August 20, 2012

In Which I am Auntie Steph

Last week Jen called and invited me to her cottage.  Now, I'm a big cottage fan, and this summer has been light in the vacation department (unless you call riding your bike to Montreal a vacation, and personally, I have trouble sliding it into that department) so when she invited me, I set aside the feeling that it was ridiculous to take off when I had so much to do, and I did it anyway.   I left Thursday at noon, and a few hours later, I had myself in a lake - where I stayed as much as it was reasonable to do so.

Jen's cottage has a lot of perks.  There's the lake, and the woods, and a big rock to swim to, and climb up on, and a boat and a canoe, and her charming mum and dad, but mostly what it has going for it is Jen and the kids.  The whole thing is perfect, because for 48 hours, I got to rock and walk the baby to sleep, play Auntie Steph with Fenner, read and knit -


and all that makes me ridiculously happy and grateful to Jen, which seems to have turned out to be delightfully ironic, since rocking the baby and playing with Fenner appear to make Jen grateful to me.  It's a wonderfully symbiotic relationship - and one that I totally didn't have figured out until "See you next time" turned into "Can't you stay another day" and "Why don't you come back Tuesday?"


Turns out that a cottage guest who likes to cook, tidy up, amuse children and is a strong swimmer who brings beer is a cottage guest who gets invited back.  (Note to self. Bring more beer.)

All of that is a nice way of saying that if I can finish a whole weeks worth of work today, tomorrow I'll get in the car and go back, and hunt for toads and swim and look for wildflowers and read stories and canoe until Thursday, when I'll load myself back to Toronto, then wash, pack and leave for the Twist Festival de la Fibre in Saint-André-Avellin, Quebec bright and early Friday morning.  It's more time in the car than I can honestly say I'm keen on, but my love of lake swimming and damp, sun warmed children might be worth it. 


As a knitter, I should mention that my motives weren't entirely lake based.  I could try Marlowe's Birthday dress on here as I knit, and I can happily report that the little bodice fits...

and the skirt is underway.

Also, I wove a scarf, but let's talk about that tomorrow, before I go. With beer.




Posted by Stephanie at August 20, 2012 1:48 PM
Comments

The whole thing sounds heavenly. Good incentive to get your work done so you can go back. The dress is looking divine!

Posted by: Colleen in Kansas at August 20, 2012 1:51 PM

Will you be releasing the dress as a pattern? Plan on any extreme spinning or knitting at the cabin?

Enjoy! You deserve a break!

Posted by: Christian Stoll-Dreeszen at August 20, 2012 1:51 PM

I'm happy to see you got some time off, and I'm sure Jen would have invited you back even if you'd done nothing but brought beer!

Posted by: Amy Cordero at August 20, 2012 1:52 PM

Oye, that's s stern look the baby gives the camera! Still adorable, though. :D

Posted by: Joey B. at August 20, 2012 1:53 PM

"Damp, sun-warmed children"--what could be better? They do seem unreasonably adorable.

The Twist festival looks awesome. Are you teaching in French?

Posted by: Amy S. at August 20, 2012 1:57 PM

I am sure that there are a lot of Mums out there who will be issuing you an invitation to come and stay with them and their children for the price of a six-pack!

Especially those within easy driving distance...

Posted by: Leslie F at August 20, 2012 1:57 PM

Oh, how wonderful! And is that a little mouse cupped in those little hands? If you give a mouse a cookie... Have fun!

Posted by: AlisonH at August 20, 2012 2:03 PM

Long time back Garrison Keillor said "Nothing you do for a child is ever wasted." Especially at the cottage.

Posted by: rams at August 20, 2012 2:03 PM

You look so happy... Marlowe's dress looks to be a very special gown when complete... Speaking of Marlowe, what a beautiful baby!

Posted by: Susan at August 20, 2012 2:13 PM

That does sound heavenly. Attention everyone! I have beer to share! Bring me your damp, sun-warmed children to play with and cuddle.

Posted by: Laurie at August 20, 2012 2:16 PM

I love the picture with the little frog/toad in the hands. I can see the bit of the face peeking out!

Posted by: Seanna Lea at August 20, 2012 2:19 PM

Cottage country, knitting, great weather, good company, what more does any human being need? I am SO envious!

Posted by: Elizabeth at August 20, 2012 2:24 PM

My parents have a cottage in Maine. Guests who clean up, cook, and bring beer are always welcome here too! Amusing children is a bonus we will happily take.

Posted by: Alyson at August 20, 2012 2:33 PM

Oh my goodness she looks so cute trying that on. Is she really that sweet all the time? Unreal. I can't wait to see the finished dress. And I love your line about damp, sun-warmed children. It makes me even happier to be a mom. I remember reading somewhere (it may very well have been another briliant line from you) about little boys smelling like dirt and sunshine. Both ring so true and I think of that every time we come back from a Sunday morning at the park. And once the cooler weather arrives I can still look forward to red cheeks and hot chocolate. :-)

Posted by: Katie at August 20, 2012 2:36 PM

So lovely, I was in cottage country the weekend before last and it rained the entire time. Never even got to dip my toes in Georgian Bay, something I'd been dreaming about for weeks. It didn't help that everyone told me that it had been beautiful right up to the day I arrived! You must go back and enjoy as often as you can, summer is way too short!

Posted by: Linda at August 20, 2012 2:36 PM

Yep I am with you sister. That baby hugging and child playing is just the best job ever. I am gainfully employed at least once a week doing the same and secretly I would pay my son and daughter-in-law to let me do it but they seemed pleased as punch in the arrangement. The children you got to hang out with are seriously cute and the cabin sounds heavenly. So glad you went. Makes the rest of lifes craziness worthwhile.

Posted by: linda in oregon at August 20, 2012 2:38 PM

So now you've resorted to physically distancing yourself from the gansey?

Posted by: Presbytera at August 20, 2012 2:43 PM

It doesn't get better than a big rock to swim to and climb on. I wish I had one of those.

Posted by: Caroline M at August 20, 2012 2:46 PM

That dress looks like it's going to be very sweet :)

Posted by: Rebecca in NC at August 20, 2012 2:48 PM

Summertime with children is a great opportunity...
I love the frock! and go for it. Life is too short!

Posted by: Sheila at August 20, 2012 2:49 PM

GO! I have this theory (from my Nana and my mom), that is is NOTHING that a little time at the lake can't fix. So, go already! I'm supremely jealous b/c looking for meaningful employment is not something I can do by the lake... but i'll be there soon.

Beer, knitting, babies, lake. Sounds like heaven to me.

Posted by: Kate at August 20, 2012 2:55 PM

Your picture of Jen with a smiling, swimming delightful babe should be motivation enough to get a week's worth of work done in a day. That's precious.

Posted by: amy at August 20, 2012 3:00 PM

I had one of those cottage weeks, without the wee ones though. And I too brought beer, and was invited back next year. Making enough apple crisp for a crowd, despite the heat, was a bit hit too. Enjoy. Summer doesn't last near long enough here in Ontario.

Posted by: Jo-Anne at August 20, 2012 3:29 PM

this sounds amazing. i had my vacation early in the summer and am already in need of another? bah on greediness - who doesn't want more beer, knitting, reading, lobster (we were in maine), dog frolicking on the beach?!

Posted by: ruth at August 20, 2012 3:50 PM

Thank you for giving us a peek at the dress. It's lovely, and so is Marlowe. (oh my, those cheeks.) Isn't cottage time great? I always return from mine renewed, refreshed and invigorated (for a few days, anyway.) And it's the best place to knit.

Posted by: marjorie at August 20, 2012 3:56 PM

I was in Cottage Country Ontario in July and it was...perfect. I knit socks (portability) and fed the ducks off the deck every morning, the (teen) kids swam and fished, and it was heaven. Even cooking and doing the dishes is no trouble when every day is heavenly and begins with knitting in the cool pale dawn on a deck with a lake 15 feet away. Cottaging ROCKS, and we even had beer!

Posted by: StrongCat at August 20, 2012 4:23 PM

This makes me happy -

Posted by: Ann at August 20, 2012 4:33 PM

So...are you riding your bike to Montreal to the Twist Festival?

Posted by: Trish at August 20, 2012 4:47 PM

I, too, love the smell on sunshine on my children. Even though they are grown, if they've been outside for any length of time when I hug them, I can tell. "you smell of sunshine". Even my 6'2" - 21 yr old smiles when I say that to him.

Posted by: Pamela at August 20, 2012 4:50 PM

A very symbiotic relationship!
I can remember being so grateful to hand over babies to other loving people and now I get to do the other side and cuddle them, myself.

Posted by: Linda at August 20, 2012 4:56 PM

Who cares if you get all your chores done? You have a dress to knit and babies to hug. Get thee back to the lake and have some more fun.

Posted by: Judy at August 20, 2012 5:13 PM

I love those cheeks! Who cares about housework? The summer is short, children grow up so fast, the housework will always be there. Enjoy the lake!

Posted by: ~margaret at August 20, 2012 5:21 PM

"Summer is short. It's almost over. Screw the house and job hunting." The reasons I escaped for two hours to a friend's pool today.

Posted by: Leta at August 20, 2012 5:25 PM

Go. 'Nuff said.

Posted by: Cathy E at August 20, 2012 5:31 PM

Sounds like udder bliss. The dress is looking so sweet already! I can't wait to see it finished and on the babe herself.

Posted by: Ann at August 20, 2012 5:33 PM

Love the dress! Good for you for having a vacation.

Posted by: Amy at August 20, 2012 5:34 PM

I love beer. (Am drinking one now) It should be it's own food group...

Posted by: Dawn at August 20, 2012 5:55 PM

I'm a big cottage fan too, and friends like you are more than welcome! :)

I can't wait to meet you Saturday at Twist Festival! I was so happy when I saw you were giving a class!

Posted by: Lauraline at August 20, 2012 6:10 PM

It's been the most lovely August in B.C. as well. We spent the weekend swimming and drying off in the sun without a towel, and then in again. Absolutely perfect. And there was beer as well :) I hope you get back out and catch a few more days of summer!

Posted by: Kes at August 20, 2012 6:30 PM

So much the way summer should be! Lucky Jen and family and lucky you for being a wonderful Aunt. Can't wait to see the little flower dress. Marlowe is beyond cute. Eve from Carlisle

Posted by: Eve at August 20, 2012 7:40 PM

It seems like you had the best time and I was happy to read about it. The photos are so cute and I especially love the one with Marlowe asleep on your chest, probably listening to your heart beat and deriving the greatest comfort. Time flies by so fast. You deserve all the time off you can take to be with your oved ones.

Posted by: Bonnie at August 20, 2012 7:46 PM

That has to be the most gorgeous, sweet, adorable baby and what a smile!!!! Can't wait to see that little dress on her!! Some of us recognize real fun when we see it!!

Posted by: Ruth in N.J. at August 20, 2012 7:55 PM

Have fun! It's becoming Fall here in the north-- today high of 65, and I've seen leaves changing colors... only a couple of weeks and that weather will be in your area :)

Posted by: Mary Peed at August 20, 2012 8:25 PM

That sounds so delightful. I often say that I miss my babies, who somehow have turned into 6 foot 20-somethings. I still love them, but miss their smaller selves.

Posted by: Sharon at August 20, 2012 8:46 PM

I am very glad you have a place with big rocks and water and babies and good friends. Good for you. The silk looks so soft...

Posted by: cecelia at August 20, 2012 10:21 PM

That is one stinkin' cute baby. I would have spent the whole weekend cuddling that adorable little one.

Posted by: Jo at August 20, 2012 10:21 PM

I spent 3 weeks at our place in the Adirondacks, with two very uncooperative knitting projects! So I hit this great yarn shop in Lake Placid and got something else to do -

Cottages with water are the most peaceful places to be, especially with kids to play with. So glad you grabbed the chance! It's the best way to renew your spirit there is.

Posted by: fibersong at August 20, 2012 10:34 PM

Oh, I just love the baby pictures! Such a serious face in the first one, probably wanting to play with your camera :)

Posted by: Natalie B at August 20, 2012 10:37 PM

oooooooooooooooohhhhhhhh, pretty, pretty baby! sigh

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Posted by: my news at August 20, 2012 11:08 PM

What a sweet post and that baby Marlowe is just as precious as can be!!! I want to kiss those chubby cheeks! Sounds like you all had a wonderfully delightful time and I hope you get to go back tomorrow.

Posted by: Cheryl Brake at August 20, 2012 11:14 PM

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Posted by: Jo at August 21, 2012 12:48 AM

What a nice post. I love cottages. There's something magical about a cottage this time of year when you live in a place where winter has such a long and strong grip on everything. I think we tend to be more appreciative of the times when we can swim, canoe, and catch toads and frogs. Oh and sun warmed babies, we can't forget them! I'm always aware this time of year that the warm weather will soon be gone so I try to appreciate it and enjoy it as much as possible. I hope that you get to go back and enjoy the cottage and being an Aunt. I just love being an Aunt. It's simply the best. That little dress is adorable and so are Marlow's cheeks. Those chubby cheeks are just irresistible! Thanks for the great post. It reminds me of the times when I was growing up that we spent at cottages on the St. Lawrence, Lake Ontario and lots of other places.

Posted by: Dyepotgirl at August 21, 2012 6:04 AM

What a lovely time. I would call it a mini-va-cay. You should definitely take another one!

Posted by: brandi at August 21, 2012 6:43 AM

Oh, those sweet baby cheeks! I am green with envy!

Posted by: Lisa H. at August 21, 2012 7:25 AM

I love the way you cantry stuff on babies and totally not ruin the surprise.

Sounds like an wesome time at the cottage!

Posted by: Ingrid at August 21, 2012 8:24 AM

Jen sure has beautiful children - Marlow and Fenner are both dolls.

Posted by: GeniaKnitz at August 21, 2012 9:19 AM

I must say, your friends have ridiculously cute kids! Sounds like a fabulous time.

Posted by: Carolyn at August 21, 2012 9:37 AM

A baby asleep in your arms? That by itself would be worth it.

Posted by: Rani at August 21, 2012 9:47 AM

OMG, I can't wait for the Twist festival next week!

Posted by: Genyke at August 21, 2012 10:24 AM

See the babies. See the lake. See the smiles. Don't see the beer....

*ignore presbytera. A friend with a good memory is no friend a'tall.

Posted by: Hilarie at August 21, 2012 10:34 AM

Oh I want to go with you! Lake swimming, knitting, and BEER! Canadian Beer at that! Yummm! I will be sitting on a Massachusetts beach albeit with out beer in just a little while. Cheers!

Posted by: Maureen at August 21, 2012 10:46 AM

Sounds like the perfect getaway. The dress is looking super cute!

Posted by: wildflowerwool at August 21, 2012 6:41 PM

I truly understand that riding your bike to Montreal doesn't count as a vacation. I also know that anyone who comes to visit me and brings beer will ALWAYS get invited back. LOL Have fun and safe travels!

Posted by: Kate at August 22, 2012 10:22 AM

You *like* to cook and tidy up? Can you come stay at my house for a while? There are no children or lakes, but there are sometimes toads. There's a garden. And a LOT of yarn! :)

Posted by: Riin at August 31, 2012 1:24 PM