Dear Blog

This entry is very, very hard to write. Hard enough that it took a family meeting, a call to the authorities, a conference with my webhost and long hours of talks with friends to decide what the right thing to do is.

It is this.

I get mean emails and comments. I don’t mean “email that disagrees with me” because disagreeing with me or holding a different opinion than me isn’t mean. If I like Prince (and I do) and you send me an email saying you think Prince sucks – I don’t think that’s mean. What I mean is when I say “I love Prince” and someone emails with “how can you think that you must be so f**king stupid you dumb bitch, I hope you never sell another book that’s how f**cking stupid you are.” That’s mean. (It’s also almost a quote from an email from a few years ago,but there you go.) Every once in a while there’s a mean comment, but mostly they are mean emails, because most mean people like to be privately mean, and don’t care for the light to shine on them at all. The internet encourages this sort of thing, the private meanness, because … well. It’s really private. You don’t have to face the person you’re hurting, you don’t even have to use your real name. You can give over to every single low, unreasoned impulse you have ever had, and there’s almost no way that anyone could ever hold you accountable or make you stop.

As a general principle, I am opposed to fighting fire with fire. In my experience it just makes more fire. Usually I ignore the mean emails, as well as ignoring the mean comments – with one exception. Every once in a while, someone who has been commenting nicely on the blog using a name I know hauls off and sends me something terrible under another name- thinking they’re anonymous. The first time they do this, I ignore it. Everybody’s entitled to a mistake once in a while. If it happens again, I send them a really polite but firm email letting them know that they are actually not anonymous, that my server sends me emails with the IP address attached to comments, and that they might want to conduct themselves accordingly. This has been remarkably successful in reducing the mean. It turns out that if they aren’t anonymous, most normal, mentally healthy people having a poor impulse or a bad day get a grip on themselves instantly, and usually, in the spirit of “we all make mistakes” we go on to talk about it, start over and move on. I shine a little light on it, remove the perceived privacy, and the whole thing gets sane fast.

In recent weeks, this approach hasn’t worked. There is one person, who had previously commented on the blog who went off the deep end with my Canada Day entry, (although she had previously twittered and blogged some strange stuff about me) and left some anonymous comments designed to insult and inflame people. I sent her a note, letting her know that she was not indeed anonymous, that I knew who she was and tried to shine the light on her.

It read:

Dear Name Removed

I understand you don’t like me, that much is clear and you’re welcome to feel that way. I do however, want you to know that the attempt to leave anonymous comments is not just somewhat cowardly, but pointless.

Your comments today as “Name Removed ” from the fake address of “email removed” still show up as you. If you’d like to take a stab anonymously – this one isn’t quite working.

Stephanie



The above (and nothing has been deleted from it, that is how it appears in my sent folder with the exception of her name and email) was an email that the poster has referred to as violent, rude, mean, nasty, insulting and cursing. Since that email and that day, things have been out of hand. Badly out of hand. No matter what I write, what I say or what I do…She’s been writing and promoting hateful blog posts and tweets, leaving inflammatory and rude comments, and sending me horrible mail, which I’m afraid may not be entirely rational. I have been doing my best to not feed the fire, although I have been deleting her comments for several reasons. (For the record, there is only one other person who’s comments have ever been deleted on this blog. Their comment was blatantly and viciously racist.)

I have been deleting because:

1. Her comments are intended to hurt people. I won’t pay for the bandwidth on that.

2. Her comments are intended to rile people up, generate conflict in the comment section, injure me and are not how I will be spoken to in a place where I pay the bills.

3. I believe that if I left the comments, some of you would defend me, thus giving her the satisfaction and attention she craves and giving her a more of a forum for hurting others.

4. Her comments have been accompanied by private email that is nothing short of awful.

These comments appear regularly, I watch for them and I have been deleting all of them as a matter of policy, hoping it would get old for her. Yesterday it all came to a head. I have been reading her blog, partly because I think it’s a good idea to know what she’s up to, and partly because I’m a little afraid, and reading her blog helps me feel like I know what’s going on. She’s been sending me email telling me she can see me reading her blog, since she’s worked out what my IP address is, and I suppose I don’t mind. After all, she’s clearly reading mine.

Yesterday, after her latest comment, I checked her blog, read it, and left the window open. (Apparently for 96 minutes. Who knew?) During that time, someone who had seen that comment on this blog before I could delete it, followed the link to her blog and left some sane, reasonable (although not necessarily nice) comments defending me.

This woman is now convinced that I left those comments, or that I had someone leave them. (This is because the other person had a Canadian IP address.) This has inspired her to new and frightening heights. She left a comment calling me names, and I wrote back and told her the truth. It wasn’t me, that I would never leave her a comment (I believe I used the phrase “cold day in hell”) and suggested that it were possible that there was more than one Canadian in the world.

I was not rude. I was firm. I did not call her names. I did not insult her or threaten her.

She responded with another mocking, insulting email, accusing me of reading her blog, and that informed me that I had no “American Grit” and that she had tracked me down and knew where I lived.

I responded thusly:

Name Removed, considering the number of comments you’ve left me, I don’t think I need to feel concerned that I check your blog too much. After all, you’ve not been kind, and I think it’s reasonable to be concerned.

I appreciate the time you spend on my blog as well, and I’m unconcerned about your analysis of my grit..

Best wishes,

Stephanie

This was a mistake. This was the big one. For some reason, this was my correspondence with her that was so cruel to her that she redoubled her efforts. (Note: These are comments she intended for public consumption. I deleted them.)

At 10:13 she left this comment:

A little advice harlot: Don’t try to get into a fight with an American

girl. We fight hard and dirty. Especially when it’s directed at a person

who takes Americans like fools. Trust me…we’re not fools. And guess

what I also found out? Your publisher is CONTENT DELETED TO REMOVE IDENTITY. I’m already looking up contacts…..unless you change your

ways, of course…

At 10:29:

Like I said before (before you rudely deleted my comment), I DO NOT LIKE IT

when you say anti-American things or else you ridicule us.

We do NOT appreciate being ridiculed. And you can “hate” on me all you

like, and you can get your friends to comment negatively on my site all you

like—but it will STILL NOT take away the fact that you make anti-American

comments on your site.

And I am going to take up for us—both myself and my fellow Americans.

Hell, you make 80% of your money down here in American—and we don’t

appreciate the fact that you take our money yet insult us on your Canada

Day postings! It’s been happening year after year!

And go ahead—get your friends to comment negatively on my site—I am not

afraid. I will print their comments and answer their questions. (Although

yes, I do frequently cuss–but we’re big girls here, right?)

You have enjoyed a time where you believed you were the “darling” of the

knitting world. But that’s about to change. From now on, you have to EARN

you reputation. You must show that you love ALL people,not just Canadians.

If you expect Americans to love you, then you jolly well EARN their love

by loving them!

From now on, some of us will be watching and listening…..

and at 10:32 (unbelievably)

Sorry for the grammar errors—I type fast and so I frequently leave out

letters…..

At this point she switched to email, and after a conversation with several people. I did something I’ve never done before. I blocked her at the server level. We took her IP address and shut her down. She wouldn’t even be able to see the blog, never mind leave comments anymore. I was exhausted with worrying she was leaving them, worrying that she was going to start a riot, worrying about what they said… it was a relief to finally make it stop.

I knew it wouldn’t stop the personal mail, but at least then it would be between the two of us.

Here’s where I do something I’ve never done before. I believe that personal email is personal. The above from her were left as comments, something she intended to be public, so I don’t mind posting them. What is below is the mail she sent me when she discovered that she had been blocked from the server. (She believed that I had become frightened enough of her to shut down the blog.) I know that posting this is controversial, but I’ve come to realize that it is only a matter of time until what she’s doing goes public anyway, and we feel that it’s only fair that we show you what it is that she’s doing privately, so that you can understand our extreme measures, especially when we are accused of censorship. We have removed her name, and won’t be revealing her identity.

What’s the matter, YH? Lost your nerve and guts? You pulled your blog off the server! YOU ARE CHICKEN! Can’t take the heat, can you!

You are one of those few cowardly people who can’t take criticism—it makes you nervous! You havevn’t the backbone to answer back to somebody who takes you to task! This cowardly behavior of yours makes Americans laugh like hyenas! We disdain people who can’t use their backbone to defend themselves!

You don’t deserve to take a defensive position! You’re a PUSSY!, the worse criticism of all the American list of insults.

(I will refrain from making comments here about how I feel about slang for a woman’s body parts being used as a hurt…that’s a rant for another day) Then about five minutes later:

Sorry….didn’t think you were so weak! HA HA Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha!!!! What a weakling. Now I know why your husband is so worthlessl. He’s the one who tries to “make music”, heh! Got his car stuck in the snow and you (a woman) had to come rescue him!

The best laugh was when you got married by a weirdo who has no religion! Without God as part of your ceremony! You’re atheists! And probably wiccans!

sorry—-didn’t realize how weak you guys were.

Word to the wise—don’t take on a CHRISTIAN woman again. We have God on our side. You would do well to read the Christian Bible and find out who Jesus is for your souls.



Then, once she realized it was just that she was blocked:

I love challenges. So does my computer wizard guy, Name Removed (oh, and all his friends….) See you on your website soon.—the problem has been solved already but I’m tired of you this weekend.

And, be advised….I hope you’ve learned your lesson about how doggedly I complain against anti-Americanism types.

I won’t appreciate it if I ever see anymore anti-American comments on your site again. (Yes, I can access your site—did you really think a block would work? You obviously don’t know much about computers.)

————–

You’re played out as a writer. (How many “comedy” books did you think you could do? It’s getting old….)

And Americans are getting TIRED of the left. (And you are a typical Canadian left.)

Keep going…..keep trying to antagonize me….because you are only getting more looney. Haven’t you noticed how the “respectable” knitters are distancing themselves from you? (Yeah, you didn’t think I knew.)

Hah, keep trying to aggravate me—it will be your downfall. And I will laugh my head off—as will all my friends who can’t stand you.

Sadly, it would appear that she wasn’t tired of me this weekend, because by this morning there were a few more emails, and she had a new IP address and two new comments, which went up while I was away from my computer. The first read:



Hey, Yarn Harlot, I didn’t appreciate your rude emails. I do not deserve

them nor does the rest of the American knitters who don’t appreciate your

anti-Americanism comments. Did you think this was a game? It’s not. Many

of us have totally HAD it with your arrogant, holier-than-thou

anti-Americanism. I have taken up the cause, because I personally don’t

think Americans should buy your books. I will not let you off the hook

for this. I will constantly watch your site for anti-Americanism and I

will hopefully educate you in how to relate to America as a friendly

nation, a nation who saved your butts over and over throughout history.

I won’t post the second one, because it reveals her identity. For the record, she is referring to the correspondence I posted above as my “rude emails” I have sent her nothing further. (Also for the record, I believe we define “rude” very differently.)

I have blocked her IP again. Her twitter feed is a string of tirades and accusations about me, the emails keep coming, and I’m sure she’ll have her IP address changed in a few hours.

I absolutely cannot keep up with her, the lies, the threats or the accusations. She believes that everything I do, every post I write, ever tweet I log, even mentioning drinking a beer, is about her. Everything I write is bait to her, and I can’t stop writing. One of her comments is definitely going to make it onto the blog while I’m sleeping or eating or with my kids. I’ve spoken with my web host, the authorities, and some other resources to see what I can do… but I realized that this morning, I was going to fail. She is determined to take it public, determined to get a comment up and determined to keep hurting me. She’s decided something about me, and I’m not engaging. I don’t think it’s true, or that she’s right… but eventually, she’s going to get the attention that she craves. More people are going to notice, no matter how much I keep trying to keep it from going viral and creating conflict in the comments.

This has been a difficult time. I struggle with self-esteem as much as the next person, and these emails feel exactly like my critical inner voice, the part of me that is irrationally hard on me, suddenly got my email address and started sending me mail and comments. I’ve tried to cope, to not be hurt, to know it’s not true, but the whole thing is scary, especially once she started referring to my parenting (didn’t tell you about that one) and my family in general. I am searching in my heart for sympathy for her, because this must be taking up a lot of time for her, and because I don’t think you do something like this to another person with this sort of dedication without really having some emptiness or hurt inside you, and that’s sad. Really, genuinely sad.

Here’s the thing, the reason I’m putting all this here now. I’ve kept this to myself for a month. It’s not stopping. I’m trying to stand by what I believe. That shining light on something can help, and because I’m going to need your help. She is going to change her IP address. She is going to leave more comments, and I am going to be busy one of these times that it happens. It’s inevitable, and I need to be able to sleep at night without worrying that a riot has erupted in my comments, or that someone is wondering why the hell this woman is accusing me of all these horrible things. I want the background to be public, so that it isn’t confusing, suspicious or bizarre when/if you see one of her rants.

When that happens, I’d really, really like all of you to know my position, although of course, you are welcome to yours.

Light.

Love.

Respect… even to those who do not demonstrate it to you.

I do not believe in an eye for an eye, and I’m asking, politely, that when you hear from this woman… that you just take a deep breath, even if she’s insulting (or misrepresenting) your country ( and trust me Canadians, she’s no fan) to me, to you… to anyone – that we just all try to take some of this power away from her. The last few days have proved that any measure of attention is incitement. Defending me, explaining to her, taking her on… only makes it worse, only increases the number and hurtfulness of the private mail she sends. She’s lost the right to post here, I’ll keep deleting her. When or if you see her posts, I hope you won’t engage, won’t visit her blog to tell her what you think of her, won’t insult her, won’t injure her… won’t lower yourself to her level. (Unless, of course, you agree with her.)

Thank you, and I’m sorry this is where we’re at.

Let’s never speak of this again.

4,308 thoughts on “Dear Blog

  1. I’ve been reading and never posting for years. I’m posting the first time today to say- Good for you.

  2. I am so sorry that someone felt the need to be so hurtful. I live in the US and believe you to be sensible, wonderful, funny, and a fabulous parent. Please take care.
    Sarah

  3. I’m embarrassed for her.
    You’re doing the right thing.
    I’m an American Christian, and pretty conservative, actually, and she does not represent me in any way. I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. It’s not right. She’s not right, about anything, and especially about your parenting (how low!).
    We won’t feed the energy creature. So glad that you’re not giving her a lot of space in your mind or your heart.

  4. I’m so sorry to hear about this situation. I hope it somehow she’ll stop… I love your blogs and your books and your knitting– you’re great!!!! I’ll be sending positive thoughts from San Francisco.

  5. I’ll show my support by learning all the words to your national anthem–at the moment I’ve got only “Oh, Canada; my home and native land!”
    I’m an American, btw, and I’m glad you love your country b/c I love mine too. I guess we all have our strange citizens.
    I’m sorry you’ve been subjected to this. Your blog is lots of fun for me. I hope it continues to be for you too.

  6. Sorry to hear of the problems you’ve been experiencing. I always look to see if you’ve posted and enjoy your posts. I’ve never felt you have been anything but honest and never felt you insulted Americans. Keep up the good fight.

  7. Lots of beer and more than a few hugs to you Stephanie. As someone once said “Don’t let the bastards get you down!” Much love from North Carolina.

  8. Never posted here until now. I’ve got to say that as an American, a Christian and someone just doing their darn best to be a decent human being, I’m beyond insulted at this person’s behavior. I can only imagine how horrendous you and your family must feel. Here’s hoping for a peaceful resolution all around.

  9. I’m just gobsmacked! I love your blog, and your books, because you are a funny and gifted writer. I was so afraid, as I was reading this entry, that you were going to announce the end of the blog. Thanks for sharing the background to this situation. Lots of light and love to you. Now I’m going to go and knit something pretty in your honour.

  10. Full steam ahead. She does not speak for Americans. Most of us can think for ourselves and I, for one, thoroughly enjoy the blog and books.
    Do not let the turkeys get you down.

  11. Good for you, Stephanie. I’m behind you 10000% percent, and I, too, am sorry you’ve been subjected to this.

  12. Hey, You are my hero in oh so many ways. This is my first post though I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years. I’m sending you and your family positive thoughts from VA.

  13. So sorry you are experiencing this. As an American and a Christian, I have never felt at all insulted by anything in your blog. I also want you to know that I appreciate your Canada Day posts. Even though I have lived my whole life in the Northeast, I remain woefully ignorant about our neighbor to the North. Your blog has served to educate me on several occasions. Lastly, as the mother of an 18 year old, there have been many times that I have needed your posts on the joys and travails of these turbulent years. Thank you for persevering and for allowing us these small glimpses into your life.

  14. I’d like to apologize for the rude behavior of an American. I don’t always agree with your opinions, but I respect your right to have them. I love your blog and your books, and I hope you continue to write. Carry on!

  15. WOW…obviously she is not mentally well. I think you are doing the right thing in taking the high road and ignoring (as best you can) her. Perhaps if you cease all contact with her (and delete her comments without comment), she will ‘go away’. I’m married to an American, and I think I can safely say that she doesn’t represent ANY American I have ever met. I’m sure that “The Blog” will keep our eyes out for her malicious comments, and let you know if we see them–and avoid the temptation of engaging her. Keep your chin up, and know that us knitters are here for you!

  16. I know it’s hard, but for every person like this, remember that there are thousands who admire and respect you.
    I too have never posted before, but I had to do it this time.

  17. So sorry you had to go through that. Your thoughtfulness, compassion, and humor are always appreciated. Best wishes– from the US!

  18. I have always admired (from a distance) your immense good sense, and I see it is helping you now. You are handling this awful scenario very well.

  19. Hey Steph – totally speechless here; I’m continually amazed and distressed about the way some people behave. I love your work and hope you keep doing it!

  20. I really can’t think of a thing to say but, Wow! There are some very strange people in this world. Keep yourself on the high road and you will be fine, but I’m sure you already know that to be true.

  21. Thanks for shining your light & keeping this blog, Stephanie. Hopefully this all passes soon. All the best to you!

  22. Just what you need with all the sock summit stuff! I read your blog because you so often make my day, crazy job, crazy life and you make me laugh. Somehow I don’t think that is wrong.

  23. long time reader, first time commenter. I’ve always been so inspired by your attitude and approach to dealing with issues and it makes me want to cry that someone has no respect or decency for another human being. Sending good thoughts, knitterly and otherwise from PA

  24. Wow, I am amazed, for all the fun and good there is on the internet, there is a lot of, well stuff one would prefer to avoid. I for one do enjoy your humour and attitude. Take care.

  25. I admire you for taking the high road in this awful situation.
    And don’t worry about her opinion of your — wait! Is this the ‘grave spiritual danger’ commenter? Gotcha covered there, don’t worry about that part.
    If anything else should pop through the filter into the comments, I solemnly swear NOT to react.
    Now go: kiss Joe/hug the girls/do some knitting/dance/have a beer/spin/make that yummy pasta with fresh mozzarella and tomatoes.

  26. Steph, I’ve been reading you for years now. I’ve seen you read from your books, I don’t know, 5 or 6 times. I remember when you were nervous giving one of your first readings at the Sheep Shack in Massachusetts. I’ve met you here and there, beyond the book readings.
    And yeah, I admire your knitting and spinning, and especially your extraordinary productiveness. I admire your writings a lot; they speak to and from the heart. But I admire most your character. It has to be difficult being a very public person to a horde of what are admittedly rather, ummm, obsessive people, shall we say (and I mean obsessive in the best, yarn-loving sort of way). You’ve been handling all of this Harlot hoopla rather well, as far as I’m concerned, and I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this sort of unwanted attention. I’m on your side in this, and I suspect 99.9% of your readers are, too.
    Go have a beer. Knit something. Ignore her. I’m planning to.

  27. I’m so sorry to hear that someone (from my country) would be so awful to you. I’m ashamed for her. Thank you for sharing so we can all remember to respect others, even when they have a different opinion than our own.
    Life should be more about how we treat others & about making an effort to lift one another up. Thank you for being such a good example.

  28. I’ve been reading for years and rarely post but I just have to say, don’t let the bastards get you down. I’m in awe of people who have nothing better to do then harrass and hate on others. Good for you for only being a positive light and best wishes that she goes away into her little hole and leaves you alone.

  29. I for one don’t think you will ever run out of witty things to write about knitting until you can no longer knit. I have had the pleasure of seeing you in person twice so far and your way of conducting yourself really makes us feel you are one of us…no diva but a regular person who happens to write books and blogs and is FUNNY. I love the parenting comments…been there done that but with three boys…the last two identical twins. I happen to think the post about getting the truck stuck was one of the FUNNIEST posts I have read. It is unfortunate that there are people in this world who have to put down others to make themselves feel better. Hang in there and keep us laughing…and learning

  30. Personally – I didn’t think knitters HAD boundaries…Thought we were just one big happy group. Canadian/American /English/Irish/etc…doesn’t matter…as long as we’re knitting. You’re going to be fine.

  31. Steph, like someone above, I’ve been reading and not commenting for years. Please know that you are doing the right thing. I’ve been saying at school what you said the other day “you get more of what you pay attention to”. If everyone manages to not focus on this person, and to shine light instead, eventually she will go away.
    Please, please know that not everyone feels this way. I look forward to your blog every day, wonder what you are all up to, and thank you in my head for sharing your incredible family and knitting experiences with all of us. It’s a brave thing, and I’ve learned a lot from you (and not just about knitting, either).
    Thanks.

  32. this woman obviously has mental health issues. hang in there. feel your feet on the earth and don’t forget to breath. keep that beautiful bright light of yours shining. i love you yarn harlot!!

  33. I have never posted, either, although I have been reading for quite a while. Your humor and down-to-earth stories have kept me amused during a difficult physical time. I’ve thought about thanking you and this seems to be an appropriate time. Remember all the good you have done and don’t let the negative invade your mind or heart. By the way, I’m American and always thought of Canadians as good friends.

  34. Steph, don’t listen to the hurtful comments. You’re a very good and funny writer, and certainly seem to be a good and generous mother.
    I’m sending warm, Texas-sized e-hugs from an American Christian, and I hope that your unkind correspondent learns one day how un-American and un-Christian her actions are.

  35. You can’t reason with anyone who is as mentally ill as this person. You have done all you could do. I hope you can remember that many thousands of others, knitters and non-knitters alike, appreciate you, your humor, your thought-provoking essays, and what you have done and continue to do for knitting.
    Knit on!

  36. Our dearest Harlot,
    I am shocked and mortified that anyone could be like that. I love your Canadian pride and see you as pro-human, not anti- anything. I am concerned however with this person’s venom and think you should look into contacting the police. These are threats and should be taken as such. How can someone with that attitude call themselves Christian? I love reading every word you write. You continue to shine your light and we’ll be standing by with extra love and batteries. I am writing from Oregon.

  37. I’m sorry that you have to see that there are Americans who never mature past middle school. I guess it doesn’t occur to some people to just stop looking if you don’t like what you see. I hope you continue to have the strength to put yourself out there, you are an intelligent, sensitive, funny woman who often serves as a high point of my day.

  38. Wow, Please keep safe. We know the world is not in a good place right now. People, People love one and other. We are all here for such a short time. Love your blog. I look daily for you to lighten my life with fiber. Thank you for being there for all of us.

  39. I’m sorry that you are having to deal with an irrational and mentally ill person. As a very conservative American Christian, I’ll pray for her. I find that this usually makes this sort of person very angry because it highlights the discrepancies between their state beliefs and their actual behavior.

  40. Stephanie, what a kind and wise way to deal with a situation that has become so painfully bizarre. This person isn’t well.
    May you be perfectly surrounded with light and love, and may everything that comes toward you be used for good.
    Amen.

  41. I’m so deeply sorry that you have had to struggle with this person for so long. It’s shameful to know that she is perpetuating the stereotype that I think most Americans seriously wish to avoid, ignorance and an uncaring attitude towards other countries.
    I rarely post a comment to your blog, but I truly felt this warranted it.
    So this is me, standing behind you, for you, adding another light to shine over all the evil.
    Please don’t let her discourage you, you’re an amazing person, you’ve made me laugh and cry, and enjoy every minute of it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. And for whatever it’s worth, I’m proud of you.

  42. Hey,
    I’m sorry that you have to put up with this person, but I’m also very impressed that you’re able to handle it in such a mature way…not alot of ppl can do that…as we can see with this woman… Can’t you get the authorities involved? She’s obviously harassing you.

  43. I barely every post, but as an American (although I am quite left) I am sorely ashamed of people like this. I am a huge fan of yours and I think you are amazing and it makes me real real sad to think there are people out there so sad they must lash out at others on the internet.
    Please please keep doing what you’re doing.

  44. That sucks hard. A great book to learn how to deal with people like that is “The Gift of Fear
    by Gavin De Beker

  45. I have to say, as both an American and a Christian, I want to find this woman and haul her off to the psych ward where she belongs. Don’t let her get to you, ma’am, and bonus points to you for keeping your chin up about this. No one needs that kind of vitriol in their life, and here’s to eradicating this particular form of it from the Internet for good.
    By the way, I hope you don’t mind, but I’ll be praying she cuts it out. I can only imagine what kind of response she might give you after this post, so I’ll bet you’ll need all the backup you can get. 🙂

  46. Steph, Another long time reader here that has never posted. I look forward to your blog. It makes my day better when I see something from you. You rarely fail to bring a smile to my face. I am an American and a Christian and think you are wonderful. Don’t let one rotten apple spoil who you are and what you do. Good for you for standing up to this person. Stay strong.

  47. I love your posts about Canada, I will continue to buy your books and follow your blog. I admire your parenting, your social conscious, your ethics and your values.
    Don’t you worry, one rotten apple will not spoil the barrel that is the fun group of commenters and readers here. Huzzah to Stephanie!
    I’m an American, for the record.

  48. I look forward to this blog, and love reading it. I am sorry that this mentally ill person is harassing you, Stephanie, because this is such a light and friendly place for us knitters. I learn a lot from you. This troubled person is not a representative of anyone but herself. I am American, and I love you and your blog. Do look into police action, this person needs intervention.

  49. That is truly frightening. As an American, I am saddened, but unfortunately not surprised, that one of my compatriots could feel that way, let alone think that continuing in writing such comments, blog entries, and emails is remotely acceptable behaviour, even if she should, inexplicably, disagree with you.

  50. This person (and I use that term very loosely) obviously has mental health issues and certainly does not speak for any American. It’s nutcases like this that hide behind religion and feel free to degrade anyone who doesn’t think like they do. It is very hard to pray for someone we don’t like, but perhaps this person needs it most of all.

  51. I lurk on blogs and boards all over the web and rarely post anything anywhere (because I’d rather be knitting!) but I am so stunned that technology has brought us to this ugly moment that I am compelled to comment. I check your blog everyday and love the humor, the projects I only dream of tackling, and the mingling of my favorite art/craft with life’s joys and challenges. I admire your knitting skills tremendously, but after reading your post today I most admire your integrity and bravery. Best Wishes from Sacramento, CA.

  52. It is inherently brave of you to share this with us.
    I respect you even more than I did before, and that was considerable.
    For every person out there who may disagree or be indifferent to something you say, there are thousands of us who value you; your humor, your caring, and yes, your bravery to share small parts of your life, good or abysmal, with your readers.
    Rock on Harlot.
    I’ll keep reading.

  53. As a Christian (Catholic, though, and her type of “Christian” doesnt ususally include Catholics as Christians), American, southern woman (making me a proud owner of a Pussy, by the way!), I am so incredibly sorry you are dealing with this and tremendously ashamed that there are Americans out there like this.
    I will keep you in my prayers as you deal with the stress of this harrassment, and will keep reading and enjoying your work.
    Be safe and keep doing what you love, and those of worth will continue to enjoy watching and learning from you.

  54. As an American Indian atheist I stand proudly behind you a million percent. This chick needs some prozac and wheel of cheese to go with her whine. Love and hugs to you, your family and Canadians everywhere! 🙂

  55. Hi Steph,
    I’m sorry this is happening to you. It happened to me a couple of years ago, and I believe it really is evidence of mental illness. My blog abuser eventually quit when I continually ignored her. It wasn’t fun for her when no one responded to her.
    Hang in there.

  56. Way to go, Lady! Thank you for sharing this with us, and I sincerely hope for your sake it stops! I can’t adequately express how utterly charming I think you are; a class act for sure. I’m dismayed by people who think the internet grants a free license to harangue and slander. Sending you a nice, big, warm gold bubble for a hug. Take care and stay safe.

  57. I am a long time reader of your blog but have never posted a comment. I assure you true Americans do not feel this way. I am so sorry you and your family are dealing with this. Hang in there, you are doing the right thing.

  58. As an American, as usual, I am deeply embarrassed by some of the actions of my fellow citizens. I won’t say “I’m sorry” because that’s what women do instead of expecting people to own their own behavior. As an anarchist, let her posts show and let people respond to them as they will, given your clear guidance. As a (bad) Buddhist, I’ll send out what little compassion I can muster for such an unhappy and sad person. Peace to you all.

  59. Good for you for taking the high road and not getting in a mudfest. People seem to forget that when you throw mud, a lot of it gets on themself.
    Easier to give support when the story comes from both sides and it sounds like many have had access to her side of it.
    Stand strong, tall, and with head held high with the support of your many friends that post and those that don’t.

  60. Dear One,
    May the Blessings of all that is good and right in this universe be with you and your family and your friends. Your way of looking at the world has been a blessing to me in more ways than I can express. Prayers for your safety are on my heart – Be strong, be safe and be well.

  61. I am glad that you blocked her. I am sorry that she has been so awful to you. Please keep writing the blog it makes my day better every time that i read it.

  62. You’re so right–when someone is so beyond the realm of normalcy, anything they say is really a reflection of them, not anything about you.
    Why does someone assume that pro-Canada mean anti-America? You mention all the time you love the States, I can’t recall a single negative anti-American sentiment. Just because you love your country doesn’t mean you hate all others.
    Thanks for sharing, and remember, what you focus on, expands. Let her anger bubble expand while your serenity prevails 🙂

  63. Holy Cow!! Sounds like a ‘what’s the frequency, Kenneth’ type life. It’s all very scary but you have handled it well. We would expect nothing less. We support you all the way!!

  64. I read religiously, and rarely comment. But this motivated me. Good for you and hang in there!!

  65. Stephanie, I’m so sorry you are being troubled by this woman’s disturbing comments and emails. More power to you for keeping it clean and not stooping to her level. This American (hell, this New Yorker) applauds you. Stay strong.

  66. One more light shining from the US…I’m sorry you’re being harassed like this! This woman does NOT speak for all Americans. Being pro-Canadian does not make you anti-American, or anything else, just like being pro-American doesn’t make you anti-Canadian.
    Keep your chin up, Steph…you’re handling this better than I (and I daresay, many of us!) ever could.

  67. Wow. That’s all I can even think to say. Lots of crazies in this world and I’m so sorry this one is picking on you.
    She certainly doesn’t speak for all Americans, or even a few for that matter.
    We still love you down here! Good for you for standing up to her! I’m proud of you!

  68. Since when have you ever been anti-American?!?!?!
    I think she just has too much time on her hands. As a previous poster said, make sure you keep you and yours safe.
    Can you/we somehow involve the police in whatever jurisdiction she lives in?
    janet

  69. As a proud American, I have to say that people like that give American’s and America a terrible name. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this at all. I do hope they realize that karma’s a bitch. Hugs Stephanie.

  70. Dear Dear Dear Stephanie,
    I am an American and I read your blog everyday. I have never found anything objectionable. If I had, I would have stopped reading. You are clearly dealing with an insane person. Is there such a thing as a blog police or something like that? Threats? No way. If I were you I would just quit reading anything she sends. As far as the nasty things she is saying about you….the people who know you and care about you won’t believe all that nasty stuff and they are the people who matter. I have never met you but my daughter has. When you were in Denver about a year ago, my daughter came to the Highlands Ranch Tattered Cover to have one of your books signed for me to give to my cousin as a gift. My daughter doesn’t knit but I do and she wore almost every knitted item that she owned that was knit by my cousin or myself. You were very nice to her and she was so impressed by your personality and graciousness. My daughter had a blast visiting with the wonderful knitters. Everyone she sat next to commented on the items that she was wearing. I sent your signed book to my cousin. She called and thanked me. The next day I got a call from her and she said……OH MY GOSH…..THIS IS SIGNED BY SP MCPHEE!!!!….OH MY GOSH….I AM SO EXCITED….STEPHANIE TOUCHED THIS BOOK….. There you go Stephanie, we think you are great and awesome and fabulous and thank you so much for putting yourself out there and thank you for everything that you do for us all. Good luck with the Summit. I will be anxious to hear how things go. Take care. Love, Birdgirl

  71. Another lurker coming out to show support. Sending you (hugs) and hopes for peace from North Carolina. Some people it seems have no life.

  72. I have to say, this is one of the very few times when I can honestly say I’m ashamed to be an American, if being American means that I would in any way be associated with this sort of person or behavior.
    You are a lovely person, and a better person then I would be if I were in your situation. And if your posts about Canada, on Canada Day, are “anti-american” and insulting, then count me in as “anti-american” as well.
    As an American Catholic (Christian), I have to say, God Bless Canada, and God Bless You and Your loved ones!

  73. As a Christian with U.S. citizenship, I just want to tell you that this is entirely too embarrassing to read.
    But thank you for being intelligent enough to know that we aren’t all like this.
    And, FWIW, I will ALWAYS love you and your work.

  74. This person is either on drugs or insane. You should get a harassment or no contact order from a court where this person lives. People like this are embarrassing to most Americans.
    Sue

  75. In america, it is illegal to harass someone via the internet -especially- anonymously and if you have proof she attempted that I would speak to a law official because this woman is obviously insane.
    I have read you for years, I live in texas and I adore you. You are the darling of the knitting world and in fact you were my gateway into it. I was knitting scarves and attempting to enjoy it on acrylics and horrible circs.
    You encouraged me to try socks, to make blankets, to do lace, to -STEP OUT-..and to give myself -good- yarn and good needles and -enjoy- my knitting. Without you I wouldn’t know of Nancy Bush or Barbara Walker or Cat B. I wouldn’t know about Latvian mittens or knitters without borders or blue moon fiber arts. I wouldn’t have just dropped another 300 dollars on an indie dyer just yesterday that -you- helped promote with Dye for Glory. I wouldn’t be referring to you as the Julia Child of knitting. Or so excited that when you come to my area every friend whether they knit or not knows it.
    One of the best things that happened to me this year was being on your blog for bringing you dinner. You are a kind woman and you are an example for how a grown up should act. Believe me I take that example as well because the base of my nature is to be not as kind and generous and honorable as your example.
    This woman is..crazy. And she’s wrong. You are not anti-american, You are not anti- christian and you are not loosing any fan base. Look at freaking Sock summit! 30,000 People!! in the knitting world!? Darlin I assure that there are -comic- and scifi conventions that don’t even get that amount of interest.
    You just ignore her. I know easier said than done. But You -are- the Julia Childs of the knitting world. Look at what you have accomplished with Knitters without borders, your books, the knitting olympics, all the ways that you’ve changed people’s lives.
    Just with two sticks some string and a computer.
    I am so sorry that she has done this. I am so sorry that the insane parts of my country are spilling into here.
    Alright enough rambling. Stay safe and strong.

  76. *sends big self-esteem beams*
    You shouldn’t feel lower, you should feel better because you’ve dealt with this with maturity and grace whereas she’s acted like an angst-ridden child.

  77. Dearest Yarn Harolt, you really can’t take any of this personally. Her rantings say plenty about her miserable life, but nothing about you. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that someone like this only has as much control over you as you give her. Block her from every email account you have and keep on trucking. I can’t begin to tell you how much I enjoy your blog–and I’m a very mediocre knitter. It’s your writing and your irreverant sense of humor I love!

  78. As an American woman of the Christian faith, I am proud of the good parts in my culture and work to improve the others. Were you, Stephanie, not proud of who you are and where you live, you would not be the vital, loved, wonderful person you are and we Americans and other nationalities would not be able to call you friend. I am proud to have been one of the first to have had my sock and I in a picture with you and your sock at a reading outside of Greensburg, PA.

  79. I seriously doubt this woman has a passport to get to Canada to hurt you, she would never bother to leave the U.S. to actually widen her perspective on the world. She might learn that other people outside the U.S. have every right and reason to take pride in their nationality, culture and heritage. The world does not revolve around her, whether she is an American or not, and neither do you.

  80. You go, girl! That woman is obviously off her crock. More power to you for not stooping to her level.
    Wishing you all the strength you’ll need to get through this.

  81. I know it is easier to believe the bad stuff about ourselves, but take a look at all of us who love your work, who eagerly wait for your posts, who own all your books, who act like giddy schoolgirls when you come do a book signing in our towns. We are the ones you should believe.
    Thank you for going to so much effort to keep your blog positive.
    America hearts you.

  82. …some of us are sicker then others.
    I need to pray for this poor woman. She obviously doesn’t knit enough.
    Light On!

  83. I am another reader that rarely comments (usually because there are so many!). I enjoy your blog immensely and would be sad if stopped blogging or even closed comments. As an American, I am ashamed of this person’s behavior.
    Love you, love your blog! Keep your chin up!

  84. YH, I’m so sorry you have been dealing with this. I have been intending to comment since I love my daily calendar by you. I get a laugh every morning and usually learn something, too.
    I’m glad you are going to stop using your energy to battle her. It looks like you have a lot of positive energy coming your way and I’m sending my to you, too.
    Hang in there.
    Sarah in Houston

  85. Sharing information as a tool for understanding was one of the first things I learned from my husband. He explained that it was unfair to allow someone to be ‘blind-sided’. I sincerely appreciate the courtesy of being informed.
    My admiration for your courage and for the support from your family. I send my love and affection and a passionate empathy for your love of country.
    From an ol’Texas gal of the Christian persuasion.

  86. I’m another long time reader, first time poster, who just wants to say that for every one like her, there are 1,000’s of us who love your humour, your blog, and your books. You are showing an amazing amount of strength to deal with this as an adult, and that just makes me respect you even more.
    Oh yes, and I’m another American. 🙂

  87. I would say there are some serious psychological issues driving this woman. She’s obviously obsessed (and NOT a Christian. Christians do not behave this way.) We are all behind you, Stephanie, and agree that this should not be the price for sharing your gift of humor.

  88. As a human being, a blogger and an American, I am deeply offended by this “anonymous” woman and her rudeness. Who the h**l does she think she is? I am constantly dumbfounded that people actually waste their time being negative and rude on the internet…frankly, she needs to get off the computer and knit more.
    Hang in there Steph, there’s millions of us out here who love you and have been inspired by you!

  89. I’m sorry you have to put up with such loonies, Steph… you know and we all know that her ire is completely undeserved, and next month she’ll be stalking and harassing some other public figure. Be strong, let it roll off you. Your fans are legion for a very good reason… because you rock and you make the world a better place to be in.

  90. The internet just brings out the worst in people — I’ve seen posters like this woman in many of the online communities I’ve been in over the years, ones who take everything very seriously and personally, whether it’s knitting or TV shows. Definitely the biggest deal to her is the idea that everything you do is somehow aimed at her, or that she’s in some kind of battle with you, or whatever it is that gives her the attention that she so desperately craves (and probably online finds online), so you’re totally right that depriving her of attention is the best way to go.
    And I can guarantee that it has nothing to do with you or anything you say. You’re just the sadly convenient target, and I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this.

  91. Dear Steph,
    Wow! Good for you for posting this. I too was afraid that you were going to stop your blog. I’ve been a long-time reader, less-frequent commenter but I love seeing the RSS feed with a new post from the YH! I’m an American, and she certainly doesn’t even come close to speaking for me!
    I love the posts you write about Canada. I’ve learned a lot from you… I knit, I have teenagers, I’m a vegetarian.
    So, in the spirit of mutual love and kindness…. I’m going to help spread the light. Sending you lots of it!

  92. With you 100%. You are an inspiration and are none of the things that were so sickeningly said. Thanks for being you!

  93. Stephanie. I have read your blog for a long time and most of your books. All of the work you do is helpful and inspiring. It is really unfortunate you have had to waste so much time on this incident. Price of doing business on the Internet, but very sad. Thank you for sharing through the blog. There are many many of us who respect and admire you and are truly grateful that you are you. I wish you all the best. Thank you.

  94. I, too am an American and find that person despicable. Everyone has their own opinion but there are ways to express your differences without being rude or hurtful. I have not felt your blog to be anti american. Hold your head up and continue to take the high road. Leave the gutter to her.

  95. I am so sorry that someone is attacking you. Your July 1st post did show how Canada is different from the USA, in a very truthful way. What you have done for knitting in the last 10 years is truly amazing. I hope that this will end it and you can get back to thinking about SS09. I won’t be there but can’t wait to hear more about it all.
    Stephanie in Ontario, Canada

  96. I’m so sorry.
    I’m sorry that you’ve found out why so many Americans feel the need to own a gun. Meet a few people like your stalker and you start to think maybe you need some protection, you know?
    I’m sorry you found out how so many Americans have lost their faith as a result of watching other American Christians. If that’s Christian, why would anyone want to be one? What kind of deity would let people use His name to justify such behavior?
    We have a very vocal self-important mean-spirited do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do commnity here in the mostly wonderful USA. I am very pleased that you’re only being bothered by one of them, and I’m even more pleased that you managed to go so long before one of the really nasty ones took to you like a kid with candy.
    I’m really proud of you. You’re behaving like an adult. You know better than to be a silent victim of a pitiful and probably mentally-ill bully. Good job.
    You make a great role-model for your children.
    I wish the world had a lot more people like you in it.

  97. How awful that you have had to deal with a person like that. This American and Christian woman(living in Maryland) enjoys your blog and your books. Hugs, kazbels

  98. You are amazing. I adore your blog, and your knitting, and your humor. You’ve handled this as gracefully and honorably as possible, and I sincerely hope that this woman stops her nonsense.
    I’m sending lots of positive energy and knitting vibes your way! <3

  99. I’m another longtime reader and first time commenter. I just wanted to break my internet silence to wave my flag of support for you. I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve had to deal with this situation, and I think you’re handling it totally admirably. Good for you, lady.

  100. Hey, I’m an American and very very proud of my country, though I see its weakness in every day I live here. I’m also a Christian, but unlike that person, I understand that hatred is no way to spread love. No one has the right to treat you like that. You are fully supported. Take care of yourself, ok? Just be safe.

  101. I too am a first time poster who was stunned by this blog entry. I’ve had a similar experience and left me totally shaken and fearful. Be strong and know that there are people on both sides of the border who read your posts and enjoy them (and by the way the one about your husband getting stuck still makes me laugh). Do what you need to do to make sure that you, your family and your friends remain safe and secure.

  102. Here’s another American that thinks you are a great person, of towering strength, wit, inspiration and full of love, creativity, compassion and that oh-so-elusive common sense.
    Enjoy your view from the high road, it’s loverly 🙂

  103. Hi Steph, It must have been so hard for you to write this post. I’m so sorry you and your family are going through this personal attack. For what it is worth, I’ve think you have done the right thing to involve the police at this stage.
    I’m a long time reader of your blog and will continue to buy your books. I think you are a blessing to the knitting world.
    Sending your love from Australia.

  104. Yet another lurker coming out to show support for you.
    This woman is clearly mentally disturbed. What you’ve done is, I think, the right thing. You’ve tried to deal with her rationally, but there is no logic to her actions.
    My thoughts are with you and your family.
    ~ an American

  105. OMG! This has been awful for you. Please believe that we love you, we love reading whatever you write. I am so very ashamed that someone from my country, the country I love, can behave to you in this manner. SHAME ON HER!
    Steph – I have NEVER been offended by anything you write and I love it when you write about Canada. I have learned so much about your country from you! Please, please stay who you are and remember for every one of her there are THOUSANDS of us who love you! See you in two weeks!

  106. Like you said, she’s gone off the deep end. And if she tries anything at Sock Summit, I imagine there will be thousands of red-blooded Americans, as well as your fellow Canadians, that would be happy to pounce on her and hold her for authorities. (Not that we’d just hand her over before inflicting lots of deep stab wounds with those straight needles we’re bringing for the World Record…). I can’t imagine that anyone thinks she’s talking sense unless they, too, are in need of a private padded room with a friendly straightjacket.

  107. I am so sorry that you have been so hurt by this unfortunate situation. You have taken the high road, and for that you should be proud. Bullies are mean, but they don’t have to win.

  108. Count me as another American Christian conservative woman knitter who is a fan of the Yarn Harlot!

  109. Nobody deserves what you have faced. I wouldn’t have been shocked if this entry had ended with your declaration that you were going to stop blogging and withdraw from the internet or public life entirely. It is never good to give in to people like this, but to take continual ad hominem attacks against your character that you cannot directly counter because you have to eat, to sleep, to spend time with your family is not right. Good for you for facing it like this. I hope that it bears out peacefully.
    Know that we’re here for you. Stay strong. This too will pass.

  110. Oh my, this leaves me almost speechless. Some things I’m sure you know but I feel like I have to say:
    1. There’s something very wrong with someone who feels the need to do this, and even though she’s making it all about you, it’s really not you at all. I hope this won’t take up much more of your emotional energy, it’s got to be draining.
    2. I am both a Christian and an American and she sure doesn’t speak for me.
    Wow.
    I come to this blog for knitting inspiration and a smile, and I always get both.

  111. I am glad you came forward about this and are being the bigger person. I am an American and have been reading you blog for a little over a year. I have never see you post anything I felt negatively reflected on anyone.
    I am certainly concerned for the woman that has targeted you because it sounds like she hurting. I am sorry that she has selected you to take her anger and hurt out on.
    Stay strong through this. You have a lot of very loyal people behind you.

  112. Sticks and Stones may Break my Bones, but Words will Never Hurt Me.
    I’m sorry this is happening and how did she ever think you were Anti-American? I’ve read your blog for years and have never thought of you as controversial or hateful.
    And as for losing your fan base, never.

  113. Hateful Christian, now that’s an oxymoron! Stay on the high road. All of us, even here in Chicago, enjoy your blog and we support you 100%. I know this must be very difficult for you but know that those of us who appreciate you will never engage this person or give her the attention she seems to crave in a distorted way. You have many fans who will buy your books and read your blog.

  114. American-Christian-Pussy-Owner chiming in here: You are awesome. That is all. <3

  115. As a Catholic American, I am offended to have such a person attempt to represent me. Carry on, YarnHarlot. We support you. We shall ignore her and take away the wind in her sails. Please be safe, though, since violent people severely dislike being ignored. And she will now be ignored.
    Thanks for organizing the Sock Summit and thinking up the Dye for Glory. My stash is now nicely enhanced by your efforts, which enhances my happiness.
    What was it again we weren’t supposed to discuss anymore? Never mind. It must not have been important.
    ~Saneknitter

  116. I have been reading the blog for a little while, and own a few of your books. Because of you, I discovered just how good a sweet potato burrito is with a beer! Your knitting is such a wonderful inspiration, and I laughed so hard the night I read your post with your kitty and the bathtub had me laughing so loud my kids came in and asked what was up. I am proud of your integrity and fortitude. Love and Light from here in Va up to there in Canada.

  117. I check your blog everyday and enjoy the humor you bring to all the wonderful joys and challenges life brings. Please don’t stop sharing with us.
    Nothing about this individual’s behavior is Christian or American!

  118. Dear Steph,
    As an avid knitter, and therapist, may I beg you to be very, very careful of this person’s behaviour. I urge you to make a statement to police to protect yourself and the ones you love. Trying to disengage from this type of behaviour may lead her to even great efforts to reach you, at any cost. Please consult a lawyer as well, to see if you can get a restraining order. This woman, as you describe her sounds as thought she is suffering from some kind of mental illness. Please, please be very careful!!
    Thank you, Jan

  119. I have been reading your blog for quite a while now, and I consider it on of the best ones I have ever read. It is interesting and witty, and I have never been offended by anything you have said (I live in the US). Keep up the good work!

  120. I am so sorry for her, and embarrassed for her; she must be in a terrible place to feel the need to take it out on you. And I’m sorry that she picked you as her target. Unfortunately, when she tires of you, she’ll probably pick someone else to make as miserable as she is. In the meantime, please know that we love you and that you (and the family) are in our thoughts and prayers.

  121. I can’t imagine how difficult this post must have been to write, especially after all you have endured from a person who would appear to be mentally unbalanced. I think that you are absolutely right to shine light on this situation and person, and to not respond to her. Keep on doing what you have been, because you are doing a fabulous job!

  122. I love your blog I’ve never leave a comment but I’m so ashamed of my fellow american, I’m so sorry… Liz

  123. Wow. Well I’m an American and I think you’re great! I saw you speak when you came to Anchorage, Alaska and you were wonderful! Please try not to let this get to you. I love your books and you are a very talented knitter. You motivate me to knit and I love all your stories!!!

  124. Yay, I LOVE when people make the Ugly American Stereotype look true! Wait, I meant the other thing, dislike. Sorry you’ve got a personal troll hon, good luck dealing with the cray-cray. I’ll never understand why people who don’t like someone’s writing keep reading it, instead of just, IDK, ignoring it? So you’ll stop getting the hits and looking so popular? Whatevs.

  125. Stephanie
    You are so strong to be able to deal with all of this aside from the normal day to day challenges of life. I don’t think there is anything wrong with you promoting Canada Day or any other Canadian holiday, and I have NEVER felt disrespected by you or anything you have said on your blog. I hope all of the people out there pulling for you give you the strength you need to get through this. Have a large glass of wine (or 3)! We’re all pulling for you!
    Kristina

  126. Man oh man. Here, have a beer. You deserve it.
    I have to say that us Canadians know that she is an individual and not speaking for all Americans. You’re off the hook for this one America!
    The sad thing is I don’t think she is mentally ill. She’s petty, mean and I really have to think lacking in self confidence. Otherwise why would she put so much time into knocking someone else down? I really pity her.

  127. I’ve been reading your blog for a long time now, never posted, but I wanted to throw my support behind you! Best wishes, and stay strong.

  128. Stephanie, I’m really sorry. If you ever thought our American medical health system was inadequate, I regret that you get such a good example of how our mental health system is nonexistent. Doesn’t sound like this woman should be loose on the street.
    As a pagan, I call on the goddess to bless this woman. I leave it to the goddess to decide what blessings she needs, although I certainly have MY opinion about what she _really_ needs.
    :-/
    We love you!
    (Long time reader, first time -I think- poster.)

  129. First time poster, but long time reader. I am incredibly impressed by your calm response to a person who clearly needs a lot of help. Definitely a model to live by. Please keep inspiring us.

  130. What a scary situation to deal with, do not be discouraged and thank you for sharing with us your good times and your not so good times. I do so enjoy your blog and as I have bought your books as a result of it and if you can write this charming and humorous blog with your busy schedule, then why wouldn’t you be able to continue to produce your funny and education books as well? By the way Sock Summit will become a legend. All I have to do is mention the fact that I would love to have gone and I get the same response, it doesn’t matter if they are knitter, weavers or spinners, it seems to unite us all. I live in California and just traveled most of it along with Arizona – crafters everywhere were singing your praises – yes we all seem to read your blog – with delight. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing some fun into my day.

  131. This is my first comment after lurking here for years.
    I can’t believe this is happening to you.
    I am American and I make sure to read your blog every day. Not to see what anti-American things you have to say that day, but to see what wonderfully witty, and knitty things you have to say. You make me smile day after day. . .
    Here’s to sharing a beer some day.
    K

  132. So sorry you’ve had to go through this sh!t. Mostly I think it’s wonderful that the world is full of such different people, but sometimes …. Well. Speak of what?
    How’s the blanket coming? Or the socks? Done yet, super-speedy?

  133. Dear Stephanie,
    Yet another lurker. I just want to thank you for doing what you do. I really admire the eloquent way you are dealing with this horrible situation. I really find inspiration and joy in your writing. As another human being (who happens to be American) I am horrified that this type of this is happening to you. Love and Peace! ((HUG))

  134. Thank you for making my day–and obviously the days of many many others–better every time you post.

  135. You have spent too much of your life on this woman already.
    I’m an American, and I love my country, and I deeply respect others who love their countries. You are entitled to enjoy being who you are. Loving one’s own land and people is not an insult to everyone else.
    And, well, please don’t judge us by this wing-nut.
    I’m not even much of a lefty, but again, I respect people who have strong convictions and enjoy reading what is written well. And MSF gets some cash from us because of you, so keep on writing well.
    That’s how you reach others, you know. Writing well. So back to the needles, and the words. That is what deserves your energy. Well, that and the sock summit.
    Please, please move on.

  136. Stephanie,
    I have been reading your blog for several years now- it was thanks to your lovely blog that I really delved seriously into knitting. This is my first time commenting, but I just really wanted to tell you how much I admire and respect you. The situation you describe is absolutely frightening! I think it is wise to share this with your readers and I hope people will indeed follow your lead and avoid confrontation with this individual. I sincerely hope that this resolves itself soon and you can go back to enjoying this wonderful space that you so graciously share with all of us!

  137. You are a much beloved friend, Stephanie. No matter where we live, we’re circling the wagons around you.

  138. oh dear! I just have no idea how some people can get so crazy nuts! I hope you get rest and feel comfort from letting this out. I also hope you tell the management at Sock Summit to be looking out for this crazy. The building, the local authorities and everyone there. Stay with a buddy at all times. ((()))

  139. posting for the first time ever to say that i love your blog, stephanie. youre a great writer and a classy lady. rock on!

  140. Wow. A big, huge, stunned…wow. What a nutter! I am so glad you’re are taking this so well and dealing with the whole situation with respect and dignity. I would have sunk WAY PAST her level a while back. You are the truest sense of the word ‘Lady’. Even with any patriarchal Victorian connotations that may be associated with it, I stand by it. As a pagan-queer-Canadian mother (take that you whack job! Oh yeah, oops, sorry, sorry, don’t antagonize her. Right), I love you! You encourage and enlighten and fill me with happiness and greater perspective when I read your blog. I love hearing about what I get to look forward to as my kids grow, I love hearing about your projects and tribulations with them, your open-minded views on family and spirituality, your garden, and I love your love for everyone, and your devotion to make the world a better place. You remind me not to be cynical, petty and bitter, no matter what life slings at you.
    Keep your head high – but not so high you can’t see your monitor, because my world would be a darker place if you stopped blogging and writing!

  141. Oh Stephanie, I’m so sorry 🙁
    I don’t agree with some things you do, but I can tell that everything you do is done with intelligence, forethought and strong values. I admire you very much and am sincerely grieved that someone would do this to you.
    It’s clear to me from the things she’s writing that she really has no personal problem with you at all – she’s just a little nuts and needs to attack someone and play the “game” she keeps telling you it isn’t. Very sad, but NOT about you. She’s grabbing at straws and trying to find faults where there are NONE.
    Please don’t feel badly about yourself. You are lovely and interesting and a breath of fresh air in my Google Reader. I wish people treated you like you treat the world – with interest, appreciation and respect.
    You made the right decision. We’re behind you all the way. For every one terribly dangerous wacko, there are a thousand lurking admirers.
    P.S. I’m an American who has been reading your blog for a few years, and I always enjoy your Canada posts. They are very patriotic, which is something I admire because I am patriotic too. But I have never once noticed a serious slight to Americans – and I’m pretty sure I would have if there was one.

  142. and yet another lurker — from the US — Steph, I love your blog and your writing. Keep it up, and don’t let her get you down. Remember that you are successful and a good parent and an all around wonderful person who deserves all the good things in life.

  143. I am so sorry for this loon who is stalking you and make no mistake she is a stalker. As someone else said please make sure the authorities in Toronto and her town are made aware of this behavior. I would even contact the FBI and Homeland Security in the USA and the Canadian equivilants since this is an international thing. Sometimes ignoring a mentally ill person makes them try even harder to get your attention. You are a better person than I and as a Michigander I LOVE Canada and Canadians are good peeps.

  144. Wowie wowie wow. My stomach has cramps for you. What a blight. I can hear in your tone how burdened you are. 🙁 Thank you for telling us though.

  145. Wow, I was holding my breath reading that post. I really thought you were going to pull the blog for awhile there. Stephenie, We love you and this blog so much! You are a light in my knitting day. I love your humour and I am American! Thanks for letting this off of your shoulders some tiny bit and for taking a true high road with this. I think you are correct to shine some light on the subject for everyone. Please watch out for yourself and rest assured that 99 percent of us readers are so happy to “know” you. I really wish you a world of good especially now while you and Tina and all the other wonderful organizers make history at Sock Summit! Have a great time- I wish I was going, but maybe next time!
    Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the fun of this blog, and all your books!!!

  146. I am so sorry this has happened. I appreciate how you have responded. I look forward to giving you a smile at Sock Summit.

  147. I am so sorry that you’re dealing with something like this on top of everything else you’re doing.
    This American likes you just the way you are.
    Hugs!

  148. There are some really sick people out there, and I’m so sorry to hear that one of them is putting you and your family through all of this. Stay strong!
    I hope that lady gets some treatment soon for whatever is wrong with her.

  149. Stephanie – I’m so sorry you have to put up with this. I look forward to checking your blog every day because of the knitting, the humor, and the positive vibes. I think the other comments prove that there is an extremely diverse, extremely large group of readers who follow your blog for the same reasons. As crappy as it all feels, don’t let it discourage you from sharing your thoughts and talents with us! What would we do without our Yarn Harlot?! You have my support all the way!

  150. Oh Stephanie. Ugh. I am so sorry you have had to deal with this person.
    I can’t say how much I admire you for this post – I doubt I would have had as much grace under fire. It seems mad to me that the internet appears to give people permission to act so outrageously. I feel like my blog is my home, and I would never walk into someone’s home and start verbally tearing it to shreds. I will never understand the impulse to dress someone down just because you can: if you don’t like what someone has to say, you have the very simple escape of SIMPLY NOT READING THEIR BLOG!
    But this, as many people have said, is surely a mental health issue.
    Rest assured, for the handful of people who misunderstand you and can’t see how honest, genuine, loving, tolerant of everyone and ethical you are, there are millions of people who do see you.
    Keep being strong, and try not to give this woman any more of your energy or worry. Her ranting is only going to tarnish herself.
    Enjoy your yarn, your beautiful family and the friends who love you.
    Peace xo

  151. Stephanie–Thank you for sharing your life with us, your Canadian life. How would I ever have known about pousin (sp?) without you!!! And I follow your tweets in the side bar and that is how this American first heard about Jimmy Carter’s essay this week and googled to learn more. Thank you again. N

  152. It is things like this that make me truly embarrassed to be American. I’m sorry that someone feels like they need to be so hurtful to such a wonderful individual. Hopefully her ‘Jesus’ will make her realize her wrongs, but I doubt she will even be willing to see it. Stay strong, stay safe and stay sane. We are all behind you. Love and Light from New Mexico.

  153. As yet another american who thinks you are spiffy and wonderful, this woman is obviously a nutter. Perhaps she’s one of the angry ranters who didn’t get into the sock summit? Take care, and don’t let it get you down 🙂

  154. Oh, the slogging through the soup of life – sometimes it gets pretty messy – sorry you’ve had your heaping bowl full of that…
    Here’s some love…
    and some light…
    and a friendly hug
    Keep being you – you’re beautiful:)

  155. I’ve read your blog for years, but I almost never comment. I did, however, want to say this: I am completely mortified at what this woman has done (is doing!). It offends me as a woman, a Christian, and an American. I will admit to being one who was a little stung by the Canada Day post. I had seen a couple of other famous Canadians who were, in my opinion, taking some digs at Americans on Canada Day, and I did prickle a bit. I even tweeted about feeling a little bashed on July 1 (in general, not by you specifically). Your post was by far the “softest” of the things that got to me that day, and I know enough about you from your blog to know that you were simply showing pride in your own country (as you should). I certainly don’t think you were trying to insult anyone, and I knew I was already feeling a bit raw. It certainly was not enough to make me stop reading your blog, and it was *definitely* not enough to make me send you hate mail! For goodness sake, people! I follow your blog because I find you thoroughly entertaining. I love reading about your adventures, I love reading about how you live your life (because it is quite different from mine, which makes it interesting to me). And I don’t even knit! But I’m always up for a good laugh, something you so often provide. Thank you for all that you do for your readers. I’m sorry this is what the generous sharing of your life had brought. “Light, love, respect.” What an excellent mantra. The world would be a much better place if we all lived those three little words every day. Peace.

  156. Oh Stephanie, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. Let me just say I am an American woman and she does not speak for me. You have my strength Stephanie! Hang on Girl!

  157. I haven’t read all the other comments, but as someone who’s been reading and loving your blog for many years now, I just wanted to add my voice of support. I love your blog, I love your writing, and I hope you keep up despite the antagonism. Be strong, and know that we are all (even us usually silent folks) behind you.

  158. Oh, honey, this is bad. Make sure the police know and a lawyer too so you stay safe. A male friend of mine is trying to reconstruct his life and relationships after being victim of a stalker.
    We love you, you inspire us with your knitting, and the way you live your life. It’s obvious that you have a lot of love for your family and your art. Don’t let the ravings of one sick person change the way you feel about yourself. Poor thing probably can’t knit. She does not represent The Blog.

  159. YH–I learned to knit because of you. I read your book, who knows which one at this point, & learned that it was OK to make mistakes and that one could be creative and color outside the lines. I picked up some needles and some very expensive yarn and have been knitting away for 15 months now. Obsessively reading your blog, your books, your twitters, and learning sooo much about much more than knitting. And going back and reading all the past Canada posts was a DELIGHT. and being originally from Georgia, I loved your two recent twitters about native son Jimmy Carter, and hate to claim him, Paul Broun.
    Here is the deal. This person is consumed by the green eyed monster. Everyone loves you, buys your books, reads your blog, and I bet she is in some type of competition with you. Take jealousy and twist it with a little mentally off and that is a dangerous mix. TAKE CARE of you and yours, just keep blogging and we will keep shining our lights.
    Someday I might learn how to knit a sock and get to come to some future sock summit, meanwhile loving voting on Dye for Glory.

  160. I remember last year that someone took offense to your Canada Day post and at the time, I went back and re-read it and tried to be objective (I’m also Canadian) and I couldn’t find anything wrong with it. Same with this years. I just don’t get it. How can being proud to be Canadian be anti everyone else?
    I know how the bad comments stay with you longer than the good ones but there are lots of us out there that love your work and will keep reading as long as you keep writing.

  161. At least one pagan American is lighting a candle for you tonight, and sending good vibes and sincere hope for some peace in your direction.

  162. Another American weighing in–she does not represent me in any aspect of the word “american.” Delete her into eternity………

  163. Gee Stephanie, how sad you had to experience this. I read your blog off and on because I always find it a good read and like to see what you are knitting. When I am knitting I read it and when I am into embroidery I read those blogs. When you came to Denver I went to see you and bought your book. I love it and have read it several times. But you know something… politically, socially and religiously we are probably miles apart. So what, who cares, all that means is that we sure could have some fun, over a beer, arguing our views with each other. I am an American and I thought freedom of speech was one of those things we prided ourselves in. SHAME ON HER!!!

  164. I’m sorry you’ve been dealing with this. That one is a full on nutcase.
    Hopefully this is the end of it.

  165. I also have not read all (167 when I started typing this) the previous comments. I just wanted to post about how much I enjoy reading your blog and sharing in the bits of your life that you post. I wanted to add my voice in appreciation and support for you:)

  166. Don’t lose sleep over this crazy person. I love your blog and look forward to every new post. The highlight of my knitting life was meeting you in Madison earlier this year. Keep doing what you do best… keeping us laughing, inspired and yearning for more of your wit. I am of many American’s who adore you.

  167. I am an American. I am a United States Marine. I am a woman with grit. Name Removed does not represent me; however, as one of her fellow countrymen I apologize for the harassment of a delusional woman who has inexplicably wrapped herself in the American flag.
    I had the pleasure of meeting you at the 2006 Book Expo in DC. You were delightful and very sweet and took the time to speak with everyone despite the hordes of us vying for your attention.
    Please know that there are tons of American Yarn Harlot fans. Keep your chin up and keep being true to yourself.

  168. I am so sorry. As a US citizen and a Christian, I’m ashamed of her behavior.
    If you’re ever in Arkansas (or, heck, western TN or SE Missouri), I’ll buy you a beer (or three).
    Maybe some alpaca, too.
    I’m just speechless.

  169. You’re absolutely correct – she thrives on the attention. But I am still concerned about the possibility of her being unbalanced mentally. What she is doing at this point is stalking, and it should be possible to get some sort of cyber (and physical) restraining order in place. You may need it. This is absolutely no joke. Please get the law involved.
    I’m south of the border, also, and I’ve never perceived your delight in your country to be a way of putting down mine. I love your writing, I love your (for want of a better term) Internet morals – I always refer back to your living room analogy before commenting on someone’s blog.
    I think it is always shattering to find a knitter (of all people!) who is not playing nice. I hope you find some way of relegating this problem from “major life disrupter” to simply “minor annoyance.”
    Oh, and if you need a place to hide, my son’s going to college next month. You can have his room. Plenty of space for yarn…
    We love you! Hang in there!

  170. As an American, first time commenter and admirer of you and your beautiful country, I echo so many of these positive comments. I read your blog every time you post. I love your sense of humor, your respect for ALL people, your energy, your creative spirit, you HUMANESS, your love for your family and your art.
    I could go on about that person, I could say that this has almost moved me to tears that some stranger..or anyone would be so hurtful. I want to be charitable towards her, but I am finding it very difficult.
    Keep on keeping on…you are loved and respected as all people should be.
    Best to you…

  171. I’ve disagree with you many times. Don’t agree with your position on gauge and a few other of your knitting beliefs.
    As a conservative Christian American, I say “So what if you lived in sin, married without religion and are a vegan?” We’re not BFFs, you’re a funny blogger who writes funny books about knitting. We will always have knitting in common. I’m a knitter who enjoys good humor. I also have the ability to separate my real life from the Interwebnetz. Imagine that.
    And FOR THE RECORD, you are an American. Canada, last I checked, is still North America. So pttttptht to your troll.
    I hope you’ve reported her violations of TOS to her ISP but I have a feeling your advisors are smart enough to have done that already.

  172. I suppose I am another person who has been reading your blog for quite sometime and has chosen today to be my first comment. I am also an American, and I must say I love reading your blog, I adore your books, and I really hope this lets up for you. Stay strong!

  173. YH…I read your blog every day..have for years. Your writing is meant to be light, but I tell you, lady, you’ve touched me many times. Hang in there. Leavin the light on for you!!!

  174. How dreadful! Thank you for staying with us despite the nastiness. I admire your tenacity and strength.

  175. may all who suffer the agony of mean thoughts be healed with love and compassion.

  176. I’m another proud Christian American who respects you and your country. I have not seen anything anti-American in your Canada Day posts.
    Live and let live.
    Hugs.
    M in M

  177. Stephanie you are my hero. I am an American and I love you. You inspire me . Keep up the good work and know that your are loved.

  178. This is the first time I’ve commented, but I had to join the stream of positive wishes. Bravo for your attitude – I’ve found it often takes more courage and strength to turn the other cheek, which you are doing so well.

  179. What I know to be true in situations like these, and what I hope you can believe, is that the venom and poison this person is spewing comes from whatever is wrong inside of her and has nothing to do with you. You did nothing to provoke it, cause it, or prolong it. You cannot control what she is doing. And you absolutely do not deserve it, nor does it contain any kernel of application to you or your life.

  180. I too am de-lurking to give my support; I love your blog, and your books (and yes, I am a Christian living in the US!). Light, love and respect. Hang in there. 🙂

  181. OMGoodness Stephanie, I’m sorry that you have to deal with a headcase who obviously has no life except to torment others. I’m so glad that you are taking steps to eliminate this person from your life.
    I have enjoyed reading your blog and books for sometime now, and I really appreciate your outlook on both knitting and life in general. As an American, I really like your comments on life in Canada and observations of life in America.
    Rock on girl!! Keep on blogging – we’re all behind you!!

  182. I post every once and a while, and I have to say I’m horrified by this “woman”‘s behavior. I agree with Carol and Jan in their comments particularly, because stalking is illegal, even over the internet, and this person needs to be brought to justice for her actions.
    As an American (well, a Michiganian which may not count since we border Canada ;o)) I have to say that she is a stereo-typical American who does not understand the Constitution. Freedom of speech means that everyone gets to state their opinions, even if one does not agree.
    I’d also like to add that the behavior of this person is the reason why I went away from Christianity because I just saw un-Christian-like behavior being performed by so-called Christians. I don’t know you personally, just from your blog, and I must say that you seem to act more Christian-like than she currently is.
    Go have a beer and consult your lawyer after Sock Summit.

  183. Stephanie, so sorry you’re being picked on by this tiresome person. I enjoy your blog and your books very much. I think that garter stitch blanket is calling you…or maybe a little work on the pretty green beaded sock? Many friendly, warm, and woolly vibes from a crocheter who is learning KSL (Knitting as a Second Language)

  184. Steph, as usual you are the picture of grace and dignity even in the face of, well, the opposite. I was so afraid as I read your post that you had decided that it was time to call it a day. My world would shrink greatly if you did, but knowing you no longer had to deal with personal attacks by loons would make the loss bearable.
    hugs to you and your family

  185. Hugs and sympathies. Stalkers can be pretty scary. Stay safe, and let the joy of all the support everyone is sending you wash this sucker right out of your mind.

  186. We like to think of knitters as a small community and that we are all kind wonderful people brought together by the joy and love of knitting but unfortunately we get all kinds.
    I am dealing with a totally unreasonable person like this in my life too. She thinks that another person and I have ganged up on her and are passing vicious lies about her. I think she needs something to be pissed off about so that she doesn’t have to deal with her own lackluster life.
    It’s sad and unfortunate that both these women are wasting their time (time that could be spent so much more efficiently and perhaps with people they care about) when this is all a big misunderstanding.

  187. Have to agree with Lou, we are all knitters, who just happen to live in different places on our planet. And what’s wrong with a little local pride, be it, neighbourhood, community, province/state/region or country? There are great things about everywhere!! Be strong, hold your head high, you have much to be proud of..and don’t stoop to respond to that level of behaviour. And I would also concur…call the authorities!!!

  188. Stephanie, I am so behind you. It is extremely sad that you and your family have had to put up with the ‘crap’ as long as you have. I look forward to your blog and books…love you like a sister…take care.

  189. Stephanie,
    As an American woman and knitter who has never before left a comment on your blog, I felt compelled to let you know that I find you both endearing and inspiring. If more people were like you I think the world would be a better place. Keep up the awesomeness!

  190. Hi Steph,
    All countries have their loonies, some good loonie some bad loonie.
    I’m sorry that people in the public eye sometimes become targets and I’m sorry that’s happened to you.
    Regards,
    Kathy

  191. Whoa! I can’t imagine how much you’ve had to deal with during these weeks. No one deserves to be stalked and abused like that. And you are right, an eye for an eye just creates a vicious cycle of problems. I wish you a speedy resolution to this. Good luck!

  192. I’m an American living in Oz now and cringe when I see “ugly American” behavior as shown by this obviously demented and disgusting woman. I am so sorry you have been subjected to this idiot.
    I’ve been a long time reader of your blog and have laughed and cried with you and learned a lot along the way.
    “Good on ya” as they say down under. No wonder you have so many of us who love and respect you. I hope you continue to share your amazing life with us for many more years.

  193. Bless your heart, Stephanie. (That’s “Southern” for “poor dear,” by the way) You don’t deserve this at all, and I hope you remember that throughout all of this.
    I’d like to reiterate what others have already said: this isn’t about you, it’s about *her* It’s a common practice for unhappy people to “project” their feeling about themselves onto others, and this is clearly what is happening here. You’re a wonderful mother and all-around great gal, and your family is lucky to have you.
    I have to wonder if this woman’s family (if she has one – hard to make assumptions about someone you know nothing about) is happy about her habit of spending hours on the internet trolling for “anti-American” knitting blogs…
    So keep your head up, try to disengage from the negative back-and-forth (I know it’s especially hard when you feel the need to deny the obviously false claims, but it is essential for ending the conflict) and don’t be afraid to vent your feelings in a safe way – I recommend writing a nasty letter out on paper, then shredding/burning it. Works wonders for me when I’m annoyed with my holier-than-thou roommate.
    And as for you losing fans over this… I highly doubt it, but I think I’ll move one of your books from my wish list to my shopping cart in honor of your “dear friend.”
    Peace and Love

  194. and pardon my arrogance at saying I’m an “American.” I should have said U.S. citizen. Why are so many of us so self focused? I know better.

  195. Enjoy your Sock Summit!
    I shall not speak of that which you wish us to not speak of…
    Yours truly,
    A knitting American — because of the Knitting Olympics! 🙂

  196. wow! sorry for all your trouble, who’d have ever thunk a knitting blog could cause wwIII?! I like your blog, and I’m an American- proud to be an American but sure not proud of that lunatic. I will pray for you, I think you have a crazy stalker and personally I would be very frightened. I sure hope that person will stay far far away from you. Good luck and stay strong.

  197. First: I love your blog.
    Second: Good for you for standing up for yourself.
    Third: It is always wise to know what the enemy is doing.
    I’ve dealt with folks like this before. (A family member in fact.) The most important thing is to be consistent and keep maintaining the boundaries you’ve created. Give an inch and a mile and then some, will be taken. But if everyone consistently keeps ignoring her, she will get tired and find somthing else to get hot and bothered about. Though it may take a long time.

  198. Hey sweet knitting sister, I think you are fabulous. I have actually given a copy of free range knitter to my daughter with postit note on the chapter about your daughter’s birthday. I thought it was precious, and you are too. Stay above the fray. The high road is best, and maybe this crazed human will change her ways. Or maybe not. But you dear Stephanie are loved and prayed for. You are a gift to the knitting planet. 🙂

  199. I hope it’s all over soon. Sending you a big hope-to-make-you-feel-better hug your way.

  200. Oh, Steph, I’m so sorry. Thank you for maintaining your sanity in the face of unbalanced harassment. Your writing convinced me to try knitting socks, and I have even gone so far as to knit lace. I thank you for knitting and writing bravely, to (very loosely) paraphrase EZ.
    (Seriously? Canada Day? I love your Canada Day posts. How odd.)

  201. Every country has their share of disturbed people. Let everyone know and don’t be quiet about it! Expose this person. Call and involve all agencies that can help you in this.

  202. She mentioned Jesus in her email to you but she obviously must not follow the WWJD?(What Would Jesus Do?)way of thinking about dealing with the life matters that we all have to deal with.Did she not get a space at SS09?Did she hear someone else complain about our country?I just don’t understand.I am so sorry you have dealt with this for so long almost by yourself.Just know that there are far more of us that love you for you and are sending you good vibes from America.

  203. Dearest Steph:
    I have to say, I am stunned. Stunned by what has been going on, and stunned by your strength in the face of it. It seems you are handling this with as much grace as anyone could. Doubly impressive with the hugeness that is the Sock Summit barreling down upon you. I must say, you have many many qualities I aspire to develop in myself.
    More power to you, Stephanie. I’ve met you twice at book signings, and now I’m more honored by the experience than ever.
    Keep being strong and fair and brilliant. I’ll be sending good karma and prayers in your direction, and a little fortitude to finish The Blanket as well.

  204. I am stunned. I am a long time reader but rarely post. I am so sorry that you have had to put up with such madness. I hope that you know she does not represent Americans or Christians (of which I am both) with her hatefulness. You are strong and have many, many, behind you. (hug)

  205. I’ve read your blog for a while, but this is my first time posting. I’m behind you completely. I have never seen an anti-American sentiment on your blog, don’t believe you have it in you. I look forward to your posts to get a chuckle, be entertained or learn. Thanks so much for what you do. There are way more of “us” that her, we won’t listen to a thing she says. Take care!

  206. While this feels personal, it is truly not about you. Whatever the issue is, it is not really about disrespect for nationality or religion; that is the camouflage that hides the button-pushing. As the steward of your blog, it is not hypocritical to delete hateful comments, or to do what you need to protect yourself.
    Like most readers, I read this blog because I am a part of the wonderful, world-wide community of knitters. Your blog illustrates just how influential you are in this community- for instance, the AMAZING fundraising for MSF. Unfortunately, success can make one a target. I appreciate all the good you do, and wish you the best in navigating this ugliness as you sail forward!

  207. Oh Steph,
    I have always felt an unreasonable sense of pride that you are Canadian, and it’s awful that someone who, I believe, represents Canadian values so beautifully, has to be subject to this level of poison. People who shine the light are the objects of hatred by those who prefer the dark. I’m old enough to be your mother, and I wish I could protect you from this horror. You are a treasure, and a force of enormous good. Thanks for providing your wisdom and love to the rest of us. You are The Force.

  208. Dear Stephanie,
    I know I’m echoing the sentiment of several other commenters, but here it is anyway:
    I love reading your blog entries. You are funny, creative, and endearing in so many ways.
    I am an American, a Christian, and pretty conservative. Even though we are different, I have never felt disrespected by anything you have said on your blog. EVER.
    You are proud of your country — nothing wrong with that! You express your opinions and your positions, but you are always respectful of others who do not share them.
    You are different from me… but you are my neighbor, and I will treat you with kindness and grace.

  209. Oh, geez. Not to feed the troll or anything, but keep rockin’ on with your bad self no matter what anyone says. You (obviously) don’t need me to restate how wonderful you are, how much we all enjoy your blog, but. Well. You know.
    And are you sure this is a woman? Only men consider ‘pussy’ to be the ultimate insult. Most (real) women just consider it a body part. 🙂

  210. Hi Stephanie, well this is horrible. I hate that she’s saying all this stuff and spending so much time harassing you via comments and email, but mostly I hate the picture I’m getting of what it’s doing to you – you’re worrying that any minute she’s going to be posting a comment and you have to watch out for that so you can delete asap; you worry about what you say on your blog since you can’t help but see it through her eyes and worry what she might say. She is getting through your defenses and you are doubting yourself. Well, girl, stay strong. Here’s a true reflection from me, a 41 yr old knitting, part-time-working, thinking, special-needs-parenting, singing woman: You are really funny. You are a cool knitter. You are a really good writer. And you give of your life on your blog, which helps people like me get through their own lives. (Thank you for all of that.) So take a deep breath, and carry on. love, Liz

  211. I am so sorry that you have had to put up with abuse from this unstable whack-job. I am a huge Harlot fan and second all the love and support from the commenters today and also want to say; watch your back.

  212. Wow. It’s people like her who give Americans a bad name.
    She is definitely mentally ill. She reminds me a lot of the person who was stalking me a few years ago. The only way I got him to stop was to have the police tell him that if he ever contacted me again in any way (email, blog, phone, mail…ANY WAY), that I would press charges. He still says horrible things about me on his blog (I don’t read it anymore, but occasionally someone comes to my blog from one of his links, and I see the title of his blog post. Nasty stuff), but at least I don’t get the emails and blog comments anymore.
    Good luck to you, from an American knitter who’s respectable enough, I figure.
    (hug)

  213. Steph,
    We are all so very proud of you. As an American I have never felt insulted by you. I’m glad that you have come to us your blog about this. Please just be careful and don’t listen to the inner critic too much. You are my absolute favorite blog. The one I read even on the days when it’s painful physically to get online. Besides you are the “evil” soul who introduced me to sock knitting. (You should see the sock yarn non-stash) Now, I know I’m being a bit paranoid, but I do worry about your and your families safety, please be careful. We don’t want to see you hurt emotionally or otherwise.
    Please be careful and happy,

  214. Stephanie, You have always taken the high road and you continue to take the high road. I join the others that are horrified by this person’s actions and we know that YOU know she doesn’t reflect the feelings of 1/1000000th of us. My only fear now is for your physical safety at SS. Though you’ll be SURROUNDED by adoring fans.
    Keep up your good work. You are setting a shining example for your daughters.

  215. Stephanie, wow. I’m so sorry you have to put up with this type of crazy. Take care of yourself. You mention “the authorites” so I presume you have taken steps to ensure the relevant agencies are aware of the wingnut. Hopefully she will be crazy enough irl to make someone take notice and ensure she gets the help she needs.

  216. First time posting. Crappy crappy crappy that you have to deal with this. I’ve been reading you for three or four years now and LOVE your blog. Keep up the excellent work, there’s a light shining from Chicago for you.

  217. Another lurker from the shadows here, keep your chin up, Stephanie! Have some wine and some good yarn, some people aren’t worth thinking about.

  218. Like many other comments today have said, I have been reading your blog for quite a while without commenting.
    You have my deep sympathy and also my respect for how you have dealt with this difficult person. I’m sending you all the positive energy I can and I will be praying for the woman who has been causing all of this trouble.

  219. Your generosity of spirit and higher-ground ethic is exactly why I don’t blog — I could never live up to your example. Besides, I’d rather spend my time reading your blog instead.

  220. As a male muggle lucky enough to be married to an addict of all things knitterly I have to say that I’ve been reading your blog for several years now and even had the pleasure of meeting you at a book signing while back (though sadly I was on cranky-baby duty for the end of your talk). Even though I don’t knit, I always enjoy reading your blog and books because they’re about so much more than making complicated knots. What I get out of your writing is more about the people involved and you have so much class and decency (not to make you sound too serious) that it’s hard to understand why anyone would do something that vicious to someone so genuinely nice.
    So short story long, keep on being an amazing human being and thank you for sharing your life with us!
    P.S. I loved your Canada Day post.

  221. Hi Stephanie! As an American (although not a super-great Christian) I can tell you that this person does NOT speak for the rest of us. I can tell how hurt and upset you are by this, but maybe you can look at it as a sign of how popular and fabulous you are? it’s the real icons who get the crazy stalkers, you know?
    Take care!
    Katherine

  222. Stephanie,
    I’ve never posted to your blog before but just wanted to let you know that I’ve always enjoyed reading it and I’m so sorry to hear about all the horse puckey this woman has put you and your family through. I love your blog and have for a while. Why would anyone who didn’t bother to waste the energy?
    Erika

  223. Stephanie, I am so sorry you have had to go through all of this. I find it hard to imagine such meanness. Just the other day I was telling a friend how much I learn from you that has nothing to do with knitting–like info on the Canadian government hiatus this past January, the relative value of clean diesel and hybrid autos, and your recent post re: BC and the monster living in the lake there. When all these topics have come up in other sources I have felt that I had some background based on the blog. Keep up the good work. Carol

  224. To honor the request of somebody I respect greatly, I promise that if I see negative comments such as you describe, I will not respond. I will limit my outrage to private discussions with my wife.
    Stephanie, I am as fond as one can be of somebody I don’t actually know. I am not even a knitter, but you engage me always.
    With unashamed great public affection to you, and all you are, and all you do.

  225. As a friend once told me, it’s not that it *takes* all kinds, it’s just that we *have* all kinds…
    Another first timer commenting in support. This American will never be offended by your obvious love of country. I am, however offended by ugly Americans.

  226. I think my “favorite” part is about how all the respectable knitters are distancing themselves from you. Because, you know, you don’t have just about every famous knitter in the free world about to get together for a big massive Sock Summit that 30,000 people tried to register for simultaneously. Right.
    I’m a counselor in an American elementary school, and I make sure to talk about internet bullying with my older kids. It’s very true what you said…people are willing to say so much more on the internet, because it can be anonymous. You don’t have to see the other person’s reaction. You can type, hit send, and then go on about your day, without having to think about how the person on the other end might feel.
    I personally enjoy your posts about Canada. I enjoy learning about different cultures, and I don’t feel that being a proud Canadian means that you’re anti-American. I greatly admire the way you are handling this whole situation, and I hope that it dies down soon.

  227. It’s so depressing that she announces she’s doing these terrible things to defend Americans. I vote to exile her to Antarctica, without any yarn.

  228. Ditto to RachelH’s comment. You are amazing! I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this.

  229. That kind of behavior is just inexcusable, especially towards a nice person like yourself. I have no tolerance for bullies myself, and refuse to feed trolls on the internet, because that’s what this person is. Much love and light to you! And good for you for sticking up to her! (writing from TX, btw) 🙂

  230. Sorry you are having to deal with such a person. I am an American, a Christian and a BIG fan of yours. It makes me so sad when someone such as her can give other Americans and Christians a bad reputation, please know that we are not all the same as this unreasonable unstable stalker (who I hope can be stopped and dealt with through legal means).
    You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  231. Dear Stephanie, I am an American woman (Christian) living in Canada who knits and reads your blog everyday. I totally enjoy what you write, and have never found anything you wrote offensive. You’re taking the right track–we’ll all promise to ignore this wild woman, and just keep on enjoying you and your talents and wit!!!
    Louise in Alberta

  232. I appreciate your bravery and am sorry you’ve had to go through so much. Please continue writing. I enjoy reading your blog so much. Thank you for calling for respect and love in the blogosphere. I think it’s possible. I’m sorry you’re having to shoulder the burden for decent discourse at this time.

  233. I read your post and my immediate response was “What the….?? How could someone spend so much time being a tool?”
    I echo pretty much every other post that says keep doing what you are doing. We enjoy having someone as knitting obsessed as we are (even if we just lurk:)
    good luck and remain awesome!

  234. I’d like to second the suggestion to read “The Gift of Fear” which IIRC talks extensively about stalkers. Hang in there and stay safe!

  235. I used to work for a congressman. This sort of thing used to come up everyday. She strikes me as a fairly lonely, and probably mentally ill individual. Best of luck to you (and her member of congress/senators – I’m willing to bet they get their fair share of her mail too).

  236. One more previous lurker chiming in with love and respect from California–thank you for all the inspiration, laughter, tears, and insight you’ve given me over the years!

  237. Wow. I wasn’t aware that being proud of one’s country and vocalizing that pride aloud automatically meant one was anti- all other countries. I imagine that would also come as a surprise to the rest of the country whose flag she’s hiding behind so she can harass and abuse other people. See, I’ve read the Bible, and I don’t recall the Hebrew god protecting the nation of America.
    Speaking of scripture, I don’t remember the part where Jesus tells his disciples it’s okay to persecute anyone talking smack about their country, or even different gods. Was it somewhere in the Sermon on the Mount, after “blessed are the meek” and “the peacemakers” and “the merciful”? Or was it when Jesus stated that the second most important commandment was to “love they neighbor as thyself”? I’m not sure – it’s such a long book! I’m probably just missing it somewhere in there among all the “forgive those who transgress against us” bits. But I’m sure that the lady in question is well aware of all this, being a good Christian and American as she says she is. I’m sure she’ll set me straight.
    Sorry you’re having to deal with this; in my limited experience via other people’s word-of-mouth and your efforts for a lot (a LOT) of different charities, organizations and causes, tells me that you are living a more “Christian” life than she is, as far as I can tell.

  238. I am another U.S. citizen that is beyond shocked at this person’s behavior. I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Please believe that to the majority of us US obsessive-knitting people you are an icon! And if we were to know each other personally,I bet you would be a damn fine friend too!

  239. Stephanie, the way you are handling this (in a kind, calm, RATIONAL manner), shows the kind of person you are. Her clearly irrational behavior indicates her character as well. You are right; reacting to this kind of thing only feeds it, unfortunately. We all want to rush to your defense, but it would only make it worse in the long run. Please, PLEASE be careful. Please make this known to the legal authorities. We all love you dearly. Your wit has made my day lighter many times.

  240. Dear Stephanie, I am an American woman (Christian) living in Canada who knits and reads your blog everyday. I totally enjoy what you write, and have never found anything you wrote offensive. You’re taking the right track–we’ll all promise to ignore this wild woman, and just keep on enjoying you and your talents and wit!!!
    Louise in Alberta

  241. Stephanie, I am so very sorry that you have to go through all of this. While I’m an American, I have an uncle who is Canadian. I personally love your Canadian day posts–it just makes me want to visit. Stay strong and hug the girls and Joe. Not all of us are quacks. I’ve learned so much from you blog. Susie from Columbus Ohio

  242. Sending much love and light to you and your wonderful family (who could look at those amazing young women and doubt your parenting?). Also sending love and light to this poor, poor woman. May she find the strength to focus on her own life and problems for a while and be freed of the need to spew such darkness.

  243. I tear up a little when I read this, as I know I could never handle a hurtful person as nobly as you are handling her. I hope with time she simply fades away. Don’t take anything to heart!

  244. Steph – I am so sorry you & yours have had this weighing on you for the better part of the past month. Don’t ever forget how much Steve & I love you personally and professionally, how much our customers do (remember the 1200 that showed up and nearly caused a riot in the store?) and I can’t speak on behalf of all Americans but I think a vast majority of American knitters pretty much think you rock the free freakin’ world.
    xoxo
    kathy
    webs america’s (yeah AMERICA’s) yarn store

  245. Lots of hugs, smiles, and laughter being sent to you, your family, and your friends right now when you need them most. You’ve made me laugh right out loud and have lifted my day when it’s been dark & dreary(we’ve all had those days). I am proud to be a Yarn Harlot fan from Massachusetts! (hey…can we get buttons / t shirts for that???) 😀

  246. You have this American’s support. I may not always agree with what you say but as long as you hold to the boundaries of good taste (which you certainly have, Stephanie) you have every right to say it. Hold your head up high. You’ve done nothing to deserve this (or any)level of vitriolic attitude.

  247. You mean Canada’s not part of America?! I’m flabbergasted! 😉
    For the record, I just started knitting seriously in the past year, picked up one of your books, and found it invaluable – and a bit reassuring to realize I wasn’t crazy just because I liked to play with string. You’ve provided an invaluable service to so many people – please don’t let one nutjob discourage you.

  248. Oh, Stephanie. I am so sorry you are going thru this. Light overcomes darkness and Love is stronger than hate. This poor soul is obviously deeply disturbed, but to make you suffer because of it is awful. I pray she gets some professional help and you get some peace.

  249. Unbelieveable. I’m so sorry you are having to go through this. As am American and a Christian I am embarrassed for this person. I am also concerned for you. We have laws to protect victims from stalkers…that’s what she is. Protect yourself and your family and get the authorities involved.
    Sending you hugs and prayers.

  250. I am so sorry. I hate that she’s an American. As an American myself, it embarrassing. But, don’t listen to her, and don’t listen to your inner voice (or at least not when it sounds like her), listen to us, your faithful readers and internet friends. We love you! No, really. WE LOVE YOU! And we are not going anywhere.

  251. Just let me send this cosmic stinky fart in her direction…. all done.
    You’ve got a 10-4 all clear from me!!
    (ps, lots of love coming your way from your nutty Jacksonville girls)

  252. This made me sick to my stomach. I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with such a layer of humanity.
    I’m sending some good vibes your way.
    Also, thanks for being awesome in the face of adversity. You are a lesson in the art of grace.

  253. Stephanie, I’m so sorry this is happening to you. You reach a really wide audience and when you reach so many people there is bound to be a sick one in there.
    I’m glad you are talking to authorities. Keep blocking her IP address. I also would recommend not responding to her… ever again.

  254. Oh honey, I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. Folks who brag about being “Christian” and “American” contexts like these make both Christians AND Americans look bad.
    But you can’t fix crazy.
    I’m GLAD you’re proud of Canada. I’d think less of you if you WEREN’T. However, I have sense enough to know that when a Canadian is proud of their country, that doesn’t mean that America is lessened thereby. Jeezopete — who thinks that???
    She should be glad you’re not willing to unleash your minions on her. Something like this could happen:
    http://consumerist.com/5322539/internet-trolls-trash-tardy-chest+thumping-monitor-shipper
    Internet vigilante-ism can be scary. Better not to go there.
    (And BTW, I’m lots handier than my husband too. But bless his heart, he’s learning. I trust him with tools now, and only feel the need to supervise a little.)

  255. Ugh–I have heard of this sort of behavior before but to read the words is still ugly and shocking. Please don’t hesitate to get a restraining order.
    I’m an American (and a pagan, the horror!) and live not far from the border. I LOVE Canada. It is an awesome place. I love your Canada Day posts. And I think you are totally awesome. Please don’t let that little voice inside you run with these ugly words. Hold your head high and think of how many people are sending you love and light. As am I!

  256. steph! you are a dear! funny, feminist, an excellent writer and a fantastic parent. Pay attention to the 276 good comments and not to the one crazy!

  257. Wow. I am so sorry that someone from my country would accuse you of such things. I am the type of person who believes that it doesn’t matter where someone comes from, it is only the caliber of their character that matters. This person is clearly a toxic person. The kind of person that sets out to destroy your ego in any way they can. I know she keeps rubbing Americans in your face as if we are all this way, but I know you’ve been here (and are coming here for Sock Summit) and you’ve met the kind of wonderful, supportive, and smart people who live, work, and knit here. I hope that you do not let this person get the best of you. We have never met face to face, but I know that you are a good person and no self righteous maniac should be able to take your self esteem away from you. I am not the praying type, so I will say this, I am sending good vibes your way. This too shall pass.

  258. So sorry you’re having to deal with this insanity. It’s obvious you’ve done everything you can to handle this with class and dignity. Hope everyone else takes your lead. Love to you and your family.

  259. Steph,
    I’m embarrassed that this person is an American. One thing I can tell you is that she is NOT a Christian no matter what she thinks!
    I enjoy reading your blog; in fact I check it daily. I’ve never been offended by anything that you’ve posted. I may not agree with everything but… you have the right to your opinion as much as I have to mine. And as far as being proud of your country, that’s great. I’ve learned a lot about Canada and would love to visit some of the places that you’ve posted about. Please don’t let this deranged person get you down. You are a gifted and talented writer and she’s probably jealous that she is not in your caliber.

  260. Dear Stephanie,
    As a Canadian living in the US, reading about all this just made me sad and tired. But, scrolling through all these supportive and loving comments, I`ve been heartened, and I expect you will be, too.
    Thanks for your Canada Day posts, for reminding me of all the reasons why I love my `home and native land.` And thanks for bringing a little bit of Canada to Austin recently. You were, and are, awesome.

  261. Just wanted to chime in (as a maybe one-time-ever poster, long time reader), that I think you’re great! Funny, clever, smart as heck, and you write fabulous books and a fabulous blog. Americans for Yarn Harlot! Sorry that you are having to deal with the scary crazy lady. (((Hugs))) We all have the critical inner voice that is afraid of what others think of us. That woman does not speak for us.

  262. What a horrible experience! I’m another reader from the US who is baffled at her accusations and horrified at her behaviour and threats.
    The woman sounds very unbalanced and potentially dangerous.
    I don’t know what the laws are like in Canada, but when I dealt with an internet stalker some years ago in the US it was taken very seriously by law enforcement. I urge you to make sure her behaviour is fully documented with law enforcement both in Canada and the US — both for your own protection and to get her the help she needs.

  263. I’m sorry and embarrassed that she’s an American. I love your writing – I was afraid you were going to say you were going to stop blogging. I think you should get some legal advice to see what can be done to stop her. Know that you have many, many fans and some of us are somewhat sane!

  264. I’m another one that keeps up with your blog. I also have every single book of yours that’s been published…and even the calender. I’m also an American and am just stunned, like everyone else, at the shocking behavior of this person. I sincerely hope you read each and every comment you’ve received here. They choked ME up with the support and caring and they weren’t intended for me. It’s obvious you are loved, Stephanie, by your family, your friends and certainly your fans. Stay strong, honey. You’ve done the right thing by letting those who love you know what you’re up against.

  265. I am so proud of you! I don’t know how you find the restraint. A reminder to us all to try to be better people. Hang in there…sending you good thoughts and prayers (my God rolls like that!).

  266. I second the book recommendation to read The Gift of Fear– it has entire chapters dedicated to celebrity stalking and violence, and while I’m sure you think of yourself as a humble knitting blogger, you are also a very public figure. Frankly, her comments make her sound unhinged and dangerous, and it sounds like she’s making not-so-veiled threats against you. Please be careful. And remember: it is not about you, nothing you did provoked this person. But you may be able to take steps to stop the situation from continuing to escalate. Please: read the book.

  267. Just wanted to say – I’m an American and a Christian, and I am sorry and ashamed to see someone claiming to speak from both positions saying things that would make a true American, and a true Christian deeply ashamed. (I feel like *my* country has been misrepresnted by this person – ugh)
    Stephanie, I have been a regular reader and rare poster to your blog for several years now and have all your books – you have given me many, many hours of pleasure and I thank you for every one of them. The Internet brings so many blessings in the ability to communicate widely. It is deeply depressing when someone uses that ability to express only hate.

  268. Another “long time reader, first time poster” stepping forward to show my support and admiration!

  269. Stephanie….
    My heart goes out to you as I try to begin to grasp how painful this process must be. Another American Christian here who really enjoys every minute of the blog, including all of your Canadian posts. It’s been such a pleasure to learn more about our northern neighbors–they just don’t teach enough of it here in school. Many hugs and hopes for a swift resolution for this.

  270. Okay, I’m all for shining the light and explaining what’s happening. And I get that people are showing their support for you. But for all the commenters who think this woman is mentally ill, think again. She’s a fanatic, but not necessarily mentally ill. As someone who is mentally ill, I resent the fact that you think this is what mentally ill people do. Guess what, we live and work right beside you and you wouldn’t even guess we were mentally ill unless we told you, which we don’t, because then you put us in the same category as this woman.
    Stop calling her names, and call it for what it is. A highly fanatical person.

  271. A proud American who is 100% behind you, Steph. I’ll honor your request, and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru this…
    (((((hugs)))))

  272. Oh good lord…really? Who has the time and energy for this sort of nonsense? Thanks for letting us know what’s up despite how difficult I know it was to throw it all open.

  273. Dear Stephanie-
    Like many other readers, I’m a lurker who is commenting for the first time to let you know how much I respect you. I only learned to knit this past October, and from nearly the beginning you have been part of my knitting experience. Your books make me laugh out loud, help me get through the heartbreaking projects, and your blog never ceases to entertain.
    Thank you for sharing your life with me, and all your other readers. And thank you for being strong through all of this.
    Much Love,
    Hali

  274. Stephanie,
    I am SO sorry for what you’ve been going through! I am an American, and I have never felt patronized or insulted by ANYTHING you have said! I appreciate your talent, your humor, your love of knitting and your support of your fellow humans on this planet. Whoever this person is has some sort of mental issue (perhaps she’s bipolar or schizophrenic), or lacks the intelligence to value the fact that we live on a planet with many various views, opinions, talents, etc. PLEASE keep doing what your’re doing, because there’s alot more love for you than this b@#&* will ever know! Sorry for the long post, but stalkers bring this out in me ;0)

  275. Hey Stephanie
    I don’t know if anybody else I know could’ve stayed so tolerant under such treatment. You are a wonderful parent, knitter, writer, and human being, and it makes me sad when other people don’t realize that.
    Sending you good wishes and thoughts from California,
    -Emily

  276. Holding you in the light dear woman and a bit reluctantly will hold name removed in the light as well. Many many thanks for sharing so much life/love/humor with us. XOX!

  277. To have so much anger is very sad and I’m sorry that she has made you her whipping girl. Nobody deserves that. Do NOT let it get you down – look at all these posts. I hope this person can eventually see that she is really only hurting herself and get some help, as this must show up in other aspects of her life as well.
    Keep on blogging and writing and knitting. Big hugs!
    Julie

  278. Crazy comes in all nationalities, I’m so sorry to hear some of ours has chosen to inflict itself on you. Strength to you and your family from all who love you.

  279. Wow. I will always hold firm my belief, that you are a far better person than I am. This just cements it. I would’ve sent nasty hate mail back, knowing full well it would just fuel the fire.. and when it got to this, I’d have pulled the plug on the blog and had a good cry. You however, have the Grace and Dignity and Strength that I can only hope to strive towards. How brave of you to put this all out here for us to read. I hope you had a beer and a lie down after. ((hugs))

  280. Sending peaceful thoughts and love from down south in Alabama. Keep your head up and stay safe.

  281. Stephanie, YOU are the best. Rising above this and acting like an adult, thank you for enlightening us so we will and do not feed this chicks demented mind. Please remember she is only one and there are tons of us out here with
    GREAT respect and admiration.

  282. We love you Stephanie. Like others have said, it’s awesome that you are proud to be Canadian. Don’t stop writing about it, especially not on Canada Day. Doing so does not make you Anti-American. If anyone were to write about how great the US was on the Fourth of July, they would have every right too, and it does not make that person a hater of every other country out there.
    More than that, even if you were Anti-American, so what? Not everyone has to love the US. People who think so are delusional. I live in the US. I like living here, but I’m not so crazy as to think that everyone else in the world should love the US and it really does not bother me in the least if they don’t. That’s stupid. They SHOULD be patriotic about their own country and not give a rat’s ass about the US.
    If you wanted to write so-called, “Anti-American” comments on your own blog, go for it. Who are we to say different? It’s your blog, do what you want. If people get offended, they are waaaay too sensitive.
    I applaud your maturity and strength in this situation. You rock. Don’t change a thing.

  283. “Keep calm and carry on,” as the Brits say… Sending lots of good vibes your way!

  284. I hope this mentally ill person gets help and stops lashing out at you. Making this situation public was a good idea; I’m glad to send my support for you to stay strong in the face of this demon.

  285. There is no limit to the crazy that can be found on the internet. It was bound to happen sooner or later, though that doesn’t make it any easier. I am so sorry you are dealing with this, Stephanie. Know that your thousands of fans support you and love you and your writing. I personally don’t plan on letting the lunatic ravings of an apparently mentally deranged individual keep us from supporting you!

  286. WOW, unbelievable, someone needs to check themselves…
    I would consider this harassment, and not only would I block her, I’d find a way to press charges.
    Hugs.

  287. Another person who is commenting for the first time. You inspire me by being sensitive and gentle with someone who is clearly unbalanced. Thank you for reminding me what it looks like to shine light.
    Sending love from America.

  288. That’s horrible! I am so sorry you have had to go through this. We all love you so much and I can’t imagine why anyone would do such a thing not only to you but to any other person. I am always amazed by the crazies of the world and the hurt they cause. Know you are loved and supported by your many, many fans!

  289. Dear YH, just one more American knitter who wants to say YOU GO GIRL. You are handling this beautifully. Shame on her. I hope you can feel all the loving energy pouring your way!

  290. To you, Stephanie, I send all my “Light, Love and Respect”. To the woman that is bullying you, I can only send pity. What venom must be inside her that it spills out toward you in such a manner?
    I look forward to your posts daily. You are such a giving person to share your life, your humour and your knowledge with us all. Today you share your immeasurable grace. You are handling this situation so much better than many would. A phrase I used the other day when dealing with a minor upsetting situation comes to mind “The air is sweet, clear and unpolluted when one walks the high road”. I wish you much sweet fresh air and selfishly hope you continue to share your gifts with us all.
    I think it is safe to say that I, and those that have commented will defend you in our hearts but refrain (per your wishes) to do so with our keyboards.

  291. Brava, Stephanie! Another Christian American woman (just not an insane, obsessed one) who has long admired your work, and your honesty on the hard work of parenting. In fact, I may have to go buy another of your books, just because this woman has painted me with her crazy brush, giving “Christian American” a bad name. I hope the authorities are able to help, because no one should be able to cause so much hurt and problems and get away with it.
    We stand with you, and we love you.

  292. I can’t for the life of me figure out how anyone could decide that quoting other people (including Americans!) have said about Canada, is somehow proof of your taking a rude and anti-American stance.
    In my opinion, the woman is obviously demented as well as traumatized and ought to spend more time with her therapist and less time thinking about and writing to you.
    I crocheted until I picked up one of your books at a yarn shop, and learned to knit because of your enthusiasm for it. I will always be in your debt for introducing me to knitting, which has become my dearest comfort in life. Thank you, Harlot. You’re a classy and funny lady.

  293. I agree with others, this individual is not well. There is never a time when vitriol such as this is warranted. I hope that someone who knows her and is aware of this situation may step in with some guidance.
    And, to be truthful, if she is a “Christian” I think she must have skipped all the parts in the New Testament about Jesus. You know, that guy who was all about Love? Maybe she needs a refresher course or two…

  294. What a brave strong woman you are.
    For the record, the humor in your books works for me 😉 I hope to see more of it, and soon!
    Just know that this so called Christian American is a disgrace and is unfortunately loud enough to be heard and its this type of behavior that gives us a country a bad rep. 🙂

  295. I am so sad and so sorry you are being treated this way. You and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers. It is a sad symptom of our decaying society that people who achieve prominence are often the target of obsession and irrational anger.
    I would also recommend you preserve a copy of each e-mail and each comment prior to deletion. Law enforcement might be interested. If at any time you feel frightened, I would speak to law enforcement and find out what your options are.
    Love. Peace. And pudding. Everything is better with pudding.

  296. I don’t comment here normally but WOW! Just had to step up and let you know that I am, like many others who have posted, embarrassed that an american, a woman, or actually a being from this planet would be so hateful.
    Sending you warm thoughts.

  297. I want to thank you for the information and inspiration your blog and books have provided me. My favorite posts were about the wool stealing squirrel. The picture of a squirrel in a Fair Isle sweater just about made me fall out of my chair. And then the look in his beady little eyes when you solved the problem. Perhaps you should print the picture and keep it with your computer to make you smile. Hang in there.

  298. Wow. Just wow. As an American and Christian, i can say that she’s not a fair representative of the population. i love Your books and Your blog – and i admire Your patience and restraint. Hang in there!

  299. First of all, as an American and a Christian, I’ve never been offended by anything you’ve written. In fact, I had missed the Canada Day post, and in reading it now, I found myself laughing out loud (ah, that Al Capone… quite the character).
    I’m really rather ashamed that I share some commonality with this person. I’m also rather horrified that she calls herself a Christian woman with a sense of pride when she goes about writing such venom. I almost wish she could take a step back and see herself and what she’s doing… but the self-righteous always seem to have fun house mirrors that never reflect themselves the way others see them.
    The problem is hers and hers alone. Do what you can to block her way, but don’t let it consume you. Most of us have been on the internet long enough to know a troll when we see one. I just wish you didn’t have to deal with it in the first place.

  300. One of the reasons I read your blog is the way you live your principles. Thank you for yet another example of walking your talk.
    Also, please keep giving us a window into Canadian life.

  301. What Rachel and Tina said. Good on yer, and you have, as always, my full-throated (or, in this case, silent) support.

  302. WOWZA! What a nutjob that woman is. I always find it fascinating when people purport to be Christians and then attack others. As a lifelong Southerner, we have a great phrase that you might find some comfort in when you think of trying to reason with this woman, trying to communicate with her on a rational level is “like trying to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.”

  303. Hey Steph,
    You’re everything I’d raise my kids to be, and all that I aspire to as a human being.
    From all us homos in the U.S., hugs and feather boas. Mwah.

  304. Oh wow. I am so sorry that this has been happening! As an American, I am utterly ashamed that this person could act in such a way. I know you know that not all of us are like that, but still! Honestly, her language and delivery sound very much like a family member of mine who has a mental illness. I’m behind you all the way!

  305. What a horrible situation to find yourself in. There is some great advice here – especially about checking on ways to protect yourself and your family and to read “The Gift of Fear.” Stay safe!

  306. I am so sorry that you and yours have had to endure this. I don;t often comment but wanted to take this chance to thank you for sharing all your humor, stories and overall good nature with us. As an American (albeit of Alaskan origins), I’ve always loved your Canada Day posts.

  307. As a Christian and an American, I am broken-hearted about this harassment. I will pray for you, your family, and this woman.

  308. Oh, dear, Stephanie. How awful that you have had to deal with this. I can only echo what others have said — you are dealing with this with your usual grace and dignity. Thank you for continuing to write, and please, as others have also said, stay safe.
    Oh, and that inner voice? It doesn’t take much to trigger it. However, your many, many supporters, to say nothing of your publisher (and royalty checks!), and your many offers to speak all around the US should hopefully help put it back in its little locked box!
    Big hugs from Cape Cod, MA!

  309. I cannot let this pass without comment. Kudos to you, Stephanie, for your class, your grace under pressure, your well-thought-out responses and handling of the situation. I’m glad you’ve contacted the authorities…and that’s all I’ll say about that. Thank heavens you know that this woman does not speak for all of us south of the border. The loudmouths do not speak for us.
    Thank you for the education we so desperately need about our closest neighbors! I adore your posts about Canada and feel like weeping for those among us who will never know the beauty of loving more than one country or culture.

  310. Dear Lady-
    Yet another US citizen who is horrified by the “person” harassing you. I have been reading your blog for nearly 2 years and it is one of the highlights of my day. Many a night I have stayed up reading your books and laughing to myself, much to the irritation of my non-knitting spouse. Please do not let this nut case stop you from doing what you love. Keep your family safe and yourself strong.
    I’m Pagan and I hope you won’t mind, but I’m lighting a candle tonight and asking my Matron Goddess, Brighid (who is the Celtic Goddess of the Arts and has a special affinity for wool workers, btw) to protect you and yours.
    Blessings upon you,
    Joan Keith of Southern California

  311. Another lurker. Remember, for every mean, hateful person, there are about 25,000 who adore you and think you are awesome. You’re popular for a reason, lady!
    (big, non-creepy hug here)

  312. Thank you for your openness and honesty. Thank you for loving your country publicly, and I apologize that one of my countrywomen has upset you this badly. I admire and appreciate your wit, your humour, and your writing.
    I hope very much that you can enjoy the remainder of your weekend and as much time with your family as possible before heading to Portland for Sock Summit. I am unable to attend but can’t wait to hear all the fantastic stories. I still hope to meet you in person one of these days.

  313. We’re all with you. The only explanation I can see for this kind of behavior is some form of mental illness, and I hope this person gets some help soon. Stand firm, and we’ll stand with you. Love you!

  314. Your blog is always a joy to read. I’m infuriated that you are being mistreated but I will follow your wishes. As an American I can say that you always make me laugh, teach me things (like what to do when my fiance burned his hand) and in instances like this inspire me to be peaceful. The way that you are handling this situation is noble and mature. I’m so sorry that you’ve been taunted and hurt by this person who clearly needs to fill a void in their life. I hope you know that many, many, many people that don’t even know you love you a lot and wish you well. Keep your chin up.

  315. Emerging from deep lurk to send you my support! I am dumbfounded–truly dumbfounded– by your experience, and admire your grace in a difficult situation. She certainly does not represent this Christian American. Hang in there sister!

  316. Stephanie,
    I am American from the southern Bible Belt, and am horrified by the troubles you are having. As my late mother would say, “That person obviously wasn’t raised right.”
    As for the comments, I rarely read them, I’m truly more intersted in your words.

  317. How sad – and scary. Please be careful. I hope all the positive energy in the comments helps you move away from this nastiness.

  318. Just a lurker here. I am appalled that someone would do this to you – to anyone. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. Thoughts, prayers and good vibes coming your way to help you deal with this.
    Peace,
    Jo Anne of Massachusetts

  319. Oh. My.
    Speaking as a (hopefully) sane American, I can’t say that I’ve ever felt that you’ve spoken badly of us at all, or of any other country out there. Individual people? Well, once or twice you’ve pointed out some quirky foibles, but that’s fine with me. (You even treated that airline that wouldn’t let you board because of a hyphen with more respect than they deserved.)
    Don’t let ridiculous people get you down. I agree, keep copies for documentation purposes, but otherwise? Enjoy the pudding.
    And–the fact that she sent you an apologetic email about her grammar because she was in such a rush? I find that endearingly creepy.

  320. I am ashamed that this person is American. I love the pics and hearing about Canada. I have read your blog daily for a number of years and I think you are one of the nicest people I have never met :o) Keep your chin up, we love you!!!

  321. Dear Yarn Harlot,
    I am also one of the many long-time-readers-first-time-commenters; I wanted to speak up and say that like other Americans who have commented so eloquently before me, I am terribly embarrassed by this woman’s behavior. I am embarrassed as a woman, as an American, and above all else, as a (presumably) fellow knitter. As you encounter so much crap from this person, please keep all of us fans in your heart, and remember how much the rest of us appreciate you and your yarny-goodness.

  322. Like many other posters this is my first comment on your blog, I have been following it for awhile and have always enjoyed it as humorous and insightful. I often read your posts out to my partner as he enjoys your sense of humour as well.
    All I can say is I am so sorry that this person has become fixated on you like this and what a terrible experience to go through. You have dealt with it more calmly and rationally than I would have in the same situation and I do hope that there is something that can be done permanently so you do have to deal with this sort of thing again.

  323. Wow. I am totally shocked. Even if you guys did exchange fiery emails, she really stepped over the line.
    As a Texan and an American I can assure you I’ve never read one of your blog posts that have offended. We are CERTAINLY not like all like that. That’s just absurd.
    I can tell you that many of our fellow have citizens, as many people in the world have become, are very angry, very entitled feeling and very desensitized. Yesterday I was driving when a big truck tried to run my small family off of one of the tallest bridges in our city. It is literally huge. My husband was in the back seat and my baby was in the car seat. We almost died. Everywhere I go people are hateful and rude. I’ve almost been beat up in the grocery store and I live in a very nice little town. Completely unprovoked.
    I am scared of this attitude, as it is incredibly intolerant and it is the mindset of an incredibly fanatical person. She sounds very dangerous. I don’t think she’s mentally unstable, I think she’s harassing you purposefully to gain publicity for herself. I Googled her blog, it is SO easy to find. She is probably getting mega hits. What a shame.
    You’re right to be concerned, she’s threatening you. You should send her comments and threatening emails to the police. I wouldn’t take it lightly at all.
    That woman is trying to ride the coat tails of your success. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with it.

  324. I’d like to know what she expects your fan base to be, if 30,000 knitters tried to attend the sock knitting conference you are coordinating (with other partners of course — can’t leave out the teams!). Every city you go to, people flock to see you. You’re coordinating one of the most-talked about knitting conferences, with big-time knitters coming to teach (apparently, though, they aren’t respectable! I wonder how Barbara Walker is going to feel to learn she’s not longer respected?). I love reading your blog. I check it multiple times daily to see if your post is up. I love your books — all of them — and I can’t wait for the next one. I love your 2009 calendar and am looking forward to my local bookstore receiving 2010 so I can stare at the box in anticipation of January 1. I love your Canada Day posts, because you’re so passionate about your country. There are plenty of Americans out there whose ideas I don’t agree with and am baffled by. I hope you know you have friends south of the border and we don’t all share this woman’s views. Thank you for sharing this with us, so we understand if and when an inflammatory comment appears. You have the respect and admiration of so many people. Please don’t forget that.

  325. I don’t even know where to begin. When my kids were younger and would come home from school with a tale of how some other kid wronged them in some way, I used to say “I have enough trouble explaining my own behavior, let alone anyone else’s.” Clearly, it is impossible to explain (let alone justify) the vindictive tirades that you have been enduring.
    When the happy hoards descend upon Portland (me included), I hope you and Tina and your army of helpers look around for a minute or two and really take a moment to appreciate what you have all created. It’s about so much more than knitting or shopping. All you have to do is read some of the topics on the Ravelry group to see that you and Tina have helped foster an amazing generosity and camaraderie among knitters of every stripe (no pun intended). So many thousands of people were just looking for an opportunity to come together because of YOU. You touch thousands of readers every day with wit, insight and real life. Let’s see who wants to be part of something that is created by that hateful, spiteful, irrational woman.
    That was good for me. Hope it was good for you :-).

  326. My stomach started hurting as I read your blog. I am so sorry to hear that you have become the target of this person’s rage.
    I wish you the strength to carry on despite her. Take care.

  327. So sorry you have to deal with this (especially when you have enough stress already). Be safe and if there are “blog” police get a restraining order. Hugs.

  328. Don’t know what to do other than send a donation to knitters without borders. Mailing the check tomorrow. Combating ugliness with a little bit of good.

  329. Wow. I’m just stunned. I’m so sorry you’ve been having to deal with this while managing the Sock Summit organizing/planning too. Ugh.
    Keep on doing whatever you have to do to keep yourself safe and sane. We’ll all still be here cheering for you, wishing you all the best and toasting you with our beers.
    *huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuug*!

  330. Wow, psycho. I am so, so sorry. This lady obviously has some mental health issues that are not being addressed. And out of all the countries to hate on, Canada, seriously? 🙂 She is probably just jealous.
    The process is different depending on what state she’s in, but you would quality to get a restraining order against her.
    Maybe you should lock your blog down and make comments moderated for awhile? Eventually she’ll go away. Had fun meeting you at McMins a couple weeks ago (I was the one crocheting a skirt, ha ha) and like I told Tina, I’m happy to help with any IT stuff.

  331. Stephanie,
    You have brought so much joy to my life with your blogs, books and calendar. I have learned much from your blogs and books not only about knitting but about Canada and so many other things. I had the pleasure of hearing you speak in CT a couple of years ago with my mom and we had a blast.
    Unfortunately there are those who spend their time spewing viciousness rather than trying to make positive change. You have shown that if we work together much is possible and great good can be accomplished.
    Peace and hugs to you and yours. Can’t wait for SS09.
    Thanks for all you do and have done
    Marie

  332. As a Michiganian who used to go south to Windsor to drink, I barely considered that it was a seperate country. Hell, we even have a Canadian born Governor now.
    But I digress. Hang in there. This woman doesn’t know what true grit is or she’d put her energies towards something more possitive, like solving the health care crisis….

  333. I am sorry you are going through this. I don’t think it is very christian to use words like that let alone behave like that. This American really likes you and enjoys your books. Although I do not know you (as in real life met you) from what I read you seem very funny and nice. The way you still protect this woman’s identity speaks volumes to your character. I hope she leaves you alone.

  334. Oh, my, I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this horrible bully. Honestly, this seems worse than bullying because this person simply isn’t well. She simply doesn’t seem to a mentally or emotionally healthy person. It’s so sad to see.
    Hang in there. Know that there are many, many people cheering you on. I am so thankful that you continue to write for us.

  335. I’m someone else who never posts but reads frequently. I’m so sorry for you, and in a way for her too, because she is clearly crazy. Mentally not healthy, and needs help. Someone once obsessed this way about someone in my family, and it was difficult. Not engaging is the route my family members took that was most helpful. Best wishes to you.

  336. I haven’t read all the 300+ comments, so maybe someone else has might have already suggested this, but have you considered holding all the comments for review before publishing any of them? I know it would be more work for you, but maybe someone (your husband or Ken maybe) could shoulder some of the load. Then her comments never would see the light of day no matter how many times she changed her IP address as you would never “approve” them for publication.
    Also, it might not hurt to make a public statement that you have someone else reading the comments before you do (if you can), and that you’ll never actually see what she’s writing. Then either she’ll give up when she realizes that you never even see what she writes or she’ll keep writing but you’ll never see them anyway so they won’t upset you. You can block her on twitter, too, and I’m not sure what there is to be gained by reading her blog – leave that to someone else, as well, if you think it necessary for your safety.
    I can only imagine how upsetting it is to have someone attacking you, but I cannot believe that her blog and/or tweets will have any substantial impact on your popularity.
    Best of luck.

  337. Stephanie, sweetheart! I’m so sorry this is happening to you! I know you know this, but this person does not speak for Americans, nor for Christians, nor for any sane segment of the population. I love my country, I also love Canada (heaven knows I’ve vacationed there enough) and have yet to figure out hatred like this can be rationalized. I truly hope that the authorities find this person and deal with her appropriately.
    You are a delight, your writing is terrific and we love you!
    See you in Portland…….

  338. Dear Stephanie, just remember you have many, many friends and a wonderful family to support you. Thank you for sharing with us as this is something that you should not carry or deal with alone. Make sure you are hugged every day.
    Keep smiling 🙂
    Marian

  339. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this horrible person, especially with as much as you must have going on right now. Please know that it’s her problem, not yours, and the rest of us out here reading your blog support you 100%. You rock!

  340. Stephanie: You are not alone. I belong to an email list for a well-known Canadian folk singer. Years ago, and I can’t even remember the reason why now, two of the posters took exception to something I said and started a holy row. They even took it upon themselves to start a rival “I hate Sheila” list. Some of the email they sent me was a lesson in the creative use of the the word f***. I was told to f*** myself and so many four legged animals that they must have broken out a zoological text book to find them. And I’m sure some of the things they told me to do are physically impossible. I think I may have kept some of the emails just because they were astonishing in their quest to hurt and humiliate me. It’s all very funny now, but back then…no, it was even kind of funny then.
    I can’t imagine what you are going through but taking the high road is always the best course of action in these matters. I know that it’s very difficult but finding humour in it will help you through. No matter what, you are a wonderfully funny and compassionate human being and nothing or no one can change who you are except you.
    Much love and chocolate.

  341. Stephanie: As a long time reader and rare commenter, I want you to know that your post today saddened me. You do so much to bring laughter to the world (or at least the knitting community) and have done so much to bring us together, and then someone like this comes along and causes such hurt. I hope that she moves onto another cause soon and leaves you alone. For the record, my father was born in Canada and my kids take great pride in having Canadian blood in their veins. Again, I hope you can get this all behind you in time to enjoy the much anticipated Sock Summit. We love you!

  342. Keep your chin up, Harlot! For what it’s worth, this American thinks you’re great!

  343. You are an amazing woman Stephanie and I feel honored to share this world with you. I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Know that I am standing with you and shining the light.

  344. Wow.
    Just wanted to add my support to these many many voices.
    You are loved, and no one deserves this.
    ((hugs))
    And be safe. Please be safe.

  345. As am American, and a woman, and a quote unquote Godless Heathen, this disgusts me. That someone can be so vitriolic, so irrational, as to take anything that you say and twist it, turn it, manipulate it into some sick fantasy where it is “all about her”? And to hide it under Patriotism, and the best part, a religion that preaches forgiveness? Yeah, right. She’s doing you a mitzvah, all right. Showing you (and everyone else) that she’s BATSHIT INSANE.
    I’m a huge fan, your stories and words have moved me to tears – both as heartbreak and laughter. Please know there are people out there who can not only act like adults on an “anonymous” forum such as the internet, but stand by you, even when you’re both strangers. Take heart, Stephanie.

  346. WOW! As an American I humbly apologize. I find it rather embarrassing to share the same nationality with such a person. I certainly do not feel this person is a fair representative of our Christian faith!
    I’ve enjoyed your posts for some time now, and look forward to the new ones. I find you to be inspirational, in that you took something you loved and was able to make a career of it. I often visit your posts when I feel lonely…it’s like visiting an old friend.
    I hope this person won’t ruin things for the rest of us who enjoy you. I tire of having things that I enjoy ruined by others that can’t seem to have a life of their own…ranting and raving until the priviledge is taken away. I really enjoy you and pray that she won’t run you off.
    Hugs and know you have a huge following that adore you!
    Mary

  347. My apologies from all the sane Americans who love your blog. It’s embarassing that someone so obviously unbalanced claims to be a Christian and an American, and uses that platform to be so rude and hateful.

  348. This American loves you, your books and your blog. Keep on keeping on and I will keep on reading you in any form I can get. See you at the Summit.

  349. Job well done Stephanie. I hope the support and love of The Blog can help compensate for the “difficult” people out there in the internet ether.

  350. Like many of the above, I, too, am a long-time reader, first-time commenter. I just wanted to show my Texas-sized support. Don’t let the crazies get you down.

  351. I want to thank you for inspiring me to knit more. I’ve attempted to pick up knitting and I have been lucky enough to come across a few knitting blogs that have helped me a lot. I have actually finished a number of projects (more looked pretty good too) and now I’m going to be a life long knitter. I hope to read and be inspired by your writting for many years to come. 🙂
    Thank you again. 🙂

  352. As a Christian,conservative, gun-owning,American, woman who owns copies of all of your books, I just want to say, I love you and am hoping and praying for the best possible outcome from this awful situation.

  353. Stephanie,
    So sorry you have had to endure this. You have so many people who think the world of you. Don’t listen to this person’s comments for a second. I so look forward to reading your blog each day as do thousands of others. Hang in there. Sending you resilient thoughts.

  354. I’m very sorry to hear that someone is treating you so terribly. Please try to focus on how many of us out here in the knitting world appreciate you both as a warm and kind individual and for your contributions to the community, and I hope that your harasser finds a more productive use of her time very soon.

  355. This is one sick person. You’re best to add her e-mail address to your spam filter and not even look at her e-mails. I really enjoy your posts. Keep on blogging, don’t let the comments of one person get you down. Too many people are on your side.

  356. Your officially famous. You now have a stalker. I don’t think I’ve ever heard you say anything anti-(noun). Your vegetarian yet never say anything to those of us who eat meat. Your a lot of things and yet never say anything to make the other person feel wrong or yourself better at the expense of others ego. It’s a hard act to follow.

  357. Stephanie-You have a gift. Keep sharing it. This person has no power and no manners.
    Keep the faith!

  358. Another long-time reader, but infrequent commenter here. I’m also another American who is appalled at this person’s behavior – and ashamed that she is dishonoring her country with that behavior. I love reading your blog, and learning about your corner of the world. Thank you for being you, and for sharing with the rest of us.

  359. I am also an American – one who is waiting in anticipation for your next book. I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone like this. There is no excuse for such behavior.

  360. Anytime your political views have shown through on this blog, they have always been presented in a thoughtful and non-slanted manner. Your comments about the world at large have been very intelligent and positive.
    You are so kind and gracious. And you ARE VERY BRAVE to ask the blog for opinions on things like parenting and hampers!
    Your books are hilarious. I’ve read them all several times. Except the latest – which I’m SAVORING. I feel so fortunate to be able to read this blog for free – what wonderful art and entertainment for all of us at your expense.

  361. Dear Stephanie,
    First—as others have said, be sure to report everything to HER ISP, as I am sure they don’t want to be held liable for her. Also, in the States we’ve got some stiff laws on hate crimes now. I think since she appears to hate you for being a different nationality, her stalking behavior falls under that and she could be heavily prosecuted. It’s worth looking into.
    Second—I’m an American military veteran who absolutely does not support this woman or her use of her nationality in any way. You’re delightful, funny, kind, and a fantastic blogger and writer. Because of you, I was brave enough to branch out from crochet and try this knitting thing, since it was something you were so obviously passionate about.
    Even when I was ranting about the “lie of only two stitches”, and staring in horror at a laddered section of work, I would go back and read your blog, and remember, “she LOVES this thing. You’ll get it.” And now, I DO get it.
    Because of you, I am about to cast on for my first pair of socks, which I’ll knit two at a time on circs. I’ve learned about mathematical knitting, and given impassioned speeches to family members about sock architecture and moebius knitting. I’ve learned so much and talked about it so passionately to my family and friends that my mother did something unexpectedly wonderful this Easter. She sent me an interchangeable needle kit—this is a big deal for us, as she’s never believed me to be “artsy” and this was a huge piece of affirmation.
    Oh, and something that is DEFINTELY, entirely your fault– this year, on my birthday, I bought a drop spindle and some lovely wool, and I have several yards (meters?) of rapidly improving yarn.
    Your blog has brought a lot of good into my life when I needed it. I think this is the second time I have posted in your comments, but it’s definitely worth a delurk. My thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family.

  362. I am so sorry for the icky-unpleasantness you have had recently. Happily, the comments show that there are so many pleasant people out there, and it doesn’t seem to matter which side of the imaginary lines that separate countries they live on…..
    Thanks

  363. Geez………..Stephanie! This is awful!
    She sounds like she is more then a little WACKO!!
    I think the whole thing is kinda scary.
    If she dislikes you so much, and finds you to be so damn offensive, why doesn’t she just quit reading your blog???? DUH!!!!!
    Sounds kinda like a crazy friend I had years ago and told to get the hell outta my life.
    I am so sorry you are going thru this.
    I’m American and think you are funny, talented and a wonderful Mom and a wonderful human being!!
    Just remember for every crazy out there, there are at least 5,000 fans and supporters!!!

  364. Wow. The crazy-pants are strong in that one.
    I’m sorry you have to put up with this shit. I hope she gets the help she clearly needs.

  365. Just one more supportive comment for you. I am in the US and have never found any of your Canada Day posts discriminating and while I don’t see how anyone else could, we’re obviously not dealing with a rational woman here. I read your blog because you’re funny, I read your books because you’re funny and even though I am more of a crocheter than a knitter, I have never felt the need to slam your blog. I am sorry that you are being attacked and that it is affecting you in too many ways and in too many aspects of your life. This woman is filled with so much hate and must not have anything to do other than spew hate at someone who does not deserve any bit of it. Keep your head held high, and be proud that you have been a lady about the whole thing (although I’m sure some thoughts in your head were less than ladylike, we’ll keep that our secret). Your fans are here for you!

  366. *HUGS*
    Have a beer, knit your blanket, and know that the one bad apple won’t spoil the barrel.

  367. I agree with the 59-bajillion commentators above me. This woman is clearly insane, and does not, in any way, represent what Americans or Christians think of you!

  368. Just wanted to add one more thing…”Don’t try to rationalize the irrational” is a mantra I repeat to myself when I experience things I can’t explain.

  369. Another long time reader, fan of your books, American, and someone who live as a Christian. That woman does not or she could not write what she has. She obviously needs some mental help. Let’s hope she gets some. Sorry she decided to pick on you, you don’t deserve it. Look forward to seeing at SS09.

  370. Just wanted to add my support to all that you’re getting. People like this seem to be coming out of the woodwork all over the US and it’s kind of frightening. So much venom being spewed all over the place. Clearly this woman is deranged. Ive been reading your blog for years now and you are clearly a good person, a great parent and a proud Canadian. I’ve been to two of your events and have run into in coffee lines several times at varous fiber fests. And gee, whiz! You don’t have horns or a tail!
    Your handling of this just adds to my admiration for you. Knit on!

  371. Bo: YOU have a (bizarre, mentally unstable) problem with HER. It is not HER responsibility to “relent” and make you stop. IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO GROW UP.

  372. I thought Canadians were Americans. Holding you in my heart. An ordained Christian minister who thinks that light, love, and respect “will preach” as we say in my line of work.

  373. Yet another first time poster. Hugs to you and your family, this is just mind boggling!!! What to say……..thank you Stephanie.

  374. I’m just echoing to the comments above. You have done so much good for so many people. On Monday(after I get paid) I will send a donation to MSF via KWB, in honour of your goodness, fairness, humour and wisdom, and of your willingness to share yourself and your family with the world, which is truly brave.

  375. I wish I could buy your books a second time. I am a liberal atheist American. This woman doesn’t speak for me as an American. I am horrified that she is embarrassing the country I love by attacking Canada and you. I love visiting Canada, BTW. You have a beautiful and hospitable homeland. I am thrilled you love your country as much as I love mine.

  376. Great gods and little fishies! what a nutcase. So sorry you have to deal with the nutcase. Go hug the girls and the crew and have a beer. There is no reasoning with crazy, especially one who never learned to respect people she disagrees with. (people like that are no fun. even less fun in person, if that’s possible.)
    FWIW, I grew up on the Canada/US border, and I saw absolutely nothing to be offended about in the Canada Day posts (well, unless one is offended by someone else’s pride in their country).
    Then again, she may have been jealous, and as a ‘christian’ was trying to transmute her envy into something not a deadly sin. 🙂 {yes, I know, crazy has no logic; but I *know* people like that — I’m jealous of this, but I can’t be because that’s a deadly sin, so I’ll recast this so that it’s *your* fault and I am now sin-free and bound for the Promised Land.}
    (She sounds like she’s really off her nut. And honestly, it’s “christians” like that give all the decent ones a bad name.)

  377. Sounds to me like you have a psycho stalker on your hands. I hope you are staying in contact with the authorities, and are taking all necessary means to protective yourself and your family. Think of all the celebrities that have been stalked. Now you can add your name to the list. Just what you had in mind. lol

  378. Dear Stephanie,
    I am also a first time commenter. I got your first book last year and enjoyed it so much that I now check your blog on a daily basis. I also mention you to all my craft friends and was recently very excited when I friend of mine returned from the US with a signed copy of your latest book.
    I do have a confession to make…I’m actually a crocheter, but am starting to learn how to knit and when I finish this post I’m going to knit on my scarf a bit and send you some positive vibes from down here in the Southern Hemisphere (Australia)!
    Keep your chin up, you give so many people so much happiness, joy and inspiration.
    Karin

  379. I’ve been reading a while now, but never commented. I had similar problems with someone I encountered on a music forum. She stalked and harassed me via email and social networking sites. I dealt with her by totally and utterly ignoring her, by refusing to acknowledge her existence. This may work for you, too. If not, and your stalker persists, talk to your local police. She has no right to harass and menace you like this. Good luck – I hope you shake off that crazy person soon – and permanently.

  380. WOW!
    She sure has a misguided sense of self importance! She’s a TROLL and should be ignored accordingly.
    I LOVE your blog and have been reading it for years, but I’m Canadian, does that count? 🙂

  381. Stephanie, I am physically sick after reading that this has happened to you. I for one, will do as you ask, but don’t take silence for a lack of support. And she certainly does not speak for THIS American. Love to you and yours.

  382. I am an American. She does not represent me. We are not all like her. She’s a sad person and she has my pity. But not my sympathy.
    Keep on doing what you are doing and don’t let her silence you.

  383. What this woman is doing to you is harassment and, quite frankly, is illegal here in the US. Unfortunately being in Canada your legal options might be limited. If you were in the US you could quite easily get a restraining order to keep her away from you physically and prevent her from contacting you under threat of arrest. But what you CAN do is contact her ISP as she is most likely in violation of the terms of service she agreed to when signing up for her Internet service.
    You have her IP address and by this point I assume you know her name. Most ISPs will have an abuse email address at abuse@domain.com so you can try reporting her there.
    Best of luck dealing with the dregs of American suckitude.

  384. Stephanie,
    I saw you speak this last fall in Jacksonville. I was proud to stand up with a poster welcoming you along with my friend Kim who remains “hot for the harlot.” Drag Kim’s poster out from behind the desk. Look at it, remember we love you.
    I host an online horse forum. I have received emailed threats, ugly posts and even contact from a lawyer. I just keep trucking along because what else are you going to do?
    Keep on keeping on and remember, don’t feed the trolls 🙂
    Tricia

  385. I normally don’t post, just read, smile and keep knitting – but this is beyond the pale! By taking the higher road and not condescending to this person’s level, you are winning on many levels. Your Good Karma is intact and even tho I’m sure all this upsets you, you really ought to be able to sleep well at night.
    I actually think I know this person – a clear cut psycho if ever there was one.
    Remember what Elizabeth taught us – knit on, thru all crises, with confidence & hope. Maybe cast on for a pair of tight winter slippers?!

  386. I’m an American, a Christian, a Knitter, and I’m very sorry for the hateful, mean-spirited behavior of this person. I enjoy your Canada Day posts. I enjoy visiting Canada. (Such clean washrooms. And I like the word “washroom”. Very civilized.)
    If you feed a troll, she’ll only get fatter.

  387. I’m so sorry you’ve had to live so long with such toxic messages. I feel even sorrier for the poor soul who is spewing them at you. She needs healing.
    For you, I want to give you affirmation. I think you are an amazing woman, mother, wife. You are something special. I know lots of people have said it before, but maybe, just now, you need to hear it a lot more. Love to you Harlot. You’ve taught me lots and I look forward to learning more.

  388. I am so truly sorry that your wonderful blog and the gift of your time and humor to all of us has been a source of upset and worry for you.
    People are known by their acts and not by what they label themselves. I can’t think of more unchristian or unamerican acts than the behavior you have described.
    Be strong and know that you an icon in the knitting world and our hearts.

  389. I can hardly find the words to say in this situation. I too am a person who reads often and comments rarely, but this post left me with such emotion that I could not move along without attempting to convey my support for you. One of the things I’ve always loved most about knitting and about knitters is that we don’t have to all agree on any one thing to exist peacefully as a community. We are all nationalities, all ages, all beliefs, etc. Good for you for taking the higher ground in this circumstance. Please don’t consider it any resemblance of a surrender on your part for having to share this struggle with your blog readers. I think you’d be hard pressed to find a single one of us who haven’t had an experience with a bully before. I’ll be contributing to the cause by hitting to proverbial “Ignore” button on any of her comments that make it through.

  390. Holy freaking cow.
    I am so sorry, Stephanie. I wish I could give you the biggest hug.
    I’m at such a loss for words over this troll, I just….wow.

  391. Darlin Harlot, I’ve not known about you for long, though once I found your blog I read everything in a week.
    With this kind of bull happening I could see how you could let it bother you. Though I think that would be a waste of energy. Threats are always unpleasant, and vicious veiled threats have a way of seeming bigger than they are.
    But look at how many people support you vs. how many try to tear you down. Look to your friends and family for support. Let the good outweigh the bad. All the platitudes are a bit trite… but true none the less.
    By the way I’m a Texan, non-religious, and saddened that you have been pushed to a breaking point

  392. I guess this means the knitting world has hit the big time: the first knitting celebrity stalker.
    What do other celebrities do about their stalkers?
    I’m a Canadian who has lived in the US for 10 years. One thing I’ve learned about Canadians is that we don’t have a clear enough perspective to define ourselves and our national identity (you know, living in the shadow of a giant and all). It sometimes seem the only way to tell people what it means to “be Canadian” is to tell them what it doesn’t mean (i.e., “not American”).
    Your post today is quintessentially Canadian: it shows a firm viewpoint but calls for calm and peace.

  393. I’m so sorry that some nutcase has decided to target you. And in reading through all this again, plus a few posts on Ravelry, this person sounds more and more like someone who is totally eaten up with jealousy. She’s probably quite a failure in her own life, and is making herself feel better by attacking you, who is anything but. What she is doing is illegal, and I’m adding my vote that you should spread it all out before your local police, an attorney and her ISP. I’m betting she just might find herself without internet service. Now wouldn’t that be poetic justice! Please stay safe and keep up the wonderful writing.

  394. As an American, I have never felt insulted or slighted in the least by your enthusiasm for Canada, and I have often enjoyed your blog enough to share it with other Americans who also felt only amusement at your sense of humor.
    How your blog could be so thoroughly misconstrued is inexplicable. Oh well, knit on, and hope she soon gets the mental help she needs. (and by the way, I felt sure that one is not a Christian unless one behaves like a Christian… maybe she’s misconstruing that, too.)

  395. Non-knitter who thinks you are the bee’s knees. Most service providers have a clause that their networks cannot be used to send threatening or libelous material. So it should be possible to get malicious comments stopped at the source rather then worry about it at your end of things. Haven’t read through all 300+ supportive comments to see if someone else suggested this.
    Blessings

  396. I’m sitting here enjoying a beer and reading your blog from Atlantic Canada…and I am gobsmacked!
    I agree with the others that have mention it, but I think you need to contact the authorities.
    Lots of love and good vibes!

  397. Wow. I’m so very sorry that this person has taken up residence in your little corner of joy. Take care and be safe.

  398. I’m just going to add my voice to the hundred above me saying that this woman does not represent how Americans feel about you. I personally find you inspiring and delightful. Your love of knitting is infectious and I will continue to buy your books, read your blog, and be a fan.
    Please keep writing and knitting. Stay strong because you’re one fierce Mama!

  399. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I rarely post but want you to know I admire your spirit and the way you’ve responded with respect and courage to this horrible attack. As a citizen of the U.S., I’m frustrated that this woman is using her twisted idea of patriotism to cloak the crazies. (And let’s not even get started on her “Christian” behavior.) Of course, it’s not working so well since the nut vibes are broadcasting loud and clear. 😉

  400. Your good nature and humor has made me a loyal reader and I’m saddened that someone would want to make your work so much more difficult. I’m grateful that you didn’t just close the comments as so many would just to stem the tide.
    I think I’ll go make a Doctors Without Borders donation now.
    PS: I thought your story about Joe being stuck in the truck was terrific and hilarious. Being able to laugh at ourselves in sticky situations is a gift — and one that you do a wonderful job fostering.

  401. Wow…this has nothing to do with her being American or being Christian; it has to do with her being a bully and a harasser. I hope you are exploring legal options for dealing with her.
    And if I ever move from my current US residence, it will probably be to Toronto…great public transportation, actual health care, and lots of great knitters like you? What’s not to love?

  402. Love. Hugs. And a hope the taste of all her bile gets washed out quickly.
    As others have said, I’m pretty proud to be American (hades, Daddy – yes. I’m almost 30 and he’ll be daddy until I die, its a southern thing – is a retired Marine. How could I be anything BUT proud) and I’m just as deeply ashamed to read one of ours is making us look bad. Like more than a few other voices on here, can I just say I hope you’ll believe we’re not all so rude?
    You’ve made some really hard times in my life a lot easier to walk with your humor and your joy in the craft. Thank you for that.

  403. Ah, Steph. The price of being a celebrity is to have really weird and scary people think that they know you and that they have the right to judge you. Your stalker is obviously someone who has no real knowledge of the world.
    I look forward to finally meeting you in Portland, after all of these years. Good on ya for telling.

  404. Yarn Harlot – I am so sorry to read about this person – it is really hard in the world of the internet for some people to be resonable, actually in the world full stop. Basically it is your blog and you can say what you want!
    I recommend lots of knitting, lots of tea and/or beer and the company of the ones you love.
    and please keep on doing what you do as a long long time lurker it brings a samll ray of sun into my day when I read your blog

  405. Peace, love, and respect to you – sending only good thoughts your way as you deal with such an undeserved and unreasonable ordeal.

  406. Well, here’s another American (from Maryland) who thinks you’re pretty terrific. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this truly Ugly Person. If she’s not mental (and personally, I think she has more than a few screws loose), she at least needs a course in Manners and Etiquette 101. Hang in there — you’re by far the better person.

  407. I think this was an excellent post, and I hope the rest of your readers take your words to heart. No one should have to put up with something like that. 🙁

  408. I am so sorry this is happening to you…I love your wit and humor and, of course, the knitting…knitting is suppose to be peaceful and bring everyone together.
    Have you looked at the legal aspects of this?? Aren’t there laws now on cyper-stalking and bullying??? Perhaps this is the only way to get this person to stop…
    Just know you have many, many fans…and AMERICANS who love you and enjoy you…I hope you can concentrate on this…we are on your side.
    A bit of this happens to all of us…it’s happened to me and it’s hurtful and it wears you down…
    Believe in yourself and know you are a gleaming light in many of our days when we read your blog and your books…I know I laugh at your lines and it brings me up and makes my days…
    Take care and I hope it stops soon…rising above it is the only way…
    hugs,
    Jacqueline

  409. What a stinker. I have no words for how much she does not represent women, Americans, knitters, or any other group to which she and I may both belong.
    Stephanie, you are a joy and a wonder to read. Even when you are down on a subject, whatever that subject may be, you do it with laughter and love.
    And 99.999% of your readers love you back.

  410. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this, and I wish I could wave a magic wand (needle?) and make it go away.

  411. I am an American, a Christian, and behind you all the way. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this deranged woman. I’ll be praying for your safety and that she’ll get the help she so obviously needs. And by the way, I have never once felt like you disparaged the US or any of its citizens.
    And I just love that Magnolia dubbed you “the Julia Child of knitting.” That’s wonderful!

  412. Just the fact that over 400 people care and have taken the time to encourage you, should encourage you.
    I too am so sorry that someone who has bought so much enjoyment to so many, has to go through something this ugly.
    Keep on being you, please.

  413. Much love to you today, Stephanie! She sounds like a nutter, and I’m not sure what on earth she was reading to get the impression that you’re so “anti-American”. I’ve been reading you for several years, seen you in person (just once so far), and not once have I ever thought like that. A person can certainly be proud of their country without disdain for all others. You put so much heart into your blogs, speeches, etc, so much of yourself shines through in everything of yours that it makes me look at things (knitting, life, all of it!) differently, and try to take that sort of approach in my own life.
    *Hugs*

  414. I am so sorry! What a perfectly dreadful experience. I’m especially sorry she is attacking your family.
    You bring so much fun and laughter to the world, and have done so much good. Thank you!

  415. Sending love your way and hope that you are able to remember that this has nothing to do with you; it’s all her crap. I was reminded today that we cannot change others, we can only change how we react to them. I realize that you have been trying very hard not to let this person get to you. Now that it’s all out in the open, I hope that you can find some peace.

  416. You’re brave and tough. Hopefully she’ll find something more positive to focus her energy on soon… Good luck, you’re the best at what you do! I find so much inspiration in your posts, and not only knitting inspiration. Thanks for sharing.

  417. I’ve been reading your blog for years and I don’t think I’ve ever commented before…This “person” makes me so ashamed to be American. Stephanie, you rock.

  418. I usually don’t comment anymore because I know you have enough to do, but I thought I’d let you know that I am taking my American self out on knit night to my local bookstore to buy an extra copy of one of your books. I have them all already, some of them signed even (woo!) but I just need to buy another. Hugs to you, Joe, and your beautiful and talented daughters.

  419. I’m behind you 110%, Steph.
    No human being, especially you, should ever go through something like this. I love and admire you and look up to you as my knitting hero.
    Know that all of us who read and love this blog everyday is there for you!

  420. I will not feed any trolls. Food is expensive enough as it is.
    Stephanie, and I hope I can call you Stephanie after reading your blog all these years, as a proud pussy-posessing godless American, well, I’d say something a little more deep but I’m enjoying the effects of a dirty martini…So I’ll just “ditto” everyone else (except a certain someone).

  421. I usually don’t comment anymore because I know you have enough to do, but I thought I’d let you know that I am taking my American self out on knit night to my local bookstore to buy an extra copy of one of your books. I have them all already, some of them signed even (woo!) but I just need to buy another. Hugs to you, Joe, and your beautiful and talented daughters.
    (Sorry if this posts twice, but I thought of this after: And I’m making a donation to KWB for you. I know it’s not enough to balance the karma, but hey, it can’t hurt, right?)

  422. Big hugs to you. It happened to me before and it bites. It hurts when people keep hating on you for no reason other than them feeling insecure about themselves.
    We can’t please everyone in the world. Just know that all the ones you’ve pleased, we’re right here support you.

  423. Wow, we don’t evey know each other, and I’m still proud of you. Thanks for showing the way!

  424. Wow. Stephanie, thanks for letting us know that you are being harrassed, and thanks for not quitting your blog. It impels we lurkers to speak up and let you know that your blog, your books, and your wit are an important part of our lives. I have thoroughly enjoyed your Canada Day posts, and found them to be educational and in *no* way anti-American.
    I hope this hateful person will find something better to do with her time and leave you and your family in peace.
    Rebecca Duncan, Whitehorse, Yukon

  425. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. I hope she gets help and ceases the vitriol and cyberstalking. Please don’t let this get you down.

  426. Dear Stephanie,
    Sending light and love your way. I love your blog. You have entertained me for countless hours! I hope you continue to do what you do so well.

  427. This is the first time I’ve ever commented on your blog. I feel compelled to step up with the other Americans who have already commented and say I have derived so much enjoyment from your words over the years.
    I’m so very sorry that this woman has behaved so shamefully toward you and your family. I’m also sorry that she is perpetuating the far too widespread notion that Americans are pompous and full of hate. She does not speak for me or any other American I know (I can very safely say that). She is not what my country is about.
    Peace to you.

  428. You know, this person could be OCD or just plain sick. Gotta feel sorry for her, she’s like a swarm of mosquitos, blood-thirsty and darned annoying. Big hug for you.

  429. It’s beautiful here on the high road. Thanks for being such a great tour guide.

  430. Steph, you have obviously been targeted by someone who is a bit unbalanced. I’ve been in a similar position once while moderating a reality TV forum and I know it’s no fun. Unfortunately, you can’t just “disappear” online the way I did back then (heck I couldn’t do that now myself) until the person finds another target for her ire.
    Hang in there and know that there are LOTS more people who love and support you than those who make it their personal crusade to throw mud in your direction.
    Thanks for not letting us know about the situation so that we can offer you support. See you at Sock Summit!

  431. I love your Canada posts! I love to learn more about different places, countries, etc. and how better than from people that live there?
    Sending you positive thoughts from Kansas.

  432. Stephanie, I have all your books and have gotten them as gifts for many others. I love your sense of humor, your sincerity, your stamina, your talent, and your constant ability to give so much to all of us. Yours was the first knitting blog I ever found and reading it is the last thing I do before I call it a day, each day. Blessings to you in every conceivable way!

  433. Whoa . . . hope this person gets some professional help before they self-destruct. I love your blog – it’s one of the highlights of my day!

  434. The world is such a small place, and our lives are often already very hard; I believe wholeheartedly that there’s no excuse for going out of your way to make someone else’s life more difficult.
    This US citizen sends you peaceful thoughts and gratitude for the countless hours of laughter and insight you have brought into my life. I’ll buy two copies of your next book. That’ll show the naysayers!
    Namaste.

  435. Just know that you have support beyond anything you can possibly imagine out here in the world wide web. Thank you for letting us know what has been happening. Shedding light on things certainly makes them less frightening. I hope it improves soon.

  436. Thanks for not giving up on the blog just because of this one person. I for one enjoy reading your blog and having a look over the border from America. Keep your chin up.

  437. When I finished reading this my heart HURT!!! I’m so sorry that you are being stalked. I am one of the millions of Ammericans who love you and will continue to support you. Don’t let the bad one get you down, there are alot more of us that love you.

  438. Steph, Keep your energy/vibrational level high and positive and she will fade away. Like attracts like. Hugs and stitches sent to you.

  439. I’ve never posted before. Just wanted you to know how much joy your blog and your books bring me. I have been a target of a bully in my own community who seems very much like this person. The Internet is their tool to be vicious and hateful. Please know that you are loved and we’re anxiously awaiting all the fun news of your Sock Summit! Thank you for sharing the humor in your life and making our lives brighter.

  440. I’m so very sorry that this person has done this to you. I have to say, that as an American, a parent and a knitter, you have never said anything that has offended me or anyone else I know on any level. She definitely does not speak for all Americans. She should realize that, as Americans, we speak for ourselves!! Love, light and blessings to you and your family.

  441. Well, I just found her blog and it is clear that she is seeking attention through a variety of means. You are right…if we want to support you, we should not respond to her comments or comment on her blog. I will not be visiting her blog again either. Life is too short.

  442. Speaking as both an American AND a Wiccan (the horror!), that person is mental. She has too much time on her hands and would do well to take her own advice and read her bible, for she could learn a thing or two.
    Hmmph!

  443. I too have been reading and not commenting for years, but as someone who was on the receiving end of death threats from an ex-employee who was in a psychotic break, I know what it feels like. It makes you feel very vulnerable and has you looking over your shoulder and opening every letter or email with trepidation. It’s so unsettling. My psycho finally stopped, but the remembrance of the harrassment remained with me a long time.
    Please don’t let it sour you to your blog. As you can see from this outpouring, we all think you’re a wonderful person and talented resource.

  444. I’ve never read your blog, but I read this one when I saw a tweet about it. I’m sorry you had to go through this but thanks for writing what had to be a very hard post to write.
    Be safe, be well and have fun.
    Steve from Illinois, USA

  445. I guess having crazy cyber-stalkers comes with the territory, but please don’t let it daunt you. As so many others (from the US), I check your blog as soon as I go on line. Your thoughts, stories and project info are so enjoyable – a guilty pleasure when I should be actually knitting on my own (gazillion) WIP.
    Please don’t let it get you down, or inhibit your writing in any way.
    You are a star!

  446. Stephanie, This isn’t about Americans or Canadians…. it’s about crazy and mean people. Every country has them. This was just the topic she chose to attack with. I agree with you about not fighting fire with fire. The trick is to take away her fire. And you did that by bringing this out into the open. Here’s hoping she finds a more acceptable outlet for her energies. And then there is always Karma.

  447. And this is why we are called the “Ugly Americans”. Some people can be so….for lack of a better word, stupid.
    I’m an American who’s behind you 100%.

  448. I’m another lurker who is finally going to post. I love your blog and books, and you always make me giggle. You seem like a very nice woman who is very supportive of her family, and certainly makes a wonderful and positive impact on the world through humor, fundraising, education, and spreading the knitting love.
    Hopefully this woman will get the help she needs, and you seem to be managing this about as well as anyone could, better really.

  449. *sigh* I’m so sorry. I’m glad, so glad that you understand that hate isn’t representative of either Canada or the US. I enjoy the heck out of your work, Stephanie, and only financial and health means have prevented my getting to attend your appearances in my radius of reasonable. I look forward to offering to buy you a cup of coffee and/or a beer when I do.
    It appears to be people that cement my sticking to a hobby or set of hobbies. I had the great good fortune to read EZ (_Knitting Without Tears_) and then your _Knitting Rules!_ when first getting into knitting and there was no looking back — I knew that if such people were in knitting that I wanted to be in knitting, too. One year later, I’m planning my first Fair Isle (Autumn Rose), I’m addicted to socks, the baby’s got her first sweater from me, and my eldest is in the midst of learning to knit. And I’ve begun my Christmas knitting – and I’m GOING to knit that Ysolde Teague sweater for me, soon. So soon.
    So many hugs, Steph. This is coming in a stressful time for you, I know, but there’s nothing to ever take away that you have reached many lives (and fingers and, um, adjusted the budgets of the finger-owners). That you have and are raising fabulous girls. That you’re a capable woman who can get her husband’s venerable truck out of a tight spot. That you’ve ushered into the world with your two capable hands so very many children to make this world that much brighter and shining. That it was totally your fault that I knit Leyburn. That you’ve been an advocate for sane and reasonable birthing practices. That your work your ass off for the world at large, for the nation of Knitting which knows no borders, and for your slice of the world people call “family and friends.” That you are a sane and reasonable woman with people who love you and look forward to your face coming in the doorway very time it’s there.
    Be well, Stephanie.

  450. Cheer up, I’m sorry to say that this level of comment is the type of thing I see on CNN.Com and other very popular websites all the time. Which is only to say, you are freaking popular and most of have a more positive way of enjoying ourselves. Here’s positive vibes for sock summit. Now to resume attending to knitting.

  451. I am so proud of you for doing the hard, and right, thing – and so ashamed that this “person” (quote marks intentional)claims to be “American” – I can assure you, most of us are nothing like her! And most of us who read your blog adore you- and your accomplishments and your knit-sational creations 🙂
    My G*d-beyond-all-Names bless and keep you safe and strong.

  452. You know, as an American living in Canada, when I’m here, it is people like her that are why I constantly have to defend myself against the “ugly American” stereotype.
    And Steph, it is people like you (who once e-mailed me an apology for the weather in Ontario, like that’s your fault) that make it easy for me to say, “no, actually, on the whole Canadians are quite kind and clever,” when I’m in the States and my relatives get snarky about Canadians.

  453. Good on ya, Steph. You are heard, loved and doing your best. That’s all anyone can ask of you or themselves. I am 100% certain you have made the world a better place, and I have a hunch you’ll keep doing so…no matter what anyone tells you. Light, love and respect right back atcha as they say.
    Cheers,
    Lorraine

  454. Stephanie, I have always admired your grace, good humour, common sense and live and let live attitude (not to mention your awesome knitting and spinning). I am sure all of these things will help see you through this trying period, along with the support of your family, friends and (I hope, I don’t want to presume!) The Blog.

  455. I’m sure you were dragged up the same way most of us were. If you can’t say something nice about someone then don’t say anything at all. You have every right to defend yourself. One wonders why people feel this need. In recent weeks here in
    the state of Victoria, there has been much press given to cyber bullying. This is exactly what this woman is doing. She is being a big bully. Unfortunately for her felloow Americans, she is unwittingly dragging them all down as well. There are these types the world over, don’t let it get you down. The cyber bullying press came to the fore due to the fact that a 14 year old girl from a large regional city committed suicide as a result of internet bullying. She was the fourth from the same school since February. This is such a sad indictment on our society and says much about the bully. Keep your chin up. You’ve done the right thing. As they say in the Godfather (and that endearing Greg Kinnear film – You’ve Got Mail) “go to the mattresses”.

  456. Peace and good wishes from Ohio. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. She is, too.

  457. We don’t want the crazy people to stay in this country. Sorry for the hassle from some crazy person who was unfortunately born here.
    Looking forward to the Sock Summit marketplace.

  458. Hey Steph, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. It has been noticed around the US that some people who seem to describe themselves as conservative Christians have not been handling things well since the elections here & many (But nowhere near all) have been behaving badly & just not handling things well. This is certainly not an excuse for her behavior, just an attempt at figuring out WTF her problem is. I hope she leaves you alone & again I’m very sorry you’ve had to put up with this. FWIW I’ve always enjoyed your work & I respect you even more for your handling of this.

  459. I’m a regular reader, mainly a lurker, but wanted to send you good wishes. It’s your blog, you can post what you like. I, for one, am happy to keep reading.

  460. I think this particular post might have brought additional attention to a situation that I really knew nothing about. Now I do. Sometimes I think the more elegant and effective response is no response at all.

  461. Steph – I have been reading your blog for some time now but have never commented. I am in total and utter disbelief in people and their audacity. I cannot believe that someone feels that they have the right or that it is even ok to say things like that to another human being…I am almost sorry to even say that I am an American because it would mean that I am somehow connected to people like this.
    Please take care of yourself.
    With lots of love, Renee

  462. Stephanie,
    I don’t know what to say. I had one of those days today with a face-off with mean people, I personally hate it. It is hard to fight hate and deliberate malice, but it is a fight we must all fight to win. And no one is immune to this kind of tyrany and vitriol. I will say a prayer tonight for you and your family’s safety. I will ask that really BIG protection is sent for you all.
    Be at Peace.
    Be well.

  463. Just wanted to let you know that you have my support. I am so sorry that you have been treated badly.

  464. Just wanted to let you know that you have my support. I am so sorry that you have been treated badly.

  465. Stephanie, this woman is batshit crazy. As an American– as many of your readers– I’m shocked and embarrassed that anyone would a) consider that they represented the whole fucking country (beg pardon), and b) consider to represent it in that way. We’re a big giant melting pot (aren’t we all?), and it’s horrifying to think that any one person could believe that they know everything and know what’s best for one country, ESPECIALLY over a knitting blog. Not to put down the craft or anything, I love my knitting and my knitters, but that’s nuts. There was nothing anti-American about your Canada Day post (like, her crazy pro-American emails, for instance, were anti-Canada or whatever). I enjoy your Canada Day posts. And all of your posts. It’s just… this world is too little (big?) to get all riled up over something ridiculous like that. Blah blah blah, in short, you’re wonderful. You’re respectful, and you’re kind, and you try to do what’s best. You’re doing the right thing, and yes, this woman may break through, but you’ve got the rest of us on your side. I’m sending love, from down here in the US of A.

  466. I don’t know how you, or even Canada, could be offensive to anyone. This chick makes me embarrassed to call myself American. Good on you and keep knitting. 🙂

  467. I learned a while ago that the only behaviours you can control are your own – good on you for taking the high road. So sorry you are going thru this – and big hugs to you and your family.

  468. I’ve been reading your blog for over a year. I’m an American. I won’t lie, I love my country. I’ve never once found anything that I was offended by. I love your blog and I hope that you feel all of our love and hope for you coming through. Remember, one bad person does not HAVE to spoil the bunch of those that love your work and hope for the best for you and your family.

  469. Dude!!! I had to stop knitting tonight when I saw this. I’m a red-blooded, daughters-of-the-American-Revolution, Mayflower-family Christian veteran (among other things) and I want you especially please to know that your Canada Day posts are some of my favorites ever. You, through your blog and books, have brought me more merriment, inspiration, comfort, and just plain excellent vibes than I can describe—so Thank You so much.
    Please accept a huge apology from south of the border that one of “our” lunatics has inflicted herself on you. I’ve read rants like this more than once, (usually directed within the evolution debate, thanks to my line of work) but I never would have imagined that you’d be targeted. You work so hard to bring the whole knitting community sooooooo much (see you in Portland!!!!!!!!), and to have your brain cells spent on this is just awful.
    I’ll agree: pursue the legal end. Bet you never even want to think about it again, but as said before, it *is* illegal, and she ought to be shut down.
    megahugs

  470. As an American and someone who simply considers Cananda my neighbor to the north, I’d be happy to stand up with you for a rousing rendition of Oh Canada….and I’ll say a little prayer for you and her tonight.

  471. hugs and cashmere to you, who lightens our days with laughter and joie de vivre. just keep being the light. we love you. way more of us out here.

  472. YH- I would just like to say that I’ve enjoyed everything that you’ve written for the public to see. I’m an American proudly and would have said something if I thought it was cruel. I love that you post about “Canadian” type things, because learning about others is always great. And I’ve noticed you say when you happen to post on the 4th of July, Happy Independence Day to all those that celebrate it, or something of the like. You rock!
    S

  473. It’s a total shame you’re having to deal with a mentally unstable individual who is seriously on-the-borderline of threatening you. Please take care of yourself and your family. Don’t let this person ruin Sock Summit — you’ve worked hard and deserve a wonderful event. Best wishes to you.

  474. Isn’t it funny how she claims to be christian but her treatment of you is anything but christian? Makes you want to know exactly what she’s getting out of her religious experience.
    I’m sorry that you and your family have to put up with this type of crap. I’m American and I love you.

  475. I am always amazed that people do not see how ridiculous they are. Your blog, books, knitting and character speak for themselves. The woman is a nut and unfortunatly she is from America, how sad for us. We are not all crazy. Please continue what you do and be safe.

  476. I’m one more American who thinks you’re terrific. Please accept this long-distance hug from a stranger who cares.

  477. I’m one more American who thinks you’re terrific. Please accept this long-distance hug from a stranger who cares.

  478. Dang, but you must be a saint.
    I’ll be holding you in the light and sending strength.
    I hope you know how many more people adore you than are loonily stalking you.
    ~Carrie, a (not crazy) American

  479. I’ve been too busy reading your blog, your books AND calendar to notice your so called anti American comments. You make me smile and there have been days that you made me laugh when I desperately needed a laugh. You and your books have gotten me through my Mom’s knee surgery, my Father In law’s heart attack, two Late night runs to the ER when my teenaged son suffered severe chest pains and the follow up appointments we’re going through.
    And I thank you for your “company” on those occassions.
    Big hugs for you and yours.
    Kyra (in San Antonio, Texas)

  480. From what I can tell from your writing you are an awesome mom, and a kind, loving person in general. This person is wrong on so many levels. I’m really sorry, Stephanie that you have to deal with this. Ridiculous. I’m from the US and I’ve never thought you’ve been anti-American. That’s crazy talk. I met you in Seattle last year and you were completely awesome in person too. You have all my love, respect, and admiration for how you’ve dealt with this.

  481. Oh Stephanie, you are such a wonderful woman. I know that to be true–it’s so clear in everything you write.
    I’m so sorry this is happening. I wouldn’t worry for one little second about the etiquette of posting these evil emails–that applies to normal circumstances. You don’t get to use manners as an excuse to hide your evil behaviour.
    If I don’t like someone, I don’t hang around them. That’s what decent, normal people do.
    As for you feeling insecure, I know you are human with great qualities and flaws like the rest of us, (though are sure funnier than a lot of people and you can knit faster than anyone I know). I also know that, as other posters have said, even though your writing is mostly light hearted, it’s touched me in very serious ways more than once.
    Like so many others I feel a kinship with you. I’m vegetarian, have worn birks for years, I love a good beer (McMennamins got me through grad school), we have similar philosophies of childbirth and child rearing, I love that you were a doula–best invention ever!–and so much more.
    I know we are not “friends.” That doesn’t mean you haven’t been of value in my life. When I was pregnant and read your story about the sleeping, laboring woman, that changed my whole approach to my pregnancy, in a way that was so important for me.
    Your recent book about the very energetic child was so, so comforting–I have that very child–and there’s so little comfort and sense about that kind of child. Wonderful though they are, they are so hard and so exhausting, too, and that acknowledgment that someone else knew how I felt and that it was real and valid was so, so important to me.
    And your general decency, goodness, and caring reminds almost every day that yes, there are people like you in the world, and I must never allow myself to be too cynical.
    I appreciate all that and so much more, more than you will ever know.
    Thank you for everything.
    If I see you at Sock Summit I promise not to be too fangirl, though I confess it will be hard. 😉

  482. Stephanie, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. I am American and I only have admiration and liking for you. I enjoy reading your views on everything, agree with most, and frequently quote you to my friends. I think you have done a fabulous job raising your beautiful daughters and that the reason that so very many people love you (point to 30,000 trying to sign up for Sock Summit!) is that you are not only a great knitter, but you genuinely try to do what you can to make the world better. If only we could have more of you. I hope she gets tired of this and goes away. You don’t deserve to have to deal with her.

  483. With idiots like her running loose in America, this might be a fine time to consider moving to Canada…

  484. Oh my hell. People need to get a life. Seriously……..can we all just go back to our knitting? All of this over yarn and knitting?? Uh, I hope she isn’t coming to Sock Summit.
    You hang in there sister. Like my dad says, don’t let the bastards get you down.

  485. I’m sorry. Just reading this made my stomach hurt, and I’m not the one getting these emails. I know that you know this — but we’re not all like that down here. You’re doing the right thing, and thanks for reminding us to focus on what we want there to be more of and not to feed the negative energy machine. It’s hard, but it’s the right thing to do.
    See you in Portland (and I mean that in a good, non-stalkery kind of way).
    (P.S. I can’t wait for the rant about the use of terms to refer to female genitalia as an insult. I have the same kind of rant that I share in a gender and language class I teach and I’m sure I could pick up a few pointers!)

  486. There’s no end to the number of ways people can get in deep on this stuff. But I completely support the shine the light on principle, even where there’s a little dust kicked up in the process. I think if you are prepared to say it, you should be prepared to stand up for it and the anonymity of the internet indeed lets people bypass all social controls. It is up to every user of the internet to build conventions to make it clear what is not OK. The number of comments here is a testament to how many people support your view.

  487. Hi Stephanie! As a dual American and Canadian citizen, I can say with perfect confidence that I love Canadians. And I love Americans. And most of all, I love knitters…wherever they live. What I do not love are people who have so little self-esteem that they need to tear down others in order to feel important. How pathetic!
    I applaude you for your courage, artistry, enthusiasm, and your caring heart. And I am sorry that you have to go through this, just so some person with a sickness of the soul can feel like she finally has her 5 minutes of fame.
    {{{STEPHANIE}}}

  488. The first time I picked up your book in the store I felt like I had sat down to chat with an old friend. You helped me out of an acrylic trap and into a cashmere one; it was great fun and my husband hated you for it. But… this is truly horrifying. Don’t read another email this person sends you. Pass them on to your lawyer unread and do not burden yourself with someone else’s hatred.

  489. That actually turned my stomach. It’s attitudes like that that make people hate Americans and I’m embarrassed on behalf of my country. I think you’re wonderful and I have NEVER seen you be anti-American. Well, you DID question our sizing system on needles.. but really, we all should question that 😉
    Well, I’m glad you post. I think you’re awesome. You’re freaking cool 😀

  490. One more American voice: I am so sorry for your troubles. I apologize for our very American fringe. A country that tolerates huge diversity will always include the far far edges of human behaviour, sometimes for better and, sometimes, for worse. I think you are a strong person & will find more strength from this, but oh, I am so sorry. I would like to make it all go away.

  491. Stephanie, I am so sorry this has happened. Man, I wish you had a comment counter, and she had to read all of these comments, a large portion from Americans, supporting you. Some people haven’t a clue what it means to really be Christian.

  492. As a somewhat laid back American who has been described as either conservatively liberal or liberally conservative, I have to say that I have never read anything on your blog that I perceived as insulting to the US or Americans. (poking fun and pretty dang funny- yes, insulting- no) And if I had, well no one forces me to read your blog. If I don’t like what I’m reading I’ll just move on. As I’ve been reading your blog since ’04, obviously I like what I’m reading. I’m sorry you’ve had to put up with so much crap, but I hope you know that the vast majority of us enjoy reading what you write whether we agree with everything or not.

  493. I can’t believe this. Please don’t take her to heart because your blog is a constant source of entertainment and delight for me, as have all your books been.

  494. Wow, she is so jealous of you!!! It’s apparent to me that she’s trying to steal some of your well deserved and hard earned lime light, but enough talking about her. You kick ass! You are an amazing, funny, caring, loving, giving, helpful, creative, thoughtful woman. You and your blog rock my knitting world. Keep at it!

  495. I once heard that a person can be spiritual without being religious but a person who is religious without being spiritual is dangerous. I didn’t quite get it until I read about this person. Take care of yourself and you were so right to let everyone know what was happening to you. She’s not firing on all cylinders……

  496. Hey Steph,
    So who’s getting tired of the humor writing? And BTW, ‘jolly well’ is a fine expression, but soooo not an American English expression, just sayin… Keep up the good work and the humorous (and often thoughtful) writing!

  497. Oh I get it! She’s crazy. I hope you can now dismiss her as she is not worth dwelling on anymore.

  498. wow. much love to you harlot. from an american, who has seen you in 3 states (one twice), bought your books, laughed and cried with you for the past 5 years.

  499. I read faithfully, have left comments, received responses and have had the pleasure of meeting you. Stephanie, I think you are incredibly level-headed, and I applaud you for your handling of this situation. If I am reading everything correctly, and I think I am, then this all stemmed from a post for Canada Day. So, because you are proud to be Canadian, you’re automatically anti-American? Does that make me, an American, anti-Canadian? No. How about the fact that I was born blonde, does that mean I hate brunettes? No.
    In fact, I remember last year you spoke of someone being upset over your Canada Day posting (hopefully I’m not completely delusional here), that I did a post of my own on my blog, about Texas –http://cusegirlknits.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/the-texas-sky-is-the-biggest-one-ive-seen-but-it-still-aint-big-enough-for-you-and-me/
    This does not mean I’m Anti any-other state, it means I’m proud to be a Texan. Sheesh.
    Thank you for letting us know. Thank you for keeping your blog. Thank you just for being you.

  500. Being a woman of sterling good sense, I’m sure you’ve already taken whatever legal steps are available to you to protect yourself, your loved ones and your livelihood.
    That said, I think the Arab proverb was written for just this kind of situation. “The dogs bark, but the caravan moves on.” You just keep moving on, Steph.

  501. I’m appalled at this persons comments and treatment of you. I love to read your blog and books- If she doesn’t like you why does she still read these?? I hope you can get the authorities to stop her harassment. Your other fans and I stand with you- don’t let the turkeys get you down!!

  502. Respectable knitters distancing themselves from you? Huh? I’m pretty respectable (a PhD student) and I’m not distancing myself!
    You’re an inspiration.

  503. Add me to your looooong list of admirers and a first time poster. Please don’t let her ugly behavior penetrate your inner awesomeness. Her voice is really just random noise from the universe. Let it pass by and float off into the vacuum.

  504. Many hugs, Stephanie. I’ll say what many of the others are. As an American and a Christian (albeit a liberal one *gasp*)…this woman is…wrong (trying to be polite, here lol).
    Love you, love your parenting, love your…trueness? of self, love your patriotism to your country, love your knitting, & love your books.

  505. 1) I am American, and often proud of it.
    2) I am Christian
    3) I just re-read your last Canada day post, and could not figure out where the anti-American sentiment was.
    4) I just re-read your 2008 Canada day post and could not figure out where the anti-American sentiment was.
    5) I have read, and commented on, your blog for years. I have heard you talk, and talked to you in the signing line. I adore you and your writing.
    6) While I live in Minnesota, very close to Canada, I learn more about Canada from you than I do anywhere else.
    SOMEONE has to learn that just because you are proud of your country, and say that things are so in Canada and not necessarily in the rest of the world – that is NOT a bash against the US.
    I wish you strength and love through this time. I wish I was coming to the Sock Summit so I could tell you this in person.

  506. I’m shocked to read this story! I’ve been reading your blog (& your books) for years. I even met you briefly at MD Sheep & Wool a while back… and I cannot imagine why anyone would have such venom towards you! I have always found you to be a lovely person: funny, witty & sincere. And so what if you’re proud of your country? Good for you! Pride in one’s own country does not equal scorn for other countries.
    I am a Christian, pretty conservative American, and although I know this goes without saying, she does NOT represent me or anyone I know, at all! I am always especially disturbed when people who claim to be Christian behave in such terrible ways. And anyway, if you ask me, I think that chic has a little bit of the crazy going on (like, John Hinckley, Jr. crazy) so I’ll be praying that she just goes away.
    I support you, Stephanie! Thank you for sharing your knits, your family & your life with us!

  507. She really is nuts and responding, as you say, just fuels the fire. Hang in there; we’re with you…

  508. Stephanie, this is cyber stalking. Please get help from the authorities. As you can see from all your comments there are so many people who have never met you who love you and would protect you if they could. Please take care of yourself.

  509. This woman is very scary & what she has been doing is (I think) illegal. I agree with the suggestions that you seek legal advice. She is a crazy stalker & who knows what she might do. Her blatant distortions of what you have said (anti-American? what? does she think that being proud of your country makes you anti-American?) are symptomatic of serious mental illness & you need to take action to protect yourself. If you have her address, you might contact local law enforcement to see if there is anything they can do to help you.

  510. Oh.My.Goodness!
    For a minute, (ok longer than a minute), I thought that you were going to say that you were shutting the blog down.
    Please take care of yourself, and Joe and the girls. This is a very scary situation.
    We’re all here for you. And we love you. I love your Canada Day entries. I’ve learned so much about Canada from them. You have national pride. She has national pride. Why are you wrong, and she’s right? Because, of course, she’s not.
    You’ve been trying to let this die down, and now it’s in the light. But so is all the support you’ve got. From all corners of the world. We love you!

  511. Oh dear. You have unwittingly attracted a nut. I understand the urge to defend oneself, but you aren’t dealing with a person who operates by the normal rules of rational discourse. There is no reasoning with someone who isn’t equipped with that ability.
    I’m an American, and I’ve never been offended by your blog. Keep doing what you do, writing what you write, and carry one. I second Laura’s hug.

  512. I Googled a few phrases and found her within moments. Then I read about 5 of her blogs and felt physically sick. I’m OK with disagreement as long as you stick to the facts, but moving into personal attacks is a bit much for me. She’s vicious and hateful and disturbed. Stephanie, just know, she does not represent all 260 million Americans. The rest of us “Sensible” people understand your humor and love it (which is why you have all the blogging awards, the best-selling books, a socks summit so popular that the entire server crashed…. 🙂 and she….well….whatever..)
    Message received. I won’t ever venture there again.
    Just know that you are receiving a lot of love tonight.

  513. Yeesh, Steph. I’m so sorry. And a little worried, this woman is clearly not completely sane. Is there anything legally you can do to make her leave you alone? I mean, even if you were anti-American, atheist, blah blah blah, (which I in no way think you are), there are much greater villians and evil folks in the world. (In fact, we don’t have to look beyond our own US borders to find them…) As an American, and more importantly, a fellow human, I support you and all that you give to the world. As a follower of Christ, I will try to remember that we are to love our enemies. That’s the goal, anyway. Hang in there sister.

  514. We all know what is going on now. Thank you for the clear honesty — nothing posted by her will even be read, much less thought about…
    No contest.

  515. Hi Stephanie!
    I’m another lurker, sorry I don’t comment very often.
    I am so very proud and impressed by your compassion to others. You’ve definitely got my support! And I agree with Cate (somewhere far above in the comments) – this lady definitely doesn’t knit enough.
    (((((HUGS))))

  516. Long-time reader, first-time poster, *and* an American who’s visiting Canada right now for the very first time! (Lovely, lovely country by the way! I’m in Montreal, and the people (and the food!) are forty billion kinds of amazing.) I just Twittered some adoration to you, but I wanted to post here, too.
    I love your sense of humor and honesty about EVERYTHING — the joys and frustrations about knitting, family, traveling, the whole kit ‘n’ kaboodle. Your posts make my day, make me cry, make me laugh… THANK YOU.

  517. I’m so sorry to hear about this situation. Please know that for every single person like that out there, there are thousands and thousands more who love and respect what you do. I’m proud of how you are handling this.

  518. Oh. I had no idea all this was going on while you are hard at work on the sock summit. Be careful please- that person sounds unstable. You’re a fantastic individual and this isn’t about you.
    Another American fan who loves you and your work.

  519. I’m an American who loves the fact that you love your Country enough to say so, every year, even though there is backlash. I understand the difference between loving your country and dissing another, and I strongly suspect that people who say otherwise have hidden agendas that don’t even pertain to your love of Canada. Like they hate environmentalists, or celebrities, or they’re off their meds. For every jerk, you have two hundred people who love you.

  520. Hi Steph, I have sent a post to you earlier in this wonderful response. I just spoke to my son who is in IT security for a major corporation. He says there is no provider that wants their customer to be harassed. He says the reason it continues is that people give up to soon when trying to complain. He says to get in touch with supervisors in security with all of your providers, including twitter and facebook. Provide them with copies of several of the messages from several of the addresses and particularly any with threats. It may take you more than one try, but keep trying until you find someone to listen and we both hope that you do. He does also say that you might have to go beyond the local authorities. I hope we are not leading you on a goose chase and that you get some action and some relief. Good luck, Steph.

  521. I am so sorry! We Americans unfortunately have a few bad apples, that tend to ruin reputations for the rest of us. We love you so much, and I personally feel horrible for what you must be going through. As someone who recently endured a crazy reject-almost boyfriend, one who followed me around and tried to alienate me from my friends when I was in a scary new environment, I sympathize with anyone who feels harassed. I can only hope that this woman will see the error of her ways–it really only shows your kind heart that you don’t publish her name, and continue to take the high road. We’re all rooting for you Stephanie! Keep being your amazing blogger self!

  522. Oh Stephanie, I’m so sorry to hear about what you’ve been dealing with. And on top of all the Sock Summit planning!! Hopefully she’ll knock it off soon so you and your family can have some peace. Thank you so much for your blog, I always enjoy reading it (and your books) and have never read anything anti-American or whatever. Lots of good thoughts coming your way from Iowa. 🙂

  523. I know this is far from an original comment, but I have to post it: I am a Christian American traditional woman and whoever this person is – rest assured she DOES NOT represent me in any way, shape or form.
    She is giving Christian American Women a bad name.
    Thank you for the bravery it took to share the whole ugly mess. You shouldn’t have to deal with that alone. You have support out here!

  524. I personally enjoy your Canada Day posts as they are wonderful tributes to your beautiful country and they also remind me to wish Happy Canada Day to my best friend – who is, of course Canadian, living here in the US. We saw you when you were in CA a few years back and you “tested” her with some sort of candy jingle. We had a blast that day.
    You are loved and respected here in the US no matter what that person says.

  525. Stephanie, Bless you for your courage and determination to put an end to the “mean” and obvious unnecessary harassment you’ve been suffering for the past month. As an American Knitter/Crafter, one bad apple does not speak for all of us. And the person harassing you is a bad apple. You that you are loved for who you are and for standing up for your principles.

  526. Stephanie—You’re a class act! You’ve taught a lot of people a great deal about knitting. Now you’ve educated a whole lot more on how to take the high road in an untenable situation. Take care.
    Jane

  527. I am American and think you like us a lot other wise you wouldn’t come to see us. So please keep coming to see us and I send a comment hug for you keep strong.

  528. I just wanted to say, like over 500 people before me, that you are always respectful, funny, and smart. Don’t let anyone make you question that for a second. Robin, Ohio, USA

  529. Dearest Stephanie,
    As a first-time poster (but LONG time reader) I feel like perhaps I may not have earned the right to call you “Dearest,” but that is what you feel to me; a wonderful friend, who delights me with her witticisms, laughs, and plain ol’ common sense every time I am lucky enough to read your posts. I will not give this woman the attention she wishes and rail on her tactics (as much as the fear and anger in my heart wishes to do), but yet, as a small effort to counterbalance the negativity placed in the world by her and others like her, I write this list for you, a list of what you have taught me (and all the thanks and love that it can entail):
    -You have, unbeknownst to you, happily encouraged me to finish my first sweater (seamed up January, 2009);
    -You have given me exemplars (and some sage advice) of how to raise my future children;
    -You have made me, as an American, even MORE proud to share a border with your fine country, which I did not think possible (an aside: my home state of Maine is often lovingly called “Southern Canada,” for reasons I wish were more for the supreme humanity of your people and less for the frigid cold! 🙂 ;
    -You have made me wish for a love as strong, cooperative, and fun as the one that you share with your Joe;
    -You have made me tardy to work due to checking your Twitter feed 🙂 ;
    -You have made me want to try to knit socks (as scary as they seem);
    -You have made me smile, on a daily basis;
    -You have made me purchase your book “Knitting Rules,” which I must say was one of the more entertaining and informational reads I have had in quite a long time;
    -You have inspired me to knit at bars (and my non-knitting friends think it quaint!);
    -You have taught me to seek out yarn stores, stitch’n’bitches, and knitting clubs;
    But after all of this, perhaps, most importantly:
    -You have made me smile and laugh heartily;
    -You have made me love the art of knitting above all crafts;
    -You have made my day.
    I am sorry for the long post, but I wanted to try and counteract the bad with some positive energy (as well as maybe pump a bit of happy into your life).
    With the most respect and admiration,
    Lissa

  530. Hate to hear that someone is taking what should be a fun blog for everyone to enjoy into an opportunity to spout vile nonsense. Stephanie, if you have to turn off comments for a while, we will understand. We will miss it, but we will understand. I think some blogs have a “comment delay” feature for this very reason, where comments aren’t posted until the blogger has a had a chance to screen them.

  531. I’m another reader who has never posted. Maybe once or twice. I never posted because I didn’t think you read all your comments. Well, I guess you have to now. I’m so sorry you have to put up with that and I’m so embarrassed that she is from America. It gets me extremely angry when people use their religion to justify being a snot. She might say she’s a christian but she sure isn’t acting like one. And everyone I know thinks you are wonderful.

  532. I think perhaps your harasser is ill and has developed a very illogical fixation with you.
    For the record, I’m Australian and never once took your Canada Day posts as anti-US … or anti-Australian for that matter 😉
    XOX

  533. FYI I meant to add that if you need extra support in the IT department, I also work IT security and support. If you need extra firepower, you ONLY have to say so.

  534. Another long-time lurker coming out to say good for you and keep on going! I love reading what you write and would be very sad if you stopped! And as my mom always says, ‘never get into a fight with someone who is clearly crazier than you.’

  535. I’m so ashamed of one of my own people treating you in this manner. You have nothing to feel a lack of self esteem over. You are the most brilliant individual I have come across in a very long time and I truly love everything you do. I have learned so much from you and have been inspired to try sock knitting even. I can’t imagine putting on a sock summit like you are ding without a whole staff of help. I trust that this doesn’t become a threat of harm to you and your family. I would think there could be something done if that happens. Freedom to use the wireless isn’t a license to harm.

  536. I never comment on blogs, though I follow yours religiously. This blog has kept me entertained, grounded and sane through some pretty rough times (some really icky MS stuff, BTW, thanks for that!) and I am realy sorry to see this happen to such a wonderful person and her family.
    I also found the culprit’s blog, unfortunately through her comment tonight. And all I can say is wow. Not very Christian.

  537. I’ve been reading for a while now and think I’ve only commented once or twice. This post really is bringing a lot of lurkers out into the light!
    It’s because we all love having you in our virtual lives. It’s because we all so appreciate your wit and character, and I think I speak for a lot of us when I say I’d go to the mattresses for you. Thanks for being classy enough not to raise your army of loyal knitters to do battle.
    As an ex-pat American who loves her new country, I’ve been accused to anti-Americanism. It hurts, and it’s frightening, because it shows how blinded people can be by nationalism.
    I just wanted you to know that when I work on my prayer shawl today, I’ll be praying for your safety and health.

  538. {{{{{{Hugs}}}}}} Sorry you have to deal with this. Keep to the high road and keep writing! Don’t let the trolls get you down.

  539. I love your blog, and I love your Canada Day posts. I agree with everyone above- please ignore her and keep up the great work!

  540. I have been reading your blog for a while, but this is my first time commenting. Like so many other people, I just wanted to say that I am so sorry that this woman is causing you so much trouble. You have handled this situation well, and I hope it gets better soon.

  541. Stephanie, you are a class act, seriously. Thank you for all your witty words and helpful hints. I love all of your books. And I am a American. (but secretly want to be a Canadian)

  542. wow. i’ve seen my fair share of crazy on the internet, but not somewhere as peaceful and fun as your site. i’m sorry you are going through this.

  543. When the US gets good health care, perhaps this woman will be able to get help for her mental illness. Meanwhile, I hope you can feel our support for you.

  544. Love. Light. Respect.
    I hope she gets whatever help she needs asap. In the meantime, you have a lot of voices, including mine, to drown it out. You rock.

  545. Another American here sending support and good vibes your way! Take the steps you necessary to limit your exposure and to protect yourself, and try to live your life as you always have. Your blog is wonderful – I’ve read it for years and have never read anything that could be considered offensive. To the contrary, I’ve learned a lot and laughed myself silly. Stay strong!

  546. I’ve posted here just a few times – Stephanie, sending you light and peace. I’m American, and as others have been saying, this person does NOT speak for all of us – she’s definitely not well, so please be safe.
    Thanks for all the joy and laughter your writing and insight has brought me over the last few years. You are a (Canadian) treasure!

  547. Your blog is funny, funny, funny, and I enjoy seeing the beautiful things you knit. However, I LOVE when you delve into your day-to-day life. The appliance adventures, the cooking with family, the friends you meet when you visit new places…all of these things inspire me. As a 29-year-old woman, my peers and surroundings sometimes make me cynical about love and family. The way you live your life reminds me that there are folks out there who live honestly and love earnestly. So, thanks for sharing.

  548. I am the husband of a knitter. got this through the various lines. I am an American, married to a Canadian, imagine how horrible I must be!. I have never seen, nor heard anything Anti-American in any of the blogs nor the books I have seen. I can only imagine how stressful this can be. But be strong, there are only so many IPs that the ISP will give her. (I know this for I am a certified computer geek, took the tests and everything). If you know her Provider, contacting them with evidence of her malice, they might be able to step in and help. Imagine her fury when an American company helps a Canadian.
    Best wishes and chin up!
    Tray

  549. Stephanie,
    I’m very sorry you are having to deal with this. The woman is certainly mentally ill. I want you to know that I think you’re terrific, I like your blog and your books, and I’ll be thinking of you at this difficult time.

  550. Long time reader – first time poster. Stay strong, nutters can be the hardest, most draining people in the world. You bring much enjoyment to many, know we appreciate you and the effort.

  551. Oh Stephanie. Light and Love, indeed, and I’m sending them to you. I think you and every member of your family to be exceptional human beings.
    I’m sorry this has been going on. XOXOX

  552. Stephanie,
    This is so hurtful and I’m so sorry that you have had to (privately even) deal with all of this. I hope that this and all the other wonderful comments help you to feel like we have your back on this because we TOTALLY do.

  553. Good for you. And thank you for setting a good example for reacting to a tough situation. I wish you the best of luck, and love all your books and posts (they make my day. Really, they do).
    Happy knitting and all the best!
    p.s.
    Love the Canada Day posts (even though I live in the States). It’s always good to know about and understand other countries. Woohoo multiculturalism!

  554. Dear Yarn Harlot:
    Over the years I have been very impressed with the graceful and respectful way you have dealt with uncomfortable situations. Sadly your success has thrown you into the lime light and made you a target.
    You have taught me to be kinder by your example. I was a shocked to think about what having a cyber stalker would be like. I hope good can come out of this event. It makes me want to be kinder, more tolerant, and always wait 24 hours before responding to something that has made me angry. I plan to go out and practice some random act of kindness in your name.

  555. Stunned and so very sorry you’ve had to deal with this. You should be proud of yourself for the way you’ve handled it. Behind you 100%!

  556. Stephanie,
    My family and I are the target of unreasoned hatred and vitriol from a neighbor who is, I am convinced, paranoid schizophrenic. She has demeaned, debased, and slandered us to friends and acquaintances. She has regularly screamed and cursed at us. She has shot at my husband and son (for which she was arrested and hospitalized). Fortunately, our friends, neighbors, acquaintances and anyone else in the county know that she is sick, and that we are not the drug dealers, cattle rustlers, and murderers that she believes we are.
    This is true for you, too. One misguided, mistaken person cannot override what the rest of us know about you. That you are a fine, loving, witty, responsible, hard-working, talented (I could go on) person.
    We ignore her. We reported her to the sheriff when she broke the law. We live with it and get on with our lives.

  557. Call the police. I’m not even joking. What is happening is not legal here (in the U.S.).
    I didn’t interpret your own pride in your country as anti-anything. I am proud of the good things mine has done too, but not so much some of the other things.
    How embarrassing for an American Christian that’s not a goofball.

  558. As an American Christian, this person is an embarrassment. So sorry to know that you are dealing with something like this and just know that we support you and love what you are doing.

  559. Long time reader & fan from America. I’ve never heard/read anything from you that sounded anti-America. I adore you & your writing. Just wanted to send you an Internet hug.

  560. Long time reader & fan from America. I’ve never heard/read anything from you that sounded anti-America. I adore you & your writing. Just wanted to send you an Internet hug.

  561. I am completely shocked, appalled, and (almost) without words. This woman obviously has some major mental issues that she needs to work out. I know it’s easier said than done, but please don’t let this one person get to you. There are thousands of us out here who think you are doing a great and wonderful thing and we enjoy reading all about your life. Please keep your head up and I hope this all blows over soon.

  562. I’m a conservative/right-wing Christian American knitter. And I think you’re amazing. And I’ll keep buying your books.
    Don’t let the Muggles get you down!

  563. Another lurker coming out in support. I hope the sheer number of new commenters who want to show you love and appreciation can offset the one rotten apple.
    I don’t always agree with you, but I love the way you write. Acceptance of different ideas is one of the big things that makes this world work.

  564. Unbelievable — and more than a little scarey. Surely there is something someone (i.e., the “authorities”) can do. It must have been terrible for you to carry this around this last month. Remember how many friends and supporters you have — people who would never be influenced by such garbage. There are thousands of us out here…let us know if there is any way we can help.

  565. Time and again, I’m impressed by your strength, but above all, kindness. It’s an honor to “know” you, and I hope that this trouble ends for you soon. Hang in there.
    And I LOVE your Canada Day posts, so, somewhat ingraciously, I say this woman can suck it.

  566. I’m so sorry you’ve had to struggle with this, Stephanie. You’re a good person.

  567. Good for you for keeping the blog going – I’m not sure how I’d summon the will to go on without it. 🙂 It’ll be my privilege to ignore her completely.
    SO MUCH LOVE from San Francisco.
    (And every American *I* know absolutely adores you.)

  568. I am so, so, sorry you have to deal with this. I’m a Christian American Woman. TOTALLY WITH YOU, and I wish you all the best in further dealings with this problem.

  569. I doubt I can say something that hasn’t been said in the 500+ supportive and sincere comments before mine.
    I suspect you probably won’t have the opportunity to read this far down, normal life compounded by Sock Summit and all…
    But I wanted to add my comments to the Number.
    This isn’t a time to be polite and note “it’s been said, no need to comment”. In this case it Needs to be said Thousands of More times. I want you to see the number of people that stepped up to say:
    We’re behind you. We admire you. We do not doubt your parenting skills or your choice of spouses or your many talents. Those of us that are True Americans revel and delight in your love of Canada – just as we love our own Country.
    Fair’s fair.
    We’re VERY sorry/embarrassed/annoyed/creeped out that some power-hungry bully is harrassing you.
    Obviously she has no Clue about what the United States of America stands for and she truly needs to get a life (and some professional assistance).
    I believe you’ve taken all the right paths. I also believe you are not dealing with a reasonable person so your efforts can not have a reasonable effect.
    We shall do our level best NOT to react to/feed this persons delusions. She’s not worth our time and she’s taken up way to much of yours.
    Oy – SERIOUS waste of some good knitting time.
    E-hugs and Kudos to you for showing us the best of humanity.

  570. Love, respect, and admiration for everything you do here. It takes a lot of courage to make this public, and I won’t mention it on my blog either, no matter how much it makes me angry. You rock, and I hope that this post proves a release for all of the self-doubt this situation has caused. There is no need for any of it, from where I stand (tush firmly planted on American soil). You rock, and we all know it.

  571. My dear YH. I am from the US. I love my country. But people like this make me weep for it. Any “anti-american” feelings out there are well earned IMO, largely by Ugly Americans like this woman. Stay strong, stay proud and know we love you. Your conduct regarding this lunatic are spot-on. Oh and I agree about the “Pussy” thing…sheesh. Besides she’s very tame if she thinks that’s the worst insult in the American playbook. I’ve got about ten things in my head right now when thinking about her that are far FAR worse. *grins*

  572. As an American, I am sincerely sorry for all the rude comments you have received. I love your Canada Day posts and have never found them in poor taste or “anti-American”. Love!

  573. Steph, I have only rarely commented on your blog, but I have to say I’m very distressed that anyone could treat another person this way, and doubly distressed that it is one of my own countrywomen. She most definitely does not represent all of us! As for your Canada Day posts, I find them fascinating, as American schools do not spend a lot of time teaching Canadian history and politics so I’m woefully ignorant about my northern neighbors.

  574. so sorry this has been going on — I’m hoping (and praying) that you and your family get a good night’s sleep tonight…

  575. Stephanie, I am an American woman 68 years old and I love your books, your blog and You. You make me smile and laugh out loud. I admire you so much. This is the first time I have ever commented on your blog (or any blog for that matter). I read your blog every day that I am using my computer. Keep up the good work and I am sorry that you have this stalker harassing you. What she is doing is not “Christian” in any way shape or form.

  576. After I was introduced to your blog I took the time to re-read it from the beginning, and I noticed the change in tone & topics from those early days. I figured it was because of your growing celebrity and, while I missed the homey stuff etc I thought I understood it. Now I realize what you’ve been faced with and the fact that you post at all is amazing to me. I am so sorry a fellow american is ranting on you. Hugs to you in sympathy.

  577. wow. Just Wow.
    As a fellow American, I just have to say that I am very sorry you are having to deal with this. As the rest of the comments before mine have said, you are awesome. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. ♥
    Some people sincerely need to get a life.

  578. Wow…
    Yarn Harlot, you are my hero. It is so sad that somebody feels the need to be a bully. You are incredible and this woman needs help.
    Rock on!

  579. Oh dear – what an ugly American, making us other neighbors to Canada look so awful. I am so sorry for this nitwit offense to you, Stephanie. I wanted you to know how much I love your writing. Please know what huge amount of good you do for the rest of us. xxoo

  580. love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love
    hope that helps!

  581. You light up my life with your wonderful wit, wisdom, and sharing. I stand in admiration of your generosity of spirit, caring about the world around you, and constant giving in all that you do. Please stoke and hug your self-confidence and inner critic with these words. Rock on, Stephanie.

  582. Like so many others, I have not posted previously. I must do so tonight to add my support and appreciation. I enjoy your blog, your books, and your approach to life and knitting. I am a U.S. citizen who has learned interesting things from your Canada Day blogs and has never felt threatened by anything you have said.
    Trying to make good out of bad, I have just made my first donation to MSF in your honor.
    Thanks for what you do to make the world a better place.

  583. I have no idea what to say. I can only apologize as one American for my fellow citizen.
    I hope that the light will stop this.
    Love and many hugs and MUCH support from America’s Heartland.

  584. Ok, I won’t fuel her fire with what I really think. But you need to know that I am a New Yorker and love your blog – and also was afraid you were going to stop – please don’t! I often read your writings to my husband (not a knitter) because I think you are incredibly witty and enjoyable to lots more people than just knitters! Please know that there are LOTS and LOTS more of us and only ONE of her.

  585. 600 some comments later, I just have to reiterate much of what has been said here. I actually shared this post with my husband and we looked at each other with disgust and surprise at this person. Also, a big thank you…you are funny, witty, and a talented knitter.

  586. For those of you who are leaving comments on “she who is not to be named’s” blog, although I TOTALLY understand the urge, I think the comments here speak MUCH louder. Also, when possible, bad behavior should be ignored.

  587. Ok, I won’t fuel her fire with what I really think. But you need to know that I am a New Yorker and love your blog – and also was afraid you were going to stop – please don’t! I often read your writings to my husband (not a knitter) because I think you are incredibly witty and enjoyable to lots more people than just knitters! Please know that there are LOTS and LOTS more of us and only ONE of her.

  588. So sorry, Stephanie, that this lunatic has attached herself to you. As always, you are behaving as a lady and a rock. I am so proud of you for choosing the high road. In so many ways you have shown yourself as a role model deserving of admiration. Your family, your friends, and your public are a testament to your character.
    I have pity for that poor, tortured soul. I hope she can find some peace inside herself and find the healing that she needs.

  589. First time poster, long time reader. You shouldn’t ever take anything this woman has to say to heart. I am ashamed that she calls herself an American! I think you are wonderful!

  590. This American wishes you the best in dealing with this situation. You are a better person in every way.

  591. Dearest Steph,
    1. She’s obviously wacko and it’s sad…but it’s not your problem.
    2. Please take your own advice about not engaging: Don’t even read her emails, PLEASE! It’s just a lot of negative energy that you don’t need swirling around you. Delete them and block her. Don’t read her hateful words.
    3. As they say on the lists, “Don’t feed the Troll.”
    We love you and respect you, laugh with you, can’t wait for the next book, and love reading about your famlly and parenting adventures (and I would never judge someone else’s parenting!).
    Blog on and best wishes for an ultra-successful SS09!!
    SusanSW

  592. Yowch.
    Not a balanced person.
    Bravo to you for going public. Do what you must. Try not to let the bully get you down.
    I don’t know that you are in physical danger, but you might want to get professional advice about that.
    I plan to use your post as an advice to my teenagers about cyber-bullying.
    I know support has been pouring in to you — love your blog, love your books, I admire your clear thinking….
    What comes AFTER SS09?

  593. Just want to be sure my names on the “I support you” list. Love learning more about Canada from your blog. It’s good for us. Expands the horizons. Hugs, Alice

  594. Hey, could you use a beer-taster and DPN-armed bodyguard at SS? I could be on a plane tonight! (Sorry, it seemed you could use a laugh)
    Just as if I were walking down the public street, I will try to have compassion for the obviously unbalanced person who is unable to “act normal” and flings her instability in onlooker’s faces. In exchange for this uncharacteristic lack of response to an internet bully on my part, I beg that you take steps to be both safe AND happy.
    You have striven to support your family and community, and to bring humor and joy to your readers. Only you, our Humble Harlot (and some whackjob we shall not speak of), are in any doubt that you have achieved this.

  595. These are the people I so wish we could censor at a much baser level. Her sheer idiocy prevented me from reading everything you quoted from her. I really don’t know how things would work with the country difference. I have a friend who does voice-work and a web-comic and got some very harassing emails, similar to what you’ve been suffering through. My friend talked with the authorities, and they talked with the harasser internet service provided and got their internet connection shut down. This was also 5 or 6 years ago, and may not be possible now.
    You mentioned a call to the authorities at the beginning of your post, and I hope that they are aware of the situation. Right now she is an annoyance, but if she ever actually threatens you PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE promise us that you will report it to the authorities. With her claims of knowing where you live, any threats should be taken seriously, and action will be able to be taken.
    I love your writings and truly don’t feel you’re anti-American (if you were, do you really think Homeland Security would let you travel here so often?). Your writing actually inspired me to take up knitting again. Knitting Rules has helped me become a more confident knitter (because of that book I have since learned to make socks and am not afraid to show off my knitting in public!)
    I hope you and others who read this post do not think poorly of Americans, Christians, and Christian Americans because of the attitude of this one person.
    May she grow tired of this before it gets dangerous, and may you persevere through it all.
    Thank you for all that you’ve given to the knitting community!

  596. Stephanie:
    I love your blog. I think you’re a wonderful person and I’m sorry you’re having such a bad time. As an American I’ve always thought it was shameful that most of us don’t know more about Canada and I did always wonder why there were only 13 original colonies in the U.S. when I knew there were some more northerly neighbors. I’m pleased you were able to explain some of it to me! I’ve learned quite alot about Canada from reading your posts and sometimes you even tell me things about the U.S. that I didn’t know. I absolutely loved the Thomas Jefferson quote—I laughed over it for days. This poor woman who is bothering you is obviously demented. I hope she gets some psychiatric care soon.

  597. Personally, I never understood how one could call oneself “Christian” & then spew forth such hurtful, awful sentiments. Not being terribly religious myself, it just seems perfectly hypocritical; pretty much the opposite of all Christian teaching. This person makes me embarrassed to be American (as if the Bush administration didn’t give us enough reasons–just my opinion, disagree at will) and I offer apologies as an American for such rude behavior. If she were one of my kids, she’d be eating soap for a month. Minimum.

  598. Hang in there, Stephanie.
    I am an American Christian, and this person, whoever she is, does not speak for me.
    She is apparently a different sort of Christian than I, for I believe that we should be good to each other. Furthermore, I believe that if the Jesus I follow was hanging out here on earth now, he’d probably be hanging out with knitter people and motorcycle people and homeless people, not people who knowingly set out to harm other people.
    I will continue to buy your books because I like them. They make me laugh. You make me feel like it’s OK to make goofy mistakes and bumble occasionally. I need that. Thank you, many times over, for that.
    Peace, Karen

  599. Stephanie,
    I haven’t read the entire avalanche of comments, so I don’t know if someone else has suggested this, but could you hire someone, perhaps a security firm with a staff of employees, to screen the blog and your email 24/7 so you never have to read anything again from the harassing poster?
    That would give you back your normal life and the time to work on what you want to work on. Also, removing yourself from the line of fire might take away the satisfaction of the game for the harasser, if she understands that her comments and emails are all consigned to an anonymous wastebasket in cyberspace by people who don’t care what she writes. And I do hope that the authorities you consulted included law enforcement.
    Wishing you peace of mind and spirit. Hang in there.

  600. Stephanie, this is awful. Bravo to you. But I know what it is like to have your self-esteem trampled on. Cuts to your core.
    You mentioned having talked to the ‘authorities’ – I assume you meant law enforcement types. I hope so. Her communications to you seem to constitute ‘harassment’ and needs to be dealt with as such. I suspect the cross-border aspect to this would make things difficult. But, nevertheless….
    As an American, I am embarrassed by this person. It is a very troublesome thing to see what she is doing in the name of ‘patriotism’. And as a Christ-follower, my heart breaks for both her shameful behavior, and for the hurt it causes you.
    You are in my prayers as you deal with this issue. I pray for your protection, also.
    Love & hugs & prayers fm this side of the border.

  601. I’ve come to realize (after 11 years of retail) that some people are just crazy, and angry, & ready to take it out on anyone that crosses their paths. So sorry that you’re bearing the brunt of it! Also, these are the sort of folks that made my best friend (who lives in the UK) afraid for years to admit that she was an American – for a while she just let people think she was Canadian :).

  602. Another American who lurks and loves you. I am old enough to be your grandmother (great grandmother?). You honor the knitting community with your writings.

  603. I am embarrassed that this woman is a fellow American. You are a thoroughly charming, enchanting and inspiring woman, knitter and fiber artist. You do not deserve at any level to have to deal or worry about people like this woman, especially not on your blog, for which you pay. She is entitled to like, or not like, your blog, you and your books (or your knitting for that matter). She is NOT entitled to invade your space (I consider your blog your space) with her foul nastiness.
    You did well, Stephanie. She does not speak for the rest of us. Hang in there.

  604. Cripes! I am sorry this is happening to you. Thank you for sharing with us. It seems unbelievable that someone can be so angry, taking everything personally. So sad that you have to deal with this… You bring so much joy and fun to my life. Thanks Stephanie.

  605. Love to the nth from another Christian American woman. You are doing the right thing.
    hugs hugs hugs.

  606. Dear Stephanie,
    Please do not hold this person against us. Coming from a Catholic American, she does NOT represent us in any way or form! I love your blog and have introduced it to many, many other people. It quite often gives me the laugh out loud that I need. (It’s also strangely comforting to know that there are people out there as obsessed with knitting as I am…)
    We all just need to remember that we are not clones and that the world would be a lot more boring if there weren’t so many different people, traditions, and beliefs. Diversity is the essence of creativity! There’s so much to learn from others and no one deserves to be treated like this.
    Thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your family. May the happiness the you’ve brought to so many other people come your way soon!

  607. I think disengagement is very wise. We should all ignore her. I am hoping that you are able to get an anti-harassment or restraining order against you. She sounds quite unstable.

  608. This breaks my heart to see. I’m so sorry that this has been going on and I’m glad you decided to make your end public as she seemed hell bent to make hers. Your Zen nature is inspiring because I don’t believe I could be as non confrontational as you have been.
    Also, speaking as an American and an incredibly patriotic one, I have seen nothing wrong with your comments on America. Not to mention, you spend more time touring in our country (to sold out venues and packed yarn shops, I might add, no small feat for a knitting humor writer.) than you do your own it seems.
    Knitting is, or rather, should be beyond national identity. I had always assumed knitters were countrymen regardless of geographical locations.
    This woman, however, is definitely not in my tribe.

  609. I have never posted on a blog before, but I am so sorry that an American is acting in such a nasty way and had to say something. I admire you for taking the higher ground, much more Christian than the person criticizing you. Jesus would never have acted like that! I am a Christian, a liberal Christian, and don’t agree with any of what I see that person has said. Americans certainly don’t have one opinion, and that she thinks she can speak for all of us, is ludicrous!
    I love your books. They make me laugh and then something poignant touches me and makes me thoughtful. I read chapters of your books to my knitting group and we all laugh and see ourselves or someone we know. Don’t let the turkeys get you down, keep doing your thing. I admire and respect you.
    BTW, I am so anxious for Sock Summit and taking your class, see you in Portland soon!

  610. Hug to you, Stephanie, for having to deal with people like that (and in the middle of SS stuff now, too!). She really sounds mentally unstable. Hang in there!

  611. Oh Stephanie,
    I almost cried by the end of your post – what a mean-spirited, small-minded (gah!!!) to treat you that way. Having scrolled through all the comments it’s easy to see that I’m not the only one who appreciates your humor, knowledge, and candor (and not just for knitting posts, either!). “At Knit’s End” was the first non-pattern book I bought when I re-learned to knit and I’ve purchased all your other books since.
    Be safe. Hug Joe and the girls. Knit/spin something nice. Be well.

  612. 1. This is typical ranting from a bully and a right-wing fanatic who thinks that if you’re not wearing flag underwear, you’re a pinko commy faggot.
    2. I’m an American and she does NOT represent me.
    3. Seconds on the stalking, illegal stuff. File as many forms with as many authorities as possible.
    4. Thanks for letting us know about it.
    5. As we say down here in the South: “That is just plain TACKY!”
    6. My sock that you rubbed with your sock mojo down in Fairhope? Will never be washed or worn again and am seriously thinking about framing it in a shadow box.
    7. Keep your head up. We love you.

  613. As an American who has lived over half my life in states that border Canada – I love your post for getting to know different aspects of Canada. Your Canada Day posts always are wonderful and interesting, please continue to do that post. I have hiked and canoed in Canada more than visiting any of the cities. After your trip to Nova Scotia I put that area on my list of places to visit – it is the only provence that I haven’t been in yet.
    Very personally, I adore the posts that you put up on your daughters birthdays. I just finished unsuccessful fertility treatments and wish that I would have had the honor to post such lovely and honest sentiments on a child’s birthday. Thank you for allowing me to have a small look into your life.
    Thank you for continuing to blog. Love and light your direction.

  614. Long-time reader, first-time blog-commenter! I check your blog everyday. You’re funny, kind, interesting, and all about yarn. YARN, for the love of Pete. I’m ignoring what’s-her-name but continue to think you’re fabulous and a breath of fresh air in my otherwise crazy kid, work, yarn-filled life.

  615. Oh, Internets. I guess you’ve hit the big time now, Steph: apparently no blog is really famous until it’s had it’s first stalker.
    But, as the internet says so often, f*** the haters. You have made me laugh and sometimes cry and learn some new things, here and in person. I feel privileged to have this little window into your life and to have met you twice, and I hope the next time you come ’round with a book I get to do it all over again.
    There’s an awful lot of light here right now, and I hope it’s helping. Much love to you and your family.

  616. Oh Stephanie,
    I almost cried by the end of your post – what a mean-spirited, small-minded (gah!!!) to treat you that way. Having scrolled through all the comments it’s easy to see that I’m not the only one who appreciates your humor, knowledge, and candor (and not just for knitting posts, either!). “At Knit’s End” was the first non-pattern book I bought when I re-learned to knit and I’ve purchased all your other books since.
    Be safe. Hug Joe and the girls. Knit/spin something nice. Be well.
    PS I’m an American, too, and we upstanding citizens don’t take to kindly to bullying, cyber or otherwise.

  617. I hope very much that your anonymouse jerkface
    a) gets help
    b) recognizes that her millions of fellow Americans do not want her speaking on their behalf
    c) realizes that actual genuine ‘good Christian folk’ probably don’t go around wreaking petty enraged vendettas via the internet, and
    d) ceases and desists.
    I second/third/millionth the comments above saying good for you; good for you for posting and showing yourself to be so much better a human being than it would be very easy to be in such a situation as this.

  618. This woman is mentally ill. Her illness and obsession has nothing to do with you. Look up Borderline Personalities – it’ll be very familiar.
    We love you!!
    Yet another American

  619. Thanks so much for the dedication and patience you show in every post. Your blog renewed my interest in knitting and got me through the two longest months in my life. (Two months is about how long it took to catch up.) I’m sorry you are going through something like this, and I greatly admire how you are handling it. You’re amazing.

  620. Hugs!! Hope your tension hasn’t changed during this. It would be real sucky to have to rip out and reknit. 🙂

  621. I’m a native Minnesotan/naturalized Texan, and I have never taken offense at any of your Canada Day blogs (or any other of your blogs, for that matter). In fact, I have learned so much about Canada from them.
    I’m sorry you are being harassed; please know that this woman does not speak for the rest of us.

  622. Wow, a knitting inspiration AND an inspiration to be the bigger person. Thanks.
    I’m a transplanted Canadian living in the US and so I’m switching between offense and embarassment in regards to that woman.
    Sadly, she reminds me of someone I know, whom I strongly suspect of being mentally ill. Good for you for not fueling the deranged fire.

  623. Long time American reader here, though I may have only posted one time before (maybe). I am so sorry that this person has focused thusly on you. Your blog is great. Funny, witty, informative, great fun to read. Keep up the FANTASTIC blog! 🙂

  624. WOW! I’m sorry this is happening. As a side note, I don’t think you are anti-American at all. I live in Alaska, and if posting about Canada makes you anti-American, than my blog is probably that as well. I post ALL the time about how much I love Alaska and how I could never live anywhere else. I celebrate Alaska Day and sometimes I even make up Alaskan holidays just to celebrates its awesome-ness. I hope you are able to take care of this. I will see you at Sock Summit!! I got into your class and I’m incredibly excited… alright, enough babble. Feel better. You are incredible.

  625. Ok. When I started this comment you only had 665 comments, meaning that I get to be the DEVIL COMMENT!!! aka Comment of Satan. Yippee!
    Now, back to WHY I was commenting. Don’t get me started on what I think about ‘Christians’. People like that woman are what make me embarrassed to be an American sometimes. They make me cringe. Well, they make me do more than that actually. I think you know how much support you really do have and how many people enjoy and admire you. You’re a strong, intelligent woman and people recognize it. Crap like what that woman is spewing can get to you after a while. I’m glad you voiced it. Its so much easier to deal with out in the open and I’m sure that now that people are on the lookout for her kind of crazy she’ll actually be too scared to continue. Keep your chin up!

  626. I’m sorry this is happening to you. I don’t want to make you paranoid, but please be careful! Let’s hope her harrassment, while awful, is limited to cyberspace.

  627. Stephanie, all I can say is that you have my support and admiration. I hope this stops soon.

  628. I am a conservative christian,people like this give us all a bad name and I am proud of you for the way you are handling this don’t let the crazies get you down.

  629. I’m shocked beyond belief. I have heard people speak of “cyber stalking” but WOW. This is out of hand and I just saw some of the twitter posts from her. I have often worried about how people are more frequently using the internet to speak ill of others or to degrade themselves in some manner without concern for the consequences. It amazes me that she does this so freely and willingly.
    My prayers are with you and your family. If nothing else you have shown all of us that have blogs or other internet presence that we have to be ready in case of attack. Thank you for making this issue public. I know it was difficult but I have no doubt that it was necessary.

  630. As I an American myself, I’m embarrassed for this woman. And how dare she go so far as to assume that all Americans agree with her, because I am one who doesn’t! That’s pretty insulting to me. I saw you when you were in Los Angeles, you were fantastic. I don’t know what this woman’s gripe is, but isn’t she risking getting in trouble with the law?

  631. My love and thoughts are with you and your family. I wish you peace and strength.
    Thank you for the work you do — the positive, community-building yarn-related work, and the Canada Day work. As someone from the US, I’ve learned more about Canada from your posts than I ever did in school.
    I admire you, lady. Keep up the good work. You’ve got a whole host at your back.

  632. She gives Americans, Christians, and women in general a bad name. You are a trooper for putting up with her for this long. I think all of your loyal readers would be more than willing to just ignore her ignorance. It just amazes me the personal vendettas some people will go on. I mean, what is she really hoping to accomplish? Bring down your “empire”? Slander your well established name? Honestly, some people…

  633. I am so sorry that you’re having to deal with this nitwit who has chosen to serve as a shining example of the Ugly American. Please remember that the majority of us love you dearly and would love to have you over for dinner sometime. If your bully must get Biblical about it, I’d reminder that you reap what you sow.
    Thank you for maintaining Grace under Fire.

  634. The U.S. just like any other country has its share of crazies. I won’t apologize for them. What really embarrasses me is that this person is a knitter. I have been reading your blog for quite awhile and you are well traveled on the high road. Keep it up. I hope the incredible show of support reflected in the comments helps.

  635. Wow, it takes all kinds eh?
    I’m sorry you have to deal with this, but I’m really glad it’s not stopping you from what you do best. (Well fourth best after knitting, parenting and of course “rescuing” your husband!)
    And your parenting? I often find myself wondering WWTYH do in both knitting and parenting situations!
    Keep on keeping on – and come East again soon!

  636. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. I just want to also say that I am an American knitter, and she is giving (some of us) a bad name. Your blog is the only knitting blog I read, keep up the great work even in the hard times!

  637. Wow, her emails/comments are horrifying – they made me gasp out loud, I can only imagine what you’re NOT sharing with us. I’m truly sad that your generosity has inspired such malice. I’ve always thought of your blog as this amazing gift that you share with all of us, and me and my family of muggles has enjoyed reading it for years.
    I hope sharing this does indeed give you some relief, as I can only imagine how stressful the last month of this must have been.
    Peace, Love & Light always

  638. Sorry you are having to deal with this. I read your blog every day and comment very rarely. I have never been offended, however I am English and living the the US. I do realize that some people in the US have a different sense of humour.
    If someone reads something on your blog, which for some reason they do not like, why do they keep reading???

  639. sorry that this happened to you Stephanie..I know that if there were more people like you and less people like her, the world would be a better place, no matter which countries you were living in at the time. I would trust you to babysit my kids if I had any, because I can tell that you are a good person through and through. And pllleeeaasssee don’t let her even touch your self esteem for one second. And seriously..what has SHE accomplished that is so great that she can be critisizing you..I would bet alot of money on the answer to that being ..nothing.

  640. I too was SO afraid you were going to shut down the blog – thank you for hanging with it because it always starts my day out right when I click on the bookmark (right on my home page!) and find you have posted an entry. I love your humor.
    I also love your pride in your country – too many Americans think Canadians are just poor relatives to them. So I thank you for posting your Canada Day musings! (My SIL is from Calgary.)
    I was also so very impressed by your daughter and her boyfriend’s dedication to their project! Wow, I thought at the time, how many parents are able to raise their children to care about others! These days teenagers are so focused on themselves, it is so refreshing to see these two young adults focused on others. You and your husband have done a great job!
    Hang in there. I love the point about the Sock Summit – sure, you’re being shunned. Right. That’s why people were fighting and angry about not getting a ticket!
    US citizen – expat in Thailand – supporting you all the way (oh, and conservative Christian who cannot believe the poster has any idea of what Christ actually taught!)
    Riki in Bangkok

  641. I’m so very sorry that you’re being trolled. My household loves your blog and your books. We think you are smart, funny, and humane. I was very sorry to miss your last visit to Seattle (although I made up for it (in my heart) by giving your appearance a really enthusiastic blurb on the metblog.) I hope Seattle was good to you!

  642. Stephanie, you are a good, strong, wise woman. I support you wholly. Thank you for being who you are.
    Love, Jill

  643. Stephanie, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I love your blog and you can’t help the crazies. You are loved and appreciated by many, including me. I’ll think some happy thoughts and well wishes up north to you and your family.

  644. Stephanie, You’ve done a brave thing, and I’m sorry for the abuse you’ve taken. Keep your chin up and keep doing what you do best. Your humanity shines through. Love, Dani in Texas

  645. Oh Steph, I’m sorry to hear this is going on. Try not to worry about her. Just keep doing the right thing and eventually she will disappear. Poor thing, she really does sound miserable.
    Take care, Steph. We love you. 🙂

  646. Like many others I am a lurker coming out of the shadows 🙂 Just wanted to say that you are awesome! I love your books and reading your blog is something I always look forward to. I hope all this is resolved to a point you are happy with and soon! I recently dealt with a horrible person that treated me like crap through e-mail too. It really sucks. You are truly the bigger person for not responding as she says you are.

  647. Many hugs Steph! There seems to be an outbreak of this sort of thing right now. G-d only knows why. Keep on keeping on —
    an American Jewish lurker fan

  648. Sounds like a great plan!
    I think you are funny, a sensible and good parent, have a lovely family and I enjoy reading both your blog and your books.
    I have never heard you put anyone down because of nationality, religion or any other characteristic. So I do not understand this person and I’m with you in not feeding her obvious need for attention.

  649. Just adding my support! There’s no accounting for people sometimes. I cannot even begin to imagine how anyone could think you were anti-american, or that… No, there’s just too much that’s too impossible to understand. Thank you for being a force for good in this world! I hope this woman gets the help she needs to also become a force for good, for building relationships and for peace, rather than this tearing down she’s so focused on. –Sydney, in Oregon

  650. Sending you lots of love and virtual beer (wish it could be real).
    I hope all our positive thoughts help release her from this hate-on she’s got going.
    Stay strong.

  651. As another American Christian, I’m mortified that this woman claims to be representative of us all.

  652. I have to say, if either party is acting like Jesus here, it’s you. 😉 Keep up the good work.

  653. I can’t believe some people – the ignorance and downright nastiness people can get away with these days boggles the mind. From one proud Canadian to another, you keep doing your thing – obviously enough of us love you that our praise will drown out the one or two naysayers. 🙂

  654. Just wanted to send you my support.
    I’m sorry that this happened to you.
    I was on the receiving end of something like this a year or so ago – and it was pretty confidence shattering. Don’t give up. Keep writing. Don’t let her get to you. You are great. Hugs to you.
    xx

  655. Another supporter for you in California. Keep up your good work! Love your blog, read it every day you post and love your books too. Keep doing what you do and don’t let the b**** get you down!

  656. Dearest Harlot, I’ve been an avid reader (of blogs and books) for a number of years, and I’m *so* sorry for this wretchedness! Your bravery is commendable, your respect — something to be emulated by all. Your fabulous sense of humor enlivens and lightens my day, and I (like many others) am terribly grateful for your voice. I’m sending you light, love, and peace. Hang in there, Steph. –Emily, in Massachusetts

  657. Stephanie, I just found this woman’s blog and just so you know, she has a history of doing this. Actually, I have a folder of harassing emails from her to me on my computer. For doing nothing. So just know that she’s just a sad person and go on with your life. She’ll find another victim. Or, contact the authorities and have her investigated for harassment. If you need more proof I’m happy to share my emails.

  658. Great Googly Moogly! Stay strong and keep up the great work. I’m sorry you’re going through this, just know that so many of us have your back.

  659. Your posts have made me smile almost daily, laugh out loud on occasion, and even snarf once or twice.
    For the fact that you have done that – while putting up with I-have-no-idea-what weirdness – I sincerely thank you.
    (And, I can’t think of a single time I’ve ever been offended.)

  660. I’m speechless! How awful. As with other previously posted Christian Americans, I’m behind you 100%. Keep up the great work. Luv your Canadianess. {{{{HUGS}}}}

  661. I’m another female, American, liberal, godless heathen and I think you are handling this so much better than I would. I’m from smack dab in the middle of the bible belt and we seem to breed teh crazy here, I’ve dealt with it in person as well as online and I know how bad it sucks. I have to echo what some other people have commented: report her to her ISP, they won’t like it that one of their customers is using their service to harass someone.
    I love your Canada Day posts, I learn more about Canada in them than I did the entire time I was in school.

  662. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. You are doing a fine job being a grown-up about the whole thing. Stay strong, keep the faith.

  663. I am so sorry that this is happening to you. You have enough stress on your plate without someone else adding to it. I am an American and a Christian who happens to be a liberal, and I am embarrassed and saddened not only by what this person has said but in how she has hounded you. I’m so sorry that you and your family are going through this.

  664. Stephanie, your post today moved me to tears. As someone who has also experienced a similar situation, I understand how easy it is to let it get to you and obsess over it. I truly admire you for you grace and compassion. Your blog is a bright spot in my day. Stay safe!
    And as someone has already pointed out, if I remember my geography lessons correctly, Canada, the US, Mexico, Brazil, Peru, Chile, Argentina, Panama, etc. are all part of America.

  665. I don’t comment often, because it’s not in my nature, but I’m really very very sorry that someone is doing this to you 🙁 I’m not the most patriotic American, but I saw absolutely nothing “anti-American” in anything you’ve ever written (and given the political climate I’ve lived in for the last 8 years, I can smell anti-American from a mile away!)
    You are a wonderful person. Since I don’t comment, I never told you that reading your blog, then Knitting Rules, are two of the things that made knitting a deep part of my life, instead of just a fringe act.
    Hate sucks. I can’t imagine the pressure you’re under right now but know that there may be one whacko out there, but there are thousands — maybe even tens of thousands — of us out there that love you and are grateful to you.

  666. In a world of hurting people and situations, I’m sorry you’re another person that is being hurt. As many have said here, that person is not representative of all US citizens.
    And there’s a group of us in I-O-W-A that adore you, will feed you lots of fresh veg, cold home brews, and ply you with delicious yarn (pun intended).

  667. Thanks to all of the American coming out of lurk-dom to support our favourite Canadian knitter. Stephanie, I read your blog all the time (and sometimes read posts twice LOL).
    I feel sorry for this woman and think it’s pretty clear that she’s in the middle of some kind of a breakdown. I’m sorry you’re the target of her delusions, that must be so scary, especially since you’re a public figure. OMG is the the one who said you shouldn’t drink beer in public?
    Hugs, be assured we love you and respect the hell out of you. May squirrels attack her stash 😉
    xox from Winnipeg

  668. Another American here to say that you are wonderful. You make me laugh, inspire me to creativity, and generally make me happy to be alive and able to knit. I’d say the majority of American knitters have fallen in love with you and, well, there’s bound to be some haters out there. There always are. Hopefully this outpouring of support from your fanbase has fortified your confidence, (especially in true American values such as RESPECT, EQUALITY, and FREEDOM.) Proud to be an American who loves The Yarn Harlot!

  669. well clearly some one is completely coo coo.
    hope to see you at the summit.

  670. I am so sorry that this happening to you! Being harassed in any way disrupts your life and will haunt you long after it ends. Please don’t take this crazy as a representative for your southern neighbors. She is not only being a terrible example of an American and Christian, but a human being in general. I hope the hurt and hate goes away soon and you are able to resume your life.

  671. As an Atheist Australian living in the US, I have to say, I’ve come across far more people like those posting in your blog today/this evening – they might not share my political/religious/social views or country affiliation, but they’d defend to the death my right to have those views. They understand that that ideology is the bedrock of the US nation and constitution.
    The mentally unstable few, very few, do not speak for the majority.
    So very glad you’re not, as an Australian politician said, letting the bastards get you down! (Where bastards does not equal someone from the US, but rather the mean and the deranged).
    Knit On!

  672. This person is giving crazy a bad name, and I’m terribly sorry she’s chosen you as her target.
    I’ve honestly never seen any of your posts as anti-anything, except perhaps anti-stupidity & short sightedness, and well, I tend to agree with those ones.
    You, Steph, rock. I don’t think that knitting (and certainly not sock knitting) would have had half its renaissance without people getting their daily dose of Harlot.
    Hang in there, and remember that for the one f*cked up person out in cyberspace who’s got a wild hair for you, there seem to be a large number of people who disagree.

  673. I’ve read your blog for years and have found you to be only the following:
    Intelligent
    Well spoken
    Kind to others
    A fabulous knitter
    Witty
    Generous
    I think you have handled things so well. Best of luck in the future….

  674. I wanted to put my two cents in and give you my support. While I don’t always agree with your views on the world (knitting on the other hand I take your advice whole heartedly), as a true American I support your right to not only have those views but express them as well.
    Don’t let a rotten apple get to you.

  675. As a long time reader and first time poster I wanted to do something positive to support you. Therefore, in tribute to your kind heart and gentle spirit, I have written a check to Doctors Without Borders.

  676. Oh, Stephanie. Huge hugs to you. Hang in there. Hold your head up. Be brave. Know that most of us down here in the U.S. love you. Hugs.

  677. I agree with all the love in the above comments and would like to add a little humor. To be call a pussy is actually quite a compliment. A soft, warm, life giving, love making, center of the universe is exactly what you are to all of us!
    Oh, and when we someday become the American Union of Countries; I will elect you Chancelor of Fiber, Empress of Needles and Hostess with the Mostest (Beer Queen).
    Kisses from Texas, AKA BioBetty on the Rav

  678. wow. i don’t even know what to say, i am shocked by this person’s behavior. especially coming from a knitter, but overall just from a supposed human being. thank you for writing this post and letting us send you virtual hugs to help you through this icky time. i do hope a)this is resolved very soon; b) she gets a life and leaves you alone.

  679. Stephanie,
    I hope you can take the time to read all the encouraging responses to this post.
    I learned a long time ago from my grandmother to take the high road and totally ignore a person who acts the way this one is acting. There is nothing more devastating to them than to be treated as if they don’t exist.
    Please take the shields of positive thoughts we offer you to absorb her negativity. Also, please remember she is only one of millions of Americans as well as one of millions of Christians.
    Now get on with that work you do so well, bringing smiles and inspiration to the world.

  680. Stephanie,
    I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Please know that we love you and appreciate you and your blog! I wish I could help! I doubt this person is really a knitter, and if she is, she probably knits really ugly stuff that no one likes or thanks her for.
    xoxo
    Maggie

  681. From looking at her blog (which wasn’t that hard to find through Google,) I believe she is a person who suffers from manic depression and/or some other mental illness. Unfortunately, you have become a focus for her latest episode. Keep her posts and emails for your records and document everything, just in case.
    I also support your request that we should not respond to her. It will only feed into her paranoia, as evidenced by her reaction to you when people comment on her blog. I hope that everyone here takes a moment to pray/hope that she gets the help she needs soon. Mental illness is an insidious thing. I wouldn’t wish it on my greatest enemy.

  682. Ma’am, I’m sorry completely that she’s doing this to you. I’ve read your Canadian day posts and have no idea where she’s getting the anti American stuff. Please know that not all conservative Christian Americans are not like this at all. Praying for you from GA

  683. I haven’t even finished the post and her use of ‘we’ and ‘us’ disgusts me. Everyone is allowed their own opinion but that is not opinion, that is just hate. It is nasty and completely childish and a good christian, like she claims to be, would never, ever say something like that. As a Minnesota native I love having neighbors to the north! I love your Canada Day posts because I get to learn a little bit more about another country’s culture. Please keep up your fabulous work and for the record, you are not irrelevant. You basically have the knitting industry’s version of the ‘Oprah Touch’.

  684. Stephanie, I am so sorry this has happened to you. I am an American Christian, and I can tell you that this person is no Christian. “You will know them by their fruits.” In addition, I want to tell you that your little book, At Knit’s End, helped me through the most horrenduos time of my life. I read a little every day, got a laugh, and also appreciated the quotes! I still read parts of it frequently. I have called up friends in trouble and cheered them up when they needed it most. Keep up the blogging, the writing and everything else you do so well!

  685. Love the blog, love the books. You’ve been incredibly patient.
    You seem to have subscribed to what my grandma used to tell us, “If you can’t say anything good about somebody, better to say nothing at all.” Too bad that simple courtesy has been forgotten by some.
    Unfortunately someone seems to be perpetuating the image of the “ugly American.”

  686. I met you briefly at a book signing outside of Nashville once, but I’ve only lurked on your blog all these years. I’m posting today to let you know that I fully support you and your position.

  687. And what the hell is a ‘respectable knitter’. Aren’t we all respectable?

  688. Stephanie,
    I am so sorry that someone is doing this to you – you don’t deserve it. I am a Christian American and I do not in any way, shape, or form, share her views. Keep on writing what you write and making me laugh. I don’t care how you were married or by who and I most certainly do not care that you are Canadian. You are a knitter, a wife, a mother, and quite simply a person and that is all that matters.
    Oh, and for the record, my big strong husband who judging from the photos you have posted of Joe is every bit as big as he is – managed to get our tractor – yes you read that correctly – our tractor – stuck in the snow this past winter and had to ask me to come out and help him get it unstuck. The story about Joe getting his truck stuck in the snow definitely riveled the story about you getting locked out of your hotel room in your panties and a t-shirt. I laughed until I had tears running down my face and then I read it to my husband who laughed just as hard.
    Ignore her – you are among friends, American, Canadian, Christian, Atheist, agnostic, whatever – you are among friends.
    Kim

  689. I just wanted to add that this lady really sounds like she’s very fragile. I think you should be careful and also go to the police. There is no telling what some people will do – especially when hundreds of people are calling them crazy in a public forum. I think she needs someone to help her – and she must be feeling some big stuff right now as well. I think it’s important to tell the police so that they can help everyone.

  690. I’ll just join all the rest of the lurkers in de-lurking to voice my support. Thanks for your great writing; it always makes me smile.

  691. This person is a poor example of:
    1. A Christian
    2. An American
    3. A knitter
    4. A blogger
    5. A human
    so sorry Steph. How embarrassing an awful to have to deal with this. We love you. You have done the right thing. 🙂

  692. I really enjoy reading your blog, tweets and books. Please keep them coming and don’t get discouraged. What you do matters to so many. I have always found you to be kind, inspiring, positive and humorous.
    Much love from California.

  693. Just have to chime in that you are a lovely, funny, gracious, creative, generous person, both in writing and in real life, and I’m sorry this person has been tormenting you and hope they get some help with their own personal issues, whatever those may be. Because certainly, none of this is due to you at all. I also agree that you should go to the police – the mention that they know where you live, know who your publisher is, etc, is very alarming and needs to be taken seriously.

  694. As a woman, a wiccan, and an american, I am appalled at this behaviour (<—see what I did there?). I thought the troll on my blog was bad, but this takes the cake. I caved and stopped posting, but I am *very* glad that you will continue to post and to allow comments. Thank you. When I read posts on other people’s blogs, I click away and let it go if I find it upsetting or silly or disagreeable. I never see the good in wasting energy trying to rile someone. I hope your troll will find a more wholesome application of her energy, and soon!
    All my canadian friends were very impressed when I wished them happy Canada Day this year. Your post reminded me.
    I hope you will be safe at Sock Summit in your handknit Kevlar vest… that is your stealth project, right???

  695. Wow, that is a whole lotta mental illness right there.
    I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this. Is it possible to mark her as a spammer somehow? I know that Shapely Prose bans commenters when necessary, though I don’t know if they have any trolls as obsessive as yours.
    Hang in there and enjoy the sock summit.

  696. (((hugs)))
    from someone who understands that when my husband says he thinks buxom brunettes are pretty he doesn’t mean petite blonds are ugly. 🙂
    rita n/

  697. It’s behavior and attitudes like that which give Americans such a poor reputation around the world. She should be ashamed.
    I think you’re fantastic– please keep on keepin’ on. We love ya!

  698. My dearest Stephanie
    Thank you for bringing this horrible problem to the attention of all of us who read your blog, regularly or irregularly. It is much better to defy the intent of a person like this by shedding light on the situation. It must have been difficult to do that, but the huge volume of supportive commentary is evidence of how much you are esteemed by so many in the fiber world.
    Like you, I have a chorus of “bad voices” telling me how bad I am, how worthless, that someone wouldn’t say like that unless there really were something wrong with me, etc, ad infinitum, ad nauseam.
    I have a new tactic with those voices; I teach them songs that I love. So, whenever I hear those negative things in my head, I tell them to sing (whatever song I feel like at the moment). I’m sure you have had a tune stuck in your head. My friend, Peg in Kensington (of the comments), says we need a product called “Tune Be Gone” if someone would only invent it! My technique takes advantage of that tendency, it sticks a beloved tune in your head instead of the negative voices. Amazingly, I find it wonderfully effective. Give that a try.
    This person isn’t playing with a full deck. For that, I pity her. There (sort of), but for the grace of God, go a number of us, or we would go if it were not for modern medications. Thank God for the people who developed those meds! However, don’t let it go without doing what you can for your own defense and that of your loved ones.
    M. Scott Peck wrote a book called “People of the Lie.” Its premise is that there should be a new diagnosis in the book the therapists use, the diagnosis of evil. It is a compelling book and makes some very good points, although the last chapter, if I remember correctly, goes a bit off the rails, to my mind. But I have seen people who fit that description, and it is scary. Peck was not only a writer and therapist, he was a Christian and tried to bring faith into therapy where appropriate. He also wrote “The Road Less Traveled.”
    MOST IMPORTANT
    A fair number of people in the comments have suggested, rather firmly, that you bring in the authorities. I CONCUR. Do not wait. Do not pass GO. Go directly to the authorities on BOTH sides of our common border. Even better, you should go to the authorities with a LEGAL PROFESSIONAL at your side and in your corner. You MUST protect yourself and your family. Do not assume that she will always remain “safe”. There’s an old New York saying, “In New York, paranoia is a survival skill.” Sometimes, that’s true in Toronto, too.
    Dear Lady of the Knitting Needles,
    Stay safe, be kind to yourself and those around you. So many of us do love and admire you. We would have your back, were it physically possible. On a spiritual level, we’re there, Harlot, we’re there.
    May God bless you and keep you, both now and forever more.
    dee near Berkeley

  699. Stephanie-
    As a proud Christian-American, I am so very sorry that this evil person has been harassing you to the extent that she has been. That’s what it’s been, harassment!!! That behaviour is reprehensible. I hope that you know just how much we love and respect you and enjoy your writings!!!

  700. Dang, I must not read your blog carefully enough — I missed all your anti-American comments 😉
    That woman has some severe problems. As awful as it is to have to deal with her, think how awful it must be to BE her. Makes me cringe.
    I love you for taking the high road (as you always do). {{{hugs}}}

  701. Her emails and comments say far more about her than they do about you. You have behaved honorably and I totally support you. She is obviously a very unhappy person, and if she’d spend half as much time on working through her issues as she does flaming you and giving you a hard time then maybe there would be some hope for her. Maybe.

  702. Please, as another computer security geek, please take this seriously. Keep hard and soft copies of everything. Communicate with her ISP as many times as it takes. Keep your ISP provider in the loop. Set up as many filters as necessary. And please, please make sure not only your local police are aware, but since you are so publicly traveling, let the local leos know in cities you will be (hint, hint, SS09) in for extended periods. Just because she has a history of this, that doesn’t mean she may not become dangerous. Especially if your fans do as you ask (and seem to be doing) by ignoring her, her comments and her blog. Please stay safe.
    And I can’t imagine anyone with more grit than we women of Texas (you don’t MESS with Texas Women!), and frankly she doesn’t speak for me or anyone I know, or would care to know.
    (delurking for the very first time, but just felt compelled to insist this really is a serious issue)

  703. You are so much a better person than I am. I have always believed that anonymous pot shots are lower than whale poop, and getting even is not good enough – one up is much better. You could let us know who she is. Then the wrath of the good knitting goddesses would be able to come down on her with all their pointy little sticks, make voodoo dolls for dropped stitches and super wash skeins with a million knots that could not be spit spliced together, lost pattens for ufo’s, and general knitting mayhem for all her projects could be sent her way.

  704. P.S – A “true” christian woman would be like any woman, man or human with any sense of humanity – they would have compassion and love in their heart, not batsh*t crazy.

  705. How appalling. I’m impressed at the grace & maturity with which you’ve handled this; I can tell you, I don’t think I’d be able to deal with it as well as you have. Thanks for being even more inspiring than normal!

  706. I’m very sad that this women used the pronoun “we” in this message. Her views represent none of my American, Christian, knitter!!’s views.
    BUT, and this is an important but, the comment count before I post this was 767, and seems to be going up so quickly. I think that it’s safe to say that we, your supporters, those who love your work, are the far greater “we”. Reading your post, I was so worried that you might say that you were ready to stop posting to the blog. I’m so happy that you’re sticking with it. I (and I think that I can also say “We”!) are with you all the way.

  707. Good for you! I’ve read your blog religiously since I discovered it a few months ago. I’m American and have never felt any anti-Americanism from you. Good luck with the whole situation. Try not to let it get to you.

  708. A month? No one deserves to be treated that way! I am speechless at such bad behavior. It does not fall under the creed of “do unto others as you would have done to you…” I hope you take whatever actions are necessary to protect yourself and your family. I will be praying for you and yours.

  709. I’m so very sorry for you and your family (waaaay inappropriate for her to go there).
    Keep up all the good work. I wonder how much good she could accomplish if she redirected her energy. and yes, get some legal advice — if she does tire of going after you, she may direct her attention to someone else, and I’m betting you wouldn’t wish that on them. best wishes from Seattle.

  710. I am an infrequent poster, but I read your blog daily and buy your books. I am very sorry that this is happening — it has very little to do with you. I admire the way you are handling it. BTW, I am a proud American who is not always proud of Americans’ behavior. I know that you won’t hold that against us! Lots of love for you here in Cali!

  711. Steph,
    I have to say I’m not really surprised by all of this. I saw a comment a few days ago that was insanely insulting but was removed. So I figured something had to be up. I can’t imagine being on the receiving end of this kind of bile, hatred and rants. It’s easy to say, just ignore it, but it’s hard to actually do so. That inner voice knows exactly what to say to erode our confidence.
    What is most distressing to me is that this lone individual has decided that they are the voice of America and that they speak for all Americans. As an American citizen I am embarrassed by this individual. As I’m sure many other Americans are as well.
    This could not have been easy for you, or your family. But I think what you have done is the right thing to do. The truth will set you free and you have brought this out in the open so there is no doubt to what this person is doing. She is seeking attention, she is looking for reactions, from you as well as from us. To all of Stephanie’s supporters, we best serve Stephanie by not engaging this person.
    Time will heal these wounds. You are an incredible person who is surrounded by love and support. Keep knitting, keep writing all those stories that we love to hear about. One of these day we are gonna get you to come down for a book signing with the Buffalo Knitting Guild. Then I’ll take you out for a beer after that.
    Vince

  712. Yet another lurker coming to say that I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this. It’s not right or remotely excusable. And it’s pitiful that being proud of your own country is being taken/portrayed as anti-American.

  713. Oh Steph… I am so so sorry that this crazy person (seriously, she’s gotta be nuts) has learned how to use the Internet and has fixated on you. I’m glad that you’ve blocked her IP, and I hope that you no longer have to hear anything from or about her ever again.
    Please take care.

  714. Stephanie, I’m sorry. I wish there was something I could do. But know that I support your position a hundred thousand percent. I hope there is some way to eliminate the pain and anxiety this person has caused you. good feelings sent your way.
    Love and compassion, peace and hope.

  715. Man that really sucks that you are being tormented like that. Is there a possibility that the offender might have a mental condition? Not that that is any excuse.
    Keep being awesome!

  716. Oh, bless your heart. I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through such an ordeal. You have millions of fans in the USA of which I am one. May you find many things to give you some comfort at such a time. I recommend a good bottle of port, dark chocolate, knitting, etc. Okay, not all at the same time as the chocolate can get messy on the yarn and a bottle of port can make for interesting stitch patterns. You know what I mean though–be extra kind to yourself.

  717. Good lord. Some people take their right to express their opinions to a whole other level (it’s also people like this that have been the reason that i’ve held on to my Canadian citizenship so long even though i’ve lived in the states all of my life. Which is sad because i actually LOVE this country too)

  718. After skimming through the comments, I have two words: beer pudding.
    Seriously, though, sending light your way from Kansas. It is lightning bug season, so I’m picturing a jar of pretty bugs like I used to have on my dresser as a kid. 🙂

  719. I think the person in question should read the beginning of your piece on Canada Day written last year (2008). You said it nicely: celebrating Canada Day does not make you anti-American…”nuff said!
    Steph, take heart, move on, keep knitting!

  720. Wow…so much to say but really should not. What a lot of stress, on top of an already stressful time. I hope this person finds a better way to channel her energy. I hope you get some sleep.

  721. I feel sorry for her, that she would sink to such levels! I hope that you will have quiet soon and that she will grow tired of such nonsense.

  722. #%()^#%! I am so sorry. I have a blog on which I do not reveal my identity or location other than what state I live in, and sometimes I think I should loosen up and just out myself. Then I read stuff like this. Scary. Have you considered requiring commenters on your site to register? That might keep some of the nasties from getting through. Again, I am so sorry you’re having to deal with this.

  723. First off, I would like to say that the word “cunt” is the worst insult in the American language. Not that that uneducated cretin of a human being would know that.
    Second, she is either mentally ill, or you have a case of Trollitis. Trollitis is very hard to cure, but can be combated with several doses of LOLcats.
    Third, you, Stephanie, are made of seven (SEVEN!) different kinds of Awesome. And this is coming from an American.
    Last, this is some advice comming from a computer nut. There is a limited number of IP addresses available for use in the world, so every computer that is connected to the internet is sharing an IP with several others. As of right now, the cirrent IP Address system dosen’t allow for more.
    However, there is a record kept of every IP, and every computer that has used that IP. You can even find out her IP address from an email sent from her directly (as opposed from being sent with her comment). This is perfectly legal, by the way, seeing as how typing an IP address was used before the now common URL. With a few easy steps, you can have her new IP and block that too. You can even get all of her info (name, address, etc) as well.
    This way, when you turn all of this stuff over to the proper authorities (which you should do, dearie), you can even deliver the latest IP she used. In the US, what she is doing can be considered E-Terriorism which, as we all know, is a felony 🙂
    Love, Peace, and Chicken Grease!
    Abby, an American who loves Canadians (and their sexy “eh!”s)
    (PS. The fact that she has to get her “computer guy” to change her IP shows she’s not very smart. On top of that, everyone knows who your publisher is. They have to print that in every book they produce.)

  724. Bless you for your patience and forbearance. You have my support, for what it’s worth.

  725. Just adding my 2c worth – nutter and troublemaker. You don’t deserve this sort of treatment. It is she and those who agree with her who look very very bad in all this. Giving America a bad name.

  726. Just wanted to throw in a word of support from Oklahoma. It’s always best to take the high road – you will never regret behaving well – but please don’t turn away any offers of help to keep you and your loved ones safe.
    Come back and see us again sometime!

  727. Simply stop responding to anything she says. Trolls/stalkers/etc feed off responses. Ignore her, no matter how difficult it may be, don’t even say “I don’t wish to speak to you again”, etc. These people do not respond to courtesy or logic.

  728. Huge, protective hugs to you, Steph, if you get this far in the comments. It sounds like you’re doing all the right things to protect yourself.
    My email service doesn’t let any mail through with an address I haven’t pre-approved. You might want to look into something like that.
    We, the Blog, love and adore you. See you in a couple of weeks.

  729. Dear Stephanie:
    Cheers for you and the wonderful, mature, gracious way you are handling this awful situation. My heart goes out to you. I enjoy every thing you write. I am American and proud to be American, and so happy to read of your love for and pride in Canada.
    Stay safe, and know that this sort of nutcake does NOT represent knitters, Americans, or anyone else but herself. We love you Stephanie.
    See you at Sock Summit. I can hardly wait.
    Suzie

  730. In a strong effort to reverse the karma of this situation, I just went to the Doctors Without Borders website and made a donation.
    Maybe the positive will erase the negative.
    Take care!
    (P.S.- totally an American!)

  731. I’m an American, a “liberal” from Oregon. I’m sorry you have had to deal with someone who obviously takes their “freedom of speech” to such extremes; no one deserves or should have to be harassed so intensely. I look forward every year to your Canada Day posts, since I learn more and more about the great Country to the North (there are a few things I might even be jealous of!).
    Maybe something else will inflame her sensitivities and she’ll focus her hate somewhere else. (Or she’ll end up on a watch list). Stay strong!

  732. Stay Safe, both you and your family.
    And this is from what some of my southern US relatives refer to as the Canadian suburbs.

  733. Steph, I think you are amazing and an awesome person. I hope she goes away soon so you can put this all behind you.

  734. Well this lady is obviously off the deep end!! I can’t believe she would find your posts offensive and even if she did there is NO reason to be abusive. You are a talented, generous, and funny lady. There have been many days that your blog has given me a much needed laugh….so thank you for that! I hope you can let it go and find some peace in this situation!

  735. Another long time reader, first time poster emerging to chime in an encouraging word. Your website is the first I check in the morning and usually a second or third time just in case you post throughout the day. Hope this too shall pass and wishing you good beer and delicious sock yarn.

  736. Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry to hear about the experiences you are going through. I love your blog and I thank you for everything you have posted!

  737. I am so so very sorry that you have to deal with this. First of all, this is one of the biggest most blatant examples of what a Christian is NOT and why I personally don’t believe in organized religion. People who sit in a church for one hour a week but don’t live by the principals of the Bible cannot be called Christians. And I have never once seen you make anything close to an Anti-American remark.
    American girls don’t fight dirty, by the way. Dirty fighters are those who know they can’t win the fight any other way. American girls are kind, loving, and caring and don’t attack people unnecessarily.
    Lots of love, hugs, and support. Please don’t worry yourself about this too much. Please believe me when I tell you that this person does not speak for Americans nor does she speak for knitters. She most certainly does NOT speak for me and I’m beyond offended that she’s taken it on herself to do so.
    Best of luck resolving this situation. Please stay safe. Crazy people do crazy things. (P.s. I agree with you completely on the idea of using a slang term for a woman’s anatomy as a negative thing and I also am offended at the idea that a man should never need a woman’s help. You are an awesome wife, mother, knitter, woman, person, blogger, and whatever else you are that I’ve missed. Take care.)

  738. A lurker coming out to make her first post. A short story to share. Last year a knitting friend told me about the Yarn Harlot’s Blog. I didn’t realize there was more to the knitting world than needles, yarn and patterns. There was writing about knitting. I found your blog and started reading it from the beginning. I read and read, after reading for a while I realized I could knit while I read. What joy to find I could knit and read about knitting at the same time. Then I got caught up, I finally read the most recent post. You have no idea how disappointed I was to realize I now had to WAIT to read your next post. Heavy sigh. I continue to read your books, read your blog and knit. I hope to continue to read your writing and knit for a very long time to come. Stephanie, please continue to do what you do best, be the amazing person you are. Peace and love from MN, USA

  739. Stephanie,
    I am an American who thinks you are wonderful, insightful, funny, charming, kind, generous, and I could go on but I will keep this short. I support you. Keep on doing your thing. I will keep buying your books.
    -Laura

  740. Wow. That’s truly awful. I really enjoy reading your blog. I don’t agree with absolutely everything you say, but I don’t have to to enjoy your blog. and I do enjoy your blog. I’ll say prayers for you and the unfriendly person.

  741. I’ve been reading you for a few (many) years from Chicago, IL. You are ultra-fabulous. Nothing more need be said. ‘Pif to the wanker.

  742. Dear Stephanie
    Right this very moment, you are teaching me to be a better person.

  743. Hi Stephanie,
    Long time reader, first time commenter. As a rule I don’t ever read blog comments because they make me depressed about the human race. People hiding behind a moniker, spewing forth negativity because, well, I don’t know why, because they can? It’s all too much for me. It’s the reason I don’t have a blog and one reason I admire you for having one.
    I would not be able to deal with the attacks on character, opinion, and favorite flavor of ice cream. I have admired you since I first found you, lo those years ago, because you have such a wonderful level-headed sense of yourself and the world. This incident and the way you are handling it, unfortunate though it may be, concretes in my mind that you are an example of a fine human being and one that I will continue to look up to.
    I’m saddened that someone out there has taken it upon themselves to make you the center of their bizarre universe. Although I am immensely curious who it is I will not search for the culprit, will not feed the beast. I urge the other readers to also let their curiosity lie. We can do our part to not encourage negative behavior by not acknowledging it. Stephanie is the one who needs our support.

  744. Hi Stephanie. I’m sorry you’ve had to put up with this for weeks and that it has escalated to such a level. Please know that I genuinely appreciate you as a person, a knitter, a writer, a wife, and a mom. As you read the many comments that your friends and admirers leave for you, take them to heart. Be well and take care. We’re with you.

  745. Stephanie, you have the highest integrity and just an incredible amount of class to keep this from your readers. The stress you must be going through, between this person and working on Sock Summit would certainly drive me to a beer or two.
    We’re here for you. It’s a good thing I don’t know who this person is, because I’m rather protective of my Harlot.

  746. Dear lord! I work in mental health with some very sick, obsessive people, and I still find that horrific.
    I say screw them. If they’re so uninteresting that they have to get their yaya’s from being rude to other people, they’re not worth worrying about in the first place.

  747. You’re the Best, Sweetie, you always have been. I think your kids are great, wish mine was more like them. Lead on McDuff.. : )

  748. Honey, please, for your own safety and mental well-being (as well as ours – we worry about you!) contact your provider and seek legal help NOW.

  749. Carol posted on July 26th at 1:44a. Please please follow her advice. When people act like this, ignoring often works but this person does not seem to be mentally stable. Please take those extra steps to ensure your safety and that of your family.

  750. I’m yet another long-time reader/first-time poster, who wants to let you know that you are an amazing, talented, compassionate woman who doesn’t deserve this treatment. This woman obviously has a problem and she’s trying to make it yours. Please keep on doing what you are doing – giving SO much joy to SO many people. Hugs.

  751. Just another long-time reader offering you love and support. You are a terrific writer, you have had me laughing until I cried and crying until I laughed. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world. And for being a proud ambassador for Canada.

  752. I’m probably comment 56,824 but I felt that I should chime in too.
    I am from the US and I love my country, but people like this really make me ill. (However, this woman would probably think I’m some sort of traitor because I’ve lived in three other countries during my lifetime and I (GASP!) found positive things about each one.) In fact, one of the things I love about your blog is when you talk about Canada…I don’t feel any less American for knowing what Canada Day is, or a two-four, or poutine.
    You know this, but I can’t help but repeat it…she doesn’t speak for all Americans, nor American women, nor American Christian women.
    Peace…

  753. Rarely comment, but had to delurk to show support for you Steph! I was shocked at what you shared with us, and can’t imagine what she has said that you didn’t share. I must agree with those that have said it before, please PLEASE notify authorities there and wherever this insane woman is from.
    Much love from California!!

  754. Yet another long time lurker making a first time post–just for you! You’re my favorite. I’ve even read parts of one of your books out loud to my non-knitting mom who blushes when I say “harlot”. I’m not only a Christian American, but a proud military wife who is easily offended by anti-US sentiments. You’ve never offended me. Like I said, you’re my favorite.

  755. I love your books and your blog. You write with what I perceive as a very clear vision of human conduct and standards, knitterly or not, with humor and an understanding of the human predicament infused throughout. Thank you from the bottom of this next door neighbor nation woman’s heart. Go Canada!

  756. Thank you for bringing this to light. It sounds like you have been put through the wringer. In the same vein as the 800+ comments before mine, please know that for a great number of christian American women, you are wonderful just as you are. I love you dearly (although we’ve only ever met on the blog) and will follow your wishes for light, love, respect. How can that be wrong?

  757. Support, love, appreciation, and admiration coming from yet another conservative, Christian, knitting American (who also enjoys visiting your beautiful country on occasion!)

  758. You do not deserve this. You seem to me to be a wonderful, funny and down-to-earth person. Honestly? When I read your blog I want to be Canadian. Hang in there and please be safe.

  759. Steph, I haven’t commented in a while, but I read you always and love you. I’m a Christian American and I’m appalled at her behavior. {{hugs}} to you and I applaud you for taking the high road and leaving her in the gutter where she belongs.

  760. I am so sorry. People should not act that way. A good friend of mine says that when you get the wackos riled up you must be doing something right, but then he’s talking politics and you are talking knitting. You are a fabulous person and an inspiration on many levels beyond knitting. I love you for your lovely lefty-enviro-Canadian-ness
    Hang in there. Deep cleansing breaths.
    Sharon in Fairbanks AK

  761. Good grief, Stephanie. No one should have to put up with all that nonsense. Sending you positive thoughts.

  762. We don’t get much television. We receive our signals over the air, and since the digital conversion we get less than we used to.
    One program we are grateful to still be able to watch is Bill Moyers’ Journal on Friday nights. Last night’s show had a segment on health care, followed by a segment on the radio people who carry their negative, even hateful, verbiage onto the airwaves and into the bookstores. It talked about their desire to shock audiences, and the need to continually create more outrageous statements in order to continue to shock (because continuous shock only works if the amperage increases).
    I think this person has been taken lessons in rhetoric from those folks. (I call their talk “verbiage,” rather than opinions, because I’m not sure they *are* opinions, but are instead formulations of words set up to evoke a reaction).
    So sorry you have been having to deal with this.

  763. Another American delurking to say that I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As obsessed as I am with knitting, a big reason that I love to read your blog is that you are clearly such a good and kind person. Is there any chance that you can have someone else monitor your email and comments, or at least take turns with you? Someone needs to keep an eye on this person, but you must need a break. Take good care.

  764. Dear Stephanie, I am very sorry to hear that this is happening to you. That kind of behaviour should not be tolerated and should be reported to the authorities. Hope they can do something about this cyberstalker.
    For what it is worth. Perhaps the comments could be turned off to give yourself a break from monitoring them.
    (((Hugs)))

  765. I am an American. She does not speak for me. I read your blog every day, I love your books and buy them all. I admire you enormously and, as an American, apologize to you for her behavior.

  766. Never commented before and I have read for years. I am so sorry you have to go through this and I support you and your decision. Thanks for providing us all with so much of yourself.

  767. I am an American who is proud to have you as a neighbor, to own your books, to hear your talks, and to read your blog. I completely respect your pride for your country and I have learned more about it from you than I ever learned in school. Likewise, I am horrified by some of the things that have been said about your country by some of our elected officials. I am *not* a minority on this.
    I admire your restraint on this issue, and I hope that in private you are able to blow off some well-justified steam. You said yourself this feels unbalanced; it is. If you believe *any* of it, you’re letting her win. Stay strong, and take care.

  768. I can’t imagine how difficult this is for you and I’m so sorry that this is happening. Yesterday you said that your blog was boring and I didn’t write because it was such an outlandish thing for you to say, your blog is *divine*! It seems that something like this happens to a lot of stuff on the Internet. Maybe you could ask some people who have gone through the same thing and well, you’re famous, you know, and this is the danger.
    Anyway, thanks so, as always, for the books, I’ve read them all 3 times, they’re so comforting! Please take care of yourself. You have been working so hard on the Sock Summit, darn, I wish I could go.
    Take care,
    may

  769. I absolutely adore your blog and books. I’ve been a fan for years. I’m an American, but I’ve never been “insulted” by anything you’ve written. In fact, most of it makes me laugh so loudly that I scare the cats.
    Not so your post, obviously.
    What the woman doing is illegal and potentially dangerous, so please please please take the necessary steps to stop this stalking/bullying situation ASAP. Don’t go it alone; get the authorities involved and hit her with a swiftness.
    Be proactive, and remember that you’ve every reason to be angry, but you’ve no reason to be hurt. She’s damaged goods, so the “you” she perceives is not the “you” that the rest of us know and adore.
    Love ya to bits, Stephanie!

  770. Woah. Just..Woah. I am so sorry you had to go through this and I hope that this helps.

  771. I’m just adding a big “ditto” to what’s been said here. I know that a gazillion of us want to sound a red-alert and man the battle-stations for you. I sure do. But you’re right, Stephanie; that won’t help in this case.
    I will tell you, though, that I love your Canada Day posts. I love the way you love your country, and your city, and your family. I love that you are being so level-headed and and wise and generous about this.
    I’m proud to know you.

  772. Dear Stephanie,
    I am very sorry you have had to go though all this. I myself received an anonymous letter time ago accusing me of the most unbelievable things. I just ignored it. That is the best way to handle these people. Ignore her, delete her, screen your comments and NEVER let any of those hateful ones get through. One of your books was the first one I read in English about knitting and it was an inspiration. Hold on. You are Canadian, and though you are renowed for your courtesy, you are also known for being brave. Hugs.

  773. As hard as it may be you can’t let the crazy people in the world change you. Believe that the people who know you personally or only through your blog, know the real you and that the crazy person is so easyily identifiable as such and is not worth a moment more of any of our time.Know that your inspiration, wit and humor are all appreciated more than you can possibly know and that onje crazy individual will never change that…

  774. This has nothing to do with nation bashing, it’s all about crazy.
    Please be careful – Don’t stop writing – you are a role model of graciousness
    Do you think I can make a second sock in time for SS09?

  775. Greetings from Greece!
    Another long time reader of your blog and first poster. Keep up your good work – everyone is with you!

  776. OMG Steph! She is a very sorry sick individual & needs help…..She does not represent or speak for American Women, Conservatives or Christians!
    Thanks for the heads up!

  777. The vile, vicious comments from a deranged person does NOT represent my views and I am embarrassed for her and hope she seeks the mental health assistance she so clearly needs. I enjoy Stephanie’s postings so much – they are honest, genuine and sincere. Her humor that makes my day. Stephanie – Please know that you have a huge following of people who adore you for exactly who you are. Living in the Northwest, I have many, many dear friends who are Canadian – they are the best!

  778. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. Although I have never seen your books (they are rare in Australia), I have been reading your blog for a year or two, and have always enjoyed it. Have mucho hugs! And I agree with a few of these posts: go kiss Joe and hug your kids. We know you’re a fabulous parent.

  779. I’m so sorry. I think your blog readers as a whole will follow the best advice when dealing with this kind of issue:
    DNFTT.
    Do Not Feed The Troll.
    And yes, please contact the authorities in her community and let them know what is going on. Many US states have anti-stalking laws to prevent just this type of activity. You obviously have a well-documented trail to provide to them. Please do it. For your family’s sake, even if you don’t think you need to do it for yours.
    Sending lots of love and light from the US — and I’m a US citizen who loves your pride in your country, and has learned a huge amount from you about our close neighbor to the north!

  780. And another long time lurker (we should have our own abbreviation), from Britain. I love your blog. I am so sorry you have to put up with this sort of rubbish, in order for the rest of us to have something to enjoy so much. I hope all the commenters have given you enough mental armour (the right spelling if you’re British) to carry on.

  781. I’ve been trying to think of something to say that could possibly not be said…but dear lord. Just look at all these comments! I think someone already said what I was thinking pretty well so I will quote her: “Dear Stephanie
    Right this very moment, you are teaching me to be a better person.”
    *hugs*
    -Stacey, formerly the crazy money lady from San Francisco who has relocated to Los Angeles.

  782. Agreed – also delurking to say yes we’d certainly miss reading you but do you want a vacation? And then a period of comments turned off? And maybe another vacation after that? Good grief.
    And believe me I really mean the part about missing reading your blog. I would be a lonely knitter, an anomaly in my family and museum exhibit to my friends (all muggles), if one of the friends hadn’t said “Hey have you heard of the Yarn Harlot (*snicker ha ha*)?” Curiosity led me thereby to your site and all the knitting blog world, and most importantly to some very expensive yarn stores.
    So I hope you take care of yourself, and Enjoy Socks, and really thank you for your honesty, grace, and for exemplifying what this American, admires about Canadians: you take the high road. And be dommed to ’em.

  783. I want to keep this short and sweet – and although I am not sure you are still reading after over 850 comments:
    Be proud. Be safe. Be healthy. Be blessed.
    You are a great example of humility and patience.
    You children and family should be proud.
    (also, WHOOHOO! for music men. Mine is one too!)

  784. I’m so sorry you are on the receiving end of such venom. This person is seriously unhinged. Please take care. We are with you 100%.

  785. PLEASE know that this person in NO WAY represents Americans, Christians or any other decent human being!
    Thank you for being so gracious about this situation. Bless you <3

  786. Wow. Just wow. I’m so sorry you have to put up with this. This woman is why Americans pretend to be Canadian when they travel internationally!

  787. Just one more Christian American Knitting blogger who absolutely ADORES you….Steph, you are such a wonderful human! Never let the haters get you down.

  788. You are now, as you always are, the voice of reason. Another American, here, who loves your national pride and enjoys reading your Canada Day posts. We are neighbors, and our differences make us special. I will be hoping that this ugliness quietly resolves and you have peace again.

  789. I wish that I could make some kind of shield or magic talisman to keep crazy Internet people away, everyone knows that hackers are weak against magic.
    Since I haven’t got magic I’ll just send you all the positive vibes I’ve got.

  790. Dear Stephanie,
    Your blog entry was very disturbing to read, but want to thank you for sharing it, which must have been very hard. Please do whatever you need to in order to stay safe and preserve peace in your life. I thank you for all the humor, good sense, and knitting inspiration that you have given us through your bog and books and tweets. Sending love and appreciation from Ohio.

  791. Stephanie,
    As a very conservative American I am mortified by this person’s behavior. I may not agree with you on everything, but I love reading your blog and your books. This person has obviously gone round the bend, and does not deserve your concern. If there were one iota of truth in those nasty accusations you would get 800+ positive comments to this post.
    Personally I love your Canada Day posts. It is good for someone to be patriotic towards their own country, and to share their love as well.

  792. Although I read this blog daily and own every book you’ve written this will be my first comment.
    The tone that you use when you write about your trips to America have always been filled with respect, excitement, and joy for the country and the people. That is a true fact and not an opinion.

  793. Here’s another American woman wishing you all the support and peace in the world.
    Two things:
    1. I am in full agreement that “pussy” should not be used as an insult, and it’s not even that bad. I can think of lots that are worse without even resorting to obscenities!
    2. So something good will come of this, I will be making an additional donation to Doctors Without Borders this month in addition to my automatic monthly contribution.
    Tranquility to you.

  794. I had to delurk for this… I’m proud to have you as a neighbor to the north.
    Expressing pride in one’s country in the manner you did is no insult, to my country or any other. Never let the ‘hmm-hmms’ get you down!

  795. Hugs from England. Can’t do anything about the nutters except ignore them.
    We know you and you’re brilliant and clever and kind and witty and we wouldn’t be without you.

  796. My mouth was hanging open in shock while I read this post. I’ve never seen anything remotely anti-American in your blog! I am an American, and I love you. Your posts have improved my day on many occasions, your knitting inspires me to improve my own skills, and I’ve filed away some of your parenting stuff for future reference. I think you are a wonderful, kind, and fun person, and you don’t deserve anything that she said. You are an inspiration to me. Oh, and Joe’s a great guy too. Musicians are NOT worthless by any measure.

  797. Nothing more to say than this woman is crazy, and that you are a stronger better woman than I am. Please stop even reading her emails, and get legal help.
    Now go have a beer or 3!

  798. Go knit yourself something, and forget about this nut job. Life it too short to waste precious knitting time on her.

  799. The woman is clearly a dickhead. I’m sorry she has made you the target of her utter boredom.

  800. I enjoy every single post but rarely comment. So sorry to read you have to go through all this! Hope you can achieve that peace, and all your energy can be directed to the things and people you love!

  801. I wonder how she feels about Australians???
    Unbelievable. You’ve had to deal with all this while knitting the blanket that’s been boring you silly. What did you do in a previous life that has made all this happen?

  802. HI! You know what EZ would say:
    Knit on with confidence and hope, through all crises!
    You are a shining example of grace under pressure. Take care of yourself and your lovely family, I would love to have you all over for supper some day.

  803. She’s clearly insane.
    How awful that you’ve had to endure this. Can’t you file a restraining order of harrassment against her? (I apologize if this has already been suggested… I didn’t read through the comments already posted.)

  804. I’ve been reading your blog daily, have all your books, but have never commented. You’ve been my knitting hero for a long time, but today you’re just plain my HERO. Thank you for all the time you put in and everything you do. Hope all the love all these wonderful people are sending your way helps. You don’t just shine a light – you ARE one

  805. When you said you had blocked her from the blog but was still receiving her email, my initial thought was to advise you to block her from you email too. Then, at 9:22, Jan said, “I beg you to be very, very careful of this person’s behaviour. I urge you to make a statement to police to protect yourself and the ones you love. Trying to disengage from this type of behaviour may lead her to even great efforts to reach you, at any cost. Please consult a lawyer as well, to see if you can get a restraining order…. Please, please be very careful.” and changed my mind. She might be able to tell that you blocked her on your email so set up a file specifically to direct her emails to and then don’t read them! Save them for evidence but you don’t need the negative energy but might need them for a suit for cyber-bullying.
    You are a bright, lively and well-loved woman. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with the rest of us.

  806. Love, Light and Respect? Sounds like my weirdo godless religion! (I’m a proud Unitarian). Hoping your annoyance goes away soon.

  807. Agree totally with the comment from Katie (ab ove). I have known many Americans over the years, and they are – mostly – normal lovely people. Why should she think that because you love your country (a wonderful place) that you hate America? She sounds sick and in need of help. You need to see a lawyer – I’m sure there are anti-stalking laws in Canada and the States. Meanwhile – the best of British! Go have that beer or three.

  808. Stephanie, i am so sorry this has happened to you – can you call the police – if you know her identity – this is blatant harrasment and the fact that you blocked her and she got a new IP address to dodge the block is creepy 🙂
    Many hugs – i love your blog please don’t stop writing 🙂

  809. You are obviously dealing with an individual who is jealous of the life you portray so well on your blog who may or may not be mentally unwell.Either way being in the public eye makes you “fair game”, to some people. I have been reading your blog for years and really enjoy learning about aspects of your culture that are so different to ours here in Britian.Your knitting skills may leave me feeling inadequate at times but I dont feel the need to harangue you about it. I dont have any advice for you on how to deal with this situation but I would like to thank you for having the courage to continue with your blog providing the majority of us your readers with our “fix”.

  810. Grace & ethics under fire … well done!
    A previous comment mentioned making a KWB donation next pay day. I’m on board with that! Let’s channel this into something positive.
    Sorry … what were we talking about? There was something I wasn’t supposed to mention … oh well, couldn’t have been all that important.
    Seriously looking forward to SS’09!
    cheers.

  811. At first I could not believe what I was reading.
    Stephanie you are so brave. Sending support and lots of light from Vancouver. You’ll get through this.

  812. I find this appalling and just wanted to add my support for you and your family to that of everyone else. I am sure that wonderful family of yours and all your friends are being so supportive …. as are the people who read your books and blog.
    You talk about not adding fire to fire, would also suggest that a fire dies without oxygen, i.e. attention …… so if we all ignore this person, she will no longer have an audience.
    Would also add, hurtful and worrying as all of this is, none of it is really about you …….. it is all about her and speaks volumes about her inner world, which she is projecting out on to her chosen subject .. you. Remember that her view of you is just that – her perception and not how and who you really are.
    Thinking of you all and sending positive vibes across the pond.
    Sue

  813. Sending support from the sunny shores of California! Thank you for being an honest and humorous voice in the knitting community – keep on keepin’ on!

  814. I’m so sorry, that’s just horrible. You’re showing a lot of grace in a lousy situation and I’m sorry that you have to. Even in going into it here, you took the high road and that can be hard to do when dealing with the obnoxious and the ignorant. She sounds unbalanced, ill, delusional. Please do what you have to do to be safe and take care of your family. I know you have a lot of support so what’s one more voice, but know that there IS one more voice added to all the others, pulling for this to blow over.

  815. As a Christian and an American, I’m embarassed and saddened by this person who continues to harass you. She’s a sad little woman who must think so little of herself that she has to bring you down with her. Please don’t believe her ridiculous lies.
    As a customer service rep for websites where we got our share of crazy fanatical emails from people who had nothing better to do, I can only say that it was bound to happen sooner or later.
    Please keep thorough record of everything written or said to you, you may need it in the future.
    Stephanie, you are loved by so many, don’t ever forget that!

  816. If I saw her face-to-face I’d probably want to punch her by now. So the Internet teaches you not to hit people, because you simply can’t?
    She’s insulting *my* country, the United States, by acting so high-and-mighty. I like that she uses the word “friendly”. Ha. Anyway. I’m sure there is a lot of good advice in this comments and you should probably follow through on a lot of it. After all, we don’t want you to feel like you have to be checking the blog 24/7 for comments from this person. I’d think that would be terrifying. I promise not to respond to her, cross my heart.

  817. It’s not hard to see why she’s decided you’re anti-American…it’s not hard for an insecure and irrational person to make the jump from you stating things about Canada to you saying that that must mean America sucks. What I don’t get is why the hell she’s still reading the blog and slagging you off so much? You’ve been nothing but firm with her, not rude at all and she’s definitely flying off the handle. To insult your parenting and religion is ridiculous. I hope that she does get bored and leaves you and your family alone; you don’t deserve any of this.

  818. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for continuing your blog. I agree with another knitter that said this “needs to be said thousands of more times”…you are an absolutely stunning example of humanity, you inspire and brighten the days of countless people worldwide, and I consider you a personal hero, and a symbol of tolerence and human decency. Please don’t ever change.

  819. Dear Stephanie, You are a GEM and very very very much appreciated by so many people. I cannot thank you and your family enough for all you share. You are managing to lighten dark parts of my life and I will never cease to be greatful for what you have given me through your blog and your books. You really have changed my life and my knitting.
    I hope the good comments help to protect you from the lousy ones and that you can relax knowing that you’re a much appreciated & wonderful person.
    Suzie

  820. I have been reading for years but never commented, just sending you good wishes and hope that this all ends soon for you.
    By the way, love the blog!

  821. Hello Darling Harlot,
    You are a good person. I am so happy that you are in this world.
    Thanks for being funny, creative, honest and strong.
    Knit on sister, knit on!

  822. Welsh Lurker here…..it never ceases to amaze me how much hatred and vitriol can be aroused by someone’s success and popularity….I read your blog religiously…hail saint stephanie lol long may you carry on lightening our knitting darkness, and believe me living in Wales in the winter it gets very dark indeed. You have a loving family and a loving knitting family too …keep on doing what you do best and we will all ignore the bad stuff

  823. So sorry you’re going through this and hope it stops for you soon; am continually surprised by what people think is acceptable online behaviour.

  824. This woman is obviously insane. I’m sorry that you’re being bothered by this sad excuse for a human being. No one deserves what you’re going through. You’re a wonderful person and, in my opinion, extremely tolerant. I have no respect and no patience for (ahem) People like this. If I had the chance to meet her I’d snap her in half like a damn twig. But that’s just me.
    I’m giving you a big internet hug. *squeeze* You deserve it. And a glass of beer. Make that two.
    At times like this I often say “WHAT DA HEELLL!!!” Give it a try. Very cathartic. Also, knitting.

  825. As many others I’m a first-time commenter but a constant reader. I can’t imagine what sort of a trauma one needs to experience to engage in such a dreadful and strange “crusade” and I agree with you that it’s sad and… well… creepy? Is that the word? Unfortunately, there’s no adequate solution to these issues on the Internet – except adding more filters for incoming e-mail.
    I hope that she’ll boil out soon enough once ignored and I wish you all the strength you might need to deal with this situation.
    Love, light and respect. And peace.

  826. Wow…I don’t really know what to say. What an idiot! It’s unfortunate that someone this incredibly ignorant has the brass balls to think she represents my country, my religion and my opinion ….and then we wonder why the world has so much anti-American feeling in it! How arrogant…Please stay safe and feel all the love surrounding you right now
    Have a beer and Oh, wait, let me raise my Canadian lager to you!
    Hugs, Jeanne R.

  827. This vile, hurtful, barbed stuff – I’ve had it before, in public and in private, from a spurned lover. I applaud your decision to go public with it; I did and I found it freeing and then uplifting with the support I got and the reassurances that no, it was not me in the wrong.
    I wholly enjoyed your vivacity, with, and self-deprication when you came to speak in London last year. I have been reading your blog for five years or more and you never cease to make me smile. Thanks again.

  828. I wanted to post to give you my encouragement. I don’t know quite what to say. I have browsed the 850 comments and realized that there wasn’t much more that I could say that hasn’t been already. I do know that I am looking forward to the Sock Summit, to all the friendly knitters, to ‘our people.’ please don’t let one person’s ugly comments get you down.
    Hope you will have a good day, that the sun shines, and you know how much of a positive impact you have on thousands of people every day. If not for you, who would give us permission to laugh at our knitting, to rip it back and stomp on it, to teach us that beer and knitting aren’t always a good combo. Lastly, you created kinnearing and posing socks.
    You go girl!
    Tinki.

  829. It’s sad that I need to go out of my way to tell you this, but we all love you. LOVE you. You know that, right? Keep on keepin’ on!

  830. Wow. That’s the most astonishing pile of vitriolic crap I’ve ever read, and I’m so sorry it was directed at you! You are an amazing and fantastic person, a teacher, an artist, and a wonderful mother. You’ve brought hours of happiness to my life through your blogging and your writing. You’ve inspired me to try so many new things and cheered me up on terrible days. Thank you for your work and your endless grace. You are one of the very few people I point to and think “I want to be like her when I ‘grow up’ “.

  831. Dear Harlot, I hope you NEVER have to spend one more minute worrying about this plain nutso. This is just a case of severe mental damage and deserves nothing but dismissing. I don’t think she is even funny, the poor wreck.
    Sending you lots of virtual Belgian beer. Keep up all the good things that are the Harlot !

  832. En français, c’est plus facile 😉
    Courage Steph! Des imbéciles, des jalouses, des folles, il y en a des tonnes que l’on ne peut malheureusement pas changer. On peut tenter de les ignorer, mais c’est parfois difficile.
    J’ai eu des moments terribles ces deux dernières années, et ton blog a été l’un de ceux qui m’ont fait oublier mes soucis et mes angoisses. Dans les pires moments, tu m’as même faite rire! Alors j’essaye de te renvoyer un peu de ce que tu m’as donné, même si je sais que je n’y arriverais probablement pas.
    Courage, tiens bon. Sa méchanceté est à la hauteur de ta valeur…
    Bises

  833. Lots of hugs for you. And I’m really touched that you keep up the light of love in this situation.

  834. *big hugs*
    I’m sorry that you have to deal with people like her. Congratulations on taking the high road and you are right, if she doesn’t have attention then she will (eventually) give up.
    I’m neither American nor Canadian and I have read your entire blog and never once have you been offensive to anyone. Some people tend to forget that the countries of the world are different and that we can choose to honour our own country rather than worship the one.
    Unfortunately, getting around an IP ban is as easy as turning your modem or router off for a few hours. All I can suggest is to make sure you have hard copies of all the correspondence she sends you, including comments with date and IP stamps on them and whatever else information you can glean.
    Good luck!

  835. Oh dear, *take deep breaths* that sounds like a very exhausting situation, not being heard at all and confronted with so much hostility.
    The thing is, delusions can’t be talked against. Even if you came up with evidence that you are everything she could ever wish for, she’ll find ways to fit that into her system of believes and still not see reality. There is no way to win. I just hope you find a way to get her out of your life that doesn’t cost you any more energy than this already did. It’s probably not even personal, she just seems to need someone to build her illusions around and have someone to hate. It could have been anyone. So sorry it hit you.

  836. i wanted to show some support, but i’ll keep it short and sweet:
    1)hug some cashmere/merino/alpaca
    2)have a beer
    3)and know that you have inspired thousands of knitters all over the globe with your wit and humor.
    best wishes,
    claire

  837. These e-mails aren’t “mean” or “jealous” or anything else that a normal-but-upset or even seriously overzealous person would write. These are the statements of someone who is seriously ill.
    I would not try to act on these statements as if they came from a rational person. Rationalizing them is impossible. This person is living in an alternate reality.
    I do think that you should at least make her local law enforcement authority aware of her presence. They may not be able to do anything to help right now, but you’ll have put her on their radar.

  838. I’ve been where you are, although more physical than digital it sucks but I promise it gets better eventually. Love to you and will see you with excitement in Portland.

  839. Delurking from the deep just to add support…which is rather like a wee drop in the ocean here.
    *reads comments*
    You are really well loved and supported by so many! I am sorry that you are undergoing such awfulness.

  840. It’s almost scary how much this reminds me of what someone I knew in high school did to me, and I can’t express enough how sorry it makes me to hear that you’ve been on the receiving end of this kind of horrifying garbage. I commend you for airing the dirty laundry and hope that some good will come of it and this will end for you.
    I know many American Christians have already commented, but I’d just like to add that no, this person doesn’t represent the majority of us, and I find it both sad and ironic that someone who claims to be a Christian woman would treat another person this way.
    You are a talented, hard-working woman, Stephanie, and you’ve got The Blog behind you on this, 100%!

  841. So many people have said it all so much better than I can…
    You’re a lovely human being and I’m glad to have had the joy of reading your words for many years. You’ve been an inspiration and a joy.
    my thanks,
    Nan

  842. I was very saddened to see that someone is targeting you in this manner. Clearly she is being hateful just for the sake of being hateful.
    As you can see, we are all behind you – I admire you for taking the high road all this time and even now are still dealing with this with class.
    Sending you hugs and peaceful thoughts – if you’re ever down in western Colorado, beers are on me 🙂

  843. Yikes. After reading that, I need a beer in THE worst possible way. I can only imagine how you must feel. Hang in there. Remember you’re an inspiration to the rest of us.

  844. Don’t let her get to you! Keep up your excellent work! You’ve done nothing wrong.

  845. Sorry for the double comment, but can you set your comments to be moderated? If you can, you can approve all the comments before they appear on the live site. That way, there is no more worrying about what she has posted while you are away, no one else will see it until you approve it.

  846. There are some weird people about, and some of those need help.
    It occurred to me as I read your post that down the right margin were quite a number of icons showing your ‘best blog’ awards over the years – I hope this reminds you that not all your readers think of you in the same way that the subject of your post does.
    Chin up Stephanie. We love you.

  847. Not all Americans, nor Christians for that matter, are cut from the same cloth as she. I love and enjoy your writing style, your blog, your books. Keeep up the great work and don’t let this woman and her attitudes get you down.

  848. I don’t know what to say that hasn’t already been said, but I wanted to add my voices to all the others to let you know just how much your blog is enjoyed by all sorts of knitters.
    Thank you and good luck!

  849. Even more hugs!
    And one more time – you’re great, she’s got a great big problem of her own and I’m sorry you are having to deal with this.

  850. OMG, she makes a good (not) example of a good christian American, doesn’t she? I am amazed that she dares to say that she represents all Americans.
    ((hugs))

  851. More support coming your way!
    I am thrilled to be a reader and supporter of all things Stephanie! I was happy the day i found your site, your works, your links, I’ve enjoyed reading every single entry you’ve made in your blog through the years (and rereading!) and truly aspire to be like you at times. I admire your bravery, your honesty, your courage to dare to do things that you freely admit are outside your comfort zone, your compassion, your sheer intelligence! Long live Stephanie. And as others have said before me, we love you!

  852. Abraham Lincoln once said that you can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time…
    So sorry for this to be happening to you.

  853. Someone should teach that woman to knit! Supporting you from the other side of the world.

  854. I’m sorry this is happening to you.
    You inspire me to be a better person. Thank you for being here. Please take care of yourself (and your family!)

  855. It’s absolutely true that if we ignore this spiritually sick person and don’t go to her blog to tell her off, she’ll eventually stop her tirades, at least those against you. However, it’s cold comfort that she’ll just look for someone else to try to make miserable when she does move on.
    If I could speak to her though, I would have only one thing to say, and that is, “has any of this made your life better?”
    I’m here to chime in with the rest of those expressing support for you. I’m glad you let us know what’s been going on. The diplomatic way you are dealing with it shows the strength of your heart and goodness of your character. You’re a very dear and special person, and this too shall pass.

  856. Wow, sounds like a textbook psycho-hosebeast!
    How terrible! I don’t know what else to suggest except to disengage from her, and protect yourself. Good luck! She is in the minority here, most of your readers LOVE YOU!

  857. Oh my god. I applaud you for not going down to her level. Having read your Canada day entry, I fail to see what is so supposedly “anti-american” about it. I have even less understanding of why anything said in your post that day or in your later e-mails that you’ve posted here would need to involve the US as a whole AND Christians as a whole to unite against you. (although telling you to read the “Christian bible” amused me. As opposed to what bible exactly?).
    You are a bigger person than her and you have handled yourself with dignity. I am sorry this has happened to you.
    If she’s a supposed serious knitter, I am very happy not to be considered part of the serious knitting community.

  858. Like so many other people here I just want to show you my support. I’ve never commented before as so many people seem to say the right thing but at this point I feel you need to know how much you are loved across the world. Thanks

  859. Asstounding. How can pro-Canada be anti-American? I call your writing inspirational. Inspiration for my hobby, for my way of life prioritizing what I choose to love, be it Canada or in my case my beloved Sweden.
    Please keep inspiring the knitting World dear Harlot!

  860. your right, this woman is obviously deeply troubled.
    you have taken the right course of action. i hope she tires soon , best wishes

  861. There are hundreds of comments above, all in support.
    Together we are stronger! Problem shared is a problem solved!
    And great credit for not naming and shaming!
    You’re a great inspiration all over the world, I’ve never thought of anything on your blog as anti-anyone.
    And I read the posts about Joe to my boyfriend, so he know’s he’s not the only long-suffering yarn widow!

  862. Oh, honey, a few years back (when I lived in America), I went through a creepy internet ordeal that involved everything from deportation threats to death threats. It was disturbing and bizarre. I am so sorry that some weirdo has picked you as their internet victim.

  863. I am a Christian. I am an American. I will not be represented by a jealous psychopath. Just sayin….

  864. Hi Stephsnie
    another long term reader and first time commenter. I’m so sorry that you have been subject to such horrible treatment.
    Hopefully all these comments will help to redress the balance.
    You add humour, interest and creativity to a world that is often sorely lacking in all three.
    Keep on doing it, knowing that this many (and thousands more I have no doubt) are tipping the scales of karma for you
    Debs
    xxxxx

  865. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I personally love that you are so proud of your country (it is a great one), and don’t see how anyone could construe that as an insult to America or Americans. Hope things get better soon, I love blog, for both knitting and non-knitting inspriation.
    P.S. Good luck with SSO9, it’s going to be fantastic!

  866. I have learned many things from your blog and your wonderful books — and not all of them are knitting related. You are one class act, and I respect and admire your behavior regarding this unfortunate and deeply disturbed woman.
    I’m sending in a KWB donation to release some goodwill into the world.
    Best wishes from Michigan.

  867. This is really shocking, and I hope you realise that the vast majority of people are on your side! We are all right behind you on this one!

  868. Fully supportive. Woman clearly has too much time on her hands and odd sense of perspective. I disagree with her perspective. You are a fab writer. And probably a good parent, too.

  869. big hugs…. no worries, I rarely get time to read your comments, there are so many of them….
    love your posts, love your books, all hail the Yarn Harlot

  870. Delurking to show my support. I think you are handling this in a very mature way, and I hope she will give up soon and let you have some peace and quiet. I love your blog and your writing.

  871. Well. First and foremost, I apologize for her. The majority of us in America still love you and think you’re wonderful. Second, I wish I could be as patient and wonderful as you are because I would have handled things very different. Third, perhaps there is some sort of authority you can contact about harassment? I’m not sure since it is across national borders (aka: invisible, arbitrary lines drawn in the sand)…

  872. Stephanie –
    You are so wonderful. I know that I am like comment 956, but one of the best days of my life is the day that you called me a smartass at Cornelius Pass Roadhouse. You are an amazing teacher, mother, wife and knitter. You have inspired all of us to keep knitting, to keep loving, and most of all to KEEP GOING!!!
    Hugs, prayers, and love to you, your hubby and the girls.
    See you soon
    Love Mary

  873. I am (almost) speechless. I am so sorry you have to deal with the unending rantings of an obviously crazy person. And truly, the poster is certifiable.
    I wish for both your sakes, someone would stop her and say, “Get a grip!”
    In the meantime, know that I and all these people who have commented ahead of me, only want the best for you, and that this ugliness will stop.
    Janet

  874. These 1000 or so comments are going to cause some grief, what with rampant reverse mud-slinging and name calling.
    Knitter friends, re-read what Steph wrote, kindness, respect. Only address Steph. Don’t egg on anyone or add to the steaming vat of crap Stephanie has to deal with already.
    Hugs and love from just another gal in the lower 48 who loves your writing.

  875. Stephanie – Thank you for having the courage to post this. If I had seen her comments somewhere I would have responded and unknowingly made things worse. This is a great example to us all and, as yet another American reading and loving your blog and books, keep up the good work.

  876. I’m so sorry that you are being stalked by this crazy embittered person. Chin up. Onwards and upwards,
    Love Linda

  877. Stephanie, I’m so, so, so sorry. I’m an American Christian and this woman most definitely doesn’t represent me. I’m not sure how she can be so nasty to another person and say that she’s a Christian. That’s definitely not what I’ve been taught. I’m so glad that you blocked her because the whole time I was reading your post, I knew that eventually you were going to have to do that. It’s really the only way that you can handle something like this. I used to run a message board that basically was a support group for people who became ill after certain medications. Every so often someone would pop up who had a great result from the medication and would then start calling all of us who didn’t have such great results nasty names and saying really awful things about us. It hurt. At first I would try to defend and explain about the group. I would write them back and tell them that I was happy that the medications worked so well for them, but that they didn’t for us. The fact that we had a bad reaction didn’t make us awful or lazy. Sometimes they would stop and apologize. Sometimes this would make the nasty poster even worse and they would get in a tizzy and start writing even worse things. Eventually I realized I was giving them what they wanted. My attempt at understanding was only adding more fuel to the fire so eventually I realized that I would have to just delete their comments and block them from the message board. It was all I could do. It wasn’t fair to everyone else to ask them to put up with all the crap.
    Canada is a wonderful country. I grew up less than 30 miles away from the border and have spent tons of time in your lovely country. Going to Canada was so common it was more like going to a nearby town than it was going to another country. Our area of the United States and yours were so linked that we always had Canadian coins mixed in with our US ones and they were all treated the same, but the bills were another story though LOL! I love the land, the people and I really love the Canada Day posts. It reminds me of my childhood and all the great time I’ve spent in Canada. We only had three TV channels when I was very little, and one of them was Canadian. Later on we had 2 Canadian channels. I grew up watching the Friendly Giant, Mr. Dressup and loved the CBC. I recently attended the funeral of a childhood friend who was a hockey nut. We all are hockey nuts and in true North Country tradition, it was the hockey players that all the girls wanted to date in high school. One of the pieces of music that was played during the memorial service was the Hockey Night in Canada theme and of course we all burst into tears. Only people who have very long cold winters with lots of snow and very short summers might understand that one!
    This is why I love your Canada Day trivia and all the other Canadian holidays that you talk about, it reminds me of were I grew up. Of course you love your country! Of course you’re proud to be a Canadian. That’s the way it’s supposed to be. I love my country too. Sometimes my government might drive me crazy, but I love my country. I have never understood why when someone compliments something, another person takes the compliment as a criticism or slam towards something they love. It makes no sense to me as one has absolutely nothing to do with another. My love of your country has no impact on how much I love my own country. It’s like getting mad because someone likes chocolate ice cream and you only like vanilla, so when they say they love chocolate ice cream you take their innocuous comment and twist it into a slam against you because you like vanilla ice cream! I’m sorry this woman doesn’t understand that.
    You can’t please all the people all the time. It’s painfully obvious in this case. This poor lady has some serious issues that really have nothing to do with you, and have everything to do with her. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do for her even if you wanted to. I think you’re doing the smart thing by trying to stop adding fuel to the fire by no longer pay attention. It’s sad, but she’s made her choice. Please try to not spend anymore of your energy on this because it’s not worth it. All of her ranting and nastiness isn’t really about you it’s really about her, so hard as it is, you have to try and not take it personally. I’m glad you trusted us enough to let us know about this. Sorry about the length of this comment, but this really bothered me. I wanted to make absolutely sure that you knew that this woman in no way represents me or my friends. My morning coffee wouldn’t taste right if I couldn’t read your blog while I drank it. (My monitor would be very happy if I stopped spraying coffee on it when I laughed at your blog though!) Sending good thoughts and energy your way. Hang in there. Go get some squeaky cheese curd, a great Canadian beer, and then please oh please, someone send me a recipe for butter tarts!

  878. Standing right beside you with a wartime searchlight to shine the light too. I have worked with some very famous folks over the years – some of them employ nut hunters. Nut hunters look into the nut in depth quietly and carefully. They befriend the nut to help assess their state of mind and how far they are likely to go. Then, as a freind to the nut, they counteract them and work having them sectioned if necessary.
    There are security agencies that do this. I hope you use one and that the nut makes a nice new friend soon.
    You, lady, are just awesome – class, style, humour, and a fab mum to boot. Sending support from the UK (as another bunch of liberal weaklings teehee!)

  879. Having to deal with people who are supposedly adults but act like children with a load in their pants seems to be a trending theme in July for some odd reason. Did someone pour crazy in the water?
    Rarely does this happen but I feel compelled to apologize on behalf of all sane American women (if that’s actually what she is, the internet is a weird place sometimes) for her completely and utterly ridiculous behavior.

  880. Be strong Steph. I’m proud of you. Keep up your outstanding work. Take care of yourself and family.
    Shawn

  881. Shine on, Steph, shine on. Know that you have a huge, devoted fan-base who love you. Sending you more support from the UK.

  882. You are the best, wittiest, most entertaining writer I have read in the blog world – I have printed out some of your posts and taken them on picnics to read to my family and friends and we have rolled around laughing at your descriptions – the time your husband was stuck in the snow, the time you had to trek to the cabin, the time the washer didn’t fit down the stairs. You are a gift. And I own some of your books and love them dearly. And I’m not even Canadian! So from Australia – we love you and think you are marvellous. Take care and as hard as it can be, remember that this, as you alluded to in your post, is about her misery and hardships, not you.

  883. Dear Stephanie,
    Keep strong. The woman is obviously mad, and jealous of you. Take care of you and yours this weekend. Sending you lots of virtual hugs from acorss the pond. xxx

  884. I am so proud of you and your actions. I think she may be mentally ill and I hope for your sake it blows over soon. If there is anything we can do, say the word.

  885. Stephanie, you are loved. Universally, as we evident at the sold out show in London last fall. I’m a proud American. I adore that you are a proud Canadian. That you’re involved in your heritage and country. That you embrace what makes you…you. When we celebrate Fourth of July, it isn’t an anti-Canada day any more than Canada Day is anti-American.
    I consider myself a strong Christian. You’re blog doesn’t offend me…never has. And I’m a little offended that she was throwing the Bible at you.
    You are good at what you do, a great parent, friend, and you will have people (strong people…we are knitters after all) standing behind you all the way through this. Big hugs!!!

  886. Stephanie — if you were a teenager with a myspace/facebook page, and someone was posting this stuff on it, it would be called cyber-bullying. Have you attempted to contact local authorities?
    It’s a tricky issue — I know authorities in America are just beginning to talk about how to deal with it. For example, if a kid is harassing a classmate through e-mail or a social networking medium, should the schools step in? Many schools are now saying yes — bullying is bullying, cyber or not.
    As a socially progressive American who voted for Obama, wears sandals with socks, and attends the rather left-leaning United Church of Christ, know that the majority of us to your South support you. And — kudos for taking the high road.

  887. Now I really, REALLY wish I could’ve gone to Sock Summit, so I could give you moral support in person. So I guess I will have to be satisfied with sending you virtual hugs and beer. I’m not Christian, and I’m, like, a Pinko, but I am American, as American as any Christian Conservative. I feel obliged to say that not all Americans are loonies (not talking about Canadian money, either, although, ha!). Please continue to talk with the authorities. Jan The Lawyer and others are right!

  888. Oh, Stephanie, I’m sorry that you are being harassed. Know that those of us who enjoy your blogs and books would not believe this person’s rantings. Thank you for shining the light on his/her ugliness and rudeness. You remind me that we should all stand up for decency, kindness, and respect. I wish you and your family all the best.

  889. Your post made me want to cry. I love reading about your life–knitting and family and I have learnt such a lot about Canada and Canadian life from your blog. Please don’t stop. chin up as we brits say–you’re better than her! love from the UK

  890. Long, long time reader, first time commenter. Please know that we love you, admire you and are behind you 100%.

  891. Steph,
    Thank you for sharing all this background with us. This woman is obviously very troubled and you are responding in an even, compassionate manner ( although I do not know how) and maintaining your dignity all the while. Please know that we all support you, respect you and read your blog faithfully because of your wit, your knowledge and heart. I am sad that this person purports to represent Americans. I have read the posts and am pleased to see that we are all supporting you. My faith community would call you a “mensch”–a really good, principled human being. We all wish you the best and plan to give to attention to this individual.

  892. PLEASE.STAY.SAFE
    And what nonsense…her behavior doesn’t have anything to do with nationalities, religions, sex or…knitting…it’s just plain mean and hateful…
    Proud member of Steph’s Army…here if you need us!

  893. wow – unbelievable. i felt physically sick while reading that, so i can’t even imagine how you must feel. but consdering how long it took me to scroll through all the comments so that i could leave mine, you’re certainly not short of supporters! please know that we love reading what you write – don’t let this ruin it for you.
    i’m off to make a donation to MSF – maybe your other readers will do the same, and we can create something good out of this ugliness.

  894. I just got done perusing all of the posts. I truly believe awful situations bring out so much good! The fire from you has lit many candles making your light shine all the more! I was so afraid that you were going to say you were shutting down your blog, and that would be very sad- I look forward to your posts! Keep shining on girl!

  895. Guess you’ve only got to look at the sheer ammount of supportive comments to know you’re loved. Unfortunately the internet is open to all – including the weirdos, its just a shame that minority seems to be the loudest!

  896. Good on you, Stephanie. I knew that this kind of things happens on the net, but never really thought that it would take on like this (and I thought my dramas over at my Ravelry board were bad enough).
    I’m more than 100% sure that you’re doing the right thing here.
    Hugs.

  897. As a reader from across the pond here in the UK, you have my total support. This person is obviously unwell and needs help. You have every right to feel proud of your country (tis fabulous, I have visited!), and in no way have I every read any anti-American comments from you.
    You are the lady who convinced me to knit socks and for that ALONE (but in fact so much more), I am standing right behind you, shining the light xx

  898. I am amazed how much compassion you can still have for this person after all this. We are all here for you, and will stick by you like we know you would stick by us. You are a wonderful person, and have been a constant source of laughter and inspiration to me as both a knitter and a writer.
    Every road will have it’s bumps. I hope you’ll be back on the straight road soon.

  899. I just want you to have one more voice in the chorus of suppport and love you deserve! I have never posted, but I love your blog and the extraordinary person it reveals you to be.
    Be safe.

  900. Oh Stephanie, you poor thing having to put up with someone who only thinks the world revolves around them. That is what she must think and obviously hasnt got a life either if she has to email you every minute of the day with nasty rude comments. People are always going to voice their opinions on facebook, twitter and other places. If there is nasty comments on facebook she can be removed, just leave a complaint and they look into it for you. I dont know about twitter though as I dont really tweet! I hope everything works out well and if I were you I would be looking into getting a spyware program and adding her URL as a baddie and see if that blocks her out of your world. I have to say that B I T C H isnt as strong enough word to use for her!!!

  901. Being twelve kinds of crazy is a poor excuse for such behavior. You did well to write about it, and I hope you get some peace.

  902. So sorry you are having to put up with shite like this. There is no doubt that the knitting commuinity loves you and are behind you 100%.
    Keep your chin up girl, she’ll get bored soon.
    *hugs*

  903. I’ve read your blog for years but am posting for the first time to say: You are a graceful and classy lady! I’m so sorry that you’ve been put in such an unhappy position. Best of luck.

  904. Stephanie,
    Sending love and hope and peace from a little town in South Dakota. Be safe.

  905. What an ordeal, you have my sympathy. Please believe that these are her issues and not yours and that this is plain to see. Good luck and a big hug.

  906. Another American here and behind you 100%. I’ve NEVER been offended by any content on your blog. She’s crazy and it sounds like you are doing the right thing. Definitely talk to the police and protect yourself. It’s a small world these days.

  907. So sorry you are having to deal with this Steph. I have never seen any anti-American content in your blog. I love your Canada day posts. I find them very educational and highly entertaining. Don’t let her get you down. You’re doing a great job. I’ve been reading your blog for a few years now and love it. –A big fan from Ohio

  908. You do not deserve one tidbit of what she’s thrown you and if it weren’t clear to people before, your last paragraph represents just how true that is. I’m so sorry this is happening to you.
    Also? I do not appreciate that this girl is generalizing American sentiment, ’cause I can assure you and everyone else out there that I do not agree with one single word she has spewed. I am mad and upset that she has done all of this to you (and all of us, I suppose), but I can’t do anything but pity her because she’s obviously lacking something in life.

  909. o.m.g. so many things wrong with that person. I, for one, have always loved Canada day posts, loved your blog, loved your books, loved your life.

  910. Stephanie… yet another long time reader and first time commenter here. I simply find it incredible that your blog has drawn this kind of animosity, and my admiration for your grace under pressure is huge. I honestly think I would have cracked and been a lot less reasonable if I were you. I’m a practising Christian and this seems the kind of person in whom I see no sign of what I consider my faith.
    My love and my best wishes to not only you, but Joe and the girls. Keep at it, dude. You rock. I saw you speak in London last year You make a living (just about!) doing something you love. This person is just insanely jealous of that xx

  911. Sorry to hear this. I have spent many happy hours reading your wonderful writtings. Long may they continue.

  912. Never speak of what again?
    Seriously, though, you should be proud that you’re taking the higher moral ground. I’m sure all your dedicated readers will follow suit. We love you, Harlot.

  913. Oh my, oh my… so sorry you are having to deal with her. We appreciate you; from both sides of the border. Your wit and wisdom; your ability to always put a smile on our faces. Many thanks for your blog….

  914. I am a proud Canadian – French Canadian – knitter living in the US and I am shocked that you are getting these kinds of comments and insults!
    I am so sorry you have to go through this – I love reading your blog and your passion for what you do and what you believe in is an inspiration to me.

  915. Some people are so envious of another’s success it just turns them so bitter, and completely unable to let it alone. They do not think of the effort that you put into your success as a knitter, lecturer and writer. They just want to be the one admired. I personally enjoy the humor you bring to a lonely job of knitting and would encourage you to contine on your way. Do take Jan’s advice to protect yourself as the focus is so intense. The person may be using a false identity on line.

  916. Stephanie-
    Sorry- I have to mention it again… Clearly this woman is not in her right mind. Perhaps just deleting without reading would be helpful? Obviously if someone reads your blogs and hates you, it becomes a disturbing situation. Normal people would read, disagree, not read again. I guess if you are a public figure, you must engage a crazy or two eventually. I am sorry you have to endure this because I enjoy your work so much! So don’t read them! Delete them or have someone go thru your emails first to make sure you never see them!

  917. Steph, I’ve been reading your blog for 2 or 3 years now and this is only the 2nd time I’ve commented. As a wannabe knitter who is Canadian and Christian, I just want to say that I love your blog and looking at your projects and I think you’re very funny. While I may not always agree with everything you say, that is no reason to pass judgement, which is exactly what this woman is doing. She is the kind of person who makes Christians look bad…and we’re not all like that, which I know you know.
    And so, I send BIG HUGS to you and your family and pray that you get relief from all this nonsense soon!

  918. If you have not already done so, might you consider going to the police with this information?

  919. I’ve read your blog and enjoyed your books but have never felt I had to post until now. Please keep doing what you’re doing! You’re an inspiration to so many of us knitters here in America!

  920. From her rantings and references, it is very easy to see that this person is clinically off-balance-overly psychotic-i.e. has a psychiatric disorder. As a physician, I have learned that this type of person can not be reasoned with as there are no good replies to insanity. I pray that she gets the help she needs–counseling and medications are not a cure, but beneficial at stablizing her thought disorder and emotional swings.
    As for you Stephanie, you did nothing to provoke this. You just happened to be the unfortunate soul she has latched onto. Always a strange call for help. I hope that someone, somewhere near her, can help her get the much needed help she needs.
    Keep on writing and know that we are all behind you.

  921. Glad you shared but I am saddened that this type of attitude is out there. I was floored when I read someone thought you were anti-american based on your Canada day post simply because you post your love for Canada. Now you better be careful in all your future posting – if you say you love blueberries, someone will say you are anti-strawberry. If you say you love M&Ms, someone will say you are anti-3 Musketeers. Sigh I guess you cant win. So maybe you should keep doing what you do best – knitting and writing. I know I will keep reading regardless.

  922. I am adding my comment so that this woman will see just how many folks respect you and enjoy your blog, as well as noting one more time that she is not speaking for ANY of us State-side (yes, Canada is part of the America continent). I am sending more respect, admiration, and joy for you and assure you that many of us read you ALL the time even if we don’t leave comments. I am going to buy another of your books today, just to show that we will continue to buy your work!

  923. I’m commenting just to add one more supportive (American) “vote” to your comment numbers! As someone who is overly sensitive to the critics, while discounting her friends’ opinions, this column and the comments helped remind me who is really important. “Knit on with confidence through all crises.”

  924. reading this post makes me feel ill, i cannot believe that someone would bully you in this manner
    i must also say she isn’t doing her country, or her religion any favors…
    good on you for handling yourself so well, i don’t know if i could in the same situation

  925. I read somewhere that joy multiplies when you share it with friends, but grief diminishes with every division. You have brought so much joy and inspiration to so many people (not just us, the people who read your blog and books, but the MSF people who rely on your energy and the people who rely in turn on them). I know it wasn’t the intention behind your decision to tell us about this craziness, but I hope that doing so has lessened your grief.
    As has been said already, you have lots of people in your corner. Most of us knitters…and as someone told me once, that means we’re smart, think well of ourselves, and have lots of friends. 😉

  926. Stephanie – you are a wonderful person and I love reading your blog and I have every book you have ever written. There is always someone who will ruin it for the rest. I loved your blog about Canada and read it to my husband who loved it too. I loved hearing you speak a couple years ago at Webs (at the big auditorium across the street). It was the funnest day!! I laughed so hard I nearly peed my pants! We love you!

  927. As you know, she certainly doesn’t speak for a majority in the US. It appears to me that she is quite a coward. I appreciate your ability to take the high road. Thanks for your example. Take care.

  928. Dear Stephanie,
    I have been reading your blog for years, but never commented before. Your blog is among my absolute favorites, mostly because I find you both creative and truly broadminded, not to mention your invaluable sense of humour:)
    This is a sad situation, you becoming the center of such a malicious attention. You seem to have handled the situation as well as you possible could and one can only hope that she will give up eventually and leave you in peace.
    Until then, I can only remind myself (and us all) who read Stephanie’s wonderful blog to do as she wishes and ignore her cyberstalker’s input.
    Please knitters, do not let this woman, nor anyone likeminded, bait us to answering in any way.

  929. Adding my support (as another North American knitter and lurker fan) – I really don’t understand people who live to hate others and make their lives miserable – aren’t there better things to do with your life? Rest assured that the problem is HER not you – and so many of us know that, and respect you and love your blog and your wit, and support you. *manyhugs*

  930. Coming out of lurkdom to add my feelings to all the others here. You are the unfortunate victim of a sad, broken person who in no way represents how the rest of us feel. I love your blog, your writing and your humor. Hang in there and stay strong. This too shall pass.

  931. unfreakin believable….how horribly scary for you & your family to have to deal with ths bigot…. To quote John Wayne its regoddamnrediculus…..the calling up of the whole Christian thing put me over the edge…..hate only begets hate …first time I have commented on your blog as well, which I enjoy so much…..all the best thoughts from chicago

  932. Your blog is one of the places I look forward to visiting everyday. I enjoy the humor, I enjoy learning more about the craft, and your posts about ALL the aspects of your life. Hang in there. Going to find my needles now 🙂

  933. A fine and upstanding young knitter
    Was vexed by a wittering critter
    via mail, via Twitter
    the critter was bitter
    but the knitter, no quitter, was fitter

  934. This might be difficult to believe or understand, but I believe this women greatly admires you…..and during her final phase of what obviously is the total disintegration of her personality has chosen you as the focus of her psychotic behavior.
    I feel sorry for her, because she is hovering by the abyss and it’s not a good place to be and often one beyond the place of return.
    In simple words; the woman is clinically ill…..
    I am proud of you Stepahnie, of the way you handle this horrible situation, your grace, your intelligence, your integrity and your good humor and your even better intentions.
    If I had young daughters, I would definitely point to you as a role model.
    I wish you would not have to go through this , but I also believe this will not last much longer .
    Crazy people tend to either burn out , or move on to a new and more interesting target.
    Sending much Love
    Angelika
    Mexico City

  935. Please please take heart from all the support that is shown in what already is well over 1000 messages of love.
    You are sunshine in my day. You make me feel better about the rest of the world.
    Sending hugs
    x

  936. Clearly, this woman is very unhappy and a little unhinged. sorry you have to deal with this. Keep up the good work. She is wrong and misguided by defective reasoning.

  937. Wow.
    We’re here behind you.
    You’re doing the right thing.
    You’re a good person.
    Fiona, Ireland.

  938. Oh dear… I think the poor woman may need to step away from the computer, take a deep breath and try to get a little perspective on life. It’s people like her that have turned me into the habitual lurker I am today!
    I’m not an American, but I do read your blog and I do not recall ever reading anything even vaguely “Anti-American”, so really can’t see what she’s on about. All I’ve ever read are witty, well written posts that entertain me no end and frequently brighten up an otherwise dull day. Please keep up the good work and hang in there. *hugs*

  939. Here’s to hoping these comments reach up into the 1000s… Consider each one a candle lit in support of you. Count this as mine.
    As a citizen of both the U.S. and Canada, I am a proud AMERICAN. Proud to be able to speak my mind, proud that others can too, proud to practice whichever religion I choose, proud to be a woman who has the same legal rights as men – and just as importantly, proud to be a knitter!
    And you should be too! Because, girl, what you do makes so many people happy. And that is a gift that even the nastiest and most mentally unbalanced person cannot take from you. Please continue to share your gift with us – we’re behind you, socks, string, and sticks in hand.

  940. I really don’t know what to say… I wanted to leave a comment to offer my support, to outdo the bad with lots of love and good coming your way!
    I’m a Christian, and frankly, her behaviour has shown her to be otherwise. It makes me sick that behaviour like that reflects badly on all of the rest of us.
    The knitters have your back, Stephanie. Hugs.

  941. As an American (OK, a United States of American, I know that technically we have a whole hemisphere of Americans of many languages and countries) I am terribly embarrassed by a person like that. I am quite sure that you know there are MANY people out here who DON’T agree with her and, quite frankly, would be happy to put all our geeky and fibery wiles to the task of explaining all this quite rationally to her and her IT guys.
    I disagree with Angelika. I think that on some level this person is very low of self esteem and by writing hate mail to you, making fun of you, and having her IT guys overcome the blocks, she gains some measure of self-esteem. “I can beat her blocks – ah-HAH!” I’ve had to deal with someone like that in the past. Even her husband admitted that the woman in my case was unhinged, especially when she hit the bottle too much, which was often. Unhappily, there’s not much you can do about these people because they are like the soapbox shouters in Bughouse Square, they just need to hear their own voices and don’t much pay attention to whether someone is listening.
    Stand strong, and realize that we vastly outnumber her and always will. SO THERE!

  942. Steph, we’re right behind you.
    Hang in there, friend, hang in there.
    We’ll be there through hard and thin, shinning the light.

  943. Wow. Someone needs their medications adjusted. That’s not Dick Cheney in disguise is it? Because I think he might want to take over Canada too.
    Seriously, how awful that is for you. From all the comments on this post I hope you know that the huge majority of us do not feel this way at all. This is just a sick obsessed mind getting attention. Don’t you find it interesting that she says she is Christian but acts in a most un-Christian manner?
    I enjoyed the Canada Day post and think it is great you are proud to be Canadian. Stay that way. And ignore the wingnut as best you can.
    Oh, and my sister and I will still buy your books so you will sell at least two here. And I will not take down my SP-M picture in my office with you holding the “Hi Sarah” sign. So there.

  944. May your inner voice always speak to you of how loved you are, how you bring more joy, more laughter, and more light in the world and how deeply you hold compassion in your heart. Thank you for writing your blog and your books and for all the many ways you contribute to a thriving community.
    I hope all the comments hear help assuage the hurt that this disturbed person has caused. Take good care and I’ll be thinking of you.

  945. Wow, I’m so sorry. No one deserves that kind of hatred. You are a wonderfully funny person. As an American who grew up in Buffalo and visited the Niagara region of Ontario regularly, I LOVE your Canada Day posts and your love for your country. I hope that somehow this situation will deescalate soon.

  946. Just one more person to just chime in and say that you are loved and appreciated my MANY people. So don’t let one bad apple get you down…

  947. As I read her ranting towards you Steph, I was nauseous, and truly regretted the fact that I am an American. I am so sorry you’ve had to endure such hateful sentiments.

  948. Stephanie,
    First time commenter, long time lurker. I love reading your blog. You go girl!!! stay strong and safe.

  949. Yikes! For every person who has posted here there are dozens of lurkers (like me) who love you and delight in your work. If I see her comments I will ignore her as you ask. Sadly, she is a sick, abusive person who has found at least one victim. Be safe.

  950. I’d like to join the apparently very large Yarn Harlot cheerleading squad.
    What colour pom-poms would you like your team to use?
    Green for the environment?
    Red and white for the Canadian flag?
    Orange just for fun?
    Lisa in Toronto

  951. Ordinarily,I find the behavior of people who hide behind their religious identity – and therefore moral superiority – in order to take others down repugnant and didsmiss them as such. However, this woman is exhibiting extreme and unrelenting behaviors that clearly are symptomatic of a disturbed personality. I do hope that you have taken the advice of a number of people who have posted before me and have sought legal protection from this woman. As an educator, I have seen cases of cyber bullying before, but never at this level. I admire the way you are speaking up for yourself and am pleased to see the the support you are receiving from your fans, but it may not be enough. Whatever her reasons, this woman is obsessed with you and that is frightening in these dangerous times.
    Stay safe.

  952. I feel ill just reading the saga. Who knows what is going on with this person but I hope the hurtful emails end. Sometimes non-response is the only way to end things. I just want to lend another voice of support, hang in there and focus on the positive.

  953. Hi Stephanie,
    I’m sorry that you are in the gut-wrenching middle of this. My advice may not be new, given the number of comments, but… my husband tells me that if the woman’s server is known, your readers who spot her comments can complain to her server and she will be removed from her own server. Information to allow your readers to do this can be posted on your blog. Unfortunately, of course, she can then find another server and will escalate postings. However, as one comment said, she is already over an edge. This situation is definitely at a stage where you need to get advice from your police computer crime specialist division [or whatever such is called]. This is a safety issue for you and your family, and no matter how much you want to turn the other cheek or act in the right way towards another person, you need protection. My guess is that you have already made the correct inquiries.
    Sincerely and with much love,
    Maureen

  954. I agree with the 1011 peopel who commented before me – you don’t deserve the attitude, insults and threats that this obviously deranged woman is harassing you with. It worries me that she says she knows where you live — I hope you have reported her to the authorities in the US and to the RCMP here in Canada.
    I don’t know why she is so incensed with you (I look forward to your blogging daily, and you almost always make me smile with your humour, or charitable efforts) – but there is a solution for her which I have used when I don’t agree with what someone is posting on their blog — she could just not read it anymore! I am sure you wouldn’t miss her!
    I was afraid when I started reading your blog today that you had decided that the time had come for you to stop blogging – please don’t stop. Don’t let the outspoken few dim the light that you bring to so many of us. I hope this woman gets help and leaves you alone. What a horrible thing for you and your family to have to go through.

  955. Wow, I don’t even know where to begin. Thank you for sharing and explaining your position to us. I’m with you, let’s just ignore this woman, whoever she is.
    Tara
    ps: Joe rules!!! 🙂

  956. That woman is crazy. Please don’t let her affect you and your family. Maybe we could design a nice white coat with extra long sleeves.

  957. Your blog is entertaining, educational and never offensive. I’m shining the light from the USA.

  958. As a first time commenter and an American who lives abroad, thanks for your blog, and I love the Canada Day posts!

  959. You will never win an arguement with an ignorant person. As my mother used to say ‘rise above it’ – good luck and I guarentee no attention oxygen from this quarter

  960. Steph, You always write so many complimentary things about America I sometimes forget you don’t live here…I just don’t get it. ..as I tell my kids…you cannot control others, but you can control your reactions to them. Please don’t let one bad person bring you down….I look to you for comic relief! Stay strong.

  961. Whoa. So sorry for you and your family. Thank you for the bravery it took to share the story with all of us. I admire your strength. I am going to knit every stitch today in your honor and with supportive thoughts in mind.
    (Harriet at 8:03 was spot on.)

  962. Dear, dear Stephanie
    so sorry you have had to go through this horrible experience. when will people realize that we are all citizens of the same world, and that hatred only breeds misery??
    I have knitted for almost 60 years now, and I must say you have been a great joy added to my knitterly life. you have inspired me to try new things, made me laugh (and sometimes shed an occasional tear), and allowed me (and many others) to share so much of your life. You held my sock at a signing in Annapolis, were wonderfully patient with signing multiple books for friends who couldn’t be there and introduced me to the truly remarkable work done by Drs without Borders,
    I am a US citizen, and I love my country – but I love yours, too – and even more so now as my daughter is now living in Vancouver and working at UBC. What a beautiful place.
    I ramble, i think – but one last thing – I, and millions of others, love and admire you and hold you in our hearts as part of our own family.
    keep up the wonderful work you do.
    Lea (from Maryland, where you are always welcome)

  963. Steph,
    When I started seriously knitting about a year ago yours is the first knitting blog I ever read. I continue to read it because of your humor, and the joy you take from day to day life. The way you have handled this situation makes me love you and your blog even more.
    You are a wonderful example for the rest of us. Thank you.

  964. Tough business, Stephanie.
    I think you’re doing the right thing, but do recommend that you chat with the police just in case this ill woman decides to escalate things. The internet allows us to connect with thousands of people – most of them wonderful – but also exposes us to the occasional threat.
    ((hugs))
    Susan

  965. It makes me ill, Yarn Harlot. I feel personally assaulted as a Christian and as an American, like so many who have already commented. Way to nip this crap in the bud.

  966. I’ve read your blog for years and never commented before, but all these messages of support must begin to outweigh this womans nuisance. I hope so anyway!

  967. Wow, she’s not Christian or American in my book. She’s just one of those pathetic “look at me” kind of people and she’s found a big fish to wrangle – or thought she did. Your true fans and friends will stay that – true. Enjoy the freedom of letting it go. We all have people like this in our lives – they’re called bullies. I picture the ones in my life (or past life) going past me in a boat (I’m high above on a bridge watching them.) The great thing is that they are headed away and they are in flames. So every time they provoke frustration, defensiveness, and anger in me just from my own thoughts about them, I visualize them in that boat heading away and in flames. Skin melting and everything. It’s pretty cool.

  968. I’m joining everybody above to support you and wish you strength during this difficult time. I found this woman’s blog. She left a comment to this blogpost a little higher up in the comments. From the content of her posts and the categories under which she files them it is obvious that she needs help. One of your other commentors also stated that she had been harrassed by the same woman. Keep all her emails, comments and twitter as evidence. Report it to the authorities. What she is doing is illegal. From your proudly South African fan – Alida

  969. Hey Steph,
    Just thought I’d note that we’re mostly all Americans. Last time I checked, Canada was part of North America!! I appreciate your illumination of Canada for those of us south of your border. Keep it up, please.
    What’s the Bob Dylan song about “God on Our Side?”
    Walk in the light; Keep on knitting; Write again soon!

  970. Stephanie, I got your calendar for Christmas this year and each day I read it and get a wonderful happy knitting thought! Thank you so much for that smile each day. You are a proud example of how wonderful knitters the world over really are. I am sending you a big e-mail hug as a thank you.

  971. i’m with abby posted at 2.01 a.m.! & i’m not embarassed by this creatue, but infuriated!! how dare she use ‘we’& ‘us’? when i read your blog (& do–every day) what *always* flows through your posts is the goodness in your heart. what occurs to me is that this Troll is so jealous of this quality that she has dove into a pit of hysterical rage. stay safe!! & as for canada day posts, how about a canadian tour!?

  972. I always read but rarely comment. I felt like I’m one little person in a big, big world, and what could my voice ad?
    Well, now I’m going to become a regular commenter. Because one voice can be a big thing, and it should be one full of love and kindness. I simply don’t understand the point of being mean.
    I’m American. I happily buy your books. I LOVE your Canada Day posts.

  973. Add to your list another American who loves you. haven’t seen anything anti-American in what you write. I own several of your books and a 2009 calendar. I’ll go out and find the books that I don’t own yet. I knit my first successful pair of socks following instructions in Knitting Rules, and met you briefly when you appeared in Jacksonville. Be careful; this woman is full of the crazy, but continue being your delightful self!

  974. People like Name Removed are the kind of people that make me embarrassed about being American. It has been said before, but apparently her form of Christianity is much different from what the rest of us have learned.
    You are quite amazing… being able to do what you love for a living… and being awesome at it!
    Sending love from New Mexico.
    Denise

  975. I think I’ve only left 1 or 2 comments before – although I read your blog, buy & read all your books, and have been to an appearance just once – but I have to comment now.
    I think you are extraordinary. Not just as a knitter, but as a writer and a person. Keep up the excellent life example – and don’t let this push you off track too much.
    I feel awful that a fellow American has done this. But they are sounding quite mentally ill – so I hope you will not hold her behavior as the standard.
    I think of you and yours with great affection.
    There are no other words to say.
    hugs, hugs, hugs.

  976. This totally sucks. You don’t deserve that and I too am trying to pity her. Living with so much vitriol inside cannot be good for one.

  977. Stephanie,
    Bless you and your family. Thank-you for all you do to advance the art of knitting. I am so sorry that someone has put you threw this trouble. You certainly don’t deserve it. Thanks for letting us share your life and adventures.

  978. If you’re up for hearing optimism, well, here goes:
    You’re now famous enough to have a scary stalker. You have to be pretty cool to be that famous. Good job.
    But I don’t envy you. I’ve had people email terrible things to me that they wouldn’t have said in person, and it just puts their… I don’t have a word for the evil and pettiness… in writing, proof of their lack of sense and class.
    I hope she isn’t crazy enough to attempt physical harm to you. Please protect yourself.

  979. Holy Horse! I was completely shocked to read this and had tears in my eyes by the end of the post. I could not get over the hatred this person has for you.
    I am American and can honestly say I have never found anything that you’ve wrote inflammatory to the United States.
    I will be praying for you and your family to get you all through this rough time.
    I’ll also be praying for this person since it is quite clear that she is mental unbalanced.

  980. Hey Steph,
    Firstly, just because you and Joe weren’t “married under the eyes of God”, doesn’t mean you’re not religious. Knitting is your god =).
    Good for you for taking the high road, but from one Canadian to another, I think you already exploded the bandwith just by posting this, Steph.
    Many hugs, and wishes that you’ll do a book signing in Ottawa!
    Love,
    Isabel

  981. Absolutely shocked this has happened! I would be upset and take it personally too. Hang in there girl.

  982. Honey, she’s a crazy stalker – do what you need to protect yourself and your family. You are right to try and avoid tangling with her, IME, it only encourages them.
    It’s sad that your love and pride in your own country should be perceived in this way. I’ve never read anything that suggests you hate America. From what I’ve observed, you visit it often and hugely enjoy the experience. But it’s not home – Canada is home for you and hey, there’s nothing wrong with that. Feeling pride in your home does not mean that you hate other places.
    Britain is home for me and although I’ve visited and liked America, I still wouldn’t want to live there – because it’s Not Home.
    Pride in our countries can be a beautiful thing but it can also turn sour, hateful and violent as many a war – and this unfortunate woman – shows.

  983. This is my first comment, but I read your blog regularly and have several of your books. It is such a pleasure to find someone who understands the yarn obsession so well. No, I don’t always agree with what you say, but life would be pretty boring if everyone agreed with me all the time!
    I am an American married to a Canadian immigrant who still is proud of his place of birth even if he is now a US citzen. I hear comparisons of the US and Canada all the time, not just from him but also from online friends who happen to be in Canada. Both countries have their good and bad points, things to be proud of and things to be unhappy about. Stating that doesn’t make one anti-American or anti-Canadian.
    I want to add to other’s comments that you need to be careful. You cannot deal with an irrational person by being rational and that makes it difficult. Just keep on ignoring and hopefully that will take the wind out of her sails eventually, hopefully before she decides she needs to confront you in person!
    DLB in Pennsylvania

  984. Rest assured you have legions of fans. Hang in there.
    I know that I will be ignoring the crazy.
    I wonder do people realize how Un Christian it is to behave like that?

  985. Dear Stephanie,
    I have never commented before either but I love your books, your blog and I am an American. I enjoy your Canada Day postings. Stay safe and keep up the good work.

  986. I want to add my support to all that you have already received. I admire the way that you are dealing with this. I also totally believe in karma, and its far reaching effects. You are continuing to follow your personal code of right and wrong, and I applaud you.

  987. Another longtime reader here – never commented before – you are a very generous and very funny woman, and I’m sorry you’re going through this. Keep your chin up!

  988. I’ve always admired your integrity and the principled way of life. I love your writing and it always picks me up when I have a bad day. I have all your books and look forward to the next one.
    Thank you for taking the time from your life to make ours so much better. I add my voice to the others and urge you to be careful.

  989. Dear Yarn Harlot,
    Sending you love from Scotland (lovely country – lots of sheep!) I’d agree with some of the other comments – you should take a zero tolerance approach here and bring the full weight of the law against this individual. She needs to learn that what she is doing is legally and morally WRONG.
    Lots of wooly hugs,
    Blythie

  990. As an American and a Christian, I am outraged that somebody could ever think that such hatred is either American or Christian. I love the way you take the struggles and triumphs of daily life and find the humor in them — and also that you have the talent to share your humor with the rest of us. Thank you for making my life richer.

  991. So if the lunatic rate is one person in a million, then that means you have an impressive audience! Every public figure deals with crazies eventually, but this is particularly personally vicious. Remember that she is calculating what to say by how to hurt you, not by any relation to truth.
    The internet blogosphere is like a huge beautiful collaborative fiber project, with millions of gorgeous colors and textures and interactions never before possible, but there are also a few really funky joins in there. You may be a pioneer in establishing and testing the techniques/law that controls such behavior. You go grrl! Shielding energies to you and your family

  992. I don’t even know what to say. I hope something can be done about the fact that this pathetic excuse of a woman is cyber-bullying you.
    I had to laugh at how she is throwing insults by hiding under the cloak of God. She is clearly missing one of the Ten Commandments. What a hypocrite.
    Much love! Please, please know that this crazy who claims to be a patriotic American is not – not at all – and that she is most certainly does NOT represent our feelings about you.

  993. Another long time reader delurking to comment. As an American married to a Canadian, I have never found anything you have written to be anti-American. I often share your non-knitting posts with my husband – he has sent them on to colleagues to explain things like the recent government troubles and the beauty of Newfoundland. You have a whole set of non-knitting readers because of your wonderfully written blog about your life in Canada. Because of you, we are going to Newfoundland on vacation this year – he grew up there and his descriptions were not nearly as compelling as your photos.
    This sad individual does NOT speak for Americans or Christians in any way. Please heed the other commenters advice and make sure the authorities know about her treatment of you.
    I am sorry this has caused you and your family distress. Sending hugs your way.

  994. Even with all the comments already made, and the fact that I’ve never commented before, I feel I need to add my voice to the chorus of good feelings being sent your way. You are much admired, and I know that you have inspired many of us in our knitting but also in our lives. Thank you for being who you are.

  995. You poor dear. Big hugs and beer to you. I hope you are able to find some freedom from this oppressive person. I know it is possible to serve a “cease and desist” order from your lawyer to her – if she keeps it up, she can be sued or even suffer criminal penalties. Miss Violet of the Lime and Violet podcast had to do it with her Intentions yarn club. It worked for her – maybe it can work for you?
    Please know that people in the US, just like people all over the WORLD, love you. Please dont’ stop doing what you’re doing!!
    Take care of yourself.

  996. Stephanie-get a friend to remove her postings. she obviously has some type of mental incapacity.

  997. Wow, you are a strong woman for dealing with this crap.
    Hugs and kisses from the middle of the USA! Maybe next year sock summit can be in KC, right?

  998. There is not much left to be said after all the other comments, but I still felt it is necessary to chime in with more support. I am Christian, American, and fairly conservative. If I was offended by anything you said, I would just stop reading your blog. If fact, you have educated me. I remember one day thinking that if the two of us ever got to spend some time we probably would not be able to exchange many recipes or would want to waste time discussing politics, but we would still manage to laugh a lot.

  999. So sorry you’re having to deal with this – This American happens to love you!

  1000. As a women who is still dealing with a stalker (yes that is exactly what she is!) I can only say that I feel your pain. Keep strong, keep writing, keep living your life.
    As an American, she does not speak for the majority. And she is speaking for such a small minority I don’t believe she could even fill a small sedan. The best way to deal with these types, when you’ve done all you can do, is to ignore them. It actually does work as it shines a light on their ignorance and bigotry.
    As for her claim to be a Christian, she is most definitely NOT! The #1 commandment is ‘Love thy neighbor as thy self’. That commands us to love every one (which you do btw). However, it does not require us to tolerate bad behavior. Regardless of how we believe, we all must have a code of ethics that we follow. She obviously has had a mental break of some sort and I am praying that someone close to her will get her the help she so desperately needs.
    In the mean time, continue with your life knowing that YOU are not at fault. YOU have done nothing wrong. YOU are not the problem.
    I will take your advise and ignore any and all negative comments that should appear. Hopefully, if your wishes are followed, her ‘need’ will not be satisfied and she will move on.
    You are welcome to hid out at my place anytime you need a break. I have fiber and yarn and coffee and would stock up on beer as well.

  1001. I don’t think I have ever commented on your blog, but I have been a reader for a long time. Never have I read any anti American sentiments from you. I am mortified that this wingnut even thinks that she speaks for me as an American, as a woman, as a citizen of this planet. I just wanted to show my support for you and yours, and add that I hope the authorities you have reported this to are taking it as seriously as it deserves. My Very Best to you. Jeni

  1002. Well, that just plain sucks. I’m sorry that you are going through this… hope the flame dies out soon.

  1003. Stephanie: It’s clear this woman has too much time on her hands. I think what she needs is more yarn — what if we all joined together in a collective act of random kindness and sent her a ball each –gives you a giggle just to think of it, doesn’t it?

  1004. Your lovely blog has sustained my humour and sanity through very tough times. You absolutely do not deserve to be treated that way. You are going to need some really, really good knitting to get you through this – and the support of all the people out here who care for you. Good Luck.

  1005. Although I too have followed for a long time I haven’t commented before and rest assured that all the support from these comments is well deserved and EARNED!
    Please get the law involved as bullies must never be allowed to prosper.
    Take care
    Seona x

  1006. Love, beer, and cashmere to you. That lady is truly frightening and I – like all your other faithful readers – won’t indulge her my attention.
    Thank you for all that you do.
    Ps – I’m an American atheist, and I’ve gotta say – Canada rocks! 🙂

  1007. Stephanie, fame can dredge up the underside of life, unearthing those few who need to attack and maim in order to make themselves feel alive. You shine the light for all to see whereas this woman is mired in the dark. You represent something for her — a target, unfortunately.
    Just remember she is in the minority and does not represent anything but the smallest speck of grating sand. She represents nothing but herself at the worst possible time in her life and certainly doesn’t speak for Americans, either, as your friends here contest.
    We recognize the light. Shine on, my friend. Continue to rise above.

  1008. When I saw the beginning of this post in my Google Reader I almost cried because I thought you were shutting down the blog. But now I’m bawling because of this nasty hurtful woman. Its “Americans” like this that make me physically sick to call myself American.
    We’re a country built on the ideals of freedom of speech and freedom of religion. Obviously this woman enjoys those freedoms for herself but cannot extend them to others.
    Thank you for your bravery!
    Micki

  1009. I have never commented before, but I feel compelled to tell you that I am an American, a Christian, and to some extent a Conservative. None of those descriptors explain this individual’s behavior, although she does seem determined to bathe the rest of us in that same sickly light. She sounds like a serious stalker with real mental health issues. I think you should find some way to report her to the authorities, if only to have your complaint on record in case things escalate.
    Peace.

  1010. Stephanie,
    I do realize that with the (probably literally) THOUSANDS of comments you’re getting to this post, you may not require this one too, but this lurker felt the need to join the chorus.
    Fortunately for all of us, you’re too sensible to think that this crazy-lady’s talk is representative of all US citizens or all Christians (or all women, or all English-speakers, or all humans…) so I won’t bother with addressing that.
    Just wanted to extend some commiseration and sympathy. Internet harassment is SCARY and it SUCKS. I myself have never experienced anything but a comment here and there on various forums– nothing the magnitude of what you’re experiencing– but it was scary ENOUGH, so I can’t imagine the stress you’re under. It’s truly astonishing how such an amazing and useful thing as the Internet seems to bring out the very worst in some people.
    Anyway, done rambling. Hold on to hope; this can’t last forever!

  1011. oh my. I’d like to add my voice as more more American who does not think you are anti-American. so sorry & hope that you & your family are safe from this nut job.

  1012. Dear, dear Stephanie,
    I am wondering if my sister-in-law and “W” spawned a child and this is the result?!? So sorry for the violent and hateful nature of this person. It sounds like you need some sleep, so put some lavender on your temples and sleep away. If any of her posts make it through those of us who love you will take care of it. We protect our own!!!

  1013. Oh, bother. There’s just nothing at all quite so much fun as some random internet stranger wrapping their personal decompensation in the flag, is there. It’s actually pretty common in US political blogs. I’m sorry it spilled over into this more civilized space.
    FWIW, I’m american, I don’t knit, and I buy your books and read your blog because I really enjoy your voice and your stories and the happy space you knitters have made for yourselves. I even forgive you for dissing crochet, because I’m sure you’re just kidding…

  1014. I love your blog and have all your books!! I even drove all the way to Lettuce knit because I liked a yarn you purchased there. I’m five hours away!
    Please try not to take this personally. She’s obviously a very disturbed person and not a very happy one at that. Trouble is, she’s obviously got too much time on her hands and is using it against you.
    Can nothing be done legally against her hate campaign?

  1015. Well, poop. I could say something about being shocked that people can make it well into adulthood without learning the basics of playground etiquette, but sadly, I see far too much of it. The thought I keep coming back to, though, is how sad and pathetic it must be to go through life with so much unmitigated and unjustified (not to mention very un-Christian) anger in one’s heart. That and a double helping of crazy.

  1016. Like the others, I held my breath as I read, afraid you were going to stop blogging. I have so enjoyed your blog and have laughed and cried along with you. You’ve been an inspiration! I am so looking forward to meeting you. Hang in there! Disgusting how one bad apple can spoil the bunch…

  1017. Hi Stephanie,
    I’m another first time poster, a US Christian. I have been reading your blog for almost a year now. I loved your Canada Day post and I have enjoyed learning more about Canada through our blog. I fail to see the Anti-American sentiment in the Canada Day post – it made me giggle, honestly. I think there is plenty of room for good-natured teasing between the US and Canada but I didn’t even see that.
    This woman doesn’t sound like she is acting with Christ’s love. I’m sorry that you have to go through this and I agree she probably has a lot of darkness in her life that is feeding this behavior. I don’t generally post, so I won’t be responding to inflammatory behavior, but I wanted to add another voice from US people, US Christians, who respect and support you. Many prayers for your continued strength in this matter and for comfort as well.

  1018. I agree with Joan (above) – only lets make it cheap, cheap, ugly yarn that we send her! Send us her address and we can all clean out our stash of the stuff we thought we liked years ago! I’m less forgiving of people who paint the world with their own narrow-minded brush than you are. I am from NY, find you witty and anything BUT anti-American and I hope you continue to write and blog for as long as it makes you happy. Thanks for the gifts of your inspiration through your books and knitting.

  1019. I’ve been reading for years and I’ve never before posted a comment – but, WOW. This woman is clearly not well. You might want to talk with a lawyer to see if there are any steps you can take to get her to stop. Hang in there.

  1020. (Sigh…) I really dislike the way some people feel they can act because of the ‘annonymity’ of the internet. Several years ago I left a very well-known knitting forum because someone called me a waste to society because I was (and still am) a stay at home Mom. Ugliness like that is just completely unexceptable, and after my own experience I can sympathize with how horrible your situation has been – even as yours has been much, much worse than mine.
    Rest assured, your reputation is safe among those of us who respect you and enjoy your work. Thank you for letting us into your life…and keep on!

  1021. I am an American, and it’s ignorance like what was shown to you by that “Christian” person that makes me want to move to Europe. How sad is it that that person has so little of a life, and is so full of hate that they feel the need to stalk you and harrass you like that?
    I don’t knit, so I would have no reason to follow a knitting blog- but after six years of blogging I have come to see trolls as pathetic little creatures.
    Good luck with the house cleaning!

  1022. It’s been a long time since I’ve left you a comment, but it seems like I just couldn’t resist at the moment for some reason.
    No one has the right to speak for everyone.
    No one has the right to threaten another person’s feeling of safety in this world.
    You have great courage. There are obviously a lot of us that have admired you before and we admire you even more now. The comments above speak for themselves.
    I wish you peace and safety and the strength and ability to live, think, feel and love as you wish without fear.
    Love and light to you in this difficult time.
    From one American to another.

  1023. Dear Steph –
    I am saddened, shocked and appalled by this. One would think that at least in the knitting community we could be kind to each other.
    She does not represent Americans, Christians or even considerate human beings. Your blog is a little light in an otherwise sometimes dark world – as this proves.
    As the some of the others did, I encourage you to take steps to protect your family. Hopefully the aggression is solely online but one never knows. Certainly the tone is threatening enough to merit concern.
    I feel so bad for you. God bless and please know that you have our support.

  1024. I’m also very sorry this has caused you and your family such distress, I can also imagine that it would be confidence knocking, but it isn’t the behaviour of a sane person. I think that most of the people who read your blog see you as human and fallible, and therefore endearing and encouraging as they read about your joys and sorrows and go through their own. I have no idea how much legal presure or technological nous you can bring to bear here. Taking the comments offline for a while might take the wind out of her sails, but her focus would seems to be so intense that even that might be incendiary. As you say removing as much attention as possible from her would seem to be the only way forward.

  1025. Stephanie —
    I am another American, Christian lurker who has enjoyed your blog for years, and I’m mystified by this woman’s mean-spirited comments. You clearly demonstrate all the “fruits of the Spirit” — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Stay strong! And God bless Canada — and indeed, the world!

  1026. Please do not view this person as being typical of Americans or Christians or even conservative Christians.
    I’m a little worried, because everytime I see an apology for grammar, it’s usually from a fellow English teacher, and I hope I don’t share that with this person either.
    Just keep on being yourself.

  1027. Stephanie,
    WE….the mighty legion of KNITTERS have united and have YOUR back!
    Know you are supported and LOVED by many.
    This too shall pass.
    Love Nicki

  1028. This is an awful thing to have to deal with, but she is just being hateful, plain and simple. Being patriotic towards your own country is something you should be proud of! And while I am a Birk-wearing, vegetarian, bike-riding, left-wing American who generally agrees with you when you talk politics, I like to think that when I disagree with people’s politics I can be civil about it. I also can’t believe she took a stab at Joe and your parenting skills. That is completely uncalled for.
    We’re all on your side Steph, and we think you’re awesome!

  1029. I want to join with the hundreds of other commenters and lurkers (because I certainly am one of those) to say how much I truly look forward to each of your blog posts. They never fail to make me giggle or get re-energized about knitting, and certainly gives me great ideas for future projects.
    Thank you so much for all that you do for the knitting world. I only wish that I could get myself to the Sock Summit this year.

  1030. I’m pretty sure there are laws against Internet harassment now . Save all what she sends you.
    I found some sights that might be helpful for you , I’ll email them to you. No one should have to be going through what you are and have been going through. Chin up sweetie !

  1031. Stephanie,
    I am so terribly sorry that this person has taken the nation that I love and call home and has profaned its spirit by using it in attempt to justify such psychosis. May you and your entire family be lifted up on the good wishes, hopes, prayers, and thoughts of your fellow knitters (American, Canadian and otherwise)

  1032. I just wanted to add my support to you. I am also a Christian American. I have been following your blog for quite some time now. I never saw you post anything anti American ever.
    I love reading your blog every day. I love how you let us into your life.
    I feel bad that someone like this stalker can make people like me look so bad. God would not and does not and would not tolerate us to treat others as this woman is treating you. We server a loving God and this woman is not being loving. She is being very hateful.
    I was thinking of your upcoming sock summit and how hard you are working on it. And all the people that will be there. Please Please talk to the police, a lawyer, get a restraining order. Get secruity!!! I am scrared that this woman is planning on showing up and causing you more trouble. She shows it in her writting. She might not be. She could not be that brave in person. But better safe than sorry. I would not want to wake up and see that you were harmed in any way.
    It just really burns me that people feel the need to treat one another like this. And hide behind good names like Christian and American to make their point.
    Steph take care of yourself. Be safe. That is most important. From the last I saw there is over 1000 post. Most of them in your favor. Hang in there. HUGS and Prayers. If that is ok with you.

  1033. Dear YH
    I’ve been impressed with you since my wife (Madmoon) showed me your work. We’ve seen you speak, we have every book, we read your blog.
    This particular issue has shown a light on you as well. Yarn Harlot takes the High Road.
    I am embarrassed to know this individual is an American, she does not speak for me. I’m sure there’s a few other Americans who’ve voiced their support for you.
    I will take the High Road as you suggest and ‘shun’ this person. You’re right about shining the light and about ignoring her tirades.
    Please continue to be the sweet, warm, slightly quirky writer you’ve always been.
    Thank you for the hours of pleasure. Please keep it up.
    Happy belated Canada Day.
    canaan

  1034. How horrifying. The woman is, at best, suffering from some severe mental disability. I am so embarassed that a fellow American is acting this way toward you. Please know that she is alone (very alone) in her opinions, and you are dearly loved by millions. Even Christian American women.
    Have you looked into legal matters to see what can be done to make her stop the harrassment? Do you need a restraining order? I would be happy to contribute to a Yarn Harlot Legal Defence Fund. Seriously.

  1035. Yet one more de-lurker from California – I’ve read your work for years and always appreciated it. Please keep you and your family safe.

  1036. I would like to add my support to all the great comments prior to mine. I’m so sorry that this has brought grief to you and your family. You are a witty bright person and have brought me many smiles. Please keep on – I can only say that this small minded, bitter person, doesn’t exist. We are all global citizens, and nationality doesn’t matter to be human and decent.

  1037. Like many others, I’ve been reading for some time now but not commenting. Your blog is wonderful — thank you for it. Take care.

  1038. When people are ugly, it is very difficult to know what to do. I’m glad that you shared this information with us, and I’m hoping the situation gets better really soon. However, I believe you should turn off the comments on this entry. People are calling the woman unkind names (crazy, lunatic, stalker). I’m not arguing with the veracity of the words, and I won’t judge whether the woman deserves them or not, but those are hurtful words just the same. They are ugly words. And, I think the point of your post was to make the ugliness stop.

  1039. I’ve been reading for years and never commented before, but I just have to say that there are disturbed people everywhere and it’s just part of life to deal with them. Hang in there!

  1040. Oh, Stephanie, I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this. My heart started to pound as I read through your post. How dare anyone presume to speak for their country with such vitriol? And I’m sorry for her that she doesn’t have anything better to do with her life than attempt to make you miserable. Luckily, 99.9999% of your readers know you to be a generous and wonderful mother, partner, knitter, and writer.
    And how did I miss your insults to ‘merica in your Canada Day posts? I’ve always enjoyed those and found them educational 🙂
    Do your best to stop worrying about such a person and go enjoy your life – you’ve worked hard to create your life, and you deserve the chance to enjoy it without such a mental burden.

  1041. I’m a longtime reader, but I’ve never posted a comment before. I just want to let you know that this American could not disagree more strongly with this woman’s opinions. Your pride in your country does not disparage any other country; it is obvious to me that this woman has a deep insecurity or she would not feel so threatened by your patriotism.
    Keep up the good work, Stephanie – your restrained and measured response to this disturbed woman should be taken as a shining example of how to deal with people on the internet.

  1042. Oh Sephanie I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Unfortunately, we deal with these right-wingnuts all the time on political blogs. They can twist anything into a perceived attack on America. They can’t understand that stating you are proud to be Canadian and proud of Canada is not the same at attacking America. They can’t follow reason, so they can’t be reasonable.
    You may want to contact the authorities on this one. Making threats against someone online is not legal. Saving all the emails was a good idea. You should contact the police and see what they say.

  1043. it might be my pregnancy hormones but this entry just totally made me cry. You’ve got my respect and my love and always have and I’ve read just about every damn near blog post you have made. Be strong, chin up as they say. Your going to be okay! I don’t know you personally but my “impression” of you from your blog is that you are a very good and loving mother, wife and women.
    Also you like Stargate/BSG so you’re even more awesome in my book. Did you see they re-branded Sci-Fi as SyFy? Lamesauce (as my DH would say)!

  1044. I’m a long time reader and infrequent commenter (usually by the time I get to the computer there are so many comments that I’m pretty sure you can’t have the time to read them all and figure someone has said what I wanted to say anyway). This comment falls somewhere way over the 1000 mark but I felt I wanted to add my voice of support. Thanks for keeping on. I’ve often thought that I am glad I am not famous because I don’t want to deal with the crazies. I’m sorry you have to and I’m really sorry it’s an American. We value everyone’s opinions here but that doesn’t give anyone the right to be threatening. Shame on her for not remembering that.

  1045. I’m also commenting for the first time (I think) to show my support. I made a donation to DWB today because of her. I wish you well!

  1046. I, too, have been reading for years and never commented.
    Stephanie — thank you for sharing your hurt. As you can well see, there are thousands of people willing to take on a little of it to relieve you of the burden. I believe that sharing another’s burdens is what makes us human.
    You are loved.
    — a human from Ohio

  1047. Well. I got only halfway through the comments when I had to stop to add my own. It has seemed to me that you started out as a regular person with many talents who rose up through diligence and humor. Some people just have to “chop off the head” of someone whom they deem has risen up too far. Celebrities also seem to acquire stalkers at times. I second Jan the therapist’s comment — this should be a matter for the law, and you must protect yourself and your family. You should extinguish any contact with this person. That said, I read your blog (my husband reads over my shoulder and, I suspect, reads on his own at work), own all your books and the calendar, and have seen you in person. Every single day, you add something positive to my life. It’s painful to think of you struggling with this poison.

  1048. I have never commented before but I simply cannot fathom what you and your family have had to put up with for over a month.
    I absolutely believe in ‘shining the light’ and think you have unequivocally done the right thing.
    As someone who has a family member in public life I understand some of the awfully cruel lies people can tell and I hope you and yours are able to completely ignore this individual.
    Thank you for your strength
    Cass 🙂

  1049. I have just found you and your humor. I love your books and hope to see a new one every year.
    And you have done the right thing to get rid of that person who is harrassing you. Some people are just mad and take it out on the nearest target. I like may others, hate that you were a target.
    Please go look at some pretty yarn, think you are the one who gave me the courage to knit socks. And that your followers are in the millions, she is one.

  1050. Dear Stephanie, I don’t ususally comment but I wanted to add my voice in support of yours. This blog is not just an invite into your livingroom, it’s a community. I enjoy not only your perspective on knitting, parenting and the world in general, I enjoy reading all my fellow knitters comments too. It’s sad when one bad apple… you know the rest.
    Keep the faith, keep strong and know that we “the blog” are behind you.
    Thanks for all that you do for us.. big hugs!!
    Denise

  1051. I’m so sorry, but good for you. I just have to say one more time that she does not speak for all of us. (Christians, Americans) I enjoy reading your blog and and I enjoy your humor. Keep up the good work.

  1052. Wow! So many comments! Just wanted to add my love and support to you and your family in this trying situation.

  1053. Whoa Nelly I thought your Canada Day post was funny! Yes I am an American,family has been here FOREVER. Oh and I am a Wiccan as well and horror of horrors a CROCHETER and I think you are hilarious and a credit to fiber artists worldwide! Now I need to get to Borders I need more Yarn Harlot books for Christmas presents! One thing I think your blog does for the fiber world is show just how un-different we all really are. Thank you.

  1054. Can’t read all thousand plus comments, but she doesn’t speak for this American, or many others I know.
    A couple of ladies in the knitting group are going to Sock Summit, and are so excited they could soil their panties! I know that you know the Summit is a big thing, everyone else knows it. Exactly how big won’t hit you until after. I’m not talking about the classes, the yarn, the knitters…I’m talking about the psychic impact of all that joy in one place, directed at those who put it together. You’ll see.

  1055. Thank you for demonstrating how to handle pressure with grace: from Mr. Washie to the computer debacle of the Sock Summit to this latest.

  1056. Dear Stephanie:
    I believe no one would wish this sort of problem on anyone. I believe “Shame on her” does not quite begin to describe my disdain about using America or Christianity to try to besmirch you.
    I am sure this is the type of post no blog writer ever wants to post, but you have done the honest thing.
    Keep your chin up,
    Tracy in Wisconsin

  1057. In addition to her not representing Americans she also doesn’t respresent Christians as she claims to. This behavior is absolutely not loving one’s neighboor as oneself.
    Steph, I think you’re wonderful.

  1058. As a person who can knit, is afraid of socks and prefers crocheting, I STILL read your blog every day it is posted. Yours is the only blog I have set up on my browser home page. I, too, am a lurker and this is the first time I have felt compelled to post. As a Canadian who lives not too far from you, I thank you for what you give me and send lots of positive energy your way.

  1059. Hugs from all of us normal knitters. I hope she backs off and gets some help.
    Love your blog and have never posted before.
    I, like many above, have been harassed. Not a fun experience. You do good things! The blog is wonderful!

  1060. Wish I could buy you a beer! And some really nice yarn. I’ve never posted before, but I am a faithful fan and reader, and through your writing (I think particularly on your blog) there emerges a human who is sensitive and humble and more than competent, and I have been inspired and have grown greatly as a human from reading what you have to say. I should also say that I am both an American and a Christian and at no time have I ever been insulted by anything you’ve had to say. (I am now, however, incredibly insulted by the gross misrepresentation by this woman of my culture and belief system. Disgusting.)
    Thank you, thank you for the goodness and humor you bring to this world. Sending positive vibes and support, support, support your direction.
    Jessica

  1061. Stephanie, I can not believe someone would do this. My thoughts are behind you.
    As an American who has lived in Canada I find your blog and your books entertaining and enjoyable, not at all offensive to the United States. I hope you can get past this trying time.

  1062. I love you! And I don’t even know you…but your blog helps me a little every day – especially my rough days and there have been plenty lately! This women does NOT represent Christian or American. I have never read any “anti-American” comments on your site. And I love, love, love your humor. Please don’t lose it. Hang tough, Stephanie. Way more people love you than don’t. Stay strong!

  1063. She is obviously not stable. I found her blog, and she is barely coherent to me. Why don’t you set your comments so they have to be moderated to show up? Then you know nothing will get through when you’re busy.

  1064. Steph –
    I haven’t read all of the comments, but I was going to say what JuneBug said which is the last visible comment as I write this. You need to document this with whatever authorities are appropriate in Canada and the US. This individual has deeper problems than just her dealings with you, and I have no idea who it is, nor do I really want to.
    We just returned from a short trip to Toronto. I had thought about trying to contact you before we went, but I figured you’re way to busy for that. Now I’m kind of sorry I didn’t, since perhaps it would help take the bad taste out of your mouth from dealing with this lunatic – I refuse to call her an American.
    To try to inject a lighter note – aren’t we all glad not to be related to this person? If she can be this venomous to someone she’s never even met, and never did anything to her (and I mean that) – how would you like to deal with her at a family reunion?
    (I especially like that she thought you took the blog down in response to her. I suppose she thinks the internet goes to sleep when she’s not on it too. Isn’t that like small children that think that when they close their eyes you actually go away?)

  1065. I love your blog, never left a comment before but sending hugs from the UK. Take care x

  1066. Hey Steph. Not much that I can add that others have not already said. While her diatribe is filled with hate and jealousy (I believe that she really just wanted to share some of your light)you should try not to dwell on it. One vicious person cannot undo all that you have done and the outpouring of support you have here should help you to see that.
    As Americans, we may have the gift of freedom of speech, but with that right comes responsibility and hate is still hate and cannot be tolerated. If she dislikes you so much…why is she such an avid reader?
    Let her go and fall into the embrace of those who truly like and respect you for all that you do.
    All the best. Elise

  1067. hugs, hugs, and more hugs to you and your family, Stephanie. from an American who LOVES your educational Canada Day posts and more!

  1068. I am so sorry that one disturbed individual has done this. I enjoy your blog and your positive attitude. I read your blog, but have never sent any comments.Please keep it up and know that you are appreciated.

  1069. Dear sweet Ghu, you have a crazy woman stalking you.
    You ought to report her, really, to her local law enforcement agency. She may well be dangerous to herself as well as to others.
    Keep knitting, and don’t let the crazies get you down.

  1070. As someone who’s been reading for years and only commenting here and there, I can’t believe this is happening. How this person can say you’re anti-American is beyond me. I’ve never seen an unkind word written about the US, and religious preference has hardly ever been uttered here.
    I guess growing up in Detroit and having Windsor a hop, skip and a jump away has really left me feeling that Canada isn’t any different than the US. (OK, so Don Cherry is a bit fashion challenged, but the US has it’s fair share…)
    Please keep doing what you do!
    As EZ would say “Knit on, with confidence and hope, through all crises”

  1071. Hi Stephanie: I have read your blog for several years and I have enjoyed it immensely. I enjoy your Canada Day entries so much since I have spent much time in Canada and have enjoyed every minute of a lovely country with so much to offer and such a great spirit. I think that what we are seeing in this person is the effect of the erasing of the boundaries between the public and the private life that a blog like yours entails. There have always been published diaries and memoirs. I am reading a particularly good one right now called “Little Heathens – Hard Times and High Spirits on an Iowa Farm during the Great Depression”. What is different now is the immediacy of the blog – readers seem to be seeing your life in real time and feel like they are a participant in some way. That immediacy gives an unbalanced person the right, she thinks, to worm her sorry way into your life and attack you. People do think they are anonymous on the web.
    I am so sorry that you have to deal with this and I hope you are able to resolve it.
    I love the cheerful tone of your blog and books and hope that you don’t lose that spirit. I am thinking good and positive thoughts for you. Janine

  1072. Ditto to all the supportive comments above. I personally love the fact that we have “freedom of speech” in the U.S., but using that right responsibly is just beyond some people. Hang in there.

  1073. I love your work, your writing, the fact that you and your family are so generous as to share your lives with us readers. I met you at a book signing in Chicago, and you were a fabulous, witty, charming speaker.
    I’m so sorry that this happened, but I send along my best wishes.
    Also, as distasteful as it might seen, I recommend that you keep at least a private record of the postings, e-mails and ip addresses. Perhaps speak with one of your technical friends about the best way to document them?
    If it ever seems like the person might be attempting contact with you or your family and friends or professional contacts, please call the police. It’ll be much easier to get some kind of resolution if you have the track-record of her insanity. It might even be possible now to get some kind of restraining order against further contact.

  1074. MUCH love from Ohio! I’m de-lurking in full support of you! Stay strong and positive! 🙂

  1075. Warning! This woman is dangerous on many levels. And probably violating many local and national laws.
    The kindest thing you can do is make her face herself; and taking this not only public, but having the public judge her (via the legal system), as harsh as that sounds, might be advisable. So every one, herself included, no longer is spinning crazy.
    I am a proud American, a Conservative, and while I don’t always agree with you, I am here to say you have never been anything but appropriate and polite. And regarding humor, knit or otherwise; it never gets old.
    I hope you never lose yours.

  1076. I know you’ve heard from a ton of people but I feel the need to post that this person does not represent America or Americans as she is quite frankly a terrorist in the most sick sense of the word. I enjoy your blog, your writing style, and your posts about family. I, as I’m sure most others will do, will ignore her completely.
    I’m really sorry this “ignorant” American thinks she can speak for the rest of us.
    Hang in there, you’ve got a lot of us in your corner.

  1077. Your Canada Day posts are ones I look forward to every year. I am an American & I love learning about Canada from your blog.
    I only started knitting in December, found your blog a few weeks after that & sat & read the whole thing from beginning to current over a week & a half. Your blog & books (I went right out & bought them all) have taught me if I can see it or think it I will be able to knit it. Thank you for having this blog & writing your books.
    <3

  1078. Wow. That kinda does take the cake and you do have my sympathies. When I owned an ISP we had our share of “interesting” problems both from our customers and with our customers. I’m pretty sure its harder to deal with, with an American (or at least very big) ISP, but it was possible from our business to approach another ISP with the identity of their user who was abusive, displayed criminal intent etc, to have them punish their own user.
    But yes I would be happy to formally ignore such things because really they don’t need to exist. There’s enough crap in the world without people creating bad vibes in a non-real life format.
    I think you are a considerably strong person for even being able to turn another cheek, and it speaks much for your family/friends’ support as well that you feel able to stand up to her.

  1079. You, Stephanie, are a well-loved woman; remember that! As far as this poor, misguided woman, we need to remember that there must be a reason for her viciousness. Mental health issues, for sure, but caused by what? Heredity, stress? Maybe she knits exclusively with acrylic? The fumes coming off of a stash like that would make anyone lose their marbles! Go crack a cold one, and knit with something absolutely lucious. Cashmere would be my choice; any day is better with beer and skooshy fibres in hand!
    With love from a fellow Canadian knitter, be well. xo

  1080. “She responded with another mocking, insulting email, accusing me of reading her blog, and that informed me that I had no “American Grit” and that she had tracked me down and knew where I lived.”
    Actually, I take it back. If she’s talking about how she knows where you live, I really do suggest calling the police. She’s effectively making threats against you. She might be crazy and a long way from your home city, but sometimes crazy people do crazy things.
    Anyhow, for all I know you’ve already contacted the police. Therefore, I shall stop dispensing advice that you’ve doubtlessly already considered. 🙂
    Best wishes,
    Charlotte

  1081. Dear Stephanie,
    Just wanted to let you know that there are a whole bunch of Christian knitters here in Ottawa who love you and are praying for you. I appreciate your wisdom in knowing that all Christians are not, and should not be, like the above post stated. As someone who loves Jesus dearly it hurts me to see Him used in an attept to hurt you, and I’ll be praying for you and your family.
    There are a whole lot of us here who think you’re great!

  1082. I’ve never posted, but I’ve been reading for years. My mother purchased one of your books for me a few years back (and after I wiped the tears away from laughing so hard), it brought me back to knitting, one of the dearest parts of my life now.
    I wanted to say thank you, that I love your quirky style, and if there’s anything I can do, let me know?
    I hope you get some really good hugs today, and I know I don’t have to remind you how cherished you are. 🙂

  1083. Stephanie, I am so sorry this woman has fixated her hatred on you, and worse, that she thinks it’s somehow justified by differences between her “identity,” however she defines that, and yours. It takes courage to be yourself in daily life, not to mention in public and in writing, and we’re in a dangerous place if the trolls are allowed to hound and try to scare into silence people they think are undeserving because they are not like them. Good for you for speaking out, and I hope the matter drops here. Thank you for all the times your writing has made me laugh, cry, try something different with yarn, and spread the urge to make the world a better place. In the meantime, coffee. Beer. Light. Be safe.

  1084. Adding my name to your loyal supporters. I appreciate your time and talents that you share with all “knitters without borders!”

  1085. Wow, how awful that you have been subjected to this insanity. I so admire your response, so very Canadian in the best way.
    I love your blog, and I love your spirit of compassion and peace. Keep spreading the light, but if I were you I’d warn the security people when you speak in American locations.

  1086. I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this. I know it has to be scary for you and your family. I love reading your blog and your books. Know that you have a lot of people who really love what you do and enjoy reading your blog. Keep your chin up and I am so happy that you are not closing down your blog. (I was worried that was the bad news.) Positive thoughts from Texas coming your way…

  1087. Stephanie,
    This woman is obviously knitting with bent needles. Take nothing she says/writes/posts seriously. She in no way represents American Knitters and I, for one, refuse to be lumped into her own personal bowl of crazy just because she lives in the same country as me. Don’t worry, if she comments, I will not feed the troll.
    You rock. You are beautiful, wonderful and witty. I would move to your city, cook and clean your house for you every day just to give you more time to knit, write and do all the other awesome things that you do. Your blog posts amuse me to no end and I check every day to see what you have to say. I love reading over your archived posts. I love reading and rereading your books. I think that everything about you is awesome. Now I admire you just that much more for taking the high road with this person.
    As I write this, there are over 1100 posts. All the ones I read, and I’ll admit I didn’t read them all, seem to be super supportive and express nothing but love and concern for your safety. I’m sure that by this time, I’m just echoing what everyone else has said. But Darling Harlot, you’ve made all our knitting lives better with your insights and I am very grateful for it.
    I hold my yarn and needles aloft in tribute to you, Dear Harlot.

  1088. Wow! So sorry you are going through this. You are handling this with unbelievable grace and dignity. I have personally never witnesses and anti-American behavior from you or any of our guest bloggers. Sending you support from Ohio.

  1089. As a Christian American I sincerely apologize for my fellow country(wo)man. It boggles my mind that such animosity could be directed to a knitting blog. Sure, I may not agree with you on politics or religion, but that is not why I return here everyday. I love knitting (understatement), you love knitting. Isn’t that enough? 🙂 I find your books and your blog refreshing and fun. I love that you share with us your life, your family and your loves. Don’t let it get you down! (or change your idea of who we are, because she is not representative of me or anyone I have ever met.)

  1090. This post has left me with tears. The fact that your blog has gotten me through some very rough times is a thing of wonder to me how any one can consider themselves a christian and treat another human being like this is beyond me.
    I am
    an american
    a knitter
    a mother
    and I am outraged

  1091. Oh, my! Here I was, reading your blog over my Sunday morning coffee to get a laugh or just a smile to start my day of diapers, laundry, and Tractor Bingo (very popular with the 4 year olds!). Wow, that really sucks. I’m sorry you have to deal with such immaturity and nastiness. As an American, I’ve always enjoyed joking with the Canadian friends I’ve had about the differences between our countries, and I’ve never read anything even remotely offensive on your blog. I hope this blows over quickly, though I imagine this woman will just find someone else to take out her anger on.

  1092. Stephanie, this person reads more than a little unhinged mentally. She is obviously obsessing about you and needs professional help. It would be prudent to turn her emails and contact info over to the authorities before things escalate. We in America have laws against stalking…even cyber stalking.
    I have enjoyed your blog and books for a few years now, and have given your books as gifts to knitter friends.
    I don’t know if I caught the particular post that started this recent dust up, but can’t recall reading any of your posts that were overly (or mildly) derogatory about America. Shoot, I don’t understand some (most) of the things that people do here.

  1093. Adding my voice to the crowd to say keep safe and thanks for hanging in there! Your blog (and the handful of other knitting blogs I read) is the only place I bother looking at the comments, because they are usually blessedly free of this kind of vitriol. Thanks for taking the high road, as you always do. You’ve inspired me to do many good and useful things. Most recently, I took up spinning and just posted my final Tour de Fleece entry.
    My first grader is here asking what I’m doing so I gave him the g-rated overview. At his school they teach a set of steps for dealing with bullies. He pointed out you can’t use step 5, which is tell a grown-up (because you ARE a grown-up). Perhaps telling the authorities will fill in suitably?

  1094. It’s fascinating to me how bold, and rude, people give themselves permission to be on the web because it’s ‘anonymous’. You were right to expose these attacks.

  1095. Oh Man! I wanted to be your first psycho cyber stalker. As usual, I am a day late and a dollar short!!
    This person is not going to get bored and go away. All of the attention and support you are receiving will only inflame her more. It’s like after 9/11, when instead of breaking down the US it caused a huge swell of pride in our country. There was a troll like this on an adoption forumn I belong to. Her crazy rants didn’t even make sense but they were full of hatred and violence. Over and over again she would be blocked, only to pop up under a new name. This went on for several years until the authorities became involved. Now she pops up on other blogs and forumns associated with adoption but enough people know about her that she gets shut down quickly. That’s what we need to do here. Keep shutting her down and send the authorities her way. Your troll is likely reading every single comment left here, and I hope she realizes that the vast army of YH lovers is now on high alert. Seriously, how can she think we can’t find her? This is the age of Google and anti-stalker laws. Let the authorities in Kansas deal with her.

  1096. Stephanie, I hardly ever comment over here but it is so outrageous and wrong for you to be attacked in this way, and you are handling it in such a courageous and positive way…
    I’m standing with good guys.

  1097. Wow, just wow!
    I can’t believe she actually has the guts to call herself a Christian during all of this. As a Christian in America I’m embarrassed. I don’t want anyone to look at what this woman is doing and label the rest of us with that same condescension.
    Know that you have thousands of supporters, across the globe, that support and love you for your passion.

  1098. Chère Stephanie,
    We read you, we knit with you, you play a huge role in our knitting family. You inspire us in so many ways. We love your humour, we love your self depreciation, your tenacity, your determination. Please, please, please do not let this incident hurt you…that would be giving that person far too much power. Do, however, protect yourself…but then, you know that. Remember…we LOVE you and your family and are proud of you!

  1099. Call the police, now, now, now. She is threatening you – telling you she knows where you live, etc.
    I am an American and enjoy your comments every time they are posted. We are seeing her type in the States ever since the last election. The rightwing lunatic fringe that was showing up at Palin rallies shouting “kill him” when Obama’s name was mentioned. That Obama is an “arab”. I have plenty of Conservative friends (live in Ohio) that I love to banter politics with – she’s not Conservative – she’s a wacko.
    There are no reasoning with these people. They claim to be Christians but are nothing of the kind – would Christ act like she is acting? Wasn’t Christ about loving thy neighbor? To say she is a Christian is an insult to Christianity.
    Stay strong and please, please contact the authorities. She will not go away and I think she needs help.

  1100. This whole thing has left me crying and sick to my stomach– i can’t imagine how you feel with a cyber-stalker waiting to hatchet your every move. It is the unfortunate underbelly of our brave new world and so clearly reminds me of elementary school recess and the playground bullies. Keep on shining the light on this — truth will always win out.
    And btw, I for one am praying for a Canadian-style health care system!

  1101. I don’t normally post comments on blogs but this time I must say that I really can’t understand how people can hate with such vengeance. If you don’t like someone/something just move on, it’s not that important. This is why we have such trouble and strife in this world.
    Keep your chin up and just move on. We love you.

  1102. Steph … There are toxic people in our world … most of them are personality disordered and often they can be consumed by jealousy, hatred, & other powerful emotions over which they seem to have no control. I have one in my own family and the rages and words are horrible to hear and bear. This woman is very sick and has decided that you are somehow threatening to her. Her jealousy fills her with hate. I’m so glad you posted this story – and I’m glad you aren’t stopping your blog. Let us know if we can help in any way …
    See you at SS09 !

  1103. Steph,
    I am so very sorry this has happened and is continuing to happen. This person, their behavior, and their actions make me sick.
    Please, I implore you, take this person’s emails and comments to the authorities to be placed on file. Please also forward them to anyone else mentioned (such as your publisher) so that they may do the same. I can only hope that this person is a coward and will only use their internet facade in their harassment, however with CRAZY one never knows.
    As an American, a Christian, and a human being I hope this person understands that God is watching them and so is the rest of the fiber world. What goes around comes around. You only ever give good and good will always prosper.
    Light, love and continued respect for you and all you do!

  1104. Hang in there, Stephanie. I admire your cool head and your unapologetic attitude. Love from New York.

  1105. I am so sorry that you are going through this terrible ordeal. Remember from your book At Knit’s End, page 174, you quoted Elizabeth Zimmerman as saying “There is no right way to knit…” There is no right way for anything. You do what you believe is right and if you are getting good results, then you are doing it right for you. Please do not allow one bad “Christian American” get you down on yourself or anything else. I come to your blog as often as I can for a pick me up. I am reading the older posts when you haven’t posted recently. It helps me to deal with the stress of everyday life, to know that someone else has gone through it, or is going through it. I am glad to know that you will continue to post and I hope that you are able to ignore the woman that is causing you all this grief.

  1106. That is some kind of crazy. I can’t understand why someone would feel so threatened by you.
    Stay strong.

  1107. My gods. That’s just… words fail me. Right there is a textbook example of why the rest of the world has misguided views on Americans. I feel sorry for the rest of their country that someone like that is claiming to represent them.
    Have you spoken to the police about physical security? She seems too rabidly pro-American to dare to cross the border, but still if she knows where you live…
    I hope this poor delusional person loses interest soon so you can get on with your life in peace.

  1108. i’m sorry this is happening to you, your family and your blog. the rest of us are supporting you and your decisions. 🙂

  1109. Who knew the knitting world could get so vicious?
    This American girl thinks you are great Steph. I’m sorry you have to deal with someone like this, it is unbelievable. I’m still shaking my head. Stay strong & focused Steph and I will send the Light to you & to this person too. Let’s knit & be happy!!!

  1110. Oh Wow! I’m a lawyer in Minnesota and know that the authorities here would take this very seriously. I believe that to be true in other places as well. This is true stalking behavior and very scary. Twenty years ago a dear friend of mine’s husband was stalked by a woman that had delusions about him. The authorities then offered no help. It ended when she stabbed her own mother with a butcher knife and was involuntarily committed. I don’t mean to scare you, but to tell you that the law and public attitudes toward this kind of behavior have changed in the twenty years since that happened.
    You are right to have contacted the authorities and I agree with the many posters who suggest that you report her to her ISP and even look into getting a restraining order.
    Having said all that, I know, from my friend’s experience how awful you must feel. I hope the huge outpouring of support from the blog helps.

  1111. am “american” and LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your books and blog and even think you to be good upstanding citizen of the world- sorry for this latest “slipped stich”

  1112. I like your Canada Day posts, and, as a patriotic American who loves her own country, warts and all, I admire your patriotism. I like to see people love their countries. I hope you and the authorities are taking proper steps to protect you and yours. This poor woman has something terrible and frightening happening inside her, and I hope things improve for both you and her, but right now, I know you know you need to take care of yourself.

  1113. Wow… do check with the Toronto police and RCMP… you can never tell what someone will do, and best to be safe.
    I went through something like that, but unfortunately it was with an ex boyfriend who used my blog and email and IM over and over to visciously attack and degrade me… and there is plenty the police can do if you have enough details to identify the harrasser!

  1114. I have been in the knitting community for nearly 3 years. And through my life I have never been much of a reader of anything…until knitting. I follow your blog and check it more than any normal human for updates. I love reading your perspective on life. And love (since I’m not an avid reader of much) the knowledge I gain from your blog. From knitting knowledge to Canadian holidays, I find it all very interesting. I feel as though I travel in my mind with you to your many destinations and book signings. You are such a humble person and that’s a quality hard to find these days.
    Please never stop! Keep being yourself! You are a great person and you have a great family!
    KNIT ON!!!!
    “What doesn’t kill you,can only make you stronger”
    From – Grove City, OH

  1115. I love your blog, but don’t post very often. I do, however, get bullied in the real world. When I do, I tend to take out my phone and read messages from family and friends that I’ve saved that tell me I’m wonderful and beautiful.
    My recommendation to you, dear Yarn Harlot, is to read these hundreds and hundreds of comments. When this evil person makes you feel low and doubt yourself, read these hundreds of comments and know that her opinion is a minority. People all over the world love you and respect you and admire you.

  1116. I read your blog regularly, but have only posted a few times and I just wanted to add my voice to the many that thank you for letting us into you life a little. You have made me smile so many times–you gave me the courage to tackle my first pair of socks when I thought they would be impossibly difficult and your beautiful tributes to Canada got me interested in my Canadian heritage (my mom was born in Sutton, Quebec). I can’t tell you how sorry I am that you and your family have had to deal with such a difficult situation. Hang in there!

  1117. There are those in the world that need help. You have become the victim of someone elses troubles. You are a kind and wonderful person with a good heart and understanding mind. Unfortunately this person is looking for a fight and has picked you.
    Maybe this will encourage them so seek some help, or perhaps others who know this person will act now before they do something worse..to themselves or others.

  1118. The “person” and I use the term loosely, is obviously off her meds. And to call herself a Christian is just an insult to all those who are truly Christian people. The old saying “Sticks and stones…” applies here but I would still alert authorities of her communications with you. It’s a lot easier to say ignore her, but know that you are in my prayers for peace of mind and that she will be in my prayers also because she REALLY needs them! Keep writing, Steph. I love it!

  1119. Not even sure where to begin. Our family chooses to take our Thanksgiving holiday in Montreal every other year because it is fun, educational, and something different. And you know what? The people we run into are amazingly friendly, giving, and sincere. There are whack-a-doos in every country; we just seem to breed the more extreme variety in America. And as far as religion is concerned, more wars have been fought in God’s name than not. Stay safe, Steph . . . and go have a beer!

  1120. Don’t have to apologize, you have done the right thing. How anyone can be so obsessive and demonic, I can’t understand. We are behind you and all the good you do 100!%. Don’t worry, you have done the right thing.

  1121. Woman, you have *no idea* how much I can empathize. You try to take the high road, you try to ignore the one bad apple who tries to rile up the malcontents (because you *know* there are those who just *live* for someone *else* to Stir Something Up so they can get in on it) in favor of the five zillion who like what you’re doing…and after awhile, it just gets scary. You do what you have to do and wait for the game to get boring for the one who obviously needs a new hobby. (And just wait until they make a whole site just to talk s**t about you. Oh, but seriously. Because clearly, there’s not enough on their needles.)
    Hang in there. Let the people who love you surround you with sanity (or at least their version of “sanity”, which can sometimes be loosely defined.), and remember that someone very smart once said something about how you’re not *really* famous until the vultures come out to circle and squawk.
    Welcome to fame. 🙂

  1122. Dear Stephanie,
    I am so very sorry that you are having to go through this. It is just awful that someone who writes such a funny, heart-warming, human, sharing blog should have to go through this. It’s not right.
    I know you know, but definitely remember that most of us in the US and on the internet are normal people who very much appreciate all that you share.

  1123. I’m late to the comment party, but still want to say how much I enjoy your posts, and how sorry I am that you have to deal with this person.
    From your description, she sound like she is in violation of the Acceptable Use Policy of your blog site, and perhaps some other sites as well. Have you informed her ISP? Good ones take a dim view of this sort of behavior.

  1124. Thank you for sharing so much with all of us. And please keep on sharing. I’m always amazed at what the universe comes up with to test us with. Your post is a reminder to me to try and handle things with grace and strength.

  1125. Dear Steph,
    How lucky we are that in this time of war,genocide and global economic turmoil there is someone (Name Removed…may her yarn split and her stitches drop) who can protect us from the greater threat of the evil knitter of the north in Canada…(seriously?) In reality she should be thanking you. Does she realize what a boost to the US and world economy you are?
    Because of your writings, people, knitters and non knitters support book stores buying your books.
    Knitters are inspired by you and support LYS buying yarn and fiber (which in turn supports the fiber farmers, spinners, dyers etc)
    The travel industry is helped by knitters vying for spots in Sock Summit or a place in the audience at your book readings..
    In these tough times your writings and blog bring people together and bring smiles to our faces…
    So Steph, have a beer, hug your family and realize how much you impact so many in a positive way…
    Sorry for the long post…
    Hang tough! Another supporter from the US…

  1126. I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this, and I wanted to let you know that I’m behind you 100%. You are handling this with grace and good sense. This person seems like she needs to find a more worthwhile way to spend her time.

  1127. I’ve been reading (and enjoying) your writings since the old Knit List and I, an American, have NEVER seen anything negative about anyone (except yourself) in them. I love your Blog and your books. Keep up the good work and ignore as much as possible the rantings of a sick mind.

  1128. Dude. Abso-flippin’-lutely amazing. I agree(10 000) with everyone here – love and support to you and yours, proud (as a Canadian), awed, and humbled at how you handle everything – and take this to the authorities if you haven’t already, because there is obviously something really wrong with this person – I can’t quite wrap my mind around how upsidedown their concepts seem to be. I guess this means you’re a real celebrity now – next thing you know, the Enquirer will be making up stories about you! 😉

  1129. Oh, I’m so sorry about all this. She’s (or potentially “he’s”) obviously mentally ill — not that that’s an excuse, of course. I’m glad you’ve talked to the authorities about it and told us about it.
    Obviously, you know not all Americans are like that. But for the record, as an American, I would like to apologize.

  1130. Good grief! Too bad you don’t live in the US so you could take out a restraining order against her! Love your blog and love your books!

  1131. Stephanie,
    You are a hero to many and will continue to be with your courage in facing this situation. Many hugs and much love to you and good luck as you go through the Sock Summit. You do amazing things for us as knitters, readers, and people each day. Hopefully all these comments will give you back a small amount of the hope, love, and courage you share with us all the time. Take good care!!!!
    🙂 tara in texas

  1132. I went through several phases of thought while I read your blog. First: why do you not ignore this person? Then: she (or he) is out of control and there is no logic that will reach them. Then: blocking is good… blocking doesn’t work? Oh. Then: she/he sounds seriously psycho and they have latched onto you as a target for their self-loathing to come out upon. Then: might be a good idea to document in case legal action is necessary. Then: exhaustion. I don’t know how you can keep this out of your life. I don’t think they will let up as long as you keep responding. You are playing right into her/his hands. I don’t know if it’s a man or woman. But it seems you are responding just as they want you to. They’ve got you under their thumb. They are obviously disturbed and beyond any fix that you could provide. What are the chances you can ignore it completely?

  1133. My heart absolutely breaks for you. This is awful, and I’m very sorry you’ve needed to cope with all this.

  1134. I am a lurker on many blogs, but I had to say that that is one unhappy person. You are taking the high road, but be safe with a loony like that. I actually thought there were grownups here but obviously we are back in teenage land. This FL girl sends support!

  1135. Oh, Stephanie, I am horrified, and feel a little sick to my stomach. I am so sorry you’ve been dealing with this, how terrible for you and your family. Anything else I might say would likely sound trite, but know I’m thinking of you. Well done, you!

  1136. Wow. I’m so sorry. I’m from the US and it seems that this last election has really brought the crazies out from under their rocks. This woman is not, as she claims, Christian; she’s nuts.
    Don’t waste any more time on her.

  1137. Holy crap, Steph, I am SO sorry that you have to go through this. Please know that there are more good guys that bad ones in the US–it’s just that the bad ones yell a lot louder and longer.
    The British TV writer, James Moran (Torchwood: Children of Earth) recently had to step back from his blog and twittering because of HORRIBLE comments from the public regarding what happened in the recent Torchwood miniseries. One woman went so far as to scream that he had ‘killed off the favorite character of (herself) a ‘mentally ill woman” and she demanded he bring him back. It was awful. No one should be treated that way.
    Please know that we are behind you and will help you out any way we can. Hugs to you all.

  1138. I have never left a comment before but I am a long time reader of your blog & your books. You are a woman of immense talent. You are a brilliant writer. And don’t forget, a New York Times bestselling author.
    I am sorry this is happening to you. I am sending some light to you, your family and this person who is so full of hate.

  1139. I’ve been a lurker since I started knitting and I have always enjoyed your blog posts. I’m sorry someone is treating you this way. Stay strong.

  1140. Dear Stephanie,
    I think I have only posted in your site once before. I don’t usually do so because by the time I read your blog, somebody else has already said what I thought on saying. This time however I want to make a point of reitarating what all of your friends have said before me. I support your way on how you have handling this situation. I like you as a person and I respect you as a knitter.
    I am very sad for this other person and very upset that she is giving Christians should a bad name acting in such a non-Christian way.
    Love,
    Diana
    p.s. I know it probably doesn’t matter, but I am Peruvian and living in the States.

  1141. I don’t usually comment — but feel compelled to express my horror at the virtual stalker — scary indeed, and handled, Stephanie, with grace and intelligence.
    Love your blog — look forward to reading it. Please don’t stop.

  1142. I am ashamed that a compatriot of mine is behaving so badly.
    All my best to you across the border.
    XOXOX

  1143. i read your blog even though i am not a knitter, for it’s laughter, tears, insight, love of fiber and family and friends, and pluckiness. i am so sorry you have to deal with this; know that those who are greatly loved can inspire great hate as well. keep yourself safe.

  1144. i feel for you and am so sorry you are having to deal with this woman. these attacks are something no one should have to deal with. as you know, she does not speak for, or represent, americans (i am one), but unfortunately she does embarrass us greatly. i hope it will end soon so you won’t have to waste another minute on her.

  1145. Perhaps today is a good day to come out from the shadows and say thank you. I often think of your blog as a gift–of laughter and sanity. I don’t know of any other bloggers who are so generous with their words and actions. There’s so much else to say, but I think that’s enough. Just thank you.

  1146. Personally, I am offended by this person who is harrassing you. As an American and Christian, it personally offends me that she uses her ‘patriotism’ and ‘Christianity’ to defend her harrassment. I agree that getting emails and comments that disagree with a post are expected. Afterall, we all have opinions. But when it turns into personal insults, I really think it crosses the line. And honestly, you have as much right to be patriotic and proud to be Canadian as we do in America. {{HUGS}} I’ve followed your blog and tweets and read your books and have never been offended by your content.

  1147. Behind you Steph! I love your blog and books (an who knew I’m an American). Hope this blows over soon, she must be all kinds of crazy!

  1148. Dear Stephanie: I like Prince too! So who cares what others think?! You’ve stood the test of time as a spouse, a parent, a knitter, a writer and a Canadian. You’ve also been a wonderful person who takes people as she finds them. That’s all that anyone needs to know.
    Kathy

  1149. You? Anti-American? She’s nuts– and twisting your words. I’ve read your posts about your travels to American cities and it’s totally clear you write about America with love. I’m a US citizen, too, and that’s clear to me.
    I’m really sorry that you have to deal with this. I’ve been reading ever since that time when 2 of my 3 little ones were really, really sick and sitting on me (and worse) to feel better and reading through all those years of posts was a lifeline. That was about 2 or 3 years ago, and I’ve been coming by ever since (I never miss a post) because you bring joy and humor and passion and just that right amount of “good crazy” to my life. Please don’t let this person sidetrack you from your mission of sharing your joy!! There a thousand + posts above mine telling you how much you are loved– please allow us to outweigh one single loony.

  1150. just another American showing you some love! keep up being you, because, well, you are a spot of sunshine in my world!

  1151. I couldn’t even read the entire mail she sent you because it was so hurtful.
    I’ll just raise another voice to say how looney she is and that you are loved.

  1152. I have only been reading your books and blog (and knitting!) for a few months, but your writing style makes you seem like a friend. I love your blog and enjoy learning more about Canada from it. Your writing reveals an intelligent, observant, compassionate person with a strong sense of humor. Here is one more voice of support from south of the border.

  1153. OMG … I knew you were Canadian and that Amy is a transplanted Canadian … but you mean there are MORE of you up there? You have done the right thibng. Just turn away …

  1154. So sorry to read of this. It must be so very hurtful to you and those that care for you, and I hope it ends soon.

  1155. As an American knitter who grew up near Canada, I have to apologize to our wonderful, friendly and beautiful neighbor to the north. I think you have handled this frightening situation with admirable grace and strength, but please be careful for yourself and your family. This tragic person’s sense of reality has crumbled.
    I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this, having done nothing wrong and brightened so many people’s days with your wit and creativity. Stay strong – you have the support and love of so many!

  1156. Ahh, there are so many good things about the internet (such as being able to read a friendly Canadian knitter’s blog), and then there are people like this. So sorry. 🙁 *hugs*

  1157. Let me add to the support for you from the legions of other American, Christian women.
    This stalker of yours is going to pretty surprised when her life reaches its angry end, and discovers where she is going to spend eternity.
    Adding my support on Twitter, too.
    Americans for the Harlot!

  1158. As a US citizen from Kansas, I have never been offended by your Canada Day blogs. So many people spend so much time being offended, that they are unable to find any joy in life. I hope you are not too discouraged by one very sad person, who is clearly unable to properly place her anger. I hope she gets some help.

  1159. I’m an American conservative born again Christian and can tell you that she doesn’t represent how I act and conduct myself; she sounds like she’s mentally ill.
    I applaud the way you are handling this (I would have outed her.) I love your blog and your knitting and hope this doesn’t discourage you from continuing to provide such great knitting content on the web. Please take care and be safe.

  1160. People are just weird. And tiresome. Sorry you have to deal with that much crap.

  1161. I know I’m comment number 1000+ but I’ve been busy and missed all the horrific hoopla until this morning, and want to add my warm support to you in this painful, messy time.
    Having personally struggled with a mentally ill person whose behavior threatened to destroy a small, volunteer local professional group, I agree that the best thing to do is NOT engage with such people. It doesn’t mean they aren’t still there, but their need for drama and attention eventually seek other outlets. I think your course of action is wise and quite remarkably restrained, under the circumstances!
    I am so impressed with your decision to stay on the high road here. I laugh and smile each time I read your blog, and as yet another an embarrassedly Canada-ignorant USA-ian (we’re all ‘Americans’ here in the Western Hemisphere, eh?) I can say I have enjoyed every bit of your Canadiana over the years. I learn, I salute, I am proud to be a neighbor. Added to which, my husband just found out HE is Canadian citizen, thanks to a recent law. How excited are we? Very!
    Hugs, darling Stephanie, I feel you are a sister and I am proud to be ‘related’ to you.

  1162. Take heart in the fact that so many knitters from all over the world love you! We’ll stand together (judging by the 1200+ comments…) and support you 🙂 (((((((((hugs)))))))))))

  1163. I don’t know if I’d really call myself patriotic most of the time, but I feel so insulted that this woman is spreading all of this anger and hate while saying she’s an American. It’s ridiculous. What she’s doing has nothing to do with being “American” or “Christian” or anything else.
    I’m sorry you’re getting the brunt of her hate. I hope she disappears soon.

  1164. Thinking good thoughts for you and your family- if this kind of harassment isn’t illegal it certainly should be.

  1165. OMG! I am so sorry you are going though all this. I know that you know all Americans are not like this nut. Grain of salt…..I am shocked that she is bringing hubby and family into this. Poor dear is about as sick as they get. Prayers going out that she stops this stupid game and that you know how much we enjoy and love you.

  1166. I can’t get over people. I know I should be used to this, but wow. I guess I am still naive. Good for you, I think you are doing the right thing. Don’t let her get to you!

  1167. Thank you for not giving up in the face of the mean people of the world. There are so many of us who love all that you do!

  1168. Long time reader, first time commenter, I just had to say something after reading all that.
    I wonder what a ‘respectable knitter’ is? I sure hope I’m not one!
    Take care of yourself. Why not disable the comment section for a while to give yourself some respite.
    We love you purl of our hearts!

  1169. I’m sure you know this already but as an American I must say that this woman DOESN’T speak for those of us who are sane. You can go on about Canada Day all you like! I’d be angry about her behavior but she’s obviously unbalanced and I hope she doesn’t attack her own family and friends this way. I’m glad you were open about this and I will try to ignore any shenanigans from her!

  1170. WOW….Stephanie, I am SO sorry for the ridiculous lack of maturity on the part of one of my fellow countrymen. We’ve already made quite a showing, but I’m another very conservative American Christian and I have NEVER felt insulted by anything on your blog or in your books. I look forward to your blog posts and “harass” the local bookstore staff whenever I find out you have a new book coming out. Trust– we love and adore you– just can’t keep some of nuts from pluggin’ in. Hugs from North Carolina!! We love you, Stephanie!! And we’re proud of you, too. Now, go kiss Joe, hug the girls, and forget the nutters who obviously have nothing better to do…

  1171. Sending you oodles of hugs, support, and admiration.
    I adore your writing, humor, humility – and yea verily – your parenting style.
    Keep strong.

  1172. Oh Stephanie!
    I opened my YH fix of the day to find this. I am beyond words.
    I also am a Christian, American woman with ties to Canada. I have NEVER read anything that leads me to think you are anti-American.
    This woman is clearly unstable and/or mentally ill. For that reason alone, I feel pity for her, and for that reason only.
    You do need to be careful though, crazy takes many forms. Do consider some of the steps others have suggested.
    I am so sorry.
    WE LOVE YOU
    Sherry

  1173. 1st time commenter, like so many right now. Thank you for what you do. Thank you for making me laugh. Thank you for being proud of your country, and mentioning Scappose Washington in your blog(I live in Battleground and got such a kick out of that). Thank you for taking the high road and showing your true worth as a human being, spouse and parent. Let me echo what others are saying: This American Loves You!!!! Thank you for sharing your life with us!!!

  1174. Another long time reader but first time poster here- just wanted to let you know you have love and appreciation and support from one more American knitter down here (with a half-Canadian husband, we LOVE Canada!!). Your books and blog and what you share with us of yourself are simply lovely, and the world is a more beautiful place because of your giving. We’re sending warm thoughts your way.

  1175. So sorry you have to put up with this.
    You can only fight crazy and/or hateful with sanity and light. Though this is true it doesn’t mean it’s easy. Thinking of you and hoping she finds a better outlet soon.

  1176. Keep strong Stephanie. I hope the voices of the 1300 commenters so far are helping to drown out that loud, mean but single voice for you.

  1177. I can’t add anything unique to the words of support you’ve already received, but I do want you to know that my voice is with all the others’. Hang tough!

  1178. Dearest YH,
    I am heartened, as I hope you & your family are, to see so much support in the comments. As with so many of your other faithful readers, I am from the US, I read your blog daily, and I personally love your yearly Canada Day post. I also greatly enjoyed your post when your husband got stuck in the snow and you went to ‘help’. You spend plenty of time visiting all over the US. Your post have always been encouraging and full of support for so many. That individual sounds very unstable to say the least. It is because of your posts that I would like to visit Toronto and other areas of Canada some day. Thank you for blogging.

  1179. Just another American here to say that this woman does NOT speak for all of us. It’s people like her who give us a bad name abroad. I’m sorry, Stephanie!

  1180. Dear Steph,
    I too am proud of you. This woman has many issues, none of which have anything to do with you. I share the offense that many have named- I am an American and she does not speak for me or anyone I would ever associate with. I say let her do what she will and just do your best to ignore her. When light doesn’t work, lack of interest often does. If you know where she lives, forward her hate mail to her local police without reading it. Be sure to get a restraining order the next time you travel to the U.S.
    Keep doing what you do- we love you!

  1181. Wow. People can be so awful, especially when they think no one knows who they are in “real life.” Everything we do is real life, however, and they’re just showing their ignorance and meanness.
    Keep up the positivity, Stephanie! I remember Canada Day down here in Texas every year, and I have a friend in New Brunswick who celebrates American Independence every year. The tradition started when she visited one July and we threw a Canada Party for her and took her to a Fourth of July party.
    I think this issue is past patriotism, however. Your original post wasn’t offensive in any way. It just pushed a button that set off this person’s knee-jerk reaction. If only reason could take over!

  1182. I don’t know that I can offer much that hasn’t already been said by other readers, but I know you can never have too much support! 🙂
    I do want to say that as a conservative, American, Catholic, knitter and blogger, sure, you and I don’t agree on everything. But I’ve never read your blog and felt you are judging me for my own opinions and thoughts…in fact, if anything I find myself jealous that I can’t be as confident and sure of myself and my opinions as you are. At only thirty, I’m hoping that comes with age.
    I read your blog because I find it entertaining, and there are some areas where I see us as very alike. The world would be a very boring place, indeed, if we were all the same.
    I’m so sorry to hear that you are dealing with this. I’m a regular reader, a Yarn Harlot fan, and so happy that you blog, knit, and share!
    Good luck, Stephanie!

  1183. I am completely floored by this. I can’t believe this person would act so terribly, so un-American, and definitely very un-Christian. Love, hugs, and all other types of good thoughts headed your way!!!

  1184. She is obviously mentally ill. You might want to track down where she lives (I imagine you already know) and have her arrested for cyber-stalking. I think it’s that serious.
    We have a lot of lunatics like that here (in the US). Religious extremists that are similar to the “terrorists” they despise. These people are dangerous and need to be locked up.
    I’m sorry this is happening to you. Stay strong.

  1185. I’m really sorry you’ve had to go through this. I promise not to take any bait that is thrown. I hope you can see how much the rest of us love you. >>>>
    For the record, I don’t believe that expressing one’s love for her own country is in any way anti-any-other-country. Personally, I enjoy your Cananda Day posts, since we learn so little about other countries here in the good old USA.

  1186. Sorry you’re going through this.
    Have you reported this to the authorities? Canada, like the US, must have legal prohibitions against stalking and harassment, including internet harassment. A formal complaint seems to me to be called for.
    I do not know if the laws on this can be invoked internationally, but perhaps they can be. She sounds less than rational, she says she knows where you live, she seems to be fully focussed on you, and she could be dangerous.
    You might also want to contact her internet service provider, or have the authorities do so. A serious and substantiated complaint could result in termination of her access to that ISP.

  1187. Thank you for your good humor and generosity in keeping your blog despite the extra work and stress. You’ve brought us joy, food for thought, inspiration, encouragement, and a great sense of shared community and I can’t imagine it’s been effortless on your part. Please carry on.
    Cheers and many thanks, Karen

  1188. She’s an embarrassment to me, as an American and a former Christian. This woman is the reason Americans ARE thought of as morons. And she is the reason why true Christians are thought to be close-minded and unloving. I never understood this cruel, hateful behavior in so-called Christians.
    I, for one, love the Canada Day posts. And you as well. You’re just funny and lovely, smart and kind-hearted. Never stop writing!

  1189. I am sickened by this woman and her tirades against you under the guise of a Christian American woman. Is this how her Bible teaches her to treat people? I think not. I am so sorry that this person has intruded upon your life and I hope that by bringing the full level of attention to it, it can be resolved. Chin up – we love you!

  1190. wow, i’m so sorry you have to deal with this. sending you lots of hugs, love, and good thoughts. i will try my best to refrain from saying anything negative about the lovely woman leaving these comments, and i hope that everything gets resolved soon without further coflict.

  1191. I’m very sorry you’re having to deal with this. Unfortunately, it’s the internet, and, well, anyone can log onto it. Even the loopy, the goofy, and the downright nuts. Doesn’t mean you have to put up with it, and I’m sorry you’re stuck with such crappiness.
    About four years ago, I gained my own nutball ‘follower’, and spent most of the past four years ignoring them for all I was worth. Eventually, when they escalated to threats, I called the FBI and reported them. That brought it to a screeching halt. I don’t know if you’re considering it (or have already done it and just didn’t mention that?), but That Twit is breaking quite a few American laws and the FBI would cheerfully look her up and have a chat, if you were to give them a call and send them the information you have. Just a thought.
    Big hugs, again, for having to deal with it, no matter how you decide to. (Though I think giving all of us her blog addy would be unprofessional on your part, yet fun as heck for us.)

  1192. wow, i’m so sorry you have to deal with this. sending you lots of hugs, love, and good thoughts. i will try my best to refrain from saying anything negative about the lovely woman leaving these comments, and i hope that everything gets resolved soon without further coflict.

  1193. Oh Stephanie! You are in my thoughts today. Thank you for your courageous example of bravery and compassion. I hope very much that this woman has a change of perspective and finds health and completeness in her own life. Your gift to share and bring love and laughter to others is valuable and much appreciated. You never cease to amaze me! Take care. Lee-Anne

  1194. First comment, just to say you add joy to my day. I love your blog and thank you for all your work!

  1195. Standing hehind you 100% It is appalling that the web that connects us also gives this sick person access to you.

  1196. Right here with you Stephanie. You have my utmost respect for how you handle yourself, and I’m so sorry that this has been happening.
    🙂

  1197. I agree with the others who said to notify the authorities. Especially considering the amount of time you spend here in the states. She sounds obsessed with you and unbalanced mentally and emotionally. I worry for your safety.

  1198. Oh my. We are here for you.
    You are a bigger person than I, I would have been slinging mud a long time ago if I was faced with this junk.
    Stay strong, drink beer/wine and knit. :)K

  1199. Another American throwing in my support. You are one of the two reasons I taught myself to knit, and more importantly perhaps, the one reason I taught myself to knit socks.
    Hang in there.

  1200. When I was reading this post I feared you were going to close the comment section or worse. I appreciate your trusting us to do the right thing with this information.

  1201. Cable TV is missing out on a potential star. This lady is clearly as mad as a box of frogs.
    From another long-time lurker drawn out of hibernation; a Brit and an agnostic (so no partisanship and an undiscriminating poker-of-fun at everyone):
    More socks. Go now. Make it so. xx

  1202. I’m yet another lurker who feels compelled to show my support. Reading those terrible things brought tears to my eyes, as did the thought that you might stop blogging. Please know how much we all love you, and wish you the best through this ordeal.

  1203. wow… how disturbing and upsetting for you. absolutely in this case, the best response from your many supporters is no response.

  1204. No matter what, your safety is Number One. Dude, I’m with you, I love you, and I’m extremely proud of you. Take care, okay?

  1205. Sending love and hugs to you. Now that there are clear threats to you and others in this correspondance, please call the police, at least to chat it through. You’re a public figure, and unfortunately some people see that as their route to the limelight.
    Kudos for how dignified you have remained through this, and for you not crawling into a hole, and managing to remain like a swan, serene on top, but kicking like heck underneath.

  1206. 1. She needs help mentally. (really)
    2. Don’t respond to her anymore.
    3. Think law suit if the threats continue! (yes)
    4. Don’t take it personally, she doesn’t speak for 99% of us.
    Enjoy your day, your family, and all of us who do benefit from you.
    be well, Jo-ann

  1207. People like this confuse me. They just do. This world is ugly enough, why spew venom to make it even uglier, in person on on the internet?
    *shudder*
    Okay… onto the point of the comment: you rock. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you don’t.
    How’s the blanket coming? 😉

  1208. When I finished reading “Free-Range Knitter” I was sad to see the end of the book. Imagine my delight when I found out you have a blog. I’ve only been reading your blog for a short while but I’ve learned so much and have laughed out loud too many times to count. I love your wit and your creativity and I hope you continue to share your life with the world. It’s a pity that there are people out there who really are mentally sick and I would hate to think that they could successfully spoil such a talented blog. Please keep up the fantastic spirit of your blog and accept another comment of well-wishing and support!

  1209. Stephanie, if you’ve ever doubted for a moment how many of us love you unconditionally, well, this post’s comments will certainly dispel that. (Not to mention breaking a record. I’ve never seen anything like this [Comments (1334) by 11am!]- although… I wasn’t there watching SS09 Registration Day, either, lol… hugs and kisses to you.

  1210. De-lurking to add my support: Sending my prayers, good karma and love to you.
    Michelle in Iowa

  1211. Another usual lurker, feeling compelled to stand up and support you — lean on all the love expressed for you, which so obviously outweighs anything darker. Shine on, Step!

  1212. Hey Stephanie,
    First of all, the fact that you’ve kept this private for so long says quite a bit about you.
    Second of all, this one person cannot speak for all US American knitters. Please note that I said US and American (’cause technically you are an American as well, just Canadian not US). There are those of us in the US who read your blog and enjoy it. I fully understand patriotism. I am VERY patriotic. I am VERY US American. My parents were Army, my husband was Air Force. I will staunchly defend US to ANYONE. And I will not back down. You are not US American, why on earth would you toot the US American horn? You are Canadian American. I would fully expect for you to toot Canada’s horn. You have always done so respectfully. I do not ever remember seeing you bash the US at all. You have made it clear that you are NOT US American, there’s no bashing in that!
    Third of all, I am a Christian. I believe wholeheartedly that the Bible is the the be all and end all. It gives us direction, hope, peace and so much more that I cannot always explain. I understand that you do not believe what I believe. While this makes me sad, I still enjoy reading your blog. Now if you begin to bash my beliefs, then I would no longer read. However, I do not believe that you have ever done so. And yes, I have read ALL of your posts (I even went back and read all your archives from before, they are just as funny).
    As for the crazy lady, well we can all hope that she leaves. Crazy lady, you are out of line. Stating that you disagree with someone is fine, however the level you have taken this is totally unacceptable. Your attitude is why much of the world hates US Americans. They see us (that is US Americans) as rude, arrogant, selfish, and disrespectful. You have embodied this persona in your treatment of the YH. Leave her be, she is living her life. I believe that you need to go back to the bible (which, yes I have read) and remember that we are chosen to LOVE our enemies (which, I believe, you feel that Stephanie is your enemy). You should be praying for her, rather than letting the root of bitterness become so entangled in your heart. I’d wish that you’d read this, however I believe that I would only be casting pearls before swine.
    Sincerely,
    Tammy (a very patriotic US American)

  1213. I can never understand why AMERICA = USA? Isn’t America = Canada, USA, Mexico and all countries in Central and South America? Anyway, here’s another US citizen who enjoys your blogs, never felt offended, and supports you! Take it easy and enjoy yourself at Sock Summit!!

  1214. Just sending you some hugs (and snails) from the UK, your light shines out a long way. xxx

  1215. Be strong, for every person out there that hates us there are ten or more that love us.

  1216. I am so sorry this is happening to you. No one deserves to be treated to such negativity over and over again. I hope this torture ends soon though I’m afraid the tenaciousness of certain people can be hard to squelch. I’m sending good vibes your way!

  1217. I’ve read you for years and have never felt the need to comment, but I feel the need to now. I love your blog. I know that you know that not all Americans are crazy (well maybe we are crazy, but not THAT kind of crazy. Thanks for believing in the power of light! It will prevail.

  1218. some people just make it their mission to make other people miserable…
    i can’t believe the audacity and tenacity of this woman, though!
    you have so many people who appreciate what you do and support you…so don’t let this one person get you down 🙂
    i’m very impressed with how you’re dealing with this situation…i’m afraid i wouldn’t have been nearly as strong or diplomatic as you have been.
    you’ve set a new standard in dignity for us all to follow.
    from one proud-to-be-canadian knitter to another….THANK YOU for all you do!!!

  1219. You have my support and condolences for having to put up with this nut. Please keep her emails and her IP addresses so you can report this to the police. She does not sound sane and I now worry for you and your family’s safety. Who knows what she will do next.
    I love reading your blog and thank you for all the fun, intersting and personal items you have shared over the years. Plus all the incorageing Knitting info. Keep it up
    An american who appreciates and loves our neighbors to the north.

  1220. Hi, I am new to knitting and new to your site but what I have seen is not derogatory, rude, anti-American, anti-Christian, or anything else. I am American and I am sorry that you are subject to one of the few who’s emotions run their mouth (or fingers in this case) instead of their brain. This is one of the things that fuels our media so some think it is the status quo on behavior. I am happy to read and will continue to read your blog. Thanks for posting.

  1221. She’s a stalker and quite mentally unbalanced. We can all hope that her loved ones realize this and get her the help she needs. In the meantime do get the legal protection that is needed to keep your family safe. You have never been anything but proud of your country and deservedly so. You have the whole-hearted support of this American (and proud of it) Hugs.

  1222. Um….wow. I’m so very, very sorry. And, as always, I am amazed at your grace under fire, and your generous heart. You’re a class act.
    Love,
    an American

  1223. WHOOOAAAAA!!! I last checked your site at 12 midnite last nite and this was not there…there are now over 1300 comments!!! GACK! Steph….you dont’ need this, you’ve got stuff to do..I love you, honey. drink tea, breath deep breaths, go listen to some Woodstock music to bring back your Chi (qi).

  1224. Another fan of the Harlot here coming out of lurkdom. I think we all realize that you are dealing with a severely mentally disturbed woman here and I think you are handling things with a great deal of class and compassion. Good for you!

  1225. First, I have always admired you, and your whole attitude to this sad situation only makes me admire you more.
    Second, to all the Americans who apologized…as a Canadian, I do NOT see this person as one of you, rather I see her as a very sad and disturbed individual. She’d be that no matter what country she was from.
    Third, I have now begun my own campaign to ignore her. Whenever I hear of her and her comments, I plan on donating an extra dollar to MSF. And recommending your books to one more person who has not yet had the pleasure (there are still a few out there!) So, if she continues, only good can come of it. I am huge believer in balance.

  1226. Dios mio–What a nutjob! I’m about as square as you can get–a retired (and second-generation) US Air Force veteran who still works in defense, and I love your blog and always have. Keep knitting and writing, please.
    Do NOT spend one nanosecond of your valuable self esteem on this, this….citizen. Please DO follow the advice of my fellow bloggers and seek legal and law enforcement protection. This person is seriously unhinged and you need to protect yourself and your family. I’ll be praying and thinking of you. Hugs–

  1227. She’s pressing your button – don’t rise to it or reply.
    Thanks for sharing that with us. You have my total support.

  1228. Steph… goodness gracious. I’m most sorry for her attacks on your parenting, on your husband, and on your personal beliefs. Ick.

  1229. Write On, Stephanie!! I’ve been following your blog & buying your books for several years. Please, don’t let one twisted person stop you. A blessing upon you from the Deity of your choice.

  1230. I hope you can feel all of the love and light that is coming from the 1300+ messages coming here!
    Just remember to Breathe darlin’.

  1231. Who has this kind of time? and why is someone so so angry? I think you rock, although I am a left-leaning Jewish American, so that probably disqualifies me on several levels. 😉
    Please know that the millions of readers who love your words and your work are rooting for you, and I feel so badly that this one extremely rotten apple has threatened to spoil your time here in the blogosphere.
    Sending good karma your way…

  1232. Don’t believe for a second that she speaks for anyone but herself. I am an American Christian and have nothing but admiration for the way you conduct yourself with your family, the knitting community, your blog or your books. Your are an awesomely spiritual woman with an amazing gift to offer to the rest of the world.

  1233. Thank you for (once again) demonstrating the grace and strength that so many of us admire you for.
    Many of us from the Blog are facing our own challenges, and I know (having read hundreds – a small fraction – of the comments already posted) that you have helped us through these challenges with your humour, courage, integrity and wisdom. I hope we can give a little of that back to you now to help you get through this challenge.
    Just like you, I too believe tolerance and respect can only have integrity if they are universally applied – not only to those we determine are deserving. Anger and hate just feed more anger and hate. Love and respect – well, the 1,200+ comments (at the time of this posting) are clear evidence of what happens; you get back what you put out to others – and you clearly put out a great deal of positive energy.
    Keep on knitting – and, if it doesn’t compromise your safety or that of your family, keep on blogging!
    -From a very proud (Torontonian) Canadian lurker.

  1234. The anger seems to be escalating and I am fearful for you and your family. I suggest you contact law enforcement, both in Canada and the U.S. The term “Ugly American” comes to mind. As an Arkansan, I am ashamed of her behavior.

  1235. Thought I’d add my male knitter voice to the chorus of support. I read your blog daily but have never commented before.
    I’ve dealt with rightwing nutjobs like this for years and I think you have made a wise choice in deciding to ignore her. I also echo those who urge you to keep you and your family safe and prosecute this abuse, if possible.
    Unfortunately we have allowed this rabid culture of rightwing hate to become socially acceptable in America — avowed racists and homophobes are given daily spotlights on news programs and even have their own (unfortunately, somewhat popular, with a certain kind of hateful American) shows.
    They dominate talk radio and their ideas are treated as simply being “opposition” even when they are violent and threatening and dangerous. This has caused people like your commenter to become emboldened to lash out in public with her hatred and warped mentality without thought of responsibility or repercussion. She’s wrong.
    We’ve got your back, YH, and keep up doing what you do so well, which is looking at life through the lens of knitting. Peace and light from a non-Christian American in Florida!

  1236. This American girl is so, so sorry you’re having to deal with all this. Wishing you all the best, Stephanie.

  1237. Dearest Stephanie
    I must comment again this morning.
    CONTACT THE AUTHORITIES, ALL OF THEM.
    As so many of us have said, this person is not in touch with any reality I want to know about. There is NO saying what she may do, especially with over 1300 posts of love, caring, concern. Even this may push her to a new level of awful.
    SHE IS A STALKER. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY NEED PROFESSIONAL PROTECTION.
    We can send you cyber-hugs til Hell freezes to the bottom, but we can’t help you in the physical world.
    REPORT HER. DOCUMENT. FOLLOW UP WITH THE AUTHORITIES.
    I am so very sorry to be yelling like this, but I *am* yelling like this inside my head. I am terrified for you. Don’t take this lightly. Don’t be so much on the high road, fine place though it be, that you don’t look behind the bushes.
    We love you to pieces.
    dee near Berkeley
    a transplanted New Yorker, who is remembering another New York saying, “There’s a nut in every car.” That refers to the subways. And there is at least one in every car.

  1238. Stephanie, Stephanie, Stephanie, of all the times for you to be dealing with this!
    I am a Brit, living in the US, who has lived in many countries, and known many ‘religions’. It never ceases to amaze me that we are all much more alike each other than different, no matter where we are from and what we believe. A decent human being is a decent human being. Full stop. So for this poor tormented soul to categorize you in this way, for so long and so viciously, shows a distinct and profound lack of humanity.
    Your words about self esteem and your inner dialogue resonated deeply, but make them shut the f*** up and listen to the other ones, so you hear only the good, light and incredibly altruistic (OK, funny too), Stephanie that we appreciate so very much. Even if she is Canadian…….

  1239. Stephanie, I concur with everyone on here supporting you. The internet is a public space, and everyone is entitled to her/his opinion. But, if someone were being harassed in the way you are on the street then the authorities would definitely be involved.
    I would also like to remind everyone that Canadians are Americans too, as are Mexicans, Costa Ricans, Brazilians, and everyone else who lives in the Americas.

  1240. I admire your grace, fortitude and compassion under these circumstances. I’ve decided that the best response to this ugly situation is to donate to MSF. You can’t argue with over HALF-A-MILLION dollars in knitterly love!

  1241. As a woman who has been there, I think you’re doing the right thing by opening this up, and I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I was the victim of a stalker about ten years ago (so email was involved, but blogs weren’t really around yet)–another woman, no less. I did the same thing you did. I tried to put out the fire myself, without involving anyone else, by responding rationally and asking the person to stop. That only made things worse. It’s too long a story to tell here, but it ended with a criminal trespass warrant and the authorities apprehending her in front of my home–after she had been apparently sitting outside for hours, in the rain, cutting herself. It was terrible situation, and very frightening, but all I could think of was how sorry I felt for her and whatever it was she was going through.
    So I’m very sorry that you have to deal with this (and I think you’re handling it so, so well), and I’m also sorry for this person who is haunting you. Things can’t be good in her own life if she is this dogged in treating you badly. I hope she’ll see the light soon, and stop harassing you. Sending you my best wishes, Stephanie.

  1242. Stephanie, I am so sorry to hear that you have been going through this. The whole thing is so terrible that it is almost hard to conceive of someone behaving this way. I am always amazed when someone has the time in their life to create this kind of nastiness. Like, really? There aren’t more productive ways to spend their time? The mind – it reels.
    Kudos to you – good luck with all this and keep on doing your thing, lady!

  1243. She simply proves that not all the crazies are locked up…..
    You have my absolute, complete, endless support and devotion.

  1244. Coming out of lurkdom to comment-I’m not very eloquent, so I will refer you to the lyrics of “The Mary Ellen Carter” -oops, another Canadian reference, but you will get my meaning! Rise Again!

  1245. Dear Steph,
    Thank you for your blog. It’s a gift to be able to laugh and connect with another knitting mom. I am so very glad that you are who you are.
    As someone who has been on the receiving end of stalking before, I am also glad to know that you are getting the authorities involved.
    And, I hereby promise not to feed the troll.

  1246. Oh, Stephanie. I’ve been to two of your readings, and the only downside of that is that I heard your voice as I read your post, and it just broke my heart. You can’t fix crazy, but you are doing an excellent job of being a good person and dealing with it as best you can. You are a role model for so many, and not just with the knitting. Thanks for being awesome.

  1247. I am so sorry that you have had to deal with this. I am an American and love reading your blog. I have always taken everything that you have written as very loving, family and friend oriented and humorous. It’s so sad to know that there are people out there with nothing better to do with their time. Please take care and remember that you can’t have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

  1248. After over 900 comments there isnt much I can say that hasnt already been said. However I want to let you know that myself, my mom and my husband have never been insulted by anything we have read on your blog. You are a funny, intelligent, and talented mother of 3 wonderful young ladies, writer, knitter and wife to Joe (esp since you left your warm house in the middle of the night to rescue him!!).
    Thank You for your blog and books, they have provided much needed relief to many people in good and bad times as well as great information on knitting and life in general.

  1249. My husband has a remark he makes – you can’t fix crazy…………… there are lots of us “good” Americans who find you kind, witty, and most importantly an inspiring knitter. No worries about how you are coming off to folks – we enjoy you very much. She is sick and sad.And I hope she gets some help.

  1250. I don’t take the time to read the comments on popular blogs because they can be longer than the blog post itself. I am SO sorry to hear about what you consider “normal” mean comments & email. Before reading the rest of your post I thought that sounded vicious and cruel.
    I don’t know or care who this woman is, or even what her mental problems might be, this has gone beyond the point of scary. And that there is more that you didn’t feel able to share makes me think the situation is even worse than you have described here.
    I am an American, and I have never taken any of your posts or comments as being anti-American. They have reflected a natural and normal, love and pride in your own country and fellow countrymen. You have expressed disagreement & disapproval of people in your government whom you disagree with without personally attacking them, the same way Americans do when they disapprove of the people & or political party in power. I have heard so many Americans make very nasty comments about both President Bush and President Obama, not just for their political stances and difficult choices made for the country but insulting & cruel about them personally. You have never posted anything like that, even if you imply or flat out state that you disagree with American policies or actions. That is your right the same as it is the right of everyone to disagree with political leaders not only in their own country but other countries as well.
    I am proud to be an American, I don’t want to live in another country, but even without being a regular follower of political news stories it is easy to see how our country can come across as being a bully or wanting to police the actions of the rest of the world.
    Please, please know that SANE Americans would never consider that your comments either about Canada, England or the US imply in any way shape or form that you hate the US or its citizens.
    If you have to do something to limit or prevent comments, emails, etc about the blog your readers and fans will understand. Please continue to keep the authorities and your web people involved and informed of the ongoing situation. This sounds like it is escalating the same way that “in the flesh” stalking escalates. Please stay safe, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers that this situation can somehow be resolved.

  1251. I am an American and love your blog and have all of your books.
    I want you to know that ignorant combative Americans like her are in the minority… the scared, panicked minority. They have been since Obama took power, because they feel their way of life is threatened.
    Good luck, and please take care.

  1252. This inspired me to reread your Canada Day post. So I got to enjoy it twice thanks to the wannabe phantom poster! Please do not waste any more energy than you have to addressing the antics of this rather scary sounding person. She represents only her very small self.

  1253. I don’t comment very often, but now seems like a good time to send some love and wish you peace and comfort. You have my very best wishes that things settle down for you soon. I appreciate your grace and wit. Light. Love. Respect. You haz them.

  1254. Just another American chiming in to say we love your blog and your books, no matter what our own political or religious feelings may be.
    Thanks for going through this and sharing your pain.

  1255. How dare this person think she represents all Americans! She represents only her crazy self and whatever crazy friends she can persuade to hate you as well. I’m a proud American who’s glad to think for herself. I don’t think she can stop me from buying your books if I want to. Kudos to you for your work and your personal beliefs.

  1256. I am so sorry you are going through this. It’s hard to even fathom why someone would behave this way. Always remember you have a HUGE group of us who are behind you.

  1257. I’m am American knitter living in Canada and I’m ashamed of this woman. Just when I thought I could stop apologizing for the negative perception many have of our American behavior, along comes this person who claims to speak for all Americans–and makes us look mean-spirited and narrow-minded in the process. Please, Canadians, don’t take her ranting seriously. She is deranged.

  1258. That is so terrible! I’m sorry you’ve had to experience something so disturbing. Everyone has a right to love their country but we all need to be respectful. Hope you and you’re family are safe and happy!

  1259. Love your writing! I’m an American, and a crocheter, I can’t knit! I love following your blog, it brightens my day. Keep up the great work. Disgusting that some people have to be so hateful.

  1260. I’m an Oklahoman, and a Christian, and a carnivore, and I love reading your blog. Just remember what Evie told Beni in The Mummy – “You know, nasty little fellows such as yourself always get their comeuppance.”

  1261. Soooooo, how ’bout that rain? I hear you about hating it. I lived for 40+ years with 300+ days of sunshine a year (Colorado and New Mexico) and so I’m grateful for it. But I can understand your feelings if only in mirror-image.
    Aaaaaand, how’s that sock summit coming? Must be exhausting. I know how much people are looking forward to it. Good luck with final preparations.
    Um. Totally off topic, but have you ever noticed how people who are famous attract other people who seem to be unable to get the attention they crave based on their own merits? Not that that has anything to do with anything.

  1262. I know that I’m just one of many that are commenting today (1355 so far) but I’m pretty sure I know who you’re talking about and … I just… I don’t know. I don’t feel bad for her but I feel bad for everyone who has to work with her and deal with her on a daily basis. If it’s who I’m thinking of, and she plans on working with people, helping them get better..?? What happens if someone walks in and makes a comment about America that she feels is anti-American? Is she going to let this person die?
    ugh. She is why other parts of the world hate Americans. The world does not evolve around our country. When I was traveling in Europe in 2004 (so the whole Bush/Iraq thing was HUGE worldwide) locals would ask if we were Americans and would tell us everything that they thought was wrong with George Bush and our country. After a day or two… we started saying we were Canadian for our own safety. Since we live so close to Manitoba it wasn’t much of a stretch.
    I can’t figure out why she wants an apology for your “anti-American” Canada Day post. The first two quotes were made by our 2nd and 3rd presidents about wanting to have Canada for themselves. The only one I can think of is the third one about distinguishing between a Canadian and an American. I’m sorry but that fact actually helped me stay safe in Europe. There have been several times when I got sick of some American policy and declared I was moving to Canada.
    I’m angry at the fact that she claims she is defending ALL Americans. She is not defending me. I’m ashamed that I am from the same country as someone like her. I know I am adding fuel to her fire (if she even reads post number 1356 or whatever it ends up being when I post this).
    She has threatened you to the point of you being afraid for your family. She claims she knows where you live. Can you be arrested for making terrorist threats via the internet? I hope so. If you can’t say something in person without going to jail, you shouldn’t be able to do it online. A threat is a threat.
    I love your books, I love your blog. It would be a sad day for knitters all over the world if you had to shut down your blog because of a psycho stalker.

  1263. I am sorry that you are going through this. I am an African American who lives in New York City who loves you and reads your blog every day, I may not write, respond on your blog but I read and share your comments and patterns, pictures of your projects with friends . You motivate me to keep knitting. I laugh with you cry with you when your washer was broken I was with you. Don’t let this person discourage you . you are a wonderful person. Yes i buy your books.
    I love you

  1264. I’m in Los Angeles and I always look forward to your Canada Day posts. Please don’t change anything you do because of this. Except for the deleting and banning, of course 🙂 Keep that up. We readers love to read you, but aren’t so fond of trolls.

  1265. “And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
    I believe we have all three, you and I. I am glad that you are keeping on with the keeping on.

  1266. I just wanted to drop a comment to let you know how much I admire how you are handling this extremely uncomfortable and difficult situation. I was relieved to read that you went to the authorities. This woman is ill – her behavior neither reflects Americans nor Christians, but rather those with certain mental disabilities. Warm thoughts coming your way…

  1267. Thank you for putting up with the crazy to bring joy to so many knitters across North America and the world. Thank you also for having the heart to see that the joy you bring others far exceeds the crazy you, unfortunately, have to experience first-hand.

  1268. Oh honey. I have never posted before, but been reading for years. Hang on, hang in. And with the sock summit to boot.

  1269. As always, I am very impressed by how you are handling this difficult situation. Claiming a Canadian is anti-American because of Canadian patriotism strikes me as kind of like accusing a woman of sexism for saying, “I like being a woman.” And I say that as not only an American, but a proud US Navy Officer’s wife.

  1270. Hang in there, Harlot! I’m just another young American chiming in to say that you — as a woman, as a mother, as a partner to Joe, as an activist, and all the other myriad things you present on your blog and in your career — have been a real touchstone and inspiration to me. Knit on!

  1271. I’m amazed at how you handled yourself with such grace under fire. When it comes down to it, you never do let ’em see you sweat.
    I know that at the end of the long list of comments, this my not get read, but none the less, I have to say this.
    On behalf of myself (and I’m sure everyone else), I’m sorry for what she wrote. Its people like that who give Americans (who live in America, not American…if you’re going to send a mean email, speed is no excuse for poor spelling 🙂 ) as well as Christians a bad name.
    Keep doing what you’re doing. Because of this blog you’ve converted a crocheter into a knitter and a spinner who is currently knitting her second sock. And it looks like they both will fit.

  1272. I’m not going to add anything new to what’s already been said, but I feel like I need to add my support. I’m embarrassed and sick that anyone can act like this. Keep yourself and your family safe. You have a lot of support.

  1273. Unless I am in the top 100, I don’t leave a comment, but today I am making an exception. You are wonderful. Thank you for all your blog posts and tweets – I thoroughly enjoy them. I am going to SS09 and am totally thrilled.
    She is carrying so much hurtful baggage. We can all ignore her and not pick it up ourselves.
    Big hugs from foggy San Francisco.

  1274. As an American who has traveled extensively in Canada and has many friends who claim their citizenship there I thoroughly enjoy your Canada day posts. I have often listened to them talk about the real problem of the Americanization of Canada and holding onto the unique Canada identity and how easy it is for U.S. influences to pervade across the border. This person, well, she’s gone off her meds, perhaps for a long time now, you’ve made the right call. Anyone who reads her twitters is only going to be fascinated enough to go to your blog and read it and then scratch their head and say what!!! Ignore her and block her.

  1275. I’m Canadian and American, a crocheter and a lousy knitter, and I love reading your blog. There are loons everywhere, and I pledge to ignore any nutty comments on your blog no matter how strongly I have to restrain myself.

  1276. What I said before, and what the literally thousands of lovely people who have commented before me. Multiply that by a quadrillion.
    Steph, take whatever steps you need to take to keep your self safe and whole. And while you do, please know that you are so well loved, and no lunatic will ever take that away from you.

  1277. I am American and I love you Steph. Keep up the awesome work you’ve been doing; it’s all for the good in this world, and we all need that goodness.

  1278. Stephanie, I am constantly amazed by your ability to deal with these situations calmly and reasonably. You are much better at that than I am. I would have flown off the handle a long time ago if I were in your place. You are my hero.

  1279. I’m so sorry this had to come to this, and I’ve never taken offense to any of your posts. I love reading your blog, and I will continue to do so! You and your family are in my thoughts in prayers! And you truly can’t fix crazy as the above poster said!

  1280. Thank you for sharing this terrible experience with us – so we have the opportunity to encourage you. Thank you for your blog! …back to lurking for me…

  1281. Another big fan of yours here. Although I love your books and blog, I have never posted on your blog before but I felt I had to say something.
    This hateful person is definitely a few sandwiches short of a picnic. I imagine she spends her days terrorising people and I would be very surprised if you were her only target.
    I am really sorry you are going through this, you don’t deserve it but I don’t think she is going to come to her senses anytime soon and you should look to the law for a solution.
    Sending tons of happy thoughts and affection from the UK, Charlie

  1282. I can’t believe people are so stupid. I have been a reader of your blog for years, read your books enjoyed your knitting and met you in person in Colorado. You are a great, kind and caring person. Hope to see you again in Colorado

  1283. Just another voice from the U.S. to say you are adored by American knitters (save one clearly crazy one that, in my opinion, should be kicked out of the country–free speech does mean harassment lady!).
    Much love from Sunny California (the left side of the nation :))

  1284. I’m so sorry you had to deal with this. And I am so tired of apologizing for my fellow countrymen, but I’ll do it again. I’m sorry for the crazies here.
    Actually, I’m an American ex-pat living in Europe, and I’m not sure I ever want to move home. If only my family in California weren’t so far away…

  1285. Like many, I’ve been reading for quite some time, though I’ve not commented before.
    Stephanie, you’ve exemplified what it means to be an ambassador for knitting and humanity. Do not let the [vile] words of another change the essence of who you are. We, your readers [and I’m sure your family too] love you just the way you are.
    Peace & Love & knotless-knitting forever!

  1286. I’m an American, living in America, currently working towards my permanent residence in Canada (husband is Canadian). I totally enjoy your Canada Day posts. I don’t find them Un-American at all! I find it odd, how Americans are allowed to be patriotic, but when it comes to someone else being proud of their heritage or country, it’s wrong?
    I’m sorry you have to deal with this psycho Steph.

  1287. There are people who thrive on chaos and hostility, because they crave the negative attention. I have one of those in my family and I finally achieved some sort of peace when I stopped trying to defend myself and ceased any kind of dialogue. Silence drives these people crazy, they hate being ignored, but they do eventually go away.
    I think you have poked fun at lots of people and nationalities, including yourself and your own nationality on many, many occasions. You do it with wit and humour, and you make all of us laugh, especially at ourselves. It reminds us not to take ourselves too seriously and it’s very healthy. Keep on bringing the laughs…

  1288. Dear Harlot-
    Please be careful. This sounds frighteningly similar to a stalker situation a co-worker of mine had to deal with, and the authorities took it very seriously. Please consider yourself hugged, and know that there are Americans and Christians who are not insecure and do not take offense when none is meant. Personally, I want to thank you for many laughs and the encouragement to learn something new and wonderful – knitting! You and your blog are a treat!

  1289. This is a troubled person who doesn’t seem to recognize how fragile her mental health is at this time. I hope she gets some help and stops her tirades. I’m sorry. It’s hard to understand why someone who hates a blog so much would spend so much time with it.
    Another American here to say that being proud of Canada when you are a Canadian citizen isn’t anti-American, you have the right to the same free speech we value so highly in this country, and those of us who buy your books certainly also freely pay our money whether we are American, Canadian or from any other country. You are successful in America because the Americans who buy your books like your writing.

  1290. I’m so very sorry you are being subjected to this childishness. Ya got to know you’re my hero I think your great and I love the way you wright. Sending you happy thoughts from Coos Bay Oregon

  1291. I’ve been reading an enjoying your blog for a long time now but I’m not sure that I’ve ever posted. I’m more of a lurker, but I feel i need to respond to this with my support. I adore your posts, your books and your whimsy in general. I often read parts of your blog or books aloud to my husband who understands zero about knitting and yarn love but laughs his ass off at your funniness. Please don’t let one disturbed individual make you think any less of yourself or what you do. The issue is her’s not yours.
    Light and love,
    Katy (who is American and not at all proud of her countrywoman)

  1292. Stand strong. I’ve been stalked. This is what it feel like. I don’t know about Canadian law… Can you get the stalking laws to work in your favor?

  1293. I think everyone has already said it but I’ll add some love and support from Kentucky.

  1294. I have lurked but never posted before…. Maybe this is some sort of cosmic test. I think you have passed with flying colors!
    stay safe and soak up the love coming your way

  1295. I hope she soon finds the help she obviously needs. I am saddened that someone that claims to be Christian, is an American and a woman would be so hateful to anyone. I enjoy your blog, your books and wish I had even half your knitting experience. I believe you are taking the correct path in dealing with this and I hope everyone that reads your blog follows your lead.

  1296. I don’t comment often, but had to add my voice to those who are behind you 1000%. Hugs from Ohio.

  1297. Ughh I’m so sorry you have to endure this. You are handling this with dignity and respect. I hope it ends soon.
    Take care.

  1298. Good luck with this.
    I’ve dealt with this kind of person as an IT professional in many different forms for many years and you’re taking the right approach. Report it to the authorities, your IP and her Internet provider and then ignore it. Block her when she pops up in her many iterations, don’t read them if you can help it, and get on with your life. The more attention you give this type of person, the worse they are.
    I could tell you stories… just know that ignoring them (on all levels) is the best defense.

  1299. I also do not usually comment, but I think that anyone looking at your blog stats (and perusing the comments to this post alone) have got to see that you mean a lot to a lot of us out here! And I agree with what someone said above: I thought we were all knitters here? Who said anything about borders? Sheesh!

  1300. So sorry you had to deal with this situation but so proud of how you have conducted yourself in the face of it. You remind me why I like to hang out with knitters in the first place – practical, compassionate, and humorous they are. Sending you (and your “challenge”) light. Thanks for sharing yourself with the world.

  1301. I joined Ravelry to find one of your patterns. I knit socks with encouragement from your blog. My mom and I giggled together over your books. And I’m just about to block my very first lace project with tips from your blog archive.
    Thanks for your humour, encouragement and advice!!!

  1302. Just as an act of support and solidarity I’m leaving a comment. I’d like to show this unfortunate person who’s threatening you what can happen when you spend years creating a following by being nice, funny, and smart. Your readers will come out of the woodwork to send you back the energy you’ve put out to us. I am so excited for SS09. I’m a new knitter and I’ve never been to a knitting event before.

  1303. Long time reader, newbie poster here. I continue to find it amazing that some people think that because they profess to be Christians, they have the right to use that as a weapon to hurt others. It sounds to me like this person needs to get back on her meds and chill out. There’s way too much hatred in the world and I refuse to participate in organized religion anymore because it encourages the nutballs of the world to justify this kind of behavior. YOU GO, GIRL! This Texan totally supports you!

  1304. Oh, Steph, how very awful!! This is one sick cookie. And, of course you know accusing you of being anti-American is the sickest thing of all! I just hope she gets help & gets off your sweet Canadian back!! We love you….

  1305. As a first time commentor, a librarian who loves your books, and sometimes knitting blogger, I am so sad that you and your family have to go through this.
    Stephanie, you are a knitting celebrity, and I guess this is the price that you must pay for your fame. We have never had someone do so much for the knitting craft community as you have and please never forget that. We need you!

  1306. Oh my goodness, this story is amazing. This unfortunte person is clearly, um, challenged. Actually, I wanted to say crazy. Thank you for bearing all this negative goof-ball stuff and carrying on with your blog…you are well-loved!

  1307. I rarely comment but had to add my voice to those who are behind you 1000%. We love you. Hugs from Ohio.

  1308. First time commenting, but I wanted you to know that I support you and send you and your family lots of love. I am sick of people trying to put lipstick on a pig by saying their behavior is “American” and “Christian” when it is neither.

  1309. You have my respect and support. It is sad that there are some really irrational people out there.

  1310. Would it be possible for me to lead us in song at SS09 – “For She’s a Jolly Good Fellow”? Then we could repeat for all the SS09 teams!

  1311. I know you know that most Americans do not think like that person. I am also sorry you have been going through this. She sounds very jealous of you.
    You have been extremely sane with this insanity. Is there someway to have a restraining order put on her when you are in the US?
    Can you have her email address blocked as spam on your email server?
    Any dialogue at all with her seems to only incite her more. As hard as it might be I think absolute dead silence on your part might be best. Maybe stop reading her garbage as it is really not about you but her own mind making something for her to latch on to. Reading her verbal diarrhea is really tearing you apart. While negative energy can be expanded by continuing to concentrate on it, the converse is also true.
    You are loved by us sane and maybe not so sane readers, also valued and praised and laughed with and enjoyed and honored.
    Namaste,

  1312. I’m proud of you! Such a lunatic needs a visit from the authorities to put some reality into her life. I hope you have them working on that. Yes, we would defend you, vigorously. You’ve brought me many hours of joy with your blog and books and I learned to knit socks because of you. We who love you far outnumber one nitwit. I’m glad you’re still here.

  1313. *hugs*
    from just another one of the thousands of knitters standing behind you today…
    Stay safe.

  1314. As the other comments show, she does not speak or represent ALL AMERICANS. In fact, I’m pretty sure she is only speaking for herself. Don’t let the lone voice get you down. There is plenty of love and light shining from all corners of the world for you! Thank you for all that you do and put up with to bring us daily doses of your spirit and grit!

  1315. I applaud your actions, Steph.
    With love from a Wiccan (and, incidentally, not an atheist)

  1316. Like so many others, I want to offer you my support and tell you that there is no reason to let your self-esteem be affected by this person’s comments or thoughts. Many of us know you to be a wonderful writer, a wonderful parent, and overall a wonderful human being full of compassion, dignity, respect, and a great sense of humor.

  1317. Stephanie, this just totally bites. I’m really sorry this has been going on – hope things get better soon.

  1318. Stephanie:
    As an U.S. American, I just want to say that this woman does not speak for me. I think you are a good, caring, wonderful person and the reason why I stop by your blog is to read your posts on everything from knitting to every day life. I enjoy your writing and often laugh out loud. You are being very strong in this situation and I want to say I am sorry that you have to go through this. Please just continue being you and try not to let this woman get you down.

  1319. So sad that someone would do this to someone else. I believe that you are doing the right thing by shining the light on this situation. Also if my daughter is as compassionate and hard working as your daughters seem to be, I will consider it a job well done. May peace be with you and your family.

  1320. I hope you manage to keep blocking this woman. She’s obviously not quite sane so there’s no point in trying to engage in logical correspondence with her. Big hug from the UK!

  1321. Best wishes from New Jersey. I find it interesting that she keeps referring to what a good Christian she is when she is acting so very un-Christ like. Then again, as a non-Christian, I may have misunderstood the New Testament.

  1322. I don’t often post either, but wanted to tell you that you are still loved a lot and that you are a very courageous and courteous person. Thank you for you and for your family and for your blog.

  1323. Steph, as a Christian,Republican, proud American woman, let me say I’m sorry. I’ve often told the Huband, who is a police officer, that we should move to Newfoundland where the worst he would see is a moose/car collision and I could wear handknits year round!
    Americans (or any other country for that matter) should get to know their neighbors. Maybe we should have a cookout! I’ll put the Mexicans down for margaritas, and you can bring the poutine!
    Light,Love,Repect…and Laughter.

  1324. Just as in knitting where there are only two stitches but many variations on them, there are only two emotions, love and fear, and many variations on them.
    This woman is giving you fear, and may I say, in a very obsessed way. I have to admit I do feel sorry for her as her fear has her twisted and knotted inside. How awful it must be to take everything so very, very personally.
    Please let me express my deepest embarrassment that one of my fellow Americans would misrepresent the rest of us in such an ugly way. While I would not care to read her comments, I am mystified by her comment that the States have saved Canada over and over again.

  1325. Bless you. What the world truly does need is love.. and light and respect. Thanks for reminding us and leading the pack.

  1326. In the time it took me to read this post, 57 more people commented. On a Sunday morning. As a server administrator (from the American south) that is ASTOUNDING.
    Stephanie, you are truly supported, and hopefully emboldened, by the community you have created, one that we all crave and thrive on.

  1327. Just a note- you are a kind, gentle, intelligent and compassionate person. I believe the light fills the darkness, we just have to get through the night. Hold your head up, dance off the ickiness — we love you.

  1328. Just joining the virtual hug of support from Americans who think you’re the bee’s knees.
    Take care, lady.

  1329. Wow. Is this woman even a knitter?
    It really blows me away that people can boast of being “Christian” in the same breath that they spew out so much hatred. And for what?? If she can be so proud of being an American, why can’t you be proud to be Canadian? Oh well. Unfortunately, there are many so-called “Christians” out there that think one of the most important parts of their belief system is hating the people that don’t think, act, and do as they do, and they’ll never see the truth.
    I’ve seldom come across anyone who is as accepting and kind as yourself. I’ve never met you in person but I consider you my friend. There aren’t many people out there that can say “here’s what I believe, and if you don’t believe in that too, then that’s okay!” and truly feel that way.
    Sending my love and support from Illinois, just one more voice in the chorus. 🙂

  1330. Please do not let this person stop you from blogging your truth, which is important to those of us who benefit from it every day. What you put out into the world comes back to you threefold, I firmly believe that. I hope that those of us who appreciate your continuing honesty, good humor and light will send enough love your way to erase the evil memories of this terrible exchange. Please, keep up the good work.

  1331. And you thought a fleece-possessed squirrel was scarey? I’m relieved to know you’ve contacted the authorities I also admire the calm and thoughtful manner in which you’ve handled this severely misguided woman’s attack. Sending thoughts of love and protection your way.

  1332. I’m a very newbie poster but read your blog religiously. Please know that this person doesn’t represent America and her values in any way.
    You are a wonderful writer, knitter and human being.

  1333. I love your blog, and your books. I have never found anything offensive, although frequently thought-provoking, in what you say. Sending you light and love.

  1334. Well done, you. Hard to believe this is all about a KNITTING blog, of all seemingly innocuous things. Carry on!

  1335. I think the outpouring of support that this single blog post has received is indicative that she is definitely in the minority.
    You just keep on keepin on, and this will all blow over. You have a lot of support out here 🙂

  1336. She does not represent me as a christian or US citizen. (((hugs)))
    Looking forward to seeing you at SS09, and thank you for the opportunity to volunteer as I was not able to snag a class.

  1337. This broke my heart – I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you deal with this.
    You are a fantastic writer, mother of three awesome girls and wife to a good man. I applaud you.

  1338. Just to sat yhat I´m sure behind you.
    And that I think the commenting lady is insane. She needs to seek some professionell help.
    And by the way, what about the christian saying of turning the other cheek…
    Love to your and yours.

  1339. I know that you know this already but…I’m American, I’m Christian and she absolutely doesn’t represent my thinking.
    I don’t think you’re anti-American. You do 80% of your business here because WE LOVE YOU and we love your books. And I don’t think being pro-Canadian is being anti-anything.
    You’re great! you rock. you’re doing the right thing. And mostly I was glad to see that you had contacted the authorities. I don’t think this person is stable.

  1340. Wait for it……. She’ll cross the line (she is ratcheting up) and then get her hooked up for terrorist threats! A little vacation behind bars might do her some good!

  1341. Thank you so much for being a strong, upright woman and not reacting the way I probably would, with mean words and anger. Thanks (because I’ve read this blog for years now and I know you) for still knowing that most Americans, Christians, and women are good people who don’t act in this horrible, ignorant, and downright immature way. Thanks most of all, for keeping up the blog and NOT giving up. You are inspiration to all of us knitters, bloggers or no.

  1342. Stephanie, I have been reading your blog for 2/3 years, but never posted anything before. I just want to say how much I admire you. If I was in your position, I would have just blown up and “yelled” at her over email. You, however, found it in yourself to be the bigger person. I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. I am an American and appalled at the way this woman is behaving. You should go knit something really hard. Just pretend that whenever you put a needle through a stitch, you’re poking her. It works for me. 🙂

  1343. Stephie, you are handling this crappy situation perfectly. Fingers crossed that the torrential downpours we have been getting hold off for the bike rally. I do see the sun peeking through 🙂

  1344. From a left atheist American to a left atheist Canadian…
    MWAH!! Kisses and hugs!

  1345. As a fellow blogger, I do truly know how hurtful it can be to receive mean comments under the pretense of anonymity. I am amazed that some people seem to have no trouble showing their worst selves when they think they can’t get caught–it’s the epitome of what it looks like to live without integrity. Please know that I am an American, and I LOVE my Canadian friends, and love your work, your writing, your inspiration… and never once have you said anything that made me feel that you didn’t have the same equal respect for me that I do for you. The woman writing to you is clearly insane–on every level–and needs medical help. Possibly medication and hospitalization. Rational healthy people do not behave that way. I am shocked that she would have nothing better to do than harass a good person who shares her passion for knitting with the rest of us. It takes guts and grit (yes GRIT!) to put yourself out there on a blog. I know that it’s a vulnerable place to be, and as a blogger you go forward hoping that most people will appreciate your candor and be able to relate to what you have to say. I am deeply sorry. I know that our sympathies won’t take away the sting of a shameless low-brow lunatic, but I want you to know that you have many supporters who stand with you. Again… I’m so sorry. I have aspired to have a book published and to be more widely known in the blogosphere, but it’s just this sort of madness that makes me wonder if I’d ever have the stomach for it. Bless your sweet heart. Hang in there.

  1346. Big cyberhugs from an American who loves you:
    (((((((((((((((((((Steph)))))))))))))))))))))
    We love you and your work.

  1347. I am half American/Half English – conservative – very patriotic for both counties – Christian – U.S. military wife, but most importantly a knitter. That is why I read your blog. I learn from you and I enjoy your whit! Even my husband enjoys the blog especially when you have Sci-Fi references. Canada Day most of the time I enjoy and learn from. The last one irked me a bit (have to re-read to remind myself since it was a while ago) but I am a grown woman and I got over it. Completely. Still read and enjoy your blog. You were absolutely wonderful to me and my daughter, Haileigh, when you came to Seattle. I know it is part of your job but I didn’t get the feel that you were just going through the motions.
    Some people have factors in their life that create a negative environment and sometimes they transfer their anger on someone else who really isn’t deserving. I am sorry this happened to you. The Americans I know don’t talk like this nor do they feel that way about Canadians.
    p.s. knitters are supposed to be nice and the few Canadians that I have met in my lifetime have all been wonderful. You love a good cuppa and beer. Can’t get better than that!

  1348. I don’t comment often, so I guess I’m delurking here to let you know that I enjoy your work and the stories you tell, regardless of subject. I hope that shedding light will help. That the kind and supportive comments from your readers will help you ignore the hurtful ones. That you’ll find a way to keep your inner critic from listening to that onslaught of hate. I can’t comprehend from where it comes, but I’m certain it isn’t you.
    I’m going to be quiet now. I agree with and respect your preference to avoid a riot.
    best,
    H

  1349. I have read your blog for ages and never commented until now. I hope you will stay strong and protect yourself and your family from this obviously crazy person. You are a wonderfully warm,funny,lovely person/mom/wife. Don’t allow these comments to wipe that from your mind. You deserve better and so does everyone in your family. I hope this person gets the help that she so obviously needs. Peace be with you and your family in this awful time.

  1350. Never commented before, but wanted to say I’m so sorry for the completely unwarranted attacks. Stay safe and sane and don’t let her grind you down.

  1351. I wanted to add that you having noted that “slang for a woman’s body parts being used as a hurt…that’s a rant for another day” makes this young feminist respect you even more than I did already.
    To the extent that someone who only “knows” you over the internet can, I think you’re a really delightful person.

  1352. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. I think you have taken the approach you needed to take, and hopefully this will help the rest of us ignore the posts that really should just be ignored. Have a cold beer and hang in there.

  1353. Having been a “military brat”, I am a very patriotic American. I have been reading your posts for a while now and I find absolutely nothing in them that should offend any American. Whoever this person is, he/she does not represent the ideals and thoughts of any sane American I know! This person has decided to gain attention through your very popular blog. Your blog was chosen simply because so very many people of many nationalities read and totally enjoy your blog.

  1354. Stephanie,
    You know, I rarely comment on your blog, it’s true. I figure you get so many comments, you don’t need mine, heh. Anyway, today maybe you need us all, at least to know that we are here, in the background, reading, enjoying, and wishing you well.

  1355. Well, at least there’s one upside…A bit over 12 hours later, you’ve got over 1500 comments. Next year it should be easy to convince the tech people that the SS10 website needs to be extraordinarily robust!

  1356. Greetings from CT in the USA. It’s been a while since I’ve commented, but I couldn’t let this one pass me by. It never ceases to amaze me what horriffic things people are willing to say and do in the name of god and country. I’ll never understand this sort of hatred and ignorance. Please know that we’re all here to support you and enjoy your work. Love and peace from your neighbors to the south!

  1357. I just wish I knew who it was that is being so mean…Then I’d know I never want to visit her blog. This conservative reader frim the US loves you, your blog, and your books.

  1358. From a Illinois girl, stay strong. Clearly someone has a screw loose, and it is not you.
    Best wishes,
    Mallory

  1359. I can’t say that I’m enough of an expert to judge whether she misrepresents Canadians–although I would suspect that she does. I can sure as heck tell you that she DOES misrepresent Americans. And isn’t it lovely to see such a display of her Christian values?

  1360. Ah geography. Countries of North America -Belize
    Canada, Costa Rica,Guatemala, El Salvador, Honduras, Mexico,Nicaragua,Panama, United States Thanks for putting knitting on the map!!!

  1361. Just wanted to say- I’ve bought your books and loved them. I’ve laughed out loud at your posts, and once I even stood in the back of Book People in Austin and got a glimpse of your recognizable hair (it was crowded).
    I’ve been impressed by your writing, your knitting, and most of all your lovely and generous spirit. It comes through in everything you do, and makes visiting your blog such a pleasure and a joy for so many people. Given how you’ve lived your life so far, I shouldn’t be surprised by how kindly and sensibly you’re handling this mess, but I am. I am proud to “know” you, and I hope you have peace and comfort, and a palate cleansing from reading comments from the sane people who adore you.

  1362. Hi Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry. What a mess. I’m an American, living in the UK. 🙂 No less patriotic for having left the country and I just love you to pieces. Read the blog, follow the tweets, buy the books (or check them out at least). I’m also a weirdo who was married by someone who wasn’t religiously affiliated. Bravo. You’re writing not only inspires me, it reminds me that it’s human to make mistakes and be oddly obsessed and feel like your not quite ‘on’ everyday. I appreciate that and I can’t imagine why anyone would feel like you’re standing apart from the rest of us. Blessed be…Kelley

  1363. If I don’t like something — I don’t read it, watch it, eat it….etc. I love your blog and I’ll sit here in America, read it daily, laugh and be inspired. Furthermore, who has time for such huge quantities of negative energy? Let the postive, peaceful light shine on!

  1364. I am yet another of the scores of lurkers who feels compelled to step out of the shadows and comment today. I am native-born US citizen (with the birth certificate to prove it!) who loves her country. I am an evangelical Christian, the daughter of a pastor/former missionary and graddaughter of another. I have NEVER encountered any post made on this blog that seemed to me in any way anti-american or anti-christian. I have deeply enjoyed every single Canada Day post, and been touched when my nation’s chosen days to celebrate Independence and Thanksgiving have been mentioned.
    As many before me have mentioned, I was stunned when I began reading this post, and afraid that the end of The Blog was about to be announced. At the time I began writing this, the 1011 comments up when I first started reading had gone past 1400, and I doubt that I can add anything new. So I will simply say this:
    Stephanie, although you share neither my nationality nor my faith, I consider you a shining example of what a good human being can and should be. I admire your way with words, your sense of humor, and your ability to touch on the foibles of mankind without being cruel, insulting or petty. I have the highest respect for your commitment to family and your tolerance for others’ differences. I also deeply appreciate your courage, for being brave enough to risk setting out so much of what is within you for the rest of us to inspect, poke and prod at from the comfort of our anonymous little caves far away. Thank you for being willing to share not only your triumphs, but also your doubts, fears, and errors. Your blog and books have made me laugh, made me cry, made me remember that I’m not alone in this habit of nearly always tucking needles and wool into my purse or briefcase. You and your family are in my prayers.
    (((((((((((((((((*HUG*)))))))))))))))))

  1365. Good for you, Stephanie! I think you did exactly as you should, and I understand. And just so you know, I am an American, I have all your books, love them all, read them frequently, and am eagerly awaiting the next one! I think you’re funny and clever, and your sock pattern got me through my first pair of socks when I was about to give up on them. And, thanks to you, I have the courage to write my first knitting chart. I just started that last night. Good luck, and knit some Noro Silk Garden (excellent smoother for a rumpled soul). 😀

  1366. Unbelievable. NO, all too believable. It distresses me that people like this claim their position as “Americans” and “Christians”. Her behavior is not representative of the TRUTH of either!
    I decided to post for the first time just to add another # to the # of posts of support!
    God bless you!

  1367. As an American Christian woman, I find your humor delightful, your parenting realistic, and your knitting content encouraging. You’re a class act, and I look forward to purchasing anything you put in print. Keep being yourself – YOU’RE DELIGHTFUL!

  1368. Your response to all this is so insightful and honest. I hope this woman gets the proper medical help she clearly needs. I pray for the safety of you and your family, and please keep writing and knitting!

  1369. Dearest Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry that you’ve been going through this horrible shit, and dealing with the wonder and the debacle that has been Sock Summit at the same time. Your books all live on my shelf (two on my nightstand) here in New York, all with your autograph. You’re my favorite author, and my heroine. I want to be like you when I grow up. Peace be with you.

  1370. What an utterly terrible situation for you! I’d offer advice but it’d only be to keep on doing what you’re doing anyway, you sound like you’re on the right track. Best of luck with it & a big knitterly hug.

  1371. Let’s pray something happens in her church today! Not Christian behavior, by any standard. I’m so sorry.

  1372. Dear Stephanie: I haven’t left you a comment in ages(blame ravelry for eating up my blogreading time) and I haven’t the time to read all the comments, but want to weigh in as an American who has always enjoyed your Canada Day posts, and all the others as well. I hope all your readers will take the high road and resist poking the crazy when the time comes. You’re a class act, as always!
    love and light, Kathe

  1373. Such low behavior, I am neither Canadian or American, I think nationality and being proud of it is absolutely no excuse for personal attacks such as you’ve been suffering. Clearly this lady is suffering some mental instability (it sounds judgemental I know, but to be so obsessed, to take up so much time to be attacking one person like this means there is something missing somewhere). You have been much stronger than most people would be in this situation and I think you’ve been doing the right thing.
    Know that there are many, many people out there that support and love you. I can only hope if this post feeds the fire, that it’s one that will burn itself out immediately. Good luck!

  1374. *pfft* she is a bug on the windshield, wipe her off.
    If I had the skills and talent, I’d design a blog button that reads “Americans for Stephanie” and proudly display it. So just know that particular blog button is in my heart.

  1375. Stephanie, you know I’m not your biggest fan (I’m the one who dared to admit on Ravelry that I didn’t always find your essays very funny), but I do respect your writing otherwise. You’ve done pieces that touch my heart, you present knitting techniques and tips in a way that makes them suddenly clear, and when you write on the blog, you share the ins and outs of your life with humor and a healthy sense of perspective.
    As an American, I am also profoundly embarrassed by this woman. I appreciate it when you talk about the differences between Canada and America, and I don’t take them as an indication that you are knocking us or dislike us. Only that there are differences, and you are pointing them out.
    To see this woman claim that she’s a Christian is mind-boggling.
    I have tweeted my support for you, as I’ve seen others do today as well. Keep the faith, there are far more people who love you than there are people like her.

  1376. A fellow Canuck supporter here to say that you’ve done an excellent job of communicating what has been going on behind the scenes … your fellow knitters needed to be aware so that they can be sure to shun this individual rather than accidentally give her even a drop of the undeserved attention she craves. You’ve earned every bit of what you’ve got with your innate multi-talents and joy in sharing and that will always infuriate those who would rather jealously destroy than create.
    Hang in there, keep all the documentation she obligingly hands you (preferably without sullying your mind and spirit by reading it) for the law, and know that there’s a ton of (reasonably) sane folk out in cyberland and RL who appreciate you and your willingness to share the knitting love. 🙂

  1377. As the husband of an xtreme knitter who is one of your biggest fans (and I think you’re pretty awesome myself) I feel compelled to comment on this by saying that there’s a whack job in every crowd, and I’m sorry that this sorry excuse for an American has chosen to inject her views into your life.
    You might consider notifying her ISP, if you have sufficient information to indicate where she connects to the net; this kind of behavior will get an account shut down with almost any decent ISP.
    Best wishes!
    Phoenix

  1378. I want to join my voice to those who want to tell you how much I enjoy your blog and have paid full retail for all of your books. Keep your chin up and know that she is not representative of any American I have met. You are fabulously funny and I wish you all the best that life offers.

  1379. Another American Christian here – and her opinion doesn’t represent mine. I don’t always agree with your political opinions (wouldn’t the world be a boring place if everyone were the same), but you’re funny and you know a lot about knitting! I’m sorry you’ve had to put up with this kind of abuse.

  1380. Adding my support and encouraging you to contact the appropriate authorities…hugs from Alberta.

  1381. Can I just add, in addition to my support, that I have NEVER laughed like a hyena?
    xox from California

  1382. Consider me out there- collecting really bright flashlighs for the cause!
    Sorry this is happening. Sorry that this person doesn’t seem to respect the right to disagree with someone normally.
    We don’t always agree either- but I always figured it wouldn’t matter should we hang out, we’d be happily knitting away and talking about how Koigu could be integral in creating world peace.
    That’s the great thing about knitters- and you’ve said this all along, it doesn’t matter about our race, our backgrounds, our religion or our views on politics, we’re all bonded by knitting and we all manage in MOST cases to get a long just fine. We’re bonded by knittng and our love of the craft.
    Sending you support and hugs from Alberta!!

  1383. Just know that you are a darling and adored by many. I believe what goes around comes around…she’ll get what’s coming.

  1384. I just have to say, I love you and your blog. Your calender keeps me amused every day at work. I’m sending you atheist hugs from the very bottom of my cold, godless heart! 😉

  1385. One problem with the US healthcare/insurance situation is that a lot of people are not getting the mental healthcare they need. I mean this in all seriousness. It’s just too expensive. So until people have to be institutionalized for a week or ten days or however long they can hold you that first time, people with serious mental illnesses often get NO healthcare for what are serious diseases. It doesn’t feel good from the inside of their heads (this happened to a friend of mine–she felt like the world was out of control, she felt depressed, she felt euphoric, she heard voices–a few of the crazy feelings she liked, but most she didn’t. She knew they weren’t “normal.”). Try to keep in mind that she’s suffering from a disease. Be compassionate. And do what you need to do to block her/protect your family/keep yourself from feeling down, etc.

  1386. Hi Steph. I’m neither American or Canadaian and have a few friends of both nationalities.
    We Brits call this behaviour stalking. Don’t the ‘Feds’ deal with that kind of thing in your neck of the woods?
    Mind you, all the time and effort she’s expending on (no offense intended so _please_ don’t take any) on a very amusing yet minor diversion leads me to beleive she could in fact be Sectionable in good old Blighty.
    Keep smiling; be strong and keep posting – you are a very welcome relief in a stressful world.

  1387. As a fiercely patriotic American (who, for the record, happens to be a big old pagan) let me say I have never, ever seen anything on your blog that could even be remotely construed as Anti-American. I love your blog and books, and I hope that you don’t let one person who obviously has bigger issues color your internet life.
    Steph

  1388. Stay safe, Harlot!
    Such people are mentally ill and you choose the right path to deal with her.

  1389. Goodness gracious. Steph, when I think your plate can’t get any fuller, it does. Keep your chin up, and we all love and support you. And Canada.
    And I’ve always really enjoyed the Canada Day postings.

  1390. Dear, dear Stephanie,
    This is my first time posting a comment too, because I simply had to say something.
    Stand strong, have faith, and don’t let your light flicker off because of this. I love your posts, your voice, and your compassion.
    PS: I tried posting from my Blackberry, but I got tired of trying to scroll to the end of the page… I had to use my laptop’s internet 🙂 People are really, really good here.

  1391. Strength and love to you. I have been reading your blog for several years and you are an inspiration.
    K

  1392. Long time reader, first time commenter, just wanted to add my voice of sorry that this is happening and my gladness that you aren’t letting it stop you from doing what you want to do.

  1393. She certainly doesn’t represent this American (or my many American friends)! I and many of my friends enjoy your blog, your books, and think you are an inspiration to knitters everywhere. Best of luck dealing with such a difficult situation.

  1394. Long time reader, first time to post a comment. You’re in my thoughts. I always look forward to the ray of sunshine you bring every day.

  1395. I just wanted to write a message to you saying how much I enjoy your Canada Day posts, and how impressed I am with the calm and dignified way you’ve responded to the commenter.
    Like other commenters, I’m going to make a contribution to MSF today.

  1396. Stephanie
    I am a rather embarrassed American at this moment. I love reading your blog and have never gotten the slightest hint that you are “anti-american”. Unfortunately nuts come in all nationalities!
    I look forward to reading your blog every day and hope you continue for a long time.
    Lisa in Ohio

  1397. I just wanted to stand up with my fellow “American Knitters” and say that I enjoy all of your blog posts, I own and have read all of your books, I am a better knitter because of you, and I now know and appreciate more about my neighboring country (Canada)than anything I’ve learned at school. Peace, Love, and Thank You.

  1398. (((((((HUGS))))) and love from Ohio. I hope the over 1500 comments of love and support overshadow the one of hate and negativity. There are more of us than there are of them! Chin up and I agree with many others: involve the authorities! You are being threatened, protect yourself and your family from the crazy person who is doing this! Good luck, Stephanie!

  1399. Namaste Stephanie. I’m so glad you chose to talk to us about this. You have to know that you are not alone when rough times hit you. Peace to you.

  1400. I always found your Canada Day post to be pro-Canada (duh), not anti-anything.
    You are a strong and amazing person with more dignity and grace than I.
    What a horrible, horrible experience. I kept thinking, “This person is clearly psychotic,” but mostly I was just stunned.
    Breathe deep; know that you are loved by your family, your friends, and us.
    My deepest apology that this came from my country. If she represents the U.S., then we are truly Ugly Americans.

  1401. Dear Stehanie,
    I to am an American Christian woman… heck my husband is a minister. I LOVE your blog. I check it first thing whenever I get on the computer. Your writing makes me happy. I have all of your books and have pictures of you autographing a couple of them. You are right… It is best for us to not know who she is. I would spend a lot of energy defending you. You are a great writer, knitter, mother, wife, and friend… I am sure in the real world as much as in the cyber world. I am so sorry that you have been dealing with this. Please do not get discouraged. WE are with you!

  1402. Stephanie: I am ashamed and angry that your harasser uses both her nationality and her religion to promote her irrational and unfounded hate talk. She is not typical of either Americans or Christians, as we all know. I can only hope that she gets the professional help she needs and that she someday comes to see how her actions and hateful talk have hurt you personally and those of us who admire you and your wonderful blog. I echo an earlier comment and urge you to contact the US authorities. Your being in Canada does not preclude the possibility that she is violating US law by continuing her harassing behaviors. Know that we love you and support you!

  1403. I don’t comment much. I don’t knit. I do know enough about knitting to be able to laugh at your blog entries, and the books. I am american, and have never felt insulted by anything you have written.
    Ignoring is the best way to lose the troll, attention is what they live for, without that, they will move on to someone else.
    I know you may never read this, since it is like number 1549, but I wanted to add to that number of people who support you.

  1404. There are goddesses (or angels, if you prefer) who walk among us. They bring light to the world, each in her own way. You, Stephanie, are one of those goddesses.
    You taught us so much about knitting and life.
    You led us to Doctors Without Borders.
    And you help people laugh on very dark days. Thank you for all of it.
    Every stitch I make (or rip) today will be with a thought for your health, happiness, and safety.

  1405. What an insult to all of us Americans who love and respect you! You have taken the high road and you are to be commended for it! We as Americans believe in love of country and why shouldn’t you as well. I’ve been to Canada and have to say it was one of the cleanest, most beautiful places I’ve ever seen.
    My Dad was such a simple and wonderful man, he always told me, “Fools names and Fools faces always show in public places”! There you have it!

  1406. As an American and a Canadian (born Canada, live in Oklahoma, one parent of each country) I want to tell you how very much I admire your writing. I learned sock knitting from your Rules book.
    This person is sick. May I add my voice to those urging you to contact the authorities ASAP. She sounds like the paranoid type that could escalate her verbal attacks to something more serious.Please take care.

  1407. Goodness sakes alive, what a mess. In answer to Wendy’s question about “how can being pro-Canadian be seen as anti everything else” there is a certain scary segment of the US population who believe exactly that. If you have any sort of positive notions about other countries, you are un-patriotic/insulting to them. For example, the fact that I admire countries that actually have health care for their citizens, basically makes me some sort of threat in their eyes. It’s weird. It’s extra weird that these people usually call themselves Christians. Some of the most racist groups in the US (Aryan Nation, KKK…) call themselves Christian. While I do support everyone’s freedom to state their beliefs, that does not include acts of violence or harassment toward others. This is definitely falling into the very scary threatening category. Best wishes from one of your “few remaining” US fans.
    BTW if you ever DO have to discontinue your blog for reasons of personal safety, I will be very very sad, but I will understand.

  1408. i cannot believe the arrogance of one woman who thinks she speaks for a nation of over 375 million people. for someone who is “anti-american” you sure spend a lot of time here…. i love your blog and all that you stand for, you’re an encouragement to us younger readers who want to be like you when we grow up.

  1409. Love your blog and your books. Keep your chin up, you have alot of support behind you. This person has too much time on their hands and not enough yarn to love.

  1410. As an American, I love your Canada Day postings! Good luck with this, and remember that for every one person who hates you, there are a ton who love you!

  1411. Citizens of Canada and the United States are Americans. They live on the North American contient. Not that it matters what we call ourselves. Too bad we can’t just live and let live. You are the best!

  1412. I believe enough Yanks have commented that the above-mentioned individual does not represent the opinions of the bulk of your USA readership … how sadly insecure the poor woman must be to interpret your natural pride in your native country and the resulting patriotism as a criticism of the USA. Most days I am proud to be an American and everyday I am proud of what Americans strive to be as we state it in our Declaration of Independence and our Constitution … but I believe that respecting and honoring the alternate paths others have taken to reach similar national goals is truly what freedom and independence are all about.
    Here’s to Good Neighbors!

  1413. I am Canadian and my husband is an American from Texas. He loves living here and is quite fond of telling people, “I wasnt born Canadian but I got here as fast as I could”, which I think is very cute 🙂
    Don’t let her get you. Her 15 minutes of fame will be up soon enough, and her hateful and hatefilled 15 minutes will never surpass the incredible gift you have given us with your writing.

  1414. I am so sorry that you and your family have had to deal with this. It is shocking to me that anyone would devote so much time to spreading hurtful, hateful and frightening things. If you don’t agree or like what you read, then stop reading and go to a different site/blog.
    We are all the better for our diversity and the right to express ourselves the way we want.
    Keep your chin up and know that there are many more people who support you than not.

  1415. I am so embarrassed for us U.S. knitters, and hope you keep on posting to your blog. As I read your post I was so afraid you were going to say you were going to stop. I for one would miss it tremendously. Please do what you need to to protect you and your family. Maybe your publisher can help you remove yourself from the situation.
    Love you!

  1416. Wow. Adding one more voice of support to the thousands already here.
    You’re absolutely amazing. With the power of a blog that was able to bury a woman in sock yarn, you choose the high road instead of allowing an all out internet war. You’re absolutely right. Making a full-scale war will only feed the troll. Let’s just starve her out.

  1417. I think ya gotta be nuts to what you do, laying yourself open to every freakin’ loser with internet access. Thanks for doing it. Most of the time you are really funny. You’d be funny all the time if you didn’t have to waste time talking about angry nutcases.
    –xoxo–

  1418. Dear YH,
    I’m a long-time reader, but I’ve never felt compelled to comment until now. I could go off the deep end about all the ugly, insulting, and flat-out wrong things this woman has said in her emails and comments, but I won’t. Instead, I’ll just say that I admire how you’ve risen above this situation with sense and dignity. You’ve done enough to deal with it, and you can count on me (and I’m sure on many of your other readers) not to acknowledge her existence if she makes so much as a peep.
    Sympathy and love,
    An embarrassed American

  1419. Hang in there! You are a smart woman and I know you have taken all precautions possible to protect yourself and you family. I’ll send good vibes your direction. BTW I like Prince’s music a lot but his politics purely suck.

  1420. I apologize for this person because she is representing herself as a Christian, an American, and a knitter. Christians don’t behave this way. True Americans don’t behave this way. And it grieves my knitter’s heart to think a fellow knitter would ever even consider behaving this way. I enjoy your blog and your books, and you’ve inspired me to knit some things I may not have otherwise thought I could tackle. God bless you Stephanie Pearl-McPhee.

  1421. I am so sorry you have to deal with this wacko with all the other stuff you have going on. She sounds like she has serious issues. Sending positive support from Maine!

  1422. Stephanie;
    You did the right thing and I support you, even as a “Christian American Woman”, and will continue to support you. Heck, I like learning things about Canada! this blog is one of the sites I have read consistently from the beginning of my time as a knitter to the present, and I have consistently laughed at your jokes, taken joy in your successes and winced at the many challenges. You are doing your best and your success comes from that effort, keep it up!
    best ;
    Megan

  1423. As a long time reader of your blog, I was so upset that I finally have to post something for the first time. I was shocked and horrified to hear that someone so unbalanced would pick you to attack and harass. You are an amazing person, so warm, funny, honest and articulate on your blog. When I met you at a book signing in Vancouver at Urban Yarns, you were exactly the same in person. I feel that my life is enriched just by reading your wonderful thoughts. I know it is a tough and difficult situation, but I just want you to know that I am sending some positive energy your way. Go sit with your lovely family, have a beer and knit. I am so upset that I have to go knit too!

  1424. Like everyone else, I’ll just chime in with the comment that your work is wonderful, not just funny but so smart and insightful. It has had a pretty profound impact on me.
    And my general philosophy is that if I don’t like what I’m reading in a blog…I just stop reading it. 🙂

  1425. I’ve never posted here before, but I just wanted to add my voice of support to the chorus. I enjoy your blog immensely and enjoy your posts about Canada even more than the knitting posts (it’s easy to admire snow from here in southern California).
    Your stalker has clearly got some mental health issues. People who feel that their lives are spinning out of control are often drawn to the loony, authoritarian fringe of the right wing and right now the far right is plenty stirred up. I apologize for my countrywoman.

  1426. Steph, I’m so sorry you’re having such troubles. I’m glad there are already so many posts reminding you that most of us love and respect you! Might I add that according to the way I was taught you are far more Christian she is, even if you would never consider yourself one? I believe it has a lot to do with love, respect, and forgiveness, rather than being an angry vicious lunatic.

  1427. Why does she get to be anonymous, when you are not anonymous? Maybe not her email, but her name should be public. This is how humans have regulated their interactions for hundreds of thousands of years, through public accountability. I believe she has lost the privilege of being anonymous.
    With all the friends you have on this planet, you should not have to stand alone. Thanks for letting us be on your team.
    Take care, and keep us close to you! 😉

  1428. who? don’t speak of who? Sorry, I already forgot whom we’re talking about =)
    You are absolutely right to ignore this type of person – they simply Do Not Matter. You know this isn’t how 99.99999999% of people feel about you, the rest of us know the same, and one whack-job quite simply doesn’t have the power to spoil this amazing knitting community that you have fostered. (At the same time, I am deeply sorry that you have had to waste any energy on this. Sending you love.)

  1429. I see you have <1500 comments, but I just have to say this:
    I am a VERY patriotic American. I own all your books and wish you would write another *soon*!!! I do not see anything even remotely anti-American on your blog. Why should you not be as proud to be Canadian as I am to be American? This person is clearly cracked and does not represent American women at all!!!!
    Alice
    p.s. I’ve been reading your blog for over 2 years now, but this is the first time I have commented.

  1430. wow. i really don’t like it when people presume to speak for me. I’m American, and i love the YH! keep up the good work Stephanie.
    also, i don’t know anything about Canadian law, but could her continued harassment be considered stalking? are there any laws to keep her from harassing you any further?

  1431. I’ve always had lots of friends from other countries (Daughter of the American Revolution,here). I recall a phone conversation with my mom from my college years. I was telling her all about my friends and what I was learning about their cultures.
    After hearing names from Japan, Singapore, Jamaica, Egypt, Indonesia and others,
    she asked,
    “Don’t you have any American friends?” “Of course, I have Gene.”
    “What state is she from?”
    “Calgary.”
    Enough said…Love you Steph!
    You never fail to brighten my day.

  1432. Hi Stephanie,
    I’m sure I don’t have to repeat what’s been echoed here so many times, but you have been such a light in the knitting community; and yet, it your willingness to share your life, its ins and outs and its reality by being the down-to-earth, wonderful person that you are that makes us love you so. I would hate to see that change because one hateful, mentally ill person has threatened that. (Although I can understand how anyone would feel that way under that sort of attack).
    Know that this American (liberal female, but who’s counting, right?) stands by you. I love my country, and I’m so happy to know that you love yours, too.

  1433. I hope you won’t ever have to deal with nonsense like that again. That can’t be pleasant and it seems you could do with some pleasant in your life.
    Here’s hoping!

  1434. I’m so sorry. I hope you understand that this individual is sick, and her disease is not caused by, nor a reflection on you. Just so sorry you have to deal with it at all. I hope you can take all the love and support in the comments…and wrap yourself (and your family) snuggly tight.

  1435. Stephanie, what a shame this is happening to such a good person like you. I hope your stalker gets the help she so obviously needs. This U.S. citizen LOVES your Canada Day post every year and wants to remind people that U.S. citizens aren’t the only “Americans”. Many other countries are in North, Central, & South America…including Canada!

  1436. From the little bit you described I would say that she is one log short of a load, and worry (for your sake) that she may morph into someone who could do you physical harm because of the intensity of her viewpoint about you, if she is not already there!

  1437. You have made yourself vulnerable by the way you share you humour and family life with all of us – and we all love you for it! We don’t stand by constantly for the next giggle thanks to a YH post because we want to criticize you – and its unfortunate that someone cannot extricate themselves from your life despite needing to judge and resent everything you write.
    Please know we appreciate how public you have made your thoughts, as your wittiness makes so many peoples days!
    Hope this works itself out! Hang in there.

  1438. Stephanie– I’m so impressed by your level-headed response to this craziness. Can I be the voice of your subconscious for a sec? “YOU ARE AWESOME!” With much atheistic love from Virginia.

  1439. Clearly this person is mentally ill and deserving of help, she needs it badly. Nothing she says has anything to do with anyone but herself, she does not speak for America, Christians, pussies or anyone 😉 I think it was smart for you to enlist the help and blessings of so many who truly wish you well. We can cast a bright light of compassion and protection around you, (and her). Make sure you get all the legal help with this that you deserve and should have.
    Also, can I recommend to you a wonderful book called Taming Your Gremlin by Richard D. Carson. It is a deceptively simple book about how to understand that voice we all have – the one you were lamenting that this unbalanced woman was able to somehow tap into that mimics your inner meanie. This little book can help you to develop more awareness of that nasty inner critic and help you to gird yourself with some useful psychological armor against anyone who manages to hook into the same gestalt of meanness that we all turn on ourselves from time to time. It’s a fabulous tool in the emotional intelligence tool chest of a wise person!
    Take deep breaths and know that you are loved and respected by so many.

  1440. I’m another long time reader and lurker from the US adding my voice to the masses saying you rock! You are an example of what a fine human being should be – taking the high road when a total nut-bag insists on telling you in the most hurtful way that she doesn’t like you. I’m deeply embarrassed and insulted that this person insists on speaking for an entire country. I vote her off the continent.
    Take care, have a beer, and knit something fun!

  1441. You’ve shown a huge amount of courage, class, and respect for your readers in sharing this whole mess with us. The best way to clean a wound is to open it up and let the poison drain…kept closed, it festers and becomes worse. Kudos to you for bringing this into the light!!
    Whether I’m in Canada (which doesn’t occur often enough!!), or the U.S., I’m an American. I really don’t understand what this “I’m an American” bit is about. Everyone who lives in North or South America is, by very definition, an American. The individual country of citizenship may vary, but all who live on these continents are Americans. This was brought home to me very firmly about 35 years ago when I was visiting Peru, and someone asked where I was from, and I replied “America.” The questioner replied that he too was American, Sudamerica, while I was America del Norte. I’ve never forgotten that.
    Reading the comments made by the threatening individual reveals an arrogance of citizenship which is hateful…not pride of one’s country.
    And the whole “I am a Christian” bit…that’s a whole new subject!
    Hang in there, we’re with you! I hope to meet you in Portland!!!

  1442. It took me over an hour to read all of the comments (okay, after 55 minutes, I skimmed) and though I am not adding anything new, I just wanted to add my support.
    I am American, Christian, and a Woman with Spine and Grit, and I don’t need anyone else to speak for me.
    Yarn Harlot, I love your blog, I love your sense of humor and I appreciate your patriotism toward your country.
    As a person, you are automatically deserving of courtesy and tolerance, but you have earned my respect several times over, not least of which is your handling of this most recent matter.
    Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts on your blog. I enjoy it immensely, look forward to it every time I sit down at the computer, and will be more appreciative of its presence in the future.

  1443. Wow, what a pile of shite! All I can say is that you had me with our mutual love of Prince, a good beer, and knitting. Please keep doing what you do. It brightens my day.

  1444. I’m so so sorry — and I had to skip ahead to the end of the post, to make sure you were still going to blog. I’m so happy that you are. There is no way that your Canada Day posts could be considered anti-American by a sane person. Hang in there.

  1445. Oh heaven forfend a Canadian woman who just happens to have heaps of US readers express her pride in her country.
    It’s Harlot’s blog, she has every right to be as open with her opinions as she likes, just as every reader here can choose not to read any more if they don’t like it.
    How very very sad one of the nutters chose you to latch onto.
    I’ve had this happen with my comics. Block, block and block (and I’m not talking about lace…). Don’t even let further emails reach you to be read.
    From an Aussie Portlander who can’t wait for Sock Summit.

  1446. You are so loved down here. And as an American, I love hearing about Canada!! And I have enjoyed the posts you’ve made about your trips to the States! This story makes me so sad, but yes… let the light shine. But, mostly, please let your light continue to shine!! Sending big warm fuzzy hugs, Lynne

  1447. Dear Stephanie,
    As evidenced by this wonderful of show of support-we love you-Stand strong.

  1448. I am glad that you have decided to shine light on this. I would have responded to the rude or hurtful comments and I am pretty sure that I am not the only one. But you are right that sometimes rational behavior and reasonable explanations do not work to disperse irrational thoughts and unreasonable actions.
    Therefore, I am willing to respect your wishes and follow your example. And if we all refrain from responding to comments like those we can focus on the good and get back to laughing over knitting mishaps and feeling like there is a community of individuals out there who regardless of anything else love yarn.
    Also, as a person who lives in the United States I feel compelled to add that I have never been offended by you. Thank you for persevering.

  1449. Obviously by the sheer numbers of comments to this post you are very loved by a very large amount of people. She is in the vast majority.
    I think that I am going to use my American money and buy your most recent book. I have all of the other ones. 🙂
    Shining my light for you.

  1450. So sorry that one of the lunatic fringe from the States has done this. They are insane, xenophobic, ignorant and dismissive of all facts that do not agree with their crazy viewpoints, and racist. They are currently a real problem in the States. My advice is do not engage. Delete, block, and ignore them.

  1451. For over 4 years we had our own site and encountered some of the same problems, where people would bring this kind of drama into our life.
    One option would be to do a whois on her IP address and you will find out what the IP block is used by her ISP. It’s a bi more drastic, but you could make an apology to anyone else on the same ISP in her area, and block the entire IP block. Then she would not be able to just reset her IP address and get back in.
    For example, the block would look something like 192.168.*.* The first two octets are owned by the ISP. You might find that you can narrow it down if the first Three octets are owned by the ISP, such as 192.168.1.*, then you would be able to do it without banning so many IP addresses.
    My husband is a security analyst for a major unnamed companies that do that kind of thing. 😉 Feel free to email me if you have any questions.

  1452. This Christ following American is behind you 100%. She does not speak for us. You are one of the bright lights in our world. Snuggle your cat, grab a beer, and be with positive people. We love you!

  1453. Stephanie,
    I am very sorry to hear about this fanatical person and, while I agree with you that it is probably best to try and take the high road, I also think that she should not be able to abuse you, especially by using social networking services.
    Twitter.com Terms of Service #4
    You must not abuse, harass, threaten, impersonate or intimidate other Twitter users.
    If she is indeed violating the terms of service, it may come time to notify Twitter.com. And any other service she abuses.
    It sounds like she may be slandering and/or libeling you, which is illegal here in the U.S.
    In addition to being fanatical, I think she is also jealous and is not dealing with it in a mature or positive way.
    I will respect your wishes and stay out of it, but I’m just saying that there are additional steps that could be taken (maybe you’ve already looked into them).
    I love your blog and look for a new post every day. I don’t understand how anyone can think you are anti-American. I enjoy reading about how you can find humor in so many things and are even kind when writing about something as painful as the Ugly Blogger/Commenter, which is how I will see her now.
    Breathe in deep, let it out slowly. Knit for a little bit, and whatever else is appropriate to make you feel better this time of day (too early for beer?).

  1454. Although I’m something like the 1600th commenter, I can’t not post. I am humiliated at what this woman is doing in the name of Americans. I find it odd that people who loudly proclaim how Christian they are and how awful anyone different is, are usually anything but a model Christian themselves. Although you do not espouse a specific religion, I think you live the words of Jesus more perfectly than most people who claim to be doing so. I so admire your honesty, integrity, and humanity. But please, see if you can get some sort of restraining order, for your own safety. I hope someday this woman gets the treatment she needs and comes to realize what harm she has done, but until then you need to protect yourself.
    Peace.

  1455. I do hope you have reported her to your authorities. Her behavior appears to have crossed the line between disagreement and abuse and I would suggest that she has serious mental health problems. The “public” is more full of whackos than any of us would like to know. Ignore her, delete her and don’t let her rantings get under your skin. The rest of us love you and your blog. (and your parenting and your marriage). Thank you for the joy you bring me.

  1456. Stephanie, you are loved! There are so many of us—knitters, Americans, and spiritual souls of all stripes—who enjoy your blog and have never been offended by what you have written. I have fond memories of visiting your country, especially British Columbia. Your Canada Day entry was enjoyable and not offensive at all. I agree with others who have urged you to take measures to protect yourself and your family. You are dealing with an out-of-control crazy person. Your taking the “high-road” has just added to my admiration of your outlook on life! *Hugs*

  1457. I would say that is the definition of an “ugly American” if I ever heard one!
    Please, please, please take the advice of squeaking to the IT folks, the civil authorities and seeking a legal professional until the harrassment ends. Do not take the threats for granted since she has gone to lengths to continue.
    We luv ya, Yarn Harlot, even when you are down about a rainy dentist visit or endless struggles with the dishwasher or explaining the purpose of your trip and declarations to Customs! You speak to human experience…not Canadian, not US of A experience, or whatever country a reader may claim as the bestest ever.
    A virtual hug from Virginia to my day-brightner!

  1458. Hi Steph, what a thoroughly nasty experience! Well done for facing this and taking action. Well done for telling us. Let’s hope it’s over.
    Hugs.

  1459. I’m another American who just adores your blog and thinks you are a remarkable woman and a kick-a** knitter. Your blog is the first thing I read when I get home from work. So sorry you have to deal with this whack job. Hang in there.

  1460. As an American myself, I find it hard to believe that any of your Canada Day posts could be construed as anti-American. They always seem like information tidbits about a country I know very little about. Sometimes, they even make me want to learn more….
    Keep up the most excellent job. Us new sock and lace knitters need a role-model.

  1461. What a wingnut! Thank you for your books, your blog, all the fun and goodness you put out there in the world everyday and for the great person you are. You bring so much pleasure to me and my knitting friends here in Atlanta. Your willingness to come and share yourself with us has really helped solidify the knitting community here. And now you and your friends are going to do it in Oregon on a larger scale. We owe you sooooo much Stephanie! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

  1462. what a gross yucky awful position to be in! Thank you for trusting us enough to share such a horrible experience. I love reading what you write, and check back often for more Yarn Harlot antics, stories, and projects. I read because I really care what you are up to, am interested in hearing about your life and your family, and love knitting as much as you do.
    Remember… Some people SUCK, but the rest of us aren’t half bad.
    Sending Love from Prince Edward Island 🙂 Keep your chin up!

  1463. The ability of one person to pick on another with a known collection of pointy sticks astounds me. I’m sending my love from Indianapolis!

  1464. As an American, knitter, and admirer of yours, I am mortified that you should be vilified in this manner. Your handling of this sick woman and her tirades has been a portrait in restraint. Just more to admire about you. Keep up the good work, there are hundreds more of us than there are of her and her kind. I’m a long time lurking reader.

  1465. W-o-w. Someone has a serious case of the crazies. Which is the only explanation as to why someone would devote so much time to such awful behavior.
    Kudos to you for how you are dealing with this. Please stay safe & don’t let this take over your life! You are one busy gal and don’t need to put up with so much negativity, especially considering the wonderful contributions you make to society.

  1466. Hi, Steph,
    I echo the sentiments of all the posters before me when I say I’m so sorry this has happened to you, but thank you for being so open and honest.
    This person obviously has been following you for some time if she knows the details of your wedding, etc. I would also say that she sounds like the type of stalker who could turn from cyperspace stalker to in-person, in your face stalker. Please be careful, she is obviously not well (the word ‘obsessed’ comes to mind) – please think very seriously about notifying the police, an attorney, etc as posters before me have advised.
    I love your blog and never miss it. You make me laugh, especially when I really need to, and have inspired me to try different and harder knitting projects. You are NOT anti-American; do not take her rants personally.
    Sending you Light, Love and Respect from Pennsylvania. Be well.

  1467. I just wanted to add my comment along with the hundreds of others. It’s a shame that you have to be dealing with this mess, but I think you’ve handled it very well. You’ve reacted much more patiently and calmly than many people would have. I love your blog, and it’s great that you haven’t let negative and rude comments stop you. This is a wonderful blog written by a wonderful person!
    Jennie

  1468. How embarassing that she claims to represent the entire knitting world and American people when the comments here clearly prove the exact opposite.
    You did the right thing in publicizing this. I only regret that you had to deal with it alone for so long.
    Keep doing what you’re doing, Stephanie. You’re fantastic!

  1469. Stephanie, you are a wonderful person. I hope that you realize that your persecutor is mentally ill. Those of you who appreciate your kindness and the generosity you show here on the blog to all of us will never believe the smears of one nutter.
    Remember the Knitting Olympics? All the people signing up for Sock Summit? You have an army of friends at your back.

  1470. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. She sounds completely out of hand. I went through something similar… I used to have a radio listener who emailed me 1ce or 2ce a month to tell me things like, “You are a talentless CUNT. Stop talking and just play music, stupid BITCH.” I’d limke to pretend I realized he was a crazy mf and let it roll off my shoulders, but it hurt my feels nearly every time. I didn’t take a high road though, I broadcast his email and email address on the air (bleeped for obscenity). I also emailed him privately telling him I knew where he lived(we had his address in our system) and if he continued to harass me, I would take it to the authorities. It didn’t stop him, but he toned it down a bit.
    Hang in there. You don’t deserve this.

  1471. Well, I guess the more people know you the more you become a target. I admit to being absolutely gobsmacked at how a humourist and knitter writing a popular blog can be a target for THIS kind of vitriol.
    I too read this entry with fear that you were going to end with “this blog is causing my family and I unnecessary grief and I will be taking a break from now ’til eternity.”. and who could blame you. Just so you know…I’m REALLY glad you’re not. Even if you are a granola bar, birkenstock wearing vegetarian. ;o) Me and my Jimmy Choo’s salute you!
    ps. I think you’re handling this well…in case you give a hoot what I think. :oD

  1472. Wow. I know I shouldn’t be shocked, but I am. Hateful behavior like this boggles my mind.
    As an American I would like to say that her assessment of what we think is wrong, wrong, wrong. Every American knitter I know thinks you’re wonderful and loves your books, including me.
    You’ve doing the right thing, hang in there!

  1473. I, too, am a long-time reader and a first-time poster. My heart goes out to you in your dealings with this sad, sad excuse of an American Christian. Keep your chin up and thanks for standing your ground with that whacko!

  1474. Please know that you are loved greatly! I am an American and this person DOES NOT speak for me! I love your Blog and your books. Every time I read you blog, I giggle, you are talented and my personal hero! Love to you!

  1475. Like so many others, I’m an American and deeply shamed by the behavior of my fellow citizen. You are definitely doing the right thing, and I only wish there was more we could do to help you. If coming to your fair city to join a human shield of knitters around you would help, I suspect many of us would do so in a heartbeat. In the meantime, I will knit each day while thinking about this situation improving, and send a few bucks to Doctors without Borders. It might not help, but the good karma can’t hurt.
    Tell someone you love to give you a hug from me, and from all of us here in the comments.

  1476. Your handling of this whole incident is admirable.
    Your wit and sincerity give many of us something to look forward to these days. I only hope our love and respect for you helps you through this crazy situation.
    Put your feet up, take a breather, and have a couple beers.
    Much love from this Atheistic American gal.

  1477. I’m a muggle so not even an official part of the knitting world — and I’m a huge fan. I’m sorry that you’re facing this. You’re response was classy, and I hope it’s effective.

  1478. Please know I am an American and I disagree with everything that person is about. I am impressed with your handling of the problem. I don’t think I would do as well…….You’re the best!

  1479. Over 1600 positive comments…..that’s got to make you feel good about yourself.
    Your nasty commenter is not displaying Christian attitudes and she will pay the price in the next life. She certainly believes she speaks for an awful lot of people, Americans and Christians. Wow. What responsibility, and she got it all wrong.
    Je stuck in the snow was one of the funniest posts I have ever read, anywhere, and that was because you are a very good writer.

  1480. Hugs YH! You are so articulate, your kindness and compassion shines forth and your personal integrity are a positive lesson for us all. I respect you a great deal.
    I feel so sorry for this troll-woman. I am going to pray for her.

  1481. Lots of love Steph from sunny California! Karma is a, *ahem*, and she’ll get hers.

  1482. I’m so sad you have to deal with this – I absolutely think you did the right thing by posting this. Even though I’m not American (I’m a Scot), liberal and, funnily enough, an atheist pagan (not wiccan, though) – I know how hard it must be for those who she thinks she represents to read that kind of tirade. The vast majority of people, no matter their politics, religion or nationality, would be totally horrified by behaviour like that. I know it’s impossible, but try not to let her get you down – you’re loved and respected, and you show your strength by how respectfully you’ve dealt with this kind of attack.

  1483. I’m so sorry–I’ve dealt with trolls (on a MUCH smaller scale) and they suck. I know the courage it takes to say, “Leave this alone. Let it implode on it’s own. IGNORE IT and it may not get worse.”
    I’ve followed you for a long time, Steph–you are always honest, always courageous, and always a force of good in the universe. Even a blaspheming pagan like myself can recognize true goodness. That this woman can’t speaks a lot for her mental imbalance… and how horribly it’s skewed towards darkness.
    Know we love you–and because we love you, we’ll ignore her. She really doesn’t have anything important to say anyway.

  1484. It’s been said many times, but I’m an American who reads and appreciates your blog and your books. Please keep doing what you’re doing!
    Hugs!

  1485. I’m sorry I read the other blog. Really, I want those 5 minutes back.
    Think I’ll go back to knitting. And surrounding myself with my yarn stash, and go to Amazon.com and pre-order your daily calendar for 2010. And whatever you write next- how about some patterns?
    As I already posted, you are a fantastic human being. And to the rest of the blog- hats off to us for not sinking, and keeping our comments positive and uplifteing. I’m pleased to be part of such a wonderful, ecclectic group of people. Like Stephanie sais, knitting brings together people who otherwise might never converse. We’re a pretty great bunch. Thanks Stephanie for giving us a place to meet.

  1486. I’m rather embarassed right now. This American has a sense of humor and enjoys your Canada Day posts. Of course, I’m also a Godless San Francisco Liberal, so perhaps that helps.
    I’m terribly sorry you’re going through this nonsense.

  1487. Sorry for this, but run, don’t walk, to your local book store and read the book ” The Gift of Fear” – it’s empowering to women in general and to your situation in specific

  1488. Whoa… that is a heavy load to carry yourself.
    Have you considered getting a restraining order?
    This one is a “fatal attraction” type and she scares me.

  1489. Thank you Stephanie for adding joy and laughter to my life.I hope that somehow this stalker can be removed from your life and you can have peace love and laughter in your life without the worry and fear.There must be someway that you can be protected from this harresser. I look forward to all your postings I hope this person can never harm you or stop you You are in my prayers

  1490. I’m so very sorry you had to deal with this person, her attitudes and her access to the internet. Sending smiles, thoughts of pure qiviut yarn and a peace filled day your way.

  1491. I’m so sorry for the frustration you are feeling. I haven’t been knitting nor reading your blog for very long, but I have truly enjoyed our insights and your lovely ways with language. Ignore her, as we should anyone who blogs about themselves in the third person.

  1492. Chins Up!, Steph I too was worried about the blog. Who else knows that I grew up reading on our “Chesterfield”, has lived thru raising teen-aged daughters and inspires me every day to knit. If you ever need us, the blogosphere is here. National borders are just lines on a map. We’ve got your back. Lily

  1493. If my stomach hurt reading those crazy emails, I can only begin to understand how terrible this must be for you. I hope that person gets psychiatric treatment and I am so sorry she has targeted you with her delusions. Much love and hugs to you and yours.

  1494. I’m an American, and I love you! Please keep on blogging…you never fail to make me laugh, or make me proud to be a knitter!

  1495. Today seemed like the perfect day to make a special contribution to Doctors Without Borders in your honor!
    Thank you for letting us share your world through the blog.

  1496. I’m an American, and I love you! Please keep on blogging…you never fail to make me laugh, or make me proud to be a knitter!

  1497. Another longtime reader, first time poster.
    What she is doing is not about you. It’s about her and her issues. You probably know that, and I’m sure several hundred of the commenters here have said that, but it bears saying as many times as you need to hear it.
    What you are doing is far, far kinder and bigger-hearted than I am. I hope you understand just how amazing you are for taking this high road in the face of such provocation.
    I hope you and yours stay safe, and that this is resolved in the best of all possible ways. And may her God grant her understanding.

  1498. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. This American (who happens to also care deeply about our neighbor to the north) hopes you won’t take one person’s comments to represent the millions of us who don’t think like that.
    Off to the bookstore… need to fill in the gaps in my YH library!

  1499. An American in Germany,
    My mother’s advice for difficult people:
    “Remember, everyone carries their own sack of rocks”
    Unfortunately this poor woman wants to pass some of hers off on you.
    Knitting helps all things. You have taught us that.
    Thanks, I click on your blog every day to see if there is a new smile out there.

  1500. Another American letting you know your blogged is very much enjoyed. I went back and re-read your Canada Day post – I can’t imagine what was seen as Anti-American in that post or the previous year posts. I also find it interesting that she claims to be a “christian” while displaying to the world behavior that is anti-christian. I think someone needs to get herself to church and open her bible to re-educate herself on being a christian.
    I also agree with the other comments about reporting this to the proper authorities. No one needs to put up with a bully.

  1501. I am so sorry that such as this is happening on your insightful, creative, morally responsible, inspiring, loving blog-living room. You inspire us to think clearly, be mindful of our impact on others, look to our motivations and the point of our lives. AND…your knitting-love is endless. Thank you.

  1502. Dear Stephanie:
    Thanks for bringing this into the light. I hope this ends soon and you are able to continue doing what you do very well. This woman is not a Christian and certainly doesn’t represent any of the American ideals I was raised by.
    I met you in CA last year and haven’t been the same since…I had no idea knitting was so fun and could be so funny. Now I am another one of those crazy knitting ladies. My prayer today is that you would be safe and happy in the coming weeks.

  1503. As I started reading, I was so afraid you’d say the troll was going to stop you from blogging…. As it is, please know that on payday this American knitter will be purchasing all of your books that I don’t already own, because after Hubs read this post, he agreed that it must be done. 😉

  1504. Wow, I’m a Harlot Groupie!!! I’m also the mother of two young people in the military, one currently serving overseas. I knit socks for my children all the time and love your traveling sock idea. I’ve never commented before but I read your blog everyday and get impatient when it’s been a day or two for the next post.
    I went over to this woman’s blog and read a bit. She is clearly mentally ill and admits to being in therapy. I personally feel sympathy for her–to be so fearful and unhappy that you have to express it in this way is just sad.
    On the other hand, nothing I’ve ever read here has offended me or my American sensibilities. I am proud of how you are handling this and proud of my fellow Americans standing up for you. She must not be very well grounded in the basic premises of the American Constitution, the philosophies of the Founding Fathers and the attitude displayed by Lincoln in his speeches. Clearly she is not well read in the New Testament or Christian ethics.
    I’ve never heard a true Christian use the foul language she does either….
    Deb

  1505. Stephanie, I am so so so sorry that this person has decided to attack you. As always you are handling this with amazing dignity and decency. I applaud you for taking the high road.
    Last time I checked, no one was elected to speak for the millions of American Christian knitters out there. Keep strong, and keep on being yourself and writing your blessed little heart out.

  1506. This is my first time leaving a comment on your blog. I was so saddened and appalled by all that happened to you, I just had to join the numbers of your readers to extend my love and support.
    You know we have your back – always! And I will most definitely spend my American money on your books. Heck – I will buy a copy to everyone I know. 🙂

  1507. I read your blog infrequently (husby in grad school gets 1st dibs on the computer) but HAVE read & enjoyed your books, articles, patterns etc. There are more of us than the hurtful people, but we’re usually quieter. Today, obviously, we all think you deserve some love. Out loud. Hang in there, you do good work in the world.

  1508. I’ve been reading your blog for years but have never commented. My thoughts are with you.

  1509. Thank you for your blog. Your wit and humor make me smile and occasionally even laugh out loud. I’ve even learned a few things from reading the entries over the years, so thank you.

  1510. I hope you feel better even though that lady is in no right to do this to you. Keep on writing and be strong. But I am very pissed at what she said about your marriage. If she was a real Christian she wouldn’t even be doing this and is in no right to be calling herself American. My prayers go to you so that this madness can stop without anybody being hurt more than they have been already.

  1511. Wow! Just wow!
    Don’t let the ******* grind you down steph! This woman obviously needs help. It’s nothing to do with you and everything to do with her!
    Gx

  1512. I’m just echoing the myriad of comments that you have gotten. I am also american and I’m ashamed that someone spoke(wrote) to you in such a hateful manner, and apparently on MY behalf! She doesn’t speak for me, You have every right to your opinions. That is the American way. I hope you will come out of this stronger and with even more wit. You’re a winner to me.

  1513. Oh, Steph, I’m so sorry. You of all people don’t deserve anything like this. I wish there was something I could do to help.
    *hugs*

  1514. another long time lurker here, coming out to say we all love you.
    Stay strong, you’re fab.

  1515. I am a Christian, rightish-libertarian American. I can state unequivocally that that person does NOT speak for me.
    I delight in your perspective, and your essential Canadian-ness. You’re Canadian. OF COURSE you’re going to celebrate Canada Day, and Canadian Thanksgiving, and all the rest. We’d have to be nuts not to expect that, and honestly, I look forward to those posts!
    I read your blog aloud to my (also Christian, also rightish-libertarian, also American) husband, and we laugh together, and recognize some of the adventures in your family as similar to our own adventures.
    Please, keep right on being EXACTLY the woman — and the writer — you are. I am very, very sorry you’ve had to deal with that person, whoever she is. Thank you for doing what you do. We’re here for you.

  1516. To paraphrase a Jack Nicholson character, you make me want to be a better person. In light of recent events, I will wear my Rogue Roses and write a check to MSF/KWB. I will acknowledge the existence of trolls, their venom, and potential danger, but I will not feed its hunger for attention or listen to its irrational rantings.
    “Let’s never speak of this again.”
    “As you wish.”

  1517. I am truly embarrassed that this woman thinks she is speaking for Americans. She is the kind of American that Americans can’t stand, but unfortunately one of the loudest.
    I adore your blog, your writing, your books. You bring such a wonderful perspective to knitting, and in my earlier knitting days, helped me laugh at myself and be more comfortable with participating in my chosen art form in public.
    I also appreciate that you are taking a sympathetic stance on this – it’s hard to look into the mind of disturbed or unhappy people and understand why they do the things they do, especially in light of such vicious personal (and irrelevant) attacks. If this lady weren’t attacking you, she’d probably be attacking someone else, because for whatever reason, it validates her. You did the right thing by blocking her and contacting authorities and everything else you did – except for the part where you started believing her.
    Ok but seriously, no more talking about this. Don’t worry! Let’s knit, shall we?

  1518. Hi Steph,
    so sorry to hear about the nastiness – good approach though. all our love and support xx

  1519. Stephanie, you are the sunshine in so many peoples lives. Love your blog and books!

  1520. Well this is about the 1678th comment (blimey) so you probably won’t get this far, but Way. To. Go. Good on you. I don’t know who she is and to be honest I don’t really care. However, if she is as threatening as she sounds, I think you need to talk to the police. It sounds like she may need a little spell with the nice men in white coats. And if she’s got a problem with that? She can kiss my little English arse, to be honest.
    By the way – being pro-Canada does not make you anti-American, or anti anyone else for that matter. People like her are far more likely to create a serious negative image of that country. It’s a shame that she can’t see that.
    Hugs to you and yours – and how could anyone say anything bad about Joe?!?!? I would marry him at the drop of a hat 🙂 If you ever get bored of him, send him over here, ok? xxx

  1521. I am reminded of an old farmer saying: don’t get down in the mud to wrestle with a hog, you’ll just get dirty and the hog will enjoy it.
    The disconnect between what you wrote and how she reacted to it is striking. I went through something like this that ended with the woman making a public death threat to me – and me filing a report with the police. I kept a copy of her emails and my replies and there was the same disconnect. It’s like they have this fantasy where they are the Protector of Goodness and you are the Incarnation of Evil.
    It’s quite confusing. You keep trying to respond to them like they are a rational human being and they can only read this dark evil subtext behind them. Which they rant and rave at spewing vitrol and bizarre-o concepts. And it takes up a tremendous amount of time. I would spend days crafting and polishing a note to her and she’d respond with a shoe full of crazy in minutes.
    I am also struck as are many of the commenters that it seems that she feels that you loving your Country diminishes the U.S. somehow.
    I just hope that you are able to see the outpouring of love and support you have gotten on your blog. I know it won’t make up for the hours of lost sleep and the eroded stomach-lining.
    Close down the blog comments, moderate them, contact your lawyer, contact the police, all these are great advice.
    There is no reasoning with the unhinged and certain.
    American, Christian, YH lover!
    (I used your KR book to learn how to turn a heel while in the dentist’s chair having crowns fitted!)

  1522. I wasn’t going to comment, and while the comment itself is unimportant, I think that voicing my support is. Light, Love, Respect.
    (I want that on a t-shirt, I think)

  1523. I read this with a knot in my stomach, terrified that this woman would cause you to stop blogging – and then felt tremendous relief when I discovered that you handled the situation with the kind of grace, strength, compassion and respect that is so rare in this world. Thank you for informing us of the situation – I think you can see by the outpouring of comments that we are on your side!
    As an American going to college in Canada, I can say that your blog helped me feel at home here, when I felt lonely and isolated, and taught me much about this great country (including the fact that my life was a barren desert before I discovered fleece artist, but I digress). My thoughts and support are with you.

  1524. I’m in a similar situation, checking someone’s blog to see if they’re saying anything about me, but not wanting them to know that I’m visiting.
    I use a free anonymizing web service, http://proxify.com. Just type in your URL and it shows you the page, without leaving your IP address in their server logs.

  1525. I am an American and totally embarrassed by this person. Trust me, we are not all like that. And as for the Christian comment, we are not all like that, either. I always try to remember the wisdom of a minister who was being questioned by someone who was trying to trip him up. The guy asked him why war was waged in the name of God and the minister’s answer was “People do a lot of things in the name of God that God has nothing to do with.” I hope this ends soon.

  1526. I’ve been absent for a while, just life consuming things, but I do read as often as I can, and while I was behind today, I heard about this and just had to tell you, you are so admirable in how you handle conflict and craziness. Grace under fire. I would want to send the craziness of a 1,000 Furies after such a person who would behave so horridly to me, and yet, in reading your measured words, I can see that on the other side of your own hurt and frustration, that this person is chained up in a cesspool of their own horrible devise. And I guess that’s punishment enough. May she find some good medication and take up a hobby that helps with stress. I hear knitting’s quite good for that… 😉 Love to you.

  1527. Dear Stephanie,
    All this made me think of two sayings that have helped me a lot through life so far:
    “Whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should…”
    “God only gives people what he knows they can handle”
    I just thought of the possibility that this will somehow finally change how people behave on the internet and in the blogosphere and that it will take someone as strong, much loved and “light bearing” as you to do it. Maybe this is part of what your blog is supposed to accomplish.
    Love, peace and prosperity to you and your family ((((()))))
    P.S. …and another donation to KWB for Karma balancing

  1528. Dear Stephanie,
    Thank you for your courage, your example, your candidness AND your Canadian-ness. 🙂
    I have read your blog for years and never once felt insulted by Canada Day. I rather enjoy it, actually, as I always learn something more about our beloved neighbors to the north.
    Thank you for sharing this challenge and for telling us how we can best help and honor you. Please know that I am sending lots of Light for you and your whole family, and – particularly, because she really needs it – the hateful woman who started all of this for you.
    Hugs from Seattle!

  1529. Dear Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Please consider contacting the authorities as she is threatening you.
    Be safe,
    Emily

  1530. I, too, am obsessed with you. But your words, your book, your blog, and all that you share, feed the happy inner fibre part of me. I agree this is not about you. I will send my (Canadian) Christian prayers for “Name Removed” that she will step toward the light and release the anger that is eating away at her.
    I may knit her a scarf with her “Name Removed” on it.
    May our outpouring of love balance the scales of your public life.

  1531. I know that everyone has said it before, but another kind comment can’t hurt.
    You are an amazing woman who is an inspiration to so many people. I love your books and blog, as do the other knitters I know.
    Stay strong, keep safe.
    Sending huggles from California!

  1532. Yuck! What an ugly thing to have to deal with. I LOVE your books. I LOVE your blog. It is so wrong that you should have to deal with this. I hope the voices of your ardent fans can drown out this miserable experience.

  1533. What an awful ugly situation. Kudos to you for taking the high road and doing better by her than she has done by you. I genuinely hope for a swift and conclusive positive end to this. Keep on doing what you have always done on here – sharing great knitting and making us smile.

  1534. My first post and just want to send love and admiration from a US fan. I love your humor and your values – At least this has motivated some of us who would otherwise silently admire you to let you know how much we value you.

  1535. I am so sorry to hear that you’ve been subjected to such rude, unbalanced behaviour. She does not speak for all Americans, as you obviously know (and as so many previous comments note so eloquently). Things are changing down here since November and that scares some people who liked to Good Ol’ Boy World Order. I fear that you’ve become a symbol of that change and fear to this individual.
    Walk in beauty.

  1536. Steph, I think what you did on the blog today was just right. She’s more than a bit touched in the head. Probably off her meds. As others have suggested, a call to the authorities in her area might be appropriate, as people like this always have a “one before” you. My guess is that she has a long history of mental illness/obsessive/manic behavior, and probably has a case manager, ect, that might should know about this. If she has children at home, they must be terrified and reporting this to the authorities may help them. Soooooo sad.

  1537. OMG this on top of SS09? How awful!
    I hope the authorities can help you in this. If she’s doing this constantly, she’s whacko, and if her computer guy fixes her computer to allow her access he’s aiding and abetting criminal activity.

  1538. ((HUGS)) to you, I am ashamed she calls herself American. We are NOT all like that.

  1539. Yet another lurker.
    Sorry I don’t have anything nice or proactive to say about this individual, so it’s best I say nothing about her, but save my comments towards you and give you a much deserved ego stroke.
    It saddens me that you have to waste any of your valuable time defending yourself, your family and your readers from people like this, but it’s the internet and, well, what can we do?
    I don’t make it on your blog site often, but I do have your desktop calendar. Everyday you make me either learn, or laugh or both. As a fellow Canadian and knitter, I am very proud of you.
    Please, do not let this bully intimidate you. Keep writing as a proud Canadian. You are loved and respected worldwide. Not from everyone, but really, who cares. You are admired by the people that really matter on this planet — The nice, intelligent people with a sense of humor.

  1540. It is unfortunate that there are individuals out there (few yet impactful) that put so much energy into hateful, abusive behaviours. I was shaking reading your blog entry because her cruel accusations are so driven by jealousy and mental instability. The impact of her words and threats will hopefully fade with the number of positive posts that you are receiving.
    You are a wonderful writer and I thoroughly enjoy your blog EVERY day. I want to join the other thousands of knitters out there who support you and I wish to surround you and your family in a blanket of support and love (knitted, of course)that will shield you from those that are hateful and abusive.
    Keep writing and blogging Stephanie. I truly love your work and want you to continue to brighten our days with your clever posts.

  1541. Stephanie, clearly you are an amazing woman and talent.
    As an American and a believer in God, I give you all of my support from the bottom of my heart.
    Your attitude with these difficult situations never ceases to amaze me. You are poised and mature.
    As they say…”this too shall pass”
    Keep doing what you do best! We’re all behind you.

  1542. Hiya, I’ve never posted on here before, but I’ve been following your blog for a bit now. I’m American and I am very grateful and happy to live in this country, but that sort of “patriotism” is neurotic and wrong. Even if you _had_ been bashing America, that sort of response is uncalled for and also (I may add) would never win any converts :D. My prayers are with you, your family, and this sad person, and I hope this blows over quickly and peacefully.

  1543. I love your blog, your books, and everything you have introduced me to since I started knitting in 2005! I’ve never commented before, but had to this time– stay strong and decent and kind like you’ve always been! Best wishes from Boston!

  1544. Dang. Can you say ‘dumb as a box of rocks’?
    Take care, Stephanie. There is far more love in the world directed at you than one sick moron’s hate can challenge.
    {{{hugs}}}, Lisa
    Oh, and happy belated Canada Day. hehe.

  1545. Knitters are groove folk—– we all try to see the best in others. In that vein of trying to see the best one can only concur that having a broken pussy makes one crazy. Good gyno health takes on even greater weight doesn’t it?
    Get Knittin’! HUGS!

  1546. Since this is comment almost #1700, who knows if you will read it, but RainyDaisy above put it best “I am truly embarrassed that this woman thinks she is speaking for Americans. She is the kind of American that Americans can’t stand, but unfortunately one of the loudest.” I totally agree. We love you, your blog, your family, your humor, your patriotism, and we stand behind you.

  1547. It is amazingly wonderful to see the outpouring of love and support in these comments. May yet one more comment help lighten your load.
    I love your blog, your books. I laugh often and feel so much more confident about my knitting when reading your writing. You make me want to be better at my craft. Your posts never fail to brighten my day…and while today’s post casts a shadow, your amazing honesty and courage and compassion illustrate the best in ourselves. Wouldn’t the world be a boring place without all our wonderful diversity? Cheers…

  1548. Another never-before-commented here. Dear Yarn Harlot, you must feel awful with this going on in your life. It must feel dangerous even opening up your email Inbox in case this person leaps out swearing at you. I am gobsmacked that anyone can behave like this, and truly in awe of how well you are handling it and how generous you have been in your reactions.
    The perp is certainly mentally ill, and I even wonder if it is a woman– some of the phrasing seems a bit off.
    Thinking about you (which is a Brit’s way of saying, yes, praying for you.)
    PatMS

  1549. Look at all these comments that show support and love for you and your work!
    You inspire people.
    I admire your courage, your humor, and your amazing patience.
    You are a good person.

  1550. I`m not a knitter, nor do I see any knitting in my future. That being said, you have one of the most engaging and hilarious blogs on the net.
    Trolling is bound to happen.

  1551. No way could I read over 1700 comments (and just the number of posts tells you something, I hope), but those I’ve skimmed reflect my views also — keep writing, try not to pay attention to this poster, focus on what matters. It’s a shame she doesn’t put her energy to positive constructive endeavors.

  1552. I don’t know you, but I read your blog and you seem like a good person. I support you. Just take care of yourself and your family, and this will pass. Hopefully sooner rather than later. Best of luck.

  1553. I often wonder what people like this would be doing if it weren’t for the internet. Getting into fights with grocery store managers over bruised apples? Writing boxes of letters to ‘liberal’ newspapers? Maybe just watching Bill O’Reilly, like the rest of the nutjobs.
    I know it isn’t a laughing matter, but my favourite part was when she accused you of being both atheist AND wiccan. I adore how most religious folks define “atheist” as “anything at odds with my religion.” It’s always a personal affront, and never a sane, rational choice. Sigh. So it goes.
    You absolutely don’t deserve this troll-nightmare but these are the hazards of the uber-connected world we live in. I’ve been active online for a startling amount of years and I’m always a little shocked that people like this are still around and plugging away. It’s rather like training a dog; you have to match their intensity to get anything done, and boy, it’s tiring.

  1554. I disagree with you in some major philosophical and religious areas, but I very much admire the grace and respect you show those who disagree with you, even (or especially) when they get ugly about it. My daughters and I love you to death, never miss your blog posts and have driven up to 5 hours one way to see you (and have seen you three times so far) and we have bought all your books and anxiously await the next.
    You even got us to start knitting again and we have the socks to prove it.
    Love to you and your dear family and I hope this craziness ends quickly.

  1555. I’m a conservative American long-time fan. I think it is wonderful that you are a patriotic Canadian. I read with interest your Canada Day posts and truly enjoy them. I have never felt at any time that you were bashing America or Americans. I am so sorry that one of my countrymen is so filled with vitriol.

  1556. Pax et bonum – I offer prayers for peace and all good, whatever good is necessary to get you through this today and every day. Put it in the hands of the techies and lawyers and enjoy every minute of the sock summit knowing that you are loved and supported.

  1557. From a California lurker: you’ve made me laugh so many times I can’t resist joining this tidal wave of affection–thanks for always being so excellent!

  1558. Well, she certainly makes me embarrassed to be both a Christian and an American. Very sad. Loss of rational thought for certain.
    BTW, you are a Canadian citizen. I certainly would expect that you would love YOUR OWN country more than MY country. Just because you love your own country certainly doesn’t mean you hate mine.

  1559. Oh Stephanie, I am so very sorry you have to deal with this. On the record, as a pretty traditional American, I have found absolutely nothing offensive whatsoever in any of your blog posts. I am aware that you don’t know me from Adam, but I felt compelled to leave a comment today because you are faced with a personal attack of the worst kind. It appears this person is most likely unstable mentally and while it sounds like she resides in the United States, if her obsession with you grows enough, she might consider international travel. I strongly urge you to seek legal intervention in this matter. I’m not sure, I’m pretty ignorant about Canadian laws, what kind of restraining orders are available where you live but this appears to have escalated to a point where this is most certainly warranted. When dealing with an individual that is this detached from reality, I don’t believe anything you could have done or said would have helped. Please, please, please consider some sort of legal restraining order. It might be the only way she could get the sort of help she really needs. You are a beautiful, kind, smart, talented woman and you have many, many readers who worship the yarn you knit with 🙂 Keep your head up, you are worth it!

  1560. I was following the blog and tweets of the person who is doing this to you. This week her posts started getting very weird. I stopped following her. I feel sorry for her as something seems to be very wrong.
    Please stay strong. There are a lot of us behind you.
    Have you reported this to her ISP?

  1561. I have read your blog for several years and have always found it hilarious and never mean spirtited toward anyone. Other then legally there is no way that you’ll ever be able to stop the “nut case” so the best way would be to keep blocking and not responding. hugs from Indiana

  1562. Steph… You have my support – and the support of so many more people around the world if the number of comments today mean anything.
    Knit on! And please Blog on! I’d miss you so much if you decided to end the blog.
    Cara from Ottawa

  1563. I’m really sorry that one of my fellow countrywomen (with an extremely misplaced sense of patriotism) has been harassing you. You are well loved by the knitting community at large, please don’t let the misdirected anger of one person disrupt your life, especially at this very busy time for you.

  1564. Oh, Stephanie, I’m so sorry you’ve been going through this. Like so many others, you were the reason I picked up knitting needles and discovered that I love this wonderful craft.
    I am not surprised you are taking the higher ground because that is in keeping with the character you have always demonstrated. But don’t let that keep you from continuing to pursue this with the authorities. We all want you (and your family) to be safe.
    I truly hope it all stops soon. Try to force the thoughts of it from your mind as much as possible so it doesn’t ruin your everyday life.
    I’m sending love from America,

  1565. “The angry people are those people who are most afraid” ~Dr. Robert Anthony
    “For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind.” ~Benjamin Franklin
    Steph,
    I am sorry you have had to deal with someone who is so clearly unstable emotionally. I admire your strength of character and persistence.
    While I consider myself a conservative American politically, I have never felt offended in any way by your posts.
    Thank you for sharing your life, your humour, and your thoughts with us all.
    Debbi

  1566. My goodness that sucks royally. I wouldn’t have been as patient as you. I would already have reported her to her own ISP and had her account deleted. I’d quite possibly have reported her to the police for harassment too.

  1567. Stephanie, I’m sorry this is happening to you and I wish I could give you a hug and an instant self esteem booster shot. I’m an American, and while you have certainly made me love Canada even more with your informative posts, I’ve never thought that you were disrespectful towards Americans–in fact, I think you have always been exceptionally generous towards your southern neighbors.
    While I understand that another could have a different opinion than myself, the methods being used to engage with you are hurtful and not productive. I hope that you find some peace from this situation soon.
    lots of love <3

  1568. I love your writing. It plies together the strands of fibery goodness and life experiences and incredible humor to result in amazing “yarns.” It makes me laugh, and it makes me think. Your approach to life, your attitudes, and your philosophies, as I see them reflected in your writing, inspire me. I am so glad your blog exists. Peace and joy to you and yours, and may all things settle soon into their right path.

  1569. I love your blog, and feel like you’re a part of my (knitting) family. Just see how many lights you’ve turned on this weekend with your post, and know we stand with you, shoulder to shoulder, in this time and from now on.

  1570. Long time US reader and fan here…
    This person’s continued ranting and implied threats sound like cyper stalking … there are laws against stalking…have you looked into that at all?

  1571. thank goodness there are people like you in the world. non-engagement is one of the hardest things ever, and takes infinitely more strength than aggression. good call.

  1572. Out of Curiosity, how does making a post about a garter stitch blanket A) Insult americans or B) Incite hatred?
    I am proud of you, and people like that need legal action to make them realize they are on thin ice. Consider talking to a lawyer. This type of harassment needs to stop.
    by the way, I love you, regardless of what some lunatic says. 😀

  1573. Stephanie,
    There are laws against internet harassment. She should be reported. She is disturbed. I won’t even try to find her postings. I have no respect for someone who would behave in that manner. Blogs make us believe we have a personal relationship with someone and remove boundaries. That’s often a good thing but in this case it is pretty scary. I’m really sorry that you have had to deal with this issue. I hope it dissipates soon!

  1574. Just adding my name to your list of supporters. No one deserves this kind of treatment and I can only hope that it stops A.S.A.P.!

  1575. Stephanie – I’m so sorry that this is happeneing to you and agree with some others about cyber stalking – you should look into it. Please know that I’m one of thousands that love you and I hope that things get better for you soon.

  1576. I’ve read your blog for quite a while, and really enjoyed your last book, though I’ve never posted here. After reading this last post I suddenly felt the need to send you some glorious yarn to lift your spirits, because (as you must surely know) lots of us Americans really love your writing and your humor. I’m sorry that you’ve crossed paths with someone a little unbalanced, and I hope she wanders off back from whence she came. I love your nationalism, your wit, and your knitting talent, and I hope that in short order this will be nothing more than a “remember when” story.

  1577. Stephanie, another first post
    I have always appreciated the glimpses you give to us of your life and thoughts and am so sorry that your open-heartedness has laid you open to such an unpleasant time. Love and support (and a donation to KWB) from across the ocean. And remember: ‘All shall be well and all shall be well and all manner of thing shall be well’ (especially when knitting).

  1578. I know my comments will be buried among the other 1000+ but here it goes:
    Have her “TOS’D!!! (Terms of service agreement of her ISP)
    Take all of her emails and send them off to her internet service provider as it is obivious she’s breaking their “Terms of Service Aggreement” she has to follow if she wants to continue being their customer. Most don’t take kindly to this and she will at least be warned by them once. If she contiues, they will pull her plug.
    Yes, it’s a hassle and extreme but this has been going on too long. THis is just from what I read about the situation here, but her ravings are Very similar to a guy from the UK who had manic depression and was out to get American’s, etc. The newsgroup didn’t put up with it as his ravings went far beyond free speech as hers are now doing. His isp was notified after that didn’t work, the constabulary intervened and that was the end of it. Hopefully, he got the help he needed.
    Funny thing is, last I noticed, Canada was still in America… the poor deary… Once again making us USAians look stupid by not knowing her Geography and coming off as a bible thumping Rambo. Let’s just hope she never gets into the diplomatic corps.
    Just remember, send these threatening, harrassing email to her Internet Service Provider (through your lawyer if you have to) and that will be the
    end of it.
    Luv ya, Steph!
    Rusty

  1579. She does not speak for Americans or Christian. She’s full of hate and I’m sorry she’s chosen to direct it at you. Perhaps she should look in the mirror. She’s a nutroll.
    (((Steph)))

  1580. Good for you. I have always enjoyed your blog, and your books. I am now even more impressed with you for how you are handling this situation.
    I hope you remember that this kind of behavior actually doesn’t have anything to do with you personally. You just became an easy target and you don’t deserve that treatment in the least. I hope that shining the light on it, and all of the warm responses brings you peace of mind. Best wishes to you and your family.

  1581. That ‘extremely misplaced sense of patriotism’ is not true patriotism at all. She’s an unstable bully who thinks she’s found a victim.
    However, I’m quite concerned that she may try to take it even further. Please use any and all legal recourse to protect yourself. Reporting to her ISP is a good start. Presumably her blog identifies her clearly enough that you may be able to contact her local authorities and have them issue some sort of warning. This is, in fact, harassment and is not legal.
    And don’t worry about American knitters. We’re behind you all the way. We’ve had way too much of her kind over the last few years. And the sane among us understand that to appreciate Canada is in no way to depreciate the United States.

  1582. You and your blog brighten my day every day! I was afraid you were going to give up the blog because of this one pathetic (albeit obsessed) person/stalker. Hopefully she will tire of this bizarre behaviour soon.
    Keep up the good work and I hope the Sock Summit goes smoothly! Wish I could be there!

  1583. Sorry to hear of your problems….she’s crazy, P.E.R.O.I.D….try your best to forget about her!

  1584. Hiya Stephanie, this is the first time I’ve posted on your blog but I just wanted to let you know that you’re a role model for me. I can’t believe how much grace and dignity you’re handling this with – I’m going to do my best to handle difficult situations in my own life in the same way. Thank you!

  1585. I don’t think this can be said enough, even to the tune of 1700+ times – this isn’t about you, this is about Name Removed and her choosing to project her own issues and anger onto you. The way you’ve chosen to handle this epitomizes my idea of grace, so don’t let this angry, angry woman get you down.
    Light, love and respect. Them’s some good ideas.

  1586. I really sincerely hope that you have given hard and/or electronic copies of all of the correspondence thus far to all the appropriate authorities and your legal people. She seems like a deeply unstable lady who has decided that you are her focus.
    This is just scary, and I pray you keep yourself and your family safe.
    You are popular as a writer and blogger for a reason – you are smart, creative, funny, and kind. Those of us who have followed you for years know the type of person you are and would never believe the hateful comments of someone who is clearly off her rocker.
    Health and happiness to you all.

  1587. Love your blog! I tune in everyday. Kind of makes you wonder if this woman dislikes your blog so much why she doesnn’t just stop reading? Please know you have MANY fans and one crazy is just that a crazy 🙂

  1588. I realize this will probably just get lost in the (hopefully encouraging) show of support above, but I just couldn’t NOT post a response.
    As a knitter, an American, and a Christian, I am absolutely mortified that this “woman” claims to represent us. I have never felt insulted by your posts…just saddened that I can’t be as openly proud of my country because of people like this, painting us all as “ugly Americans” and providing justification for book titles like, “When Bad Christians Happen to Good People.”
    Hang in there, knowing that you are loved, respected, and that every post is eagerly-anticipated by many of us south of the border.

  1589. So . . . how big is the blanket?
    See you in 11 days — can’t wait!

  1590. Usually just read but wanted to leave a post of support. You give so much pleasure, don’t let people like this, who are a tiny minority, shout loud enough to feel as if they are the majority. You are fab and well loved the world over (I’m in Scotland!)

  1591. From the Netherlands, across the great waters, I want to give you a virtual hug. Please don’t let this mean person get under your skin.
    Even if we don’t agree on all things, I love to read your blog, so please keep writing!

  1592. Stephanie, I am sorry that it seems that there are a few nut cases that live in the United States, I am thankful that most of us are not that way.
    Write on and know that this American stands firmly beside you.
    I hope you draw support from those of us who represent with you… and need we all remind her that we carry pointy sticks?
    Much love and support

  1593. Maybe the best thing we all can do is just heap positive comments on all of your posts. I sure wouldn’t be able to find a negative one in there! 🙂

  1594. Steph – there’s just no accounting for crazy.The hardest job you have is to let it roll off. Just keep on keeping on my dear. Oh, my first post too.

  1595. I’m so sorry you’re having to put up with this insanity. I’m glad you’ve shined the light on the crazy and I hope you also know that the vast majority of Americans aren’t like this. She represents a tiny group of very angry people who can’t accept the fact that the world is moving on without them.
    Much love to you and yours. See you at SS09 with flowers and hugs (even if you don’t want them!).

  1596. I posted last night and felt the need to post again. I have read all 1700+ (yes, I read them all) comments and I am in awe but not surprised of the outpouring of love directed at Stephanie. While reading I have been knitting, which has prompted me to offer a suggestion to all of Stephanie’s fans. Continue to show your love and support to Stephanie but perhaps today we could spread a bit extra into the world. As was suggested by a previous poster, if you are so inclined, make a donation to KWB in honor of Stephanie, or a donation to your favorite charity. Knit or Crochet something for charity (I’m knitting a blanket for an animal in a shelter). When you go out in the world today, do something extra nice, hold the door open for someone, carry someone’s packages, buy the person behind you in line at Starbucks their coffee. Tell someone you don’t know you like their outfit; tell someone they have a beautiful smile. Tell some you know something you admire about them. Spread an extra bit of love and light and perhaps it will trickle down to someone who may really need it and lessen the hate they feel.
    Just a suggestion from a woman, an American, an atheist and an admirer.
    Thank you Stephanie you are an inspiration in many ways. Knit on.

  1597. Thanks for being you. As an American I’ve always felt fortunate to have Canadians as neighbors, and I now plan to have my family celebrate Canada Day as well as Independence Day. Your blog, books, talks at conferences, etc. are inspiring as well as entertaining. Please continue doing all you do so beautifully.

  1598. I am so glad you posted this, though it certainly wasn’t easy for you. You need the support against this wicked, unbalanced person.
    I ditto all the positive posts – you are far from anti-american and this person is giving Christians a bad name.
    Thank you for continuing your work and making us knitters feel welcome in the world.

  1599. I’m sorry you have a troll that won’t die. I will say, as others have, I love your work, you taught me to knit socks and I appreciate that more than nearly anything else in my life (my husband and son come in before even socks) Blessings.

  1600. I’m just another Christian, American reader wanting to chime in that I’m behind you 100%. I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I hope she gets the help she so desperately needs. And I hope that you find comfort in the love and support of your family and friends, and hopefully, in some small way, from the support of your readers & fans. We’ve got your back.

  1601. I ache for you and the emotional energy this has taken from you. As a U.S. citizen, I just have to point out how ironic it is to call a Canadian an anti-American. Hello? We share the continent. Have you noticed? And as a Christian, I’d like to point out (to her) that Jesus was all about turning the other cheek. Finally, as a woman, wtf is up with using a body part I am rather fond of as a term of insult? Wow.

  1602. I’ve been reading your blog for ages and have never been hurt or offended by anything I’ve read. I’m engaged to a Canadian (getting married in 3 months, woohoo!) and we had lots of fun reading your Canada Day posts together. I tell him on a weekly basis that I want to move to Canada because its so beautiful and the people I’ve met there are just lovely. I must be horribly un-American too because I want to move to Canada some day. 😉 This woman is obviously very mentally unstable and needs to find something better to do with her time (like knitting, perhaps??) than to harass our beloved Yarn Harlot!!!

  1603. De lurking to say OH.MY. I know you’ve met enough USA Americans not to judge us too harshly based on this looney bird. Two quick reasons I really love you and your blog:
    1) I found your first book when I was aimlessly wandering a bookstore in Houston after having my home in New Orleans destroyed in Hurricane Katrina. You made me laugh for the first time in weeks and I found your sense of humor and general upbeat attitude to be a lifesaver during a very hard time.
    2) As a new mom, I love your posts about your kids. Your joy in them and your obvious respect for their individuality gives me something to strive for. This woman struck way below the belt when she took on your parenting.
    I wish you the best of luck and safety in this nutty situation.

  1604. I wish there was something I could do to make your day a bit brighter. Your posts are warm, generous and inspiring to me. Please don’t stop because of a clearly unbalanced and hurting person.

  1605. I am so, so sorry that you are dealing with this. I read your blog and your books, and I’ve been to two of your talks at WEBS (I gave you a washcloth!) and while I realize that the stuff you put out into the universe is only probably ten percent of what goes on in your life, I still feel like I have the measure of you, overall.
    You are a person who I have considered moving to Canada for. You are warm, inviting, funny, helpful, and overall you are kind and mature. You have your opinions and you don’t apologize for them, but you are still comfortable (it seems) with people who disagree with you, and you don’t let it interfere with anything else. That, my dear, is something we can all aspire to.
    I admire you as a knitter, as a mother, and most of all as a woman. I am several years your junior, and I consider you one of the public role models that I fashion myself after, even though there are things that we disagree about.
    I hope that this incident ends for you soon, without escalating into anything more serious. If you need anything else from the blog, I’m sure that you’ll only have to ask. And if you need anything from a young mother in rural Massachusetts that you barely know, well, you’re welcome to ask me, as well, but I’m not that conceited. 😉
    Take care of yourself and your family.

  1606. I’m sorry that this has been taking energy away from the people and the things that you love – that is the most maddening part of it all. Going public is undoubtedly difficult, but I hope it helps to share the burden. I’m another reader who is 1000% behind you.

  1607. More hugs coming to you from your Manitoba neighbors… I’m sorry to see you have to deal with this ugliness but know that you will continue to deal with it in the manner that you feel is right for you and your family. Thank you for sharing it with us so that we are aware of how ugly things can get – how else are we to learn from one another?
    And know that you are a beautiful example of what a HUMAN BEING should strive to be: loving and caring, calm and rational in the face of chaos, forgiving and compasionate.
    Josee & Carole oxoxo :3

  1608. Just another first time poster to add another reminder that as an Amercian,knitter, mother of 3 girls I love your blog and your books.

  1609. A comment regarding your plight has been posted on British Knitters on Rav and I shot over to read your story. I was expecting family trouble, car broken down but not this. this is foul and despicable treatment of another person and is intolerable. I feel deeply for you.
    Unfortunately you are a popular person who will attract supporters, dissenters and this individual. It has been mentioned on other blogs that people feel untouchable by e-mailing. I myself have posted strong comments on Ravelry as I feel passionate about a thread and it is irritating when you get a Disagree (1), an anonymous comment that becomes meaningless as the points are not defended.
    It is a sad travesty that one ‘person’ can take such action against another. If she feels hurt about your comments, I didn’t think they were so bad, why does she feel it reasonable to hurt tenfold in reply.
    When I was reading your entry I thought back to all the supporters I sat with in London last year. the gentle movement of rhythmic knitting and laughter and love. Please remember that is what you bring, what you give and what you should receive. Take out the photos of all the groups on all the tours you have completed to date and look at the people who support you.
    I don’t usually comment unless something is particular, it could be touching it could be tragic. you choose to share you life with us and I appreciate your honesty. Know that you have more supporters out here than that one sad person.
    alternatively post her address and we can jam her system! (Joke)

  1610. Behind you 1000% YH. Reading your blog (and now your tweets) are something I really look forward to daily – I’m going through a lengthy unemployment patch and knitting and reading wonderful blogs like yours and Mason-Dixon keep me going. The manifestation of EVIL that you are encountering is indeed scary and will be difficult to redirect or stop but please don’t ever stop blogging – there are thousands of us out here who love you. By targeting you she is also targeting all of us and we won’t stand for it! Hang in there Stephanie! We Americans love you and love Canada.

  1611. Wow, I’m sorry to read that. I wish she was the only one out there, but there are more like her writing on-line anonymous comments to Letters to the Editor in our local paper. People who are afraid to have letters printed in the paper because they require a printed name, but can spill terrible venom on-line under a fake one. In a sane world, people wouldn’t write this nasty stuff. Or at the very least good programming would block venom before it was posted. I’m sorry, Steph; you are a very caring person, and you deserve only the best. P.S. I hope the rain has let up a little bit.

  1612. Oh ick. As someone who works in the mental health field, I can say, as you already know, that you’re dealing with someone who is pretty unbalanced. I’ve run into several people like this, who need to have something/someone to be angry at in order to feel whole. It’s not about Canada, or anything personal, obviously, but this person’s need to fill a bottomless pit in themselves by sucking off your energy. Scary to be the target of such things. I’m a left-leaning, knitting American living 30 mins from the Canadian border…go Canada!

  1613. Yet another first-time poster and long-time reader – we’re with you Steph. Your actions are an example to us all. Love from Missouri…..

  1614. Dear Steph, Joining the 1800 + other comments to say don’t let her get you down. I’m sending a donation to KWB to combat her ugliness. Be safe.

  1615. Your stalker needs to remember what goes around comes around.. Proof of that is the tremendous outpouring of support you are receiving!!
    You are a gifted writer. Creative and funny.
    I am not a knitter but I love your blog!!
    Keep your spirit up and keep doing what you do..

  1616. Oh my. I’m so sorry that you’ve been subjected to the depravity of this individual. How terrible for you. If she doesn’t like your blog or books, she should avoid them. I love your stuff.

  1617. Hi Steph! Probably you’ll have given up in exhaustion before getting to this comment, but just felt I had to add my voice this time. I’m not American, but having gone back and re-read your Canada Day post carefully, I was gobsmacked (not to say stunned) that anyone could possibly have read it as being anti-American.
    I’m so sorry that you are having to deal with this situation, but hope that the many, many posts here from people like me who love your blog, and truly like and respect the funny, intelligent and thougtful person who comes across through it, will be some kind of counter-balance to all the hate you have been receiving from this – clearly very unbalanced – person. You have handled this nightmare in such a mature and sensible way (better than I think I would have done in your shoes); but it’s just truly awful that you’ve been faced with it in the first place.

  1618. Stephanie,
    You’re doing the right thing by ignoring this obviously unwell person. I’m an American expat who lives in the UK and works at a knitting store, and you should know you have just as many fans on this side of the Atlantic as you do in Canada and the USA, this spiteful, unreasonable person notwithstanding. People who treat you like this can make you feel awful, I know. About 1800 people, at the time of this comment, have already sent messages of support for you, and I’m here because I read countless messages of support on Twitter.

  1619. One of the best things I ever learned was not to take anything personally. What people do, they do because of who they are, not because of who I am or what I do. It has helped me tremendously to remember that when dealing with those who are so angry and unhappy they lash out at whomever they can.
    Because of you I know much more about Canada then I ever did before (Your post describing the way Canadian government is structured was fascinating); I’ve attempted lace knitting and developed my own basic vanilla sock pattern.
    I’m a non-Christian, Libertarian, American from New York who doesn’t always agree with you but has great respect and admiration for you. We met at Rhinebeck many moons ago and, though you probably don’t remember it, I’ll never forget it. I acted like a complete dork and you were your lovely and gracious self.
    I suppose it’s just the law of averages that one member of your audience is a loon. Thanks for letting us all know what’s been going on. I can understand how the tenacious and venomous attacks from this woman could rattle you. As evidenced by the 1500+ posts so far, you are loved.

  1620. Don’t let the psycho get to you, hon. I realize that is easier said than done, but the internet harbors all too many petty trolls who relish the fact they can be nasty from a safe distance. She will get her comeuppance some day and in the meantime you have a lot of faithful friends.

  1621. I read your blog every day and have all your books but rarely comment but just had to add my love and support today. Meeting you when you were in St. Louis on one of your book tours was a big hi-light of this Christian, U.S. citizen. I think what many people respond to in your books and your blogs is your goodness. I don’t know you, I don’t always agree with you (as I don’t with many of my friends) but I know you are a good, caring person–someone I would be honored to call my friend. You and your family will be in my prayers as will be your stalker.

  1622. As an American who also happens to be married to a Canadian (Gimli, Manitoba)…I’m so, so sorry and embarrassed. How dare she try to speak for me. I just can’t believe people have the TIME for this kind of crap…

  1623. what an intense, awful tirade to have to put up with! keep your chin up and remember all us normals out here in cyberspace have your back.

  1624. Wow. That’s astonishing. How absolutely devastatingly awful for you. I”m a huge fan of yours and I have gone back to start all of your blog postings from the beginning. I have never felt you to be anti-American. As a Canadian, I’m proud that you’re one of us; for the record, I love your Canada day postings. I love the Americans too. Hopefully the spiteful crazy nutbar won’t be at Sock Summit. Take care and don’t let her get you (or your loved ones) down. We love you for who and what you are and for all you have given us. I have most of your books and am happy to continue buying more. Long live Yarn Harlot, I say.

  1625. I think she’s jealous of you Stephanie, I think she wants to be just like you …and doesn’t have the knack.
    So she must try to tear you down.

  1626. So sorry, Stephanie. My love to you and your family. Thank you for letting your dedicated readers know what is going on with you. Crazy people can make sane people crazy … but only if we engage in the craziness. You are doing the right thing. It’s over now. You will have “housekeeping” to do for awhile, but you will do it with a broom (finger clicks) and not your heart and mind. It’s all going to be good.

  1627. There’s a lot of love and admiration for what you do and how you present it on this blog and ALL of it WELL deserved Stephanie. Keep on with the good work . We look forward to your postings and books. ALL the very best to you and yours .

  1628. I can’t believe you suffered for a month over this, with everything else you have going on! You did the right thing and I hope it never, ever happens to you again. Meanwhile, I thank you for continuing to share your positive energy which is, obviously, much appreciated all over the world.

  1629. I lurk here and enjoy the blog very much. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this person, whom very much appears to be mentally ill. I am an American who has never had any reason to be offended by anything you’ve written about my country; I am much harder on it than you have ever been! Be safe, and I promise to not feed the troll. -nator

  1630. I am proud to be a Christian and an American and this person certainly does NOT represent me. I agree with the poster who suggested this bully be TOS’D!! and I would do it via legal representation. Bullies need to be dealt with swiftly and severely so they get the message.
    Keep up the good work. We LOVE you. Now go have a beverage, put this ugly thing behind you and get on with SS09!

  1631. Dear YH,
    Several years ago I was in an accident and lost the use of my right leg due to nerve damage. About two days after I realized that i really had nerve damage, I found your blog. I could make a good argument for this being the lowest point in my life, and I just wanted you to know that your light, love of knitting and intelligent humor is one of the things that kept me going through years of physical therapy, pain and depression. I have seen you speak several times and always enjoyed it. I have also taken one of my few vacations since the accident in Canada because of how lovely you make it sound (and it was lovely, even to a born and bred California coastal gal like me). I have also always felt that you treated every place you visit with the utmost respect and admiration for each place’s unique charms.
    I enjoy sharing the funnier blogs with my family, and the incident with Joe and the truck was definitally one of those. I appreciate your ability to find humor in things that would just tick off many people, and I hope that you will continue to post these sorts of incidents, since they really do bring a lot of joy and laughter to many people.
    I am truly sorry that all this is happening at a time when you are so clearly working so hard to make thousands of knitters so happy by bringing them something as exciting and fun as Sock Summit 09. Please keep up the good work, and know that there are people out there who are grateful you are out there.
    P.S. The coffee in the airport post? One of the best stories EVER. I still laugh just thinking about it.

  1632. Just coming out of lurking mode to say that your stalker does NOT speak for this American! Hang tight, sweetie, and this too, shall pass.

  1633. As I predicted, all of this attention is pushing her to new levels of attack. Her most recent blog post is all about YH and yet, when asked to show the horrible things that YH wrote to her, she cannot/will not because she is ‘above that’. Snort. Now THAT is funny!!!
    YH- you know what you have to do. It’s time to shut the stalker down. I know you don’t want to, but you have to do it. Our love for you is just winding her up to an unacceptable level. So sad, the inevitable implosion of the tortured mind….

  1634. I know I’m not saying anything that hasn’t already been posted here, but I am so sorry that this crazy person is doing this to you. I am embarrassed that she’s from the US and tries to wrap our flag around her nonsense. I am worried for you, but know you are doing what you need to do to keep safe. My hope is that this will end soon with her being contacted by the appropriate authorities. I love your blog, find it very funny, and often email posts from it to my daughters; even though they don’t knit, your antics are often hilarious. Lots of love from the US, Barbara

  1635. Not that you didn’t know this by now, but we love you. A thousand plus people have already sung out their support, but I’m adding mine in too. Maybe the number of happy, supportive voices will dull this one hateful voice. As a knitter, as an American, as a human, I think you are a good person who does good things for knitters and Americans and other humans. KWB has benefited from your blog and your work far beyond what this one crazy voice has taken away from you and your family. Your books have given many knitters the giggles and the warm fuzzies that let us know we are not alone on our crazy ride through life. Thank you for what you do and for doing it in the face of The Crazy(TM). Knit on, sister, knit on.

  1636. Just wanted to send in my support. This is just so sad! Why does the internet always seem to bring out the crazies? Glad to see you taking the “high” road. Maybe if she’s ignored she’ll give it up. You just keep on doing what you do. It is SO appreciated!

  1637. Stephanie: I love your knitting, I love your blog. I hope you’re still writing it and I’m still reading it when I’m 90 years old (ahem, quite a few years from now)
    There is a very sick person out there who needs help, I hope she/he gets it soon.

  1638. I know I’m at the bottom of a long line of comments here, but I’m leaving a comment in the hope that you’ll have time to read it. There is a really good book by a guy named Gavin de Becker called The Gift of Fear. De Becker is a threat assessment professional who has worked with celebrities and businesses and private normal folks who are dealing with potentially dangerous people. I urge you to read the book (it’s actually an amazing read), and honestly, because you are a celebrity, you might consider contacting him to have this person’s behavior assessed.
    And finally, let me join the chorus of Americans saying that this poor damaged soul attacking you does not speak for us. Being pro-Canada does not make you anti-America.
    Stay safe, and keep doing the wonderful stuff you do.

  1639. There are already 1834 comments here in support of you, Stephanie! I’ll add one more, from a conservative Christian American knitter.

  1640. This person sounds delusional and mentally disturbed. I am so, so sorry for you my dear, it must be horrible to be stalked this way and I only hope it will end soon. You are so right to advise not even acknowledging him/her when comments may appear. We are all behind you. Sending good thoughts your way– Violet

  1641. As another US lurker and a Christian I’m horrified by what you’ve had to deal with.
    I’ve enjoyed your blog and follow it regularly. I’ve NEVER found anything the least be offensive. I followed your generic sock pattern when I learned to knit socks. My skills have grown as I’ve read your books and blogs. On the rare occasions that I might have read something you wrote that I don’t quite agree with… so what… you likely wouldn’t agree with everything I say or think. Thats call individuality! Hey, even my husband doesn’t always agree with me! 🙂
    As others have said you can’t deal rationally with someone who is displaying signs of mental illness. Unfortunately it does take up a lot of your time and energy.
    Please know that there are thousands, maybe even millions of us who do appreciate you and your work for the one who is jealous of what you have.
    Please, carry on your work, continue to entertain us, the masses, and do your best to continue ignoring/blocking her.
    ~a

  1642. If I didn’t already own all your books I would buy another one just to support you in a tangible way. I solemnly promise to not poke the crazy. I sure hope this doesn’t discourage you from blogging OR writing, but what strength you must have to keep on.

  1643. Stephanie–When one of a family is threatened or attacked, the wagons are circled. You gotta know you have one helluva knitting family and this circle is global!

  1644. I started crying when I read your post. I am pregnant and have been pretty weepy lately, but that’s beside the point. I couldn’t believe that anyone could say those things to you. Her un-christian behavior is deplorable! Please don’t let her get you down.
    You have inspired me in my knitting. When I started knitting a few years ago, all I would make was scarves and blankets. I was scared to make anything that would have to fit a person. I saw a hat recipe in one of your books and tried it out. I made a baby hat for my daughter before she was born. Unfortunately, it didn’t fit her until she was one!! ( I didn’t check gauge!) The point is, is that you made me feel confident enough that I tried it! Now I try all sorts of new things! Someone in an earlier comment called you the Julia Child of knitting, and I completely agree! I hope this woman has some friends or family that realize what she is doing and can get her some help. I will always be a loyal reader and I hope you never stop!!

  1645. I am an American Christian and a conservative. I’ve been reading your blog now for the past 2 or 3 years. I don’t always agree with you on social issues, but that’s fine with me. You have a right to your opinion, just like I do mine. I will pray for this woman – she is obviously mentally ill. Please know that your blog is the second one I check every day because I enjoy it so much (sorry – my son’s comes first 🙂 ). I’ve bought a couple of your books and enjoyed them. You make me, a non-knitter, want to knit! Please keep writing!!

  1646. I have never understood that level of anger and hatred. Keep your chin up – you have plenty of love,light and respect.

  1647. Your blog is my favorite of all time, which means that I always read it last because I am a “save the best for last” kind of person! Love, love, love it! Of course, love all the knitting posts. And I love your Canada Day post, and all other posts about Canada. Canada is something of a mystery to most US citizens, so I really appreciate being enlightened.
    What this poster is doing is called “stalking” and I urge you to take whatever steps are available to you in regard to such behavior.

  1648. Ok, ok, I’m sorry I’m double-dipping here in the comments section.
    I walked away after reading many of the comments, all of them supportive, and found myself deep in thought. I thought cleansing breaths and healing for you, Stephanie, and for your family, and healing for others as well. I also got to thinking about this: you could drop down in the middle of any nation on this earth, and you would have friends and be loved for who you are, because you have shown yourself to be classy, peaceful, loving, and all that good stuff. That alone, minus the books, the rabid following of your fans, the appearance on “Knitty Gritty” and everything else, THAT is a legacy that very few people in history every attain.
    You are loved, you are beloved of many. So many.

  1649. As a US citizen and a Christian, I am saddened that someone would used these as an excuse for their hateful and irrational (to put it mildly) behavior. This person is obviously mentally ill, very angry and possibly dangerous, and looking for excuses to spew.
    I have never been offended by anything you have written. And it is senseless to bother getting upset about anything someone would write, anyway. If you don’t like something, go elsewhere.
    I commend you for the way you are handling this and I will pray for the safety of you and your family. Please continue to keep the authorities involved.

  1650. Love and light to you and yours dear Steph from a pagan/American/Okie/farmer.
    Be safe.
    Hoping the stalker finds mental health help soon.

  1651. From 2000 to 2008, being an American has been like being the booby prize at the county fair. Our previous “boob-in-chief” was a nightmare and embarrassment for not only America, The Dixie Chicks, and me, but the world at large. This woman’s remarks are so far off the mark as to be laughable except I think she’s certifiably nuts (therefore to be pitied). I found her web site easily yesterday after reading your current posting. Reading her stuff is an exercise in futility as far as understanding her AT ALL. In fact, it gives me the willies that she’s out there in Kansas (my home state) blabbing away.
    I enjoy reading your blog. I’m in awe of your knitting skills. I’ve given your books as gifts. You seem right as rain to me.
    Hold your head up. Keep on keepin’ on. Don’t let her drag you down to her level.
    Linda

  1652. I am a lurker and really enjoy this blog. Thanks Stephanie. Remember “sticks and stones …..”.

  1653. Stephanie, I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. Just made a donation to Doctors Without Borders.

  1654. All the love in my US born-and-bred heart goes to you while you deal with this conservative psychopath nut-job.
    Sorry. I don’t know why we have so many of them, but we do. I wish they’d all just chill out.

  1655. Steph,
    Just adding one more drop of love to all that has already been sent your way. I am horrified that this has happened to you! But we all love you dharlin’!!!

  1656. Hi Stephanie,
    I met you last year when you were minding the store at Lettuce Knits and I thought that you were so very nice. I’m so sorry that this person is doing this to you! Your blog and books have been such an inspiration to me to become a better knitter. Thank you so much!
    Much Love from an American girl to you and your family,
    Kelley

  1657. Sometimes it is downright embarrassing to be an American (though it really pays off to be associated with the Pagans). Steph, I hope you can feel the huge amount of respect and honor you’ve earned at least as much as you’ve felt the pain from this particular poster. Her jealousy and emptiness and cries for attention are signs of a very broken person, and I’m so sorry she’s aimed her illness at you.
    Is there any way to pursue some sort of restraining order? Can you line up some of your closer online friends to help you moderate? You don’t have to do this alone.
    Here’s hoping she’ll tuck her scaly tail between her legs, grab her polyester bag of acrylic, and crawl off to marinate in her own ichor until she decides to seek the help she so clearly needs.

  1658. You are a class act! I don’t know if I would be as gracious or reasoned as you have been.
    And just remember what Mama always said
    “Don’t get down in the mud and play with the pig; the pig will enjoy it, and you will get muddy.”
    Can’t we take her yarn and needles away from her???
    Hugs from a Christian American, who is appalled that someone would use both Christianity and American citizenship to harass a sweet little harlot such as yourself!

  1659. Oh, man. I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this crap. People are nuts! Chin up, girl. Not all Americans are so crazy. But then, I think you’re smart enough to know that…

  1660. First, with respect to your wishes — I feel only pity for this woman. that she does not have enough of a life that she spends her time on this.
    Second, as an American knitter — you have NEVER insulted my country, myself or other knitters, American or not.
    Third, my respect for you only increases with this posting. That you have dealt with this for a month, with the vitriol, irrationality and frankly, insanity from this woman and have not reacted publicly before now. That even now you react by asking merely for us to ignore her and not validate her by responding.
    Please tell that inner voice of yours that it, like this commenter on your blog, is 100% WRONG. You are a model that I aspire to.

  1661. I just wanted to add my voice here as yet another American who is actually quite fond of you and your blog. I discovered your blog about a year ago. I’ve read it end to end and check it every day (first time I’ve posted, though). I’ve never found you to be insulting to America or Americans. This woman, however, I find to be very insulting to Americans. Why is it always the wackos who want to claim they speak for the crowd?
    Anyway, hang in there, and don’t let the crazy people get you down. You’ve got a lot folks who support you in the world, even (especially) here in the states. ^_^

  1662. Stephanie – a whole lot of love going out to you. And some, however counter-intuitively, going out to your stalker. It must be truly hell to live in her mind with those paranoid thoughts.
    Please take care of yourself and know there are lots and lots and lots of us who think you are kind, funny, kind, respectful, kind, creative, kind and of course kind.

  1663. Stephanie – I am a christian, American woman and I’m here to tell you that you have NEVER offended me and no one else speaks for me no matter what they may think. I disagree with you politically and our lives are very different, but that does not stop me from thinking that you are one of the wittiest and most talented people that I know of and certainly would not prevent me from offering to buy you a beer should I be lucky enough to find myself with the opportunity. Hang in there!

  1664. I am so embarrassed that she would take up the mantle of Americans as an excuse to be crazy. I also hate that she would take up the mantle of conservative Christians, who make up a bulk of my family and who would NEVER think to leave such hateful idiocy on your blog.
    So, on behalf of Americans who find you completely delightful and believe, without exception that you have every right to express your opinion. I’m just so sorry you’ve had to deal with that level of crazy.

  1665. I love your blog and your books – they (and you) are funny, beautiful and inspiring. Wishing you all the best.

  1666. I an American and I find nothing wrong with anything you’ve blogged. I think that girl is wacked and will leave it at that. Stay strong you’ll get through this.

  1667. Thank you for sharing your knitting and your stories. Peace, love and much success to you always.

  1668. I knew that you were funny and thoughtful and inspiring, but I didn’t realize until now that you were also a hero. As someone who suffered viciously from bullying in childhood, I recognize it when I see it. This individual is attempting to control your self-expression and attacking your values by threatening your family and community, i.e, by terrorism. This is what a terrorist sounds like. Know that by refusing to be silenced or controlled, or provoked into retaliation, you are carrying the flag (and a Maple Leaf flag at that–take that, e-mail bully!) for all of us who have been bullied, and for every blogger who has been harassed into giving up, and you are fighting terrorism as much as the Forces overseas.

  1669. Thank you for sharing this trouble with us: your confidence that we can and will manage our response to this is both comforting and inspiring. I support your approach and will stand beside you all the way.

  1670. Wow. It’s like the female version of Bill O’Rielly. One scary mix of hate and crazy and provocation with a hefty dose of religious and patriotic dogma. I’d hate to view the world through those eyes. It must be terrifying to have so many imaginary enemies.
    I’m sorry. I know this kind of thing sucks the wind right out of the sails. I’m sure you must know that you’re well-loved here in America.

  1671. I agree with Deb @ 1:45 – 5 mins. I’ll never get back, but I also believe in trust, but verify, so wanted to get an additional sense of this person.
    And I cleansed my mind by going out and moving 6 YH books AND the 2010 calendar from my wish list into the checkout at Amazon.
    Conservative, Christian, carnivore, political junkie (but not wingnut!!!) USA-ian woman here, who finds common ground through fiber arts and humor with the varied strands that make up the diversity that is our world. Imagine how boring it would be if we were all alike?????

  1672. I’ve read your blog on and off for about 18 months and often agreed with, laughed at, been entertained by and sympathised with your ‘yarns’, but never felt the need to comment – until now.
    Be strong and don’t let ‘she-who-can-not-be-named’ get you down – well done for standing up to her.

  1673. I’m another that has read your blog for years and never commented. I am astounded that someone has taken against you and with such vehemence. I’ve always regarded you as one of the funniest, most honest and balanced knitting bloggers. I love reading your blog and feel angry that someone is trying to take that pleasure away from all of us.

  1674. Stephanie, I’m a citizen of the United States of America but you and I are both Americans. I am ashamed of that a$$hat of a female who seeks to revile you for your obvious love of Country (I wish I were a Canadian by the way because of your moral stand on so many issues, including universal health care) and for your having a really, really nice blog and a talent for writing on varied subjects. We won’t get into your tremendous ability to convey your love of family and friends, your charitable endeavors, your business acumen and your wonderful, well honed and slightly deprecatory sense of humor except to say these all make you the amazingly wonderful woman you are.
    I hope that woman — well I was going to wish some horrible, painful disease on her but I won’t – receives the mental health care she obviously needs.
    Stay well and strong, my friend. Know that many of us love and care for you.

  1675. I am a proud American, and I think what she is doing is absolutely horrible. There is nothing wrong with being pro-Canada (I’m pro-Canada and I don’t even live there!) or stating your opinions on your own blog. If she doesn’t like it, she should stop reading. Stay safe and know the knitting world is behind you!

  1676. I want to show my support in your unfortunate situation. I love your blog, read it religiously and enjoy your books. I have them all in my library. Sending you love and determination to hold your ground. We will not stoop to her level.

  1677. Steph, I have been away for two weeks and have missed you every day. Was SO looking forward to coming home and catching up on some good Harlot laughs. I even built up a new fan club for you where I was at. I was sickened by the first post that I met. God Bless you, darling for holding all that ick. There is no balm for dealing with the clinically angry and extreme haters, I know. Thank you for being brave and sharing with us. You are in my thoughts. Thank you for the continual joy that you have brought me in so many dark times.

  1678. I am impressed with your ability to keep your cool.
    And you’re right – power follows focus, and there’s no reason to give this sort of focus whatsoever.
    Rock on. (And knit on of course. But that goes without saying).

  1679. I’ve often found your Canada Day posts interesting. Who doesn’t want to be proud of their country/state/city/town/friends/family? Why shouldn’t we learn more about each other? The world is a fascinating place.
    I appreciate learning more about my fellow bloggers. I think it makes me a better person because I am able to understand each person in this world a little better. I may not like them all, or their opinions, but I feel better knowing that I can at least understand them.
    I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Light. Love. Respect.

  1680. As one more American to comment, I am shocked at this girl’s behavior. I LOVE reading your blog and hearing your opinions since, I believe, exposure to different ideas and opinions is beneficial to oneself and society. Thank you for being such a strong knitting guru, wise woman, and, for me, a role model.

  1681. Hang in there Harlot. Your blog is often the highlight of my day. I am so deeply ashamed that a fellow American is doing this to one of our wonderful Canadian neighbors. Please do not think she represents the majority of Americans. She does not.

  1682. I think you’re great. You’re like, a Knitting Rockstar. I can’t stand that someone would talk (er, write) to you that way. Please be safe.

  1683. I’ve never commented before, but I read a lot…
    Ignore the crazy, it’s obviously off its meds.
    love (1000)

  1684. Real Christians spread love, not hate and hurtfulness. Stand strong Stephanie, there is lots of love for you in the world (including America!). I <3 U!!

  1685. WOW. I’m so very sorry that an ignorant American can be so very ignorant. There are more days than not that this issue reveals itself. I am an American. Today, not so proud of that fact.

  1686. Even though this woman would say I should love it or leave it, I am American. (A card-carrying member of the Daughters of the American Revolution, even.) Every time I leave the country I’m reminded how much that is true.
    But this woman exemplifies one of my biggest concerns about my “fellow Americans”–the with-us-or-agin-us, the assumption that we are divinely chosen, and the willful lack of imagination that anyone could want to act or live differently than they do.
    (It’s clearly not the central issue–her delusional anger is–but I resent her counting me as one of her imagined supporters.)

  1687. The individual cited in your “blog” is NOT…could NOT be an honest, sane citizen of my country…
    Stand firm and ignore her … keep blocking her and know a real citizen of the United States of America celebrate all individuals…truly. That is what makes us Americans…
    I question both her sanity and understanding of the US Constitution.
    God Bless…

  1688. So many comments you don’t need my 2 cents’ worth, but here it is anyway. As an American Christian (and even right-leaning) it is people like this woman who make me burn with embarrassment. Seems like it’s always people like her who proclaim themselves representatives of the rest of us (a sign of gross self-importance on her part.) I have always enjoyed your blog, your books, and your tweets. I have never felt insulted by anything you have said. Please know that you are well loved and held in high esteem. My best to you, your family, and your friends.
    Carry on. 🙂

  1689. Free speech is one of the cornerstones of the American system, and your detractor clearly does not understand this when she is trying to supress your opinions (and how does saying Canada is good = America is bad? Logic FAIL).
    You totally rock as a Canadian patriot, a great friend to America, an inspiration to knitters everywhere, an author, and a mom. Just ask your kids if I’m right on this last one – they’re the ones whose opinions matter, not some south-of-the-border nutjob.
    Fighting dirty is NOT synonymous with being American. Shame on her. We’re supposed to be the good guys, and follow the rules, and win all battles with the evil baddies who cheat. THAT’S the American way. (Wow, that kinda sounds like… YOU!)
    And (((((hugs))))) a million times. I will now go do a random act of kindness in your name.

  1690. Hello, Stephanie. I’m meeting you for the first time through my friend Kristine. It’s a pleasure to make your acquaintance.
    I found this comment from your harasser particularly amusing, “I will hopefully educate you in how to relate to America as a friendly nation…” If she thinks her comments are an example of friendliness, I’d hate to see what she views as downright rude!
    Someone has been putting me through a very similar situation, and I’m sorry that you’re going through all the same pain that I’ve been enduring myself.
    I hope by ignoring this gal and deleting her posts, that she will finally tire of hurting you and find someone else.
    It really is too bad that more can’t be done to shut down these people because we all deserve to live free of harassment and abuse.
    Best wishes and good luck!
    Kelly

  1691. I have been reading for a very long time, and never posted. I think this is an appropriate time to say that I enjoy your blog and your books. Thanks for all the entertainment and I loved knitting your cabled hat pattern. Some people are off the charts crazy!

  1692. Stephanie,
    Peace and joy to you and your family.
    Please keep doing what you’re doing!
    We’re behind you. We admire you. You’re GREAT at what you do.
    Kate

  1693. Please don’t let this kind of thing get to you. The person in question probably has lots of issues and has decided to vent them out on you. Hang in there….from what I’ve read on your blog over the years, you have shown yourself to be a caring and nonjudgmental person – plus you often make me smile!! Stay strong!

  1694. From one person to another, I am sorry that you are the target of a bully. I would consider a restraining order. . .

  1695. I also found the blog (I couldn’t help myself, it’s like a car accident, where you have to look, no matter how terrible you know it will be). She’s actually claiming that she never threatened anyone, she obviously has already forgotten what she wrote.
    I can’t believe anyone could take your Pro-Canadian comments and construe them as being anti-American. It’s not like you said “AMERICA SUCKS!!!” And as many others have said We’re all American from the most southern tip of Chile to the most northern tip of Canada.
    I think you’re an amazing person, and I’m very proud to be in a few “categories” with you; Canadian, Knitter, even Atheist (if that’s even true about you, I don’t think you’ve ever declared your religious beliefs). I’m actually beside myself that someone would treat you this way, I didn’t think it was possible for you to have enemies. But I guess there’s always someone who needs to stir up the S%*t.

  1696. Just want to add to the number of your supporters. Thank you for sharing what amounts to the “dark side” of blogging. Praying for you and your family.

  1697. I’m so terribly sorry there are people like this in our world. I know you’ve got better things to do. I wish she did too. You’ve both expended quite a bit of energy on this. What on earth is her problem anyway?

  1698. Stephanie,
    It would seem that the writer is mentally ill. As a health care professional I agree with your advice to not engage the writer in conversation as she appears to be unable to discern reality from delusion. Please be safe. And know Americans do like you, will buy your books. And I for one learn a lot about our neighbor to the North when you blog about Canadian holidays and politics.

  1699. Steph, as a long time fan I have join in to help you remember how much you are loved down here in America. Attending one of your book signings turned out to be one of the most fun (and funniest)evenings this Florida girl has had in a long while. I’m heart-sick that someone could be sending you such filth and vitriol and I hope that she tires of her evil little game soon. The fact that she takes such actions and still considers herself a “Christian” woman just further illustrates one of the many reasons I am not one. My thoughts are with you.

  1700. Steph, don’t feed the troll. It will be bad for a few days now, but look forward to Sock Summit, and hang in there.

  1701. Posters from USA, we must be sure that Stephanie has a post that is positive from all 50 states in the USA. We all love her, respect her, live for her posts and books and we MUST stand behind her. I’m from the great Commonwealth of Kentucky. Sound off USA! We love Stephanie. When I posted a note that said I had made my last house payment she sent me a personal note that said Congratulations. I will save that forever! We love you Stephanie. I had my Daughter on your birthday and is she ever a great knitter! She does you proud!
    Knitter in Kentucky

  1702. This situation is so sad. I just stumbled upon your blog Friday and must say you are a wonderful blog to read. Keep up the good blogging!

  1703. I am so sorry that you have to deal with this kind of crap. Yet another example that makes me feel ashamed of the awful thing that my fellow Americans try to say on “our” behalf. Peace to you and your family.

  1704. I almost feel silly adding my two-cents worth after all of the comments left by others. I apologize as an American Christian woman – her conduct is so very far from patriotic or godly. I hope that a peaceful solution is quickly coming – one that is just and fair. May all her yarn take a hint from Karma and tangle incessantly.

  1705. Stephanie:
    Stay strong, you’re doing the right thing. As an American, I’m embarassed, as someone who grew up three miles from the Canadian border, I’m proud of you.
    Beth

  1706. I agree with some of the previous posters that have suggested that the police get involved. I know that’s difficult to work with across borders, but I would give it a try. This woman is threatening you, and exhibiting stalker-like behavior.
    I know you know better than to believe that she speaks for all Americans, or even most, but I’m still incredibly embarrassed by it, being an American myself, or a human-being even. What a nightmare! I wish you the best and hope the situation ends soon.

  1707. i’ve never posted before either and i am glad to see so many others are with me. it’s horrible, and sadly not uncommon, but know that you have a loyal readership that has your back. the internet brings out the crazies. stay strong.

  1708. It’s been ages since I commented on your blog, but this time I can’t help myself. I hope you find ways to lose this harrassing “fan” of yours.
    I suppose with the amount of readers you have, one should only expect one nutcase and even a couple. But nobody should have to put up with the crap this person is pulling.
    [sending good vibes]

  1709. Dear Stephanie (and your whole family):
    Sending you kinds thoughts and support. Strength in numbers!

  1710. What can be done?? In the US we would probably have a congressional hearing. This sounds more important than discussing how to choose the best college football team.
    It sounds like she needs her meds increased.
    I am sooooo glad she is Christian!!! Guess I misunderstood the meaning of that.
    Love you lots,
    A Christian (I thought) and US citizen

  1711. Wow – so pride in your own country is now equal to anti-American hate writing? News to me! Also – last I checked Canada is part of NORTH AMERICA…
    Anyway – good for you in the way you handled yourself. I never comment since you get so many, but this is just another citizen of the States chiming in to say keep on keepin’ on.

  1712. I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. I’ve never once read anything on your blog that I’ve considered ‘Anti-American’, and it’s incredible to me that someone would think that.
    Having met many Americans on your tours I assume that you know there is only a minuscule amount of people who think like this woman, and unfortunately, they tend to try and be very public (Westboro Baptist Church, anyone?). It’s maddening that people can claim to be Christian, have God on ‘their side’, and spew hatred all in the same breath and consider everyone else to be the crazy ones.
    I’m a huge fan of your blog, I love hearing about your adventures and your personal life. I think you are an inspiration if not only for your books and knitting skills, for yourself as a person. You always try to be open minded and give people the benefit of the doubt (even when they act like this). I think you are a great mother and you are raising 3 intelligent, independent women. I hope that this incident does not deter your from continuing to share your world with us.

  1713. Just followed some tweets here… I’m on your side, and plan to go to Amazon.com later today to buy any of your books I don’t own yet. A little gesture of support.

  1714. Allow me to add myself to your list of well-wishers. You’ve been an inspiration to me, an over 50 USA mostly newbie knitter. There will always be naysayers in our lives. Ignore them and keep going is usually best.

  1715. Stephanie – I too am a US citizen and love reading your blog and have a lot of respect for you and would love to meet you some day. I think this person needs some mental help and hope you know that there are way more people on your side of this issue than hers.
    Good luck to you!

  1716. I’m sorry you have to go through this. There are so many more of us who support you and appreciate your wit and patriotism…this, coming from an American who married a Canadian and ended up moving to your great country. All I wish is happiness and safety for you and your family.

  1717. I have been reading your blog for 5 years and all I can say is…you are incredibly strong for standing your ground and making your position known. I am so sorry that you are having to endure this right now.

  1718. I don’t know what to say except that we love you and we’re with you. I’ll be saying a prayer for you and your family as well as her’s. I’ll also be making a donation to KWB tonight. {hugs}

  1719. Complaining about a pro-Canada post on Canada Day from a Canadian blogger is like complaining about a pro-America post on the 4th of July from an American blogger. Oy!
    Stephanie, you are handling this admirably. I’m just sorry it all came to this. Someone suggested the best way to support you was a donation to Doctors Without Borders, and I agree. Look for my E-card announcing a donation from me in your name. I encourage my fellow fans to do likewise.

  1720. Wow – I thought it was bad enough before she started going on the Christian thing… that just takes the cake.
    I detest it when people claim to be Christian in their attacks on others – sets such a bad example and turns people off from something that can, for many people, be a real comfort.

  1721. I can’t imagine that you’ll have time to read the thousands of positive responses you are getting to this post until after SS09, but I have to add to the chorus of voices. If you only knew how many times I’ve felt down and your blog put me back on my feet. I especially look forward to your Canada Day posts because they’re a bit like a neighbor inviting you over for a beer to celebrate. I admire your cool restraint over this. Why are nonChristians so frequently the best example of what Jesus would do? I’ll wander over to Doctors Without Borders now, because I think boosting that total will make you feel better.

  1722. Dear Steph,
    I agree whole heartedly with Rachel H. You are doing all the right things and dealing with it the best you possibly can. Something is wrong with the sender, NOT YOU. I’m in your corner and appreciate you letting all your readers know what is going on. I won’t even deign to respond to some of the sender’s accusations as they are a completely unfounded and without merit. My only advice is moderate the comments before people can post and keep a copy of everything as evidence for the police.
    Keep knitting, keep writing, and keep being the person we love and admire.

  1723. Like so many others, Stephanie, we have been reading your blog for years. We have never met you, but we feel as though we know you. You have gotten us through many hard times without ever knowing that you had touched our lives. We have never posted before, but we wanted to add our voices to the chorus of support. We think you and your family are lovely and we wish you all the very best of everything. Whoever this person is who is posting such nasty things to you has issues that have nothing to do with you. That’s the thing about the Internet – it’s a place where people get out their frustration and their anger and they feel they can say or do anything without consequence. Don’t be discouraged. Keep being the lovely person you are. Thank you for all the joy you have brought into our lives.

  1724. Stephanie:
    Do not believe a word of what this woman says. You are wonderful, and you are funny, and you are loved. And I am sorry that this woman chooses to label herself as a Christian, because this is NOT Christian behavior. At all. I’m an American, conservative Christian, and I am absolutely horrified to be even remotely associated with that kind of person.
    You and your family will be in my prayers. Many, many blessings on you for reacting the way you did, with a level head and maturity, and on all the people who have helped you attempt to resolve this awful situation.
    ~Jenni, aka LadyTemeraire, knitter from Ohio

  1725. My head is spinning! Stephanie you are a remarkable woman. Thank you for filling my days with laughter, kindness and insight.

  1726. Double dipping also: I just brought my DH up to speed on this story and read him some of the comments. He was deeply troubled for you, as well as touched by the outpouring of love. And Steph, he wants me to tell you that if you need a bodyguard, he’ll come up and watch out for you. When I was about to log off, I noted the jump in comments, and told him: “Wow! almost 100 new posts in about 15 minutes.” His reply: “Sure, all the Christians that read her are back from church now.” We love you Steph!

  1727. I am so sorry that there is nothing any of us can say to make this situation go away. I am one of the many Christian American’s that I can see have already commented, that feel in no way similar to this woman. Reading your blog has inspired and encouraged me in so many ways throughout the few years that I have been reading it. You are an amazing woman, mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, knitter, and author. Keep on keeping on.
    Much love from us all!

  1728. On behalf of the United States of America, I apologize. Really. We’re (mostly) very, very, very sorry. I applaud your continued efforts to be a Light.

  1729. As an American, I’m embarrassed that someone is using my country’s name to attack you. Like so many others, I’m de-lurking to give support. I hope you’re somehow able to push this from your mind and keep writing. As you can see from the (so far) 1910 comments… we absolutely enjoy what you share with us. Thank you for it.

  1730. I just wanted to take a moment and thank you for sharing with us. For what it’s worth, I think you did the right thing.
    Also, you have always been an inspiration to me. In knitting, of course, but also in many other ways. As a new mom, it’s nice to know that there are days when even the most intelligent, humorous and creative people are holding it together with chewing gum and Spackle too – while still managing to raise three lovely human beings.
    Thank you.

  1731. Dear Stephanie, your knitting, your writing and your blog has brought so many happy moments for us – best wishes from me and my knitting friends here in Norway.

  1732. I’m so sorry to hear about this. The woman is clearly unhinged, and it’s such a shame that you have to invest time and emotional energy in dealing with this – even to the point of watching for her comments and deleting them. I can’t think of any better solution, but I am so sorry this is happening and to say it is completely undeserved is just to state the obvious.
    I love your blog and have only respect for you as a person.

  1733. I am always frightened by what is done in both the name of being a “Christian” and/or an “American” when the true definitions and beliefs of both, when understood and practiced correctly, would negate such violent words and actions. Shine on. Knit on.

  1734. Stephanie, I have read you since the Knit List days and have never seen or felt anything anti-American from you. Your books and your blog have made me smile if not laugh out loud many a day. I will buy and read your books and blog as long as you keep writing. Try to ignore the crazies. They are all over.
    Love and support from Iowa, Cindy

  1735. This American and every single American knitter that I personally know love and admire you dearly. You are quite gifted and frequently make me laugh unitl tears are running down my face. That often makes my day! Thank you and please never stop blogging!! (I don’t know how that woman can square the way she’s acting with the ways of Jesus, but I do know there’s no point in going there).

  1736. First off: Big squishy hugs from Indiana.
    I am appalled at the behavior of this so-called “American Christian.” She needs serious mental help. You are doing the right thing of just ignoring her. For every one person who acts like this, there are 10,000 that stand on your side.
    We’ve got your back.

  1737. I just wanted to give you my support, as well as the many other folks here. I’m an American, and love reading your blog and your books. As a matter of fact, in honor of the lovely rantings of my fellow country-woman, I’ll be heading to Borders to buy another book.
    I also want to thank you for the amazing amount of time you give to all the rest of us, in writing your books and this blog, time to let us all know that the craziness that is life is normal, and that with a little humor we can survive almost anything. Your generosity in sharing your life and your family with the rest of us is a beautiful thing to see.

  1738. A Song of Peace
    This is my song, Oh God of all the nations,
    A song of peace for lands afar and mine.
    This is my home, the country where my heart is;
    Here are my hopes, my dreams, my sacred shrine.
    But other hearts in other lands are beating,
    With hopes and dreams as true and high as mine.
    My country’s skies are bluer than the ocean,
    And sunlight beams on cloverleaf and pine.
    But other lands have sunlight too and clover,
    And skies are everywhere as blue as mine.
    Oh hear my song, oh God of all the nations,
    A song of peace for their land and for mine.
    May truth and freedom come to every nation;
    may peace abound where strife has raged so long;
    that each may seek to love and build together,
    a world united, righting every wrong;
    a world united in its love for freedom,
    proclaiming peace together in one song.

  1739. Steph, I adore your blog and your books, and can only dream of being able to attend the Sock Summit! One of these years…one of these years.
    Anyway, the Paranormal Forum in which I moderate has been dealing with a mentally ill troll on and off for a few years now (this guy make the paranormal forum rounds), and each time he picks a couple of mods to go after. This time round, it was my turn, so I have a pretty good idea of what you’re going through right now.
    I echo everyone else. Report, report, report to the authorities, both here in Toronto and in the US. And remember that so many of us all over the world love your blog and your books and your appearances, and that you have a strong and loving family and a strong and loving group of friends. This individual (and I’m not going to bother to look up who they are, they are simply worthless. I wouldn’t waste the energy to use Teh Goggle on them) is a complete and utter whackjob and a sad excuse of a human being. The cats battling for territory behind my house most nights are better behaved that this creature. Chin up and remember all that makes your life wonderful!

  1740. Sigh – this person is the kind of American who has caused half the world to hate the US…I’m ashamed that I can call her a fellow citizen of the country I love and live in. That being said – she makes several moronic comments that make no sense.
    Ignore her, know we love you and I’ll be raising a beer in your honor while I knit today.
    Thank you for your wonderful books, blogs and humor.

  1741. Stephanie,
    As a knitter and an American, I want to let you know that I love your books and your blog, which I read every day for a bit of humor and sanity in this often insane world. As an attorney, I suggest that you notify the authorities in Portland as a precaution. We have an unfortunate number of nuts in this country. I went to hear you speak when you were in Los Angeles and am looking forward to seeing you at Sock Summit.

  1742. Hey Steph, just a casual reader here (and not a knitter!), but I feel for ya! *BIG HUG* Keep on keepin’ on.

  1743. Oh wow. I’m so sorry for you. As an American Christian, let me just say that she doesn’t represent all of us (or probably *any* of us!). I admire your restrain, and your way of handling this!

  1744. This is just hideous and I’m so sorry for you. It must have been (be) very nerveracking. Can you get a restraining order against this kind of thing? We Americans (all the rest of us, anyway) really enjoy your blog. Hang in there and keep the faith that your audience really does appreciate your words!

  1745. Stephanie, Like many of the above, I have never posted a comment. I don’t read the blog every day, but when I do, I always find it interesting and entertaining. I have, however, read all of your books and even read sections of them aloud to my husband. This is simply a message of support from a different kind of “American Girs,” although at 72 “girl” may be pushing it a bit. Keep up the good work.

  1746. dear stephanie,
    i feel sick reading this, sick and very sorry for you. i would say dont let it get to you but i know you do so would i if i was in yur shoes, its scary, hurtful and horrible.
    she clearly must be very very unhappy and lonely otherwise she would never be abe to have such anger and hate inside her. all we can do is feel sorry for her poor soul. i hope she gets bored (but then she probably cant get anymore bored than she is at the moment doing this) but hey it will go by.
    i keep you in my thoughts and send you lots of power to stand this one through, thank you for your wonderful blog, you made me laugh out loud so many times and i learned lots of you, you are wonderful-thank you.
    mara from germany

  1747. So sad, so hateful and hurtful. I am so sorry.
    Sorry that you have had receive such comments.
    Sorry that she feels such a need to vent; and in
    such a way.
    In recent years I have watched a return to rabid
    nationalism. It scares me.
    Each and every individual is responsible for peace.
    It starts within each of us and grows from there.
    May you continue to spread peace and goodwill as
    you write and travel. Be blessed

  1748. As if George Bush hadn’t done enough to make Christians and citizens of the United States look bad. This woman’s behavior is terrible and evil! Is this what she thinks Jesus would do? I think she should be locked up in a padded cell deep, deep in the cellar of a very large mental institution, never to be heard or seen again!

  1749. Not that you need any more comments, but just wanted to show my support. Also, please, please make sure the legal authorities are aware of the depth of this problem. This is just plain creepy behavior, and should be monitored — and not just by you. You are much beloved. And me? Well, I’m half-American and half-Canadian. Proudly so.

  1750. Please add this comment to the GIGANTIC pile of comments in support of you. With love and support from Chicago.

  1751. In any group, by the luck of the draw, you will get these kind of people. Those who use this kind of behavior to feel more powerful – “I’m better than this person” – and since you are famous in your own way, it makes them feel more powerful still. To need this kind of validation is immature – in the nature of a school yard bully.
    Find a few souls (in different time zones) you trust and have them do the moderation for you. They won’t feel the way you would in reading it – and I’m sure you’ll have many volunteers.

  1752. Oh my god Stephanie.
    This is horrible. Shocking, saddening, confusing.
    Perversely I keep thinking about non-knitting Muggles reading this post – wouldn’t they be amazed?? (on more than one level)
    Sadly I have been experiencing a similar (though MUCH politer) situation outside of cyberspace, and I grieve for the personal toll this has been taking on you and your family.
    Just know that your harsh inner critic is as wrong as these messages!
    Sending you a big, big hug.
    Miss Scarlett

  1753. I just spent the last almost two (!!!) hours reading your post and going through all these comments. Like many before me, check your blog daily for entries, enjoy them immensely, read all your books, but rarely leave a comment.
    Clearly, you were spot on when you decided to trust your blog community to back you on this– I think it is abundantly clear that we all agree, and will not be ‘feeding the troll.’ So please don’t worry if a post or two gets through now and then– you can trust that we will not respond.
    Personally, I am with Barb B. from 11:15am. She came up with an excellent plan: every time one of those posts does get through, any of your readers, commenters, and lurkers who are able could each donate $1 to Knitters Without Borders. I cannot think of a better way to turn the negative into a positive!
    Any of you other posters with me?

  1754. Steph, all my love to you from Germany.
    Don´t give up, she ain´t worth this!

  1755. I’m fairly new to your blog. But I am horrified to hear the abuse you have been receiving and make no bones, this is absolutely abuse. And to make it worse, she calls herself a Christian. As a Christian myself (and a non US citizen – I’m British) I am ashamed of being part of the same faith as her. Although, from what I read of her mails to you, I don’t believe she has had a true revelation of Christ: you know – the one that shows Him to be love in human form. Otherwise, she wouldn’t be able to write such words of hatred…
    Have faith in who you are and what you can achieve. You are creative and individual and from what I can tell, you have integrity and decency. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

  1756. Oh, Honey, she is mentally ill. Since this is crossing international boundaries, that does make things challenging, however, I think you should probably contact the United States Federal Communications Commission.
    As a US citizen, and a Christian, I know she does not speak for everyone of either group. I am so sorry you are being attacked.
    Take care and be safe, Sweetie.

  1757. Just a quick note of support. Please make sure you and your family is protected by any and all legal authorities.
    Wishing you the best, and I promise not to engage the troll should I meet her.
    I also wish people would stop making the rest of us Americans look so gonzo.
    Take care.

  1758. Thank you, Stephanie, for choosing to be, as you have always been, a shining example. You have always tried hard to live up to the best in yourself and have always encouraged your readers to, too. Thank you for being willing to turn the other cheek in empathy and kindness towards the person being abusive, not judging them but trying to understand why they’re doing what they’re doing–and thank you also for standing up to the bully: that part’s important too.
    I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this.

  1759. I think you’re awesome. Keep doing what you’re doing and don’t change a thing. There’s bazillions of us who love you and are behind you all the way.

  1760. You post constantly about how much you like everything in the US whenever you travel here- how great the people are, how pretty the scenery is, etc., etc. If anything, we as US citizens should thank you for all the positive feedback you give our country every year. I’ve never read anything in your Canada Day posts that I’ve ever found offensive. Sending you lots of love and support.

  1761. Stephanie,
    I am so proud of the Nation of Knitters who has, so far, posted 1800+ messages of rationality. And while that may not erase the frustration and fear of the past month, I hope that you realize how much you mean to all of us. We come from different backgrounds, religions, nations, political inclinations, but all appreciate your warmth, humor, insight, and ability to give each of us a online friend who sees knitting as a metaphor for life.

  1762. She certainly sounds like a complete lunatic. Unfortunately lunatics can be dangerous and unpredictable. It might be worth exploring the legal side now, before you look out of your kitchen one morning and see her standing on your lawn….
    Love and light
    Lois
    xx

  1763. What is particularly galling to me is how she pretends to speak for all Americans! And as a Christian! So sorry for the pain, Steph. A whole lotta people got your back!

  1764. Stephanie: I am an American living in Canada. And I’m heartily embarrassed by this woman and her comments. She DOES NOT speak for all Americans. I have never encountered anything but kindness from all the Canadians I’ve met here. I am sorry to see that that kindness is not always reciprocated. Please forgive my countrywoman for her rudeness. We North Americans need to stick together. We have so much in common. This woman is an anomaly.

  1765. If it is who I think she is, well, she’s an equal-opportunity stalker; in other words, she’s pulled this same stunt on conservative knitters who have blogs, representing herself as a liberal on these blogs. You have information on her location; file a statement with the police department in her location. They will take it seriously and add it to the folder that they have on her along with other reports. I would also recommend taking out a restraint order; especially since you often travel to the United States.
    As a conservative Christian, I wish you the best, and I hope she gets the psychiatric help that she seriously needs.

  1766. Another apologetic American knitter who’s been a long time reader but never posted. Not surprised you’re taking the high road. Hugs, and thanks for setting a good example for the rest of us.

  1767. There is a fable out there from a Jewish rabbi who is a mentor of mine: “Fishermen in the North Atlantic were having a hard time bringing fresh fish to market because the fish would be almost dead by the time they loaded them off the boats in the tanks. So what did they do? They threw some lobsters in with the fish and it kept the fish swimming.” When dealing with antagonists (and in the church where I pastor we’ve had our share), I tell these people this story and then say, “Thank you. Thank you for keeping me swimming and making a better person.”
    Hang in there. You are strong. She’ll move on to other waters.

  1768. Wow. Just wow. Something tells me that her behavior is not What Jesus Would Do. It sickens me every time I see someone calling themselves a “Christian” and yet behaving in such a decidedly non-Christian manner. I’m not sure why, but her rantings made me think of the Fred Phelps “church” and the hatred preached there.
    In addition to your own web host, you should contact her ISP. Her behavior is most likely a violation of their TOS. And if she happens to be doing it from work…well, my company wouldn’t hesitate to discipline, possibly even terminate, someone behaving this way.
    I have always found you to be a class act, and this just reinforces my belief. This American – who is married to a Canadian – loves you and hopes you keep doing what you’re doing for as long as you are able.

  1769. Stefanie, I want you to know that reading this post made me cry. Cry for the emotional strain this has obviously created for you and, undoubtedly, for your family and those close to you. And also cry for the hate and anger displayed by the commenter.
    Please don’t ever let anyone make you stop writing or blogging for any reason. I hope this situation gets sorted out. There’s lots of love for you in America.
    Love and “big arms” from Atlanta, GA (USA)
    Amanda

  1770. Steph,
    At the time of me writing this, you have well over 1900 comments. All I’m sure showing you full 100% support on this. I am so so sorry that you have to deal with the hurt and the pain that this person is putting you through. I have only been reading your blog for a bit over a year but have read every single post.
    I love your Canada day posts. I sat and read each previous post on the subject and learned so much about my northern neighbor. I never once took anything you said as negative or hurtful to Americans.
    We love you Yarn Harlot and will stand behind you NO MATTER WHAT!

  1771. As an American, I am seriously embarrassed. This woman is obviously mentally unbalanced.

  1772. I am an American fan. Are we not all North Americans? Read your blogs and enjoy every word. Ignore the idiot. Raise a beer and cheer for knitting.

  1773. Sending you some love to balance out the hurt. You’ve got my promise to let hurtful comments float down the stream and out of sight.
    – Denise, American… although I am from California ; )

  1774. i’m so sorry to hear this. you are wonderful and we all love you. i’m so sorry this stupid person is causing you so much pain. i hope that all of this ends soon. i look forward to meeting you at sock summit.

  1775. God is on the side of anonymous cowards who harass people online over a harmless and humorous blog entry? Who knew!
    Best wishes from the New Jersey IP range 😉

  1776. I am really sorry. I think you are fabulous. I hope this situation gets better soon. Take care.

  1777. So sorry that this is happening to you. Just think though – now you have something in common with Anne Murray! For years she was followed by a nut job that thought he was in love with her. While your nut job is not in love with you, the impact is similar. Think of it this way. You are now famous enough to have a nut job!

  1778. 1.Although I have been reading your blog for a
    long time, this is my first post.
    2.I have never posted before as I believe you
    have enough to do without reading hundreds of
    comments everyday….
    3.I am not a Canadian.
    4.I am completely in support of you in this
    situation. You must do whatever it takes to
    make this situation as right as it can be for
    you.
    5.Even if it means ignoring her…

  1779. Your blog,and books, are much-appreciated sources of encouragement, enjoyment, and entertainment,which have seen me through some difficult times. You have my sincerest respect, thanks, and support. Please take care.

  1780. Well! I just want to leave a comment and it takes half and hour just to get to the end of the comment section!!! Talk about support!!! That HAS to make you feel good. I am adding two more cents, as one more Christian American who is NOT represented by this woman. She is either ill and needs professional help, or she lives in a very narrow world indeed. I’m tired of being MISrepresented by people like her. (I was also scared that you were going to say that you were no longer going to blog…yikes!) Carry on, Harlot! We love you!

  1781. Stephanie, I’m so sorry that this lunatic is harassing you. As others have suggested, if you just ignore her, maybe she’ll give up and decide it’s pointless to continue if she’s not getting a reaction. I know how hard it is to ignore a thing so hurtful, but it might be your best way out of the situation.
    I hope it doesn’t skew your opinion of Americans — Many of us are not like this (myself, for example)! I hate that there are people that perpetuate this stereotype of ignorant, obnoxious Americans.

  1782. Stephanie: with all your time and effort towards knitting and the knitting community, I’m so sorry you met the really ugly American. This is like extreme road rage on the Internet! You have a huge fan base in America – I think you know that already. I applaud your love of your country on Canada Day and appreciate the education you pass on to us non-Canadians. I’m glad you are keeping up your blog, books and appearances. Take care…

  1783. I can’t imagine what else this woman does to spread her version of reality. Don’t ever stop what you do. You brighten my world with your blog, your books and your calendar.

  1784. I’m very new to reading your blog. I got turned onto it after my step mother (who loves the fact that I also knit) gave me one of your books for my birthday. I feel a bit odd posting a comment to your blog, but I want you to know that I hope you don’t let one crazy woman ruin your blog and your fun. While I can imagine that it’s difficult to put up with crap like that, I want you to know that I love your blog and the things you write and that there is someone else out there who also abhors crochet hooks as much as I do.
    🙂

  1785. Keep on shining that light, Stephanie. Reading your blog has given me hope, inspiration and belly laughs, and your grace in the face of this ugliness just confirms for me what an awesome human being you are!

  1786. As my husband always says when Something big is going on and I am worried or stressed “JUST BREATH” I am a proud American and I have never been offended by your blog! Keep up the great work.

  1787. That is one sick individual, who I hope will soon be getting the treatment she so desperately needs.
    Stephanie–breathe in, breathe out, move on. Knit a few (or alot) of rows.
    Light and Love and Bright Blessings.

  1788. After reading all of this I feel compelled to comment (as I’m sure many, many others have, too). I have always appreciated your tolerance and respect of others. I can’t remember reading anything on your blog that I thought was anti-American (and even if I had, you’d be entitled to your opinion–it’s your blog!) You have done a lot of good and brought joy and laughter to many people. You are dealing far more respectfully with this person than s/he has with you. Please try not to be too discouraged.

  1789. Just wanted you to know for me, and I can safely say (given the comments above!) that I am not alone in this, that I take you to be an ethical, moral, straight shooting, fair, decent and conscientious person. Any rational person reading your blog would deduce this. I am sorry that Name Removed is the kind of person to find cruelty and bullying to be somehow satisfying and amusing and that you have the misfortune to be her ‘pet project’. A deafening wall of silence awaits her. Light love & respect prevail! Stephanie – we stand with you!

  1790. Oh my! Don’t let anyone take your power, self-esteem or passion away from you. Hugs

  1791. You can’t make everyone happy all the time. Especially when some folks happen to be freakin’ nuts. Keep your head up, be true to yourself, and keep on doing what you do best. I’m sorry that this woman has so irrationally and intently targeted you. I look forward to the time when this whole episode is over for you and is nothing but a memory. In the meantime, please stay safe.

  1792. Hmmm, I think it is strange that some Americans can’t seem to remember that this country was founded on the ideals of allowing each person the rights to worship, think, seek happiness, and/or go to the devil in what ever way seems best to them. And I say that as a proud American with conservative Christian beliefs. I am so glad you aren’t letting one crazy spoil the fun for the rest of us, and obviously there are thousands of us that think you are great! I hope you can save your emotional energies for the truly important people in your life and that you will all be safe and well.

  1793. I’m a dedicated reader of your blog, but this is the first time I’ve posted. I’m so sorry you have to deal with the crazy, everything you’ve described is just plain scary. Sending you some supportive (non-stalker!) thoughts your way 🙂

  1794. Just another American fan who reads your blog, buys your books, will continue to buy your future books. You’re my heroin!

  1795. Brava!!! I’m glad you don’t let the bully drag you down….
    I like your blog a lot, been reading it a long time… even if I don’t knit…
    though I’m tempted to learn

  1796. I’m so sorry that you are being harrassed and stalked by someone who obviously has a horrible life. It doesn’t matter were this person is from, stupid is not limited to any nationality, religion, or gender. I hope this person is able to find the help they obviously need.
    Please know that this American knitter enjoys every single one of your posts. I find it exciting that you are just as passionate about your country as I am about mine. I enjoy reading about the wonderful things you, your husband, and your girls are doing with your lives to make the world a better place. When you reveal the challenges you sometimes have with knitting and life in general, it helps me realize I’m not alone here, and makes some of my tough days a little easier.
    I wish I could help make this person feel better about themselves, and stop attacking you. I can’t, but please know that so many of us love you and your blog. Take that knowledge, a good beer, and some soothing garter stitch knitting, and call us in the morning.

  1797. Hi, yet another Lurker coming out of hiding to say that you are wonderful. Your books and blog were a piece of sanity in the crazy I found myself living last year.
    I am horrified by this woman’s actions but applaud the maturity and understanding you are showing in this situation.
    Hugs

  1798. I am an american, and a harlot fan, i will not appologize for that persons behavior, not in me.
    I will state that I loved the way you have shown pride in your country, I loved the idea that , we canadian and american women have, heart and soul, I love the fact, that we are free and strong , hard working and loving women whose shoes are hard to fill. And then no matter what lines the border takes, there are women who are trapped, not free, no amount of wine, or candle light, no family to share their deepest fears, no one to watch the sand fall threw the hour glass with, these type of people , have no comprehention of joy, peace, and gods gifts, have been turned away, they are in need of a beating! i think if her man beat her ,,,,just a little, about the head and shoulders… like a baby seal…. oh well, hey steph, remember this.. you and I have one thing… that we share… that “F” word, but in this case, I would use it as “Hey lady your “F” ‘ed, in the head. lol, love your rare tact, sorry Iam missing that part of charm, and lady -likeness, and there for if you need me to stick my size 35 speed stix in her eyes, I will,.. I am a wiccan, so I can burn her fast typing little fingers lol

  1799. How absolutely beastly that such an unredeemed cuckoo has chosen to nest in your tree. You’ve handled the infestation with perfect grace. She, on the other hand, needs professional help; and I hope she gets it.
    Peace and such,
    Franklin
    PS It’s really Anne Coulter, isn’t it? Isn’t it? I recognize the writing style. Come on, you can tell me. Mum’s the word.

  1800. Dear Steph, I am currently receiving emails from a tenant of our property, who describes herself as a good American and proceeds to be hurtful and ill informed. However inaccurate her comments they are designed to cause damage. I’m so sorry you are suffering similarliy, I know how disturbing it can be. I won’t grace the comments I’ve received with a response but they do bother me, sometimes I despair for the human race but these people are in the minority and to be pitied. The number of comments you have had on this post confirms how many of us are behind you, be strong, be safe.

  1801. Dear Steph, I am currently receiving emails from a tenant of our property, who describes herself as a good American and proceeds to be hurtful and ill informed. However inaccurate her comments they are designed to cause damage. I’m so sorry you are suffering similarliy, I know how disturbing it can be. I won’t grace the comments I’ve received with a response but they do bother me, sometimes I despair for the human race but these people are in the minority and to be pitied. The number of comments you have had on this post confirms how many of us are behind you, be strong, be safe.

  1802. Dear Steph, I am currently receiving emails from a tenant of our property, who describes herself as a good American and proceeds to be hurtful and ill informed. However inaccurate her comments they are designed to cause damage. I’m so sorry you are suffering similarliy, I know how disturbing it can be. I won’t grace the comments I’ve received with a response but they do bother me, sometimes I despair for the human race but these people are in the minority and to be pitied. The number of comments you have had on this post confirms how many of us are behind you, be strong, be safe.

  1803. Geeez, the world is full of unhappy people, and so many of them profess to have God on their sides. Its just too sad.

  1804. Dear Steph, I am currently receiving emails from a tenant of our property, who describes herself as a good American and proceeds to be hurtful and ill informed. However inaccurate her comments they are designed to cause damage. I’m so sorry you are suffering similarliy, I know how disturbing it can be. I won’t grace the comments I’ve received with a response but they do bother me, sometimes I despair for the human race but these people are in the minority and to be

  1805. Stephanie, you were the sunshine during our very rainy IKnit Day here in London last year…here’s lots of love and good vibes coming to you from a Boston expat in England – please take care!

  1806. I agree with everyone above in saying that I stand behind you a million %! I applaud you for your strength and wisdom and for letting us know what to look for so that we may not make the situation any worse.
    You are a wonderful parent, a wonderful person, a talented and gifted knitter and writer, and someone who has taught me a lot about how to be a good person. Meeting you at Madrona years ago brought me into the knitting world with a startling realization that knitters were NICE people, contrary to what my LYS had taught me. Your humor has gotten me through many crazy days at the office of a yarn company and has helped enrich my life in countless ways.
    Thank you for not letting Name Removed ruin your fun and the blog. Thank you for your strength. Thank you for being the Yarn Harlot and thank you for being Stephanie. We all adore you down here in the US- many of us can stand witness to this.
    Light, love and blessed be.
    Annastasia
    KnittingInk

  1807. Stephanie- my sister got me hooked on knitting and your books/blog pretty much all at once- I have loved all of it ever since! As an American southerner transplanted from the northern border, I love my now very infrequent visits to Canada- and my son loved the Kindereggs(spelling?) that I brought him from Vancouver, BC(more than the bear dressed in RCMP dress uniform)this spring. There are lots of things about Canada that are unique to Canada, and I loved being reminded of them in your Canada Day post!
    In the mid-1990’s I took a Canadian Cultural History class at SFU in Burnaby, BC while a “foreign” exchange student. THAT class had American-bashing, whereas I have never seen any bashing in your blog.
    Keep knitting, protect yourself and your family as necessary and know you’ve got hugs coming from the Deep South!

  1808. I love to read your blog, and do whenever I can. I love your Canada Day post and read it every year, and I appreciate reading about your trials and tribulations as a mother who has been there because I am going through it right now. Thank you for writing your blog and sharing glimpses of your life with us. It helps. I’m sending good thoughts your way. Breathe, knit, yoga, knit, breathe.

  1809. hiya, i love your blog and your books, i hope everything gets better soon and you can go back to knitting and organising huge sock festivals 🙂

  1810. Wow. Yeah, I’m American. No Name Deleted does NOT speak for me. Gotta figure, if only 0.5% of a population is absolutely gonzo insane with the huge population here that is a LOT of gonzo nuts. And sadly, they reproduce. And they are a lot noisier than the rest of us.

  1811. Franklin – no, it’s not Anne Coulter. If you do a bit of research, it will be obvious as to who she is. A serious nutjob who should be avoided at all cost and banned from any sort of internet access.

  1812. I am a person of few words, so I can’t fully express how much you are appreciated. Even all my kids know about you.
    We love you, Stephanie. And just out of spite I am going to buy your books again and give them as gifts.
    PS Maybe because I am a godless commie liberal myself I find your observations about us “Americans” funny.

  1813. This is the first time I’ve ever posted on any blog but I had to join this long-long list of your supporters–love your books –your calenders & love your blog. You are one classy lady.Stay safe & be well.

  1814. I am so sorry. I keep typing/erasing this post because I truly don’t know what to say. I am an American and am mortified by this person’s actions. I truly feel sorry for this person and will include her in my prayers to ask that she honestly get the help she desparately needs.
    In Florida (not sure of other states), there is a huge campaign against cyber bullying (a young person was driven to suicide because of it). Like you said, it is way too easy for people to type ugly comments and threats that they would never say face-to-face. You really should consider legal action – this ugly bullying has got to have consequences, don’t you think?
    Sending you lots of positive thoughts that will hopefully cancel some of the ugly ones. Knit on that garter stitch blanket for awhile to get out some of the frustration!

  1815. Wow, I am speechless and that is hard to do. It is a shame that someone has so much hate in their heart. There are many many more of us who admire and care about you. Please try and remember us and not her.

  1816. It is VERY good that you talk about this – those on the internet must learn that a comment/twitter/blog post should NOT be taken at face value, but judged rationally and in context.
    I am one (of many, I really hope) Americans/human beings that would not have been swayed, and will not be swayed, by an emotional opinion articulated in a disrespectful manner in order to incite a lynching.
    Your post, by contrast, is articulate, contains evidence, and yet maintains a respectful tone, not only because you’re not revealing directly who this person is. On top of that, I’ve been reading your blog a long time so I can also read your post in context.
    Don’t worry, Stephanie. Not everyone out here on the internet will suddenly decide, based on one person’s anger, to no longer support you commercially or otherwise.
    Although I have seen it happen. So your posts, as always, I hope will serve to remind people to swallow gut reactions and reserve judgment before acting rashly, especially when those actions can affect a family’s good-standing and livelihood.
    You are leaving your good mark on knitters and human beings everywhere. No one’s perfect – but you are doing the best you can with who you are, and darn it, what you’re doing is pretty darn great! Have faith – some of us out here are rational and love what you have done and are doing and are excited to see what you’ll do next 🙂 Do what you need to do to keep doing your good work!

  1817. I’m another American Christian knitter who wanted to voice my enjoyment of your blog and books. I hope you keep on keeping on, and wish you and yours the best!

  1818. I’m shocked and saddened by what is happening to you. I haven’t been following your blog for too long but I have never seen anything in it that could set someone off like this. Stay strong and *try* not to let it get to you. Those who know you won’t let some crazy change their opinion of you. She must be a pretty miserable person to want to hurt you so badly.
    Take care of yourself!

  1819. This is my first post in your comments even though I have been reading for years. This lady is a crackhead.

  1820. I am a long time reader, but this is my first time commenting. Like others who find themselves commenting for the first time, this issue is so shocking it calls out for us to support you. Stephanie, you do not deserve the hatefulness she is giving you.

  1821. You like Prince? Seriously? Please say it isn’t so.
    Sorry. Had to insert a little laughter to stave off the tears I feel welling up. I think the last time you really got to me emotionally was with your Canada Day post. Not because I thought it was anti-American, but because you so obviously love your country and I so desparately wish I could truly feel the same way about mine. The reason I can’t? The people like she-who-will-not-be-named — and I deeply resent them for it.
    Please count me among the thousands who respect your knitting, your humour, your parenting skills, your humanitarianism, and above all, your character. You are a great gift to us all.

  1822. I am embarrassed for those of us (Americans) when someone like her posts those kind of comments. Please know that she does not represent our country. I think you’re hilarious and insightful and I look forward to reading your blog every day. It’s one of 3 that I read on a regular basis – don’t have time for a lot of the stuff that’s on the internet. I also always look forward to your next book, and the next time you are anywhere in the Midwest so I can come to see/hear you speak. Please don’t let a nutcase like this one stop you in anyway!

  1823. Personally I look forward to your Canada Day posts, though I find it a little emabarrasing to see how little I seem to know about our neighbors to the north.
    Keep up the faith. Excuse me now, I have a book I need to buy.

  1824. Stephanie, My deepest apologies that anyone for the US of A would act in this manner. She is a sociopath who does not deserve the internet space given to her. God help us and preserve us from these nuts. You are a light that sometimes attracts bad insects. She is a bug who needs to be squashed. God bless. Thoughts and prayers!
    Ro

  1825. I am saddened that someone would feel so hateful toward you.
    Best of everything to you and your family.

  1826. I can’t imagine how you must be feeling – or indeed coping. I am English, a Christian, parent and a knitter! I have never been offended by anything on your blog and so what if I was. I don’t have to read it right?
    You have, however, often made me laugh too much to compromise my pelvic floor…
    Hopefully when he/she sees the amount of support you’ve received, they’ll move on.

  1827. As an American, I LOVE YOU! I think your books are full of wit and amusement. I find them charming and inspiring (since the “yarn harlot” was the book that got me interested in knitting.) So PLEASE keep up the AMAZING work. Lot’s of Quvit and knitting time for you!

  1828. Stephanie, We do have a lot of nut cases in the US. Fortunately, many of us can easily recognize them, so please don’t waste time feeling bad about this one.

  1829. I am so sorry to hear this unbelievable tale….but you are classy taking the high road. My guess is that 99% of your readers are also classy enough to ignore this wacko, we are after all knitters, never mind our nationalities! My best to you!

  1830. Just another lurker, never commented before. I just have to say your behavior is a wonderful example to your own kids and other young people on how to handle a bad situation. I was fearful you were ready to give up the Blog and wouldn’t have blamed you but probably would have gone off for a good cry. I know I’m not the only one who would miss you. I’m going off for a bit of knitting and a beer (Molson, just for the spirit of the thing). This one, a toast just for you.

  1831. As an AMerican, I can she does not represent how many of us feel. I am a Liberal and a Jew and I live in America. I am embarrassed by her offensiveness. She needs to reevaluate what it truly means to be a Christian, too. Most Christians I know, and I am married to one, would distance themselves form her.
    And, I am eagerly anticipating any future books you choose to write!!

  1832. Stephanie, obviously you are much loved. . . Hang in there. Love from Michigan!

  1833. I read your blog every chance I get. Thanks for sharing what you were going through. I wish I were as witty as you and could come up with something worthwhile to say ….Please don’t stop sharing your fiber life with the rest of us…:)

  1834. HI–I love your blog. I have never seen anything offensive on it. I think you are very honest, a good person, and a good Mom. Please keep writing.
    THANKS!

  1835. I bought one of your books, then asked for the rest of them for Christmas and started knitting again after a long dry spell. I can’t imagine what that woman’s problem is other than being nuts. She certainly does not represent Americans or Christians or thinking, feeling human beings in any way. I enjoy your blog and miss it when there’s nothing new for a few days. Have a beer, keep knitting and ignore this awful person – hopefully she will go away.

  1836. It is beyond sad that you and your family have to go through something like this. Actually, it’s a shame that anyone sends you nasty e-mails & comments! I hope this gets better before it gets worse.

  1837. Condolences. No one should have to be victim to such viciousness. And I’m sure your family is stressed as well. Please spend some time together.
    Another American says thanks. Really enjoy the blog.

  1838. I think this is the second time I’ve ever commented on your blog.
    This whole thing is ridiculous, and I’m sorry you have to spend time dealing with it instead of knitting and having fun and/or silly adventures to blog about.
    I love your work. Keep it up. 🙂

  1839. Echoing the many, many others – I love your books and your blog, and am saddened that you have to deal with such things. I wish you peace and joy and I wish the other woman peace of mind and perspective. Or, possibly, a broken typing finger or two. just possibly…

  1840. I’m so sorry this has been happening to you! What a scary and nerve-wracking thing.I can’t believe she wen to all that trouble to internet-stalk you! And while I’m not glad it happened to you I am glad that you’re sensible enough to know that not all Americans or Christians are crazy like that (publicy or privately). I feel really sad that someone out there is trying to speak for me, as a Christian, American, knitting, parenting woman without my approval. She speaks only for herself. I hope you’re able to feel safe again soon. Good luck.

  1841. Wow, over 2000+ comments. I haven’t read all of them, but I am sure that most, if not all, of them are people saying “We got your back, Stephanie.” And I’m adding my voice to theirs. As an American woman, this woman’s sentiments make me angry that she even remotely thinks she speaks for anyone other than herself. Sending love your way, Stephanie!

  1842. There has always been, and always will be those such as she. It is sad that her happiness lies with tearing down others. My thoughts are with you and yours.

  1843. I’m an American, I’m a Christian, I knit. After discovering your blog about a year ago, with the help of your books and how FUN you made it look, I taught myself to knit. You inspire me not only as a knitter, but also as a mother (I’ve 3 girls myself). Your blog always brings a smile to my face (except for when life goes awry-then it at least reminds me I’m not the only one with appliance adventures). I’m sorry you’re having to deal with such drama. It sucks.

  1844. when I started reading your blog today ( I check it daily) I was afraid you were going to end it saying you were going to stop blogging….I am so glad you came through as your sensible self…You make me laugh and ponder at the same time…and your patriotism is appropriate. warm wishes to you .
    Maxine, Mi.

  1845. I just wanted to say that I haven’t read one of your posts that I took to be insulting to Americans. I’ve had several laughs when something you say reminds me of someone I know or of something I’ve done myself and then said “What was I thinking?” about. As an American and a Christian, she wasn’t speaking for me. God bless.

  1846. I’m an American, I’m a Christian, I knit. After discovering your blog about a year ago, with the help of your books and how FUN you made it look, I taught myself to knit. You inspire me not only as a knitter, but also as a mother (I’ve 3 girls myself). Your blog always brings a smile to my face (except for when life goes awry-then it at least reminds me I’m not the only one with appliance adventures). I’m sorry you’re having to deal with such drama. It sucks.

  1847. Oh, dear Stephanie, I’m so sorry you’ve been attacked so viciously and for so very long. I echo Sue (somewhere near the top of the comments, 5th, I think): standing right behind you, Steph, shining the light! We love you, and we’re here for you. Take heart. This awful thing will pass.
    Light, love, hugs, family, knitting. These are the good things. Well, and beer.

  1848. o.m.g. I started to cry when I read your blog posting. I too am one who has lurked for many years on your blog and never posted before. I’ve come to love your wonderful wit, self-deprecating humour, and always look forward to your next book. Your blog posts lighten my day and I admire your phenomenal knitting skills. Having the chance to meet you in person in June in Muenster was a true highlight for me and I can’t imagine a more cruel thing happening to such a nice person. I would also urge you to talk to the authorities about what can be done to protect you and your family.
    Take care …..

  1849. As one more American voice who enjoys and appreciates your Canadian perspective immensely, please keep it up. That said, and as much as I adore the blog and everything you do, your safety must come first. Please be careful.

  1850. Dont let this event be corrosive to be to your sense of audience. I’d think that may be very important when you are a writer. Hugs, and all support to you, girlfriend. Nat from Australia

  1851. I have read and enjoyed your posts for several years now – and I am an American Christian woman. Thank you for being so open with sharing this issue. I can’t imagine how hard this has been for you and your family. Hopefully this will all go away real soon…

  1852. You have certainly taken the high road! I am so sorry she is living in the U.S. A true American she is not!

  1853. There has always been, and always will be those such as she. It is sad that her happiness lies with tearing down others. My thoughts are with you and yours.

  1854. I am so horrified by this. Please know you are loved and appreciated by your family, friends and all of your readers. One thing I have learned, that the community of knitters has compassion and fortitude to spare, and we are all sending our love and light to you. And a lovely cold beer as well. ((( )))

  1855. Wow there really are some horrible horrible people in the world. I just can’t believe someone would go to so many lengths – if you don’t like it don’t read it! I am unaware of anyone holding a gun to my head forcing me to read your blog.

  1856. Much love from another American who agrees this woman is off her rocker.
    I hope this is the end of this awful situation and I, too, am sad that you have to deal with this. You don’t deserve it.

  1857. I’m so sorry you have to go through all of this. I love your blog, I’ve been reading it since early 2005, and I don’t know what this person is talking about with the anti american comments. Being proud of your own country is hardly a knock at ours (I’m American). That’s crazy talk. I have been to every talk and book signing you’ve had in the NJ, NY area, and you have been unfailingly polite and friendly and charming no matter how exhausted you must have been. Your blog has been like a friend to me because I don’t really have any friends who knit. I’m also Christian, and am appalled that this person feels the need to speak for all of us. I have no idea what your personal religious beliefs have to do with your blog or with your worth as a person. Isn’t freedom of religion one of the great things about both our countries. Stay strong, this must be so difficult, I’m really sensitive, and would probably still be in bed crying over this, so I’m impressed with your “grit”. BTW, if she’s so offended by your blog, why does she keep reading it?

  1858. Stephanie, I haven’t read your blog in a while, but when I started seeing “I support the Yarn Harlot” tweets, I thought I’d better see what was up. I’m so sorry to hear you’re getting this flak. On behalf of all Christian, American women who read knitblogs, I apologize; we aren’t all like that! Hang in there….

  1859. I have followed your blog for some time now, though rarely comment. It is appalling that someone should behave in the way you describe, and you have certainly done nothing to deserve it. Clearly this woman has ‘issues’ and is in need of help. We should pity rather than blame her, and encourage you to keep entertaining us in your delightful way. I wish you courage, best knitwishes, ever a fan! 🙂

  1860. I’m another one of those readers that hasn’t posted a comment but I’ve enjoyed and looked forward to reading your blog for several years now. I also have several of your books. Just wanted to let you know that what you do is appreciated. Thank you for sharing with us.

  1861. Adding my two cents worth of sympathy for your plight…can’t think of how anyone could possibly deserve that sort stress. I know you know this, but really, not every American Christian feels the same way as the person you are referring to (notice how I did not call her a mean name?).

  1862. Stephanie – I am oh so sorry. As an American and a Christian I am embarassed beyond belief! I know you don’t hold us all responsible, but I still cringe that she even claims to represent us. I may not agree with everything you write, or even your beliefs, but I respect you and I respect your self-control and ethics in this manner. I’m sure you probably don’t need one more person to say we are behind you (and incidently love Canada), but here I am anyway.

  1863. Yay you!
    Yay Joe!
    Yay Canada!
    Boo She Who Shall Be Ignored!
    Dusa, an Evangelical Christian who lives in Vermont(which is very close to, but not actually in Canada!)

  1864. I don’t knit, I don’t read your blog, and infact before 20 or so minutes ago, when i was linked to this very post, i hadn’t even heard about you. Inspite of this, i felt compelled to post and let you know that i think you’re handling all this very well and that i am filled with nothing but admiration. I cannot begin to imagine how stressful, unnerving and generally scary being in a situation like this must be. I’m sure, however, that the relentless torrent of well-wishes and comments of support that are appearing on this page will have worked to put your fears to rest.
    For what it’s worth, you’ve gained a reader in me.
    Matt, UK.

  1865. Stephanie,
    I am not a reader, or a fan, or even a knitter. My wife is however, and has probably already left you some encouraging blurb somewhere.
    She was reading your post early this morning, and from her facial expressions I thought I might check it out. I’ve never read a book of yours and didn’t read any other posts. Honestly I would probably not have recognized your name if someone was talking about you. I feel this is important to point out because I am not writing this as a fan of yours that would stand up for you no matter what the case is.
    I’m sure you’re aware (from the 2019 other posts previous to mine) that this person is not representitive of America, or Christianity, or parents, or women, or sanity. Even a non-knitter as I can see that this kind of attack is a product of poor self esteem and a need for attention.
    I am an American through and through. I believe I’ve earned what is known as “American Grit”. American grit is a mindset that we can achieve anything through hard work, honesty, and our sense of self discipline. What this women reflects is no American Grit.
    It’s just hatemongering.

  1866. I am terribly sorry that this person is slanderously attacking you.
    However, I’m greatly relieved that you aren’t quitting your blog. I enjoy your penchant for beers and socks and all other rants. Thank you for not letting this woman get you down.

  1867. It’s a sad and sorry affair, and you are doing the right thing, and like everyone else, I support and applaud you for that. As you’ve put it so well in the past, pay attention to the things that you’d like more of, and ignore the stuff that you dont. It works with toddlers, lets hope it works with this particular individual…
    I’m a british knitter, and like most of the rest of your readers enjoy your patriotism and your love for your homeland. It’s one of the reasons I’d like to come to Canada sometime and see your amazing country (and its yarn stores, natch).
    with knitterly and sisterly love, knitlass

  1868. This person obviously has a lot of mental health issues and I am so sorry she is taking it out on you, Steph.
    Having read your blog for a couple of years, met you at Madrona and read your books I cannot fathom that anyone in their right mind can say that you are anti-american!
    AND, even if you were, so what – that would not give anyone a right to spew forth so much hate in your direction!
    It is very sad that one cannot stop such an obvious lunatic person who is out to destroy you and by doing so is doing the same to Christianity and Americans!
    Sending you much strength and good wishes,
    may this nightmare end soon for you!
    Love, Ingrid
    Poulsbo, Washington, USA

  1869. It is possible to be pro-Canadian without being anti-American. I am sorry that this person has made so much trouble for you. Please make sure you take care of yourself, including being mindful of your own personal security when you are dealing with what would seem to be an unstable(or mentally ill?) individual like this.
    We support you!
    Jen

  1870. This person is mentally ill.
    He/She is stalking you.
    Be very, very careful for yourself and your family.
    Please contact the authorities.
    This level of obsession is unlikely to just go away.
    I also recommend “The Gift of Fear”.
    There is no reason for you to take personally the diatribe of this mentallly ill person. It’s not about YOU, it’s about HIM/HER.
    We all stand behind you, with great respect.
    Bet you don’t need one more thing to deal with before Sock Summit, eh?

  1871. remember last year, after rhinebeck, i wrote about you being in a crowd, and how your posse gathered around you when you were tired out?
    the size of your posse is now evident.. not only your close personal friends.. but thousands of us, encircling you. Canadians, Americans; all.
    please continue being the authentic stephanie… brave, strong and true (not to mention funny and talented and fierce yet gentle and .. all of good and valuable things you are)
    with love and light, annie

  1872. Yay Halleluyah for the Yarn Harlot!!!! Loads of admiration and support is coming your way from this joint British-American Jewish household in London, UK. I have to say, your lovely lyrical Canada Day posts have taught me more about Canada than I ever knew before and have inspired me to hope to travel there one day. Yours is the only blog I follow — for the knitting, the humour, the good sense, and most of all because you clearly are such a great, intelligent, kind, funny person, whom I’d love to have as a friend.

  1873. Hi I’m behind you 100%. I’m an Icelandic knitter and I have been to your lovely country twice and two of my dear best friends are Canadians. Great people.

  1874. Stephanie: You are terrific. I have your site bookmarked and your blog is always one of the first places I check each day. It is a happy day for me when you have a new post up. I have also travelled three times to see you when you were in Portland, it is so good to be able to laugh that often and hard! I am so happy that we share birthdays, my year is a couple of decades ahead of yours though. Keep posting. Been looking forward to the Sock Summit for months, hope to see you there on one of the days I visit. Thanks so much to you, and the others, for organizing this amazing event!

  1875. Steph,
    I just read your post, haven’t (and may not) read through the 1900 (?) or so comments. No doubt what I’m feeling and what I want to convey to you has already been said… but it sounds like there’s a little part of you that needs to hear our voices in large numbers today, you know, to quell the little doubt monster that sometimes visits all of us.
    This individual is sick and ugly. You, on the other hand are very WELL and BEAUTIFUL.
    I am horrified at the ignorance and vitriol and delusion that can come from that single being… and I hate that this person is spewing her sickness all over your blog, your inbox, your life.
    You are genuine, brilliant, and echt in a RARE way. *Beyond* your knitterly and bloggerly wiles, you’re a woman with her head and her heart and her spirit in the right place.
    I wanted to post this comment to thank you for being who you are.

  1876. This American would just like to say: picture me wearing a t-shirt that says, “I’m NOT with stupid” – and an arrow pointing you-know-where….

  1877. You are a symbol of grace and maturity. I can’t believe you have to waste your life with this junk. Life is too short to have to mess with this stuff.

  1878. This is sad and scary. As yet another very American Christian woman who worships Canada from afar, I am so sorry this is happening to you. I have been the victim of non-electric crazy hatemongering and know something about how you feel. Your instincts are correct. Ignore her. Don’t feed her. She’ll get bored and, unfortunately, find another target.

  1879. May the one who provides strength and wisdom, grant it to you during this crazy time….

  1880. you know, they have good drugs for bi-polar disorder. this woman should get her hands on some. i’ll do better than send you my “good thoughts,” i’ll be praying for you…while i cast on the “cable down raglan” for the sixth time. by the way, i had one of my favorite “yarn miracles” in Canada. we were camping in Algonquin Park and the Wilderness Outfitter (I’m not making this up) had thrummed mitten kits in his store with the bear whistles and dehydrated meals. For $10.00 Canadaian. with an easy full skein leftover. Fabulous. Ignore this woman–she’s crazy. and buy the book, “i hate people”
    signed, preacher’s wife in p.a.

  1881. good grief…the woman is deranged…please be careful, both for yourself and the people near and dear…people like this are unpredictable, and need to be reported to the authorities.
    And on a more positive note, as a dual US/UK citizen, I have never noticed any anti-any-other nationality in your writings, and besides, if you have no sense of humor you should stay in a room with the curtains drawn!
    keep on writing…I look forward to your entries every week.

  1882. Wow. Clearly this person has deep, serious issues and has for some reason latched onto you. I love your blog, love your writing, love your patterns and am glad you are not letting this get you down. I hope the authorities can soon put a permanent stop to this.

  1883. Stephanie, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I’m embarassed that a fellow-countryperson would do this to you.
    This woman appears to be mentally ill. Please do not ignore her threats and do pursue it with the authorities. We, in the U.S. have what is called “restraining orders” in the court system though sometimes only worth the paper they are written on.
    She is obviously jealous of you.
    On Blogger we have the option of being able to approve comments before they are posted. Can you get that feature with your site?
    I’m a great fan of yours and have seen you twice on tours.
    A big cyber hug!!
    Joansie

  1884. Sometimes it is hard to ignore idiocy of such magnitude. However, as my mother always used say (when I was hurt or upset by someone) – Don’t let them possess your happiness!

  1885. I enjoy this blog so much and learn so much here. I also love that you are from Canada since my Mother-In-Law is a lovely Canadian. I am a new-ish knitter and You have inspired and encouraged me through your blog posts to try new and daring things with knitting. Thanks so much. Keep your chin up.

  1886. Obviously this woman is sick. I am sorry for her, she has so much unhappiness in her heart, it must be hard to live like that. I am also sorry you have to go through this. I hope she gets the care she needs, in the mean time, totally ignoring her is probably the best thing to do.

  1887. Gotta jump in after scanning the over 2000 comments. You are well and truly loved and you deserve everything good in life. What you have brought to us as a community is wonderful.
    Thank you. Stay strong and don’t let the bastards get you down.
    (ps.. I hear beer helps. ;o))

  1888. Adding another voice of support. I applaud your maturity in handling this situation. As another commenter said, you are full of class and grace under pressure. (Though I can’t say I’m surprised — I’ve been reading your blog for years and you consistently impress me with how you handle difficult situations). Try not to let the situation get to you too much.

  1889. I am disgusted!
    But mostly, I am so sorry for what you have been through. *hugs* to you, Joe, your daughters and your family and friends.
    It is awful that you have to go throught this; but know that you are not alone.
    Wishing you peace
    ~ wryly

  1890. Please accept my apologies on behalf of American Knitters everywhere. We do not share this person’s opinions nor will we lower ourselves to her level. Please take care and know that we love you.

  1891. Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this, but I really admire your fortitude and patience. There’s stuff we don’t agree on (frankly, I think the world would be a dreadful place if everyone agreed with me on everything), but I always enjoy reading your stories and seeing your knitting. I’m a little ashamed to admit it, but I think most of my knowledge of Canada comes from your Canada Day posts. Also, I have you to thank, at least in part, for my recent BSG addiction (I’ve been going back and re-reading the posts; they’re even better now that I know what was going on BSG-wise). It may be irrational, but I find myself wishing I could do something to undo the vitriol; since I know that’s not possible, I’m going to do the best thing I can think of and make a donation to MSF/DWB for TSF/KWB.

  1892. I enjoy my occasional dips into your blog and follow you on twitter. I hope that it will all be sorted out soon, it sounds very scary
    Best wishes from London

  1893. How very very horrible that you are going through this with such a crackpot.
    I’m tempted to go and buy every single one of your books for every one of my knitting friends so counteract all her miserable comments.
    She as an “American”, does not speak for me so she better shut the hell up!

  1894. I have never commented on your blog before today even though I’ve been reading for a while. I just wanted to say that you’re great and I’m sorry you’re going through this.

  1895. Stephanie, it takes an enormous amount of courage to deal with someone as you have dealt with her. I’m another person who thought the blog was being pulled. But you clearly recognize that pulling the blog would make her the victor. Thank you for the trust and confidence you have in us. We’ll do our best to live up to your standards.
    If it hadn’t been for you and your books, I never would have been brave enough to knit a sock. If I hadn’t knit socks I wouldn’t have checked the Sock Summit teacher list, and I wouldn’t be going to the Sock Summit, and I wouldn’t be meeting one of my internet friends. You have given us an enormous amount of laughter and empathy, and the people who read and reply to your blog are some of the nicest people around. I’m sorry that a few horrid examples are also here.
    Quite some time ago you mentioned someone who kept emailing you about your spelling, and apparently had no idea that some words are spellied differently in other countries. This isn’t the same person, is it?
    I’m glad you know enough Americans to know that this particular person is not representative of most Americans, despite her claims to speak for all Americans. She is wrong. She is speaking for a tiny minority.
    Many cyberhugs coming your way. And a bottle of beer as well.

  1896. I am embarrassed. She makes Americans, Christians and the American education system look bad. Makes tough city kids look bad too~the all out worst word you can call a woman does not begin with the letter p. It’s nice to have real life, no?♥♥♥

  1897. i can’t help but feel anything but pity & compassion for someone who is so clearly unbalanced and in pain.
    here’s hoping she gets the help she so desperately needs.
    you know we’re all standing with you on this, yarn harlot
    (hugs)

  1898. I really do hope that your family and friends remain safe. This is not a balanced person from what I can tell and I would personally be afraid for my safety around this madwoman (assuming that this is a female).
    I’m glad she’s blocked from even seeing your blog. She needs it all shut down.
    Many hugs from me and mine, you’ll be in my thoughts.
    Really, the US and Canada are on friendly enough terms, a little teasing is just a sign of comfort between the two, not a sign of nationalism. I still post MST3k’s Canada song found on YouTube every Canada day for a giggle.

  1899. Stephanie–You are a class act! I’ve read your blog for several years now, and rarely commented. But I wanted to say that I think you’re handling this situation beautifully. (((HUGS)))

  1900. Mental illness is awful. So sorry that you have become the focus of a deranged person.

  1901. Sending you even more love from the (predominantly conservative and Christian) North Carolina in the United States. Thanks for keeping the blog up and letting us all know what’s going on. No need to go it alone anymore. We love you.

  1902. Oh my. I am so sorry this happened to you. I adore your books and your blog, though I’ve only read two (books) so far. They brightened my day and I hope you have a better day. I am American and you have done nothing to disrespect us. I am so thankful you wrote the Yarn Harlot books and I hope you never stop. You planned sock summit and that is a feat in itself. I can’t even imagine how stressed you are and I hope the drama stops soon. Thank you for being an inspiration and a great person. I hope you have a good day! 🙂

  1903. As a Canadian living in the US (and a frequent reader but infrequent commenter) I just want to add my sympathies (and horror) to the list. Support you 110%. The poster is clearly not well in her mind, and as a supposed “Christian” is hardly behaving like one. I hope the authorities track her down and tie her up with lots of really horrible sock yarn. Your blog and your books have brought me so much joy and laughter. Nobody deserves this sort of harassment, least of all somebody who is such a delight. Be well, be safe, be strong. You are so loved, as the countless comments show!

  1904. Steph, I love your blog. I find you witty, downright hysterical at times…but most of all human and KIND. There are some sick and misdirected people in the world and we can’t let them pull us down. I feel very sorry for you to be under such an attack just because you reach out to us all and have made your life “public”. Good luck from an American admirer.

  1905. Stephanie:
    As an American living in Canada I just wanted to add my support to all who have commented before me. I have had the good fortune to hear you speak in Ann Arbor a couple of years ago and have been a fan since 2005. Your grace and simple humanity shine through your work. The person who has created this havoc is certainly NOT representative of me or any Americans that I know, and in the end will get exactly what is coming to her. The Universe has a wondrous way of leveling the playing field. Take care — and knit on!

  1906. Steph–This is my first post in response to your blog. I am also American and absolutely love your blogs and books. That crazy person that has been harassing you is not a real Christian. But don’t worry, she’s got some bad karma coming her way!
    Please keep blogging for the rest of the world! But also stay safe and keep an eye out for that crazy!

  1907. Dear Steph, there is nothing to add that hasn’t been said. I just hope that these comments have helped you feel safer, stronger and valued because you ARE. I am so looking forward to seeing you in Portland soon.
    Love, Joan

  1908. I’m just catching up after travelling in Europe and horrified that your public life has to be accompanied by such sadness. A lovely old lady in a church square in the Somme Valley asked me where I was from, and when I answered, “Je suis Canadienne”, she replied, “Bravo, bravo, bravo!”
    With a lovely smile.

  1909. Steph–
    Speaking from deepest darkest South Carolina, I want you to know how much I appreciate your wit and your lucid writing. Thank you for blogging and writing books that I prize.
    Barb

  1910. I would be embarrassed now at being an American, except that I know you know we’re not all like that, and she’s obviously more than a little nuts. I know how distressing it can be; I have my own crazy stalker. I’d buy you a beer if I were in your neck of the woods. Hang in there.

  1911. Sending my support from Colorado. Your blog was one of the first knitting blogs I starting reading after I learned to knit. You helped me realize what a wonderful hobby knitting is with limitless possibilities for creativity. You also showed me what a wonderful community knitters are – unfortunately there are also a few bad apples. I hope this woman realizes soon how pathetic her life has become to have it center around harassing you and gives you and your family the peace you deserve.

  1912. hugs and good luck. Dealing with those that truly wish to hurt you is hard and you are doing the right thing.
    lots of love.

  1913. As an American, I cringe at the unflattering behavior of another “ugly American”. Let us all pray, Christian, Buddist, and Wiccan alike, that she is all hot air and not a real threat to you or your loved ones.
    Just to throw my own 2 cents out there, I have read just about all of your blog postings and I have never seen anything that reflected anything but friendly respect for the United States, Americans, or any other country or nationality from you. Please continue to share your pride in Canada and things Canadian. I’m proud that we share the longest undefended international boundary in the world and hope to continue doing so for centuries to come.

  1914. Dear Stephanie
    Time spent on this person’s website (not too difficult to track down from your link to the ‘Canada’ post) shows a privileged, probably spoilt, individual with various alcohol and mental health issues. As a ‘celebrity knitter’, I would imagine that you have to experience a degree of knit-stalkers/loony-fans.
    No one likes to be bad-mouthed, but somehow I can’t help but feel that your post has inspired a sort of OTT frenzy. Sorry, I know I will be shot down in flames, but really, I can’t believe that you can let yourself be so devastated by this very silly individual.
    Honest best wishes, nonetheless, Stephanie x

  1915. I echo CinCal’s comments except I’m Canadian. This is unimpressive and I’m glad you shared it with us – your real fans – finally.

  1916. Always read, never comment. after reading this post I feel compelled to send you my support. Keep on doing what you do-amusing and informing all your knitting friends. We are here for you.
    Take care

  1917. Take care of yourself and your family, Steph. I love your Canada Day posts. If I love my native country (the US), why shouldn’t you? Your posts enrich us all.

  1918. My heart goes out to you. I always love reading your blog and hearing your warmth and caring for people and your craft.
    As an Australian, I certainly haven’t noticed any bias in your posts. Proudly Canadian, as I am proudly Australian as your American readers, I’m sure are proud.
    My thoughts are also with all those lovely US citizens who read your blog and have hosted you and love your work, this person is not representative of them, I’m sure.
    I’m not sure any of this helps, hopefully this person goes away.

  1919. Wow. I have only ever posted once before, but felt compelled to comment after reading about what you have been going through for the past month. I enjoy reading your posts & have never felt that you were advocating an anti-American agenda. If anything, your posts & photos from your tours across North America celebrate the beauty and unique attributes of both Canada & the USA. I was disgusted to read the personal attacks against you and hope that this matter is resolved & that it does not escalate further (for your safety).

  1920. Sorry some people suck. My husband says to contact her isp provider and report she is harrassing you and they can actually take care of it from their side.

  1921. And here I thought Canadians were Americans too, proudly sharing a continent with not just those of us to your immediate south, but many others as well. (Oops, guess that is a thought that might feed someone’s flames!)So sorry you have to deal with such unpleasantness while bringing a little cheer and inspiration to the rest of us. Please keep doing what you are doing and know that the vast (silent?) majority of knitters, American and otherwise, love and appreciate your efforts.

  1922. omg, followed by wtf. I have nothing to do with the person who posted straight after me.

  1923. Dude. WTF? Some people are just nuts, and no amount of reasoning will change their minds. I’m with a bunch of these folks on the dropping her addresses into the spam filter – given how easy it is to get accounts these days, it won’t necessarily stop her, but she’ll probably eventually get tired of it and find some other person to go crazy at. :/

  1924. I am so sorry that this nutbar has chosen to attack you in this way. She sounds like she’s gone beyond crazy and could be dangerous. PLEASE STAY SAFE. Remember, we all love you, your books, your sweaters, your socks, even your two left mittens which you knit awhile back. Thanks for all the joy and laughter you bring us. And I hope she gets the help she clearly needs.

  1925. I love my Harlot. You are one of my favorite Canadians! You are my knitting guru! Hang tough sister!
    hugs!
    Brenda

  1926. Just had to add my support. We love you, Stephanie, and thanks for coming to London last year! Come again soon!

  1927. Just want to add my voice to those who have already said I am sorry to learn of your troubles. You offer warmth, wit and humour to my life. Look after yourself and your family and know that there are so many more of us who appreciate what you have to offer than otherwise. It is very hard to ignore a directly negative comment, in much the same way that it is hard to remember the really good decisions one makes as a parent. I guess it’s is a question of holding the faith and deep, yogic breathing. Know that thousands of us out here are doing exactly that on your behalf.

  1928. This mentally ill stalker does not speak for any American that I know…and I know a metric ton of knitters. My heart goes out to you. My hand goes out to you. My dead grandma that taught me to knit is yelling loudly from beyond, “That’s not Christian! That lady is batS-crazy!”
    Please have a beer. Please know we love who you are, what you represent, what you do, and Canada.

  1929. OMG……have read your blog for years Stephanie and have never seen any anti-American comments. I love reading about the different parts of the country that you visit and the always positive things you have to say about the knitters you meet and the places that they live….Keep up the amazing blog and remember you have support and lots of it in the knitting world.

  1930. I sit here at my keyboard with many, many others frustrated and saddened to hear what you are coping with at the moment. This person is truly ill and I applaud your encouragement that we don’t feed her illness with attention. That said I’ll be sending peaceful, calming, and healing thoughts to both of you along with my prayers, in hopes that you will be safe and have the strength to withstand this onslaught, and that she will get the help she desperately needs.
    Thank you as always for your openness, generosity, and knitterly sense of community!

  1931. I think it was very wise of you to write of this publicly – if only for your own safety, and as a record for authorities (who should probably be notified, on both sides of the border).
    Your writing is filled with such kindness, humour, wit and honesty, that it’s hard to believe it could set off such venom and rage in someone reading it. The woman is obviously mentally disturbed. Perhaps one of your readers, who happens to know or recognize her, could convince her to get the mental health care she so desperately needs.
    Oh, and attacking Joe? That was low. (Though I have to admit that I laughed (just a little bit!) at that one.)
    Love and peace.

  1932. Hi Steph,
    As some others have posted, I’m not a fan, nor am I regular reader of your blog, although I am a knitter and crocheter. I was pointed to it today by a friend. I’m really so very sorry this person is causing you such pain and anguish over nonsense.
    I agree with others who recommend that you contact the authorities over this. She is indeed stalking you and no telling what she may do when she finally goes off the deep end. I’m sure you know not all Americans are like this person, although too many can be. My husband’s family has Canadian roots and we’ve spent many pleasant times there. I must say I’ve never met a more calm, patient, kind, and easy going people than those we’ve met in Ontario. We Americans can certainly take some lessons in temperament from our Canadian neighbors. I wish you the best of luck with this person. No one deserves this kind of treatment.

  1933. This is so sad. I have been reading your books, you blog, you calendar and constantly smile at your wit. You have many of us who support you, so please keep your spirit up.

  1934. Stephanie,
    This woman must have mental health issues and I would hope she gets help.
    I’m an American who was in Canada on Canada Day when I read your Canada Day post. There was no anti-Americanisms in that post. I hate that this person feels that she must take up this cause on behalf of Americans. She does not speak for me and from the looks of these comments, she speaks for no American.
    Please take care of yourself and your family and try not to change.

  1935. I know I am commenter number 2131, but I just had to say that I really dislike it when someone speaks for me, especially as an American. Also, I’ve never commented on a blog anywhere, but wanted to lend my two bits of support. Maintain your ‘duck water’. (duck water is the water that rolls off a duck’s back)

  1936. Dear Steph,
    I am so ashamed to be a member of the same race that would belittle and attack a good woman who has done soooo much for the knitting comunity and the world(drs. w/o borders, Meg’s riding in the bikerally, supporting green living, etc….) I hope with all the comments today you’ll realize how very loved and appreciated you are. Please keep up the good work! Love you and hope you come to Philadelphia soon!
    Kelly

  1937. Stephanie,
    I love you, and think you are wonderful- and so very brave for putting this out there! I just cannot imagine what this must be like.
    Heidi in Idaho

  1938. Another (proud) American here, who loves your blog and is looking forward to her next visit to your wonderful country. I almost didn’t post anything, since I’m sure you have a couple thousand comments at this point, but then I thought, why not? You need every drop of positive energy you can get right now. You rock, and you don’t deserve this crap. As hard as I might find it to do, I solemnly swear to totally ignore this troll, and never to read her blog (if I even knew who she was), and never do stoke the fire.

  1939. That woman is off in the head. Good for you for blocking her.
    How long until the “Americans For Yarn Harlot” FB group starts? I’d join. 😉

  1940. Believe us when we say you don’t deserve to be treated the way she’s treating you. No one deserves to be attacked this way, especially when you’ve done none of the things she’s accusing you of.

  1941. I am so sorry that this crazy lady has chosen you . Good for you for being so brave and doing what is right.

  1942. We are the light! Keep being who you are. We will be here to support you.
    Peace

  1943. Stephanie, I am sorry for you to have to endure this. I am sure this last month has felt like an eternity. As a Christian I can say that a Christian is supposed to act, think and speak the way Christ did, and from what you have posted I don’t see how this person can say she is a true Christian. I enjoy your blog and books….and I hope that all the many comments you have received help you feel a little bit better by showing that you do have alot of support from people everywhere. Its ok to disagree but not ok to be so intensely hateful like her. I don’t know what else to say because it sounds like you have your head on straight and much support from your faithful readers but I just wanted to be one more voice to make you feel better. Take care. 🙂

  1944. May the person in question be cursed with a plague of moths–somewhere other than in her brain, that is. She’s already got those.
    She should go visit the Onion…has she ever heard of satire? Or even humor? Sheesh.
    Definitely deserves a pack of wool-and-wire-eating moths…no knitting, no keyboard, no mouse! 🙂
    Steph, I LOVE what is being called ‘your anti-american’ comments. They point out so many things that ARE different that I’d never thought of. Things that could change and other things that never will. And it’s always done with a smile on both ends of the web conversation–which makes it so rewarding I seek it out at regular intervals, too.
    THANK YOU and I wish I could be at the Summit to hug you in person….

  1945. It seems every celebrity had their messed up stalkers—I apologize, on behalf of Americans, for this event. Please know that there are obviously very supportive (sane) people, who can appreciate humor and recognize it as such! Best of luck!

  1946. that is absolutely horrible.
    you’re a wonderful, creative, inspiring person, proven by the [currently] 2152 comments on here right now.
    she sounds jealous. of your beautiful life, your happy family, held together by yourself, & your phenomenally beautiful work.
    there’s definitely something wrong with her, & if she thinks god is on the side of someone who would attack a peaceful, beauty-spreading person like yourself with threats & harrasment & insults, she prolly shouldn’t be out on the streets.
    it’s inspiring, too, that you’ve dealt with this so well. you must be frustrated & stressed out beyond belief, but you still aren’t even thinking about stooping to her level.
    i hope the authorities get this taken care of soon. you don’t deserve to have to go through this.

  1947. Always a reader, never posted until now. This woman appears to have all the hallmark signs of paranoid schizophrenia, and I’m sorry she’s decided you are her antagonist. Frankly, I’ve read most of your posts (started in ’08, went back to the inception and worked forward) and can only say you love and respect the best of the United States- the part that hasn’t sold out to the crazies. I’ve seen your blogging as you traveled my state, and it made me fall in love with it all over again.
    Thank you for staying strong through her harassment. Have you talked to your webmaster about switching posts to moderator-approved-only? It’s a ton more work to you, and it stops this from being an open forum, but it can give you some peace of mind and stop the individual IP-blocking problems you’re having.
    Love,
    Christina

  1948. Long time reader, first time commenter, sorry to see that your warmth and openness in sharing this blog with all of us has left your open to this kind of attack. Just please be assured that she’s definitely in the minority, in case the thousands of comments of support haven’t suggested that already!

  1949. Just another American reader chiming in to say that I love reading your blog, I’ve never seen anything anti-American in anything you’ve ever said, and I am so, so sorry this woman is causing you so much pain.
    I still think you’re a peaceful, generous person. Keep on keeping on.

  1950. Good gravy, what insanity does she have to provoke such envy from her? What hatred does she feed on to create such venom? I only pity such a person, who wants nothing more or less than to see you brought down and staying down just to satisfy her bloated ego.
    Steph, as a Texan from the USA [A TEXAN!], I have nothing against you, apart your enviable yarn stock. I have no hatred towards you, apart from your knack to treat socks as a weekend project [I’m still treating them as a month per sock project]. I have no other choice than to grin with pleasure when you talk about your book tours and your daughters and your husband.
    Which reminds me, how’s Meggie and her hand?
    What I’m trying to say is that you shouldn’t let her get to you. I applaud the methods you’ve been applying. Don’t let her drag you down. She’ll come to her senses soon enough: That fighting you is, was, and always will be a losing battle.
    May the Gods bless ye, my dear knitter. *hugs*

  1951. Stephanie,
    usually just read, don’t comment…but this is outrageous. Just have to add my voice and support. I hope you have contacted the authorities, this is surely illegal behavior. Please feel the support and love of those of us that read you every day and love your sense of humor and perspective.
    I think she must need psychiatric help.
    With love, Terri, from Oregon (only five hours away from SS09 and so sorry I can’t be there! Next time!!!)

  1952. Bless your heart. Well, your heathen heart I guess since we all know now that you don’t follow the sick lady’s thoughts of what is right in this world. That is one sick puppy you are dealing with and I am sorry and ashamed she comes from the same country I do. Someone has gone a few steps past sanity (maybe a few miles) and unfortunately has made you a target so she doesn’t have to deal with whatever is actually bothering her. Well, I still love you but not in a creepy way so carry on! This too shall pass!

  1953. We stand behind the Harlot. Americans. Heathens. Religious nuts. Knitters. Pussys (which is not, btw, the “worst” thing to call someone)
    You get what you give. And karma, she’s a bitch.

  1954. I’m also a Christian, American and a knitter! I do not agree with anything this person has said. I appreciate the education you give in your blog about your country and it’s history. You have a right to be proud. She most certainly doesn’t represent any American I know. Please keep posting and making us all laugh. People like this are the reason we all need to laugh, long, hard and often.

  1955. Just to mix things up a bit I am a long time reader, SECOND time commenter…
    I will not tell you that this person does NOT represent the US because I hope it is clear from the previous comments, the attendance at you lectures and the width and depth of your popularity here that she does not.
    AT ALL.
    I will not tell you that this person does not represent most Chrisitans because, as so many Christians have mentioned, she does NOT represent them.
    AT ALL.
    But… I will echo the counseling to report and follow through with the authorities. I worry that you are too nice and too careful of others’ feelings. Sic the official dogs on her please… for your sake and your friends and family and hers. If she needs help then maybe she will be forced to get it. At least it may get her out of the internet pond for a while.
    And I will assure you that you are loved and respected, admired and enjoyed, supported and embraced… not only by US Americans but by members of nations over the whole world, by Chrisitans and atheists and agnostics and others, by knitters and crocheters and the people in their lives who wouldn’t know a Harmony double point from an Addi circular. (My husband has recently started reading your books. He wants to run away with you. You’d like him… he’s tall and handsome and he whitewater canoes…)
    Breathe deep Stephanie. We’re here for you.

  1956. You are one of few women I know who integrate a sense of feminism into everything. I think that’s 60% of why I read this blog – A little inspiration about how it is possible to be the woman I want to be. Sassy, fun, smart, talented, loved.
    Thank you.

  1957. I’m so incredibly sorry for this, Stephanie. Crazy people like this is why I shut down my own blog. I feel for you and your family.

  1958. As others have said- report her! If she is doing it to you she might be doing or do it to others who do not have the strength and support system you do.

  1959. Dear Stephanie,
    We’re all behind you, and I’m certain that you’ll feel our support without us needing to lower ourselves to ‘that’ level. We in Australia take the mick a fair bit, and love to poke a bit of fun where it’s deserved – but I can see that this person is absolutely not a typical example of a US citizen. I know americans who would be horrified by this behaviour. It’s un-American, un-Canadian, un-Australian… just un-human, really.
    Keep your chin up, take care and keep being the kind, witty, clever, lovely Harlot you are.
    We love you!
    xox Jen

  1960. Like so many others, I have to say how sorry I am you’ve had to go through this and how impressed I am at how you’re handling it.
    Virginia

  1961. Yet another U.S. resident chiming in with her support. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this woman.

  1962. Thank you for trusting us.
    I am horrified and so very sorry that you have had to deal with behavior that not only is unpleasant and frightening but has invaded the peace of your home and your private life.
    Feel understood. Feel supported. Feel hugged.

  1963. OMG! How insane is this woman?! I am so sorry for you and just want to make this all go away. I thoroughly enjoy every moment of reading your blogs and they have taught me so much, not just about knitting, either. Call the authorities on this nut case. How dare she say these things.
    I hope to meet you ‘in person’ at the Sock Summit!

  1964. Dear Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry this woman has fixated on you. Please don’t ever be tempted to think that she is typical of Americans or Christians. As a member of both groups I am very embarrassed by her behavior. I am also extremely worried for the safety of you and your family. She seems to be quite disturbed. If she shows any signs of trying to come to Canada or Sock Summit, I hope you will request that the local police authorities keep a look out for her. Try to ignore her and stop corresponding with her since it only seems to feed her anger.

  1965. Throwing my support behind you as well! As an American, I just want you to know how much that woman does not speak for me. I’ve always found your blog (and books!) to be fun, engaging, interesting, entertaining, informative, and wonderful. I’ve never thought you were anything but respectful of your American brothers and sisters, knitters or not. I am very sorry you have had to endure this, but keep up the good work.

  1966. In reading your books and blog, never thought of your nationality nor do I care. I just know that you are a nice woman who is a talented knitter and writer. We are all one in this world. Thanks for sharing this with us, Steph.
    Peace,
    Carol

  1967. Dear Stephanie–another poster who never did this b4–we love you–I laughed ’til my sides hurt with your description of the stuck truck–you have been a light in the nite many times (widowed last year)
    Your ethics are commendable, and humor is tops!
    Our priest told us yesterday that cucumbers are 10 degrees cooler if they’re still connected to the vine, and he suggested that we all just pull back and chill a bit to restore ourselves and reconnect–this past month must have been hell for you, so know that we’re with you and that poor woman must have lost some screws from her hinges to continue the harassment–thanks for coming to Madison last spring–come back any time–we’ll be here for you

  1968. Dear Stephanie,
    Thank you for telling us what has been going on behind the scenes. I am sad to think that you have been quietly bearing this for weeks. I will hold both you and the mentally-ill person in the light.
    I very much enjoy reading your blog and your books. I appreciate your open-minded, live-and-let-live views. I appreciate your willingness to share so much of yourself: strengths and flaws, joys and sorrows, petty annoyances and lofty ideals. You share your humanity and I love you all the more for being whole and real.
    So many of the things you write about are relevant to my life. I have a teenager, I’ve lost aging loved ones, I’ve been through major appliance failure, shown off my low-flow toilet to visitors, and even taken apart my own dishwasher. When my neighbor (oops, my Americanism just showed) was bemoaning having to frog and restart a project that is a stretch for her, it was easy for me to share my own recent knitting mishaps because you have shared yours. When I am at my computer and begin to laugh uproariously, my husband and kids knows I am reading your blog. Thank you for bring so much light and beauty to my world.
    Hugs from Oregon

  1969. Oh, mercy, what a shame you have to deal with this. Thanks for not painting all us Americans with a broad brush based on this experience.
    I’d been meaning to post to your blog about another source of pride for Canadians — hope you don’t mind a shameless plug. I just read in Vegetarian Journal that there are two vegetarian food banks in Toronto. Way to go!
    Cheers,
    Trish

  1970. Light, love, and respect. This US Christian will pray for Name Removed.
    We adore you, Stephanie. I enjoy your Canada Day posts as an opportunity to learn, and it makes me happy that you love your country.
    Please take care of yourself.

  1971. You are all class and courage. Your grace under pressure is inspiring – keep on keepin on.

  1972. I guess she made it through because I saw a comment. Not sure why on earth this has become such a battle to her.
    Thank you for your writing and your blog. You make my day always.
    I say ignore her.

  1973. It’s amazing to me that this person knows so much about you. I’m thinking she has read all your books and secretly wants to walk in your shoes!!!!
    You make me proud to be a Canadian! You have done nothing but handle yourself with dignity and self-respect. Way to go girl!

  1974. I’m so sorry you have been pursued by someone so sick. Have courage – many, many good Americans stand with you, i.e., people of North and South America.

  1975. I feel the need, as a Christian conservative American, to reassure you that not all of us are like this person who has been stalking you. As a conservative, I may not always agree with you politically, but I do respect your right to your opinions. I read your Canada Day post, and I have no idea where this crazy person gets the idea that it was anti-American. You are, obviously, a patriotic Canadian who loves her country. Your post was humorous, maybe a little snarky, but far less “anti-American” than many American blogs. As far as the claim of the stalker that she is a Christian, all I can say is that she’s definitely not acting like it. It’s one thing for her to share her opinions on her own blog or whatever, but to come to yours and attack and threaten you is simply wrong. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. Praying that God will give you peace in the midst of this situation.

  1976. I read regularly, but haven’t posted. I am an American reader who have never ever been offended by your blog. You are amazing and thank you for all you give. You are one strong lady for putting up with this as long as you have with out reaching out to ‘us’…continue to be strong and know you are an awesome Mom, Wife, knitter, and person.

  1977. I’m a Christian and an American. Her actions are NOT representative of my views or actions in any way, shape or form.
    To whomever is doing this on this blog, here’s a hint: If you don’t like a blog, don’t read it!

  1978. Wow. I’m so glad you shared this. I’m so sorry you’ve had to cope with her tidal wave of insane vitriol. You are one of the good ones, Stephanie. I’ve met you a couple of times at Madrona and tho I’m mostly too shy to strike up a chat, I know from watching you work that you bring light and respect to the knitting world, and you galvanize the giving spirit of knitters everywhere for the good of the greater world. I used to work in television news in Denver, Colorado. I remember frequent contact from people who were both angry and grossly misguided. It was the scary part of working in the fishbowl of the public eye. I guess the Internet just greases the wheels for those folks with its ease of use and perception (on the sender’s part) of anonymity. I’m so sorry you have struggled with this meanness on top of the immense pressure you must be feeling as Sock Summit nears. Good luck, breathe deep. Is it worth contacting the authorities? Cease and desist order? Restraining order?

  1979. Glad you are taking steps to protect yourself from this obviously troubled person. Sorry that this has happened – it is not deserved.

  1980. Another American (who just got home from a Canadian weekend) reaching out to give support. Sorry this whacko is fixated on you- she certainly doesn’t speak for all Americans!

  1981. Like many, I frequently read, have never posted, and am moved to do so today. I can only echo all the posts above; you have all my support! Be like a duck, and let hard things run off your back like water; and come read these comments when you need that bit of extra help!

  1982. You protect yourself and your family. I am so sorry this person has represented herself as speaking for us Americans. I love you and saw you when you spoke in Kansas City.
    Blessings and white energy coming your way.

  1983. I am trying my hardest to stretch my arms from the West Coast to give you and yours a hug.
    I hope that this person receives the help they so clearly need.
    Keep safe.
    With love and yarn, Nicolette from Vancouver

  1984. I am so sorry. You are kind to ascribe her actions to mental illness. I’m not sure I’d be so understanding.
    She does not speak for me. I hope she gets the help she needs and that she doesn’t disturb you again.
    By the way I live in Washington state and I loved your Canada Day post.

  1985. Oh, my goodness, this woman’s choo choo has jumped the track. She is in need of lots of professional help, I fear. I’m an American and I’m not offended at all by anything you say. I am always proud to be an American, but I can’t say I’m always proud of America or Americans, specifically the one in question. She needs to get a grip and get a life. I’m guessing that she is quite lonely and in desperate need of attention. Any kind of attention. Sad. And sick. Be strong, Harlot! You are better than this circumstance!

  1986. Stephanie,
    Would it help to just suspend all comments for a while? You are right, shining the light on evil helps. You go, girl!!

  1987. Though a couple thousand posters have already thrown in their ring to support your actions, I wanted to take this opportunity to add my name to the list of people who thinks you are a worthwhile resource in the online fiber community and a good person besides. Your actions to try to diffuse and expose the situation are, I think, the best and perhaps only course of action you had, and I commend you for being so brave in revealing your struggle with criticism, deserved or (quite extremely) not. I believe in you, Stephanie, and I hope you do not for a moment let one voice shout down the years of words that have come from your fingers and done so much good for so many others.
    *internet hugs*

  1988. Ms Stephanie Harlot,
    I started my Sunday at 7:45am by reading your new post, and my heart sank. Thank you for telling us about this aspect of your sharing your life with the world. Such malevolence, so undeserved.
    It is now 7:10pm and I have finally made it through the comments that had arrived by 7:57am – if I remember correctly it was more than 1,000. I am so heartened by the outpouring of love and concern and support for you, your endeavours and your family. Such compassion, so very much deserved! And I am sure when I refresh this page there will be at least twice as many more.
    What you do is so valuable, Who you are so invaluable – as they say: priceless.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you.
    Just make sure your hats still fit at the end of the day, eh? 😉

  1989. We met at Cornelius Roadhouse the other night (don’t worry I am not naive enough to think you would remember me!) and I told you how much I love your columns about Canada and how I sent them on to my daughter in grad school in Edmonton. I concur with others who have said this is not about you, it is about a person who has lost her grip on reality. Be safe most of all- I can’t wait till Sock Summit!

  1990. Oh, Stephanie, I am so sorry this has happened.
    You are a brave,strong, woman. You are a wonderful knitter; but more than that you are a person who willingly shares and gives of herself. How can anyone top that??
    Amy

  1991. I always find it odd when people who attack others as “anti-American” usually aim first of all at something that has been said or written, despite the fact that one of the most cherished of American rights is freedom of speech. You have a complete right to say whatever you like, with a very few carefully delimited exceptions like terrorist threats and libel. This right is one of the bases of American society. Your antagonist should take a break to re-read the Constitution, and to re-think what “American” actually means.

  1992. Hello! I haven’t ever read your blog, but I’ve read your (first) book and loved it. I was directed here by a friend who’s a fan of yours. I just wanted to add to the many others who said this person is a whack job. I know how hard it is to just disregard something like this, but remember that this is HER issue and it’s not really about you. Good luck and best wishes to you.

  1993. I am shocked and appalled at this person’s behavior. I’m an American, a (not-so-practicing) Christian, I live in the Bible belt, and I can’t remember the last time I’ve seen one person so viciously attacked.
    Stay strong and keep rocking out.

  1994. Oh, Steph,
    I am so sorry for this “person’s” crazy ass behavior!! She does not represent me as an American at all. I have been reading for a few years now, and have never seen anything that was offensive or anti-American. When I met you last year in Chicago, I was over the moon!! You are why I continue to try to knit. Know that we love you and support you. And I agree with a much earlier post-beer pudding. Lots of it. XOXO(and puppy kisses from my doggie)

  1995. FROM: ANOTHER CHRISTIAN AMERICAN! WE LOVE YOU! My sister is bi-polar and I have finally learned how to have safe boundries with someone who is just self-obcessed and manic towards me alone. I learned how to not be her punching bag or door-mat. And now I truely feel I am free from the nuttiness of my past. I am praying for you daily for peace. It is hard when a knitter’s heart of love is beat up. Keep up your great blog, books and knitterly love to us newbie knitters! Thanks to you I finished my first pair of socks for me with a pattern and I love them. See you at the summit.

  1996. Oh, YH. 🙁 I’m sorry some people are such mean, ignorant yahoos. And let me apologize on behalf of all the Americans who *weren’t* raised by wolves in barns.

  1997. Stephanie, like a lot of the other people who’ve commented, I’ve been reading your blog for what seems like forever–since I started knitting!–and never posted before. But I just want to say that I think you’re a million times the person this woman is. I’m awfully sorry she seems hell bent on antagonizing you, but your response to it is inspiring. Please don’t let her stress you out anymore than she already has. I’ll keep reading your blog as long as you keep writing.

  1998. If you need a break you could always come and visit us in Australia. We’ll leave the light on for you!

  1999. Oh boy. You have provided me with so many laughs, so much joy over the years, I had to post. Karma will kick her….some day, some way. You keep on doing what you are doing and smile at yourself in the mirror! Mental illness is a terrible thing.

  2000. you handled everything very well, as someone said above, a true example of grace under pressure. We’re all proud of you.
    Rock on,
    Katelin

  2001. Bless your heart, Stephanie, I love you (in a “you’re my favorite knitting author” kind of way), and I love your books.
    I love Canada, too. It’s the only place I can get Shreddies and dark chocolate Aero bars and *proper* Cadbury. (I also spent some time at l’Université Laval.)
    For every Name Withheld, there are many more of us who are fans, friends, and colleagues who proudly stand up. You can see that by the posts here. I hope I’m not the last one!

  2002. How very sad – and frightening – that this person has nothing better to do with her life than attack others. Hopefully the positive support you’ve received from this post will show her that she is in the minority.

  2003. Hey Steph,
    Well pretty much just like everyone else has said. I’m an American and I completely support you. I actually have enjoyed your Canada Day posts because it has taught me things about your country that I have not learned elsewhere. I would not give in to her apologies because that’s what crazy people do. Hopefully the authorities can do something about this. Good luck and much love to you and your family.
    xoxo Erica in Fernley, NV

  2004. What a shock to read this! I can’t imagine someone having the time to spend it villifying you because she disagrees with some of your comments! As another Christian American I am offended by her behavior and she certainly does not speak for me! I thoroughly enjoy your blog, and even if I don’t agree with something you say, it is simply a different perspective and that has value in itself. Take care Stephanie, and know that so many enjoy your writing, and reading of your adventures in knitting and life.

  2005. Dearest Stephanie,
    You have posted so many wonderful, poignant, thoughtful, generous, loving things over the years. You have been PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE for raising over a half million dollars for a group of people doing the work of heroes.
    Today is the first time I have ever cried reading your blog. My heart goes out to you and your family that you should be the victim of such cruelty. Huge virtual hugs!!!!!!

  2006. Stephanie – I have been reading your blog for some time now. I don’t often post, but I felt that I needed to say that, as an American, I do not feel as though you have insulted us in anyway. I love your writing and I love reading your blog. I hope that things settle down soon, for your sake. I can’t imagine how horrible this must be for you right now.
    xoxo

  2007. Steph – “She” may not even be an American or a female. I have many years of experience working in the IT field. Get your server folks to put up a “honey pot” for this person. Or put Bastille on your server. Your server folks will understand what you’re asking about.
    You can stop this. This person has made a physical threat to you and you can have an injunction issued against them. Not only has this person made a threat, but the threat has crossed a border and is now considered international. This falls along the category of communicating a threat over wire – if any US phone company owns any part of the network between this person and you, this person has committed a felony in the US and can be prosecuted as such.
    Stick in there – You know this person is just a bully who wants attention.
    This brings another observation to mind. If I didn’t like what you were writing, I wouldn’t read it. How hard is that to figure out? It’s not like knitting and crochet designers are making millions from their work, and the subject of paparazzi.
    There just is no excuse for this kind of behavior.

  2008. Yet another long time reader and first time poster. Just wanted to say that what you are doing is very courageous and to let you know that you have support form this American. *big hugs*

  2009. Dear Stephanie,
    As a psychologist, I am glad to hear you are taking steps to report this behavior to the authorities. As a human,(who happens to be an American and a Christian) I send you lots of Light and Love.
    Hugs,
    Karen

  2010. Stephanie, please take these and any in the future as serious. Call the law, get the international folks involved, KEEP YOUR FAMILY AND YOURSELF SAFE , We Love and Care about you and Support you 100%. don’t be fooled by her she’s not playing with a full deck. Keep strong. in the words of Dr. Gemma ” keep swimming”.

  2011. I’m exhausted and dispirited just reading the above. I don’t blame you for being concerned, she’s clearly delusional and possibly dangerous and should be reported to the authorities on both sides of the border.
    I’m an American woman, and, if I were to call myself by any religious label, I guess it would be Christian. I’m definitely in a different club from that lunacy. Take care of yourself. What a shame.

  2012. What an awful thing to be happening, Stephanie. Wish I could give you a hug. Sending support and caring thoughts your way.

  2013. Just wanted to say that you are a wonderful writer and a graceful person. Also, you are forever linked with Prince in my mind.

  2014. As a Christian I derive great pleasure from watching the “godless heathen” model Christian behavior. That’s a good mama.

  2015. I am saddened, but not shocked, by the behavior of “anonymous”. Please realize that nothing you do or say will make a difference to her.
    You need to hire a lawyer and let her/him handle this situation. Take yourself completely out of the loop.
    You are appreciated by so many knitters – American, Canadian, whatever! Keep your chin up and let your lawyer do the rest.

  2016. Wow. I just… wow. I’m glad you don’t think that she represents the opinions of all Americans, and I’m so sorry you are dealing with this.

  2017. Another one from Australia sending love and light. Found her blog, you’re right….she’s as crazy as a bag of cats. Take care, come visit us in Australia…..we have beer. And wool…..lots of wool.

  2018. You have been a light in the dark for me… I love reading your blog, and I look forward to what you share about life, love, and knitting. Occasionally I get a wonderful belly laugh, and this time a sad sigh. As far as I’m concerned she has badly misunderstood both what it is to be from the land of the free, and also what it is to be Christian. I wish there was more that I could do, but I’ll have to settle for shining a light in the darkness with you.
    All my best,
    Jen

  2019. Oh, my goodness, this all sounds so frightening. Why would anyone bother a knitter? I don’t think this person sounds right in the head. I admire the way you are handling it though. It makes me sort of embarrassed to be American, we’re not all like that.
    Still, how scary. It never occurred to me that you could get hate mail. I’ll be worried about you now.

  2020. occasional lurker here. this woman is a loon and deserves no more of your attention. i’m sorry that she has decided that YOU are the one to focus her crazy on. i’m sorry you have to deal with this at all. (and for the record, the story about resuing your husband from the snow/truck is HILARIOUS!!)

  2021. Reading your blog is one of the bright spots in my day. You are all that is kind and good. I am going to Doctors Without Borders to make a donation to show my appreciation for all that you do…

  2022. (((((Stephanie))))) from a long-time reader and occasional poster …
    You are a shining light in my world, someone whose voice speaks from the best that is within each and every one of us. I quote a few sentences from your post of December 25, 2008, which I printed out and shared with my entire family gathered together in Illinois …
    “Taking care of each other is simple. It’s easy. It’s sharing, and we all learned to do that as toddlers. I think we can do it if we all just take care of each other so things will be better. There are 50 million of us in North America alone. Surely that’s enough. I really think we can do it.”
    You were writing then about your goal for Médecins Sans Frontières. I feel that your community of friends and supporters here is rallying around you now with the same sentiment that you expressed then. We can do it.

  2023. I found her blog. Poor thing. She’s definitely a bit disturbed. Ignore her.
    People who aren’t Americans are supposed to love their country more than the US. If not either they or their country have problems. Just because you prefer your home country to the US doesn’t make you anti-American, just a well adjusted resident of a decent country.

  2024. Grace under pressure, Stephanie. Breathe, step back, focus. Breathe, knit on, balance. Breathe, smile, hug.

  2025. It is with tears in my eyes that I post to you.
    I Love and Enjoy you and your blog so very much.
    It saddens me to no end that you must have to deal with unstable people.
    I as a proud American Love Ya Stephaine!!
    Sincerely ~Cindy

  2026. bless you, sweet knitter. stay strong.
    as an “american,” i’m embarrassed to be grouped with this disaster. but i mean, i’m “american left” so maybe she’ll hate me too.

  2027. I commented on a local rape case in the media in my country last week and later received an email I couldn’t quote without an explicit language warning. It led in by talking about my stupidity and concluded by describing me as ugly and grunting… with expletives added for effect. And there were comments about my presumed sexuality… and so on. I’ve decided for silence. Holding to your own values is always a good direction to take!

  2028. On second thought, Steph are you SURE you don’t want us to write to her? I was just thinking what 2500 or so notes might do to her server.

  2029. After reading your blog for so long, I feel you are a friend of mine even if you do not know me. But know you have a friend in Maine who wishes you and your family well.

  2030. Yowsa. That’s a whole hell of a lot on your blog plate Stephanie. Trolls will be trolls, but when they have far too much time on their hands, think they’re being threatened and are all whipped up into a patriotic, psycho-fervor – nasty business.
    Just for the record, I have lived in the US for 20 of my 35 years, married an American, birthed three babies in this country and only this year decided to become a citizen. I have an apathy for my country, but you know, that’s OK, because zionism, it kind of clashes with everything. And it’s itchy.

  2031. One more comment to support you and all you do for the knitting community. Please do not let one bad apple make you miserable. You go girl!!

  2032. Christians don’t act this way………. She has mental problems !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep writing,I look forward to reading about your knitting, you, your wonderful family and the reality of family life.The good and not so good things, because that’s the way life is. Thank you for sharing from your heart. Stay as sweet as you are.

  2033. By the way. I want you to know that not releasing her blog address to your readers is an act of courage and kindness I will never approach.

  2034. Chalk me up as another Christian American who believes that this person is being unreasonable. Even if I don’t agree with everything you say, I still love your writing and consider you to be a good person. I’ll pray for both of you.

  2035. I’m sure you know this by now, but that person does NOT speak for all – or even very damn many – Americans. If she’s trying to defend her country, I hope she learns that all she’s doing is making the rest of us ashamed to be associated with such behavior.
    I’m amazed at your grown-up behavior, and appreciate that you could share this circumstance with us. Happiness and healing (for both of you).

  2036. I know you in name only as I haven’t picked up a knitting needle in ages, nor do I frequent your blog. However, I see that a number of my knitting friends — people for whom I have the utmost respect — are supporting you…so I’m here to do the same.

  2037. All that’s happening in the world and THIS is where she directs her anger? America is about tolerance for others. Different opinions and respect. I’m so sorry. I hope there’s a restraining order available and she seeks help. She can have her opinions but this is just not right.

  2038. Ignore the crazy the best you can safely and remember if she’s the bad voice you’ve got more than 2,000 here saying how awesome we think you are.

  2039. I have no clout, really, but I was wondering if we shoud have a blog vigil where we all shine a light for you for one day. To show you how we are all united and standing behind you.
    I’ve always enjoyed your Canada Day posts, I am looking forward to them every year.
    Without you, I would be living in darkness about many things Canadian. AND I would never have started talking to Lene, whom I also love and adore.
    I AM a little worried for your safety. I hope the harasser is leaving you alone.

  2040. Stephanie,
    I love reading your blog. I find it informative and entertaining. I’m so sorry that someone has taken something you love to do (write) and turn it into something that brings you pain. I will pray for you, that you may not let this drive you away from what you love. I will also pray for her, that she may find whatever it is she needs without bullying others.
    Keep knitting!

  2041. Elizabeth Zimmerman might say, ‘It’s just knitting!’ Hopefully, this woman eventually understands that this is not a political forum… this is a place for knitters (from everywhere) to hang out!
    In the meantime, this American is looking forward to seeing you at Sock Summit!

  2042. Hang in there….I am an American, love your books and love your blog. This woman is NUTS!!! So sorry for the pain and grief this is causing you and your family. You do not deserve this…..you are absolutely right about the anonimity of cyberspace.

  2043. I am an American Wiccan Steampunk Pirate Knitter with shiny geek tendencies. My comment may be a whisper in the din of support you’re receiving, but I shall say it nevertheless:
    Never allow any one to bring you down with their insecurities. This person is not stable and prefers company to her misery. You have demonstrated it takes strength to embrace your inner fire and to soar gracefully.
    You should be very proud. I am. 🙂 You still have our support as you are quite the human being.

  2044. I agree with Kristi, please don’t feel this person has the right to drive you away from what you love – your knitting and your writing.
    You have brought love and happiness and a LOT of laughter to knitters and readers all over the world, some of us at the worst moments in our lives.
    We all love you, and love will always win.

  2045. Stephanie, please post a link to this person’s blog. I would love to tell her how wrong she is. thank you

  2046. Hugs. I am so so sorry this is happening to you. A stalker (even a digital one) is a very scary thing to have…
    And, like you, I hope to never speak of this again.

  2047. I am an US citizen, conservative right and consider myself a Christian. I love your blog and think you are darling. This woman is vicious and disturbed. I am ashamed for her. Her behavior is not American and absolutely not Christian. You are very much loved and appreciated. God bless Stephanie!!!!!!!!!!

  2048. As an RN, an American, a blogger, and a knitter, I am so, so sorry this woman has chosen to spend her time this way. Her blog posts and tweets are full of hate and anger – very little love or happiness for people other than herself – which tells me a lot about her.
    I can’t rationalize this current right-wing you’re-not-as-American-as-I-am syndrome to other Americans, much less Canadians, but it’s not about you, Steph. She feels persecuted because the America of white men and women is vanishing before her eyes. She thinks she’s a victim and has chosen to take out her anger on you.
    I grew up near Oklahoma City and lost neighbors in the 1995 bombing, but that doesn’t mean I have a right to scream and shout that I’m more ‘American’ than others. But some folks think that, because they’re touched even briefly by terrorism or violence, they have permission to beat their chests and get attention by spewing hate, and she’s one of ’em.
    She’s not coming to get you, honey. She’s too busy wallowing in self-pity to leave her La-Z-Boy recliner and her cable TV tuned to Fox News.

  2049. Oh, Stephanie, hugs and warm, woolly thoughts (or cool bamboo thoughts) your way.
    I too have had to deal with people saying hurtful things on the Internet because it’s so much easier to say those things when you don’t have to look a person in the eye (nothing to this scale, though).
    It’s hard, and it doesn’t get any easier. But as much as it hurts to ignore and not engage, that’s the right response.
    And whenever you feel down, note the thousands of people who’ve stopped to send you good wishes, support and love. We’ll still be here, no matter what anyone else says.

  2050. Holy schlamoley, that person is way off her rocker!! I’m an American reader, and I am hugely embarrassed that you are being harassed and stalked by this nut job (please say the Feds are looking into this). I remember you from the long-ago days of the Knitlist – I always enjoyed your posts, and when you started writing books and receiving acclaim, I was thrilled by your success. I was also highly amused that your detractors on the Knitlist were proven wrong. 🙂
    Keep your chin up and remember that we are behind you all the way. Regards, Joann

  2051. Compelled to add my voice—love from an American in New Mexico. Carry on with all your good sense, humor, delightful writing, and expert knitting advice.

  2052. Another American Christian here and I am horrified at the thought that the other lady is an American and professes to be a Christian. I guess “ignorant” doesn’t come in nationalities.
    Stephanie, it just sounds like she is insanely jealous of you. She wishes she could be everything you are…. a gifted writer and blogger, a talented teacher, kind, loved and admired, and sought after.
    I guess we would all wonder why she doesn’t just go on with her own life. Maybe she’ll get one of those soon.

  2053. Dear Stephanie
    Like so many of the thousands who have posted today, I have read your blog for years and never posted until now. In the past, while reading your blog I have laughed, cried, squealed with excitment (the wedding post), learned new stuff to drop impressively into other conversations, been inspired to further my knitting and lots more. Reading your blog has connected me with a whole world of knitters, and I have drawn more satisfaction and personal pride from the knitting that I have done over the past few years than from many other things.
    Your blog has never made me angry until today. I’m so very sorry this has happened to you.
    I hope it is some comfort that people on the other side of the world are thinking of you and sending warm thoughts in your direction.
    Here’s love from Australia.

  2054. As an American Christian- I’m appalled. And I’m offended that someone would apply those terms to themselves while so viciously harassing someone.
    I admire the way you’ve handled this. And I hope that this person gets a grip on some grace in their life.
    And now, let’s get back to the knitting!

  2055. I have never understood why some people need to work so hard at spewing hate and vitriol.
    I am SO sorry that this one has chosen to spew it at you!
    Debbie in Florida (Proud American who also likes Canada a lot!)

  2056. I bought sock yarn for my first pair of socks because of you, your writting, and Sock Summit. I’ve knit just about everything but socks (and baby clothes). I moved to Arizona and had more sweaters than days cool enough to wear them. My late mother was the great sock knitter in my family. On Sock Summit days I will be with you in spirit knitting my socks here in Connecticut. Thank you, Stephanie. You are doing good keep it up.

  2057. I’m so sorry to hear about this. My mother always told me that when I didn’t get along with someone, I just needed to love them a bit more. I’m sending you some love so that you have some to spare.
    XOXO

  2058. I bought sock yarn for my first pair of socks because of you, your writtings, and Sock Summit. I’ve knit just about everything but socks (and baby clothes). I moved to Arizona and had more sweaters than days cool enough to wear them. My late mother was the great sock knitter in my family. On Sock Summit days I will be with you in spirit knitting my socks now that I’m back in Connecticut. Thank you, Stephanie. You are doing good, keep it up.

  2059. Count me as another supporter. I hope this ends sooner rather than later. You don’t deserve this.

  2060. You Go, Girl! You are (one of)the darlings of knitting; I check into your blog every day. -A supportive American…married to a Canadian, & very proud of it.

  2061. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. Just the fact that you have 2250 comments (hugs) out there will make you feel better and hopefully will make this person realize they need some help.
    I love your writing and can’t wait to see great how the sock summit goes! Please take care and hopefully this will end soon!

  2062. Wait- there is more than one CANADIAN? I wondered where all those other people wandering around Toronto and London were from…
    ugh.
    knit on.
    it’s not nice or necessary or polite to allow yourself and your blog readers to be abused. You did the right thing. I hope you find joy here again soon.
    Tracey- a Christian (who hates when the God card is played like this) an American (who loves her country and the countries of others), and a Knitter (who hates acrylic :P)

  2063. I don’t follow your blog myself, but my wife is a fan of yours and relayed the abuse you’ve had to endure. It is absolutely unconscionable.
    Please do not judge all Americans by the actions of one obviously deranged individual. American and Christian values run counter to everything this person has inflicted upon you. Be proud of your love for your country – because of this person’s actions I find it very hard to be proud of mine at this moment.
    I am not a knitter, but I will make it a point to read your books. If what my wife says is true, I will be sure to enjoy them regardless of my lack of knitting experience. If nothing else, your readership increased by one as a result of this horrible experience. I wish I could do more.

  2064. Stephanie, down here in the South, we love you! And stand behind you!! Stay steady, girlfriend.

  2065. I have enjoyed your blog and books for their intelligent humor, history of Canada and beyond, parenting,and relationship experiences. You have made me smile and cry. I have had the pleasure of meeting you and hearing you speak in Skaneatles,NY, WEBS, Rhinebeck Sheep&Wool, FIT, oops I sound like a stalker. I have been inspired by your funding raising efforts, making me a regular donor to KWB/DWB. So please continue your amazing work knowing that you are loved and needed. My best to you, Joe and the girls.
    Rhinebeck,NY

  2066. Chin up! Onward and upward! Just remember that it takes all kinds to make the world go ’round.
    -A respectable, American Knitter

  2067. Sorry that you are dealing with this. The internet sure has its share of “anonymous” crazy people going off on others and it’s awful to be the object of this. Hang in there, it has to blow over sometime. And I’m sure that between blocking her IP and addressing any other problems with her ISP will result in quieter times. As one of your commenters already said, “There’s no reasoning with crazy.” That sure is true.

  2068. I may not agree with you on certain things, but I do know this much:
    That person does not speak for all Americans, or even some Americans. (I am also American)
    Just reading what that person has said in general grates on me, personally. (As in the ‘how dare that person presume to speak for anyone other than herself!’)
    Good luck in the future and hopefully that person will go away.
    because sometimes all a person can do is turn and walk away.

  2069. Oh sweetie. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I would say that she isn’t worth the engry to worry about – but she is really getting into your life! If you want, I can bring you a cute 7 month old baby to cuddle? He makes all things better at my house.

  2070. This has been nagging at me all day since I posted this morning. I do think the situation has the potential for danger and that Stephanie and her family should take appropriate precautions. I focussed on that and missed the fact that Stephanie is taking huge chunks of time she needs for other things, like knitting, and being with her family, and doing the Sock Summit to delete this person’s posts and block his or her access. It is now clear to me that Stephanie doesn’t need to do that. The Blog obviously knows not to engage this person and make a bad situation worse. We can ignore “her.” I have my doubts that it is a woman, which, I know, is even more scary.
    Anyway, my point is that if we can help Stephanie, beyond the obvious outpouring of love, support and advice, it is by ignoring this person. That is real help over the miles. Virtual help, to coin a phrase.

  2071. I am an American. I am a Christian. I am a knitter. I think you are awesome.
    I am feeling so very sad right now that someone could be so mean. As someone who has had the honor of meeting you (Rhinebeck 08) I can say that only goodness oozes from you! Who else would take a moment out of “Rhinebeck time” to take a photo with a kooky fan dripping from head to toe in hand knits! I hope that this goes away soon! Best always, Alissa

  2072. I’m SO sorry you’ve been subjected to this harrassment. You’ve got my total support and appreciation. You are well-loved.

  2073. I can’t imagine why someone is getting so worked up about a knitting blog 🙂 I enjoy your blog a great deal and I’m just happy you’re not letting this person spoil the fun. I’m behind you all the way (and I’m an American, and an atheist!)
    Much love and good karma, threegoodrats

  2074. In Navajo practice, there are two ways to deal with evil/sickness, both of which are incorporated in to the healing ceremonies. One is to expel evil — keep blocking her IP’s, call the cops in her town and yours — and the other is to attract goodness to fill its place. We’re all trying to do the second for you, as much as we can; piling on the e-hugs and I-love-you’s to balance out the world for you again.
    Do you know the prayer from the Night Chant?
    May it be beautiful before me.
    May it be beautiful behind me.
    May it be beautiful below me.
    May it be beautiful above me.
    May it be beautiful all around me.
    In beauty it is finished.
    In beauty it is finished.
    The word being translated as “beauty” is “hozho,” and it also means harmony and balance, and suggests someone who has been remade (reborn, if one wants to notice echoes with Christan thought) and is in the correct relationship with all of creation again, as they were at the beginning.
    (For the record, I’m one of those American Christians — I just don’t think any one person or group of people has all the answers).

  2075. California here!!!! Sending you lots of love and strength!
    I stand by you Stephanie!

  2076. I am truly sorry all this is happening to you. I love you and your writing as an American and I want more of it. I helps me during a particuliarly stressful time for me Keep up the good work! 😉

  2077. another long time reader/never poster here… inspired by your courage to share what is happening. sending you deep breaths and beer

  2078. How sick and sad does a person have to be to get so ugly about a knitting blog, fer chrissakes? And a “patriot” who cannot recognize someone else’s love for her own (different) country or a “christian” who does not respect the beliefs of others has no claim to either affiliation. Let us indeed cut off the oxygen.

  2079. My heart goes out to you and your family. I love and admire your blog. I have never looked at my washing machine the same after you wrote about your new one. I,too, am sadden that some one could be so hurtful.

  2080. Stephanie, you’ve been the victim of some serious “emotional leakage” from this woman. Fortunately, you’ve also been the recipient of a ton of emotional support. That should help balance out the scales, I hope. I just made my donation to MSF in my personal attempt to add to the good in the world, rather than obsessing about the bad. Thanks for the light…. and please keep it shining for all of us!

  2081. In the words of a great American woman (Judge Judy), Beauty Fades, Dumb is Forever. Alas, sometimes dumb can be overpoweringly loud and obnoxious. I apologize on behalf of my country for this “woman”.

  2082. Ooohh… I’m so mad some nutty person has gone off the deep end like that at you. How dare s/he!! You’re not quiet about your love for Canada (nor should you be), but I never picked up “anti-American” from you. I happen to be an American who thinks Canada is pretty awesome – it’s okay to love ’em both! The cranky blogger speaks only for the crazy-ass voices in her head – not any bunch of … uh.. anything.
    I (and bunches of knitters I know) think your blog, your books and YOU are just wonderful!!Don’t let one kook get you down.
    Oh, I could go on, but you have a few hundred other posts saying the same thing.
    This too shall pass. Hugs…

  2083. I have been reading your blog for years! Your posts cheered me when I thought I was going to die. Love your books, your humor, your parenting style and your knitting escapades! My daughter and I came to see you and as a proud American, I’m glad you are a proud Canadian. We should all be proud of our countries and embrace each others differences. Bless you and your family and please don’t change a thing!

  2084. I’ve been reading you for years and never posted before. I dealt with a situation like this at work and it it mentally and emotionally exhausting. Hang in there, she will eventually want to tangle with someone else. By the way, I feel like I know your family. Your writing is delightful! Best wishes from Michigan.

  2085. How very sad that this person thinks she is an American. Believe me her mail does not represent even a small segment of the American population. Most of us believe that Canada and the USA have the same values and are the best of friends. So come to sock summit and be with us and bask in the love and respect that is due you.

  2086. The words “Looney Tunes” come to mind. The sooner they find her a straight jacket that fits the better!

  2087. I just got back from three days in Niagara & Niagara-on-the-Lake. LOVED CANADA!! We spent a lot of time trying to figure out the words for the national anthem and sang it on the way home.
    Americans LOVE YOU!!!

  2088. Dear Stephanie, funny-woman knitter who roped (yarned?) me even further into this wonderful hobby with your witty and humorous books and blog, I say this:
    THIS American Christian Knitter is gonna keep reading you, come hell or high water!
    Hugs and encouragement to you and yours.

  2089. even though we’ve never met, “i have, and always shall be, your friend.”
    much love from upstate NY!

  2090. Your outstanding moral fiber is another reason to love you more.
    No pun intended. : )
    Hang in there dear Stephanie….

  2091. Just another note of support, and to thank you for your tremendous example of love. It’s what the world needs now, right?

  2092. Yeah, quit harassing America with your witty posts about knitting!!! We’re not gonna take it! … Um, yeah. This is a website about knitting, right? Unbelievable. Knit on, Harlot. This too shall pass, hopefully soon.

  2093. I don’t think you are anti-American. My SO and I think, after reading your post aloud to him (as I so often do, they are funny and human), that this woman is way more anti-American. Her vitriol is what inspires others to hate us so deeply. After 2200+ comments, I hope you realize that while she may be the loudest, she does not speak for the majority.
    I think you are inspiring. I like how you have a family that is human, appliances that are seemingly possessed and that you ride your bike to get beer. I respect your Vegetarianism, your sense of civic responsibility and that you’ve raised your kids to be good humans. That is where I believe the value of a human being lies.
    I read through the first 100 or so comments and got overwhelmed. I know you like to read all of the comments, but if you don’t this time, it’s understandable. But I will write it again, because it bears repeating. Don’t let the b@st@rds get you down. I know the negative voices in the head thing, I have a whole army of critics living in mine, but try to focus on the intellectual knowledge that there are so many here pulling for you, and trust that the emotional knowledge will follow.
    When that fails – tell her to go blow it out of her patootie.

  2094. I’m so sorry that my mental patients have obviously escaped! I shall be scouring the back halls tomorrow and counting all our straight jackets…we’re obviously one shy.
    Please keep on keeping on!

  2095. Because of your blog and your infectious love of knitting, I learned to knit, use natural fibers, and found a community of other knitters. There’s hardly a day that I don’t pick up a pair of needles and I consider my life the better for it.
    I’m sorry that you’re going through this, but perhaps the hidden blessing here is knowing (if you didn’t already) how many people appreciate what you do on a daily basis (knitting, writing, raising a family) and that you so humorously share it all with us.
    This American will continue to read your blog, your books, and attend as many knitterly events as possible.
    Knit on!

  2096. you are amazing. i am so impressed at your civility and respect for this person. stay strong.

  2097. Just wanted to stand up and be counted as having your back. I’m an American and you having freedom of speech in no way threatens me.
    Love and Hugs.

  2098. So I realized I used zionism incorrectly. So I apologize. I guess I think I was after zealotry – or some sort of word that coins ‘extreme.’ My opinion in the matter, after glancing through her blog, this is someone who has had, or claims to have had, some traumatic experiences in her life. Somehow you got her goat and you have become Canadian Target Numero Uno. Transference or some such psychobabble. But hell, I don’t even know how to use the word zionism and now psychoanalyzing. On line at that. Someone stop me!

  2099. YH, You are absolutely doing the right thing. Kia Kaha (Stand Tall), you have a whole world of knitters/blog readers behind you.

  2100. Will happily comply with your request, with pleasure. Hang tight girlfriend.

  2101. Don’t sweat the small stuff – particularly small-minded people.
    You Rock, Knit On!

  2102. Make that 2353 for you! I couldn’t keep track of the American Christian women vote separately, but please count me in there as a huge fan of your respectful and entertaining blog – and hugely disappointed at what self-righteous (or deranged) people can inflict on others. Peace.

  2103. That is frightening. Please use the authorities to deal with this stalker.
    Be safe. Wishing you well.
    Knit on !

  2104. She is obviously a very sick woman, but enough is enough.
    It sucks you have to go through this, thankfully there are a lot of us out there that have your back.
    Stay strong. We love you!

  2105. Like many others, I’ve been reading for a very long time and never posted before. I wish it was as simple as ignoring what’s been happening. Considering you’ve had over 2000 comments since posting this, hopefully, you’re “feelin’ the love” from south of your border. We Americans love you! Oh, and by the way, we love Joe too!

  2106. This person does not speak for Americans or Christians but for herself. Congratulations on
    maintaining sanity in the face on insanity.

  2107. The only sites I check daily are yours and ravelry. I read your entries to my husband and forward them to my sister and bestfriend (neither of whom knits and both think your hysterical – in a good way – not crazypants). I’m so very sorry and ashamed that this had to come from an American. Best wishes and thanks for the wonderful impact you have on my days. Love from Massachusetts!

  2108. This person does not speak for Americans or Christians but for herself. Congratulations on
    maintaining sanity in the face of insanity.

  2109. Just one more grain of support…You Rise!
    Thanks for every smile…
    jennifer

  2110. Ug, what a nightmare! I am so sorry that you’ve been dealing with all this. I love your blog, your family is an inspiration, and…I love Canada! Peace and Love from Vermont.

  2111. It sounds like you have dealt with this kindly, gently and professionally. I hope things resolve. I also echo the have a beer sentiment!

  2112. Sending warm thoughts from Seattle. Your writing and reflections on all things yarn and life are amazing and have enhanced my own life. Thanks for your great sense of humor, compassion and taking the time to share your daily experiences.

  2113. Ms Harlot, I, too, occasionally laugh like a hyena, especially when you describe some of your parenting adventures. (Mine are 14 and 15 – one of each. At least no fights over hair restraint devices!) I am intrigued but I promise – I never feed anyone else’s troll. Thanks for all the amusement you have given to this right-leaning American girl.
    P.S. My daughter sends her love and support.

  2114. Stephanie,
    This person does not represent Americans, Christians, or knitters. As a member of all of the above, I am embarassed for her and do hope that she will stop attacking you. Know that you have the support of many.
    Patty
    New Jersey

  2115. I hope this will reach you as I am fairly new at using computers and am not sure that I am doing this correctly. First, I want you to know that since I found your blog, I have been so charmed by it that I went back to the beginning and have read nearly every one. I have spent many lunch breaks enjoying your escapades. Your blog is often the only bright spot in my work day. This leads me to my second point. I am a trained mental health professional, working with persons who have chronic and severe mental illness. I very much agree with how you are managing this situation. It is pointless to reason with someone who is behaving “unreasonably”. From reading your last entry, there is every reason to suspect that the person you are dealing with is not well. I feel very strongly that this situation has the potential for danger. I don’t want to frighten you but feel the need to inform and educate. This person sounds fixated on you, your life, your family and your beliefs. It sounds as though they may know how to reach you in person. This is something to be very concerned about. You may want to contact your local police for assistance. A person with a fixation does not usually give up and their behavior becomes more and more irrational. From your description it sounds like you are enduring a form of stalking. If you are not already doing so, please seek assistance. Again, I enjoy your blog and your books. I had the pleasure of meeting you in person once but could only think of something stupid to say, so I missed the oppoortunity to thank you for your work. Please be safe. Trish

  2116. I’ve been lurking and laughing several times a week ever since you wrote the Dear John letter to your Rhinebeck aran quite some time ago! Thank you, Stephanie, for the years of smiles. I’ll join the masses ignoring the horrid writer and pray we never hear from her. Sending a big ((hug)) with love and thankfulness from the southern side of your border. Keep it up – you totally rock. Best wishes for a totally fab and overwhelming amount of support in person at SS09. You deserve every bit of it.

  2117. Wow. As an American I can honestly say I’ve never been the least bit offended by anything I’ve ever read on this blog.
    And I will say this also – I have lived my entire life with a close family member who is a diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic. You have my deepest sympathy, there is nothing else in the world quite as scary and confusing as being the target of the animosity of a person with a mental illness. It’s very sad, because I don’t doubt that she seriously believes she’s read between the lines and you’ve insulted everything she holds dear and so she’s compelled to fight back. It’s kind of hard for people to understand if you have no experience with it, but what she’s doing would actually be a pretty normal reaction for someone who had been personally attacked. The problem is that it’s all completely in her head and not in the real world.

  2118. Rock On Stephanie! This American-Lutheran-Conservative-Homeschooling-Mom LOVES you and all that you REPRESENT! My husband loves you, my daughter loves you and so do all of our knitterly friends. Have no fear, the light is shining, bright!

  2119. Dearest Stephanie – I was so very sorry to hear that some mean-spirited individual has made your life so unhappy, after all the joy and happiness you’ve spread over the past few years. I would suggest printing out ALL of today’s comments (even though there are thousands of them!) and have them bound into a book. When this unfortunate individual comes to your attention again, or just when that silly little voice in your head gets a little too loud, take out the book and see how many lives you’ve touched in a positive way. Most of us have never met you, but we all care for you very much.

  2120. Yarn Harlot, you’re awesome in my book, and definitely not anti-American. I’m sorry to hear you’re dealing with this. I appreciate all I’ve learned about Canada from you! Thanks for everything!

  2121. have spent a good part of the day reading most of the comments here, and i don’t have anything different to say, just that it’s clear we’re here and we’re behind you all the way. i’ve lived in and loved both countries and i believe this person is in a world of her own. many hugs your way…

  2122. Sending love and hugs, and wishing you superhuman wisdom to know exactly where to draw the line between peaceful disengagement and proactive self-protection from someone whose appetite for hate may not be fully known.

  2123. Rest assured the majority of Americans and Christians are appalled! I enjoy your books, blog, and find you thoroughly entertaining! Keep up the good work. You give knitters a good name 🙂

  2124. How awful! I’m an American and this is beyond disgusting behavior. You have taken the high road and all of us who love your books and blog know you aren’t the hateful person she seems to see. Just remember that there are many, many more us southwards who think you are fabulous!

  2125. I agree with Jen’s comment above and will repeat it. This person is a poor example of:
    1. A Christian
    2. An American
    3. A knitter
    4. A blogger
    5. A human
    On behalf of Christians, and Americans, I apologise. You have our love & support. See you at Sock Summit.

  2126. Hey Stephanie – I work in a position where people regularly issue death threats against my team, always using the internet. I think that the internet provides people with a false sense of security. Unfortunately, it also makes for a very difficult situation for people who are on the receiving end of the vitriol. You can’t really gauge what’s going on with that other person, and your mind leads you to all sorts of places.
    I know this situation sucks, and there’s absolutely nothing we can do to make it better for you. I’d like to applaud you for standing up for yourself. You’re polite but firm and very Canadian. Good on ya. And fie on your tormentor. I just have this to say about that: karma sucks, and eventually it’s gonna come back to her in spades.

  2127. I’m just going to join the chorus here.
    Way to turn the other cheek, Steph. You exemplify the spirit of the wonderful man who instructed us to do that. Y’know. Jewish guy. Worked with wood. Name invoked frequently in hopeless and fruitless attempts to make people feel bad about themselves when that’s the exact opposite of his purpose.
    Love your blog and will keep loving it as long as you post.

  2128. Oh my dear Stephanie, love and light to you by the bushel! Comment like those can only be the product of a jealous, petty, bully with no manners.
    This Kansas knitter (me)adores your books and your blog and by relation, you! Thank you for being who you are and sharing knitting and the real world with all of us.
    That said, cyberstalking is a crime. If it continues or if threats are made, she needs to be reported and arrested. I hope it doesn’t come to that, for your sake alone.
    Again, wishing you blessings as you have so greatly blessed my life.

  2129. Another Christian American Woman here, piping up to say that while I may disagree with some of your choices, they are your choices and it is NOBODY’s right to judge you for them. Please keep up with your posts about Canada and Canadians. I believe it’s important that we learn more about each other and I find your posts interesting. I have never read anything on your site that left me feeling offended. Knit on, Woman. Knit on.

  2130. This is one of the classiest blog posts I have ever read. Thank you for being who you are, and sharing that with us.

  2131. Wow, I’m amazed at how much you’ve put up with over the past month. As a Christain American I’m ashamed that she uses that as her “basis” for her “rightness”. WWJD and all that. But then I’m a bit liberal, so what do I know? You do so much and no one asks you to. You have raised good kids (from what I can tell) and motivated countless people to raise money for Doctors Without Borders. If that makes you an evil, horrible, Godless person…well…
    Also, you are one of the few writers whose books I reread until they fall apart. They keep me entertained when I need it and relax my “won’t shut off” brain when I can’t sleep.
    Thank you,
    Susan Rudie
    North Dakota

  2132. Dear Stephanie,
    I am so sad to hear what you’ve been going through. She’s definitely an unbalanced person.
    Stay strong, Be Safe.
    From an American Christian from Washington State.

  2133. I enjoy seeing what you’ve knit, and reading about what happens to you on any given day. Some posts make me think, some make me laugh right out loud (Poor Joe, truck, ice/snow!), and some I just pass by. Irregardless of MY reaction, I’m always mindful that I’m a guest in your “house” – your topics, your rules.
    Thanks for being such a great hostess!! I’m constantly inspired to keep knitting and learning. I love your humor, your heart, your spirit, and your generosity. Keep on keeping on!!
    Hugs!
    Dawn
    P.S. Hope your daughter did well today

  2134. Sadly, this is fairly typical of what former U.S. Surgeon General Jocelyn Elders called the “very religious non-Christian right” here in the States. Sorry you’ve been a target. If it’s any consolation, you’ve a great deal of admirable company.

  2135. Well, we’re cruising in on a record number of comments, but I’ll add my 2 pennies of thought here. I am very saddened by the whole thing.
    Print out these comments and read them whenever you want a cyberhug, and be aware that she is the one with the problem, not you.
    Like a bunch of other commentators, I’ll add that it sounds like she has violated both US and Canadian law on harrassment via internet. I think the blog is clearly now on notice not to feed the comment trolls, but more importantly, keep yourself and your family safe.
    And now…we will move on.

  2136. Stephanie, this is HER problem. I am sorry that she has focused on you. None of us know you, really, and 99.99% of us think you are a fabulous, wonderful, talented generous person – we probably have an unrealistic view of you, in a positive way. She has an unrealistic view in a negative way. All you can do is your best, and you can’t hope to live up to anyone’s idealized (or demonized) opinion. Try not to let her problem become yours. Do whatever you need to do to protect yourself. We will all understand.

  2137. Another elegant post filled with integrity from our own Yarn Harlot.
    Hugs. 🙂

  2138. Having found the nameless one’s blog – and looked at her earlier posts (which are not about YH, but are creepy) – she has serious mental problems, and needs help.
    I don’t know everything that can be done, but I would recommend letting her ISP know, letting her blog-hosting service know (I’m pretty sure she’s violating the terms of service) and, by all means, letting law enforcement in her city know.
    And GO CANADA! (Canadians in the family; my impending grandniece or grandnephew might have almost enough on the tree to qualify for citizenship!)

  2139. I had a great day hiking in the NH woods with my dog and CANADIAN husband! Finally got to sit and look at my favorite blogs and found this sad and disturbing story.
    Since we can’t have a public stoning to resolve the situation, blocking and ignoring will have to suffice until the fire of her hatred burns itself out, or she gets back on her meds.
    May you have many more years of success and happiness!!!!

  2140. I have been reading you since almost the beginning, and have never posted until now. I check your blog first thing I log on, and it always starts my day with a smile. I had a fairly serious medical issue last year, enough that I didn’t feel like knitting for over 3 months, and couldn’t come downstairs to the computer for almost 4. My only knitting connection was through your books, and they helped keep me entertained and positive, even though there were days when I thought that wasn’t possible. Remember how much light you spread, and how much you help others, even those you don’t know. Hopefully, with us all ignoring her except to send light her way, she will go away quickly.

  2141. I skimmed through many of the comments. No one seems to have mentioned that it was the Canadian embassy in Iran that hid and saved members of the American embassy staff during the hostage crises in 1980. They did it at great personal risk. I am grateful and will never forget this great act of friendship and humanity.
    I agree with all the positive comments and support but I would also suggest contacting the authorities about this harassment. There have been recent cases in the U.S. where individuals have been prosecuted for internet harassment.

  2142. I feel bad for you and her. She seems to have invested a lot of time into cruel, silly, constantly hypocritical, crackpot ideas. Knit on. Knit strong.

  2143. Wow, over 2,000 comments of support and concern and I still want to add my voice to that: way to fight the good fight.
    We are holding you in the light.

  2144. Sounds like you’re dealing with the devil at the other end.
    Because of you I’m back knitting better than ever. Thanks…Steph..and hang in there.

  2145. I am an American as well as a Christian and I am appalled at the behavior of this woman she in no way speaks for me. I love your writing. Don’t stop encouraging all of us with your stories of real life as a knitter and spinner.

  2146. Well, not only are you a fiercely good knitter, a really funny writer, and a fine public speaker, you are also an enlightened and loving human. Keep on keeping on, you have many friends and admirers out here in blogland.

  2147. I’m so sorry to hear that you and your family have had such a difficult month.
    As an American reader the past few years, I do have to admit that once or twice I may have taken offense to a comment, yet I knew that it stemmed from some of my own ignorance of our political system, society, etc. As a former teacher, I also recognize that your intent is to educate rather than to criticize. I have also learned over the years, from other sources in addition to your blog, that most Canadians know much more about American politics, social welfare and being a global citizen than does the average American.
    Disagreement is often good for discussion and does not have to lead to such ugliness. Honestly, how often do you ask three knitters how to interpret a pattern note and get at least four different opinions? I like to think of knitters as a rather intelligent bunch, and from the number of comments already written for this post, so many of us appreciate the lessons you have generously given.
    Thank you for your knowledge and skills that you have shared with us over the years. While you know nothing of my family, I have enjoyed getting to know yours. You have a beautiful spirit and deserve only the best. Please do not let this one person get you down. You’re being the better person here!

  2148. Stephanie, You are what my grandmother would have referred to as a “real lady.” Keeping you in my prayers.

  2149. my heart bleeds for you- I understand the injustice and the nagging atttacks at your self esteem
    Thank you for taking the high road. It is harder.
    I know.

  2150. Molly W has it right…print these out some day to remind you of all that you have brought to us with your blog, books and joy of knitting. Life is not always going to bring a smile or a laugh but the stuck truck and Sir Washie are forever lurking in the corners of my smile…feel our strength, be safe, know our thanks!

  2151. My wife just told me about this unfortunate situation, here is my comment:
    Please realize there are 300 Million people living in the US.
    This is a free country where we let all the nuts run free!

  2152. Wishing you strength, peace and serenity while this issue plays out.
    Meanwhile, may your nights bring restful sleep with dreams of lovely yarn… qiviut dreams. (There. I said it. I used the Q word.)

  2153. I’m so sorry you and your family have to put up with this craziness. I hope you have contacted the authorities since the woman appears to know where you live and obviously isn’t very stable. Your blog has always been great fun to read. Keep up the great work! Love from Ohio!

  2154. Stef, I’m sorry you have to deal with an ‘ugly american’ (I can’t capitalize american because I am so embarrassed). As a Christian I will pray that God will spread His peace and love over her. Please take everyone’s advise and protect yourself and family because she could be dangerous. And please keep posting the Canada Day posts, I love them. Judy

  2155. I love you, your humor, your knitting, your writing. Like everyone says, I see nothing anti-American in your writing. I might be a bit frightened if I were you. Maybe you’d like to contact the police. Certainly don’t want you to be unsafe.
    Take good care of yourself and know that there are tens of thousands of us out here who love and care about you.

  2156. Man I admire you. And just for the record her “we Christian women” comment was totally off the mark though I am sure you knew that. I am both (Christian and female), and wouldnt dream of even thinking the things she writes let alone say them. I believe she needs to see a Dr. as medications are in order. Whew….. hang in there Stephanie, my prayers are with ya!

  2157. I was reading and reading and I was *so* afraid you were about to announce that you could only solve the problem by pulling the plug on the blog. I actually got a lump in my throat. You are a brave (stubborn too?) woman. The sad thing is that we know you are taking the high road, but your tormentor cannot even see the high road.

  2158. D’you remember the scene at the end of Dead Poets’ Society, when the schoolkids climb on their desks and say “Oh captain my captain” … well right now I want to climb on my desk and declare “Oh Harlot, my harlot” … this is distressing and disturbing … but I’m another person who is 10,000% behind you! Keep knitting – it’s a sane activity in a clearly insane world!

  2159. Dearest Stephanie,
    Chin up Girl!
    I can’t believe that you would even have to deal with something like this. Unfortunately, it takes all kinds in this crazy world of ours.
    Sending you many prayers of peace.
    Much Love,
    Raina in Northern B.C.

  2160. Oh….my…..gosh. I am so sorry you have this to deal with. As an American to a Canadian (and about my only contact with Canadians for over 15 years) I am SO sorry that this woman is harassing you. Unfathomable. Do as you’ve always done, be yourself. Sheeeeessssshhhhhhhh!

  2161. Another voice in the choir… thanks for all you do! I enjoy your blog, books and interviews immensely

  2162. I am so sorry you have had to deal such a toxic person spewing so much venom. As your sister-in-knitting I am sending you hugs and encouragement to continue being the wonderful person that we all know you are. We know you are super busy and I hope that things calm down and you get some quality knit time with some scrumptious decadent yarn.

  2163. So sorry to hear about this ugly situation, Stephanie, you have my sympathy and my support!!!
    What is it that drives a human being to such measures, to not only attack you but also your family? This can only come from a totally deranged person!
    Please keep Elizabeth Zimmermann’s words in mind
    “KNIT ON, WITH CONFIDENCE AND HOPE, THROUGH ALL CRISES”

  2164. Stephanie, Just wanted to say I love your blog and your books. Too bad fame begets a psycho stalker here and there. Thanks for continuing to share your humor and kindness with us. I wish you well. (I’ll try very hard to wish the damaged and angry person well too.) P.S. I can’t BELIEVE security took your banana! Probably forgot their lunch that day.

  2165. I’m very proud of you Stephanie. I aspire to feel empathy for others as well as you do, even when the others are being mean. 🙂

  2166. I hope, Stephanie, that you can see all of the tremendous support that is out there for you. In a way I feel very sorry for her….she must have a lot of issues and that’s very sad. Just remember all of the kind thoughts we hold for you and your family.

  2167. I’ve never posted before, but I read your blog regularly – I was so worried that this entry would spell the end of my favorite blog, and I’m happy that you will continue on!
    I’ll be here to read your next entry! Knit On!

  2168. Blessings on you and yours Stephanie. I have enjoyed your humor and wit since discovering you. I am adding my voice to all the other accolades showered upon you.

  2169. I just had to add my voice to the masses! I am behind you 100%, always. We’ve all obviously got your back so there’s never a need to apologize to ‘the blog’ for sharing your difficulties or challenges, particularly when they are as vile and despicable as these ones are.
    I’m going to take some time tonight to sit and knit and send some love and light vibes out into the world for this poor (clearly mentally ill) woman who is so filled with irrational hate.

  2170. With 2,000 comments, I doubt that you’re going to see this, but any time that I’ve had a slight crazy internet experience I needed all the commenters to write “No, it’s not just you. That’s really crazy.”
    No, not just you. She’s crazy (and scary).
    *Delete Ignore. Repeat from *.

  2171. I haven’t read all of the comments on this post to see if someone has already suggested it but I think it’s time to involve the police. Unfortunately, one of the common side effects of becoming famous is attracting stalkers and it sounds like you have one. Please take action to ensure your safety.

  2172. This woman has obviously not realized there alot of us who have rallyed round you — and we all own pointy sharp sticks!
    Hugs, be safe & keep up your good work 🙂
    Larraine in Puyallup

  2173. Thanks for all the happiness you have brought to me. I especially appreciate the opportunity to give to Doctors Without Borders. Without your blog I would never have heard of this fine organization. I always read but seldom comment but felt the need to show support and love.

  2174. This woman has obviously not realized there alot of us who have rallyed round you — and we all own pointy sharp sticks!
    Hugs, be safe & keep up your good work 🙂
    Larraine in Puyallup, WA

  2175. so sorry, Stephanie dear. please move on – this is so not about YOU…..peace, joy and love – and btw, sock summit 09 should be a wonderful experience….let it rock.

  2176. Nobody could have handled this better than you. I adore you and wish you much love, yarn, and beer. I would go on, but everyone has already said everything I would say.

  2177. I have enjoyed your blog for a couple of years now and thank you for sharing your life and knitting with the us (the readers).
    Please be careful and maybe even think of a restraining order against this person. Safety always comes first.
    My best to you and your family. Look forward to your next book.

  2178. Yet another first poster here who doesn’t even know what to say. There are so many things wrong with what she has said and done that I can barely wrap my mind around it, not that I’d really want to. Your blog posts are one of the highlights of my day and I’ve always found them interesting and thought provoking and quite a few times they made me do some research of my own to find out more about what you were talking about. Thank you so much for letting us all into your life the way you have and to back up what some other Aussies have said, Come down here!! lots of beer and yarn! 🙂

  2179. so sorry, Stephanie dear. please move on – this is so not about YOU…..peace, joy and love – and btw, sock summit 09 should be a wonderful experience….let it rock.

  2180. One more American woman here standing with you. She does not speak for me. I will proudly buy your books.
    Is there such a thing as an internet restraining order? It sounds like she’s on her way to deserving a libel lawsuit. Maybe she’ll get run over by karma before it comes to that.
    I hope that you can feel the love and support of The Blog and I hope that we are enough to fortify you and drown out her ravings.

  2181. Stephanie, I am sorry that an American “woman” felt the need to be so hurtful and hateful to you. I love reading your blog and your books, and I wish I lived in Toronto so I could go to Lettuce Knit and knit with you, or have you over for an ice cold beer or three. If you’re ever in Philadelphia again, that invitation stands!
    Peace, love, and joy to you and yours. Don’t let one pissant get you down. And if I ever find out who she is, she will get no attention from me.

  2182. She makes me ashamed to be American, but I’m proud of your bravery and your good example in the face of such trash. Holding you (and her, begrudgingly) in the light.

  2183. Just wanted to say that this American knitter thinks you are a tactful and well thought woman of great insight.

  2184. As our pastor said this morning, one of the roles of a true Christian is to encourage those around us. I find your blog inspirational, funny, and heart-felt. Please know that I will be praying for you as you deal with this ugly situation in the best way you know how…with great dignity. Thank you, Stephanie!

  2185. You’re a class act, Ms. Stephanie. You make me proud to be Canadian (and American, too, by the way!). I found the person’s blog, which wasn’t hard to find. I didn’t leave a comment, just looked once out of curiousity, but won’t again. She’s obviously looking for attention and hanging on your coat tails to get it. If she’s upset by what you write, she could easily ignore your blog. She has an agenda. Stay strong! Joanne, The Canuck in Colorado.

  2186. Stephanie…You’ve made a lot of my days brighter with your blog & books. You’ve inspired me to try to improve my knitting. I’ve enjoyed reading about Joe and your girls, Mr. Washy and your cherries! Your Oh Canada posts have informed and amused me. I wish only the best for you and yours and hope that this can all be put behind you very quickly.

  2187. I’ve never read your blog before, but after hearing about your crazy stalker I decided to see what all the fuss was about — and now I’m embarrassed to admit I’m an American. Please know that Loon Lady doesn’t speak for the rest of the knitters in the U.S., liberal or conservative, Christian or non-Christian; she’s just a sick person who wants attention. (And someone should definitely take her pointy sticks away.)
    I’m so sorry you have to deal with this!

  2188. I’m sorry that this woman has singled you out for abuse. You don’t deserve to be treated that way, and without really reading her messages, I can only say that I am 99% sure that almost all that she wrote is entirely untrue and any true bit has been distorted until its truthfulness has been lost. Some people just get off on being mean. No matter what your gut may tell you, this isn’t about you. This is about someone who is at such a low point themselves that they cannot get through the day without feeling superior by making you feel inferior.
    I once worked at a grocery store where a woman went off on a store manager because the soda she had bought wasn’t on sale. Her angry accusations had absolutely nothing to do with the soda–she accused the manager of being incompetent, stupid, unworthy, and all sorts of other things that were a) untrue and b) had nothing to do with what she was angry about, and c) that made this poor guy feel worse and worse. And she was just wrong. And no matter how many names she called him, no matter how loud her voice got or how many times she threatened to have him fired, SHE WAS STILL WRONG. And everyone there knew it.
    Oh, but I should also mention–I did call the police on her, since she wasn’t playing nice and you never can tell when a crazy person will escalate to a dangerous crazy person. You might want to do the same. *virtual hug because you are awesome and I want you to stay safe*

  2189. I am SO sorry you have had to spend your precious time worrying about and dealing with someone who clearly has TOO MUCH time on her hands. And while we’re at it – since Canada and the U.S. are both part of North America, aren’t we ALL Americans?
    Keep the faith, Stephanie!

  2190. De-lurking to add my hugs to the masses you’ve already gotten. I hate to think that that creature is what people will think of when they think of Americans. I hate that you’re scared to be yourself.
    Take care.

  2191. So sorry you have to endure such crap. Your blog is always a bright (and coffee sputteringly funny)spot in my day. More power to your knitterly arm!

  2192. You are rising above this in a way I don’t think I could. I love your blog, I love your books and I have never once, as an American or as a human being, felt insulted or targeted by anything you’ve written. Keep up the good work.

  2193. Loving one’s own country does not make one anti-other countries. Somebody on the left in Houston loves you too…and is chanting “love and light, love and light” through gritted teeth. May you gather blessings from wherever in the Universe you wish.

  2194. As many Americans, I came out of lurking status to tell you that I faithfully read your blog daily. I like your blog and read it because it is good news, not bad, in this crazy world. I’m sorry for your troubles. Christian or not, I’ll remember you in my prayers for this to all go away soon.

  2195. Hey, Stephanie, I’m so sorry and sad that you – and indirectly, your family – are going through this crap with someone who obviously is seriously mentally ill. I enjoy your books, you personality and your blog and I’m sure your healthy self recognizes that there is not even a grain of truth in this so-called American woman’s (and I wonder if it indeed is a woman) vituperative excrement.
    A wonderful book was put out back in 2000 or so by a man named Gavin deBecker – The Gift of Fear. What you are doing is totally appropriate. Taking the wind out of her sick sails is probably the best strategy. Be safe – and don’t forget a lot of us – from ALL OVER THE WORLD – have you back, girlfriend!
    Hugs,
    Joan
    a leftwing commie pinko gay-loving married Christian mother of six and grandmother of almost three and counting, who, oh yes, is an AMERICAN!

  2196. Long-time lurker, first-time poster. After thousands of comments I’m sure you can tell how much the knitting/reading community supports you, Stephanie, but I feel compelled to stand up for Joe. I live in NW Montana (60 miles shy of being a Canadian). Joe’s stuck-in-the-truck story was the funniest thing I’ve read in ages. Thinking of it got me through a lot of bad combinations of ice and vehicles this winter. I try to achieve a pale copy of his level-headed good humor when situations like that arise. It’s because you’ve shared these wonderful stories of your life and family with us that we feel so connected to you. Every time I read this blog I feel refreshed and inspired in my life and knitting. I hope that you can get to the point again where writing it becomes refreshing and inspiring for you, rather than having to dread another personal attack. Thanks for being brave enough to do it in the first place.

  2197. I am so sorry that someone is making life so hard for you and your family. Know that I, all be it in spirit, stand beside you. I have read your blog for years and purchased your books. Good show for standing proud. We love you and respect you.

  2198. I hope you’ll keep up the Canada Day postings each year. I find them charming and admirable. (I’m American.)
    Thanks for your positive attitude. It is a great example to many people.

  2199. Stephanie-
    I had just a minute to read this before I left for work this morning (at 5AM)and am just getting back now. I’m glad you’re still here; I was afraid you would shut down your blog. It’s one of the first things I read each day (even though I’m a muggle and don’t think I could knit if my life depended on it). I am an American. I’m ashamed that one of my fellow citizens would treat you (or anyone) this way. This is someone who feeds on negativity and hate. You exude positivity and love and a joy of life. Do not let her upset you any more. She’s not worth the energy. Life is too short to waste time worrying about miserable, hatefilled people.
    (((Stephanie)))
    Peace and love from Georgia
    -kiriaki

  2200. Oh, yuck. What a terrible and invasive thing to have to deal with. I’m glad that you’re shining the light on it (hopefully the choruses of support can counterbalance the craziness a little bit), and as usual I’m left with the opinion that you deal with adversity much better than I would, if I was in your shoes.

  2201. Taking the high road shows the kind of classy person you are (as if most of us didn’t already know that)
    Hang in there!

  2202. Daily lurker (also US Citizen-Christian-Woman), joining the chorus of first-time commenters in support of you in this situation.

  2203. Thanks so much for sharing your life with us and for being such a strong and wonderful person. I’m praying that you’ll feel the love and peace that we’re all wishing for you and your family. (And Mr. Washie, too. I can’t leave him out when he’s provided me so many moments of tears-rolling-down-my-face laughter.)

  2204. I never cease to be amazed by just how crazy people can be. I’m sorry! I’m sorry as a American, and I’m sorry as a Christian. I hate that there are people out there that feel the need to act that way, and I will pray for both of you. You, to have strength and peace at this time. And, for her, that she might come to her senses, and deal with whatever issues have pushed her to this.
    Just remember you have fans down here in Georgia!

  2205. I have a number of your books, read your blogs(think they are great) and have never posted a comment but after reading your blog describing your interaction with the wicked witch of the west here I just had to write and tell you that this person definitely falls into MAD AS A RAPID HATTER category. Your handling the situation very well.
    Keep us updated on how it goes

  2206. I’m sorry to hear that you had to go through all of this. I just want to say that you’ve handled this in a very classy manner, and I hope that it all blows over as soon as possible.

  2207. Preserving your own values while under such stress is nothing short of inspirational. Thank you for trusting us enough to share this. Know that, if you needed us, hundreds of knitters would swarm to you at a moment’s notice to protect you. Stephanie, you are my hero!
    Lots of love from Wisconsin.

  2208. Another long time reader and first time poster here.
    I’m so sorry you have had to deal with this. I love your blog and your take on knitting and family and everything else. Please keep up the good work and keep your chin up.
    Sarah in Maine

  2209. Just wanted to say stay strong. Some of us that are Christians and Americas still love you!!!!! There are bad apples in every group. I never have felt slighted by your posts and hope that you will keep us laughing with many books and many blog posts to come. Know that even if we don’t know each other personally I still love you and love to read everything you write. I find your work very uplifting (minus this latest bad news) funny, and at times helpful. Keep up the good work!

  2210. I am signing in as another Christian American for whom (stomping my foot) That Ungracious Person does not speak (stomp stomp stomp). There seem to be an awful lot of us, too. I hope That Ungracious Person reads the comments, eh?

  2211. Stephanie, I am also commenting here for the first time and I would like to apologize on behalf of all US people (this person is even using “American” wrong), all knitters and all human beings. Don’t let her get to you – she seems to be batshit crazy.

  2212. This truly breaks my heart to read about. I’ve never detected a hint of an anti-American attitude in anything you’ve ever written. If anything, your descriptions of your coast-to-coast travels make me appreciate America more.

  2213. On behalf of American Christians, I’d like to apologize for the inexcusable behavior of this troll. Stephanie, I don’t agree with you on everything, but I’m so sorry that someone is treating you like this. Many cyber hugs and good knitting wishes to you.

  2214. Forget about her!
    This is the second post ever from me, but just had to tell you – forget about her! She’s not worth the time and trouble she has caused you.
    You are a great, down to earth person, MY FRIENDS and I love all your books, (5 are on my bookshelf, one signed by you last year in Rhinebeck, thanks!) And I have WAY MORE friends than this woman ever possibly could!
    Keep writing, you make us laugh and think deeply about the world.

  2215. Here’s some support from Australia. I love reading about your family and your knitting and admire you enormously.Hang in there.

  2216. You are an inspiration to people around the world. I know it takes 1,000,000 good comments to make up for one bad one, but you’ve got ten times that many fans. I wish I was more like you myself. Stay strong, and remember we all love you!

  2217. We, your friends & fans,would not be offended if you chose to close comments for a time; we would understand. I expect that most of us will also honor your wishes and follow your lead no matter how difficult.
    PS – Anxiously awaiting your next book.

  2218. Oh, Steph – I rarely comment, although I love to read your blog (and sometimes I have to read it out loud to my husband, just so he knows why I am laughing so hard there are tears running down my face), but I had to tell you that I am amazed at your strength and integrity. You keep shining that light, and those of us who agree with you will stand in it with you!

  2219. Whoa! Knitnana sent me to read this, and it was so much worse than any riot I ever expected. I think of myself as being a US citizen and not ‘american’, a claim that spreads over your country as well… but that is just the beginning of the problem. Underneath it all, there appears to be a deep jealousy of you, your skills and your success, and yes, that really is sad. I could also suggest not allowing any comments, though that is your decision. Blessings to you and family as you get through this ugliness with your peace and sanity intact.

  2220. Don’t let she-who-shall-not-be-named get you down! You’re a wonderful writer, and though I’ve never met you, you seem like a great person and a wonderful parent. I’ll be sending lots of love and white light from Michigan. Be strong.

  2221. Personally, I love your Canada Day posts. I have a canadian friend and I find it intriging how similar you and her are. I enjoy your humor and am pleased with how many comments have been left in support of you. It is quite amazing how many people you entertain each day. Chin up, we all love you.

  2222. Stephanie,
    You have been so brave opening up your world to us; sharing your life and your talents for knitting and writing on your blog. Its shameful someone would reward your generosity with such unfounded meanness. Not just as an American, but a human being, I am deeply saddened by and for this woman. You can only imagine what an unhappy person she must be to behave this way.
    I know the many many supportive responses you have gotten to this very brave and dignified post may result in enraging this poor, sad woman even more, but I think it is just as important for you to know that you are admired and respected by so many. Through all of what may come, please keep writing, keep knitting, keep laughing, keep loving.
    As a final thought:
    “If a man be gracious and courteous to strangers, it shows he is a citizen of the world, and that his heart is no island cut off from other lands, but a continent that joins to them.” – Sr. Francis Bacon

  2223. So sorry that you’re going through such a nasty time! This American atheist is full of love and adoration for your blog, your socks, and you. Oh, and your country too. 🙂

  2224. I think that you’re a role model for all, Stephanie. You inspire so many and we’re all better knitters and people because of you’re blog. Thanks for everything!!

  2225. I am another of your middle of the road female American fans and am appalled by this person’s totally bizarre behavior. Stay safe and know that there are thousands upon thousands of your supporters here in the U.S. Light and Peace to you and your family from me and mine here in Michigan.

  2226. My God, I am so sorry and so ashamed that some one from the US has treated you this way. You’ve got class. Tempting as it may be, I won’t try to figure out who the psycho is, if only to live up to your level! I think you are really great, and I love your Canada Day Posts. No rational person would see them as insulting to the US. Please take care and be happy. I can’t tell you how sorry I am or offer you enough support. Not sure if I will get to actually meet you next week, but I hope so. And if the psycho shows up, scream and I’ll be there beside you.

  2227. I’m so sorry that this is happening to you!!! I have never felt that your blog was anti-anything. In fact, the hubby and I have been thinking about going and seeing this beautiful Canada for ourselves.

  2228. Stephanie–
    Hi! I’m another long time reader, first time poster. I just want to add my love and support for you and let you know I admire the mature way you have chosen to handle this. Your family is lucky to have a woman like you in their life and I feel lucky to have your blog in my life. Thank-you!!
    Deb from Nebraska
    PS: Keep up the Canada Day–I’ve learned SO much. I realized how much I DIDN’T know about Canada once I started reading your blog. 🙂

  2229. I am so sorry that this person has been attacking you so. I have not once ever been offended by anything you’ve said.
    I found your Canada Day post inspiring. You take pride in where you are from, and I enjoyed learning a bit more about Canada 😉
    I hope this will all calm down sooner rather than later.

  2230. I’m going to refrain from saying what I really want to say, but what I will say is that you are awesome.

  2231. Stephanie,
    Please allow me to exted my sincerest apologies for this situation. No matter what, leaving hurtful, slandering emails is unacceptable. You mean very much to me, both as a knitter and a person. I am in awe of the calm and graciousness that you have shown here. I wish you the best and hope that peace and happiness shine your way!

  2232. Yet another American Christian here apologizing for someone who doesn’t deserve to call themselves either. Believe me, if we could throw these types out, we would. (((HUGS)))

  2233. So sorry you’re having to deal with this! I love reading your blog, and have never been insulted by any of your posts, including the Canada Day posts! ((((Hugs)))) from Virginia, USA.

  2234. De-lurking…
    I love your blog. You are incredibly funny and charming and have incredible vision and bring people together and do good for the world.
    As a Canadian in NYC who has rarely lived in Canada, I look forward to your Canada Day posts and other Canadian content for insight into my missing culture. So you’re even educating another Canadian about her birthplace.
    I love this blog.

  2235. Wow. I only sporadically read anymore (raising these 2 little kids kind of eats into both knitting and blog reading time), so I had no idea.
    I can’t believe she’s so offended that you are patriotic about your own country (where I have relatives, who are also very happy there). I’m patriotic about mine, but I do not expect people who are not citizens of my country to /be patriotic/ about my country. It seems peculiar and unstable to expect such a mindset.
    Also, I have looked at her blog (I was curious), and, quite frankly, it does not reflect well on her as a person, actually less so than the small sample of her comments/emails that you have posted here.
    I feel very sorry for her.
    Your post about Canada Day was simply joyous, and contained historical context (oh no!). There was nothing denigrating to the US there until she (or whoever that was, with the same sort of tone) made her comments.

  2236. I read your blog every day and have done so since I first learned to knit. I refer to your books constantly. Your books were what encouraged me to make my first hat and consider projects that were not scarves. I love the chance to peak into your life which is always so exciting. I love that your projects don’t always go as planned. It reminds me that I’m not the only one that gets it wrong sometimes. Their are so many things that I love about your writing and I’m honestly a little envious of your daughters for having such a cool mom. Thank you so much for the blog. Love from Kansas.

  2237. Stephanie, I read this first yesterday and was APPALLED! I turned to my husband and said something to the effect that most negative things you have ever said about America were things that I (a Christian American) have said myself on one occasion or another! I will never understand why people think it isn’t ok to criticize our country – call a spade a spade I say.
    I also commented on how infrequently you have actually ever made comments about America. I mean this is a knitting blog after all!
    He was stunned that someone would be quite so vitriolic as well!
    I know that my sentiments aren’t unique – but nonetheless I wanted to express them. You are wonderful and I feel that your intelligent critique of goings on – in your country as well as other places – are welcome additions to the knitting discussions which make up the majority of your blog. Keep on knitting on!

  2238. i haven’t read all of the comments that have come before me, because there are not hours enough in the day for me to read the words of every person who cares for you. i’ve never commented on your site before, but i will do so now, because it’s time to stand and be counted.
    every time i see that you have posted, it makes my day a little bit brighter. thank you.
    ooh, also, i have plans to kinnear someone tomorrow and it makes me endlessly happy that a) i have a word to describe it, and b) it sounds vaguely dirty. that makes it just a little more fun to say.

  2239. Big Hugs! I trust that now, as I’m comment 2400+, you know there are so many people that support and respect you. 🙂 Focus on the good – like how you’ve inspired so many of us to take up, return to or continue knitting.

  2240. Stephanie, just please add my voice to the rest who are encouraging you and assuring you that we love you and are proud of you. That person is sick, is breaking our US laws, and is embarrassing Christians everywhere by her totally un-Christian behavior.
    Keep on keeping on, please. There are a lot more of us out here who love and respect you!

  2241. Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry that this has happened to you. It’s a creepy and frightening thing to go through, one you most certainly do not deserve to experience.
    Sending you much support and admiration from Portland (see you soon).

  2242. This is my first time commenting, I think. I just want to say that I am American, Christian, and pretty radically conservative, and I would much rather have you on my side than that dangerously unbalanced woman who has turned persecuting you into a personal quest.
    Don’t be afraid; those that are with you are greater than those arrayed against you!

  2243. Another first poster… lots of love and respect for you from here in Ohio. Hang in there.

  2244. Oh Steph, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. It’s a sad fact of life that there are people who are either mean-spirited or who have mental illnesses, and who can make life miserable for others. Hang in there, and take comfort from the hundreds of supportive comments you’ve received that her words do NOT reflect the opinion of anyone else. I’m glad you’ve posted this, and I hope getting it out there makes it a little easier to deal with.

  2245. Stephanie,
    My husband and I LOVE you! We love your original, authentic, quirky voice. We love your books on cd (we listened to one this weekend). We love your books. You crack us up. You’re a great writer. You’re a knitting enabler! You remind people to be honest about themselves, stand up for their values, and admit their mistakes (even those that require painful and extensive frogging).
    You totally did the right thing by posting this. People need to be able to understand it, you need some rest, and you deserve to hear all our love and support. Thanks for letting us know what’s up.
    xoxo

  2246. I am an American who enjoys the best of my country, and shakes my head at the worst of it. I don’t insist anyone else feel about it the way I do, any more than I would insist that someone love my husband/children like I do – I am perfectly happy to hear that you love yours. This kind of person is the same kind that thinks that allowing gay marriage will somehow devalue their marriage. I do not feel the need to apologize for this person, as I don’t feel the need to own their insanity. I do feel the need to tell you that I admire the way you handle things, and that I am really glad that reading you gave me the courage to knit socks, though it is a bit tough on the budget. Walk on in peace and beauty, and share the light wherever you go.

  2247. I say leave her comments there instead of deleting them. It’s possible that deleting the comments is fueling her fire. Leave them in but delete her emails without reading them. Don’t give her the attention she so obviously craves. Pretend she doesn’t exist and who knows? Maybe some day she won’t anymore.
    You’re kick ass, by the way.

  2248. Although I’m a Canadian who shares your views on most subjects, even if I weren’t, I’d still read your blog, and I’d still think you were a kind, generous, and inspirational person. I have friends who are quite right-wing and I have friends who are conservative Christians, and we manage to respect one another and get along.
    Lots of commenters have been pointing out that this woman who is harrassing you isn’t representative of Christians or Americans, and I’d like to point out that she’s also not representative of the mentally ill. Statistically, there must be other people who read your blog besides myself who have severe mental illnesses, and the overwhelming majority of us do not behave remotely like her. A person attempting to “defend” herself when her paranoia causes her to perceive someone else’s words as an “attack” on her is one thing. Stalking someone and spewing hateful judgments about all areas of their life is another. Harassing somebody obsessively for over a month, and saying such cruel, ignorant, and intolerant things… I’m sure that her mental illness plays a part in this, but she’s also just being plain mean.
    By the way, I tried to make a donation to Doctors Without Borders tonight, but their site is convinced that my postal code does not exist and it won’t let me donate. I’ll try again tomorrow.

  2249. Dear Stephanie,
    I work as a 911 Dispatcher for Police..and deal with people that are a “few elves short of a workshop” everyday. My best line is…”its not my first day on the job”…but lines don’t always work…after 7 years I was getting burned out..
    But I found your blog…I could read it online at work between calls…I went back to the very beginning and read every post, then I bought a few of your books, then I bought yarn..I already had needles..and started knitting. I would knit between calls and sometimes read about knitting when I had time. If a call was very serious I could pat some sock yarn I had in my Duty Bag..
    I have been knitting steadily for 4 months now after a 26 year hiatus..but after my almost burnout Stephanie..I have to say that you “gave” me knitting and allowed me to save myself.
    Carry on the way you are, stay strong and know that you have made a serious difference in some of our lives.
    Thankyou.

  2250. Steph- I normally don’t comment, but I felt that I needed to add my love and support to the numbers. This woman has stepped over the boundaries of human decency. I’m barely an hour from the Canadian border (northern Minnesota!) and love reading about your exploits and your country. My knitting mistakes don’t seem as daunting, and you always keep me laughing no matter what. Please never stop- you inspire us knitters, one and all!

  2251. Stephanie:
    On behalf of all American Christians who read your blog (and those who don’t) I would like to offer my apologies for all of the aggravation and anguish you have endured at the hands and words of this person. It appears you are dealing with someone who is not mentally stable and the truth is, you are not her problem, she probably has had issues for a long time and is now using you as an outlet.
    Stephanie, this woman’s rants are NOT in line with the teachings of Jesus Christ and I’m pretty sure God does not like it either.
    P.S.: I enjoy your postings on Canada. I’ve learned a lot from them about Canadian culture
    and I look forward to reading your blog several days a week. You are loved here in America. Keep writing your book and blogging about your projects and life.
    I do hope the authorities can help you stop this woman. She needs to be committed for her own good, as well as the good of everyone else that has to deal with her..

  2252. Look at all this support!
    I will echo the thousands of sentiments above in saying that you are wonderful, and I am truly sorry that you have to go through this.
    I’ve commented on your blog before, but perhaps one of the silver linings to come out of this is to see all of the new & old support you have! Look at all the “first time commenters” here!
    You’ve touched so many people with your blog about life, knitting, and everything in between – thank-you steph 🙂 With friends like these who has time for cranky old haters! 😛

  2253. I think your wonderful. I stand next to you with light, love and respect. I am an American and I am in a bit of shock at how you have been treated.

  2254. Dear Stephanie – okay the moment that she said “I know where you live” this got into the catagory of a threat — you need to contact your lawyer and see what can be done to stop her. I may just take a letter from your lawyer to make her stop, it may take a restraining order. But as so many celebrities have learned — you need to take this seriously.

  2255. I’m sorry Stephanie! And I’m totally overwhelmed to read about such crazyness. And it is crazy to obsess about you and what she perceives you believe or have written. Yet she doesn’t seem to have a clue about what you acutually believe, and she misrepresents what you’ve written. Know that you have many people at your side, and yes we won’t speak of it again. My eyes will slide over any nutty posts just as if they aren’t here.

  2256. This is less about you than about the woman threatening you. Unfortunately, my mother was severely mentally ill and I lived with that for years. It is a normal reaction to respond to crazy by being rational or calm. Calm is good but rational is not what you are dealing with. I believe this woman is mentally ill and I SERIOUSLY encourage you to travel with a body guard or some form of for real security when you come to the Sock Summit. Or stay in Canada where you folks are far more sensible about guns. I am worried about your safety. Hopefully, you have informed the Portland police about this so they can watch out for you.

  2257. I am saddened that someone who calls themselves a Christian can have such a hateful spirit. I am a conservative Christian from the US and she in no way reflects what I believe or is in anyway a spokesperson for me. I enjoy your humor and appreciate your blog. Hang in there and keep deleting her comments.

  2258. I hardly know what to say. That is so awful. You obviosly know that this person in no way represents Americans in general, nor most of the Christian population here, I suspect. I agree with some of the other comments suggesting that you have some sort of restraining order placed if possible, as this person (who deserves pity, truly) is suffering from some sort of psychological deficiency. Please protect yourself. We love you.

  2259. Stephanie,
    I am a young mom and knitter and until I read your books I never knew the complex, wonderful, exciting world that knitting could be. I was alone and lonely before I read your books and now my knitting world is so much bigger and happier, because of you. I knit my first baby surprise sweater this year and I never would have even know who EZ was without your books. You are wonderful, inspiring woman and I hope that the crazies in the world don’t get you down.

  2260. I am embarrassed to be an American right now. As Elizabeth Zimmermann would say, “Knit on, with confidence and hope, through all crises.” That advice seems most appropriate.

  2261. Aye aye aye! I just have to shake my head at some people’s behavior! It’s appalling! As soon as I read her comment about when you, a woman, had to help your husband, a man, get his truck unstuck, and how she felt that was a bad thing…I almost flipped my lid. I’m amazed at you lady. You are brave, and sane, and level-headed. You rock.

  2262. Stephanie,
    I don’t know if you will get to this comment, but I felt the need to add just another comment of love and support. I read your blog everyday and am inspired not only by your knitting, but also your approach to life. I think that you have a wonderful family, and that you are a great mother. I hope all of these comments show you that your blog and books inspire much more love than hatred. Thank you for opening your life and letting us glimpse inside. Don’t let anyone get you down because you are a wonderful person.
    Now, go drink a beer and knit and keep bringing love and laughter into a world in desperate need of such things.
    Love and thanks from Alabama.

  2263. I was pretty taken aback by your post. At first, I thought, “man, that person needs to watch some South Park and get a grip (see “Blame Canada”).”
    Until I read that you’ve been putting up with the vitriol for A MONTH.

    As an American, I am sorry. (We do take all kinds.)
    As a writer, thank you for having the courage to let us all into your life.
    As a knitter, let me just be the latest in what I hope is a long string of knitters who have told you recently that they [we] love your work. You’ve made me a better knitter, and I can’t be the only one! I just recommended your blog to a friend of mine (and new knitter) last week. It doesn’t matter what this one crazy lady says, you are still the best at what you do.

  2264. How horrible for you. I’m glad you posted about it out here in cyberspace so you don’t feel like you have to shoulder it alone anymore. As an American (and a deep-south *southern* American, who is used to getting crap over her accent, mannerisms, etc.) I have to say I’m ashamed that my country could have produced such a BIGOT. I personally think you’re wonderful, and intelligent, and funny, and I wait excitedly for your blog every day, and get ecstatic when I see a new book is coming out! All I can say is, this lady had better be careful, because her *American* knitting neighbors just might take her out! We do wield pointy sticks, ya know.

  2265. Oh Stephanie, that is just way too much crazy for you to have to deal with…I’m from Ohio and enjoy all of your information about Canada, and admire your patriotism. You inspire me to be a better knitter and you make me laugh. I’m not laughing now, I have chills…please be careful!
    Peace and Love….Rebecca

  2266. She is an example of the unfortunate loudmouths we have here in America that help fuel anti-Americanism. I will never understand how anyone can hate you (as wonderfully funny and beautiful you are). I’m so sorry that you are going through this.

  2267. Like many here, I’m shocked & appalled (and more than a smidgen embarrassed that she’s from my country) and am beind you and your decisions 110%! (And I love your books – each and every one of them!) Also? Good for you for calling her out for her utterly unacceptable behavior – I’m proud of you and hope this trouble with her ends soon. Hang in there and know that I speak for a whole bunch of Americans when I say that we love, respect, and care about you. Good luck!

  2268. I do not comment very often but today I want to send you a LOT of good thoughts. I go to your blog every day, I love it and all the things that you comment. I have learnt soooo much with your explanations and encouragement to try new things. I knit socks on DPN and lace because of you. I have all your books and read and re-read them all the time. I think that you are an inspiration to many people and so is your family. I LOVE your Canada’ day posts and print them for my husband to read. All this will pass and we will not engage this woman, at least I will not. Have a wonderful time at Sock Summit and know that we respect and love you very much.

  2269. Dear Steph,
    I want to take this opportunity to thank you for helping me become a better knitter, both by encouraging us to innovate and giving such great tips on knitting in general. I thank you as well for making me feel a little less alone as a knitter, a vegetarian, and a sci-fi freak. Know that I am praying for you and your family, and know also that you don’t deserve this abuse. Hopefully, the measures you are taking will result in safety for you and your family, so you can concentrate on the socks. That’s what the blog will be doing.

  2270. Steph – I see you have alot of comments here, and this one may be missed, but I still feel I need to post it. This is absolutely unbelievable. I only made it to the e-mail part where she was saying that she was a Christian woman and that you should meet Jesus (or something of the sort). I could say a whole swack of things about this (and things you mentioned before this) but that would only support her. I’m so sorry you have to deal with that kind of c*ap. It’s uncalled for and frankly, ridiculous. Hugs to you. I personally think you’re awesome (and not just because you are Canadian) 😉

  2271. This will be my first post on your blog, but I’ve been following it for almost a year now. I wanted to thank you for sharing this situation with us, it must have been hard to do. I hope that all this nonsense comes to a peaceful end very soon. In the meantime, I will send you good thoughts from Tennessee.

  2272. I’ll add my voice to the 2,000+ above. We love you Stephanie, don’t ever forget that.

  2273. I’m another Christian American chiming in to say that I love your writing, I love your blog, and I’m so sad that you’ve had to deal with such meanness. Who would have guessed that a knitting blog would generate meanness? (Seriously, I’ve never once met a knitter who was not kind and compassionate.) Good for you for standing up for yourself and putting this out there for all to read. I hope all these nice comments erase all the doubt from your soul and leave you with peace in your heart. If we could, we would all knit you a pair of socks to make it better.
    ~Sheila

  2274. I know leaving a comment about this woman is the last thing you wanted but a lot of others already have so I will get mine in too before we “speak of this no more”. I am a Texan, southern, meat-eating, anti-vegetarian, conservative, right-wing, racism-hating, anti-socialist, GOP, SUV driving, post-graduate educated, evangelical christian, heterosexual wife and mother who buys all your books, reads your blog daily, and would stand in line to see you speak if I could. You got nothing personal against me, I got nothing personal against you. This woman is a mentally ill stalker.

  2275. Stephanie, you’re awesome and you bring a lot of joy to countless people every day. Some people are just horrible, and I have so much admiration for your ability to retain unflappable poise. There’s thousands of voices here supporting you, and I suspect the number will just keep growing.
    jean

  2276. I’m an American, I’m a woman, I’m a Christian, and I say that this woman does not speak for me. Thank you for taking the high road, Steph. Bless you.

  2277. after 2500 comments there is nothing I can say except, all of the above.
    it is a shame. take any and all measures to protect yourself and your family, physically and emotionally.

  2278. For a heart stopping moment i thought you were going to say the blog was closing up shop (not that any of is would blame you after that story). Kudos to you for being the better person and not stooping to the level of this person. Virtual hugs to you and your family, you are a wonderful person who loves with your whole heart and there is nothing wrong with the way you function as a person. Canada is a fantastic country and you are certainly more patriotic than most of your American neighbours (I say that as an American). Hopefullythis person will leave you alone to knit in peace (all this tension mustbe messing up your gauge, jk)
    stay strong

  2279. You can also block her from sending you e-mail. And, frankly, I think you could get a restraining order against her. but why bother.

  2280. Steph,
    I may not always agree with everything that you have to say, but…wow…if I did, wouldn’t the world be an awfully boring place?
    You have inspired me with the way you’re handling this situation and I hope that you will gather strength from the good will and thoughts of the commenters here to continue on with your blog and books.
    I’m behind you!
    ~Amanda in Indiana

  2281. Stephanie, you are amazing!
    You are harassed by one of the stupidest things one has to witness online and you turn the other cheek! You ask us to turn on the light. You ask us to be decent. You even suggest respect. Is this not the Golden Rule?
    I’ve scanned through most of the posts. It is amazing the outpouring of SUPPORT! Seems to me you are one very loved and appreciated Canadian knitter.
    I know “who-must-not-be-named” is disturbed and confused, but few know to what degree. If anyone needs light, it is her/him. S/he needs a shift, a change in her/his life, that helps her/him become a more loving person.
    I think of you as my friend. You are my homepage (I need you for daily knitting inspiration). I’ve met you twice and I will miss SS09. Your blog is a part of my daily conversation. I admire your mothering (does the individual have children? If no, then silence that voice). If yes, then: The proof is your amazing family. I know what kind of momma you are—one of the best.
    This is all well, and good. However, please heed the wise advice in your many posts. You need to bring this to the attention of those in a position to take necessary action. In the meantime, we will attend to the insulting “name withheld”. You can trust the Blog!
    Also, please bask in the love bestowed on you. You are going to one hell of a Sock Summit! How cool is that?

  2282. Stephanie – I’m an American from Boston, MA. I know many Americans have said this to you, but I still want to state it anyway: Please don’t judge us by this obviously crazy person. I love your blog and your books (I’ve read them all more than once), and I’m fairly sure this is the way most American knitters feel. I have never read anything on your blog that I thought was Un-American, although, I’m guessing this person didn’t care for the NRA quote on the Canada Day entry, and felt that the quote was Un-American. But even if someday you did write something that was critical of America, it wouldn’t change my positive perception of you. After all, you have the right to voice your opinion, as stated in the American Constitution.

  2283. Bless your heart. Stay strong. It really sucks to have this crazy distraction before sock summit. I am really sorry this has happen to you.
    fingers crossed in Mississippi

  2284. You are amazing and brave. For most of us here in America, hatred is not our patriotism. I am ashamed of those Americans who subscribe to that hatred and am proud of the thousands of amazing Americans who have posted their support.

  2285. Please dont let this freak screw with your self-confidence! She DOES NOT represent the american knitter & her comment about how the respectable knitters pulling away from you, hell, just look at the BIG NAME knitters that are on board with SS! She has psychological problems that are quite scary to me & Im impressed at how well & have handled it all.
    Know that we are behind you 100%, she is a very sick person.
    …hmm, does Rush Limbaugh have a wife? Is she a knitter?? Lol
    hang tough & we’ve got your back:)

  2286. I know this has been said before but I want to say it again. I love your Canada Day posts. I learn something new about Canada and I love it. It makes sense that you are one of my heroes because you are a superwoman. You have raised amazing children. You have an incredible and devoted husband. A good man like Joe is a real treasure. You are kind, humble, wise, hilarious, and willing to share all this with the rest of the world. That last thing makes you the bravest woman I have ever had the pleasure to read. I love all of your books and re-read them regularly. You have touched thousands with your words. You are powerful, keep on trucking.

  2287. Steph, This is simply amazing. I have so many reactions at once and don’t know how to start verbalizing. It is so mind-boggling/gob-smacking, I noticed it left even elizabeth a airhart speech-less/poem-less (and I LOVE her comments). Chin up, you are a bigger person than her. Take the steps you need to, keep us at least marginally in the loop and be safe. The problem won’t just go away, but neither will we. Thanks for hanging in there.

  2288. This is my second comment but I am not a stalker. Check with your attorneys to see if a restraining order is possible.

  2289. Just dropping in to add my sincere respects. I have always enjoyed your posts and your prespective on life. Your stalker is definitly not a representative for the American’s I know. I hope to continue to be able to enjoy your writing for some time to come. Thank you for the blog and the enjoyment it brings.

  2290. Steph,
    Have some chocolate and cashmere. And beer too.
    Thank you for giving me a blog I enjoy reading. I know there are a great many of us who feel the same way I do. Hang in there!

  2291. There are over 2500 comments of support so far, so I have to wonder who she thinks is on her side when she says “we” and “many of us”… lol.
    Sorry for all the trauma, Stephanie. Against all logic, it somehow really gets under your skin, doesn’t it? Have fun reading the thousands of comments about how everyone loves you. It’s kind of nice to know that you’ll be trawling though them all, looking for ones you should delete, and instead finding out how many people are behind you, patting you on the back. Ü

  2292. This is ‘bullying’ on the web. People who do this should not be allowed on the Internet! Evidently, some people don’t have a life. I enjoy reading your blog and will continue to do so. Best wishes to you and your family in getting past this matter.

  2293. Here’s one more American who loves you and thinks you’re just plain terrific. Please don’t judge us by this lunatic. I hope she’s caught soon and thrown in a padded room.
    You’ve got class, my lady. I’m very proud of you.

  2294. I’m so sorry you have to deal with, especially now, with your daughter on the bike trip, and the Sock Summit coming up. You certainly don’t need this now.
    All you can do with people like this is ignore them. She isn’t worth any of the worry she has given you.
    Thank you for your blog, I always look forward to reading it.

  2295. One nutball. 2500 (and counting) expressions of love and support from all over the world. Pretty well sums it up for me.

  2296. The internet is full of crazies. O_o
    That being said, I think you’re handling this extremely well. <3

  2297. I’ve been reading your blog for a few years now and I’ve never commented before, but I wanted to say I am so sorry that someone so hateful would say that she represents my entire country. She doesn’t. You are obviously a good person and a great parent and your writing is, by turns, moving, perceptive and almost always funny. As I’ve been meaning to do for quite sometime, I will now go out and buy everything you’ve written. Thank you for doing what you do, you’re awesome.
    And, for the record, I love your Canada Day posts.

  2298. Please don’t think she represents Americans! It would be a good idea to get a restraining order (in the US) against her – particularly with a big conference coming up! Be safe and keep blogging – we really appreciate you!

  2299. How funny that the post asking people not to react got over 2000 comments. Just goes to show how much you’re loved!
    On another topic, how did your daughter, her boyfriend & Ken do in the bike ride? You mentioned the rain had stopped at one point. Did she get a chance to dry out? I’m so impressed that she took that ride on.

  2300. You are officially famous now — you’ve got your own personal psychotic stalker! Just remember, don’t feed the trolls.

  2301. Stephanie, you are an inspiration and a real source of support for those of us who struggle with our knitting and sometimes with our lives. You’ve made a big difference in my life and in the lives of many others, I’m sure.
    Jan the therapist and Hilary are right — please be careful and take appropriate measures.

  2302. Stephanie, I too, think that you are an awesome woman, mother, wife, citizen of the world and just an all out wonderful human being. I have great fondness for Cananda, although I am American, and love everything you write about your home country. I agree with several individuals who have mentioned contacting authorities (which I think you said you have already done) to put a stop to this harrassment. If you have not done so, contact the Canadian equivilant of the U.S.FBI to look into the threats she has made toward you and your family. This really needs to be addressed by the people who can really do something to absolutely stop this woman. This is international terrorism and she needs to be stopped.
    It is hard to understand how people can be so hateful. Draw strength from your light, love and all the people who support you. Peace!

  2303. Hi Stephanie, just wanted to add to the flood of love and support for you from your fellow knitters. I hope you have reported this individual to all possible authorities. And please please be careful and safe.

  2304. Just had to make one more comment–am I allowed to make two? Its late for me, and I’m still thinking about you and how much I enjoy your writing and how amazed I am by some people. Anyway, don’t worry so much about some crazy making crazy comments, let her blow all over the comments. I can only speak for myself when I say that I will try to behave, and I don’t believe any of us will care one whit. Rock on Steph!

  2305. Just another lurker coming out to say that you are appreciated. Your posts never fail to brighten my day, and I’m currently knitting my first cable project – your Unoriginal Hat. I’m so sorry this had to happen to you. Hang in there!

  2306. I have nothing to say that hasn’t already been said – I’m amazed at your ability to remain calm and gracious in the face of a truly nasty situation (as one poster put it – the very definition of being a lady). And I, like others, add my voice to the chorus saying that it is absolutely right that you have contacted the proper authorities about this, and that you should continue to do so if this person continues to make threats like she has already (“I know where you live” certainly constitutes one).
    And I too, love your Canada Day posts. Though I grew up not far from your wonderful country, there was much about it that I did not know but now have – because of you – learned and understood. So thank you for doing what you do with all of the grace with which you do it.
    In short, you rock. 🙂

  2307. Steph –
    I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! Thank you for your blog and sharing your life and thoughts with us. Clearly this woman has mental health issues – please stay safe! Sending lots of hugs and knitty thoughts your way!

  2308. I think you are wonderful. It’s evident you’re a wonderful woman, mother, wife, knitter, and writer. It’s even more evident in the way you’ve chosen to handle this situation. I’m ashamed to hear of another American “Christian” acting in this way. Your writing has brightened my day many times over.

  2309. Peace and love to you. I am so grateful for the inspiration you are to me – as a knitter and as a fellow human being.

  2310. Just one more voice in support.
    You have changed my knitting life and brought me so much enjoyment and entertainment.
    Thank you for the inspiration. Stay strong

  2311. Only 2600+ and counting? Another American here with disgust for this woman, and nothing but hugs and prayers for you. This will end – stay well until that time.
    OT – I’m about 99.9% finished with my first FLS, for DD after her auto accident in Cambodia. She is doing well. Used Malabrigo, in the Applewood colorway (faint soft light browns, with a sort-of peach cast once in a while) and the sweater and I have had some really serious issues. But it’s turning out beautifully, and I’ll probably make one for myself. The keyword here for me (very specific pattern, you remember) is FOCUS.
    You have thousands of us sending hugs and prayers and good will. Keep on shining the light….

  2312. No brilliant words myself, just a lot of compassion and empathy. I enjoy your writing, your humour, and your insights, and I agree that you’re using a very different definition of “rude”! 🙂

  2313. Dear Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. I’ve read your books and your blog and hae been inspired by you. As I was reading this post I too was afraid that you were going to take a sabatical(?) and shut down your blog. I’m glad your not, though I am worried for you. Please remember you are a WONDERFUL person. She does not represent American knitters and never will. Thank you for your blog, books, and knitting!

  2314. Oh, and for the record… I think you should leave the “dirtbag’s” comments there so we can all read them.
    I wonder why she has such a hair up her butt about Canadians? Could it be because she’s been denied entry? I didn’t even know you were Canadian… just that you were a good knitter. I love Canada! Would love to live in Montreal… but then there’s that winter and dark days thing! LOL.
    Bev

  2315. I’m speechless – I must be the biggest Pollyanna on the planet. No one, especially you who give so much and is such a light in the world, deserves abuse to this extent. When I learn of it or am the victim of it myself, I am stunned and literally open mouthed, slack jawed in astonishment at the inhuman behavior of some. You are a strong, intelligent, mature woman who is admired and respected by many. Thank you so much for all you do.

  2316. Stephanie,
    Thank you for being you! I wish only the best for you and your family.
    Kerry

  2317. I cannot imagine how stressful this is for you. Really, I’m ready to cry reading her vitriol and it isn’t even directed at me. I too will try to think about what sort of a place she’s in that would make her say things like that,instead of what my first impulse would be if I ran into her.
    I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.

  2318. Thanks for sticking with the blog, even when having to deal with so much crazy. I’m American and I love the info that you share about Canada. I love to read the blog, and I will never tire of your books either. You are fabulous!

  2319. Dear, dear Stephanie- This situation sucks…my heart goes out to you, truly. Why is that a good person like yourself must be diminished by such misguided ravings? This is evil hiding under a cloak of false patriotism , and no Christianity that I can recognize in my heart…Let the synergy of all our support be your strength.

  2320. Thanks for addomg one more thing to all of the great things I have learned from you. Thanks for all the giggles and chuckles and friendship I have received from you and your site. Thanks for not quitting at this time!!! Wouldn’t blame you but gratefull for spending time with you in the future! Hugs and love, from Cincinnati Ohio

  2321. I’m sure that there’s not much that I can say that hasn’t been said already before my comment. However, I truly hope that you find peace with this issue, that it is resolved quickly, and that the woman haranguing you can find peace with herself. Someone like that does lead a sad and likely lonely existence, and I hope that the sun shines brightly and makes the world beautiful again for her soon.
    Wiccan in Oklahoma-Cassa

  2322. Bullies are tough to deal with, and that is how she strikes me. So sorry that you are having to put so much energy into something that can give you little back. Hope these messages help some. Hope you can listen to your true voice, not the self-doubting one.

  2323. Wow! I can’t believe there are knitters out there that are this rude!!! Yarn Harlot, you have my love and support! Hope she goes away for you and everyone else’s sake.

  2324. Bless you for not feeding the troll, Stephanie. I’m so sorry you’re being splattered with someone’s (quite possibly mentally ill) outbursts, and I trust you’re keeping a paper trail for the authorities: sounds like there are some potentially real threats in her rants.
    As well as, or possibly instead of playing vigilante to pounce as immediately as you can on offensive postings, may I suggest a healthy dose of disemvowling? I also trust The Blog to know how to refrain from feeding trolls, especially when it’s pointed out to us collectively that it’s not helpful.
    So, for edification and amusement: There are a bunch of readers here who also frequent the fluorosphere over at the blog Making Light, where one of the co-moderating hosts was bemused over dealing with a loud-mouthed bully into inventing a practice immediately dubbed “disemvoweling” by another dear denizen of the place.
    The wikipedia article on said practice, over here at
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disemvoweling
    links to a couple of nice scripts to keep it from being a terrible attention suck for you – and the original comment thread, leading up to that first disemvoweling, could make for some hilarious, not to mention possibly cathartic, light reading in itself.
    For the love you pour out, Stephanie, and the simple fact of you sharing your thoughts and ideas with us all, here and in workshops and in publications that will, I imagine, continue to be best sellers right out of the gate, may I also affirm:
    I support you.
    I thank you.
    I treasure the stories you share, and
    I treasure the community that coalesces here, the Blog, and am proud and pleased to be a small droplet in said ocean of YarnHarlot love.
    Keep your chin up, dearling one.

  2325. Wow! I can’t believe there are knitters out there that are this rude!!! Yarn Harlot, you have my love and support! Hope she goes away for you and everyone else’s sake.

  2326. So sorry that a wingnutter is after you. Believe me, I like you almost as well as I like hockey, and your books have given me many a good laugh and actually made sense out of socks. keep strong! Carol in Oklahoma USA

  2327. So sorry that a wingnutter is after you. Believe me, I like you almost as well as I like hockey, and your books have given me many a good laugh and actually made sense out of socks. keep strong! Carol in Oklahoma USA

  2328. So sorry that a wingnutter is after you. Believe me, I like you almost as well as I like hockey, and your books have given me many a good laugh and actually made sense out of socks. keep strong! Carol in Oklahoma USA

  2329. So sorry that a wingnutter is after you. Believe me, I like you almost as well as I like hockey, and your books have given me many a good laugh and actually made sense out of socks. keep strong! Carol in Oklahoma USA

  2330. Steph,
    Sorry to hear about the crazy goings on. “Never let the turkeys get you down” is often easier said than done.
    Much love from Puget Sound, Washington.

  2331. Another American (Florida) standing proudly behind you, my knitting neighbor.
    Besides all the wonderful knitting stuff you share, I love your Canada Day posts, I’ve learned so much.

  2332. Well, never commented on your blog before, but longtime American reader. Never offended. Laughed plenty.
    Hang in there. I have been a Web developer for many years and have been on the receiving end of more than my fair share of nasties…although nothing remotely close to this. I find the threats exceptionally serious. You are right, behind technology people can be exceptionally ruthless (especially the unstable), and the written word is generally far more damaging (or supporting) than the verbal.
    One of the strongest things I learned to do was delete the painful ones. Right now you need them for potential legal; but try not to re-injury by reviewing them too much. Although sadly she is on constant attack it sounds like so you don’t have a chance to take a breath.
    I admire you for not publicly calling her out; although you can see the number here would certainly be a mighty force (as if you ever doubted).
    A month of this would be tiring. Your blog is part of you and part of your business. I am glad you have the support and love of your family and the compassion of your readers.
    Take care, Sam

  2333. Stephanie,
    Do not allow the comments of the ignorant bring you down! You are a wonderfully talented writer and knitter. Sending hugs, warm wishes and PLENTY of beer your way.
    January in TN

  2334. I’m so proud to call you a knitter, a woman, and a mom. I don’t think I would have the strength to be so graceful in this situation; thank you for the incredible example.
    -A(nother) Christian American knitter

  2335. OK, I won’t say anything about it. (It’s been said). But I will send something extra to Doctors without Borders, so there will be some healing someplace.

  2336. Love and support from Australia
    I also love your blog and read it most days for the funny lighthearted warm huggy glow it gives me.
    As with all the other comments of support you have received I wish you all the best in the world and think you have handled this nasty person with dignity and grace.

  2337. I love Barb B.’s suggestion – give to the KWB and let the light shine on.

  2338. I can’t figure out how so many of my own thoughts got in here ahead of my fingers’ typing them!
    Thank you for being a good example in so many areas, and for teaching me so much.
    Carol

  2339. I will just think of you as “Grace”. or “the Graceful Harlot”, no…. just “Grace”.

  2340. Another long time lurker/first time poster delurking to stand shoulder to shoulder in the light. Don’t let one person’s bad juju get you down and remember that when your stalker posts that nonsense, it say a lot more about them than it ever will about you. As a webmistress of my own small site, I too have had to deal with the occasional nutter. Our stalker was obsessed with Russell Crowe. She’d turned a Ken Doll into one of the characters from his movies and carried it around in her purse, stalking us in real life (as well as online). She found some members of our group at a restaurant once, brandished the doll from her purse and started screaming about Russell Crowe’s penis. Paging Bedlam! Someone has wandered away from Crazytown!
    If our brush with our own stalker taught me anything, it was that everything is better with a little time and distance. When you’re stuck in the moment, feeling that sickening sense of dread about what might (or will) happen if you dare step away from that exhaustive state of hyper-vigilance, it can be easy to lose sight of the fact that it’s a temporary situation. It will pass. Yes, there is still the need to be vigilant (while still being as calm/rational/polite/honest as possible) but don’t allow yourself to get sucked in. You know the truth. We know the truth. Go live your life. Hug your kids. Cook dinner. Have a glass of wine with friends. Post your witty, humorous, touching, fun posts! Knit! Just remember to bring the pooper scooper back with you in case someone’s left a bit of a mess while you were off rocking it Harlot style.

  2341. You know how I feel about you Stephanie. There is SO much I could say and in an uncharacteristic move, I will refrain. If you can get your inner Baba Ram Dass on, so then so can I.

  2342. Another voice from the US – I’ve been enjoying your blog for over a year, taken no offense at anything, love your humor…. hang in there and eventually she’ll find some other place to direct her misguided anger. Good lesson on the perils of blogging (who knew?). Thanks for filling us in.

  2343. A long time lurker coming out to say it infuriates me when I see that kind of behavior. Neither patriotism nor religion should be used as an excuse or motivator for one’s irrational, inflammatory, and just plain bad behavior! Grr.
    I love your writing, and what I’ve seen of your personality through your books and blog posts leads me to believe you are a wonderful, thoughtful, creative person who most certainly does not deserve any of that sort of abuse. You’ve given me the courage to be an enthusiastic baby Knitter in a house full of muggles. Keep your chin up, sugar. We’re all rooting for you.

  2344. Stephanie, unfortunately I don’t have time to read all of the comments on here but I do want to add my voice to that of the many many people who love you and love your blog. Yet again, I am amazed by the lengths some people will go to for attention. Please please continue to brighten our days with your wit, your insight and your good old fashion commonsense.
    From New Zealand – Kia Kaha (be strong)

  2345. I’ve admired your mad knitting skills and witty writing for quite some time now. Don’t ever stop. You bring an enthusiasm to the knitting world that is unique and unmatched.

  2346. Delurking to reassure you that the only person she speaks for is herself. Knit on!

  2347. Well I live south of the border. I am sorry your going through this, hope you know we all love your blogs and my thoughts are with you. Hope this just goes away.

  2348. I don’t comment very often, but wanted you to know that I’m also sending positive thoughts your way. It was such a pleasure to hear you speak and to meet you in Fairhope, AL., and you almost had me in the centre of the picture. Pretty good for having no view screen.
    I’m still puzzling over exactly when the US saved Canada’s butt. And if we did, isn’t that what you do for a neighbor? I never took any of your Canada Day posts as Anti-American, but I think you should be really careful about this nut-case.
    Looking forward to seeing you again on your next book tour.
    Dianne R., happily back in Florida

  2349. You are a brave, brave woman!
    I know I am a better knitter and have had more fun knitting because of your books and your blog.
    Keep that Knitter’s head up!

  2350. Hmmm. She is mentally ill. Is she reading the same blog I do? I certainly don’t see any of the bad things she commented on. Someone needs to find her and get her some help.
    Sorry. You don’t deserve this.

  2351. People who are so cruel are often 1 skein short of a sweater (if you know what I mean). And I don’t do sleeveless. =)
    And whats the big deal about being called a vagina? Its where the babies come from so it can’t be all bad. Wait – I have a teen age girl…can I stay that last part for a few years. LOL.
    Hang in there. We love ya! Big hugs! See you at Sock Summit.

  2352. My very dear Harlotta…I am rarely speechless (or postless)about anything but this approaches. I have posted occasionally and have been a member of “the blog” for several years now. I am a center to left leaning Christian United Statesian. North America has three countries last time I checked, so if we’re going to be strictly accurate Mexico needs to be in the house too…as of my posting there were over 2600 posts of may be since that will take me some time to catch up on.
    I have never read or perceived anything antiamerican in anything you have blogged or twittered. ProCanada is hardly the same thing. Shame on you for being a good mother, wife, friend and awesome knitter!!! :-). You must immediately stop being a good role model for those who have to make public appearaces when they are scared to death.
    I emailed this to you privately a while back but I’m ok with putting it out there for the blog… I have had a difficult year that is currently going ok (today) with several fictional mentally I’ll family members. There have been many days when your wry and gentle humour was the only thing that made me smile when people were in the hospital.
    I will refrain from speaking of the unnamed blogger other than to say that there must be a better use of her time than harassing you. I am glad you shared with us. That has been a large thing to carry around . Presbytera I believe, or Rams said a long time ago about someone elses isolated rude comment that you were basically letting us in your living room every day in your blog. I must agree wholeheartedly.

  2353. Well, I just finished blocking my Snowdrop shawl and wanted to log on and leave you an email about it, just as your instructions suggested, and what a surprise!
    I managed to read thru some of the comments and have been struck by the variety of labels by which people have designated themselves. American, Canadian, Christian, atheist, vegetarian, liberal, conservative, American Indian; I’m sure there are many more I haven’t yet read. My point is all of us come together from these varied backgrounds and points of view for the love of wool. Knitting itself seems to only recognize throwers or pickers as the only valid differences. (Oh, I guess there is circulars vs. straights, too!) With your love for wool and wonderful sense of humor, you truly have created knitters without borders. The barriers are down.
    And that is the good and wonderful thing to take away from this experience, for all of us. That we can all join together in sharing with Stephanie her love and enjoyment of knitting; in discovering someone else also had to frog back for the nth time; in learning how she copes with the stresses of home, family, and work; and in enjoying the comradeship and learning experience of being part of a huge community of friends.
    Thank you for letting us get to know you, Stephanie, and for sharing your life and humor with us.
    Pat
    PS The Snowdrop was my first foray into lace knitting, and I love it! I knit this for a friend of mine and can hardly wait for it to dry so I can give it to her. But of course, now I’ll have to knit one for myself, and for …

  2354. Absolutely horrible for you. But don’t shield this woman with anonymity – to quote the Duke of Wellington, “publish and be damned”.

  2355. My advice is to pretend she doesn’t exist, don’t visit her website, don’t post anything about her, delete whatever she emails you or posts to your website. Crazy people thrive on any response at all.

  2356. Like so many other people compelled to respond to this post, I am a long time reader and first time commenter. Steph don’t let the ugliness of one unbalanced individual get you down. I hope that this person gets some professional help. Anyone who exhibits such virulent and obsessional behavior cannot be healthy.

  2357. Stephanie, I read your posts to KnitList back before either of us had blogs. Even back then, you made many people smile and admire your authenticity.
    You again have proven yourself to be a class act. We need more role models like you… not because you are perfect (impossible), but because you laugh at your imperfections (without debasing yourself) and at the same time continually refrain from pointing out the imperfections of others.
    Even today you ask for light, love and respect. You rock. We can now divide your burden between many sets of shoulders.
    For the record, my mom taught 1st grade. Kids would come to her to complain about the behavior of other kids. Her response? “Do you think they have a problem? (nodding from child) Aren’t you glad *you* don’t have a problem? (more nods)”
    Stephanie, you don’t have a problem that the support of “the blog” and others who love you can’t slowly heal. Please get any support you can legitimately acquire, as others have suggested.
    I have been hounded before, myself. Not in such depth as you, but then again this was pre-Windows and pre-blog. Yes, not responding is often a miraculous solution. Let us hope it’s enough of a solution for this situation.
    I wanted to read all of today’s comments, very much. Unfortunately, the count went from 2618 to 2640 while I read the first 170 or so. I need to sleep instead of read, but the thought was there.
    I often don’t comment… by the time I get here the notes are in the hundreds and it seems pointless to say “me, too.” Tonight, I need to comment to “stand up and be counted.”
    I love you. Hugs.

  2358. Wow. If I thought that this person were rational I would leave a comment like “It’s folks like that that make me proud to be an American” (that’s supposed to be ironic). But she really sounds as if she’s in a bad way. I hope she gets help and that you get some well deserved peace. Hey, did you hear about the dyslexic devil worshipper? He sold his soul to Santa.

  2359. Hi Stephanie,
    Just wanted to add my voice to the multitudes. I love your writing (blog and books, etc.), and you are a huge part of why I became an avid sock knitter. I have never found your posts to be offensive, but rather humourous and informative. You often make me laugh out loud, so I’ve learned not to drink anything while I’m reading your blog. Thank you for being a wonderful example in so many ways. I’m proud that you’re a fellow Canadian, and I still haven’t gotten over the fact that you actually visited my home province (Saskatchewan) and I couldn’t be there!
    Shauna

  2360. You’re my Hero, Stephanie! The grace with which you’re handling this is inspirational. Sending you and your family peace and kind thoughts from California.

  2361. Harlot–I was about to post a huge ol’ rant about this woman but that’s not necessary. Please know that we love you, we support you and we’re thinking of you.

  2362. Steph, I am so so sorry that you are/have gone through this. Like many before have said, I am an American, a Christian and a conservative and she absolutely does not represent an iota of what I think or feel, please don’t ever think she is a sampling from any of these groups. I also think that YOU ROCK as I have been known to tell you before. It is so hard to have this emotional sandpaper/cheese grater feeling going on out there in cyberspace that won’t let your heart rest. Believe me, I know – there is just something in my DNA that cannot abide the fact that not everyone likes me, or heaven forbid actually hates me and is seething mad at me. Rotten feeling for sure.
    Okay, now for true confession time, I peeked at her site, I know so dumb, but the fact that her last few rants have ZERO responses should tell us all something. I really hope no one here continues to waste their time writing her.. and that her readership can continue to be close to none – we don’t want that kind of twisted thinking to be perpetuated.

  2363. I’m another one of those long-time readers first time commenters…
    WTF? In one e-mail she insults women and then says don’t mess with an American woman?
    Wow, clearly this person has nothing better to do with her time. And is really mean. And is probably unstable.
    I probably have nothing really new or productive to add to the discussion considering there are already over 2600 comments, but I’m sending you good thoughts.

  2364. As an American I am appalled and disgusted with this person. Good for you Yarn Harlot, stick to your guns and keep blogging. We love you!

  2365. Um, excuse me if you’ve heard this before, (I haven’t read the 2.6k comments.) but you need to fix the EM tag at 177. Move it back to 173. Otherwise, you are italicizing your own words and you don’t want that!
    (Disclosure: I am not Celeste. I am her DH and a geek).

  2366. Just delete all the emails without reading them, and the comments too, if you like (since it’s pretty hard for us (who support you) not to whack someone with Delusions of Persecution after everything they’ve said to you.)
    Now, on with the knitting!

  2367. I am so sorry for what you’ve been going through. Stephanie, you are an inspiration and a joy. You bring humor to the mistakes of our lives and let us know we’re not alone. You help us to laugh when we feel like crying. Be of good courage. You are appreciated and loved.

  2368. Argh. I trust the Blog will ignore anything posted by that person, even as we routinely ignore comment spam and other net detritus. I sincerely hope you notify all the relevant authorities. I am confident that karma will take its course too, but sometimes legal authorities work faster. Maybe you could get a trusted net-savvy friend who isn’t going to SS09 to help with the blog “cleaning” chores.

  2369. I have enjoyed each of your Canada Day entries. I’ve always found them delightful and have never found anything anti-American in them (and I’ll admit to being a little sensitive in that area so if there was something I’d have caught it). It’s an (expletive) shame that someone with such a skewed take on things has made you the bee in their bonnet. I think it’s evident from the comments here that she speaks for no one but herself.

  2370. I agree with the zillion and one people above defending you so nothing new to add ( I really think they’ve covered it all! 😀 )but I want to let you know how many people there are on ‘your side’
    xXxXxXxXx

  2371. What a shame. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. I’ve read every single post you’ve ever written and though I seldom comment, I always leave here feeling a little better for having visited. For the record, I’ve read your Canada Day posts and have never felt offended by them. I live in a city that borders Ontario and feel I’m much better for the experience.
    I worry for your safety with such a loose canon out there. Take care.

  2372. I hope you are feeling the love now! It takes 10 nice things to overcome one 1 and when I saw how many postings there were I knew the knitting community had come together. Viva La Difference!
    Now print this out (on recycled paper~of course ; ) and let us know how many pages of knittery love (postings) you got! It’s far more interesting to hear about what your knitting on~! I was worried this was a “good bye” letter. Whew I can go to bed resting easy knowing you’ll be back another day!
    with smiles, hugs and love

  2373. Stephanie,
    I’ll add my Christian American voice–nothing new. Just because we don’t agree on some things doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy your blog. And I do–a lot! You have certainly displayed a great amount of restrain here. Thanks for a great blog.

  2374. I am in shock. And très émue. And absolutely proud of you and your way to handle this. Chapeau!
    I have learned something immense from you today. I hope that I will remember this post whenever I am faced with blind hate. Merci.
    et bien sûr: lots of love and hugs from far away Switzerland.

  2375. Longtime reader, lover of your books, and first time commenter. Stay the course. You are taking the high road, and IMHO, the high road is always the better road.
    -from a patriotic American raised by a proud military family, including a father and six uncles who were WWII vets

  2376. So sorry this has happened to you Stephanie. I know it hurts. I am on some adoption groups and it has happened to me. I get very nasty private emails from one person. I know I do not deserve this hatred. I know she is not mentally well but it still causes pain. You have done nothing to deserve this. I love your blog. I read it every day. Your knitting inspires me and your generosity in sharing your writing, talents and designs makes you a hero in my eyes. I am not American or a Christian but you have my full support. As an aussie I want to know when are you coming to Australia? We love you down under too.
    Jeanette

  2377. Its unfortunate what some will do when they have nothing better to do!! I love reading your books and your blog!!
    Keep your chin up!! I think you can see from the huge list of comments YOU ARE AWESOME and we knitters love you!! Stay strong!!!

  2378. Wow! How terrible! Sending you lots of good thoughts. 🙂 Hopefully she hasn’t given all of us Americans a bad name.

  2379. Wow! How terrible! Sending you lots of good thoughts. 🙂 Hopefully she hasn’t given all of use Americans a bad name.

  2380. Well I must be very un-American, because I AM an American and I like you.
    I’m impressed that you kept your cool so long!
    Well done!

  2381. I think you’ve done the right thing. I’m so sorry you’ve been subjected to all of this rubbish.
    I know it’s difficult, but keep your chin up.
    And please don’t stop writing!

  2382. Wow, that is intense. I am sorry you have to deal with that kind of hurtful and negative attention. You don’t deserve the abuse. I hope she gets bored and moves on to another obsession soon.

  2383. Holy positive comments, Batman! Psha, she’s in denial if she’s still talking about “so many people” who “don’t like” your stuff.
    I had a roommate who pulled this crap sometimes-
    “Grr, I’m mad, use Mild Insult #1.
    What? that didn’t result in enough of a freakout for my tastes? Let’s try Rather Mean Taunt #4-B.
    Ack! She’s still not reacting…
    Offense 48.2! Disrespect Series 8: Insult the Family!
    Pay attention to me! You have to yell at me, then I can turn around and say “ha-ha, I *told* you she was mean. Now you all have to comfort me because she was *mean* to me”.
    OK, so maybe I’ve been concocting this mock internal dialogue. And perchance it would be best if I spent less time with the Thesaurus.
    But it’s funny. I hope. 🙂
    Hang in there

  2384. I’m impressed with the way you’ve handled this, and terribly sorry that anyone would do this… to anyone really.
    I love your blog, and your books have gotten me through a lot… knitting and otherwise.
    Keep your head high, darlin.
    Love from California.

  2385. My sympathy is with you and your dear ones. I have been crying with laughter at many of your posts and they were never at the cost of anyone else then YH herself. You know how to kick your own ar.. to make us laugh. Alas, jealousy is the root of all evil and my, is she jealous. I think I once read one antiHarlot blogpost and decided not to read that blog anymore, because it was so way out of truth. Persons like that are so convinced they are right, they even think a whole nation and all Cristians are on their side, they won’t ever believe they are wrong. Well, she not only attacked and offended you, I feel attacked and offended too (and maybe most of your blogreaders feel the same). A friend is a friend is a friend, show me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are. Well, the same goes for blogfriends and I know whose blogfriend I am. Stephanie, “we are many” and we will be on the look-out for any ill meaning persons. Meanwhile, take care and have a jolly good Sock Summit.

  2386. Normally, when I see so many comments, all saying what I wanted to say, I just tiptoe away without leaving a comment.
    But in this case, I feel everyone should speak up and support you.
    You’ve brought lots of enjoyment and happiness to my life, and I want to thank you for that.
    She makes me embarrassed, not only to be a US citizen, but to even be a woman or a human being.
    I should point out that she may call herself a Christian, but she most certainly is NOT. But then, that’s obvious.
    I sincerely hope that she gets the help she needs, or, at the very least, some serious restraint.
    Steph, you should keep copies of the stuff she sends. She sounds like the distance between you and her may not be enough to protect you. I hope that you never need copies of what she’s written as evidence, but there must be some authorities you can turn it all over to.
    She sounds like she’s getting ready to step it up a notch, and needs to know that if anything happens to you, that there will be repercussions for her.
    I’ve been stalked by someone who had a stated goal of killing me, and it’s no laughing matter. I hope she’s not so out of it that she does more than write, but I am worried for your safety. Please take care of yourself, and make sure that you’ve made a complaint (in writing) with your local police, and with her local police. If she writes anything that makes you think she’ll do more than write, please contact the police and get everything on record.
    She’s the only one that seems to have a problem with you. If she was sane, that would tell her something.

  2387. After reading that, I had to go back and reread some of your postings from your book tours — just to reassure myself that you’ve been to the States, and so know that WE AREN’T LIKE THAT.

  2388. I am sending good thoughts your way. I am impressed by the way you have been handling this. Please know that your blog and books have given me a lot of joy. Thank you! Best from the Netherlands,
    Femke

  2389. Stephanie
    Good for you! Count me in the number who think you’ve done the right thing.
    ((((((((((( Yarn Harlot ))))))))))))
    – Pam

  2390. Hi Stephanie
    I really enjoy reading your blog and your books. You are inspirational and I’m truly sorry that this has happened to you. I hope that you can be encouraged by all the nice things people have said in their comments and not be discouraged by one mean person. I’m always impressed by the comments you post on Canada Day and (I’m not Canadian) I always learn a bit more about your beautiful country.

  2391. Love what you write Steph. Some of your posts have had me in stitches and in tears laughing my head off. Appreciate all that you share with us and your high integrity throughout 🙂

  2392. Reminds me of my favorite Mark Twain quote:
    “Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand.”
    –Mark Twain
    May your life be filled with more laughter, less crud.

  2393. I’ve enjoyed your blog for a few years now and never left a comment before, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you’ve had to put up with this abuse. I hope that we’ll all get the opportunity to enjoy your observations on the lighter side of knitting for years to come.

  2394. I am just gobsmacked by the idiocy of some people. I *almost* feel sorry for this tragically bored woman, but not quite.
    You’re fabulous, Stephanie, and everybody with three brain cells knows that.

  2395. Stephanie,
    Thank you for being such an example of honesty, tolerance and love in a difficult situation, and for being a regular source of joy in my life. Don’t listen to those critical inner voices either!
    Lots of love,
    Tracy

  2396. Wow. Just wow. Like so many others who have commented, I just wanted to send best wishes and much love from an American. Just because you love your country doesn’t mean you hate ours, and we know that and love you for it. (America and Canada are neighbors for cryin’ out loud!) Oh well… Happy Belated Canada Day!!

  2397. Nothing to add to what hasn’t already been said – just wanted to add my weight to the above.

  2398. To quote Preacher:
    “You have to be one of the good guys, because there’s far too many of the bad.”
    Keep being good, being shiny and being light. I’ll keep reading and loving your blog, and so will pretty much the entire knitting community.

  2399. It’s hard when you are being targeted by someone with this kind of mental illness. Which I’m pretty sure it is. Sounds way too similar to the voice messages and occasional emails left my family by our psycho landlord about 5 years ago and he turned out to be certifiable. In an instance like this, there’s nothing to be done but exactly what you have done: try to cut off communications before a fire is started and, if they persist, realize you need to warn the community of which you are both a part, what is going on so they don’t get sucked into the psycho vortex inadvertently! Luck and love from yet another American who thinks that Canada (and Canadians)rock!

  2400. You should check out what tinkebell (www.tinkebell.com- an artist who did some pretty wonky stuff, like make a handbag out of her cat and stuff chicks (from an animal feed shop) with bouncy balls. Shouldn’t be too surprising that she received A LOT of hatemail) did with the hatemail she received 🙂 🙂
    (she and a writer friend traced 1000 hatemail senders, trawled the net for their personal info, and published the message and a picture of the sender in a book. As all the info was public you can apparently legally do so. It is quite interesting to see how normal these hatemailsenders look. And how bad their spelling is.)

  2401. Wow, she sounds mentally disturbed and deeply jealous. There’s no reasoning with that. You are utterly amazing for all the reasons everyone has said here…all just by being you! Best wishes.

  2402. Stephanie, I’m so sorry that your wonderful blog has attracted the attention of this person. As you’ve said, this person obviously has a huge empty space in her life, and has incited others to join in with her nastiness (her comment re “her” IT guy and his friends). It’s so hugely hurtful when someone deliberately takes pleasure in attacking us personally, more especially so when we’ve done nothing to deserve it.
    I think the huge amount of comments on this particular entry, supporting you and condemning the actions of this very sad person, demonstrates irrevocably how much we all appreciate your blog, your un-erring honesty and the delightful way you share not only your knitting life with us, but your home life too.
    You are a good person, that much is obvious from everything you’ve written, both here and in your published works. You are unbiased, have a dry and intelligent sense of humour, and are unfailingly a good point in my day. No matter how difficult a day I’m having, I can turn to your blog or your books and know that I’ll find a kindred spirit, and that I’ll also be able to rustle up a smile too.
    Keep writing, keep blogging, and keep positive – this person will be sad her whole life if this is how she treats someone as nice as you. The Lady will bring her all she deserves, I know this with complete certainty.
    Chin up, Stephanie – you are loved, not just by those whom you love, but by a vast network of people you’ve never met and may never encounter outside cyberspace, but you are loved, remember that. x

  2403. This is horrible: I donated to MSF yesterday so good things could come from this nasty situation. Focus on your many achievements, and the wall of love there is here for you whenever things get a bit shitty.

  2404. well, that person is probably very sick…
    sorry she seems to think you’re the devil and cause of all her problems. The best thing to do is ignore her.

  2405. Dear Stephanie,
    Just a short note to let you know that reading your blog whilst drinking a cup of coffee is how I start my average workday. The caffeine combined with your posts is the perfect kickoff for the day. You’re an inspiration, knitwise and personalitywise. Keep up the good work!!
    Best wishes from The Netherlands

  2406. I have been reading your blog for a couple of years now; I don’t comment much at all, but just want to let you know that I love reading about your adventures, both knitting and otherwise, and you seem to me to be a lovely, funny, sensitive, kind, gentle and thoughful person. Keep up the good work! Much love from Australia, Louise X

  2407. I’m glad you went to the authorities. Apart from the whole nastiness/defamation/trying to destroy your reputation thing, she sounds completely unbalanced. Keeping you & your family safe is the most important thing.
    Somtimes I think Internet access should be limited to people who aren’t trying to use it for evil.

  2408. This American loves your blog! Aside from all the knitting fun stuff, I have learned more about Canada than I ever knew, and I like that!

  2409. I can’t really add much to what has been said, but wanted to say that you are right to stand up to what is just plain and simple bullying. I am really sorry you are having to go through this, and agree with others that this woman does not sound mentally well, even if that knowledge does not stop the hurtful tirade.
    I only hope things get better and she goes away now!

  2410. I hardly ever comment, but I thought I should, just to say – good for you! It sounds like the problem is with her, rather than with you. I hope she can access the help she clearly needs.

  2411. Steph, I applaud your grace in handling this situation. My initial reaction – as I’m sure most would have – was to go after this woman but you’re absolutely correct in thinking that it would only fan the flames.
    I have never taken anything you’ve said as being anti-American nor found any messages of hatred in your posts. I don’t have the opportunity to read your blog every day but I do read it from time to time and am always amused or touched in some way. Your post about a friend who died a few years ago caused me to reconnect with several people who’d touch my life but with whom I’d lessened contact, as many of us do in our “busy” lives. None of us are so busy that we need to forget about our friends and you reminded me of that. For that alone, I thank you. For the rest, thank you for the laughs. They’re always appreciated.
    I’m trying very hard to not say anything negative about this woman and, though it is difficult, I will refrain. Enough people have already said what I’m thinking so my desire to blast her would only serve my own needs and give her something more to rant about.
    As for comments of Christianity, any non-Christian reading this woman’s inflammatory comments might think twice before coming to ‘the other side’. If that’s how a ‘good’ Christian acts, then no thank you. (I know this to not be the case but there *are* a few out there who spoil the batch for the rest.)
    All that said, it was a pleasure to meet you at last year’s I Knit day in London. I found you to be a truly lovely person, full of charm and humor, and full of enough energy to handle the queue (that stretched around the building, if you recall) of people who wanted you to sign their books.
    Sending love (and a donation),
    An American living in England who loves everyone as long as they understand that my life is my life and that if I’m not doing anything to hurt them, I have the right to do just that.

  2412. Really sorry to hear you are having so much grief. Your blog is awesome and it’s a shame that someone can spoil something in this way.

  2413. I read your page daily and it helps keep me sane 🙂 You are a generous, talented and much loved person; you have dealt with an intolerable situation with honesty and kindness; thank you for being YOU Stephanie.
    Hugs
    Alex

  2414. Hi Steph,
    By the standards of many here I’ve not been reading your blog that long (since January last year), but then I haven’t been knitting that long either (since January last year!). I found you shortly after I was inspired (by Jane Brocket at Yarnstorm’s book The Gentle Art of Domesticity) to start, found some blogs and got to you, I think, via the Mason-Dixon gals. I’ve been reading ever since.
    I comment now and again (I’m the Irish girl – or one of them, there are more I know because you were mentioned at the very first Knit Night I attended a few weeks ago), but I read every week. And I had to come out along with everyone else here because sometimes it seems it’s only the crazy/nasty/evil stuff that gets aired and the positive stuff stays unsaid. But of course I forgot what an outspoken bunch we knitters are!
    One of the (many) reasons I’ve embraced this lovely little craft/art/life of ours is because in a world with a little bit more anger, hate, stress, stupidity, ignorance and lack of humour than I’m really down with, knitting has always seemed like an activity that is about peace, love, calm, learning, the path to a wiser self and laughter (I’ve learned a lot about patience and not giving up in the last 18 months – I’ve also laughed, a lot – and much of it is down to you and the best of your fellow knitting bloggers). This creature sounds like her entire stash must be all tangled up in one big kerrrrrrazy knot.
    I’m picking up how little time you have right now and to think that you’ve had to waste one minute of your precious spare time when you’re not doing SS09 stuff to think about this or take action or delete another bloody stupid comment … life is too short, right?
    PS Following the sound positive vibes of alicepalace above me there and donating to MSF on Friday just as soon as I get paid! From evil comes da good …
    Hang on in there! xxxxx from Dublin
    (PPS The boyfriend and I are already planning how to arrange holidays and finances next year so as we can attend both Comic Con and Sock Summit 2010 – probably not something you want to think about right now! – I know you’ll approve though. And even if we book our flights way in advance and it turns out I can’t get tickets or entrance to classes, I don’t care. I’m going just to be there. And to show my boyfriend that there’s somewhere more nerdy and crazy – in a good way! – than Comic Con. I’ll have his Battlestar Galactica socks all knit up for him by then, I swear! Represent!)

  2415. I’m with you. Please don’t be discouraged by such crass, mean-spirited act of just one person. You have a lot of admirers around the world and I for one think your blog and your books are absolute treasure. Take care and carry on. Aporanee Schauer from Fairfax, VA

  2416. Adding one more voice to the choir. I am a Christian, American woman and find her comments deeply disturbing. She is clearly not in her right mind and in no way represents how Americans feel about you. Anyone who speaks with hate does not have the voice of God.
    I will remember you and your family in our prayers, that you might feel protected and at peace.

  2417. I am so sorry that you have had to endure such an awful episode, and hope that this in no way colours your opinion of the thousands of concerned individuals who love you and your writing- books/ blogs etc and how I in particular love the insight you give us into your life in another country. Please keep strong, and keep writing- my household love you. Nicole in Cheshire- UK.

  2418. Just want to add to the massive support you’re receiving. One of the many things I enjoy about your blog is the insight into life in Canada, quite apart from the wit and zany humour that so often brightens my day. And the phenomenal knitting output! I find you to be one of the most fair-minded and balanced of writers.

  2419. I have been reading your blog for a while. I am not American or Canadian, but I have lived in the US and have friends in both countries. I have never seen anything on your blogs that can be construed as anti-American. I am so sorry you are scared. I would be too. This woman is clearly dangerously deranged. Strenght and good luck to you. And your husband does not come across as a wimp.

  2420. I did not care for some of the points that you made in your Canada Day post, but I admire your patriotism. If we agreed on everything all the time, well, there wouldn’t be much to blog about, would there?
    I understand your frustration with this woman and agree with the previous posts that you should document and report this abuse – it could get uglier – as this woman may be unstable.

  2421. Good ol’ American white trash! I apologize for some of our fellow countrymen/women down here in the States. She is obviously mentally ill and very disturbed. I have never been offended by anything you have mentioned in your blogs about America or Americans. I hope this all goes away soon.

  2422. For every mean thing a person says, it takes 100 nice things said to erase it. I think you are well on your way with almost 3000 posts of encouragement (this one too!) and all of the love you will get at your appearances. I’m also glad that you’ve contacted the authorities. I hope that they can stop the abuse. Take care of your family with extra hugs. They’re probably as nervous as you are. Let me start you off: **HUG** -fom Lee Ann who never quite says it right-

  2423. Dear Stephanie,
    What resonated for me as I read your painfully honest post today was the place we go when something pushes the buttons and we go to that dark place of self doubt. For me, I like to think that I’ve ‘disconnected’ these buttons over the years, but every now and again something happens that brings me back to that place that I thought was a distant bad memory.
    There’s a great quote by Dr. Wayne Dyer “Our greatest teachers are sometimes disguised as petty tyrants.” I think on that often when I am in that place. I do believe the Universe sends us only love and lessons, albeit they may be disguised as petty tyrants.
    You may not know what the lesson is for you right now, but I trust that in time it will become clear.
    I know you know this, but I can never hear it enough: you are not what other people think/say of you. Sometimes, you are not who you think you are. You are perfect in love.
    For me, these situations occur when I am needing a lesson in compassion, which I can lack at times in my impatience. Thank you for sharing this difficult situation, as you have created compassion for me today.
    I send you Peace, Love & Compassion,
    Laura

  2424. I am so sorry to read about this.
    You share your life with everyone (and the truck and the snow entry did so make me laugh and think there but the for the grace of God…). I don’t always agree with you but I respect your view and your right to speak about this.
    i would echo what others have said. I can cope with personal abuse but when if it went beyond me to my family then that’s unacceptable. Take action and take care

  2425. I’ll be sending a donation to Knitters without Borders in you name.
    Take care and keep your head up high!

  2426. I have always been a fan of if you don’t like what your read on a blog, then don’t read it.
    Sorry this happened to you. Sounds to me like someone just needs a little attention.

  2427. I’ve been a long time fan but this is the first time I’ve ever left a comment. I just wanted to tell you how much enjoyment you’ve given me over the last several years. I love your blog and your books. Because of them I’ve not only been entertained, but encouraged to try new things in my knitting. One of my goals is someday to actually be able to meet you at one of your book signings and say thank you in person.

  2428. Steph,I am so sorry that something like this has touched your life. She obviously does NOT speak for “all Americans”. Thanks for always staying on the high road, making us laugh and going on (and on) about knitting. Lots of Love and Light….

  2429. I’m another reader who has never commented before, but need to send you hugs from across the border and tell you how much I enjoy your books and your blog and thank you for sharing bits of your life and thoughts with me. I’m from Buffalo so you know to us Canada is were we spend our summer vacations (Crystal Beach), go for the best Chinese food, take visitors on the prettiest and cleanest drive along the river to view the best side of the Falls and have a shared celebration of Canada Day and the Fourth at the Friendship Festival. I know all the words to both National anthems since they are both usually played before the Sabres games, our Buffalo Bills are now yours,also and I don’t consider it beer if it’s not Canadian. So when the stupid and thoughtless in the US insult Canadians, I feel it, too.
    Keep smiling.

  2430. Dear YH
    Dreadful stuff. No one deserves such treatment. Must be illegal, surely it is unprovoked abuse and harassment etc. Clearly this person is not well, or is just an appalling bigot ( which is far worse ). Good luck out to you Stephanie x

  2431. This is my first comment in all the years I’ve been reading you too. Good for you – we Australian knitters love you too!

  2432. I am really very sorry you and your family have had to go through this. I think you are doing the right thing, although it must be very difficult(but it really sounds like you are dealing with a person with some sort of mental health problem here; it’s not you, she’s just fixated there). You have all my support and admiration. I hope this gets over soon and you and we can get back to your wonderful posts about life in Canada and your fabulous family!

  2433. Dear Stephanie;
    This woman is with all honesty grossly disturbed. The poor thing probably needs some sort of psych. evaluation.
    Never the less, anything that threatens, you, your family,or friends needs to be reported.
    You have been the picture of dignity and grace. YOu have shared moments of your life with all of us, and have been a source of good humor, and knitting inspiration. We got your back
    Good on ya
    Carolyn

  2434. Dear Stephanie,
    About four months ago I decided to start at the beginning and read through all of your archives. I read nonstop for hours at a time (I was going to say religiously, but I am disgusted by what has been said and done in the name of religion) and I have caught up, finally, to where I had started to follow your blog regularly last year. The intensity of the experience was tremendous. It was like reading an autobiography, but much more current and personal and connected to my own life. I came out of it feeling like we were friends, although we have never met or even conversed, and I found myself wanting to talk to you, as friends do. I even had to restrain myself from leaving comments on old posts! (I was going to make a joke about how I feel somewhat like a stalker, since I now know so much about you and your family, and besides you have used a similar joke, but now it just seems like that is in bad taste.)
    Most days the first thing I do when I get up is see if you’ve posted yet (three hour time difference, you know) and there’s many a day I just have to share your blog with my friends and family, muggles or not, whether they get it or not, or I might burst!
    And I adore your Canada Days. As a people we Americans are woefully ignorant of your country’s history and culture, and I for one appreciate your input, as well as your obvious love of your country. How that could be misinterpreted is beyond me.
    Know that we support you. Your wit and humor, and the joy and love and beauty that you see in the world have brought together a huge number of people from all over who, although different, feel a connection, a community, a strength in numbers. I am grateful to be part of it, and hope you understand how important you are to so many of us.
    I am sorry for how difficult this time has been, and am so impressed with your strength and the intelligence with which you handle the situation. Stay in the light always. Take a look at the ever increasing number of comments to see how many of us care.

  2435. Here’s an American who adores you! I can’t believe what you have had to go through. You have much more intelligence and class that that woman. Know that you have thousands that support and love you.

  2436. This is the first time I am commenting, even though I’ve been reading your blog for a long time. I live in Germany and me and my friends love your books, love your blog and I think you are a wonderful person.

  2437. Wow….this woman is really angry about something. Shine a light on it is always the best way to go. Look at all the support you are getting and focus on that. I am an American and my family has been just this side of the Canadian border since the 1700’s (you know when that spot of trouble happened). And I totally love your Canada Day blog entries. And your husband Joe, and your parenting skills, and your beer. And your socks. And your books. I’m running out this weekend to buy more McFee books as Christmas gifts to show my support.

  2438. Dear Stephanie,
    Words fail me…this person certainly does not speak for all Americans. I am a proud conservative American who thinks that you are a bright, articulate, gentle and loving Canadian. Keep on that high road you have chosen and know that not all of us (as you can see by the number of comments) think like her. Rest assured that she will get no attention from any of us. Chin up! Keep moving forward.

  2439. Stephanie, as always, I am impressed with the way you take the high road, explaining and laying out your side, without vilifying. I have seen a lot of internet wankery out there, and this woman’s continued harrassment of you is unconscionable. I agree that you should seek the advice of law enforcement to protect yourself; what she is doing is illegal in the US.
    I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate not only your intelligence, kindness, and humor, but also your Canadian perspective. As a US citizen living abroad, I find it fascinating to learn about other cultures and political systems. You are an excellent ambassador for your nation, and you should be proud of that fact. Thank you for continuing to post, and to invite us into your life on a regular basis. It is a privelege.

  2440. Just wanted to offer my support. I don’t post that much on your blog but read it religiously. And yes, I am an American and I do not find your posts to be anti-American. I find your Canada Day posts to be educational and downright funny. Thanks for all the laughs! Never stop writing! 🙂

  2441. Please don’t let a deranged reader drive you off the deep end. As an American I’m both embarrased and kind of shocked in general at her angry tirades. WTF? Here’s a hug for you and your family. As a regular reader, Ive learned never to drink anything (especially my Diet Coke) while reading your blog. Carbonation through the nose is not pleasant!
    Don’t stop writing! ever!

  2442. I am so very sorry. As a woman, as a Christian, as an American, as someone who so thoroughly enjoys the internet and the windows it has opened, and in so many other capacities, I am sorry.
    Some people are ignorant and stupid and then there are those who are just nasty. And, unfortunately, they will continue to be ignorant, stupid and nasty. However, you will be able to hold your head high. Continue to take the high road, you have all of us with you!

  2443. Wow, over 2700 supportive comments. Surely you have felt all the love and warmth that has come your way and is truly deserved. You are a gifted person and unfortunately this bring out the ugly jealousy beast in some who have hate in her soul.
    Love your blog, read it almost every day, love your books. Stand tall Steph, we are with you.
    Another proud to be Canadian.

  2444. I’m only about the 2500th person to say this but as a Christian American I do not feel you have said anything anti American, anti Christian or offensive here on your blog or in your books. I don’t want to inflame by saying more but I’ll leave it as this…
    I hope she gets help and I hope you are able to find peace either with her, around her or with her just finally leaving you alone.
    We support you.

  2445. She certainly doesn’t speak for her ‘fellow Americans’ in any way. And I’m highly amused by the comment about being insulted in your Canada Day post and ‘anti-Americanism’, but goes on to attempt to insult you because she’s a ‘Christian’ and therefore better than you. ROFL.
    People on the internetz are crazy!

  2446. As you can see, some of us Americans do think you are pretty un-evil. Thank you for being you. 🙂

  2447. Wow.
    I am so sorry you have had to deal with this situation. It has clearly been a difficult time and I hope it will not continue any longer. Thank you for being so mature, upfront and honest about it.

  2448. As an American, I’d like to join the chorus of “she don’t spe@k for me!”
    Love the blog; love the books; just recently deleted your appearance on Knitty Gritty to make room on the DVR, but loved that as well.
    Keep up the good work! Someday I hope to be able to give you “kudos” in person.
    d~
    Connecticut, USA

  2449. Whoa! This lady needs to be in a mental hospital. I am an American, a Christian and very liberal in my political views and I know you love Americans! Heck, every time you visit our country you say how much you love us.
    We love you, know you are witty and nice. Meeting you in person was one of the best things that has happened to me. You are so real and genuine. Ignore the one poison person and remember 99.999999999% of us are backing you 150%.

  2450. Having skimmed the first several hundred comments here I think if there ever was any doubt that there are plenty of reasonable Americans and Christians (of all varieties) in the world who can understand the concept of liking countries other than America without being omg offended.
    Chin up, Harlot, this is one bad egg out of a massive clutch of people who, whether or not they agree with everything you say (and I don’t always agree with your views, although I respect your right as another person to hold them), enjoy and respect your work.
    S/he’s clearly not read the bits of the Bible with Jesus in it, ’cause he was definately more about forgiving than smiting. An abusive relative who used her Christianity like that drove me straight into Paganism, so s/he’s only harming hir own cause, mouthing off like that.

  2451. Harlot, You make the world a better place. My repesct, admiration, and love of your work is renewed every time I visit your blog or read your books. Keep the love, and know that I and thousands of your fans are sending you goods thoughts and mountains of love. Dawn

  2452. Unbelievable. I think you’re terrific, I’ve bought your books and love your blog.. I’ve never read anything anti-American or any other negative things by you… Just some poor sicko. You go girl.
    p.s. I wish you’d come to New Jersey!

  2453. You make an enormous positive difference to so many people. I love your skills,your passion and your approach to life and knitting!
    Thank you for being a shining light when I was sitting in the bottom of a black hole two years ago. You made me laugh. Keep going!
    janie b. Western Australia

  2454. She must have a rich and fulfilling life, mustn’t she?
    I hope it’s resolved soon, and meanwhile, hugs 🙂

  2455. From another American, I most certainly do not agree with this awful woman’s words or actions. I have been following your blog since becoming a knitter last year and have never found you to be anti-American. As another poster said we may not always agree with everything you think but isn’t that the beauty of being people. We don’t have to agree on everything but we can still love and respect one another. Heck I don’t agree with everything my hubby says but I still love and respect him…Keep your chin up and know that I personally am in awe of how well you are handling all of this.

  2456. Aww Jeez Steph:
    What a thing to deal with. I guess by now you realize how loved you are and how many days have been ightened by reading your wise, funny and delightful blog. I can only add my voice to the large numbers of people who are wishing you well during this craziness. It’s a shame that this woman, instead of seeking help, is dumping on someone in such a cowardly way. I agree, as do experts, that the best action is to ignore the sender. Engaging only encourages. My best to you and your wonderful family. Hang in there!

  2457. Sending you all the support, care, and strength I can as you deal with this situation… I simply don’t understand why some people think aggression, antagonism, and name-calling are an appropriate way to air differences. As a Christian and an American, I can personally say I respect your tolerance of different peoples and viewpoints–and I wish everyone were as open minded. I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but I’m one American who will be behind you all the way.
    Here’s to approaching an extremely trying situation with poise and maturity!

  2458. Dear Stephanie,
    First of all, let me tell you that I am fairly conservative with my political views and I’m an American. I grew up with my dad in the army so our family tends to lean toward the Republican views. With that being said, I am also fairly open to others views. In fact I love hearing the other side of an argument. I don’t think one can learn if they can’t hear opposing thoughts. I also married a man that is a complete opposite to my political views, he is a democrat and is pro-union. I know shocker.
    The reason for all of this history about me, is because you have NEVER EVER said anything that I felt disserved 1/10 of the treatment that you have received from this mean, vile person. She is not a Christian and I really hate when people throw the “I”m a Christian” when they are so clearly not acting like one.
    This person is an excellent example of how we can the “Ugly American” term thrown out us. This woman needs a old tar and feathing.
    I love the blog, the books and I feel like I know you even if we haven’t met in person. I’m an sending you a cyber hug.

  2459. Wow. Nicely handled.
    Thank you for all you have done for our community of knitters and human beings. Looking forward to many more blog posts, books, and whatever comes next!

  2460. I just wanted to add another voice of love and support. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

  2461. Dear Stephanie,
    I credit you with an awful lot of good in my life. I discovered Ravelry through you & it’s changed my creative life. You are a wonderfully balanced, creative & intelligent presence in this Wonderful World.
    Respectfully – Semper Fi!

  2462. Some people are just not happy unless they’re miserable. Maybe you should post who she is so she can try a taste of her own medicine from some of your fans.
    Keep your chin up and don’t let the bastards get you down, Stephanie.

  2463. I have only read a few of the comments that have been left and I think you have the support that you need … you have lots of fans both Canadian and American … keep up the good work.

  2464. Wow, that’s…. Wow. I know people have been crazy on the internet since practically before there was an internet, but that’s some concentrated crazy right there. You’re a better person than me for trying to diffuse the situation, rather than launching an attack. Someone mentioned contacting her ISP, that’s a good idea, I think. Also, you could contact whoever hosts her blog, because she might be violating the ToS. Oh, she might also be violating Twitter’s ToS. Anyway, good luck, you rock.

  2465. “Hyena” is a good word for her, although I can’t think of one other American who’d be laughing with her. I rarely comment on your blog but I do read it daily. You are smart, funny, clever, entertaining, beautiful, kind, gentle…need I go on? Dig a little deeper past your inner voice and you’ll know all these things to be true. Don’t let one knit-wit make you second-guess what you truly are. (Tee hee hee…knit-wit!) She obviously needs our thoughts and prayers to find help and peace for herself.

  2466. I just love these people who put on such an exhibition of what Christians are. Why would anyone want to be one when they behave like this AND hang a big ol’ jesus on their behavior. If Jesus was real, he would banish her from the temple. Not to mention that Americans like her are part of why I wish I was Canadian. She obviously does not have enough to do with her time.

  2467. A quick note from yet another lurking American who enjoys your writing and admires your restraint in the way you’ve handled this situation. Hang in there, Steph….you obviously have the support of many friends!

  2468. “If you don’t respond to slander it gets returned to the sender.”
    Having been through a similar ordeal – not once but twice and publicly, too – you have my compassion, Steph.
    In the end, in both cases, I decided to not put more energy into getting someone to see the light. It wasn’t worth the energy spend and also I decided that if I didn’t let them get me down I would have ‘won’ and they would have ‘lost’. In both cases, when the slanderer kept dirtying me in public they ended up looking ridiculous and insane.
    One person lost what he was trying to hold on to by slandering me and the other has managed to alienate all her friends by her slandering of me.
    You will get through this, too, Steph, and will become stronger for it, like I did.
    I am new to your blog, enjoy it a lot, you have me rolling on the floor laughing my head off at times and I enjoy your common sense.
    Gitte, Iceland

  2469. I am glad you are taking measures against her. I am glad you are taking the high road. I am glad you are asking us all to do the same. I am glad you are Canadian ( I have learned a lot ). But most of all I am glad you share your life with us. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  2470. She is the kind of “American” that makes the rest of us cringe. I love Canada! We spent our 2 weeks of vacation touring around Canada this summer, and can’t wait to return next summer.

  2471. Wow. Just wow.
    Here’s to you being the bigger person. I have enjoyed and will continue to enjoy reading your blog.

  2472. I have read your blog for a while, but never commented. I’d just like to let you know that you are completely supported. This woman has written some very disturbing things, disturbing enough that the authorities should probably be called. We back you up all the way. Please don’t lose heart—she is just one person.

  2473. Oh well about 2800 comments against one not to be named woman…nah…not worth it. You’re still a funny knitting beloved woman and be save stephanie. Take further steps when needed and I’m thinking off police and informing the provider.
    Take care, hugs.
    valeria.

  2474. You are loved. You have really earned the love of the knitting community; please don’t forget that for a second.
    You are loved.

  2475. I find it ironic and amusing in a sad sort of way that while accusing you of nationalism she is displaying a far more vehement, violent, and dangerous sort of nationalism than I have ever heard you espouse. Unfortunately these are the sorts of people that also seem to make it on the news in our country and have their voices heard more often. I hope things settle down for you and your family. As a soon to be mother I only hope I can be as good of a mom as you appear to be. We Americans love you! I find your books highly amusing and found you very charming when I met you at one of your speeches. Keep up the good work. 🙂

  2476. I think you handled this ugly situation well. Also as an American I want you to know that the person in question does not speak for all of us. I enjoy your blog posts and all of your books.

  2477. I haven’t read all 2700 comments. And I know you didn’t post that blog entry just for all of us to jump to your defense. And someone else may have already pointed this out but…
    anytime you are feeling a bit down think about the Sock Summit and the server crashing. You don’t get traffic like that just because a few knitters had nothing better to do that weekend and decided “Eh, why not? Guess I’ll make a sock.”
    I am glad you let us know what is going on.

  2478. Last time I checked (and my husband is a minister, so I’m in church fairly regularly!) Jesus was all about compassion, love and forgiveness. I’d say as a beer-drinking ‘heathen’ you are acting like more of a ‘Christian’ that the rabid e-mailer. Hang in there and know that the love and support you have from fellow knitters far outweighs the spite of a few crazies. We appreciate your honesty, your humour and your knitting mojo.
    Love from a fellow Canuck.

  2479. Gosh, I’m so sorry this woman did this! She is clearly mentally unwell. Also, don’t Google anti-harlot to try to find this woman, as she put up a computer virus on a “Harlot Anti-American” website. It started scanning my computer…curiosity killed the cat (and hopefully I stopped the program in time). This woman is out of control! I hope that you know that I love and support your blog, and your humor has inspired me pursue a career in hand knitting instruction, while I stay at home with my small children. Keep on doing what you are doing!!!

  2480. I’ve spent a day digesting this and I knew I wanted to say something to you. By all the comments I think you know how appreciated you are for your blog, books and general outlook on life. You make a lot of people happy. Consider yourself “air hugged”.

  2481. It is kind of ironic that the astounding amount of comments shows how positively most of us think of you but brings attention to this person at the same time. Stephanie, please don’t let this get you down. So many of us read you daily, and see only the love with which you practice your crafts, both knitting and blogging. Not to mention the love you put into your family. Keep on keepin’ on.

  2482. Crazy is alive and well and living in America and other places I’m sure. Needless to say Steph, she is “fringe” and doesn’t speak for me or the vast majority of us I imagine. I for one really appreciate your pride in your country and the perspective you bring with it. I think it is really interesting that some Americans find when traveling that, no, people in other countries don’t want to trade passports with you and are equally proud of their roots as we are of ours. She is obviously a disturbed individual and I’m going to choose to pray for her to find peace. You are amazing and appreciated and I am stunned at what you are going through. Best wishes, Steph.

  2483. Oh Steph! I can only assume this woman is in need of serious psychiatric attention, as there are definite delusional tendencies at work there. Either that or she is a truly vitrolic woman with nothing else in her life to give her joy. If it’s the latter then I feel very sorry for her. If it’s the former then I hope she will get some help and realise what harm she has caused.
    Steph, keep doing what you do, you are respected and admired by so many.

  2484. Wow. That woman is pathetic. Keep up the good work, Stephanie, and don’t let her drag you down. Just use yarn therapy – that log cabin blanket will be done in no time!

  2485. I have read through many of these comments. Don’t say you are sorry you’re an American! Say you’re sorry that some crazy psychos are American! (And some are Canadian, I assume.) Ms. Stephanie, you are quite cherished and the entire population of some small towns is telling you that. Perhaps you can put blinking lights and neon signs around her comments that all say “LOOK AT ME! I am TOTALLY important!” Then we know what not to read. 😉

  2486. Wow. I have always enjoyed reading your blog, and I own each of your books. You are a kind, generous, warm, thoughtful, funny and thought provoking person. I do not always agree with everything you say, but you are about as anti-American as Abraham Lincoln.
    I am a Christian, and an American, and I am sorry and embarrassed by this woman who is currently representing us. She is not representative of Americans or Christians, and I thank you for treating her with kindness and respect.
    This lady is clearly very sick, and I will pray for both of you. For you, that you will get all the support, love, and strength you will need to see this through, and for her that she gets the help she clearly and desperately needs.
    Thank you again for your wonderful posts, for being a light in the world, and an inspiration to us all about treating one another with respect.

  2487. I am so sorry to hear that you’ve had to deal with this nutcase. How on earth does being a proud Canadian make you anti-American? It’s creatures like that who make me embarrassed at times to be an American. I have often been struck with your good sense, maturity, and ability to focus on the important things in life. Like beer, hockey, and yarn 😉 Please don’t let this thing get to you unduly, but keep yourself and your loved ones safe. Hang in there, and know that you are appreciated and admired by thousands of people.

  2488. This “lady” is making Americans look great-thanks to her for that! Fortunately, the “crazies” are few and far between. I think it is quite scary for you though and hope you have reported her to authorities. She is a sad individual who needs counseling-I hope she gets help!!!! I hope you will continue your witty blog as it makes me smile on a daily basis:)

  2489. I don’t even know what to say…I’m so sorry that you have to experience such nastiness.

  2490. As another American, Christian knitter and reader, I had to chime in and say she does not represent me, either.
    She does, in fact, embarrass me. If she represents the love of Christ and the openness and tolerance of America, then I will have to cease being either. Is there room for me in Canada?

  2491. As an American knitter living in Canada, I’d like to say that MOST of us still believe in the right to free speech. It shames me that there are people in my country – no, not just my country, but on the entire PLANET – who think they have the right to treat other people so badly just because of a dissenting opinion. Let’s just hope she burns herself out soon so you can put her out of your mind for good!

  2492. Forget her! She’s a hater. In this world of open communication and freedom of speech she chooses to spew hate and disrespect. Not worth the energy or the oxygen. Sorry the US has been so poorly represented. We’ll all need some serious knit time to get past this one…..

  2493. Longtime reader, etc.etc. I totally agree…this woman does not speak for all Americans or all Christians. I seriously doubt that she speaks for, or to, anyone but herself.
    However..I agree with the previous posters who say that you should deal with security issues, though. While this woman herself may not be willing to bother you in Canada, there is a (tiny, non-representative) group of people who will take her branding you an enemy of America or Christianity as a license to harass you. This is a particular issue at sock summit, where your schedule is published all over the place. Please be careful!
    We support you!

  2494. Stephanie, you are 100% a wonderful person. I’m looking forward to your blogs on the bikerally, the Sock Summit, the “boring” blanket and all the other marvelously entertaining posts you give us. BTW, I’m making a baby moderne for a new niece. Love your blog, and by extension, having never met you, love you.

  2495. Good grief. I am so sorry you’ve had to put up with this. I think your blog is great and look forward to reading your good natured, witty outlook on life and knitting. Don’t you hate it when people use religion as an excuse for horrible behavior?

  2496. De-lurking to add my voice to the crowd. There is nothing wrong with you, your blog, or the way you write. May your voices of self doubt be drowned out by the honest praise here in the comments. We read because your writing has touched all of us, in some way or another, with every post. Keep your chin up. Think of servers crashing, of Bestseller lists, and of socks to be knit. Be done with this.

  2497. I’m sure I’m repeating what other people have said, and I’m a few days behind…but wow!
    I am truly embarrassed that this person was an American. I have learned a lot about Canada from reading your blog, and you are not anti-American, just proud of your own country. That’s like me being proud of my Italian heritage, I’m not against anyone else, I just like being Italian.
    I do hope that this gets better. I’ll make sure to send good vibes. Wisconsin isn’t too far for that sort of thing right?

  2498. Another thought – so many people here get married by judges and justices of the peace, with no churching involved. I wonder how she feels about all of those, perfectly legitimate marriages? After all, if you are making a mixed marriage, sometimes they are the only ones willing to officiate.
    As an American, this woman embarrasses me. I don’t see anything wrong with someone from Canada being nationalistic, any more than I would hope people don’t mind us USA folk being nationalistic. Somewhere that’s part of patriotism and I’d think you a turncoat if you were not proud of your country!
    Y’all just don’t pay her no nevermind, heah?

  2499. Her blog is so easy to find and in reading it, one realizes how capital N nutty she is. In deference to your wishes, I’m not posting the address nor have I commented on her blog.
    By the way, I really don’t see her issue with the Canada Day post. Where have Americans been insulted by you in any way? A lot of the quotations are from famous Americans!
    Guess I’m just one of your “minions” – even if I don’t always agree with your views, disagreement is healthy.

  2500. I have never felt that you were anti-American. Sending you positive thoughts, love, and respect from NY.

  2501. She left a comment at 2:56am. I followed it to her blog. I was stunned to see that she lists her occupation as an RN. One would think that a person who cares for sick and injured people would be more compassionate and kind. She is full of hate and vitriol. Time to get her blocked permanently, notify her server, the authorities and let them handle it. She is a bully and needs to be stood up to.

  2502. I can’t believe what you have been going through. You have done the right thing, making things upfront to all instead of shouldering this burden
    by yourself. You have done NOTHING wrong. Hugs.

  2503. I’ve been reading for years, I look forward to your blog posts as a high light to the day. Bravo to you for handling this so well. Sending warm knitted hugs to you.

  2504. Stephanie, you have made knitting so much more fun than it was 30 years ago when I first learned it. I’ve enjoyed your blog so much, and I embarrassed to say that my first thought was a selfish one…I was afraid you were pulling the blog. Now that I know you’re not doing that, I want to say that you are absolutely my favorite person I’ve never met and I’m so sorry you’re going through all this! That you have continued your blog and never gave a hint of something being wrong is a real testament to your strength to rise above this. I really want to know who this woman is so I can send her a COEXIST sticker. I’m a proud Jewish-American and can only say that it’s so obvious this person has some real issues that we probably know nothing about. As others said, go get your knitting, preferably cashmere, grab a beer, and know that so many Americans love you so much!

  2505. And she says she’s a Christian? Give me a break. Americans love you. That bitch is just looney tunes.

  2506. Stephanie, I love your blog and your books. I think you’re awesome. I am someone who had no knitting friends for years and I looked on your books and blog as my friend and teether to the knitting world. That person is not representative of us all, I’m an American, I love your Canada Day posts, I understand that by loving one country it does not mean that you do not love another one too. I am also a Christian and as a Christian I respect the views of others, I’m sorry she does not. The fact that someone is out there posting like this, as if it were the viewpoint of us all is an embarrassment to me.
    Regards,
    Deb.

  2507. As an American woman who considers herself a Christian, I am SO embarassed by this woman’s horrible behavior. I look forward to your posts about Canada because I think the subtle differences between two neighbors is so interesting. Thank you for continuing to blog and write.

  2508. Wow, that lady needs to look in a mirror and see that she’s the cursing, rude, violent one and not you.
    Heaps of love being sent your way from this Canadian-loving American.

  2509. From Pittsburgh Pennsylvania – Reading your blog is one of the high points of my day. To think that someone would try to hurt you in this manner is totally unbelievable. As an American I am so offended by her behavior. Don’t let her rob the world of your unique take on life. Love you!

  2510. That “Christian” woman needs to go back and reread her Bible. Especially James 1:26 “If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless.” James 3:9-12 applies too, but is too long to quote here. It drives me nuts what un-Christian things things people will do in the name of being Christian.
    Peace to you Stephanie, and know that you are definitely taking the high road here.

  2511. I am an American.
    I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years.
    I seriously don’t recall any anti-Americanism statements by you, but if there were, perhaps I wouldn’t have taken them personally…because frankly, how you do or don’t feel about American folks matters not a whit to me…but that’s just me. I’d be interested to know who this person is (just for posterity), but don’t think I care enough to actually ASK you for the information. In any case, this person is stalking you and verbally assaulting you, and I can see why you’re becoming a little concerned about this other person’s “stability”. I would feel the same. I’ve lived with that sort of behavior, and it’s like being raped. He/She is trying to control you. Do whatever you have to, including speaking to hacker friends if you must, because he/she apparently has a few of those types of friends him/herself. There are ways to deal with people like that, so that they can’t hurt anybody else, and I would bet my last dollar that you are not the only one he/she directs his/her hatred to–not the first and certainly not the last. Giving heed to him/her in today’s post was probably the worst thing you could have done! And you will take note that I am not simply referring to your “harrasser” as a her…but there are many men on the internet who masquerade as women. Think about it.
    If a person will go to such lengths to make your life uncomfortable, imagine what they would do (and possibly are doing) to your REAL LIFE–what I mean by that is that if this person knows where you live, they could very well be stalking you NOW. But I don’t mean to frighten you…
    If you haven’t gone to the police, I suggest you do. While email can’t be used in a court of law due to the ability to EDIT on both sides, I recommend you ALLOW him/her to post and email all he/she wants. SAVE EVERYTHING, and just like you turn someone in for harrassment on the telephone, you would do well to turn in this person for email and internet harrassment. I do believe that there is recourse (at the very least) for that–and perhaps someday to make certain that he/she never provides you or anybody else with this sort of unwanted behavior.
    Your replies can be simply “GO AWAY”. You do not interest me. And LET everyone else see what an idiot he/she is by the comments he/she leaves.
    I think I’ve said enough. Guess I’ll be his/her next target, huh?

  2512. You’re one of my personal heroes Stephanie, not just for the knitting but for your integrity, honesty and compassion. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Also, are you sure that this is a woman?

  2513. take heart! i think the fact that almost 3000 people have posted in support of you far outways the negative impact of one …. “opinion”.

  2514. I will never understand why some people are driven to do and say such crazy things, and I’m terribly sorry that you’ve had to go through this. I hope she finally gives up on trying to torment you because there are so many of us who love reading your blog!!

  2515. I think I need to get new glasses because I haven’t seen any anti-American comments on your blog. This woman has obviously has dropped one too many stitches and certainly doesn’t represent the majority of you American fans. Keep blocking, don’t ever respond again and stay strong. No need for self esteem issues though your stalker seems to have a cart load of them.

  2516. I’ve also been reading your blog for ages and never commented before. You really have done the right thing. Hang on in there – and know that there are loads of us out here supporting you.

  2517. Kudos to you, Stephanie, for getting this out in the Light. Stay strong. You can do it. This American thought the Canada post was hilarious!

  2518. Holy crap. I am so, so sorry you are going through this. I hope for only good things for you and will keep you in prayers tonight because I can only imagine how stressful, unnerving, and aggravating this must be for you. Take care of yourself! We all care about you!

  2519. She does not represent Americans. As an American, her comments are VERY embarassing to me. I am so sorry. Not only is she giving us a bad name, but true Christians as well.
    Your humanism and humor make me laugh, cry, and realize that I am not the only busy wife/mother. It seems we go through all the same things. It’s nice to know we’re not alone.
    Much love and peace to you.

  2520. Is there some way to contact the FBI or some agency in the US that would do something about these attacks. I really am sorry for this horrible and insulting attack on you and your family. Obviously this person is mentally ill, and that is an understatement.

  2521. Wow. Just want to add mine to the long list of other American knitters who have already commented. I love your blog. Good for you. I’m ashamed for this woman.

  2522. Had no idea this abuse was happening to you Stephanie and yes this is abuse. Just found out this morning via another knitting blog.
    I met you at a book signing a few years ago in Cleveland. I did not buy a book to sign, just wanted to say thank you for the first Knitting Olympics. I knit Shedir for my best girlfriend from high school who was battling colon cancer at the young age of 35. You looked into my eyes, held my hand and shared my pain if only for a moment. We took a picture with your sock. That short interaction is a wonderful memory for me.
    Thank you for all that you do.
    I hope you can sit back and enjoy a tall frosty beer after this storm has passed. Cheers!

  2523. I just don’t get why some people like to hurt others. I will never understand. Just know that for every one person that is trying to hurt you there are 10,667 subscribers (just from Bloglines!) that are here to support you. We are here for you because we love what you do and who you are… keep it up!

  2524. Wow! I’m stunned that someone could be so hateful, hurtful, un-neighborly (our neighbors include other countries) and uncharitable…and call her self a Christian? I’ve been reading your blog for at least a year now and enjoy it even tho’ I’m a crocheter and not much of a knitter. I enjoy your humor and adventures in knitting. I hope you continue to delight us with your blog.

  2525. Sorry that you have to deal with this at all. This woman (unfortunately) lives up to the “Ugly American” stereotype. As an American, I am embarrassed by her behavior.

  2526. Stephanie – so sorry you have to put up with all this crap. Thank the goddess that she ain’t anti-British – well, she probably is – that sort is usually anti-everyone else. And if she is RN,then I would like to apolgise on behalf of my profession. Hugs’n’kisses from England…we are thinking of you, with love.

  2527. From one citizen of the world to another.
    you rock!
    and I am truly embarrassed for this person.

  2528. Stephanie, I am so sorry you have had to put up with this. This kind of insanity would make me ashamed to be an American, except that I know how rare it is. I know some people have said it’s offensive to call her “mentally ill” as it makes one think that all mentally ill people act this way, and they don’t of course. But there are many forms of mental illness, and this chickie has a couple of them. Threatening & stalking are NOT normal, nor are they signs of fanaticism. This person should be locked up. I hope you are talking to the RCMP about this and keeping records of everything.
    And as a few others have said – goodness, think how empty her life must be.

  2529. I am so sorry. I am also a conservative, Christian American, and she does not represent me. You taught me to knit, and I appreciate all you do. Keep strong!

  2530. I am also normally a silent reader. Stay strong, stay safe, and good move involving the authorities.

  2531. Hey – just wanted to say, hang on in there. There’s a reason why you are always the first blog I check in on when I’m on the internet, and why any kind of article over here in the UK mentions your website when they talk about knitting on the net, and its because you are one of the best and most inspiring knitters out there. And that’s not changed for all the time I’ve been reading you.
    Don’t let the you-know-whats grind you down.

  2532. Stephanie, As an American and a New Englander I have enjoyed your blog for quite some time now. You make me laugh and get teary eyed but I’ve never felt you slammed my country. I’ve enjoyed your Canada Day posts and have learned a lot about the country my dearest daughter-in-law comes from. Thanks for hanging in there – so very many love you. Jean/CT

  2533. I so enjoy reading your blog. Hold your head (and respect for yourself) high and know that by doing that, you’re the better person. Taking the high road says a lot about you.What a sick, sad person to attack you like this. I really do believe she is emotionally ill.
    I’m an American reader of your blog and “found” you thru my favorite MN yarn shop, The Yarnery. Know that people like me look forward to your marvelous and humorous writing, and that in time this attack will end.
    Thank you for sharing the good and bad with us.

  2534. Hi Stephanie,
    I read you regularly and comment rarely but I have to speak up here.
    1. Wait a minute. I thought Canadians (and citizens of Mexico and Central America and South America) were Americans as much as we citizens of the US. Don’t we all live in the Americas? We don’t just call the French “Europeans” or just the Chinese “Asians”. What’s up with that?
    2. I think it’s interesting to hear about Canada. I live 3 hours from the Canadian border so you all are not only my country’s close neighbor but also a personal neighbor. Thanks for letting me know about your country.
    3. I’m sorry about all this. You don’t deserve this. Actually, no one deserves this.
    4. I continue to wish you the best.
    5. Thanks for your Basic Sock Recipe. I use it often.

  2535. Dear Stephanie, don’t let this person take the joy out of your internet life. I’ve got your back down here in Massachusetts.

  2536. Reading your post made my heart so sad and heavy. I love your writings. You make me smile and laugh out loud. I appreciate you and am sorry that some people choose to take offense and proceed to “cyber-stalk” . . . Along with many others, you have my admiration and support. Hugs!

  2537. Normally, after so many comments I wouldn’t feel it necessary to say anything. But it is different this time. Even if this comment goes unread, it is one more voice from an American that LOVES your blog, LOVES her neighbors to the North (and south, since technically Windsor is just south of Detroit!) and LOVES your Canada Day posts and all of your Canadian nuggets of interest. Keep on Keeping on Steph. We love you.
    BTW, i am blown away at your moral integrity. i know i wouldnt have been able to keep my cool the way you have and not sink to a lower level. Please keep blogging!

  2538. YOU are fine. YOU cannot help someone who seems obviously obsessed and unbalanced. Take care of yourself and remember that for the overwhelming majority of your readers, your blog entries are an entertaining highlight to read. Take care.

  2539. I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives. I like to see a man live so that his place will be proud of him. ~Abraham Lincoln
    Stephanie, you always make me laugh. Sometimes you make me cry. And you have excellent taste in science-fiction. Besides your family, friends, and blog buddies, think about all the people of many nations that have been helped through you bringing attention to DWB. They hug you too.

  2540. Stephanie, I am sorry you have had to go thru this unpleasantness. Please know that not all Americans are like this.

  2541. I am so sorry you have been the target of such abusive venom. You are nothing short of an inspiration (for messy-haired, over-committed, stash-happy knitters such as myself, anyhow).
    I hope you can find peace and cold beer in these final days counting down to what is sure to be a triumphant sock summit.

  2542. Thank you for respecting the amorphous being that is your blog-following, by sharing your trouble in this post. I am sure that it was a difficult decision, since you generally swing for the optimistic side of the fence.
    Hopefully (in the truest sense of that oft-misused word), as a community we share an interest in a hobby/art/craft, as well as some common human values, as evidenced by the blog’s support of KWB/TSF. Of course we don’t share all the same opinions – that would be boring. Heck, we can’t even agree on “the” one way to cast on, and don’t even get some of us started on the circulars-vs-pointy-sticks debate. And I happen to believe that God made some of the animals tasty for a reason, while I respect (and will happily cook for) those who don’t share that belief.
    Stephanie, please don’t succumb to the bad habit that most of us have, of listening to those negative inner voices – and please feel free to use the technology at hand to block the external ones. Self-reflection on actions, for meditation, learning, and personal growth, is a good thing. Totally negative crap-dumping is not.
    And really – given the size of your readership, a few bad apples could almost be expected? Every group of people is going to have a few unhappy ones who need to act out or behave inappropriately. This woman likely has issues far beyond disliking your writing and not agreeing with her perception of your political and religious beliefs.
    Your grace-full and respect-full actions in this situation, specifically demonstrated by not naming the person, are consistent with what your writing and your actions tell us about you. You allow us to celebrate with you and with each other, and so thank you for allowing us the opportunity to comfort you in a time of some pain.
    p.s. while you often make me laugh out loud, my favourite piece of yours might be “One Sock”. If you had written nothing but that, I think your words would outlast you. Your books are good, and you are not repeating yourself.

  2543. my first ever comment, but I have been reading and thoroughly enjoying your blog for a while. Long may it continue!

  2544. Normally I wouldnt feel the need to comment after so many have, but this time is different. Even if this comment goes unread I feel it is important to show that one more American loves your blog, loves your Canada Day posts, loves her neighbors to the North and understands that patriotic pride for one’s country does not take away from the respect and love you may feel for another. I love the US, but ive been 20 minutes from Windsor all my life and i love Canada too.
    she doesn’t understand, love never detracts. it only grows. Keep your chin up Steph. You’re an amazing human being doing an amazing job. and thousands of people are behind you.

  2545. Dear Stephanie, I know how it is hard to deal with people like that because I had my own public blog Unfortunately people like that do give you a wake up call about how “public” your blog really is. Don’t let this discourage you or get to you (obviously it already did). The only way to make her disappear is to ignore her. You should have never sent a note to her. She was counting on it. Just breath in, breath out and ignore.

  2546. Dear Friend,
    I am joining that very large crowd of Americans who are horrified that someone would stalk you with an arsenal of hurtful words. Her self-esteem must be in the basement to need to inflict injury on someone from a position where she mistakenly feels “safe.” You are genuinely loved and respected in the US and around the world. Walk away from this troubled person, and let her rant to herself. We will ignore her, too. –Penny

  2547. Add me to the cast of thousands who enjoy every one of your blogs. Your Canada Day blogs are a favorite of mine. I’m just across the river from Windsor, Ontario and like most Americans know way too little about Canada.
    Keep up the good work! You constantly amuse me and inspire me. I’m 3/4’s done with my first lace shawl. I never would have attempted one without your blogs.
    Debbie
    Southfield, MI

  2548. All I can think of saying that hasn’t already been said is, “Oh, pooh.”
    Sorry that you had to put up with all this. And thanks for not abandoning us.

  2549. Holy crap! 2800+ comments!
    Your post is a reminder of how we all should live, every day. Thank you.

  2550. Whoa!! She certainly does NOT speak for Americans! I love your blog – even when I disagree, which is seldom. I love hearing about Canada. I love hearing about your knitting and your family and your writing. Please don’t let this SICK person get to you. Hang in there, Steph, we’re rooting for you!!
    Ruth

  2551. Dear Stephanie,
    You are amazing in the way you are handling all this and I hope that the sight of so many posts of support gives you comfort. Over the years your blog and books have made me laugh, cry and think deeply and I am very grateful for all the time and efforts you put in for us. Stay strong and know that there is a lot of love around you and all your family (including your big extended worldwide knitting family).
    Big hugs, Kath (a lesbian pagan knitter from Wales)

  2552. Not much more I can add, but I just wanted to let you know that I support you.

  2553. You are the reason I began knitting again after a 20 hiatus. Your humor has gotten me through many a dropped stitch! My grandmother told me that the only trees in the forest that survive the storms are those that can bend with the wind. You are a strong woman and I admire you! You have more support than you can possibly imagine.

  2554. Stephanie, I am so very sorry. Isn’t it amazing how one poisonous person can demolish the joy? I rarely, rarely post, but wanted to chime in saying I have never considered you anti-American or anti-ANYTHING, but actually think of you as a guiding light and role model, for many characteristics, not just knitting. Please allow the laughter you bring to those of us who are normally quiet to outweigh any nastiness.

  2555. Taking from Ravelry….
    love(infinity)
    Nobody deserves to be harassed, provoked, or threatened. I’m so proud of you for taking a stand. You’re definitely the better person here, because if you disclosed their information you could be sure that thousands of your fans would shut them down and shut them up 🙂

  2556. Long time reader, first time commenter throwing my hat in the ring of support! Standing behind you!

  2557. I am a Midwestern American. I love your blog, your books, and all you do for the knitting community. I learned a lot about Canada from your Canada-Day posts. I am happy and grateful to you. You are an inspiration!!! Much love to you and your family–Blessed Be 🙂

  2558. I’m another lurker who’s never posted before. As I started to read through the comments (got to about 300 before I realized I’d never get through them all) I pictured all of us lurkers stepping out into the light to make sure you (really) know we’re here. The Blog is with you – stay strong.
    Love and light from the US.

  2559. Dear YH,
    I have also been reading your blog for years and have never commented. As an American, I would like to say I am embarrassed. This person is a true looney. Please don’t think we’re all like that. I’m proud of you for standing up to someone who doesn’t even deserve to be a part of the blogging community. She’s the true coward if you ask me. Blog on Sista!

  2560. There’s way too many comments for anyone sane to read… Hi, Steph. 😉
    I’m sorry that one internet loon has poisoned the pool for all of us. I’m sorry someone has caused you so much anguish. Even if you *were* evil, no one deserves the stress of a nasty internet stalker (stalktrix?).
    As I was reading your entry, I kept expecting you to announce you were going to stop your blog so as to avoid the time/energy/emotional sink-hole this person has caused it to become. I suppose that’s a reflection on me and that I would, after a “reasonable” time, pack up my toys and go home in the face of such an assault. I’m very glad that you are not me, as like the thousands of posters above me, I enjoy your blog and usually grin as I read of your adventures (except when I’m kinda hating you for how fleet your needles are).
    Thank you for the enjoyment you have given to so many.
    -Alia

  2561. Hi Steph,
    Like many above, I am an almost constant lurker – but I thought i would pipe in to say How sorry I am that you have had to deal with this kind of scary and upsetting situation.
    In any case it appears that many of us are quite willing to stand at your back . . .

  2562. I’m not saying anything that hasn’t already been posted over two thousand times, but add my voice to the masses. You have never said anything that I, as an American, could interpret as an insult (and I’m a lawyer, I “read into things” professionally). You are clearly a wonderful and devoted mother who has raised three remarkable and beautiful daughters. Whatever your religious affiliation may be, you are far more “christian” than most. Don’t waste your precious and greatly in demand time or energy on dealing with this person, who clearly has too little to occupy her time. Let her post her petty comments. We pledge to ignore her.

  2563. Another American Christian (though I’ll admit to not being particularly conservative) saying she doesn’t represent me. I’d add that I view her representations of what “we” believe and do to be insulting to us, as well as you. And I really, really hope you’ve taken safety precautions and alerted your publisher.

  2564. Hi! Just another American offering her support 🙂 I have also been reading and looking forward to your posts for years. I have never percieved any inkling of anti-americanism. Please keep writing comedy books! They are not getting old at all. 🙂 As what I consider to be still a novice knitter after about 5 years of effort, I find motivation and inspiration in your writing all the time. Your helpful, humble, and humourous aproach to knitting is very much appreciated. In a completly selfish move–might I suggest an visit to Ohio in the near future?? 🙂 Much love and support, Kris

  2565. I can’t believe that this woman is spending so much time on such a petty feud! Sometimes Americans forget that they are not the only country on the planet. Keep up the blog!!!

  2566. To think this woman is a nurse. A NURSE???? Pity the poor patients who must listen to her rants. It seems Texas has more than its fair share of nut cases.

  2567. I love your posts Stephanie (read every one) and have never read any inkling of racism in them (I’m from USA). Keep up the good work. Best of luck with this unfortunate incident and I hope it is quickly put behind all of us.

  2568. Hi YH! I am a very new knitter who often reads your blog but is also posting a comment for the first time today to show my support! Sending big hugs and positive vibes from Toronto!!! Cheers!

  2569. I’m so sorry that this woman has gotten a bee in her bonnet about you. I guess we all want to ‘touch greatness’ and this is her way of having her 15 minutes of fame. I’m just sad that she’s trying to do it at your expense.
    Don’t listen to her, or that inner critic. We (all 2887 of us at the time of this posting) ALL love you.

  2570. I also am a Christian American homeschool mom and am disgusted by such rude comments. Her generalizations would not please the God that I serve (I usually do not speak for God, but I feel pretty ok about this one). I read your blog daily and have never felt moved to comment until now. This sad person is obviously jealous of your success in life, both with you family and knitting or otherwise. Do not give her the satisfaction of another moment. You could be spending with your family or knitting or whatever other worthwhile thing you choose to do that doesn’t include worrying about this. I am not a pawn: I do not always agree with every word you say ( I am not a Jimmy Carter fan), but our differences are what makes the world go round, and much more interesting. Rants like these do not glorify God or humanity. Chin up and keep knitting!

  2571. WOW! I’m so sorry. I tend to get riled and my husband tells me the same things you feel when he says “Never argue with an idiot. They’ll just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”
    Here’s to brighter days!

  2572. i’m sorry you and your family have to go through this. i’m embarrassed this woman feels her words are an accurate representation of people from the US. i agree that the whole thing is very sad and i hope it stops soon. take good care of you and yours.

  2573. I’m sorry that a US citizen can act this way, but there always seems to be bad apples in every basket. I thank you for never taking it out on the rest of us Americans. This woman is sick and needs professional help, but will probably never get it. BTW, I enjoy your Canada Day posts; I always learn something nice and interesting.

  2574. I just wanted to add my support to the absolute avalanche already pouring out for you.
    I don’t think anyone could have handled this situation better than you have. I agree with other comment posters that looking into a lawyer or the police would be a prudent move.
    Light, love and respect, what a beautiful mantra!

  2575. So many comments – what a testimony to you Stephanie. Just want to thank you for bringing joy and laughter and inspiration into my life – and I thank you personally for bring back my passion for knitting. You are loved!
    Karen

  2576. I’ve never commented here before, either, but have been reading for a while now. Just wanted to say that if everyone were as kind and tolerant as you are, the world would be a much better place! Hang in there! Hugs to you and your family.
    –Jazz

  2577. I don’t get it at all – since when is being proud of your country being anti-American?
    As an American, I am very proud of the right to free speech. I always have the right to not watch or read if I don’t agree.
    Some people are just nuts or jealous.
    Don’t let them get you down.

  2578. Your posts are the highlight of my day. Chin up, shoulders back, move valiantly forward. With peace and love from North Carolina, USA.

  2579. I am SO sorry. The pathetic thing is that she’s “insulting (or misrepresenting) [our] country,” where you have so many fans because of who/what you are, who have adopted your family as part of their own because of how caring you all are. Please know all us yanks are not irrational.

  2580. So many comments!! – What a testimony to you Stephanie. I want to thank you for bringing joy, laughter (sometimes tears) and inspiration into my life. I also want to thank you for personally bringing back my passion for knitting. You are loved!

  2581. I’m so sorry that you and your family are having to go through this. Good for you for being the adult in this situation.

  2582. I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’m proud of how you have handled it. Please know this crazy perosn is just that. Keep on Keeping on!!!

  2583. As an American, I’m insulted by this woman’s 1)blatant generalizations of us (such as I’ve never seen on your site) and 2) representation of the people in our country. I’m a left-winger myself, but I know many many people who disagree with me and others like me (my parents among them) but still manage to respect alternative points of view. I’m sorry you became the target of someone’s absolutely unhinged behavior. Like you in Canada, we live in a diverse society, yet some people remain resolved to drown out any voice but thier own with ridicule and hatred, which are a poor substitute for an honest discourse about hurt feelings.
    Best of luck and remember the many people like me who read your blog every day, laugh out loud, think hard about something new or cry with you before navigating to another site without leaving a comment to tell you so. We outnumber her.

  2584. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. You don’t deserve any of it. Please don’t take it to heart. I read your blog often and I think you are one of the most clever and caring people out there. You’re a real Knitter to look up to!

  2585. You’re always so kind, this must have really been so enormously stressful for you! I’m glad you’ve taken the necessary steps to block her so you don’t have to deal with her vicious nuttiness anymore. There are so many of us that appreciate what you do and how humorously and graciously you do it!

  2586. There’s no reasoning with crazy. I enjoy all that I read on your blog and personally think beer makes a person knit better. Thanks for all you do.

  2587. I have never posted here before. I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. I will let shine the light on her from Germany. And from now on, let’s ignore her and enjoy our hobby all over the world!

  2588. I love your blog, read it faithfully, always look forward to it. I am ashamed that someone from my country, claiming to be a Christian, would write such horrible things. She is alone, not a representative of who we are or what we stand for. I hope you will continue your writing, your blog and all the wonderful things you do for knitters.

  2589. Actually, I do not see the big deal here–the whole point of this particular blog entry to begin with or any blog entry extolling the virtues of any one country over another. Yeah, we can all love our country for one reason or another and think it is pretty superior in some ways but why sow the seeds of argument when there are so much more interesting things to talk about on a blog–like, um, knitting and yarn and yarn and yarn. I think you are overreacting, Steph, like a certain jet lagged professor recently in the news.Or did you write this blog so that you could get a gazzillion pats on the back (which we all need at times,eh?).Go back to what you know best:knitting, yarn, the sock get together,writing books.

  2590. Lurker drawn to comment out of support for you. Some disparate thoughts:
    1) Don’t take it personally. This is an obvious case of mental illness where you just happened to be the lucky target/focus that she found.
    2) I know you don’t believe all Americans think that way… I’m another reason not to. 🙂 I like learning about Canada through your blog.
    3) If you’ve ever read the Penny Arcade gaming cartoon, Gabe (the artist) has a colorfully worded theory about anonymity and the internet that can be found here: http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2004/03/19/ I hope it makes you smile.
    4) You’re a rock, a stone, let it all flow past you, and it leaves you whole. Not unchanged, but whole. <3

  2591. P.S. I forgot the most important thing – I knitted years ago, stopped and I started back because of you, your wonderful books and your blog.

  2592. Hi Steph,
    Although I’ve been reading your blog “like almost forever”, I very rarely post a remark. I think that this is my third one actually. 🙂
    But I really felt the need to add my one voice to the throng around you.
    I’m an RN in the US and an avid knitter. I have enjoyed your books, comments, and blog so much. There are times you’ve written things (few times and few things) I’ve not agreed with and many times that you have written things that I’ve enjoyed so much, I’ve shared with non-knitters who think you’ve hit a point so “spot on”.
    Anyway, I will keep enjoying your blog, books, and comments as long as they are all here to be shared.
    Best wishes and prayers to you and yours.

  2593. Rick Steve’s new book, Travel As A Political Act, talks about how traveling broadens your persective. Everyday I benefit from my virtual travel to your blog. Peace to you and your family.

  2594. Ugh. Sorry that you had to address this issue at all. Every blog – no matter what it’s about, trust me* – has its weird stalkers and badmouthers. Sorry that yours is so personal and persistent.
    I join the others in saluting you, your writing (which is a tasty treat for all), your knitting, your country, and your appreciation of Prince!
    (*At my old blog, I had to have a friend screen comments for me for a while …because of all the mean emails I was getting at the place where I wrote about – wait for it- my son’s cancer. Really, world? really?)

  2595. Wow. Way to give american’s a bad name on her part. I happen to be american, happen to love your blog, and happen to own all of your books. I also happen to laugh every time I read them. They make me smile, they are witty, and wonderful in every way. Don’t let the man get you down. Keep doing what you do best: being an epic knitter, author, etc.
    <3 Hugs

  2596. Stephanie – another American adding their love to the outpouring coming in. Proud of you for what you have done – not only inspiring knitters around the world (your blog was the first I started reading and has convinced me to branch out of my comfort zone knitting!) but through your daily stories and humorous tales, which seems to give thousands of us a boost.
    Keep it up; we’re with you and supporting you! Thoughts and prayers going out to you an your family. Hope you have time to grab a beer this week.

  2597. I look to this blog for a smile. If not a smile then I learn something new about life, and I have never been let down. I am so sorry you have been hurt.

  2598. I’m sorry you’re going through this, it really sucks. I heartily recommend reading Gavin de Becker’s book “The Gift of Fear.” It may have some helpful strategies on how to deal with this.

  2599. I look to this blog for a smile. If not a smile then I learn something new about life, and I have never been let down. I am so sorry you have been hurt.

  2600. Un effing believeable. I am so sorry you have had to go through this. She’s obviously unbalanced. And that’s putting it kindly.
    Count me among your supporters.
    Barbara

  2601. Wow. Way to give american’s a bad name on her part. I happen to be american, happen to love your blog, and happen to own all of your books. I also happen to laugh every time I read them. They make me smile, they are witty, and wonderful in every way. Don’t let the man get you down. Keep doing what you do best: being an epic knitter, author, etc.
    <3 Hugs

  2602. SHEESH! Some people are just incredible. Wishing you love and strength from my little corner of America 😀

  2603. Wow. Way to give american’s a bad name on her part. I happen to be american, happen to love your blog, and happen to own all of your books. I also happen to laugh every time I read them. They make me smile, they are witty, and wonderful in every way. Don’t let the man get you down. Keep doing what you do best: being an epic knitter, author, etc.
    <3 Hugs

  2604. So sorry about this. It is unfortunate that she feels she is just in her totally abhorrent emails. Keep your chin up! BTW I am American, and Christian, and love ya!

  2605. Stephanie,
    I enjoy your blog very much, but don’t post a comment very often to tell you so. I’m compelled today because you obviously need to hear it! I am saddened by this situation & hope that the multitude of positive comments you are receiving today will somehow support you through all of this.

  2606. I would like to de-lurk and offer my continued support for your blog. I would also like to extend my gratitude for the many laughs over the years. I am sorry that this person is stressing you out and would offer my support in this troubling time. Good luck and many happy returns.

  2607. As a Christian and an American I can say she is a discredit to both. You have reacted so well to the situation and I plan on paying no attention to someone who obviously gets off on causing hurt to others. I’m sure you are not her only victim. Hugs and prayers Steph.

  2608. It’s a real shame. I guess since I don’t read between the lines the only thing I have picked up from your blog is that you are a knitter, mother, friend, wife, writer. Oh, and Canadian. I came for the knitting and stayed.

  2609. I’m wondering how many skeins of sympathy yarn you’re going to get in the mail… how else does a knitter give a pick-me-up to another knitter?? 🙂
    I remember several weeks ago when you had to post something similar about all the nasty e-mails you’d received due to technical difficulties concerning the Sock Summit. I kept thinking, “You’ve GOT to be kidding me… how can people be so ugly about not getting into a knitting conference??” (Can you imagine how off their tension must be??!!!) I’m sorry to hear such problems also lurk around your personal website. Again, my initial reaction is, “You’ve GOT to be kidding me…..”
    Sorry this person views your pride in your country as something to be shamed. Every county has it’s “interesting” people. It’s sad that those people often end up being a squeaky wheel.
    As a new knitter I’ve appreciated your humorous insights and useful tutorials. Thanks for the inspiration!!
    Happy Day from across the border!!

  2610. Many others have posted more eloquently than I. This longtime lurker just wanted to add her support of you and to say thank you for sharing your life, humour, sorrow and joy with us all. Those who seek to terrorize thrive in darkness. Going public was every hard, but you have started taking the energy away from her. We will all be vigilant on your behalf.

  2611. This person is more than a few bubbles off plumb. This sounds like terroristic threatening, let alone being a hate crime. Positive thoughts for you and your family’s safety.

  2612. Your posts are the highlight of my day. Chin up, shoulders back, move valiantly forward. With peace and love from North Carolina, USA.

  2613. I sympathise, it not very nice for people to be mean, especially when you don`t HAVE to write your blog and do it out of the kindness of your heart to keep people like me entertained. Maybe your correspondant needs to learn that if you don`t have anything nice to say its best to say nothing at all.
    Lots of love and thankyou for sharing
    Sarah

  2614. It’s amazing that all the positive feedback in the world won’t make up for one crazy, judgmental, bad-spirited git. Everyone I know adores you and this blog. I’m so, so sorry that you have had this experience. Mental illness comes in many forms but attacking a nice knitter who writes funny books and generally celebrates all that makes knitting and knitters wonderful seems like it’s beyond the need for anti-depressants and into the need for serious help. I pray that she’ll get it and that you will get some respite from such pure, misdirected venom. I’m proud of you for your ever-gracious handling of this situation.

  2615. In the blog world, thousands of people think they know you and have some sort of an odd ‘one-sided’ relationship with you. You have apparently attracted the attention of someone with a mental problem or a severe lack of enough to keep her busy. I am sorry and remember the thousands who love you even though you don’t know us !!

  2616. You brighten my day constantly. Thanks for being you; and having the gumption to be you in a public space.

  2617. I am so, so sorry. I hope this awful person faces some consequences.
    Sending lots of hugs to you and your family. (From a stranger, yes, but hopefully that’s not too weird.)

  2618. I am so sorry she’s been doing this to you. It’s wrong on so many levels. I am an American Christian, and the God I serve encourages love for all people…believe me, she doesn’t speak for all of us.
    I love your posts and your books…and I’m so impressed by the way you’re handling this very tough situation.

  2619. Stephanie –
    I’m American and I love you. Thank for you letting me into your life for 5 years now.
    MaryLou Phillips

  2620. I agree with the poster who said to save all the e-mails – you should be able to have e-mails from a certain person go directly into a specific folder. I can do it on Outlook. Keep them, don’t respond at all to them.
    Call the police.
    I am pretty sure that I can get you the contact details of an FBI agent in Chicago who works Cyber-crime, so if you need that let me know. I will try to have it with me at SS.
    I am a US citizen who has lived in two foreign countries. I have been physically attacked by someone who hated the US, so this isn’t even remotely funny to me.
    I am sorry you are going through this, it sucks. Let me know if there is anything I can do.

  2621. This was very to painful to read, being from America. I have never found your Canada Day posts rude or insulting and I have enjoyed reading your blog for years. I can understand how this is disturbing, as its hurtful and personal, and how one negative email can overshadow hundreds of positive ones, but I hope that you know how much people enjoy your writing. I am so sorry that this has happened.

  2622. “Never wrestle with a pig. You’ll both get dirty, but the pig likes it.” – George Bernard Shaw
    When you cross paths with thousands of people, a few of them will be mentally ill. Unfortunate, but inevitable. And technology gives this sort of thing a far longer reach than it deserves to have. Ultimately, the only things any of us can control are our own attitudes and reactions… and for some of us, only on a good day.
    Even though I don’t knit (yet?) and wool makes me itch, I thoroughly enjoy your blogs and books. Please just keep being you, and know that it is enough. I hope you have your equilibrium back soon.
    “Storms make the oak grow deeper roots.” – George Herbert

  2623. I agree with the poster who said to save all the e-mails – you should be able to have e-mails from a certain person go directly into a specific folder. I can do it on Outlook. Keep them, don’t respond at all to them.
    Call the police.
    I am pretty sure that I can get you the contact details of an FBI agent in Chicago who works Cyber-crime, so if you need that let me know. I will try to have it with me at SS.
    I am a US citizen who has lived in two foreign countries. I have been physically attacked by someone who hated the US, so this isn’t even remotely funny to me.
    I am sorry you are going through this, it sucks. Let me know if there is anything I can do.

  2624. This is a sick woman. She needs psychiatric help. I am so sorry that she latched onto you to the point of obsession.
    This woman does not speak for me or for any other rational American person. She speaks for herself. I am saddened that she thinks she represents Americans.
    I love your books and your blog. I think you are an amazing, brilliant woman. I thank you for sharing your humor, yourself, your knowledge, and your family with “the blog.” We are richer for it.
    She can go soak her head and take some medication. Maybe she’ll get better some day.

  2625. Here’s a shout-out from a US pagan, who admires your blog, your books, YOU, your ethics & parenting, and thinks your wedding sounded perfectly lovely.

  2626. Another first-time commenter here. So sorry this happened to you. Too much hate in the world, including here in the “land of the free”.

  2627. Just wanted to pipe up and add my support, sounds like you have run afoul of a whack-o and have taken the high ground.
    Best wishes from an american that tries very hard not to be the ugly american.
    Molly

  2628. I, too, have been reading for years and never commented. Before today, I never felt I had anything of value to add … everyone else was saying it so well! But today I would like to add my vote to the thousands supporting you, Stephanie.
    So there is one twisted stitch in an afghan of knitting. Let it go. Remember ALL the rest of us who know you are wonderful.

  2629. I’m an American. I’m a knitter. I think you’re swell. (I met you years ago at Book Expo America and am still of the same opinion.)
    I am also very glad there are authorities involved.

  2630. I’m so very sorry that you are being put through this awful, awful experience. I feel sad for the negative commenter. I agree that she must have some horrible past hurt to get some sort of personal reward from being so horrible-why else would she waste all that time. Kudos to you for recognising and acknowledging that. It shows what a truly kind heart you have. PS Thank you for all the books, the blog and the knitting advice. You give me plenty of giggles and help me to justify my yarn habbit to the Husbear. Right now I’m treating myself to a double page a day of Knit’s End just before I go to sleep- it helps me nod off with a smile on me dial.

  2631. Whoa, she is seriously unhinged. I am so sorry you are being forced to deal with this. I love your blog but rarely read the comments, so I was not at all aware of this going on. I’m sure you know this, but she doesn’t speak for all Americans, certainly not me. Don’t let her get to you, just pity her.

  2632. Just wanting to send you a little ray of sunshine from a neighbor south of the border. I am so embarrassed that an American has done this to you. We are not all like that. I love Canadians. And I love you too!

  2633. Whew.
    For the record, I look forward to your Canada Day posts like Christmas–only it’s more like a surprise-party, because I never remember when Canada Day is. I just open your blog and say, “Oh, goodie, my favorite!” Most of my mother’s family came from Canada a couple of generations ago and I vacationed in BC with my grandparents every summer as a child, so I love having a steady supply of fascinating Canada-facts to share with my grandma.
    You know perfectly well and don’t need 2,000 people to tell you how irrational the comments you’ve been subjected to are–but again, just for the record–dude, there’s some serious crazy out there.

  2634. I am more proud of you than I can say. Thank you for trusting us enough to share. We love you.

  2635. Hey Steph, I’m sure you’re getting overwhelmed with comments, but I just wanted to say that you are so brave. I admire you wholeheartedly, and I think you did 100% the right thing by letting your fans know the truth. A whole month?! You are not alone and you have all of our best wishes and thoughts and good vibes.
    PS- I left teenager-hood not that long ago, and trust me… you’re a great mother.

  2636. You are dealing with a mentally ill person. I don’t know the laws regarding cyber stalking but her actions are clearly abusive. Keep all the emails because they may be admissable in a court of law. I also believe there is a special place in hell for who use religion to defend their evil behavior.

  2637. I am sorry I give up. I tried to read the comments but I hit my wall about 600…
    When I first started to read today’s entry,I throught you are going to stop the blog… thank god, that is not the case.
    You know, I am NOT an American, NOR a Canadian, not even a Christian (at least not in the sense used here)…
    You are even a bit younger than me, but when I grow up, I wanna be you.

  2638. I’m sitting here in shock and dismay. I can’t believe someone would be so hurtful. There are close to 3,000 comments here as I type this and I hope you are reassured of how loved and appreciated you are. I’m a crocheter who came across your blog accidentally and because of the beautiful things you’ve made, I’m taking knitting classes now so you are reaching the world for good!

  2639. Aw, Stef. This so sucks; she is some sick f**k. Be strong, keep being you. Hugs.

  2640. If you can find her IP address, then perhaps the authorities can find her. You should definitely report her to the powers that be. No one should get away with what she’s doing to you. You must stop it before it goes any farther.
    And I highly resent her suggestion that she represents all Americans. She only represents a crazy party of one.
    Hang in there!

  2641. I’ve been reading your blog for about a year, and have never posted before, but this drove me to it.
    I only have one thing too say (well, actually I have several things to say, but it would be rude to say them.)
    *Hugs* (To be exact, that is a action, but what the hey.)
    Selfadmittedgeek.

  2642. I’m so sorry that you’ve been going through this for so long. I’m relatively new to your blog and have thoroughly enjoyed each and every post I’ve read. I agree with your approach and am saddened that the anonymity of the internet can escalate to this. Knitting should bring people together!

  2643. I’ve been holding off on commenting (don’t want to crash your server again!), but I’ll jump in the pile. I enjoy your blog. I always enjoy the Canada-day posts. (They even remind me to wish my Canadian SO a happy Canada day!) I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with someone who very evidently has some severe personal issues and has decided to take them out on you in a completely unacceptable fashion.

  2644. This woman is clinically insane. Yes, your advice to ignore her is the best. It is damned difficult, I know. I’ve been cyberstalked, and it takes an emotional toll. I’m sure people have also told you to keep all correspondance so you can make a case if need be.
    I love that your “crime” was saying something negative about America on Canada Day. Dude, I say something negative about America almost every day, and I’m an American.
    It doesn’t take much to offend crazy people. This kind of stuff makes me long for the days before all this technology, when people wrote on paper with pens and pencils, and people used a rotary phone, and you bought really long phone cords so you could roam around the house and talk. Ah, those were the days.

  2645. Wow. I don’t think that I could’ve handled what you are going through. I lend my support to you just as the thousands before me have. Can’t you block her from sending you email as well? I have blocked many people. It’s the emails that would really bother me. They are directed right at you and it is hard to take that as a glancing blow.

  2646. Like so many others, I have read your blog for a long time yet never posted. Your writing is one of the highlights of my day. I look forward to your thoughts on knitting and parenting and Canada and everything else. And, having been victimized by hateful emails and public blog posts myself, I understand the pain they can cause. Please know how many people care about you and your family and are so grateful that you have opened your lives to us all.

  2647. Sad, sad, sad — poor wretched hater!! All that negativity will ultimately do nothing to diminish all the fun and creativity you have brought your faithful readers. Hang in there — pet your wool and hug your family!! Canadian bashing — that’s a new one – who would’ve thought?

  2648. I’m another prior lurker offering my support. You have responded admirably, as anyone who has read your blog and/or books knew you would. I’m an American woman who believes that the world needs more people like you in it. Way to go, Steph!

  2649. I’ve been reading your blog since I started knitting a little over a year ago, and have never posted. But I just want to send you my love and support, and to let you know that Wisconsin Knitters just love you to pieces 🙂 Sending love and peace your way!!

  2650. Wow. It’s tiring just to read. Must be exhausting to live. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, and want you to know there’s a big ol’ community out here that has your back. I, for one, will not dignify her comments/posts with a response, and I trust that others won’t either.

  2651. I am so sorry you are going thru this. You have a wonderful gift. I have met you and was fortunate enough to have dinner with you in South Bend several years ago. (I gave you a wine bottle sweater!). I read you blog all the time, but this is my first post. Know you have love and support from not only the United States but all over the world.

  2652. I just wanted to post to show my support for you. I really hope that all of the positive thoughts that are coming your way help to make you feel better. I really admire how you’re handling this situation.

  2653. Wow, that woman has some serious issues! If she doesn’t like you then so be it (and I would disagree with her on that) but to say that kind of crap out on the internet is just ludicrous, immature, and horrible!
    Steph – I love your books! Keep doing what you’re doing. And this is one knitter who isn’t sick of what the Left is doing… because I’m part of it!
    Much love to you and your family.

  2654. oh, and also, i don’t think you are anti-this or that. you are one of the few published persons, or really, of any person, whom i find brings a very balanced analyitcal approach to any topic. and adding your yarnharlot humour is the icing. i love it. please don’t stop.

  2655. I just want to join the army of knitters who have already pledged their support.
    After reading one of your books explaining your Knitting Philosphy (I am therefore I knit is the basic premice), I began to knit again. Although I blame you for my obsession, I love you and your work.
    I teach new teachers and counselors about bullying, and there are three things I stress:
    1. Tell a trusted adult (which you have done)
    2. The bully needs to exert power over someone–and needs more help in the long run than the one being harrassed.
    3. Once you stand up to the bully, they begin to lose their power.
    You have done the right thing.
    Love and stitches coming your way.

  2656. Sadly, I really think this woman is mentally unstable and I’m sorry you had to deal with her. You write a great blog and I love your Canada Day posts. All the American knitters I know absolutely adore you! Keep up the AMAZING work!

  2657. Steph~ I am so sorry this is happening to you. trust me, not all Americans feel this way!! We adore you here! Even my husband, a total non-knitter, has read one of your books and I hear him chuckle over it. You are wonderful, extremely witty, and very gifted. Hang in there girl! We are pulling for you!

  2658. On the theory that it takes 100 positive comments to outweigh the negative ones, I’m adding my voice to the chorus of sympathy and support. I’m so sorry, Stephanie. But keep in mind that the number of people who adore you, love you, enjoy you, like you, or just flat don’t know or care at all about you (there may be some peculiar comfort in that at times like this *grin*) far, FAR outnumber this person. Let that positive energy be your shield, to keep her from living rent free in your mind. And no, don’t stop writing. Please. ^_^
    I hope you are feeling better after reading all these positive remarks.

  2659. Well. No longer the most boring blog ever…
    Also way to be well above the fray. Must have been a very difficult time for you and your family. So terribly sorry for the crassness of some of us in the States. There is just no accounting for some.

  2660. Good luck Stephanie. I love your blog and hope you do not feel deterred from stating your opinion. I am deeply saddened that anyone would do this to you (or anyone else for stating views different from others). I have attached a link about cyber-stalking in the US. I hope you find out where this person is and report them. http://www.privacyrights.org/fs/fs14-stk.htm

  2661. I walked into to OR a few weeks ago to do an ultrasound during vascular surgery. Dr. R said, “hey Suz, what’s that sewing lady been writing about lately?” He was in the vascular lab and saw me reading Yarn Harlot so he now asks me to pull it up when we’re both there on call. See, not just knitters love Stephanie.

  2662. This has probably been asked, but can you file some sort of international restraining order against this person? This is abuse, and you certainly shouldn’t have to endure this. So sorry. *hugs*

  2663. I’m on your side. Alas, putting yourself out in the the blogosphere as you do makes you vulnerable to crazies like this one. I hope that the overwhelming love and support you’ve received (almost 3000 comments now!) helps offset the hurt. It won’t make it go away, but I hope it’s comforting. And definitely investigate legal action, at least a restraining order of some kind. I’m sure you have readers who could advise you on the details.

  2664. Oh, dear! She sounds like what we in America call a “stalker”, and we have laws against it. Have you thought of a cease and desist order?
    I’m worried because she sounds like she’s absolutely insane and incapable of rational thought.
    I am sure you’re not looking for pity or sympathy, but please be assured that she is the problem, not you, and not the rest of us in the US, Christian or otherwise.

  2665. Dear Stephanie,
    As the 3000 people ahead have said , in all possible ways, I am so sorry that some nutjob has decided to attack you, your feelings,and Canada.
    If it wasn’t so horrible it would be too funny. I apologize to you for all Americans -Christian,Jew,Buddist, Atheist,Muslim and those who don’t even have a specific philosophy.
    When anyone starts their rants with the phrase” I am a Christian” I know that what follows will often be an irrational rant. Again, most “Christians” in any country are reasonable people but I cringe at those who act the way this woman does. Her bullying and irrational thoughts are not those of a mentally healthy person from any country. I had to laugh at her ideas that the USA has antagonizitic feelings towards Canada–I think we may envy some of the Canadian policies, like Health Care, but every American I know seems to just think Canada is a really big, wonderful neighbor to the North. In Michigan, since we experience much of the same weather, we tend to sympathize with Canadians in the long northern winter. Why do Politics and Religion even enter into a person’s mind when reading a knitting blog?? I,m sure there are political blogs she could rant on with more success.
    As for Americans and the “left”–has she ever heard of Ann Arbor, Michigan ?? The residents of that beautiful city pride themselves on being a mile left of left.
    She may be scary in print but I bet in person she would be a big coward-most bullies are.
    Please don’t let this one insane freak alter your thoughts or your life for even one minute. Keep writing your wonderful blog(you notice your blog has about a million more readers than hers), your books and keep coming to the USA for your signings. You have the support of so many people from many countries. She does not-most people like her are put on serious meds and kept from the general public. In fact, maybe she is off those serious meds !! In that case,hopefully, someone she knows will make her start taking them again.
    You are a wonderful ,friendly,kind and normal person(my perception from attending book signings and reading your books/blog). Bullies love to attack people like you out of sheer jealously.
    As Marie Antoinette (a French woman-not an American) said(I paraphrase) -LET HER EAT CAKE!!
    And in the words of Glenda the Good Witch-BE GONE,YOU HAVE NO POWER HERE !!!!! And finally in the words of an American Woman who won’t take crap like this and is embarrassed that an American woman would treat anyone in this way–She can Kiss my big White American Ass. I sure hope someone kicks hers.
    Sorry about that last thought-I am usually quite reserved but she brought out the bad girl in me.

  2666. A quote to this bizarre woman, from M*A*S*H:
    “You will never be known as the Ugly American. You’re overqualified.”
    ‘Nuff said.

  2667. I have never left a comment anywhere before, but feel compelled to do so now. This person is obviously psychologically unbalanced and could be dangerous. Please keep records and keep the authorities involved. In truth, it isn’t about you at all. I am so sorry.

  2668. Dearest Stephanie
    Just a wee note to send love and hugs from Victoria BC. I’ll be pleased as heck to meet your sweet self in person soon at SS09 and give you a for-real hug.
    Also sending some love shine to the poor misguided soul out there.
    Love, Lori

  2669. I say you did the right thing and sounds like the other person has self-esteem – jealousy issues

  2670. The only emotion that I ever feel when I read your Canada Day posts is envy. I love Canada! (Can’t wait to go again at Christmas) Your blog is the highlight of my work day. I am so sorry for all the trouble you’ve had.

  2671. ALERT THE AUTHORITIES!
    Please listen to Jan, the therapist, and all the other people here who know, and are giving you smart advice. Restraining order. Her name on the border watch list. All those things.
    Seriously.
    This has nothing to do with American or Canadian or anything but this sad woman’s craziness. Let the authorities handle this.
    You are valued immensely. No engagement in this woman’s particular points or her language need happen.
    It’s wretched you have to deal with this. But all famous people do. And your immense abilities have made you famous.
    Thank you for all your gifts to us all.

  2672. rest assured she does not speak for all Christian, conservative, American women knitters. I’m one and love your blog, may not agree 100% of the time, but love your blog. I didn’t know absolute agreement was necessary, hope you don’t mind if I ignore that new rule and enjoy your blog anyway.

  2673. Another lurker who was moved to post for the first time.
    I read your blog everyday and enjoy it so much and your books as well. You never have to worry about losing your fans here in the U.S.!
    I think you did the right thing by putting everything out in the open- don’t doubt it!
    Sending much love from eastern Long Island, NY!!!

  2674. P.S.–perhaps an international Personal Protection Order may be the thing to make her stay away.

  2675. I’ve read your blog (& books) for years, but never posted. De-lurking to send you warm wishes and hugs. You are a beacon to many.

  2676. Dearest Yarn Harlot,
    You have shown yourself to be a person of the absolute highest character today. I hope that my little blurb of encouragement makes you feel a little better. You do a wonderful job, and no matter what, I won’t stop reading and appreciating your work.
    Sending you a little love from my southerly side of the border,
    Abby

  2677. Dearest Yarn Harlot –
    You are the embodiment of grace and civility. You are handling this so much better than many would.
    In my daily dealings with the American public, I also run into many with debilitating mental health issues. You can’t reason with crazy.
    Hugs from Elkhart Indiana.
    Becky – American Agnostic Knitter

  2678. Stephanie,
    I’m so sorry that you are being stalked by this person. She’s clearly mentally ill, and undermedicated, and certainly doesnt represent Americans, Christians or, even, decent human beings.
    Hopefully she will get the medical help that she so desperately needs and leave you alone.
    We love the Yarn Harlot down here in Texas!

  2679. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this situation — I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Please know that as an American I fully support you, and think you are awesome. I’m also always glad to learn more about Canada, please keep posting your national pride! Keep going, Stephanie. You are awesome.

  2680. Beloved YH,
    You rock. If I could apologize on behalf of this mouth-breather, I would, but I can’t. Please do take all measures to protect yourself.
    Know that this New Yorker (which makes me “anti-American” in many quarters!) is with you.
    Thank you for all the beauty, wisdom, grace, and good sense you share with us. Thank you.
    m

  2681. Not as mature a person as yourself, but I try. So I figured that a donation to Doctors without Borders would be my way to show of support for you.

  2682. Yet another first time commentee here. I wasn’t going to but then I thought that even if you didn’t read it, at least it would add to the positive vibes for you.
    I have one other thing to say – may all her cherries have worms!

  2683. *hugs* Rest assured, dear Harlot, that this woman is no more representative of the average American than she is of the average Christian (at least not in my opinion). I will never understand how showing pride in your country is denigrating or insulting to any other country. Many, many of us love and respect you as both a knitter and a person. Have a cup of tea (with a shot if needed), take a relaxing bath, and try very hard to ignore this woman as best you can.

  2684. I had to put in my 2 cents. Dear Ms. Stephanie – Peace and good wishes for health and happiness. From Neversink, NY

  2685. Hi, Stephanie,
    Unfortunately, the right wing in the U.S. is getting more and more unhinged. This is just one example. I read your Canada Day blog and as an American, found nothing offensive in it. I am so sorry you have had to put up with this kind of abuse. Please be assured that most of us Americans are not as crazy as this person. (At least I hope we aren’t!)
    Sandy in Austin, TX

  2686. You make me laugh every morning. Thank you. Now, on to the knitting! How is that blanket coming along?

  2687. I have a wonderful fantasy of your bete noir reading all 3000+ comments to see how many of us agree with her and disagree with you. So far, the score appears to be YH: 3019 BN: 0

  2688. I am a long time reader but have never posted. I am so very sad you have had to go through this. You are an inspiration and a good and talented person, the problem is hers. Do not waste another moment on the “poster”.

  2689. Wow, just wow! I do not understand the mentality of some people. I think that someone needs to reread her Bible and refresh herself on how Christian people behave. You have never, in my opinion, been rude or disrepectful of Americans in your Canada Day posts, just proud of the those things that you think make your/our country great. I also think that someone has far too much time on their hands.

  2690. So sorry that this person, obviously with issues, is targeting YOU, of all persons. As an American and a Christian I am totally embarrassed. I wish you and your family courage and strength to get through this.

  2691. She doesn’t represent me. I think you are incredible for handling this in such a professional and dignified manner. YOU ARE AMAZING!

  2692. Hold your head up high and know you did the right thing! You rock!!
    As an American and a Christian….I have never seen you write anything against any of us. I come here every day looking for your newest blog post and am always looking forward to the next. Keep doing your thing!!

  2693. I really like the Canada Day posts every year, and live an ocean away from N America.
    *hugs* from Ireland.

  2694. I can only say, wow. To be an American, a Christian, a conservative, whatever…doesn’t matter. This individual gives Americans a bad name. Her behavior is terroristic and I am truly sorry you have had to deal with it. You have done so privately and with grace. I would say I stand behind you 100%, but from the looks of things, you could really use some folks standing in front of or beside you. United in knitting and nothing else.

  2695. I never post but had to add my support to all those above. As an American, I am truly embarassed. Keep on writing – there are many who enjoy you. I only pray that one sick person will not ruin a good thing.

  2696. I don’t comment often but I just have to say what you have had to put up with is absolutely insane. She must be absolutely the most bored obnoxious person to be doing this to you. Christian and American my ass!!! She’s nothing more than an internet terrorist.
    I look forward to your posts everyday.Don’t let her get you down and out. People like this get the negativity they shell out back 10 fold.

  2697. Yarn Harlot, I want to be like you when I grow up.
    (I’m 36 years old, so that should be happening sooner, rather than later, I guess.)
    Thanks for your blog. You make the internet a better place.

  2698. Dearest Steph
    I have also read your blog for years and rarely comment, but this is just unbelievable. It is so sad we have people who are so unhappy in this world. You and you family have been so generous to share yourselves with us, your laughter, tears and accomplishments, it alsways has helped me to put things in a better perspective. For this I thank you and please know that there are many who feel the same way. Please know you are in our prayers, and stay safe.
    Blessings to you and your family
    Joyce

  2699. I’m a lurker who rarely comments, but I just couldn’t let this one pass. Not only are you not anti-American, the American Tourism Board should be paying you for the lovely things you have said about your travels in our country! This person is clearly a whack job looking for their fifteen minutes of fame! I found them almost immediately via Google, and I must agree with some of the other comments, please, protect yourself, this is not a mentally healthy person! Sending you positive vibes from the Windy City!

  2700. Another long-time reader who’s never posted before. I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through, and I pity the poor, sick woman who has made your life so unpleasant. I believe you are doing the right thing by making this issue known to us, and I will try to support you by sending all the positive energies I can muster to you and to her. Oh, and as an American descended from Canadians, I have to say, I’ve never really thought of our two countries as opposed to each other. I think they complement each other very well.
    Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.

  2701. I am so saddened to hear of your travails…please please please be reassured she is not representative of all US residents. I applaud your taking the high road on the side of good manners and civilty.
    I am yet another fan, and long time reader, first time commenter.
    Jill in Michigan (where I can *almost* see Canada from my house!)

  2702. I feel like all the air has been sucked out of my body. What kind of world is it when mean, hateful people can act so irrationally and get away with it? She should be in jail. I’m so, so glad you know that all Americans are not like her. She needs a brain transplant.
    Love you to pieces, Stephanie. Be brave. Sending you virtual hugs and high fives and wishes for a more peaceful time ahead.

  2703. I’m so embarrassed by my countryperson. And I apologize for her. Though I doubt she’ll get it.
    All of her harrassment surely takes a lot of time…maybe she should take up a hobby or something to fill those hours more productively…like knitting maybe…

  2704. This women reminds me of a co-worker I used to have! She wasn’t a knitter, otherwise would be convinced they were the same person! It’s hard to know there are people that hurtful in the world – and even harder when you are their target! As an American women who has read your blog for years I give my support.

  2705. I did not have time to read through 3000+(!)comments. I actually should be working. But just in case no one has said it before, this person is simply not playing with a full deck – no disrespect intended.
    This exchange is so far past the “I disagree with you exchange”, I am hoping and praying that she has someone close to her that will help her get the medical attention she is crying out for, before she really goes ’round the bleedin’ bend. I am sorry that you are the target of her [possible] psychosis. However, I am glad you are a virtual rather than a physical neighbor.

  2706. I too am a lurker and love your blog. She doesn’t represent me -an american and a christian. I dito all the good things said by the thousands above. Much love, much light and many prayers sent to you from Arkansas.

  2707. I just had to add my support. I am sorry you are going through this. Stay strong, and stay safe.

  2708. Well, heck. I love and enjoy your writings – books and blog – and I appreciate you very much. I think everything I’ve thought and felt about this has been expressed well by others so I’ll leave you with a quote from the Tick:
    “You know, Arthur, when evil is afoot, and you don’t have any arms, you’ve gotta use your head. And when evil is ahead and you’re behind, you’ve gotta do the legwork. But when you can’t get a leg up, you gotta be hip. You gotta keep your chin up, and kick some-…
    Arthur: Tick, we get the idea.”
    (Spoon!)
    Think I’ll head over to Doctors Without Borders and put money in their coffers and a little more light in the world!

  2709. Having located said person (no worries, you didn’t leak anything personal, I’m just good with a computer) I feel I can safely say, Yes she does have some mental issues. If her blog is any indication she has several of them. People who have been through situations such as she describes tend to lash out.
    For your sake please do your best to ignore her. I counsel teens and have found that the best response to bad behavior is usually to ignore (I’m not the parent so punishment isn’t something I do). Basically move on and don’t let the person get the attention they are craving.
    You have handled this well and I hope you continue to enjoy your blog.

  2710. Sorry you’re going through this mess. She is obviously not mentally well and fixated. A good social shunning should do the trick, I think. Nothing bores someone who craves attention like not getting it. Best to you, Stephanie.

  2711. Please don’t internalize her voice! Consider the source.
    I was afraid you were going to disable comments like Crazy Aunt Purl decided to do. Then you wouldn’t have been able to read 2800+ positive posts.
    Come to Cleveland and I will buy you a beer and you can sign one of your many books that I own.

  2712. Your blog and everything you do is great! Intolerant people will get what they deserve. Take care of yourself!

  2713. Good girl. Not everyone would take such a kind approach to someone who attacks in such a manner. I hope that woman finds some peace in her life, and I hope you get some rest.

  2714. As many have said, there’s no reasoning with crazy.
    Whatever this is, it’s not about you.
    Your response is appropriate.

  2715. Good girl. Not everyone would take such a kind approach to someone who attacks in such a manner. I hope that woman finds some peace in her life, and I hope you get some rest.

  2716. First time poster here, too… Thank you, Stephanie, for being who you are, and for sharing yourself and what you do (so brilliantly well!) with us!

  2717. Stephanie, I am so sorry you’re dealing with this. I know you already know this but please remember that this woman does NOT speak for all Americans OR Christians. I am a flaming liberal, an American, a Christian, a Southerner, and a huge fan of yours. I hope this situation improves soon and that you will have some peace from this person.

  2718. I am just so sad and angry that this has happened. I was speechless when I first saw your post and I’m still speechless…
    All I can think of to say is that I’m so sorry, and that I support you! Please stay safe and stay strong. You are an amazing person!

  2719. Sometimes people are very unhappy with their lives and feel the need to create unhappiness for everyone else in the world to feed their illness.
    I’m so very sorry you are going through this Stephanie. If it’s any comfort, on many moments when I am down, I often burry myself in your books or your blog because I’m always sure to finish a page laughing.
    Never forget how much laughter, happiness, insight your blog and books bring to so many knitters. I’m sure many others share my thoughts on how I can relate to you so much as a knitter.
    People like you make me proud to be a knitter because you show the rest of us how you shine in your success.
    Sending big HUGS your way. Stay strong.
    A fan forever…

  2720. I was afraid that you were going to disable comments like Crazy Aunt Purl did. Then you wouldn’t have been able to read 2800+ supportive posts. Come to Cleveland and I will buy you a beer!

  2721. I am just so sad and angry that this has happened. I was speechless when I first saw your post and I’m still speechless…
    All I can think of to say is that I’m so sorry, and that I support you! Please stay safe and stay strong. You are an amazing person!

  2722. Dear Stephanie,
    This post really saddened me, I’m so sorry that you and your family have been put through this scary situation. I’m sending positive thoughts your way.
    I think that you are so kind and generous to let us into your life via your blog. You’re a lovely writer and your entries educate and definitely entertain. I feel honored to be part of the knitting community with you.
    Laura

  2723. I hope, when you see 3K comments–I couldn’t read all of them, but what I saw was in your favor–you realize that this woman is a nutcase with some serious issues and a desperate need for mental help and guidance. I’m just sick at the idea of what she’s put you through over these last few months.
    We support and love you all the way, Steph!!! (I’m so bummed that I can’t go to Sock Summit; I just learned to knit socks!) Maybe I’m the wrong kind of American/Christian for her, but I thought God wants us to love each other and glory in our differences! Otherwise He’d have made us all the same.
    We’re behind you all the way. This lady has more than just a screw loose, and I’m disgusted that she’d dare to behave as if her beliefs represent the beliefs of all Americans and Christians. She could not be more wrong! I hope she gives up and leaves you alone, fast. Tough times don’t last, but tough people do, and you’re one tough lady. Hang in there!!

  2724. I am commenting for the first time ever to say that you ROCK !
    You bring a little sunshine into my life and each time I find a new post waiting to be read it makes me smile.
    You are my inspiration to be a better person, when it is late at night and it takes all the energy I can muster to hold my knitting in my lap because my toddler has be acting up, I tell myself that if you managed to raise 3 without ever locking them in a closet to get a couple hours knitting time, maybe I can manage too :p.
    Keep spreading joy, I for one, can use it 😉

  2725. These people have had a voice in America entirely too long–we took our country back from them with Obama and others. Sorry you had to experience the “Ugly American.”

  2726. Hi Steph! I’m an American Christian knitter who thoroughly enjoys your blog (heck, when I discovered it I went back and read the WHOLE thing!). I met you a couple of years ago in Chicago and thought you very down to earth and likeable. To use my favorite Canadianism–it looks like you have a ‘fair whack’ of support on this issue. 🙂 Keep on knitting and I hope you enjoy SS09. I wish I could be there, but will enjoy it vicariously through your blog posts.

  2727. So sorry that you have to experience this. I love your blog and books and find your humor and humanity a blessing. Not to mention the mothering advice. You have to know that you and Joe have raised three very exeptional children. Keep up the good work and know for that every negative person out there you have thousands behind you. Sending waves of warmth and love from Sacramento.

  2728. I also resent this person claiming she speaks for me as an american. I have never found your writing offensive. As a matter of fact the most offensive thing I’ve seen on your blog is that person’s posts, by a mile. Know that I’m trying hard not to let her bring me down, so I can keep sending you happy, loving thoughts.
    Keep your head up, be proud of yourself, and don’t let this “person” get to you.

  2729. I really think you should contact the authorities! She has gone over the edge and should not be allowed to threaten you or your family. BTW, I love your blog.

  2730. I am a long time reader like many it seams and a first time commenter. I usually feel that someone else or many have made the same comment I wished to say. Maybe more eloquently. I just had to comment on this post, it seams like many others felt the same, and just wanted to say that I am American and have never felt insulted by anything you have written. In fact I have seen much of my own country through your eyes. By reading about your book signings and readings I have traveled with you and visited many places. You always have something wonderful and wondrous to say about our country and the places you visit. I think it’s great that you love were you live and have pride in your country. I love reading about your town and area. I never walk anywhere, everything here is like 10 or more miles away. I have all of your books and have read each of them many times. Your book “things I learned from knitting” sits on my night stand and I like to read a “thing” before I go to bed. They make me smile. Again I just wanted to say how much you are loved and admired for being you and individual from everyone else. For loving your country and (from some of your writing) loving ours as well. I’m American, a Christian, a mother, a knitter, and an individual with her own opinions and you are wonderful and inspiring in so many ways. Always feel like you are special because you are. You have a loving husband, children and a gazillion and one friends who obviously feel you are worth everything to them. You have friends everywhere. Much love and wishes.

  2731. Stephanie,
    I am joining the group of frequent readers who have never posted before. Now I have to post to let you know how much your blog means to me. Every day when I’m eating my lunch, I pull up your blog and read what you’ve been up to. You always brighten my day. You are clearly a good person (don’t listen to your inner critic ~ if yours is anything like mine, she doesn’t know what she’s talking about and she judges you much too harshly)
    I am an American who has enjoyed numerous trips to Canada. Never have I read anything in your blog that has struck me as even remotely anti-American.
    I love your sense of humor, I love your outlook on life and I love the fact that you reach out to all of us. Thank you for sharing this experience with your readership. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with a person who seems to have taken your broad, general comments personally.
    I’m sure you already know it, but this woman does not represent America. Hopefully most of our citizens are more open-minded and less judgemental than she is.
    Keep on with your blog ~ I for one would miss it terribly if you decided to stop writing for us!
    Good luck ~ hopefully soon this will just be a bad memory

  2732. Adding my voice to the support. Bravo on your patience and class. Hang in there.

  2733. Your story reminded me of that woman who had tried out for American Idol twice, was very derogatory to the judges twice, and just got killed in a hit and run. Hopefully this will work out sooner than latter, I’m just saying 😉

  2734. From this American, I love your blog and your books! In fact, I was on the cusp of buying Knitting Rules and this has just sent me to the bookstore 🙂
    I wish you peace and happiness. Hopefully soon, you will be able to get back to the business of knitting and writing without worrying about this ickiness. Good luck 🙂

  2735. You’ve responded with incredible grace, dignity and strength to what can only be described as appalling treatment. Hugs, support, and most of all admiration in bucketloads streaming over from Ireland.

  2736. Hi Stephanie !
    I love to read your blog and your books like a lot of knitters around the world. Do not let this kind of people affect you and continue your nice work !!

  2737. As one of your proud publishers, let me encourage you to stay the course in your own, thoughtful, funny, truthful, inimitable way! In our imperfect world, the only way to put out the darkness is to be a light. You’ve been a light in all you’ve done, for Doctors Without Borders, in your family life, and for all the wonderful causes you support and ideals you believe in. And, you have had the courage to be a very real person with a wonderful light that brings joy and laughter to your friends and readers! We at Storey Publishing are very proud to know you and to publish your important voice in the knitting world!!

  2738. Even when you know you are dealing with someone delusional, it is exhausting and scary to face so much anger and fear. As a longtime reader, I congratulate you on having the wisdom to cut off her attempts to interject her insanity into your rational and cheerful discourse. Best of luck. I am another American fan, and we are legion, of course.

  2739. This woman is neither a good Christian, nor a good American. I wonder if she is even a knitter! I would think that if she does not like what you have to say, why not just quit reading your blog instead of getting so nasty.
    Diana

  2740. While I cannot claim to “know” you in any way other than through the glimpses you give us through your books, your blog, and your personal appearances, I don’t need to “know” you to realize you are a kind, generous, thoughtful, caring, giving, empathetic person. I’m sad that you’ve become some kind of lightening rod for this person.
    For what it’s worth, none of your Canada Day posts have ever come across as anti-American to me. Pride in your country does not inherently equal disdain & derision of the USA.
    Please take additional steps to protect yourself & your family. It’s such a shame that those steps are necessary, but the small amount of vitriol you’ve shone the light on here lead me to believe they’re completely in order.
    Much virtual love & support for you. Knit on.

  2741. Thank you for having the courage to share this. I think that you are absolutely right, shining a light on it will hopefully make it unattractive to continue for her. She is nothing but a bully. Just wanted to add my support.

  2742. This woman is neither a good Christian, nor a good American. I wonder if she is even a knitter! I would think that if she does not like what you have to say, why not just quit reading your blog instead of getting so nasty.
    Diana

  2743. This woman is neither a good Christian, nor a good American. I wonder if she is even a knitter! I would think that if she does not like what you have to say, why not just quit reading your blog instead of getting so nasty.
    Diana

  2744. Adding my voice to the others. You make my world a better place. Thanks for all you do!

  2745. HiYa,
    She’s an idiot. Good on you for being able to stay cool.
    You’re an inspiration, a role model, and a virtual friend to many–it’s great to see an adult acting like one. Keep your head up, and stop from time-to-time to feel all the psychic goodness that’s so obviously (and rightly) flowing your way right now.

  2746. There’s nothing more annoying to me than someone claiming to speak for me because they share some common element of life with me, in this case, being an American. She doesn’t speak for me. I found your blog last year, and I have actually read every post in your archive, you’re that funny and engaging. I find you hilarious, endearing, honest, and the kind of person I would like to think I could be friends with in real life. I haven’t met you in person (yet — still hoping for another book tour stop in St. Louis!) but regardless, I feel a good bit of your take on things agrees with mine. That said, I’m impressed more by you now than ever, that you’re handling this in such a respectable manner, and despite how very irritated and scared you must feel at this person’s level of Crazy and persistence, you’re still not going to let her bait you into an all out ‘battle’ or whatever it is she’s trying to accomplish with this. I also promise not to engage at your request. I have zero respect for her, but loads for you, and will calmly move on without a word (but I will be thinking several words, most of them of the swearing variety) to/about her. The only thing I want but understand why you’re not doing it is that I would know who she is so if I do already read her blog, I could stop. I don’t want to know a person like that, or even pretend to identify with her. Though I guess after this post of yours, she’s likely to write on her blog about it and if I do read her, I’ll find out that way.

  2747. Hi,
    I am familiar of this kind of misplaced jingoism and hatred that is often paraded as patriotism and chaste christianity in USA.
    I have been reading your blog silently for quite some time and love your attitude towards, knitting, and life in general.
    So chin up, this world is full of crazies.

  2748. I adore you and everything I know about you from reading your books and your blogs and I am proud to be a non-knitting American.

  2749. I am just flabbergasted at the behavior of this woman. Lots of Love to you for your grace in dealing with this nutso.

  2750. I am so happy to see the love being expressed on this posting. Your books, your fantastic speeches, your willingness to share your life with all of us, have brought so many people joy. I’ve learned a lot from you, and you’ve given me a lot of laughter (especially your story about trying and failing to drink three…four cups of coffee in an airport early one morning. Hilarious!).
    I’m sure it is scary to have that openness thrown back in your face. I’m sorry someone was that mean to you. It’s not okay. Thank you for turning to us with the problem. We’ll help you out, the way you’ve helped us out.
    Cheers from the Eastern Coast of the USA

  2751. I read a ton of blogs and there are times when I disagree with the author. If it starts to happen more and more frequently I simply unsubscribe them in my Google Reader. No harm, no foul.
    I purposely read blogs from people from all over the world. It expands my knowledge of my knitting peeps everywhere. Thanks to you my DH and I are planning an anniversary weekend to Toronto and someday we’d like to go to NF too! I love your Canada Day posts each year.
    I’m sending you a virtual hug to you and your family. I only wish it could be some qiviut yarn and vicuna fiber . . . that makes everything feel better 🙂

  2752. As an American, a conservative and a Christian, I apologize for that idiot. I wish you had removed her name sooner. You gave her too much attention, which was bad for both of you.
    Please don’t confuse a foreign-phobic, intolerant lunatic wtih an American, a conservative, or a Christian. I am very disturbed that she dragged Jesus into her rant. Religious views are very individual and private.
    I enjoy your blog and learn quite a bit from it. Your writing has made me think more about my own views and taught me quite a bit about Canada. I expect people to prefer their own countries to others, and enjoy your comments about yours. You have taught me enough about Canada, that I am interested in visiting there.
    I also believe that our world inproves because of our universal dialogue with one another. Exchanging ideas and points of view is healthy. Idiots don’t want to hear other points of view, and fell threatened when they do. (you know, like ‘name removed’). I know that you are very liberal, but your blog makes me think about my own views. You have changed my attitudes about some things, but not about others. (That Willie Nelson comment still haunts me, and I am closer to his age than you are).
    Keep up the good work, but delete the idiots sooner. You don’t owe them a private dialogue, or to be the victim of their unintelligent rant. ‘name removed’ needs personal help, either personal of the ‘mind your own business’ kind, or the mental health kind-about why s/he feels the need to go back, again and again to be enraged by a particular blogger, when there are probably thousands of bloggers that would be as intolerant and dug in as s/he is. You may have averted a stalker, who knows?
    Keep up the good work and block out the idiots sooner!!!

  2753. Dude, more than THREE THOUSAND comments? I think she’s had the effect opposite of what she was going for.
    Please, please, stay safe.

  2754. Hang in there. Don’t let this ‘goofball’ get to you. She doesn’t speak for anyone but herself. We are behind you and support you forever.

  2755. Hang in there. Don’t let this ‘goofball’ get to you. She doesn’t speak for anyone but herself. We are behind you and support you forever.

  2756. So sorry to hear of all the grief you have had lately. i love your blog and your books- keep them coming!!

  2757. I love your blog and I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this crazy woman. Thanks for sharing the correspondance with us.
    Love and support from Sweden

  2758. Sending knitting love and good karma your way , we each have to live our lives with respect , I feel as though you have been teaching this , how many people have the love to spend all their time doing for others,there is a lesson to be learned here , the better you are the more the insucure will watch you.
    I have never been to CANADA and would love to go, I also love my U.S.A , but I would always try to see the good in all.
    LOVE TO YOU AND FELLOW CANADIANS,
    Shelda from the carolinas

  2759. The lunatics walk among us, Canadians and Amricans alike… She (he???) needs professional help. If further attacks are made on you, perhaps a restraining order would be best. Stalking isn’t funny, and you are far too important as a human being to not protect yourself and those precious to you. I have all your books, and you have saved me from knitting disasters… take care, be well, and don’t retreat.

  2760. I’m so very sorry that someone as kind, compassionate, and thoughtful as you are should be visited by this level of viciousness. NOTHING that she says represents the opinion of sane people in the U.S. or any other country.
    I send apologies for my countrywoman, many hugs, and prayers. (The prayers for you and your family will be easy; the ones for her will be harder. But she probably needs them more.)

  2761. As always, you are a gracious human, with tact and class, who demonstrates by example the best humans can be. I thank you.
    I pray for her. (She needs all the help she can get.) I do not believe that she is a ‘bad’ person, for no one is totally ‘bad’ like a Jabberwock. She owns her own behavior, not yours; nor you hers.
    I cheer for you and yours. Good ones, all.

  2762. Cheers and hugs from the Great State of Oregon. The 3 yr old and 6 yr old send big hugs as well. Chin up and see ya at Sock Summit. 🙂

  2763. Your blog rocks. As an American Christain that owns all your books and follows your blog, don’t stop what you are doing. I love you and your ways.
    When my grandmother was alive I used to share your blog/books with her and she thought you were a hoot.
    This “crazy” doesn’t represent anyone I know down here in VA thankfully. The knitting community here is standing behind you 100%.
    Keep up the excellent work.
    Margaret

  2764. I applaud you for walking away from this woman. Nonchalance is the best anti-dote.
    We’ll all be standing behind you!

  2765. I’m no expert in the field, but she seems to have a pretty severe mental disorder. I’m so sorry that she fixated on you. :c

  2766. Just to let you know this United Statesian is very happy to read your blog and your books, and thinks you’re wonderful. (I’ve never posted because I don’t generally have anything useful to say, but THIS TIME I needed to.) Abrazos to you!

  2767. I think it her extreme fortune that you are yourself such a decent and honorable person and handling this as well as you are.
    I have had a couple of (in person) harassment/stalker episodes, and the best I can tell you from those experiences is this:
    1. Document absolutely everything for yourself, and keep a copy in a file. Screen shots, e-mails, etc. Document also what you did about them, including contact with authorities and who you spoke to.
    2. Don’t do anything to engage the crazy person. You are right that there is no response that will be responded to reasonably, because this is not a reasonable, normal person, and you can’t expect them to act like one. This person sounds unbalanced.
    3. Keep it public within your family and friends. Especially when someone threatens you, isolation and secrecy are tools of the harasser. So keep it out there and let your close ones know what you are doing about it.
    All best. I am American, a knitter, and an atheist, and a moral, kind person all at once, and I am embarrassed terribly that a crazy person would use any of this as a cloak for their own cathartic crazy outbursts. It is ultimately not about you, the blog, or anything you might have done, and this person’s life seems very small and sad to me.

  2768. Stephanie – I read this blog avidly, but I rarely comment. I have my own presence on the internet and there does seem to be a very small percentage of people who just love to be cruel and keep cutting until they find a vein. *sigh* I’ve got one guy (and for me it always seems to be a man) who has been sending me random emails for years.
    I banned him from my site after months of abuse, but every now and then I see the emails getting caught up in the filter and getting deleted. Sometimes I’m curious about what he’s trying to attack now, but I let them go. He’s probably just telling me I’m fat, lazy, stupid and my husband is going to cheat on me. AS USUAL.
    There are too many sick individuals out there who try to build themselves up by tearing people down. Don’t EVER feel bad for deleting negative comments, insults or messages that make you feel icky. It’s your home here and nobody had permission to soil the rug! Delete and IPBan away!
    I hope it helps a little to know that for every 1 person who seems to hate you, there are thousands of us who love you and can’t wait for our daily dose of Harlot! Keep up the good works and don’t pay the crazies too much mind.

  2769. This woman is clearly insane. I hope you don’t take her hateful comments personally, and this from an American & a Christian who loves you!

  2770. Following you on Twitter, and joining in the twitter campaign to support the Yarn Harlot!
    Sorry about the nonsense. So ridiculous. Don’t let it get you down.
    ~ A patriotic, right-wing American Christian. 😀

  2771. I`m really sorry that someone is spoiling this for you. I love reading your blog, thankyou for sharing your life with us.
    love and higs
    sarah

  2772. Hey Steph, usual lurker coming out to tell you how much I appreciate your blog, and also, as a french-speaking québécois, how much I learned with your posts about Canada. Hope the support radiating from your readers can help compensate for what that woman did to you. Like we say back home: “Lâche pas la patate!”

  2773. Simply gobsmacked…this goes against all knitting karma. Sending good vibrations and loads of support your way…obviously from the amount of positive comments posted, you have many, many friends who see this situation as terribly unfortunate and completely undeserved.
    Stand tall, we’re right behind you.

  2774. Stephanie,
    As someone who has been persecuted by someone in a similar fashion (but over a different issue) I can sympathize with you greatly about your situation. It’s a horrible place to be. I commend you for your high road attitude and thank you for being the inspiration that you continue to be – as both a knitter and as a human being.

  2775. Thanks (from Boston) for being so brave and awesome and strong and cool and lovely!

  2776. Wow. That’s all I can say. Wow. Sure wish I had all the time in the world to hunt someone down, day and night, just for the pure joy of it.
    Stephanie–as an American, who lives in America, I say, bring it on. We Americans have many many faults. As a Christian American who does read the bible, again I say, we American’s have many many faults. Some really stupid faults. And if you find humor in us and want to point it out in that funny funny way that you have, more power to you.
    That person, whoever she is, is sick. Ill. Not right in the head. I have been reading you long enough to be able to say, with complete certainty, that you are a kind person. I may not agree with 100% of what you write (but isn’t that the beauty of writing?), but that means nothing other than that you and I both have brains and can agree to disagree. But I know you are a kind person (for heaven’s sake–you wanted to warn people who were stealing your cherries that they had worms!). I know you would never intentionally be cruel.
    This person is cruel. And deserved to be removed from your life.

  2777. I’m an American, I’m a Knitter, and I totally love your blogs, your books, and if I ever met you in person, I would probably stammer and stutter because I think you are amazing…and Canadian, to boot…if I weren’t already an American, I would choose to be Canadian. I’m so sorry you have been harassed by this idiot because you don’r deserve it. Take heart – the people who love you, love you, and the people who don’t – forget them. Obviously this person has nothing better to do with her time than act like an idiot.

  2778. Dear Harlot, Posting for the first time from UK. Love your books and blog – its the first one I check each day! Also loved listening to you at I Knit day in London last year, you’re awesome!!

  2779. You’re an amazing person, and I wish I had your fortitude to deal with things like this. Thank you for your maturity, inspiration, and of course, humor.

  2780. There’s an old saying on the Internet: “Don’t feed the trolls.” A troll is defined as a person who posts incendiary remarks in order to purposely start arguments among others. Sometimes the troll doesn’t even believe the things they write, they just enjoy picking fights. If you don’t respond, they don’t succeed in their aims.
    Stephanie, I heard you speak a few years ago at the NY State Sheep and Wool Festival. You’re sparkling humo(u)r, made my day. Thanks for all of your good work. Please know that here in Brooklyn, NY, US, we’ve got your back.

  2781. I guess I really don’t get the point of this post, other then to get sympathy and a virtual pat on the back. Yarn Harlot was feeling low so she quick had her fangirls give her a boost.
    And watch the “crazy” and “mentally ill” talk. All of you who are saying how wrong it is to judge and speak for others are sure quick to do just that when defending your precious Harlot. There are loads of us who do not buy her books or no longer enjoy her writings, and true we just don’t read her blog, so you just don’t hear from us here. Don’t be fooled though-we do exist.

  2782. I am so sorry to hear about the terrible month that you’ve been through. This American loves everything your write.
    I do encourage you to take any and all forms of legal recourse that you have at your disposal. I know it can be tricky being cross-countries, but there must be some sort of harassment laws being broken here.

  2783. Stephanie –
    Oh. My. Goodness. This is terrible, and I’m so sorry, as a friend (at least in a “I like hearing your good news and seeing what you’re up to” kind of way), I’m so very sorry you’re having to deal with this difficult person who has created this awkward and painful situation.
    As a citizen of the United States, I’d like you to know that I am fully aware that you are neither critical of my nationality nor generally anti-American. I know you know that about almost all of your readers on this side of the Canadian border, but perhaps a reminder would feel good right at this moment.
    You have handled the situation with admirable calm. I hope you can take solace in the 3,000+ comments filled with love and positivity, and push the existence of this one harmful voice out of your mind.
    <3
    Hadley

  2784. Stephanie, Thank you for writing to the blog like this. I cannot tell you how much you have contributed to my knitting over the years. You are the first knit blog I followed, and a complete inspiration. Please – if this escalates, get legal advice. There is stalking but this reaches over & above meanness. It seems like raw old-fashioned defamation. There’s a remedy for that. I hope good sense prevails. Thanks for speaking out.
    Not so anonymous, eh? Shucks!

  2785. Wow. She gives Americans AND Christians a bad name. Obviously she’s in love with you and cannot stop stalking you. Sending positive thoughts. Good Luck!

  2786. People are crazy. I hope it doesn’t ruin your fun.
    Just know that not everyone is crazy. Just the loudest folks it seems.
    <3 to you from one Godless (american) heathen to another. 🙂
    K.

  2787. From yet another longtime (American) lurker–you are handling an extraordinarily difficult situation with amazing grace. Sending support and good wishes your way–
    Diana

  2788. Oh yes, this one is definitely a “troll”. Try not to take her seriously. Trolls live from getting responses, try to ignore her as best as you can, although it may be hard sometimes.
    If you react in any way to a “troll” you’ll feed the fire.
    This is the internet – a friendly place most of the time but also a place for all those people who aren’t able to live a life they want “in the real world”. They’re full of envy and there only world where they can get reactions is the web. Sad but true.
    Hugs from Germany
    Sonja

  2789. Wow! Why we feel the need to draw lines and put ourselves into groups is beyond me. Why can’t we just all be human and enjoy our lives on this planet together.
    But since we are talking boundaries. . .as an American the one thing I am most proud of is that “Most” of us are able to look beyond race, religion, borders, etc and see the wonderful things that each individual brings to our lives. And that we have a “choice” to enjoy the things that we feel fulfill our lives.
    Stephanie you are an amazing person. . .I read your blog everyday and the happiness that it brings to my day is the greatest gift. Thank you for that.
    For those people who don’t enjoy it. . do the right thing. . just don’t read it. Because as an American. . .that is your right. But respect others “choices” and their rights.

  2790. Stephanie, wow! I am blown away by the craziness that is that woman’s rantings!!! It really sounds like she isn’t very stable.
    I am so sorry for you. Personally, I check your blog for updates about six times a day! :O) I would be truly upset if someone where to ruin this place for me. Its very important to me. I feel like I’m having a nice chat, and a laugh with a good friend when I am here. I hope that this can be resolved, and that it doesn’t cause you any more pain/hassle/struggle.
    I’m really struggling with the fact that a person wrote those things for real?!?! She doesn’t realize how INSANE they sound? Well, my mother always says, “it takes all kinds”. But you kind of wonder if we really need THAT kind?

  2791. I too feel sorry for bullies. Standing up to them is a brave thing to do, and I really hope our collective good will helps balance some of the disquiet caused.

  2792. When people attack and then say they are Christians, my blood boils. I often see far more Christ-like behaviour from non-Christians and this is one of those times. Your harasser does not represent Christianity, Americans or anything decent. Over 3,000 supportive comments Steph? You are loved. Obviously we are not listening to your admonition to ‘never speak of this again’.
    Knit on through all crises! Didn’t Elizabeth Z. say that?

  2793. wow – whay a lot of positive responses – I can’t read them all or I’d never get anything else done but I wanted to be among the thousands who say how much we are amused by and love what you say and do – sometimes I’m laughing so hard it hurts – particularly that story about the airline lady but anyway, banish the God bothering cow to a land without wool I say and lets all carry on with our lives.
    Congrats to the hardy cyclists – I’ve been following my son’s racing in Northern Quebec all week via internet so I can relate to your worries for them.
    must go knit a few rows as it’s raining again in NB today Augh
    Sheila

  2794. More support from a Christian/Catholic American who loves your blog. You and your family do not need this type of harrassment. I enjoy your entries about Canada, and have never once, not even for a second, thought that you were insulting your neighbors to the South. Even if someone doesn’t agree with what you post, I truly don’t understand why someone would attack you on a personal level. But I guess you can’t rationalize the behavior of an irrational person. All my best to you and your family.

  2795. I’ve never commented before, but this really hit me. The internet is a scary place. And it’s an outlet for a lot of hostile, angry people who have no other place to vent their rage at the world. I’m so sorry that you were targeted this way, and that you’ve been pulled into the insanity. Normal, everyday life is hard enough without having to deal with this kind of craziness. Have a nice glass of wine and forget about it. I’m American and I freakin’ love you!

  2796. I forgot something! Sorry…
    I wanted to say that I think you are an amazing Knitter, Writer, and even though I don’t know you personally, I believe you are an amazing human being. You seem very level headed, which is apparent in the fact that you haven’t lost your mind and went to find this woman! I admire you Stephanie. Thats all I wanted to add!

  2797. Ms. Stephanie,
    That little voice…take the biggest fly swatter you can find and give it a good heave!! You’ve done nothing wrong and don’t let her get inside your head. As an American, I’m in total support of your blog, your endeavors (Doctors Without Borders!) and you. I’m always delighted by your posts (especially the trials of being a parent) and please don’t let one this one rotten apple ruin the bunch.

  2798. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with all of this craziness. I, like many others, usually do not comment but felt that I needed to today. You are a talented knitter and writer, I love your books and look forward to reading your blog. Remember this will pass. Sending happy thoughts your way 🙂

  2799. Stephanie – I have always found your love of Canada and nationalistic pride to be a quality to be admired. I am completely shocked that anyone would take offense. Clearly this has become a witch hunt on her part and this person has serious emotional problems. I admire the way you have handled this and know you will continue to take the high road. Try not to let her “rent space in your head” – she’s not worth it.

  2800. My (unasked for) opinion of this whole mess is that this is a mental health challenge, and it is not really about Stephanie, although this poor woman has targeted her.
    Attention-getting behaviour soon becomes very unrewarding when it does not garner attention.
    So fellow knitters, the best thing we (and Stephanie) can do is to completely ignore these electronic attacks, and hope that the sender gets some help before she hurts someone closer at hand.
    Blessings to all of you and especially Stephanie.

  2801. For Goodness sake, this is a knitting blog! What is this woman’s problem? Jealousy, no doubt. Steph, you ROCK!
    Write more books!! Knit more socks!!! Post more entries!! ROCK ON!!!!

  2802. I am speechless. I just don’t understand people sometimes. I guess it’s because it is not in my nature to be so vile. You have and always will have my support along with many of my other knitting and non-knitting friends.

  2803. You’ve done the yarn industry a wealth of good with your writing, your insights, your humor and your dedication to enjoying knitting.
    Sharing your experiences with us through your blog is one of the kindest things you could do — we all learn and laugh and understand.
    What is happening to you sadly shows how abuse and cruelty can leak into something so benign and intrinsically good as knitting.
    Sending you the best thoughts and hoping that this ceases soon. I really admire your courage.

  2804. More support from a Christian/Catholic American who loves your blog. You and your family do not need this type of harrassment. I enjoy your entries about Canada, and have never once, not even for a second, thought that you were insulting your neighbors to the South. Even if someone doesn’t agree with what you post, I truly don’t understand why someone would attack you on a personal level. But I guess you can’t rationalize the behavior of an irrational person. All my best to you and your family.

  2805. I had to go back and read your Canada Day entry because I couldn’t see anything anti american about it. I was right, it was nothing bad at all. We support you, Stephanie, and will do as you ask. Your blog brings me such great joy. As do your books and tours. I have been lucky enough to see you twice. Portland OR and Wichita, KS. Keep up the good work. Dee

  2806. Stephanie – I’m an American, although seeing something like this makes me embarrassed to admit it…I think you are handling this with an amazing amount of strength, patience and tact. I think this person must be extraordinarily unhappy.
    Thank you for continuing to write and not letter her win! There are many Americans down here in the lower 48 that love you and Canada!!!!

  2807. You should always remember that you have many people who love your work and your attitude toward life.
    Don’t let one crazy do you in. (And this person seems really really off.)
    See you at SS09 – the biggest knitting excitement in many of our lives.
    Joan

  2808. It’s amazing what damage an army of one can cause. Thank you for not posting her name or I might be tempted to entitle myself to “a mistake” on her blog. I can’t fathom why she continues to try to read your blog if she harbors that much hatred toward you.
    I’m grateful that you continue to write and to inspire so many with your spirit.
    Take care.

  2809. Obviously you are a hater who only cares about Canada and not about that great country to the south (and south some more… ok a long way south, and then west a bit, well a lot actually).
    That’s right, as you never say anything about New Zealand on your blog you must have even more contempt for the mighty Kiwi than you do for Uncle Sam! New Zealand may just be a tiny little country compared to the greatness that is Canada but your ignorance will not go unpunished.
    The kiwis have gotten wind of your attitude and are planning a bird-led invasion of Canada, so watch out, lady! As I type they are working on their STS (Sheep Targeting Systems) and they are saving their biggest ewe-bombs to drop right on YOUR house! There are still some working issues with the ewe-bomb-to-kiwi ratio as the kiwis still haven’t made it off the ground unladen, but some of that famous Kiwi ingenuity is bound to work it out and when that happens you are TOAST! Toast with Marmite on it, heed my words!
    In case the kiwi squadrons fail we plan to follow them up with pavlova missiles and you do NOT want to know the damage they can do – just ask the Australians! We will then be fighting over who threw the first pavlova for generations to come!
    Not to mention our meat pie mines, our number one propaganda tool. Step on one and your nose will be assaulted by the stench of molten mince as you realise that any people who have the stomach lining to deal with that stuff must be tougher than you.
    You can regard this as an ultimatum. If, however, you reverse your policy on NZ-hating everything will be forgiven and we can all be mates again.
    (also, what everyone else said)

  2810. I’m sending you a hug!!!! Keep your head held high. You are a VERY talented person and have lots of friends.

  2811. Another knitter from the US standing behind you. Stand strong and trust yourself. With a giant, virtual hug…Kathleen

  2812. Good grief. Some people have far too much time on their hands, and choose to spend it by being hateful. It’s truly pathetic.
    Lots of love and good vibes headed your way!
    (((HUGS)))

  2813. I’ve lurked for a couple of years now and wanted you to know that you have made me laugh, inspired me on the knitting and the charitable and the caring about the environment and the giving back to those who need it more than I.
    I wanted to add my voice to the THOUSANDS offering support and good wishes. I wonder how many others have been attacked by this individual. I suspect that it is not about you.

  2814. Also, you did the right thing for the right reasons. You’re a good, classy, and graceful person. Hopefully after this she’ll realize how alone she is and shut up.

  2815. Stalking is not an American value!
    You have so much support and so many people who deeply enjoy your work. I’m obviously just one of many! Thank you for sharing your life with us in your blog and your books–your Canada Day posts crack me up every year!

  2816. Wow.
    I really don’t know what to say, other than I am so very sorry, and that I hope you don’t let this get to you too too badly. As an American and a Christian (and a pretty conservative one at that), I can honestly say that this person clearly must be incredibly confused and sad that she would make such hurtful comments. I do not agree with her at all. Keep posting, Steph. You are wonderful and funny, and I love your site.

  2817. I just wanted to know that I to have followed your blog for several years and wanted to lend my support as an American!! I consider you to be a big part of the knitting world and one day hope to met you -should you ever return to Alaska. Goo

  2818. There is a reason they call it crazy. It’s hard to be the reasonable one in the face of this kind of behavior. You’re doing a great job, keep it up. This part of the blog will abide and give her all the attention she deserves (none!)

  2819. More support from a Christian/Catholic American who loves your blog. You and your family do not need this type of harrassment. I enjoy your entries about Canada, and have never once, not even for a second, thought that you were insulting your neighbors to the South. Even if someone doesn’t agree with what you post, I truly don’t understand why someone would attack you on a personal level. But I guess you can’t rationalize the behavior of an irrational person. All my best to you and your family.

  2820. I’m an American, and I just want to add to the chorus of voices that I absolutely love your blog, all of it, the knitting parts, the parenting parts, the Canadian parts, the just general life parts. All of it. It would never ever occur to me to think of any of it as anti-American. I hope you reach closure and gets lots and lots of love and support about this horrible situation.
    Thank you so much for having your blog and inviting all of us into your life. I hope the rest of us can do your generosity justice!

  2821. First-time posting. My mum and I saw you in NYC a few years ago. We had a fabulous time. I have a lot of respect for you. You are good at what you do, keep it up!

  2822. As if anyone is going to read the 3100th comment, but I feel compelled to write…
    I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I can’t imagine what it must feel like to have all that hatred aimed at you. Your stomach must clench with anxiety every time you go to read the comments, and I think it’s horrible that some crazy person is trying to hijack your life this way. I found the venom in those messages to be nausea-inspiring.
    I am a very conservative, Christian, stay-at-home, homeschooling American mom AND a knitter AND a huge fan of the Yarn Harlot. Even though my thoughts differ from yours in many areas, I love and respect how passionate and articulate you are in expressing your views. I am happy to read your well-thought-out perspective and you always give me something to think about to either alter or solidify my own views. Your love for your family is crystal clear, and your daughters seem like beautiful, smart, well adjusted people.
    As far as the rest…it is insanity to me that anyone would think that being a Canadian patriot is somehow anti-American. And none of that vitriol is Christian.
    Please keep talking with whatever authorities there are to protect yourself and your family.
    Love and support from Colorado. Keep shining the light. – Deb

  2823. Make sure you print this out and keep these comments for those days when comments like that get to you! Like others, convinced this ‘one’ isn’t well.
    Like other “Jesus Followers” also convinced ‘she’ isn’t a christian who has bothered to open her Bible and actually read and follow anything written in that book either!
    But, as a Canadian (and a darn proud Canadian) realize of course, that those comments are moot!
    Its good you were open and respectful and have shared the problem with all. Things hidden have too much power and things exposed are seen for what they really are!

  2824. You wouldn’t believe how many times I have read your blog to my husband, and said ‘see, I’m not the only one.’ Thanks for the sanity, sorry crazy has invaded your world

  2825. Sounds like this is one angry, unhappy person.
    Peace, love and socks to you! – Dee

  2826. Dear YH,
    This is my first time posting as well, and I feel compelled to stand up to the horrible negativity from this terror of a human being. I’m an American too, and if I believed this person was representative of this United States, I would have left long ago. She is obviously unwell, and I fear for your safety with this woman’s irrational behavior. Please know that we are all there supporting you and loving every word you put down, because we all look to you for inspiration and advice on a daily basis. Thanks for being you and standing strong in the face of such adversity.
    Amanda

  2827. I am shocked, I can think of no other word. I, at the moment, am embarrassed to be an American-Women-Christian-Knitter. Please accept my apology on behalf of our group. We do not echo the words of this woman.

  2828. I can’t begin to express how sad it made me to read this post. You are a wonderful person/woman/mother/friend and of course knitter. Just remember that most people who read your blog are inspired by you every day, and appreciate your humour and warmth. Sending you lots of positive vibes and love. xo

  2829. This is how I look at this; she must not have much else to keep her occupied because this is what she is spending lots of her time on. Jealousy makes people do stupid and hateful things. please stop letting this woman occupy anymore of your brain time. She is not worth the effort. Can you only imagine how the people around her must get treated if she goes off like this about a blog. A blog I rather enjoy reading. I like to chuckle about knitting. I love to see other people having similar issues with their children. Many of us have spouses and I do laugh sometimes when you speak of Joe. Not at you but with you because it is so familiar sounding. There are so many more of us sane people in this world, than there are of this person. Your popularity comes because lots of us like what you say. Keep doing what you do. We are supporting you know more than ever.

  2830. Wow. Just wow.
    I’m an American and I love your Canada Day posts. I love that you are proud of your country and love your huge stretch of wilderness and cities and people and culture above the United States. Being proud and happy to be a Canadian isn’t anti-American, it is pro-Canadian. And it is good to be happy and proud of where you are from wherever it happens to be.

  2831. ———-WOW————–
    We all encounter our fair share of crazies in this world and you have certainly had your fair share for a few years!
    best of luck coping with this situation.

  2832. Good grief. I’m delurking to say I’m so sorry you are having to go through this filth. Truly, there are times that I am completely ashamed of my fellow Americans. I hope this nutcase finds someone else to demonize. She really needs professional psychiatric help.

  2833. As an American I am so ashamed by this person. I love your blog, I think you are intelligent, witty, strong and beautiful. Please keep up this delightful blog and your inspiring books!

  2834. Sorry to hear you’ve been having this terrible experience. It’s very sad that to think that your positive energy and talent have gotten such a strange reaction from that anonymous person. I’m sending you a hug–does that help?

  2835. Grace, you wrote: “I commend you for your high road attitude…”
    Stephanie is a delightful read and is, I concluded, obviously a very nice person when I met her a while back. And thus I completely understand her impulse to handle this in a “high road” fashion.
    But here’s the thing, Grace – Stephanie is ALREADY the victim of a FELONY under US law. Would you commend a woman who was “taking the high road” with a rapist or wife-beater?
    And what is Stephanie describing here but a psychological beating?

    “… the whole thing is scary, especially once she started referring to my parenting (didn’t tell you about that one) and my family in general.”

    I’m not a lawyer, but it seems to me that this is a clear violation of 47 USC 223(a)(1)(C), and that crime is punishable by two years in prison.
    Kristyn has it spot on – I hope Stephanie permits the FBI to help her put an end to this crime that’s being committed against her before it escalates any further than it already has.
    I suppose this means that Stephanie has arrived at a new level of celebrity – she has a stalker, just like Jodie Foster.

  2836. My advice is to minimize how much you allow her to distract you. She is a nasty piece of work and can drain your energy if you allow it. She’s attacking from the side. Just keep your gaze straight ahead and say No! firmly and slap her down with one hand, keeping your eyes focused straight ahead.

  2837. I am an American woman, proud mother, knitter, crocheter and Yarn Harlot Fan!!! I love reading your blog, and particularly enjoy learning more about you Canadians!! I’m only in Michigan, but its still an education. Thank you for blogging.

  2838. Stephanie, I have been reading your blog since you started and I have never read an un-american statement on it! I am an american but have also lived in canada (BC) for a time and found your country and the people open, warm, generous, polite and helpful-so much so that I would have stayed if that had been possible. It remains probably the most *normal* place I have lived.
    It is so sad that for some, to be honestly proud of something that is different is seen as a challenge and an affront to them. I feel very sorry for her and for her need to harass you in this way. You are handling it in the most straightforward way possible and should be congratulated for your approach to this.
    For the record, this is one american left leaning liberal wiccan knitter who isn’t afraid to say that her own country isn’t perfect, that all people have the right to their opinions and that the Yarn Harlot rocks! Knit on!!!

  2839. You constantly amaze me with your ability to handle this as well as you have already. The fact that this went so poorly out of hand is just a complete shame. I commend you for shining more light on the situation, I hope that there is some reduction in the attack.
    Here’s to avoiding net trolls!

  2840. I’m Brazilian – a non Knitter, but just to have something to say in ny defense I work with yarn development;)and that’s how I got to know (and love) your blog. A friend ask me why I read a knitter’s blog every single day ( note: it’s Brazil, it’s hot – not a lot of respect for knitting here)and I answered that it’s because most of all you are a good person and an inspiration and especially when you talk about your family it brings tears to my eyes.
    So, I never wrote here – or in any other blog – but, like those thousands before me, I felt compelled to let you know you have a lot of people behind you. Carry on the good work!
    Love from the tropics!

  2841. I’m so sorry this unstable woman has been a pain in your… side. She did something similar about a year (or maybe a little more) on a yahoo group I belong to.
    As an American and a Knitter, I just want to say *I* support you and think you’re awesome. Hugs and good vibes are being sent your way from knitters on their blogs and on Ravelry and in the comments. I’d say the supporters outweigh the dissenters in this one.

  2842. Another lurker here. Just wanted to say how awful and exhausting for you and, yes, ignoring her is the best path – a silly, sad woman needing some attention in her real life, no doubt.
    Love your Canada Day postings – I’m in Scotland and I’ve been to Canada once – it is a wonderful country and you are right to be proud.
    Also, Joe getting stuck in the snow and his comment later “Honey, that was a little demoralising…” (quoting from memory so may be a bit wrong.) – I still chuckle when I think of it. A steadfast man not to be mocked, I imagine.
    Have strength.
    Karen (Scotland)

  2843. Sheesh. You’re doing exactly what you should. There is so much that can go wrong in an individual’s life, who needs negativity on purpose? Hang in there- with time and peace this will pass. Hugs and peace.

  2844. hey YH. this person DOES NOT represent all americans! im ashamed to even know she is from this country. the fact that she has made it a point to basically STALK you is a testament that she has nothing better in her life to fill her time. it seems that her life is very empty and sad for her to think it is ok to attack someone else in order to make herself feel/look better. she may call herself a christian but she certainly isnt demonstrating very chritian like behavior.

  2845. My (unasked for) opinion of this whole mess is that this is a mental health challenge, and it is not really about Stephanie, although this poor woman has targeted her.
    Attention-getting behaviour soon becomes very unrewarding when it does not garner attention.
    So fellow knitters, the best thing we (and Stephanie) can do is to completely ignore these electronic attacks, and hope that the sender gets some help before she hurts someone closer at hand.
    Blessings to all of you and especially Stephanie.

  2846. Another long time reader, rare commenter, American saying good for you and shine on!

  2847. YH – I am a total lurker but felt I needed to comment. This is your blog, about your life, your country, your drinking and your knitting. That woman has had the pleasure reading about your life – now she needs to get her own. And she should not be hating your in order to get a life.
    You’ve inspired millions. It’s a shame that one person has the ability to try and destroy something.
    She has a choice – she doesn’t have to read about your life.
    ps – i work with a lot of Canadians and they are the nicest people EVER.

  2848. Long time lurker first time commenter joining a long long long 😉 list of supporters. Love you Steph

  2849. Steph:
    Almost 3200 people have commented already, but I wanted to throw my hat in the ring as a supporter. I enjoy your blog; your stories make me laugh and there are so many that as a working mother with teenagers I can relate to (we have our own Sir Washie, and plenty of moody teen moments). I love your travel entries because I don’t get to do much travel myself – and almost none to Canada – so I feel like I’m living vicariously.
    One day I will manage to see you in person while you are on tour; I’d love to show you the Super-Sized Sock I made in an epic fit of knitterly denial.

  2850. Took me a while to comment, but I have been following your blog, and loving it, for years. Thank you for continually sharing your life and work with us, with humor, honesty and grace. Through this blog, you never fail to entertain and inspire. Sending you thanks and love from the south (and west)!

  2851. Canada and the US are both part of the Americas, last I heard! You rock, Stephanie. Don’t let this foolishness get you down!

  2852. Wow. The level of crazy there is just horrifying. She seriously sounds like she needs some help. Sending you a hug and beer and all my support.

  2853. “If we don’t believe in free expression for people we despise, we don’t believe in it at all.” ~ N. Chomsky. Rock on, Stephanie.

  2854. *takes a deep breath to release the enmity for this “person” attacking you*
    I will go forth and preach the love that I have for the Harlot, her Canadian-ness and her fabulously funny and decidedly left writings.
    WE LOVE YOU, WE LOVE YOU, WE LOVE YOU!!!

  2855. You are the reason that I took the plunge and learned to knit, and wow do I thank you for that! It was only chance that I found your blog a couple of years ago, and that day you made knitting possible, funny, a team sport, and a whole lot of beautiful. Thanks for sharing a bit of you and making a bit of my life a lot happier!!

  2856. Sending support from a UK knitter. I love your books and your blog and was in the audience at the Iknit day in London last year.
    My daughter has been a victim of internet bullying and although it nearly ruined her first year at Uni, she has worked through it and will be going back in September.

  2857. That crazy person does not represent me as an American in any way, shape or form. Good job on taking the high road, and holding on to your moral values. You are appreciated and held in the highest esteem in our global fiber community. So chin up–you are surrounded by millions who appreciate your wit, knowledge and humor. See you at Sock Summit.

  2858. I can feel the light all the way down here in Chicago. 🙂 Keep on keepin’ on, sister.

  2859. Blech – this is what happens when someone falls down their own rabbit hole. The poor woman probably thinks Rush Limbaugh is a “statesman” – a premise one could only take seriously if one were estimating his girth, not his intellectual acumen.
    Yes, consult a lawyer and get a no-contact against this wacko. And then don’t give her another thought – the worst thing that these types can imagine is NOT getting the response they want.
    And while we’re both North Americans, I happen to live south of our common border. And I LOVE your Canada Day posts, every one of them.
    We have your back, Steph!

  2860. Stephanie, I’ve never posted before but I am today- I’m a tremendous fan of yours, as well as a Christian, and an American, and I am going to continue reading your books and your blog, and hope that I can meet you someday, because you’re wonderful.

  2861. ::snorfle:: “Anti-Americanism”?
    I don’t think that “word” would fly in scrabble. ROTFLMAO

  2862. I don’t post often but this one gets me! I’ll be supporting you YH! Let’s just turn the other cheek and practice what we preach!

  2863. Peace and hugs from CA. I’m generally content to lurk around in the background without commenting, but I HAD to send some happy thoughts your way. I absolutely love your blog and your books. I’m sure I’d be able to say the same about you if we ever met. Thank you for bringing light and laughter into our lives!

  2864. Well, so far today….you’re 3000+ people to one. I’d say that should be enough self confidence to keep you going.

  2865. So sorry you have to deal with this weirdness. Speaking for myself, I never read through all the comments. You always get so many, and I’m really only here to read what you write. 🙂 So…any attempt to escalate things would never be seen by me. And I doubt I’m the only one who reads this way.

  2866. Dear Stephanie,
    I started reading your blog shortly after you started writing it. Your blog was one of my windows into a normal world where people were respectful, kind to each other and knitting was OK. After thirty years of abusive relationships, your blog helped me understand how wonderful the world can be, even when the washer breaks or squirrels steal your wool. Thank you so much for sharing yourself with me and everyone else. You’ve handled this situation with grace, courage and compassion. Abuse happens in private, where the shame can do more damage than the actual words or blows. Thank you for bringing this out in the open and proving once again what a caring, compassionate, classy person you are. You’ve done a wonderful job raising your daughters to be compassionate, thoughtful, intelligent people (even though you sometimes don’t see it. That’s normal). Thank you for your words of wisdom and insights into your caring, loving world. You have wonderful friends and family to support you. Keep your chin up and don’t let the turkeys get you down. There’s so much that’s wonderful in the world. And you are part of it. Thanks for being you.

  2867. Its very primal and easy to be mean, a higher level to choose to be nice.
    I am also American , never once thought your post were anti …well anti anthing, funny and thoughtful….
    were is it said because you love one thing can’t can’t love another. I love the country I live in, I love all the countries I have been to including canada.
    ugly people like ugly cloth just don’t pick them to wear

  2868. I read your blog every day. It inspires my knitting and puts me in a good mood each time. I’ve bought all your books. You’re the best knitter-writer out there. Stephanie, never, never, never respond in any way to these people. As you saw, it only feeds their craziness. Be silent, report them to whatever authorities there may be, and keep on keepin’ on.

  2869. Just another word of encouragement and thanks for all you do for the knitting world.
    You’re been a great inspiration to me.
    Love your blog.

  2870. I am so sorry that you have to endure this. Go on the way you’re doing. I am from The Netherlands and enjoy reading your blog.

  2871. Ah, Steph – what can I say that 3215 of us (and counting) hasn’t? I’m so sorry this is happening and don’t let it tarnish your shine.
    As someone who remembers pre-graphical Internet communication – these pathetic, narcissistic morons have always been out there. I firmly believe that our growing, internetworked world consciousness is a good thing, and that we have to realize, there are in fact no more crazies “on line” than in the real world, no increasing number of maniacs “out there” than there ever was. It’s just the sociopath’s wavefront can propagate farther in our broadened pool of communication. Fortunately positive, witty, smart participation like yours has always been will remain the stronger and father-reaching front.
    I’ll probably not get to do more than cheer you from the crowd at Sock Summit, but can’t wait anyway – you’re rockin’ the world, and some pathetic dog paddler has pretentions of riding the wake, is all.

  2872. Way to go for handling this with reason and respect and having the courage to write this post. Just the fact that you show respect and sympathy to someone who is so horrible to you shows that you are a kind and loving person.
    I was saddened when you wrote that it’s like your inner, hard-on-yourself voice is writing these emails. I sure hope you don’t believe anything nearly this bad about yourself! Look around at your family and friends, and the thousands of people who don’t even know you commenting to show their support.
    Don’t even read the emails anymore. Just delete and ignore everything from this person, and hopefully soon the emails/comments will stop coming.
    Keep shining through your blog and being the Stephanie we love!
    (from another American reader who does not usually comment)

  2873. Sending more kjarma and hugs via a doctors without borders donation….. Thanks steph!

  2874. So sorry you’re having to deal with this miserable stuff. Such a waste of time and energy.
    (((Stephanie)))

  2875. YH: Delurking to say: 3K+ comments to the 20th power. Which yields some powerful, powerful light…

  2876. I’m American and have never found your posts to be anti-American. You are a teacher, you are a kind and funny human being with a lot of common sense. Don’t let her win 1 iota of your self esteem, you are doing the right thing!! Take good care of yourself, and keep doing what you do so very well. I love your blog, your books and your Tweets. You’re welcome in America any time!!

  2877. Dear Stephanie, I assure you (as if you needed it), that there is at least one American who does not believe that you are anti-American (or really, anti-anyone). Please continue to do what you can and need to do to protect yourself from the abuser. I am so sorry about this situation, especially as I know you are busy right now with more important things. Please know that I for one, am supporting you in all ways I can & have nothing but love for you & yours.
    Sincerely,
    peanutty
    PS – I hesitate to speak for other Americans or even other knitters, as I doubt they are a homogenous group. But I am sure they will & have already said their piece, so I don’t need to anyway. – p

  2878. Gees, Steph. I don’t even know what to say that won’t feed the flames. (((hugs))))
    PS. You inspired me to learn how to knit lace and I love it. Socks, I have one sock syndrome. lol.

  2879. I’m so sorry a fellow American would treat you this way. Since I’m choosing to read your blog, it’s on me if I get offended by something you write. I do not agree with you on several issues, but wholeheartedly agree that you have the right to your opinion.

  2880. Gailie Girli wrote:

    So fellow knitters, the best thing we (and Stephanie) can do is to completely ignore these electronic attacks, and hope that the sender gets some help before she hurts someone closer at hand.

    The Torah commands Jews: “Do not stand idly by when one is in danger.” (Leviticus 19:16) The Christian parable of the Good Samaritan also comes to mind.
    If all anyone does is “hope” that Stephanie’s stalker is stopped by someone, somewhere, someday, before she hurts someone, then you can be guaranteed that she will not be stopped by anyone before she hurts someone. And that’s not the “best” thing by any stretch of the imagination.
    For Jodie Foster’s stalker – who she spent many, many months trying to ignore – it ended up being President Reagan who was closer at hand, and who was hurt.

  2881. I also would like to join the chorus of American knitters who love reading the Yarn Harlot and are appalled at this other person’s actions. Kudos to you for taking the high road!

  2882. Deah YH, I am so sorry that this obviously mentally un-balanced person has targeted to you. I am an American who loves her country and am quite happy with Canadians who love their country (one hopes that whatever country one lives in, one loves it). I do hope you are successful in blocking this person from your blog/email, etc. BTW, this knitter quite enjoys your blog.

  2883. Stephanie,
    I admire your strength and courage – this is a scary situation. As an American, I am offended that she is taking up this cause against you on behalf of this country. I adore you, your blog, your books, your Sock Summit efforts, and will continue to be a fan despite her cruel and hateful words.
    Stay safe!

  2884. Wow. I am so sorry that you are the victum of this womans tirade. I’m american, and you haven’t insulted me one bit!

  2885. So bizarre.. these are the things that were going through my head. This sounds like the work of a group that does these things professionally… no one is this vindictive. Then I thought.. woah.. mental illness… and then I though funny.. maybe its my little sisters ex mother in law.. posing as an american..
    Good energy to you sister! keep your chin up, and stay SAFE.

  2886. I know you don’t want to stoop to her level, but could we try fighting fire with knitty optimism? How ’bout we bombard her blog/email with positive messages and wishes that she finds peace and contentment in her heart. 🙂

  2887. Greetings from another Christian woman. Just for the record, MY God would never condone this woman’s behavior. Maybe she needs to re-read her Bible to get the Commandments that Jesus taught correct: Love and serve God. Love thy neighbor. Nothing about liking your neighbor or even agreeing with him but you darn well better love him/her.
    May you be able to put this situation behind you soon and may peace reign supreme at the Pearl-McPhee household soon.

  2888. If she dislikes you so, why read your blog at all. What a loser. The rest of us spend our presious time reading you because we like to see a) your knitting, b) it’s nice to know we are not alone in our knitting loonyness, c) it’s fun to see how others live. Even when my opinion is different from others I respect that they can have a different opinion and sometimes I learn from them and change my opinion. Some peole thrive on causing trouble. I am sorry that their live are so empty. Obviously they can’t bear to look too closely to themselves so must tear apart others to feel good. How Sad!

  2889. good lord. I can’t say anything that others haven’t already said, except I’m sorry this is happening to you, and keep up the good work.

  2890. Well, Steph, as you certainly know, the existence of a person who behaves like this, who wastes so many precious hours of the day on hateful, compulsive e-mails rather than enjoying the sunshine, is punishment in itself. Just reading her garbage was enough to dampen my day; imagine being the thing producing it.
    And some “Christian,” too. I know that she’s no spokesperson for the Christian faith, so I say the following in jest, but I think I’ll stick with my Wiccan ways, since they haven’t leave me compelled to sling foul language and insults at someone who doesn’t share my opinion.

  2891. Steph – first of all, we love you. The woman is obviously insane. Save & print everything. Open a File. You may be able to have her investigated. It sounds like harassment, defamation & slander to me! And don’t stop blogging. And keep drinking beer.

  2892. Sending you the vibes I try to put out for a good long-distance hug like the ones I give my mom. You’re a good, strong woman. You being a happy, true person, and sharing it with all of us has made my world better and easier and happier. Thank you, Stephanie!

  2893. Illegitimi non carborundum, Stephanivs. 🙂
    So how’re the plans for Sock Summit coming along?

  2894. “When a good man is hurt, all who would be called good must suffer with him.” – Euripides
    3,000 + comments proves it

  2895. I’m so sorry that this is happening to you and I wish we all could do something to make it stop. I have loved your blog ever since I found out that there was blogs,even when you are not talking about knitting. Document everything and maybe she will go to prison. People like that need to know that this is not “Free Speech”, but harrasment. Love you and I hope that this will resolve itself soon.

  2896. Dear Stephanie,
    I´m so sorry you have to go through this. It brakes my heart to think how difficult it must be to be dealing with this situation. I´m sending all my positive energy to you and I hope you know you´re contributing to this great community of knitters, of readers, of people. Please continue being yourself.
    On a lighter note (and to change the subject): how´s the blanket? 🙂
    Hugs!!!

  2897. Dear Stephanie,
    I am a long time reader, but first time poster. I am so sorry that you’re having to deal with this woman, and at such a hectic time too! (hooray for Sock Summit!)
    I hope you are being very careful, someone this irrational cannot be trusted to not act out in a physical way as well. Please be safe.
    As an American and a Christian I am saddened to see someone use their love of God and Country in such an inappropriate way. This woman is a prime example of the reason Christians are largely considered hypocrites. I know there are always a few bad apples in the bushel, but still…
    Please rest assured that America loves you, you remain one of the RESPECTABLE knitters (whatever that’s supposed to mean) and I for one respect your restraint, tolerance and patience in dealing with this situation.
    Hang in there!

  2898. Just to add one more supporting voice to the thousands – so sorry for what she is putting you though. Please to take heart from the number of us here who are behind you ((((((Stephanie)))))))

  2899. I love Canadians!!! I love the way you think and I love your blog. Reading it is one of the highlights of my day. I have all your books and I take pleasure in reading and rereading them.
    Please understand that your stalker is mentally ill. There is nothing you can do or say that will get her to stop tormenting you. She needs to be evaluated by a mental health professional, perhaps taken to a psychiatric facility, and put on medication.
    You need to make hard copies of all of her posts. Get an attorney today and follow what he says. I think you will need to get an immediate restraining order on her. He will contact the American authorities. Then you can sue her in civil court for monetary damages: your missed work time, your server time, and recouping your attorney’s fees.
    God bless you and all of your efforts on behalf of knitters everywhere.

  2900. Wow…just, wow.
    Delurking to show my support for you Stephanie. I agree with all above.
    I don’t doubt anything that you have said, but because I am me, tend to view both sides before I decide.
    I looked her up and read her blog… it is really reminding me of my cousin who has been refusing medication for Bi-polar disorder for years and has exhibited many of the same behaviours both in her electronic correspondence. Also upon reading her blog and her tweets, it looks like she is not a very stable woman with a lot of pain in her life (if what she writes is true or imagined).
    I hope (if I’m right in my terribly amateur assumptions) that she can find her peace and get more help than she’s gettng.
    You don’t deserve any of this and have ended up an unwilling target of what seems to be a woman who has a lot of anger.
    I wish you, your family and your friends well and hope this all draws to a close without any further incident for you. You deserve so much more than what she’s giving you!
    As someone else quoted above: “Knit on, with confidence and hope, through all crises” ~EZ~
    p.s. Why is it that a post on CANADA DAY, a day that celebrates all things CANADIAN, should be tempered by another countries pride in themselves? *shakes head* I don’t see anything anti-American in your Canada Day posts. Just sayin’ is all.

  2901. I’m reminded of the movie The Green Mile where the prisoner getting ready to be electrocuted says speaking of the audience “they hate me” and the prison guards say “feel our love instead”.
    Peace, love, and light right back ‘atcha.

  2902. Dear Stephanie,
    I see that you already have a slew of these, but wanted to add mine – I’m a Christian, American woman who knits – and I think you are lovely. Best wishes to you and your family.
    Elizabeth

  2903. You go, girl. You have given me inestimable support to become a happy, faster, competent knitter.

  2904. Another American coming out of the woodwork to say she does not speak for me. And to advise you to go to the authorities. If she knows your home address (is it posted anywhere, when people submitted things for competitions?), and knows your publisher’s address, and is this crazy/ appears that you have so much of a vendetta for you, she could be dangerous. First amendment rights do not extend to threatening people- the whole “your right to swing your fist ends at my nose” deal.

  2905. YIKES — so sorry you are going thru this – aren’t you glad you aren’t married to her (my standard thought when faced with mean people)

  2906. Stephanie:
    It never fails to astound me how some people who love God with all their soul can hate their neighbour with all their heart.
    It pays to remember that character is not something to be used only when others are looking. I am willing to bet that there is not one person who reads your blog who is surprised by the character you have displayed in dealing with this over the past weeks.
    Wind at your back and all that,
    Louise

  2907. I’ve been a quiet reader for quite some time. I just wanted to let you know how much I respect you for how you are handling this. I was bullied for some time in junior high, and I can’t imagine it gets any easier just because you are an adult. You are a fabulous writer, an amazing knitter, and I’m sure an incredible parent. Hang in there. Sending you lots of love. 🙂

  2908. You know, honestly I can understand that someone might feel a bit stung at one or two of the quotes in the Canada Day post that seem to poke fun at the US, but DAMN is that a massive overreaction. This woman is obsessed, and I’m so sorry for the repercussions it’s having for you. I would be deeply, deeply saddened if this were to cause your withdrawal from the public eye. I don’t have a Twitter to show my support, but I SUPPORT THE YARN HARLOT! 🙂

  2909. I very rarely comment, but Steph, I’m sending you knuckle-props from Hamilton. As a Christian, it PAINS me to have people throw Jesus and the Bible under the bus as fuel for their intolerance and hatred. Pretty sure MY Bible says to love everyone. Pretty sure 😉 Keep up deleting (and can you block her email address from your personal mail???) and I hope that your loyal readers and fellow knitters will be able to make you proud in not egging her on.
    She is obviously not well. Thank you for letting us all know that this has been a problem and you’ve been struggling with it. Honestly? I love reading your writing (both books and blog) because you’re so darned honest. People love honesty, and lies (like she’s spreading) won’t stand up to a bit of light. Keep on shining, Stephanie!

  2910. I’m from Indiana, USA and am sitting here with my jaw on the floor. I know it’s impossible to apologize for another person, but I want to apologize for her. I hope you and your readers understand that this person doesn’t represent all citizens of the USA. I cannot even understand being so nasty to someone – if she doesn’t like what you say, for whatever reasons, all she has to do is stop reading. Thanks for the warning and good luck with Summit!

  2911. I’m so sorry Stephanie for this person’s behavior. I love and enjoy your blog, your books, your knitting and thank you very much, for filling in some of the major gaps in my knowledge of Canada.
    Dianne

  2912. I rarely post a comment … but wanted to post one that says you’re doing the right thing, and that not all Americans hate Canadians. 😉
    Knit on.

  2913. 3252 posts of support and love versus one unhinged cyberstalker–I think those of us that love you win! Now that you’ve warned us, please don’t spend too much of your valuable time searching for her comments to delete–even that amount of attention is probably feeding her mental illness. Wishing you peace, and lots of good beer and good chocolate!

  2914. So sorry Stephanie that you have to deal with someone’s irrational behavior. It is her issue and you are dealing with it the best you can. Keep being “you”, we all stand behind you!!!!

  2915. Stephanie, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this but it’s just another test/hurdle to endure in life, and by the tone of this post I know you will come out ahead. Your work is fabulous, your kids are not delinquents, not in jail, not doing drugs, and fairly well adjusted, so I would venture to say that you’re an awesome mother and your husband loves you. Don’t let the lunacy of one insane person bring down your self esteem, because you are better than that!
    From another American to a loved Canadian.

  2916. Having grown up an American, but living in reasonable proximity to Canada, I always saw Canadian jibes against the US as a cute and peculiarly Canadian foible, a sort of national bonding ritual much like watching hockey and drinking Labatt beer.
    Someone would have to be truly unhinged to take them personally, as amply demonstrated above.

  2917. Hopefully by now you’ve heard from enough Americans and Christians to know that we love you and support you. Tare care.

  2918. Hi Steph
    I am so sorry to hear that you are being treated so badly. I am one of those readers who enjoys your daily blogs but I don’t usually comment. I want you to know that I support you during this difficult time. I was scared that you were closing down the blog and I am so happy and relieved that you are going to persevere. Great big HUGS from Victoria, BC.

  2919. WOW- Now you know our secret shame.
    So many comments, this one may never be heard, but I’d like to deeply apologize for the fact that here in America we have this embarassing problem I call “Crazy Christians”. Now of course not all Christians are crazy- I know some very nice ones, and I (really want to) believe those are the majority. But there are others, as you’ve so unpleasantly discovered, who are, to put it plainly, bat shit crazy. We have folks flying flags at half mast because Obama is president. In the face of hard evidence to the contrary (ie the actual birth certificate) some people insist our president is not a US citizen. It gets weirder, but you clearly have gotten the picture. This explains why so many of us consider moving north, where it seems that clearer minds often prevail. Chin up, fiber gal! The vast majority of us love you!

  2920. I’m confident that you know we Americans are not all like her.
    I’m sorry for her behavior and lack of culture.
    Generally, I welcome and encourage differences of opinion and the hallmark of good debate is a set of arguments that are based on facts. As soon as it gets personal, the debate is over.
    Hang in there, keep writing. And Happy Canada Day. 🙂

  2921. I’m so embarrassed by this woman as a fellow American and Christian. Big hugs

  2922. So sorry you’ve been a victim to this and sad that this woman is telling others shes a american and that shes a christian. She will answer for that someday. I pray that God protects you and yours.

  2923. I think you are very funny! I love your political rants – maybe ’cause I agree with them. And, I do not like sister/fellow Americans who assume they speak for me.
    You keep on, keeping on, sister!
    and I am constantly amazed at how many socks you knit!

  2924. Just wanting to add another message of love and support from a fellow Canadian. I’m saddened that you have to deal with something so hurtful. Next time i go to visit my family in TO I’m stopping by lettuce knits to leave you some Alberta beer.
    Lots of love for you and your family 🙂

  2925. I guess this has been said over 3000 times, but I’m so sorry for your trouble, Steph. What an awful situation.

  2926. Have you thought about writing to dooce at dooce dot com ? She has mentioned (and occasionally published) some of the hate mail she’s received. It might take her a bit (as I’m sure she gets tons of email) but I’m pretty sure she’d write back to you and tell you how she’s handled situations like this. Here’s a link to the posts that she’s written about hate email: http://www.dooce.com/archives/email

  2927. Frankly, anybody who refers to themselves in the third person is a few knitters short of a whack. I am a American who loves her country and can take a joke. You just be You Stephanie – I might disagree with you sometimes, but what a boring place this world would be if we all agreed!

  2928. You are very brave to have a blog. I know it’s hard, but don’t let that horrible woman get you down.

  2929. As with many others I am compelled to add a comment. I am an American and I LOVE all of the Canadian facts and info. I particuarly liked your blog about the way Canadian government works.
    As with many others, your blog provides a counterpoint to my stressful days. I look foward to it every day. It was the first knitting blog I read after learning to knit 2 1/2 years ago. I’ve never left.
    I think it’s easily seen that this person is a bubble off center. Invoking Christianity and Americanism to attack and rant only contradicts both. Sounds like the crazy side of extreme jealousy to me.
    I hope the the number of encouraging posts helps bolster your self-esteem. I’ve read your books, your blog and seen clips of appearances. I see a clever woman who writes and speaks in a very entertaining manner about knitting and life and has made a living at it – well done you!
    Thank-you

  2930. Wow. How does she have the time and energy to write such hateful bullshit?
    If anything, I hope this outs her as the mentally ill person she is, and results in some kind of intensive professional help.
    Ms Yarn Harlot – You are amazing! PLEASE keep up the good work!

  2931. I’ve been an avid reader of your blog for awhile now and have always been impressed with your wit and grace under pressure. You have demonstrated both once again. Keep your chin up and know that there are lots of sane Americans who love your blog!

  2932. Stephanie, When I read my Bible, it see repeated over and over the that the key commandments are to love your God and love your neighbor. Your books and blogs have brought hours of enjoyment to all manner of knitters…and others. You are thoughtful as well as funny and a delightful speaker (I saw you on one of your book tours). Concern seems appropriate here, but self-doubt — not so much. Hugs, Jo

  2933. I stopped reading comments here after about the 350th, apologies to later commenters, but chalk up yet another American atheist/knitter/spinner/calligrapher/blogger to your fan club.
    I’ve been blogging for nearly 6 years, and I I think your writing is some of the finest ANYWHERE, not just the knitting blogosphere, or even the blogosphere in general. The fear that you might be pulling the plug on your blog had me practically in hives.
    This person is a sad creature poisoned by her own hatred. She clearly needs help. Let’s hope she gets some and leaves you the hell alone.

  2934. Mental illness is a sad but treatable problem. It’s too bad she’s not sought professional treatment.
    You do a great job and I am sorry you are the brunt of this person’s paranoia.

  2935. Like another signature on a petition for positive change, I’m adding my voice… be safe, Stephanie, and be yourself. Your gift of comedy brings light to so many – Shine on, my friend!

  2936. Dear Stephanie: The Internet has, unfortunately, increased the scope of lunatic activities easily available to the unhinged (and this ghastly example of humanity certainly falls into that category).
    I don’t care for some of your statements either, but being an adult requires the ability to comprehend that one’s own opinion is not the only starfish on the beach/
    I know you are too intelligent to believe a word she says or take any of her peurile threats seriously; but if her blog hosts have any kind of standards it might be worth while contacting them. She has gone from annoying to threatening and needs to learn that this is not acceptable behaviour.
    (Sign me) a faithful American reader.

  2937. Just one more comment of wholehearted support for you, Stephanie. I love your blog always, even if I might disagree sometimes (haven’t yet in years of reading but it could happen sometime). I wish I could say she is neither Christian or American but neither is a guarantee against being a few planks short of a bridge. Please don’t let her stop you.

  2938. Steph:
    document everything, respond to nothing this person says, get legal advice, take the offense in your defense and know that there are many of us helping to help shine the light. Sending love and compassion to your and yours and even, yes(Buddha says), to the person who needs it most.

  2939. I have never happened upon your blog before, until today, but already feel some compassion for you. I have heard of your blog through the knitting world, so your name is familiar.
    I am here, another American that has polar opposite views as “name removed”
    I know it may be extreme, but couldn’t you file a restraining order? Legally forbid her to contact you in any way? In the least this is harrassment, and (in having to deal with that recently) you could file a report, and since you have proof of such, you should be able to take it the next step and have her contacted by the authorities…
    Here’s a thought….given that she is in the US and you in Canada, is it possible that she could be charged with some sort or terrorism?

  2940. Stalking and hate are neither American or Christian values. She does not speak for me or for anyone I know, love, and associate with. She is dangerous, sick, and mean spirited. Law enforcement involvement is good. Keep on keeping on Steph, one day at a time in your own classy way. Do not let this change who you are, how you act, and what you stand for. You do an amazing amount of good and influence others to do the same. It is all about caring for each other and our world; letting your light shine, so to speak. We should all hold each other to higher standards, to do our best and to help each other, not to tear each other down. It is a small world and we are all interconnected. What we do to each other impacts all of us personally. We will reap what we sow and be judged accordingly. Enough of my soapbox, keep being a shining example of the good one woman and her friends and family can accomplish by being who you are.
    Supporting you in CA and sorry I can’t be at the SS to give you a hug,
    Judy

  2941. I’ve been enjoying your blog for years (and forwarded your hilarious Joe-stuck-in-icy-driveway post to my boyfriend who laughed his arse off) and I rarely comment, but I wanted to add to the outpouring of support. I hope this dies down quickly and you get some peace about it. Sadly, nothing trumps crazy, and I think you’re handling this miserable wretch the best way possible. Hang in there! Sending you love from Berkeley, California — where we’re all a bunch of tofu-eating pinkos anyway.

  2942. I have never commented before but have been reading your blog for a while. You’re right.. this girl has probably not been treated well and must be hurting to be as full of hate as she sounds. I am American and I have never had any problems with anything said on your site.

  2943. I’ve been reading and enjoying your blog for several years, but have never left a comment. This time I felt I should. Don’t let her repeated attacks get you down–your readers love you and support your efforts to be fair-minded. I can’t say that anything I’ve ever read of yours has been attacking, unless you count railing at your knitting (as all knitters assuredly do!). Best wishes, Stephanie!

  2944. If your email program has the capacity, set up a folder that her emails can be automatically directed to. Don’t read the bile, just keep it as evidence. And keep blocking her IP, every time she changes it, and keep track of when you’ve had to do it.
    I assume that “talking to the authorities” means you’ve looked into harassment and stalking issues, so just log everything.
    All Americans aren’t jerks, I swear. 🙂

  2945. Thank you again for demonstrating decent public behavior. Many blessings you and yours.
    (How is the server handling all the comments? Testing any technology limits?)

  2946. After reading about what you’ve been going through, my heart feels sick. Please, please know that you have the utmost support and love from thousands upon thousands of people. Your blog comments, various Ravelry groups, book sales and guests at your appearances are a testament to that. You’ve brought so much inspiration, entertainment and encouragement to my life and so many others. I am in awe of you!
    I hope for the best possible outcome to this situation.

  2947. and to think, this crazy whackjob is stealing your precious Knitting time from you!!! that should be grounds enough to get her arrested.

  2948. Oh boy…I am sorry to hear about your stalker. Trying to take the higher road, I shall keep my thoughts of her private – but be assured, I’m on your side.
    Love and support from Sweden too!

  2949. As a fellow knitter, I have been reading your blog for quite some time and now feel a need to comment. Don’t know where this fool is from, but obviously she is not American or Christian. I enjoy your website and will continue to buy all your books. Glad you aren’t letting her win. As you can tell from all the comments, she is one against many. Thanks for your humor and contributions to the knittign world.

  2950. I’ve never posted a comment here before, although I’ve read and enjoyed the blog and your books for a long, long time. This wacko is not representative of Americans, not representative of knitters and certainly not Christian by any definition I’ve ever heard. Do whatever is needed to get her out of your life, but know that there are a whole lot more of us on your side!

  2951. Captain Yarn Harlot: Your waypoint, heading and speed are steady, please don’t let unusual local magnetic (aka irrational) distortions alter your course. Too many of us are enjoying the journey!

  2952. Don’t know where this fool is from, but obviously she is not American or Christian. I enjoy your website and will continue to buy all your books. Glad you aren’t letting her win. As you can tell from all the comments, she is one against many. Thanks for your humor and contributions to the knittign world.

  2953. I hope you have hired a bodyguard for Sock Summit. She will likely be stalking you there, too.
    It’s so distressing that this woman feels she represents all Americans, much like she presumes you are representative of all Canadians. She is clearly delusional and I will hope for some sort of resolution. good for you for taking the high road!

  2954. Wow. People are just amazing. I’m embarassed for that woman, if you could even call her that…
    I’m American and I’ve never felt insulted and I certainly would never act like that even if I was. My mother taught me better than that. I think I would know better than that even if my mother hadn’t taught me that. It’s disgusting.
    I’m in full support of whatever you have to do to get rid of such a terrible pest.

  2955. So sorry that someone claiming to speak for “Americans” would behave in such an abominable fashion. As is clear from the comments here, she does NOT speak for the majority of us. Good on you for taking a peaceful and reasoned stance.

  2956. hang in there – this is ONLY one LOWLY little person with her head up her you know what. she is not in her right mind and does not reflect all americans. we love you and stand behind you come what may!!!

  2957. With over 3200 comments in the queue before me I’m sure I won’t be saying anything new when I say that I really enjoy your writing and I think you’re a very wonderful person even though I’ve never met you.
    Also, be sure you’ve contacted the appropriate authorities and if there’s any chance this person could be at the Sock Summit be sure to hire extra security.
    Monica

  2958. Dear Steph,
    I feel so badly… as an American and an actual Christian. So terribly SAD that woman claims to be either. Clearly she is not!! Americans support free speech and fairness. Christians support love, joy, peace. Or should! That *person* has no idea of any of the above. Utterly clueless.
    That level of venom comes from the Other Side.

  2959. Steph – you rock. nine more sleeps till Sock Summit (I am counting registration night as the start). Your vision and hard work shine through all the stuff out there.

  2960. Sweetness, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. Know that there are so many of us out here admiring you (American and otherwise). I feel alienated and frightened by people who share some of her attitudes, but truly, I think there is more going on with her. Do you have restraining orders in Canada?
    Love and Light.

  2961. I’m proud to be an American and I’m just as thankful that you are proud to be a Canadian. Keep up the good work and remain the postive good person you are. Now, how ’bout them squirrels in your neighborhood. Have they united yet?

  2962. There are loonies everywhere – in Canada as much as in US… Too bad this person thought your blog was where she needed to vent.
    So long – and hello to my fellow American Knitters friends !! 🙂

  2963. I don’t comment often but I want to say that I think your response has been completely reasonable, more reasonable than I would have been, and I thank you for letting us know how you handled it – this way if we need to handle something similar, we have a good example to go by, and perhaps a resource. I’m sorry you’ve had this experience and I hope things improve.

  2964. Thank you for your books and blog, for coming to the U.S. to speak and entertain so many of your fans, and for contributing so, so much to the knitting world. You rock.

  2965. I am so amazed that this woman calls herself American. And how dare she think she speaks for all Americans, each person has a voice of their own and she has obviously overstepped her bounds thinking she has a right to do or say these things to you. I believe the basis of Christianity was founded on love and forgiveness, if you feel someone has wronged you (which I don’t feel that you have), not taking up terrorism against them. Terrorism is not American. We’ll leave it at that. I love you’re blog and think you are such a funny and wonderful human being. I love you’re books and I hope you don’t let this woman make you feel that all Americans are like her. People love you and enjoy you’re work, keep doing what you’re doing!!

  2966. Stephanie, I wish you the strength you need for this. I am yet another American offering my support and admiration.

  2967. I am at a loss for words. How can someone think any of those things about you? You know who your readers are and we love you humor.
    You do what you need to to protect yourself and your family. Have you thought about contacting the U.S. F.B.I? The woman is clearly off her meds.
    Deborah Douglas
    The American who wears a Canada hat, especially to hockey games

  2968. She certainly doesn’t sound like a Christian!
    Hugs to you
    PS Her mom is probably mortified that her daughter acted like that in public! ha!

  2969. For the millionth time- Love for your own country doesn’t imply disdain for another. Same thing I tell my kids-praise of your sister is not insult of you. Thanks for everything.

  2970. Stephanie, You are so amazing and I am proud of your approach with this issue. I don’t think I would be able to handle it so well. You are much admired in the States and I believe, in the world! Please take care of yourself and your family and know that we love you! Thanks for a great blog!

  2971. It is amazing how wonderful and how dreadful we humans can be. How this person can manage to see you as the enemy and to be so cruel is beyond me. I’ve always thought of you, dear YH, as someone who has not an evil bone in her body. Yet even if you were a nasty conniving person you wouldn’t deserve such treatment. As an American, albeit a heathen, I apologize for this person’s actions. I am very fond of you and hate to think about someone so bilious causing you any sadness.

  2972. This is horrible. A classic “ugly American” who totally misunderstands what is means to be Christian. I really wonder what it is about my country that breeds monsters like her.

  2973. You’ve had a pretty crappy month, haven’t you?
    I hope that the rows and rows of garter on the Modern Baby Blanket can help with venting some of that frustration. I just finished one myself and it worked wonders for my stress.
    Shining a light from Manhattan.

  2974. I’m sorry you have been going through this. You always seemed to be such a supporting member of this community. I hope you have smoother sailing and less stressful days ahead.

  2975. Stephanie–I’ve never commented, but had to voice my surprise and let you know that there are many who support you. I am appalled that another person thinks it acceptable to treat you like this. Remember, it’s not about you.

  2976. I am so sorry. None of the things she says are true, and the way she is focusing such anger on you sounds like she has some kind of obsession. This is scary and wrong and you shouldn’t have to deal with it. Stay strong and feel the love of the knitters!

  2977. Stephanie,
    Along with the 3,000 plus other individuals commenting today, I too adore your blog and books. You are funny, witty, a fantastic knitter, and gosh darn it, people like you! Lots of love from Kentucky! Take care.

  2978. I was so afraid that you were writing to tell us that you were shutting your blog down. My Mother always told me that you should do unto others as you would have them do unto you. This person has not read that message in her bible. I am so proud of you. I wish there was someway we could ease this burden for you. The things you do for Knitters everywhere can never be undone and shine as an example of your kindness. Happy Knitting!

  2979. Holy shit, Steph! It’s tough taking the high road, but sometimes that’s all you can do. Hang in there. She’ll eventually get bored and go away when no one will play with her anymore.

  2980. I’m a bit worried about your personal safety, given that you appear to be dealing with a right-wing nut case.

  2981. There is nothing logical about this person and no logical approach will work. I am so sorry that you’ve had to put up with this, and to this extent. The very thing we love about the internet can also make it a nightmare in situations like this. I’m with you.

  2982. So sorry you’re having to deal with this. I am embarrassed that an American has done and said such things, and want to say publicly that she does not speak for me. I am a fan of your writing, and am always particularly touched and inspired by your Canada Day posts. Your have a wonderful country, and have every reason to be proud of it and share your love for it. The fact that this person called your parenting into question is unfathomable. Your love, devotion and skill as a parent is evident in everything you write, and in the character of the three amazing girls you have raised. I admire how you’re handling this terribly unfortunate situation. All the best to you – see you at the Summit!

  2983. Just showing some love, as everyone here seems to be doing. Hang in there, and stay safe.
    This person clearly needs help, and I hope she gets some very soon.

  2984. You are a far more reasonable and well-balanced person than I will ever be. Your qualities and sense of humour are not just Canadian, they are universal. I look forward your blog and am quite happy to ignore whatever negative comments may creep in by accident.
    Go Stephanie!!
    (UK national)

  2985. As an American, I only have admiration for you. Visiting your site brightens my day. Why the internet produces so many “haters,” I have no idea. My son, who is 13 years old, posted a short joke video on you tube and the number of rude, nasty comments has been staggering.
    I appreciate your sharing this awful experience. I will never waiver in my love for your writing and visiting you blog everyday.

  2986. It always amazes me when people call themselves Christians then spew such unjustified hate and vulgarity. Well, actually, any hate and vulgarity is unjustified, but especially in your case. Please know that she does not represent the vast majority of your neighbors to the south. Hang in there!

  2987. Whatever you do, don’t try to find this person using google search. If you click on anything with “anti-american” it starts scanning your computer and a virus message pops up.

  2988. I am sorry for what you are going through. Her posts, including the one from Saturday that she took down, show her instability. My only concern is that all these comments are giving her the attention she so clearly wants.

  2989. Stephanie, I am so sorry that you have to put up with this nutjob! There is NO way she speaks for all Americans !! I can’t wait to read your blog and it always makes me laugh. This person needs to learn to think of others and not everything is about her ! I just hope she shuts up soon.

  2990. Stephanie, I know of few people who try as hard as you do to live a good life, I am astounded that this woman could say those things to you! You are an inspiration to me in so many areas of life. I feel sad for this woman. She must be so unhappy, to want to expend this much time and energy simply to make another person miserable.
    Also, 3350 positive comments at time of posting, compared to one hate-filled individual. I think the figures speak for themselves…

  2991. Stephanie:
    Self-esteem attack aside:
    I am a counseling student, and I have a bigger concern after reading this than your self esteem: This person is clearly UNSTABLE and delusional, and arguing will get you nowhere. Also, PLEASE, if you see this comment, PLEASE do not underestimate the DANGER of unstable individuals. Hire an attorney, speak to the police. If it never goes anywhere…GREAT! But if it does, you have a precedent set.
    Also, please know, this woman, by her behavior, has nullified her claim of being Christian, and true Christians find all of this scary and offensive. Please forgive someone for using the name of Christ for their unstable (and possibly dangerous) ranting.
    I hope you don’t find it offensive, but my prayers are with you.
    Blessings,
    Rori

  2992. Have you read The Four Agreements? I have some brief summaries of them on them on my fridge and read them almost every day. That last one is a good one to remember–probably the best. Free yourself from this. It is her fight, not yours.
    –Don’t make assumptions. (Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want. Avoid misunderstanding.)
    –Always do your best.
    –Be impeccable with your word. (Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip.)
    –Don’t take anything personally. (When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.)

  2993. I know how good you must feel today after “reclaiming” your blog. I just reclaimed my own blog after months of going through a divorce that required I keep “silent” on the blog about certain issues. And, thankfully (as I mentioned in Madison), the attorney never recognized the value of my stash as an asset!! 😉

  2994. Stephanie I am SO VERY sorry you have been going through this. As a nurse, it sure seems like this person is mentally ill, but that doesn’t change how it feels to be the recipient of their completely unacceptable behavior. I read your blog and books consistently but rarely post. I want you to know that you have my support and deep respect from central Oklahoma.

  2995. Steph, I am an American, love your blog and your books. (I’ve bought all of them) I feel sad your knitting fame is causing you problems with a fellow American. No one should be harassed on the job, whether in a factory, an office or online. In the U.S. we have laws about that, very serious laws.
    We all decide if we want to send out good ‘ripples’ in life or negative ones, in our personal and work lives. I’m sad that a fellow Christian would get His message so wrong, the idea that we should love one another, and treat everyone as we would like to be treated. And interestingly most other religions have a similar attitude about how we should treat each other.
    Your blog has made me smile and laugh so many times I could never thank you enough! Your honest stories of raising your kids, being a wife and adventuring with yarn has made me take negative occurrences much less seriously, even seeing the humor in things going a bit wrong.
    I can now rip back with just a tiny groan. (The old me would have stuffed the knitting in the back of the closet where it would stay.) When I recently tried to go up a very bumpy, steep terror of a driveway and crunched something under my son’s car I just sighed and got it fixed. (The old me would have complained loudly that it wasn’t my fault, really.) When my husband recently used leftover poison ivy killer on some lawn weeds and we now have huge brown spots, I kind of smiled. (The old me would have yelled.)
    Thank you for that. You will never know how many people you have affected positively. For me, reading your blog started out as an education about the knitting world but honestly made it easier to enjoy and laugh on a daily basis.
    I’m smiling right now looking forward to helping dig and reseed the lawn with my husband, as we both share a chuckle. And then perhaps a good beer!

  2996. I am a conservative, Christian, American who is appalled at this woman’s behavior. This is not how Christians that I know demonstrate God’s love.
    Your blog is great fun and so informative for me and many others.
    Hang in there, Stephanie! We love you!

  2997. I considered not posting – because it has all been said (about how great you are, and how this person does not represent the thoughts of Americans who knit – and I especially like the Canada Day postings – I know embarassingly little about my “neighbor to the north”) – but part of shining the light is demonstrating how BRIGHTLY it is shining for so many people – and therefore, I feel I must comment so that my comment may be counted.
    I never quite understand the mean that you describe – especially with respect to blogs. When I no longer enjoy a blog – I stop reading it.
    I hope this “troll” runs out of energy soon. Too bad there are no mohair billygoats around to knock her off the bridge! A fiber-enhanced comeuppance would be just the thing!
    In the meantime, I join the many who say “I read this knitting blog, and . . . .”, who own your books, who expand their love of knitting by reading what you write (and who enjoy a bit of humor and kinnearing and other adventures along the way.)
    Hang tough. We’re with you.

  2998. I send you hugs of support! Know that there are hundreds, nay thousands of us who love and adore all that you do!
    Robyn

  2999. Here’s to DWB who is so going to benefit from this♥ We’re putting our $ where our mouths are; I imagine manymanymany others are doing the same♥

  3000. Just want to be counted as an American that loves your blog and your books and hope that this person eventually realizes that what she does just makes her look incredibly stupid and vicious.

  3001. Yet another long time lurker. Keep to the high road Steph & know all the jot & laughter you have brought to so many people.

  3002. Oh Stephanie, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am a Christian and a Conservitive and I have always enjoyed your writings and look forward to reading your blog daily. You are funny, uplifting and inspiring on a knitting and a personal level. I don’t always agree with your political views, but I respect you and believe that your political ideologies are just as valid as mine or anyone else’s. And really, isn’t that the beauty of both of our countries. We are so lucky to live in places where we can have our own ideas. We are entitled to them, we can have them and express them without being prosecuted or persecuted. (at least in the presence of rational and sane people) How borring this world would be if we all agreed with with each other!
    And lastly, as a Christian, it breaks my heart when people proclaim they are Christians and then do nothing but spew hate and venom. Nothing could be more un-Christ-like. I would remind your vicious poster that as Christians we are called to Love, not to hate, not to shame, not to judge, but to love!
    Ok, stepping down off my soap box, but before I do, I know you don’t need me or anyone else to tell you this, but you are a wonderful mother and your daughters sound like incredible young women! And your husband Joe, sounds like a cool guy and A+ husband material :o)

  3003. I couldn’t read most of that blog (it’s very upsetting) but I’d love to tell you that when I got back from a month long vacation- your blog was something I went back to catch up on. Thanks so much for blogging. I have learned a great deal about Canada and knitting from you and consider myself lucky to have stumbled upon your site a little over a year ago.
    -Sam

  3004. Wow, you are such an amazing person to deal with this so well. I love your blog oh so much, though rarely comment as I am usually reading it in the middle of the night on my iPhone while nursing my little babe. It’s your little snippets of parenting life that I like the best! I love how you talk about nursing, it helps feed the soul on long nights to hear someone say something good about breastfeeding. I hope all these wonderful comments will fill up your cup so you know how loved you are. I met you at a Portland event a year ago, and didn’t know it but was pregnant then. I’ll never forget how lovely you were to stay until the very end so everyone could get your autograph, I know you were there for hours. It seems like you love what you do, you love life, your family, and everyone around you. I don’t know how some silly person can’t see it. Craziness I say!

  3005. Joining the other 3,300+ comments to echo theirs. Your humor, grace, and insight … oh, and knitting knowledge, makes my day. You have made me laugh until I cried (including Joe getting the truck stuck) and made me vow to be a better person through your own examples. Not to mention, my log cabin quilt looks immensely better now that I’m following your pick up / pick up and knit tutorial. Stand tall, pat yourself on the back, and ignore her. We’ll do the same. And then her crazy self will have to find someone else to obsess and pick on.

  3006. Dear Stephanie —
    I am sorry you are going through this. It is horrible that technology which allows us to do so much and reach so many, also allows this type of abuse. I visit you blog frequently and appreciate your sense of humor, skill, and humanity. Don’t let this person jar your balance or self esteem…….it looks to me like she hasn’t got any of either.
    Supporting your position all the way, and thanks for the ongoing inspiration.

  3007. Stephanie, I too am delurking to say that you are a class act all the way. This woman obviously needs help, and I’m so sorry that she has chosen to take her problems out on you. Please keep up your wonderful work and know that this person’s opinion doesn’t really mean anything outside her own sad little mind. I’m a proud American fan of the Yarn Harlot!

  3008. Dear Stephanie,
    De-lurking to add my voice of support to the thousands of positive comments.
    I love your blog; I love your books; I love the way you write!
    (Your knitting rules really helped me understand socks! Many Thanks!!)

  3009. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this, esp. with SS09 coming and enough work/stress over that. It’s a shame that someone with obviously serious mental issues is focusing so much energy on you. I appreciate your sharing it with us.
    I love what you do, I’m a big fan and I can’t wait for the SS09. Hang in there, it will eventually fade away, once she finds someone else to focus on.

  3010. Your blog is a cherished part of my day and I hope it always will be. Until now, I’ve never taken the time to tell you that. I’m going to the nearest book store to buy your books because I can’t think of a better way to show my support of you and your family.

  3011. Oh, dear heart, I’m so sorry you have to be on the receiving end of this. I’m sure you know that it’s rare that one person speaks for an entire group. Hugs to you and yours.

  3012. I applaud your attempts to shut up the crazy!
    Ignore her as much as possible.

  3013. Hi Stephanie, I always enjoy reading your blog, and I just wanted to join everyone else is saying that I support you.
    You are getting tons of support on this blog, so I almost didn’t leave “yet another comment”; however, something tells me it is important to participate this time.
    The collection of our supportive comments, I hope will comfort you. Sometimes it is difficult not to focus on the single voice of anger. Instead, try to hold these voices of support in your heart.

  3014. Hang in there!! and try to remember that nothing she says is really about you. You are an awesome writer and I love love love your wit and enthusiasm.
    **sending positive thoughts**

  3015. This American Christian loves your blog, finds nothing you write as being anti-American and I wish you safety and peace for you and your family. Thank you for the years of laughter–your blog is often talked about at Thursday night knitting. Hang in there kiddo. The world needs funny, brave, strong women like you.

  3016. rock on, knitta. there is so much good that outweighs the bad in this world…i’m sorry to hear that you are experiencing such a person at this time.
    you are so beyond badass.
    xoxo

  3017. So sorry you had to go through this. I hope for you and your whole family’s sake that this is over soon. I rarely comment on any blog, yet read yours daily along with the other hordes of people who voraciously read everything you write. Almost everyone has a side of their personality that is self critical, me included. I know it is hard not to let what others say be added to that self criticism, but please know that what she has said isn’t true. The hurtful person probably has a problem filled life or is jealous of how things are for you.
    You are a wonderful writer, a great speaker, a knitter others often wish they could be, a rightfully proud Canadian, and judging from the children you have raised I would say you are a great parent.
    Many hugs of understanding and sympathy,
    Khat

  3018. Stephanie-
    I have been a reader for a while, but haven’t commented before, mostly since other folks seem to say what I was going to before I get to it. In this case, though, I want to add my voice to the chorus. I’m truly sorry that someone has decided to pick a such a nasty fight with you. Being so mean and negative seems like such a weird thing to spend one’s energy on, especially when it is directed toward someone who seems as good-natured and positive as you are. I confess I have only bought one of your books and have gotten the rest from the library, but reading those nasty comments made me want to go out and buy them all to show my support. You’re great and I just wanted to weigh in with my support. In my opinion you’ve handled this nasty situation with characteristic grace and generosity.

  3019. Stephanie –
    Shining the light ON you, behind you. You are doing the right thing – do NOT let your self-esteem take a beating from this – there are over three THOUSAND supportive posts on here. You have fans the world over.

  3020. I am so terribly sorry that person is focusing their rage and sadness upon you. Thank you for honoring and encouraging civility and kindness on the web, and for being so entertaining and brave and, yes, proud of your lovely lovely Canada.

  3021. Very few people would deal with something like this with as much tact and grace as you are/have been. Like the other 3300+ people who’ve already commented, I think you are amazing. Love, light and respect.

  3022. Holy Crap! What an awful thing to put you thru. Just know that she does NOT represent America. Knitting crosses all borders and ones nationality is not indiciative of their knitting. Please know that we all support you – in your blog, in your books, in your knitting, and in your sanity. Keep up the Canada Day posts – knowledge of our neighbor’s customs and culture can only make us better.
    And as an historian, I would like to know when it was exactly that we saved Canada’s arse?
    If you are ever in Casper I would be thrilled to buy you a beer!

  3023. Stephanie – I love your blog, love your humor, love your writing, your optimism, your decency. I look forward to reading your blog every day and miss it terribly on days you don’t post. Just wanted to let you know.
    And for the record, as an American, I have never laughed like a hyena, nor do I ever hope or expect to (no disrespect to hyenas).

  3024. I recently read this book called The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It has a chapter on stalking and how to handle it. I would highly recommend it. If you want a quick overview, gimme an email. Good luck.

  3025. Steph
    It’s Tuesday and Megan is riding … please keep us posted on her progress, her acheivements, her reports to you ! I think what she is doing is astounding.

  3026. I’m pretty sure I laughed so hard that I CRIED when I read that post about Joe getting stuck in the car. Showed it to my mom – she thought it was funny too. And the post where you bought like five cups of coffee at the airport and had to keep throwing them away for whatever reason… tears, running down my face. Your post about the Canadian government Stephen Harper fiasco a few months back was one of the best pieces of political analyses I have ever read – I actually posted it to my facebook because I knew a lot of my friends were confused by the situation, and your post actually made what was going on clear and understandable. And when I picked up knitting again, your blog was one of the first things I found – joined Ravelry because of you – knit the noro two row stripe scarf because of you – bought sock yarn because of you (though I’ve been neglecting the sock I’m written now) – essentially, I found a wonderful, beautiful, creative hobby – BECAUSE OF YOU. I am only one person, but as a teacher I know that if you can touch even just one person’s life, you can consider yourself a success. Given all the comments I see, I hope you will realize that you have success beyond measure.
    I know that not everyone likes you, and those people have every right not to like you – not to read your blog – even to write on their own blogs and twitters and whatever about how they don’t like you. They can start anti-harlot rav groups, they can even throw a parade about how much they hate you, but they have NO RIGHT to harass you on your own blog or to take their poisonous hate to your own email inbox. Please take care of yourself and your family, please keep the authorities informed, please don’t be afraid to protect yourself legally, and please order yourself some nice pretty yarn. You deserve it.

  3027. You are both in my prayers. She, for her apparent mental illness, and you, for the strength to realize that you are using your personal gifts for the benefit of so many people.
    Your humor, intelligence, and down-to-earth approach to family, knitting, and living a good life are so appreciated.

  3028. My only complaint is that now I’m DYING to know whose blog I should be avoiding…It’s already been said and the sheer volume speaks for itself in the comments but sending love from one more American.

  3029. I haven’t read through all the comments (3401 and counting!?!?!) but I know of whom you speak. She’s alternately funny, amusing, entertaining, and very much toying with reality. I’ve seen her diatribes about you and have wondered from whence they sprang. They certainly never sound like anything I’ve ever heard from you, and I’ve been a fan for years. As a proud member of The Blog, I’m sorry you have to deal with this. One of the costs of fame, I suppose. But you are certainly trying to take the high road, and for that I salute you. We’re all behind you on this.

  3030. Delurking to join the other 3,400 folks and say we love you, stay safe, and a good single malt and knitting that is not the blanket probably wouldn’t hurt either.
    {{{hugs}}}

  3031. A friend of mine commented on the whack job’s crazy posting on her blog, so I dropped in to see what this was about. I see nothing whatsoever in your Canada Day posting that could be described as anti-American. She sounds like she belongs on medication, in a secure institution. I am hopeful that you keep posting and don’t let her drag you down.

  3032. Sending a virtual hug to an amazing woman that I’ve never met. You deserve to immerse yourself in days & days of well-deserved knitting time.
    Thank you for your wonderful blog and the inspiration you give. I knit my first shawl after reading your blog (the Diamond Fantasy shawl) because you made it sound like I could do it (and I did!), I joined Ravelry after you talked it up (I adore Ravelry), and one of the highlights of my first trip to the NY Sheep & Wool Festival in 2007 was seeing you wandering around.
    Thank you for sharing your life with this left-leaning, Christian American knitter. I adore your blog.

  3033. Stephanie, go you! As an American, allow me to apologize for my country. We’re rather large, and we have some less than sterling residents. More in a private email.

  3034. The “God” she claims to represent and is displaying to you is NOT the God of the Bible.
    I’m sure you won’t let her label of “Christian” define the rest of us who seek to love and obey Him in accordance to His Word.
    My favorite verse sums up what we should be thinking in times like these:
    . . . whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report . . . think on these things. (Phillipians 4:8)

  3035. I rarely comment but of course this is a provocative topic. Like many others I easily found her by searching your handle on Twitter. Although I understand your frustration, I am concerned that you are dealing with someone who is unstable. The references to her meds and her therapist lead me to think that she is psychologically vulnerable. You clearly have the upper hand – more readers and fans, a wide circle of real-life support, and a tighter grip on your sanity. She clearly provoked you but I think that it still isn’t a fair “fight,” and I wish that you had continued to keep this behind the scenes. I also wish that people had followed your request and not responded to her, but I think we both knew that wasn’t going to happen.

  3036. De-lurking to add my voice of support to the thousands. This is unspeakably awful and I can only say that I, like most of the people commenting here, wholly disagree with and divorce ourselves from any association of her “values” with America or being American. On a completely tangential note…how can one be both atheist and wiccan??!?!! We love your writing, your humor, your spirit, and–most of all–your yarn wrangling!
    Light, Love and Strength to you and your family.

  3037. I’m not familiar with your work, sorry (though I’m sure it’s great looking at all the supportive comments – I came here through a comment on another blog), but just wanted to say that there are insane people in every sphere, country and media – and, as a lot of people have said, it’s how you deal with it that counts. Keep your chin up and remember (I know it’s hard right now) that sane, nice and kind people really do outweigh these other kinds.

  3038. If she dislikes you so much why on earth is she reading your blog?
    I just don’t get people. Give me cats any day.

  3039. Can’t begin to read all those comments, but I’m delurking for the first time to offer you a big virtual hug, massage, beer, homemade cookies, swell yarn, coffee, hot bath and anything else that might help you feel better in the face of the craziness.

  3040. I’m an American. I’m a very liberal Wiccan American, actually, with a partner who is an actor (another one of those much maligned professions like musician), so I’m probably on this person’s “list” as well, but I just want to let you know I support you and think you’re fully deserving of the accolades you’ve gotten.
    Dealing with trolls is hard, but keep up the good fight. I’m behind you 100%.

  3041. I hope you have taken some strength from the huge amount of positive comments on here today, i too have read but never commented, but today made infuriating reading and i feel compelled to show my support. Im a Christian too, and i’d love to know where in the bible it tells you to swear and insult others when you disagree with them. Bottom line, we are all different in this world, if you dont like something you stay away. Your blog has made me laugh over the last year, and given me the courage to try new things with my craft too, what more can we as readers ask? Sending love, and hoping you can carry on regardless of idiots
    Ruth xx

  3042. As an American I’m sorry that this person is being so irrationally mean. You are a GREAT writer and GREAT person. Try not to let the wackos get you down. This person is an outlier in the many people who appreciate you both far and near. Personally I hope you write at least 50 more books. Best to you and your family

  3043. I am at my desk, literally sick to my stomach in light of the hate you’re being subjected to. I don’t know how anyone who reads any post you publish after a book signing or visit to the US who could think you are anti-American…carry on, be safe and thanks for the difference you’ve made in my life.
    And I’m right there with you on the rant about using women’s body parts as an insult.

  3044. You’re a brave lass. Far more cahones than I but I just wanted you to know that I appreciate your blog and written words more than ever. It’s kind of like trying to reason with a drunk…just not possible. Please keep the light, love and strength. You are needed in this odd place we call a planet. Hugs to you and your family.

  3045. Stephanie,
    I love reading your books and blog… I think that it is really important to be patrotic. As an America. Just ignore her … I love reading your books. They are awesomely funny. I’ve even read them out loud to my husband who also thinks it is funny. Sending you a big hug. Keep writing and Keep blogging there are many American Knitter that enjoy your writings.
    Cathi K

  3046. I came to this post through Chris Guillebeau. I am a Christian and the actions as described taken against you do not line up with what I’ve found through reading the Bible as behavior God asks of me as a Christ-follower. I am sorry to hear that you are going through this very negative situation. Let your friends and family love on you and remind you that theirs are the voices that matter in your life.

  3047. I have a Lutheran pastor for 28 years and have suffered several antagonists during that time.
    The Rev. Ken Haugk defines antagonists as: “individuals who, on the basis of nonsubstantive evidence go out of their way to make insatiable demands, usually attacking the person or performance of others. These attacks are selfish in nature, tearing down rather than building up, and are frequently directed against those in a leadership capacity.”
    He also writes: “Antagonists are not just misguided and misunderstood. They are out to hurt people, and they do. Sooner or later most organizations and most individuals-leaders or not-encounter antagonists. Antagonists, although few in number, have the potential for disproportionately disrupting or destroying the efficiency and effectiveness of an organization as well as the peace of mind and well-being of the individuals within that organization.”
    My wife has enjoyed your blog & your books and I look forward to her reading a quote from your pageaday calendar with our morning coffee. You have brought joy & laughter into our lives. If we can be of any counsel or support, please let us know.

  3048. De-lurking to show my support for you. I think the best thing we can all do is not play into this game and just ignore this woman. She obviously doesn’t speak for the majority of Americans who read your blog and purchase your books.
    Have a beer and knit some fab!

  3049. I just wanted to let you know that reading your blog is often one of the highlights of my day. I find your books and blogposts about your knitting triumphs and woes to be inspirational, articulate, and entertaining. Thank you for helping to fuel my knitting addiction.

  3050. I am very sorry to hear you have to deal with this… You share your personal life with us on the blog and so many of us look forward to hearing from your blog. No one has the right to abuse your blog.

  3051. Piling on to say that it sucks that you have to deal with this. I agree with those people who have said that this really isn’t about you — it could just as easily been any other public figure. And furthermore, the vulnerable places that she’s hitting in you would be painful for anyone to have hit. I know you probably should know what the e-mails say, in case there are specific threats, but maybe you could just forward them to your lawyer or someone else without reading them? Most people who attract this kind of attention from a stranger probably have some kind of representative whose job it is to take the brunt of the vitriol. I’ll just say that it sucks to know that someone is kicking you and there’s nothing to do but let them.

  3052. I hope that you feel comfortable enough to get a good amount of sleep.
    take care of your self in the best way you know how.

  3053. Delurking to add my voice to the thousands in support of you! You are right to make it all out in the open! It gives us all the chance to support you in some small way (even if just by commenting) to let you know we’re willing to help you fight the good fight.
    Best of luck

  3054. Well, I’m not tired of you or this blog or you in the knitting world, etc, etc.
    Block the crazy and keep on knitting. Easier said than done, I know.

  3055. WOW! I would encourage you to pursue this legally. You can have a cease and desist order issued by her local police department to stop the harrassment. You can also pursue loss of income because of her rants and the time it is taking you to deal with her. I love your blog and like others were afraid you were going to close it down. You are funny and entertaining. My life would be duller without you. Please hang in there and if it gets any crazier call the authorities.

  3056. Hey Stephanie,
    Speaking on behalf of Americans everywhere, we DON’T hate you!! Ha ha ha. Seriously, your grit is admirable & your blog is wonderful. I wouldn’t or care whether you were a wiccan, atheist or even (GASP) a Republican.
    Speaking of the Bible, I like what Jesus said in the book of Matthew about not throwing your pearls before swine. IMHO, some people aren’t worth trying to reason with. This is all about somebody else & nothing to do with you. Sorry you’ve had to deal with it.
    Thanks for sharing & giving us a chance to show our support.
    Best wishes, Layla

  3057. She does not sound at all like a well human being. I wonder, if you were to pursue this legally and make a complaint about her harrassing you (which she most certainly is doing) might she not, within the legal system, eventually get some help? Being a very small cog in the Forensic Mental Health system here in Canada, I know this is what might happen here. It is possible that you moving in that direction might stop the harrassment and also put her in the way of some psychiatric help. Seems highly unlikely that SHE feels she needs help of that sort! (But pretty darn obvious that she does.)

  3058. Hi Steph, Just had to add in my support as well. Been reading the blog for 2+ years, and although I haven’t always agreed with every single thing you’ve ever said (since when do we all agree, all the time??) I respect your character and talent immensely. I have always, without exception, enjoyed your posts and books…
    Thankyou for being brave and putting yourself out there every day. I know I speak for thousands of others when I say that I wouldn’t miss a single entry on this blog.
    Love and Peace to you.

  3059. This is also my first time posting on your blog. To be honest, I have always thought that you got so many comments that you would hardly have enough time to read them all.IMO, this woman’s heart is so full of hate, rage, and nastiness that she must be a very unhappy person.To be so consumed by so much anger over an imagined slight is just not normal. She needs help.

  3060. Words escape me and , believe me, everyone I know will be so surprised. I just wanted to express my support.

  3061. Piling on, here, ’cause I’ve nothing to add except another voice of support. Sending you joy, peace, strength, beer, and yarn.
    See you next week! (eep! *next* week!)

  3062. Steph,
    Just another in a long line of comments from American women – love you. Love your humor, your parenting, your wonderful outlook on life, your knitting adventures, and your willingness to share all of that with us. You always make me smile, whether in books or blog, and today I am terribly sad for you. Many gentle hugs and wishes for every happiness, and an end to this idiocy. This person is neither a true American or a true Christian.

  3063. My heart is sick over this, and I want you to know that I fully support you. You are the reason my knitting came out of retirement. Any one known as the Yarn Harlot has my full support. You are an amazingly strong woman, and I send love and good karma to you and your family, and I’ll send some nice fat wool moths to you-know-who! Blog on!

  3064. What a horrible situation. The woman is obviously deranged, in a certifiable, DSM-III way. I’m so sorry this wackjob has picked you to obsess about. Thanks for your wonderful blog.

  3065. While I realize that most people don’t understand the difference between the rights given to them under the 2nd Amendment of the US Constitution for free speech and the good sense God gave a billy goat to not be hurtful and mean to someone who may have a differing opinion.
    I’m an American, a Christian and slightly right of center. I am also one who recognizes that this person’s behavior is neither American nor is it Christian. It is mentally unbalanced.
    Keep your chin up and the blog going. As for grit, you have as much as my late father, a retired Command Sgt. Major who saw combat duty in two wars.
    Looking forward to seeing you when you are next in the SF Bay Area.

  3066. Another long time lurker, book reader, yarn hoarder and knitaholic chiming in with support for you. I’m very sorry that you had to be on the receiving end of such twisted ugliness.
    I love your writing. Your post about trying to get coffee at the airport had me in stitches–I made almost everyone I know read that. You have never offended me–I like to read your opinions because you are fair, thoughtful, articulate and treat people with differing opinions as the real people that they are, not as a caricature.
    You are a class act, all the way, and your handling of this is just another example. Thanks for a great blog, great books, and great knitting fun. Take care.

  3067. Dearest Harlot,
    Let us flood good and happy throughs your way.
    You are the Erma Bombeck of yarn, she was a great woman of humor.
    I’m an American and I like your humor and would think it odd if you did not have pride in your native Canada.
    Please be aware this person does not represent Christianity. They obvously do not know or understand the grace, mercy or kindness of God.
    I would recommend you keep all her e-mails and posts on a thumb drive for leagal purposes. At some point in the future you may need them in a court of law.
    I’m not qualified to phyco-analize that person’s emails but you may want to have them looked at by a pro to determine how obsessed this stalker is. Make no doubt, she is a stalker. Treat her as such.
    Be safe
    KimD

  3068. Well, thank you for proving me right one more time! I used to tell my daughter when she was growing up ” there are crazy people in this world!”. Yep, that women is one to cross to the other side of the road for.
    We totally enjoy you in the USA!

  3069. Oh Stephanie! I’m so sorry you’ve had this going on so long. Nothing bothers me most than crazy. You can reason a way to a compromise or solution. You can’t even agree to disagree. I read a post earlier from a counselor, I tried going back to get her name, but I couldn’t find it again, anyway I agree that you need to take a some action because this is stalking. It is not ok. Crazy will not fix itself. Now that crazy is fixated on you, you need to protect those you love. I couldn’t even read through the excerpts of the posts, it made me nauseous.
    As an American I adore you. I look forward to you Canada Day posts because I really know so little about our neighbor to the north and I like learning more. I’m smart enough to know there is more to learn.
    As I read through the comments more and more negative people are posting. Please don’t let them get you down. Big hugs from a big fan in Portland. I won’t be able to make it because I couldn’t get in, but it makes me happy just knowing your in town.
    Peace and love,
    Dawn

  3070. Like many others, I have read and enjoyed your blog often but I have never commented before. Today I’m breaking that posture of silent observer to join with the now thousands of others to say that any person who would attack another as you have been attacked will not be supported and such behavior will not be accepted. I will stand firmly with you as you continue to put a light on the hateful behavior – and at the same time put a beautiful light on the love and acceptance that is clearly so strong in this community.

  3071. I have SO much respect for you. Words cannot express my sadness that this has happened but your handling of it is really right on. I hope this woman gets the help she so clearly needs.

  3072. Just. Wow. This past month must have been so stressful for you considering this horrible situation and your business with Sock Summit. I hope you will be able to find peace soon.

  3073. A note of support from Scotland so sorry to hear
    of your troubles they are completely undeserved .
    Love your blog and your books

  3074. Oh my….
    Thanks for being so sane, so classy, so principled, and so generous. It is a privledge to be associated with you -even if only through cyberspace.
    Best wishes to you and your family and friends. Keep writing. Hugs.

  3075. Love you and your writing … so sorry you’re dealing with this now, or ever. I’ve been lurking for years. Thanks for laying this all out and explaining how you feel.

  3076. Stephanie,
    I just want to say I read your blog everyday and I have never read anything anti-American. You have nothing but nice and lovely things to say about the American cities you visit.
    Best wishes to you and your family.

  3077. Speaking as a knitter in the buckle of the bible belt down here in Tennessee….I am ashamed that that woman purports to speak for my country, my christianity or anything about me! You are a wonderful writer…a good mom….and very patient with the lunatics that infest the internet. I work with psychiatric patients and wish I could say I had never seen this kind of behaviour before….but I would be lying. Be brave and don’t let her poison your self image!
    Love and a Molson!
    Spilman

  3078. Please add me to the list of thousands who support you, here. I read the truck story to my DH to give him a laugh,too. It’s an amazing writer who can find humour in a TO winter. My favourite was the tink tink tink blog. I could actually hear the tinks happen!
    Please keep on with the wonderful work you do! 8)

  3079. I am completely whomperjawed. Wow. Hugs and beer and yarn for you, and lots of love from Minnesota in, yes, the USA.

  3080. As an American married to a Canadian, I love the Canada Day posts because I learn so much. I’m sure you know this, but please don’t let this one individual make you think all (or even many) Americans are like this.
    Big hugs from Colorado.

  3081. This must be so taxing for you. I continue to support you through this difficult time.

  3082. So sorry you’re going through this wretched experience, when all you’ve done is shared your life, feelings, talent and humour* with the rest of us. Keeping you in our thoughts, and please know that those of us in the US don’t all act like that!
    *(Even though I was born and raised in California, for the rest of the day I will be honoured to throw that “U” in colour, humour, etc. in support of Canadians’ mad spelling skillz. And I will ONLY sit on Chesterfields.)

  3083. I’m astonished and appalled on your behalf! It’s amazing this person really seems to believe that your entire US readership agrees with her. O.O I certainly don’t!
    Many good thoughts and wishes from me, ma’am. Your writing makes me laugh and I fully intend to go buy copies of as many of your books as I can in protest.

  3084. Aaargh. Once again I find myself apologizing for an American! This is just too sad. And, Joe, I hope you’ve let the comments about you roll off your back. I think you are a sweetie!
    Wow! Over 3400 comments! That’s gotta tell you there are many folks in blogland that just love you and your family to pieces.

  3085. Wow, just wow.
    For what you are going through.
    And wow for the love that is evident here today (and every day)
    Hang in there.

  3086. I am a Canadian and look forward to your Canada Day posts — I do hope that this silly person finds somewhere else to spread her venom!

  3087. Oh my. This woman sounds psychotic. Neurotic. Deranged. Are we sure she isn’t using a computer from a padded cell somewhere?? If not, she should be!!
    I love your blog…also am an American and a Christian…and do not believe she represents either.

  3088. Stephanie, your blog means a lot to me and I am embarrassed by the behavior of this ‘Christian woman’. Her true colors are showing, unfortunately, and she’s giving Christian and American a distasteful name. I’m very sorry you have been put through this. I am truly appalled by this person’s behavior. Good luck and we won’t speak of this any more.

  3089. Dear Yarn Harlot,
    Don’t let such comments make you blue 🙁 I prefer good manners, adult behavior, common sense and good blogs over hurtful, inappropriate, undeserved commenting especially based on nationality.. All my love and support from Finland!

  3090. Hugs to you, Stephanie. I love your blog and your books. The one mentioned by a previous commenter about your daughter’s 18th birthday was a favorite, as was the one from the first book ( I think) about the first blanket you made for your first baby. I shared that with my mom, even though she wasn’t a knitter. I think you are a great writer, a great parent, and a great person. I pray that this situation is resolved safely and peacefully. I, like many others, held my breath and scrolled to the bottom to make sure you weren’t ending the blog!! Thanks for all you do to keep us informed and entertained. 🙂 <3 <3 <3

  3091. Just adding my name to list of folks that support you. Percentage-wise, my voice isn’t much, but I wanted to add it nonetheless.
    Peace, love and light right atcha.

  3092. Stephanie
    I have total respect for you and I think you should tell this woman to stuff her comments up her you know what!

  3093. Stephanie- Just wanted to add my voice to the others and show you how much we all are here. I am so glad you told us what was going on. I, too, was afraid you were going to tell us you were stopping the blog. You really do need to go to the authorities with this, to keep yourself safe and maybe even to get her some help. You are a great person and totally don’t deserve any of this. I’m sorry you went through it alone before. As others have also quoted from Elizabeth, “Knit on, with confidence and hope, through all crises.”

  3094. Hang in there and know that I am proud to have you in my life even though we have never met.

  3095. From an American- she is NO representative of mine or anyone I know- Knit on!

  3096. Hello Stephanie. I have read a couple of your books and have been reading your blog for a year or so. I have never before commented but, like many people before me, I feel inclined to make today the first day I comment on this. I feel a bit heartbroken over what that woman has been writing you. I have loved your books and your blog. They are full of wisdom and love and honesty. You do not put down people of other cultures and nationalities – in fact, you are quick to share about all the good you find in people when you travel. I just re-read your Canada Day blog post and I have come to one conclusion – this woman who is attacking you obviously can’t read. NOWHERE in there have you criticized Americans. One quote teases the issue a bit BUT those are the words of someone else, not you. So, after reading what this woman has written you and thinking about it for the past little while, I have come to my conclusion: this woman’s ignorance and capacity for cruelty is 1. not your fault, 2. completely undeserved, and 3. proof that while anyone can have access to the internet, not everyone is mature enough to handle it. I am proud of your ability to sit on your hands and hold back a lot of what you must be feeling inclined to say. Make your self a delicious cup of tea, rent ‘In & Out’, knit on a project you want to be working on (how’s the blanket going?) and relax until you can laugh at the irony: she’s mad that people think Americans suck, and she’s sucking the big one.
    Slainte, and never stop being you!

  3097. oh my word! reading through her nonsense is *almost* comical if it wasn’t so…odd!
    there are 100 comments I could make, but they’ve already been said numerous times. This American thinks you’re one lovely Canadian!

  3098. I’ve been reading your blog and books for several years and never post, but I wanted to be one more voice of support. There are crazy hateful people out there. Please don’t let it get to you any more than it has. There are so many of us who are sane and normal and who so appreciate your blog and your writings. You have inspired me. I don’t know if I would even be a knitter if not for you. Thank you for all you do!!! Be strong and take care of yourself. Maybe you should call a lawyer and get a restraining order against this person.

  3099. What hurts me the most as an American is seeing someone misrepresent my country. Most of us are nice, open-minded, loving people. I have read your blog for years and as a college student sometimes the best thing after a long day is a glass of wine, a little knitting and your blog. Thank you for the wonderful post and the resolve to be loving, kind and respectful. I think I speak for most of us when I say, it makes me like you even more!

  3100. As “Posted by: Jan at July 25, 2009 9:22 PM ” said be very careful and stay safe. Keep the RCMP posted.
    PS.I learned more from you about Canada than I ever did in all those years in school!
    Deb

  3101. Like many of the commenters I see here, I have followed your blog for several years, but have never posted. Thank you so much for continuing to write. Even as a non- knitter I still count your blog as one of the highlights of my day. Your ability to take the high road is an inspiration to us all.

  3102. What a miserable thing for this person to do!! I just love your writing–books and blogs–and it is some of the funniest LOL stuff I’ve ever seen. I read it out loud to my family all the time. I identify with you as a mother and a knitter. I read your observances on “no knitting police” and “be fearless with knitting” in 2005 when I was a beginning knitter, and it encouraged me to try so many things (socks, lace, a sweater, a toy tree frog…). I’m even teaching beginning knitting this summer! Thank you for all the joy and inspiration your writing inspires.

  3103. I’m another blogreader / lurker who supports you all the way. This person is by no means a Christian. Glad you put the story out there.

  3104. You are a woman of tremendous grace, poise and balance. Thank you for the many, many times you’ve made me laugh out loud. Sending much love and light.

  3105. That poor excuse for a human is clearly insane. Thank you for being exactly who you are.

  3106. Stephanie,
    All Americans should know that no ONE person speaks for ALL Americans (witness the last 3 presidential elections). As an Episcopalian I can also attest that not all Christian agree (or are always very “Christian”).
    The beauty of the internet and TV is that you have the power to turn off programs or sites you find offensive or disagreeable. The sadness is that so few people do this.
    Thank you for taking the time to explain. Also, thank you for sharing your humor with us. I will continue to tune in often. Peace.

  3107. Another de-lurker here – adding a voice of support from the conservative-American-Christians-who-love-the-Yarn-Harlot coalition. I found your blog shortly after learning how to knit and have enjoyed reading it for a few years now. I have LOVED reading your Canada Day posts, your family updates, and your humorous take on the joys and sufferings of knitters everywhere. Thank you for all the smiles and laughs!

  3108. I am glad to see so many suporters writing for you. Reading your blog is a highlight in my day. I have always found your Canada Day posts fun & informative and often go back and reread them.
    Keep up your strength with a beer or two and know you have an unlimited supply of virtual friends who support you.
    Susan

  3109. I’m on my way to the P.O. w/my cheque for MSF. Its the most constructive way I can think of to counter-attack the work of this sad, deluded individual. And as an added note to all the apologetic citizens of the U.S.A. and/or Christians, I’m pretty sure as a non-religious Canadian I can say you have nothing to apologize for. This person needs help.

  3110. Stephanie, I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You know that this person does not represent us and Americans, knitters, readers of your books or as women!
    I’m flabergasted at her behavior!
    I think you rock 🙂

  3111. Dear Harlot,
    I am grief-stricken that someone would be-smirch your blog with their extraordinary, loathesome hatred. And, likewise, I am perplexed by the glee of such violence directed towards you. As an American, and a Christian, I am sorrowed that someone would use those terms to treat you with contempt in any way.
    I don’t understand how patriotically loving your country is downgrading mine. Your just appreciation and joy for where you live helps me to know and love my own more fully, as well as be grateful that your country is my country’s good neighbor. I hope that America is a good neighbor to Canada, as well.
    The work you do for Medicien san Frontier, Dulaan, Afghans for Afghans, WIC hats, freely giving knits away, the hat giveaways at your readings…….how are these not joyful testimonies of love? As a member of a church, I can say “look, this is how another child of god does it, without a church. what,as a church, can we do to emulate this excellent work?” And I did, and our church now has a prayer shawl ministry. And I give to the church’s world relief fund, thinking of you, rather than my own helplessness. I don’t know that that is not the classic description of a local saint.
    Do, seriously, please print out the posts, and take them to the police. Having been on the receiving end of a violent stalker…..it’s better if the police are at least treated with respect- like, letting them know there might be a problem on the horizon. Please. Having the wrong person show up on your doorstep, and then having to backtrack- “Well, six months ago I got this warning…she said/he said/she said…” It shows a certain contempt for someone who might need to help. Please. John Lennon hasn’t written anything lately, and Paul Mccartney is still here. Please.
    please.
    ari

  3112. Just awful. Awful. If you don’t like what someone is saying just vote NO and no longer read the blog. Sorry that you are going through this.

  3113. Blessings to you and your family, Stephanie. You have been a great influence on me since I bought your “Knitting Rules!” book a couple of years ago at a time when my health and life changed drastically. You’ve inspired me to return to knitting, and to move forward along the path to becoming a Knitter. I so appreciate your sharing not just your knitting, but your wonderful family and insights into life in general with all of us. Keeping you all in my prayers.

  3114. Honestly, this woman is crazy. I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. I think you have taken all the correct action and she is probably just jealous that you are so successful and of course funny and talented. Karma will come back in kick her in the arse.

  3115. Poor, Dear Steph, I feel for you. One of the lists I’m on dealt with this whacko a few years ago. The list-owner finally blocked & unsubbed her when she got tedious. There’s no rational way to deal with an irrational person, so laugh it off as best as you can & remind yourself that she must be off her meds (again).

  3116. As poster number 3493, I am so pleased that you have been flooded with positive support. I’m another quiet reader, piping up to let you know that your following is greater than you realize, and many, many people appreciate your viewpoint and character. Peace to you!

  3117. Oh Stephanie I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You’ve always been so generous to share yourself in your blog and your books. It’s crushing to watch all that generosity get repaid with these baseless accusations. Please don’t let this woman’s insanity stop you!!
    Now is the time we must help our dear Stephanie and do *exactly* what she advocates: do not engage with this women. Do not visit her blog or follow her twitter. Not even to defend Stephanie. If she manages to post another vile comment here, IGNORE IT. It’ll be deleted soon enough. Ceasing all attention is the only way to make her stop.
    Good luck Steph!

  3118. I’m actually not even a reader of your blog (though perhaps I’ll become one!), I was just following a link from The Art of Non-Conformity to find out what Chris was talking about. I just wanted to say:
    1. I’m so sorry you have such a person harassing you
    2. I’m a Canadian-loving American to the point where people make fun of me
    3. Your post was so well-written. The part about self-esteem and inner criticism really struck home with me, as I’m considering taking on a big blog venture soon, and I worry about such things, in much the way you described them.
    4. I met another knitting writer/blogger at a Grammar Girl workshop last year — she worked for a major knitting magazine in NYC. She actually reported frequent run-ins with a VERY similar person, or perhaps it was several people. She felt much the same way you do. I wonder why writing about knitting incites such vitriol? It’s very odd.
    Best of luck with your continued blogging!

  3119. One more long-time lurker, coming out of the quiet to lend my support, and to say how much I admire how you’re dealing with this awful situation.

  3120. Oh, Stephanie, I am so sorry to hear you have been dealing with this, and so doggedly, for a MONTH! I don’t know what else to say, that hasn’t already been said. Take care. 🙂

  3121. This woman makes me embarassed to be an American. I am so sorry that she has, and continues to cause you such strife. Keep up the good fight.

  3122. There are already 3,495 comments ahead of me. I am obviously not going to take the time to read through them, but I’m positive I am repeating what others have said. I am glad that you realize this is an isolated situation and not how the entire country of America feels. This really sounds like she is unbalanced. I hope the authorities agree with me that you are being stalked. International stalking cannot be a good thing.
    You may or may not be the best person in the world. But at any given moment, you are the best person that you can be. Which is all that anyone can ask of a fellow human. Hugs and a beer to all.

  3123. Stephanie: My daughter was “stalked” by someone on the computer who would visit her at work and watch her and then post comments about her body etc. on Craigslist.We transferred her to another place but he found her and continued to bother her. We went to the police…and it took 7 months to track down the person and we were able to put the matter to rest.
    Best of luck to you.

  3124. Dear Stephanie,
    I have so appreciated reading your blog and the generosity with which you share your family. Love and light from Columbus Ohio.

  3125. I love you Stephanie . . . and like most of the other 3501 commenters I will continue to purchase your books, read your blog, and enjoy the singular view of the world that you present.
    Best wishes from Fl.

  3126. It breaks my heart that you’re having to deal with this but, I’m happy to see so many people offering their support and encouragement.
    You are loved!

  3127. Wow…
    Steph, as another admirer, reader, and supporter, i send my love and hopes that things resolve themsleves without trouble to you and yours. With all that you have on your plate surrounding SS09, this problem isn’t something you should have to cope with as well.
    Please, take care of yourself and yours. I am sure you are heeding advice being given to you from the team of techies you have as well as your close friends and family, but i also cannot stress enough the importance of treating this very seriously, and protecting yourself in as many ways as you can. Especially as the public figure you have become as an author and knitter, not to mention the publicity surrounding Sock Summit, and all that has been happening with that.
    Peace, love and light to you and yours. Stay safe.

  3128. Though an almost daily reader of your blog, I hadn’t thought it necessary to comment, but now I think that it is. Everyone speaks only for themselves–this woman doesn’t represent anyone but herself, no matter what she thinks or claims. And no one can control what anyone else says or does, only what they do themselves. She seems to have proven herself a fountain of hate and you’ve dealt with it in a very classy way. I’ll continue to look forward to watching for your blog every day.

  3129. Another American fan who wants to add her support to the very large group of fans who have written. I’m also sending a cosmic “Whatever” to your detractor who seems so bent on using her energy negatively. I hope the outpouring of support helps to absorb the bummer vibes she generates.

  3130. That is not “feedback,” that is Harassment.
    HARASS: verb (used with object) 1. to disturb persistently; torment, as with troubles or cares; bother continually; pester; persecute.
    2. to trouble by repeated attacks, incursions, etc., as in war or hostilities; harry; raid.

  3131. One more, of of the lurky-darkness and into the light, standing shoulder-to-shoulder to voice support for you.

  3132. I pray that this woman figures out what’s wrong with her. I really wonder if she thinks she’s actually acting rational. As for me, I’m an American and I’m Christian, and it sickens me that she considers herself a part of that group. She does not speak for me, nor do I think she speaks for the vast vast majority of Christian Americans out there. I love your blog/twitter/books, and I will continue to read them as inspiration in my own knitting life. Hang in there, and nail her with a restraining order if you have to.

  3133. Well as an Alaskan, we are more Canadian then American, I am on your side of this one. We as people need to step back and look at what is important in this world. When every child goes to sleep at night with a full belly and feeling safe, every medical challenge has been met and we as a world are at peace then we can start looking at personal differences. Stick to your guns Stephanie of respect and honesty and don’t stoop to her level.

  3134. I’m so sorry that you are being victimized like this. Please accept my apologies on her behalf. I know that there is anything I can say to make this better, but I wish I could.

  3135. You are an amazing writer and knitter and Canadian. My motto is “be loud and proud!” I am sorry that there are crazy people out there. I love your blog, you say all the things I wish I could say so cleverly. Unfortunately, in America we have to deal with people like that all the time, and they happen to be in government!

  3136. Would you please post the proposed publication date for whatever book you’re working on so this proud American who adores your blog can pre-order

  3137. Kia kaha Stephanie. Stand strong. Your approach is sound and very brave. Whatever is going on on your blog it is great to know that you have a strong and supportive group around you with family and friends. It sounds like a case of tall poppy syndrome to me. Arohanui!

  3138. I’m glad you put it all out there on the blog. I hope it helps you feel less stressed about it in the long run. The person you describe sounds mentally ill – don’t let her make you feel crazy too!
    I thoroughly enjoy your blog and often send links to my non-knitting friends and family. Take good care of yourself; you deserve it, plus I want to keep reading!

  3139. I am so sorry that you’re being subjected to this level of personal attack. I’ve always found your comments and posts about Canada interesting and informative, and I’ve taken any remarks about the US as thoughtful observation rather than anti-Americanism. Please try to find some way not to read her emails – your comment about them feeling like they come from your internal harsh critic just hurts my heart.
    I will keep a good thought for you and yours and continue to observe your policy of not feeding the trolls.

  3140. I’m a Canadian who married an American. We are PRO-YARN HARLOT in this household.
    You are a wonderful and inspiring person. I am proud to stand by you.

  3141. Please stay safe and keep writing!
    From another person who lives south of our shared border

  3142. Further love and anti-harassment wishes from America. You are a wonderful, smart, funny, and damned impressive woman.

  3143. Have a slice of really good pie. Not just any pie, but go to a place where the pie makes your tummy hum. Savor every bite and love it for being a good slice of pie. Isn’t it much better to think about your pie than this sad situation?
    Seriously. Pie makes bad things turn to dust.

  3144. Hi,
    Another Canadian voice(who lives most of the year in the US). Hang in there. I’m sorry. You have my support, sympathy and hugs.

  3145. You are doing the right thing – just don’t engage.
    Meanwhile – go to the authorities and document this! Save everything and if you can, get a restraining order – please take care of yourself!

  3146. I am so sorry you have to deal with such people. FWIW I think you’re great-you’re the whole reason I felt like I could knit socks-thanks to Knitting Rules which was the first knitting book I ever bought! You’re awesome and always will be in my book.
    Regina A., DAR family, lifelong American, proud to support SPM
    Washington DC

  3147. Good for you! The lady (and I use the word loosely) should go back and read up in her bible as to what the definition of Christian really is.
    As for the emails, she should be glad to get an email from you. I did once and what thrilled to pieces even if it was only a one line response to something that I had commented on.
    Keep your chin up – you’re doing a great job and making people smile both through your blog and books. The evidence of all the wonderful comments you’ve received today speaks for itself. Hugs to you from Marietta, GA!

  3148. In addition to harassment, she has stated in writing that she intends to stalk you. I know that there’re laws agains that, even in cyberspace. Get some advice from someone who knows about such things. Also, contact her web carrier. Send copies of the messages she sent to you and tell them that you feel unsafe and that they need to rein her in.
    This woman is psychotic.

  3149. In addition to harassment, she has stated in writing that she intends to stalk you. I know that there’re laws against that, even in cyberspace. Get some advice from someone who knows about such things. Also, contact her web carrier. Send copies of the messages she sent to you and tell them that you feel unsafe and that they need to rein her in.
    This woman is psychotic.

  3150. Today I will take the time to comment. Your insight and humor make me laugh, smile, and think. And not just about knitting. Keep on keepin on!

  3151. from the city of brotherly love and sisterly affection (philadelphia PA)
    {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
    from this american agnostic

  3152. A clear case of the right way vs the easy (& irritatingly tempting!) way to handle an infuriatingly difficult situation. I’ll not mention it again, & I congratulate you for doing the same.
    Oh, & incidentally, I’m very much American, & this pro-American zealotry has driven me bonkers for years. Yeah, sure, we’re the world’s tough guys (& girls), we’re rugged, we’re cool, & when someone says anything even slightly unflattering about us (which, sadly, far too often is right on the money), we’re driven by god himself to fight back tooth & nail! You’ll excuse me, but bullshit. If we want to keep our place as a respected world power, we need to learn how to calm the hell down, think rationally, & admit our faults & weaknesses while trying to correct them. Bah!
    Sorry, very touchy topic with me. I’m always so terribly saddened to travel (which is my greatest love in life) & feel like I have to turn it into an international relations tour by convincing those I meet not all Americans are brainless, dumb, petty, nationalistic idiots.
    And that’s all! I hope you can continue writing your mind in peace 🙂

  3153. Thank you, thank you for all you do to highlight the hilarity of knitting and life! Let this deluge of positive words and encouragement support you and your family and drown all negativity in its wake.
    Rock on, Harlot!!!!!

  3154. Wow, craziness! I echo the thoughts of many above – this person gives Americans a bad name. Christians too — I am just constantly amazed at the things people say in God’s or Jesus’ name.
    And the greatest of the commandments is these: GOD IS LOVE.

  3155. Just wanted to join the chorus here to say you bring us joy, you make us laugh, what you do is good; in fact, it is excellent. It’s scary dealing with scary people, especially the crazy ones. It’s scary putting yourself out there in public, where the scary, crazy people can find you. It can be hard not to feel shame, even when you know the scary, crazy people are, in fact, off their rockers.
    I am a lefty, American Christian (yes! we exist!), which means I can’t kick anybody’s butt for you, but I can pray, and I certainly will do that for you and your family–and yes, for the scary, crazy person, too.

  3156. Hugs to you and your family. I know it’s been said – but be careful, we adore you.
    I’m embarrassed for her. Sad for you. Keep knitting.

  3157. To quote from a favorite song: God is great, beer is good & people are crazy. ’nuff said.

  3158. What everyone else said. Love your Canada Day posts. Am a US knitter (and saner for it) because of your writing here, and feel connected to this broad knitting world because of you and your enthusiasm for it. My world would be poorer without this blog (which I came to originally for one of your hilarious posts on motherhood). You’re a model mother, knitter, and compassionate human being, and in many ways my hero. (And also human and imperfect, which is great too.) I feel sorry for this loon, and I feel sorry for you that she’s chosen to fixate on you. I hope the fixation fades soon.

  3159. Oh Steph…so sorry to hear about this. I have nothing new to add but I did have to lend my support. Take care of you (cashmere will help)!
    An aside: my dad, not a knitter, pointed Dick out to me in the Canadian Tire parking lot in Corner Brook the other day. Dad read, loved and remembered your first book.

  3160. You have far more strength, dignity and poise than I could ever muster in the same situation. Hugs.

  3161. Oh, Steph… somebody in this picture needs to get a life – and some treatment – and it sure as hell ain’t you. I’m afraid being stalked by the occasional really scary crazy is one of the less alluring hallmarks of success. BTDT, though not on this scale. Your wacko has kind of a familiar ring; not sure whether that’s because I’ve encountered her elsewhere or because at some level the manifestations tend to be so alike. And isn’t this JUST what you need in the runup to Sock Summit, no less. Oy a klog is mir, as my mother would say.
    I haven’t read all 3,000+ of the outpouring of comments, so I’m sure I’m repeating what hundreds have already said: FWIW, no sane person, and no sane American, could think you anti-American. Or any of the other ludicrously random things you’re being accused of, including the ones you had too much grace and taste to mention. I was going to say this makes me embarrassed to *be* American, but actually… no, it doesn’t, because it is so absolutely not representative. Might as well be ashamed of being a knitter or a blogger or a woman or any of the other things I can’t help having in common with her – the important thing is what 99.9999X% of us do NOT have in common with her, which is a sick fixation on imagined evils and slights. Another thing I am sure hundreds above have already said: I trust the “authorities” you’ve discussed this with include the police.

  3162. You are an amazing knitter, writer and person. You have our support and love. And, please, don’t let this stop you from enjoying sock summit!

  3163. I’m a huge fan of your work and I’m an American. I love that you take pride in your country and celebrate it’s national days with us. Don’t stop. I’m very sorry that one unstable person has decided to fall apart and chosen you as the focus of all this negativity. You are a wonderful and positive force in this world. All of my knitting friends feel the same way. We knitters of the world love you! Keep up the great work.

  3164. I feel so sorry for this poor woman, who is so full of hate. I wish her relief from her inner whirlpool, and believe that if others follow your request to ignore her, that her whirlpool may slowly lose momentum so she can slowly rediscover that the world is good. Perhaps we can all silently wish her well. I do.
    And Steph, bless you for following the golden rule so beautifully.

  3165. I completely agree with the last comment posted – she’s psychotic – “normal” people don’t do what she’s doing and there’s no reasoning with a psychotic. She’ll keep at it until she finds another nutso diversion. Get professional advice and protect yourself as well as you can. You have solidly established yourself with American knitters and writers. Irrational, angry comments in cyberspace won’t change that. Just keep doing what you love.

  3166. Okay, I’m ready to ignore her – but first, my condolences to you. I’m glad that she isn’t in the same city you are, she sounds really unbalanced. Keep yourself and your family safe, and move on.

  3167. I appreciate your humor on the blog and in your books – thank you for being The Yarn Harlot . . . apparently not always an easy job. You’ve handled the situation with empathy and grace – and this American supports you fully. Take care.

  3168. I completely agree with the last comment posted – she’s psychotic – “normal” people don’t do what she’s doing and there’s no reasoning with a psychotic. She’ll keep at it until she finds another nutso diversion. Get professional advice and protect yourself as well as you can. You have solidly established yourself with American knitters and writers. Irrational, angry comments in cyberspace won’t change that. Just keep doing what you love.

  3169. Adding my love and support. I wish we could just ignore all the crazies and they would just go away. Unfortunately crazy doesn’t seem to work that way. At least we out number them.

  3170. P.S. – I am a non knitter who crochets, loves yarn & the Yarn Harlot too! I happen to reside in America, but who cares, really?

  3171. You are funny, talented, loving, zen, and absolutely crazy in a way I wish I could acquire for my own. Don’t let the bastards get you down.

  3172. I’m so sorry Stephanie. I don’t want to waste your time repeating all the wonderful advice you’ve already received.
    Hugs to you and yours,
    Nancy

  3173. Just wanted to add my vote of support for all you do and looking forward to whatever/whenever you write again.

  3174. Oh Stephanie,
    I admire you for being graceful and compassionate while still having the normal human reactions to being under long-term attack. You must be feeling sad and afraid and frustrated and angry and exhausted . . . and thank you for telling us about this so that we can energetically surround you and your whole realm with love and light.
    And if a comment that’s ugly appears, so be it. We can ignore it with compassion. And then you can omit it when you get the time.
    Warmest regards and thoughts . . . Cheryl

  3175. Since you already have 3500+ comments, I feel a little silly chiming in at this point, but I will anyway: Yes’m.
    (Wiccan *and* atheist? Neat trick.)

  3176. Many years ago when I taught in a New York City Junior High School, I attended a workshop in dealing with behavior, especially acting out kids. The leader said that the more you give an audience to such behavior the more they act out. I agree. Thus, pay this poor demented soul, whose prozac has obviously worn off, no heed. No attention. No acknowledgement. She’ll take her anger mismanagement elsewhere eventually. She’s not worth what she’s doing to upset you so much. She’s getting all the attention she wants, but it’s your blog and your website, and you should be the one getting the attention, which you well deserve. I urge everyone else to also ignore this wretched soul as well. Do not respond any further to her or have any further conversations about her.

  3177. Wow. Unbelievable. I am another American who reads your Canada Day posts with fascination every year. Each time, I have another “I didn’t know that about Canada” moment. This person, as so many others have said, is mentally unbalanced. She is harassing and stalking you, and I agree with all the commenters urging you to document all contact with her for law enforcement purposes.

  3178. What a kook. Get the dart gun. No wonder Christians get a bad rap. I’m an American and a Christian. None of that kind of behavior is condoned by either group. Maybe this is a bad hormonal problem. If she hates you so much, why does she hang on your every word? Some people! Maybe we should pray for her…..

  3179. I am a long time reader and infrequent poster. I have gotten so much enjoyment from your blog and books. I am incredibly sorry and ashamed of this fellow American who has engaged in such vicious behavior. Know that you are admired and have inspired many of us to knit more, blog more and laugh more. Bless you!

  3180. This is apparently a fantastic post for de-lurking. I am American. (And a decently liberal college student, I guess not all American’s are sick of left wing people..) I have been reading your blog for about 3 years and read through all of the archives before allowing myself to read the posts that you were just writing at the time. I find your Canada Day posts amusing and full of civic pride. Just keep doing what you’re doing because there are obviously thousands of us who appreciate you. (And I don’t know where the bad parenting jabs are coming from, you remind me a lot of my friend’s mom who I have basically adopted as one of my “other-mother”s.)

  3181. Anything I say I’m sure has already been said, but when someone has been attacking you personally, try as hard as you might, it hurts. I hope that the comments of these fans – these friends – act in some way as a balm on that hurt. For you and for your family. You were faced with an impossible situation and, as you have shown time and again in the past, you acted with grace and respect and asked nothing more than the same in return. Your daughters are lucky to have a mother like you to model themselves after.

  3182. I very much enjoy your blog and your books. As a US citizen and practicing Catholic, my hope is that you, your family and friends, and all your readers will be able to resist the temptation to hate in return (I think this might be harder for the people who love you than for you). And for the woman who hates you, I would ask that she experience the overwhelming love God has for her even as she wallows in hatred. That of course would be the hardest thing for her to face, but it is necessary, and she chose her path.

  3183. I am so sorry that you have been having to deal with this situation. Your blog today was very well thought out and written. I love your Canada Day entries, and do not see what is wrong with someone being proud of their country. Being a proud citizen, does not mean that you are anti everyone else. I am echoing others who have posted that I hope you have contacted the authorities and and attorney. First and foremost, you have to see to the safety of you and your family. I will send good thoughts to you and to the poor woman, who really does need to seek some help, and hopefully will. Look forward to seeing you at Sock Summit.

  3184. Dealing with the unmedicated mentally ill is no picnic. As others have said – please take care of yourself. Your supporter-to-psycho ratio is still in your favor.
    Also I can’t stop laughing at the idea that your blog is dedicated to hating America.

  3185. My mama told me there will always be people who would set their hair on fire for a little attention! I think you should just go all Glenda-the-Good-Witch on her and say “Rubbish! You have no power here! Begone, before somebody drops a house on you too!”
    In other news, let me just say, I voted in the yarn contest yesterday on ravelry, and boy! was it ever hard to choose. Kudos to all you dyers who entered, y’all really know your stuff! lovely lovely!

  3186. Another American here who just wanted to add my support for you and against this cyber-bully, and to add my voice to those suggesting you go after her through her ISP.
    American? – a truly ugly one .. Christian? Not according to any Bible I’ve ever read.
    Stand tall (well, as tall as you can 😉 )! The multitudes are standing up for you.

  3187. I only discovered your blog when you blogged about Sir Washie. I laughed so hard that tears were rolling down my face! I don’t comment often, but I am so sorry for what you are going thru. I admire what you have done. It is difficult to believe that there are some really vile people in this world. I am not proud of this person! There is a saying ” What goes around, comes around”. Keep up the good blog! I look forward to it. I check often to see if you have posted and when you don’t I wonder if you are some one in the family is sick. You are all in my thoughts and prayers in this most trying time! Good always triumphs over evil!

  3188. Oh, Stephanie… that sounds so horrible. You must do what you can to protect yourself. Period. As one blogger I read says “my blog, my rules.” And as an American (who has several Canadian friends and likes Canada)… I’ll continue to read you, continue to love your writing and continue to support your publishers (who seem to American) by buying your books. Sending you thoughts of support and care.
    PurpleGirl
    (Creative life form with tropisms for books, beads and yarn)

  3189. I’m another voice in a very large chorus of appreciation for what you do. Reading your blog is a bright spot in my day! I’m so happy, and inspired by your posting about your daughter and her ride. You deserve every bit of pride you have in her!
    Best wishes, and many virtual hugs, and I’ll knit a pair of socks, and a beaded shawl in your honor!

  3190. Oh Stephanie, I’m so sorry this has happened to you–and to all of us. One more voice of love and support. You have positively impacted my life in so many ways. I consider you one of my blessings.

  3191. There are so many people in this world who you have helped and who love you. I know it hurts when someone is hateful and cruel. But just keep thinking of everyone who you meen something to. For me, you were teh first “knitting” think I found. And because of that, I joind my local Stitch ‘n Bitch. This group of women have been good friends for years. I took your books with me to Africa and would read them when I had a bad day, and the dy seemed a little less bad. My dad would print up your blog entries and mail them to me. It was a 2 day trip to electricity and internet, but I would look forward to it and the first thing I would do after email was opening your blog. I got a copy of “Yarn Harlot” right before my nephews funeral (my sister was 8 months pregnant when she lost him). I read the essay about you finshing a sock for that baby, and cried and cried. ANd then felt a little better because we weren’t the only family who went through that. I could go on and on about all the little things that made a big difference in my life. Hundreds of people can do that same.
    We can list all the charities you’ve helped. All the money you’ve raised. All the friendships you’ve created. You’ve brought so much joy into this world. And you will be remembered for that. What will this woman be remembered for? Nothing. In a week, noone will remember she ever existed.
    And remember this: obviously this person knows nothing about being American. We stand up. We support our friends. And we don’t like people who matter to us to be attacked. American’s have your back. Noone’s got hers.
    Commenting from Tucson, Arizona, UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

  3192. Hi Stephanie,
    I got to your blog through Chris Guillebeau’s regular emails to readers of his blog. I’m stunned at the vitriol spewed by what appears to someone quite unhinged and relentless in their terror campaign. This is one very nasty person. Save all the correspondence – you may need it. This is cyber-harassment and cyber-stalking and this person has already gone too far with threats of many kinds and has indicated that she/he intends to keep up the intimidation. Maybe it’s time to show these antics to a lawyer… or the cops. Chin up, fellow-Canuck! Good can overcome evil, but it’s often an uphill battle.

  3193. Stephanie, this is probably comment number 10,408 or so, and I can’t imagine that you will be able to read this far or that I won’t be duplicating what someone else has already written. Nonetheless, here goes: you done good, this person sounds really unbalanced, and the rest of us will do whatever we can to build a wall of respect around you and yours.
    –Another U.S. Citizen for the Harlot

  3194. Another American who must comment because that idiot makes her stomach turn. Why oh why are there so many idiots in the world?
    And one thing that she said in particular really irks me: the United States has never saved Canada from any war or conflict. That really bothered me, and I want you to know that I know that. I mean, everything bothered me about that crazy woman, but in particular I had to mention that one.
    I am amazed at the calm that you have. I would be raging to no end, sinking to her level, and then calling the police for her threats against me. You are a magical.
    And the United isn’t sick of the left. Our approval rates for the President are dropping because he’s not being liberal enough! Ha crazy lady! Ha!

  3195. We have never spoken, we have never met, but you are a friend of my friend and therefore my friend as well. Much love to you. Be safe.

  3196. Just another long-time lurker joining the crowd to say thanks for all the laughter, wisdom, inspiration, and knitting help you’ve shared through your blog. I’m so sorry you’ve had to put up with such hurtful and crazy persecution as a side-effect of all the good you do for so many people!

  3197. In my small amount of “free” time, yours is one of two blogs that I always read. Love and thanks from Cleveland.

  3198. Stephanie – one more regular reader who seldom posts, but who felt compelled to show you support. Pity you are subjected to this. Be strong, be careful, and know we love what you do.

  3199. Stephanie – I’ve been internetless for a few days and just catching up on my blog reading. I feel a tremendous amount of sadness that people can be so rude and hateful and I’m sorry that she is directing her anger and bitterness towards you. For the record (of my opinion, for what its worth), I have never found your blog rude or disrespectful. I feel that you have graciously allowed for diferences in people’s thinking and preferences while standing firm on yours. I don’t always agree with you but I have found you to be fair and level minded. There are obviously people in this world that thrive on conflict (why and how I don’t know) and it sounds like this person is one of them. I’m sorry that you have had to deal with this in a public way – I can’t imagine how your husband and daughters have dealt with this. Hopefully she will move onto creating non-existent, self inflicted conflict with someone else – I’m sure she will tire of doing this with you soon. (or at least I’m hoping she will – it can’t go on forever).

  3200. I’m sorry you have to endure this craziness. I’m American, but I don’t think nationality matters much, we’re all people. But since we are talking nationalities, I’ll say Americans and Canadians are really close cousins. Did you know that we share the longest unguarded border in the world? I have lots of Canadian friends, they are lovely people. We should be looking for things we have in common, not making up stuff to separate us. And she calls herself Christian! Mind boggling.

  3201. Likewise, yours is one of the 2 blogs I regularly read — and the other is my son’s. Just adding my voice to the thousands (!) of others who read regularly, have never commented and want to add to the vote of confidence. Carry on — more love and thanks from Illinois.

  3202. Long time reader, first time to comment, wow, just emerse yourself in the Sock Summit and please keep your witty and wonderful writing going strong. I look forward to your blogs every day. Elaine in Rochester, WA.

  3203. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ from a 58 yr old Canadian atheist woman who is darned proud of you!

  3204. Stephanie – You and your family are a class act. Sorry that you are having to deal with this behavior. Hopefully the person will receive the help that she needs.

  3205. Why DON’T you reveal her identity? Not for revenge, but maybe to protect other bloggers and knitters. I couldn’t stop long enough to read all the other comments, but for heaven’s sake, you have been way too noble already, you gain nothing on the moral high road by letting her insane harrassment continue unchecked and I hate to say it but she sounds crazy enough that maybe you should start being careful of your personal safety! For the record, I’m about as personally conservative as they come, a US knitter and I admire you bunches & bunches as a person! I have disagreed with some of your political suggestions about how we should be here, but hey, it’s your blog. Besides, you normally express your views in a manner that encourages thought and mannered discussion. For her to think she represents any number of US knitters shows she hasn’t a clue about attendance at your US appearances & book signings. We love you . . . .

  3206. You are wonderful and amazing and even if you don’t read this because there are sooo many comments in support of you, I wanted this to at least add to that number. You should be proud of who you are, what you do, where you live, and most of all, how you’ve handled this situation. We are pretty much all good people and it’s terrible that just one person like this can make it all seem so bad. Hang in there. You are adored by this American… I met you last year in NY at a book signing and I consider myself lucky to have met you. You are witty and wise and all I can think of to say now is, “you go girl!!”

  3207. Whoa! I am pouring a glass of sweet tea vodka just for you. I am sure you would drink a glass of screech to me.

  3208. Have never posted before! I am usually quite content to just read and laugh. Love you! Take care!
    ~Liz~

  3209. As difficult and controversial as this decision is, thank you for posting. Bullying should never be tolerated. Sadly, turning the other cheek or ignoring the behavior rarely works. To hide behind a banner of false patriotism and to insinuate that everyone from the United States believes in this nonsense and behaves in this fashion is insulting to us all.
    One world, one people, no greater love or respect than making the world less difficult for each other.

  3210. Along with the 3000+ others who love you, I’m so very proud to know you. I, too, an American, Christian and conservative. You have constantly amazed me with your Christian-like behavior. I am so sorry you have to go through this. And I am more than a little embarrassed of a so-called-American. Don’t ever stop doing exactly what you are doing! Thank you for everything!

  3211. Mrs. Mc-Phee,
    I am mortified by this person and her comments. It really has to upset me to comment on a blog. I too have had to deal with a person in my business who had made horrible comments like these. I guess that we have to feel sorry for these people. They have nothing more to do in their lives than try to break down another person. They are so low and have little self esteme.
    I want to say you are a lovely person. When I have had a bad day or need a good laugh, I read one of your books or your blog. You are brillant. It should not matter where you were born, who your parents are, what shool you went to, or what social-economic group you belong. We are all special and innovative. God Bless You. Keep smiling only you know what you are smiling about.

  3212. Mrs. Mc-Phee,
    I am mortified by this person and her comments. It really has to upset me to comment on a blog. I too have had to deal with a person in my business who had made horrible comments like these. I guess that we have to feel sorry for these people. They have nothing more to do in their lives than try to break down another person. They are so low and have little self esteme.
    I want to say you are a lovely person. When I have had a bad day or need a good laugh, I read one of your books or your blog. You are brillant. It should not matter where you were born, who your parents are, what shool you went to, or what social-economic group you belong. We are all special and innovative. God Bless You. Keep smiling only you know what you are smiling about.
    P.S. I am from Hamilton, OH USA

  3213. Stephanie,
    I love your blogs and your books. I have a better and more fun relationship with my knitting because of what you write, whether it is funny, or poignant. Keep up the good work!
    Love,
    Jen in California.

  3214. Just de-lurking to add my thanks and support for your blog and all you’ve given to the broader community!

  3215. wow, you have your very own stalker! the icky side of fame.
    i’m so sorry to hear all this. she is obviously some kind of mental case. best of luck to you in being rid of her… from an american lefty who loves your blog 🙂

  3216. Please take care of yourself. This person is stalking and making terrorist threats. Please, please contact the authorities, get legal counsel,
    and report this to both the perpetrator’s ISP and
    to your own ISP. In some states this absolutely is
    stalking and it is illegal.

  3217. Dear Yarn Harlot,
    i was brought to the attention of this post by way of the blog, The Art of Nonconformity, since i am a knitter and proud owner of one of your many hilarious books, though i have not read your blog before today…
    as many others have stated, i am saddened that you have had such an experience and kept it to yourself for so long. i am so happy that you decided to bring light to this situation and say “Such Courage!” such an outpouring of love and good wishes can only be bestowed upon one who brings so much joy and happiness to so many and through such a medium (knitting!!)
    it is creative, artistic bloggers such as yourself that have truly inspired me to begin my own adventures in blogging and hope to launch this week (!). if i am 1/10th as successful as yourself, i will consider myself very lucky indeed…
    i look forward to checking in on your blog now to read more of your wonderful, warm and hilarious writing!
    most sincerely
    m. moran

  3218. It takes a LOT of patience and courage to NOT tell her COMPLETELY how you feel. Please KNOW that not all American’s are like that or feel that way. I think you’re a hilarious and beautiful woman/knitter. I WILL continue to buy your books and I can’t wait for them to be signed at SS! Keep your chin up, kiddo.

  3219. Just stoppen by to say “HI!” Also wanted to thank you for giving me the boost I needed to finally tackle socks. I am now hopeless addicted to making them, for this I also thank you.

  3220. Support, solidarity. Light: letting your light shine out and letting the light of the world expose this awfulness. Thank you for trusting us.
    Ruth in Bar Harbor, Maine

  3221. let me join the rest – another longtime reader/lurker,first time commenter from close across the border in Buffalo. I love your blog, read it first every day. We love your common sense and uncommon care of others, all wrapped up in a feisty, normal, funny, and quite talented lady. Thanks for telling us this, allowing us to magnify the light with you. Hey, look at what a catalyst she turned out to be! You uplift all of us Stephanie.

  3222. Just had to add my voice to the chorus here. You did the right thing to trust yourself. I’m sure there was part of you that wondered how this was all going to play out… While I am so, so sorry you’ve had to deal with this nightmare, I’m also really pleased that I get to be here with all these other fine people and lend support.
    You’ve built more than a business over the years. You’ve built community. That’s powerful.
    Peace.

  3223. I have admired and been regaled by your writing since the late ’90’s on the KnitList. Have never commented before, but now I want to unequivocally stand here with The Blog, with all of our virtual arms wrapped around you and your family, in love and tolerance and knittership. Please stay safe.
    Carol in Minneapolis, who’s always taken it as a huge compliment when mistaken for a Canadian while traveling

  3224. People who read Harlot and don’t like her: 1
    People who read Harlot and love her: 3606 (and that number goes up every hour)
    Just think of all the positive energy being sent your way because of one person and try to channel the abundant good that can come from that.
    Namaste

  3225. Gee – skip reading the blog for a few days and look what happens!
    I hope her caregivers get her back on her meds. Seriously disordered that one.

  3226. Terrifying. Everyone’s worst nightmare when it comes to online stalking. People like this run on their own venom, she doesn’t even need you to feed it. It will take a while for her to run out, maybe years. The important thing is for you to figure out a way to live with it that doesn’t invade your daily life and mental space. That will take lots of willpower and patience. Good luck to you, lots of people are on your side, including me.

  3227. Holy OCD BatGirl! Please do what you are able to, within the law, to keep this person away from you, your family, your website, etc. S/he is not mentally stable.
    You must know how many Americans read your website. We love you and feel a real connection with you and your yarn, family and life.
    Thanks for the background info – it will help us understand if something sneaks through onto the Internet – and cut down on your comments. (Maybe.)
    Love and light,
    An American Knitter

  3228. Hang in there, Steph.
    Behind you 100% and then some.

  3229. I am so sorry. I love your blog. It makes me smile. Thanks for the explanation. Please keep safe.

  3230. Stephanie,
    This woman is very ill and dangerous. I hope that you have turned over her correspondence to the appropriate authorities and are taking appropriate precautions for your and your family’s safety. Being nice to her has only inflammed her and you definitely need to take heed.
    I love knitting, I love good writers and good thinkers. You’re so positive and caring. Please be safe.
    Warm Regards,
    Kristina

  3231. I have always lurked but never posted. I couldn’t pass it up today. Like everyone else here, I am so sorry this is happening to you. I think you are a brilliant and gifted writer, and I thoroughly enjoy your books and your blog. I so appreciate your sense of humor, and I marvel at your knitting and spinning skills. You are such an inspiration! Please take care.

  3232. Props to you YH. Much Love, Light & Respect. That is what the world needs. You deserve all the good karma that is comming your way.
    -An American knitter who believes that Canadians have just as much Grit as Americans.

  3233. I love your books. Keep publishing them.
    I love your blog. Keep writing it.
    You are the most helpful, inspirational knitter I have found.
    I’m as American as you can get, and I’m ashamed that woman shares my country. She certainly does not represent us.
    She’s just one person. Do not let her tarnish all American knitters.
    She must lead a very sad life…..If she wasn’t such a friggin’ bitch, I’d pity her.

  3234. It would be wise to have no correspondance with the party harassing you. DO NOT respond to her. She is in violation of Kansas State law. At least she inferrs she lives in Kansas.You can neither really say what you think on the internet. Of course at the present you would have to hire a Lawyer licensed to practice law in Kansas to bring charges.

  3235. One more voice from the US (Canada is part of America, too, last time I checked!) I’ve read your blog for I-don’t-know-how-long, have never posted and have continued to read you because I enjoy your point of view. If I found your blog otherwise, I simply wouldn’t read again. Of course you should celebrate Canada Day, just as the US celebrates our holidays. Please continue to share. I’m sorry for the threats and harassment you’ve endured. Thanks for your attempts to end the dispute. And thanks for continuing the blog so many of us enjoy. Give your self esteem reassurance–she speaks for only one. Hugs.

  3236. Stephanie:
    You have given so much joy and shined such a bright light on knitting and the fibre arts as a whole that I have just one thing to say, “Thank You.”
    Remember one thing St. Julian of Norwich said, “All will be well, all will be well, in all manner of things all will be well.”
    Be well!

  3237. Holy Crap! I go out of town for a couple of days and come back to read this sad post. Sheesh, Stephanie, I’m so sorry to hear you have this problem to deal with on top of Sock Summit and everything else that makes up your life. No one deserves to be treated this way. I’ll be happy to shine the brightest lights I can (instead of what I really think)– maybe the kind they use to light a baseball field at night??
    On to happier thoughts — SOCK SUMMIT!!! I can hardly wait!! Oh, but this might not be so pleasant for you since there’s work involved. See you soon. :o)

  3238. Hold your course! This woman obviously needs psychological help in some way. I am an American and can see nothing wrong with being patriotic and proud of Canada any more than being proud of America!

  3239. After having to deal with my own crazy stalker and finding myself closing off because of it, I needed to add my bit of support. Please don’t let her get you down! Anyone in the public eye is going to get one of these at some point and it was just your turn this time.
    We all love and cherish you so much… She is one lone voice of crazy in a chorus of respect. Thank you for everything you do!

  3240. Hold steady and true. The blog and writing is so inspiring for so many! She definitely needs some help.

  3241. I think the number of supportive comments say it all! I’m one of many who greatly appreciate your writing and your blog.

  3242. Bad behavior is its own downfall, I feel sorry for the poor lout.
    I saw you in Eugene Oregon a few years ago and the laughs I got brought me more into knitting and helped me during a dark time. I love you lots!

  3243. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this insanity. I’m an American who appreciates your humor, wit and wisdom, and I’ve never seen anything but respect and kindness in your posts. I don’t know who this woman is, but I promise I won’t feed her need for attention if her comments make it through here–I assume they’ll be pretty obvious.
    Keep your chin up.

  3244. I’m sending you peaceful and pleasant thoughts for all of the times your blog has brought a smile to my face and the many times you’ve made me laugh out loud. (At the same time, I’m a little worried about you and wonder if a chat with the police might be in order? She’s a stalker.)

  3245. Hi Steph
    Sending you good thoughts and vibes from USA. I for one love Canada and all it’s wonderful people, for many reasons, one of which is you all have the cutest accents!
    Thanks for the wonderful blog

  3246. First time poster and long time reader. Sending you and your family lots of love and care from me and mine.
    Hang in there!
    Rozanita ,Here in Ca. U.S.A.

  3247. Thanks for letting us all know what’s been going on, it must have been hard trying to put all that into words. My opinions of you have only changed for the better, you’re one strong woman. Well done.

  3248. Just following a link from The Art of Non-Conformity…hang in there. This person definitely does not represent all Americans, as I’m sure you know. Unfortunately it’s the ones like her that give the USA a bad rep. So much for acting Christ-like (and I’m not even Christian) or even just human.
    *hugs*

  3249. My wife loves your site and was quite upset about what you have been through.
    Best wishes from a supportive (aussie) husband

  3250. Thank you for sharing this story with us. The stalker leaves me embarrassed. I’m sorry you must deal with her.
    You continue to have my support, respect and admiration. You’re part of the force for goodness.

  3251. Reading your blog is the highlight of my day, and I’m so sorry you have to deal with this crazy person. I’m ashamed of her.

  3252. Thank you so much for continuing to blog. I look forward to reading your blog and never fail to laugh out loud. I hope these many supportive voices will soon drown out the single negative one. Sending peace,love and light. PS my hubbie just said to me “oh, I am so sorry your friend is being stalked .” and yes, we all consider you our friend. : )

  3253. Girl Scout honor, I won’t rise to her bait, and I won’t reply to her comments if I see them.
    XO from a Yank who wishes we’d listen a little more to the groovy neighbors to the north.

  3254. I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure this. Internet bullying/stalking is a terrible and cowardly thing. More legal tools should be in place to stop this.
    Just wanted you to know on the positive side, yours is one of my must-read sites, and I had the pleasure of seeing you at Joseph Beth Booksellers in Cleveland, OH, two years ago. (And I drove over 300 miles to do this! OK, it was on the way to my parents’ house, but I did rearrange my whole spring break schedule when I found out about your stop in “OH the Heart of it All”!)
    Hang in there and hit that “Delete” button. That’s what it’s there for.

  3255. I’d say let her have the rope – some day she’ll send you something that can be interpreted as a terrorist threat and put her in lock up for awhile.
    As an American, what an embarrassment to us that piece of work is. I’m so ashamed sometimes to be an American. *sigh*
    As a witch, but not a Wiccan, I’d be happy to claim you.
    Better days to you, Harlot, much better days than this one.

  3256. Hello there
    Just read this post and once again am appalled at the behaviour of some people.
    You invite us into the Internet equivalent of your home and someone comes in and destroys it.
    You are right, people think that they are anonymous on the Internet and can say things in private that (hopefully) they would never say in public.
    Your blog has a way of making us (your faithful readers) welcome – to all aspects of your life. I am constantly amazed at how open you are in your posts and what you are willing to share with us – and extremely grateful for that willingness. You make me laugh, you make me cry and you make me proud to be a knitter.
    Take heart from ALL of the positive comments. You are right – shining light on bad things makes them go away. The Dark hates the Light!
    Sorry for such a long post but just had to share these thoughts.
    Take care. Shine that light. Never, never doubt your worth.
    Laura

  3257. we all know & love that you are a strong, thoughtful, intelligent, creative, etc… person. keep up the great work with all that you do.

  3258. Let me help this get to 5,000 votes of support. Here is mine. Cheers! You have brought many smiles to my knitting days.

  3259. Dear Yarn Harlot….You get triple standing ovations from this Wisconsin knitter. The world is a better place because of you. Thank you for really going out on a limb every day to make us laugh, make us better knitters and just thank you for being you! Kim

  3260. Oh, Steph…… I sure hope you feel better unburdening yourself here. She needs psychiatric care in the worst way. You might want to consider calling the authorities as this is harrassment. Just remember this: Small minds talk of people, medium minds talk of things, GREAT minds talk about ideas. Consider the source of the harrassment. WE love you!
    ~~~ ~~ ~ Barbara, wavin’ from the Jersey Shore ~~~ ~~ ~

  3261. 3650 comments – many of them from people such as myself who have never posted before. ‘Nuff said
    As an American,and a Christian one at that, I am ashamed that this behavior is what one person feels represents us all. I am just thankful that Tim Horton’s is starting to explode here – you Canadians Rock!
    More than that – thank you for being a smile and a laugh in a day. Thank you for your impact on the knitting world, and, more importantly, bringing me into the world of knitting. Through each stitch I release tension. You now have to make 3651 stitches just to equal the number of us that support you! (You could get far on that blanket!)

  3262. stunned here as well. you have an army of knitters behind you, no matter what. all you have to do is call… we love you and your blog/books! ~meg from lex ky

  3263. I read your blog all the time, and yet I rarely, if ever, comment–but I had to write something on this post. The woman doing these things to you is despicable, and I am ashamed that she is an American and that she thinks that she represents the minds and feelings of American knitters; she doesn’t. She is also clearly laboring under the delusion that she is a Christian instead of actually being one. If she were Christian, she’d remember the biggest commandment of all is to love one another.
    I love your blog, and I love your books, and I wish you the best.

  3264. Sorry about all the ridiculous drama. She really does sound like she needs help, it is sad.
    I think that your 3.7 thousand comments give or take pretty much prove that she and other people she thinks she’s leading on some odd crusade against you are in a serious minority.
    Another American that loves your blog

  3265. You have an inordinate amount of grace and should be commended for that…so here I am, commending. Please be careful. Thank you for doing what you do.

  3266. Ummm…has anyone mentioned that this person sounds like she’s suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder? She has “split you black”, Stephanie. Her world contains no greys, only black and white. You are either the best thing since Kid Silk Haze or the spawn of the devil and nothing in between. Unfortunately the most sensible thing you can do under the circumstances is draw your boundaries, enforce them as necessary and don’t respond to her taunting. Most Borderlines have never been diagnosed. They just drive everyone around them batty which is the first clue. It’s not about you! It’s about her all the way. Good luck! I feel for ya.

  3267. I have been enjoying your blog for the past couple of years now – and this is my first post. As I write, I think there are 3651 comments so far – incredible! yet I’m not surprised – I hoped the love and support would come from every direction. I read a few of the comments, smiling all the way – then stopped so I could write my own quick note. Your books and blog are a treasure that I enjoy tremendously. I’ve laughed with you, read you aloud to family and friends, pointed other knitters to your blog, quoted you, printed out blogs and read them to a friend while we were walking… I’m probably forgetting something I’ve done in relation to your blog. I think you are very talented and funny, and just a solid human being all around. Please keep on being you. You are an inspiration! hugs to you all the way!

  3268. I love your books, loved your walk in the snow for beer and toilet paper ( forgetting you had to walk back the same distance as you went away from the cabin), howled with laughter reading “Knitting Rules”, look for a new post from you daily and am disappointed when you are too busy traveling, parenting, writing books, planning conferences, to entertain me for the day.
    Hope to read you for years to come. Keep going you are doing good in the world!

  3269. Dear Stephanie,
    I have just been catching up with your blog and read this post. I love your work — blog, podcast interviews, books (I have ’em all), calendar…And I am *sure* you know that a Christian (in the true sense) would not be writing such tripe to you or anyone else. I know there are almost 3,700 posts by now, so you may not see this one, but I just had to send you a wee hug — and in true Canadian fashion, say “I’m sorry”.

  3270. I am another lurker who reads your blog every day. I am an American but in no way are we all reflected in this lunatic’s rantings. I enjoy your blogs about your travels in Canada as well as the U.S. I have learned a lot about both our countries. I think the authorities should be able to do something about a person who threatens, harasses and insults you and by extension, all of us who care about you.

  3271. I’m so sorry you’ve been targeted by a nut. Just wanted to add my support for you. I agree that you should look into harassment law on this.

  3272. Dear Stephanie,
    Screw the “Americuns” and come on down to the Republic of Texas! We’re alot more friendly! 🙂
    Seriously, this sounds like a seriously disturbed person. Anyone who has ever met you would NEVER so much as THINK any of the things she’s written! Kudos for taking the high road! And send those atheistic Wiccan vibes out that the men in white coats come for this person….SOON!

  3273. Wow.
    I know you have thousands of shows of support, but I thought I’d add mine as well. As many have said, don’t judge Americans and Christians by her. I respect you for dealing with this so rationally and maturely (I’m not sure I would have been able to do the same). I do hope and pray that things get better for you.
    And for the record, I love reading your blog on Canada Day. It’s great for you to be proud of Canada – you’re Canadian!

  3274. Just another American who loves your blog, thinks you sound like a fantastic parent, and can’t wait for your next book to come out! Hang in there!

  3275. And this is why some Americans pretend to be Canadians while travelling abroad.
    Please have your local authorities contact the United States FBI and/or her local authorities. This woman is illegally export extra boxes of crazy.

  3276. Hi neighbor,
    I’m writing from just over the border in Maine. The only other time I commented was to thank you for my gold medal in the Knitting Olympics. For all the times you’ve made me laugh and inspired me, I’m doing what we Quakers do and holding you in the light.
    Any time I hear someone say “Hey, you know what would be fun?” I think of you. Hang on to your fun, sweetie, it trumps sad any day of the week. You rock.

  3277. Isn’t there a psychological phenomenon where someone doesn’t see something that is right in front of them because it isn’t compatible with their reality? If I see a nasty comment on your blog, I think my mind will just see “Akruthy akfkaut srut ahfkajshe kajf.” Surely someone can’t be hateful to Stephanie! Easily ignored.
    -Jill, a conservative, American, Christian who loves you =D

  3278. I’m so very sorry that you’ve been attacked by someone who professes to be American. I would think about contacting the authorities in her city if you know it. This is harassment and is illegal in America. You never know what some crazy will do.

  3279. Oh my good God in heaven, I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Be careful, she sounds so very radical.

  3280. Keep your head and spirits high..This American loves your writing and your blog!
    I look forward to seeing you next week in Portland..
    This person is quite sad and seems as if in dire need of attention..of the medical nature.
    Sending warm hugs and comfort!!

  3281. I’m another faithful American follower who has never posted before. Please know that you bring smiles and knowledge and wisdom to many people each day and I seriously doubt that this really mentally sick person can understand that. This storm shall pass and you will rise above it all. Keep your faith!

  3282. There’s not much to say Stephanie that hasn’t been said already, but if I might, I’m directing love, light and peace toward you in these days of bike rally cheering, SS09 post-it noting, and everyday hero making.

  3283. Well, she certainly is a fine example of “Ugly American”. The kind of obnoxious that the rest of us have to work very hard to overcome.
    As for myself (and I’ll even speak for quite a few of us Americans located in border states), we regard Canada and Canadians as warm, friendly people who are the very best neighbors that a country and its people could possibly wish for. Not only that but likely far better than we deserve.

  3284. Delurking to say you are so right, and I completely support you!
    An American real knitter who thinks you are absolutely honest, real, funny, charming, and a very, very smart parent.

  3285. YH, I am so very sorry. I have been a fan of yours since I started knitting. I am a proud American, and this woman does not speak for me or anyone I know. Quite simply, this person is nuts. Your integrity is something you should be proud of.

  3286. Over 3600 hugs & warm wishes, and many more to come. I, also, hope that she gets back on her meds…’she is in very serious trouble mentally, and I’ll bet you’re not the only target she is sending her missives at.
    Your blog is a brite light in the day for me…I feel at times like I am a mouse in the cupboard experiencing your wonderful family and friends. Just thinking of the removal of Mr Washie, and the replacement problems that ensued still make me chuckle. Hang in there Steph. Don’t let the crazies get you down!!!!

  3287. While I don’t read you blog very often, I love reading your books (and blog when I do read), but when I read this I was embarrassed that any American much less someone who says they are a Christian would be so rude to a Neighbor. It makes me shake my head, and apologize for them like I use to do for my brothers or any younger member of my family when they had done something wrong and didn’t have the common since to know it. Reading many of the comments above I know that you have heard how much you are liked and loved in America. Thank you for your books, happy knitting. I hope that one day I can tell you how much I love your books!

  3288. I’m soooo sorry that you had to experience such terrible things and I know that you don’t what people to say anything about HER but I have to because I’m an American and a New Yorker (and not that it matters I’m also Black). YOU’RE THE BOMB!!!! I’m a young lady(20’s) that’s only been knitting for about 2 yrs and when I found you’re books I felt like I was in heaven. I always tell my nonknitting friends that somewhere in Canada I have a white, 40 something vegan twin!! Your views about my country are honest and a reflection of the things I try not to say (I don’t need a bout in prison;sometimes violents works in my ‘hood). Some people are simple and are angry that they don’t have someone opposed to something(a wool sweater in the works prehaps?)keeping them warm at night. Your blessed and everytime she attaches kiss the kids and hubby, then press deleted. Just make sure to have 911 on speed dail so if a punk tries to run up on you police can come quickly. I know you’re not a punk but it’s always good to be safe.

  3289. Love from an Idaho girl here. I’m so sorry this is going on. But we all support you. Get some much deserved rest before Sock Summit!

  3290. Greetings!
    I am another knitter who has been reading and enjoying your blog for years, but I’ve never actually commented before. However, I was compelled to comment on this post and leave some words of love and support.
    I check in on your blog almost daily, not just because it is often about knitting and almost always hilarious, but because you are the most eloquent blogger I have ever encountered. You are also one of the most inspiring, kind, introspective, and lovably quirky individuals I have ever had the pleasure of getting to know (if only from afar). As a Canadian, I have always felt proud to be represented by such a wonderful ambassador.
    Love & Light,
    Carrie from Calgary

  3291. Like much of the others, I’m a long time reader/first time commenter. All this person has done is made herself look like a jerk to the rest of us reasonable folk and encouraged many of us to comment positively. Don’t let it get you down, Steph. It’s one of her vs. positively thousands of us who support you and love the blog and your books! Thanks for inspiring me to push my knitting further than I thought possible.

  3292. Delurking in support…. She doesn’t represent the rest of us Americans any more than you’ve ever claimed to represent all Canadians or even all Ontarians! Blessings and love and light to you and your family — keep on shining!

  3293. Stephanie, you and I are almost diametrically opposed politically and still we are ‘sisters in knitting’. You make me smile, and I think if we ever sat knitting over a beer, instead of just talking for three minutes at the very tail end of long lecture/day, that we’d find a lot of things that we DO agree on.
    I’m ashamed of this person for her behavior – it’s appaling and I just want to add my appologies to those above. She does not represent me as a Christian, as an American or as a conservative.
    Keep your chin up. You’ve shown real grace under pressure here.

  3294. I have been reading your blog for a long time and its at the very top of the list of daily readings.
    I have some American and Canadian friends here in NZ and we all love your blog and your knitting and they books you write.
    That person is in need of some serious medication.
    Do NOT spend another minute worrying about it. If you do ..then she has won.
    Keep the words coming as you always have.
    All the best
    Nicky

  3295. Stephanie, this is probably about the 4000th comment supporting you and I wish that it, like the preceding 3,999, was totally unnecessary. I’m still going to make the comment because I’m proud, as an American and a Christian and a woman and a knitter, to stand up and say that I support you. I want to be among the wheat, not the tares, to quote one of Christ’s parables.

  3296. Just checking in from the anti-religious, left-leaning, cranky semi-peri-menopausal, old car-driving, native-plant, bag-forgetting, fluffy America. Most of us are good people, too, but you already knew that because you have a fundamental belief in and love for people. It shines through. That is my favorite part of your blog, though I want to find the post about getting stuck in the snow.

  3297. Just checking in from the anti-religious, left-leaning, cranky semi-peri-menopausal, old car-driving, grocery bag-forgetting, fluffy America. Most of us are good people, too, but you already knew that because you have a fundamental belief in and love for people. It shines through. That is my favorite part of your blog, though I want to know how Mr. Washie finally bought the farm.

  3298. I’ve also been reading you for years and haven’t commented much but I wanted to show my support for you. I can’t imagine anyone being so hateful to you, of all people. What on earth? I’m just totally flabbergasted. The internet does bring out teh crazy in people, though. It’s just too easy for people to be mean, like you said. You have handled it with dignity and grace.

  3299. Tonight I tried to felt a pair of giant slippers. Only problem, they wouldn’t felt…so I just have some really scary looking ?knee pads. It made me think of some of the stories you tell in your books. If you see a light from Chicago tonight, it’s me, supporting you, and maybe trying to apply direct heat to those darn slippers! 🙂

  3300. I comment very rarely (though I do love lurking), and have always been amazed that you read each and every comment that you get. That you have time to read them, let alone the reams of email you must get shows great dedication to the community that has built up around your writing.
    My first reaction was that this is unbelievable. How a woman can claim to be Christian, representing Americans, and so full of vitrol is beyond me. To further brag about how she is hurting you, how she and her “friends” will figure out away around the blocks, that she will not let it go—all show that she is completely mentally checked out. I won’t say she’s unstable—I think that’s a slur to people who are mentally ill and need help.
    This woman clearly knows what she is doing. She is rejoicing in it. She is cold and calculating. She has absolutely no heart at all.
    I have always loved your writing. You make laundry funny. I would have been sad if this was your signoff, that she had pushed you to the edge. I would have understood, but been sad.
    Know that there are always more people with you than against you.
    We love you more than yarn.

  3301. Wow. That is shocking and scary. I hope you’ve seriously considered getting a restraining order. I will keep both of you in my prayers. I’m American. I read your Canada Day post. I didn’t find anything offensive, but I guess that’s not the point. I really enjoy your blog and the book I read. I hope you will keep doing what you’re doing. Take care. Just know that I am one more person who really enjoys your blog and thinks you are doing an exceptionally great job of parenting. Take care.

  3302. Love you Stephanie! You bring me joy and laughter and beauty through your books and your blog. I’m so sorry to hear what’s going on, and really surprised that such a talented person would have that critical inner voice just like the rest of us. Thanks for demonstrating grace.

  3303. Stay strong. Stay safe.
    She’s obviously 2 balls short of a sweater, and needs to be reported to all the relevant authorities.

  3304. I’m a new reader, and first time commenter. I felt I had to join the many comments since I have had experience with a stalker. I want to say that it is amazing you have kept your cool in this! Please keep blogging, don’t let this scare you off the rest of us Americans. And consider getting some legal counsel–I had a similar problem many years ago, and my stalker was mentally ill and it took authority to make this person back off.

  3305. Thank you for being you. Let’s hope that like a really bad, prolonged weather front, this too shall pass! From another admiring American. XO [the alliteration was on purpose]

  3306. Another American fan who apologizes. Just read our news and you can tell how many lunatics we’re harboring down here. This American loves you and appreciates you.

  3307. Wow, I am so sorry you have to deal with that. I’m sending you love and hugs from this American.

  3308. I’m sad that you have had to spend so much energy and time on this mess rather than on creating more knitting wisdom, or knitted love. She absolutely represents no one, she’s alone in her fight and deserves no attention to it whatsoever. i’m confused as to why there isn’t a way to block her totally from commenting on your blog. She’s feeding on your attention to her comments. She’s touching your fame and basking in it. It reminds me of a naughty child who gets attention for acting out. They thrive on it even though it’s negative attention. She needs a major time out. Or maybe reform school.
    Carry on sister in yarn, you’re one in a million.

  3309. I believe it’s possible to love your own country without hating all the others. I think it’s wonderful that you love your country, and share it with the rest of us. I really wouldn’t know much about Canada if you didn’t share its beauty in pictures, and other things about it.
    I will comment here, rather than on her blog, because I believe that maybe she should see all the admiration we have for you. There’s not many people who could plan a convention, write books, raise a family and still manage to knit while doing it. And we admire you, laugh with your funny stories, and pity you when it all goes wrong (poor Sir Washie).

  3310. I love following you here and I have read everyone of your books.
    You have my support, Stephanie. All the way from Denmark, Europe.
    /Julia

  3311. aloha,
    i’m always shocked by the nastiness that people are capable of…so much energy that could be put to a better use.
    americans are really quite different. i send you aloha and kokua for yourself and family…from the islands where we really do think of each other as ohana/family and the language expresses that. So, sistah, be strong.

  3312. Stephanie, I too need to add my voice. You are amazing. I love your blog and the two books I have read. I am such a poor knitter, but I have your wonderful voice in my head telling me to keep at it. Enjoy the mystery of the wool! Thank you for all you do. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with the crazy person.

  3313. So very sorry you are having to deal with an obviously disturbed person, and ashamed that she is an American and a “Christian”–not hardly!
    May you be blessed with every possible goodness, you deserve it for all the joy and laughter you bring into our lives every single day!
    Keep living and writing in your own individual and wonderful way!

  3314. Just another American telling you she doesn’t speak for the rest of us, and that she frankly makes me embarrassed for her. The world would be a much sadder place without you, your family and your blog. You’re such a positive person and a wonderful role model for all of us, whatever our nationality.
    I look forward to reading your writing for many, many years to come.

  3315. Stephanie, I am so sorry that you’ve been targeted so insanely by someone who is clearly not well. As an American citizen, I am shocked, horrified and deeply embarrassed by these rants and am in no way represented by her.
    I completely support your methods and, as infuriated as I feel, will not acknowledge her in any way.
    As all the comments before mine have said in one way or another, please know that you are a source of great joy, love and laughter in all of our lives. You encourage, teach, support, and delight us all.
    I am so proud of you in your efforts of dealing with this and hope that I can behave with such grace if ever I am faced with such a situation.
    I am with you in light, love and respect.

  3316. I’m adding my support to the 3711 other comments, and taking a moment to remind people what this should really be about…THE YARN! While this person is typing, those are stitches going unstitched! It is stash not being busted! Wool going uncaressed, silk not being spun.

  3317. Hi Stepahanie,
    take care and don’t let the crazy get to you. Also, who knew that not getting into classes of the sock summit could hurt a psyche so profoundly – I assume that’s what made her crack, no?

  3318. Hey lady-
    You were the first and will be the last knitting blog I ever read. You are charming, funny, smart, and taught me to Kirschener (can’t spell this tonight) my toes of the socks. I will remember how excited I was to go to my first knitting event at Madrona and getting to listen to you. As a fellow teacher, I give you props! <3 Michele from WA

  3319. It’s amazing how out of hand people can get on the internet. Even back when newsgroups were more common than blogs there were people who were trolls – that would just yell fire and hate into the middle of a group – and giggle at home I guess..
    I hate how the people that represent least the USA I know – shout their citizenship.

  3320. She’s a psycho. You are awesome. I know you probably don’t even need to hear that but it’s true. I’m American and I’m appalled by her behavior. On behalf of our nationality, I apologize. No one should be subjected to this crap.

  3321. Wow. What a hairy issue. You are incredibly strong for putting up with this BULLYING, yes bullying… It’s horrible! I’m an American, I don’t advertise it (the accent living abroad gives me away), she doesn’t speak for me or Americans in general.
    Now, let’s think happy thoughts and ignore her. That will piss her off more than anything else we can do.
    Bless you YH.

  3322. I’m in awe of your strength and your grace in dealing with such a confused and unhappy person.
    Bright blessings from near Eugene, Oregon.
    Carys

  3323. Hi, wow, just catching up on your blog and this is a real bummer for you and yours. I read your blog for enjoyment and rarely read the comments. Sending good thoughts to you.

  3324. You ARE an American. And so am I. I’m a citizen of the U.S. You are a citizen of Canada. We both live in North America. That makes us Americans. It’s truly unfortunate that people who live in the U.S. have co-opted the name American for themselves and it’s abominable that this woman is able to call herself American.
    I love your essays on Canada Day. I wish that we in the U.S. were more genuinely patriotic and less jingoistic about our country.
    In our family, whenever the Right seems to be getting crazier than ever we say, “It’s time to move to Canada.” Believe me, there have been times that I’ve seriously considered it. I love your country.

  3325. As a U.S. citizen, I apologize for the stress you’ve been put under. It would be rather peculiar if you didn’t like America considering how much time you spend here, though…

  3326. Dear Steph,
    This is the first post im reading and Im gonna come back to read the rest of the great stuff you have..
    Let-Go Steph… We have miles to go.. Life is too short to worry about these ppl.
    -Vinodh

  3327. ya, i know some people who know some people… *hint hint*
    all kidding aside, as an american i’m offended by her. really, i am. she reminds me of George W. Bush. that’s the only american who i hate with more disdain.
    Keep knitting, and by all means, the offer above will be standing as long as you do 🙂

  3328. Wow, how appalling. Can you get the police involved? I think you could take out the equivalent of an apprehended violence order (I am an Aussie). This person needs to be stopped. Would she be connected to the person who accused the Dixie Chicks as being UnAmerican?

  3329. Great grace under fire. Don’t take it personally. You are a great writer, I know because I refer to your books a lot. Love your work, and thanks for the BSR. It’s my salvation in many a tough situation.
    Onward and upward – sock summitting!

  3330. It sounds like this woman is truly a difficult person to deal with. I almost offered advice, then I read it again, and did a browser search for “?” and realized that you never asked for any.
    But thank you for sharing this story with the world. Our digital age might allow for predators to attack more freely, but it can also provide for a better glimpse into their world. To have “transcribed” conversations with people such as this woman can provide a tremendous benefit to understanding how to “rise above.”

  3331. The trouble you are having makes me very sad, I hope that the thousands of comments here go some way to making you feel you are not alone and we all support you in any way we can.
    I also hope that the other party gets the help she clearly needs.

  3332. until now i have only been a lurker…. but for this i must show my support towards you.
    obviously this american has forgotten one of the things we value most… a little thing called freedom of speech. so keep enjoying your basic human right to express your opinions (btw i have never found them to be objectionable) because there are a great deal of people out there who really enjoy reading them…
    stay strong and know that i (and many others) got yo’ back
    lindsay

  3333. I have never posted before and ditto so many of the replies above – I hope this gets sorted soon in the mean time we’ll still all be here and supporting your endeavors

  3334. Stephanie,
    I just wanted to sling some support your way as well. This is utterly shocking and hopefully this unhinged, egotistical maniac will obtain some medication to control her obsession with you. It’s so hard to not just feel hate for her for her ridiculous, and incorrect assumptions on not just you, but also American history. It’s so interesting that often the people with the most to say in these situations, the loudest voice, are also the most factually incorrect. Anyhow, she’s not worth your time or mine…so, just be you – the funny, awesome, amazing you.
    I hope that some form of authority or legal process can take care of this very soon. As far as I know, hate speech is a big deal in both Canada and the United States. She walks a thin line.
    Love love
    Cindy

  3335. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with such a stressful, awful situation on top of the huge amount of work that the Sock Summit is creating. I’m another one popping out of the woodwork to help the light shine brighter. I really, really hope things improve very, very soon. Take care. You are a good person and your principles are something for others to aspire to match. Much love.

  3336. I am so very sorry you have had such an awful experience. It must have been very frightening. It sounds as if you have wonderful support and advice from your family and friends. Hope you contact the police/authorities soon. Isn’t cyber stalking a crime? It sounds as if this poor soul has mental health issues. I hope her friends and family step in soon and get her the help she so desperately and obviously needs.
    Please don’t stop doing what you do Yarn Harlot!
    Cat

  3337. Nothing to add, Stephanie, except good on you for taking this head on. You are doing exactly what you need to do, including cluing in your readership and hopefully discouraging those who support you from getting pulled into needless online shouting matches with someone who…wants that.
    Kudos for grace despite the personal tumult and best to you from Tennessee.

  3338. I think you did a very brave and good thing posting this to us. I certainly wouldn’t want to be in this other person’s shoes now that The Blog has been aroused! Now that the whole knitting world knows YOUR side of this mess, I think it will be exceptionally hard for anyone to take this person seriously. After all, she who kicks up the biggest fuss first is usually the one who gets believed by the people who have the authority to do something about the situation- having three girls, I’m certain you understand that little philosophy 😛
    Mom and I are sending you our best wishes, and some Weasels to help defend the blog! (pictures forthcoming because I don’t have a scanner at the moment)
    Best of luck and love,
    ~ McKenna, Lady of the Stash Weasels

  3339. I am also a regular reader, although I am a few days behind, obviously, at this point. I am sickened by what you have had to go through with this woman. Like the thousands of others who have posted comments so far, I too enjoy your blog, your books, your positivity (is that a word?), your perspective and wisdom, and yes, of course, your Canada Day posts. Up here (down south to you) with rabbit ears on my tv, the only stations I can receive (even with my converter box) are Canadian. I enjoy their unique programming and the different perspective on world news.
    Keep on blocking her, pursue legal avenues if possible, and we will ignore her if she shows up in the comments again (I noticed in the July 1 blog post) as you request.
    All the best wishes to you and your family and on to Sock Summit!

  3340. New poster, heard about this situation on Rav and had to come over just to add another drop in this vast sea of support – all the best.

  3341. Dear Stephanie:
    You are truly a gracious, caring, human being. Exactly what Christ asks of us all. Add my small voice to the throng around you now. I’m praying for your peace and safety (and that of your whole family). And I’m praying for peace for her. It must be such a troubled mind she lives in.

  3342. I am so sorry that this has been happening. You bring laughter and sanity to thousands of people.

  3343. Can 3,750 people (so far) be wrong? We love our dear Yarn Harlot. You are awesome!

  3344. Adding my voice to the many, many others. I just don’t understand what would bring a person to behave in such a way, and to believe that what they’re doing is acceptable. Good for you for making this public.

  3345. An insignificant person leading a sad and small life. That’s the only thing I can conclude about someone who would treat someone she’s never met in this way. I hope she gets the message and leaves you alone from now on.

  3346. This woman does not represent Christians or Americans. I don’t normally comment here, but this is just so wrong.

  3347. As an American who has spent many summer vacations in Canada, I love reading your posts and learning more about Canada. Please don’t let this woman hinder your blogging.
    I hope you report her to her ISP and the police department. She’s probably already on their radar, but the more those folks hear about what she is doing, the more likely she will be dealt with. She may be certifiable but she is still committing a hate crime and that’s a serious offense.

  3348. As an American knitter, my respects to you for putting up with such behavior and trying to maintain dignity and grace. Mentally ill people cannot be reasoned with when they are that far gone. All signs point to this state of mind.
    Keep on knitting and entertaining us as you have. Please know that there are so many of us that are thinking of you in a positive light.

  3349. I’m sure that I am echoing the majority of the 3755 comments posted thus far by saying, as an American, this person does NOT, in any way shape or form, represent me, my beliefs, or my manners.
    I have been reading your blog off and on for years, and have posted occasionally, but this post really got to me. I apologize, on behalf of my countrymen, for this lunatics rantings. May she get the help and medication that she truly needs.
    And may you continue to blog and write and organize sock summits and amuse the rest of us, (mostly) rational human beings.
    Thank you.

  3350. As a Christian American I do not think I have to apologize for her because she, in no shape or form, represents our views – I just hope you don’t lump us all in the same crazy pot as her :)! I’ve enjoyed your books and blog for years and look forward to many more.

  3351. Dearest Stephanie,
    Don’t let that twit upset you. That person does not share the sentiments of those of us who live in the United States. I personally like it when you post stuff that talks about Canada. It’s interesting. We love you. Be yourself and don’t let one person’s stupid stalking change you!

  3352. We camped in western Canada 30 years ago. I loved the countryside, loved the people. What a change from South Texas. Some campers adopted a couple of our Texas-born puppies. I hope to visit again very soon. I have all your books. My favorite short story is about the doula knitting and waiting for the still-born baby. I read it often. It is beautiful and haunting. take care, you have a friend in Texas.

  3353. Hi Stephanie!
    I just wanted you to know that as a Crocheting, Christian, American woman (who is neither left nor right) that I LOVE your blog. I’ve never read anything that could be misconstrued as rude or anti-american.
    I wish you the best of luck with dealing with this person. I’m ashamed she’s American.

  3354. Just wanted to write and say that I love your blogs and books. You have helped me learn to knit socks and do “irish cottage” knitting. I appreciate your sense of humor and your talent. Please ignore this momentary irritation. This, too, shall pass…

  3355. I’m sure that I am echoing the majority of the 3755 comments posted thus far by saying, as an American, this person does NOT, in any way shape or form, represent me, my beliefs, or my manners.
    I have been reading your blog off and on for years, and have posted occasionally, but this post really got to me. I apologize, on behalf of my countrymen, for this lunatic’s rantings. May she get the help and medication that she truly needs.
    And may you continue to blog and write and organize sock summits and amuse the rest of us, (mostly) rational human beings.
    Thank you.

  3356. I believe she may be mentally ill and may be a threat to you when you tour the US. I suggest giving a copy of the files to your agent and the police.

  3357. If this woman knew anything, she would see that your actions are so Christ-like in the face of her horrible behavior! I feel so proud and encouraged by your beautiful and peaceful response to anger, hatred, and clearly a lot of pain and emptiness that is being displaced onto you.
    Keep shining the light! You can do it! Don’t be discouraged! You have immeasurable value that cannot be taken away from you, no matter how hard some people might try.
    Thank you for all that you’ve given the world.

  3358. You seem very dramatic. You seem to have posted this so that you can get approval from your online social group. Why not just make the decision and be done with it? Well, it feels good to humiliate your opposition and use all the people you know against them. That is not very mature.

  3359. Another lurker here, delurking to give you my support, Stephanie. 🙂
    Hugs from South Carolina,
    -M

  3360. Stephanie, I want to be like you when I grow up.
    You inspired me to learn how to knit. If I had children I would aspire to be as good a mother as you are. I’ve read every one of your posts (I have a boring job, what can I say?) and haven’t noticed any anti-American feeling at all, though I’m a fellow Torontonian, so… ^_- But really, if your other American fans haven’t seen it either, it probably isn’t just us!
    I have a small amount of experience with having a dangerous stalker and I have learned that the only way to really deal with it is to ignore that person completely and leave it to the authorities and people you trust.
    It really bothers me that this is the only thing I can do; mostly because other people just don’t understand why I’m behaving this way. It isn’t in my character to hold a grudge, or act as if someone doesn’t exist, and even though that is what it appears I’m doing, it isn’t. It’s only that ANY sort of interaction is taken as an invitation… even just the briefest of eye contact. *sigh*
    What I’m trying to say is, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. I think you’ve done exactly the right thing in what you’ve done, and I think that you’ll be strong enough to get through it
    Just know that there are a lot of people out there who love you and support you and try to hang in there!

  3361. Stephanie, stay strong. You are a lovely person with a great sense of humor. I read your blog everyday with my morning coffee. Thank you.

  3362. Hopefully these many thousands of wonderful comments have helped you feel you did the right thing going public with your post Stephanie. So i’d like to add my support all the way from the UK – i’ve been reading and enjoying your blog posts almost every day since I started knitting 3 years ago, and since I became a mum myself recently its not just your fantastic knitting I enjoy reading about, but also your wonderful and humorous anecdotes about day to day family life too. I desperately wanted to make it to the London I Knit day last year to hear you speak and maybe get a pic of my 6 week old son on the blog! Maybe next time!! Please keep doing what you are doing! xx P.S Go Megan and Pato!

  3363. Christianity, at its core, is pretty simple.
    Micah 6:8 “What does the Lord require of you? To do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with your God.”
    She fails on all counts.
    A newbie knitter in Fargo, who deeply appreciates Canada even though we argue over water issues.

  3364. Wow. My husband’s crazy ex-wife stalks my blog (regular one, not the knitting one) and I know how unnerved I was when I found out she had started her own blog just to ridicule us and obsess about us. I realize how shaken you must have been over this. We’ve resorted to an attorney because we know our wacko, but the internet is a place for cowards who can’t function anywhere else.
    For the record, I’m an American, read the Canada Day post, found nothing offensive AT ALL, own all your books, and I’m really, really sorry that anyone is behaving this way.
    HUGS!

  3365. I’m so sorry that this happened to you. The harasser is obviously mentally ill and she should be spending her time getting help for her illness instead of harassing you.
    To spend all that time and energy harassing you show that she has absolutely no life. What a sad and pathetic person she is.
    If she’s made any threats of violence, call the police. Threats of violence are illegal in Canada (not sure about the USA), and people go to prison every day for making threats.

  3366. This woman is from the same ilk as that “Christian” church who show up to hatefully protest at American military funerals. Its a hard lesson to learn that sometimes the Crazies have power.

  3367. I’m sending you support. There’s a saying, “Don’t feed the trolls”, and I’m glad to hear that you are implementing it. The number of breaths we have to take are finite, and the amount of energy we have is limited – I hope you are able to find a way to deal with this stalker with a minimum of energy on your part.

  3368. Wow, not sure what to say except ((hugs)). I enjoy your blog and your books but I AM Canadian. That may make me suspect 😉 but hey , if you like something, you like it.
    psssst.. I like Americans too…Don’t tell the government…They’ll take my Canadian Card away…rotflmC(anadian)ao

  3369. thanks for being you,you bring much laughter,compassion and make our days so much brighter.

  3370. You always make me smile! I am leaving a first comment ever because I think you are wonderful!

  3371. I have never understood why people are flat-out mean. If it was just a bad day or she was feeling particularly grumpy, that’s one thing. How in the world could anyone think you were anti-American? I love reading your blog – though I never send comments. I feel like we are friends (in a weird one-sided kind of way). Hang in there….

  3372. The Internets needs more people like you, and less people like her. Thanks for being awesome!

  3373. Stephanie– your blog is the best thing I read every day. I love hearing about your life, your girls, and Joe and the cat, and yes, definitely the knitting too. You bring light, love and kindness with your writing, and you have to know that for every crazy person out there, there are many, many, many more of us who think you’re amazing and wonderful. I’m so sorry you have had these horrible experiences — this woman definitely needs to be blocked at the server level.

  3374. Wow, terribly sorry all this is happening to you, but I am glad that cooler heads are prevailing. Keep it up!

  3375. I agree – there is no need to validate that sort of behaviour.
    As for your books, aside from the large amusement factor, they were invaluable in getting my husband to understand that I am not alone in my stash hoarding habits and that there is such a thing as “yarn fumes.”

  3376. Oh dear doesn’t even cover it. Respect has been a big preoccupation here lately. Just this morning I read this:
    “I don’t mean to be rude–” he began, in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
    “–yet,sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often,” [he] finished the sentence gravely. “Best to say nothing at all, my dear man…” –JKR, HP6, p.46
    That rang as true the first time I read it as now. Instead be proud of your cyclists, the MSF, and the rest of your supportive readership, to name a few.

  3377. If she is sending you threats of physical violence via email contact her ISP. They will yank her access pretty quickly. Kinda hard to make threats when you cant access the internet

  3378. Have been away and so only just got to this posting.
    Whoever this person thinks she is , Christianity has nothing to do with it. To her, I say “GET A LIFE”.
    To you, I say “Read all the positive messages and know you have our support.”

  3379. Here’s one more long time admirer/first time poster chiming in to say hang in there! I’m sorry for the toll this must be taking on you and your family.
    You’re brilliant, though, and thousands of us are really grateful to you for how you live and what you do. You’re inspiring even in times of adversity! Well done.

  3380. You are right, Steph. She is wrong.
    She does not represent Americans. She does not represent Christians. She represents stupidity, intolerance, and evil. Her own cancerous behavior will end up eating her alive. What you do to others comes back to you a hundredfold.
    So here’s a hundred hugs for you, because you’ve given so much to others. Chin up, it will get better.

  3381. I see that you’ve gotten tons of supportive responses, but I wanted to leave mine as well.
    You and I are very different in many ways. I’m American, Christian, conservative, Republican, carniverous…I’m sure the list goes on. However, with all our differences, I’ve always felt that if we were to be thrown in a room together for any period of time, we’d have no troubles in having a fabulous time. And the reason for this is simple, we both know a very important lesson. The golden rule. There are things that you think, do and believe that I do not. However, I know that you would never force me to think, do or believe anything I don’t want to. More than that, you would embrace my freedom to think, do, and believe what I want, just as I embrace yours. Unfortunately, too many Christians forget some of Jesus’s most imortant lessons…love each other, let he who has not sinned cast the first stone, and do unto others.
    I hope that this one person’s actions hasn’t soured your view of Christians as a whole. Somehow, I think it hasn’t, you seem to be able to see the big picture.
    God bless you, Stephanie.

  3382. These sort of people make me ashamed to be American. You are a lovely bright light. *hugs*

  3383. It’s hard to ignore a bully, but I hope all the love expressed here helps.
    Love to you and yours.

  3384. Oh Stephanie! I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. For what it’s worth, I’m an American and don’t always share your political views but I love you and your books. I saw you speak in Jacksonville and loved it. Had not laughed like that in a long time. You are great. Keep it up.
    I don’t understand why this person spends so much time on you if she hates you so. Obviously a nut job. I would personally go to the authorities with this one. Is there such thing as an internet restraining order? Definitely should have a restraining order against this person.
    Sending lots of love!

  3385. sweetie, while I found your blog and subsequent analysis of this conflict very interesting I find that the format of your web page is very difficult on the eyes. After about 5 minutes of reading the grey on white gave me quite a headache and I ran it through another proxy to fix it, which doesn’t help with your traffic at all dear. Everything else, the formatting, text size and mostly your content is aesthetically and pragmatically efficient and appealing. Best wishes with your trolls (there’s one under every bridge).

  3386. I’m not sure if anyone else has suggested this already, but i would go ahead and block the entire subnet range of her ISP, so short of her enlisting outside help to proxy her address through someone else, or going down to starbucks, she’ll be blocked from being able to just get a new dhcp address from her isp. or you could file a restraining order (the american way) and then sue her in civil court (again the american way) for each violation of the restraining order and the emotional distress inflicted upon you. there’s a lot of shenanigans you can employ to dissuade this woman from bothering you. We (americans) believe in free speech, but not harassment. best of luck to you.

  3387. I am an American. I love my country.
    I find your Canada Day posts to be inspiring and Canada remains at the top of my list for a vacation, should I ever have the time to travel!
    While there were some light jabs about the United States in this year’s post (reference to our obsession over the ‘right to bear arms’, suggestion that Canadians detest being mistaken for Americans), I took them for what they were – humorous comments on the differences in our cultures. And to be perfectly blunt, I think it speaks to our oft-substandard public school system that by posting historical quotations (some of which, if I recall correctly, were made by OUR FOUNDING FATHERS!) you would receive a PERSONAL attack. For gracious sake, they weren’t even your words!
    Please know (as I’m sure a woman of your intelligence already does) that many Americans are TRUE pluralists and respect not only your beliefs, but also your right to express them. Please know further that education goes a long way and that those of us who learned how to read properly are capable of reading your posts without accusation.
    And finally, please know that I believe your actions and responses to be faultless. I’m very sorry that one of my fellow Americans has found it necessary to become violent and I have the utmost admiration for you and your behavior in this matter.

  3388. ugh, sick to my stomach reading this Stephanie. This American Girl thinks you’re great…..

  3389. Clearly she’s not mentally well. Distance yourself the best you can, and do keep records in case you need to take legal action at some point. I’ve been in a similar situation before and can relate to how difficult it is to put in perspective while it’s going on.
    The vast vast majority of us get great joy from your writing – that’s the big picture.

  3390. I’m sorry that you’re being harassed by a mentally ill woman who can’t tell the difference between being proud of one’s country and being anti-American. I hope she gets the help she needs soon. Thank you for being so level headed about this.

  3391. Wow! I’ve never seen any blog or message board filled with so many positive comments in my life. This is the first time I’ve ever been to the site, and will probably be my last since the content really holds no interest to me (I will tell my mother about the site though. She’ll love it.) but just reading comments from your thousands of supporters has reminded me that the default behavior for most people is civilized, polite, and supportive.
    Stephanie, somehow you’ve probably managed to create the most positive and supportive community that the internet has ever seen. The internet needs more people like you and your readers.
    Oh, I also read the Canada Day Post and enjoyed it. As citizen of the US, I have to say that there was absolutely nothing offensive about your post in any way.

  3392. We Americans LOVE you, Stephanie! Absolutely, 100% adore you and respect you. You’re a huge inspiration to all us working moms and the darling of the knitting world.

  3393. Stephanie,
    I admit, reading all this made me sputtering mad. Urgh. Just. Feh.
    I will try to diplay the same grace and maturity that you are embodying and simply restrict myself to this: Ms. Pearl-McPhee, you are a classy lady, and an example to us all.

  3394. So sad that she is so hateful and claims to be a Christian. I believe you should be able to write whatever you want since it is YOUR blog. I find your writing very entertaining and look forward to each and every post.

  3395. I love your blog, your point of view, your observations, your books and your personal appearances … and your knitting is pretty darn good as well! …keep up the work, ok?

  3396. Hi, I was brought to your posting by Chris Guillebeau and his Art of Nonconformity blog. This is a sad story. I spent 3 -5 years and countless thousands of dollars to get a master’s degree in a field where a lot of damaged people, I have since learned, go to hide (psychology). It has been five or so years since I was “taken out” by a colleague so hurt and bent on destruction that to this day, to think of it still astounds me. As my partner at work, this person managed to turn everyone against me, as I was a newcomer to the agency. Meanwhile, when we were alone, she would share with me all the horrors (and I do mean horrors) of her upbringing and the fact that she’d been on antidepressants her entire adult life. As it turns out, I reminded her of her sister, who must have been so absolutely cruel to her that she finally saw her chance to take it out on me. Do I have to add that she was a religious fanatic as well and would imply that God must hate me too? Or that every day after shift I would have to calmly talk her down, as she sobbed and wailed about how horrible she thought I was? I didn’t have to do much of anything to bring up the sad sorry well of her painful past. I tried to show her that I wasn’t her sister, or out to harm her in any way. We would hug and the next AM the supervisors would call me into the office. Because her public persona was so utterly friendly and carefree, nothing I said on my own behalf helped my case at all. They simply wouldn’t believe anything I told them about the situation. I no longer work in this field. I don’t know how much advice I can give you. I just wanted to let you know that this kind of thing happens with people who have unresolved issues. Trust me, you are just the straw that is breaking this woman’s back, and how nice it is for her to be able to rip you apart from such a distance as well. Some people are just too damaged to actually “see” you through their biases, no matter how hard you try to explain yourself. I don’t know much about the knitting community or your books, your blog, or you. I do feel, however, that the internet and social media are ripe for the abuses of such types of people. If you cannot just ignore her, and I mean really ignore her, perhaps there is some way you can continue to carry on, yet be less visible. All my best to you, I know how difficult this is.

  3397. I’ve never read your blog before; I found out about through through a Ravelry conversation. I am American (like it matters, which it doesn’t!). I am SO sorry this person is doing this to you. No one deserves it. I am not a hugger but I wish I could give you one anyway!

  3398. Hi Steph:
    I’ve lurked on your site since you launched and just had to add my voice to the chorus of knitters who support you in this and so many other things. Its a weird thing to read someone’s blog for so long and feel like you know them, their family, their kids…and then watch a horrible and hurtful thing like this happen.
    Well, I don’t know you, or your family, or your kids, but I wanted you to know that I’m completely supportive of you.
    Hang it there, you’re doing great!!!

  3399. I am so sorry that you are being treated so badley by one of my compatriots. From my seat, you are dealing with this with your usual intelligence and grace. (((HUGS)))

  3400. I was just saying over dinner on Sunday that people of this ilk scare the ever-living bejeesus out of me. Someone who is so “hell-bent” on being right and “righteous” that they can’t see. Praying for her will only do so much, but I’ll do my part. You are handling this with such dignity. This American supports you.
    Juanita Harris,
    San Jose, California

  3401. Yet another round of support and love from yet another American, Catholic, and conservative.
    Love the blog!
    Love the books!
    Hope to see you speak someday.

  3402. Steph. I come to your blog at the end of the day for a really good read before I head for bed. I wouldn’t do that if I didn’t thoroughly enjoy your blog. I can’t believe this situation is real — I really can’t. My honest assessment is there is some mental illness on her part. To be filled with so much hate and toxic thought is just unbelievable – a reminder to me that the very small number of haters have a lot energy when it comes to throwing their hate and mental illness on others. At this point, ignore as best you can – – there should be another topic / person coming along soon who she can turn her anger toward.

  3403. Long-time reader, first time poster sending you lots of love and support from the good ol’ USA! Hang in there!

  3404. Hello.
    Long time lurker, first time commenter.
    I can’t believe what i’m reading. Just wanted you to know that I for one (an American) appreciate the Canadian perspective and understand our northern neighbors a bit more from your informative posts.
    Go home *anonymous*, we ain’t buying crazy here.

  3405. Steph, I hope it is some comfort to you to see the number of positive comments on this situation–a record number, no? More than even your wedding congratulations.
    Hang in there—she’ll turn her venom elsewhere at some point. We love you.

  3406. Praying for your strength and protection. I love your work, admire you, and send love. This aggressor has serious mental health issues. There is nothing you can do on a blog or in your books that entitles anyone to treat another human (you) this way. Hang in there.

  3407. To truly get over this, you have to take on some of the traits of the troll you’ve been burdened with. If you can find it in you to revel in this woman’s obvious misery, then I promise you’ll find it easier to deal with each new hate filled email–no longer will they upset you, but instead you’ll be energized and delighted by the anger you’ve inspired.

  3408. Hi! I’ve never posted before, but I love reading your blog (and your books)! They make me laugh so hard, and I will definitely not stop buying them. I am a very conservative Christian American, and I have never been offended by anything you have written. You just make me feel better about my own yarn addiction! Hang in there with lots of love and support from Texas.

  3409. Steph — the Bible tells us that people like your lurker thrive in the dark, and cannot stand the light of truth. So, I join everyone else here who:
    (1)loves and supports you (2) thinks your marriage is amazing (3)knows you to be an outstanding parent because of the “fruits” i.e. today’s case: Megan and friends (4) turns to your blog (or books or calendar) whenever the day requires a smile (5) appreciates your style and candor; grace under pressure (6) has learned atrmendous amount about Canada, publishing, organization and — oh, yes — knitting from you.
    These are only a fraction of the good things about Stephanie Pearl-Macphee.
    Yes, I could go on and on and on and on (to paraphrase your blog title banner). But, by now you must know how very much you are loved and supported, even by people unlikely to ever meet you. You bring joy to my world. Thank you!!!!!
    PS — I don’t know if I was more touched that my husband (the Lutheran pastor) posted before me, or that you took the time to respond personally to him. Another example of what a class act you are. trv

  3410. So sorry you are having to deal with the lunatic fringe. I hope she goes away soon. Sending more love from the U.S!

  3411. I’m glad you’re getting this support from us, your readers. I joyfully join the chorus of admirers! And I’m sorry you suffered so long without posting. I hope this outpouring of love helps.
    But I also join those who’ve said, take legal action. Get the police. Whatever is bothering her is not you, it’s her own self, and she’s in deep trouble, which makes her potentially very dangerous indeed.
    I’ve been thru mini-versions of this in my life, and it’s astonishing how painful it is, even when you know perfectly well that it’s not really a judgement of you. I lost 10 pounds rapidly during the last one….which ended the instant I mentioned my lawyer.
    I hope your next post tells us all is resolved.

  3412. I am embarrassed as an American. I don’t understand the idea that if you’re proud to be a Canadian, that somehow takes away from Americans.
    I am especially embarrassed as a Christian. What this person says and how she acts is so far removed from what my faith teaches me. My Christian belief teaches me to be loving, compassionate, tolerant and respectful – not hateful, mean, narrow-minded and bad-mannered.
    Stephanie, I’m sorry that you’re having to deal with this troubled person. I hope you find some way to block that bad energy from your life. Try to concentrate on the people who appreciate your writing and enjoy reading your blog because there are thousands more of them.

  3413. Oh my. First as an American, I want to apologize to you. I promise we are not all like that.
    Second, please don’t let this woman stop you. Keep good records of what is said and when and keep reporting her harassment to the authorities. Eventually she will either tire of you, or cross the line and say something that can get her arrested.
    I’m not a huge follower of your blog – though I have read it from time to time. Blogs just aren’t my thing. I may start following you now just as a show of support!

  3414. Dear Steph, I am an American, a Christian, and a Knitter. I think you are wonderful. Please stay safe with anything that entails.

  3415. Hi Stephanie! I check your blog everyday and get so excited when i see a new entry. I have never commented before but feel like now is the time. I must tell you that i am an American and a Christian and please do not let that woman discolor your view of Christian Americans. A true Christian would NEVER behave the way she is OR use the language she is using. NEVER. Please know that we are not like that. She clearly has huge mental issues and not much of a life. It doesn’t matter to me that our religious ideas may be different or that you may be “left” and i may be “right”. I think you’re a wonderful person and your blog often makes me happy. Chin up, my friend. She can only win if you let her!

  3416. She’s bloody bonkers. Just be glad you’re not having the day she’s having. I had a similar experience once. It’s incredibly wearing but you come out the other side being very glad you’re you.

  3417. Let me just add to the string of Americans (even, in my case, Americans politically on the right) reassuring you that we’re not all like that, that I love your writing, have cheered and cried along with your tribulations, and applaud your… ahem… grit in dealing with this woman.

  3418. This American is feeling embarrassed to share a nationality with such an idiot.
    You have done nothing wrong; you’re a great writer and an inspiration to thousands of people. It’s not even worth acknowledging her existence. She’ll run out of steam eventually.
    Many hugs and much love to you and yours

  3419. Stay strong. I believe people behave this way for 2 reasons: to bring you down to their level of misery or they need professional help. I think both apply to this person.
    On a brighter note. I will continue to read your books/blog and see you when your in my neck of the woods. I have so enjoyed/laughed so much with you. Carry on and stay strong!!!!

  3420. This person has no life, but unfortunately, that’s the least-sad aspect of her. There are a lot of cowardly, lonely people like this on the internet.
    Please don’t let it get you down. I’m American, and the vast majority of us are NOT like this. In any way.
    Keep knitting and ignore this ungrateful horrible c*nt that doesn’t for a second deserve her citizenship in either of our wonderful nations.

  3421. Your composure and grace are something everyone should aspire to. I’ve enjoyed reading your blog and will continue to do so!! Thank you!

  3422. Dear Stephanie,
    I’m a (’till now) lurker who has enjoyed reading your blog (and your books!) on a regular basis for four years now. I’ve loved catching up on your knitting, your wonderful family, the thieving squirrels, funky household appliances and plumbing, ice and snow, trips and tours, tips and tutorials, and–last but not least: Canada Day–all while moving from California to New York City to Spain to California. I’ve never posted a comment on a blog before, but I just wanted to give you my support and let you know that I am absolutely appalled and mortified by this woman’s mind-boggling behavior. Please keep writing and sharing; I continue to look forward to reading, no matter where in the world I am.

  3423. and just by virtue of what she’s saying, she is being infinitely more anti-American (she’s a disgrace to our country by acting like she represents anything more than a small minority) and cowardly than most people choose to be in their lifetimes, keep your head up 🙂

  3424. Steph: You write so personally; I feel we are friends. I fear this woman, who does not represent Americans in any way, will inhibit you free and easy style. She should be disregarded. She is ill. She couldn’t be a knitter with so much time wasted focused on her computer. You have a life. She has nothing. You are a treasure to so many. Please look beyond this deranged, lonely, bitter person.

  3425. I am so sorry that you have encountered someone like this. Its sad, but some people feel the anonymity of the internet gives them the right to be flaming turds. She sounds remarkably like my husband’s ex-wife.

  3426. Huh, who knew? I was always impressed with how supportive this international knitting community was, being new to it myself. I guess it’s like every other family with its crazy relatives!

  3427. As a patriotic American, I just want you to know that I have never, ever read an anti-American comment in your blog posts. I LOVE reading about Canadian politics, and Canada Day in your blogs. They have taught me so much about your history. Thank you so much for all you do for your fellow knitters, and fellow North Americans. You are a very special person to me, and to so many others. Each day you post is a good one for me.

  3428. Stephanie, Everyone else has said anything I might have added but I’m delurking to tell you what you’ve done for me. Last November, my cousin who has been fighting Rheumatoid Arthritis since she was 7 (she’s 32 now) came down with autoimmune encephalitis. Before the encephalitis she was limited by the arthritis but still managed to knit and crochet. The encephalitis has robbed her of her ability to move, to feed herself, to hold anything in her hands, even to see anything clearly. On her worst days, she wonders aloud why she just can’t die. It’s a horrible experience and we keep hoping that the positive changes, minute as they are, will continue to occur and someday we’ll have our happy girl back.
    Recently, she’s been feeling well enough to ask about my knitting, so when I went to visit I took my knitting and all of the books that I own that you have written. I spent several hours talking about knitting and reading her excerpts from your books. Stephanie, for the first time in nearly a year I heard her laugh…Because of you, of your wit and your experiences! Keep doing what you are doing. We need you in this crazy world!

  3429. I have never commented before although I have long read and loved your blog and enjoy all of your books. Please keep doing what you do and ignore the crazy person!

  3430. This “American” who harrasses you gives everyone in the United States a bad name. Please know that I’ve enjoyed your humor and wit for years on your blog. Take heart.

  3431. I don’t know what to say, except to send you virtual hugs from another American encouraging you to continue fighting the good fight.

  3432. I’m sick to my stomach. I want to apologize for her and for the entire American public. We are such idiots sometimes, and I know you know that most of us absolutely love and adore you, and would never, ever do the horrible, vile things she’s done. I’m embarrassed to know that she calls herself “American”

  3433. Steph, you are amazing! What a show of strong character and grace in the face of sheer ugliness. That person does not represent the character of America, and she certainly does not represent the character of Christ. Stay strong, you have THOUSANDS on your side!!

  3434. I am sooo late to this party, but just wanted to add my support to the pile. You are an awesome, inspiring woman and I very much enjoy your blog. Loving your country does not mean you hate another. Stay strong, we have your back!

  3435. Stephanie, I’m sorry you’ve been dealing with this kind of vicious harassment.
    I enjoy your writing a great deal, and have all of your books (and anticipate I will continue to collect them, despite our tragically starcrossed nationalities – grin). I am definitely a fan.
    But the real reason I have driven several hours to see you read, the reason I have donated not only to KWB but also to other causes I consider worthy, is because I am a fan of the values and ethics you espouse and uphold. Your attempts to privately deal with this obviously troubled woman in compassionate ways, and your public plea to your commenters now are perfect examples of this.
    Stay strong, and best of luck, lady.

  3436. another christian, american, non-posting knitter to saddened by this whole event not to say something. i read your books out loud to my husband to explain myself – you talk knitting like all of us feel it. best wishes.

  3437. I have lost many a beloved blog to trolls such as this one. Please don’t let her comments influence how honest you are or how much of you you share with us.
    Living in conservative state, the crazies are sometimes all you can see. It’s times like these that make me ashamed to be an American.

  3438. I have never posted, but I’m compelled to in order to offer my shoulder of support. I too claim Christian American Woman. I LOVE your blog. I LOVE your books. I LOVE when someone interviews you on a podcast. I’m always charmed by your sense of humor. I sincerely hope your safety is not at risk. I can’t understand the personal vendetta aspect of this. Why read the blog of someone you clearly don’t care for? I’m glad you’re proud of your country, and I have learned more about Canada via your Canada Day posts than I got in general education. Stay strong. You rock!!

  3439. Just another lurker changing my habits to say I support you and your attempts to shine the light. Now back to my usual patterns.

  3440. I’m an American and I think you rock. Lots of kudos for you and your strength!

  3441. She is harassing you. This is illegal and you can take legal action. Report it to the police. I know she is not here in Canada but it is still a good idea to make this an official complaint. Keep copies of all the posts and emails and file them.
    My daughter went through something like this and they were a lot of help.
    You can report her to the providers of her blog too as well as her ISP providers.

  3442. I’m horrified anyone would write such hateful things to you. I think you are a complete delight who contributes to our world. If she is physically threatening you, please call her ISP because it is illegal to threaten people, even on the internet.
    Hugs and remember all the people who are here supporting and rooting you on!

  3443. I have a much quieter (less read) blog and until recently I thought that made me immune to the kind of harrassment that you are experiencing. Then someone started leaving really nasty comments. They trolled my archived and wrote really hurtful things about my family. It was scary to think that someone I don’t know at all hated me so much that they’d spend all that time being mean. It scared my husband so badly that he wanted me to stop blogging and that would be a huge loss for me because I’ve gotten a lot from blogs. Thankfully, turning on comment moderation took the joy out of the game for my stalker (I think). I sincerely wish you all the best and hope that this person tires of harassing you soon. They certainly don’t speak for the vast majority of us as either knitters or Americans.

  3444. I’m so sorry! Freedom of speach really sucks sometimes, eh? But you can’t help fanatics of any country or religion, they’re just crazy. Stay cool and calm. Remember, the oppisite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. She obviously hates you for some bizare reason other than you were born in a country different than hers. Ignoring her is the best policy. I’d say by now this constitutes harrasment of some kind. Interested in legal action? I guess like any bully, eventualy she’ll bore of no response and move on to someone else. Or she”l join a PTA. (shudder)
    As a right-leaning, Christian, LDS American, whose forefathers immigrated in the 1750’s, fought in the Revolutionary War, fought both sides of the Civil War, settled the West, g-grandfathers awarded medals in both World Wars and g-grandmothers who worked as nurses and riveters, and a father in the Navy, I’m about as ‘American’ as you can get. She and I have nothing in common other than a shared country of birth. Keep up the good fight! God Bless America and Canada!

  3445. Sending you good thoughts and wishes,keep up the good work on your blog for those of us who get a lot of happiness from reading it,life is too short….

  3446. I love your blog and your books. I have never posted before, but this sad situation has moved me to send you my support and love. Your response is truly admirable. Please know that so many people love and respect you!

  3447. I’m sorry you had to take a trip to crazy town without us this last month. I hope things get better soon… I also want to chime in that you rock and your blog means so much to me. Keep you chin up!

  3448. Imagine having that much time on your hands and that’s all she can think of to do.

  3449. Stephanie,
    As another American fan of yours, I add my support to you. Please do whatever you have to do to protect yourself and your family. No one should have to put up with this sort of harassment…ever! You are indeed special to us all. Keep up the good work!

  3450. I am so happy that you didn’t allow this woman to scare you away from what you love. As some of the other commenters said, I was afraid that this post was leading to an official ‘sign off’ from you, shutting down the blog. I can almost hear trumpets playing triumphantly in your honor! haha, victory is yours!

  3451. Stephanie,
    As another American fan of yours, I add my support to your effort. Please do whatever you have to do to protect yourself and your family. No one should have to put up with this sort of harassment…ever! You are indeed special to us all. Keep up the good work!

  3452. Thanks for sharing this with us. Your post is a lesson for all of us.
    I also feel sorry for her. I think you hit the nail on the head: she’s in a lot of pain, poor thing.
    Stay strong and keep blogging.

  3453. Hmm, un-American? Aren’t Canadians part of North America? I was raised to believe that we are all Americans, and you are Canadian and we are United States, but we’re all Americans.
    Just ignore her, she’ll eventually go away. We love you!

  3454. Glad to see so many postive comments and first time posters. I love your blog and books and knitting and sharing your “everyday” experiences with us. Makes me feel more normal when I can accomplish something like casting on 100 stitches by the third time around.
    That person is a wacko and needs to get a life!!! Down with haters! Up with needles and hooks!
    Write on, Steph.

  3455. Piffle on her.
    Support.
    If I thought her’s was a blog that I visit regularly, I would delete the address.

  3456. I’ve been reading for quite a long time and have never posted before but I just had to take a minute to tell you how brave I think you are for not wanting to sink to her level. I truly hope you will soon hear the last from her. And as both an American and a Christian let me say I have NEVER read (or heard) anything from you which is remotely offensive, anti-American, anti-christian, anti-,well, anything other than bad yarn. Hugs to you and yours!

  3457. I find it sad and pathetic when people use their religion to justify bad behavior. I’ve never read anything in your blog that could be construed as American bashing, so I find her behavior puzzling. I’m sorry this has happened to you.

  3458. North America is a continent, not a country and those of us south of the Canadian border do not have any right to monopolize the name American. Truly sad thing is that if she was on the Canadian side of that border, she’d get the psychiatric treatment she obviously needs.
    Greetings from a loyal and grateful reader in California.

  3459. Uh-hm. As a Christian American, may I state with absolute certainty that this ‘person’ does not reflect any of my thoughts or attitudes about you, Canada, or frankly, the USA or Christianity. I don’t always agree with what you write, but you treat me (your reader) with respect, so I see no reason to do treat you otherwise. If you were a personal friend I could see face-to-face, I might at the odd moment ask you if you were a) having a bad day or b) gone a bit nuts, but who among us has not had those days? I’ll be back to read again, and hope this electronic trash you’re dealing with will find its way to the dung heap where it belongs.

  3460. Oh, Stephanie.
    Who does this wack job think she is?
    Another first-time poster and (proud, deeply offended) American giving you all my love and support.
    So impressed with you for handling this situation with such grace.

  3461. I had to read the full post again today (I was to upset for you yesterday to read the whole thing) and now that I have I must say that this lady must be certifiably crazy. As with the commenter just above this one (Robby), as a Christian and an American I DO NOT share her “aparent” “Christian” beliefs, nor do I think most other Americans and/or Christians. You actually might have a case for legal action against this woman, if not for stalking at least for harrassment. You might want to consider that. Hope all goes well for the Sock Summit. I voted for my fav yarns, but I won’t be attending. Maybe next year. Thanks for all you do – I think your blog is great.

  3462. As if you have nothing else to think/worry about with SS09 right around the corner! I am so sorry and I hope you’ll be able to put this out of your mind and thoroughly enjoy your time in Portland among US, your fans & supporters. We love you! (Another first-time commenter, but I couldn’t NOT add my support to you and all you’ve done to bring knitting out into the spotlight.)

  3463. WOW. Thanks to this, I had the South Park song “Blame Canada” running through my mind all day. At least that’s funny. No humor in the recent wackiness here.

  3464. One can only feel profound pity for someone who is so full of virulence. Although she boasts of being a Christian, she obviously has no insight whatsoever into the life and work and character of Christ. The woman sounds insanely jealous of you, your family, and all your well-deserved success. YOU, Stephanie, are and are going to remain sane and wonderful. Try not to let it get you down too badly. Your correspondent needs all our prayers and sympathy. Cheers, Hazel.
    Posted by: Hazel Smith at July 28, 2009 5:46 PM

  3465. Wow, I’m sure this was a hard thing for you to share but I’m glad that you have. Unfortunately the crazies seem to be drawn to celebrities, why? various reasons I would guess, but this person is certainly one of those crazies. I believe this would be considered not only harrassment but also stalking and many states in the US have strict laws against stalking. I know in my state 3 unwanted contacts make it stalking. Since this person is doing this via the internet and internationally it could also be a violation of a federal law (or a few laws). I would contact both your authorities and the the authorities where she lives. Don’t take any further risk. They need to know who this person is and that she has clearly threatened you (she may have a record of this type of behavior). She isn’t going to go away on her own. Don’t take the risk of this escalating into something worse. Take care of yourself dear – you’ve got a Sock Summit to put on!

  3466. So, um, yeah, what they said.
    Seriously, it’s all been said here: a) she’s a nutjob, b) you’re truly wonderful and bring joy to many, many, many people around the world and c) she’s a nutjob.
    I went from an alpaca breeder with a garage full of fleece to rabid knitter in about 60 seconds flat a couple of years ago. Tripped over the first Yarn Harlot book early this year, figured if I was half as funny as I think I am (and could actually write), that’s the book I would have written. Instead, I content myself with reading all of your books many times (and still laugh out loud), foisting them off on even non-knitters – who also find them hilarious and true, hoping for a new one to come out, and sending you happy thoughts every time I think I’ve gone off the deep end on this knitting gig since I now know there are others out there who actually think the same way. (Sentences like that are why I don’t write for a living.) It’s been an absolute joy to get to know you and your amazing family through your books and blog and I look forward to what comes next!
    Finally, to further demonstrate the difference you make out in the world, I recently drove my aging mom to a family funeral going from here in Colorado to Columbus, Ohio. A lifetime knitter and crocheter, she loves that I’ve now joined the fold. Her health isn’t the greatest, especially mentally and memory-wise, but she’s still ok to drive a bit. I took your books along and we took turns reading aloud to each other and laughing our butts off – it did my heart a world of good. (Not to mention made a 2400 mile round trip drive there and back in 4 days MUCH more enjoyable.) So thank you for that (and my mom thanks you, too!).

  3467. I am American a Catholic, and a knitter, I’m so very proud of you. Your blogs are a sweet treat for me and my family at the end of the day. Whoever this nut-case is, they are insignificant compared to your many fans. I so admire your writing talent, your sense of humor, and of course, your knitting! Keep blogging, keep posting your photos, and keep knitting. We love you in California.

  3468. Long time reader and first time commenter. I’m just one more person (American and Christian) that reads your blog every day and finds it inspiring, funny, touching, informative and life affirming. I find all of this terribly disturbing and it seems to be happening more and more these days. Sending positive vibes your way….

  3469. I, like many others, have been reading and enjoying your blog for years. I have found it a knitters view of life – with some real laugh out loud moments. I too am American, have never been offended by any comments you have made. Ignore her, that much negative energy will eventually burn her out – too bad for her. Keep up the good work we have all come to look forward to.

  3470. Just wanted to say, I’m an American and “name removed” is not speaking for me.

  3471. I am so sorry you have had to endure this horrible behaviour from such an evil person. As soon as I can, I will buy another of your terrific books, to show my support as a knitter and an American.
    Thank you again for all your wonderful knitting insights!
    Lots of love,
    Karen the peach

  3472. I don’t even know you, have never read your blog, but this is insanity.
    Stay safe and good luck. It sounds as if you have a lot of support around you. Keep faith in that.
    I’m American too. Please don’t think we are all crazy like this.
    : )
    P

  3473. The individual concerned is most likely breaking the law; she is certainly breaching the spirit of the community which she claims to speak for, whether online, knitting, American or Christian.
    This isn’t really about you – were she not attacking you, she would be attacking someone else, because the issue is really her own self image. It is probable that she has demonstrated similar behaviour before, and you are doing the right thing involving the authorities because that is the only way her cycle of destructiveness can be brought to a halt and hopefully spare others from her attentions in the future.
    I hope you can take comfort from the knowledge that your post has brought forward literally thousands of people from across the world who have never posted before, to tell you how much your work is appreciated and how much your writing is enjoyed. And for every one who posts there are hundreds more. Don’t let one pitiful individual be the one voice you listen to. Now go knit something silly in very bright colours!!

  3474. I’m an American Christian Woman and cringe for her. She must be a very unhappy person to attack someone who writes about knitting. Please!
    And she clearly has no understanding of the grace of Jesus and what it really means to be a Christian.
    Completely ignore her, she’ll move onto someone else soon enough.

  3475. Charming. So glad that this lady believes she represents all Americans.
    But, for the record, this leftist, feminist, socially-liberal, Wiccan, American knitter personally adores your blog, thinks you’re a charming and witty knitter, and I own several of your books and have recommended them to many, many of my knitting friends.
    Basically, rock on like you always do and don’t listen to the lunatic. She hardly speaks for all Americans.

  3476. As an American Wiccan, I would love to say here LAW OF THREE. Christians know it as Do unto others as you would have done to you.
    I feel the biggest anti-American thing you can do, is deny someone their right to express themselves even when you disagree with them. If you think about it, it’s pretty unChristian too.
    To love unconditionally is the greatest and most difficult gifts. It doesn’t matter where you come from, you should be proud to say it. Just to say it doesn’t mean elsewhere is less, just different. Reminds me of that terrible idea of “You’re either with us, or against us”.
    Let’s all be Switzerland.

  3477. I am an American, and I stand with the Harlot.
    The thing I’m having trouble with is believing this woman is a knitter.

  3478. Steph,
    I doubt I have ever commented before but this has been an appalling burden you have had to bear and I just wanted to add my support to everyone elses. You have handled this with as much class as anyone possibly could and you should never, ever doubt your talent or worth. Never give anyone that kind of power over you.
    I am an American and never even considered finding anything in your Canadian Day post offensive. I thought it was fun.
    Thank you for all the wonderful stories over the years and I look forward to continuing to read them.
    Remember: You are a wonderful classy lady and have proven that beyond doubt.
    Love,
    Nettie

  3479. She clearly has issues.
    I don’t think that if she were thinking rationally that she would intend to hurt you in any way. It sounds more like something has happened in her life, and she just unfortunately chose to take it out on you. Her emails to you make that fairly clear, it’s not you so much as people she thinks have opposing political views to her own. Not cool.
    Just think Stephanie, for every one person like her, you have… oh…. a half million like us posting our support for you! =P
    Cheer up, things will get better.

  3480. Please don’t change anything about yourself or what you do. Everyone I know admires and enjoys you immensely.

  3481. Sending love from an American atheist knitter.
    You are an amazing, amazing woman.
    XOXO

  3482. Your problem lady reminds me of my dear departed sister in law.
    Emphasising that I am NOT, and never have been, glad that she died at an early age, but reading of your experiences, I am relieved that she died before the advent of the internet and blogs. The mind boggles as to the scope blogs would have given her.
    Support from the Land Down Under,
    Gae, in Callala Bay

  3483. Stephanie, I love reading your books and your blog. I aspire to be the kind of person you are at your best. Kind, able to express humility and from what I have seen in your blog, a giving loving mother.
    I think, sadly, is is behavior like hers that winds up getting attention and that makes the rest of world hate Americans.
    I want to distance myself from her. I think of us as a family of humanity… no matter where we live. Knitters Without Borders!

  3484. Have you had any comments about people who have gotten computer viruses from trying googling to see if they could find out who this ‘bad’ blogger is?

  3485. Dearest, dearest Stephanie. This is atrocious. I KNOW that you won’t read my comment, but I hope the feeling I have for you will be known even tho you will never know me.
    I have enjoyed your blog so very much. To learn that someone would treat another human, much less knitter that way is appalling. Please, as an American and as a Christian……… whoever this person is, does not speak for MY citizenship or MY faith.
    Please don’t stop blogging. Please don’t stop writing. I am adding you to my prayers.
    Be at peace tonight. In Jesus Name. catie

  3486. Love your work, love reading your blog.
    That woman does NOT speak for Americans. Maybe I missed something, but I never thought of your comments on Canada Day as Anti-American.
    Thank you for explaining. Thank you for trying to save us from the nastiness. Sorry you have to deal with it. You’re wonderful!

  3487. Stephanie…I would just like to say, you do a wonderful job with your blog…and I love your books.
    Know that you have the full support of THOUSANDS of folks around the world.
    …Proud to be your American neighbor.

  3488. Stephanie — we love you and support you. Don’t let one bad apple spoil it for the rest of us. I read your blog faithfully and enjoy each and every entry. Keep at it!

  3489. It is a shame that someone would do this. The internet allows cowards to try and act like bullies. All this person has done is make a fool of herself. She best read her Bible and it should show her how a Christian should act. I live in the Northeast and spend winters in Florida on the Panhandle. The vast majority of the good folks who come to the same Condo association every year are from Canada. I have become friends with them. They consoled me when I lost my wife and celebrated with me when some time later I met a gal in Florida. I have traveled extrensively in the Canadian Maritimes and I love your country and the folks there. Every time America has spoiled for a fight (right or wrongly) Canadians have been our allies. Be strong!

  3490. Stephanie,
    I’m another American who loves you and your blog. You are a wonderful, funny, and witty woman.
    You know, the best thing to do for a tantrum is to ignore it.
    I will keep reading your blog and buying your books,
    Kelly

  3491. I never leave comments I am a complete lurker.
    I love your blog and your family stories. I have read all your books. You are wonderful, and I am so sorry that some people are so miserable that they try to make others so unhappy. And I know ALL
    the words to “Oh Canada”.
    Just a woman from Kansas.

  3492. What goes around comes around. Be proud of who you are and what you mean to all of us!

  3493. I’m an American and left or right, I like the Yarn Harlot. I’ve enjoyed reading the Canada Day postings. Believe it, I learn a lot since we don’t study Canada in school. Difficult as it all has been, I think I would have ignored and not responded. My feeling is that most bad behavior needs not be acknowledged, and this is extremely bad behavior for no reason except jealousy. Write on Harlot and keep your blogging for the rest of us!

  3494. Long time Lurker and this has made my hair stand up on my arms. I hope that this woman gets her heart right with the Lord because this is definitely not Christ-like behavior!! My best friend in Canadian and I know the words to the Canadian national anthem and have sung them at Detroit Tiger’s ball games. I prefer the Canadian side for viewing the International Freedom Festival Fireworks in Detroit/Windsor (it’s cleaner!!) I have even knit a pair of Canadian socks for my BF. Not everyone agrees with people who are crazy. Praying for your safety and sanity!!

  3495. Reading your post makes me sad. Know that she does not speak for all knitters in the US. I read your blog and books and enjoy them thoroughly. Your words often make me smile and the work that you do (MSF etc.) is wonderful.

  3496. Another lurker here . . . Knit on, Stephanie! I love your wit, your practicality, and now I love your ability to stand tall and let the rest of us support you through this idiocy. Take care.

  3497. Clearly the woman is wacko and not taking her meds. This is very disturbing and I’m glad that you’ve gone public. Hopefully someone who knows her will make sure that she gets help before she acts on her hate. Thank you for being a rational person who doesn’t immediately lump her into a group of people that you distrust. Please be safe; there are a lot of people who love you and would do whatever is necessary to insure your safety and sanity.

  3498. A day without a Harlot blog? Now that would be a national tragedy! Write on, Harlot, write on! You inspire us, Canadian’s and American’s all, to be better human beings everyday, and that is a gift we can all be thankful for!

  3499. So sorry you have had to go through this. Some people (thank goodness not very many) are so full of acid it’s a wonder they have a stomach left.
    I’m a US citizen and very ashamed she is too.

  3500. Let me get this straight. This all started happening because you praised CANADA?! On her national day?!??
    Speaking as someone who’s been on the receiving end of this kind of vitriol myself, I say you’re letting this person rent way too much space in your head.
    You write a great blog and have many supporters, including me. Don’t waste your time on one mentally ill detractor. Block her, delete her, ignore her, and eventually she’ll tire of the game and move on to other more responsive targets.
    Cheers! from Rebecca in Minnesota

  3501. Uhoh. I wonder if this can be considered stalking? It worries me that she is looking up information on others involved in your life. Please be careful.

  3502. I love your writing and knitting! You are an inspiration and give so much to the knitting community. Thank you for all you do. Your blog has made many of my days happier! Much love and peace to you. Blessed Be from a Mid-Western knitter.

  3503. This makes me so very sad. I’ve read your blog for years and years and wish I could give you a great big hug, my friend! I’m a follower of Jesus-really- and an ultra conservative southerner :~)
    I’m sorry that you are going through this mess-I’m praying for you!

  3504. I’m sorry you’ve had to got through all this.
    Good for you!
    And thank you for letting us know what was/is going on so we can help in our own little way (ie ignoring this persons comments)

  3505. If being a “Christian” female American knitter results in behavior as you have shown by your anonymous poster, then I am ashamed to be a female American Christian knitter! There are enough injustices in this world worthy of attention without attacking other people. Being proud of being Canadian is not a crime any more than being proud to be a knitter!
    Knit on everyone!

  3506. Please don’t take what she’s saying to heart. There is obviously something deeply wrong with this person. She has, for whatever reason, chosen you to take it out on.
    She is *not* representative of America, no matter what she thinks of herself. And she is *certainly* not what I expect of the Christian faith. Christianity is about loving one another. There is no love in her heart. Don’t let her get to you. She’s mental.

  3507. Well done girl!
    As an ex-Torontian and ex-NewYorker, I have met a LOT of personalities. Yours is hilarious, thoughtful and knitterly and that entity is … unwell.
    I think you’re great, I love your books and think it sad you needed to spend so much energy on this person. You are meant for better things. Be well and keep your chin up! You rock.

  3508. I couldn’t begin to read all the comments, but I am a Christian American woman, and this woman most emphatically does NOT speak for me! You have brought a lot of joy and laughter into my life (and even my husband’s–he understands more of the comments in the calendar than a non-knitter should!).
    I am proud to be an American, and I think America has offered the world a lot of good things, but we are not perfect, and there are things that deserve to be criticized.
    Good luck dealing with this woman. She sounds mentally ill.
    You and she will be in my prayers.

  3509. There is a bit of an anti U.S.A. slant to your Canada Day post. However, it’s certainly not the first time that sentiment has been expressed in Canada nor will it be the last. My personal opinion is that everyone is entitled to their own opinion! It’s really simple to avoid websites and blogs when the content is upsetting to you. Really REALLY simple.
    My advice to you would be to delete those emails without reading them. Delete comments without any response or acknowledgement. She’s after a reaction and she’s getting it. Is she worth it?
    All the best to you and I enjoy your blog. The parts I don’t enjoy? Well, I skip those parts, lol. Like I said, it’s pretty simple.

  3510. Thank you so much for being who you are, Canadian and all. A woman who would put radishes in Joe’s salad and who would concern herself so greatly over how to treat someone is worthy of all good things. You are a wonder, loved and respected by many of your American fans.
    Of which I am one. (Excuse the horrid construction and my failure to read nearly 4000 comments, but I just can’t.)
    If it gets bad enough, report her to the authorities.

  3511. You do good work that you love, with folks who love you too. I think that should definitely continue. I send you love from halfway around the world 🙂

  3512. Good god, how horrid. Please block all her future e-mail addresses too. No one should ever have to deal with a crazed and hateful internet stalker who most likely has mental health issues. We love reading what you have to say, I always get a laugh!

  3513. Just one more American impressed with your ability to handle this all so well.
    I’ve gained so much from your blog and feel sad that someone else is so clearly unable to recognize a talented, decent person (that would be you) when the evidence (that would be your blog) is staring them in the face.

  3514. Never commented before, but must weigh in – I like your blog, I like your books, and I believe I would quite like you were I ever to meet you in person. Hang in there. You make a lot of people happy and encourage many.

  3515. Wow. Just…wow. There’s clearly something very deeply going on with her that has nothing to do with you. I’ve been a daily reader for the past year, and I have to say you put a smile on my face when somedays I didn’t think that was possible. Keep doing what you do! You’re an inspiration to me in so many ways–as a knitter, a mother, an environmentalist, a feminist, etc etc. Big hugs from Wisconsin. Come visit soon!

  3516. Stephanie,
    I don’t have time to read 3941 comments, so I am sure I am repeating something that has already been said. It deserves repeating.
    I am American. I am Christian and I am conservative.
    You crack me up. You inspire me and you keep me on my toes. I am a better knitter and, most importantly, a better person because of you. I find your blog to be informative and a wonderful and often from a new (to me) perspective.
    My son is chronically ill (he’s 6 and I have two younger sons in addition). On days that are so hard that I am on my knees by lunch time, I log into your site and laugh. Maybe because of a new post, a tweet, or a bookmarked favorite, but I laugh. On really bad days, I read and laugh until I cry.
    That, my dear, is a gift (a God-given gift, if you will).
    Thank you.

  3517. Stephanie – I doubt you’ll get all the way to the end here (I’ve been out of touch for a couple of days). I’m in Tucson AZ and I love you. Even if you don’t come here on a book crawl. You’ve sent me a couple of emails over the years and they are special to me. I’ve said it before: Thanks for being our favorite Harlot.

  3518. Thank you so much for your strength and calm demeanor in working through this. As has been said thousands of times over the past three days, we love you and want you to know our days are happier for you being in them. Cheers from Las Vegas!

  3519. PS. It’s just so weird that she thinks you hate America. My favorite posts of yours are the ones when you come back from adventures across the US. Your photos are gorgeous and comments lovely …and it all makes me want to explore my country more. I think [Name Removed] needs to get out more herself. 🙂

  3520. Ah well, being famous brings out the crazies! To quote a song I heard the other day:
    “life is short, beer is good, and people are crazy!”
    She does not speak for all people, Americans, or Christians.
    Just so ya know!

  3521. I am so sorry! You did the right thing, by exposing the harassment. You’re right, in that this kind of stuff thrives in private, not in the light of day.
    Some suggestions, if you actually read this far. After 3000 comments, I wouldn’t be surprised if you gave up. Anyway:
    – Send an email to her ISP, asking for their help in blocking her, due to her harassing behavior. If they ignore you or decline, block the ISP’s address range. Yes, it will block some innocent readers. Yes, we will understand and support you anyway. Even if it blocked my access. (Yes, I know I’m not the same ISP. Anyway, I can read you from work).
    – set up volunteer editors. People who regularly post in the comments, and who you know support you. Let them review comments, based on guidelines you set. (suggested guidelines: Yes, people can disagree with you; yes, they must be respectful and not a jerk; No hate speech.)
    – Do not allow unmoderated comments, period.
    – ask your ISP, or get a clever programmer, about automated review of comments. They can look for stop words (like curse words, hate words, etc) that indicate questionable content. You can block these comments entirely, or put them into a queue for review. There may already be modules for this with your blog software.
    The unfortunate thing is, there will be more people like her. If .0001 percent of the world is crazy, over the life of your blog, with the size of your readership, you may get another lunatic. You don’t need to let it take over your life. Allow software to do it for you! Automation can really help, so you don’t have to worry that you’ll miss something.
    hang in there. We love you!

  3522. I’m embarrassed and ashamed to live in the same country that produced a person like that.
    Trust me that ALL THE KNITTERS I KNOW, love your wit and Canadian patriotism. It’s a shame that the current bent towards the religions right in this country means that everyone is supposed to think that way. I HAVE NEWS FOR THEM. WE DON’T!!!!!
    Keep doing what your doing Steph…you make my day, every day!

  3523. Dearest Harlot, For every second of nastiness that you have received from this obviously mentally ill person, may you realize 1000 times the amount of pure white light to surround and protect you. I heard a story once from Ram Das, who told how he could not be a valid whole person if he did not know how to send light and love to even his worst enemies. During the Vietnam War he had a picture of Robert McNamara on his small altar along with Buddha and Mother Mary, Jesus etc. and every day he sent love and light to McNamara. You have also taken the high road and sent an example to us all on how to deal with the ugliness and hatred in the world. You are a force for good in the world, keep up the excellent work and have a cold beer!We are all standing shoulder to shoulder, knitters against hatred. With love from Oregon

  3524. i just really want you to get to 4000 comments more than anything else ’cause I think 4000 positive supportive comments speaks louder than any thing any one here could say. We obviously love, support, and appreciate you!

  3525. Like so many others commenting over the past couple of days, I’ve been reading forever but never felt I needed to add to the discussion until today.
    But you need to understand — really internalize it all the way down — how much good you are doing in the world with your blog and your books and your tours. As you share — your successes, your mistakes, your foibles — and celebrate the successes and empathize with the mistakes of others, you make us laugh, help us cry and remind us that it is possible to find joy in small things and sometimes just going to bed and starting over with a new day can make all the difference. I’ve been struggling with depression for almost a decade — I’m doing better now, but during the really dark times your blog was often the one thing the got me through the day.
    You DO spread light — don’t let anyone make you believe differently!

  3526. You (and everyone else here leaving comments in support of you) inspire me. Thank you for being you and doing what you do.

  3527. Sorry that one of the lunatic fringe has chosen you as a target – I am sitting on a boat in Campbell River, BC, knitting and LOVING Canada.g

  3528. Hey – a gazillion people who are supporting you – not surprised – I occasionally pass through here – not an avid reader of many blogs – – one crazy unbalanced person – I apologize for her – the universe will handle it from here…
    I like the suggestion about having a beer that was in an earlier comment… one good Canadian brew would be just fine….
    Peace to you this night and all nights…

  3529. Wow, so many comments.
    I just wanted to say thank you for your inspiration. Since I bought your first book and read your playful spin on knitting you opened a whole new world to me. You offer such great information. Even your mishaps are a teaching tool. I love how real and down to earth you are. I have learned things from you that I would’ve never imagined. Places like Ravelry and blog land. Wild!
    Signed an American Christian that totally supports you!

  3530. I’ve not read all the comments, as it is late and there are so many, but kudos to you for attempting to find the empathetic road in a difficult situation, and kudos to all your readers who took the time to shine your light back to you. I hope it brings you some comfort. Seeing all the many, many comments that gave back positive is reassuring when so much of the world seems to have a poisoned voice. Each single candle lit here has provided a blaze of light, and I hope it reaches to all the dark corners.
    What I’ve read here disturbs me so much, and I do hope that the authorities were helpful. As others have said–stay safe. Set her email to go straight to junk mail and delete without reading.
    Please, be careful. I just don’t have the words to say how badly this makes me feel.

  3531. I’m with everyone else about protecting yourself.
    There must’ve been hundreds of comments here, so I won’t repeat what everyone else has said. I’m so glad you’re not shutting down your blog! I read everything you post, every book you write. I think you’re gifted, talented and immensely good hearted. You’ve given so many people a gift – you – and I hope that you don’t stop because of this sad person.
    I’m American (living near Orlando, FL), and I love that you are so patriotic. You’ve given me many reasons to appreciate (and love!) Canada.
    You’ve handled this with such grace, and I admire you even more for it.
    Like I said, I agree with everyone who urges you to protect yourself in every way you can. And when you’re in the U.S., especially for the Sock Summit, always try to use the buddy system!
    I’m holding you in prayer.
    PS- YOU ROCK!!

  3532. Like so many others, this is my first time commenting. I’ve read your blog for a little over a year and have loved being awed by your projects while I was just finding my footing as I learned how to knit. Your posts always make me laugh and have brightened some gloomy days. I’m an American and you’ve got my support. If only this woman calmed down and took all this time that she’s devoted to hatred and put it toward knitting instead.

  3533. This – is – just – appalling. I’m so sorry that you have been targeted by this clearly disturbed person. Please do everything you need to to protect yourself. Your regular readers will understand.

  3534. How embarrassing to have American citizens like that claim to “represent” America. I hope the harassment stops. I love your blog and hope this doesn’t discourage you from doing what you do! 🙂

  3535. Dear Stephanie,
    I’m so very, very sorry that this is happening to you. You are one of my personal heroines, not just for your contributions to the world of knitting, but for your all-around goodness as a human being. Please, please know that those of us who love you far outnumber the crazy people. As an American, I feel particularly dismayed by this horrid incident, and want to add my voice to the number of Americans who want you to know that this person and her ilk do not represent us. (It may be some small comfort to know that this kind of ugly craziness is not reserved for non-Americans, but is broadly distributed against Americans as well.)
    Above all, please don’t let this nastiness hurt you. Love really is stronger than hatred, and we LOVE you!
    Hugs,
    Mary Frances

  3536. On behalf of my country, I’m so terribly sorry. It’s things like that that give Americans everywhere a bad name.
    I believe that your restraint in this case is admirable, and I know that I wouldn’t have been nearly so polite in you position.
    You have my undying admiration and support, lowly as I am, and I sincerely hope that Mystery Rude Woman gets her karmic payback soon.
    I’m American, I’m pagan, and I’m a knitter, and I’ve no problems with casting my loyalties for someone with the wits (and guts) to point out our flaws as a country.
    And if you want, I’ll kick her ass for you. Save you some travel time.
    May your gauge be correct, your yarn of quality, and you mistakes few.
    Love and hugs.

  3537. If I were a conservative American Christian (and I’m batting 0 for 3), I would be dreadfully embarrassed right now.
    As it is, I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this.

  3538. I am so sorry. Here I thought all knitters (no matter where they were from)were highly intelligent human beings (guess I was wrong on both counts!). In any case; I have read your blog for a few years and never posted a comment before. This warranted a post: Please carry on and please know that the majority of Americans are NOT like that person. (I use the term “person” loosely but right now I can’t think of any animal I detest enough to use in place of it).

  3539. Hang in there Stephanie. Adore your blog from afar in Queensland, Australia. Am sure to enjoy many more years of your lovely writings.

  3540. Wow. For a while I was embarrassed to find yet another person who makes Americans look bad (her, not you!), but then I remembered – crazy happens in every country. And it latches on at random. So maybe…feel flattered that you’re famous enough to have your first(?) stalker? Or something? I think you’re doing exactly the right thing in any case. And believe me that her opinion is minority. I know at the very least there is a significant contingent of us Americans and Christians here in Virgina (including my USMC boyfriend!) who think you’re awesome!

  3541. I, too, am delurking to offer my support, but also to make a long-delayed thank you. I have been reading your blog for years and have so enjoyed all that I have read. I think that it’s safe to say that you have overwhelming support from the United States, women, and just about every other demographic that we could identify. I certainly include myself in that…But, and I should have said this long ago, I would also like to let you know how grateful I have been over the years for the support that you have offered me (through your support of the LGBTQ community), which I have found so validating and meaningful. I feel that I can relate to the confusion that accompanies unprovoked attacks from others for simply being yourself and, as you have supported me, I wholeheartedly offer my support of you.

  3542. Steph
    Keep up the great work and don’t let this sad woman get you down (easier said than done I quite understand). The first time I bought, and read, one of your books, I was, quietly and calmly, knitting in an airport lounge (read “bar”). I can tell you people were looking at me sideways as I helplessly laughed out loud over the pages clutching my knitting and beer.
    Be strong, there are lots of us wishing you all the best.
    See you in Portland,
    Lynda

  3543. Dear Stephanie,
    I cannot believe what you have been putting up with. This person seems to be a very unbalanced stalker, who for whatever reason is obsessed with you (in a bad way!). I am an american, but my father was canadian. I have never been offended by anything in your posts. Personally, I think they are wonderful. I wish I had the writing talent you have. My blog is boring as hell. Take care, you have no reason to struggle with self-esteem!

  3544. Steph,
    This woman is a nutjob. ( Not saying that all women at one time or another don’t wig out on something.) But to take it this far and hold onto it harder than a dog with a frisbee tells me either she is projecting her REAL LIFE problems and taking it out on you ( and the cowards way, via online ‘slapfests’); is off her meds or is about the equivalent emotional age of 13. ( And I am probably insulting a few 13 year olds I know.)
    I think it is a combination of all three.
    This isn’t about you and anything you’ve done.
    This nutjob, regardless of her postal code, would have flamed out on the next person that came along in the virtual world whom ‘slighted’ her.Because people like this are so emotionally constipated in real life, the Tweet/blogosphere/virtual world is where they can open up their inner bunghole and just let the mental doo-doo fly.
    Don’t give this nutter free rent in your brain.
    Go treat yourself to some lovely, soft cashmere yarn you’ve been eyeing.

  3545. I can only concur with all of those posters above me:
    (HUG)
    Another supportive American.

  3546. I’ve written a time of two, but I mostly read your blog which I absolutely love. I’ve been on vacation so I didn’t read this entry when it was posted.
    I’d like to echo some of the comments made. I’m an American and a Christian and I have enjoyed your blog for many years and have never taken your pride in your country as a slap at Americans. This women obviously has some issues. I like the way you are trying to handle this…with integrity and openness. Being “blog stalked” has to be pretty scary. Stay strong.

  3547. YH: I have been enjoying your blog, books, and speaking engagements for many years. I think you are a wonderful writer and you frequently make me laugh. I’ve used your patterns many times, sent several people to your site, and was inspired to knit my first pair of socks (Just finished!) b/c of you. I have never taken offense with what you’ve written and it bothers me that the person you refer to thinks she is representing “real Americans” or some such foolishness. I really do think you should look into some of the anti-stalking legislation that is in place in the US, as she sounds like she is way past the edge. Keep writing, keep knitting, and thanks for all you do.

  3548. YH, You are a true jewel and my admiration for you knows no limit. I have never posted to your blog but read it everyday and as an American I have all the respect in the world for you. Thank you for being you.

  3549. I don’t usually comment, but after reading this post yesterday, I’ve thought about it more than once or twice. I was curious enough to go back and reread your Canada post, since I’ve actually always found them very inspiring and couldn’t remember anything even remotely objectionable. As an American who loves her country, but doesn’t always love what her country does, I love your lists of Canadian things. I like especially that Canada Day comes a few days before our Independance Day, it gives me a chance to think over what my own list would look like.

  3550. Oh, wow. Please know that as an American, she speaks only for herself and not the rest of us. I am so embarassed for her. Ignore her if you can. She’s singing in the desert and clearly has some major issues. Personally, I think you’re all kinds of awesome and I can always count on your blog to make me laugh. Laughter is a gift and I thank you for giving it to me.

  3551. dearest Stephanie, please please please get a restraining order to keep this person away from you and your loved ones. her anger, her need to see herself as a victim, her divorce from reality and her narcissism could be a potent brew, better to take all possible precautions. stay safe girl. absolutely love your blog, which always emphasizes helping others, whether knitters without borders, charity bike rides, or helping knitters expand their options. e-hug.

  3552. hey there steph.
    another american xian type posting to tell you this lady does not represent us. not even close.
    and that you should not be expected to waste your time on her, whether it’s responding or deleting her posts.
    i admire your stance of peace and non-engagement and i hope you will keep writing, being yourself and stop doubting yourself and your parenting, etc. after all, you actually ARE one of the darlings of the knitting world.

  3553. People like her are “Dumpers”. They are like a dump-truck full of negativity and drama looking for whoever they can to unload some of it. Sorry she picked you, but it is the same for anyone who comes into contact with her. Anyone reading this please remember to watch out for the “Dumpers” and don’t let them dump any of it on you. Back away, ignore them, leave the situation as quickly as possible,… and without any snide closing remarks, it just makes them double their efforts toward you. Avoid “Dumpers” at all cost. You will be better for it. Hope everything works out for you, YH! Stay strong! 🙂

  3554. All I can say is I am so sorry you have to go thorugh all this. As a mom & an american I stand by you & your family. Be strong & know that we all are thinking of you.
    Michelle

  3555. My sincerest apologies for this “fellow American” who needs some serious counseling, and a life. I’m just a lurker as well : )but had to say something.

  3556. I’m so sorry you had to deal with such a cruel person like this. I have learned so much about knitting, Canada, etc. from reading your blog that I feel enriched by it. Don’t let her diminish you by her negative remarks. Her angry remarks do not represent Americans or Christians and you have the right to block her from ruining your day.

  3557. Wow!
    Let’s hope she gets some help soon ‘cos she’s got some BIG issues that not even knitting can resolve.
    YH – keep calm and carry on, as we say.
    Big hugs from one of your many British fans. xx

  3558. You know, I don’t think this is about religion, race, or your writing. I think this person is not well; really out of balance. Sounds like she needs counseling and medication to get back to a better place. I wish her the best and hope she is able to get the help she needs. So sorry that you have been the bad end of this stressful experience. I think that you are right to block the communication, to protect yourself and try to stay out of it as much as possible.
    Stephanie, I think you are great. You have kept me laughing while knitting over the years. Love it!

  3559. I’m a first time poster though I’ve been reading your blog for a while now. I have never, strike that, NEVER read anything that I took as anti-American. And as others have said, this one misguided person does not speak for the country as a whole. I have to admit I’d never really understood the term “ugly American” until now. Please keep on doing what you do as there are far FAR more of us that enjoy it as don’t. And I think she’d be surprised by the size of the Yarn Harlot “posse” that would form at your defense, even without your prompting. You inspire and egg a lot of us on to creativity. Keep it up!

  3560. Hi Stephanie, like many people, I’m a long-term reader and first-time commenter. I just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about these horrible comments, and to send you a big virtual hug. You’re very popular here in England too, and you’ve never sounded anti-anything to me! (Well, maybe anti-intolerance, but that’s the sort of anti that’s ok in my book…)
    Lots of knitterly love, Lorna x (florilegia)

  3561. I still can’t figure out why someone would spend so much time and effort to criticize someone they don’t like. Why does she even care?
    I haven’t posted before, but I feel like I have to.
    Ignore all the haters!

  3562. I am an american and I have read your blog for a long while now and have loved every minute of it. I admire that you have a great love for your country. I, as an american, have a great love for mine as well… so what is this woman’s problem? I think you are a great writer and person…I love your blog… and I will continue to enjoy it no matter what this person (who is definately out of control and in need of some medical attention) says. Stay strong kiddo. You are admired and loved by many.

  3563. Long-time reader here, very occasional commenter, American, Christian, knitter, — chiming in with everyone else to add to your support. Stephanie, you have so many qualities that I admire: an abundance of good sense, wonderful humor, generosity, and knitting smarts, along with a willingness to put yourself out there and be a real person along with sharing your knitting adventures. You have earned the friendship so well demonstrated in these comments. As you endure the attacks of this unbalanced person, you are showing grace under pressure of the finest kind. Be well!

  3564. So sad–she will be her own un-doing. Can’t imagine what shambles her personal life is in. To quote MY Christian Bible (which apparently does not read quite like hers): “Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, for he/she will despise the wisdom of your words.” Let’s knit. Stephanie H

  3565. It’s obvious that this person is mentally ill and obsessed with you – she’s a stalker. You’ve been trying to deal with her in a rational way but she’s definitely not rational.

  3566. You are so awesome. I hope the stalker finds some help for herself rather than continue her intense focus on you.

  3567. This woman is clearly ill, Stephanie. That may not make you feel better, but she’s got serious problems and needs help. I hope she gets it–and I hope you are able to find relief from this horrid situation.

  3568. This is the first time I’ve ever posted on someones blog but I feel it’s time. How terribly terribly sad that you have had to endure this. Just want to let you know that I’m sending you a huge hug along with everyone else. I hope you can feel it.
    (((((HUG)))))

  3569. Steph-this is absolutely apalling. Moreover, her comments are filled with serious misstatements and failing attempts at polarizing this marvelous place you call your blog. How ridiculous is the logic of a person who would (apparently) have a ‘roid attack on a knitting blog? A marvelous and humor-filled blog at that? It’s NUTS. I would suggest any manner or means of self-preservation are in order, including whatever is available to you through your local authorities, since it is abundantly clear that your mean spirited, misguided, and irrational correspondant is more bipolar than many who are already institutionalized. Sharon T., camper

  3570. Stephanie-
    Being a public figure is a risk. I thank you for risking your private life for those of us who thoroughly enjoy your writing. You have a talent that stretches far and wide. Anger and hate can eat at anyone and how you handled this crazy, hateful responder was the right thing to do.
    Rock on sister, you brighten my day many times and I love reading your blog!
    In small ways, I faced hateful, angry women in my yarn shop. They tried to pull some real crappy things on me, and I called them on it. What could have been a good working relationship, they chose anger and hate. Their loss, my gain. I’ve attracted beautiful pattern writers and teachers in their place who make my life better.

  3571. Stephanie, you have shown immense courage and control in a very unpleasant situation. Let’s hope you are clear of it all soon. Your wit and honesty certainly enhances my life, and that’s before we even get to the knitting business! Support x

  3572. Stephanie. I know you have gotten more than 4000 comments on this post and probably don’t need anymore on this subject, but I got chills and couldn’t even finish reading the post.
    Yuck. As an American, I can say I need to take a shower to cleanse that inane vitriol. Ew.
    I really appreciate what you offer the world, that you give of yourself and create good things with humor and grace.

  3573. Stephanie, I whole-heartedly agree with all of the above. I am sorry that someone of such vitriolic personality has done this. I enjoy your outlook on life & knitting. I hope this problem soon resolves & you can return to your life unencumbered. You & your family are in my thoughts.

  3574. Stephanie,
    I have read you for years, and look forward to every post. As an “American” with family ties going back into the 1600’s, Grandma gave me the paperwork for the D.R.A., etc. etc. I have never, ever been offended by anything you have said about USA (or anything for that matter). I went back and reread your post on Canada Day, and what a shame that someone would take your love of your country as hatred for USA. Keep up the good work, and take care of yourself. Buy a few skeins on me !

  3575. Well this will be 4001 but I had to write to send you my love and best wooly vibes. As as a HUMAN I am disgusted with this person’s rantings. Who has this much time to be hateful and mean?
    But I have admired you for a long time – perseverence, strength, tenacity. You have stood by your convictions no matter what.
    You are a good woman Harlot!

  3576. Wow! I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. But it warms my heart to see over 4000 comments of love and support:) (adding mine) You are going to be overwhelmed with hugs at Sock Summit;)

  3577. Hiya Stephanie. I don’t know you, and I don’t know your work, but I was linked to this entry by a friend and as a fellow citizen of the internet I just wanted to thank you for doing what you can to raise the level of discourse that we experience here. It’s not always a pretty place. But thank you for doing what you can to bring forward a bit of civility. – Patrick

  3578. As an American who feels that the freedom of speech is one of our greatest freedoms, good for you for shutting her down. We have the right to speak, and you have the right to not have to listen. This doesn’t mean all speakers deserve that right, just that they have it. You chose wisely. Engaging in conversation with this type of person is a black hole. You climbed out of that hole – good for you! On behalf of Americans who would not speak to anyone that way, I apologize for those who have no personal filters. What a shame.

  3579. You are awesome, I hope you are able to put this person out of your mind, she doesn’t deserve the space she is taking up there.
    Thanks for you being you, you rock.

  3580. I pray for a change of heart for this misguided fool who is abusing you.
    Blessings upon you and yours, Stephanie!

  3581. Atta girl! I hope you know that you (and Canada) have many, many friends and fans in the U.S.

  3582. Mentioning what others have mentioned — she may very well be violating US federal law, and possibly international law, by her behavior. I know you said you’ve spoken to the authorities — I assume at a local level? — but I would not be surprised if you could easily escalate it higher, especially if she gets crazier.

  3583. I like how you have reacted to this situation. Obviously there is something mentally wrong with this person. It’s also nearly impossible to argue anything with someone that this menally ill. I would know, i have an inlaw that is mentally ill.
    From what i could see on her blogspot she has received thousands of emails indicated that she’s crossed the line and that she is mentall ill.
    I also don’t approve of her language towards canadians.
    Anyways, be strong and all this will blow over eventually. or she’ll shut down her website because she’s been swamped with hate mail.
    melissa

  3584. I like how you have reacted to this situation. Obviously there is something mentally wrong with this person. It’s also nearly impossible to argue anything with someone that this menally ill. I would know, i have an inlaw that is mentally ill.
    From what i could see on her blogspot she has received thousands of emails indicated that she’s crossed the line and that she is mentally ill.
    I also don’t approve of her language towards canadians.
    Anyways, be strong and all this will blow over eventually. or she’ll shut down her website because she’s been swamped with hate mail.
    melissa

  3585. Please don’t let this “woman” get you down. She does not represent Americans OR Christians. There are enough sane people on this planet that you shouldn’t have to waste your energy on the negative wack-jobs.
    Love your blog – I totally bow to your knitting skillz – so please continue to inspire us to greater knitting-heights!
    Hugs from Texas!

  3586. From everything you’ve posted about this individual, it sounds like she is truly mentally deranged and either in need of medication or currently off her medication.
    As one of those Americans who continue to read your blog, purchase your books, and attend your speaking events–I truly appreciate that you share your remarkable wit, extensive knitting skills, and personal trials with us on a daily basis.
    Don’t let individuals like this stop you from sharing all you have to offer. And besides, surely if need be, the authorities can get involved. By continuing her to spew her poison after being blocked would put her into the stalker category.

  3587. I never read the comments section but now I wish I did so that if I can feel the satisfaction of ignoring her on your behalf. 🙂 I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this; it must have taken up an enormous amount of negative energy in the past month. As an American of Canadian descent I have much love for both countries and think you would represent either of them, or any other country for that matter, very well!! Much love. 🙂

  3588. As I’ve traveled around the U.S., I’ve been lucky enough to hear you speak in several States. You are loved and admired. You know that. Each book tour you give demonstrates the support you have from American knitters. I guess the up side is – you have now arrived as a capital “C” Celebrity! You are being cyberspace stalked! Shinning the Light for you – Donna in Wisconsin

  3589. Gosh, sorry that you’ve had to put up with the crazy American (I’m sure there couldn’t be more than one here…) Sadly, I am only an occasional reader, but I always enjoy whatever I’ve read. I must really be an arrogant American, because I never realized that you were putting us down. Please keep on doing what you do. Bless you!

  3590. i never posted before but i just had to say we love you and you’re awesome! it’s horrible that this person is being so awful, but the rest of us love to read your blog and your books and think you’re wonderful!

  3591. Stephanie, sorry that this wackadoo has been harassing you. We LOVE you in Chicago!! I have sent links to your Canada Day postings to friends. One friend’s brother was moving to Cananda and I thought the information in there was very interesting. I also enjoy your explanations about politics and procedure up there. My husband and I have had discussions about the information that you share. Unfortunately, Americans get very little schooling on other countries and their systems. Your insight is quite entertaining, informative, and helps us Americans understand our neighbors a little better. You keep on keepin’ on.

  3592. Wow. Good heavens, I hope you don’t think all American Christian women are like that! I love your blog and read it as often as I can. Keep it going. You have support here in PA!

  3593. Late to the party but want to add my voice to the others south of the border. You are very classy and courageous. Try to take heart from the incredible outpouring of support here and soldier on. We’re behind you 1000%!

  3594. I’ve never commented here before, although I’ve been reading for a couple of years now, like a lot of commenters in this post!
    So I’ve come out of lurking to tell you that I think you’re hilarious, and a wonderfully strong woman, just from what I read here on your blog. This woman is obviously more than a little mentally ill; it’s embarrassing for her and for me as an American that she thinks to represent us all.
    Thank you for writing this blog. I hope one day soon you can do so again without fear.

  3595. I’m so sorry you had to go through this. As an American I’m embarrassed that she would continue to proclaim our shared nationality as her moral high-ground.
    I also believe you were right to be concerned, as this behavior borders on sociopathic. After revealing that she knows your address, I hope one of the authorities you contacted was your local police, for your own protection.
    Stay strong. You are a talented, intelligent woman, and a fantastic mother. Girls that great don’t come from nowhere.
    *hugs from Syracuse*
    P.S. I love the Canada Day posts. I send them to all my Canadian friends.

  3596. Dear Stephanie, I am sure you are a little overwhelmed by 4000 odd replies, however, if you get this far down the list, I felt the need to make just a couple of points. (1) You must be aware of all the love and good will that your readers feel towards both yourself and your charming family with all the previous comments and I certainly add my own small hoorah to theirs!! (2) Having worked in mental health for decades, reading this person’s communications makes me feel she is probably very unwell. Her rantings and fixation upon you are most unfortunate and very much undeserved. You should not take the tiniest scrap of her abuse on board at a personal level. I hope she finds some help, or at least some peace of mind. Have you considered marking your comments for pre-approval prior to publishing, even if only for a short while? It might help you get a better night’s sleep. I think that you are absolutely right in minimising the attention this individual is given (for her sake as well as your own). Seeing people stray so badly from reality due to illness is a very sad thing, especially when it impacts negatively on others. This glitch will pass. I have been reading your blog for years and it was the start of my ever growing appreciation of Canadian humour. Thanks for sharing, my fondest wishes to you and yours.

  3597. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through – sometimes you can’t fight “crazy”. Been there, and actually did exactly what you’re doing…went public, despite how angry I was and how embarassed I felt about airing dirty laundry (and it ain’t your laundry, it’s hers. She’s a bully.) It took a while, my crazy didn’t thrive when everyone in our community knew what she was doing and what was really going on, and eventually the nut went elsewhere. yay!!! Hang in there girl, keep on doing what you do, with all the class that you do it!

  3598. I dont’ usually post but had to after reading this.
    Stephanie as you know you are very well loved and admired. As a Christian woman and American I feel so ashamed to think this mentally ill person has harrased you. Me thinks she feels scorned for some reason and had to pick on someone who is the oppisite of her.
    Good for you on standing your ground and not feeding into her energy. Negative energy just gets negativity. We (your readers) will be sure to ignore this person and stand by you 100%. Oh and I’m sure we will contiue reading your blog and buying your great books.
    Love to you and your family.

  3599. I never comment, but am compelled to do so today because I enjoy your blog and am troubled by this revelation. I did not read the rest of your comments, but I cannot think I am the only person who has suggested this. It seems that you have a clear case of harassment that should be addressed with the proper authorities. I am not particularly litigous (I am a psychologist actually, and we are generally softies), but it seems that there is a threat mentally, if not physically as well. I ask that you consider (or reconsider) this as a viable option to protect your sanity (and your blog/workplace). I am not giving psychological advice, just speaking as someone who is a knitter who understands. This is analagous to leaving hatemail on the doorknob to your office. This must be horrible for you. Kudos to you for staying sane in all of this!

  3600. You are awesome! I am sorry for all of it. Speaking as an American, I’ve always wanted to be Canadian!! 🙂 You represent what is good and loving in the world. Thank you for all you do!!

  3601. Hi, YH.
    I’m not a knitter but my GF is and she showed me your post. First let me say I’m really sorry this happened. I’m an American who hopes to be a Canadian one day. My GF shows me the blogs you write about Canada and I love the info. Plus that whole Kinearing thing was aaawesome!
    Second, I can’t prove it, but this girl sounds British to me, or at least not American. She doesn’t cuss, her grammar and spelling (including hyphenation) is way too precise, and her way of wording things is really atypical for American English:
    “who takes Americans like fools.” Oddly formal and old-fashioned. In American English you would say “for fools.” That is, if you were to use “fool” in the first place.
    “to comment negatively on my site.” No split infinitive!
    “you jolly well EARN their love.” That’s the kicker. No way would an American use “jolly” that way. The only time we use “jolly” is in reference to Santa Claus or other happy fat people. It would be as unlikely as an American saying “arse” or “bloody right!” or spelling “color” with a “u” in it (unless you’re H.P. Lovecraft).
    I don’t know how this is supposed to help, but there it is. Maybe you got flamed by an irate English-comp. teacher. Please don’t let one moron deter you.
    Yay Canada! :o)

  3602. Okay, I see that Many People have defended you, given ‘atta girls’ etc. I guess I just want to give you another. I may not always agree with you (heck, I don’t agree with myself a good deal of the time), but, if I don’t, I don’t need to visit your blog- right? (I visit daily, and am disappointed when there isn’t something new.) As a ‘United Statian’ (Canadians are North American’s too, so it has always bugged me that only ‘we’ were called ‘Americans’) I apologize for the evil of a fellow countrywoman. I, as well, enjoy your Canada Day blogs- as well as other holidays. It is enriching to learn about other people in this world. Go Steph!

  3603. WOW. I did not take time to read the comments, actually, truth be told, I never do. So, I hope I am not repeating anything already said as that is very, very boring to the reader.
    That said, Steph you are all of the goodness on the planet. You have the support of most (now, obviously, not all) knitters world wide. DO NOT change one little bit. Which I am sure you would never do. I will not seek out who your stalker is. I will channel positive energy her way. I will continue to read your blog…(i have been a follow since your beginnings- a private follower, but a follower none-the-less) I will continue to not read the comments and I will continue to comment on a very rare occassion. You are loved, cherished and adored.
    Stop.

  3604. You must be skimming all your comments, despite the pre-Sock Summit insanity, just to be weeding out malicious nonsense. 🙁 So I am commenting only to give you a cyberhug, to tell you that no one should have to put up with this, and I hope you can feel the warmth of the huge outwelling of support, even though I know that was not your intent in writing this post (you stated your reasons very clearly).
    I wanted to comment yesterday, but on my MacBook, it was taking much more time than I had at bedtime to get to the end of the 3900-some comments….
    May I share a short anecdote? I just came from another planet, i.e. DisneyWorld in Florida (I had a meeting and my teenager & preteen daughters went along for fun). This US Mom and daughters for some reason, I really can’t recall the particulars, unabashedly burst into “O Canada” at Epcot as we were walking — and sang the whole song. Rather oddly, I only really know all the words in French, since I first learned the words in French class as an adolescent. So my daughters sang in English and I in French simultaneously. It must have been interesting. We all sing fairly well, though, so hopefully it wasn’t too bad for unsuspecting passersby to be subjected to.
    I love my country of birth. We apparently all love Canada too, which I have visited a number of times! (and the girls once, but they want to come back)
    I’ll be thinking of you and Tina and the SockSummitteers in the couple weeks to come. Wish I could be there, but we had a pre-existing family vacation scheduled and paid for. I didn’t think my family would understand my ditching them….

  3605. Hang in there Stephanie!
    I don’t really see the problem with expressing your love for your country on it’s special day (or any day, really). Sorry you’re going through all this, especially right now, with SS coming up so soon. Hope to see you there!
    Your kinder, gentler (and saner?) neighbor to the south.
    PS – I read your blog semi-regularly, but almost never read the comments.

  3606. Wow. I’m pretty sure I’ve heard of this woman– isn’t she the one who broke into David Letterman’s house several years ago because he was sending her messages during his monologues?
    I agree that she sounds like a loon, and honestly, like a paranoid schizophrenic. She also sounds British to me– the only American I know who uses the phrase “jolly good” is a total Anglophile and is definitely putting it on.
    Also, I love your Canada Day posts– we really don’t learn much about Canada in the US, so I find them fascinating. Keep writing, keep keepin’ on, and don’t let the nut jobs get to you.
    Cheers,
    Jennifer

  3607. Wow, how awful this all sounds. I’m so very sorry for you and your family and all the time you’ve had to spend thinking and monitoring this situation.
    This American Christian woman adores you! 🙂
    Keep your head up!

  3608. I’m so sorry that someone went so crazy on your innocent (& very entertaining) Canada Day post. I don’t see anything offensive about what was written, although those responses were unbelievably inappropriate and nasty. As a Canadian residing in the US right now, I hope that the anti-Canadian sentiments expressed are not the prevailing view at the moment.

  3609. She is just a nut, and I’m ashamed that she’s from the US and is deciding to talk about “Americans” as if we all agree with her. I am sure you are aware that you have many American fans (I am one of them!) and that she does not speak for us! I’ve never seen anything anti-US from you, and I think Canadians are just fabulous (what about that health care, huh?).
    I am so sorry she has nothing better to do with her life than bother you and criticize you and your family. My theory is that you can criticize me all you want, but when you go after my family I am prepared to choke you.
    Please don’t let the actions of one person (who has clearly not been properly diagnosed) affect what you write or how you write. I love it just as it is, as do so many people!

  3610. I’m American, Christian, conservative. I enjoy Stephanie’s writing, her humour, her knowledge of all things knitterly and her willingness to share with the rest of us.
    The light will vanquish the darkness. Thank you Stephanie.

  3611. 4032 comments as of the minute I popped on the blog to see what I’d missed while on vacation–I hope you eventually have a million best wishes from all of us who enjoy your company so much! Add me to your American Christian knitting fan club, hon!

  3612. I have been away from the computer and just now catching up on your blog. Thank-you Stephanie. I am American and I am proud to be a fan of The Yarn Harlot. Many hugs.

  3613. I want to add my voice to the multitudes here and say that I enjoy your books so much, your blog, your knitting and your humor and please keep it coming! Sending love and support from Florida, just a bit lower down on the continent from you.

  3614. hi! i read you everyday and i’ve never written here before, i love your blog and i’m sorry that someone would do this to you! i think what you do is awesome! Please keep up the good work and know that what you do is touching to so many people, thank you!

  3615. Gosh, I am so sorry that you’re having to deal with this. You know, this is YOUR blog. You delete whatever comments you want to – you don’t have to explain that to anyone. Love from Ottawa.

  3616. They say the best way to deal with a stalker is to completely ignore that person. Good for you for embracing reason and the high road during what’s clearly been a difficult time. There are days when your blog gives me the laugh I need to pull myself out of a funk, and that’s a tremendous gift–thank you. I love that your commenters clearly agree, and support you so completely. Rest assured that beers are being raised in your honor tonight here in the United States–which is really quite something, since I tend to be a red wine gal myself! But anything for you, Steph.

  3617. wow. as an american who adores you, keep ignoring her. eventually anyone who is listening will stop. so…whatcha knitting lately? 🙂

  3618. I know, I know. You’ve heard it all before. So much Harlot lovin’! Aren’t you sick of it yet? 😉
    All of your fans reap the benefits of all of the hard work you put into your blog AND your knitting career(travel, time away from family, etc.) I can only dream that one day, I am loved this much, by this many people(over 4000 comments, yowza!) and am able to do what I love for a living. And no matter what or who anyone believes in, we are all capable of being wonderful, successful, amazing people. Some of us live up to the potential we are given and some don’t. You do, and I hope you know you are very much admired for it 🙂

  3619. I’m so sorry you have a troll. I am a Christian American and I’m proud to have you and Canada for neighbors. I love you and will continue buying every book you write.

  3620. As an American citizen, I would like to use my right of free speech by saying, “bugs to her” and “cheers to you”! I raise my needles in support!

  3621. Sending you big (and warm!) hugs from Tucson! It’s too bed that this person needs to go after you like this and put such negative energy out there. Truly and honestly, how does it make the world a better place to make you feel this way? I hope you find a way to get beyond this so it doesn’t change the lovely and funny Harlot we all love and respect. Well, not all of us, apparently…too bad for her. I’m a Christian American and I find you delightful!

  3622. You have readers all over the world! When I was in Canada a while ago, the first name I could think of when I walked into the book store there was yours. Bought your book. Just ignore people like that. Don’t read them, don’t comment. Ignorance works.

  3623. Greetings Stephanie from Idaho!
    You are an awesome person and an inspiration to those of us who knit. I read your blog every day and look forward to your humor and your views on life in general! I have all of your books and calendar (keep us the kick ass job!)
    I admire the way you handled your cyber troll; with dignity, respect, involving the authorities and not wasting any more precious energy on her.
    Go forth and conquer at Sock Summit (wish I could be there!).
    Love
    Diane

  3624. I haven’t ever commented before however, I read your blog almost everyday and I now have all of your books. I will continue to read and buy everything that you write.
    You are one classy woman and a pure delight.

  3625. This may get lost in all the other comments, but I just wanted to say that I’m so sorry that you are having to go through this. You and your family.
    As an American and Christian, I want to say that I love your blog, your spirit and have never felt that you had to prove anything.
    I don’t believe that woman is a Christian – because that means Christ follower. I think, perhaps, she’s following a different path.
    Keep your chin up, and knit on with confidence.

  3626. Stephanie…we Americans love you !!! I have been reading you for years, have all your books, and am just waiting until I can see you in person. I went back and reread your Canada Day message, and I can see absolutely nothing in there someone should be offended by. I have never been offended by anything you have written, and I am “American” with family going back to the 1600’s(Grandmother filled out the D.A.R. paperwork for me, gee, never got mailed in LOL). Its a shame that your love for your country is perceived by this person as anti-American.
    I would love to tell you to blow her off, not to worry, but she does raise some red flags, and I would take it seriously. I do hope you have contacted authorities in the USA, she must have some severe problems and does not sound stable.
    That said, wish I could be at the sock summit, and I am making a promise to myself to see you next time you are somewhere on the west coast.
    Love you !!!!

  3627. This is so sad. Your blog is one of the highlights of my day. Don’t get discouraged, you have a lot of supporters!

  3628. Both my husband and I love you! Whenever I bring home one of your books, I have to fight it out of his hands! I can also say, having run into you a few times at our LYS, you are a wonderful and inspirational women and knitter. Love you, your blog, and your books. just remember, this too shall pass. Lots of love.

  3629. Stephanie, I hope that your pleasure in writing this blog is not spoiled. This poor person is clearly unbalanced, and I’m sorry that she has chosen you as her focus. Please do be safe, though and keep the police informed.

  3630. I agree with other people, if you know where-about she is, call the police department in her area.
    Good luck, dear <3

  3631. I read your blog regularly, but don’t take the time to comment. I just wanted to say thank you for all your work. Hang in there and trust yourself. You have brightened my day many a time. Thank you again.

  3632. been loving reading you for years, husband also.
    we love to laugh with you.
    can not remember you insulting the usa. i do not think she is well.
    please please keep right on you just as you are.
    you make my day soo often.
    love
    grace

  3633. It’s sad irony and fact of the world that people often use “God and country” as the battlecries of their own petty vendettas. I am not a regular reader of your blog and was linked by a knitter friend, but my prayers are with you.

  3634. All I can say in addition to everyone else’s supportive comments is that I thought we Americans founded a new county to get away from such narrow-minded bigotry. And taxation without representation.

  3635. This left-leaning Christian/American knitter loves you just the way you are. I am raising my own cold beer this evening in tribute to you!

  3636. So…I’m commenter #4070, unless someone beats me to it. There’s nothing I can say that hasn’t been already mentioned, except that having over 4,000 comments in support of you, your lovely family, and your fabulous podcast, it is very clear that you are an amazing person and one that many people enjoy. I want to be like you when I grow up. Thank you for all that you do for everyone, be they charities, knitters, or just everyday folk. And I am disgusted, as an American citizen, at this outrageous behavior. Best regards to you and yours,
    Danni

  3637. I am posting as an avid reader of your blog, an American, a Wiccan and a woman who knits one day and fixes cars the next:
    You’re doing just fine. Try not to let her irrational insults get to you–she’s just finding entertainment in making you upset. I admit, I too, am a big upset right now, because she attacked several things that I am in her letters to you.
    No matter what she says, this is a game to her. She’s picking fights because she can and because she knows that it will get to you. Stay strong and don’t let her win.
    And I would say you are winning, judging from the over 4000 comments on this post. Keep at it. You have your readers to support you

  3638. You go girl! I’ve had my share of dealing with cyberstalking, but that was 10 years ago. My understanding is that if you go to your local police station, that they can do something about it. In my case, the came to my house and looked at my computer, but then the stalker got bored himself and I only ever once heard from him in the past 10 years… It’s sad, but so many people seem to crack under the current economic stress.
    BTW, humanist wedding ceremonies are wonderful… we just had our own…. and a blessing for Huxley included.
    Hugs from close-by….

  3639. I apologize, as an American, for the bad manners of a fellow citizen. I’ve been reading your blog for a long time, and never felt the need to comment until now.
    Protect yourself and your family from this person who so obviously needs professional help – contact the authorities, and report this. Don’t wait for this person to show up on your doorstep.
    Be happy, and feel blessed that you do not live in such a ‘poisoned world’ – very sad…

  3640. Wow. Haven’t met crazy in a while. Though I do work customer service, so it’s bound to happen sometime come holiday season.
    I hope everything works out well for you, and reminder that most Americans can be polite.
    SINcerely,
    Ezikiel
    p.s. Sock summit is going to be amazing! I can’t wait to hear about it more!

  3641. Wow, over 4000 comments already and I bet there’ll be lots more before we’re done standing up for you and standing with you. The sheer number of supportive comments ought to tell your crazed commentor/tormentor that she’s WAY off base – we Americans LOVE you!! And most of us love Canada too – so there!

  3642. OMG, I just found this person and not only is she in my country, which in and of itself is embarrassing enough, but she’s from my state!! We are not like this here. We knitters, in my state love you, as evidenced by the turn-out at your appearance here a couple of years ago. Just remember, as of today, it’s 4000+ to 1. I apologize on behalf of the crazy 1 (from my state!)

  3643. Just had to say, Stephanie, you are doing the right thing. I am a big (US) fan and love your blog. Don’t quite understand what the problem was with the Canada Day post, it was just fine with me. Carry on!
    Big hugs coming your way too. They never hurt.

  3644. Amazing. I am another American, and I arrived home today from my first visit to Canada to find this post in my blog feed. I just have to say: your posts about Canada day, your nation and its government and history made me look and feel smart in front of my friends and relatives on this trip. We saw beautiful places and two beautiful people got married that wouldn’t have been able to do so in my part of the world. You are truly an ambassador for knitters everywhere, and although I understand how difficult it is sometimes, remember you are appreciated and loved. There’s one more person out here who loves your writing and doesn’t agree with this person in any way.

  3645. Wow. I don’t know what other people have posted (I just can’t read through all the comments) but I can’t imagine people being less than supportive. I think you are incredibly strong, and brave, and tolerant. You have gone to incredible lengths to cope with this.
    I think you are a good, honest, hilarious, down to earth, fair (insert other positive type words here) person.
    Do what you need to do to stay sane.
    Hugs.

  3646. I am amazed how calm you sound and you kept this private for a month! You totally rock and hope you feel better with 4,000 commenters (and probably thousands more who were too shy to leave a comment) who totally support you!
    (I think I accidently posted before when I was halfway done, in case this appears twice-oops)

  3647. Brava, Stephanie. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this, but I am incredibly proud of you and impressed with how you’ve handled what is clearly such a delicate and painful situation. The next time I’m up north, the beers are on me.

  3648. Number One – it is a mistake to engage with a crank
    Number Two – she does NOT speak for “Americans”
    Number Three – America is good at growing cranks

  3649. Stephanie,
    Like so many others, I’ve read your blog for years and rarely commented. It easy to find the person in question using a simple Google search.
    I am so very sorry that you have been accosted this way. I am a counselor and work with the victims of violence and abuse and she is a very sick woman and a blatant abuser. This woman’s vileness has nothing to do with your comments about Canada Day. It’s about a sick kind of jealousy.
    She also may be dangerous and you need to take care. If a protection order can be obtained – do it. Yours and your family’s safety is too precious to risk. I am sure this has been very difficult for you. You are handling it very well and I believe that over 4,000 posts in support shows you exactly what you need to know – you are loved and honored.
    Thank you for bringing a bit of joy and fun to life! I have ALL your books and look forward to the next ones! BTW – when are you coming to the Tampa Bay area? We knit here, too!

  3650. 4085 and more to come, this is the support that you have rallied and earned and well deserved from another american on the west coast please take care and keep safe. Love your books and my daughter finds a description of me in each and everyone of them. Read your blog all the time but never have posted until now.

  3651. Came back to specifically thank you for your Canada day posts (and the one you wrote last year explaining canadian politics). I always find that one can read longwinded stuffy textbooks about so many things without learning anthing useful from them, while such firsthand and fun-to-read personal blips like these convey the real info. I have (twice now) started considering emigrating to Canada after reading your posts and so far it is only the cruel winters that stop me. And the fact that my country, too, has a functioning healthcare system. Yay Canada!

  3652. I have a lot of respect for how you are handling this. I can only imagine how difficult this is for you to go through.
    Big hugs, smiles and support from a big fan in Europe… 🙂

  3653. One more lurker peeking out. Don’t believe a word she says about you, that is one sad individual. I like your Canada-posts, I’ve never visited but have always thought it would feel like a home away from home – except that most of you live down there in the south. 🙂 Hugs from Finland!

  3654. Well, if you ever need to prove to anyone that you don’t delete (polite) negative comments, this thread would do it. Because no one would have time to winnow out 4000+ comments.
    The fact that they seem to be uniformly supportive (I skipped around!) says a lot more. One against, well over four thousand for….

  3655. I don’t think that you will ever block her completely, so try to stop worrying about her and we will all ignore her.

  3656. Long time reader, first time poster. I love your blog. I love your books. And I’m so sorry that you have a crazy stalker.
    I’ve always thought of Canada as being kind of the United States’ sister (the younger, prettier, smarter one for the most part, just like my own sister, and, yes, I’m American). That would make us cousins, so this is purely familial love and concern:
    Don’t read e-mail from that poor thing. Have them put directly into your spam folder and automatically deleted. Lord Have Mercy, you are just terrific, bringing knitting and inspiration and belly-laughs to us all. (the story about the car being stuck had me laughing all evening.)

  3657. Unfortunately, the poor thing doesn’t realize that she needs help. What a sad little life she must have if she has nothing better to do than cause you misery. Like the other US readers and posters, you know she doesn’t represent us all.

  3658. you are the most gracious person i think i’ve ever heard of. you are an inspiration.

  3659. Let me bring you something special next week. It will take your mind off this deranged person.

  3660. ah, dear Stephanie.
    no one deserves this.
    I completely believe that she is entitled to her opinions, yet the rest of us are also entitled to ours. Fortunately you already know that she does not speak for anyone but herself. (thank you for knowing that)

  3661. Hi Stephanie,
    You are being stalked, plain and simple. Please go to the appropriate authorities and watch your back. I so enjoy your books, your comments on life that reveal your attitude toward knitting, your family and your beautiful country. I look forward to your next book and hope that someday I may see you person. In the meantime, I will pray for your safety.
    Ann

  3662. Never posted before but wanted to tell you not to let this HORRIBLE person get to you. Your books have made me laugh, inspired me to explore and overall made me feel like I found someone who “gets me” where knitting is concerned. Keep the faith girl, not all Americans are like this person!

  3663. I’ve been reading your blog for months now and this is also the first time I’ve ever posted. I’m an American teenager and am appalled at what that person was writing.
    Please don’t give up and don’t take it personally. Not all Americans are like this. We love you! <3
    Keep on blogging, it’s one of the first things I check in the morning.

  3664. I’m late coming to this, and I’m not sure I’ve ever left you a comment before, although I pop in here at least once a week.
    I love your blog. I really enjoy your writing, and your knitting books have helped me — especially the no-nonsense one that admitted that gauge doesn’t matter on some things. 🙂
    This person is clearly disturbed, and I join many others in asking you to report, and keep a log of everything, as hard as that is to do. We love you in America, and this person certainly doesn’t speak for all of us.
    *big hugs*

  3665. Hello Stephanie,
    I just want to say how sorry I am, as an American, that there is someone who is acting so hateful and who is being a stalker. Does she realize that there are legal ramifications for that sort of thing????? She sounds absolutely mentally ill.
    I wish you all the best, Stephanie, and you have done a world of good for so many people. I’m behind you every step of the way!!!!!

  3666. Oh for cryinig out loud!! Thank God there is only one of these types of persons out of a few million….she has no life and if joyless…sorry she has picked on you. She’s jealous, obviously. WE adore you here in Virginia….

  3667. Sounds like you have a crazy immature weirdo going after you.
    Stinks… It’s pointless to try and fight crazy. They live in a fantasy world where normal rules don’t apply.
    Best of luck and Hugs from Sunny California!

  3668. Stephanie, I thoroughly enjoy your blog, your humor and your perspectives on knitting and life in general. I am sorry that some people cannot play nice with others. You have my vote of support today and always. You are a smart and generous human being – thanks for sharing your insights with the public via your blog.

  3669. Greetings from Missouri. I love the blog, the books, your sense of humor. I’ve never been offended, and I don’t agree with you on every single thing. She needs to live and let live.

  3670. As a California transplant to Maine, I can say Mainer’s, who are still American’s last I checked, love Canadians. I personally enjoy some Prince, Love good Beer (not American), also loathe flying, and feel you are an inspiration to my knitting and my parenting. Sock on! (and may she always wear her Box-store socks!)

  3671. I’m so sorry, Stephanie … as an American (and a military member) I am offended by her behavior. As a Wiccan, I’m offended and disturbed. As a person who’s got a bit of experience with mental health issues, I’m thinking this is a woman who probably should be on medication or at least going into therapy to work out some of her anger issues. I know you know we aren’t all like this, even those of us that might be considered ‘red-necks’ or ‘undereducated,’ but it still doesn’t stop the hurt when someone, however emotionally disturbed, acts like this. Again, I’m sorry someone like this decided to take out her problems on you.

  3672. I wish that all of us that get such inspiration from your blog, your life, your family could give you a hug. Thank you for all your hard work and for staying positive, I really respect that in you.

  3673. A 100% behind you! Please take some legal action against this person, for one day she’s going to turn against someone else. Please, please!

  3674. Dear Yarn Harlot.
    I’ve been reading your blog for two years, at least. I think you’re the most calm and peaceful person I’ve ever read. I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am that this person attached herself to you. As far as I’m concerned, you’re a wonderfull knitter, a wonderfull woman, and mother. I’ll be a 10000000 % behind you .
    And don’t let yourself be dragged down, we’re ALL with you. Good luck

  3675. You have so much support from the knitting community. Don’t ever doubt it. I rarely post but I just had to tell you you are a delight to read. I wish you and your family all the love in the world and hate that you are going through this. Sending big vibes of encouragement your way.

  3676. I regret that the internet has provided such a forum for sociopaths. A wise person told me once that when you deal with a crazy person, you can’t make it a sane situation. Waste no more energy in that direction. Every response is a reward for a person like that. Rather like hanging up on an obscene phone caller, you did the right thing to block her.
    You have my total support.

  3677. I honestly cannot understand people like this. People who have time to read other people’s blogs purely for the purpose of harassing them need to get a life. Please don’t let this troll get you down.

  3678. I’ve never posted before but I’m here now to give my support. In the years that I’ve been reading your blog and your books I’ve found many wise, kind, and caring words therein. Thank you for continuing to be a voice of reason.

  3679. Thank goodness not all God-fearing Americans are like her. Quite the contrary I think (and hope). *sending good vibes your way*

  3680. I’ve never posted here before but just want to give you my support. She should be embarrassed to call herself a Christian because she certainly doesn’t act like one.

  3681. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG with being proud to be a Canadian. It’s your country and your heritage. I’ve been reading your blog since the beginning, laughing all the way, and learning so much in the process. You are a gifted knitter and writer, one who’s inspired this U.S. citizen to try so many new things. Please don’t stop.
    And I totally agree with many of the others: this person is dangerous. Make sure both U.S. and Canadian authorities are aware of her, and take the appropriate steps to protect yourself.

  3682. I don’t post here often but I do read your blog fairly regularly and I appreciate all of your humor and general good-naturedness. Just want to let you know that you’ve got my support and good wishes. Don’t let this woman keep you down. She obviously is blowing something way our of proportion. Keep your chin up and to quote EZ: “Knit on with confidence and hope, through all crises.”

  3683. It’s such a shame that one of the consequences of producing a public blog that so many people find to be full of wit and humor is that it can attract the attention (although obsession may be a more appropriate term) of someone who is obviously mean-spirited and unstable.
    I wish you the best as you deal with this & thank you for continuing on with such a wonderful blog.

  3684. I am a beginning knitter and did not read your blog–however since all this has come up I will not only read your blog but will buy your books as well. Hang in there and stay safe.

  3685. Steph – all your works bring a little light and fun to the world. I’m sad for the world that there are people out there who feel that tearing others down is the best way to go about living; and sad for you that you’ve had to experience that. Keep your chin up and remember that there are at least 4,000 people who disagree with that negative opinion.

  3686. Now I have one more reason to be embarrassed about being American. I’m personally sorry for what you have gone through. I know you know her feelings are not American sentiments, and they are certainly anything but “Christian”.
    Is there any legal action to be taken?
    So strange, it must be in the wind. I was recently attacked via email as well, and for no reason. I understand your need to speak your side. I felt and did the same. Like you, I finally stopped communicating with the “person” and she has gone away. I hope the same for you, and quickly.

  3687. I couldn’t even begin to read all that (I have a three year old) but I just wanted to let you know that you are AMAZING! BRAVO YOU! So sorry you have to deal with all this.

  3688. holy cow. i’m sorry you’ve felt like you had to keep this private, and i admire the way you’ve handled it. i’ll respect your wishes to not engage if she’s sighted, but i’ll also happily join a shin-kicking party if you call for one.

  3689. It’s “Americans” like her that are totally embarrassing to Americans like me… and make me want to move to Canada (or anywhere else in the world but I really like Canada), so that I am not, in any way, associated with them. Luckily, I know you are way too intelligent to think that she represents any kind of majority except in her own head. I am sincerely sorry that she is harassing you and I am ashamed for her and others who are like-minded. You go, Steph.

  3690. Hi ,
    Dont know you ,never met you.
    Have commented on your blog before.
    Got your comments back.
    Loved that you thought enough of your fans to respond.
    Dont know what your religion is,but your following the golden rule much more perfect than your harasser is.
    If she claims to be a Christian,she is not being Christ like.

  3691. P.S
    We {my family and i} are American.
    My son wants to live in Canada.
    He took a bus trip a week ago,to visit someone
    He met online.
    I was much apposed to this.Because he did not really know this fellow.
    He owns a farm in Ontario and my son wanted to help him on it.
    Needless to say,the border patrol or whoever would not let him enter the country,sent him home.
    I was glad.
    John is 32 so i couldnt keep him.
    I said all this to say,john loves Canada.

  3692. Another lurker weighing in…I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years…have all your books…admire you as a person and as a knitter 🙂 please be careful…this nut is fixated on you for some reason…seems to have some kind of personality disorder! Hope her bizarre, obviously jealous behavior doesn’t escalate and hope you can figure out what to do to protect yourself and family….

  3693. Stephanie, in the two+ years I have been reading your blog you have always struck me as a person of great integrity, and one who conducts herself with a great deal of respect for her fellow humans (and not to mention a terrific parent!). I have never felt more so than after reading this post.
    I’m so sorry this jerk is putting you through the ringer, particularly in such a personal way. I hope it goes away quickly, and I promise not to feed the troll.

  3694. When I read this entire post, mouth open in astonishment, all I could think was “Stephanie writes this blog for the enjoyment of all of us, knitters or not, Americans or Canadians or any other group of people, and for heaven’s sake, if you don’t agree with her or think she’s wonderful, why the hell would you bother to read it? Just to be annoyed? What an idiot!” Then I was thrilled to see well over 4,000 comments had been left–I haven’t read them all but it’s quite clear that your faithful readers would probably blow up her computer if they had half a chance!

  3695. She is not your inner voice. She doesn’t know you or your family. You are right to give her little access and to not engage with her.
    Stalkers, particularly cyber-stalkers, have an agenda that we may not understand, except to know that it exists.
    As the saying goes, the “best revenge is living well.”

  3696. Another lurker coming public… 4000+ supporters can’t be wrong. Please keep posting. This woman is seriously mentally unbalanced.
    I have some prayer socks that need finishing, and I’ll be including gacious thoughts for all knitters.

  3697. hello steph, i’m kim’s husband who just got home from over sea’s. kim and kid’s kept my mind and soul tight by teaching me knitting and sewing abit. after some patrol’s there were time’s i HAD to rewind. now i’m home less when i left, but greatful. i check your post’s and i am soooo up set with this “pro american” when all you posted was your countries holiday. i can only apologize for her absent mind, but i have to defend it. LOL, by all means, if it wasn’t for some part in CANADA’S part in this world who know’s where the US would be. keep strong, keep posting and P,S, my wife and daughter still have your time out to have a picture together in rhinebeck ny, thank you and GOD BLESS YOU. returned g.i. etc, i still knit!

  3698. You give so much of yourself to enrich our lives and make us laugh. Do not let the word crap of this person infect your wonderful spirit. Be extra careful and do not take her lightly. The world is a better place with you doing what you do. Thanks for sharing with us.

  3699. Stephanie,
    I sincerely hope that this nasty evil person just slinks away, never to be heard from again! As my grandmother used to say, “There is no cure for stupid.” We can say ignore her, but this sounds like a genuinely threatening person. I’d keep the authorities involved.
    I sooo look forward to the Sock Summit!!!! Your talent and wit are to be admired!

  3700. Stephanie,
    I sincerely hope that this nasty evil person just slinks away, never to be heard from again! As my grandmother used to say, “There is no cure for stupid.” We can say ignore her, but this sounds like a genuinely threatening person. I’d keep the authorities involved.
    I sooo look forward to the Sock Summit!!!! Your talent and wit are to be admired!

  3701. Stephanie,
    I sincerely hope that this nasty evil person just slinks away, never to be heard from again! As my grandmother used to say, “There is no cure for stupid.” We can say ignore her, but this sounds like a genuinely threatening person. I’d keep the authorities involved.
    I sooo look forward to the Sock Summit!!!! Your talent and wit are to be admired!

  3702. Another American leaving a note to say good for you for taking the high road. I am not sure that this person is well….I would contact the police.

  3703. And I thought knitting was so mild and soft and cuddly and reassuring and comforting and peaceful and so on. Love.

  3704. Well–I don’t even knit–but my oldest daughter does and I have one of your signed books she got for me (one of your visits to New Jersey)because she knows how much I’ve enjoyed your blog. You have given me lots of laughs and some serious issues at times to ponder. It’s clear you are a kind, gentle, and funny soul. Keep up the good work and try to not let one very unhappy miserable person get you down. You have taken the high road by not engaging with her. She seems to have missed the scriptures about love and kindness.

  3705. so, following the trend of lurkers de-lurking, I just wanted to express love and support. You are one of the best sorts of people out there, and I hope your trolling problem goes away soon.
    <3

  3706. I’ve been out of town and just discovered this bit of nastiness in your life. Simply…you are the queen of words and stitches. It pains me that you are forced to deal with this.
    Peace to you and yours,
    Suzanne

  3707. wow. I am sorry that an American would attack you for being a patriot of your own country. I find it offensive that this person feels the need to be angry about you celebrating your national holiday. How ridiculous. I am sorry you have to put up with her. Hopefully she will get a hobby and stop being a bitter terrible person. Best wishes from yet another American who buys your books!

  3708. Stephanie, you are a kind, funny, talented person. You have raised smart, good people from the kids you had. I even approve of your husband! (Mine is the same way about coffee cups. I find them all over the kitchen. You’d think he never got them out of the cabinet in the first place!)
    ***HUGS!!!***

  3709. Stephanie, I must add my voice to the thousands, saying: You are an inspiration and a source of joy in our lives. Keep up the good work, hope the troll(s) go away.

  3710. Stephanie, you have my most heart-felt sympathies. This type of type of harassment is unforgivable and so demoralizing. Please know that she does NOT speak with the voice of all Americans, nor do I believe that she can fairly call herself a good Christian. Be strong and we’ll all pray that she finds something more productive, and soul-enriching than plaguing you. In the meantime, lean on those you love and trust, cherish the bright, well-mannered children you’ve reared, and keep telling yourself that you are a good woman. And you can count on this American to still buy your books. Promise. ***HUGS***

  3711. Stephanie, hugs from Nova Scotia. Just ignore her, and hopefully she will go back on her medication for what ever mental illness she has (I am betting on Schizphia (spelt wrong))

  3712. another lurker, delurking ’cause this is just wrong/mean/evil. if they want to vilify you, ~shrugs~ free will. they WILL pay for this, eventually. but to attack your family? this has gone over into stalking and that is illegal in the states. i hope you get relief from this—person.
    it always amazes me when someone claims to be *christian* and yet clearly has missed the lessons offered in the Bible. if you have to TELL me you are *christian*, it is because your actions do not correspond to the lessons/beliefs given said *christian’s* IN THE BIBLE!
    as for touting Canada, you ARE Canadian. i have heard plenty of ethnic bashing jokes here, and while i am an American ~ deep south version and semi-isolationist {i so wanna live in the pacific-northwest or Canada} ~ bashing another’s country or religion is pretty much anathema to me, not to mention, a waste of time and energy. you are SUPPOSED to love your country. i went back and read the Canada Day post. i have yet to see any bashing, other than that said by Americans…go figure.
    as one who has had to deal with people of other countries/nationalities, i have learned that some people bash simply because you are not from THEIR country. not nice, not pretty, not indicative of the rest of the country, but still there.
    blessings on you and your family, that this will eventually go away.
    ~i heart the yarnharlot~
    love and light,
    Damia
    ~steps down from soapbox~

  3713. Whoa! Over 4000 comments on this! Hooray for the decency and kindness of your readers and of all of us in general.
    My first comment was a thousand or so ago but I didn’t give you some information that might prove helpful. I’m hesitant to give advice to anyone. I prefer, instead, to listen and reflect back what I hear, but for what it’s worth . . . As a young woman I spent almost 10 years teaching English in a couple of large high schools outside of Detroit where I had some challenging students. One threatened to gather some friends and come to my house to gang-rape me, but that was the most extreme case. And I loved my work and was good at it.
    Part of my success as a teacher was based on what I learned training a lab rat in a Psychology class I took as a sophomore: attend to and reward the behaviors you want to reinforce; ignore the behaviors you want to extinguish.
    It took a lot of discipline to ignore classroom behavior that I didn’t want to encourage and then pay attention to the slightest “positive” behavior, the behavior I wanted to see in that setting. But it worked. So Stephanie . . . I suggest you delete emails, comments, and do not respond to this person’s actions. If this person is threatening your physical welfare in a real way, call the cops. In 11 years of teaching in “regular” schools, I had to call for administrative disciplinary back-up only two times. But both times I was grateful to have it.
    Surrounding you with light and love . . .

  3714. Listen to Peter Wyton’s knitting poem Needles And The Damage Done. Recorded live and now on youtube and on Peter’s myspace.

  3715. Dear Stephanie;
    You have received an outpouring of love and support from your blog. It is entirely deserved and I hope it lightens your heart. While counting your blessings, you must realize that you have a wonderful husband, generous children, a warm, extended family, a humungous knitterly community-all of whom cherish you for your strength, wisdom, wit, and general relish for life. On the other hand, your opponent is a self-confessed recovered alcoholic and lives in a state of precarious mental health. I know it’s difficult, but she really needs our prayers and sympathy. She must be so unhappy. We love you, Steph. If our love could make HER well and happy, it would be a blessing. Go SS09.

  3716. I’m American (duel citizen actually) and I LOVE your Canada day posts. I don’t think that you are any of the things she accuses you of being. I’m sorry you are having to deal with this and I’m sorry that this women appears to be mentally ill. You are taking the correct course of action. We love you and your work. Keep knit, keep blogging.

  3717. So sorry that you are going through this. I am a very conservative, Christian American woman and I can’t believe what this person is doing. Please do not let this stop you from the wonderful blogging that you do, and do not take the rants personally, it is her problem, not yours.

  3718. I am an American who has lived the past three years with my Canadian husband in Canada. We just moved back to the states two days ago!
    The fact that an American would attack you repeatedly for being a patriot of your own country absolutely astounds me. Especially after claims of being Christian. As another poster has said, if you have to tell someone you’re Christian, obviously your actions aren’t very Christian-like. I hope this person gets the help she needs.
    Good for you – stay strong, stay safe and continue to impress all of us with your limitless patience and respect for others — even those who do not deserve respect since they can’t give it themselves.

  3719. Stephanie-
    I am an American. I am a Christian. I buy your books and unless you quit writing, I will continue to buy your books. 🙂 I adore your blog and I have NEVER been insulted by anything you have written. May peace and blessings find you and your family. Keep it up, sweetie, and don’t let the crazies get you down!

  3720. I’m sending a truck load of love your way. You are an incredible person for whom I have much admiration and respect.
    All I can say is I hope with all my agnostic heart can hold, that the person in question gets the help they so obviously need before they reach the edge.

  3721. Please add me to the list of folks who love you and your blog– you’re the very best for sharing your beautiful life with us all– thank you!

  3722. Stay strong. This person is obviously in a lot of pain. She needs professional help and will, unfortunately, probably not get it.
    Your reaction is the right one. Keep going!

  3723. I’m sorry you have to go through this as you do not deserve it. Breathe. I also have read for a while but never posted before, though I have enjoyed reading your blog. It occurs to me that it is rather un-Chrisian to spread the kind of hate this person spews.

  3724. Wowwee! (after typing and deleting and typing and deleting) All I have to say is Wowwee.
    I think that woman needs to knit more because clearly she has too much time on her hands.
    Lots of prayer and happy POSITIVE energies are being sent to you.
    I haven’t found you in fault with anti-American things. I mean, Canadians don’t get enraged when ever the 4th of July comes about do they? Seriously. I mean she could have targeted anyone..perhaps you aren’t the only one she is sending her deranged detachments to?

  3725. Stephanie thank you for your bravery in posting this and shining the light. I’ve been harrassed before and know how frustrating it is.
    By nature any reasonable person with compassion will at first attempt to make some sort of reconciliation to stop this behavior but stalkers are missing something human in them and there’s no reasoning with them. It really is very sad but beyond any of our control. To not let her take any more of your energy is the right thing to do and you now have all of our energy supporting you as well.
    Love and hugs!!

  3726. oh and one more thing: a program called MAILWASHER has worked for me, I never know whether emails from him are being attempted, I never see them, it’s wonderful!

  3727. Continue to shine-on. You have brought laughter as well as tears to many. These are healing energies that will overcome anything. Thank you for helping so many with your Light.

  3728. I am so embarassed to be an American when this sort of thing happens. I agree with whoever it was that said you should contact the police. “I know where you live” sounds like a threat to me and you can’t be too careful these days. Best to you.

  3729. Good for you. I know you know that you’ve tapped into an energy vampire, and she wants to suck some good out of your situation. I hope you feel comfortable removing negatives from your website even sooner next time. It’s nice of you to give people time to course-correct, but really, we’re all adults and you don’t have time to deflect as often as you end up having to. I love your books and will buy whatever you publish, even my Dad is getting a kick out of your Calendar. He’s a woodworking addict and it all resonates with him, as well. So, 67 and 38 in the US sending you well wishes and good mojo.

  3730. Hugs to you. Just to let you know I enjoy reading your blog and I don’t knit. I also have several of your books and loved reading them. When I’m feeling down I can read your blog and you always make me laugh.
    A friend sent me a link to your blog about 4 years ago, after I’d read it for a bit, I thought I might like to learn to knit, especially when I read your blogs about socks. So that had been my plan, to learn to knit and to knit socks.
    Unfortunately, and I think you might relate to the overly industrious nature of my plan, I got started too far down on the ‘knitting chain’ to be terribly successful.
    Step one in learning to knit: get goats. Cashmere goats. Because not only did I think it would be cool (possible) to knit socks, but the plan was to make and dye my own yarn.
    I still read your blog all the time and enjoy it. When I’m feeling especially blue your blog never fails to make me smile. It’s sad to think that you bring such light and humor into the world and you have to deal with such crabby people.
    Dawn….PS…..My goats are 4 this year and they’ve still not knitted me even one pair of socks. I’m pretty sure if I’d have gotten Angora Goats I’d have not only socks, but they’d be knitting me cardigans by now.

  3731. As an American: I apologize for my fellow American.
    As a Christian: I apologize just the same.
    As a Conservative (I have a feeling this woman would claim to be as such): The late William F. Buckley and I apologize.
    There are bad apples in every barrel, but this is not to excuse what this woman has done. It grieves me deeply that this American, this Christian woman finds joy in belittling your nationality and antagonizing your faith (what ever it may be).
    Like a coward, she hides behind the American flag, and the Bible; speaking in plurals as if all of America and all of Christianity endorse her sour words.
    Well, they do not.
    Still, I hope God leads this woman to a path where she will see her own errors. If she stays on the dark path she’s on, the white in her world will become gray, gray will become black, and the black will just get blacker. It will make the Devil of her and she will treat all things with spite and disdain. At which point, there will be no room in her heart for God or Country.
    I pray to God this woman does not fall down that dark hole. God can show her the wrongs she has done, but God can not make her own up to her misdeeds. She needs to come to that on her own. I pray she does.
    God be with her, and God be with you too, Mrs. McPhee.

  3732. I’m just one of MANY other American readers who had to write and say “I’m on your side”. Every once in a while, one of us jumps out of the Crazy Bucket and goes hogwild with the internet but hopefully you won’t hold that against the rest of us.

  3733. YH, I am not surprised at the incredible number of comments this has generated – It is a sorry state when someone (her) is so insecure that she has to lash out at you personally -I for one live in the south, never ever have I taken offense at anything you have said; I may not agree with your religious views, but you have never ever made me as a Christian or as a Southern American feel attacked by any of your views or comments – your humor is refreshing, I love your books (own them all) and one day hope to be able to see you in person. Personally, if she has such a problem with you, why then does she keep torturing herself by continuing to read your blog? It is a free country, we are allowed to read whatever we like, worship however we want, and it goes just the opposite – we don’t have to read anything we take issue with – she just needs to get over herself and move on – as a friend of mine says, “Put your big-girl panties on” – you keep on being exactly who you are – there are many of us here in the US who enjoy your contribution to the world of knitting! thanks!

  3734. I read this post a couple of days ago and can’t stop thinking about you. I sincerely believe that this person has significant mental health issues and there is no rational intervention that you personally can do to make this stop. You can do the low crawl and hope she tires out, but I would strongly suggest that you contact the police, although I am not sure how that works between two countries. I am so sorry you are having this experience, I think you are wonderful and wish you all the best.

  3735. I’m an American. I gleam much happiness from your writing here on your blog and through your books. I hope you will continue to share the good and the ugly with that special Stephanie humor. Stand your ground and be proud of what you have accomplished. As an AMERICAN, a women and a knitter I thank you for your words.

  3736. Behind in my reading but also standing behind you in support.
    What a sad little life that person has. Perhaps she should knit.

  3737. I look forward to reading your blog. I have enjoyed all your books. And I once took a class with you (while visiting CANADA) and it was a hoot. Thanks for all you have contributed to my little knitting world.

  3738. There is not much I can say that has not already been said, bar this:
    You are responsible, in part, for helping me realise that yes, I can do this motherhood thing and take up knitting again. Your warmth, honesty, integrity, down-to-earthiness and humor bring laughter and light to so many. Just know and keep it close to your heart that your willingness to share your many talents with the world means a great deal to a great many – all over the place.
    Love
    Laughter
    Light
    Simone 🙂

  3739. Hi Harlot,
    There’s not much to say that hasn’t already been said, but I still want to be another voice in the crowd that stands behind you on this. I (an American and a Christian) did NOT find your Canada Day post offensive; I found it patriotic, funny, and enlightening. Stay strong, stay safe, and keep writing the fun things that you do.
    Hugs,
    Laura

  3740. I just wanted to add to the rest of the above supporters for you.
    I love reading both your blog and your books.
    I would have loved to go to Sock Summit but it’s just not economical to fly over from Sweden to buy yarn 😉
    Keep up the good work and know that there are a lot of people that can’t get enough of your blog 🙂
    //Rose-Marie

  3741. Having been stalked online before myself, all I can tell you is that you’re doing the right thing. Ignore her, and she will go away. I’m so incredibly sorry for what she said to you and how she made you feel…she’s the sort of “good American” that makes the rest of us look bad. Best of luck to you, don’t let her get you down!

  3742. There’s nothing more I can add except that I’m sorry this is happening to you.

  3743. Probably going to get lost in the flood of supportive messages, but I applaud you.
    Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
    XOXO
    K

  3744. This hurts to read. I’m stunned at the cruelty of people and am thankful that you chose to not struggle with this in silence. I wish you well, Stephanie. Take heart. You are not alone in this.

  3745. stephanie, you rock. about your self esteem, don’t worrie about the, i don’t know, 10 people out there who have read your books and arent nice to you. think about this, there are over 4 thousand comments on this blog, and I’m pretty sure they are all saying nice things about you. thousands of women (and some men) gather at yarn shops and book stores just to see you. Don’t feel bad, some people are just plain mean. it takes all kinds to make a world

  3746. I’m more than a little offended that she claims to represent all Americans. She doesn’t. We love you. And I’m glad you know that and haven’t decided to give up in the face of her behavior.
    Proud to be your neighbor to the south,
    Heather

  3747. As a American I am ashamed that a person like that would be representing us. She is obviously mentally unwell, bored or is just liking the attention. I for one can say that I was not offended and liked learning about our neighbors to the north. AS for you Ms. YarnHarlotHater GET A LIFE and get some much need help!

  3748. Rabid chimp jumps up and down screeching, flinging feces at the walls…sadly this is a common internet scenario – and if someone doesn’t actually have a weapon physically pointed at one’s body, why pay attention to yosemite sam roaring and threats?
    Have a nice chilly wine cooler, loll around your patio, and don’t even give the feces-slinger another thought.
    Lee

  3749. I’m sad to read that you have been a victim of such a stalker. I’m a proud American and I am appalled that she would target you on the pretense of some nationalist call. I enjoy your posts, your books and came out to listen to you speak at a local event. Thanks for entertaining and inspiring the knitting masses. What you do is fun and important and I hope it stays fun for you.

  3750. You are awsomeness incarnate. You are a knitter, for one, you have a knack for the witty, and you can make a living out of it. I think that counts for a lot.
    As an American, I have never felt you have been offencive towards me in any way. My mom and I read your blog (both of us knit), we have all (I think) you books, and a couple on CD, I have your Page-A-Day Calender.
    There is a reason why Americans are generally not very well recieved abroad. The minority spoils it for the majority. Frankly, I would be willing to at least try living in Canada, I knit enough sweaters. I have had to resort to using sock yarn, because, frankly, the SF bay area simply does not get cold enough for more than one or two worsted weight, wool sweaters. I just finished about 10 inches of stockinette. On 2’s. In black.
    But I digress. 🙂
    You rock on with your awesome self!

  3751. I’m so sorry to see you’ve gotten a nasty internet stalker. As a forum admin I’ve sooo been there. It’s not fun but sadly the more you “put yourself out there” the higher the risk of attracting this particular brand of nutjob seems to be. It just goes with the territory I guess.
    Let her spew her venom on that side of the internet and keep on keeping on on this side of the internet. We all know which side the “cool” and, dare I say, sane people are on. 😉
    Hopefully she’ll tire of this game soon and move on to a “softer” target like ugh a forum admin or a local blogger who can actually slap her with harrassment charges and ye olde restraining order and maybe clue her family in that 1)her internet needs to be disconnected and 2) she needs professional help.
    Much love. ~L~

  3752. Dear Yarn Harlot,
    My sympathy to you for having to deal with the harrassment on your own for over a month. I commend your strength at even maintaining your blog! You are awesome, and it seems that attention seeking personalities are always around ~~but the reality is that the “real” people who read your blog are KNITTERS! and they love you for opening up your life, home and love to share with us. I have NEVER posted anything anywhere before, but I do feel that you need to be reminded that your fans love you, I am 37 year old Northern Ontario woman who has been knitting since I was 10. Your blog inspired me to do more than just functional knitting – to experiment with yarns, to try different, more intricate pattersn, to not be pissed off to badly when I get stuck! Please remember, that this is what your blog really does, and that your blog is really for that purpose; share knitting with others. Love it. Love your strength, envy your excellant wit and sense of humour, seem to be married to a VERY similar man (love, love, love him) and totally get everything your saying is said with a smile and a snicker! Take Care. Peace Out. Ride out the storm, seriously, there has to be somebody way more interesting to harrass than a knitter???? Like maybe, a rapist or a child molester? A sock knitter just isn’t at the top of my list as being the evil mastermind behind a top secret organization for world domination 🙂

  3753. What a horrible experience! So sorry to hear that you’ve been having to deal with this. Really, why must some people be so nasty? All I can imagine is some type of mental illness. So sad.
    So, yes, I’m an American, and I’m sure you know this, but people like THAT do NOT speak for all of us, or even several of us, probably. I have been enchanted with your writing ever since bumping into one of your books (and buying it and gobbling it up)! Your blog is a bit too prolific for me to keep up with at the moment, but I do so enjoy dropping in.
    Take care, and don’t let all this get you down!

  3754. Dear Stephanie,
    Unlike your problematic poster, I believe that little voice in your head that says all those critical things actually has a positive intention for you. She’s trying to protect you from getting in over your head, or making any more mistakes, or exposing your vulnerabilities. She’s not very nice about it, but she has her good reasons. You can invite her in for a cup of tea (or a beer), tell her you appreciate and love her, that she has your attention now, and that the two of you will make sure that you make decisions that take your safety and well-being into consideration.
    Thank you for staying the course during this challenge. I wish you light, love, beautiful yarn, lots of book sales, and all the best life has to offer!

  3755. Stephanie, should you happen to read this, comment four-thousand-something, please know that you’ve got another admirer out here. I think you’ve handled this as best as it could be. And now, as you declared, on to nicer things. Hope you have a great time in Portland!

  3756. Theories on dealing with bullies suggest that one of the reasons bullies suceed is that too many other people stand back and let them, not doing what they can to support the bullies target. I hope Steph’s cyber-bully sees that in just s few short days over 4000 people have come forward to support her.

  3757. Wow as an American I’m insulted at what she wrote but at the same time feel sad for her because she is obviously sick and needs help.
    I think you are amazing and should keep your chin up and ignore her. I hope people in her life realize she is a sick woman and get her that help that she needs.

  3758. I am in tears as I read your post, I am overjoyed by the 4000+ comments, of which I tried to read all of them, from knitters firmly in your corner. In addition I can only say ditto, ditto, ditto to the wonderful comments from your faithful Yarn Harlets (humm – did I just give us a name?) Please go back to blogging, knitting, writing, etc – the things that make you the Yarn Harlot that we love to hear from, knit with and purchase books by. Don’t let the crazies of this world get you down. Let the rest of us lift you up as you lift many of us up with your look on life as a knitter, mom, writer etc. Knit on!

  3759. I am a new reader, actually the first time I’ve read your blog, won’t be the last. Im so sorry that someone who has obvious psychological issues is causing you so much heartache. You’ve got so many folks supporting you. hang on to that. Let that lift you up and hold you while you are dealing with this. Wondering if she isn’t just jealous of you. Hang in there, keep writing knitting and carrying on. We’ll be here to support you.

  3760. I guess it takes all kinds, doesn’t it?
    You have always been an advocate of tolerance; I’m sorry you are being challenged so deeply, but you are a strong and beautiful woman who I am convinced will find the strength to endure and personally triumph.
    If not, I recommend beer. But you knew all about that, didn’t you?

  3761. I work in a high school. Her behavior is similar to attacks by high school students on other high school students. It is at best a sign of immaturity but worst a deep seated mental health issue coming from insecurity and self hate. Cyber bulling is a big issue. Turning a deaf ear is a first line of defense strategy but I am sure by now you have officials involved. Luckily she lives in the US and you don’t. The rantings of a mad woman will do more harm to her than to you. I hope you will stay strong and confident through out this senseless attack.

  3762. Hi: I’m a citizen of the world who happens to live in Oregon and have no religious affiliation, never have had, for what it’s worth. I read mostly political and economic blogs so don’t find your wacko commenter particularly unusual. When I read comments–they are like letters to the editor–I filter out the more extremist like filtering out the mutterings of a mentally ill person sitting next to me on the bus. It is right to feel pity for such people caught in their webs of anger and hate, unable to access beauty in shared thought and experience, poetry or even a clever turn of phrase. Thank you for your concern for your readers and trying to protect us from verbal garbage but not to worry, we can take it and know it is no reflection on you nor on the work you do.

  3763. Hugs from an Atheist American knitter. Also, hugs from my transplanted Canadian 4-legged family member.

  3764. I’ve learned that anyone with a mouth (computer) can say (type/post) anything they want and just because it is in writing does not make it truth. This woman is not writing truth! You are loved and admired. She is mentally ill!

  3765. Hang in there, there will always be ‘insane’ people out there, looking to destroy what they wish they had.
    On the other hand, the threats look serious enough, and after having actually discussed this with my father (a lawyer) all I can say is, keep a log of everything she ever sends, mails or whatever, and keep bringing it to the police so they can start up a file on this obviously very disturbed person.
    Take care

  3766. Dear Stephanie.
    You are strong and will get through this. I can’t even imagine how you are feeling right now, but I have no doubt that your lovely network of friends and family (who you are so generous to share with us on your blog) are helping to hold you up in this difficult time.
    Good luck and thank you for sharing your life with us, in spite of the hate.
    Sincerely,
    Teresa

  3767. I am another American Christian who is appalled by this woman’s behavior, language, and insults to you and your family. She does NOT represent what either American patriotism or true Christianity are about. I, too, and so sorry that you have had to spend even an ounce (or a gram! 🙂 of energy and time on this. She is obviously mentally ill, but that doesn’t really lessen the impact of this barrage of hatred. As someone who’s – on a *much* smaller scale than you – familiar with being one who’s “seen” – it is simply astounding how many people think they have something to say about your life. I love this quote:
    “A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people’s business.”
    My husband spent 2 years in Ontario for his work, and we came to love your country (and your city- which we already loved) and appreciate so many aspects of living there. It doesn’t mean we love our own country less, we just have a better knowledge – and affection – for yours.
    AND – we “respectable” knitters love you, your books, your blog, and your humor. We hope you’ll continue engaging us and sharing your journey as you’ve been doing.

  3768. Dear Stephanie,
    Some people are just stupid and mean. She is obviously one of them. Small time bullies try to be bigshots on the internet, but we have more important things to talk about. Love, knitting, respect and humour!
    Please hold you head high, know that you are a very good author and keep on talking to us, it will help.
    best wishes from the Faroe Islands
    Cat

  3769. OMG! The woman is deranged. Good Christian people do NOT call other people names, nor or they spiteful and vicious. She sounds like she never mentally left Middle School.
    I can’t understand how it could be perceived that you’ve bad-mouthed Americans. You LOVE being a Canadian; not a thing wrong with that.
    You’ve done what you can. Some people seriously need psychiatric help and need to deal with their insecurities.

  3770. I’m really embarrassed that she’s an American. She does not speak for me.
    Count me as a supporter.

  3771. ((((((((Stephanie))))))))))
    I am so sorry you are going through this. Please know most Americans are not like that!
    I love your blog, your patterns, your books! Keep being who you are. I shall continue, as always, to count myself fortunate to be able to say I am a supporter of yours.

  3772. Stephanie,
    How can you ask us not to speak of this? I read your post, turned from the computer, and burst into tears. I feel so bad that you have to endure this. The woman is absolutely mentally ill and EXTREMELY insecure. I know people like this, so have some understanding of this behavior. So many people who need to be on meds are not. Maybe she is uninsured, like me. But I do not excuse her. It is so wonderful to see the support you have (will probably enrage her further). As an American, Athiest, Left wing, Feminist,Eco-Freak – I salute you. You can listen a little to your inner voice – it will keep you humble – but please keep on being you. We all love you just the way you are. Please continue to write. Yours is the only blog I read regularly. You make me laugh, you make me cry. You are so intelligent and talented and sensible. I love what you write and the way you write it. Your Canada Day posts make me want to move to Canada. And I’m really happy that you and Joe have three daughters who will be just as wonderful as you. I hope you read all of these messages of support – you certainly deserve the love. I need to go home and knit now.

  3773. I love your Canada Day posts! I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s horrible. Stay strong and courageous, and keep yourself safe.

  3774. Dear Stephanie,
    I have been very busy this week and had gotten behind on my blog reading. I was horrified to read your “Dear Blog” letter and to realize that someone who calls herself a Christian was attacking you so unmercifully. I love your blog and your books–even if I do occasionally disagree with some of your views. My daughter who lives in Hawaii (her husband is in the navy and they are stationed at Pearl Harbor)was here with her family for the past two weeks. I taught her to knit and gave her a copy of your first book. As I told her, if you’re going to knit you need to have a knitting philosopher beside you for those moments when you feel your sanity or your stitches slipping away. Here’s the really amazing thing about this whole conflict, at least to me. From your calendar (it’s one I got for Christmas last year, one each day there is a blurb about something knitterly) it’s obvious that you have done a lot of research and taken time to think through comments that are appropriate for American holidays and traditions, as well as those in Canada and other countries. Thanks for the inspiration and the laughs you have given me over the past two years. Like many others, I have never written a post before but I wanted you to know that there are many of us out here in the blogosphere who really enjoy your writing.

  3775. You’re awesome, Stephanie. As I always say, crazy people rule the world. Know you’re in my thoughts.

  3776. It took forever for my browser to load all these comments, and I’ve never been as glad to wait as today.
    Lots and lots of love and light to you and your family from over here in Germany.

  3777. My heart and positive thoughts go out to you. I have never commented before, but I hope that by adding my support to the thousands before me, American or otherwise, will give you more strength and perseverence.

  3778. Its a shame that the web seems to attract so many sociopaths. And you have a knitting blog for goodness sake. Not something I would think would be terribly controverial (unlike the dreaded smack downs on whether left handed people should knit the same as right handed people).
    And you are Canadian and proud of your country. I read your Canada Day posting and I guess I missed the horrible anti-Americaness of it. I said this over on kareokegals blog – what’s not to like about Canada? – cheaper RXs, less gun nuttery and Molsons.
    You mentioned you spoke to authorities. I’m wondering if there is some way to legally ban her from posting on your blog. Like an order of protection. Because your poster is scary.
    Stay safe. Hugs from a left-handed knitting, Molson beer drinking, Canadian RX ordering American. And proud of it.

  3779. Wow. Absolute craziness. Please be assured that she is not a typical American, nor is she a true Christian…I apologize as both of those, and hope you know that she is not remotely close to representing her country, her God, her sex, or even her species, for pitty’s sake!! Kudos to you for handling something so ugly with grace and restraint. I hope you don’t ever have to deal with such ugliness again.

  3780. I bogged down reading comments somewhere in the hundreds (there’s 4236 at the moment), but like many others I’m a long time reader first time commenter. I was shocked to see this post and saddened and ashamed that this person is an American. I’m an American who was married to a Canadian for a long time. I like your Canada Day posts. Being proud of your country does not make you anti-American. My SO wandered in while I was reading this and read over my shoulder. He’ll frequently do that or listen while I read your blog or a piece of it to him. And he doesn’t even knit. In my opinion you’re handling this much better than I would at any time. And you’re handling it so well along with all the extra stuff for SS09. Go you! Go have a beer or knit something or maybe get some sleep. I promise that if I see a comment from this person I won’t start a riot.

  3781. Hi Stepahnie
    I just want you to know that I used your link to donate $50 to MSF (Doctors without Borders)
    I did it at the suggestion of someone on a Ravelry board; for every nasty post you receive from the person who harasses you we should link over to MSF and donate — at least this way some good will come of this evil.
    You could put up tally mark every time you get one of her comments and then we can donate — IMAGINE the POWER for GOOD that will come of this!
    I’ve heard you in various interviews on different podcasts and I’ve seen you in various videos on YouTube — I love you YH — I think you are a wonderful gift to the knitting community — you’re ballsy and irreverent and funny and knowledgeable – in short YOU ROCK — hang in there!!!

  3782. I cried for you while reading this. This must be some really crazy lunatic. Luckily you have all of us in your court. Knitters everywhere will support you

  3783. Sorry to hear you have had a run in. . .You cannot reason with a two year old any better than someone of this caliber- egocentric and out of touch with reality to put it lightly.
    You don’t need this right now as you are preparing for the sock summit- I wish you the best and love your sense of humor.

  3784. Read all your posts but have never commented before as there are always too many for you to possibly read and I felt bad I would be taking up your time.
    Stay strong and do not engage with this other person in any way at all. As we tell our children, if you ignore them they will stop. Give her no reaction at all.
    I wish you all the best, keep blogging.x.

  3785. I truly believe you have taken the best possible path in dealing with this viciousness. Grace under pressure is a hard place to reach, but you have it in your heart.
    Sending loving strength from Australia, home to this lurking fan. Thanks to you I have learned to respect the knitting muse, and abandon all my self-imposed restrictions on what I think I can do.
    Blessings…

  3786. Hi Steph,
    This is my first time posting. I have two things in common with you: I’m Canadian and I knit. Other than that, we’re pretty much opposite in everything, especially religion and lifestyle. But what does that have anything to do with loving a person? I am a huge fan of yours. I think you’re funny and talented, but what I love most about you is your sensitivity and HUGE heart. It takes a lot of guts to live your life in a fishbowl like you do. Thank you for sharing, and bringing laughter into our lives every day.

  3787. As an American, I have to say I’m ashamed of her. In the part of the country where I live, this is typical self-righteous, insular, right wing, fundamentalist behavior. Mind you I’m not calling her names, simply commenting on her behavior.
    I hope you don’t ever have to deal with someone like this in person. They are even more scary, though usually not so blatant about it. It amazes me that people think the internet gives them license to be someone they would probably be ashamed to admit associating with in public.
    I don’t read or comment here often, but I felt I had to say something about this.

  3788. I’m so sorry this has happened.
    When someone is stepping forward into being all they can be and living the best life they can, it attracts the mentally ill. I’m sure people who know more about this than me have suggested ignoring her completely. Have no contact, don’t read her stuff. Whackos feed on attention.
    Congratulations on Sock Summit.

  3789. Some people just do not have any “real” problems and have too much time on their hands. All I know for sure is what goes around comes around, Karma will take care of her. Keep doing what you do!!!

  3790. also de-lurking for the first time.
    i so enjoy your blog, your writing, your perspective, and your humor.
    so sorry you are having to deal all this. my heart goes out to you and your family. hang in there.

  3791. Stephanie, I am so sorry that you have to deal with this ugly person who is filled with so much self-hate.
    I read daily and appreciate all that you have done for knitters around the world. Hang in there – you’re in my thoughts.

  3792. My sister-in-law and I met you once several years ago at The Elegant Ewe in Concord, NH. What I remember most about you was that you were very friendly and funny. Oh yes, you’re also vertically challenged but that’s not pertinent. The other thing I distinctly remember was a comment that someone (I don’t remember who but it might have been you) made that implied that the US was more important than Canada. This was during the Bush era and the comment made me uncomfortable so I said something to the effect that the US didn’t always need to be seen as the most important. Your response was something along the lines of “Well the USA is the most powerful country in the world, much more so than Canada so it’s not unexpected that it’s that way.” You seemed to have a pretty open mind about your Southern neighbors.
    Besides, Americans regularly tell “Canadian” jokes and “disparage” your county — all in good fun of course. Where do I hear most of the good Canadian jokes? My Canadian friends send them to me! Americans and Canadians share a soul-saving ability — to be able laugh at oneself.
    Hang in there, that crazy female doesn’t even begin to speak on behalf of all or even most American women — especially the knitters.

  3793. Thank you for the bravery of this post. Please, please remember that this isn’t about you, or even Canada. It’s all about her. You’ve recognised she has major problems and you’ve chosen to treat her more compassionately than most people would be capable of. I’m rather in awe.
    Stay safe. Love from England.

  3794. I recently learned about you through Knitting fanatics here in Three Rivers, CA. Today I was reading a totally unrelated person, about writing, not knitting, and he referred to this site and crazy commenters. I read about half and decided to write to you.
    IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE. That is what the delete button is all about. When you see signs of this soul, DELETE. Don’t waste your time reading anything that person writes. All it does is feed your paranoia. There are too many good people in the world to give energy to. Just some thoughts. Best, Shirley

  3795. Wishing you well, and hoping you never have cause to write an entry like this again.

  3796. Two words: Nut. Job.
    Go on being you, YH. Thousands of knitters can’t be wrong!!!

  3797. Hope all this awful stuff ends once and for all.
    Wishing you the best,
    Diane L./Bloomington,IN

  3798. At first I was embarrassed that an American and a Christian would behave like that. Then as I read more I realised that this unfortunate person is probably mentally ill. I hope she or someone close to her finds help for her as she must be feeling truely miserable.

  3799. I would also like to join the numerous people commenting for the first time. Sending all my love and support in your direction. Keep on rocking!

  3800. Do all of us who love you (including this first-time poster) and delete everything that comes from this stalker without even having a peek. Somehow we latch onto ounce of venom, then even when tons and tons of love are poured over the wound, it still throbs.
    Once during a really rough spot in my life, I could tangibly feel the love of God surrounding and cradling me. Dance in the light that all of us are sending you!
    Lois/Colorado Springs

  3801. This woman is obviously sick and in need of mental help. I am an american, and I am behind you 100%. I have found nothing in your posts insulting. You are proud to be Canadian the way that I am proud to be an American. You don’t mock me or “my people”; and I truly don’t need anyone to be offended for me, I’m quite capable of being offended for myself.
    Please don’t let this sick stalker change you. She does not speak for ANYONE other than herself.

  3802. Huh. I just discovered your writing recently. You gave me laughs in THE YARN HARLOT that helped me get through a very difficult time. I’ve passed the book onto a relative who is fighting a tumor and she is laughing during chemo as well. Thanks. Hope to return the favor someday!

  3803. This person you are dealing with is a bully, pure and simple. You have shown a gracious and truly Christian attitude in your dealings with her. The sad thing is if she finds she can’t bully you, she’ll move on to someone else. Thank you for realizing she is not a representative of America. She is the antithesis of all we stand for. We love you, Stephanie, thank you for all the humor, comfort and encouragement you have shared.

  3804. Stephanie, I am so sorry that you have been the target of this person’s hatred. Your writing has brought me joy and laughter.

  3805. So sorry you had to deal with the ugliness – it certainly does not represent me! I am hoping to get to see and hear you in person next time you pass thru Alabama, USA
    Congrats on the massive success of Sock summit, I hope you can all bear to do it again – I would love to attend!
    I am glad that you are proud of your country, I am proud to be a citizen of the USA and realize that not everything done by my country is perfect since it is done by ever imperfect people. Your blog is very entertaining and so are your books, I was just reading 1 this weekend and enjoyed it very much. I can’t say that I thought your comments were anti-american just by being a proud Canadian.
    keep up the good work, stay well and be happy
    Lisa in Alabama, USA

  3806. File a police report. What she is doing is illegal, at least here in the States.
    Meanwhile, huge hugs to you. Hang in there.

  3807. Shining a light on her darkness is the best action you could possibly take. We’re looking forward to seeing you in Oregon this week!

  3808. I don’t usually post on blogs – but was reading your blog since I was caught up with the bicycle race and just happened to read further on and could not beleive that you had been targeted like that. It is too bad a person like that feels she has the right to be so awful to another person. Unfortunately there will always be people like that and I think you are doing the right thing – hold you head high! you have done nothing but put up with a lot of horrible ranting. I am glad you were able to go public with what has happened – sometimes that is the best thing to show how many people out there truly respect you and your work. PS I am also a knitter and I am going out to buy one of your books. Take care – and keep a smile on your face.

  3809. My gosh.This Cyberstalker that you have has braided threats, violence, disrespect, and some odd personal vendetta with the Yarn Harlot with knitting! Which, aside from the occasional need to defend myself with a knitting needle (I live in a big city, it happens) she has brought violence and aggression to a craft and a hobby that is the polar opposite. I am a police officer and I deal with s##t from people all day all the time. When I knit, talk to other knitters, or spend time in my sanctuary (my local yarn shop) all of that melts away. That woman is nuts. Also, not all Americans feel that Canadians have some strange hostility towards us. I’d love to live somewhere colder that San Francisco where my knitted gifts would be even more appreciated!

  3810. As an American and a Christian, I am sadly appalled by her behavior. One of the true tenets of Christian faith is to show love to everyone, including your enemies. I’m so sorry that you’ve had to deal with this situation! Know that your friends and loyal readers do care about you and enjoy your books, your blog and your point of view!

  3811. Please allow me to send you an atheistic, strongly-left-leaning, All-American hug. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. I’m also sorry that a jerky, intolerant git so loudly proclaims their nationality. I know my country hasn’t cornered the market on loony-tunes but, dang! You wouldn’t know it some days. Hang in there, Stephanie!

  3812. Whatever this creature is who is sending you these venemous posts is neither American nor Christian. I am both and I refuse to relate to the maniacle rantings of one who calls herself either. Sorry for my own venom, but that chick is nuts!

  3813. Reading this with considerable bemusement (please note: THIS American, at least, disavows any and all allegiance with your, er, correspondant) and just wanted to pass on a formatting note:
    You seem to be missing an italics end-tag along about the phrase “This was a mistake. This was the big one.”
    Other than that, all I can say is that I admire your inhuman patience and fortitude.

  3814. I’m an American woman who has been reading your blog for the past year or so, and have never felt that anything you posted was even remotely anti-American. My responses to your posts have ranged from laughing out loud to tears, depending on the subject.
    Keep on doing exactly what you’ve been doing. The “anonymous” poster can think what she wants – but as far as I’m concerned, she’s not speaking for anyone but herself.

  3815. Ms. Harlot~
    Long time lurker, first time poster. As an American and a Christian, I admire your patriotism.
    This woman is not Christian. She has no Christ-like love in her. How many baby booties has she made? How many shawls for sick people, how many babies wrapped in wool and love has she had? How many dollars (in any currency)has she submitted to Doctors Without Boarders? I have read your blog for years and cannot count how many times you have urged us to give, even a penny, to send squares and sock yarn and good juju to people that need it? You have always fostered love and goodwill to your fellow humans.
    The tally for DWB alone speaks to your goodness. That is your legacy. Hers is being spiteful and harassing innocent people.
    Goddess bless you, Ms. Harlot. Although I suspect She already has.
    From a Goddess-Worshiping Christian~
    Heather27
    PS. You’ve been nothing but kind to my country whenever you visit. With few exceptions, you seem to enjoy visiting your neighbor to the south. I know Americans that don’t appreciate the beauty of this country as much as you do. But then again Ms. Harlot, you find the good in almost everything.

  3816. WOW. I hope you have talked to the police about this lady, because she sounds like she is really off her rocker. I think you are amazing, fantastic, hilarious and talented. And I’m an American! Hang in there. I’m sending good vibes your way.

  3817. Just keep on blogging Stephanie.
    Canada is North of the US. and I believe Loonies are a good thing 🙂
    Sending good vibes from Vermont. South of Canada!

  3818. I read your calendar everyday & you make me smile – even on the hardest days. I think you were right to air all the weirdness out. I once was stalked by a wacko at Smith – I know how hard it is to describe & to get help & also how scary it can be. It will take a while to get over, but you will. I am sorry you are going through this. – K.

  3819. Another lurker…and a poster in the past…I’ve been out of commission for a bit, and am horrified and greatly saddened by your post. However, it is obvious that many of us find you charming and entertaining and inspiring. Even my 8th grade students enjoy your posts (they like the fleece-stealing squirrel, especially when I act it out with props). Yes, dear Harlot, you are a part of my Language Arts class here in the American heartland. (Besides, I’ve converted at least 16 kids in 4 years from Muggles to knitters as a result of your blog.)
    Do not let one voice overwhelm that which you know in your heart to be true: your are a person of infinite worth, who has a specific purpose to make this world a better place. The way you do that will be unique to each individual relationship. Blessings always.

  3820. While this seems like pretty nasty business, I’m glad you brought this out into the open and aren’t bearing this burden alone. You have thousands of people worldwide standing at your shoulder, including a lot of us lurkers.
    {{hugs}} all the way from New Zealand, and keep up the fantastic work.

  3821. Holy cow
    I cannot belief how low she has stooped.
    I take my hat off to you Stephanie.
    {{{hugs}}}

  3822. Ignore this mad woman who doesn’t know how to turn her computer off, go out the door and get a life! What sort of Christian is she? Do unto others etc,.I am in the UK, I love your blog and your books. Dont let one nutter get you down. Its sounded like knitting needles at dawn but I know how it must play on your mind. Move on and use the delete button. She just wants the attention, dont give her the time of day, that will work far more. Best wishes to you.

  3823. I have your books, read you every day and have seen you in person twice. I am a Christian American and all I can say is keep writing, blogging and knitting. Not everyone loves everyone but I know a lot of knitters who love you.
    Please keep writing and know I am praying for you.

  3824. This is the worst example of stalking I’ve heard of in a long time, and I actually got tears in my eyes when I read it and imagined the hurt this person has put you through.
    Since being introduced to the international knitting community through Ravelry last fall, I’ve “met” a lot of nice, supporting people. Also very opinionated people, but, hey, that’s their right!
    But nobody has the moral or legal right to harass others like this person has done to you. The blocking off of this person is the only right thing to do. If it continues, there would be legal options to consider.
    I hope the love that shines through the other comments really makes it obvious that this is not actions condoned by the knitting community at large, and that we all hate to see this happen.
    The hard work you’ve done for bringing to life coming Sock Summit will soon bear fruits, and the happy bustle of fellow knitters will tell you this is how it shall be. Having fun together, sharing yarnie wonders, creating new masterpieces for years to come.

  3825. Stephanie – I’ve been a lurker for years but I’m stepping forward to say that I support you. I am so sorry that you have had to deal with this pathetic American. Most of us are really normal and friendly as I am sure you already know. Keep up the fantastic work.

  3826. Dear Stephanie,
    If you wish, you are more than welcome to keep my comment private. I’ve no wish to add fuel to any fire, nor give that nasty person any public attention AT all. I sure wish I had some Lysol to wash out my eyes and brain after reading some of that horrible hate mail. I’ll bet you do, too.
    I am just shuddering with nausea – and not a little bit of fear for you – having just read what that horrible woman has been writing to you. I could hardly believe what I was reading. This is just takes the cake, as far as I’m concerned.
    This is far beyond insanity – way, WAY beyond. It is EVIL. This is what I feel fairly safe in calling demonic, in its’ irrational (not to mention illogical) hatred and rage, in its’ very stench. Such demonic rage, such foul usage of the human tongue and mind; NONE of that is Traditionally Christian in the slightest degree. Perhaps SHE’S the one who “would do well to read the Christian Bible”, eh?
    I cannot imagine being so filled with such vile hatred for another human – ANY human – that I could say or do or even think! such things as that woman has. Thank God *real* Americans don’t believe that pile of crap. Come to think on it, her foul spewings insult perfectly useful piles of crap, everywhere.
    Steph, you are a source of good, clean and hysterically funny reading (blog or books!), and often a real source of consolation to this fairly typical wife/mom/knitter/spinner/blogger (plain ol’ me). I can’t tell you how many times I’ve opened your blog or re-read one of your books, feeling a bit grumpy, and come away chuckling, remembering that life’s not so stinky after all. I’ve also come away many times inspired to try something new and/or to “do something nice” for someone. For that, I thank you (in case I never have) from the bottom of my heart.
    SO…
    THIS American (me!) will continue buying all your books as they come out (I have all of them), for myself as well as presents for my fellow knitters. I love it that you signed some of them when you were here!
    THIS American will continue to hoist her beer, coffee and needles in a silent “Cheers!” to The Yarn Harlot (I can’t seem to have a beer or knit without at least briefly thinking of you – lol).
    THIS American will keep reading your blog and cheering you on, as you allow us to watch you living your (sort-of) ordinary life as wife/mom/Author/knitter/spinner/blogger. To me, it’s a privilege to “see” inside your funny, whirl-wind-crazy, but ordinary life. Thank you for those glimpses of ‘the neighbor across the street’, who does the best she can, and does it damn well, imo.
    Thanks also go to your VERY good (and worthy!) hubster, too, for sharing his wife with several thousand strangers nearly every day. He must be extraordinarily laid-back. You’re a peach, Sir; a Twenty-Needle Salute to you!
    Connie

  3827. Stephanie,
    You can take further action in regrards to this woman. Since her ip address originates in the US she is subject to United States Law. Her actions are considered cyberstalking by US federal standards. I’m not shure what the cyberlaws in Canada are, however as with most cases it is usually the same or close. I believe cases such as yours are handled by the RCMP on your side. If you cannot get an answer from them, Google FBI and find out from them what you can do. Since she is doing this from the US [probably thinking you can touch her] she is also violating US-Canadian International law as well. The right phone call or email from you or your ISP should get a positive response from ether the RCMP or FBI. Please do not hesitate to call them, this woman is suffering from serious mental problems. It is not unusual for someone to act normal in public and exhibit these problems in private, particularly towards family members. Don’t take this into your own hands, let trained authorities handle it. P.S. , I am an Internet Service Provider in the US and regularly attend federal and local cybersecurity meetings and training.

  3828. Dear Stephanie,
    I am a long time reader, have never posted before but I wanted to add one more voice to those who love you and esteem you.
    As for this person, I would file a claim for stalking.
    HUGS

  3829. So sorry you have to go through this. We’ve all had our share of flames, but this is beyond the pall. I agree with you, that engaging her is pointless. I hope that your inaction, and the disregard of your readers will bore this individual enough that she will find another target.

  3830. Holy Shit. I am speechless. I cannot believe people exist with so much hate in their bodies. You would think they would implode or something?! My collective universe is here to help hold up yours. Peace.

  3831. One day I was feeling down and depressed. (AND my knitting wasn’t going well) I found your blog and just about peed my pants reading about the shawl that you were trying to knit and the difficulty you were having with directions. Laughter really is the best medicine and that one posting on your blog changed my whole outlook and gave me a much needed lift. Thanks so much for all your stories and hard work. While not everyone can find the humor in their lives I am so glad that you can find it in yours and that you share it with the rest of us. Thank you for helping me to find the humor in my life.

  3832. You have been more than patient and gracious to someone who is clearly unbalanced. Do not feel badly about your decision to block. It was the right decision. As was your decision to disengage.
    You should, however, report this behavior to the authorities in the County/City where she lives. Having experience with unbalanced people such as this in the legal field, it is the safe thing to do.

  3833. Wow. What a complete nut job. As an American, I’m embarrassed that she thinks she speaks for us all. I’m so sorry for all this- you are liked and respected for what you do. Don’t let Crazy McCrazerson take up any more of your time or energy.

  3834. Writing you a virtual *bunny hug* since I will miss out of giving it to you in person at Sock Summit. I bought the audiobook of “At Knit’s End” because I miss hearing your wonderful speeches. (Yes I know, you signed the real book for me eons ago, but I cannot read during my morning run!) I will always be grateful for your outlook and handling of knitting and of life. You had inspired me to change and do something about mine, and I am stronger today from your influence and others like yourself. =:8

  3835. It’s unbelievable the strength that some people feel behind virtual walls when I (hope) they wouldn’t do them in person.
    i appreciate your honesty in this situation and am embarrassed for her…

  3836. I visited your blog today for the first time (pointed here by the reference section of a charming little book, “Made from Scratch”) and I delight in your humor and your prose. May I add to the chorus of “Not All Americans Are Nutters!” I enjoy your blogging, and I’m heartened that you are undeterred by the weird things life seems to throw at good people.

  3837. I haven’t been here for a while, and I just read this. Wow. I think that blocking her and ignoring her is definitely the right thing to do.
    I also think that this probably has nothing to do with YOU and more to do with this woman’s sanity. I have an aunt who is angry like that (and very lonely), and all she wants is for someone to engage with her. What I’ve found is the best tactic is to cut her out of my life, much to the dismay of my mother (her sister). It may not be the best thing for my aunt, but I can’t put up with the abuse. I’m glad you are taking a stand.

  3838. You are right, this is not worth the energy, move on! I’ve always been very impressed and admired your presence on this blog! I’m a fan.

  3839. She is a poor excuse for an American. You noted your ideals or respect, love and light in your email and in the years I’ve read your blog I’ve never seen anything but these aspects. You obviously are proud of your home country, but have shown love and appreciation for many aspects of the US as well. You’ve got thousands behind you.
    Peace,
    Kate

  3840. You LIGHT up my life when I am Down. Your books and blog have brought a smile and a intraspective moment anytime I take the time for me. Here to shine the light back at you girl! Feel the energy of all of us out here on the positive side….Donna

  3841. I also am and American who has been reading your blog for years and have never commented, but wanted to leave you with a cyber hug today! It makes me ill to think that people use their lives for such nastiness…especially towards a person who has used her life to do such wonderful amazing things. Thank you for putting a smile on my face everytime I visit your blog! You have definitely inspired me in both my knitting and the way I live my life.

  3842. I am so sorry that you have had to deal with this. I admire your strength, honesty, and tenacity (sp). Hang in there. Not all of us Americans are raving lunatics.
    Have a great sock summit.

  3843. I rarely post to blogs, but I need to add my voice to so many others in support of you. I also strongly encourage you, if you haven’t already, to contact the authorities. People with this sort of sickness eventually go over the edge and act on their impulses. Be safe.

  3844. I have read your blog for years and never posted. I just wanted to let you know that I love your books!!!! Your account of the missing yarn in the elevator always brings a smile to my face – priceless. You have been blessed with a very special talent and I am grateful.
    United States Citizen

  3845. Illegitimi carborundum, Steph. Better than sending you a virtual hug, I send you virtual cashmere.
    Love,
    Yet Another American Christian

  3846. Hi Stephanie.
    As a US citizen who grew up near Toronto, and is now married to a Canadian, I can say that I have seen both sides of the border, the good and the bad. I’ve read your blog for years, though I rarely comment, I love your books.
    I won’t say all those self evident things that your head knows, and your heart is struggling with. You know them. I will say, however, that I, along with many others, stand beside you. You are not alone.

  3847. Wow, I’m stunned. That is horrible – – I can’t imagine what stress this has been for you. Anyway, I’m another American who loves your blog and has never been offended by anything you’ve written.

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