be, like the above post stated. As someone who loves Jesus dearly it hurts me to see Him used in an attept to hurt you, and I'll be praying for you and your family.
There are a whole lot of us here who think you're great!

I've never posted, but I've been reading for years. My mother purchased one of your books for me a few years back (and after I wiped the tears away from laughing so hard), it brought me back to knitting, one of the dearest parts of my life now.

I wanted to say thank you, that I love your quirky style, and if there's anything I can do, let me know?

I hope you get some really good hugs today, and I know I don't have to remind you how cherished you are. :)

Please add me to the list of readers and knitters who support you.

Stephanie, I am so sorry this woman has fixated her hatred on you, and worse, that she thinks it's somehow justified by differences between her "identity," however she defines that, and yours. It takes courage to be yourself in daily life, not to mention in public and in writing, and we're in a dangerous place if the trolls are allowed to hound and try to scare into silence people they think are undeserving because they are not like them. Good for you for speaking out, and I hope the matter drops here. Thank you for all the times your writing has made me laugh, cry, try something different with yarn, and spread the urge to make the world a better place. In the meantime, coffee. Beer. Light. Be safe.

Adding my name to your loyal supporters. I appreciate your time and talents that you share with all "knitters without borders!"

Wow, how awful that you have been subjected to this insanity. I so admire your response, so very Canadian in the best way.

I love your blog, and I love your spirit of compassion and peace. Keep spreading the light, but if I were you I'd warn the security people when you speak in American locations.

Peace and Love to you and your family and to Canada.

I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this. I know it has to be scary for you and your family. I love reading your blog and your books. Know that you have a lot of people who really love what you do and enjoy reading your blog. Keep your chin up and I am so happy that you are not closing down your blog. (I was worried that was the bad news.) Positive thoughts from Texas coming your way...

Stephanie,
This woman is obviously knitting with bent needles. Take nothing she says/writes/posts seriously. She in no way represents American Knitters and I, for one, refuse to be lumped into her own personal bowl of crazy just because she lives in the same country as me. Don't worry, if she comments, I will not feed the troll.

You rock. You are beautiful, wonderful and witty. I would move to your city, cook and clean your house for you every day just to give you more time to knit, write and do all the other awesome things that you do. Your blog posts amuse me to no end and I check every day to see what you have to say. I love reading over your archived posts. I love reading and rereading your books. I think that everything about you is awesome. Now I admire you just that much more for taking the high road with this person.

As I write this, there are over 1100 posts. All the ones I read, and I'll admit I didn't read them all, seem to be super supportive and express nothing but love and concern for your safety. I'm sure that by this time, I'm just echoing what everyone else has said. But Darling Harlot, you've made all our knitting lives better with your insights and I am very grateful for it.

I hold my yarn and needles aloft in tribute to you, Dear Harlot.

Wow! So sorry you are going through this. You are handling this with unbelievable grace and dignity. I have personally never witnesses and anti-American behavior from you or any of our guest bloggers. Sending you support from Ohio.

Love from Idaho!

Love from Idaho!

Love you, YH!

As a Christian American I sincerely apologize for my fellow country(wo)man. It boggles my mind that such animosity could be directed to a knitting blog. Sure, I may not agree with you on politics or religion, but that is not why I return here everyday. I love knitting (understatement), you love knitting. Isn't that enough? :) I find your books and your blog refreshing and fun. I love that you share with us your life, your family and your loves. Don't let it get you down! (or change your idea of who we are, because she is not representative of me or anyone I have ever met.)

This post has left me with tears. The fact that your blog has gotten me through some very rough times is a thing of wonder to me how any one can consider themselves a christian and treat another human being like this is beyond me.
I am
an american
a knitter
a mother
and I am outraged

Oh, my! Here I was, reading your blog over my Sunday morning coffee to get a laugh or just a smile to start my day of diapers, laundry, and Tractor Bingo (very popular with the 4 year olds!). Wow, that really sucks. I'm sorry you have to deal with such immaturity and nastiness. As an American, I've always enjoyed joking with the Canadian friends I've had about the differences between our countries, and I've never read anything even remotely offensive on your blog. I hope this blows over quickly, though I imagine this woman will just find someone else to take out her anger on.

Love from Georgia (US)!

Stephanie, this person reads more than a little unhinged mentally. She is obviously obsessing about you and needs professional help. It would be prudent to turn her emails and contact info over to the authorities before things escalate. We in America have laws against stalking...even cyber stalking.

I have enjoyed your blog and books for a few years now, and have given your books as gifts to knitter friends.

I don't know if I caught the particular post that started this recent dust up, but can't recall reading any of your posts that were overly (or mildly) derogatory about America. Shoot, I don't understand some (most) of the things that people do here.

Adding my voice to the crowd to say keep safe and thanks for hanging in there! Your blog (and the handful of other knitting blogs I read) is the only place I bother looking at the comments, because they are usually blessedly free of this kind of vitriol. Thanks for taking the high road, as you always do. You've inspired me to do many good and useful things. Most recently, I took up spinning and just posted my final Tour de Fleece entry.

My first grader is here asking what I'm doing so I gave him the g-rated overview. At his school they teach a set of steps for dealing with bullies. He pointed out you can't use step 5, which is tell a grown-up (because you ARE a grown-up). Perhaps telling the authorities will fill in suitably?

It's fascinating to me how bold, and rude, people give themselves permission to be on the web because it's 'anonymous'. You were right to expose these attacks.

Oh Man! I wanted to be your first psycho cyber stalker. As usual, I am a day late and a dollar short!!

This person is not going to get bored and go away. All of the attention and support you are receiving will only inflame her more. It's like after 9/11, when instead of breaking down the US it caused a huge swell of pride in our country. There was a troll like this on an adoption forumn I belong to. Her crazy rants didn't even make sense but they were full of hatred and violence. Over and over again she would be blocked, only to pop up under a new name. This went on for several years until the authorities became involved. Now she pops up on other blogs and forumns associated with adoption but enough people know about her that she gets shut down quickly. That's what we need to do here. Keep shutting her down and send the authorities her way. Your troll is likely reading every single comment left here, and I hope she realizes that the vast army of YH lovers is now on high alert. Seriously, how can she think we can't find her? This is the age of Google and anti-stalker laws. Let the authorities in Kansas deal with her.

Stephanie, I hardly ever comment over here but it is so outrageous and wrong for you to be attacked in this way, and you are handling it in such a courageous and positive way...

I'm standing with good guys.

Wow, just wow!

I can't believe she actually has the guts to call herself a Christian during all of this. As a Christian in America I'm embarrassed. I don't want anyone to look at what this woman is doing and label the rest of us with that same condescension.

Know that you have thousands of supporters, across the globe, that support and love you for your passion.

Chère Stephanie,
We read you, we knit with you, you play a huge role in our knitting family. You inspire us in so many ways. We love your humour, we love your self depreciation, your tenacity, your determination. Please, please, please do not let this incident hurt you...that would be giving that person far too much power. Do, however, protect yourself...but then, you know that. Remember...we LOVE you and your family and are proud of you!

I'm coming out of lurkdom too to say that I am so sorry this is happening.
Sending you love, support, admiration and understanding.

Call the police, now, now, now. She is threatening you - telling you she knows where you live, etc.

I am an American and enjoy your comments every time they are posted. We are seeing her type in the States ever since the last election. The rightwing lunatic fringe that was showing up at Palin rallies shouting "kill him" when Obama's name was mentioned. That Obama is an "arab". I have plenty of Conservative friends (live in Ohio) that I love to banter politics with - she's not Conservative - she's a wacko.

There are no reasoning with these people. They claim to be Christians but are nothing of the kind - would Christ act like she is acting? Wasn't Christ about loving thy neighbor? To say she is a Christian is an insult to Christianity.

Stay strong and please, please contact the authorities. She will not go away and I think she needs help.

This whole thing has left me crying and sick to my stomach-- i can't imagine how you feel with a cyber-stalker waiting to hatchet your every move. It is the unfortunate underbelly of our brave new world and so clearly reminds me of elementary school recess and the playground bullies. Keep on shining the light on this -- truth will always win out.

And btw, I for one am praying for a Canadian-style health care system!

I don't normally post comments on blogs but this time I must say that I really can't understand how people can hate with such vengeance. If you don't like someone/something just move on, it's not that important. This is why we have such trouble and strife in this world.

Keep your chin up and just move on. We love you.

Steph ... There are toxic people in our world ... most of them are personality disordered and often they can be consumed by jealousy, hatred, & other powerful emotions over which they seem to have no control. I have one in my own family and the rages and words are horrible to hear and bear. This woman is very sick and has decided that you are somehow threatening to her. Her jealousy fills her with hate. I'm so glad you posted this story - and I'm glad you aren't stopping your blog. Let us know if we can help in any way ...
See you at SS09 !

Steph,

I am so very sorry this has happened and is continuing to happen. This person, their behavior, and their actions make me sick.

Please, I implore you, take this person's emails and comments to the authorities to be placed on file. Please also forward them to anyone else mentioned (such as your publisher) so that they may do the same. I can only hope that this person is a coward and will only use their internet facade in their harassment, however with CRAZY one never knows.

As an American, a Christian, and a human being I hope this person understands that God is watching them and so is the rest of the fiber world. What goes around comes around. You only ever give good and good will always prosper.

Light, love and continued respect for you and all you do!

Hang in there, Stephanie. I admire your cool head and your unapologetic attitude. Love from New York.

I am so sorry that you are going through this terrible ordeal. Remember from your book At Knit's End, page 174, you quoted Elizabeth Zimmerman as saying "There is no right way to knit..." There is no right way for anything. You do what you believe is right and if you are getting good results, then you are doing it right for you. Please do not allow one bad "Christian American" get you down on yourself or anything else. I come to your blog as often as I can for a pick me up. I am reading the older posts when you haven't posted recently. It helps me to deal with the stress of everyday life, to know that someone else has gone through it, or is going through it. I am glad to know that you will continue to post and I hope that you are able to ignore the woman that is causing you all this grief.

That is some kind of crazy. I can't understand why someone would feel so threatened by you.

Stay strong.

My gods. That's just... words fail me. Right there is a textbook example of why the rest of the world has misguided views on Americans. I feel sorry for the rest of their country that someone like that is claiming to represent them.

Have you spoken to the police about physical security? She seems too rabidly pro-American to dare to cross the border, but still if she knows where you live...

I hope this poor delusional person loses interest soon so you can get on with your life in peace.

i'm sorry this is happening to you, your family and your blog. the rest of us are supporting you and your decisions. :)

Who knew the knitting world could get so vicious?
This American girl thinks you are great Steph. I'm sorry you have to deal with someone like this, it is unbelievable. I'm still shaking my head. Stay strong & focused Steph and I will send the Light to you & to this person too. Let's knit & be happy!!!

Ay. How horrible. This was so hard to read - I'm sure living it was far worse. I am so sorry! Big hugs.

Oh Wow! I'm a lawyer in Minnesota and know that the authorities here would take this very seriously. I believe that to be true in other places as well. This is true stalking behavior and very scary. Twenty years ago a dear friend of mine's husband was stalked by a woman that had delusions about him. The authorities then offered no help. It ended when she stabbed her own mother with a butcher knife and was involuntarily committed. I don't mean to scare you, but to tell you that the law and public attitudes toward this kind of behavior have changed in the twenty years since that happened.

You are right to have contacted the authorities and I agree with the many posters who suggest that you report her to her ISP and even look into getting a restraining order.

Having said all that, I know, from my friend's experience how awful you must feel. I hope the huge outpouring of support from the blog helps.

am "american" and LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your books and blog and even think you to be good upstanding citizen of the world- sorry for this latest "slipped stich"

I like your Canada Day posts, and, as a patriotic American who loves her own country, warts and all, I admire your patriotism. I like to see people love their countries. I hope you and the authorities are taking proper steps to protect you and yours. This poor woman has something terrible and frightening happening inside her, and I hope things improve for both you and her, but right now, I know you know you need to take care of yourself.

Wow... do check with the Toronto police and RCMP... you can never tell what someone will do, and best to be safe.
I went through something like that, but unfortunately it was with an ex boyfriend who used my blog and email and IM over and over to visciously attack and degrade me... and there is plenty the police can do if you have enough details to identify the harrasser!

I have been in the knitting community for nearly 3 years. And through my life I have never been much of a reader of anything...until knitting. I follow your blog and check it more than any normal human for updates. I love reading your perspective on life. And love (since I'm not an avid reader of much) the knowledge I gain from your blog. From knitting knowledge to Canadian holidays, I find it all very interesting. I feel as though I travel in my mind with you to your many destinations and book signings. You are such a humble person and that's a quality hard to find these days.

Please never stop! Keep being yourself! You are a great person and you have a great family!

KNIT ON!!!!

"What doesn't kill you,can only make you stronger"

From - Grove City, OH

I love your blog, but don't post very often. I do, however, get bullied in the real world. When I do, I tend to take out my phone and read messages from family and friends that I've saved that tell me I'm wonderful and beautiful.

My recommendation to you, dear Yarn Harlot, is to read these hundreds and hundreds of comments. When this evil person makes you feel low and doubt yourself, read these hundreds of comments and know that her opinion is a minority. People all over the world love you and respect you and admire you.

I read your blog regularly, but have only posted a few times and I just wanted to add my voice to the many that thank you for letting us into you life a little. You have made me smile so many times--you gave me the courage to tackle my first pair of socks when I thought they would be impossibly difficult and your beautiful tributes to Canada got me interested in my Canadian heritage (my mom was born in Sutton, Quebec). I can't tell you how sorry I am that you and your family have had to deal with such a difficult situation. Hang in there!

There are those in the world that need help. You have become the victim of someone elses troubles. You are a kind and wonderful person with a good heart and understanding mind. Unfortunately this person is looking for a fight and has picked you.

Maybe this will encourage them so seek some help, or perhaps others who know this person will act now before they do something worse..to themselves or others.

The "person" and I use the term loosely, is obviously off her meds. And to call herself a Christian is just an insult to all those who are truly Christian people. The old saying "Sticks and stones..." applies here but I would still alert authorities of her communications with you. It's a lot easier to say ignore her, but know that you are in my prayers for peace of mind and that she will be in my prayers also because she REALLY needs them! Keep writing, Steph. I love it!

Not even sure where to begin. Our family chooses to take our Thanksgiving holiday in Montreal every other year because it is fun, educational, and something different. And you know what? The people we run into are amazingly friendly, giving, and sincere. There are whack-a-doos in every country; we just seem to breed the more extreme variety in America. And as far as religion is concerned, more wars have been fought in God's name than not. Stay safe, Steph . . . and go have a beer!

Don't have to apologize, you have done the right thing. How anyone can be so obsessive and demonic, I can't understand. We are behind you and all the good you do 100!%. Don't worry, you have done the right thing.

Woman, you have *no idea* how much I can empathize. You try to take the high road, you try to ignore the one bad apple who tries to rile up the malcontents (because you *know* there are those who just *live* for someone *else* to Stir Something Up so they can get in on it) in favor of the five zillion who like what you're doing...and after awhile, it just gets scary. You do what you have to do and wait for the game to get boring for the one who obviously needs a new hobby. (And just wait until they make a whole site just to talk s**t about you. Oh, but seriously. Because clearly, there's not enough on their needles.)

Hang in there. Let the people who love you surround you with sanity (or at least their version of "sanity", which can sometimes be loosely defined.), and remember that someone very smart once said something about how you're not *really* famous until the vultures come out to circle and squawk.

Welcome to fame. :)

Dear Stephanie,

I am so very sorry that you are having to go through this. It is just awful that someone who writes such a funny, heart-warming, human, sharing blog should have to go through this. It's not right.

I know you know, but definitely remember that most of us in the US and on the internet are normal people who very much appreciate all that you share.

I'm late to the comment party, but still want to say how much I enjoy your posts, and how sorry I am that you have to deal with this person.

From your description, she sound like she is in violation of the Acceptable Use Policy of your blog site, and perhaps some other sites as well. Have you informed her ISP? Good ones take a dim view of this sort of behavior.

Thank you for sharing so much with all of us. And please keep on sharing. I'm always amazed at what the universe comes up with to test us with. Your post is a reminder to me to try and handle things with grace and strength.

Dear Steph,

How lucky we are that in this time of war,genocide and global economic turmoil there is someone (Name Removed...may her yarn split and her stitches drop) who can protect us from the greater threat of the evil knitter of the north in Canada...(seriously?) In reality she should be thanking you. Does she realize what a boost to the US and world economy you are?

Because of your writings, people, knitters and non knitters support book stores buying your books.

Knitters are inspired by you and support LYS buying yarn and fiber (which in turn supports the fiber farmers, spinners, dyers etc)

The travel industry is helped by knitters vying for spots in Sock Summit or a place in the audience at your book readings..

In these tough times your writings and blog bring people together and bring smiles to our faces...

So Steph, have a beer, hug your family and realize how much you impact so many in a positive way...

Sorry for the long post...

Hang tough! Another supporter from the US...

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this, and I wanted to let you know that I'm behind you 100%. You are handling this with grace and good sense. This person seems like she needs to find a more worthwhile way to spend her time.

I've been reading (and enjoying) your writings since the old Knit List and I, an American, have NEVER seen anything negative about anyone (except yourself) in them. I love your Blog and your books. Keep up the good work and ignore as much as possible the rantings of a sick mind.

Dude. Abso-flippin'-lutely amazing. I agree(10 000) with everyone here - love and support to you and yours, proud (as a Canadian), awed, and humbled at how you handle everything - and take this to the authorities if you haven't already, because there is obviously something really wrong with this person - I can't quite wrap my mind around how upsidedown their concepts seem to be. I guess this means you're a real celebrity now - next thing you know, the Enquirer will be making up stories about you! ;)

Oh, I'm so sorry about all this. She's (or potentially "he's") obviously mentally ill -- not that that's an excuse, of course. I'm glad you've talked to the authorities about it and told us about it.

Obviously, you know not all Americans are like that. But for the record, as an American, I would like to apologize.

Good grief! Too bad you don't live in the US so you could take out a restraining order against her! Love your blog and love your books!

Stephanie,

You are a hero to many and will continue to be with your courage in facing this situation. Many hugs and much love to you and good luck as you go through the Sock Summit. You do amazing things for us as knitters, readers, and people each day. Hopefully all these comments will give you back a small amount of the hope, love, and courage you share with us all the time. Take good care!!!!

:) tara in texas

I went through several phases of thought while I read your blog. First: why do you not ignore this person? Then: she (or he) is out of control and there is no logic that will reach them. Then: blocking is good... blocking doesn't work? Oh. Then: she/he sounds seriously psycho and they have latched onto you as a target for their self-loathing to come out upon. Then: might be a good idea to document in case legal action is necessary. Then: exhaustion. I don't know how you can keep this out of your life. I don't think they will let up as long as you keep responding. You are playing right into her/his hands. I don't know if it's a man or woman. But it seems you are responding just as they want you to. They've got you under their thumb. They are obviously disturbed and beyond any fix that you could provide. What are the chances you can ignore it completely?

I am just sick.

My heart absolutely breaks for you. This is awful, and I'm very sorry you've needed to cope with all this.

I am a lurker on many blogs, but I had to say that that is one unhappy person. You are taking the high road, but be safe with a loony like that. I actually thought there were grownups here but obviously we are back in teenage land. This FL girl sends support!

Oh, Stephanie, I am horrified, and feel a little sick to my stomach. I am so sorry you've been dealing with this, how terrible for you and your family. Anything else I might say would likely sound trite, but know I'm thinking of you. Well done, you!

Wow. I'm so sorry. I'm from the US and it seems that this last election has really brought the crazies out from under their rocks. This woman is not, as she claims, Christian; she's nuts.
Don't waste any more time on her.

Holy crap, Steph, I am SO sorry that you have to go through this. Please know that there are more good guys that bad ones in the US--it's just that the bad ones yell a lot louder and longer.

The British TV writer, James Moran (Torchwood: Children of Earth) recently had to step back from his blog and twittering because of HORRIBLE comments from the public regarding what happened in the recent Torchwood miniseries. One woman went so far as to scream that he had 'killed off the favorite character of (herself) a 'mentally ill woman'' and she demanded he bring him back. It was awful. No one should be treated that way.

Please know that we are behind you and will help you out any way we can. Hugs to you all.

I have never left a comment before but I am a long time reader of your blog & your books. You are a woman of immense talent. You are a brilliant writer. And don't forget, a New York Times bestselling author.
I am sorry this is happening to you. I am sending some light to you, your family and this person who is so full of hate.

Much love and support from Texas.

I've been a lurker since I started knitting and I have always enjoyed your blog posts. I'm sorry someone is treating you this way. Stay strong.

Dear Stephanie,
I think I have only posted in your site once before. I don't usually do so because by the time I read your blog, somebody else has already said what I thought on saying. This time however I want to make a point of reitarating what all of your friends have said before me. I support your way on how you have handling this situation. I like you as a person and I respect you as a knitter.
I am very sad for this other person and very upset that she is giving Christians should a bad name acting in such a non-Christian way.

Love,
Diana
p.s. I know it probably doesn't matter, but I am Peruvian and living in the States.

I don't usually comment -- but feel compelled to express my horror at the virtual stalker -- scary indeed, and handled, Stephanie, with grace and intelligence.

Love your blog -- look forward to reading it. Please don't stop.

I am ashamed that a compatriot of mine is behaving so badly.

All my best to you across the border.

XOXOX

i read your blog even though i am not a knitter, for it's laughter, tears, insight, love of fiber and family and friends, and pluckiness. i am so sorry you have to deal with this; know that those who are greatly loved can inspire great hate as well. keep yourself safe.

i feel for you and am so sorry you are having to deal with this woman. these attacks are something no one should have to deal with. as you know, she does not speak for, or represent, americans (i am one), but unfortunately she does embarrass us greatly. i hope it will end soon so you won't have to waste another minute on her.

Perhaps today is a good day to come out from the shadows and say thank you. I often think of your blog as a gift--of laughter and sanity. I don't know of any other bloggers who are so generous with their words and actions. There's so much else to say, but I think that's enough. Just thank you.

Personally, I am offended by this person who is harrassing you. As an American and Christian, it personally offends me that she uses her 'patriotism' and 'Christianity' to defend her harrassment. I agree that getting emails and comments that disagree with a post are expected. Afterall, we all have opinions. But when it turns into personal insults, I really think it crosses the line. And honestly, you have as much right to be patriotic and proud to be Canadian as we do in America. {{HUGS}} I've followed your blog and tweets and read your books and have never been offended by your content.

Behind you Steph! I love your blog and books (an who knew I'm an American). Hope this blows over soon, she must be all kinds of crazy!

Dear Stephanie: I like Prince too! So who cares what others think?! You've stood the test of time as a spouse, a parent, a knitter, a writer and a Canadian. You've also been a wonderful person who takes people as she finds them. That's all that anyone needs to know.

Kathy

You? Anti-American? She's nuts-- and twisting your words. I've read your posts about your travels to American cities and it's totally clear you write about America with love. I'm a US citizen, too, and that's clear to me.

I'm really sorry that you have to deal with this. I've been reading ever since that time when 2 of my 3 little ones were really, really sick and sitting on me (and worse) to feel better and reading through all those years of posts was a lifeline. That was about 2 or 3 years ago, and I've been coming by ever since (I never miss a post) because you bring joy and humor and passion and just that right amount of "good crazy" to my life. Please don't let this person sidetrack you from your mission of sharing your joy!! There a thousand + posts above mine telling you how much you are loved-- please allow us to outweigh one single loony.

Sending you kind and lovely thoughts.

I like the high road, a very canadian thing to do :)

just another American showing you some love! keep up being you, because, well, you are a spot of sunshine in my world!

I couldn't even read the entire mail she sent you because it was so hurtful.

I'll just raise another voice to say how looney she is and that you are loved.

I have only been reading your books and blog (and knitting!) for a few months, but your writing style makes you seem like a friend. I love your blog and enjoy learning more about Canada from it. Your writing reveals an intelligent, observant, compassionate person with a strong sense of humor. Here is one more voice of support from south of the border.

OMG ... I knew you were Canadian and that Amy is a transplanted Canadian ... but you mean there are MORE of you up there? You have done the right thibng. Just turn away ...

So sorry to read of this. It must be so very hurtful to you and those that care for you, and I hope it ends soon.

As an American knitter who grew up near Canada, I have to apologize to our wonderful, friendly and beautiful neighbor to the north. I think you have handled this frightening situation with admirable grace and strength, but please be careful for yourself and your family. This tragic person's sense of reality has crumbled.
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this, having done nothing wrong and brightened so many people's days with your wit and creativity. Stay strong - you have the support and love of so many!

Ahh, there are so many good things about the internet (such as being able to read a friendly Canadian knitter's blog), and then there are people like this. So sorry. :( *hugs*

Let me add to the support for you from the legions of other American, Christian women.
This stalker of yours is going to pretty surprised when her life reaches its angry end, and discovers where she is going to spend eternity.

Adding my support on Twitter, too.

Americans for the Harlot!

As a US citizen from Kansas, I have never been offended by your Canada Day blogs. So many people spend so much time being offended, that they are unable to find any joy in life. I hope you are not too discouraged by one very sad person, who is clearly unable to properly place her anger. I hope she gets some help.

I'm an American conservative born again Christian and can tell you that she doesn't represent how I act and conduct myself; she sounds like she's mentally ill.

I applaud the way you are handling this (I would have outed her.) I love your blog and your knitting and hope this doesn't discourage you from continuing to provide such great knitting content on the web. Please take care and be safe.

People are just weird. And tiresome. Sorry you have to deal with that much crap.

I know I'm comment number 1000+ but I've been busy and missed all the horrific hoopla until this morning, and want to add my warm support to you in this painful, messy time.

Having personally struggled with a mentally ill person whose behavior threatened to destroy a small, volunteer local professional group, I agree that the best thing to do is NOT engage with such people. It doesn't mean they aren't still there, but their need for drama and attention eventually seek other outlets. I think your course of action is wise and quite remarkably restrained, under the circumstances!

I am so impressed with your decision to stay on the high road here. I laugh and smile each time I read your blog, and as yet another an embarrassedly Canada-ignorant USA-ian (we're all 'Americans' here in the Western Hemisphere, eh?) I can say I have enjoyed every bit of your Canadiana over the years. I learn, I salute, I am proud to be a neighbor. Added to which, my husband just found out HE is Canadian citizen, thanks to a recent law. How excited are we? Very!

Hugs, darling Stephanie, I feel you are a sister and I am proud to be 'related' to you.

Take heart in the fact that so many knitters from all over the world love you! We'll stand together (judging by the 1200+ comments...) and support you :) (((((((((hugs)))))))))))

I don't know if I'd really call myself patriotic most of the time, but I feel so insulted that this woman is spreading all of this anger and hate while saying she's an American. It's ridiculous. What she's doing has nothing to do with being "American" or "Christian" or anything else.

I'm sorry you're getting the brunt of her hate. I hope she disappears soon.

Thinking good thoughts for you and your family- if this kind of harassment isn't illegal it certainly should be.

OMG! I am so sorry you are going though all this. I know that you know all Americans are not like this nut. Grain of salt.....I am shocked that she is bringing hubby and family into this. Poor dear is about as sick as they get. Prayers going out that she stops this stupid game and that you know how much we enjoy and love you.

I can't get over people. I know I should be used to this, but wow. I guess I am still naive. Good for you, I think you are doing the right thing. Don't let her get to you!

Thank you for not giving up in the face of the mean people of the world. There are so many of us who love all that you do!

Long time reader, first time commenter, I just had to say something after reading all that.

I wonder what a 'respectable knitter' is? I sure hope I'm not one!

Take care of yourself. Why not disable the comment section for a while to give yourself some respite.

We love you purl of our hearts!

I'm sure you know this already but as an American I must say that this woman DOESN'T speak for those of us who are sane. You can go on about Canada Day all you like! I'd be angry about her behavior but she's obviously unbalanced and I hope she doesn't attack her own family and friends this way. I'm glad you were open about this and I will try to ignore any shenanigans from her!

WOW....Stephanie, I am SO sorry for the ridiculous lack of maturity on the part of one of my fellow countrymen. We've already made quite a showing, but I'm another very conservative American Christian and I have NEVER felt insulted by anything on your blog or in your books. I look forward to your blog posts and "harass" the local bookstore staff whenever I find out you have a new book coming out. Trust-- we love and adore you-- just can't keep some of nuts from pluggin' in. Hugs from North Carolina!! We love you, Stephanie!! And we're proud of you, too. Now, go kiss Joe, hug the girls, and forget the nutters who obviously have nothing better to do...

Sending you oodles of hugs, support, and admiration.

I adore your writing, humor, humility - and yea verily - your parenting style.

Keep strong.

Oh Stephanie!
I opened my YH fix of the day to find this. I am beyond words.
I also am a Christian, American woman with ties to Canada. I have NEVER read anything that leads me to think you are anti-American.
This woman is clearly unstable and/or mentally ill. For that reason alone, I feel pity for her, and for that reason only.
You do need to be careful though, crazy takes many forms. Do consider some of the steps others have suggested.
I am so sorry.
WE LOVE YOU
Sherry

1st time commenter, like so many right now. Thank you for what you do. Thank you for making me laugh. Thank you for being proud of your country, and mentioning Scappose Washington in your blog(I live in Battleground and got such a kick out of that). Thank you for taking the high road and showing your true worth as a human being, spouse and parent. Let me echo what others are saying: This American Loves You!!!! Thank you for sharing your life with us!!!

Another long time reader but first time poster here- just wanted to let you know you have love and appreciation and support from one more American knitter down here (with a half-Canadian husband, we LOVE Canada!!). Your books and blog and what you share with us of yourself are simply lovely, and the world is a more beautiful place because of your giving. We're sending warm thoughts your way.

So sorry you have to put up with this.

You can only fight crazy and/or hateful with sanity and light. Though this is true it doesn't mean it's easy. Thinking of you and hoping she finds a better outlet soon.

Keep strong Stephanie. I hope the voices of the 1300 commenters so far are helping to drown out that loud, mean but single voice for you.

I can't add anything unique to the words of support you've already received, but I do want you to know that my voice is with all the others'. Hang tough!

Dearest YH,
I am heartened, as I hope you & your family are, to see so much support in the comments. As with so many of your other faithful readers, I am from the US, I read your blog daily, and I personally love your yearly Canada Day post. I also greatly enjoyed your post when your husband got stuck in the snow and you went to 'help'. You spend plenty of time visiting all over the US. Your post have always been encouraging and full of support for so many. That individual sounds very unstable to say the least. It is because of your posts that I would like to visit Toronto and other areas of Canada some day. Thank you for blogging.

Just another American here to say that this woman does NOT speak for all of us. It's people like her who give us a bad name abroad. I'm sorry, Stephanie!

I am so sorry...I adore you...

Love to you. And love to this fearful woman. It sounds like she sorely needs it.

Dear Steph,
I too am proud of you. This woman has many issues, none of which have anything to do with you. I share the offense that many have named- I am an American and she does not speak for me or anyone I would ever associate with. I say let her do what she will and just do your best to ignore her. When light doesn't work, lack of interest often does. If you know where she lives, forward her hate mail to her local police without reading it. Be sure to get a restraining order the next time you travel to the U.S.

Keep doing what you do- we love you!

Wow. People can be so awful, especially when they think no one knows who they are in "real life." Everything we do is real life, however, and they're just showing their ignorance and meanness.

Keep up the positivity, Stephanie! I remember Canada Day down here in Texas every year, and I have a friend in New Brunswick who celebrates American Independence every year. The tradition started when she visited one July and we threw a Canada Party for her and took her to a Fourth of July party.

I think this issue is past patriotism, however. Your original post wasn't offensive in any way. It just pushed a button that set off this person's knee-jerk reaction. If only reason could take over!

I don't know that I can offer much that hasn't already been said by other readers, but I know you can never have too much support! :)

I do want to say that as a conservative, American, Catholic, knitter and blogger, sure, you and I don't agree on everything. But I've never read your blog and felt you are judging me for my own opinions and thoughts...in fact, if anything I find myself jealous that I can't be as confident and sure of myself and my opinions as you are. At only thirty, I'm hoping that comes with age.

I read your blog because I find it entertaining, and there are some areas where I see us as very alike. The world would be a very boring place, indeed, if we were all the same.

I'm so sorry to hear that you are dealing with this. I'm a regular reader, a Yarn Harlot fan, and so happy that you blog, knit, and share!

Good luck, Stephanie!

I am completely floored by this. I can't believe this person would act so terribly, so un-American, and definitely very un-Christian. Love, hugs, and all other types of good thoughts headed your way!!!

She is obviously mentally ill. You might want to track down where she lives (I imagine you already know) and have her arrested for cyber-stalking. I think it's that serious.

We have a lot of lunatics like that here (in the US). Religious extremists that are similar to the "terrorists" they despise. These people are dangerous and need to be locked up.

I'm sorry this is happening to you. Stay strong.

I'm really sorry you've had to go through this. I promise not to take any bait that is thrown. I hope you can see how much the rest of us love you. >>>>

For the record, I don't believe that expressing one's love for her own country is in any way anti-any-other-country. Personally, I enjoy your Cananda Day posts, since we learn so little about other countries here in the good old USA.

Sorry you're going through this.

Have you reported this to the authorities? Canada, like the US, must have legal prohibitions against stalking and harassment, including internet harassment. A formal complaint seems to me to be called for.

I do not know if the laws on this can be invoked internationally, but perhaps they can be. She sounds less than rational, she says she knows where you live, she seems to be fully focussed on you, and she could be dangerous.

You might also want to contact her internet service provider, or have the authorities do so. A serious and substantiated complaint could result in termination of her access to that ISP.

Thank you for your good humor and generosity in keeping your blog despite the extra work and stress. You've brought us joy, food for thought, inspiration, encouragement, and a great sense of shared community and I can't imagine it's been effortless on your part. Please carry on.

Cheers and many thanks, Karen

She's an embarrassment to me, as an American and a former Christian. This woman is the reason Americans ARE thought of as morons. And she is the reason why true Christians are thought to be close-minded and unloving. I never understood this cruel, hateful behavior in so-called Christians.

I, for one, love the Canada Day posts. And you as well. You're just funny and lovely, smart and kind-hearted. Never stop writing!

I am sickened by this woman and her tirades against you under the guise of a Christian American woman. Is this how her Bible teaches her to treat people? I think not. I am so sorry that this person has intruded upon your life and I hope that by bringing the full level of attention to it, it can be resolved. Chin up - we love you!

wow, i'm so sorry you have to deal with this. sending you lots of hugs, love, and good thoughts. i will try my best to refrain from saying anything negative about the lovely woman leaving these comments, and i hope that everything gets resolved soon without further coflict.

I'm very sorry you're having to deal with this. Unfortunately, it's the internet, and, well, anyone can log onto it. Even the loopy, the goofy, and the downright nuts. Doesn't mean you have to put up with it, and I'm sorry you're stuck with such crappiness.

About four years ago, I gained my own nutball 'follower', and spent most of the past four years ignoring them for all I was worth. Eventually, when they escalated to threats, I called the FBI and reported them. That brought it to a screeching halt. I don't know if you're considering it (or have already done it and just didn't mention that?), but That Twit is breaking quite a few American laws and the FBI would cheerfully look her up and have a chat, if you were to give them a call and send them the information you have. Just a thought.

Big hugs, again, for having to deal with it, no matter how you decide to. (Though I think giving all of us her blog addy would be unprofessional on your part, yet fun as heck for us.)

wow, i'm so sorry you have to deal with this. sending you lots of hugs, love, and good thoughts. i will try my best to refrain from saying anything negative about the lovely woman leaving these comments, and i hope that everything gets resolved soon without further coflict.

You rock Stephanie! Kudos and hugs to you!

Oh Stephanie! You are in my thoughts today. Thank you for your courageous example of bravery and compassion. I hope very much that this woman has a change of perspective and finds health and completeness in her own life. Your gift to share and bring love and laughter to others is valuable and much appreciated. You never cease to amaze me! Take care. Lee-Anne

First comment, just to say you add joy to my day. I love your blog and thank you for all your work!

you rock. much love & good thoughts to you & your family :-)

also, sorry for that duplicate comment. lots of hugs.

Standing hehind you 100% It is appalling that the web that connects us also gives this sick person access to you.

Right here with you Stephanie. You have my utmost respect for how you handle yourself, and I'm so sorry that this has been happening.

:)

I agree with the others who said to notify the authorities. Especially considering the amount of time you spend here in the states. She sounds obsessed with you and unbalanced mentally and emotionally. I worry for your safety.

Oh my. We are here for you.

You are a bigger person than I, I would have been slinging mud a long time ago if I was faced with this junk.

Stay strong, drink beer/wine and knit. :)K

Another American throwing in my support. You are one of the two reasons I taught myself to knit, and more importantly perhaps, the one reason I taught myself to knit socks.

Hang in there.

When I was reading this post I feared you were going to close the comment section or worse. I appreciate your trusting us to do the right thing with this information.

Cable TV is missing out on a potential star. This lady is clearly as mad as a box of frogs.

From another long-time lurker drawn out of hibernation; a Brit and an agnostic (so no partisanship and an undiscriminating poker-of-fun at everyone):

More socks. Go now. Make it so. xx

I'm yet another lurker who feels compelled to show my support. Reading those terrible things brought tears to my eyes, as did the thought that you might stop blogging. Please know how much we all love you, and wish you the best through this ordeal.

wow... how disturbing and upsetting for you. absolutely in this case, the best response from your many supporters is no response.

No matter what, your safety is Number One. Dude, I'm with you, I love you, and I'm extremely proud of you. Take care, okay?

Sending love and hugs to you. Now that there are clear threats to you and others in this correspondance, please call the police, at least to chat it through. You're a public figure, and unfortunately some people see that as their route to the limelight.
Kudos for how dignified you have remained through this, and for you not crawling into a hole, and managing to remain like a swan, serene on top, but kicking like heck underneath.

1. She needs help mentally. (really)
2. Don't respond to her anymore.
3. Think law suit if the threats continue! (yes)
4. Don't take it personally, she doesn't speak for 99% of us.

Enjoy your day, your family, and all of us who do benefit from you.
be well, Jo-ann

People like this confuse me. They just do. This world is ugly enough, why spew venom to make it even uglier, in person on on the internet?

*shudder*

Okay... onto the point of the comment: you rock. Don't let anyone make you feel like you don't.

How's the blanket coming? ;)

Bless you for taking the highroad; you do have a lot of grit.

When I finished reading "Free-Range Knitter" I was sad to see the end of the book. Imagine my delight when I found out you have a blog. I've only been reading your blog for a short while but I've learned so much and have laughed out loud too many times to count. I love your wit and your creativity and I hope you continue to share your life with the world. It's a pity that there are people out there who really are mentally sick and I would hate to think that they could successfully spoil such a talented blog. Please keep up the fantastic spirit of your blog and accept another comment of well-wishing and support!

Stephanie, if you've ever doubted for a moment how many of us love you unconditionally, well, this post's comments will certainly dispel that. (Not to mention breaking a record. I've never seen anything like this [Comments (1334) by 11am!]- although... I wasn't there watching SS09 Registration Day, either, lol... hugs and kisses to you.

De-lurking to add my support: Sending my prayers, good karma and love to you.
Michelle in Iowa

Another usual lurker, feeling compelled to stand up and support you -- lean on all the love expressed for you, which so obviously outweighs anything darker. Shine on, Step!

Hey Stephanie,

First of all, the fact that you've kept this private for so long says quite a bit about you.
Second of all, this one person cannot speak for all US American knitters. Please note that I said US and American ('cause technically you are an American as well, just Canadian not US). There are those of us in the US who read your blog and enjoy it. I fully understand patriotism. I am VERY patriotic. I am VERY US American. My parents were Army, my husband was Air Force. I will staunchly defend US to ANYONE. And I will not back down. You are not US American, why on earth would you toot the US American horn? You are Canadian American. I would fully expect for you to toot Canada's horn. You have always done so respectfully. I do not ever remember seeing you bash the US at all. You have made it clear that you are NOT US American, there's no bashing in that!
Third of all, I am a Christian. I believe wholeheartedly that the Bible is the the be all and end all. It gives us direction, hope, peace and so much more that I cannot always explain. I understand that you do not believe what I believe. While this makes me sad, I still enjoy reading your blog. Now if you begin to bash my beliefs, then I would no longer read. However, I do not believe that you have ever done so. And yes, I have read ALL of your posts (I even went back and read all your archives from before, they are just as funny).
As for the crazy lady, well we can all hope that she leaves. Crazy lady, you are out of line. Stating that you disagree with someone is fine, however the level you have taken this is totally unacceptable. Your attitude is why much of the world hates US Americans. They see us (that is US Americans) as rude, arrogant, selfish, and disrespectful. You have embodied this persona in your treatment of the YH. Leave her be, she is living her life. I believe that you need to go back to the bible (which, yes I have read) and remember that we are chosen to LOVE our enemies (which, I believe, you feel that Stephanie is your enemy). You should be praying for her, rather than letting the root of bitterness become so entangled in your heart. I'd wish that you'd read this, however I believe that I would only be casting pearls before swine.

Sincerely,

Tammy (a very patriotic US American)

I can never understand why AMERICA = USA? Isn't America = Canada, USA, Mexico and all countries in Central and South America? Anyway, here's another US citizen who enjoys your blogs, never felt offended, and supports you! Take it easy and enjoy yourself at Sock Summit!!

All the support in the world! Keep doing what you love and what you do best...

Just sending you some hugs (and snails) from the UK, your light shines out a long way. xxx

Be strong, for every person out there that hates us there are ten or more that love us.

Sending you positive vibes over from Europe!
xoxox

Oh, and yes - I also advocate registration for commenters

I am so sorry this is happening to you. No one deserves to be treated to such negativity over and over again. I hope this torture ends soon though I'm afraid the tenaciousness of certain people can be hard to squelch. I'm sending good vibes your way!

I've read you for years and have never felt the need to comment, but I feel the need to now. I love your blog. I know that you know that not all Americans are crazy (well maybe we are crazy, but not THAT kind of crazy. Thanks for believing in the power of light! It will prevail.

some people just make it their mission to make other people miserable...
i can't believe the audacity and tenacity of this woman, though!
you have so many people who appreciate what you do and support you...so don't let this one person get you down :)
i'm very impressed with how you're dealing with this situation...i'm afraid i wouldn't have been nearly as strong or diplomatic as you have been.
you've set a new standard in dignity for us all to follow.
from one proud-to-be-canadian knitter to another....THANK YOU for all you do!!!

You have my support and condolences for having to put up with this nut. Please keep her emails and her IP addresses so you can report this to the police. She does not sound sane and I now worry for you and your family's safety. Who knows what she will do next.
I love reading your blog and thank you for all the fun, intersting and personal items you have shared over the years. Plus all the incorageing Knitting info. Keep it up
An american who appreciates and loves our neighbors to the north.

Hi, I am new to knitting and new to your site but what I have seen is not derogatory, rude, anti-American, anti-Christian, or anything else. I am American and I am sorry that you are subject to one of the few who's emotions run their mouth (or fingers in this case) instead of their brain. This is one of the things that fuels our media so some think it is the status quo on behavior. I am happy to read and will continue to read your blog. Thanks for posting.

She's a stalker and quite mentally unbalanced. We can all hope that her loved ones realize this and get her the help she needs. In the meantime do get the legal protection that is needed to keep your family safe. You have never been anything but proud of your country and deservedly so. You have the whole-hearted support of this American (and proud of it) Hugs.

Um....wow. I'm so very, very sorry. And, as always, I am amazed at your grace under fire, and your generous heart. You're a class act.

Love,
an American

This was very disturbing to read. Hope it all stops now. Thinking of you.

WHOOOAAAAA!!! I last checked your site at 12 midnite last nite and this was not there...there are now over 1300 comments!!! GACK! Steph....you dont' need this, you've got stuff to do..I love you, honey. drink tea, breath deep breaths, go listen to some Woodstock music to bring back your Chi (qi).

Another fan of the Harlot here coming out of lurkdom. I think we all realize that you are dealing with a severely mentally disturbed woman here and I think you are handling things with a great deal of class and compassion. Good for you!

First, I have always admired you, and your whole attitude to this sad situation only makes me admire you more.
Second, to all the Americans who apologized...as a Canadian, I do NOT see this person as one of you, rather I see her as a very sad and disturbed individual. She'd be that no matter what country she was from.
Third, I have now begun my own campaign to ignore her. Whenever I hear of her and her comments, I plan on donating an extra dollar to MSF. And recommending your books to one more person who has not yet had the pleasure (there are still a few out there!) So, if she continues, only good can come of it. I am huge believer in balance.

Dios mio--What a nutjob! I'm about as square as you can get--a retired (and second-generation) US Air Force veteran who still works in defense, and I love your blog and always have. Keep knitting and writing, please.

Do NOT spend one nanosecond of your valuable self esteem on this, this....citizen. Please DO follow the advice of my fellow bloggers and seek legal and law enforcement protection. This person is seriously unhinged and you need to protect yourself and your family. I'll be praying and thinking of you. Hugs--

She's pressing your button - don't rise to it or reply.

Thanks for sharing that with us. You have my total support.

Oh geez Steph, that's just horrible. I'm an American, and I like you! :) Hang in there! xo

Steph... goodness gracious. I'm most sorry for her attacks on your parenting, on your husband, and on your personal beliefs. Ick.

Write On, Stephanie!! I've been following your blog & buying your books for several years. Please, don't let one twisted person stop you. A blessing upon you from the Deity of your choice.

I hope you can feel all of the love and light that is coming from the 1300+ messages coming here!

Just remember to Breathe darlin'.

Who has this kind of time? and why is someone so so angry? I think you rock, although I am a left-leaning Jewish American, so that probably disqualifies me on several levels. ;-)

Please know that the millions of readers who love your words and your work are rooting for you, and I feel so badly that this one extremely rotten apple has threatened to spoil your time here in the blogosphere.

Sending good karma your way...

Don't believe for a second that she speaks for anyone but herself. I am an American Christian and have nothing but admiration for the way you conduct yourself with your family, the knitting community, your blog or your books. Your are an awesomely spiritual woman with an amazing gift to offer to the rest of the world.

Thank you for (once again) demonstrating the grace and strength that so many of us admire you for.

Many of us from the Blog are facing our own challenges, and I know (having read hundreds - a small fraction - of the comments already posted) that you have helped us through these challenges with your humour, courage, integrity and wisdom. I hope we can give a little of that back to you now to help you get through this challenge.

Just like you, I too believe tolerance and respect can only have integrity if they are universally applied - not only to those we determine are deserving. Anger and hate just feed more anger and hate. Love and respect - well, the 1,200+ comments (at the time of this posting) are clear evidence of what happens; you get back what you put out to others - and you clearly put out a great deal of positive energy.

Keep on knitting - and, if it doesn't compromise your safety or that of your family, keep on blogging!

-From a very proud (Torontonian) Canadian lurker.

Big Hug, Harlot.

The anger seems to be escalating and I am fearful for you and your family. I suggest you contact law enforcement, both in Canada and the U.S. The term "Ugly American" comes to mind. As an Arkansan, I am ashamed of her behavior.

Thought I'd add my male knitter voice to the chorus of support. I read your blog daily but have never commented before.

I've dealt with rightwing nutjobs like this for years and I think you have made a wise choice in deciding to ignore her. I also echo those who urge you to keep you and your family safe and prosecute this abuse, if possible.

Unfortunately we have allowed this rabid culture of rightwing hate to become socially acceptable in America -- avowed racists and homophobes are given daily spotlights on news programs and even have their own (unfortunately, somewhat popular, with a certain kind of hateful American) shows.

They dominate talk radio and their ideas are treated as simply being "opposition" even when they are violent and threatening and dangerous. This has caused people like your commenter to become emboldened to lash out in public with her hatred and warped mentality without thought of responsibility or repercussion. She's wrong.

We've got your back, YH, and keep up doing what you do so well, which is looking at life through the lens of knitting. Peace and light from a non-Christian American in Florida!

This American girl is so, so sorry you're having to deal with all this. Wishing you all the best, Stephanie.

Dearest Stephanie

I must comment again this morning.

CONTACT THE AUTHORITIES, ALL OF THEM.

As so many of us have said, this person is not in touch with any reality I want to know about. There is NO saying what she may do, especially with over 1300 posts of love, caring, concern. Even this may push her to a new level of awful.

SHE IS A STALKER. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY NEED PROFESSIONAL PROTECTION.

We can send you cyber-hugs til Hell freezes to the bottom, but we can't help you in the physical world.

REPORT HER. DOCUMENT. FOLLOW UP WITH THE AUTHORITIES.

I am so very sorry to be yelling like this, but I *am* yelling like this inside my head. I am terrified for you. Don't take this lightly. Don't be so much on the high road, fine place though it be, that you don't look behind the bushes.

We love you to pieces.

dee near Berkeley

a transplanted New Yorker, who is remembering another New York saying, "There's a nut in every car." That refers to the subways. And there is at least one in every car.

Stephanie, Stephanie, Stephanie, of all the times for you to be dealing with this!

I am a Brit, living in the US, who has lived in many countries, and known many 'religions'. It never ceases to amaze me that we are all much more alike each other than different, no matter where we are from and what we believe. A decent human being is a decent human being. Full stop. So for this poor tormented soul to categorize you in this way, for so long and so viciously, shows a distinct and profound lack of humanity.

Your words about self esteem and your inner dialogue resonated deeply, but make them shut the f*** up and listen to the other ones, so you hear only the good, light and incredibly altruistic (OK, funny too), Stephanie that we appreciate so very much. Even if she is Canadian.......

Stephanie, I concur with everyone on here supporting you. The internet is a public space, and everyone is entitled to her/his opinion. But, if someone were being harassed in the way you are on the street then the authorities would definitely be involved.

I would also like to remind everyone that Canadians are Americans too, as are Mexicans, Costa Ricans, Brazilians, and everyone else who lives in the Americas.

I admire your grace, fortitude and compassion under these circumstances. I've decided that the best response to this ugly situation is to donate to MSF. You can't argue with over HALF-A-MILLION dollars in knitterly love!

As a woman who has been there, I think you're doing the right thing by opening this up, and I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I was the victim of a stalker about ten years ago (so email was involved, but blogs weren't really around yet)--another woman, no less. I did the same thing you did. I tried to put out the fire myself, without involving anyone else, by responding rationally and asking the person to stop. That only made things worse. It's too long a story to tell here, but it ended with a criminal trespass warrant and the authorities apprehending her in front of my home--after she had been apparently sitting outside for hours, in the rain, cutting herself. It was terrible situation, and very frightening, but all I could think of was how sorry I felt for her and whatever it was she was going through.

So I'm very sorry that you have to deal with this (and I think you're handling it so, so well), and I'm also sorry for this person who is haunting you. Things can't be good in her own life if she is this dogged in treating you badly. I hope she'll see the light soon, and stop harassing you. Sending you my best wishes, Stephanie.

This is one american who thinks your great!

Stephanie, I am so sorry to hear that you have been going through this. The whole thing is so terrible that it is almost hard to conceive of someone behaving this way. I am always amazed when someone has the time in their life to create this kind of nastiness. Like, really? There aren't more productive ways to spend their time? The mind - it reels.
Kudos to you - good luck with all this and keep on doing your thing, lady!

Love....
Light....
Respect....

She simply proves that not all the crazies are locked up.....
You have my absolute, complete, endless support and devotion.

Coming out of lurkdom to comment-I'm not very eloquent, so I will refer you to the lyrics of "The Mary Ellen Carter" -oops, another Canadian reference, but you will get my meaning! Rise Again!

Dear Steph,
Thank you for your blog. It's a gift to be able to laugh and connect with another knitting mom. I am so very glad that you are who you are.

As someone who has been on the receiving end of stalking before, I am also glad to know that you are getting the authorities involved.

And, I hereby promise not to feed the troll.

Oh, Stephanie. I've been to two of your readings, and the only downside of that is that I heard your voice as I read your post, and it just broke my heart. You can't fix crazy, but you are doing an excellent job of being a good person and dealing with it as best you can. You are a role model for so many, and not just with the knitting. Thanks for being awesome.

All this over liking to knit socks.... that girl needs to get a life.

I am so sorry that you have had to deal with this. I am an American and love reading your blog. I have always taken everything that you have written as very loving, family and friend oriented and humorous. It's so sad to know that there are people out there with nothing better to do with their time. Please take care and remember that you can't have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

After over 900 comments there isnt much I can say that hasnt already been said. However I want to let you know that myself, my mom and my husband have never been insulted by anything we have read on your blog. You are a funny, intelligent, and talented mother of 3 wonderful young ladies, writer, knitter and wife to Joe (esp since you left your warm house in the middle of the night to rescue him!!).
Thank You for your blog and books, they have provided much needed relief to many people in good and bad times as well as great information on knitting and life in general.

My husband has a remark he makes - you can't fix crazy............... there are lots of us "good" Americans who find you kind, witty, and most importantly an inspiring knitter. No worries about how you are coming off to folks - we enjoy you very much. She is sick and sad.And I hope she gets some help.

I don't take the time to read the comments on popular blogs because they can be longer than the blog post itself. I am SO sorry to hear about what you consider "normal" mean comments & email. Before reading the rest of your post I thought that sounded vicious and cruel.

I don't know or care who this woman is, or even what her mental problems might be, this has gone beyond the point of scary. And that there is more that you didn't feel able to share makes me think the situation is even worse than you have described here.

I am an American, and I have never taken any of your posts or comments as being anti-American. They have reflected a natural and normal, love and pride in your own country and fellow countrymen. You have expressed disagreement & disapproval of people in your government whom you disagree with without personally attacking them, the same way Americans do when they disapprove of the people & or political party in power. I have heard so many Americans make very nasty comments about both President Bush and President Obama, not just for their political stances and difficult choices made for the country but insulting & cruel about them personally. You have never posted anything like that, even if you imply or flat out state that you disagree with American policies or actions. That is your right the same as it is the right of everyone to disagree with political leaders not only in their own country but other countries as well.

I am proud to be an American, I don't want to live in another country, but even without being a regular follower of political news stories it is easy to see how our country can come across as being a bully or wanting to police the actions of the rest of the world.

Please, please know that SANE Americans would never consider that your comments either about Canada, England or the US imply in any way shape or form that you hate the US or its citizens.

If you have to do something to limit or prevent comments, emails, etc about the blog your readers and fans will understand. Please continue to keep the authorities and your web people involved and informed of the ongoing situation. This sounds like it is escalating the same way that "in the flesh" stalking escalates. Please stay safe, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers that this situation can somehow be resolved.

I am an American and love your blog and have all of your books.

I want you to know that ignorant combative Americans like her are in the minority... the scared, panicked minority. They have been since Obama took power, because they feel their way of life is threatened.

Good luck, and please take care.

This inspired me to reread your Canada Day post. So I got to enjoy it twice thanks to the wannabe phantom poster! Please do not waste any more energy than you have to addressing the antics of this rather scary sounding person. She represents only her very small self.

I don't comment very often, but now seems like a good time to send some love and wish you peace and comfort. You have my very best wishes that things settle down for you soon. I appreciate your grace and wit. Light. Love. Respect. You haz them.

Just another American chiming in to say we love your blog and your books, no matter what our own political or religious feelings may be.

Thanks for going through this and sharing your pain.

How dare this person think she represents all Americans! She represents only her crazy self and whatever crazy friends she can persuade to hate you as well. I'm a proud American who's glad to think for herself. I don't think she can stop me from buying your books if I want to. Kudos to you for your work and your personal beliefs.

I am so sorry you are going through this. It's hard to even fathom why someone would behave this way. Always remember you have a HUGE group of us who are behind you.

I'm am American knitter living in Canada and I'm ashamed of this woman. Just when I thought I could stop apologizing for the negative perception many have of our American behavior, along comes this person who claims to speak for all Americans--and makes us look mean-spirited and narrow-minded in the process. Please, Canadians, don't take her ranting seriously. She is deranged.

That is so terrible! I'm sorry you've had to experience something so disturbing. Everyone has a right to love their country but we all need to be respectful. Hope you and you're family are safe and happy!

Love your writing! I'm an American, and a crocheter, I can't knit! I love following your blog, it brightens my day. Keep up the great work. Disgusting that some people have to be so hateful.

I'm an Oklahoman, and a Christian, and a carnivore, and I love reading your blog. Just remember what Evie told Beni in The Mummy - "You know, nasty little fellows such as yourself always get their comeuppance."

Soooooo, how 'bout that rain? I hear you about hating it. I lived for 40+ years with 300+ days of sunshine a year (Colorado and New Mexico) and so I'm grateful for it. But I can understand your feelings if only in mirror-image.

Aaaaaand, how's that sock summit coming? Must be exhausting. I know how much people are looking forward to it. Good luck with final preparations.

Um. Totally off topic, but have you ever noticed how people who are famous attract other people who seem to be unable to get the attention they crave based on their own merits? Not that that has anything to do with anything.

I know that I'm just one of many that are commenting today (1355 so far) but I'm pretty sure I know who you're talking about and ... I just... I don't know. I don't feel bad for her but I feel bad for everyone who has to work with her and deal with her on a daily basis. If it's who I'm thinking of, and she plans on working with people, helping them get better..?? What happens if someone walks in and makes a comment about America that she feels is anti-American? Is she going to let this person die?

ugh. She is why other parts of the world hate Americans. The world does not evolve around our country. When I was traveling in Europe in 2004 (so the whole Bush/Iraq thing was HUGE worldwide) locals would ask if we were Americans and would tell us everything that they thought was wrong with George Bush and our country. After a day or two... we started saying we were Canadian for our own safety. Since we live so close to Manitoba it wasn't much of a stretch.

I can't figure out why she wants an apology for your "anti-American" Canada Day post. The first two quotes were made by our 2nd and 3rd presidents about wanting to have Canada for themselves. The only one I can think of is the third one about distinguishing between a Canadian and an American. I'm sorry but that fact actually helped me stay safe in Europe. There have been several times when I got sick of some American policy and declared I was moving to Canada.

I'm angry at the fact that she claims she is defending ALL Americans. She is not defending me. I'm ashamed that I am from the same country as someone like her. I know I am adding fuel to her fire (if she even reads post number 1356 or whatever it ends up being when I post this).

She has threatened you to the point of you being afraid for your family. She claims she knows where you live. Can you be arrested for making terrorist threats via the internet? I hope so. If you can't say something in person without going to jail, you shouldn't be able to do it online. A threat is a threat.

I love your books, I love your blog. It would be a sad day for knitters all over the world if you had to shut down your blog because of a psycho stalker.

I am sorry that you are going through this. I am an African American who lives in New York City who loves you and reads your blog every day, I may not write, respond on your blog but I read and share your comments and patterns, pictures of your projects with friends . You motivate me to keep knitting. I laugh with you cry with you when your washer was broken I was with you. Don't let this person discourage you . you are a wonderful person. Yes i buy your books.
I love you

I'm in Los Angeles and I always look forward to your Canada Day posts. Please don't change anything you do because of this. Except for the deleting and banning, of course :) Keep that up. We readers love to read you, but aren't so fond of trolls.

"And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love."

I believe we have all three, you and I. I am glad that you are keeping on with the keeping on.

I just wanted to drop a comment to let you know how much I admire how you are handling this extremely uncomfortable and difficult situation. I was relieved to read that you went to the authorities. This woman is ill - her behavior neither reflects Americans nor Christians, but rather those with certain mental disabilities. Warm thoughts coming your way...

Thank you for putting up with the crazy to bring joy to so many knitters across North America and the world. Thank you also for having the heart to see that the joy you bring others far exceeds the crazy you, unfortunately, have to experience first-hand.

Oh honey. I have never posted before, but been reading for years. Hang on, hang in. And with the sock summit to boot.

As always, I am very impressed by how you are handling this difficult situation. Claiming a Canadian is anti-American because of Canadian patriotism strikes me as kind of like accusing a woman of sexism for saying, "I like being a woman." And I say that as not only an American, but a proud US Navy Officer's wife.

Hang in there, Harlot! I'm just another young American chiming in to say that you -- as a woman, as a mother, as a partner to Joe, as an activist, and all the other myriad things you present on your blog and in your career -- have been a real touchstone and inspiration to me. Knit on!

I'm amazed at how you handled yourself with such grace under fire. When it comes down to it, you never do let 'em see you sweat.

I know that at the end of the long list of comments, this my not get read, but none the less, I have to say this.

On behalf of myself (and I'm sure everyone else), I'm sorry for what she wrote. Its people like that who give Americans (who live in America, not American...if you're going to send a mean email, speed is no excuse for poor spelling :) ) as well as Christians a bad name.

Keep doing what you're doing. Because of this blog you've converted a crocheter into a knitter and a spinner who is currently knitting her second sock. And it looks like they both will fit.

I'm not going to add anything new to what's already been said, but I feel like I need to add my support. I'm embarrassed and sick that anyone can act like this. Keep yourself and your family safe. You have a lot of support.

Unless I am in the top 100, I don't leave a comment, but today I am making an exception. You are wonderful. Thank you for all your blog posts and tweets - I thoroughly enjoy them. I am going to SS09 and am totally thrilled.

She is carrying so much hurtful baggage. We can all ignore her and not pick it up ourselves.

Big hugs from foggy San Francisco.

As an American who has traveled extensively in Canada and has many friends who claim their citizenship there I thoroughly enjoy your Canada day posts. I have often listened to them talk about the real problem of the Americanization of Canada and holding onto the unique Canada identity and how easy it is for U.S. influences to pervade across the border. This person, well, she's gone off her meds, perhaps for a long time now, you've made the right call. Anyone who reads her twitters is only going to be fascinated enough to go to your blog and read it and then scratch their head and say what!!! Ignore her and block her.

I'm Canadian and American, a crocheter and a lousy knitter, and I love reading your blog. There are loons everywhere, and I pledge to ignore any nutty comments on your blog no matter how strongly I have to restrain myself.

What I said before, and what the literally thousands of lovely people who have commented before me. Multiply that by a quadrillion.

Steph, take whatever steps you need to take to keep your self safe and whole. And while you do, please know that you are so well loved, and no lunatic will ever take that away from you.

I am American and I love you Steph. Keep up the awesome work you've been doing; it's all for the good in this world, and we all need that goodness.

Stephanie, I am constantly amazed by your ability to deal with these situations calmly and reasonably. You are much better at that than I am. I would have flown off the handle a long time ago if I were in your place. You are my hero.

I'm so sorry this had to come to this, and I've never taken offense to any of your posts. I love reading your blog, and I will continue to do so! You and your family are in my thoughts in prayers! And you truly can't fix crazy as the above poster said!

Thank you for sharing this terrible experience with us - so we have the opportunity to encourage you. Thank you for your blog! ...back to lurking for me...

Another big fan of yours here. Although I love your books and blog, I have never posted on your blog before but I felt I had to say something.

This hateful person is definitely a few sandwiches short of a picnic. I imagine she spends her days terrorising people and I would be very surprised if you were her only target.

I am really sorry you are going through this, you don't deserve it but I don't think she is going to come to her senses anytime soon and you should look to the law for a solution.

Sending tons of happy thoughts and affection from the UK, Charlie

I can't believe people are so stupid. I have been a reader of your blog for years, read your books enjoyed your knitting and met you in person in Colorado. You are a great, kind and caring person. Hope to see you again in Colorado

Just another voice from the U.S. to say you are adored by American knitters (save one clearly crazy one that, in my opinion, should be kicked out of the country--free speech does mean harassment lady!).

Much love from Sunny California (the left side of the nation :))

I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. And I am so tired of apologizing for my fellow countrymen, but I'll do it again. I'm sorry for the crazies here.

Actually, I'm an American ex-pat living in Europe, and I'm not sure I ever want to move home. If only my family in California weren't so far away...

Like many, I've been reading for quite some time, though I've not commented before.

Stephanie, you've exemplified what it means to be an ambassador for knitting and humanity. Do not let the [vile] words of another change the essence of who you are. We, your readers [and I'm sure your family too] love you just the way you are.

Peace & Love & knotless-knitting forever!

I'm an American, living in America, currently working towards my permanent residence in Canada (husband is Canadian). I totally enjoy your Canada Day posts. I don't find them Un-American at all! I find it odd, how Americans are allowed to be patriotic, but when it comes to someone else being proud of their heritage or country, it's wrong?

I'm sorry you have to deal with this psycho Steph.

There are people who thrive on chaos and hostility, because they crave the negative attention. I have one of those in my family and I finally achieved some sort of peace when I stopped trying to defend myself and ceased any kind of dialogue. Silence drives these people crazy, they hate being ignored, but they do eventually go away.
I think you have poked fun at lots of people and nationalities, including yourself and your own nationality on many, many occasions. You do it with wit and humour, and you make all of us laugh, especially at ourselves. It reminds us not to take ourselves too seriously and it's very healthy. Keep on bringing the laughs...

Dear Harlot-
Please be careful. This sounds frighteningly similar to a stalker situation a co-worker of mine had to deal with, and the authorities took it very seriously. Please consider yourself hugged, and know that there are Americans and Christians who are not insecure and do not take offense when none is meant. Personally, I want to thank you for many laughs and the encouragement to learn something new and wonderful - knitting! You and your blog are a treat!

This is a troubled person who doesn't seem to recognize how fragile her mental health is at this time. I hope she gets some help and stops her tirades. I'm sorry. It's hard to understand why someone who hates a blog so much would spend so much time with it.

Another American here to say that being proud of Canada when you are a Canadian citizen isn't anti-American, you have the right to the same free speech we value so highly in this country, and those of us who buy your books certainly also freely pay our money whether we are American, Canadian or from any other country. You are successful in America because the Americans who buy your books like your writing.

Love, light, peace!
Thank you,
xoa

I'm so very sorry you are being subjected to this childishness. Ya got to know you're my hero I think your great and I love the way you wright. Sending you happy thoughts from Coos Bay Oregon

I've been reading an enjoying your blog for a long time now but I'm not sure that I've ever posted. I'm more of a lurker, but I feel i need to respond to this with my support. I adore your posts, your books and your whimsy in general. I often read parts of your blog or books aloud to my husband who understands zero about knitting and yarn love but laughs his ass off at your funniness. Please don't let one disturbed individual make you think any less of yourself or what you do. The issue is her's not yours.

Light and love,
Katy (who is American and not at all proud of her countrywoman)

Stand strong. I've been stalked. This is what it feel like. I don't know about Canadian law... Can you get the stalking laws to work in your favor?

I think everyone has already said it but I'll add some love and support from Kentucky.

I have lurked but never posted before.... Maybe this is some sort of cosmic test. I think you have passed with flying colors!
stay safe and soak up the love coming your way

I hope she soon finds the help she obviously needs. I am saddened that someone that claims to be Christian, is an American and a woman would be so hateful to anyone. I enjoy your blog, your books and wish I had even half your knitting experience. I believe you are taking the correct path in dealing with this and I hope everyone that reads your blog follows your lead.

I don't comment often, but had to add my voice to those who are behind you 1000%. Hugs from Ohio.

Ughh I'm so sorry you have to endure this. You are handling this with dignity and respect. I hope it ends soon.

Take care.

Good luck with this.

I've dealt with this kind of person as an IT professional in many different forms for many years and you're taking the right approach. Report it to the authorities, your IP and her Internet provider and then ignore it. Block her when she pops up in her many iterations, don't read them if you can help it, and get on with your life. The more attention you give this type of person, the worse they are.

I could tell you stories... just know that ignoring them (on all levels) is the best defense.

I also do not usually comment, but I think that anyone looking at your blog stats (and perusing the comments to this post alone) have got to see that you mean a lot to a lot of us out here! And I agree with what someone said above: I thought we were all knitters here? Who said anything about borders? Sheesh!

So sorry you had to deal with this situation but so proud of how you have conducted yourself in the face of it. You remind me why I like to hang out with knitters in the first place - practical, compassionate, and humorous they are. Sending you (and your "challenge") light. Thanks for sharing yourself with the world.

I joined Ravelry to find one of your patterns. I knit socks with encouragement from your blog. My mom and I giggled together over your books. And I'm just about to block my very first lace project with tips from your blog archive.

Thanks for your humour, encouragement and advice!!!

Just as an act of support and solidarity I'm leaving a comment. I'd like to show this unfortunate person who's threatening you what can happen when you spend years creating a following by being nice, funny, and smart. Your readers will come out of the woodwork to send you back the energy you've put out to us. I am so excited for SS09. I'm a new knitter and I've never been to a knitting event before.

Long time reader, newbie poster here. I continue to find it amazing that some people think that because they profess to be Christians, they have the right to use that as a weapon to hurt others. It sounds to me like this person needs to get back on her meds and chill out. There's way too much hatred in the world and I refuse to participate in organized religion anymore because it encourages the nutballs of the world to justify this kind of behavior. YOU GO, GIRL! This Texan totally supports you!

((((hugs))))

Emily in Texas
Lokah samastah sukhino bhavantu.

Oh, Steph, how very awful!! This is one sick cookie. And, of course you know accusing you of being anti-American is the sickest thing of all! I just hope she gets help & gets off your sweet Canadian back!! We love you....

As a first time commentor, a librarian who loves your books, and sometimes knitting blogger, I am so sad that you and your family have to go through this.

Stephanie, you are a knitting celebrity, and I guess this is the price that you must pay for your fame. We have never had someone do so much for the knitting craft community as you have and please never forget that. We need you!

Oh my goodness, this story is amazing. This unfortunte person is clearly, um, challenged. Actually, I wanted to say crazy. Thank you for bearing all this negative goof-ball stuff and carrying on with your blog...you are well-loved!

I rarely comment but had to add my voice to those who are behind you 1000%. We love you. Hugs from Ohio.

First time commenting, but I wanted you to know that I support you and send you and your family lots of love. I am sick of people trying to put lipstick on a pig by saying their behavior is "American" and "Christian" when it is neither.

You are wonderful and this too shall pass. Be strong.

You have my respect and support. It is sad that there are some really irrational people out there.

Would it be possible for me to lead us in song at SS09 - "For She's a Jolly Good Fellow"? Then we could repeat for all the SS09 teams!

I know you know that most Americans do not think like that person. I am also sorry you have been going through this. She sounds very jealous of you.
You have been extremely sane with this insanity. Is there someway to have a restraining order put on her when you are in the US?
Can you have her email address blocked as spam on your email server?
Any dialogue at all with her seems to only incite her more. As hard as it might be I think absolute dead silence on your part might be best. Maybe stop reading her garbage as it is really not about you but her own mind making something for her to latch on to. Reading her verbal diarrhea is really tearing you apart. While negative energy can be expanded by continuing to concentrate on it, the converse is also true.
You are loved by us sane and maybe not so sane readers, also valued and praised and laughed with and enjoyed and honored.
Namaste,

I'm proud of you! Such a lunatic needs a visit from the authorities to put some reality into her life. I hope you have them working on that. Yes, we would defend you, vigorously. You've brought me many hours of joy with your blog and books and I learned to knit socks because of you. We who love you far outnumber one nitwit. I'm glad you're still here.

*hugs*

from just another one of the thousands of knitters standing behind you today...

Stay safe.

As the other comments show, she does not speak or represent ALL AMERICANS. In fact, I'm pretty sure she is only speaking for herself. Don't let the lone voice get you down. There is plenty of love and light shining from all corners of the world for you! Thank you for all that you do and put up with to bring us daily doses of your spirit and grit!

I applaud your actions, Steph.

With love from a Wiccan (and, incidentally, not an atheist)

Aw Steph,
Sending love and light from England.

Like so many others, I want to offer you my support and tell you that there is no reason to let your self-esteem be affected by this person's comments or thoughts. Many of us know you to be a wonderful writer, a wonderful parent, and overall a wonderful human being full of compassion, dignity, respect, and a great sense of humor.

Light.
Love.
Respect... right back at you!
Hugs too.

Stephanie, this just totally bites. I'm really sorry this has been going on - hope things get better soon.

Stephanie:
As an U.S. American, I just want to say that this woman does not speak for me. I think you are a good, caring, wonderful person and the reason why I stop by your blog is to read your posts on everything from knitting to every day life. I enjoy your writing and often laugh out loud. You are being very strong in this situation and I want to say I am sorry that you have to go through this. Please just continue being you and try not to let this woman get you down.

So sad that someone would do this to someone else. I believe that you are doing the right thing by shining the light on this situation. Also if my daughter is as compassionate and hard working as your daughters seem to be, I will consider it a job well done. May peace be with you and your family.

Light. Love. Respect. All of this. Plus a side of admiration.

I hope you manage to keep blocking this woman. She's obviously not quite sane so there's no point in trying to engage in logical correspondence with her. Big hug from the UK!

Best wishes from New Jersey. I find it interesting that she keeps referring to what a good Christian she is when she is acting so very un-Christ like. Then again, as a non-Christian, I may have misunderstood the New Testament.

I don't often post either, but wanted to tell you that you are still loved a lot and that you are a very courageous and courteous person. Thank you for you and for your family and for your blog.

Steph, as a Christian,Republican, proud American woman, let me say I'm sorry. I've often told the Huband, who is a police officer, that we should move to Newfoundland where the worst he would see is a moose/car collision and I could wear handknits year round!

Americans (or any other country for that matter) should get to know their neighbors. Maybe we should have a cookout! I'll put the Mexicans down for margaritas, and you can bring the poutine!

Light,Love,Repect...and Laughter.

I'm very sorry to hear it. But a troll is nothing an htaccess file can't fix...

Just as in knitting where there are only two stitches but many variations on them, there are only two emotions, love and fear, and many variations on them.

This woman is giving you fear, and may I say, in a very obsessed way. I have to admit I do feel sorry for her as her fear has her twisted and knotted inside. How awful it must be to take everything so very, very personally.

Please let me express my deepest embarrassment that one of my fellow Americans would misrepresent the rest of us in such an ugly way. While I would not care to read her comments, I am mystified by her comment that the States have saved Canada over and over again.

Bless you. What the world truly does need is love.. and light and respect. Thanks for reminding us and leading the pack.

In the time it took me to read this post, 57 more people commented. On a Sunday morning. As a server administrator (from the American south) that is ASTOUNDING.

Stephanie, you are truly supported, and hopefully emboldened, by the community you have created, one that we all crave and thrive on.

Just a note- you are a kind, gentle, intelligent and compassionate person. I believe the light fills the darkness, we just have to get through the night. Hold your head up, dance off the ickiness -- we love you.

Just joining the virtual hug of support from Americans who think you're the bee's knees.

Take care, lady.

Wow. Is this woman even a knitter?

It really blows me away that people can boast of being "Christian" in the same breath that they spew out so much hatred. And for what?? If she can be so proud of being an American, why can't you be proud to be Canadian? Oh well. Unfortunately, there are many so-called "Christians" out there that think one of the most important parts of their belief system is hating the people that don't think, act, and do as they do, and they'll never see the truth.

I've seldom come across anyone who is as accepting and kind as yourself. I've never met you in person but I consider you my friend. There aren't many people out there that can say "here's what I believe, and if you don't believe in that too, then that's okay!" and truly feel that way.

Sending my love and support from Illinois, just one more voice in the chorus. :)

Please do not let this person stop you from blogging your truth, which is important to those of us who benefit from it every day. What you put out into the world comes back to you threefold, I firmly believe that. I hope that those of us who appreciate your continuing honesty, good humor and light will send enough love your way to erase the evil memories of this terrible exchange. Please, keep up the good work.

And you thought a fleece-possessed squirrel was scarey? I'm relieved to know you've contacted the authorities I also admire the calm and thoughtful manner in which you've handled this severely misguided woman's attack. Sending thoughts of love and protection your way.

How very sad. I'm so sorry you are the subject of such abuse.

I'm a very newbie poster but read your blog religiously. Please know that this person doesn't represent America and her values in any way.

You are a wonderful writer, knitter and human being.

I love your blog, and your books. I have never found anything offensive, although frequently thought-provoking, in what you say. Sending you light and love.

Well done, you. Hard to believe this is all about a KNITTING blog, of all seemingly innocuous things. Carry on!

I think the outpouring of support that this single blog post has received is indicative that she is definitely in the minority.
You just keep on keepin on, and this will all blow over. You have a lot of support out here :)

She does not represent me as a christian or US citizen. (((hugs)))
Looking forward to seeing you at SS09, and thank you for the opportunity to volunteer as I was not able to snag a class.

This broke my heart - I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you deal with this.

You are a fantastic writer, mother of three awesome girls and wife to a good man. I applaud you.

Just to sat yhat I´m sure behind you.
And that I think the commenting lady is insane. She needs to seek some professionell help.
And by the way, what about the christian saying of turning the other cheek...
Love to your and yours.

*hug*

I know that you know this already but...I'm American, I'm Christian and she absolutely doesn't represent my thinking.

I don't think you're anti-American. You do 80% of your business here because WE LOVE YOU and we love your books. And I don't think being pro-Canadian is being anti-anything.

You're great! you rock. you're doing the right thing. And mostly I was glad to see that you had contacted the authorities. I don't think this person is stable.

Wait for it....... She'll cross the line (she is ratcheting up) and then get her hooked up for terrorist threats! A little vacation behind bars might do her some good!

Bravo! Moving on with you.

Thank you so much for being a strong, upright woman and not reacting the way I probably would, with mean words and anger. Thanks (because I've read this blog for years now and I know you) for still knowing that most Americans, Christians, and women are good people who don't act in this horrible, ignorant, and downright immature way. Thanks most of all, for keeping up the blog and NOT giving up. You are inspiration to all of us knitters, bloggers or no.

Stephanie, I have been reading your blog for 2/3 years, but never posted anything before. I just want to say how much I admire you. If I was in your position, I would have just blown up and "yelled" at her over email. You, however, found it in yourself to be the bigger person. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. I am an American and appalled at the way this woman is behaving. You should go knit something really hard. Just pretend that whenever you put a needle through a stitch, you're poking her. It works for me. :)

Stephie, you are handling this crappy situation perfectly. Fingers crossed that the torrential downpours we have been getting hold off for the bike rally. I do see the sun peeking through :)

wow. you are a class act. knit on!!!

From a left atheist American to a left atheist Canadian...

MWAH!! Kisses and hugs!

I think you've done the right thing. Good for you.

I hope you have a better day with hugs, good beer, and extra fancy yarn.

As a fellow blogger, I do truly know how hurtful it can be to receive mean comments under the pretense of anonymity. I am amazed that some people seem to have no trouble showing their worst selves when they think they can't get caught--it's the epitome of what it looks like to live without integrity. Please know that I am an American, and I LOVE my Canadian friends, and love your work, your writing, your inspiration... and never once have you said anything that made me feel that you didn't have the same equal respect for me that I do for you. The woman writing to you is clearly insane--on every level--and needs medical help. Possibly medication and hospitalization. Rational healthy people do not behave that way. I am shocked that she would have nothing better to do than harass a good person who shares her passion for knitting with the rest of us. It takes guts and grit (yes GRIT!) to put yourself out there on a blog. I know that it's a vulnerable place to be, and as a blogger you go forward hoping that most people will appreciate your candor and be able to relate to what you have to say. I am deeply sorry. I know that our sympathies won't take away the sting of a shameless low-brow lunatic, but I want you to know that you have many supporters who stand with you. Again... I'm so sorry. I have aspired to have a book published and to be more widely known in the blogosphere, but it's just this sort of madness that makes me wonder if I'd ever have the stomach for it. Bless your sweet heart. Hang in there.

Big cyberhugs from an American who loves you:

(((((((((((((((((((Steph)))))))))))))))))))))

We love you and your work.

Sending hugs & well wishes from Orlando, Florida.

I am half American/Half English - conservative - very patriotic for both counties - Christian - U.S. military wife, but most importantly a knitter. That is why I read your blog. I learn from you and I enjoy your whit! Even my husband enjoys the blog especially when you have Sci-Fi references. Canada Day most of the time I enjoy and learn from. The last one irked me a bit (have to re-read to remind myself since it was a while ago) but I am a grown woman and I got over it. Completely. Still read and enjoy your blog. You were absolutely wonderful to me and my daughter, Haileigh, when you came to Seattle. I know it is part of your job but I didn't get the feel that you were just going through the motions.

Some people have factors in their life that create a negative environment and sometimes they transfer their anger on someone else who really isn't deserving. I am sorry this happened to you. The Americans I know don't talk like this nor do they feel that way about Canadians.

p.s. knitters are supposed to be nice and the few Canadians that I have met in my lifetime have all been wonderful. You love a good cuppa and beer. Can't get better than that!

I don't comment often, so I guess I'm delurking here to let you know that I enjoy your work and the stories you tell, regardless of subject. I hope that shedding light will help. That the kind and supportive comments from your readers will help you ignore the hurtful ones. That you'll find a way to keep your inner critic from listening to that onslaught of hate. I can't comprehend from where it comes, but I'm certain it isn't you.
I'm going to be quiet now. I agree with and respect your preference to avoid a riot.
best,
H

I have read your blog for ages and never commented until now. I hope you will stay strong and protect yourself and your family from this obviously crazy person. You are a wonderfully warm,funny,lovely person/mom/wife. Don't allow these comments to wipe that from your mind. You deserve better and so does everyone in your family. I hope this person gets the help that she so obviously needs. Peace be with you and your family in this awful time.

Never commented before, but wanted to say I'm so sorry for the completely unwarranted attacks. Stay safe and sane and don't let her grind you down.

I wanted to add that you having noted that "slang for a woman's body parts being used as a hurt...that's a rant for another day" makes this young feminist respect you even more than I did already.

To the extent that someone who only "knows" you over the internet can, I think you're a really delightful person.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. I think you have taken the approach you needed to take, and hopefully this will help the rest of us ignore the posts that really should just be ignored. Have a cold beer and hang in there.

Having been a "military brat", I am a very patriotic American. I have been reading your posts for a while now and I find absolutely nothing in them that should offend any American. Whoever this person is, he/she does not represent the ideals and thoughts of any sane American I know! This person has decided to gain attention through your very popular blog. Your blog was chosen simply because so very many people of many nationalities read and totally enjoy your blog.

Stephanie,

You know, I rarely comment on your blog, it's true. I figure you get so many comments, you don't need mine, heh. Anyway, today maybe you need us all, at least to know that we are here, in the background, reading, enjoying, and wishing you well.

Well, at least there's one upside...A bit over 12 hours later, you've got over 1500 comments. Next year it should be easy to convince the tech people that the SS10 website needs to be extraordinarily robust!

Greetings from CT in the USA. It's been a while since I've commented, but I couldn't let this one pass me by. It never ceases to amaze me what horriffic things people are willing to say and do in the name of god and country. I'll never understand this sort of hatred and ignorance. Please know that we're all here to support you and enjoy your work. Love and peace from your neighbors to the south!

I just wish I knew who it was that is being so mean...Then I'd know I never want to visit her blog. This conservative reader frim the US loves you, your blog, and your books.

From a Illinois girl, stay strong. Clearly someone has a screw loose, and it is not you.

Best wishes,
Mallory

You are liked and loved by many...hang in there:)

I can't say that I'm enough of an expert to judge whether she misrepresents Canadians--although I would suspect that she does. I can sure as heck tell you that she DOES misrepresent Americans. And isn't it lovely to see such a display of her Christian values?

Ah geography. Countries of North America -Belize
Canada, Costa Rica,Guatemala, El Salvador, Honduras, Mexico,Nicaragua,Panama, United States Thanks for putting knitting on the map!!!

Just wanted to say- I've bought your books and loved them. I've laughed out loud at your posts, and once I even stood in the back of Book People in Austin and got a glimpse of your recognizable hair (it was crowded).

I've been impressed by your writing, your knitting, and most of all your lovely and generous spirit. It comes through in everything you do, and makes visiting your blog such a pleasure and a joy for so many people. Given how you've lived your life so far, I shouldn't be surprised by how kindly and sensibly you're handling this mess, but I am. I am proud to "know" you, and I hope you have peace and comfort, and a palate cleansing from reading comments from the sane people who adore you.

Hi Stephanie,

I'm so sorry. What a mess. I'm an American, living in the UK. :) No less patriotic for having left the country and I just love you to pieces. Read the blog, follow the tweets, buy the books (or check them out at least). I'm also a weirdo who was married by someone who wasn't religiously affiliated. Bravo. You're writing not only inspires me, it reminds me that it's human to make mistakes and be oddly obsessed and feel like your not quite 'on' everyday. I appreciate that and I can't imagine why anyone would feel like you're standing apart from the rest of us. Blessed be...Kelley

I support you, Stephanie! Hugs!

Standing behind you with a 1000 watt light. Sending positive and pro-human vibes your way from Seattle.

If I don't like something -- I don't read it, watch it, eat it....etc. I love your blog and I'll sit here in America, read it daily, laugh and be inspired. Furthermore, who has time for such huge quantities of negative energy? Let the postive, peaceful light shine on!

I am yet another of the scores of lurkers who feels compelled to step out of the shadows and comment today. I am native-born US citizen (with the birth certificate to prove it!) who loves her country. I am an evangelical Christian, the daughter of a pastor/former missionary and graddaughter of another. I have NEVER encountered any post made on this blog that seemed to me in any way anti-american or anti-christian. I have deeply enjoyed every single Canada Day post, and been touched when my nation's chosen days to celebrate Independence and Thanksgiving have been mentioned.

As many before me have mentioned, I was stunned when I began reading this post, and afraid that the end of The Blog was about to be announced. At the time I began writing this, the 1011 comments up when I first started reading had gone past 1400, and I doubt that I can add anything new. So I will simply say this:

Stephanie, although you share neither my nationality nor my faith, I consider you a shining example of what a good human being can and should be. I admire your way with words, your sense of humor, and your ability to touch on the foibles of mankind without being cruel, insulting or petty. I have the highest respect for your commitment to family and your tolerance for others' differences. I also deeply appreciate your courage, for being brave enough to risk setting out so much of what is within you for the rest of us to inspect, poke and prod at from the comfort of our anonymous little caves far away. Thank you for being willing to share not only your triumphs, but also your doubts, fears, and errors. Your blog and books have made me laugh, made me cry, made me remember that I'm not alone in this habit of nearly always tucking needles and wool into my purse or briefcase. You and your family are in my prayers.

(((((((((((((((((*HUG*)))))))))))))))))

Good for you, Stephanie! I think you did exactly as you should, and I understand. And just so you know, I am an American, I have all your books, love them all, read them frequently, and am eagerly awaiting the next one! I think you're funny and clever, and your sock pattern got me through my first pair of socks when I was about to give up on them. And, thanks to you, I have the courage to write my first knitting chart. I just started that last night. Good luck, and knit some Noro Silk Garden (excellent smoother for a rumpled soul). :D

Unbelievable. NO, all too believable. It distresses me that people like this claim their position as "Americans" and "Christians". Her behavior is not representative of the TRUTH of either!

I decided to post for the first time just to add another # to the # of posts of support!

God bless you!

As an American Christian woman, I find your humor delightful, your parenting realistic, and your knitting content encouraging. You're a class act, and I look forward to purchasing anything you put in print. Keep being yourself - YOU'RE DELIGHTFUL!

We're behind you all the way Honey! Love and Light!

Your response to all this is so insightful and honest. I hope this woman gets the proper medical help she clearly needs. I pray for the safety of you and your family, and please keep writing and knitting!

Dearest Stephanie,

I'm so sorry that you've been going through this horrible shit, and dealing with the wonder and the debacle that has been Sock Summit at the same time. Your books all live on my shelf (two on my nightstand) here in New York, all with your autograph. You're my favorite author, and my heroine. I want to be like you when I grow up. Peace be with you.

What an utterly terrible situation for you! I'd offer advice but it'd only be to keep on doing what you're doing anyway, you sound like you're on the right track. Best of luck with it & a big knitterly hug.

Let's pray something happens in her church today! Not Christian behavior, by any standard. I'm so sorry.

Dear Stephanie: I haven't left you a comment in ages(blame ravelry for eating up my blogreading time) and I haven't the time to read all the comments, but want to weigh in as an American who has always enjoyed your Canada Day posts, and all the others as well. I hope all your readers will take the high road and resist poking the crazy when the time comes. You're a class act, as always!
love and light, Kathe

Such low behavior, I am neither Canadian or American, I think nationality and being proud of it is absolutely no excuse for personal attacks such as you've been suffering. Clearly this lady is suffering some mental instability (it sounds judgemental I know, but to be so obsessed, to take up so much time to be attacking one person like this means there is something missing somewhere). You have been much stronger than most people would be in this situation and I think you've been doing the right thing.

Know that there are many, many people out there that support and love you. I can only hope if this post feeds the fire, that it's one that will burn itself out immediately. Good luck!

*pfft* she is a bug on the windshield, wipe her off.

If I had the skills and talent, I'd design a blog button that reads "Americans for Stephanie" and proudly display it. So just know that particular blog button is in my heart.

Stephanie, you know I'm not your biggest fan (I'm the one who dared to admit on Ravelry that I didn't always find your essays very funny), but I do respect your writing otherwise. You've done pieces that touch my heart, you present knitting techniques and tips in a way that makes them suddenly clear, and when you write on the blog, you share the ins and outs of your life with humor and a healthy sense of perspective.

As an American, I am also profoundly embarrassed by this woman. I appreciate it when you talk about the differences between Canada and America, and I don't take them as an indication that you are knocking us or dislike us. Only that there are differences, and you are pointing them out.

To see this woman claim that she's a Christian is mind-boggling.

I have tweeted my support for you, as I've seen others do today as well. Keep the faith, there are far more people who love you than there are people like her.

A fellow Canuck supporter here to say that you've done an excellent job of communicating what has been going on behind the scenes ... your fellow knitters needed to be aware so that they can be sure to shun this individual rather than accidentally give her even a drop of the undeserved attention she craves. You've earned every bit of what you've got with your innate multi-talents and joy in sharing and that will always infuriate those who would rather jealously destroy than create.

Hang in there, keep all the documentation she obligingly hands you (preferably without sullying your mind and spirit by reading it) for the law, and know that there's a ton of (reasonably) sane folk out in cyberland and RL who appreciate you and your willingness to share the knitting love. :-)

Stay strong Stephanie!

As the husband of an xtreme knitter who is one of your biggest fans (and I think you're pretty awesome myself) I feel compelled to comment on this by saying that there's a whack job in every crowd, and I'm sorry that this sorry excuse for an American has chosen to inject her views into your life.

You might consider notifying her ISP, if you have sufficient information to indicate where she connects to the net; this kind of behavior will get an account shut down with almost any decent ISP.

Best wishes!

Phoenix

I want to join my voice to those who want to tell you how much I enjoy your blog and have paid full retail for all of your books. Keep your chin up and know that she is not representative of any American I have met. You are fabulously funny and I wish you all the best that life offers.

Another American Christian here - and her opinion doesn't represent mine. I don't always agree with your political opinions (wouldn't the world be a boring place if everyone were the same), but you're funny and you know a lot about knitting! I'm sorry you've had to put up with this kind of abuse.

Adding my support and encouraging you to contact the appropriate authorities...hugs from Alberta.

I think your grit is just perfect the way it is.

We are here for you.

Can I just add, in addition to my support, that I have NEVER laughed like a hyena?
xox from California

Consider me out there- collecting really bright flashlighs for the cause!

Sorry this is happening. Sorry that this person doesn't seem to respect the right to disagree with someone normally.

We don't always agree either- but I always figured it wouldn't matter should we hang out, we'd be happily knitting away and talking about how Koigu could be integral in creating world peace.

That's the great thing about knitters- and you've said this all along, it doesn't matter about our race, our backgrounds, our religion or our views on politics, we're all bonded by knitting and we all manage in MOST cases to get a long just fine. We're bonded by knittng and our love of the craft.

Sending you support and hugs from Alberta!!

Just know that you are a darling and adored by many. I believe what goes around comes around...she'll get what's coming.

Sunshine sanitizes,ya know.

Don't let the idiotsget you down. You are loved.

I just have to say, I love you and your blog. Your calender keeps me amused every day at work. I'm sending you atheist hugs from the very bottom of my cold, godless heart! ;-)