April 22, 2011

Time and not change

I love it when my children want to do the things they have always done.
Like dye eggs, and let the Easter Bunny hide them.

My heart leaps when they ask me when the egg hunt will be,
just like they are not all almost women.

I think that I love it, because I have a secret.

I am really quite torn, about whether or not my girls,

Should ever grow up at all.

Happy Easter.

Posted by Stephanie at April 22, 2011 3:07 PM
Comments

Those small children times were the best of times, don't get me wrong, I like the adults my children have become, but nothing beats those first holidays with little ones.

Posted by: Jane George at April 22, 2011 3:09 PM

Just lovely--is that a pink rose I see on one egg? So envious. We have a family member with severe egg allergy, so dyed eggs are out, unfortunately. And I echo the sentiments about kids growing up, especially as I wait for the phone call this aft from my son at U of T telling me that he's written the last exam of his undergrad career.

Posted by: Elizabeth at April 22, 2011 3:11 PM

Beautiful pictures, and my sentiments exactly, as my two girls grown into womanhood. Happy Easter and happy spring to all Yarn Harlettes.

Posted by: Claudia at April 22, 2011 3:13 PM

I know just what you mean. I remember buying dozens of eggs and having my four kids dye them all in about 12 seconds (or so it seemed). My oldest is away at college (getting an Easter care package) but my other three (11, 15 and 18 on Sunday!) still want to do all the Easter things. Including the letter from the Easter Bunny that arrives on the wall Easter morning (replacing the one that Santa Claus wrote).
Happy Easter and Happy Spring!

Posted by: Karen Lauterwasser at April 22, 2011 3:13 PM

Beautiful pictures, and my sentiments exactly, as my two girls grow into womanhood. Happy Easter and happy spring to all Yarn Harlettes.

Posted by: Claudia at April 22, 2011 3:13 PM

And happy Easter to you.

Posted by: Kim in VA at April 22, 2011 3:13 PM

I'm with you on this one. Gee if my eldest was 1 I'd be 23 again. Sure wish I'd known about the YH when I was a mere 23. Hoppy Eater all.

Posted by: Jennifer at April 22, 2011 3:22 PM

Lovely entry today! My favorite card of all time said this on the cover: Know what the week after Easter is called? and inside the card it said: "National Egg Salad Sandwich Week!!!!"

Happy Easter indeed.

Posted by: Dorothy at April 22, 2011 3:24 PM

Please excuse this form of English, but the eggs just don't get prettier than that. Happy Easter!

Posted by: Melissa at April 22, 2011 3:28 PM

Yup! Exactly.

Posted by: Liz in Missouri at April 22, 2011 3:29 PM

No they shouldn't!! ....and I cannot believe how many times my "baby girl" comes home to me and all she wants to do is snuggle and crawl under my skin and nuzzle...just like when she was a baby nursing.

Oh shit.....you made the tears comes and hubby wants to go out....

Posted by: Christine at April 22, 2011 3:30 PM

Amen!

Posted by: karen at April 22, 2011 3:33 PM

Isn't it great when the kids come home for the holidays and want to do all the traditional things? Happy Easter.

Posted by: barbara at April 22, 2011 3:39 PM

That takes me back :-) We used to decorate or eggs, then have down-=hill egg-rolling races when I was a child in the north of England. A very happy Easter to you and your family, Stephanie.

Posted by: Perpetua at April 22, 2011 3:40 PM

Best wishes to you and yours. Hope you have a marvelous weekend and egg hunt.

Posted by: Sarah JS at April 22, 2011 3:42 PM

How lovely. The eggs, and your daughter, and your post. Just lovely. Happy Easter. xoxo

Posted by: meghann at April 22, 2011 3:47 PM

What fun to have all your chicks back in the nest! (Temporarily, of course.) Have a wonderful weekend!

Posted by: Christine at April 22, 2011 3:49 PM

That warm fuzzy feeling is back- this year my children and grandchildren dyed eggs together!

Posted by: Gretchen at April 22, 2011 3:49 PM

I agree about the growing up part, now I feel that way about my grandson. At times it seems to go so fast, now I laugh as I watch my daughter-in-law making sure he dyes eggs with blue berries and other natural ingredients. I know she is doing her best as a mom and isn't that what we all want to do ? Hugs and Happy Easter to you and your family and I hope it has stopped snowing. :)

Posted by: linda in oregon at April 22, 2011 3:52 PM

*sniffle*

I'm not quite sure, but I got rather choked up reading that. Am I overly emotional at the mo? Will I tear up if I read this in a few days? I'll have to show my Partner. I suspect he'll get a bit teary-eyed too, especially with his 17 year old man-boy in the house and our own Beaster Bunny preps in the works.

Posted by: Kathy at April 22, 2011 3:53 PM

What lovely eggs! Your post makes me want to go home to my Moms and dye eggs. And I'm nearly 50! Especially love the dyed fingers in the last photo.

Posted by: teresa at April 22, 2011 3:55 PM

Amen....this is the first Easter that my daughters, 22 & 19, won't be at home. It just isn't the same. I'm knitting both of them alpaca bunnies....not ready to let go just yet.

Posted by: Teri at April 22, 2011 3:56 PM

Wonderful sentiments. But, really, they are always our children! I do remember grieving when my eldest wen to college though.

Posted by: Jeanne at April 22, 2011 3:56 PM

Happy Easter Steph.

Posted by: Kitten at April 22, 2011 4:00 PM

Ah, but they do grow up to be women. I am long past having girls and now my grandchildren are not that many years from their teens. Unreal.

Posted by: Carla at April 22, 2011 4:04 PM

They never will grow up completely - I know I haven't, have you? My definition of being grown up is when you realise you never will be. Happy Easter xxx

Posted by: Sue Krekorian at April 22, 2011 4:08 PM

All 5 of us girls still make my mom fill our stockings on Christmas eve for us to open on Christmas. We are all over 30 :) She complains but I think secretly she likes it.

Posted by: Mya at April 22, 2011 4:10 PM

I'm about to celebrate my first Easter with my son, and it's hard to believe he'll ever be a grown man!

Posted by: brooklynbee at April 22, 2011 4:11 PM

I'm about to celebrate my first Easter with my son, and it's hard to believe he'll ever be a grown man!

Posted by: brooklynbee at April 22, 2011 4:12 PM

That is really sweet. You are scarily close to the empty nest time.

Posted by: Seanna Lea at April 22, 2011 4:12 PM

I dyed eggs with my 7 year old this morning It will be a sad day when he no longer wants to do that. Happy Easter Stephanie!

Posted by: Jules at April 22, 2011 4:13 PM

Yeah, I watch my kids and marvel at how grown up they are getting. They get big so quickly, and my arms still ache to hold them as babies... not forever, for just a little longer.

Posted by: Leah at April 22, 2011 4:18 PM

I can't help thinking of carlie Brown's Easter. When Pepperint Patty was trying to teach Marcy to dye eggs. So funny!!! I'm glad you had a great time with your girls. I wish I had my mum with me to do our mum-daughter things together again.

Posted by: Alex K. at April 22, 2011 4:26 PM

Just heard from my daughter after lunch. The three girls dyed eggs this morning. Mom hid them in the house because it's raining. They seem to have found 23 of the 24. She has them down for a nap and is hunting for that last egg. Their house is on the market and subject to short-notice showings, so she definitely does not need a less than fresh egg popping out from somewhere!

Posted by: Panhandle Jane at April 22, 2011 4:28 PM

Brings tears remembering those days. Now grand daughters have their turn. Wishing you all a very Happy Easter.

Posted by: Fay Darling at April 22, 2011 4:37 PM

Grown up girls are a bitter-sweet part of life. I still dream of my girls as just starting school and yet one is a wife and mom and the other is just as grown up and married, as well. Sigh.

Posted by: Connie Peterson at April 22, 2011 4:41 PM

I really, really hate to tell you this, but I have it on good authority that little daughters really do become women...my own adult "girls" tell me so. But, here's the good news...if you are very, very lucky, you will have small people again in your life to share these traditions (we'll be egg-dying ourselves this afternoon) and make up, just a little bit, for the fact that their mommies are no longer your little girls. Happy Easter, Happy Passover, Happy Spring, Steph and Everyone!

Posted by: georgia at April 22, 2011 4:43 PM

Cute pictures!!! Hope you and your family have a Wonderful Easter!!

Posted by: Rowena Philbeck at April 22, 2011 4:45 PM

In your heart, I don't think you have let them. : )
Beautiful eggs!
Adding to Georgia's list: Happy Earth Day!

Posted by: Leanne at April 22, 2011 4:51 PM

Yeah, Steph...BIG secret. :-). Must get eggs and dye since the almost 20 year old girl here will blow into the house tonight with the same desire. Happy Easter!

Posted by: Melinda at April 22, 2011 4:52 PM

Don't worry about it. They never will really grow up for you, or so it seems in our family. My grandma was still calling my dad "Sonny" when she was 90 and he was 61.

My dad doesn't think I'm grown up, either, and I'm 52 (he's almost 88).

Posted by: Kate K at April 22, 2011 5:04 PM

Love it!

If you ever want to get rid of old men's ties, this intrigues me but I haven't done it yet: http://www.ourbestbites.com/2011/04/silk-dyed-eggs-aka-tie-dyed/

Posted by: AlisonH at April 22, 2011 5:09 PM

I dye my eggs at my aunt's house who had young children. The older ones always have more fun than the younger ones.

Posted by: garret at April 22, 2011 5:14 PM

I remember the year it finally occurred to the older generation (me and my husband) that we did not have to wait for the kids to come home on Saturday night before the Easter Bunny could hide the eggs. Suddenly we realized that there was NO chance they would get up early on Sunday morning, so if "Mr. Bunny" arrived early (i.e., 7:30 am!) on Sunday am everything would work out beautifully. Life has been much pleasanter ever since!

Barbara M.

Posted by: Barbara M. at April 22, 2011 5:18 PM

Have fun!

Posted by: twelvedaysold at April 22, 2011 5:24 PM

My sister and I still beg my mom and dad to hide eggs for us. We are 30 and 28.

Posted by: rachel at April 22, 2011 5:26 PM

This post is so a propos of a conversation I had this morning with a quite helpful woman at the Department of Defense pay section. When I cheerily said I no longer had dependents (minor children) as they had grown up, she said that was both happy and sad. She had never had kids, but over the years, her nieces and nephews had spent a lot of time with her. When she offered egg dying to the last of her nieces this year, the 13 year old told her that egg dying was for kids. Aunt told the 13 year old that she didn't think so since she'd been doing it for 50 years. I hope the 13 year old comes around to your kids viewpoint in future year.

Posted by: Peg in Kensington, California at April 22, 2011 5:28 PM

You and your girls make such pretty eggs! I wish I had daughters (or sons) to hide eggs for, but no such luck, yet, and I live too far away to hide eggs for any of my nieces.

Guess I'll just have to keep making pysanky. Can't hide those, though.

How DID you do that one with the flower in it?

Posted by: Stefka at April 22, 2011 5:40 PM

What a wonderful post. I had to hide my sniffles when my taller-than-I-am 14 year old son and I dyed eggs earlier this week.

Posted by: PostLeslie at April 22, 2011 5:48 PM

I'm really excited about tomorrow. We're going to decorate Easter eggs! The two Bulgarian muslim girls who live with us have never done it before and they have asked to color eggs. I went on a major hunt today and all they have here in Portugal is brown eggs which I find are not nearly as satisfactory to color. Also, all I could find was yellow food coloring. Fortunately I still have some food colors left from my move here 6 years ago. I think a quick trip tomorrow morning to the craft store is called for in order to acquire some alternative decorative effects. I did check out the natural food dying techiniques but they generally call for a lot more time. Also, there's lots of good german and belgian Easter chocolates but not a single jelly bean to be found. IT'S NOT EASTER WITHOUT JELLY BEANS! ( Yes, I know that all caps is online yelling! I'm yelling!)
Happy Easter/ Passover / Spring to all. :^)

Posted by: KarenJ at April 22, 2011 5:54 PM

Coloring Easter eggs never gets old. I'm 50ish and I love it. (Perhaps I should start to dye yarn?) My teens still love it too. Next year my daughter will be far away at school in Florida (we are in NY). She mentioned today that she is looking forward to dying eggs with college friends. Hope it happens for her and she will think of all the fun times we did it as a family.

Posted by: Sharon at April 22, 2011 6:02 PM

I'm always surprised at what a kick it is to be a Grammie. I get to do a lot of it again, without the terror of Messing Up. (c:

Posted by: PammieTaj at April 22, 2011 6:04 PM

Ours have grown up and now we have grandkids. Guess what??? The mystery starts all over again! The daddies hide the eggs and the children hunt for them. (But, since we live in Phoenix, AZ and it's a bit hotter than there we don't use hard boiled any more; plastic eggs with stickers are highly sought after.)

So, the good news is that the grown up kids provide you with a new generation! :)

Posted by: Karen in AZ at April 22, 2011 6:18 PM

My siblings and I used to make a mess dyeing hard-boiled eggs. It was fun but we ended up with pink and blue hands. On Easter morning we ate the eggs, marvelling at how some of the dye had seeped through the shell and coloured the egg inside. I let my kids make the same mess. Now that I'm almost an empty-nester, I'm the only one in my house who would even touch a hard-boiled egg.

Posted by: marjorie at April 22, 2011 6:57 PM

Made me cry:) My girls are 8 & 11 and I feel exactly the same way!

Posted by: Jean at April 22, 2011 7:11 PM

Little daughters do indeed become women, but the interesting (and neat) thing is sometimes they still surprise you. Twice in the past 2 years, my daughter (now 30) has volunteered me to do something for her friends -- before asking me -- because hey! Of course she'll say 'yes' and hey! Moms can do anything, right? :-) And I did, and I did. Happy Easter!

Posted by: Marg in Mirror, AB at April 22, 2011 7:11 PM

Twofold:
1. Have you tried silk dyed eggs? Easy. Google that!
2. I finally have my first adult job and I will not be buying mill ends anymore. My first check will be spent in your fancy-twine-name. Suri/Merino/Bamboo who knows? Rambouillet fleece? Maybe. Thank you for writing your books. They've helped me get this far.

Posted by: RobF at April 22, 2011 7:11 PM

Love it!

Posted by: DebKnits2 at April 22, 2011 7:32 PM

I think that beautiful traditions are joyful no matter how old you get. (I bet if they all moved to B.C. you'd still dye the eggs!)

Speaking of which... we'd better get to it! Happy Easter, Steph!

Posted by: Elizabeth L in Apex, NC at April 22, 2011 7:45 PM

I harbor the same secret. I want my girl to still cozy up with me when I am old and doddering.

Posted by: Gillian at April 22, 2011 7:56 PM

Me too and we too.

Posted by: Mary K. in Rockport at April 22, 2011 8:04 PM

My babygirl is in her 30s and still sits in my lap. They never grow up so much that they can't.

Posted by: NurseBrandy at April 22, 2011 8:06 PM

:)

Posted by: Nathalie at April 22, 2011 8:15 PM

Oh mama. Nothing like a holiday and tradition to bring things into perspective.

Posted by: Cinnamon at April 22, 2011 8:23 PM

I wonder if my mom feels the same ..... I am almost 57and still love to color easter eggs. No hunt, though. Chocolate. That's the best part of Easter. :)) Linda

Posted by: Linda at April 22, 2011 9:44 PM

SO true. Mine are 21 & 22. My son is actually putting up crown moulding in the living room instead of making Easter eggs. We'll all still go to church on Sunday, though!

Happy Easter!

Posted by: GinaJ at April 22, 2011 10:02 PM

Me too, only with sons (almost men). No dyed eggs this year unless we do it soon, but their will be candy filled easter baskets on Easter morning. We all know they are primarily for me. I can live with that.

OTN reclaimed merino and cashmere hat on US4's. Soft, squishy, cheap. Keep poking myself on my knitpicks nickel 16" needles, those are some sharp tips.

Posted by: Heather in WV at April 22, 2011 10:25 PM

You're the best mom! Those girls are lucky! And so are you!

Posted by: Robin at April 22, 2011 11:12 PM

Why grow up when you make such beautiful Easter eggs!!!

Posted by: Maryse at April 22, 2011 11:15 PM

Lovely!

Posted by: Lynne at April 22, 2011 11:17 PM

I know exactly how you feel. I just sent Easter Bunnies to my 2 girls that now live in Portland. I sure do miss them. I also miss the one in Kansas, but at least I can drive there in a day if I need to. Can't wait for sock summit on so many levels.

Posted by: Vickie at April 22, 2011 11:26 PM

I am in my mid-30's and my mother still sends an Easter package. And I still get excited if I happen to celebrate with them and my dad still hides the little foil-wrapped chocolate eggs all over my house (or theirs). I am still every bit as excited to find them! I hope your girls never grow up, because Easter traditions are the best!

Posted by: Elisabeth at April 22, 2011 11:40 PM

Think of doing it all over again with your grandchildren! - and then sending them home to their mothers so that they can clean up the mess and cope with the chocolate aftermath...... it's called building traditions.

Posted by: Maureen at April 22, 2011 11:41 PM

I still send things to my two boys (men,actually) now that they each live 600 miles away from me. They'll always be my little boys! And, now I have a grandchild to send goodies too as well!
Have a very happy Easter!!

Posted by: Brenda at April 23, 2011 12:26 AM

You made me think not so much about family traditions, but about our children specifically, the little buggers.

My 14 year old son had an appendectomy five days ago, and is still quite shaky on his feet.We need to keep him moving, so my ex-husband and I took him Geocaching this afternoon. On any kind of slope he (wait for it...) reached for and firmly took my hand. And it frigging slayed me each time. Wish he was well enough for an egg hunt, but I will take this GLADLY.

Posted by: Irma at April 23, 2011 12:50 AM

KarenJ at 5:54 PM: Check out Yarnista's 4/21 tutorial. She does some marvelous dyed brown eggs.

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Posted by: GeniaKnitz at April 23, 2011 12:50 AM

What a beautiful almost-woman. She really is lovely. And smart and kind, too, I hear! Every time you mention or post a picture of her, I'm amazed that she's both so near to and so far from the little girl of nine she was when we "met" you. :) I have a 17-year-old sister, and to me, she will forever be the six-year-old darling in my mind's eye, though she's grown into a remarkable young lady.

Posted by: Shana at April 23, 2011 12:58 AM

Awwwww! (You know the girls are softening you up to do this with the grandkids, someday.)

Who gets to play the Easter Bunny, and can we see a photo of him or her in their bunny outfit? Or in their bunny slippers? Or viciously biting the head off a wascawwy chocowat wabbit?

(Yes, it's chocowat wabbit season. A wittwe bwack duck and his squiwweh fweind tode Elmuh and I so.)

Posted by: Anonymous, too at April 23, 2011 1:28 AM

Cool photos, but just remember the Easter bunny and his eggs did not rise from the grave.

Happy Resurrection Sunday!

Let's keep our eyes on Christ, for HE is risen!

God bless.

Posted by: Damiane Lucas at April 23, 2011 2:33 AM

This Easter is the first time my daughter will hunt for eggs (she is 2) and my son has very few memories from last year (he is 4), so I'm excited to see how it goes. We are dyeing eggs today.

I remember hunting for Easter eggs until I moved out of the house, at 18, for university.

Posted by: chantale at April 23, 2011 7:20 AM

I really missed the little children, and then wonder of wonders, I got grandchildren. Happy Easter.

Posted by: Deed Winters at April 23, 2011 8:05 AM

I spent yesterday with my 19 and 29 yr old daughters coloring Easter eggs. Love it.

Posted by: Sandy Scharlow at April 23, 2011 8:31 AM

My oldest daughter is 13 and in 7th grade. At a recent conference with her teachers, there were several references to high school. As in "these classes next year will prepare her well for high school" or "this math class will lead into the high school algebra class" etc. Each time I was startled and wanted to remind them that they couldn't possibly be talking about my child, who I was fairly certain could only possibly be 4 years old. Sigh.

Posted by: Becky at April 23, 2011 8:49 AM

This is beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing. I'm also a mother of grown/almost grown girls. I've been complaining this week about them expecting eggs for Easter. You have shown me how wonderful it is that that still want to be little girls. I'm still putting baby carrots in the plastic eggs this year though!

Posted by: AngelD at April 23, 2011 10:14 AM

Your girls are the same ages as mine, and I feel the same way. Except this year, they're hiding the eggs and WE have to find them. Can't wait!

Posted by: inky at April 23, 2011 11:02 AM

My brother and I continued hunting for eggs (and leaving milk and cookies--although that morphed into cheetos and tequila!--for Santa) until I had a child of my own! It was so much fun to share that secret with my parents.

Posted by: Jamie at April 23, 2011 11:05 AM

These are the traditions that your girls will start with their own families one day. What a beautiful thing.

Posted by: Nancy at April 23, 2011 12:00 PM

I know the feeling. I was just thinking the same thing. My teens and pre-teen love Easter.

Posted by: Helen at April 23, 2011 12:09 PM

There's never anything quite so comforting as a hug from Mom.

Posted by: Leah at April 23, 2011 12:14 PM

My parents always hid the little wrapped chocolate eggs for us every year. Now and then we'd find one we missed months later. One year, my parents decided we were too old for an egg hunt, so while they went out for breakfast, we hid eggs for them. We hid them in the same spots that my parents always did, but it took them longer to find them than it ever did us. We hid a gold coloured egg on one of the brass and crystal ornaments on the window, and had to finally tell my parents where it was because it was starting to melt in the sunshine :) Now with 2.9 kids (was due yesterday *sigh*), I have the fun of hiding eggs all over again.

Posted by: Jaemi at April 23, 2011 1:24 PM

I never had girls but my boys and I did all the egg dying and pumpkin carving in this house. Holidays are not the same without little ones. I miss my boys but I love the men that they've become and (for one) the woman he has chosen to spend his life with. Happy Easter to all.

Posted by: Sarah in Sheboygan at April 23, 2011 2:24 PM

I know exactly how you feel. My oldest daughter was 16 2 weeks ago and my youngest is 13 tomorrow and I've been thinking about how grown up they are and how quickly it's gone and how I don't want them to stop being my little girls.
Happy Easter.

Posted by: YarnAddict at April 23, 2011 3:15 PM

Look at it this way, once they grow up - they will bring you grandbabies. And grandbabies need hand knits.

Posted by: flaky at April 23, 2011 3:16 PM

I'm not sure it's about growing up and thereby outgrowing egg hunts (and maybe sand castles). Maybe it's about not losing the joy of creating the simplest thing that is temporary?? An egg, covered in color and design isn't serious and it's only around for a day or so. It's play essentially. We allow our children this joy - encourage it even! And we get to participate as well.
Oh heck... what do I know? I think I'll go smell that box of crayons that we bought recently (even though there are no kids in our household) and think about it.

Posted by: LostCityDenise at April 23, 2011 3:24 PM

Our two kids (4.5yrs and 2.5yrs) will be dying their first easter eggs this afternoon (with our help, of course! :))

I know it will feel like a few weeks and they will be off on their own. Thank the universe for digital cameras! :)

Posted by: Simone at April 23, 2011 3:52 PM

Welcome to the world of all moms. I love my adult kids, they are still my best friends, but the magic of holidays and the anticipation they had for each one, as well as my joy and anticipation to watch them can't be beat. Now it's moved on the grandkids.

Posted by: Lynn Winders at April 23, 2011 3:53 PM

I remember you were looking for a shawlette. This is a cute easy one. Bakersfield, by Corrina Ferguson for PicnicKnits. Hope you like it. Debbie, greensweater. Also, it looks like they're going to put something in the Oregonian about the baby blanket group knit. deb

Posted by: Debbie at April 23, 2011 4:28 PM

Happy Easter too! I just bought Easter eggs for my children too; both the nearly 25 year-old and the nearly 30 year-old. The great thing about reading your blog for years is that when I looked at the beautiful Elsebeth Lavold cardigan that has just been finished, blocked, sewn together and had the pefect buttons sewn on....well, one of the cables
(way down on the bottom of the back) was going the wrong way. And I had this little bell ringing that Stephanie had the voodoo - some tricky knitting thing so that I wouldn't feel that everyone who praised the cardi to my face, then turned to a friend as I walked away and whispered; "Hey, look at that cable way down on the back - it's going the wrong way!" Thanks a million - again.

Posted by: Jacqueline at April 23, 2011 4:39 PM

Whoa! Those are some fancy eggs! Happy Easter to you too.

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Posted by: Tommy at April 23, 2011 5:52 PM

My son is 19 and is still leaving his basket out for the bunny to fill tonight. I'm glad, I probably don't have many more Easters with him at home.

Posted by: Diane at April 23, 2011 6:04 PM

Two, soon to be 20 yr old boys/men will be looking for their "baskets" immediately upon arising. Then they will help me make special Easter cookies to share with girls they want to impress. My job is to wear the rabbit ears. Time and change. Some.

Posted by: lynne at April 23, 2011 7:51 PM

That's made me a bit....no, a lot misty. I second that emotion...

Posted by: Pauline at April 23, 2011 8:10 PM

That was lovely!

Posted by: Jane Jorgensen at April 23, 2011 9:32 PM

You now have the best of both worlds, enjoy!

Posted by: Heather Dean at April 23, 2011 9:53 PM

My Grand-daughter and I coloured eggs today. She is 4 and reminded me all month that we needed to colour the eggs. The first time we did them was last year and I am thrilled she remembered it. Afterward she kept opening the fridge and checking on the eggs to be sure they were ok. LOL My daughter is 32 and still expects a "basket" every year.

Posted by: Sherry at April 24, 2011 4:40 AM

My sister and I are both tradition lovers (as is your family), so we drug such things out well in to our young adulthood. Because my sister is six years younger, that meant we drug it out until just a few years ago. This year, I provided the first Grandchild, and now the traditions are starting up again with my daughter. It worked out well!

Posted by: Cara at April 24, 2011 8:05 AM

I read this with my little one (not quite 17 months) running around the living room after the dog...and it brought me to tears faster than I'd like to admit.

<3

Posted by: Ana at April 24, 2011 10:09 AM

Family traditions are what make the holidays so special.

Posted by: Louise at April 24, 2011 11:43 AM

Happy Easter! I love that they still want to dye eggs and then hunt for them :)

Posted by: Terrie at April 24, 2011 1:30 PM

I'm seeing this with my teenager, too....but I'm also seeing it in how my parents relate to ME, and I'm 44! I was over at my folks for Passover dinner, and when the kids got up to hunt for the afikoman (a tradition involving a hidden dessert cracker and a game of hide-n-seek), I leaned in to ask my dad where he'd hidden it. He wouldn't tell me, because to him, I will always be one of the kids LOL.
Happy Easter ;-)

Posted by: Bonnie/AmpuTeeHee at April 24, 2011 1:53 PM

My feelings, exactly! My 17 and 13 year old died eggs last night and I almost cried!!! If only the 21 year old could have been here! Happy Easter!

Posted by: Tracey at April 24, 2011 2:02 PM

Just wait until they grow up and present you with grandchildren. They are even more fun. You get to do it all over again with all the fun and none of the responsibility.

Posted by: Judy Murphy at April 24, 2011 11:08 PM

I always loved dyeing eggs when i was a kid. my mother stil has some of the ones that me and my siblings painted (one has a lovely scene with geese and trees on it). easter egg hunts never get old, i always love them (like stckings at christmas).

Posted by: Jess at April 25, 2011 5:09 AM

There will no little ones around this Easter, so I didn't bother to color Easter eggs. But I would even do it with a like-minded adult...but none was to be found.

Posted by: MB@YarnUiPhoneappv1.2 at April 25, 2011 8:39 AM

no little ones here either, although my MIL did buy my big teen-age boys candy, lol. I'm looking forward to grandbabies, lol (my oldest is 26, sigh)

Posted by: minnie at April 25, 2011 9:09 AM

Oh, the parental paradox: we want them to grow up, but then when they do, it almost breaks our hearts.

Posted by: India at April 25, 2011 10:39 AM

Oh, I understand that feeling. We had our second holiday with no children at home not because they were away at college, but because they were with their girlfriends' families. I understand that as they grow have up this will happen (they are 25 and 23) with more frequencey, but it still makes me sad to not have my "little" boys around.

Posted by: Doris at April 25, 2011 10:53 AM

Awwww. My 19 and 21-year-old daughters still wanted to dye eggs. If only we'd done a better job of hard-cooking them! They're a little soft. Ugh.

Posted by: DawnK at April 25, 2011 2:15 PM

My bairn (baby) is nearly 31 and still wants me to stick to all those traditions - (so does the 34 year old son who would never admit it) Go with it - they love it either way.

Posted by: Lizzi at April 25, 2011 2:17 PM

@Damiane Lucas, who said: "Cool photos, but just remember the Easter bunny and his eggs did not rise from the grave. Let's keep our eyes on Christ, for HE is risen!" Let us also remember that not everyone believes as we do, that some things are cultural, not spiritual, and that Canada is a lovely web of multicultural, multireligious/areligious goodness. Lighten up! There's plenty of "Christ is the Reason for the Season" at Christmas.

Posted by: Shana at April 25, 2011 4:24 PM

My best earliest memories of Easter is of my Dad taking us to the hayloft early on Easter Sunday morning to find the home dyed hard-boiled eggs he had hidden. What delight when we found an egg nestled in with a new batch of baby kittens we didn't know were there. Last Easter, I helped my Dad, then 95, to get 'spruced up' for Easter Sunday church. As I was finishing off his shave he said, "Don't make me look too good, they'll expect me to turn up more often" and we both couldn't quit laughing for a minute or two. We sang "Christ the Lord is Risen Today" all the way to church. He died 2 months later - I'm still heartbroken, but I have these beautiful memories of a Dad who knew how to make Easter happen for his kids. Wish everybody had a Dad like that.

Posted by: Doreen at April 25, 2011 4:59 PM

I think reading the comments makes me mistier than the initial posting! I too, felt this way, with my boys 15 and 12. I was glad they still wanted to hunt eggs!

Posted by: Debbie R at April 25, 2011 6:09 PM

Ah, see, if you weren't vegetarian, you could take away vegetables, like I have threatened to my boys, if they don't stop growing. Your poor children would starve, now you are stuck with beautiful women for children. There are worse fates, but the one you yourself endure is always the worst. Wait, I hear a crunching carrot... stop the madness! No, it was the two year old ripping open a box of peeps. She is so going to be my baby forever.

Posted by: Heather at April 25, 2011 7:11 PM

I have that thought often. I have 3 teenaged girls. They grow up so fast.

Posted by: Faeryfay at April 25, 2011 8:19 PM

I know this is off-topic but will your blog ever be available on the Kindle??

Posted by: April at April 25, 2011 9:42 PM

More on some crochet and yarn coverage in my area...
tried to post this on the Yarncaching post, but it was closed...
http://www.npr.org/2011/04/25/135705721/crochet-vandals-do-graffiti-like-your-grandma?sc=fb&cc=fp

Posted by: Mary Brockmeyer at April 25, 2011 11:23 PM

Your photographs are so beautiful...is there anything you're not amazing at?

Posted by: Amy at April 26, 2011 2:12 AM

Lovely poem! :)

Posted by: Edith at April 26, 2011 8:48 AM

Beautiful.

Posted by: Lee Bernstein at April 26, 2011 9:25 AM

I think that's how my Mom feels about me...except I refuse to hunt my Granny's easter eggs. I love the pictures (your photography skills are AWESOME)!

Posted by: Maddy at April 26, 2011 10:12 AM

This doesn't fit your post, but I wanted to let you now that they forbade my needles on a flight coming out from Mexico (in Cabo) last week. I fly all over NA, Europe and Africa and no one has ever taken my needles before, but they were adamant and even showed me (when requested) the regulation. So, be warned! I convinced them to cut off the needles on the circs so I at least didn't lose the work, but it was so sadly mutilated!

Posted by: cateinTo at April 26, 2011 11:19 AM

PS -- happy easter ;-).

Posted by: cateinTo at April 26, 2011 11:20 AM

I am not sure I want my girls to grow up either - I have three adolescent / pre-pubescent girls and most days I just want to snuggle with them and keep them safe from the world - Thanks for sharing your thoughts -

Posted by: Marcia at April 26, 2011 11:32 AM

As I prepare to send my eldest son to college in the fall, I alternate between excitement and terror. Imagining our household other than it is right now (yes, even with two teen-aged boys) is something I can't quite get my head around yet.

Posted by: JaneJ at April 26, 2011 1:47 PM

I'm with Meg: we call them curlies and pointies!

Posted by: jeanine at April 28, 2011 10:22 AM