I’ve started typing this a hundred times. I thought I was just having trouble finding the right words, but it turns out that there aren’t really the right words to say something that you don’t want to say.
I’m convinced that the best thing to do here is just rip off the band-aid and tell you straight. Yesterday I signed some papers and left Knot Hysteria, the company Tina Newton and I owned together. We had begun the process of dissolving the company, agreeing that its time was come, but in the end, this is how it wound up.
This means that there won’t be another Sock Summit. Tina and I agreed that we made that possible together, and without that togetherness, the thing can’t exist. I want to thank all of you a very great deal, because in the end it was the knitters who believed in Sock Summit that made the thing real, and fabulous, and work that I will always be proud of. I wish everything that amazing could last forever – and I wish things could be different, but they aren’t, and life happens, and things change.
I’m sure you have questions, but to be completely honest I’m also pretty sure that there isn’t much more I think it’s appropriate to say. Our reasons for coming to this place are private, and it’s important to me that this is graceful. 
It might be the end of this thing, but I’m going to pour myself a cup of coffee, knit, look at my daffodils and dream of spring, and remember that a good thing about endings, is that it leaves room for beginnings. I’m looking forward.
I cannot imagine how difficult this post is to write. You share so very much of yourself with us–thanks for doing what you need to do to keep the joy in life. Spring is the time of new beginnings!
I was going to make some profound comment about life and change and endings and beginnings, but it turns out all I wanna do is say hi. And send a virtual hug. Enjoy your coffee. 🙂
(and I’m excited to see what’s next for ya)
Bandages are off. No owies to kiss. I wish you the best of luck. This is the time of year when the earth is all about renewal. I wish you luck!
I want to thank you for all the wonderful times I had at Sock Summit, it was perfect! You and Tina did a great job! Thanks again for great fun and wonderful memories! Sandra
It’s never easy to say good-bye to something that you poured your blood, sweat and tears into. As a former business owner (of a knitting shop) I know this first hand. What we do and how we handle things make us stronger, wiser and happier in the long run. Shake hands and move to a neutral corner. Things will look up and as my very wise mother says, even today at 93 years old, “when one door closes another one will open. Turn the page and begin the next chapter. You never know but it might be even more exciting than the previous one.” Chin up and be of good cheer.
I appologize for the redundancy my kids are very loud right now…
You shouldn’t have to justify a decision that is right for you!
All the best for your new beginnings 🙂 xxx
I have no doubt that your next endeavors will be just as fantastic. How could they be anything but!?
I’ve always been taught that when God closes a door, He opens a window. Always remember the good times, and prepare for something else good, but different. Not easy, I know, but I’ll be praying for the best for you, and for Tina.
Beautifully said. You epitomize class. Best wishes in all you do!
Best wishes on your new beginnings. The lovely daffodils and wee-one sweater seem like perfect examples of how new beginnings can help heal the endings.
I am sorry to hear that there won’t be another sock summit. I can live with that. The event was a lot of fun but I am sure that I can find fun in other ways. I am most concerned that this announcement represents an end to your friendship with Tina. I really hope that is not the case as the loss of a good friend would be profoundly sad.
Well, I want to thank you and Tina for putting together the first Sock Summit. It was the thrill of a lifetime to be there. You both ROCK!
Thank you for the good times, wonderful classes and hard work you put into past Summits. I loved every second. Don’t worry about us. Take care of yourself and don’t stress too much. Thanks again!
Oh Steph! Thanks for being so honest. I know this must have been a really hard decision. But I have to be honest and say that I’m devastated!! Knot Hysteria has become part of my life and lifeline. Change is t easy for me either. I think I’ll go have a good cry and then email you later. HUGS!!!
Change is inevitable, and can be very hard, but I hope this means something better is on the horizon for you.
I’m sure you’ve knit beautiful, stunning, gorgeous socks, socks that were absolutely perfect, that fit right the first time and never needed ripping back, that were fun to knit. And you wore them for years and years and loved every minute of wearing them.
And then they got a hole. A big hole. One in each heel. You put them in the drawer, thinking this time I really will darn this pair, they’re my favorite pair and I still have some of the yarn.
A year passes. Or two. One day, you find them stuffed in the back of the drawer – and you find yourself ready to give them up. Into the trash they go! And you’re sad for a moment, because really, they were perfect socks, but then you move on, because really, there will be other perfect socks. In a year. Or two.
So sorry to hear this, I loved the Sock Summitt and was looking forward to the next one. But you must always do what is right for you, not the masses who hang on your every word (even if we are disappointed).
Thank you for everything you contribute to my life, knitting and otherwise.
Enjoy this new beginning – as the other have said above me -, it’s scary and exhilarating.
Here’s another virtual hug to add to the pile, but I have to confess that when I first started reading I thought you were shutting your blog down… While I’m sorry for the one, I’m relieved it’s not the other… take care and look forward…
Bittersweet. Sometimes letting go of the things we’ve loved being a part of, whether there has been change for good or ill, is a necessary step forward. Then we are free to move on to the next chapter. Whatever your reasons for this, you are making choices that honour yourself as an artist, as a personified business, and as a human being. And you have my respect as well as that of so many, and the support of what I know is a circle of very loving and committed people. Let it enfold you and let your craft work its blessings.
Agree with the poster who indicated this might mean a change in your friendship with Tina, who we have grown to love long with you and the blog. Change is hell, no question about it. People die, men leave – this is a spiritual axiom. I don’t have to like it, though. I, and others, will be watching for what’s next for you. We are all sure it will be terrific.
Thank you for sharing the news with us in such a graceful manner. My only regret is that I did not attend a Sock Summit to drink up the knowledge and joy of sharing that came with it.
On to new adventures!
Thank you for the wonderful experiences you gave us with Knot Hysteria and Sock Summit. I look forward to seeing what’s next, my fellow Canuck!!
Stephanie, I can only say – What A Classy Way to Make A Difficult Announcement! So much of you comes through in your blog – which is what I love – and this announcement is right up there with who I must believe you are as a person. I’m only sorry I never got to come to Sock Summit, but along with others, am looking forward to hearing about what’s next in your life – besides, of course, the embroidery on that sweet little sweater …
I must admit that I feared you were about to tell us you were closing the blog. I’m glad I was wrong. You have done many, many wonderful things for all of us–the blog, Sock Summit, the first Knitting Olympics, the NYC event (I still remember the socks in a circle at Central Park), your delightful books–so I know whatever comes next will be as wonderful as you are.
When I first started reading the entry I thought you were done with the blog and I was going to start bawling.
Glad you’re still going to be keeping us entertained with your knitting adventures. New beginnings are always good!
Life is full of endings and new beginnings. The skill is in recognising them when they happen and this you have wisely done. Wishing you and Tina many more good things in your individual futures.
So sad. But happy that we had two fabulous events. You, Tina, the ST-2s were insane and the socksters benefited from the insantiy. May you all have wonderful journeys from this point on. Namaste
I’m so grateful that I got to experience the last Sock Summit and I wish you and Tina the best in whatever the future holds.
Thank you for sharing with us your time and talent in so many ways. You and Tina obviously did what is right for the two of you at this time and place and the details are yours only. Best wishes for further excellent adventures in life.
I’m sorry that your partnership had to come to a conclusion, but I look forward to seeing what your next great adventure is! Good luck and keep us posted!
Sad when wonderful things have to end. And how courageous of you both to recognize when to do that. And how loving to do it grace and tact.
I wish you both all the best at what is probably a difficult time.
Ah, this is sad news indeed. Thanks so much for the opportunities that Knot Hysteria gave to me and to the hundreds of other knitters that have benefitted from your and Tina’s brilliant brand of crazy.
Great and classy way to break difficult news. We were just talking about saving up for next Sock Summit. Now we can get creative about how to take our knitting on the road! Thanks for all your inspiration – past, present and to come!
Darn. I should have gone when I had the chance. It looked awesome. But, as with many things in the knitting world (Niebling, Rhinebeck, Wollmeise), I will continue to live vicariously through my peers.
Best wishes to you and Tina, two of my favorite fiberistas. May many good things be ahead for yu both and all the others who made Sock Summit happen twice, doubly confounding the Muggles.
I’ll never forget the fun of being with my own strange sock-obsessed subspecies for a few days, nor the joy of being part of the flash mob that serenaded you.
Write on, knit on, and keep on being yourself, ’cause nobody can do that any better!
There is no better time to start fresh than in the spring! I wish you luck in whatever endeavor you decide to tackle. I just wish I could have had the opportunity for you to do a Sock Summit on the East Coast of the US so I could have attended. Well, at least one of my shawls and socks got to go. LOL! Best wishes!
I will cherish the many happy memories from the Knot Hysteria events I was fortunate to attend. I am sorry to hear there won’t be any more, but I hope to cross paths again at some future endeavor of yours.
Sock Summit was great but if you and Tina need something else, more than understandable. Tina is fabulous and so are you. Always wishing you the best!
“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” – Albert Einstein
He was a pretty smart cookie.
Emjoy your coffee, knitting, and daffodils. And thank you so much for the two wonderful Sock Summits.
As always, a graceful post with a difficult topic. Thank you for knowing that many will be disappointed with the decision. Thank you for tenderness in delivery. And as many have already stated; change is always good and often difficult…carry on.
I was at Sock Summit ’11. It was, after over a decade of knitting, my first knitter convention, and I can’t even tell you how much fun I had. I took an amazing road trip with some (non-knitter!) friends. We had some ridiculous adventures–some fantastic, some involving throwing up on the side of the road. I met some great people, took mind-blowing classes, bought my beautiful Jenkins spindle, and got trapped in the GothSocks brawl. In the middle of nowhere, I drove past the road my partner grew up on, though I didn’t know it yet (we met two months later), where my friend told me that the hill people would get me–apparently he was right.
What I’m saying is thank you, thank you, thank you for everything. Life just happens sometimes, we understand, and I hope that spring really is coming to Canada.
when i read the first sentence of this post, i had a brief, terrifying thought that this was the end of the blog.
the news about sock summit then came as a relief.
so many feelings before coffee.
big love to you!
The good thing about ripping off a band-aid is that it signals the healing has begun, and new things/creations are beginning to form. With your positive energy, good karma, optimism and general-all-round approach to life, I have no doubt your new creations will be even more dynamic and exciting!
I have to admit, I have a little tear. Sock Summit was special to me and has a place no other knitting event will. I attended the first one while I was planning my wedding and many wonderful knitters added stitches to my veil. I attended the second while I was pregnant with my first and hoped one day I could bring her but life happens, things change and we all have to make decisions that are best for us.
I’m sure Sock Summit was great fun, but the massive preparation did sound exhausting and stressful. Though I never attended a Sock Summit, and I didn’t win, I did have the fun of designing Frankensocks as a sheep-to-sock-contest pattern entry. For continually sparking creativity in ever-widening circles, I thank you.
That must have been so difficult. (((hugs))) I had always been jealous that I couldn’t make it to Sock Summit, now I won’t have to be anymore. Really, this is a public service 😉
Godspeed to you! I’m sending restoration for any place that is lacking… and sparkling encouragement to any part of you that is ready to explore new territory. Take care, many people are behind you!
I yelled “DANG IT” and startled myself. I was saving money (ok, just in my mind) for the next, and was bummed already that it wasn’t This summer, but if I had to choose between sock yarn marketplace utopia and you being done with the blog, I’ll give up my yarn dreams. This particular gig may be done, but I don’t think you are done being an instigator for knitting advocacy! Keep up the good work. Thanks to your tenants of fearless knitting, I just cast on a giant alpaca shawl in time for Spring.
Nothing wrong with making a decision that is right for you and those involved. And, I think handling it privately is the right thing to do. Dragging things out on the Internet never helps anyone. I am bummed that Sock Summit has come to an end, but I look forward to seeing what is next on the horizon for everyone!
I’m so sorry. Like a divorce or a death in the family, it’s a game changer. Soldier on, I’ll try to catch up with you when you are in MPlS this month. We know how serious and how deeply this has mattered to you in that you are reaching for coffee, not Screech. Best wishes to you both.
Good luck to you and Tina in your future individual endeavors. Ir will be interesting to watch where your Muses take you two.
Cheers, Steph.
Best to you both. Live and grow. Mourn and heal. My personal sock summit was the year you pledged a pair of socks a month. And made it. I followed suit, at only a slightly slower pace, and wear only hand knit socks all winter, and on weekends. Summer socks are next. And for wearing with my suits, but knitting black sock yarn kind of sucks if it is at all fancy…
Elegant and classy. Well done.
I’m so sorry – that pretty much sums it up. Sorry for you, since this was clearly difficult, sorry for those of us who wanted to go back and those of us who were looking forward to going for the first time. But golly – it was a glorious and amazing accomplishment!
Thank you for all the blogs, photos, and stories from Sock Summit attendee friends. I know that putting on each one was monumental, and that it would be next to impossible for that kind of energy to go on forever. Knowing knitters, there will be some kind of events happening in the future which may or may not include me. In the mean time, I’m thankful for what comes my way.
I’ve been looking forward to a Sock Summit after I retire in 7 more years as my summers are audits and too busy to take off time. That said, I completely understand how change happens and so people and businesses change. Take a deep breath and enjoy what comes next.
Though I never went to it, it excited me to know it existed and just a short plane ride away from me in the Bay area. So, I’m sad that it’s over and I admire your wisdom of saying good-bye, with the implied hello to new things!
When you do something ultimate, it gets harder and harder to top it. That you managed it twice still boggles my mind. I have spent the winter rereading your archives and cannot help but note the horrifying amount of time and work and travel and absence of family and healthy life that made those events happen. Sanity has its points too.
However, could you update your travel schedule? It expired in February. Thanks.
Hard news to impart, I’m wishing both you and Tina all the best. New adventures can indeed be even better!
I’m sorry about the news – sorry for myself.
But I want to send best wishes to you all as you move forward, and a great big THANK YOU to everyone who made Sock Summit so wonderful.
I was able to attend both times and was blown away by the attention to detail that was spent to make it such a great event.
“I had the time of my life, and I never felt this way before …” 😉
Thanks, as always, for sharing your life with us. I wish you peace in your relationship with Tina (whatever form that takes), in the grieving of your company, and in unpacking the road map to determine which way you’re headed next. I’m also really, really glad you’re not shutting down the blog, which, like many here, I feared at first.
From a selfish perspective, I am sad beyond words for the loss of the anticipation and the opportunity to experience again the wonder of Sock Summit.
From a grateful perspective, that loss brings forward memories of being a part of SS09 and its roller-coaster beginning, the call from Tina confirming my reservations, the butterflies that flew me half-way across the continent to riding my first commuter rail and stumbling into the arms of Knitters! You and Tina and your amazing teams brought us to the feet of the Mentors of our industry. You all gave me, at 60 years old a gift I never imagined was possible. …and I have a very active imagination!
Thank you for the memories, Stephanie, it was you who led me to that path of possibilities and the opportunity to participate in the creation of the Sock Summit Legacy.
Your gracious goodbye to that creation is to me like giving the best of your knitting to someone you love. It was joy to make and the heartfelt to let go. Be content that you gave us your best.
I am taking a deep breath (along with you), and allowing the new paths opening ahead to lead us all to new possibilities.
It was a wonderful thing while it lasted, and I was privileged to attend all of them… and I have the shirts to prove it.
Good wishes, no regrets!
You know it is all right! Something else will start and end. We all start and end jobs all the time. I know you have something else that you are thinking about so I look forward to what is next for you and I hope that I can join in!
I went through a huge professional parting that also involved personal relationships several years ago. It was hard, but I forged a new path. If I could do that, you will forge a new 4 lane highway! I had so much fun at both Summits, and at Sock Camp and Knot Hysteria Retreats. Thanks to both you and Tina (and everyone associated) for the knowledge, laughter, and friendships that entered my life as a result.
I’m with the ones that held their breath reading the title of this post and began to breathe again when I read the words of what was endings. (selfishly, whew!). I hate goodbyes, long term short term, even when I’m relieved of a person or an event. I’m also one of the ones who dreams of attending something as wonderful as Sock Summit and Squam, and hasn’t yet. You definitely do not need my advice, you have my prayers.
Good luck with the beginning of whatever fabulous, crazy, yarn-laden thing is next for you! I was already saving up so I could finally go to Sock Summit. I think I’ll take my little family on vacation for a long weekend somewhere instead. There’s very rarely only one chance for something good and fulfilling in life. You know that, of course :o).
I’m sorry you’re experiencing something that is clearly painful to you. Tomorrow will be a better day.
It was a season in your life that has now come to an end, that’s all. You touched a lot of knitters (and others as well) with Sock Summit, and those people will always have memories to cherish.
I know some will be disappointed, but that’s like being disappointed that I didn’t make it to Woodstock (which happened six years before I was born). It happened, it’s over, that’s life 🙂
Console yourself that you have made the correct decision. Many times, events become the victims of their own success ie., Comic Con, South by Southwest, Burning Man, and the pleasures of a smaller group of attendees become lost in the nightmare of managing myriad applications, classes and other details. Obviously, the internet has advantages and conversely, many downsides. I am happy for those who were able to participate in the past and wish you continued joy in your knitting life, which as you are aware, goes on. You should take pride in your previous Sock Summit endeavors.
SIGH! I was “saving money” and planning my trip to Sock Summit 2014. However, at least we still have the Blog, right????
Best wishes to you and to Tina on wherever your future paths take you. Together, you accomplished a lot in spite of nearly a continent of land mass between you!
And, for you personally, this will probably add years to your life…what with the pre-planning, planning, travel, and general worry that each one of the sock summits engendered (and probably to Tina’s too…we just didn’t hear her agony as much!).
The reality of business partnerships is that they are not life-long commitments, and it is ok for them to end.
It can be painful, it is never an easy decision, and it often leaves many questions about what will be next. But it is not the end of everything.
And it is spring. There will be new life all over the place, and after a breather there will be something else to fill that space, too.
Looking forward is looking in the right direction. Here’s hoping your day gets better and better. As long as you continue your Blog I will be content. And so will MANY others who love “hearing” from you. Thank you!
I’m sorry to hear this, but as you said, “Life happens.” You and your sock summit were in large part the impetus that caused me to bite the bullet a few months ago and finally learn how to knit socks, lol. The locale is beautiful, the venue, and… the food you all talked about!! Very enticing. Not to mention all the fun it sounded like everyone had and the frienships that were made. But, I’ve lived 58 yrs. without Sock Summit and I bet I will survive the rest of my life without it 🙁 Wishing you and Tina the best life has to offer in your futures!!
Every good business plan has a good exit plan. This gives us a chance to thank you, Tina and all the folks involved in each Knot Hysteria production for your time and expertise. Best wishes for all your future endeavors.
I regret not having gotten to participate in the Sock Summits but I look forward to seeing what adventures come next for you. Also, I might be turning a little bit into you–I found myself needing ever larger packs of Post it notes to organize myself recently.
I thank you and Tina for one of the Knot Hysteria silk retreats. I was the one dropping the spindle (that’s why they call it a drop spindle,) couldn’t the cast on right for sour apples, but learned to work with silk coocons, dye it and watch it spun – with a community of like minded people – it was and is the best time I’ve had in my life – thank you both and move on.
Whew! I’m sorry for what is obviously a loss for you, but hugely relieved that the blog will continue. My day is made each time there is a new posting – your grace, class, warmth (and humor) come through the blog to all of us who love you. Take care and look forward to the new opportunities that are surely on their way. Cheers from the SF Bay Area.
What a relief! That’s one less thing I have to save money for!! I’m kidding, and I’m sorry that this has probably been very difficult for you. I will now proceed to start boosting the knitting economy by spending my Sock Summit savings on yarn.
All good things must come to an end. It only makes way for better things. I was lucky enough to attend the last Sock Summit and I can assure you ~ it was a blast! I’m looking forward to all the new adventures that you and Tina share with all of us.
Drink coffee, tea, and knit on dear lady!
I thank you and Tina for one of the Knot Hysteria silk retreats. I was the one dropping the spindle (that’s why they call it a drop spindle,) couldn’t the cast on right for sour apples, but learned to work with silk coocons, dye it and watch it spun – with a community of like minded peopls – it was and is the best time I’ve had in my life – thank you both and move on.
Since Sock Summit is the only fiber event I have ever been able to attend AND take any classes, it will always be very special to me. It was wonderful; thank you and Tina for making them happen.
So pleased to see every one seems to have your feelings and choices first in their thoughts. You’ve created a good audience. Great going…
Sock Summit (and, I’m sure, the other Knot Hysteria events), was one of the most magical things I’ve had the pleasure to do in this field. Thank you so much for the work you did to make it possible.
Here are some well wishes, and hugs, and all manner of other good things sent your way virtually. Spring is the time for new beginnings.
I hate that it’s ending. I respect the right of you both to privacy. I wish best things to you both. I hope (but am not asking) that the friendship continues. Even if it doesn’t, you two have enriched each others’ lives and in turn enriched ours. Thank you for that. May the void this ending creates be filled with pure awesomeness.
I know nothing about it, but I applaud you for being an adult in the dissolution and pronouncement of it. I wish you many good ventures in your future.
What an amazing garden you and Tina planted! And look at all the knitters you cultivated!
Thank you both for your dedication, sacrifices, commitment and for showing what is possible when two minds think alike.
And now we watch that garden grow….
Life changes in ways we never expect, well done you for making your way through and very best wishes for whatever is next. I’ll be tuned in to hear about whatever new adventures you share with your readers (:
You’ve encouraged so many in their knitting. Now you’ve lead the way in living your life with grace. Thanks for it all!
Wishing you much love and luck as you move forward!
Sorry to see a successful and fun adventure come to an end – especially since I was never able to attend! I’m sure it will be precious memories for you (and the participants) for years to come.
I know how hard it is to let go of something that was fun and successful (even if it was a LOT of work). Some friends and I ran a day camp for two years and had a lot of fun, and rave reviews – but in the end, we had to let it go. We still talk about how fun it was (10 years ago!) and how part of us wants to do it again.
I’m looking forward to seeing what else you can come up with (and maybe a little closer to me?) and I’m sure it will be terrific!
Change always has good and bad points. Some of my yarn went to the first SS, though I never made it in person. Partnerships change as people change. Sometimes it’s best to let go and see what’s around the corner.
It’s been a big day for endings. Lucasarts is closing and now there won’t be any more sock summits. I had a bit of a breakthrough last night in the area of endings and it’s that your most favorite things that end have a special way of being reborn. It’s a lesson I learned based on my live in the last 20 years.
So it’s sad to hear this partnership is ending, but I’m sure it’s just making room for something new and possibly better.
I wish the both of you the best of luck.
So glad I was able to attend it while it lasted! The fact it even came to fruition inspires me to travel for fiber. Best of luck in all your future endeavors! Can’t wait to read all about!
I grieve the end of the Sock Summits, but I rejoice in the fact that I was there for just about every minute of the two that took place.
Thank you and Tina for all you gave us at those two wonderful meetings.
And I wish you and your families all that is good.
Many hugs.
I’m so sorry to hear that! I hope you’re both in the best of health, and that you both have good luck in your future endeavors.
I’ve just been handed my redundancy papers, so I’m taking a deep breath, going out to see if there’s a crocus or two made it through the snow yet (no daffs round here, I’m afraid) and then I’m going to let some of your positive mojo rub off on me!
Made me think of this.
Turn your face toward the sun and the shadows will fall behind you.
Maori Proverb
I hope the friendship is still intact. Hugs
To a Dear woman,
I feel as if you are a friend, though I have never met you face to face. My heart goes out to you and those involved at this time.
I love you dear Lady, and Thank God for all the laughter you have brought me over the years. My heart goes out to you, and while Sock Summit was mighty, the power and love of knitters is even mightier.
I will cast on a pair of socks today, and will send warmest thoughts your way with my stitches. Thank you, my friend, for everything.
Distance Huggage, I am having a cuppa Peppermint Tea, and sitting there with you in Spirit.
Louise B
Dear Stephanie,
I am so grateful for all that you have contributed to the world of fiber, for your unwavering presence of who you are, and of your vulnerability in being human.
Wishing for you that the transition between endings and beginnings be filled with learnings, excitement, grace and love.
Looking forward to the next time our paths cross.
Much love and blessings to you.
xxoo Naomi
So sorry to hear that! For years I’ve been hoping you’d start a Sock Summit East here in NYC. Sounds like it’s an amicable split which is always good.
[sad face] – alas, I always said the silk retreat I got to come to was a once in a lifetime experience, but I secretly hoped I was wrong. Thanks for everything!
No matter what, Tina and you have revolutionized the knitting retreat. Sock Summit was the first grassroots massive knitting retreat I know about. There have been a couple of very commercial ones (Stitches West and East) But yours was always intimate and fun, no matter how many people were there. You kept the atmosphere of a smaller retreat, while filling a whole convention center. I am sure Portland will miss you.
You are right about new beginnings. But you should pat yourselves on the back about breaking ground here.
Extremely Relieved – I thought someone (who we know from the Blog? God forbid) died which would be so tragic and would leave you with no choice but perpetual grief because the death of a loved one is so forever. So glad it was not that.
Everything else can be dealt with, even if it is unpleasant now and would not be your first choice going forward.
Sock Summit was amazing, we love you and Tina, and it’s time to move on. Best wishes for future endeavors.
*huggles*
Endings can be good, endings can be for the better. Sometimes it’s good to end, step back, and breathe. In and Out.
Here’s for luck for the future. 🙂
All I can say is THANK YOU!
Now excuse me while I wipe my eyes….
Doing something gracefully will never be cause for regret.
Difficult decisions are just that: difficult. You have made it very clear ever since you started blogging that you make the effort to consider many aspects when making a decision and try to choose the best decision for that event at that time.
As always, a class act.
I wish you the best and just be happy girl.
Daffodils are my very favorite for what they represent and for their smell. Enjoy them ;).
I’m so glad that I made it to one of the Sock Summits. I’m said there won’t be another one, but this opens up opportunities to attend other events or retreats. While we may be sad, you need to do what’s right for you.
RIP Sock Summit. I never got to attend, but I know it was wonderful. I am looking forward to the next chapter. Please let me make it to a retreat before those leave too!
Thank you for putting on Sock Summit. My husband picked up his first spinning wheel at the last one, and it’s been wonderful. He was interested in trying the craft, and he might not have had the opportunity to try it out if it weren’t for the delightful gathering you put on.
He was looking for a way to participate more in my knitting obsession, and his newfound love of spinning has been a wonderful way to bring us even closer together. I think I can honestly say that Sock Summit made our marriage even happier!
Thanks for the wonderful memories. We had a great time, and I’m so excited to see what each of you does next!
What everyone else said up there, especially monica, lizycat, judy and marilynr.
((Hugs!))
Now can we talk about embroidery?
No explanation needed. Enjoy the sunshine (the warmth will come). Pull out the Birks (I have, though I need the wool socks still), and be proud of all the Sock Summits were, to so many. We thank you.
You are right to look forward, but it is not possible to avoid some feelings about something like this. I admit that selfishly, I am sorry as I dreamed of taking my daughter to one of these – they are in our “backyard” as it were and we are both sock knitters.
I also feel badly as I know you love coming out here and love the Port Ludlow location. I hope you will be back there for other events. And that’s rather nice, actually.
Regardless, that’s all selfish on my part. For your part, yes, look forward – you will always have more opportunities in front of you than time or good sense will allow you to pursue.
Thank you and Tina so much for the wonderful learning and friend-making opportunities you gave us at the Sock Summits. I had an extrodinary time at them and have many great memories. I’m sure your future endeavors, no matter what they may be, will be as successful and filled with joy.
You need some hyacinths too. Lavender, I think. Maybe pink. Sorry to read about the change in your life, but endings can also be beginnings. “Be strong and knit/spin/weave on!”
I had the pleasure of attending both Sock Summits and had such a great time at both of them, but nothing lasts forever. Someone else will take up the mantle and plan other events, inspired by you. Moving on is always sad, but it also opens new opportunities. You are both successful, wonderful, inspiring women, and I have no doubt that you will continue to be so.
I know this must be such a hard post to write Steph, but I also know that sometimes the bravest things are the hardest. You and Tina brought together an amazing community with sock summit. I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to teach there and for the mentoring that you provided. I have no doubt, no doubt at all, that you have an awesome adventure/opportunity/window open for you ahead. I’ll be along for the ride.
So proud of you for taking care of you and being graceful in doing so. Not an easy thing to do. Xoxoxo
It’s the end of the era. I feel like it was fate that I was able to make it to the last Knot Hysteria retreat- I spent the whole time blissed out at how great three days of nothing but yarn and knitters could be. Thank you for giving me that experience- and thank you for the announcement not being that the blog is over!!!
“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end…” (Closing Time, by Supersonic)
Thank you! Thank you for your hard work, your talent, and you’re craziness (in a good way!!!) I attended two Knot Hysteria retreats and they had a profound affect on my life. I’m turning 50 in a few weeks and I’m completely ok with that. Because I have time to pursue all the passions that I learned at KH. I’m now a spinner, and I love dying stuff. I may just go after my white dog! I didn’t have any interest in learning to dye yarn or spin, but decided to have an open mind about both at retreats. I love this age because I’m passionate about my art. Thank you!
When I got laid off five years ago, the best advise I got was from a dear friend who said “let it go, move on to what feeds you.” I found the world filled with many opportunities that have feed me. None more so than getting back to knitting. Your amazing and humorous view of the world will lead you down some more amazing paths, and hopefully you will share some with us. Life really is a wonderful adventure and you remind yourself of this most when you reach for something new. Have fun!
Kudos to you Stephanie for making the right decision for your self and for your family. You have brought continuous joy and light into all our lives. I think we all appreciate you sharing so much of yourself. Here’s to new beginnings. 🙂
I never attended Sock Summit, and while part of me is sad that there will not be another one, from out in reader land it looked like the summit took a lot out of everyone involved. I look forward to seeing what wonderful things you do next!
(((hugs)))
I got nothin’ but hugs, sweet pea. They’re all yours.
Oh man, I can’t even imagine how much typing / deleting you would have gone through. Thinking about you, lady! You did some amazing work with those first two summits and they will always be legend now and pass into knitting lore. Like Woodstock! “Dude, I was at Sock Summit ’09. You don’t even KNOW.”
Thank you for making it happen. I understand it’s a lot of work and sometimes things don’t work out. We have memories that we can share.
Hugs!
Wow, that is big news indeed. These were such special events, somehow having them be the only ones makes them more special. I’m so so glad I was a part of it. You guys made it awesome.
Sorry to hear the news; I had been hoping to attend in 2014. But perhaps this will create an opportunity for something else to happen. Looking forward to hearing about your future adventures.
I can only add my hugs to the group and thank you for all that you do and share with us. Difficult decisions are going to be rough by their very definitions but are also often a relief once made. Wishing you blessings and peace.
Love you.
That is all.
Oh Steph – what bravery & guts you’ve exemplified yet again for us, “The Blog” – I unfortunately never did get to attend a sock summit, but I know you’ll do more great things to come. We look forward to your future – get those shades out cuz it’s BRIGHT baby!
I can’t thank you enough for the wonderful, fabulous, amazing time I had at Sock Summit in 2009. I’m so sorry there won’t be more, but, glad I could be part of one, at least! All the very best to you.
I, too, thought that you were announcing the end of the blog so when it was the Sock Summit, etc. I breathed a sigh of relief.
I got to attend SS11 with my aunt and it was wonderful to do something like that with her. I got to take some great classes, learned some new techniques and volunteered as well. So I’m thankful for the opportunity I had.
I do know that life goes on and there are other opportunities ahead so I know that there will be other ones for you!
What???????
I’m devastated! I was at both prior Sock Summits and thought this was going to be ongoing.
I will survive but for now there is a hole in my life (and next years calender.)
Good luck with your future endeavors. Hopefully you will be able to arrange something similar in the future. My money is already saved up so……
Last spring, after quitting a job situation that was very hard to let go of, I lost myself in yard work and clearing out deadwood from way overgrown rhodies. After a long sweaty arduous day I stood back and looked. Two butterflies swirled around each other in a cleared space I had just made. They dance out and around and around me, and then spiraled away over the roof of my house.
Making space. Horrible and ecstatic at the same time, and when from the heart, the only possible way. Hugs.
To new beginnings!
Thanks for the grand time. Hope the future is bright and full of happy.
Many years ago I bought out my business partner in a fiber shop. The break was clean, tho the healing took a very long time. Best of happy days as you go forward.
Graceful is important. Good for you. I’m sure that whatever happens next will be wonderful.
Be so very proud of the two Summits that were wonderful. Both you and Tina did what no others could do, and I thank you for the opportunity to vend and take part in these special events.
As the saying goes “Don’t be sad that it’s over, be happy it happened.” I’m sure the two of you made the right decision for both of you. I’m sorry I never made it out there for Sock Summit, it looked like loads of fun from here. Best wishes to you and Tina in the future! Hugs!
Like so many of us, it seems, I held my breath for the first paragraph and a half, and was so relieved to find that the blog will go on. And then I felt bad for being so selfish, wanting you to blog and blog forever because I get so much out of reading your thoughts and sharing your knitting and life experiences… I didn’t get to Sock Summit, or any of the other events, and that’s too bad for me, but I join all the others who wish you (and Tina) the best and hope that you can both move on “gracefully” and know that you did something marvelous. And now – onward!
And when will you be in the Bay Area (NoCal) again? (Selfish, selfish, selfish…)
You know, you set a really high bar for the rest of us. Well and gracefully said. May the future have wonderful things for both of you.
I just wanted to express a huge thank you to both you and Tina for the amazing efforts behind Sock Summits one & two. Being lucky to live in Portland, I was able to attend both festivals of yarny awesomeness. I learned so SO much and met so many incredible knitters. Selfishly sad, but onward to new adventures!
Your daffodils are beautiful, and so are you. 🙂
Stephanie,
As much as this makes me sad, I know you did it for what ever were the right reasons for you. Thank you for the opportunity to teach at the first Sock Summit in 2009!
From one professional to another, as hard as these things can be, sometimes doing the hard thing is the best for us all the way around. Know I totally understand where you are coming from on that!
Hugs!!!
Well said. When something ends, something else can begin. I hope that if something had to come to an end, it was only the business partnership and not the friendship. Thank you for sharing a difficult situation in your always-eloquent manner. And best wishes to you in your future endeavours, which we know will be amazing.
Dearest Stephanie, best of luck with your new ventures! The thing that makes something special is understanding that it can’t always exist. I’m looking forward to what’s next for you – scary, exciting, nerve-wracking, wonderful, frustrating, and perfect, this tells you you’re on the right track. xxoo
You didn’t say, and I’m not going to assume this is because you had some kind of big falling out. I may be wrong, and apologize if I am – but I can totally see the logistical problems that time and distance (opposite ends of the country) could make. Like many – I’m bummed I never got to go to SS – but I certainly enjoyed the cyber recaps that you gave us. So cheers and toasts to new endeavors.
For every door that closes, another one opens up. Onward to new adventures!
I don’t have enough words to describe how pleased I am that you have decided not to go into all the details, but to end this thing gracefully.
What a classy lady you are, Stephanie!!
I’m glad that you are looking forward. Here’s something I heard at a storytelling conference:
When a door closes, a window opens so that your spirit can rush through it and grow.
Hugs.
I’m sad to learn that there won’t be another Sock Summit (or the other retreats, I assume), but I’m sure you made the right decision for you, and I wish you the best of luck in whatever future endeavors to which you choose to give your time and immense talent. In the meantime, enjoy your beautiful daffodils!
Like everyone else has said, I too am sad that there won’t be another Sock Summit, especially as I was not able to attend the first two. I was luckily able to attend Sock Camp for the first time last year, and it was absolutely incredible. But, change is inevitable as I have discovered in the past month, and while it is not always pleasant and can be downright painful sometimes, it always allows us to move forward and discover new paths. Thank you Stephanie and thank you to Tina as well, for providing so many of us the opportunity to meet each other, learn new things and feel the warmth and love in such a marvellous community. May all of your future endeavours be as successful!
Brings to mind a favorite song, “Closing Time” by Semisonic.
Best line in the song…Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.
I’ll be humming that tune the rest of the day. Looking forward.
While I am sad to hear the news,I am profoundly grateful for all you and Tina have done.
Without all your energy,imagination and love, I may never have had the adventures that led to such close friendships, shared so many wonderful moments,and had so darn much fun. I have dear friends,and memories because of what you two made possible.
Truly, many thanks,and hugs.
Add some dark chocolate,and later,a beer to your day.
And know youareloved.
xoxox JoanC2
Best of luck in what ever new endeavors you choose. Thank you and Tina for letting me know there were others out there like me. Hugs to you and your family. New is good.
I know this must have been a very hard decision, with much thought put into it. Thank you for bringing together a whole lot of sock knitters over the past two Sock Summits. That part might be done, but I know there is a whole lot more on the horizon for both of you!
What JoanC2 said. And not just because she is one of the dear friends I have today because of SS1 & 2.
I’m really sorry to hear this news. I’ve never made it to SS, but always wanted to, and now I never shall. As has been said, however, from endings come new beginnings, and I’m looking forward to the next thing.
Sending along a virtual hug. I attended the first Sock Summit traveling from Florida….it was joyous, and amazing, and I would not have missed it for anything.
Thank you for the memories… enjoy the steps to the future.
sorry to read this. it must be a hard decision. my regrets that i could not afford to go when you did offer it.
Whhile I know this is no small thing for you and is probably very sad for those who have attended or were plannning to attend a Sock Summit, I must admit I was quite relieved to hear that was the thing you were giving up. Like an earlier writer I feared you were surrendering the blog and I’m not sure how I would have managed without it. Yours is one of two blogs I read daily and I don’t think my day would be complete without it (not a lay a guilt trip on you in case you ever do have to give it up.) I also fleetingly feared you were giving up knitting but I realize that would be a sure sign that the end of the world is near anyway.
Like Lynne In Florida..I too did not get to go to a Sock Summmit. What a loss!! But..what can one do when agreement is not possible (at least that is what this sounds like). Things do change…just with it had been in the other direction.
…Oh well…onward..
Sometimes, as much work has to go into ending something properly, as there was in starting it. I’m sorry I’ll never have the chance to go but I’m sure new and exciting things are ahead for you both.
I never attended Sock Summit but enjoyed it very much vicariously through your posts and the BLog comments. And the Youtube videos of the excellent sock flash mob. I too was worried that you might stop blogging and am relieved that’s not so.
So many wise comments have made so far – ditto to them all.
Thank you for all that you’ve done and what you do continue to do for knitters like us.
You okay, kids okay, Joe okay, Mum okay, rest of family okay, blog still here … whew.
Change is hard, but change is good. Thanks so much for bringing Sock Summit to my backyard. The first was great, and the second greater. So much fun to have so many knitters here in Portland! I’m not a sockist, but I loved the event,anyway…because sock yarn is shawl yarn, and that made me happy!
You and Tina made a good thing. Thank you for letting us share in it. Good luck in your next adventures.
Brava! For having the courage to move forward, for having the grace to let us know without making excuses, and for the respect you show for both your own and Tina’s privacy. It was a wonderful thing and the memories will remain.
I never made it to Sock Summit, but I can’t even BEGIN to imagine how much work was involved. I’m still amazed that you had a second one, in fact, no matter how much fun it might have been. So thanks for letting us know, and I look forward to what comes next in your life! I’m sure it will be wonderful, whatever it is, and I hope it makes you as happy as things in the past, like Sock Summit, did!
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt and logo pint.
Hugs for the happy or not-so-happpy times and tissues for the tears.
All of it will always hold a special place in my memories as will Sock Camp.
Those you can’t take away from any of us.
I’m looking forward to the next great adventure.
Always thinking of what the next big thing will be in your world and know some of it we don’t need to know.
Some of it you will blog about.
Remember:
Looking forward is a good thing because then you won’t walk into a lamp post or trip over a curb.
I’ll be seeing you.
Love ya!
Alice
Your post was difficult to read…I can’t even imagine how difficult it was to write. Endings are always painful but I have always believed things happen for a reason. Best wishes on what’s next.
I’m so sorry. For me–I was so looking forward to finally getting to go to the next one–but most of all for you, for Tina, and for all of us. I’m grateful you two made it happen for so many those two times. Thank you. And with thanks for the official t-shirt and button and official Sock Summit colorway yarn (I made the socks!) that mysteriously showed up in a box at my door after I was in the hospital during the first Sock Summit–you guys rock.
I am saddened that Knot Hysteria had to end – but happy you did it gracefully. I am glad I had the opportunity to attend a sock summit, and a couple retreats. You and Tina brought much good into my life and I thank you for the opportunity to know you and learn from you in this small way.
Now that my heart is back on track and I can breathe (glad you aren’t stopping the blog!) I am holding you in the most loving of positive light and intention. Things change, move forward, enjoy your flowers and coffee. The new adventure will begin when the time is right.
I’m so sorry to hear this! I understand though and I hope wonderful things are in the future for you and Tina both!
Best wishes for what may lie ahead!
Thanks to you and to Tina for giving us two Sock Summits. My best to both of you in your separate ventures in the future. I will continue to read your blog and your books and buy/fondle/knit with Tina’s yarn, so it’s not really an end, it’s just a different sort of path than it seemed to be before. My favorite poem is Robert Frost’s “Two Roads in a Yellow Wood”. Don’t regret any decisions; learn from them and move on.
No more Sock Summit?! ARGH!
Said with class….so well done.
Classy as always, my friend, classy as always.
Cheers and lots and lots of hugs to you Steph! Breathe, move forward . . . here’s to new beginnings! You make a difference for so many in this world! Carry on . . . . . . .
Well done and classy. Less is more.
New adventures await!
Graceful it was. I’m eagerly awaiting what your lovely and fruitful imagination and wonderful energy will come up with next. Well done!!!!
While I’m sorry to hear the news, I understand and support anything you two do (or choose not to do). Your friendship is more important than anything, and you are two very busy, incredible ladies. I enjoyed the Sock Summits immensely, but understand the tremendous amount of work that went into them, and how incredibly hard it must have been to coordinate from two separate countries and timezones. Looking forward to your next great idea! Hugs.
Big. Truly a biggie on my bucket list was to make it to a Sock Summit. Alas some things are not meant to be….but it now leaves room on my list for something just as spectacular to a self proclaimed sock knitting addict. It’s all good…. sometimes it just depends on how you look at it.
I wish I’d been at the first one and every one therafter — but now I just want to be part of whatever’s next, and am grateful that you still meet us here. That’s what matters most to most of us, lamb.
Discretion is the better part of valor. Thank you for telling us and doing so in a positive way. Can’t wait to see what you do next!
Who says you can’t miss something you never had.? I grieve for Sock Summit, but look forward to your next adventure.
I never got to Sock Summit, but I am sure it would have been grand. I hope whatever spurred this decision is in fact another open door.
Because I waste too much time with celebrity blind items and now I am freaking out about cancer. Because daffodils and cancer fundraising – see?! Is it a clue?!? So much anxiety over a likely innocuous and non-metaphorical flower choice.
Ugh, I gotta lay off gossip blogs and stick to knitting ones.
Thanks for everything! You rule!
While I am disappointed that I won’t be able to attend a Sock Summit, I understand about closing businesses and need no further details. More than anything, I merely hope that you and Tina will continue being good friends. Thank you.
Sounds like a thoroughly thought out decision and the one that needed to be made. Do what you gotta do and knit on. *hug*
Thanks for your hard work. <3
Everyone else has said it. You and Tina have given us so much! It was an incredible amount of stress and work for you and all who helped with Knot Hysteria events. I love you both, and I hope for your return to the Pacific Northwest so I can say hi and hugs in person.
You have told us in the best way possible. We’ll all move on. Thanks for the memories, and continuing the blog
Thanks for letting me participate in the very first Knot Hysteria. I had a lot of fun. I am the only person in my knitting group who can speed knit thanks to you and when my knitting group gets together for a dye party, I can always impress them when I dye fiber Tina-style.
My only concern is…how are the good folks at the Inn going to get their periodic fix on fibery zaniness?
Now I really wish I would have budgeted properly to have gotten to a Port Ludlow knot hysteria retreat. I’m so sad, yet hopeful for the two of you for new beginnings. Luck in Love and Life
*hug!*
I’m sure you have your reasons for this, and I won’t ask because your reasons are your reasons, but I am in mourning as I hadn’t had the chance to go yet.
I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this painful time and come to a very difficut decision whatever the circumstances. It is completely impossible for me not to kick into my second grade teacher mode and say: “Girls, I’m very proud of both of you for handling this situation with good words, not mean ones. I’m proud of you for respecting each other no matter what. I’m proud of you for keeping a private matter private, and not gossiping about it. When you come into class tomorrow, you will receive the golden apple award. Think about which prize you’ll choose – lunch with the teacher, a new book, or a new scarf hand knit by your very own teacher. Time for me to go e-mail your mommies how proud I am of you.” Sorry, I kick into teacher mode at the least thing.
We love you Stephanie and we all want what is best for you and your life. You have so generously shared so much of your life with us it starts to feel like you are part of our family.
Just like I would tell anyone in my life, you have to follow your heart. Although many of us may be sad that there will not be another Sock Summit, we will get over it. After all, in the “Big Picture” nobody died, nobody got hurt, and there are so many much bigger issues in the world today. So here’s another virtual hug.
And take this opportunity to have some Stephanie time. You certainly deserve it.
Happy Knitting!
I am so so sorry. I am sure it is for the best, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t very sad. I will send you thoughts of peace.
So sorry to hear no more Sock Summit, but very happy that is all it is! When I first started reading, I was hoping you were not giving up your Blog! I wish you both the best in what future lies ahead!
As a regular reader but a reluctant commenter, I am so impressed and inspired by all the responses to this posting. What a wonderful ans supportive community you all are. You guys rock! I am privileged to see the caring you all provide each other.
All these songs are running through my head, but the one that keeps coming back is Bob Segar’s Turn the Page.
all the best to you and Tina and what lies ahead for you both.
Daffodils and knitting. Hugs
So bummed! After years of living in Alaska, I am finally moving to the Lower 48 and had hopes of attending a Sock Summit. sigh. Things do end and things do begin. Best of luck to you in new adventures.
Wishing you and Tina the best in your future endeavors, whether they be separate or not. And who knows? Maybe some other brave (and somewhat crazed) knitters will find a way to bring about some new version of Sock Summit — and ask you both to be on the faculty.
Glad to see you got some spring flowers to help cheer you up during the last part of Canadian winter. Spring is coming! (PS: That means it’s time to start your Christmas knitting. Just saying.)
Thank you for this difficult post and the wonderful Sock Summits. They had so much of both of you. I am certain that another great door is set to open. Blessings to you and Tina both.
I don’t know enough to comment, but I’m sending hugs anyway. <3 <3 We love you.
I attended both Sock Summits, so sorry to hear there won’t be another. some of the best fun ever. I still have the stash to remind me.
I started knitting socks because of Sock Summit. Felt silly telling people I was going but didn’t knit socks.
Hope the Sock Museum will continue.
Thanks again for all you did do birth these events.
Time now to explore other fibery events!
So sorry there won’t be another Sock Summit. I didn’t ever make it there, but I did get to two of the Port Ludlow workshops. I thoroughly enjoyed both. I have great admiration for both of you, and wish you both the very best as you move forward.
I’m disappointed there won’t be another Sock Summit. I’m glad that I went to one of them and had the opportunity to visit Portland and meet other sock knitters there. I’m glad I don’t have to worry in the future if I’d be able to take time off in August to attend another sock Summit. But it’s not really about me.. It’s about you and Tina, what you’ve given us. For that, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I also want to thank you for the opportunity to eat a cock-and-balls from Voodoo Donuts – an experience I will never forget.
I’m so sorry that I won’t have a chance to get to some future Sock Summit, but things happen and life moves on. I’m sure the next thing will be even better.
It’s a tiny thing in all this, but what happened to the socks for the Sock Museum? Will they ever be shown again? I contributed the single early Islamic sock. I don’t expect it back, but I wonder where it has gone? I’d love them to find a home somewhere.
It’s poignant when things end. Especially things you put so much of yourself into. I know this all too well. But as you say, it leaves room for the next adventure.
Be well, the both of you.
I think that was a beautiful and graceful way to say something that I’m sure was hard for lots of us to hear.
(((Stephanie))) SS was splendid! So many great memories, which came about due to the very hard work of a handful of people. You gave it an excellent run – it couldn’t have been better.
I’ve long been gobsmacked at how much time and energy you give, and give, and give to the fiber world!
I just want to tell you that I am grateful there was a sock summit at all. I learned so much, I met so many wonderful people (including you!) and I value that experience more than you know. So what I really want to say is Thank You.
Nothing is “forever” and often change is a good thing! When one door closes, the other doors open, at least that’s what my mother has told me my entire life!! Enjoy your coffee, take a deep breath and just relax!!
I’m sorry you’re sad. Your daffodils are lovely. Tomorrow will be better.
Hugs.
Your force is far-reaching. Thank you for grace and clarity. I did not breath for about 15 seconds until I knew the blog was not going away and the family was in good health. It must be odd to have turned that corner – however I’m sure the view is a far horizon. Enjoy the daffodils and coffee.
Circumstances don’t allow me to travel in yarnish pursuits, but I have enjoyed your reports. There has been a lot of work involved, and no one can keep going forever. The most important part of your post today is “Tina and I agreed…”
I have been so blessed to know you and I wish only the best for you. Sending you a huge hug and a huge wish for a wonderful spring and summer. I so hope our paths will cross again.
I’ve never met you, and couldn’t knit a sock to save my life, but I am overwhelmed by the strength and number of people who deeply care about you. It is clear you are one of those individuals who has worked some human magic in this world, and what ever it was that took place recently to change your course, I hope the personal earthquake you have survived has released new power and light and inner peace.
My hope is that you’re both in good health, wealth, and happiness but just got tired making the trans-contenential thing work. I never knew how you two did it in the first place and it’s OK to say it was too much to do over, and over, and over again.
Sock Summit was real, and fun, and fabulous, and I thank you for making it happen, and for the fond memories. Here’s to whatever life brings next. Huzzah!
Ugh, I am sad. I had such a wonderful time. I, of course, wish you the best, but I will miss Port Ludlow and the yarn bombings and thinking about color. I will have to look forward to what comes next, but today I am sad for what is ending.
Thank you for everything, always.
You are the epitome of elegance and grace. You make me strive to be a better person by the example that you set forth here on this blog. I hope that your parting ways with Tina hasn’t left you both in a bad place with your friendship, and I look forward to hearing about whatever crazy adventure you dream up next.
You are a class act. I wish more public figures were able to draw the line between the personal and public parts of their lives as well as you have done here.
I see magazine headlines at the grocery store blaring loudly about the Virgin Bachelor, and my mind drifts to virgin wool…I see lovely women with wayyy too much being exposed, and wonder if we knitters should start a “less is more, cover it up” campaign where we knit shawls for them…or maybe bras and dresses that actually fit (?)
So if you are hunting for a new public works project, maybe a Privacy and Dignity For Famous People could be on the list of considerations? LOL!
Thank you both for all you have done. 🙂
I was so afraid you were going to say that you were shutting down the blog. Thank you for not shutting down the blog!!
Living halfway around the world, I had little chance ever being able to attend, though I kept dreaming about it. Sorry to feel your sadness, but as everyone else said, there will be other things to come.
I am also glad it is not this blog you are shutting down.
Have a tea, or a glass of vine and keep knitting.
I haven’t been around forever like many of your blog readers. I have quietly followed your blog when time permits which isn’t often. I never comment because I don’t feel my little comment will mean much, but today I would like to say your eloquence and grace is lovely. I wish you well and look foward to seeing the wonderful things that come to you.
Thank you for letting the blog know. It must be hard to let go of something into which you’ve poured energy, time, thought, and endless planning. I hope this spring is a time of renewal for you.
p.s. You must have been knocked over by the blast of wind that gusted over you when we all sighed in relief that you weren’t quitting the blog. Sorry about that. Our bad.
Sometimes, when people become too fragmented and life becomes to hectic with all the responsibilites we place upon ourselves, it is time to step back and TAKE the time to “smell the flowers”.
So sorry on so very many levels. Now, I wish I had gone to sock summit at least once. So, I guess, what we all have learned is that, if we can, we should do the things that we want to do, when we can do it. Sigh.
Best wishes on ending this chapter and starting a new one.
You are such a creative person with dreams that you make into reality for many of your fellow knitters. I have to wonder what will your amazing mind think of next? More Knitting? Another project? You’ve opened up so many possibilities it will be wonderful to see where this goes.
Oh dear! It took a lot of courage to make a public announcement like you did and I admire you for it.
Like many others, I am SO glad it isn’t your blog that is done! I love you as you are, and trust for healing as you move on with courage.
Best wishes, Dee
I never made it to Sock Summit, but even from afar, it was obvious that it took a hug amount of work to make happen. You are more than entitled to put your time and effort into something else now, whatever the reasons.
I’m sorry to see it end, but I hope it was amicable. You gotta do what you gotta do.
Wishing you knowledge in a happy and creative future!!
You are very brave to accept and announce when you need to end something you and others have enjoyed, because it is the right and best thing for you. I am sorry you had to make such a hard decision, Stephanie. Good luck with your future projects–I look forward to seeing what you do, as always.
My husband and I just left the company we helped start 17 years ago. I understand where you are and applaud you for recognizing that time is everything.
As always, I look forward to your posts, your patterns and most of all, your willingness to share a part of your life with us.
Thank you.
Whatever the reasons, your decision is sound if you are at peace with it. I attended SS11 and did have ‘the time of my life.’ I wish both you and Tina well in future endeavors, and hope like many others have said that all is still well with your friendship.
You are an inspiration and catalyst for so many fun knitting adventures I hope that whatever the future holds you will continue to share yours with your extended knitting family. Hugs and Blessings.
No matter what happens, I wish the best for you and your family. You’ve done amazing things and you’ll continue to do more. Wish you the best on your journey!
This was sad news to read but I admit to a moment of swirling panic when I thought you were ending your Blog. Perhaps it was your photo of daffodils,but your post conveyed optimism.Like you, I have faith in positive new beginnings.
<3 I’m so sorry that something wonderful is ending for you but I’m looking forward to what you do next.
Because we share a first name, and I was blessed to have attended SS2, I refreshed my memory of the meaning of “Stephanie:”
Crowned in Victory
People with this name have a deep inner desire for love and companionship, and want to work with others to achieve peace and harmony.
People with this name are excellent at analyzing, understanding, and learning. They tend to be mystics, philosophers, scholars, and teachers. Because they live so much in the mind, they tend to be quiet and introspective, and are usually introverts. When presented with issues, they will see the larger picture.
You are all of the above. As a previous poster quoted, from Semisonic, “Every new beginning is another beginning’s end.”
Wishing you all the best.
Steph
Big Hugs and warm wishes to you and Tina. I had the good fortune of attending SS2 with a dear friend. We had a blast! You, Tina and your team did a fabulous job. It will always be my Woodstock 🙂
The future looks bright.
Sorry to hear this, but you need to do what is right and best for you. Best of luck in your new endeavors.
To everything there is a season. I love the lyrics from a Rob Thomas song that says something like, “No one ever said we had to keep the things we get.” Some things are meant to be for a season and they add to the world from having existed.
There will be new adventures ahead.
I went to Sock Summit the 1st year it was in Portland and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for creating a wonderful event. Wishing luck in future knitting adventures.
Sorry for myself, that I never was able to attend. But what a wonderful legacy you and Tina have left in the Knitting World, all who went will always sing your praises.
Elegant as always, but Rams expressed it much better than I could. I’m sorry for your loss, but trust to the infinite wisdom that you’ve done what is best for you and yours.
Sending healing thoughts – namaste.
xo – My husband will thank you, he found part of my sock yarn stash last night – it wasn’t pretty. 🙂 and WHY did I have to buy the new green cashmere yarn for my spring scarf and not use the oodles of sock yarn hidden in boxes around the house instead? um, because, and duh – Cashmere!
I hope that this ends well, you all get to remain friends, and that happy new things happen.
No apologies needed. Thanks for all the hours you guys put in, I made it to the second one and it was the most fabulous weekend and a fantastic introduction to my new hometown. Only happy memories.
Dear, dear Stephanie–all my love to you and Tina. Thank you so much for the Port Ludlow retreats and Sock Summit. It was a beautiful gift, and I will always be grateful for it. Knitted items are the best containers for love, but knitting retreats and summits are a close second. The two of you and your whole team did a beautiful thing for a lot of people, and though I’m sad there won’t be more, I am so very happy that you all did what you did.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
P.S. — Of course your privacy and Tina’s should be respected. I just hope that the reasons are logistics and not a rift of some kind. Friendship is more important than summits or retreats.
To new beginnings! But first, a break, to breathe, reflect
An authentic and graceful message–well-done and thank you. Thinking springishly, there are some very special tulip bulbs that only bloom once or twice. They were gorgeous and we miss them, but we’re so glad they were there at all.
During a similar happening in my life I found these four rules or agreements they helped me through a really terrible time, I’m going to share them with you because even after almost 10 years it still stings;
1. Don’t take it personal-(10-1 it’s not you)
2. Don’t make assumptions ( the hardest one for me to follow )
3. Always do your best ( let’s face it if your best isn’t good enough forget it)
4. Always be honest ( be honest even if it is going to be painful for the other person or you nothing festers that way)
Have a cup of tea and if we are ever going to be on the same place again you get another bottle of Glen….
I appreciate the grace and class with which you shared this information. It looks from the above comments that you are receiving plenty of comfort and understanding. Amazing to be so loved by people who have never met you. Keep doing what you do; it’s obviously right.
So delighted you are continuing the blog, and I do think you could use a nice long stretch of family and knitting and no traveling. Particularly the kind where you really do need to get the right things in the car and it’s terribly stressful and all that.
Hang out with those darling children, do some knitting, plant something. You’ve done so much for so many, even at a distance. My son loves your books, which gave he and I such a great and humorous connection when things were difficult, which is one of the greatest gifts you have given me.
Nothing has to last forever…I remember one of your posts some time back when you talked about the joy of having worn out a sock that you weren’t going to darn because it gives you the excuse to start another. So, this idea of Sock Summit has worn out, and you will have many more successful and wonderful ideas. Looking forward to seeing what’s next.
You guys who think she’s going to stop writing her blog, I never for a moment even considered that possibility…and what a loss it would have been–thank goodness, it’s not. I loved the notes from sock summit, and you have all sorts of wonderful memories jam packed into your brain for those times. So hang on to those, of course.
But never ever tell me “I’m going to stop knitting.” I might have to come to Toronto and take your temperature…
I’ve been trying your “Irish Cottage Knitting”. I wish I could meet with you to go over the tensioning part–where the yarn wraps around your fingers and how you hold your ring finger the way you do, as the second that I move my ring finger, the yarn comes off it! ARRGGH!
It’s good to know when to stop.
Thank you both so very very much for creating those events. I had the great privilege of attending each: unforgettable. So grateful to have been there. (bows, doffs hat)
Thanks for all of the fun!! Thanks to you two, I met so many of my knitting idols.
…forgot to add in my last post…”and drink a big beer”.
bjr
Much love to you, and peace through this transition.
This resonates so very much with me because last weekend, my boyfriend and I agreed to split up (I know it’s not the exact same thing, but a relationship is a relationship, no matter how close it is). We’ve been carrying our burdens for quite some time, and although we still care for each other a great deal, we decided together that now’s the time to put an end to it. I’ve been in a difficult state since, tumbling between deep sadness and hope. Thanks for your words – they made me feel that hope might prevail.
Thinking of you as you adjust to this change and hoping that, when you’re ready, life brings more special things your way.
Agree with Chickadee – I also thought you were going to shut down the blog. Thank you for keeping it open. Also agree with I think Naomi, although I can’t find the comment now. Doing anything gracefully never causes regrets. I am sure a wonderful new door will open for you, and for Tina, and perhaps you will enter it together.
As ever, your honesty and discretion are in perfect balance, Steph. As you say, life happens and we have to move on – nothing lasts forever. Enjoy your daffodils and your coffee, and knit through the emotions which must come with this change……and take this as a big virtual hug from me for whatever it is which has prompted the change xxx
Also, it must be hard living your life while being more-or-less on public view. You handle it very well, but hard nonetheless. You have my sympathies.
Remember Dr. Seuss…don’t be sad that it’s over -just be happy that it was! Easier said than done!Peace and hugs!
When one door closes, another one always opens. There are only more wonderful things ahead 🙂
“I’m sure you have questions, but to be completely honest I’m also pretty sure that there isn’t much more I think it’s appropriate to say. Our reasons for coming to this place are private, and it’s important to me that this is graceful.”
Oh my, you express yourself so well. My 25-year relationship recently came to an end, and I’m tempted to print this on cards and hand them out when people ask more than is appropriate. What you’ve provided to the knitting community is absolutely tremendous, and the two of you deserve the very best.
I know that this is a difficult time for you but be assured that your profound experience has caused great joy. I am not a regular viewer of your blog, but my friend the long tall one, convinced me to watch your blog as a condition for her participating in the boys yearly NCAA bracket tournament. I have enjoyed my time here, and wish you the best of luck as you move forward. Maybe the future includes something to honor the march madness here in the US that celebrates college basketball. Good luck in your future endeavors.
Cheers,
been there. hugs
I am not the best at wording things, but I am sorry about whatever led to this big change in your life. I would never ask for more details on something that is obviously private and maybe painful, but I DO wish you much love, happiness and whatever else might be needed. And warm weather…who doesn’t need that right now?
That said, I DO have a question of clarification. Having only just started the retreats this past fall, I don’t know how the Sock Summit relates to the Knot Hysteria Retreat in the fall. You only mentioned the Sock Summits being cancelled, but I am assuming this also applies to the November Knot Hysteria themed retreat…given that it is called “Knot Hysteria”. Am I correct? If so, I am very sad that I will no longer get to experience this, though I am very glad to have at least gotten to go to one of them. It is an experience I will never forget. I was hoping to get my best friend (and knitter) out there with me this year, and I had plans for some…decorations. But again, I understand very much the need for life to change sometimes.
Dear Stephanie, Last year I went to Camp Castaway
at Port Ludlow. I barely could purl and I came away with a passion for wanting to make socks.This year I just finished three socks and almost done with the fourth. Thank You
for opening my eyes to the world of knitting socks.I was so looking forward to sock summit but such is Life. Yes knitting is a passion and thanks for opening my eyes, Cheri
You both made the knitting world a better place with the Sock Summits. Thanks for that! Best wishes to you on your next adventure!
Endings are hard…whether you plan them or whether they are sprung upon you unawares. My regret is that I never got the chance to attend. So in that respect you can have no regrets. You were there. You created something to be proud of. You have the memories of something great. And in time, only the good will remain. 🙂
I didn’t know Knot Hysteria was sock summit. I am shocked to hear the news. So many were looking forward to the next one. I doubt I was ever going to go based on living in PA but I sure wanted to. Plane tix aren’t cheap anymore. I wish you peace.
I’m sure you will find new uses for post it notes. Good luck to you and to Tina.
Best wishes in your new ventures.
Very best of wishes to both you and Tina.
So much love for you in these comments (and in this one too)! You’re a very special woman, Stephanie, and you give so much to so many of us. Sock Summit was never a reality for me, but I so enjoyed hearing about it as the dreams became reality.
So now… time for new dreams I guess. And daffodils.
As usual, your grace shines brightly in what must have been a most difficult post to write.
I am so grateful to have attended. It is truly memorable. I can’t say I am not disappointed, but I can say that change is uncomfortable, but it makes room to grow.
It is always good to let go of things that aren’t working for us any more. I did this when I stepped down as president of the Boston Knit Out and I’m doing it now by putting my business up for sale. It is very freeing to go home and have a big old cup of “Not My Problem”. And, as you said, it makes room in our lives for new things. Good for you and enjoy that cup of NMP. It is a refreshing drink.
Artists move on; their art evolves. An artist doesn’t keep painting the same painting forever. Nonetheless, change is hard. Best wishes.
Nothing ever really ends – it just changes form. Luckily knitting has been around forever and will be around moving forward – so that won’t change! I hope you are both at peace. I never had the chance to go to sock summit – but I got a lot of joy out of reading about it from blogs and hearing about it from podcasts. It inspired me even as a non-attendee.
No one can “own” sock knitting – so I’m sure things will come around in one form or another! Peace.
I’m with those who got a terrible sick feeling at first that you were ending the blog… so from that point of view, I am relieved that it’s Knot Hysteria instead. That said, I am so sad… the silk and color retreats I am so incredibly lucky to have attended were the best vacations of my life, bar none (even the week-long Rhine river cruise I did once). I had planned to go to the next sock camp. But nothing can take away the memories or what I learned or the joy of classes with you and Tina and Judith.
I’m not as eloquent as others, but just want to say thanks for putting your heart and energy into the events you gave to us, and wish you all the best in whatever you do next.
Allison
That sound was the collective gasp of those of us who had planned to attend SS3 in 2014. That next sound was the “awwww” when we realized why it was not going to happen. The sigh was when we thought about it and realized what incredible joy you, Tina, and you and Tina together (a force to be reckoned with) have brought to fiber people all over. Thank you for everything you’ve done and for whatever new things you’re going to do. (Oh, and I think the stock price of 3M – the company that makes Post-its – just dropped by about 5 points…)
I just want to say I wish both of you the best and will always be here to read about my favorite person. No we have never meet but as I have followed your adventures over well let just say time I have learned a lot, cried and laughed a lot. I will still be here. Good luck and look forward to the next blog. Maybe one day get the chance to meet.
Sarah
I heard about the permanent demise of Sock Summit tonight at a “Knit Night” gathering. I have to admit, at first I was stunned, then I thought they were kidding; I, along many, many people, was disappointed that there would be no Sock Summit ’13 but was looking forward to Sock Summit ’14. But, having read your announcement, I can at least try to understand your decision, and all I can say is best of luck in the future, & keep on knitting!!
Although I’m sad that there will be no more Sock Summits, I’m so glad I had the opportunity to attend SS11. Thank you both – and your committed staff and families – for working so hard to make all of that wonderfulness possible.
When it has to end, thank you for ending it with grace. People on the outside may be curious, but who really needs to know all of the details? Satisfying nosiness does not make the world a better place. Thanks for keeping it real!
I’m so sorry that you’re going through a difficult time now. I just want to say all the best to you and Tina in the future, and as has been said many times in the comments, you are a classy lady and told us all we needed to know, and yes, kept it graceful. Wishing you sunshine, knitting and a big mug of tea..
Do you know what the fish said when he swam into a wall?………………..Dam!
thought you could use a laugh. 🙂
I love you both. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories. I am looking forward to the future and all of the good things I know it will bring!
*Big ‘ole hugs*
Thank you so much for sharing with us. Wishing you and Tina a continued graceful resolution and much joy and success in your new adventures.
I arrived at your blog by accident today. While this was not what I expected to read, I am glad you have made a tough decision. I find the most stressful experiences are when you’re in limbo. At least now you know how this part of life turns out and you can move forward to the next bit. Take care and keep knitting!
Well said, with such grace. It’s ok for things to change/end…makes room for new beginnings!
It’s a graceful ending to a great partnership. We know the decision wasn’t made lightly. Naturally, we all feel disappointed that there will not be a Sock Summit 2014. Blessings on you both. You touched many people’s lives. Cheers and red wine, Hazel.
I’m with everyone else who clutched at their hearts when the possibility was that this was the end of the blog! Sorry for my profound relief. Hope you can take comfort in the wonderful Sock Summits you guys pulled off and be proud of yourselves. It was quite a ride! I’ll leave you with the words of the inimitable Professor Bruce Dunlop (Faculty of Law, U of T), who always responded, “Did anyone die? Well then, the rest is manageable.”
My heart breaks for the both of you. This ending sounds so sad. But, you’re quite right, endings, generally do mean new beginnings, and I wish you great joy and adventure in whatever new beginning the universe has in store for you.
Hugs for you and best wishes for a sunny future!!
I just don’t have the words, but I am glad that we had what we had and did what we did. Happiness to you and yours, always.
So glad I attended BOTH Sock Summits. They were both truly wonderful experiences. Thank you both for the un-believable amount of work you put into making these events happen. On to bigger and better things. YOU ROCK!
Well done with must have been a very difficult announcement to make. I wish the best for both you and Tina.
That said, I must say I’m more than a little sad to hear it. It was a real leap for me to go to the first Sock Summit- a trip across the country, alone, for a middle-aged woman, who had only a couple plane trips under her belt. And not to mention spending that money on myself-something I hadn’t done in the years I was raising my kids.
The experience literally changed my life. I met up with Ravelry friends, took amazing classes, saw the rock stars of knitting (I remember tearing up when I spotted you in the registration area-in real life. I know, I was more than a bit star-struck).
I fell in love with the PNW, and especially Portland. For the next summit, I allowed a week so I could spend my birthday exploring the city and its sights, as well as attend the summit. And again, I was blown away by the classes I took, and the camaraderie and joy I felt in the presence of so many others of “my people”-those who share my sock knitting obsession.
I appreciate the leap you and Tina took to dream and plan this marvelous experience. The hard work you did, and the time away from family you endured turning it into a wonderful reality. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me to find a new passion and direction for my life other than working and raising my now grown children. And I am enjoying so much the braver, more creative person I discovered I can be.
I have so many wonderful memories, and I’m planning to visit Portland next year, even if there is not summit-I love that city and want to explore even more.
Treasure the past, look forward
I went to SS last summer. Had a great time. You and Tina can do whatever the hell you want. I am honored to have been a part of it and will will forward to the next adventure, even if it’s just a bunch of grey stockinette stitch!
Is it women in general or women who knit who are so caring. Loved the post -elegant way to make the announcement – and I also appreciated all the heartfelt comments. So now what’s next?
Oh, girl. [squeeze of hand]
So many things I’d like to say and though the well over 300 commenters have probably covered it pretty well I do have to say thank you for all the thought, fun and energy you gave us. You and Tina and your many friends and willing helpers made some crazy things happen. You collectively had a positive and lasting impact on many lives in big and loud ways and many many quiet revolutionary ways. You gave that to us and we will miss it dreadfully! But man, so happy that I got to be part of some of it and my life so enriched as a result.
So thanks Steph, for the dozens of tiny balls, for sharing Remembrance Day so sturdily, for taking time to watch the space station go by after a full day of teaching, for the racy otter stories, for your Bacon Powder story, your hilarious, articulate deadpan sense of humour – don’t be a stranger over here on the wet coast, we love you!
I don’t know which I like more: the way you handled a difficult announcement or the way you’ve inspired this many positive, respectful, supportive comments. Quite the community you’ve built — good luck in your new adventures. (and I agree with the general relief that this isn’t the end of the blog!!)
Sigh. I’ve never managed to make it to Sock Summit. It’s always been, “maybe next year.”
But that’s okay. There was always something that kept me from getting to see Pink Floyd, too. As hard as I tried, something inconvenient always came up, and then, finally, it was just too late.
“All Things Must Pass,” as George Harrison said. Sadly, I never got to see him live either.
(I know that you realize that I have put the Sock Summit in some very fine company there.)
Hugs to you. During my life, I’ve shut down a few things I put my heart and soul into. It’s never easy.
Hi, Steph,
From a business brokering standpoint, a business entity is worth 3 times what can be made in one year. Before tax gross profit. Might it not be better to let someone else challenge the Sock Summit and you and Tina each make a kids year at college? Or some such. Worth considering. Not much effort on your part and you get to keep the cash. I know that it is not always possible to sell. My ex was so strung out on drugs that I was not able to get him to cooperate enough to sell a $4 mil computer business and it ended up going to naught. So I get it that a sale requires the partners to cooperate. But it’s worth considering now that you know the magic number. It’s usually 3 times gross (before tax) profit as a rule of thumb. Whatever happens, good luck.
Hugs,
Julie in San Diego
For one horrible second, I thought you were about to announce the death of the blog – phew! As my Mum always said – when God shuts the door, She always opens a window. Good luck with whatever enterprise comes next in your life…you have an awful lot of well-wishers out here.
Thanks for all your hard work, Stephanie. The Knot Hysteria i was lucky enough to attend was amazing. Sorry for people who never got to go, sad for you that it’s the end of something, but love and hugs to you for moving forward when you need to.
good for you both. i never attended, but always loved your summaries of the event. on to better things!
Wishing you nothing but the best!
All good things come to an end to make room for the bigger and better things to come 🙂
Schew! I thought you were going to say you were ending the blog!
Best of luck in all your endings AND beginnings.
I am very sorry for your loss. And sad about Sock Summit. I was planning on going to the next one if it had happened. Life does have its twists and turns, doesn’t it? Like cabling.
If we still used print dictionaries, and you looked up “graceful,” they’d have your picture.
Very well said. I feel sad for the doors that are closing but am excited at the new possibilities you now have! Thank you, Stephanie.
I was always so envious of those that got to attend. Just imagine the memories you all helped make for them. I was able to order some of the “goodies” from the event and pretended I was there. Know that you made a difference in many lives. According to Mary Englebriet, “Don’t look back.”
Steph – Thanks for all that you so to support the wonderful art of knitting. Your work is always appreciated and it is understood that things change in life. I know that whatever you do next will be just as wonderful as Sock Summit. No time to be sad, Spring is here and that is the time for great new beginnings no matter what form they take. Peace and joy to you…
Diana
than thank you for SS11 – it allowed me to meet people I never would have met and try things I might not have tried on my own. Wounds heal faster with bandaids off to air dry. That knitting you’re working on is divine.
And one of the things I admire about you is that you strive for grace. Many do not.
I’m sure the reasons were good and well thought-out. Bummer that I never got to go to a Sock Summit, but that’s my fault.
Good luck in future endeavours!
Many Thank You’s and great affection to you and Tina for so many creations that brighten enlighten delight the world.
You can come to my house and knit socks, we will solve world peace and most likely drink wine. Or beer-hell, it’s Washington State – we can smoke what we want to now as well. Sigh, I am sorry – change is hard.
I was at SS09 and it was a superb event ! From start to finish there was nothing to criticize. I am sure SS11 was the same. I know the work involved in planning such a huge event and how exhausting it is. From my perspective you are wise, as painful as it may be, to stop while you have the energy and interest to move on to other endeavors. May new doors open for you when it is time.
Time to write about the wool again. And the knitting. And some spinning.
I’m only sad because I wish I had made it to a Sock Summit. That said, I’m sure something else will come along. Change is hard, but I’m sure your reasons were justified. And even though so many of us follow you, and eagerly await for posts, you should never have to justify your actions for us. We should just be thankful that you are so willing to open up as much of your life as you do. So, thanks for that, and best of luck with whatever adventure lies ahead.
It is. Graceful I mean. A rarity in this day and age when all to often every movement, thought and emotion is tweeted, facebooked, apped and (over)shared. You must have both had your reasons and it’s our place to merely trust that they must have been valid. Now have coffee (and maybe a deep sigh or two) and know that you don’t have to justify any of this, and that it’s right, and okay, and graceful….
I am sorry I will never get to attend a sock summit.
I am happy that you and Tina were able to make a hard decision, that I am sure is best for both of you.
Having been through this “one step removed” with a friend, I can appreciate making the BIG DECISION and how hard it is.
That being said, this is a CLEAR indication to “do things in the moment.” I read all about Sock Summit and said to myself, “Next year, I should do that.” And now there won’t BE a next year.
As a writer myself, I believe that you did a very graceful job with a very hard post. Best wishes to you AND Tina for whatever comes next.
Life has chapters- like a good book.
I’m so sorry to hear this as I loved what you and Tina created in both the Sock Summits that I was fortunate enough to attend, and the Knot Hysteria retreats that I hoped to attend. You are both wonderful and creative people; I hope that you both experience great success and happiness in your next endeavors.
I’m just so completely bummed that there will not be another Sock Summit. I went to both (I live in Portland) and they were the MOST fun I ever had with knitting. Thank you for having made them happen, you and all the rest of the team. I get that people can only do what they can do, and support you in your need to move along, be I will always miss what might have been.
Oh, Steph!
No matter how convinced you are that you are doing the right thing, closing/leaving the company must have been very painful for you. Rest and re-group. I’m sure the future will bring you some wonderful opportunities now that you have the free time to devote to them. (I can hear you saying “Yeah, right. What free time?”, but you know what I mean.)
Sip some hot tea, knit and look after Sam.
– Pam
You have done so much for the knitting community. Thank you.
I can’t bear to read all the comments. I know writing this was deeply difficult and I celebrate, once again, the dignity you bring to difficult statements. You are “funny most of the time” as you say in your Twitter bio but when you need to give something proper words, you are clear and human.
I wish all best for all who are and were involved with the Summit and who are feeling this loss even more than I and “the knitters” are.
I went to both Summits, the first as a participant (where this Turkish Sock Fanatic got to have dinner with Deb Robson, Priscilla Gibson-Roberts and Anna Zilboorg and more, thanks to Deb). As you know, I had the great honor to be chosen as an instructor at the 2nd Summit. It is my most cherished time as a knitting professional.
Thank you. I hope your upcoming beginnings bring you joy and satisfaction.
I am totally ok with this…it was a gift at the time that you and Tina made possible and am really grateful for it! PLUS, I helped get into the Guinness Book of World Records:-) THANKS STEPH!!